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Speaker 1: Am I the ahole for the response that I gave

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Speaker 1: to my brother in law for him commenting that my

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Speaker 1: dress was not fit for a wedding?

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Speaker 2: How dare you wear what you please?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, come on, express yourself, express yourself. Hear me out.

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Speaker 1: That's how it starts. So my brother in law, my

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Speaker 1: husband's mother for all of you, or my husband's brother's mother.

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Speaker 1: My husband's brother was married to a woman from Grace.

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Speaker 1: Her name is Nana, Nana, Nonna. I don't know how

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Speaker 1: the Greeks pronounced things. Nana, Nana, Nana. That's my grandma's name.

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Speaker 1: And the reason, well, not her name name, but that's

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Speaker 1: what I call her, granny name, granny nanny. And the

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Speaker 1: reason for wait what, we're already getting to divorce, and

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Speaker 1: the reason for their divorce is because of how much

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Speaker 1: my conservative brother in law try to control her clothes

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Speaker 1: and the places she went. Oh, so they're divorced.

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Speaker 2: So they divorced.

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Speaker 1: Now they're divorced now, So right now they're divorced, and

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Speaker 1: it's because he's very controlling.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, of places, that's I'm curious to see what that's about.

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Speaker 1: I don't know. Don't go to the strip club. I

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Speaker 1: could I could understand that being a place. But if

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Speaker 1: it's like, hey, don't go to hang out with your girls,

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Speaker 1: don't go to the grocery store, don't go to the

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Speaker 1: grocery store, don't go to your job. Yeah, that's when

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Speaker 1: I get to going against a little iffy. Only strip

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Speaker 1: club bands, it's the only bands that I allow, and

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Speaker 1: bands to Lincoln Park. Heyo. He didn't want a divorce

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Speaker 1: and was hoping Nana would accept the life he offered

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Speaker 1: and stay. But she did it. Oh sorry, that's what

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Speaker 1: you get for being a misogynistic priv That's right. This

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Speaker 1: happened two years ago. He now moved back with my

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Speaker 1: in laws and we'd see him more often. He tried

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Speaker 1: to comment in how I dress on multiple occasions, and

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Speaker 1: it's unbearable, honestly, sounds it would be.

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Speaker 2: Yeah. Imagine if I'm like, Wow, Sam looking pretty promiscuous in.

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Speaker 1: That tight black tea over there, and I would say, ooh,

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Speaker 1: what you're looking at? John? You're looking at these perky nips,

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Speaker 1: And I would say, yes, straight, I'm straight straight spread them.

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Speaker 1: But since my in lawn said he's struggling in depress,

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Speaker 1: I let it go. Honestly, like, you're probably struggling to

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Speaker 1: press because you're pushing everyone away because you're trying to

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Speaker 1: be so controlling. Yep, it's not being less controlling that.

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Speaker 1: On Friday, my in laws celebrated my husband's thirtieth birthday

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Speaker 1: at their home. It sounds like mumamea, I'm just like

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Speaker 1: or I guess it's it's a moment John has never

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Speaker 1: seen moment I've never known. It sounds like MoMA, Mia,

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Speaker 1: I wore a heart shaped blue dress and had my

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Speaker 1: hair up heart shaped blue dress. What does that even

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Speaker 1: look like?

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Speaker 2: I just imagine like a heart in the chestal regions,

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Speaker 2: like like a oh oh, because then they'd be like

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Speaker 2: cleavage where the heart goes.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, okay that maybe okay yeah.

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Speaker 2: Or maybe it's literally a giant heart.

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Speaker 1: I'm imagining, like like you know, those like those guys

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Speaker 1: that dress up in massive costumes to like hey we

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Speaker 1: got discounts. A guy that will dress up as like

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Speaker 1: a sandwich for subway sandwiches.

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Speaker 2: Even better, a realistic human heart with like all the

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Speaker 2: valves and it's like just pulsing.

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Speaker 1: And just completing every human functioning, literal human. Heir in

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Speaker 1: law was like, bro, what are you wearing? Why are

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Speaker 1: you bleeding all over.

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Speaker 2: I could maybe side with him if that was out

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Speaker 2: that was the case. Maybe you're pleasing, you're bleeding everywhere.

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Speaker 2: She's wearing a white dress, and you come as a

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Speaker 2: bloody heart, that would be amazing.

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Speaker 1: Respect, I don't I don't think that that's the situation though,

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Speaker 1: I don't think. Yeah, So in conclusion, we don't think

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Speaker 1: that she was dressed up as a bloody heart. M

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Speaker 1: m okay. While we were eating, my brother in law

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Speaker 1: pointed at me and said that my cleavage was showing. Oh,

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Speaker 1: I shouldn't have worn this dress because it looked inappropriate

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Speaker 1: and we were at a freaking family gathering.

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Speaker 2: Family can't see some titties. Hello, we can say that now, because.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, this is the spot. If my family can't see

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Speaker 1: the fitty that that, you know, actually funny enough. That

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Speaker 1: is the state slogan for Alabama. Family can't see some

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Speaker 1: teacher with a Southern accent, just kidding, it's not al

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Speaker 1: anyone from Alabama. This is not a direct at unless

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Speaker 1: you know, unless you're actually doing that, actually do that,

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Speaker 1: then that is an that It's only triggering for those

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Speaker 1: people who are actually getting down and dirty with it.

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Speaker 2: They deserve to be triggered.

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Speaker 1: They deserve to be triggered. Everyone was staring at me,

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Speaker 1: and I felt so embarrassed and on the spot. He

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Speaker 1: looked at me waiting for me to blow up, probably,

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Speaker 1: but I laughed and told him knock, knock, okay, and

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Speaker 1: he's like, who's there? And I said, Nana, which is?

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Speaker 1: Which is the wife that divorced him? Right? How? He

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Speaker 1: paused and see is confused at the mention of this name.

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Speaker 1: He then faked her name and said and then he

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Speaker 1: then faked a laugh and said Nana who Because now

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Speaker 1: now he's uncomfortable because she's bringing up his.

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Speaker 2: F y right right right?

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Speaker 1: And I said, Nana, you goddamn business business when I'm

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Speaker 1: wearing Okay, He got upset and quickly left the table,

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Speaker 1: gosh down right. My sister in laws laughed, but my

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Speaker 1: husband and his parents were upset and later said that

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Speaker 1: I was out of line for bringing up Nana to

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Speaker 1: my brother in law, knowing how heartbroken and depressed he

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Speaker 1: was because of her. His mom said I was petty

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Speaker 1: and didn't need to dig at him just to prove

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Speaker 1: a point. My husband thinks I'm in the wrong as well,

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Speaker 1: and that I was being deliberately hurtful by bringing up

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Speaker 1: Nana whack. Okay, well, to be fair, she was being

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Speaker 1: deliberately hurtful by bringing up Nana. She also yeah, you

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Speaker 1: fire back, you know, if you if you want to

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Speaker 1: come to the to the gun range, Well, I guess

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Speaker 1: the gun range didn't shoot back if you wanted out law. Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Did you want to do a duel? Yeah, if you

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Speaker 2: show up to a duel, expect to get shot at exactly.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't expect to draw fire bit and then

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Speaker 1: you know, get struck in the heart, and then you're

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Speaker 1: cleaning over and then you're wearing the heart shaped dress.

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Speaker 1: Come on, get get out of here anyway. Peace sa