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Speaker 1: Hello, my love. I'm feeling all sorts of warm and cozy,

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Speaker 1: yummy cake. We welcome back, so we give them Lalla podcast.

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Speaker 1: So venturing back into what we spoke about on the

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Speaker 1: bonus episode, for those of you living under a rock,

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Speaker 1: give them Laala does bonus episodes now that air every

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Speaker 1: single Monday, and you get both the audio and video

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Speaker 1: all in the same day. Don't even gotta wait. Wow,

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Speaker 1: but I I am expecting my second child. We have

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Speaker 1: mom back. Wow. Wow, this was a big one. You

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Speaker 1: had to be here, Yes, absolutely, Yeah, I've been hired

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Speaker 1: someone to come here to help with ocean.

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Speaker 2: We appreciate you, Lise. We know your time is valuable.

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Speaker 3: Thank you. Guys are so sweet. I love coming. I

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Speaker 3: love the banter.

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Speaker 1: Yes, so I'm fourteen weeks pregnant. I do not know

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Speaker 3: Yet, but we all have bets out.

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Speaker 1: Everyone has bets out, and some people are calling it her.

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Speaker 1: Some people are calling it she.

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Speaker 2: Say right now, what do you guys think. Let's get

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Speaker 2: it on right.

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Speaker 3: I think it's a boy.

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Speaker 1: Okay, what do you think to you?

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Speaker 4: Well, I don't know.

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Speaker 5: I just called it a sheet not too long ago.

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Speaker 5: But I'm wanting a boy.

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Speaker 1: I know what.

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Speaker 6: I just want a healthy baby. I will be thrilled

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Speaker 6: if I just want to help you baby. I mean,

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Speaker 6: in my gut, I feel like it's a boy.

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Speaker 1: This is what I told Stacy. I said to her.

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Speaker 1: If it's a boy, I'm going to be so excited.

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Speaker 1: It's going to be like a new experience. I'm going

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Speaker 1: Right if it's a girl, I will have a sigh

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Speaker 1: of relief. Not because I don't want a boy, but

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Speaker 1: because I know what to expect. I'm a virgo. I

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Speaker 4: I was just about to say I do.

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Speaker 1: And I also have a lot of sperm left over,

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Speaker 1: so we can always go for round three, you know.

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Speaker 2: So what is your official Oh no, let's just get.

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Speaker 3: Through to let's just get this on.

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Speaker 4: First.

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Speaker 2: Do you have an official guess? Because you are I'm

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Speaker 2: thinking girl, You're thinking girl. I will not be guessing

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Speaker 2: you guys because I know the gender. Yes, I know

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Speaker 1: So let's go on.

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Speaker 6: I almost saw in her not yesterday. Yeah, I have, Like,

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Speaker 6: maybe she would have.

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Speaker 4: Had her eyeball. She know, she never reads anything. Don't worry.

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Speaker 1: Let's move on. I really don't want to find out

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Speaker 1: right now. You're not going to find it, Okay, So

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Speaker 2: Let's talk about it. So I'm going to start with,

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Speaker 2: was there anything and this is this is actually could

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Speaker 3: No, for me, I'm sitting on the sidelines.

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Speaker 1: For me, no, my partner all. No, Honestly I didn't.

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Speaker 2: Everyone around you and say, your dad, and all.

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Speaker 4: Like like, here's the one thing that I say.

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Speaker 5: Right, But like if you were to take it, I

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Speaker 5: like for a child, I would be like, wow, I

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Speaker 1: Yeah, well I see, And that's what I hope that

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Speaker 4: Though their needs will be mad.

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Speaker 5: I'm here for a father figure if they ever need that,

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Speaker 5: you know, like every base is you know is fi. Yeah,

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Speaker 5: and she's got Brandon, She's got you know, saying she.

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Speaker 1: You keep saying she.

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Speaker 2: That is so is it?

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Speaker 4: See something that I have he did a change of heart.

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Speaker 3: Very interesting, But well, whatever.

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Speaker 1: No, I don't care either way. And I know that

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Speaker 1: And we got that. So that's all I want to

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Speaker 1: What were we talking about.

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Speaker 2: We were talking about just apprehension if you guys had

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Speaker 1: Not like, no, I know, it doesn't seem like I

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Speaker 3: So and she has a friend that's doing the same process.

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Speaker 1: Well that's wild. So Arianna's friend Meredith, who also has

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Speaker 6: It's just moving from another state. Her mom is selling her.

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Speaker 1: Selling everything. She's in the midst of selling her homes

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Speaker 1: that's true, but also California Cryobanks said women in your

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Speaker 1: Well, a lot of my friends who are freezing their eggs,

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Speaker 2: That's why I'm mentioning it here, it is a it's

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Speaker 1: No, I just like laid there and they were like,

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Speaker 1: I could see you. I did seize when I had ocean.

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Speaker 3: Are you talking about the syringe.

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Speaker 1: Well, the syringe was like that, and then it goes

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Speaker 2: of my life, to be quite honest. This is a

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Speaker 2: fun question. Do you have a name, whether it's a

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Speaker 2: How do you feel about him.

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Speaker 2: How about you, Easton?

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Speaker 4: I really love them?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, amazing. So we've got a name picked out, TV.

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Speaker 1: And now we just need to see what the babe.

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Speaker 2: Do you want him to suck on them and suck

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Speaker 1: Sure, that's why. That's way hot.

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Speaker 2: Guys love that, by the way, because it's got like

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Speaker 6: I've heard that, right, I've got a loss I haven't.

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Speaker 3: Yes, you put it on.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm ready for the milk to come in because

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Speaker 4: But do you start juicing.

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Speaker 1: I don't know what was it with Ocean January January,

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Speaker 6: Like, you so lucky about it. You had so much

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Speaker 1: I'm eating my placenta again. One hundred and twelve percent.

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Speaker 2: Amazing. We have to reach out to that company.

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Speaker 6: You didn't have a lot of but I alternated with

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00:22:02,640 --> 00:22:04,920
Speaker 6: formula for six months.

443
00:22:05,080 --> 00:22:06,119
Speaker 3: I didn't have a lot of milk.

444
00:22:06,240 --> 00:22:10,639
Speaker 1: So then I'm talking about I'm talking about real breast

445
00:22:13,119 --> 00:22:20,680
Speaker 1: down the ship everything, corn bread, titty fan.

446
00:22:22,400 --> 00:22:23,040
Speaker 3: I tried.

447
00:22:23,280 --> 00:22:27,240
Speaker 5: I tried to well, you needed to toothpaste, it squeezed

448
00:22:27,280 --> 00:22:28,520
Speaker 5: from the base, corn.

449
00:22:28,280 --> 00:22:32,680
Speaker 2: Bread and titty fed. Okay, but did you even say

450
00:22:32,680 --> 00:22:35,240
Speaker 2: you're most excited and most nervous.

451
00:22:35,640 --> 00:22:38,359
Speaker 1: The most excited I am for it is that the.

452
00:22:39,840 --> 00:22:40,880
Speaker 4: Big old titties.

453
00:22:41,560 --> 00:22:44,160
Speaker 1: No, but that I'm not going to be as nervous, okay,

454
00:22:44,160 --> 00:22:45,880
Speaker 1: because I've done it right, you know, like you feel

455
00:22:45,960 --> 00:22:48,320
Speaker 1: you're going to bust this newborn in half, right, Like,

456
00:22:48,320 --> 00:22:54,000
Speaker 1: how does anyone keep one not broken in half now whatever,

457
00:22:54,359 --> 00:22:56,919
Speaker 1: that's going to be really really cool to be like,

458
00:22:57,240 --> 00:22:59,280
Speaker 1: I'm just flopping it around because I want to know.

459
00:23:00,359 --> 00:23:02,399
Speaker 1: Not really, I will flop it around, but I'll be

460
00:23:02,520 --> 00:23:06,000
Speaker 1: less nervous. What I'm hella nervous for is the two kids,

461
00:23:06,040 --> 00:23:08,680
Speaker 1: because everyone I ask when when I see someone who

462
00:23:08,760 --> 00:23:11,119
Speaker 1: has a kid oceans age and they're like yeah, And

463
00:23:11,119 --> 00:23:13,399
Speaker 1: then I have a nine month and I'm like, be honest,

464
00:23:13,760 --> 00:23:16,520
Speaker 1: what's it like? And then I tell this random person

465
00:23:16,520 --> 00:23:18,520
Speaker 1: that I'm also pregnant and hope that they don't care

466
00:23:18,520 --> 00:23:22,040
Speaker 1: about who I am and leak it to someone.

467
00:23:22,320 --> 00:23:22,520
Speaker 3: Is it?

468
00:23:22,560 --> 00:23:25,080
Speaker 2: The one is fun? Two is twenty years?

469
00:23:25,440 --> 00:23:27,760
Speaker 1: Can I tell you what every mother, because they're usually

470
00:23:27,840 --> 00:23:31,560
Speaker 1: like millennials like me, they go, two kids is no

471
00:23:31,680 --> 00:23:35,600
Speaker 1: fucking joke. Every time? Two kids is no fucking joke.

472
00:23:35,640 --> 00:23:37,840
Speaker 1: That's what they always say to me. And I immediately

473
00:23:37,840 --> 00:23:42,240
Speaker 1: look down at my stomach and go right by the way,

474
00:23:42,280 --> 00:23:43,720
Speaker 1: I already have the night nurse on deck.

475
00:23:43,840 --> 00:23:44,320
Speaker 2: Amazing.

476
00:23:44,440 --> 00:23:50,119
Speaker 1: I know everyone call your horses, your horses, call your tits.

477
00:23:50,160 --> 00:23:53,000
Speaker 1: My co parent is sixty three. If you think we

478
00:23:53,040 --> 00:23:54,960
Speaker 1: had to get here to the studio, we had to

479
00:23:54,960 --> 00:23:58,480
Speaker 1: be up at six fifteen rallying a two year old

480
00:23:58,600 --> 00:24:00,600
Speaker 1: and the sixty three year old was harder.

481
00:24:01,200 --> 00:24:01,760
Speaker 3: The mom.

482
00:24:03,280 --> 00:24:09,040
Speaker 1: She was chilling Burberry jacket on up is ready to go?

483
00:24:10,160 --> 00:24:12,160
Speaker 2: Are we Is she in the vicinity? Are we able

484
00:24:12,200 --> 00:24:13,840
Speaker 2: to get her on and see what she chooses.

485
00:24:13,560 --> 00:24:14,399
Speaker 1: In the vicinity?

486
00:24:15,800 --> 00:24:16,119
Speaker 3: Burden?

487
00:24:18,080 --> 00:24:20,720
Speaker 4: I have a question, what cravings do you have?

488
00:24:21,080 --> 00:24:21,840
Speaker 2: That's a good one?

489
00:24:22,560 --> 00:24:23,240
Speaker 1: Not a one?

490
00:24:23,359 --> 00:24:23,879
Speaker 4: Not one?

491
00:24:24,160 --> 00:24:29,320
Speaker 1: Actually I lied a lot of apple juice. Really, I

492
00:24:29,359 --> 00:24:30,920
Speaker 1: love app I'm going.

493
00:24:30,880 --> 00:24:32,960
Speaker 4: To get you Mark Nelly's apple juice because that ship

494
00:24:33,040 --> 00:24:34,000
Speaker 4: hits different.

495
00:24:34,000 --> 00:24:36,000
Speaker 1: Shout out, that's my favorite one.

496
00:24:36,920 --> 00:24:38,840
Speaker 2: Mark Nellie's.

497
00:24:38,880 --> 00:24:50,960
Speaker 4: Martinelli a bitch, markne disrespect.

498
00:24:51,240 --> 00:24:53,440
Speaker 2: I looked right at the cameras.

499
00:24:55,840 --> 00:24:56,960
Speaker 3: Mark Nelly.

500
00:24:58,240 --> 00:25:06,240
Speaker 2: Know Martin Ellie's said, oh my god, we're a mess.

501
00:25:06,840 --> 00:25:07,639
Speaker 1: We're a mess.

502
00:25:09,119 --> 00:25:11,680
Speaker 3: Oh no, I can't breathe.

503
00:25:12,080 --> 00:25:19,600
Speaker 1: Mark Nelly, please keep that in. I cannot. So having

504
00:25:19,600 --> 00:25:21,280
Speaker 1: to would be the one thing that I'm like a

505
00:25:21,320 --> 00:25:24,320
Speaker 1: little nervous about. But I think the night nurse is

506
00:25:24,320 --> 00:25:27,760
Speaker 1: going to help tremendously. I will bring on because you know,

507
00:25:28,000 --> 00:25:31,119
Speaker 1: Lisa Bee helps a lot with Ocean, but I'll bring on.

508
00:25:32,119 --> 00:25:35,840
Speaker 1: I'll bring on another person to help with this, babe. Okay,

509
00:25:36,040 --> 00:25:37,919
Speaker 1: Because people think that I don't work and I just

510
00:25:37,960 --> 00:25:40,479
Speaker 1: sit around and just podcasts for an hour a day

511
00:25:40,520 --> 00:25:42,200
Speaker 1: and then I go do whatever I want. But that's

512
00:25:42,200 --> 00:25:44,720
Speaker 1: not the case. I actually, I actually.

513
00:25:44,880 --> 00:25:46,000
Speaker 2: She works her butt off.

514
00:25:46,400 --> 00:25:46,800
Speaker 4: She does.

515
00:25:46,880 --> 00:25:48,320
Speaker 1: We can always do it a little harder, but I

516
00:25:48,640 --> 00:25:50,640
Speaker 1: think I need more help and my mom needs more help.

517
00:25:50,640 --> 00:25:52,400
Speaker 1: She can't take care of a three year old three

518
00:25:52,400 --> 00:25:54,480
Speaker 1: and a half. By the time the baby comes, Ocean

519
00:25:54,520 --> 00:25:57,000
Speaker 1: will be three and a half. And I've heard that,

520
00:25:57,119 --> 00:26:00,000
Speaker 1: like I kind of timed it perfect.

521
00:26:00,280 --> 00:26:02,040
Speaker 4: Yeah, think how much help you were with me?

522
00:26:02,720 --> 00:26:04,520
Speaker 2: That's true, Like I think about.

523
00:26:04,359 --> 00:26:06,479
Speaker 5: All the time, like all the like memories that I have,

524
00:26:06,600 --> 00:26:08,479
Speaker 5: really though, or like me and you just like hanging

525
00:26:08,480 --> 00:26:09,000
Speaker 5: out in the play?

526
00:26:09,200 --> 00:26:10,920
Speaker 1: Do you think it was legal for mom to leave

527
00:26:10,920 --> 00:26:12,919
Speaker 1: me to watch you when I was like ten? But

528
00:26:13,000 --> 00:26:14,439
Speaker 1: we could be totally making that up.

529
00:26:17,640 --> 00:26:18,840
Speaker 2: That's a big sister.

530
00:26:19,240 --> 00:26:22,280
Speaker 4: Hi, baby, how's your morning?

531
00:26:22,880 --> 00:26:27,120
Speaker 2: We have questions for you. Ocean, Ken Hi, goof say

532
00:26:27,160 --> 00:26:32,280
Speaker 2: hi everyone, Okaya, Hi, Hi mommy. Do you want to

533
00:26:32,280 --> 00:26:34,960
Speaker 2: ask Ocean? We want to know are you excited for

534
00:26:35,080 --> 00:26:39,040
Speaker 2: mommy to have a baby? Can you can you tell us?

535
00:26:39,200 --> 00:26:39,520
Speaker 3: Oh?

536
00:26:39,560 --> 00:26:41,679
Speaker 2: She said no, What do you think do you think

537
00:26:41,680 --> 00:26:42,080
Speaker 2: it's a boy?

538
00:26:42,160 --> 00:26:42,600
Speaker 1: Or a girl.

539
00:26:44,000 --> 00:26:45,760
Speaker 3: You don't know it's early in the morning.

540
00:26:46,200 --> 00:26:50,920
Speaker 1: It's not that early. It's nine. Well for us, she's

541
00:26:51,080 --> 00:26:54,040
Speaker 1: very excited and she says that she wants a little budle.

542
00:26:54,240 --> 00:26:54,800
Speaker 2: A little.

543
00:26:57,600 --> 00:26:58,560
Speaker 3: Great big sister.

544
00:26:58,760 --> 00:27:01,720
Speaker 1: She is, like, she'll go into the nursery and she'll say,

545
00:27:02,560 --> 00:27:06,960
Speaker 1: I got dis added to babies. Woomba. Oh, don't worry,

546
00:27:06,960 --> 00:27:08,800
Speaker 1: it's just I'm just talking. You don't need to worry

547
00:27:08,800 --> 00:27:10,560
Speaker 1: about it. Okay, I know you're tired.

548
00:27:10,680 --> 00:27:14,360
Speaker 2: Sweet, so okay, well, okay, I's.

549
00:27:14,160 --> 00:27:17,080
Speaker 1: A real start. Like she's not just gonna show up

550
00:27:17,359 --> 00:27:20,520
Speaker 1: and be your show pony. No, josh, she's she's not.

551
00:27:20,680 --> 00:27:23,640
Speaker 2: She's gonna make me work for it. And I appreciate that.

552
00:27:23,680 --> 00:27:23,800
Speaker 1: Well.

553
00:27:23,840 --> 00:27:25,760
Speaker 6: She told me that I left her in the dark.

554
00:27:26,760 --> 00:27:28,760
Speaker 6: Speaking of can we talk about last night?

555
00:27:28,880 --> 00:27:28,960
Speaker 3: Ye?

556
00:27:29,000 --> 00:27:32,400
Speaker 1: Yeah, please let her what happened? Yeah, you got left

557
00:27:32,440 --> 00:27:32,960
Speaker 1: in the dark.

558
00:27:34,000 --> 00:27:37,240
Speaker 3: So you guys, she is nocturnal for sure.

559
00:27:37,080 --> 00:27:37,600
Speaker 2: Let's hear it.

560
00:27:37,720 --> 00:27:39,320
Speaker 1: No, it's wild and I don't know how to get

561
00:27:39,359 --> 00:27:42,880
Speaker 1: it to stop. I don't know what has happened where

562
00:27:42,960 --> 00:27:47,159
Speaker 1: my child decides to take a nap at four and

563
00:27:47,200 --> 00:27:49,520
Speaker 1: then we have a six o'clock wake up time and

564
00:27:49,600 --> 00:27:52,639
Speaker 1: now the night is shot, and I've been trying to

565
00:27:52,760 --> 00:27:54,679
Speaker 1: like break her of this habit, like I run her

566
00:27:54,680 --> 00:27:56,359
Speaker 1: into the ground in the morning, and she will not

567
00:27:56,520 --> 00:27:59,760
Speaker 1: go down for a nap. So last night I get

568
00:27:59,800 --> 00:28:02,159
Speaker 1: her all situated, I put her down for bed. She

569
00:28:02,160 --> 00:28:04,080
Speaker 1: tells me she doesn't want a diaper. She wants big

570
00:28:04,119 --> 00:28:07,360
Speaker 1: girl undies. And I said, okay, well that means no,

571
00:28:07,359 --> 00:28:10,280
Speaker 1: no milky bub. We stopped doing milky bub because of

572
00:28:10,440 --> 00:28:12,720
Speaker 1: brushing the teeth and whatnot, and no, perry a bubb

573
00:28:12,800 --> 00:28:14,920
Speaker 1: like you don't get a bub because you have big

574
00:28:14,920 --> 00:28:20,200
Speaker 1: girl pants on. So I go to bed and all

575
00:28:20,240 --> 00:28:24,560
Speaker 1: of the sudden I hear her chattering and I'm like,

576
00:28:24,720 --> 00:28:28,680
Speaker 1: that can't I'm making it up. Maybe TV. Oh she's

577
00:28:28,720 --> 00:28:34,280
Speaker 1: talking and it's like midnight, you guys. So then it stops.

578
00:28:34,960 --> 00:28:36,960
Speaker 1: I hear her again, so finally I go down to

579
00:28:37,080 --> 00:28:39,959
Speaker 1: check on her and she's now in bed with my

580
00:28:40,200 --> 00:28:43,920
Speaker 1: mom Lisa, snoring, and she's watching Seinfeld.

581
00:28:47,680 --> 00:28:49,200
Speaker 4: Night you what.

582
00:28:50,920 --> 00:28:53,520
Speaker 2: You're watching Seinfeld? I'm taking bts.

583
00:28:53,640 --> 00:28:56,840
Speaker 1: She loves Seinfeld. Seinfeld makes me so happy.

584
00:28:57,360 --> 00:28:58,680
Speaker 4: It makes me happy too, baby.

585
00:29:00,360 --> 00:29:02,400
Speaker 6: But you guys, it was so cute because she got

586
00:29:02,800 --> 00:29:05,800
Speaker 6: her stool. I brought a stool back from Utah.

587
00:29:05,920 --> 00:29:08,760
Speaker 1: My uncle or my uncle my grandpa Bob carved it.

588
00:29:09,560 --> 00:29:10,800
Speaker 1: I am top of Bob.

589
00:29:11,000 --> 00:29:13,480
Speaker 6: Yeah, and so she carries it everywhere to, you know,

590
00:29:13,600 --> 00:29:15,960
Speaker 6: to use the stool where it's like it's to get

591
00:29:16,000 --> 00:29:19,040
Speaker 6: in the kitchen cabinet, to get on my bed.

592
00:29:19,680 --> 00:29:22,120
Speaker 3: So she had moved that in the middle of the night.

593
00:29:22,200 --> 00:29:25,440
Speaker 6: But this morning I got up and she had like

594
00:29:25,960 --> 00:29:29,240
Speaker 6: played with the Buddha on the coffee table and literally

595
00:29:29,280 --> 00:29:30,040
Speaker 6: turned it around.

596
00:29:30,280 --> 00:29:33,480
Speaker 2: So she's just up all night. Do you down there

597
00:29:33,480 --> 00:29:34,000
Speaker 2: and say.

598
00:29:33,840 --> 00:29:36,400
Speaker 1: Something to her? Or I didn't know she was rearranging

599
00:29:37,160 --> 00:29:40,840
Speaker 1: the furniture at midnight. By the time I went down,

600
00:29:40,920 --> 00:29:44,960
Speaker 1: she had tuckered herself out in bed to watch Seinfeld when.

601
00:29:45,000 --> 00:29:48,520
Speaker 6: She moved my earrings off my bedside table into her bedroom.

602
00:29:50,040 --> 00:29:53,320
Speaker 4: Yeah, that's terrible.

603
00:29:53,720 --> 00:29:57,520
Speaker 2: That's terrible. You are so silly.

604
00:29:57,640 --> 00:29:59,480
Speaker 3: She's quite busy in the evening.

605
00:30:00,000 --> 00:30:02,960
Speaker 1: In the evening, in the evening. I wish it was

606
00:30:03,000 --> 00:30:07,240
Speaker 1: the evening. She's not been still in the evening. So

607
00:30:07,320 --> 00:30:10,440
Speaker 1: if anybody has like some advice for me on how

608
00:30:10,440 --> 00:30:14,600
Speaker 1: to get it. You're the funniest. You're so funny, cute

609
00:30:14,600 --> 00:30:17,880
Speaker 1: and nice and smart. If anyone has advice because at

610
00:30:17,880 --> 00:30:20,000
Speaker 1: this point I look at my mom and I go,

611
00:30:20,320 --> 00:30:23,120
Speaker 1: I'm locking her in that room. I'm locking her in

612
00:30:23,200 --> 00:30:25,800
Speaker 1: there because what else do you do? Well?

613
00:30:25,800 --> 00:30:26,200
Speaker 4: What else?

614
00:30:26,480 --> 00:30:28,640
Speaker 2: Because I get nervous? What if she climbs on something?

615
00:30:29,760 --> 00:30:39,760
Speaker 6: What she doesn't like her door shut at night?

616
00:30:39,880 --> 00:30:40,920
Speaker 3: She wants you to leave it over.

617
00:30:41,320 --> 00:30:43,800
Speaker 6: She has like these really cute lights on her bed,

618
00:30:44,280 --> 00:30:46,000
Speaker 6: so it's not pitch black.

619
00:30:48,880 --> 00:30:50,160
Speaker 2: Santa comes all day.

620
00:30:50,640 --> 00:31:02,000
Speaker 1: Yeah, because you're constantly okay, because right now the only

621
00:31:02,040 --> 00:31:03,440
Speaker 1: thing you have to do to get on the nice

622
00:31:03,480 --> 00:31:05,560
Speaker 1: list is put your pajamason, let me do your hair

623
00:31:05,600 --> 00:31:12,920
Speaker 1: and brush your teeth easy. Yeah, You're a hoot. You're

624
00:31:12,960 --> 00:31:13,959
Speaker 1: the coolest person I know.

625
00:31:14,200 --> 00:31:16,920
Speaker 2: You're the funniest and the GG and Ocean are two

626
00:31:16,960 --> 00:31:18,280
Speaker 2: of the funniest people in the world.

627
00:31:18,320 --> 00:31:19,720
Speaker 1: Do you think I want to love the new baby

628
00:31:19,760 --> 00:31:20,920
Speaker 1: as much as I love Ocean.

629
00:31:21,240 --> 00:31:22,960
Speaker 2: I was going to ask you that, Gigi. I think

630
00:31:23,000 --> 00:31:24,760
Speaker 2: you will. Gigi? Are you is the question?

631
00:31:25,120 --> 00:31:25,400
Speaker 4: Joe?

632
00:31:25,560 --> 00:31:28,040
Speaker 1: Are you joking? She talks about how she's gonna ditch

633
00:31:28,080 --> 00:31:29,160
Speaker 1: me in the New Baby.

634
00:31:28,840 --> 00:31:31,840
Speaker 6: With Oceans Lauren and say, oh, I don't know if

635
00:31:31,840 --> 00:31:34,080
Speaker 6: Ocean and I can sit that in our because me,

636
00:31:34,120 --> 00:31:39,880
Speaker 6: you know, Yes, we will love this baby as much

637
00:31:39,920 --> 00:31:41,160
Speaker 6: as we love Oshi bag.

638
00:31:41,360 --> 00:31:45,640
Speaker 1: They will love and respectus baby. And I'm looking at

639
00:31:45,720 --> 00:31:47,920
Speaker 1: her going you think Ocean's gonna want to be anywhere

640
00:31:47,960 --> 00:31:51,440
Speaker 1: near you at the mall when she knows her baby brother.

641
00:31:52,280 --> 00:31:55,560
Speaker 6: Cream with sprinkles always works, very very true.

642
00:31:55,720 --> 00:31:58,360
Speaker 2: Ice cream sprink with sprinkles.

643
00:31:57,880 --> 00:32:01,480
Speaker 3: Lauren and I are different, she threatened. Santa Claus is coming.

644
00:32:02,000 --> 00:32:04,040
Speaker 6: I briber and say, if you eat your dinner, you

645
00:32:04,080 --> 00:32:05,160
Speaker 6: get ice cream sprinkles.

646
00:32:05,280 --> 00:32:07,720
Speaker 1: That's what And how does that work out for you?

647
00:32:07,760 --> 00:32:08,040
Speaker 3: Lisa?

648
00:32:08,200 --> 00:32:11,400
Speaker 1: It's really because I was watching you try and shove

649
00:32:11,440 --> 00:32:14,400
Speaker 1: the food into her mouth last night, and finally you

650
00:32:14,440 --> 00:32:15,680
Speaker 1: said she eat enough?

651
00:32:17,120 --> 00:32:18,120
Speaker 3: You didn't, did you?

652
00:32:18,280 --> 00:32:19,080
Speaker 1: She ate pretty well?

653
00:32:19,160 --> 00:32:20,200
Speaker 3: No, she did eat.

654
00:32:20,520 --> 00:32:23,920
Speaker 1: I couldn't deal. I couldn't deal because I was sick. Mom.

655
00:32:23,960 --> 00:32:26,360
Speaker 1: Do you want to talk about the guy who venmoed you?

656
00:32:27,720 --> 00:32:27,880
Speaker 3: Oh?

657
00:32:28,000 --> 00:32:29,680
Speaker 1: Yes, Apple paid you a hundred bucks.

658
00:32:30,880 --> 00:32:32,320
Speaker 3: This was a few weeks ago.

659
00:32:32,440 --> 00:32:35,760
Speaker 6: I got this picture of this man in a military

660
00:32:35,800 --> 00:32:41,120
Speaker 6: outfit in the bathroom, the men's bathroom, and I should

661
00:32:41,160 --> 00:32:41,640
Speaker 6: look it up.

662
00:32:41,800 --> 00:32:42,360
Speaker 3: What he said?

663
00:32:42,440 --> 00:32:48,520
Speaker 1: So no, he it was the picture, and then it

664
00:32:48,600 --> 00:32:51,080
Speaker 1: was a picture. Then the picture of him just like

665
00:32:51,120 --> 00:32:57,240
Speaker 1: this in his military outfit, and then my mom he

666
00:32:57,360 --> 00:33:00,800
Speaker 1: was he was good looking, okay, yeah, and very he

667
00:33:00,920 --> 00:33:05,480
Speaker 1: looked real tall, and so Lisa said, okay, what's this for?

668
00:33:06,080 --> 00:33:07,800
Speaker 1: And he said for the dance?

669
00:33:08,360 --> 00:33:10,520
Speaker 3: And I don't even know you guys, I'm thinking mess

670
00:33:10,560 --> 00:33:12,120
Speaker 3: Hall they had.

671
00:33:13,240 --> 00:33:14,720
Speaker 2: Did he fall asleep during the dance.

672
00:33:17,520 --> 00:33:19,720
Speaker 3: I'm like, oh, I redeem myself from the dance.

673
00:33:21,960 --> 00:33:24,120
Speaker 1: It clearly he went to a strip club and got

674
00:33:24,120 --> 00:33:24,640
Speaker 1: a dance.

675
00:33:25,000 --> 00:33:26,000
Speaker 3: I got the wrong number.

676
00:33:26,120 --> 00:33:26,960
Speaker 2: What did you respond?

677
00:33:27,360 --> 00:33:28,120
Speaker 3: I asked him.

678
00:33:29,920 --> 00:33:32,520
Speaker 6: The dance and the dance yeah, and I said, oh,

679
00:33:32,640 --> 00:33:36,880
Speaker 6: it wasn't me, and he's no he and.

680
00:33:36,840 --> 00:33:42,240
Speaker 1: Then he explained as if maybe she didn't remember. So

681
00:33:42,280 --> 00:33:44,560
Speaker 1: at that point, my mom's like, I'm just gonna I'm

682
00:33:44,560 --> 00:33:46,800
Speaker 1: going to donate the hunter bugs. So she donated it

683
00:33:46,840 --> 00:33:49,240
Speaker 1: to a charity.

684
00:33:48,520 --> 00:33:50,040
Speaker 3: Of course, aid dog charity.

685
00:33:50,040 --> 00:33:53,560
Speaker 1: Of course, of course, of course, can you hear us

686
00:33:53,600 --> 00:33:59,480
Speaker 1: in it? Well, this was a couple of months ago. Well,

687
00:33:59,520 --> 00:34:03,360
Speaker 1: now the ropers appeared. She wants her hundred bucks. Yeah,

688
00:34:03,400 --> 00:34:06,240
Speaker 1: So the guy must have said I sent it to

689
00:34:06,280 --> 00:34:07,080
Speaker 1: this phone number.

690
00:34:07,200 --> 00:34:07,680
Speaker 3: Yeah.

691
00:34:07,840 --> 00:34:09,360
Speaker 6: And then so she asked me if I got it,

692
00:34:09,400 --> 00:34:11,160
Speaker 6: and I said, yeah, I did. I said, I donated

693
00:34:11,239 --> 00:34:13,000
Speaker 6: to charity yeah.

694
00:34:12,880 --> 00:34:15,359
Speaker 1: I did, that's all you know. She said, I did,

695
00:34:15,719 --> 00:34:20,319
Speaker 1: I did, I did. It was savage, savage.

696
00:34:20,800 --> 00:34:22,760
Speaker 3: And then I said, donated it to charity.

697
00:34:22,840 --> 00:34:23,080
Speaker 4: Yes.

698
00:34:23,160 --> 00:34:24,960
Speaker 2: The stripper, by the way, said l m f a O,

699
00:34:25,200 --> 00:34:27,760
Speaker 2: like the stripper is being silly, And Lisa was so savage.

700
00:34:27,800 --> 00:34:29,640
Speaker 2: She was like, did you get this hundred bucks? Ella

701
00:34:29,920 --> 00:34:33,040
Speaker 2: f a O. And Lisa said, I did nothing else.

702
00:34:33,200 --> 00:34:36,640
Speaker 1: It was amazing. And she followed it up, donated it

703
00:34:36,680 --> 00:34:41,239
Speaker 1: to charity. And the girl writes back, sure, sure, she

704
00:34:41,280 --> 00:34:42,120
Speaker 1: doesn't believe.

705
00:34:41,880 --> 00:34:45,640
Speaker 3: You well know me very well stupid.

706
00:34:47,400 --> 00:34:48,200
Speaker 1: You know what, maybe we.

707
00:34:48,120 --> 00:34:52,680
Speaker 2: Should take a podcast trip to the strip club and

708
00:34:52,840 --> 00:34:53,600
Speaker 2: give ad.

709
00:34:55,320 --> 00:35:00,960
Speaker 1: No. One number. Do you think it? What's that strip

710
00:35:01,000 --> 00:35:03,360
Speaker 1: club in Utah? What's it called?

711
00:35:03,800 --> 00:35:04,799
Speaker 4: Can I text that girl?

712
00:35:04,880 --> 00:35:11,120
Speaker 1: Trails Trails American.

713
00:35:10,880 --> 00:35:13,560
Speaker 2: American Bush? Are you lying too?

714
00:35:14,080 --> 00:35:14,279
Speaker 4: Yeah?

715
00:35:14,320 --> 00:35:17,239
Speaker 5: But it's not that great in Salt Lake because it's

716
00:35:17,239 --> 00:35:18,000
Speaker 5: not full nudity.

717
00:35:21,560 --> 00:35:23,640
Speaker 1: The next thing that I want to talk about is

718
00:35:23,840 --> 00:35:28,520
Speaker 1: O M G. One, guys, I went to Target the

719
00:35:28,560 --> 00:35:33,319
Speaker 1: other night for nails because the task rabbitor was on

720
00:35:33,360 --> 00:35:35,840
Speaker 1: a tight schedule, and we really he did a lot.

721
00:35:36,000 --> 00:35:38,000
Speaker 1: We talked about it. He did, he hung a lot

722
00:35:38,040 --> 00:35:40,560
Speaker 1: of stuff, and so there were two pictures that I

723
00:35:40,600 --> 00:35:42,680
Speaker 1: was like, don't worry about him hanging those, mom, because

724
00:35:42,680 --> 00:35:44,480
Speaker 1: I feel like you and I can take those. So

725
00:35:44,520 --> 00:35:47,840
Speaker 1: we went to Target and as we're walking past, because

726
00:35:48,120 --> 00:35:50,680
Speaker 1: you know me, I cannot go to Target and not

727
00:35:50,960 --> 00:35:55,120
Speaker 1: check out like the area where there they have body wash,

728
00:35:55,160 --> 00:36:00,560
Speaker 1: conditioner lotion. It's the best Native. Have you heard of

729
00:36:00,680 --> 00:36:03,120
Speaker 1: Native have deodorant?

730
00:36:03,200 --> 00:36:05,239
Speaker 2: Of course, I've heard of Native body wash?

731
00:36:05,560 --> 00:36:10,279
Speaker 1: All natural, fabulous product. You know what I see? You

732
00:36:10,320 --> 00:36:15,680
Speaker 1: know what I see? They collaborated with Girl Scout cookies.

733
00:36:15,920 --> 00:36:18,759
Speaker 2: Stop yeah, like for sense.

734
00:36:19,080 --> 00:36:22,399
Speaker 1: For sense, like smell, not money.

735
00:36:22,080 --> 00:36:26,480
Speaker 2: Not Native cookies? What not Native cookies?

736
00:36:26,880 --> 00:36:29,560
Speaker 1: No? No, no, okay, it is native. And then you

737
00:36:29,600 --> 00:36:34,799
Speaker 1: can get samoa sent you can get thin mint scent done,

738
00:36:35,040 --> 00:36:39,000
Speaker 1: which how wild that producer John brought us all Girl

739
00:36:39,080 --> 00:36:42,239
Speaker 1: Scout cookies. And then I pop up at Target and

740
00:36:42,400 --> 00:36:47,319
Speaker 1: Native body wash scented with Girl Scout cookies. If you

741
00:36:47,520 --> 00:36:49,959
Speaker 1: think I didn't buy one, you'd be dead wrong.

742
00:36:50,080 --> 00:36:54,440
Speaker 2: What scent? What sensema chocolate coconuts.

743
00:36:55,040 --> 00:36:57,960
Speaker 4: And it smells crazy collaboration. I never would have thought of.

744
00:36:57,920 --> 00:36:59,840
Speaker 1: That, you guys. It smells so good.

745
00:37:02,239 --> 00:37:04,160
Speaker 2: This is not an ad, right.

746
00:37:04,680 --> 00:37:07,080
Speaker 1: Do you guys think it's inappropriate to have sex while

747
00:37:07,080 --> 00:37:07,959
Speaker 1: I'm pregnant.

748
00:37:08,280 --> 00:37:10,880
Speaker 2: I think it is a must you have sex while pregnant.

749
00:37:10,920 --> 00:37:14,759
Speaker 2: And I'm not even kidding you.

750
00:37:14,800 --> 00:37:17,480
Speaker 1: Well, by the way, if you have never in your

751
00:37:17,520 --> 00:37:21,200
Speaker 1: life scene Jessica has seen it. What men who are

752
00:37:21,239 --> 00:37:24,880
Speaker 1: like so into sleeping with pregnant women. It's really funny.

753
00:37:25,640 --> 00:37:28,200
Speaker 1: It's almost like they're really in to like be the

754
00:37:28,239 --> 00:37:30,480
Speaker 1: baby daddy if they're not actually the baby.

755
00:37:30,560 --> 00:37:33,520
Speaker 2: No, Lala so in I'm not gonna name the name

756
00:37:33,600 --> 00:37:37,239
Speaker 2: right now, but yesterday someone, Hi.

757
00:37:37,000 --> 00:37:39,920
Speaker 1: Welcome back, Lee's. We just talked about target and Native

758
00:37:40,440 --> 00:37:43,560
Speaker 1: the cookies and the only reason why I'm wondering if

759
00:37:43,560 --> 00:37:45,960
Speaker 1: it's appropriate to and asking if it's appropriate to have

760
00:37:46,000 --> 00:37:46,960
Speaker 1: sex while I'm pregnant.

761
00:37:47,920 --> 00:37:48,640
Speaker 2: Do you think it is?

762
00:37:48,960 --> 00:37:49,640
Speaker 3: Absolutely?

763
00:37:49,800 --> 00:37:52,239
Speaker 2: I think it must, while I'm not kidding. And the

764
00:37:52,280 --> 00:37:56,840
Speaker 2: men that I've seen that are so wildly just yesterday,

765
00:37:56,840 --> 00:37:59,680
Speaker 2: wildly attracted to Just yesterday, someone who we both know

766
00:37:59,680 --> 00:38:02,319
Speaker 2: I won't name it here, we all know was I

767
00:38:02,440 --> 00:38:05,799
Speaker 2: was talking to him telling a story and he was distracted,

768
00:38:05,840 --> 00:38:07,560
Speaker 2: and I was like, and then in the middle of

769
00:38:07,560 --> 00:38:10,680
Speaker 2: my story, he goes, I cannot stop thinking thinking about

770
00:38:10,719 --> 00:38:13,520
Speaker 2: having sex with Lalla while she's pregnant, and I was

771
00:38:13,600 --> 00:38:16,799
Speaker 2: like and he and he was like, just I just

772
00:38:16,880 --> 00:38:18,200
Speaker 2: want her to use my body.

773
00:38:19,200 --> 00:38:22,680
Speaker 1: That's exactly what I would be doing, because I've been

774
00:38:22,880 --> 00:38:27,120
Speaker 1: pregnant before and around the five six month mark, no

775
00:38:27,200 --> 00:38:30,800
Speaker 1: one and no corner is safe because literally I remember

776
00:38:30,880 --> 00:38:34,399
Speaker 1: being like I could totally hump the side of that couch.

777
00:38:35,800 --> 00:38:39,160
Speaker 2: So you're like Max horny, and men are max horny

778
00:38:39,200 --> 00:38:40,480
Speaker 2: for you right now? It's wild.

779
00:38:40,880 --> 00:38:42,800
Speaker 1: This is such a fun conversation having in front of

780
00:38:42,800 --> 00:38:46,120
Speaker 1: my mom and my brother. Can I tell you, my baby?

781
00:38:46,520 --> 00:38:49,440
Speaker 3: Can I tell you something else here? You know what?

782
00:38:49,520 --> 00:38:50,760
Speaker 3: She could find a man tomorrow.

783
00:38:50,840 --> 00:38:54,600
Speaker 6: And I'm telling you she got a three page letter

784
00:38:54,760 --> 00:38:57,760
Speaker 6: from a guy that sent it to our.

785
00:38:57,800 --> 00:38:59,799
Speaker 1: Okay, I don't think anyone thinks I'm hard up for

786
00:38:59,880 --> 00:39:01,360
Speaker 1: me and you guys, maybe they do.

787
00:39:01,600 --> 00:39:08,719
Speaker 3: I don't know. But he was was he a good sell?

788
00:39:09,280 --> 00:39:11,359
Speaker 1: I didn't read it, did you, Lisa? I have it

789
00:39:11,360 --> 00:39:13,920
Speaker 1: by my nights. I'll read it. It's it's by my nightstand.

790
00:39:14,480 --> 00:39:23,280
Speaker 1: I've been really busy masturbating reading Ashley Flowers book.

791
00:39:23,640 --> 00:39:26,960
Speaker 6: No, she's been busy watching the stalkers that we have

792
00:39:27,000 --> 00:39:28,840
Speaker 6: in our neighborhood as we Oh yeah, let's.

793
00:39:28,719 --> 00:39:30,480
Speaker 1: Jump into that. Anyway, the only reason why I brought

794
00:39:30,560 --> 00:39:33,080
Speaker 1: up if it's appropriate to have sex while pregnant is

795
00:39:33,120 --> 00:39:37,719
Speaker 1: because this native uh Samoa's scented soap smells so good

796
00:39:37,760 --> 00:39:39,799
Speaker 1: that I feel like I need to lather myself in

797
00:39:39,840 --> 00:39:43,640
Speaker 1: it and then be on top of a man so

798
00:39:43,680 --> 00:39:48,640
Speaker 1: they can enjoy it. Anyway, moving on, yesterday, we're driving

799
00:39:49,040 --> 00:39:52,440
Speaker 1: to my house. Okay. Now, Los Angeles, just in general,

800
00:39:52,600 --> 00:39:56,200
Speaker 1: is like a hot spot for burglaries. Now, I went

801
00:39:56,320 --> 00:40:02,440
Speaker 1: to our neighborhood watch meeting and I learned that a

802
00:40:02,600 --> 00:40:07,800
Speaker 1: robbery is when someone like you feel a direct threat

803
00:40:07,880 --> 00:40:08,720
Speaker 1: from someone.

804
00:40:08,960 --> 00:40:11,000
Speaker 3: Okay, and they usually have a gun, don't they?

805
00:40:12,000 --> 00:40:15,399
Speaker 1: No, it could it could mean that's an armed robbery.

806
00:40:15,840 --> 00:40:18,840
Speaker 1: A robbery means just someone has approached you and your

807
00:40:18,960 --> 00:40:23,600
Speaker 1: your space is being threatened. Right, Oh Okay, Yes, a

808
00:40:23,600 --> 00:40:26,719
Speaker 1: burglary is where someone breaks into your home, breaks into

809
00:40:26,719 --> 00:40:30,839
Speaker 1: your car, whatever, and steals from you when you're not home. So, yes,

810
00:40:31,000 --> 00:40:35,520
Speaker 1: there are armed robberies and robberies happening. But the biggest

811
00:40:35,520 --> 00:40:38,040
Speaker 1: thing all over LA, does not matter where you live,

812
00:40:38,920 --> 00:40:42,560
Speaker 1: is burglaries. And they're happening at noon, They're happening at

813
00:40:42,560 --> 00:40:46,680
Speaker 1: seven thirty PM. They're happening bright and early in the morning,

814
00:40:47,200 --> 00:40:50,240
Speaker 1: just a chirpan. It doesn't break in, it does not matter.

815
00:40:50,760 --> 00:40:54,880
Speaker 1: And they are going straight to the primary bedrooms, cleaning

816
00:40:54,880 --> 00:40:57,960
Speaker 1: out the closets, and they're out within five to seven minutes.

817
00:40:58,080 --> 00:41:00,880
Speaker 3: Right, they're looking for designer bags and Jill correct.

818
00:41:01,520 --> 00:41:07,120
Speaker 1: So after the neighborhood watch meeting, we had two LAPD

819
00:41:07,400 --> 00:41:11,240
Speaker 1: and because of you know, the defunding of the police,

820
00:41:11,520 --> 00:41:13,640
Speaker 1: which I don't know if you're for or against, it

821
00:41:13,680 --> 00:41:17,839
Speaker 1: doesn't matter no matter what. LAPD is down over one

822
00:41:17,960 --> 00:41:23,239
Speaker 1: thousand officers and hundreds of dispatchers. Right, So are they

823
00:41:23,239 --> 00:41:26,239
Speaker 1: gonna go and respond to your designer bags that have

824
00:41:26,320 --> 00:41:28,480
Speaker 1: been stolen? Or are they gonna go to the person

825
00:41:28,520 --> 00:41:32,080
Speaker 1: who is a gunshot wound victim? Right? Right, They've got

826
00:41:32,120 --> 00:41:34,520
Speaker 1: to really narrow down what is the most important and

827
00:41:34,560 --> 00:41:39,120
Speaker 1: most life threatening. So they said, it's our responsibility to

828
00:41:39,200 --> 00:41:41,520
Speaker 1: keep a lookout in the neighborhood. And I don't think

829
00:41:41,520 --> 00:41:44,480
Speaker 1: the neighbor watch neighborhood watch, and I don't think they

830
00:41:44,560 --> 00:41:49,320
Speaker 1: knew the neighborhood when I arrived. But in a roundabout

831
00:41:49,320 --> 00:41:52,400
Speaker 1: way at this neighborhood watch, people were asking, you know,

832
00:41:52,719 --> 00:41:56,600
Speaker 1: the cop in a roundabout way, if someone breaks in,

833
00:41:56,600 --> 00:41:58,880
Speaker 1: can I shoot them? And in a roundabout way the

834
00:41:58,920 --> 00:42:03,120
Speaker 1: cop was talking about, So I said, what we're wondering,

835
00:42:03,320 --> 00:42:05,600
Speaker 1: if someone breaks in, can we pop that fool?

836
00:42:06,160 --> 00:42:11,800
Speaker 2: You said that, yeah, those words. She used the word okay, good, good, good,

837
00:42:12,040 --> 00:42:14,400
Speaker 2: because I didn't know what kind of neighborhood you live in.

838
00:42:14,440 --> 00:42:15,920
Speaker 2: It could have been like a one.

839
00:42:17,000 --> 00:42:20,920
Speaker 1: I think people were shocks. I think people were the

840
00:42:20,960 --> 00:42:24,080
Speaker 1: best neighbors. I got a few laughs, but then it

841
00:42:24,080 --> 00:42:24,680
Speaker 1: was an uproar.

842
00:42:24,960 --> 00:42:30,000
Speaker 2: Yeah them, Oh that's such a good feeling. Are you kidding?

843
00:42:30,400 --> 00:42:33,600
Speaker 1: And there's this eighty seven year old woman who got

844
00:42:33,640 --> 00:42:39,720
Speaker 1: broken into okay, and it was like midnight. She was home,

845
00:42:40,040 --> 00:42:42,000
Speaker 1: and she said she flipped on the light and locked

846
00:42:42,000 --> 00:42:43,600
Speaker 1: the door and that must have scared them, but she

847
00:42:43,640 --> 00:42:47,080
Speaker 1: didn't know. So the next day she enrolled herself in

848
00:42:47,280 --> 00:42:50,480
Speaker 1: the class right over, Please came right away because someone

849
00:42:50,560 --> 00:42:53,600
Speaker 1: was home. Now, if you're home and someone's in your home,

850
00:42:54,080 --> 00:42:55,120
Speaker 1: they're coming immediately.

851
00:42:55,160 --> 00:42:55,440
Speaker 3: Okay.

852
00:42:55,480 --> 00:42:57,960
Speaker 1: It's when you come home you say the windows broken

853
00:42:58,040 --> 00:43:00,120
Speaker 1: and my bags are all gone that it means take

854
00:43:00,160 --> 00:43:01,719
Speaker 1: a little bit of time. I call right now when

855
00:43:01,760 --> 00:43:04,040
Speaker 1: I say I'm home and someone just broken they're going

856
00:43:04,120 --> 00:43:07,160
Speaker 1: to be there like that, right, But she's talking to us.

857
00:43:07,160 --> 00:43:10,279
Speaker 1: It's after the neighborhood Watch meeting, and she goes, let

858
00:43:10,320 --> 00:43:12,960
Speaker 1: me tell you something. I have a gun.

859
00:43:13,040 --> 00:43:13,200
Speaker 2: Now.

860
00:43:13,520 --> 00:43:17,600
Speaker 1: The next person who breaks in, I'm shooting them dead. No,

861
00:43:18,000 --> 00:43:20,960
Speaker 1: is this a joke? You have to write a script

862
00:43:21,000 --> 00:43:22,320
Speaker 1: about it. I'm not joking.

863
00:43:22,360 --> 00:43:25,919
Speaker 3: But a TV neighborhood watch, you have every right.

864
00:43:26,440 --> 00:43:29,640
Speaker 2: Well well that's not true though. In California, you can

865
00:43:29,680 --> 00:43:30,760
Speaker 2: actually get arrested.

866
00:43:30,920 --> 00:43:35,200
Speaker 1: While these cops were actively talking to us about feel threatened,

867
00:43:35,400 --> 00:43:38,920
Speaker 1: if you feel threatened, if you feel threatened, yes, keep

868
00:43:38,960 --> 00:43:40,799
Speaker 1: in mind, y'all. I don't I don't need this to

869
00:43:40,840 --> 00:43:43,680
Speaker 1: be some political battle. This is just what happened at

870
00:43:43,680 --> 00:43:45,719
Speaker 1: the neighborhood Watch meeting. I'm not telling you all to

871
00:43:45,760 --> 00:43:46,440
Speaker 1: go buy guns.

872
00:43:46,440 --> 00:43:47,160
Speaker 4: That's not what.

873
00:43:47,120 --> 00:43:48,640
Speaker 3: I'm not telling people to shoot people.

874
00:43:48,680 --> 00:43:50,759
Speaker 1: And I'm not telling people. I'm just talking about a

875
00:43:50,840 --> 00:43:54,960
Speaker 1: story that happened with a group of people where multiple

876
00:43:55,400 --> 00:43:59,640
Speaker 1: uh burglaries had happened in a short period of time

877
00:44:00,280 --> 00:44:03,719
Speaker 1: and the neighborhood's freaked down. But anyway, I'm driving down. Well,

878
00:44:03,719 --> 00:44:05,359
Speaker 1: we got ten minutes. I'm gonna get through it. I'm

879
00:44:05,440 --> 00:44:08,200
Speaker 1: driving down our street. I see two cars. Keep in mind,

880
00:44:08,239 --> 00:44:14,000
Speaker 1: they usually rent nice cars to fill for meal. We

881
00:44:14,120 --> 00:44:18,680
Speaker 1: drive by, they're outside smoking outside of their cars, nobody

882
00:44:19,080 --> 00:44:22,279
Speaker 1: Mercedes and a Honda. And I'm like, I don't like this.

883
00:44:22,520 --> 00:44:24,279
Speaker 1: There's something because like, what are you doing. I don't

884
00:44:24,320 --> 00:44:25,680
Speaker 1: understand why you're just camped out here.

885
00:44:25,760 --> 00:44:27,279
Speaker 3: Well, and they were zeroed in on that.

886
00:44:27,440 --> 00:44:28,759
Speaker 1: They were honed in on us. So I said, you

887
00:44:28,800 --> 00:44:29,960
Speaker 1: know what, I'm going to take a lap in the

888
00:44:29,960 --> 00:44:31,480
Speaker 1: car and I'm going to drive back past because I

889
00:44:31,480 --> 00:44:33,399
Speaker 1: want to see if there's license plates. Because the cop said,

890
00:44:33,400 --> 00:44:35,359
Speaker 1: if there's no license plates on the cars, you need

891
00:44:35,360 --> 00:44:38,560
Speaker 1: to call us immediately. Oh, I drive past license plates

892
00:44:38,560 --> 00:44:41,080
Speaker 1: on both the cars. So I flip back around and

893
00:44:41,120 --> 00:44:44,680
Speaker 1: go back to my house. Now they're laser focused on me,

894
00:44:45,440 --> 00:44:50,640
Speaker 1: laser laser focused for a few minutes. I get out

895
00:44:50,640 --> 00:44:53,759
Speaker 1: of the car. He's watching my every move along with her.

896
00:44:54,480 --> 00:44:57,080
Speaker 1: She gets into his car. They take off, leave the

897
00:44:57,080 --> 00:45:01,560
Speaker 1: Honda behind. Okay, so I'm now warning the neighborhood because

898
00:45:01,560 --> 00:45:07,600
Speaker 1: again there's been burglaries. And they I also call ADT.

899
00:45:07,840 --> 00:45:09,759
Speaker 1: I said, I because I pay for this service where

900
00:45:09,760 --> 00:45:10,799
Speaker 1: I can just have them do.

901
00:45:10,840 --> 00:45:13,080
Speaker 3: Laps, and this is an hour and a half they've

902
00:45:13,120 --> 00:45:13,600
Speaker 3: been sitting there.

903
00:45:13,640 --> 00:45:15,040
Speaker 1: They've been there an hour and a half. By the

904
00:45:15,040 --> 00:45:16,600
Speaker 1: time they jump in the car and leave, it was

905
00:45:16,640 --> 00:45:18,480
Speaker 1: an hour and a half that I had been toying

906
00:45:18,520 --> 00:45:22,680
Speaker 1: back and forth with what to do. So ADYT makes

907
00:45:22,719 --> 00:45:27,000
Speaker 1: a few laps. They pull back up like ten minutes

908
00:45:27,080 --> 00:45:29,719
Speaker 1: later in the Mercedes, and they're now closer to my

909
00:45:29,800 --> 00:45:32,759
Speaker 1: house and they're just sitting out there for I want

910
00:45:32,800 --> 00:45:36,640
Speaker 1: to say, another ten minutes. Then they take off again.

911
00:45:36,880 --> 00:45:38,520
Speaker 1: So I'm like, I want to see if they're like,

912
00:45:38,680 --> 00:45:40,920
Speaker 1: like where they're going. So I do another lap and

913
00:45:40,960 --> 00:45:44,040
Speaker 1: they're parked around the corner, just sitting there. So now

914
00:45:44,080 --> 00:45:47,200
Speaker 1: I'm feeling like very, very threatened. It was almost like,

915
00:45:47,400 --> 00:45:50,760
Speaker 1: have you guys seen Griselda. No, by the way, nothing

916
00:45:50,800 --> 00:45:54,120
Speaker 1: happens in this story, okay, except for me turning into

917
00:45:54,160 --> 00:45:57,640
Speaker 1: Griselda after she took ahead of the crack Packe, which

918
00:45:57,680 --> 00:46:01,120
Speaker 1: was what paranoid beyond paranoid. Every one is here to

919
00:46:01,360 --> 00:46:05,839
Speaker 1: rob me, burglarize me, kill my dogs, and I'm not

920
00:46:05,880 --> 00:46:06,600
Speaker 1: playing around.

921
00:46:06,880 --> 00:46:08,879
Speaker 2: Let me ask a question. So you're in your car,

922
00:46:08,960 --> 00:46:10,719
Speaker 2: you don't get in your driveway and go into the house,

923
00:46:10,800 --> 00:46:11,839
Speaker 2: right she does?

924
00:46:12,160 --> 00:46:15,120
Speaker 1: Because oh, I'm watching them.

925
00:46:15,239 --> 00:46:18,080
Speaker 2: Is there a chance you are both neighborhood watching each other?

926
00:46:18,320 --> 00:46:21,320
Speaker 1: Absolutely not, okay, because that's.

927
00:46:21,760 --> 00:46:25,279
Speaker 6: Because in the meantime, I took our pit bulls on

928
00:46:25,320 --> 00:46:27,839
Speaker 6: a walk because they needed their nightly walk and walk

929
00:46:27,880 --> 00:46:30,440
Speaker 6: by him and they were laser focused on me. And

930
00:46:30,480 --> 00:46:34,319
Speaker 6: then I took Lily because Lily needed her walk. And

931
00:46:34,440 --> 00:46:37,720
Speaker 6: my neighbor who's the president of the neighborhood watch, yes,

932
00:46:37,920 --> 00:46:38,920
Speaker 6: joined me in the walk.

933
00:46:39,400 --> 00:46:44,759
Speaker 1: Mmmm, because I warned her, the president of her she

934
00:46:44,960 --> 00:46:47,759
Speaker 1: is a badasso.

935
00:46:47,200 --> 00:46:48,800
Speaker 3: And we got license plates.

936
00:46:49,040 --> 00:46:51,399
Speaker 1: Yes, dead we dead, you did.

937
00:46:51,960 --> 00:46:54,280
Speaker 2: I don't love you walking alone with Lily.

938
00:46:54,440 --> 00:46:59,840
Speaker 3: My dogs would never let anybody Lily. Yeah, Lily, someone

939
00:47:00,040 --> 00:47:00,640
Speaker 3: threatens me.

940
00:47:00,680 --> 00:47:05,360
Speaker 6: Those dogs are, but Lily.

941
00:47:03,719 --> 00:47:05,960
Speaker 3: Lily more aggressive than the others.

942
00:47:06,200 --> 00:47:09,319
Speaker 1: Really, strangers will tear you up from head to toe.

943
00:47:09,440 --> 00:47:10,440
Speaker 2: Really oh good.

944
00:47:10,640 --> 00:47:14,160
Speaker 1: Yeah, Like, I'm actually a little bit more nervous about

945
00:47:14,440 --> 00:47:17,840
Speaker 1: people coming in when Lily's there than the pits because

946
00:47:17,920 --> 00:47:23,879
Speaker 1: now because now Lily and she does not have time,

947
00:47:24,320 --> 00:47:27,880
Speaker 1: but she's moving and if you mess around like she's

948
00:47:28,080 --> 00:47:30,240
Speaker 1: she's snarling. Yeah, it's very strange.

949
00:47:30,280 --> 00:47:36,479
Speaker 6: But the other day pitties wouldn't let him them let

950
00:47:36,560 --> 00:47:37,160
Speaker 6: him enter.

951
00:47:38,040 --> 00:47:42,799
Speaker 1: They were like and I did. I did ask the cops.

952
00:47:43,040 --> 00:47:46,800
Speaker 1: I said, is it a deterrent for people to break

953
00:47:46,840 --> 00:47:50,439
Speaker 1: in if you have dogs? And he did say yes.

954
00:47:50,600 --> 00:47:53,840
Speaker 1: He was like, most of the time, these people want

955
00:47:54,360 --> 00:47:57,520
Speaker 1: easy access. They want they don't want anything to keep

956
00:47:57,560 --> 00:48:00,560
Speaker 1: them from being in and out in less than ten minutes.

957
00:48:00,680 --> 00:48:02,319
Speaker 3: They don't want a confrontation, and they.

958
00:48:02,239 --> 00:48:05,319
Speaker 1: Don't want confrontation at all, because if there is a

959
00:48:05,360 --> 00:48:09,799
Speaker 1: confrontation and you actually get caught, I mean, you could

960
00:48:09,840 --> 00:48:12,080
Speaker 1: serve like real prison time, you know, whereas if you

961
00:48:12,200 --> 00:48:15,920
Speaker 1: just steal stuff, it's like a way less or sentence,

962
00:48:16,000 --> 00:48:18,440
Speaker 1: And because our jails are so crowded, it's like we'll

963
00:48:18,520 --> 00:48:21,759
Speaker 1: put you on probation. Don't do it again. Yeah, you're

964
00:48:21,800 --> 00:48:23,480
Speaker 1: just out here like living the dream again.

965
00:48:23,680 --> 00:48:24,040
Speaker 3: Yeah.

966
00:48:24,120 --> 00:48:25,799
Speaker 1: Yeah, robbing people.

967
00:48:25,520 --> 00:48:27,920
Speaker 2: Blind, robbing people blind.

968
00:48:28,120 --> 00:48:28,640
Speaker 3: Yeah.

969
00:48:28,800 --> 00:48:31,879
Speaker 1: My neighbor found all her stuff on eBay stop it

970
00:48:32,280 --> 00:48:33,640
Speaker 1: certainly does she buy it back?

971
00:48:34,080 --> 00:48:34,879
Speaker 3: They're working on.

972
00:48:35,080 --> 00:48:38,920
Speaker 5: Well, because you have when you put it on you

973
00:48:38,960 --> 00:48:40,719
Speaker 5: have to create an account, so they'll find out who

974
00:48:40,760 --> 00:48:43,319
Speaker 5: that account, who is selling the bag, and hopefully trace

975
00:48:43,360 --> 00:48:44,680
Speaker 5: it back to like a VPN.

976
00:48:45,000 --> 00:48:47,360
Speaker 2: Well, you guys know our friend Kevin, this was on TMC,

977
00:48:47,480 --> 00:48:50,360
Speaker 2: so I can say it over Christmas got robbed.

978
00:48:50,400 --> 00:48:55,640
Speaker 1: That's what I'm telling you, because it's everywhere. It does

979
00:48:55,719 --> 00:48:59,160
Speaker 1: not matter where you live in La right now, like

980
00:48:59,360 --> 00:49:00,520
Speaker 1: you better be up.

981
00:49:00,800 --> 00:49:03,040
Speaker 2: Yeah, And the guy wore his Nike Air Force ones

982
00:49:03,080 --> 00:49:04,719
Speaker 2: out of the house, and so now we keep a

983
00:49:04,760 --> 00:49:06,200
Speaker 2: lookout for any guy.

984
00:49:06,440 --> 00:49:09,600
Speaker 1: With the white Nikes to tell that's gonna be hard

985
00:49:09,680 --> 00:49:13,600
Speaker 1: because every man and woman and even their dogs are

986
00:49:13,600 --> 00:49:17,520
Speaker 1: in night. I think Ocean has a pair of she's

987
00:49:17,560 --> 00:49:18,680
Speaker 1: she's the suspect at.

988
00:49:18,640 --> 00:49:21,680
Speaker 2: Large, same size speed as Kevin.

989
00:49:21,760 --> 00:49:22,320
Speaker 4: Just kidd.

990
00:49:23,920 --> 00:49:27,720
Speaker 1: Just be aware of your surroundings, be around, be aware

991
00:49:27,719 --> 00:49:31,480
Speaker 1: of your surroundings. But I did when I was, When

992
00:49:31,520 --> 00:49:34,399
Speaker 1: I was peeking over the fence and everything, I was like, wow,

993
00:49:34,480 --> 00:49:35,840
Speaker 1: this is what paranoia feels like.

994
00:49:36,360 --> 00:49:37,719
Speaker 4: Is alone?

995
00:49:37,920 --> 00:49:40,040
Speaker 1: No, I wouldn't. They were moving and I'd be like,

996
00:49:40,400 --> 00:49:42,839
Speaker 1: I need to check if they're here still, And I'd

997
00:49:42,840 --> 00:49:46,280
Speaker 1: go out there in my flannel pajama's hair a hot mess,

998
00:49:46,880 --> 00:49:48,560
Speaker 1: just letting them know, marching out.

999
00:49:49,400 --> 00:49:52,480
Speaker 6: But you know what those are, the thieves. They are

1000
00:49:52,600 --> 00:49:56,160
Speaker 6: casing homes. They are casing if they knew in the

1001
00:49:56,160 --> 00:50:00,480
Speaker 6: neighborhood who was home, who wasn't keep your keep your eyes, yeah,

1002
00:50:01,400 --> 00:50:02,480
Speaker 6: thank god, for you guys.

1003
00:50:02,640 --> 00:50:04,319
Speaker 3: We have somebody at the house right now.

1004
00:50:04,360 --> 00:50:06,040
Speaker 4: We always do. Oh, I don't leave.

1005
00:50:06,239 --> 00:50:11,920
Speaker 1: No, the house stays ud film, stocked with people, dogs,

1006
00:50:12,000 --> 00:50:13,640
Speaker 1: and eighty t security.

1007
00:50:13,160 --> 00:50:15,440
Speaker 2: Cameras are everywhere. Let me tell you there's nowhere you

1008
00:50:15,440 --> 00:50:16,640
Speaker 2: can be in the house where you're not going to

1009
00:50:16,680 --> 00:50:17,400
Speaker 2: be fully caught on.

1010
00:50:17,600 --> 00:50:20,040
Speaker 1: I got really lucky that that came with the house. Anyway,

1011
00:50:20,080 --> 00:50:23,520
Speaker 1: you guys, what an interesting podcast talks about pregnancy, Grizzel

1012
00:50:23,719 --> 00:50:26,200
Speaker 1: taking ahead of crack. Are we ach and relieving or no,

1013
00:50:26,440 --> 00:50:29,600
Speaker 1: let's ache and relief, Ach and relief starting us off?

1014
00:50:29,840 --> 00:50:30,080
Speaker 4: Mom?

1015
00:50:30,120 --> 00:50:31,240
Speaker 1: Do you want to do ach and relief?

1016
00:50:31,280 --> 00:50:35,040
Speaker 6: I think Eastern and I have the same relief in

1017
00:50:35,080 --> 00:50:41,480
Speaker 6: that Governor Cox of Utah signed into order no more No,

1018
00:50:41,480 --> 00:50:43,480
Speaker 6: no more kill shelters.

1019
00:50:43,480 --> 00:50:51,200
Speaker 3: They're all no kill shelters. Governor Cox star.

1020
00:50:51,480 --> 00:50:53,680
Speaker 1: Governor Cox is a rock star. And you know what,

1021
00:50:53,800 --> 00:50:57,200
Speaker 1: I really really love when I see Utah making the

1022
00:50:57,239 --> 00:51:02,160
Speaker 1: first move or the first you know, even with the

1023
00:51:02,400 --> 00:51:05,640
Speaker 1: gay marriage sign off, we were one of the first states.

1024
00:51:05,760 --> 00:51:07,640
Speaker 1: So when people make fun of Utah, I can make

1025
00:51:07,640 --> 00:51:10,160
Speaker 1: fun of it because I'm from there, right. I can

1026
00:51:10,200 --> 00:51:12,560
Speaker 1: make fun of my brother because he's my brother. But

1027
00:51:12,600 --> 00:51:14,640
Speaker 1: when other people do. I'm like, let me break something

1028
00:51:14,680 --> 00:51:18,440
Speaker 1: down for you. That is the bomb. So I appreciate

1029
00:51:18,480 --> 00:51:20,759
Speaker 1: that being Yeah, you're relief.

1030
00:51:20,880 --> 00:51:24,000
Speaker 6: Yeah, they're all no kills, so that's amazing, applaud we

1031
00:51:24,040 --> 00:51:24,440
Speaker 6: already did.

1032
00:51:24,520 --> 00:51:29,000
Speaker 5: But and my ache is all the other shelters that

1033
00:51:29,200 --> 00:51:30,960
Speaker 5: haven't followed to Yes.

1034
00:51:30,960 --> 00:51:33,160
Speaker 3: Yes, that is part of it.

1035
00:51:35,000 --> 00:51:37,880
Speaker 6: The thieves everywhere that are thieves.

1036
00:51:37,960 --> 00:51:41,720
Speaker 1: Yeah, you know what I say, Mom, we're like fifty

1037
00:51:41,800 --> 00:51:44,600
Speaker 1: cent I protect what I've got. I'm in the house

1038
00:51:44,680 --> 00:51:48,760
Speaker 1: of my blade. Okay, but really just a lot of pimbles.

1039
00:51:49,160 --> 00:51:50,840
Speaker 4: But did you have a blade? Though?

1040
00:51:51,560 --> 00:51:56,279
Speaker 1: I do in my butcher's knife.

1041
00:51:56,880 --> 00:51:57,200
Speaker 3: I do.

1042
00:51:57,400 --> 00:51:59,040
Speaker 1: I inherited a machete from my grandpa.

1043
00:51:59,200 --> 00:51:59,759
Speaker 3: Anyway, I not.

1044
00:52:00,760 --> 00:52:07,160
Speaker 1: Well, you're like, okay, what's your age?

1045
00:52:09,920 --> 00:52:12,360
Speaker 4: Everybody else falls shelters?

1046
00:52:12,640 --> 00:52:15,239
Speaker 2: I agree, Okay, I'm going to tie this back into

1047
00:52:15,239 --> 00:52:17,680
Speaker 2: the beginning of the episode. My ache and relief is

1048
00:52:17,719 --> 00:52:20,240
Speaker 2: the same. My relief is that I know the gender

1049
00:52:20,280 --> 00:52:23,360
Speaker 2: of Lalla's baby. My ache is that the gender reveal

1050
00:52:23,400 --> 00:52:27,000
Speaker 2: can't come soon enough. But that's okay, I'm I know.

1051
00:52:28,160 --> 00:52:34,640
Speaker 1: My My ache of the week is honestly just that

1052
00:52:34,760 --> 00:52:37,920
Speaker 1: I I was nauseous again, and I haven't been nauseous

1053
00:52:37,920 --> 00:52:39,920
Speaker 1: really since I came out of my first trimester. That

1054
00:52:40,000 --> 00:52:42,040
Speaker 1: was a real buzzkill and just like throwing up the

1055
00:52:42,040 --> 00:52:44,640
Speaker 1: in and out, that wasn't exactly ideal for the week,

1056
00:52:44,840 --> 00:52:47,640
Speaker 1: but whatever, we should get off. My relief is that

1057
00:52:47,719 --> 00:52:53,279
Speaker 1: my TV is hung in my bedroom now, so I'm

1058
00:52:53,320 --> 00:52:57,560
Speaker 1: feeling very cozy. I can watch Seinfeld before bed. Me

1059
00:52:57,640 --> 00:53:01,240
Speaker 1: and my womb really appreciate a good Seinfeld episode before

1060
00:53:01,280 --> 00:53:01,919
Speaker 1: we go to bed.

1061
00:53:02,120 --> 00:53:04,520
Speaker 2: She'll say, me and my womb, but not with child,

1062
00:53:04,680 --> 00:53:06,359
Speaker 2: you know, me and my womb.

1063
00:53:08,560 --> 00:53:10,759
Speaker 4: Lay, Me and.

1064
00:53:10,719 --> 00:53:13,160
Speaker 1: My Me and my unborn child really enjoy a nice

1065
00:53:13,239 --> 00:53:17,320
Speaker 1: chuckle before you. Guys, thank you so much for listening

1066
00:53:17,320 --> 00:53:22,279
Speaker 1: to another another episode of the Give Them Lalla podcast.

1067
00:53:22,440 --> 00:53:27,880
Speaker 1: Remember we have bonus episodes every Monday. Audio and video

1068
00:53:28,000 --> 00:53:30,760
Speaker 1: drop the same day and you can watch this video

1069
00:53:30,880 --> 00:53:33,759
Speaker 1: on YouTube for this episode on Friday at nine am

1070
00:53:33,800 --> 00:53:36,200
Speaker 1: Pacific time. Thank you, I love you, Happy home Day.

1071
00:53:36,320 --> 00:53:37,080
Speaker 1: Catch you next week.