1 00:00:00,720 --> 00:00:04,120 Speaker 1: I am all in again. 2 00:00:06,559 --> 00:00:21,360 Speaker 2: Oh you Gillmore Girls Gazette with Amy Sugarman and Danielle Romo, 3 00:00:21,680 --> 00:00:23,720 Speaker 2: an iHeartRadio podcast. 4 00:00:23,880 --> 00:00:28,160 Speaker 1: Welcome to another episode of Parenthood. This is season in two, 5 00:00:28,200 --> 00:00:28,880 Speaker 1: episode three. 6 00:00:30,280 --> 00:00:35,880 Speaker 3: Speaking of having a second baby, how's your situation? 7 00:00:36,520 --> 00:00:36,760 Speaker 2: You know? 8 00:00:37,880 --> 00:00:40,800 Speaker 4: The only thing I can say. And I feel like 9 00:00:40,880 --> 00:00:42,880 Speaker 4: this is a common thread with people that I've talked 10 00:00:42,920 --> 00:00:46,159 Speaker 4: about talked to about having their second Maybe it's I 11 00:00:46,200 --> 00:00:47,680 Speaker 4: don't know, maybe it's just my friends. 12 00:00:48,560 --> 00:00:51,479 Speaker 1: You don't like this pregnancy has gone. 13 00:00:51,280 --> 00:00:54,840 Speaker 4: By so so so fast because I do not have 14 00:00:54,920 --> 00:00:58,400 Speaker 4: time to process it. I still don't think in this 15 00:00:58,600 --> 00:01:01,240 Speaker 4: moment says that I'm crazy. 16 00:01:01,280 --> 00:01:03,440 Speaker 5: You're laughing, I could hear you. Do you think you're 17 00:01:03,440 --> 00:01:04,440 Speaker 5: not even really pregnant? 18 00:01:04,560 --> 00:01:07,000 Speaker 4: No, I like, in this moment, I just still have 19 00:01:07,160 --> 00:01:09,959 Speaker 4: not processed that I'm pregnant. It's just one of those 20 00:01:10,000 --> 00:01:12,880 Speaker 4: things that like, you know, you run, you have a 21 00:01:12,920 --> 00:01:16,840 Speaker 4: toddler that you're running around and is keeping you very 22 00:01:16,920 --> 00:01:17,840 Speaker 4: very preoccupied. 23 00:01:18,280 --> 00:01:19,440 Speaker 1: I have work, I have. 24 00:01:19,360 --> 00:01:21,959 Speaker 4: Family, I have all these things happening right now that 25 00:01:22,040 --> 00:01:24,040 Speaker 4: I like just have not processed. 26 00:01:25,000 --> 00:01:27,560 Speaker 1: I'm currently pregnant. 27 00:01:27,440 --> 00:01:32,160 Speaker 3: And very much what's gonna happen when the kid comes out, I'm. 28 00:01:31,880 --> 00:01:34,160 Speaker 1: Then I'm gonna realize I'm pregnant. 29 00:01:34,240 --> 00:01:38,080 Speaker 4: Like honestly, it's just one of those things that with 30 00:01:38,200 --> 00:01:40,720 Speaker 4: my first pregnancy, I was looking at the app every 31 00:01:40,760 --> 00:01:43,840 Speaker 4: single day. I knew the exact size fruit, I knew 32 00:01:43,920 --> 00:01:46,920 Speaker 4: how much the baby wade, what was going on in 33 00:01:46,959 --> 00:01:48,640 Speaker 4: my body at that time, and. 34 00:01:48,760 --> 00:01:51,880 Speaker 5: I exact sise fruit. 35 00:01:52,560 --> 00:01:56,080 Speaker 4: And I literally have to process every time I go 36 00:01:56,080 --> 00:01:56,480 Speaker 4: to the doctor. 37 00:01:56,480 --> 00:01:59,320 Speaker 1: I'm like, how many weeks a long? Am? I? 38 00:01:59,360 --> 00:02:01,120 Speaker 5: What? What's happening? 39 00:02:01,600 --> 00:02:03,960 Speaker 1: I'm supposed to have a baby in September? 40 00:02:04,080 --> 00:02:06,320 Speaker 5: What do you know? The name? 41 00:02:06,920 --> 00:02:09,520 Speaker 4: No, my husband has a meme that he is like 42 00:02:09,840 --> 00:02:13,240 Speaker 4: set on and I am not set on. 43 00:02:13,680 --> 00:02:16,280 Speaker 1: And so do you like it a little? 44 00:02:16,720 --> 00:02:16,840 Speaker 2: Uh? 45 00:02:17,520 --> 00:02:19,680 Speaker 1: I like it a little? I like it a little. 46 00:02:19,880 --> 00:02:21,919 Speaker 5: Oh wow, that's not going to be the name. 47 00:02:22,280 --> 00:02:25,200 Speaker 4: I like the first name, and he's like very set 48 00:02:25,360 --> 00:02:26,480 Speaker 4: on the second name. 49 00:02:26,800 --> 00:02:28,720 Speaker 3: Oh well, that's okay. Then you can go with the 50 00:02:28,760 --> 00:02:30,919 Speaker 3: first and then change the middle. 51 00:02:31,480 --> 00:02:33,680 Speaker 4: I know, but even the first name is not one 52 00:02:33,760 --> 00:02:37,160 Speaker 4: hundred percent for me. I like it, I like it. 53 00:02:37,320 --> 00:02:40,160 Speaker 5: This is uncomfortable. This is uncomfortable for me. 54 00:02:40,680 --> 00:02:42,240 Speaker 1: So here's the question. 55 00:02:42,520 --> 00:02:45,000 Speaker 3: If you use that name, are you going to admit 56 00:02:45,080 --> 00:02:47,320 Speaker 3: that it was the name that you weren't totally comfortable 57 00:02:47,360 --> 00:02:48,120 Speaker 3: with at first. 58 00:02:48,520 --> 00:02:52,119 Speaker 4: Yeah, I will, I will, and and I'll explain to everyone. 59 00:02:52,440 --> 00:02:55,960 Speaker 4: Why then not now then because I don't know if 60 00:02:55,960 --> 00:02:56,720 Speaker 4: it's it yet. 61 00:02:57,320 --> 00:03:00,960 Speaker 1: If it does become it, then then I like. 62 00:03:01,000 --> 00:03:03,120 Speaker 5: Did Matteo have a backup name? 63 00:03:03,680 --> 00:03:07,079 Speaker 4: Matteo did have a backup name? I always liked Mateo 64 00:03:07,120 --> 00:03:09,240 Speaker 4: from day one. That was on my list that like 65 00:03:09,320 --> 00:03:12,000 Speaker 4: I've had in my notes app on my phone for 66 00:03:12,040 --> 00:03:17,520 Speaker 4: like years, and John just happened to like that name. 67 00:03:17,880 --> 00:03:21,160 Speaker 4: So like we always knew Mittoilla was like the top. 68 00:03:21,360 --> 00:03:23,680 Speaker 4: It was always the second name that kind of was like, 69 00:03:23,680 --> 00:03:24,320 Speaker 4: what are we gonna do? 70 00:03:24,360 --> 00:03:25,200 Speaker 1: What are we going to do? 71 00:03:25,400 --> 00:03:27,200 Speaker 5: I call it a middle name, Yeah. 72 00:03:27,120 --> 00:03:29,079 Speaker 1: Middle name whatever, however you want to call it, same. 73 00:03:28,960 --> 00:03:36,240 Speaker 3: Thing whatever, Right, Okay, let's not get two sideways. So 74 00:03:36,360 --> 00:03:40,880 Speaker 3: this this leads us perfectly to Joel and Julia, which 75 00:03:41,640 --> 00:03:44,360 Speaker 3: I was like all kinds of relatable to Joel. 76 00:03:44,640 --> 00:03:48,880 Speaker 4: I mean, for speak, not to make this all about me, 77 00:03:48,920 --> 00:03:51,360 Speaker 4: because this for the first five minutes of this episode 78 00:03:51,360 --> 00:03:51,960 Speaker 4: I had been about me. 79 00:03:52,080 --> 00:03:53,120 Speaker 5: No, it's totally fine. 80 00:03:54,120 --> 00:03:56,440 Speaker 3: Make it like that's the whole point of paranoid is, 81 00:03:56,520 --> 00:03:59,160 Speaker 3: like you go, oh, who am I relating to? 82 00:03:59,680 --> 00:03:59,920 Speaker 1: Right? 83 00:04:00,080 --> 00:04:04,440 Speaker 4: I can can completely relate to Joel, and the reason 84 00:04:04,520 --> 00:04:10,160 Speaker 4: being is and Amy, you were there in the trenches 85 00:04:10,200 --> 00:04:12,720 Speaker 4: with me. And I don't want to seem like a 86 00:04:12,760 --> 00:04:16,839 Speaker 4: brat saying this because I like, I totally like understand 87 00:04:16,839 --> 00:04:20,279 Speaker 4: that people like dream to be pregnant when they can't. 88 00:04:21,000 --> 00:04:22,920 Speaker 4: The day I found out I was pregnant, I cried 89 00:04:23,200 --> 00:04:24,680 Speaker 4: for like twenty four hours. 90 00:04:25,160 --> 00:04:30,159 Speaker 1: I straighted cried. I was not ready to be pregnant. Again. 91 00:04:30,400 --> 00:04:33,640 Speaker 3: It's the old the blueprint doesn't match what's happening. 92 00:04:34,160 --> 00:04:35,360 Speaker 5: And one of the things. 93 00:04:35,160 --> 00:04:38,360 Speaker 3: That I'll never forget, Oh, I'll get emotional saying it, 94 00:04:38,440 --> 00:04:42,679 Speaker 3: is that you said to me you wanted in your mind, 95 00:04:43,240 --> 00:04:46,719 Speaker 3: the plan was to have more solo time with Matteo 96 00:04:47,000 --> 00:04:51,320 Speaker 3: before I had a sibling. And I think, well, that 97 00:04:51,480 --> 00:04:53,799 Speaker 3: was one of many things, but I think that really 98 00:04:56,160 --> 00:04:59,400 Speaker 3: it just you had this plan and that it was 99 00:04:59,440 --> 00:05:03,200 Speaker 3: completely taken sideways, and I really felt for you at that. 100 00:05:03,440 --> 00:05:07,440 Speaker 3: I was like, oh, I never really I never understood 101 00:05:07,480 --> 00:05:10,159 Speaker 3: something as clear as I did when you said that. 102 00:05:10,320 --> 00:05:12,240 Speaker 5: I was like, Wow, it's powerful. 103 00:05:12,560 --> 00:05:16,279 Speaker 4: That is totally like sixty percent of it. The other 104 00:05:16,360 --> 00:05:21,960 Speaker 4: forty percent is what Joel was saying, is uh in 105 00:05:22,000 --> 00:05:25,240 Speaker 4: his situation, he's the one that has to handle the 106 00:05:25,720 --> 00:05:30,120 Speaker 4: everything everything right. And it's like I was at the 107 00:05:30,160 --> 00:05:33,520 Speaker 4: point in you know, having a toddler where I was 108 00:05:33,680 --> 00:05:35,320 Speaker 4: just getting myself back and. 109 00:05:35,600 --> 00:05:39,920 Speaker 1: You know, a really good groove and like right back 110 00:05:39,920 --> 00:05:40,599 Speaker 1: into work. 111 00:05:40,640 --> 00:05:43,200 Speaker 4: And like Joel, as we see, he's like starting to 112 00:05:43,200 --> 00:05:45,919 Speaker 4: get that spark back for work and he's starting to 113 00:05:45,960 --> 00:05:49,279 Speaker 4: be able to get yeah, to be himself and to 114 00:05:49,400 --> 00:05:53,080 Speaker 4: be who he was before a babe. Yeah, right, And 115 00:05:53,120 --> 00:05:56,160 Speaker 4: so you know, the other forty percent of me crying 116 00:05:56,240 --> 00:06:02,160 Speaker 4: for twenty four hours was literally understand that now I'm 117 00:06:02,200 --> 00:06:05,960 Speaker 4: back in the fricking trenches again, and like it starts 118 00:06:06,000 --> 00:06:08,640 Speaker 4: today because I have to be pregnant. 119 00:06:09,520 --> 00:06:14,400 Speaker 3: I get it, because I couldn't do the job we 120 00:06:14,520 --> 00:06:15,960 Speaker 3: do with kids. 121 00:06:16,040 --> 00:06:19,480 Speaker 5: I just know I couldn't. Like I couldn't. I could, 122 00:06:19,560 --> 00:06:22,640 Speaker 5: I could, but I would be bad at everything, you 123 00:06:22,720 --> 00:06:23,240 Speaker 5: know what I mean? 124 00:06:23,360 --> 00:06:28,000 Speaker 3: Like, yeah, and that is so like I understand that, 125 00:06:28,240 --> 00:06:32,960 Speaker 3: and I understand Joel. And I love that the stereotypical 126 00:06:33,120 --> 00:06:34,640 Speaker 3: roles are reversed. 127 00:06:34,320 --> 00:06:34,920 Speaker 5: Right too. 128 00:06:35,120 --> 00:06:37,360 Speaker 1: I appreciate that a lot so. 129 00:06:37,760 --> 00:06:41,960 Speaker 3: Compelling, right, it makes it so compelling. And you also 130 00:06:42,440 --> 00:06:46,719 Speaker 3: become aware that he has a career, he has all 131 00:06:46,760 --> 00:06:49,400 Speaker 3: these things, and it just happened to be that he 132 00:06:49,440 --> 00:06:52,840 Speaker 3: made less money so that it made sense for them 133 00:06:52,920 --> 00:06:56,960 Speaker 3: that he would be the stay at home daddad. Yeah 134 00:06:57,279 --> 00:07:00,000 Speaker 3: you know, now why they didn't go the nanny route, 135 00:07:00,120 --> 00:07:00,720 Speaker 3: I don't know. 136 00:07:01,080 --> 00:07:04,680 Speaker 1: I know know I had that thought in my brain too, because. 137 00:07:04,480 --> 00:07:08,359 Speaker 3: Juliet they wanted to stay at home parent and maybe yeah, like, look, 138 00:07:08,480 --> 00:07:12,920 Speaker 3: they're kind. They do address the economy in parenthood of 139 00:07:12,960 --> 00:07:17,600 Speaker 3: the time, right, they they bring it up regularly. I 140 00:07:17,640 --> 00:07:20,720 Speaker 3: think this is when when it came out. I think 141 00:07:20,720 --> 00:07:23,720 Speaker 3: the economy kind of like pooped the bucket, right, It 142 00:07:23,840 --> 00:07:27,080 Speaker 3: was like when all those people lost their homes, it 143 00:07:27,160 --> 00:07:27,520 Speaker 3: was like. 144 00:07:27,640 --> 00:07:29,720 Speaker 1: No, yeah, this was twenty ten, so this was after 145 00:07:29,760 --> 00:07:30,520 Speaker 1: that big. 146 00:07:30,360 --> 00:07:36,080 Speaker 3: Twenty banking thing happened, or like the housing crist all 147 00:07:36,120 --> 00:07:39,640 Speaker 3: that happened. And I like that they acknowledge it. So 148 00:07:39,680 --> 00:07:42,040 Speaker 3: there could have been too, Like maybe financially it didn't 149 00:07:42,040 --> 00:07:45,600 Speaker 3: make sense that suddenly, you know, you don't want to 150 00:07:45,600 --> 00:07:48,800 Speaker 3: pay more for the childcare than the person's making. 151 00:07:48,880 --> 00:07:51,239 Speaker 5: I get it, like it's all coating. That does seem 152 00:07:51,280 --> 00:07:52,680 Speaker 5: like she makes some dough. 153 00:07:52,920 --> 00:07:55,760 Speaker 4: And I also I also think with like a contractor position. 154 00:07:56,040 --> 00:07:59,640 Speaker 4: Like it is project based, right, so there could be 155 00:07:59,680 --> 00:08:02,800 Speaker 4: months not making a salary. There could be a year 156 00:08:02,840 --> 00:08:05,240 Speaker 4: where he's making millions of dollars and then two years 157 00:08:05,240 --> 00:08:06,000 Speaker 4: where he has no work. 158 00:08:06,160 --> 00:08:09,920 Speaker 3: He seems very unbothered by the fact that, like she'll 159 00:08:09,920 --> 00:08:11,040 Speaker 3: take maternity leave. 160 00:08:11,160 --> 00:08:12,040 Speaker 5: Do you know what I'm saying? 161 00:08:12,160 --> 00:08:17,600 Speaker 3: Like she seems she's an interesting enigma that Julia. 162 00:08:18,200 --> 00:08:21,320 Speaker 1: She is she is, And I don't know what the 163 00:08:21,320 --> 00:08:26,240 Speaker 1: future holds in this series like you did, I won't say. 164 00:08:26,200 --> 00:08:29,600 Speaker 4: In my situation for watching it as a first timer. 165 00:08:29,680 --> 00:08:33,280 Speaker 4: At the moment, I am feeling like Joel's going to 166 00:08:33,360 --> 00:08:35,719 Speaker 4: be like I'm getting back into work and Julia's like, 167 00:08:35,720 --> 00:08:38,480 Speaker 4: I'm gonna take a year off and I'm just gonna well, 168 00:08:38,640 --> 00:08:39,080 Speaker 4: you'll see. 169 00:08:40,080 --> 00:08:52,840 Speaker 6: Shoot, so you've heard us talk about this, and I'm 170 00:08:52,840 --> 00:08:53,760 Speaker 6: gonna talk about. 171 00:08:53,559 --> 00:08:59,400 Speaker 3: It again because they're they're pretty dang awesome. I have 172 00:08:59,480 --> 00:09:02,360 Speaker 3: to say, like the tone of leggings that you've heard 173 00:09:02,440 --> 00:09:04,360 Speaker 3: us talk about, and. 174 00:09:06,400 --> 00:09:09,239 Speaker 5: They are comfortable, they. 175 00:09:09,200 --> 00:09:12,440 Speaker 1: Are buttery, buttery. 176 00:09:12,200 --> 00:09:15,240 Speaker 5: Sexy, like they really make my butt. 177 00:09:15,320 --> 00:09:21,400 Speaker 7: I have to say, like pretty good, pretty good, right, 178 00:09:21,640 --> 00:09:27,320 Speaker 7: like and I don't always feel that way, And it's pretty. 179 00:09:26,920 --> 00:09:30,960 Speaker 4: Good and no, I'm gonna I'm gonna second that. I mean, 180 00:09:31,200 --> 00:09:34,640 Speaker 4: I am only living in ath leisure right now. And 181 00:09:35,000 --> 00:09:39,000 Speaker 4: I will say my previousth leisure was a little drappy. 182 00:09:39,559 --> 00:09:43,400 Speaker 3: You can get a little drabby drab, yeah yeah, not you, 183 00:09:43,600 --> 00:09:44,640 Speaker 3: but meaning you. 184 00:09:44,960 --> 00:09:45,520 Speaker 5: All of you. 185 00:09:45,840 --> 00:09:48,079 Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, but you all get a little. 186 00:09:47,880 --> 00:09:50,319 Speaker 5: Lazy and get a little lazy. 187 00:09:50,360 --> 00:09:51,840 Speaker 1: This requires no effort. 188 00:09:51,640 --> 00:09:53,920 Speaker 5: And they're not uncomfortable. You know. 189 00:09:53,960 --> 00:09:58,360 Speaker 3: Look, I have leggings that can be a little tidy 190 00:09:58,480 --> 00:09:59,920 Speaker 3: tight on certain parts. 191 00:10:00,080 --> 00:10:03,839 Speaker 5: Mm hmm, and these are not that. 192 00:10:04,120 --> 00:10:07,680 Speaker 3: They were really comfortable, really comfortable on my stomach, comfortable, 193 00:10:07,760 --> 00:10:11,440 Speaker 3: and they look good. They're I wear them with my 194 00:10:11,520 --> 00:10:13,720 Speaker 3: cute sneakers like an outfit. 195 00:10:14,760 --> 00:10:18,360 Speaker 1: Exactly my point. They are you put them on, you 196 00:10:18,440 --> 00:10:22,040 Speaker 1: still feel comfortable, but they look cute. 197 00:10:22,600 --> 00:10:25,200 Speaker 3: They look really not the kind of leggings where you're like, 198 00:10:25,280 --> 00:10:27,480 Speaker 3: I gotta wear a big baggy sweatshirt to cover my butt. 199 00:10:27,559 --> 00:10:30,680 Speaker 1: It's like, nope, I'll wear show off the butt, show off. 200 00:10:30,800 --> 00:10:31,360 Speaker 5: But I'm not. 201 00:10:31,360 --> 00:10:33,840 Speaker 3: Afraid of like a shirt like I'm not you look, guys, 202 00:10:33,880 --> 00:10:36,560 Speaker 3: I'm not cruising around in some crop top like like 203 00:10:36,600 --> 00:10:37,360 Speaker 3: the young ones. 204 00:10:37,480 --> 00:10:40,679 Speaker 5: But but if you want to, you can, well, I 205 00:10:40,760 --> 00:10:43,160 Speaker 5: do not, but I mean I want to, but I 206 00:10:43,200 --> 00:10:43,840 Speaker 5: don't want to. 207 00:10:44,480 --> 00:10:44,560 Speaker 2: No. 208 00:10:44,760 --> 00:10:47,239 Speaker 5: I think the ton of leggings are really really. 209 00:10:47,000 --> 00:10:49,559 Speaker 3: Great, and I think you should try it for yourself, 210 00:10:49,600 --> 00:10:51,839 Speaker 3: like honestly, like and tell us what you think. 211 00:10:52,120 --> 00:10:53,040 Speaker 1: Try them for yourself. 212 00:10:53,080 --> 00:10:54,319 Speaker 4: All you have to do is head a ton of 213 00:10:54,400 --> 00:10:57,480 Speaker 4: active dot com and use the code iHeart I h 214 00:10:57,640 --> 00:11:02,079 Speaker 4: eart for twenty per percent off and free shipping ding 215 00:11:02,160 --> 00:11:03,600 Speaker 4: ding ding ding ding, and like. 216 00:11:03,600 --> 00:11:06,840 Speaker 5: If they're good enough for bellahadid, they're good enough for me. 217 00:11:08,679 --> 00:11:09,520 Speaker 5: He KILLO. 218 00:11:12,360 --> 00:11:15,160 Speaker 3: I also look Julia the reason she's so good at 219 00:11:15,200 --> 00:11:18,360 Speaker 3: her career and like she's sort of the you know, 220 00:11:18,400 --> 00:11:21,439 Speaker 3: I think they allude to she was class president, and 221 00:11:21,520 --> 00:11:25,040 Speaker 3: like I love when Dax and Laura and Graham are 222 00:11:25,080 --> 00:11:27,040 Speaker 3: like the nerds over there. 223 00:11:27,040 --> 00:11:29,040 Speaker 5: Because you definitely get that, like. 224 00:11:30,800 --> 00:11:35,800 Speaker 3: Dax and Sarah Braverman are sort of a little bit 225 00:11:35,800 --> 00:11:39,400 Speaker 3: more in sync, and then there's Adam and Julia who 226 00:11:39,400 --> 00:11:44,600 Speaker 3: are like the class president and and they refer to 227 00:11:44,640 --> 00:11:45,520 Speaker 3: them as the nerds. 228 00:11:45,600 --> 00:11:47,319 Speaker 5: Like the dynamic is funny. 229 00:11:47,800 --> 00:11:48,079 Speaker 1: Yeah. 230 00:11:48,240 --> 00:11:50,240 Speaker 4: One thing before we move on from Julia and Joel 231 00:11:50,240 --> 00:11:53,079 Speaker 4: that I thought was super powerful is at the end 232 00:11:53,080 --> 00:11:55,440 Speaker 4: when they're like laying in bed and Joel's basically like, 233 00:11:55,920 --> 00:11:57,440 Speaker 4: I'm open to having another baby. 234 00:11:58,120 --> 00:12:00,600 Speaker 1: Yeah, but his condition is only they go into it 235 00:12:00,640 --> 00:12:04,000 Speaker 1: as a team, and that he's not just a yes man. 236 00:12:04,160 --> 00:12:07,000 Speaker 1: I thought that was really powerful. 237 00:12:07,480 --> 00:12:09,880 Speaker 5: Yeah, they do seem like a solid couple. 238 00:12:09,920 --> 00:12:13,160 Speaker 3: Although he what did you think when she was you know, 239 00:12:13,440 --> 00:12:15,960 Speaker 3: when he sat he said, sit down, and he sort 240 00:12:15,960 --> 00:12:16,840 Speaker 3: of was so angry. 241 00:12:17,480 --> 00:12:20,640 Speaker 5: I get it he was. He was all in his feels. 242 00:12:20,679 --> 00:12:22,680 Speaker 4: I would say, well, because I think at that point 243 00:12:22,760 --> 00:12:25,400 Speaker 4: he hadn't and he was in his fields. Because Julia 244 00:12:25,520 --> 00:12:29,280 Speaker 4: told Adam we're having another baby, and Adam's like, congrats, Joel, 245 00:12:29,280 --> 00:12:31,160 Speaker 4: I heard you guys are right. 246 00:12:31,760 --> 00:12:34,240 Speaker 3: I mean, my thing is like they're not actually having 247 00:12:34,280 --> 00:12:37,520 Speaker 3: another baby until they both are participating in that. 248 00:12:37,880 --> 00:12:41,439 Speaker 4: Right, But Julia phrased it a completely different way. And 249 00:12:42,040 --> 00:12:45,040 Speaker 4: I get Joel's frustration because he was very much like. 250 00:12:45,679 --> 00:12:49,160 Speaker 1: I'm not sure. You know what I mean, I'm not sure. 251 00:12:49,320 --> 00:12:51,720 Speaker 4: And for her to go tell her brother or I 252 00:12:51,800 --> 00:12:54,959 Speaker 4: another baby means that she did not consider what he 253 00:12:55,040 --> 00:12:57,360 Speaker 4: told her, right, and. 254 00:12:57,280 --> 00:13:02,240 Speaker 3: Like, look, also, you know it's complicated, right, And I 255 00:13:02,280 --> 00:13:05,839 Speaker 3: thought it was really like when he's like, ah, preschool again, 256 00:13:05,880 --> 00:13:12,079 Speaker 3: you know, all the drama politics, and like, look, work 257 00:13:12,160 --> 00:13:15,480 Speaker 3: is not easy, but raising kids is like way harder. 258 00:13:15,559 --> 00:13:17,920 Speaker 3: I will be the first to admit it, like because 259 00:13:17,960 --> 00:13:21,520 Speaker 3: I can just sort of like, you know, you can work, 260 00:13:21,760 --> 00:13:26,120 Speaker 3: it's just raising kids is twenty four to seven. Yeah, work, 261 00:13:26,520 --> 00:13:28,240 Speaker 3: even if you have the gnarliest job. 262 00:13:28,080 --> 00:13:31,240 Speaker 5: On the planet, isn't it just isn't. 263 00:13:31,559 --> 00:13:31,760 Speaker 8: No. 264 00:13:31,960 --> 00:13:34,840 Speaker 4: I say this all the time. Whenever I go to work, 265 00:13:34,840 --> 00:13:36,480 Speaker 4: it's it's a eight like. 266 00:13:36,480 --> 00:13:37,680 Speaker 1: Eight hours of vacation. 267 00:13:38,200 --> 00:13:43,480 Speaker 4: Like it's like being raising kids is. 268 00:13:43,480 --> 00:13:47,480 Speaker 1: Just it's so hard. It is really really no gnarly. 269 00:13:47,520 --> 00:13:50,320 Speaker 3: I always say it's like we have this concert called 270 00:13:50,360 --> 00:13:53,679 Speaker 3: Wango Tango and it's like really really hard, right, Like 271 00:13:54,080 --> 00:13:56,920 Speaker 3: you work all day, you're on your feet, you're going, 272 00:13:57,040 --> 00:13:57,760 Speaker 3: it's non stop. 273 00:13:57,880 --> 00:13:59,280 Speaker 5: I'm always like, raising kids. 274 00:13:59,080 --> 00:14:01,680 Speaker 3: Is like Wango tank go every day. Like it's just 275 00:14:02,120 --> 00:14:03,240 Speaker 3: so gnarly. 276 00:14:03,640 --> 00:14:04,480 Speaker 1: Oh man. 277 00:14:05,080 --> 00:14:08,360 Speaker 3: Any Way, that was a good storyline, and you know 278 00:14:08,559 --> 00:14:12,040 Speaker 3: it was it was buttoned up a little maybe too quick, 279 00:14:12,080 --> 00:14:13,720 Speaker 3: but it was it was good. 280 00:14:14,040 --> 00:14:17,200 Speaker 4: It was very powerful. All the elements of that were 281 00:14:17,360 --> 00:14:18,080 Speaker 4: very powerful. 282 00:14:18,160 --> 00:14:18,880 Speaker 1: I loved it. 283 00:14:19,320 --> 00:14:22,760 Speaker 3: How about the girl from Girls being the friend? 284 00:14:23,640 --> 00:14:26,480 Speaker 5: Did you see that Girls? 285 00:14:26,720 --> 00:14:29,680 Speaker 1: Ambers? I never watched it, but. 286 00:14:29,840 --> 00:14:33,480 Speaker 5: I watched Girls. It was great, and I didn't know 287 00:14:33,560 --> 00:14:40,280 Speaker 5: it then, but wait, can someone say who it is? Yeah? Yeah, yeah, yeah. 288 00:14:40,320 --> 00:14:45,240 Speaker 5: I think Zosha. She's amazing. In Girls, she's like really 289 00:14:45,320 --> 00:14:46,400 Speaker 5: tight with Lena Dunnam. 290 00:14:46,400 --> 00:14:48,680 Speaker 3: I actually think they might be like best friends from 291 00:14:48,840 --> 00:14:51,200 Speaker 3: growing up, but I might be maybe they went to 292 00:14:51,240 --> 00:14:51,880 Speaker 3: college together. 293 00:14:52,800 --> 00:14:55,240 Speaker 5: First of all, she was like it was. I was 294 00:14:55,240 --> 00:14:59,040 Speaker 5: so like, oh my god, there she is. I feel 295 00:14:59,120 --> 00:15:02,160 Speaker 5: like a cutie. Who's the cutie at work that hooks up? 296 00:15:02,440 --> 00:15:02,720 Speaker 2: Oh? 297 00:15:02,800 --> 00:15:04,400 Speaker 1: He is very cute. 298 00:15:04,560 --> 00:15:08,200 Speaker 4: I'm like, I like Sarah Braman, you have got to 299 00:15:08,640 --> 00:15:12,400 Speaker 4: jump on that is it was his character, Mike, because 300 00:15:12,400 --> 00:15:15,320 Speaker 4: I think it was Kevin Alejandro if I if, I am, yes. 301 00:15:15,120 --> 00:15:17,760 Speaker 5: It is Kevin Alejandro. I knew he was in Fire Country. 302 00:15:18,600 --> 00:15:19,600 Speaker 1: Yeah he's in Fire Country. 303 00:15:19,760 --> 00:15:21,640 Speaker 5: Yeah it is. I knew he was famous. 304 00:15:21,680 --> 00:15:26,400 Speaker 3: I was like, that guy's famous, cute, whole thing, real cute. Yeah, 305 00:15:26,480 --> 00:15:29,480 Speaker 3: he looks so handsome. He saves the day. Then did 306 00:15:29,480 --> 00:15:30,680 Speaker 3: he like take her hand? 307 00:15:30,760 --> 00:15:32,320 Speaker 5: I feel like that he did. 308 00:15:32,960 --> 00:15:36,160 Speaker 1: He did understud He is such a stud. 309 00:15:36,360 --> 00:15:39,280 Speaker 4: But I also was watching this storyline and I'm like, 310 00:15:39,480 --> 00:15:43,600 Speaker 4: oh my god. Even in Gilmore Girls and now in Parenthood, 311 00:15:44,880 --> 00:15:46,560 Speaker 4: you are Lauren Graham. 312 00:15:46,760 --> 00:15:50,640 Speaker 1: I hate to tell you it. Oh you you guys. 313 00:15:50,560 --> 00:15:52,200 Speaker 5: Like, thank you, that's so nice. 314 00:15:52,480 --> 00:15:54,240 Speaker 4: I know you don't have kids, but this is how 315 00:15:54,280 --> 00:15:56,000 Speaker 4: you are with your nieces. You take them to all 316 00:15:56,040 --> 00:15:57,000 Speaker 4: the cool stuff. 317 00:15:57,240 --> 00:15:59,160 Speaker 5: I like to think that I am Lauren Graham. 318 00:15:59,280 --> 00:16:03,200 Speaker 3: I mean, look, wait, do you get a celebrity doppelganger? 319 00:16:03,360 --> 00:16:04,920 Speaker 5: Like what celebrity do people say you? 320 00:16:05,200 --> 00:16:10,680 Speaker 4: Oh no, not really, I've gotten like which I don't. 321 00:16:10,920 --> 00:16:12,560 Speaker 1: I don't understand this at all. 322 00:16:12,680 --> 00:16:15,000 Speaker 3: I have one that I that I that I get 323 00:16:15,360 --> 00:16:16,080 Speaker 3: that I used. 324 00:16:15,920 --> 00:16:16,680 Speaker 1: To Lauren Graham. 325 00:16:17,480 --> 00:16:20,520 Speaker 3: I get Lauren Graham and I get Cheryl Crow, which 326 00:16:20,560 --> 00:16:24,120 Speaker 3: is look very Cheryl. I know, yeah, don't write it 327 00:16:24,200 --> 00:16:26,560 Speaker 3: and like you're not as hot as Cheryl Crow and 328 00:16:26,640 --> 00:16:30,120 Speaker 3: Lauren Graham, Like I get it, but like I get it. 329 00:16:30,200 --> 00:16:33,520 Speaker 3: I'm just telling you what the people of the earth say. 330 00:16:33,960 --> 00:16:37,200 Speaker 3: But I used to get I mean so much. It 331 00:16:37,360 --> 00:16:43,240 Speaker 3: was weird, like so much. Deborah Winger from Officer and 332 00:16:43,280 --> 00:16:44,000 Speaker 3: a gentleman. 333 00:16:44,640 --> 00:16:46,760 Speaker 5: Do you know that, lady Deborah Winger? 334 00:16:47,480 --> 00:16:50,680 Speaker 4: No, you are definitely Lauren Graham. I think of all three, 335 00:16:50,880 --> 00:16:51,960 Speaker 4: Lauren Graham. 336 00:16:51,880 --> 00:16:54,920 Speaker 1: Is your big is is the closest. 337 00:16:55,280 --> 00:16:56,400 Speaker 5: Thank you. What do you get? 338 00:16:56,880 --> 00:17:03,560 Speaker 4: I mean, I've gotten like I've gotten weirdly, think weirdly. 339 00:17:03,640 --> 00:17:05,720 Speaker 1: Minka, I knew it. 340 00:17:06,040 --> 00:17:06,720 Speaker 5: I knew it. 341 00:17:06,800 --> 00:17:09,359 Speaker 3: I said it before you said it. Take note, I 342 00:17:09,440 --> 00:17:10,840 Speaker 3: knew it. It came right to me. 343 00:17:11,280 --> 00:17:14,200 Speaker 1: Gina Corano, Oh yeah. 344 00:17:13,800 --> 00:17:16,359 Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, but Minka, I get Minka. I want to 345 00:17:16,359 --> 00:17:17,919 Speaker 5: talk about Minca in this episode. 346 00:17:18,080 --> 00:17:20,280 Speaker 4: Yeah, those are the two that I've gotten the most. 347 00:17:20,280 --> 00:17:22,840 Speaker 4: But I will take Minka Kelly and Gina Crano anything. 348 00:17:23,000 --> 00:17:25,520 Speaker 5: First of all, Minka Kelly is so cool. She's so cool. 349 00:17:25,840 --> 00:17:29,719 Speaker 3: So in this episode I thought it was interesting. She's 350 00:17:29,960 --> 00:17:33,560 Speaker 3: plays the character very well. Now I don't know if 351 00:17:33,560 --> 00:17:35,800 Speaker 3: that's how she is. I think I've only been around 352 00:17:35,800 --> 00:17:40,080 Speaker 3: her like a handful of times, but she plays it 353 00:17:40,280 --> 00:17:40,879 Speaker 3: very well. 354 00:17:41,280 --> 00:17:44,880 Speaker 5: She's so calm, she says the right thing. I thought 355 00:17:44,960 --> 00:17:47,520 Speaker 5: Adam was like a little nuts, like with. 356 00:17:47,520 --> 00:17:51,840 Speaker 3: The why not progress and it's like, bro, like do 357 00:17:51,880 --> 00:17:53,720 Speaker 3: you are you aware of what your kid? 358 00:17:53,800 --> 00:17:54,960 Speaker 5: You know what I mean? Like? And I like that. 359 00:17:55,119 --> 00:17:59,320 Speaker 3: Yeah, She's like he's doing really well and like. 360 00:18:01,119 --> 00:18:04,520 Speaker 5: And I guess, look, I don't know because I don't know. 361 00:18:05,040 --> 00:18:08,080 Speaker 3: Maybe that's how a parent would feel. It does feel 362 00:18:08,200 --> 00:18:11,920 Speaker 3: like Christina is more Uh. 363 00:18:11,760 --> 00:18:14,920 Speaker 5: How do I say this? Progressed on this whole thing. 364 00:18:15,240 --> 00:18:16,520 Speaker 1: This is the one thing I'll say about this. 365 00:18:16,800 --> 00:18:19,040 Speaker 4: And maybe this doesn't apply to everybody, but it applies 366 00:18:19,080 --> 00:18:19,560 Speaker 4: to my life. 367 00:18:19,560 --> 00:18:20,800 Speaker 1: So I'm going to say it. 368 00:18:21,440 --> 00:18:25,840 Speaker 4: There's always one parent that has more patience than the other. 369 00:18:25,920 --> 00:18:27,840 Speaker 1: Yea, oh, it just always is. 370 00:18:28,080 --> 00:18:31,399 Speaker 4: Right, Like I'm watching the storeline. I am one hundred 371 00:18:31,400 --> 00:18:35,080 Speaker 4: percent Christina. I'm like, no, trust the process. The doctors 372 00:18:35,119 --> 00:18:38,280 Speaker 4: are saying, there's all this progress, like we have to 373 00:18:38,800 --> 00:18:39,560 Speaker 4: do it on his. 374 00:18:39,640 --> 00:18:43,159 Speaker 3: Time, right, meet the person where they're at instead of 375 00:18:43,200 --> 00:18:44,640 Speaker 3: trying to make the person. 376 00:18:45,240 --> 00:18:48,160 Speaker 1: My husband is Adam. He's like, no, dude, I don't 377 00:18:48,280 --> 00:18:50,560 Speaker 1: he's not talking to me. It's been months. What are 378 00:18:50,560 --> 00:18:51,000 Speaker 1: we doing? 379 00:18:51,760 --> 00:18:52,040 Speaker 5: You know? 380 00:18:52,119 --> 00:18:54,439 Speaker 1: Like I so I get it, I get it. I 381 00:18:54,480 --> 00:18:55,399 Speaker 1: get it, I get it. 382 00:18:56,040 --> 00:19:00,879 Speaker 4: I I did fear that I was going to go real, real, 383 00:19:01,000 --> 00:19:01,800 Speaker 4: real South. 384 00:19:02,400 --> 00:19:05,520 Speaker 5: Me too. He handled himself a lot better than I thought, 385 00:19:06,359 --> 00:19:06,600 Speaker 5: you know. 386 00:19:06,680 --> 00:19:09,359 Speaker 3: I thought, like when he came over and the stairs 387 00:19:09,400 --> 00:19:12,600 Speaker 3: and he's like joined the family, I was like, Okay, 388 00:19:12,640 --> 00:19:16,479 Speaker 3: he's trying, but he's accepting defeat. But then the car scene. Now, 389 00:19:16,480 --> 00:19:19,080 Speaker 3: I want to talk about the car scene. To me, 390 00:19:19,200 --> 00:19:21,159 Speaker 3: that looked like there was really a car on the 391 00:19:21,200 --> 00:19:24,720 Speaker 3: Bay Bridge, right, like I was like, this doesn't look 392 00:19:24,760 --> 00:19:27,960 Speaker 3: as cgi as when they went to Berkeley. Now, could 393 00:19:28,000 --> 00:19:28,560 Speaker 3: I be wrong? 394 00:19:28,840 --> 00:19:31,280 Speaker 5: Totally? I have no idea. 395 00:19:31,400 --> 00:19:33,480 Speaker 3: Now I don't think they shot it on the bridge, 396 00:19:33,520 --> 00:19:37,000 Speaker 3: like I think the interior parts, but like the camp 397 00:19:37,080 --> 00:19:40,240 Speaker 3: the I mean, it wasn't a drone, but like that's 398 00:19:40,240 --> 00:19:43,119 Speaker 3: what it looks like the footage. It really looked like 399 00:19:43,160 --> 00:19:45,240 Speaker 3: the Bay Bridge. It really looked like the car was 400 00:19:45,240 --> 00:19:49,000 Speaker 3: going on the Bay Bridge. However they did that was really. 401 00:19:48,800 --> 00:19:51,879 Speaker 4: Good, right and I thought it was well played between 402 00:19:51,920 --> 00:19:54,320 Speaker 4: Adam and Max too, Like yeah. 403 00:19:54,119 --> 00:19:56,720 Speaker 3: Now why they were on the Bay Bridge was befuddled me, 404 00:19:57,080 --> 00:19:58,960 Speaker 3: Like why are they going from Berkeley? 405 00:19:59,000 --> 00:19:59,840 Speaker 1: Where are they going? 406 00:20:00,119 --> 00:20:05,239 Speaker 3: Let's go, well, okay, in actuality, it would be like 407 00:20:05,280 --> 00:20:06,320 Speaker 3: they live in Berkeley. 408 00:20:06,720 --> 00:20:08,880 Speaker 5: So I don't know why at night they would be going. 409 00:20:08,680 --> 00:20:12,439 Speaker 3: From Berkeley to San Francisco or if they were in 410 00:20:12,840 --> 00:20:14,920 Speaker 3: Like that's what that bridge does. It takes you from 411 00:20:14,920 --> 00:20:18,720 Speaker 3: Berkeley to San Francisco. Why they would be doing that 412 00:20:19,200 --> 00:20:23,440 Speaker 3: at night unclear. It's like it's not like you pick 413 00:20:23,520 --> 00:20:25,440 Speaker 3: a kid up at school in Berkeley and you drive 414 00:20:25,480 --> 00:20:27,080 Speaker 3: across the bridge to get to Berkeley. 415 00:20:27,240 --> 00:20:29,640 Speaker 5: Like what so that bird was and it was night 416 00:20:29,720 --> 00:20:31,600 Speaker 5: times I was like, what are they doing? 417 00:20:31,920 --> 00:20:34,080 Speaker 3: But I get it, like the people were probably like 418 00:20:34,119 --> 00:20:37,359 Speaker 3: we really want to establish San Francisco again, and that 419 00:20:37,440 --> 00:20:39,240 Speaker 3: they live in Berkeley in the Bay Area. 420 00:20:40,040 --> 00:20:41,400 Speaker 5: But I don't know where they were going. 421 00:20:41,400 --> 00:20:43,400 Speaker 1: Oh, were they going to their one on one dinner? 422 00:20:44,200 --> 00:20:45,119 Speaker 1: Was that what they were doing? 423 00:20:45,359 --> 00:20:49,360 Speaker 3: Yeah, but like I guess maybe I mean that, Yeah, 424 00:20:49,600 --> 00:20:51,919 Speaker 3: maybe they were going. Yeah, he did say he wanted up. 425 00:20:51,960 --> 00:20:53,560 Speaker 5: Maybe they're going to the dinner in the city. 426 00:20:53,840 --> 00:20:57,439 Speaker 3: Now that's a big old trip for a kid. But 427 00:20:57,520 --> 00:21:01,040 Speaker 3: maybe it's fall and the sun's going down at We'll. 428 00:21:00,920 --> 00:21:02,280 Speaker 1: Give him the benefit of the doubt. 429 00:21:02,680 --> 00:21:05,320 Speaker 3: There's some good restaurants in San Francisco. 430 00:21:05,600 --> 00:21:06,040 Speaker 5: I don't know. 431 00:21:06,119 --> 00:21:07,920 Speaker 3: We're going to say that they were on their way 432 00:21:07,960 --> 00:21:10,800 Speaker 3: to uh fog City Diner or something at the time. 433 00:21:12,480 --> 00:21:13,000 Speaker 5: I don't know. 434 00:21:22,400 --> 00:21:26,480 Speaker 4: Like Adam got him to open up in his way and. 435 00:21:25,760 --> 00:21:30,040 Speaker 3: Yeah, and I liked the treasurer and. 436 00:21:29,440 --> 00:21:30,560 Speaker 1: Why do you love pirates? 437 00:21:30,560 --> 00:21:33,280 Speaker 3: And like did you get treasure? Like that was real 438 00:21:33,400 --> 00:21:34,639 Speaker 3: cute and like it was good. 439 00:21:35,160 --> 00:21:36,280 Speaker 1: It was just really cute. 440 00:21:36,440 --> 00:21:41,280 Speaker 5: Did we have much with them, Pattie? Oh? Yeah, And 441 00:21:41,359 --> 00:21:44,000 Speaker 5: Gina is completely out of her mind. 442 00:21:44,080 --> 00:21:48,000 Speaker 3: And I laughed so hard when Hattie's like, don't cry, 443 00:21:48,119 --> 00:21:49,840 Speaker 3: like it was so good. 444 00:21:49,920 --> 00:21:52,320 Speaker 1: Also, like the book, It's like Hattie's not going to 445 00:21:52,400 --> 00:21:55,480 Speaker 1: read the book. She's not going to read a book 446 00:21:55,520 --> 00:21:56,600 Speaker 1: from a mom. 447 00:21:57,640 --> 00:22:01,399 Speaker 3: Look, I thought it was a good law in Christina, 448 00:22:01,600 --> 00:22:05,520 Speaker 3: right because she is so going over the top and 449 00:22:05,560 --> 00:22:09,640 Speaker 3: she does do that right that tracks and she's lost 450 00:22:09,640 --> 00:22:13,080 Speaker 3: her mind, like, and I love that Hattie's like f this, 451 00:22:13,840 --> 00:22:15,520 Speaker 3: Like Hattie just stands up to it. 452 00:22:15,960 --> 00:22:19,640 Speaker 5: And I'm like, you go, Hattie, because your mom's acting nuts. 453 00:22:19,920 --> 00:22:21,240 Speaker 1: Yeah, she is acting nuts. 454 00:22:21,280 --> 00:22:23,199 Speaker 3: And then I love when she's not like she's like, 455 00:22:23,560 --> 00:22:27,400 Speaker 3: don't cry like and I did think that Adam could 456 00:22:27,400 --> 00:22:29,600 Speaker 3: have been a little bit more like, hey, Christina, are 457 00:22:29,640 --> 00:22:33,840 Speaker 3: you overstepping here? But he was so like mad at 458 00:22:33,840 --> 00:22:36,080 Speaker 3: Hattie a little bit, and Hattie just stood her ground, 459 00:22:36,359 --> 00:22:39,320 Speaker 3: you know, she's just like by losers. And then I 460 00:22:39,400 --> 00:22:42,000 Speaker 3: love that Max is like she gonna get a consequence 461 00:22:42,040 --> 00:22:44,960 Speaker 3: because it really feels like she deserves a consequence. 462 00:22:45,160 --> 00:22:46,480 Speaker 5: Like that whole thing was awesome. 463 00:22:47,440 --> 00:22:50,639 Speaker 1: Oh I love Yeah, that was that was funny. Did 464 00:22:50,680 --> 00:22:53,920 Speaker 1: you run for her? I feel like you were assident. 465 00:22:54,040 --> 00:22:55,400 Speaker 5: I always lost No. 466 00:22:55,680 --> 00:22:58,320 Speaker 3: I was like, and here's the thing I wasn't like 467 00:22:59,040 --> 00:23:02,520 Speaker 3: not popular, but I couldn't win those elections. 468 00:23:03,040 --> 00:23:05,760 Speaker 5: I always came in and I always came in second. 469 00:23:05,840 --> 00:23:09,199 Speaker 3: Like yeah, there'd be like a gogle of people, and 470 00:23:09,200 --> 00:23:11,439 Speaker 3: then I'd get to the down to the finals, and 471 00:23:11,480 --> 00:23:13,840 Speaker 3: then I lost, and then I was like, I don't 472 00:23:13,920 --> 00:23:14,760 Speaker 3: want to run. 473 00:23:14,560 --> 00:23:15,760 Speaker 5: For this crap anymore. 474 00:23:16,280 --> 00:23:19,399 Speaker 3: Yeah, so I went the cheerleader route and then I 475 00:23:19,440 --> 00:23:22,560 Speaker 3: went tennis, and I had a lot more success with that. 476 00:23:22,800 --> 00:23:26,800 Speaker 4: I don't think I ever knew that about you. I 477 00:23:26,880 --> 00:23:29,159 Speaker 4: knew you played tennis. I did not know you were 478 00:23:29,160 --> 00:23:29,919 Speaker 4: a cheerleader. 479 00:23:30,040 --> 00:23:33,280 Speaker 5: Oh that I was a cheerleader. Oh yeah, I love it, 480 00:23:33,440 --> 00:23:37,879 Speaker 5: little cheerleader. And then you couldn't do cheer and tennis. 481 00:23:37,880 --> 00:23:40,399 Speaker 3: So I picked tennis. Yeah, I had more success there. 482 00:23:40,760 --> 00:23:42,360 Speaker 3: I thrived a lot more in the sorority. 483 00:23:42,400 --> 00:23:42,879 Speaker 5: Not gonna lie. 484 00:23:42,920 --> 00:23:45,320 Speaker 3: Oh everybody should listen to our new show Dirty Rush 485 00:23:45,359 --> 00:23:48,920 Speaker 3: by the way, it's a very juicy. But yeah, I 486 00:23:48,960 --> 00:23:51,840 Speaker 3: like in the sorority, I won all that everything I ran. 487 00:23:51,760 --> 00:23:52,359 Speaker 5: For I want. 488 00:23:52,520 --> 00:23:56,560 Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, I don't know, Like I wasn't like a loser, 489 00:23:56,640 --> 00:23:59,520 Speaker 3: but I wasn't like obviously I wasn't like popular enough 490 00:23:59,520 --> 00:24:00,879 Speaker 3: to win those elections. 491 00:24:01,320 --> 00:24:01,720 Speaker 5: Were you? 492 00:24:01,840 --> 00:24:03,320 Speaker 3: I feel like you were I feel like you were 493 00:24:03,480 --> 00:24:05,400 Speaker 3: secretary or vice president. 494 00:24:05,840 --> 00:24:11,360 Speaker 1: I did not do the like class school stuff I did. 495 00:24:11,600 --> 00:24:14,320 Speaker 3: I was and because you're like, you're not going to 496 00:24:14,400 --> 00:24:16,120 Speaker 3: just like you're not going to be like I want 497 00:24:16,119 --> 00:24:18,119 Speaker 3: to be the boss of this mess. 498 00:24:18,320 --> 00:24:19,840 Speaker 1: I just never never. 499 00:24:20,280 --> 00:24:23,359 Speaker 5: Activity what was your extra curricular. 500 00:24:23,000 --> 00:24:25,199 Speaker 1: I was a big jock, so I played softball. I 501 00:24:25,359 --> 00:24:26,240 Speaker 1: was on was. 502 00:24:29,040 --> 00:24:33,119 Speaker 5: Remember when you did marathons, guys, marathon. 503 00:24:34,080 --> 00:24:36,440 Speaker 4: I was a big job back in my day. I 504 00:24:36,480 --> 00:24:38,880 Speaker 4: won a lot of championships. I did the whole thing right, 505 00:24:38,920 --> 00:24:42,119 Speaker 4: So that was like my big thing growing up. And 506 00:24:42,200 --> 00:24:45,880 Speaker 4: also in high school and it's year round. That's when 507 00:24:45,880 --> 00:24:48,680 Speaker 4: I wasn't when I was in season, I was training 508 00:24:48,800 --> 00:24:51,679 Speaker 4: or doing travel or club. So it was that was 509 00:24:51,720 --> 00:24:52,240 Speaker 4: my life. 510 00:24:52,520 --> 00:24:54,760 Speaker 5: Always did you basically get straight a's? Also? 511 00:24:55,119 --> 00:24:58,240 Speaker 1: I was an a B student. I wasn't straight a's. 512 00:24:58,280 --> 00:25:01,119 Speaker 1: I was a B. I had like a solid like 513 00:25:01,320 --> 00:25:02,560 Speaker 1: three eight three nine. 514 00:25:03,040 --> 00:25:05,879 Speaker 5: Yeah, that's very good. I was straight A until I 515 00:25:05,880 --> 00:25:06,600 Speaker 5: got to college. 516 00:25:06,880 --> 00:25:10,160 Speaker 1: Of course you were. Of course you were college. 517 00:25:10,160 --> 00:25:13,080 Speaker 5: I was like, I'm just gonna have But. 518 00:25:13,040 --> 00:25:14,879 Speaker 4: In college I was like you, I I'm because I 519 00:25:15,040 --> 00:25:18,679 Speaker 4: I I stop softball. I decided to stop it and 520 00:25:18,720 --> 00:25:21,240 Speaker 4: not pursue it in college. And when I was in college, 521 00:25:21,240 --> 00:25:23,120 Speaker 4: I was like, all right, well I got some free time, 522 00:25:23,720 --> 00:25:26,840 Speaker 4: let me try the sorority thing. And then I did 523 00:25:27,080 --> 00:25:29,960 Speaker 4: Zach and great Counsel, all the all the things I. 524 00:25:29,960 --> 00:25:32,399 Speaker 5: Liked, all that, all that, all right, who have we 525 00:25:32,480 --> 00:25:33,280 Speaker 5: not talked about? All right? 526 00:25:33,320 --> 00:25:39,280 Speaker 3: We've got just Crosbie and you know, I'm conflicted here 527 00:25:40,240 --> 00:25:42,880 Speaker 3: missus Joy Bryant's mom. 528 00:25:44,200 --> 00:25:46,280 Speaker 5: She's prickly, that lady. But we came around. 529 00:25:46,440 --> 00:25:50,640 Speaker 4: I just like, I just feel like Renee is her name, 530 00:25:51,200 --> 00:25:53,280 Speaker 4: and Jasmine. 531 00:25:53,200 --> 00:25:58,119 Speaker 1: Are bringing there well, Jazzin's father, Renee's ex husband, the 532 00:25:58,440 --> 00:26:04,000 Speaker 1: trauma with the dad. They're like unleashing it on Crosby. 533 00:26:03,880 --> 00:26:08,199 Speaker 3: Which is the way the world works, right behave So 534 00:26:08,320 --> 00:26:09,440 Speaker 3: it's written roll. 535 00:26:10,119 --> 00:26:13,480 Speaker 4: But the thing that, like I literally screamed at my 536 00:26:13,560 --> 00:26:18,560 Speaker 4: TV is Renee was like, well, you know my Jasmine's 537 00:26:19,160 --> 00:26:21,720 Speaker 4: dad last when he was young, and blah blah blah, 538 00:26:21,760 --> 00:26:22,680 Speaker 4: and Crosby was. 539 00:26:22,680 --> 00:26:23,680 Speaker 5: Like called her out. 540 00:26:23,800 --> 00:26:27,879 Speaker 1: I haven't I'm here and I'm not him. And I 541 00:26:29,000 --> 00:26:29,880 Speaker 1: called her out. 542 00:26:29,720 --> 00:26:32,679 Speaker 5: The Braverman's call it out. It's like hattie, she's like 543 00:26:33,240 --> 00:26:35,280 Speaker 5: new and I like that about these people. 544 00:26:35,320 --> 00:26:39,560 Speaker 3: Also, look if we if Renee was perfect should be boring. 545 00:26:40,119 --> 00:26:43,200 Speaker 5: It's good that she's so not perfect, you know what 546 00:26:43,280 --> 00:26:43,640 Speaker 5: I mean. 547 00:26:44,640 --> 00:26:47,480 Speaker 3: I first of all, I liked seek in this one 548 00:26:47,480 --> 00:26:49,159 Speaker 3: because he's all, can I just watch. 549 00:26:49,000 --> 00:26:51,960 Speaker 5: The game, and he's like, James don't even know what's 550 00:26:52,000 --> 00:26:52,560 Speaker 5: going on? 551 00:26:54,000 --> 00:26:54,360 Speaker 1: I did. 552 00:26:55,240 --> 00:26:59,639 Speaker 4: I you know, Renee is taking Jabbar to church and 553 00:26:59,720 --> 00:27:02,639 Speaker 4: Cross's church is baseball. 554 00:27:02,760 --> 00:27:04,640 Speaker 1: And I found I like the whole thing. 555 00:27:04,840 --> 00:27:05,800 Speaker 5: I found to be. 556 00:27:05,800 --> 00:27:10,200 Speaker 4: Really interesting because it's you know, I think I think 557 00:27:10,240 --> 00:27:13,080 Speaker 4: for Renee, you have a lot of those people that 558 00:27:13,119 --> 00:27:17,520 Speaker 4: are set in their ways right where church is the 559 00:27:17,560 --> 00:27:20,679 Speaker 4: thing and they don't see anything outside of that right. 560 00:27:20,760 --> 00:27:23,679 Speaker 4: And it's like, I feel like her character is growing 561 00:27:23,720 --> 00:27:27,879 Speaker 4: a lot right now with one trusting Crosby but to 562 00:27:28,119 --> 00:27:30,720 Speaker 4: seeing things in a different lens that may not be 563 00:27:30,800 --> 00:27:32,000 Speaker 4: her traditional norm. 564 00:27:32,560 --> 00:27:35,480 Speaker 3: And like I do, they went to church, like I, 565 00:27:35,520 --> 00:27:39,879 Speaker 3: they're all working hard, right, Like Crosby is very he 566 00:27:40,040 --> 00:27:43,480 Speaker 3: is very pliable here. He is really doing what's right, 567 00:27:43,600 --> 00:27:48,480 Speaker 3: and I think he deserves credit for that. That being said, 568 00:27:48,600 --> 00:27:50,800 Speaker 3: it's like the grandma should not just be making all 569 00:27:50,840 --> 00:27:51,440 Speaker 3: these plans. 570 00:27:51,520 --> 00:27:53,840 Speaker 5: The dad is the dad, Like I don't know, it's 571 00:27:53,880 --> 00:27:58,960 Speaker 5: a little it's good, it's the conflict is good. It's interesting. 572 00:28:00,200 --> 00:28:03,760 Speaker 3: My least favorite storyline in this episode, but like I 573 00:28:03,800 --> 00:28:04,520 Speaker 3: still like it. 574 00:28:04,880 --> 00:28:06,080 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. 575 00:28:06,200 --> 00:28:07,560 Speaker 5: Cute little pending there. 576 00:28:07,960 --> 00:28:11,840 Speaker 4: We kind of brushed over this, but you know, sarahen Amber, 577 00:28:11,880 --> 00:28:14,919 Speaker 4: and Amber is friends with the cool girl that oh. 578 00:28:14,800 --> 00:28:16,919 Speaker 5: My god in the mom and that Mercedes. 579 00:28:17,640 --> 00:28:21,160 Speaker 1: Yeah who doesn't care? Ye as you can go out 580 00:28:21,240 --> 00:28:21,639 Speaker 1: to school. 581 00:28:21,720 --> 00:28:25,440 Speaker 5: I I don't care to care. Yeah, the line was funny. 582 00:28:25,640 --> 00:28:28,480 Speaker 3: That was that was like, I really enjoyed that whole thing. 583 00:28:28,720 --> 00:28:31,840 Speaker 3: Great casting with the that my guy. 584 00:28:32,119 --> 00:28:33,800 Speaker 1: Yeah, it's all good. 585 00:28:33,840 --> 00:28:35,040 Speaker 5: This episode is great. 586 00:28:35,119 --> 00:28:37,320 Speaker 3: I always have a giggle, which is what I really 587 00:28:37,480 --> 00:28:40,360 Speaker 3: like about it. This show is not this is us, 588 00:28:40,440 --> 00:28:43,920 Speaker 3: Like it definitely has laughs. Like I have a good 589 00:28:44,040 --> 00:28:45,400 Speaker 3: giggle every episode. 590 00:28:45,560 --> 00:28:47,160 Speaker 1: I do too. I completely agree. 591 00:28:47,240 --> 00:28:50,840 Speaker 4: I have yet to cry, so there's that, but I 592 00:28:50,960 --> 00:28:54,160 Speaker 4: have been in my fields. I have giggled, I laughed, 593 00:28:54,360 --> 00:28:56,720 Speaker 4: So I'm I'm waiting to take out the tissues. 594 00:28:56,840 --> 00:28:59,920 Speaker 3: But feel like I shed some tears. I feel like 595 00:29:00,160 --> 00:29:03,520 Speaker 3: not not but just like a couple of tears have 596 00:29:03,600 --> 00:29:07,440 Speaker 3: definitely come down. I'm gonna give this a nine. I'm 597 00:29:07,600 --> 00:29:09,120 Speaker 3: got an eight point eight. 598 00:29:09,960 --> 00:29:14,560 Speaker 4: Maybe we have not got we have not dipped into 599 00:29:14,560 --> 00:29:14,920 Speaker 4: the aids. 600 00:29:15,000 --> 00:29:16,280 Speaker 1: Yet it's very good. 601 00:29:16,280 --> 00:29:19,160 Speaker 3: But I can't give them all nine like I feel 602 00:29:19,160 --> 00:29:21,120 Speaker 3: like sometimes I have to like, go, oh, this one 603 00:29:21,240 --> 00:29:22,080 Speaker 3: was still very. 604 00:29:21,960 --> 00:29:24,640 Speaker 4: Good, but I'll go nine three. I have nothing but 605 00:29:24,720 --> 00:29:27,560 Speaker 4: it it's great. 606 00:29:28,080 --> 00:29:31,080 Speaker 5: Do you love it more than Gilmore Girls? Yes? I do. 607 00:29:31,320 --> 00:29:31,560 Speaker 5: I do. 608 00:29:32,120 --> 00:29:34,720 Speaker 3: Wait too quick to answer, I'm gonna go no on that. 609 00:29:35,440 --> 00:29:38,600 Speaker 3: But yet it's not. It's a very good show. 610 00:29:39,040 --> 00:29:39,440 Speaker 5: Very good. 611 00:29:40,480 --> 00:29:43,240 Speaker 3: Might argue it's better than Masel, better than Mazel. 612 00:29:43,720 --> 00:29:45,600 Speaker 4: I really hope I don't get hate for that, but yeah, 613 00:29:45,680 --> 00:29:47,880 Speaker 4: I did think you truth. 614 00:29:48,120 --> 00:29:49,440 Speaker 5: Do you miss fun Heads at all? 615 00:29:50,280 --> 00:29:55,200 Speaker 4: Negative zero like or negative fifty or whatever like a negative? 616 00:29:55,480 --> 00:30:01,480 Speaker 1: No, I don't. I don't at all. I don't that anyhow. 617 00:30:01,720 --> 00:30:10,520 Speaker 5: Oh, braver Min's out. 618 00:30:11,080 --> 00:30:35,080 Speaker 8: Dot everybody to forget. Follow us on Instagram at I 619 00:30:35,160 --> 00:30:39,240 Speaker 8: Am all In podcast, and email us at Gilmore at 620 00:30:39,400 --> 00:30:50,000 Speaker 8: iHeartRadio dot com.