1 00:00:00,240 --> 00:00:03,080 Speaker 1: All right, It's not often that you get to have 2 00:00:03,160 --> 00:00:09,880 Speaker 1: somebody come on your show that literally is exploding in 3 00:00:09,960 --> 00:00:13,440 Speaker 1: an industry in a way that might not be the 4 00:00:13,440 --> 00:00:18,239 Speaker 1: most conventional approach. And this is what one of my 5 00:00:18,320 --> 00:00:23,360 Speaker 1: favorite comments from watching Mike's stuff on TikTok and Instagram 6 00:00:23,480 --> 00:00:26,720 Speaker 1: is I hate the fitness industry. 7 00:00:28,000 --> 00:00:28,600 Speaker 2: Like Mike. 8 00:00:28,680 --> 00:00:32,560 Speaker 1: When when I find that in so many your videos, dude, 9 00:00:32,600 --> 00:00:35,280 Speaker 1: I'm like, this is the guy I'm gonna listen to. 10 00:00:35,560 --> 00:00:38,600 Speaker 2: This is the guy that I want to understand. 11 00:00:38,680 --> 00:00:41,720 Speaker 1: And so, you know, getting the fact that you took 12 00:00:41,760 --> 00:00:44,120 Speaker 1: time out of your insane schedule, you're telling us what 13 00:00:44,159 --> 00:00:46,080 Speaker 1: you had going on to come on to our show 14 00:00:46,120 --> 00:00:49,360 Speaker 1: and chat with us not only about the fitness industry, 15 00:00:49,400 --> 00:00:52,040 Speaker 1: but the most important thing for me and I hope 16 00:00:52,040 --> 00:00:56,000 Speaker 1: we really dig into this is inspiring young men to 17 00:00:56,080 --> 00:00:58,920 Speaker 1: get off their asses and change their lives, for sure. 18 00:00:59,120 --> 00:01:01,760 Speaker 2: So thank you so much for coming on, brother. 19 00:01:02,040 --> 00:01:03,800 Speaker 3: No, it's truly an honor. 20 00:01:03,920 --> 00:01:07,240 Speaker 4: I was stoked that Buck connected us and started doing 21 00:01:07,240 --> 00:01:10,600 Speaker 4: some research on you and your background. Appreciate everything you've 22 00:01:10,640 --> 00:01:14,000 Speaker 4: done in your past and your history, and I'm excited 23 00:01:14,000 --> 00:01:16,920 Speaker 4: to hopefully create as much value as I can and 24 00:01:16,959 --> 00:01:20,039 Speaker 4: if just one person takes just one thing from this conversation, 25 00:01:20,120 --> 00:01:21,800 Speaker 4: at least on my end, it'll all be worth it. 26 00:01:26,800 --> 00:01:29,720 Speaker 1: Well, i'll tell you what, just before we even started, Geordie, 27 00:01:29,959 --> 00:01:33,399 Speaker 1: who's a fitness I mean, he's still grinding hard at 28 00:01:33,400 --> 00:01:36,400 Speaker 1: his age, and we we talked automatically about. 29 00:01:37,760 --> 00:01:39,920 Speaker 2: Loading up on your dose on creatine. 30 00:01:40,040 --> 00:01:44,479 Speaker 1: So I think that's one of the benchmark topics right now, 31 00:01:44,520 --> 00:01:47,640 Speaker 1: that one of the things that's infused into everybody's daily routine. 32 00:01:47,640 --> 00:01:51,960 Speaker 1: So let's just start with something viable like that. What 33 00:01:52,120 --> 00:01:54,480 Speaker 1: talk about the new science that popped and what are 34 00:01:54,520 --> 00:01:55,280 Speaker 1: your thoughts on it? 35 00:01:55,880 --> 00:01:56,280 Speaker 3: Yeah? 36 00:01:56,360 --> 00:02:00,880 Speaker 4: Yeah, I am often anti supplement as they are meant 37 00:02:00,880 --> 00:02:03,720 Speaker 4: to supplement an already healthy lifestyle, and I think people 38 00:02:03,760 --> 00:02:06,600 Speaker 4: try to use them as one of the, as doctor 39 00:02:06,640 --> 00:02:09,360 Speaker 4: Lane Norton calls it so beautifully, the big rocks of 40 00:02:09,400 --> 00:02:11,880 Speaker 4: their health, because you have big rocks and small rocks. 41 00:02:11,919 --> 00:02:15,560 Speaker 4: Your big rocks are obviously we know your sleep, your training, 42 00:02:15,639 --> 00:02:18,520 Speaker 4: your nutrition, and your recovery and anything that recovery looks 43 00:02:18,560 --> 00:02:21,640 Speaker 4: like for you. Anything outside of that is truly a 44 00:02:21,680 --> 00:02:26,360 Speaker 4: small rock. Supplementation meal timing. But that being said, there 45 00:02:26,360 --> 00:02:29,400 Speaker 4: are a few key supplements that I think are dare 46 00:02:29,440 --> 00:02:33,280 Speaker 4: I say critical, but definitely pertinent. If you're not looking 47 00:02:33,320 --> 00:02:35,840 Speaker 4: to just be practical, but you are truly trying to 48 00:02:35,840 --> 00:02:37,400 Speaker 4: take it to an optimal level, there are things you 49 00:02:37,440 --> 00:02:38,120 Speaker 4: can do to give. 50 00:02:38,000 --> 00:02:41,000 Speaker 3: You an edge. And creatine is absolutely a staple for me. 51 00:02:41,120 --> 00:02:44,760 Speaker 4: Not only is it the most well researched performance supplement 52 00:02:44,840 --> 00:02:48,079 Speaker 4: in history as far as exercise goes, there are thousands 53 00:02:48,400 --> 00:02:50,480 Speaker 4: of pieces of peer reviewed literature on it. It's been 54 00:02:50,480 --> 00:02:54,359 Speaker 4: studied for fifty years, and it is shown time and 55 00:02:54,440 --> 00:02:57,720 Speaker 4: time again that in the gym, if you take creatine 56 00:02:58,240 --> 00:03:00,480 Speaker 4: on average, unless you're a non responder, you are going 57 00:03:00,520 --> 00:03:04,160 Speaker 4: to increase your ability for force output. And what that 58 00:03:04,200 --> 00:03:06,320 Speaker 4: translates to in plain English is if I can move 59 00:03:06,360 --> 00:03:09,760 Speaker 4: more weight over time because I'm stronger on creatine, I'm 60 00:03:09,760 --> 00:03:12,680 Speaker 4: probably going to build more muscle over time. And muscle 61 00:03:12,840 --> 00:03:15,639 Speaker 4: is the organ of longevity. If we have more muscle 62 00:03:15,639 --> 00:03:18,359 Speaker 4: on our frames, we are less likely to die from 63 00:03:18,360 --> 00:03:22,480 Speaker 4: any of the great all cause mortality risks, heart disease, diabetes, cancer, stroke, 64 00:03:22,960 --> 00:03:28,160 Speaker 4: and it increases our survivability of everything by massive percentage 65 00:03:28,200 --> 00:03:30,600 Speaker 4: points if we just have lean tissue on our bodies. 66 00:03:30,639 --> 00:03:32,960 Speaker 4: But to your point, the new literature that's come out 67 00:03:33,280 --> 00:03:34,280 Speaker 4: is really interesting. 68 00:03:34,600 --> 00:03:35,600 Speaker 3: They're starting to look at. 69 00:03:35,480 --> 00:03:38,680 Speaker 4: Creatine not just as an exercise performance supplement, but as 70 00:03:38,720 --> 00:03:42,840 Speaker 4: a cognitive ability and longevity supplement. There is a study 71 00:03:42,880 --> 00:03:47,040 Speaker 4: done that basically stated overall after twenty four hours of 72 00:03:47,240 --> 00:03:50,040 Speaker 4: moderate to severe sleep deprivation, and I think the parameter 73 00:03:50,280 --> 00:03:52,560 Speaker 4: was five hours or less, which I know. 74 00:03:52,640 --> 00:03:54,560 Speaker 3: You know what it feels like to operate. 75 00:03:54,920 --> 00:03:58,680 Speaker 2: Sleep deprived my whole life. I've been sleep deprived all week, 76 00:03:58,800 --> 00:03:59,120 Speaker 2: damn it. 77 00:04:00,840 --> 00:04:02,520 Speaker 3: It's my baseline sometimes too. 78 00:04:02,720 --> 00:04:05,400 Speaker 4: And I know that with your background and seal training 79 00:04:05,400 --> 00:04:07,320 Speaker 4: and everything that they operate, I'm trying to get you 80 00:04:07,360 --> 00:04:12,360 Speaker 4: to perform in a deprived state. And they did a 81 00:04:12,360 --> 00:04:16,560 Speaker 4: study on creatine that showed a mega dose can actually 82 00:04:16,640 --> 00:04:21,560 Speaker 4: offset sleep deprivation in what they called activities that strained 83 00:04:21,600 --> 00:04:23,920 Speaker 4: the prefrontal cortex, or the things that require a lot 84 00:04:23,960 --> 00:04:27,920 Speaker 4: of thinking and brain power, if you will. And anecdotally 85 00:04:28,000 --> 00:04:30,240 Speaker 4: I've noticed that I told you guys, I'm a little 86 00:04:30,240 --> 00:04:32,559 Speaker 4: bit sleep deprived. I was out late last night, probably 87 00:04:32,600 --> 00:04:34,840 Speaker 4: got five and a half six hours of sleep, and 88 00:04:34,920 --> 00:04:37,520 Speaker 4: so I took which the follow up question a listener 89 00:04:37,600 --> 00:04:39,920 Speaker 4: might have is how much is a mega dose? I 90 00:04:39,960 --> 00:04:43,560 Speaker 4: took about four times the standard dose, so five to 91 00:04:43,600 --> 00:04:47,400 Speaker 4: ten grams is typically what most people take for exercise performance. 92 00:04:47,800 --> 00:04:51,200 Speaker 4: The formal dosage is zero point one grams per kilogram 93 00:04:51,200 --> 00:04:53,960 Speaker 4: of lean mass, so I'm about ninety kilos, so I 94 00:04:54,000 --> 00:04:56,080 Speaker 4: just take ten grams a day. I took twenty or 95 00:04:56,120 --> 00:04:58,960 Speaker 4: twenty five before this episode because I want to be 96 00:04:58,960 --> 00:05:01,679 Speaker 4: sharp and I love it. But for the average person, 97 00:05:01,800 --> 00:05:05,000 Speaker 4: five to ten grams a day is plenty effective. It's 98 00:05:05,040 --> 00:05:07,640 Speaker 4: the cheapest supplement you can buy. It also happens to 99 00:05:07,680 --> 00:05:09,400 Speaker 4: be one of the most effective. So I love that, 100 00:05:09,920 --> 00:05:12,280 Speaker 4: and I'm a huge proponent of that, as well as 101 00:05:12,560 --> 00:05:15,680 Speaker 4: a daily magnesium supplement and a vitamin D supplement because 102 00:05:15,680 --> 00:05:18,279 Speaker 4: of the amount of Americans that are deficient in those 103 00:05:18,480 --> 00:05:19,640 Speaker 4: minerals and vitaments. 104 00:05:21,080 --> 00:05:25,599 Speaker 1: I love that you drill down Almost all of the 105 00:05:25,680 --> 00:05:28,599 Speaker 1: videos that I watch, you drill it down to the 106 00:05:28,640 --> 00:05:31,960 Speaker 1: regular person, not the person that's doing two hours in 107 00:05:32,000 --> 00:05:35,440 Speaker 1: the morning, two hours in the afternoon, engaged in trying 108 00:05:35,480 --> 00:05:41,120 Speaker 1: to do, you know, national level high rock competitions, whatever 109 00:05:41,200 --> 00:05:44,560 Speaker 1: those ultra performance levels are. You really pushing it towards 110 00:05:45,080 --> 00:05:47,520 Speaker 1: those young men out there, young women out there that 111 00:05:47,600 --> 00:05:50,880 Speaker 1: are trying to figure out how to improve that self. 112 00:05:50,640 --> 00:05:52,200 Speaker 2: Esteem and self worth. 113 00:05:52,800 --> 00:05:54,520 Speaker 1: One of the things that one of the videos that 114 00:05:55,000 --> 00:05:57,880 Speaker 1: really caught my attention recently that you were posted was 115 00:05:57,960 --> 00:06:02,479 Speaker 1: your video about nicotine, right, because I think creatine is 116 00:06:02,520 --> 00:06:05,600 Speaker 1: also you know, I think it's an absolute in anybody 117 00:06:05,600 --> 00:06:10,280 Speaker 1: who's paying attention whatsoever. But there's also this fad, this 118 00:06:10,560 --> 00:06:14,560 Speaker 1: craziness of nicotine. I mean, I travel the country, you know, 119 00:06:14,640 --> 00:06:17,039 Speaker 1: the country. Every week, I'm out on the road, and 120 00:06:17,040 --> 00:06:20,200 Speaker 1: I'm with these young wholesalers, and like you said, man, 121 00:06:20,279 --> 00:06:22,760 Speaker 1: some of these guys are going through a whole tin 122 00:06:22,880 --> 00:06:26,760 Speaker 1: of nicotine a day. What are some of the negative 123 00:06:26,760 --> 00:06:29,760 Speaker 1: effects that you were talking about from too much nicotine? 124 00:06:29,800 --> 00:06:34,440 Speaker 1: Because I liked where we were within the cognitive enhancement abilities, 125 00:06:34,440 --> 00:06:36,440 Speaker 1: and so I'd like to just float around that for 126 00:06:36,440 --> 00:06:38,320 Speaker 1: a little bit and then we'll go to something else. 127 00:06:38,839 --> 00:06:41,440 Speaker 4: Yeah, I think it's important when you're diving into this. 128 00:06:41,440 --> 00:06:45,960 Speaker 4: There's a lot of nuance and ambiguity within nicotine, but 129 00:06:46,040 --> 00:06:48,520 Speaker 4: also in the class of supplements that it falls under, 130 00:06:48,560 --> 00:06:51,920 Speaker 4: which is neotropics. And I love nootropics. Nootropics, for those 131 00:06:51,920 --> 00:06:55,240 Speaker 4: who don't know, are brain boosting compounds. They are compounds 132 00:06:55,240 --> 00:07:00,320 Speaker 4: that have been shown in studies to improve reaction time, mentalkatuity, 133 00:07:00,760 --> 00:07:03,520 Speaker 4: and overall focus and mental clarity. And there's a ton 134 00:07:03,560 --> 00:07:06,480 Speaker 4: of them. There's caffeine is a nootropic. It's the most 135 00:07:06,520 --> 00:07:09,039 Speaker 4: common nootropic, but people don't know that it is a drug. 136 00:07:09,080 --> 00:07:12,640 Speaker 4: But it is also a nootropic. We have lines made mushroom, ginko, 137 00:07:12,680 --> 00:07:16,240 Speaker 4: biloba alpha GPC. There's this whole class of supplements that 138 00:07:16,280 --> 00:07:18,640 Speaker 4: people play with and they are fun. I've experimented with 139 00:07:19,000 --> 00:07:22,160 Speaker 4: all different kinds of nootropic supplements and I love them. 140 00:07:22,560 --> 00:07:25,920 Speaker 4: Nicotine in and of itself, isolated as a chemical, is 141 00:07:26,080 --> 00:07:28,240 Speaker 4: a drug, but it is a nootropic. It has been 142 00:07:28,280 --> 00:07:32,400 Speaker 4: shown to boost mental acuity and energy. And one thing 143 00:07:32,440 --> 00:07:34,440 Speaker 4: I want to highlight is in that video I very 144 00:07:34,480 --> 00:07:37,160 Speaker 4: clearly wrote in the caption but did not state my 145 00:07:37,240 --> 00:07:43,880 Speaker 4: opinion on daily, habitual nicotine usage, not the occasional nootropic boost. 146 00:07:44,360 --> 00:07:47,360 Speaker 4: There are some titans in the space who promote nicotine. 147 00:07:47,360 --> 00:07:50,600 Speaker 4: Doctor Peter Attia, Andrew Huberman. They've talked about it and 148 00:07:50,640 --> 00:07:54,720 Speaker 4: it works. And the downside for me and you talk 149 00:07:54,760 --> 00:07:57,600 Speaker 4: about empowering young people, young men and young women, is 150 00:07:58,360 --> 00:08:01,360 Speaker 4: it's the concept and principle of having a vice and 151 00:08:01,440 --> 00:08:04,280 Speaker 4: really weighing the pros versus the cons. You know, if 152 00:08:04,320 --> 00:08:05,680 Speaker 4: you want to get dialed in, you've got a big 153 00:08:05,720 --> 00:08:07,760 Speaker 4: conversation or a big podcast, you want to do something 154 00:08:07,800 --> 00:08:11,760 Speaker 4: cognitively demanding, and you throw a zin in and that's 155 00:08:11,800 --> 00:08:15,320 Speaker 4: like once a week for you. Fine, all things in moderation. 156 00:08:16,000 --> 00:08:19,080 Speaker 4: The vehicle also matters. I am not talking about smoking 157 00:08:19,120 --> 00:08:23,400 Speaker 4: a cigarette before a big meeting. I'm not talking about 158 00:08:23,520 --> 00:08:25,680 Speaker 4: I'm not sparking up a Marlborough light before I go 159 00:08:25,720 --> 00:08:28,360 Speaker 4: into a podcast, and I'm not throwing in a big 160 00:08:28,360 --> 00:08:33,520 Speaker 4: old lip a grizzly long cut, because tobacco is highly carcinogenic. 161 00:08:34,440 --> 00:08:38,520 Speaker 1: Can I just interject at my height, I was doing 162 00:08:38,559 --> 00:08:42,320 Speaker 1: about two tins of Copenhagen a day and smoking and 163 00:08:42,400 --> 00:08:47,200 Speaker 1: pack of unfiltered Lucky Strikes, and my final day was 164 00:08:48,040 --> 00:08:51,680 Speaker 1: July fourth, two thousand and three, and man, as soon 165 00:08:51,679 --> 00:08:54,319 Speaker 1: as I went away from it, everything started to improve 166 00:08:54,400 --> 00:08:57,400 Speaker 1: for me. So that's my little sidebar on that, because 167 00:08:57,440 --> 00:09:02,199 Speaker 1: when it does overwhelm you, it becomes incredibly destructive. 168 00:09:02,679 --> 00:09:05,360 Speaker 4: Yeah, well, congratulations on quitting, because it's something a lot 169 00:09:05,400 --> 00:09:07,040 Speaker 4: of people say they could do any day and never 170 00:09:07,120 --> 00:09:11,040 Speaker 4: actually do. And it's stuff like that, right, the cigarettes 171 00:09:11,040 --> 00:09:14,720 Speaker 4: and the nicotine or the dip they cause cancer. Nicotine 172 00:09:14,800 --> 00:09:19,320 Speaker 4: isolated doesn't seem to do that. Now here's just to 173 00:09:19,320 --> 00:09:21,360 Speaker 4: get really plain and simple on it, the pros and 174 00:09:21,400 --> 00:09:23,800 Speaker 4: the cons. Yes, it can boost mental acuity. I have 175 00:09:23,960 --> 00:09:27,280 Speaker 4: used it to do that and it works. Sometimes it 176 00:09:27,320 --> 00:09:29,800 Speaker 4: can cause nausea or cold sweats, or you feel a 177 00:09:29,800 --> 00:09:33,320 Speaker 4: little lightheaded and dizzy, but ultimately it's the principle of 178 00:09:34,000 --> 00:09:35,599 Speaker 4: I don't want to go through my day, and I 179 00:09:35,640 --> 00:09:38,000 Speaker 4: don't want people to go through their day feeling like 180 00:09:38,080 --> 00:09:41,280 Speaker 4: they have to depend on some substance outside of themselves. 181 00:09:41,640 --> 00:09:44,000 Speaker 4: And that's what people were. It's almost in the comments 182 00:09:44,040 --> 00:09:46,720 Speaker 4: of that video I just posted, people like, well I 183 00:09:46,760 --> 00:09:49,839 Speaker 4: can't enjoy anything, I can't have anything. It's like, well, 184 00:09:49,920 --> 00:09:52,000 Speaker 4: I mean, have you tried enjoying life sober in your 185 00:09:52,000 --> 00:09:58,120 Speaker 4: present mind? Revolutionary take, I know, but it's are people 186 00:09:58,200 --> 00:10:01,400 Speaker 4: are chasing dopamine and they'll go through any route, modicum 187 00:10:01,480 --> 00:10:03,800 Speaker 4: or vehicle to get to it. And so I just 188 00:10:03,840 --> 00:10:06,040 Speaker 4: want to make my stance clear. It seems to have 189 00:10:06,080 --> 00:10:09,520 Speaker 4: benefits cognitively. It can be fun to use in that state, 190 00:10:09,559 --> 00:10:11,640 Speaker 4: but you need to be mindful of your vices and 191 00:10:11,679 --> 00:10:14,360 Speaker 4: the principle of I don't want a substance to have 192 00:10:14,400 --> 00:10:16,840 Speaker 4: a power over me. That's the point I was trying 193 00:10:16,880 --> 00:10:17,160 Speaker 4: to make. 194 00:10:18,559 --> 00:10:21,719 Speaker 1: And that's my favorite aspect of how you frame these arguments. Right. 195 00:10:21,800 --> 00:10:27,120 Speaker 2: It's it's you know, it's that higher up wellness. 196 00:10:27,200 --> 00:10:31,280 Speaker 1: Right, it's what takes, what goes just beyond the superficial 197 00:10:31,320 --> 00:10:35,520 Speaker 1: aspects of a particular sub element of a particular exercise, 198 00:10:35,880 --> 00:10:37,959 Speaker 1: of a particular skill set. 199 00:10:38,040 --> 00:10:39,000 Speaker 2: Right, whatever that. 200 00:10:39,000 --> 00:10:43,960 Speaker 1: Is in terms of health, what are the contextual Maybe 201 00:10:44,000 --> 00:10:47,720 Speaker 1: obligations is too strong that human beings need to integrate 202 00:10:47,800 --> 00:10:54,000 Speaker 1: into how they view performance. Right. You know, I think, 203 00:10:54,440 --> 00:10:57,000 Speaker 1: you know, as you talked about, the one I think 204 00:10:57,040 --> 00:10:58,120 Speaker 1: that just popped in my head. 205 00:10:58,040 --> 00:10:59,280 Speaker 2: Was the idea of dopamine. 206 00:10:59,520 --> 00:11:06,120 Speaker 1: Right. And obviously your success is a residual of that 207 00:11:06,480 --> 00:11:11,520 Speaker 1: uh particular uh uh insatiable appetite for dopamine. Right. And 208 00:11:11,520 --> 00:11:14,839 Speaker 1: and you're earning, you know, you're you're you're living by 209 00:11:15,040 --> 00:11:18,520 Speaker 1: by influencing people at a very large scale, two million 210 00:11:18,559 --> 00:11:22,240 Speaker 1: plus followers across all platforms, your podcasts you you had 211 00:11:22,240 --> 00:11:25,840 Speaker 1: said recently was doing over one hundred thousand downloads a month, 212 00:11:25,920 --> 00:11:28,600 Speaker 1: you know, per per week or per month, forget what 213 00:11:28,640 --> 00:11:31,000 Speaker 1: it was per week I thought it was and and 214 00:11:31,080 --> 00:11:33,960 Speaker 1: you know, you're you're just getting bigger and bigger. And 215 00:11:34,040 --> 00:11:36,120 Speaker 1: so the question I have for you as a as 216 00:11:36,160 --> 00:11:42,319 Speaker 1: a person who's always evaluating these input impacts is is 217 00:11:43,160 --> 00:11:48,920 Speaker 1: the correlation to dopamine in your life? Are you cognizant 218 00:11:49,520 --> 00:11:54,200 Speaker 1: of of that reaction in your own what is the 219 00:11:54,280 --> 00:11:56,000 Speaker 1: what's the best way to say it? In your own 220 00:11:56,160 --> 00:12:00,000 Speaker 1: state of execution, right in your own state of delivery? 221 00:12:00,840 --> 00:12:02,760 Speaker 1: Are you also cognizant? 222 00:12:02,800 --> 00:12:05,920 Speaker 2: Oh? Man, I'm doing the same thing in what I'm 223 00:12:05,960 --> 00:12:06,720 Speaker 2: doing right now. 224 00:12:07,400 --> 00:12:07,600 Speaker 3: Yeah. 225 00:12:07,640 --> 00:12:11,880 Speaker 4: I love this question because I always say getting fit 226 00:12:12,080 --> 00:12:16,600 Speaker 4: is not about suffering, It's about raising your awareness. I 227 00:12:16,640 --> 00:12:20,160 Speaker 4: think that's across all platforms of life. If you have 228 00:12:20,320 --> 00:12:24,360 Speaker 4: the awareness to know all I'm chasing and most of 229 00:12:24,400 --> 00:12:27,760 Speaker 4: my life is dopamine, then I know there are cheap 230 00:12:27,800 --> 00:12:30,160 Speaker 4: ways to get that dopamine, and there are expensive ways 231 00:12:30,240 --> 00:12:32,560 Speaker 4: to get that dopamine. A cheap way to get that 232 00:12:32,600 --> 00:12:34,440 Speaker 4: dopamine is to hop on my phone and scroll for 233 00:12:34,440 --> 00:12:37,640 Speaker 4: an hour, or you know, with someone like me with 234 00:12:37,720 --> 00:12:39,720 Speaker 4: my social media, I can open it up and it's 235 00:12:39,960 --> 00:12:43,520 Speaker 4: ninety nine plus one hundred plus and they use certain 236 00:12:43,600 --> 00:12:47,600 Speaker 4: colors to grab your eyes and just hijack your brain chemistry. 237 00:12:47,800 --> 00:12:49,640 Speaker 4: I'm aware of that, and I'm not going to sit 238 00:12:49,679 --> 00:12:51,880 Speaker 4: here and say it doesn't feel good to see the 239 00:12:51,960 --> 00:12:55,040 Speaker 4: followers exploding in a video go viral. It does feel 240 00:12:55,040 --> 00:12:58,240 Speaker 4: good because it is engineered to make us feel good, 241 00:12:58,720 --> 00:12:59,079 Speaker 4: and so. 242 00:12:59,240 --> 00:13:01,200 Speaker 3: I have I have rules in place. 243 00:13:01,240 --> 00:13:03,360 Speaker 4: I have principles in place about my screen time, and 244 00:13:03,400 --> 00:13:04,560 Speaker 4: I don't always follow it. 245 00:13:04,600 --> 00:13:07,080 Speaker 3: I fall short. I'll catch myself scrolling. 246 00:13:06,760 --> 00:13:08,439 Speaker 4: For an hour and a half, pissing away an afternoon 247 00:13:08,520 --> 00:13:12,600 Speaker 4: wondering what the fuck I'm doing. But I know if 248 00:13:12,600 --> 00:13:15,480 Speaker 4: I'm chasing dopamine and I get to the root, which 249 00:13:15,559 --> 00:13:16,800 Speaker 4: is what do I want to feel right now? 250 00:13:16,800 --> 00:13:17,679 Speaker 3: I want to feel good. 251 00:13:18,200 --> 00:13:21,640 Speaker 4: I'm going to invest in an expensive route to get there, 252 00:13:22,040 --> 00:13:23,960 Speaker 4: and it's not going to be scrolling or junk food. 253 00:13:23,960 --> 00:13:25,480 Speaker 4: It's going to be you know, before the show, I 254 00:13:25,520 --> 00:13:27,439 Speaker 4: hopped in the ice bath. I did two minutes in 255 00:13:27,480 --> 00:13:30,000 Speaker 4: the ice bath on my patio out there. Sucks while 256 00:13:30,000 --> 00:13:32,760 Speaker 4: you're doing it, but I know it elevates dopamine circulation 257 00:13:32,800 --> 00:13:34,600 Speaker 4: by up to two hundred and fifty percent. 258 00:13:34,400 --> 00:13:36,320 Speaker 3: And that's sustained for hours. 259 00:13:36,960 --> 00:13:39,600 Speaker 4: I can do a hard training session, or go on 260 00:13:39,640 --> 00:13:41,880 Speaker 4: a long hike, or spend time with loved ones, and 261 00:13:41,920 --> 00:13:45,080 Speaker 4: you get that same neurotransmitter through a different route and 262 00:13:45,080 --> 00:13:47,560 Speaker 4: it ultimately feels better. It does feel better, it's just 263 00:13:47,559 --> 00:13:50,199 Speaker 4: more difficult to get to. So I am aware of. 264 00:13:50,160 --> 00:13:52,360 Speaker 3: It, and sometimes I do fall victim to it. I 265 00:13:52,400 --> 00:13:53,240 Speaker 3: am not perfect. 266 00:13:53,960 --> 00:13:57,720 Speaker 4: And when I catch myself, the difference is I catch 267 00:13:57,760 --> 00:14:00,960 Speaker 4: myself and I pull myself off the phone outside, go 268 00:14:01,040 --> 00:14:03,280 Speaker 4: for a walk in the sunshine with no headphones, go train, 269 00:14:03,640 --> 00:14:05,800 Speaker 4: hop in the sauna or the cold plunge, and I 270 00:14:05,840 --> 00:14:08,520 Speaker 4: get my dopamine from those more expensive vehicles. 271 00:14:08,520 --> 00:14:10,480 Speaker 3: If you will see that. 272 00:14:10,640 --> 00:14:14,360 Speaker 2: That's the other aspect that I love about your stuff is. 273 00:14:15,000 --> 00:14:18,040 Speaker 1: And you know, my favorite ones are when you talk 274 00:14:18,080 --> 00:14:20,680 Speaker 1: about your hangover cures. I'm gonna I'm gonna make my 275 00:14:20,760 --> 00:14:23,480 Speaker 1: hangover food in the house some you know, you know, 276 00:14:23,520 --> 00:14:25,240 Speaker 1: I went out last night, but this is how I'm 277 00:14:25,240 --> 00:14:25,720 Speaker 1: gonna get. 278 00:14:25,640 --> 00:14:26,200 Speaker 3: Through it today. 279 00:14:26,280 --> 00:14:29,600 Speaker 1: And and you're just there's an honesty in your approach 280 00:14:29,680 --> 00:14:32,600 Speaker 1: that's that's tangible for the app for most people. 281 00:14:33,200 --> 00:14:35,600 Speaker 2: And so as as you began. 282 00:14:35,440 --> 00:14:38,640 Speaker 1: This journey, you know, and you're starting, you're thinking about 283 00:14:38,720 --> 00:14:43,040 Speaker 1: that that that elevated approach, right, because you know you 284 00:14:43,080 --> 00:14:47,400 Speaker 1: talk to this about people you know fifty five and above. 285 00:14:48,240 --> 00:14:50,120 Speaker 1: You know they look at you like, what I have 286 00:14:50,200 --> 00:14:53,400 Speaker 1: to get in an ice bath? I have to take creating, 287 00:14:53,560 --> 00:14:55,840 Speaker 1: I have to you know, and they're like, what the hell? 288 00:14:55,920 --> 00:14:59,760 Speaker 1: But the younger generation certainly knows it now. I mean 289 00:15:00,000 --> 00:15:02,720 Speaker 1: they've been on TikTok long enough, they've been on Instagram 290 00:15:02,720 --> 00:15:05,320 Speaker 1: long enough, most of them through their whole lives. 291 00:15:06,000 --> 00:15:09,680 Speaker 2: How do they as you were getting going, how did 292 00:15:09,720 --> 00:15:13,680 Speaker 2: you know how what was going to emerge? 293 00:15:14,160 --> 00:15:14,280 Speaker 3: Like? 294 00:15:14,320 --> 00:15:17,440 Speaker 2: How did you how did you know you were to 295 00:15:17,520 --> 00:15:20,320 Speaker 2: find your own space, to find your own niche? 296 00:15:20,320 --> 00:15:25,160 Speaker 1: If you will, pardon the interruption, but we have to 297 00:15:25,200 --> 00:15:29,680 Speaker 1: give credence where credence is due. If you're interested in 298 00:15:29,760 --> 00:15:33,680 Speaker 1: spicing up your your food, what you eat, your eggs, 299 00:15:33,720 --> 00:15:38,680 Speaker 1: your steak, whatever it might be, then please consider Firecracker Farms, 300 00:15:39,320 --> 00:15:43,200 Speaker 1: a family owned business run by my good friend Alex, 301 00:15:43,360 --> 00:15:47,720 Speaker 1: producing pepper and fuse salt out of a really cool 302 00:15:47,760 --> 00:15:51,440 Speaker 1: salt shaker. I'll tell you what, ever, since I've gotten 303 00:15:51,480 --> 00:15:54,480 Speaker 1: this product, it has completely enhanced. 304 00:15:54,200 --> 00:15:57,640 Speaker 2: All of my dining dining needs. 305 00:15:58,320 --> 00:16:03,560 Speaker 1: So please visit firecrackerm type in rot fifteen. That's Romeo 306 00:16:03,720 --> 00:16:12,360 Speaker 1: uniform Tango won five for your discount Firecracker Farms. 307 00:16:13,880 --> 00:16:16,880 Speaker 4: Honestly, David, I think I've thought a lot about this 308 00:16:17,880 --> 00:16:21,640 Speaker 4: because there was a time when this was really I mean, 309 00:16:21,680 --> 00:16:25,840 Speaker 4: it's still growing fast, but it started to grow really quickly. 310 00:16:25,960 --> 00:16:27,840 Speaker 4: I was very fortunate to not have to be the 311 00:16:27,880 --> 00:16:30,720 Speaker 4: creator that grinded for six months to get his first 312 00:16:30,800 --> 00:16:31,200 Speaker 4: ten K. 313 00:16:31,360 --> 00:16:34,080 Speaker 3: My third video ever did a million and a half views, 314 00:16:34,200 --> 00:16:36,880 Speaker 3: and that that's so awesome got me to ten thousand 315 00:16:36,880 --> 00:16:41,400 Speaker 3: followers overnight, and it was from there it continued to 316 00:16:41,480 --> 00:16:45,120 Speaker 3: just steadily blow up. And I've dived into this a lot, 317 00:16:45,160 --> 00:16:46,880 Speaker 3: and people were asking me how do I grow my 318 00:16:46,920 --> 00:16:47,560 Speaker 3: social media? 319 00:16:47,600 --> 00:16:49,800 Speaker 4: What are the strategies, what are the tips? And the 320 00:16:49,840 --> 00:16:51,680 Speaker 4: truth was I didn't know. I didn't know what was 321 00:16:51,720 --> 00:16:54,600 Speaker 4: going on. And I think a huge component of this 322 00:16:54,840 --> 00:16:57,680 Speaker 4: is that God has blessed me with the opportunity to 323 00:16:58,000 --> 00:17:01,200 Speaker 4: step into what I think my God ordained purpose might be, 324 00:17:01,280 --> 00:17:03,160 Speaker 4: which is to help people. I don't know exactly with 325 00:17:03,240 --> 00:17:06,600 Speaker 4: what yet, I don't know exactly how, but I don't 326 00:17:06,600 --> 00:17:08,760 Speaker 4: have a fear to start, so I'm able to figure 327 00:17:08,800 --> 00:17:11,040 Speaker 4: it out through just stepping on one stone at a time, 328 00:17:11,480 --> 00:17:14,359 Speaker 4: and the stones are the videos. I'll make videos about 329 00:17:14,400 --> 00:17:16,080 Speaker 4: one thing it doesn't do well, or I'm not fired 330 00:17:16,160 --> 00:17:18,919 Speaker 4: up about it. Okay, let's pivot a little bit. So 331 00:17:19,359 --> 00:17:20,919 Speaker 4: I think a lot of it is God's grace. I 332 00:17:20,920 --> 00:17:24,000 Speaker 4: truly do, because some of the metrics and the stats 333 00:17:24,000 --> 00:17:27,120 Speaker 4: and the timelines aren't conventional in terms of I didn't 334 00:17:27,160 --> 00:17:29,879 Speaker 4: really have to wait. So ultimately it came down to 335 00:17:30,359 --> 00:17:34,160 Speaker 4: God blessing me and looking back on my life making 336 00:17:34,160 --> 00:17:36,439 Speaker 4: me so hyperfixated on taking care of myself. In the 337 00:17:36,480 --> 00:17:39,000 Speaker 4: thousands of hours of podcasts I listened to in research, 338 00:17:39,400 --> 00:17:41,040 Speaker 4: I wondered why I was so obsessed with it, and 339 00:17:41,080 --> 00:17:43,440 Speaker 4: it got me to this point right here. It all 340 00:17:43,480 --> 00:17:47,720 Speaker 4: built to this, and so dare I say one hundred 341 00:17:47,720 --> 00:17:50,240 Speaker 4: percent of it is God's grace and his blessing all 342 00:17:50,280 --> 00:17:52,679 Speaker 4: my life and what he wants me to do. But 343 00:17:53,000 --> 00:17:56,720 Speaker 4: it also comes down to the fact that I now know, 344 00:17:56,880 --> 00:17:59,760 Speaker 4: looking at it from a more analytical perspective, what I 345 00:17:59,840 --> 00:18:03,760 Speaker 4: was unconsciously doing and now am consciously doing is just 346 00:18:03,800 --> 00:18:07,960 Speaker 4: practicing radical authenticity. That was the boiling point for me 347 00:18:08,119 --> 00:18:10,320 Speaker 4: was I said I hate the fitness industry because I do. 348 00:18:10,920 --> 00:18:13,639 Speaker 4: I think a lot of people are putting on a facade. 349 00:18:13,680 --> 00:18:17,119 Speaker 4: They're wearing a mask which ultimately has no longevity. You 350 00:18:17,160 --> 00:18:19,359 Speaker 4: can't do that forever because it's fucking exhausting to be 351 00:18:19,400 --> 00:18:24,000 Speaker 4: an actor. And I want people to know what I 352 00:18:24,040 --> 00:18:27,639 Speaker 4: once thought was that getting an even pretty elite shape 353 00:18:27,680 --> 00:18:30,960 Speaker 4: compared to the average person is actually not in what 354 00:18:31,000 --> 00:18:33,399 Speaker 4: these crazy fitness influencers are doing every day with their 355 00:18:33,440 --> 00:18:36,680 Speaker 4: biohacking routines. I enjoy doing those things, but you don't 356 00:18:36,680 --> 00:18:40,000 Speaker 4: have to. If you just walked outside twice a day 357 00:18:40,000 --> 00:18:42,960 Speaker 4: for half an hour, or walked after every meal, got 358 00:18:43,000 --> 00:18:45,960 Speaker 4: off your phone an hour earlier, and ate eighty to 359 00:18:46,040 --> 00:18:48,960 Speaker 4: ninety percent food that grew in the ground, grew on 360 00:18:49,000 --> 00:18:50,960 Speaker 4: a tree, or had a mom and dad close to 361 00:18:51,040 --> 00:18:53,960 Speaker 4: source of the earth, your life would be Every part 362 00:18:54,000 --> 00:18:57,160 Speaker 4: of your life would be dramatically different. And a lot 363 00:18:57,200 --> 00:19:01,040 Speaker 4: of people lose sight of those big rocks in fitness 364 00:19:01,080 --> 00:19:05,000 Speaker 4: because of creators talking about ice baths and supplements and 365 00:19:05,040 --> 00:19:09,640 Speaker 4: meal timing and protein frequency and all this bullshit that just, frankly, 366 00:19:09,680 --> 00:19:11,439 Speaker 4: if you're not trying to win the Olympia or be 367 00:19:11,480 --> 00:19:14,400 Speaker 4: a CrossFit Games World champion, it doesn't fucking matter. 368 00:19:14,520 --> 00:19:17,280 Speaker 3: It just doesn't. And if you do, it doesn't. 369 00:19:17,320 --> 00:19:20,000 Speaker 4: And if you can just embody the one percent rule 370 00:19:20,480 --> 00:19:23,520 Speaker 4: every single day of just doing this much to get better, 371 00:19:24,000 --> 00:19:27,119 Speaker 4: that will compound and it will work like compound interest 372 00:19:27,160 --> 00:19:29,520 Speaker 4: over the course of months or years. But it's very 373 00:19:29,520 --> 00:19:32,920 Speaker 4: hard for the average person to conceptualize on marginal return 374 00:19:32,960 --> 00:19:33,520 Speaker 4: over years. 375 00:19:34,880 --> 00:19:36,280 Speaker 2: I feel the same way about it. 376 00:19:36,320 --> 00:19:39,560 Speaker 1: I mean, from the first time I got into doing 377 00:19:39,600 --> 00:19:43,439 Speaker 1: this type of thing back in six it was like 378 00:19:43,840 --> 00:19:46,600 Speaker 1: every the idea was like, all right, do I have 379 00:19:46,640 --> 00:19:49,920 Speaker 1: to mimic what a Navy seal does to be an 380 00:19:49,920 --> 00:19:50,840 Speaker 1: elite performer? 381 00:19:50,880 --> 00:19:53,280 Speaker 2: And I was like, God, I fucking hope you don't. 382 00:19:55,800 --> 00:19:57,400 Speaker 2: I was like, if you want to. 383 00:19:57,359 --> 00:20:01,919 Speaker 1: Turn into you know, human being that only thinks about 384 00:20:01,960 --> 00:20:06,119 Speaker 1: the destruction of other life forces, and you're somewhat sociopathic 385 00:20:06,160 --> 00:20:09,840 Speaker 1: in nature, and you have a really bad drinking problem, 386 00:20:10,119 --> 00:20:12,719 Speaker 1: then and yeah, let's go for it now, you know, 387 00:20:12,800 --> 00:20:15,720 Speaker 1: get here's the hose and here's the ice, and you know, 388 00:20:15,720 --> 00:20:18,560 Speaker 1: I'm going to beat the snot out of you for for. 389 00:20:18,440 --> 00:20:19,359 Speaker 2: Eight months straight. 390 00:20:19,520 --> 00:20:23,000 Speaker 1: And and it was like, man like, it was confusing 391 00:20:23,160 --> 00:20:28,240 Speaker 1: to me that that's somehow that had that's what emerged. 392 00:20:28,240 --> 00:20:31,520 Speaker 1: And then god, you know, posts the binladen rate. It 393 00:20:31,640 --> 00:20:35,120 Speaker 1: turned into an epidemic. 394 00:20:34,520 --> 00:20:37,399 Speaker 2: Of of what of of. 395 00:20:38,320 --> 00:20:42,320 Speaker 1: Contorting the underlying components of what it's all about, right, 396 00:20:42,400 --> 00:20:46,520 Speaker 1: which is, you know, young men deciding, Hey, I want 397 00:20:46,560 --> 00:20:49,600 Speaker 1: to do something that's bigger than myself, and I'm willing 398 00:20:49,680 --> 00:20:53,040 Speaker 1: to expose myself to the thousands, if not tens of thousands, 399 00:20:53,119 --> 00:20:55,360 Speaker 1: if not hundreds of thousands of little things I got 400 00:20:55,400 --> 00:20:56,520 Speaker 1: to do every day to get there. 401 00:20:57,280 --> 00:20:58,240 Speaker 2: And and and. 402 00:20:58,359 --> 00:21:02,920 Speaker 1: I think you're approach of breaking it down in that 403 00:21:03,119 --> 00:21:10,480 Speaker 1: level without it being correlated to some personal record, man, 404 00:21:10,840 --> 00:21:12,959 Speaker 1: is really unique. 405 00:21:13,520 --> 00:21:13,800 Speaker 3: Uh. 406 00:21:13,840 --> 00:21:16,919 Speaker 1: And then the sarcasm. I'm always a sucker for sarcasm. 407 00:21:16,960 --> 00:21:20,000 Speaker 1: I mean, I just if I hear a sarcasm person online, 408 00:21:20,040 --> 00:21:22,760 Speaker 1: I'm like, and I'm like, that's a dude. 409 00:21:22,960 --> 00:21:24,480 Speaker 2: So that would buck send me to stuff? 410 00:21:24,520 --> 00:21:26,280 Speaker 1: I was like, Oh, I love this guy already, so 411 00:21:26,800 --> 00:21:30,760 Speaker 1: tell me you know again, you you it happened really quickly. 412 00:21:30,840 --> 00:21:34,840 Speaker 1: Now you're settling in obviously. I mean, And what I 413 00:21:34,880 --> 00:21:38,000 Speaker 1: love is it's it's not just fitness, it's not just health. 414 00:21:38,040 --> 00:21:41,640 Speaker 1: It's not just nutrition and sleep and metrics. Man, I'm 415 00:21:41,800 --> 00:21:45,800 Speaker 1: I'm listening to you talk about sales calls. I'm listening 416 00:21:45,840 --> 00:21:48,760 Speaker 1: to you talk about public speaking. I'm listening to talk 417 00:21:48,880 --> 00:21:53,280 Speaker 1: to you talking about how much you hate Celtic Sea 418 00:21:53,280 --> 00:21:58,320 Speaker 1: Salt right, you know, is it are you realizing now 419 00:21:59,680 --> 00:22:03,360 Speaker 1: that the the ideas are why people are there, not 420 00:22:03,480 --> 00:22:04,359 Speaker 1: just the fitness. 421 00:22:04,440 --> 00:22:06,399 Speaker 2: I mean, that's and that's a hard. 422 00:22:06,200 --> 00:22:11,760 Speaker 1: Place, right when people realize, Man, the spectrum of what 423 00:22:11,800 --> 00:22:14,639 Speaker 1: people like cause And again I'm going all over the 424 00:22:14,640 --> 00:22:15,480 Speaker 1: place an apologists. 425 00:22:15,480 --> 00:22:16,840 Speaker 2: But so what I do when I ask questions? 426 00:22:17,359 --> 00:22:21,720 Speaker 1: When I started to like get out there a little 427 00:22:21,800 --> 00:22:25,440 Speaker 1: bit more, and it wasn't only about all right, how 428 00:22:25,440 --> 00:22:27,240 Speaker 1: do I perform under pressure? 429 00:22:27,960 --> 00:22:28,520 Speaker 2: Under fire? 430 00:22:28,640 --> 00:22:32,200 Speaker 1: That was always the question, right, how do I execute 431 00:22:32,240 --> 00:22:35,240 Speaker 1: when the world is caving in around me? But then 432 00:22:35,280 --> 00:22:38,440 Speaker 1: it was like, hey, man, I'm really struggling as a 433 00:22:38,520 --> 00:22:42,200 Speaker 1: dad or I'm really struggling, and man, for years I 434 00:22:42,240 --> 00:22:46,159 Speaker 1: was just like, I'm not I'm not qualified to answer that. 435 00:22:46,480 --> 00:22:50,479 Speaker 1: I don't know, you know, how are you processing that? 436 00:22:51,680 --> 00:22:53,840 Speaker 1: Because it is happening so fast for you. 437 00:22:56,720 --> 00:23:00,879 Speaker 4: I really think that the most valuable piece of advice 438 00:23:00,960 --> 00:23:04,560 Speaker 4: I ever received through I think it was a TikTok. 439 00:23:04,240 --> 00:23:07,000 Speaker 3: Video was you are the niche. 440 00:23:07,840 --> 00:23:10,639 Speaker 4: It's not the fitness content And this was just this 441 00:23:10,760 --> 00:23:14,800 Speaker 4: was a creator talking to other creators, and I again 442 00:23:14,840 --> 00:23:16,800 Speaker 4: feel that God's grace on my life has allowed me 443 00:23:16,840 --> 00:23:20,800 Speaker 4: to embody these things that I think are simple to implement. 444 00:23:21,440 --> 00:23:24,000 Speaker 4: But people continue to ask me, how do I get 445 00:23:24,040 --> 00:23:25,720 Speaker 4: out of my own way? And I say, well, the 446 00:23:25,720 --> 00:23:27,560 Speaker 4: answer is in the question. You get out of your 447 00:23:27,560 --> 00:23:30,440 Speaker 4: own way? How do I not care about what people think? 448 00:23:30,480 --> 00:23:34,960 Speaker 4: You stop caring? And I think because God pushed me 449 00:23:34,960 --> 00:23:36,840 Speaker 4: onto this route, of this path of helping people in 450 00:23:36,840 --> 00:23:40,080 Speaker 4: some way. I'm looking back on all my experiences of 451 00:23:40,240 --> 00:23:42,280 Speaker 4: being in a sales program in college, to B to 452 00:23:42,320 --> 00:23:45,480 Speaker 4: B corporate sales, to years of sales training, and it's 453 00:23:45,520 --> 00:23:47,600 Speaker 4: all playing into what I'm doing now in my content, 454 00:23:47,640 --> 00:23:49,440 Speaker 4: and I'm just not afraid to talk about the things 455 00:23:49,440 --> 00:23:49,960 Speaker 4: that I love. 456 00:23:50,320 --> 00:23:53,359 Speaker 3: And the things that I love are sales, they are fitness, They. 457 00:23:53,240 --> 00:23:56,880 Speaker 4: Are public speaking communication, and how the baseline, the root 458 00:23:56,920 --> 00:24:00,080 Speaker 4: and foundation of physical fitness is the launching path for 459 00:24:00,160 --> 00:24:03,160 Speaker 4: all of it. That's that's how higher up wellness was born. 460 00:24:03,440 --> 00:24:06,520 Speaker 4: I was in a business school learning. I loved business, 461 00:24:06,760 --> 00:24:09,480 Speaker 4: was really good at the course work and understood and 462 00:24:09,480 --> 00:24:12,080 Speaker 4: it fired me up to learn what made businesses and 463 00:24:12,080 --> 00:24:14,960 Speaker 4: business owners tick. But I also loved how I showed 464 00:24:15,040 --> 00:24:17,840 Speaker 4: up when I was sleeping, eating and training well. I 465 00:24:17,840 --> 00:24:19,920 Speaker 4: felt like I could answer questions more quickly and into 466 00:24:19,960 --> 00:24:22,640 Speaker 4: the end of the office. In corporate world, sales calls 467 00:24:22,640 --> 00:24:24,720 Speaker 4: went better. When I was dialed in on my food 468 00:24:24,760 --> 00:24:28,880 Speaker 4: and my training and my sleep, opportunities started to arise. 469 00:24:29,280 --> 00:24:30,560 Speaker 4: People treated me differently. 470 00:24:30,560 --> 00:24:30,720 Speaker 3: You know. 471 00:24:30,760 --> 00:24:34,040 Speaker 4: I worked at a five hundred person family owned business 472 00:24:34,080 --> 00:24:36,520 Speaker 4: where I was the youngest guy on the floor by 473 00:24:36,600 --> 00:24:37,840 Speaker 4: like twenty five years. 474 00:24:38,240 --> 00:24:38,560 Speaker 3: Wow. 475 00:24:38,800 --> 00:24:41,359 Speaker 4: So in a world where agism is very real in 476 00:24:41,400 --> 00:24:43,680 Speaker 4: the corporate world, what do you know, You're just a greenhorn? 477 00:24:43,720 --> 00:24:44,360 Speaker 3: You just got here. 478 00:24:45,000 --> 00:24:46,560 Speaker 2: Drives me nuts. 479 00:24:46,359 --> 00:24:47,560 Speaker 3: It's the worst, you know. 480 00:24:47,800 --> 00:24:51,720 Speaker 4: It's having that physique and that level of fitness is 481 00:24:52,080 --> 00:24:55,000 Speaker 4: something that triggers the reptilian brain and people of like, 482 00:24:55,080 --> 00:24:57,399 Speaker 4: you know something I don't, or you're doing something I'm not. 483 00:24:57,960 --> 00:25:01,320 Speaker 4: And that gave me a sense of I guess authority 484 00:25:01,520 --> 00:25:04,200 Speaker 4: to these other people that ended up opening their world 485 00:25:04,280 --> 00:25:06,160 Speaker 4: up to me and teaching me a bunch and giving 486 00:25:06,200 --> 00:25:08,280 Speaker 4: me great opportunities I probably didn't deserve as a twenty 487 00:25:08,320 --> 00:25:10,720 Speaker 4: six year old. And so I think once all of 488 00:25:10,760 --> 00:25:13,479 Speaker 4: those skills came into the content and I just have 489 00:25:13,600 --> 00:25:16,520 Speaker 4: one message, this is what The page started on sharing 490 00:25:16,560 --> 00:25:19,360 Speaker 4: easily implementable ways to improve your life, and I never 491 00:25:19,440 --> 00:25:21,720 Speaker 4: confined it to just the fitness, and so I'm going 492 00:25:21,760 --> 00:25:24,919 Speaker 4: to continue to talk about things that I love that 493 00:25:25,000 --> 00:25:27,320 Speaker 4: I am convicted on because I know it's like my 494 00:25:27,400 --> 00:25:29,000 Speaker 4: dad said when we started, and like I said at 495 00:25:29,000 --> 00:25:33,480 Speaker 4: the beginning of this show, if just one person gets 496 00:25:33,480 --> 00:25:36,160 Speaker 4: something from what I have to say, whether it's sales, fitness, 497 00:25:36,480 --> 00:25:40,240 Speaker 4: public speaking, communication, my talk about my hangover remedies because 498 00:25:40,240 --> 00:25:41,879 Speaker 4: I do still go out and drink with my buddies. 499 00:25:41,920 --> 00:25:43,879 Speaker 4: I'm a twenty seven year old guy in a big city. 500 00:25:44,280 --> 00:25:46,879 Speaker 4: Then it's all worth it. And that's the message I 501 00:25:46,880 --> 00:25:49,600 Speaker 4: want to spread. I think everybody has a gift that 502 00:25:49,960 --> 00:25:52,240 Speaker 4: maybe the vehicle they can spread that gift on is 503 00:25:52,359 --> 00:25:54,960 Speaker 4: content and I'm seeing it now in real time through 504 00:25:55,000 --> 00:25:58,919 Speaker 4: a challenge I accidentally launched on TikTok that is changing 505 00:25:58,920 --> 00:26:00,679 Speaker 4: people's lives and it's really cool to see. 506 00:26:01,160 --> 00:26:02,320 Speaker 2: What was the challenge. 507 00:26:03,119 --> 00:26:07,280 Speaker 4: I made a video about communication skills being a huge 508 00:26:08,200 --> 00:26:10,320 Speaker 4: launch pad to change your life, that a lot of 509 00:26:10,320 --> 00:26:13,399 Speaker 4: people have these great skills, these great ideas, but frankly 510 00:26:13,440 --> 00:26:16,040 Speaker 4: they suck at talking and communication is a skill and 511 00:26:16,080 --> 00:26:17,760 Speaker 4: we can train it and we can sharpen it just 512 00:26:17,800 --> 00:26:18,960 Speaker 4: like our bodies in the gym. 513 00:26:19,280 --> 00:26:20,320 Speaker 3: But you have to practice. 514 00:26:20,720 --> 00:26:22,840 Speaker 4: And in the video, I just say one of the 515 00:26:22,880 --> 00:26:25,480 Speaker 4: things you could do is set your camera up just 516 00:26:25,480 --> 00:26:27,399 Speaker 4: like I'm doing right now on this TikTok because I 517 00:26:27,400 --> 00:26:29,679 Speaker 4: was speaking in my front camera on the phone and 518 00:26:29,760 --> 00:26:33,080 Speaker 4: record yourself speaking for sixty seconds. And I didn't tell 519 00:26:33,119 --> 00:26:35,440 Speaker 4: people to go post it. I said, create a burner 520 00:26:35,440 --> 00:26:37,639 Speaker 4: account if you want, and all of a sudden the 521 00:26:37,720 --> 00:26:39,440 Speaker 4: video blew up and I woke up one day to 522 00:26:39,800 --> 00:26:43,000 Speaker 4: six hundred mentions and it was higher up. Well Inness 523 00:26:43,000 --> 00:26:48,320 Speaker 4: public Speaking Challenge. That's awesome, it's amazing, and it was 524 00:26:48,320 --> 00:26:50,520 Speaker 4: an accident. Again, I think God placed his hand on that. 525 00:26:50,560 --> 00:26:54,280 Speaker 4: I think it was anointed. And it's probably over five 526 00:26:54,400 --> 00:26:57,520 Speaker 4: thousand people now have created TikTok accounts and are speaking 527 00:26:57,840 --> 00:27:00,639 Speaker 4: every day for thirty days. Some are transcending to one hundred. 528 00:27:01,000 --> 00:27:02,800 Speaker 4: There's one guy that stands out and he was sort 529 00:27:02,800 --> 00:27:06,560 Speaker 4: of the second catalyst. His name's Brandon, a young guy 530 00:27:06,680 --> 00:27:10,560 Speaker 4: early twenties and made a burner account, was zero followers 531 00:27:11,119 --> 00:27:14,040 Speaker 4: and put the camera up and said, Hi, my name 532 00:27:14,119 --> 00:27:17,080 Speaker 4: is Brandon. Public speaking makes me very nervous, but I 533 00:27:17,119 --> 00:27:19,960 Speaker 4: was inspired by Michael higher up Wellness to do this 534 00:27:20,040 --> 00:27:21,200 Speaker 4: challenge for thirty days. 535 00:27:21,520 --> 00:27:24,680 Speaker 3: His first video ever went viral. 536 00:27:24,760 --> 00:27:26,920 Speaker 4: It's got four and a half million views, he's got 537 00:27:26,960 --> 00:27:30,000 Speaker 4: forty thousand followers, and now he's documenting his life and 538 00:27:30,040 --> 00:27:31,920 Speaker 4: it's that's what it's all about. You know, you could 539 00:27:31,920 --> 00:27:34,440 Speaker 4: be one video away from changing your life because you 540 00:27:34,480 --> 00:27:36,679 Speaker 4: have a gift that somebody needs to hear. And that's 541 00:27:37,080 --> 00:27:39,639 Speaker 4: that's where I think is what I'm supposed to be 542 00:27:39,720 --> 00:27:41,200 Speaker 4: doing and what I'm going to be working toward every 543 00:27:41,240 --> 00:27:43,879 Speaker 4: day really lies is in just giving people the power 544 00:27:43,920 --> 00:27:45,679 Speaker 4: back and tell them that their life is in their 545 00:27:45,720 --> 00:27:47,479 Speaker 4: own hands if they take accountability for it. 546 00:27:48,280 --> 00:27:51,440 Speaker 1: All right for me, that that's like a dream come 547 00:27:51,480 --> 00:27:54,600 Speaker 1: true because that was the same thing that inspired me 548 00:27:54,680 --> 00:27:57,399 Speaker 1: to do it my first video back in two thousand 549 00:27:57,440 --> 00:28:00,480 Speaker 1: and six on YouTube, right me with my I just 550 00:28:01,000 --> 00:28:04,480 Speaker 1: bushy old, you know, Afghan beard, and you know my 551 00:28:04,680 --> 00:28:07,080 Speaker 1: tats and a T shirt and down by Beach and 552 00:28:07,200 --> 00:28:09,520 Speaker 1: just like all right here the eight missions that I 553 00:28:09,600 --> 00:28:12,879 Speaker 1: believe forge your self confidence. And now that thing's just 554 00:28:12,920 --> 00:28:15,680 Speaker 1: gone around the world a couple of times, and you know, 555 00:28:16,240 --> 00:28:20,160 Speaker 1: there are detractors though, there are people out there who 556 00:28:20,720 --> 00:28:25,240 Speaker 1: are are There's a I think an advocacy growing towards 557 00:28:25,280 --> 00:28:30,840 Speaker 1: being anti content creator, anti wasting your time on social media, 558 00:28:30,920 --> 00:28:35,640 Speaker 1: antie this, antie that, And well, if everybody's creating content, 559 00:28:35,760 --> 00:28:39,920 Speaker 1: then what substance do we have that's actually engaging and 560 00:28:40,040 --> 00:28:42,600 Speaker 1: creating the future world that we need to live in. 561 00:28:43,240 --> 00:28:45,560 Speaker 2: So what's your response to that? 562 00:28:46,920 --> 00:28:48,800 Speaker 4: I can't get into the market, I can't be a 563 00:28:48,800 --> 00:28:51,920 Speaker 4: content creator. It's too saturated. Hear it all the time, 564 00:28:52,560 --> 00:28:55,040 Speaker 4: And the first thing I could say is, well, look 565 00:28:55,080 --> 00:28:56,880 Speaker 4: at me. I didn't start till twenty twenty three and 566 00:28:56,960 --> 00:28:58,480 Speaker 4: here we are two million followers later. 567 00:28:58,560 --> 00:28:59,719 Speaker 3: So is it saturated. 568 00:29:00,080 --> 00:29:03,080 Speaker 4: Maybe, but it's saturated with bullshit, and it's saturated with 569 00:29:03,360 --> 00:29:07,360 Speaker 4: low quality ideas and content. But ultimately the best argument 570 00:29:07,400 --> 00:29:12,160 Speaker 4: for that is nobody is you, so it is not saturated. 571 00:29:12,440 --> 00:29:14,560 Speaker 4: It goes back to you are the niche. No one 572 00:29:14,600 --> 00:29:16,840 Speaker 4: can be you, and so long as you don't try 573 00:29:16,840 --> 00:29:19,040 Speaker 4: to be like other creators, which a lot of people are, 574 00:29:19,080 --> 00:29:21,440 Speaker 4: and it's why their content doesn't work. In my opinion, 575 00:29:22,200 --> 00:29:25,640 Speaker 4: you are you and that is your superpowers. There is 576 00:29:25,680 --> 00:29:27,640 Speaker 4: no there is no better argument than that. I don't 577 00:29:27,640 --> 00:29:30,840 Speaker 4: think there's a counter argument for it is our authenticity, 578 00:29:30,960 --> 00:29:33,720 Speaker 4: our vulnerability, which is something I'm huge on is I've 579 00:29:33,760 --> 00:29:38,560 Speaker 4: shared every facet of my life to millions of people, 580 00:29:38,600 --> 00:29:41,120 Speaker 4: and every time I do, the feedback I get is 581 00:29:41,160 --> 00:29:47,000 Speaker 4: overwhelmingly positive. So the formula of authenticity plus vulnerability plus 582 00:29:47,040 --> 00:29:51,920 Speaker 4: consistency always equal success in my opinion, that that's phenomenal. 583 00:29:52,040 --> 00:29:52,520 Speaker 2: All right. 584 00:29:52,600 --> 00:29:55,440 Speaker 1: So one of the I love listening to you tell 585 00:29:55,480 --> 00:29:58,880 Speaker 1: your origin story too, about being in college forty five up? 586 00:29:59,000 --> 00:30:03,320 Speaker 1: You know, I mean when I weighed in in freshman lacrosse, 587 00:30:03,440 --> 00:30:06,480 Speaker 1: I think I was one hundred and fifty nine pounds. 588 00:30:07,040 --> 00:30:10,080 Speaker 2: A year later I was two five, right, and that was. 589 00:30:10,120 --> 00:30:13,760 Speaker 1: Not great you know great development? That was you know 590 00:30:15,120 --> 00:30:18,120 Speaker 1: that that was bush pounders in the kiddie pool with Paul. 591 00:30:18,000 --> 00:30:21,040 Speaker 2: McKelvey right over the summer, right. I love you, Paul. 592 00:30:21,920 --> 00:30:26,280 Speaker 1: And and so there there are young men right now 593 00:30:26,320 --> 00:30:30,240 Speaker 1: that are finding you. I know some have found me 594 00:30:30,320 --> 00:30:33,600 Speaker 1: over the past, but they're more so finding you right now. 595 00:30:34,240 --> 00:30:38,800 Speaker 1: What's the key initiator for them? 596 00:30:39,400 --> 00:30:40,360 Speaker 2: Right? Is it? 597 00:30:40,400 --> 00:30:43,560 Speaker 1: Is it the health part first? Is it getting pushing 598 00:30:43,680 --> 00:30:47,760 Speaker 1: and pulling and feeling better? Is it the motivate? You know, 599 00:30:48,120 --> 00:30:51,720 Speaker 1: drilling down on the motivational idea. What is their potential? 600 00:30:51,800 --> 00:30:52,920 Speaker 1: How do I go after it? 601 00:30:53,320 --> 00:30:58,760 Speaker 2: Or is it just simply the recognition that of that 602 00:30:58,840 --> 00:31:01,600 Speaker 2: inch by inch process? How do you like? 603 00:31:01,840 --> 00:31:04,480 Speaker 1: Cause I know you get bombarded with this. I'm a 604 00:31:04,520 --> 00:31:07,320 Speaker 1: twenty three year old kid. I don't know what to do. 605 00:31:07,440 --> 00:31:08,680 Speaker 1: I don't know where to start. 606 00:31:09,000 --> 00:31:09,680 Speaker 2: What should I do? 607 00:31:14,840 --> 00:31:15,080 Speaker 3: Yeah? 608 00:31:15,160 --> 00:31:17,680 Speaker 4: Probably the most commonly asked question I get from young 609 00:31:17,720 --> 00:31:20,600 Speaker 4: men and young women is I'm that age, I'm nineteen, 610 00:31:20,640 --> 00:31:23,480 Speaker 4: twenty twenty one, twenty three. How do I find my 611 00:31:23,480 --> 00:31:26,560 Speaker 4: purpose in life? Which what a big question? I mean, no, 612 00:31:26,680 --> 00:31:29,520 Speaker 4: wonder your biggest agony and anxiety. You're trying to figure 613 00:31:29,560 --> 00:31:32,400 Speaker 4: out life's greatest question and you haven't even voted in 614 00:31:32,400 --> 00:31:33,600 Speaker 4: your first fucking election yet. 615 00:31:33,640 --> 00:31:38,320 Speaker 3: I'd be overwhelmed too. I think a lot. 616 00:31:38,160 --> 00:31:41,600 Speaker 4: Of it is is the tension you create when you 617 00:31:41,640 --> 00:31:43,520 Speaker 4: feel like you have to have it all figured out. 618 00:31:43,600 --> 00:31:47,440 Speaker 4: Is manufacturing suffering within your own mind. And I had 619 00:31:47,440 --> 00:31:50,440 Speaker 4: the opportunity to interview a guy named Peter Cron on 620 00:31:50,440 --> 00:31:54,160 Speaker 4: my podcast and talk about an anointed conversation. That podcast 621 00:31:54,200 --> 00:31:57,320 Speaker 4: got one hundred and fifty thousand plays practically overnight, which 622 00:31:57,560 --> 00:32:01,040 Speaker 4: outperforms any of my episodes of all time, and he 623 00:32:01,120 --> 00:32:03,320 Speaker 4: has a theory that all of our suffering is manufactured, 624 00:32:03,360 --> 00:32:05,360 Speaker 4: none of it's real, It's all created based. 625 00:32:05,120 --> 00:32:06,560 Speaker 3: On the narratives we tell ourselves. 626 00:32:06,560 --> 00:32:10,560 Speaker 4: And one thing I really resonated with was that the 627 00:32:11,400 --> 00:32:13,560 Speaker 4: fact that you think something is hard and should be 628 00:32:13,600 --> 00:32:16,520 Speaker 4: easy create suffering rather than sitting in the tension of 629 00:32:16,600 --> 00:32:19,280 Speaker 4: this is hard and that's okay, what is it trying 630 00:32:19,280 --> 00:32:21,640 Speaker 4: to teach me? So I wanted to quickly speak to 631 00:32:21,680 --> 00:32:24,480 Speaker 4: that that a lot of young people are creating suffering 632 00:32:24,520 --> 00:32:26,480 Speaker 4: because of the people they see on social media, you know, 633 00:32:26,520 --> 00:32:29,200 Speaker 4: the young guy with the supercar and the Rolex making 634 00:32:29,240 --> 00:32:32,640 Speaker 4: one hundred grand a month, probably lying about it and 635 00:32:33,600 --> 00:32:36,400 Speaker 4: feeling like they have to get there. But to really 636 00:32:36,400 --> 00:32:39,000 Speaker 4: answer your question, I do believe, and I'm convicted on 637 00:32:39,040 --> 00:32:41,120 Speaker 4: the fact that I think it always starts with the 638 00:32:41,160 --> 00:32:44,120 Speaker 4: physical body. If you can't clean the gunk and the 639 00:32:44,160 --> 00:32:46,960 Speaker 4: crap out of your mind with that brain fog, everybody 640 00:32:46,960 --> 00:32:50,280 Speaker 4: talks about that low energy. If you don't have clarity, 641 00:32:50,360 --> 00:32:52,920 Speaker 4: you don't have vision, and you can't find your purpose. 642 00:32:52,920 --> 00:32:57,000 Speaker 4: Without vision, you become myopic. And that's something cool I'm 643 00:32:57,000 --> 00:32:59,040 Speaker 4: seeing in my coaching community. I've got clients that have 644 00:32:59,080 --> 00:33:01,200 Speaker 4: been with me for four months now, and it started 645 00:33:01,240 --> 00:33:03,920 Speaker 4: because they wanted to lose fifty pounds. And now we 646 00:33:03,960 --> 00:33:07,840 Speaker 4: had three people on my group call yesterday say I 647 00:33:07,880 --> 00:33:10,320 Speaker 4: feel called to sign up for marathons. I feel called 648 00:33:10,320 --> 00:33:12,440 Speaker 4: to open my Bible, I feel called to I've never 649 00:33:12,440 --> 00:33:15,760 Speaker 4: been religious, but I'm curious about God. And I think, yes, 650 00:33:16,640 --> 00:33:19,560 Speaker 4: one incredibly powerful. But two, I think the launching pad 651 00:33:19,640 --> 00:33:21,880 Speaker 4: is if you're not where you want to be in 652 00:33:21,960 --> 00:33:25,239 Speaker 4: life and your physical health is not a priority, well 653 00:33:25,280 --> 00:33:26,640 Speaker 4: it's no wonder you're not where you want to be 654 00:33:26,680 --> 00:33:30,440 Speaker 4: in life because getting clear in the form of proper nutrition, 655 00:33:30,560 --> 00:33:33,720 Speaker 4: proper sleep, proper hydration, cleaning that gunk out of the 656 00:33:33,720 --> 00:33:38,360 Speaker 4: physical body creates room for ascension in other facets of 657 00:33:38,400 --> 00:33:40,640 Speaker 4: your life. So any guy or gal listening out there 658 00:33:40,680 --> 00:33:44,600 Speaker 4: that's young. If you are not prioritizing exercise, daily movement, 659 00:33:44,760 --> 00:33:47,280 Speaker 4: whatever you enjoy, whatever you like, there is no best 660 00:33:47,560 --> 00:33:49,880 Speaker 4: compliance is the science. Do what you like, and we'll 661 00:33:49,920 --> 00:33:53,240 Speaker 4: stick to figure that out first. And I really do 662 00:33:53,320 --> 00:33:56,040 Speaker 4: think as you continue to pursue, because fitness is such 663 00:33:56,040 --> 00:33:59,960 Speaker 4: a good microcosm for delayed gratification, you'll start to really 664 00:34:00,240 --> 00:34:02,520 Speaker 4: understand what you were put here to do. 665 00:34:02,640 --> 00:34:04,520 Speaker 3: But it has to start with the physical body. 666 00:34:05,520 --> 00:34:08,640 Speaker 1: I couldn't. I couldn't concur more with that. We are 667 00:34:08,719 --> 00:34:12,560 Speaker 1: physical beings. We are rooted in the physicality of how 668 00:34:12,600 --> 00:34:17,080 Speaker 1: we perceive all things, right, from a from a neurological perspective, 669 00:34:17,239 --> 00:34:20,680 Speaker 1: from the way we perceive through our vision, through where 670 00:34:20,680 --> 00:34:24,640 Speaker 1: we interpret that information itself within that prefrontal cortex, right, 671 00:34:24,840 --> 00:34:29,000 Speaker 1: which then ultimately generates what that metacognition, which creates our 672 00:34:29,040 --> 00:34:32,440 Speaker 1: own potential. Right, So all of those factors are at 673 00:34:32,440 --> 00:34:33,400 Speaker 1: the highest level. 674 00:34:33,880 --> 00:34:34,279 Speaker 3: All right. 675 00:34:34,760 --> 00:34:37,799 Speaker 2: You have mentioned several times being. 676 00:34:39,600 --> 00:34:42,839 Speaker 1: In the presence of of of that Holy Spirit and 677 00:34:42,880 --> 00:34:47,600 Speaker 1: being in the presence of what you would describe as 678 00:34:47,800 --> 00:34:52,920 Speaker 1: a divine process. Has that always played a role in 679 00:34:52,960 --> 00:34:56,480 Speaker 1: your life? Was that a part of the initiation to change? 680 00:34:57,239 --> 00:35:00,600 Speaker 1: And if not, how did it present itsel elf? In? 681 00:35:01,520 --> 00:35:02,080 Speaker 3: How do you. 682 00:35:04,520 --> 00:35:05,640 Speaker 2: What is it? How do you. 683 00:35:07,800 --> 00:35:07,840 Speaker 1: Do? 684 00:35:08,560 --> 00:35:09,880 Speaker 2: How do you nurture it? 685 00:35:09,920 --> 00:35:12,480 Speaker 1: How do you I don't I don't want to sound cheesy, 686 00:35:12,520 --> 00:35:13,800 Speaker 1: like how do you work out your faith? 687 00:35:13,880 --> 00:35:14,080 Speaker 2: Now? 688 00:35:14,200 --> 00:35:14,399 Speaker 3: Right? 689 00:35:15,000 --> 00:35:17,600 Speaker 2: But but that's what I'm asking, like, how does that? 690 00:35:18,080 --> 00:35:19,280 Speaker 2: How does that grow? 691 00:35:19,960 --> 00:35:22,719 Speaker 1: And what are the supplements and the exercises and all 692 00:35:22,760 --> 00:35:24,080 Speaker 1: that that facilitate that. 693 00:35:25,120 --> 00:35:28,000 Speaker 4: It was not always in the picture. I was always 694 00:35:28,000 --> 00:35:31,000 Speaker 4: the lukewarm Christian of there's there's a God, there's no way, 695 00:35:31,000 --> 00:35:31,399 Speaker 4: there's not. 696 00:35:31,400 --> 00:35:33,400 Speaker 3: A higher power, But what is it? How did it 697 00:35:33,440 --> 00:35:34,600 Speaker 3: get it? What does it all look like? 698 00:35:34,640 --> 00:35:36,560 Speaker 4: I was, you know, I was a classic I'm spiritual, 699 00:35:36,640 --> 00:35:39,480 Speaker 4: not religious tuly, just a way of saying I'm lukewarm. 700 00:35:40,600 --> 00:35:41,680 Speaker 3: But it it took. 701 00:35:42,680 --> 00:35:45,840 Speaker 4: It took hitting what in my adult life was a 702 00:35:45,920 --> 00:35:49,879 Speaker 4: rock bottom for me, which was ultimately losing my dad, 703 00:35:50,040 --> 00:35:50,920 Speaker 4: or not losing. 704 00:35:50,640 --> 00:35:51,879 Speaker 3: My dad, but him passing away. 705 00:35:52,760 --> 00:35:56,320 Speaker 4: And that the man was my best friend, biggest role model, 706 00:35:56,960 --> 00:35:59,600 Speaker 4: and he taught me a lot of what I know. 707 00:35:59,640 --> 00:36:01,120 Speaker 4: And I make a joke all the time. I was 708 00:36:01,120 --> 00:36:03,120 Speaker 4: like that if you if you grew up in my age, 709 00:36:03,160 --> 00:36:05,279 Speaker 4: you'd have two million followers, not a million. You'd do 710 00:36:05,320 --> 00:36:06,480 Speaker 4: better than I ever could. 711 00:36:06,719 --> 00:36:07,320 Speaker 2: That's cool. 712 00:36:07,719 --> 00:36:12,359 Speaker 3: He was special And I moved home. Name. His name's 713 00:36:12,400 --> 00:36:17,160 Speaker 3: Michael Smoke. Also that's cool. Yeah he's Michael Lee. I'm 714 00:36:17,200 --> 00:36:18,560 Speaker 3: Michael Thomas. So not as junior. 715 00:36:18,600 --> 00:36:23,480 Speaker 4: Technically, he was my biggest role model, and he's a 716 00:36:23,600 --> 00:36:28,760 Speaker 4: very special, special man who everyone looked to and looked 717 00:36:28,760 --> 00:36:31,600 Speaker 4: forward to and leaned on in hard times. 718 00:36:31,640 --> 00:36:31,799 Speaker 3: You know. 719 00:36:31,840 --> 00:36:34,120 Speaker 4: He was the one giving eulogies for the grandparents' funeral. 720 00:36:34,160 --> 00:36:36,680 Speaker 4: He was the first guy that ever ignited the fire 721 00:36:36,760 --> 00:36:39,279 Speaker 4: for public speaking in me because he was so proficient 722 00:36:39,320 --> 00:36:41,320 Speaker 4: at it. And he said to me, when I was 723 00:36:41,360 --> 00:36:44,560 Speaker 4: a little boy, he came in for career day and 724 00:36:44,760 --> 00:36:47,280 Speaker 4: gave a presentation on his job, which at the time 725 00:36:47,400 --> 00:36:51,640 Speaker 4: was selling sports equipment goalposts, foul netting, track surface turf. 726 00:36:52,200 --> 00:36:54,160 Speaker 4: And that's not going to interest a bunch of third graders, 727 00:36:54,200 --> 00:36:57,400 Speaker 4: But I remember him bringing in props and making jokes 728 00:36:57,440 --> 00:36:59,239 Speaker 4: and looking around and seeing all these little boys and 729 00:36:59,280 --> 00:37:02,040 Speaker 4: girls interesting and what this old man had to say 730 00:37:02,200 --> 00:37:06,000 Speaker 4: about goalposts. And he said to me, he was like, remember, buddy, 731 00:37:06,000 --> 00:37:09,080 Speaker 4: there's no better feeling than getting up in front of 732 00:37:09,080 --> 00:37:11,040 Speaker 4: a room full of people and knowing there's a question 733 00:37:11,120 --> 00:37:12,799 Speaker 4: they can't ask you that you don't have the answer to. 734 00:37:12,880 --> 00:37:15,640 Speaker 3: It's empowering. And I thought, wow, that was pretty cool. 735 00:37:16,320 --> 00:37:20,200 Speaker 4: And I moved home for a little while in a 736 00:37:20,280 --> 00:37:22,080 Speaker 4: chapter of my life where I was resetting, I was 737 00:37:22,080 --> 00:37:23,120 Speaker 4: living on my own, moved. 738 00:37:23,000 --> 00:37:25,080 Speaker 3: Back home and come home to it. 739 00:37:25,120 --> 00:37:27,160 Speaker 4: I hadn't seen him in maybe a month, and he 740 00:37:27,200 --> 00:37:29,360 Speaker 4: looked sick, and I was like, well, you look like 741 00:37:29,360 --> 00:37:29,960 Speaker 4: you're losing weight. 742 00:37:30,000 --> 00:37:31,680 Speaker 3: What's going on? He's like a bubby. I don't know. 743 00:37:31,719 --> 00:37:35,400 Speaker 4: I don't feel good, I'm tired, I can't eat. And 744 00:37:35,960 --> 00:37:38,000 Speaker 4: being the health and wellness person I am, I immediately 745 00:37:38,040 --> 00:37:39,080 Speaker 4: was like, are we seeing doctors? 746 00:37:39,120 --> 00:37:40,279 Speaker 3: Are we setting appointments? 747 00:37:40,400 --> 00:37:44,960 Speaker 4: And I started doing that for him, Holistic doctors, real doctors, 748 00:37:44,960 --> 00:37:48,439 Speaker 4: GI doctors, Western and Eastern medicine. And they could never 749 00:37:48,560 --> 00:37:50,480 Speaker 4: figure out what quite was wrong with him. And I'll 750 00:37:50,520 --> 00:37:53,799 Speaker 4: spare you the details. It was cirrhosis, that it was lymphoma, 751 00:37:54,280 --> 00:37:57,520 Speaker 4: massive blood clotting. But ultimately what happened was my dad 752 00:37:57,600 --> 00:37:59,759 Speaker 4: began to lose all of his muscle mass, all of 753 00:37:59,880 --> 00:38:03,960 Speaker 4: his autonomy. He lost about sixty pounds in five months, 754 00:38:03,960 --> 00:38:07,640 Speaker 4: and he was already sixty two point lean guy, and 755 00:38:07,760 --> 00:38:09,480 Speaker 4: he got to the point where he was practically skin 756 00:38:09,560 --> 00:38:13,520 Speaker 4: and bones and had all the symptoms of liver failure. 757 00:38:13,680 --> 00:38:15,680 Speaker 4: But he was never a drinker and so he was. 758 00:38:15,840 --> 00:38:21,279 Speaker 4: They were confused, but that was brutal to watch my 759 00:38:21,400 --> 00:38:24,919 Speaker 4: hero lose all sense of autonomy and freedom. And that's 760 00:38:24,960 --> 00:38:27,480 Speaker 4: where I really turned to God because I didn't have 761 00:38:27,520 --> 00:38:29,320 Speaker 4: anywhere else to go. I couldn't lean on myself. I 762 00:38:29,320 --> 00:38:31,399 Speaker 4: couldn't lean on my family. I couldn't lean on him. 763 00:38:31,800 --> 00:38:33,239 Speaker 4: You know, he was the guy. He was the guy 764 00:38:33,280 --> 00:38:36,040 Speaker 4: I shared my wins with. That was my support system 765 00:38:36,080 --> 00:38:39,439 Speaker 4: and my confidant. And you know, when your earthly father 766 00:38:39,560 --> 00:38:42,520 Speaker 4: begins to fail, you turn to your heavenly father. And 767 00:38:42,560 --> 00:38:46,120 Speaker 4: that's where I started to experience supernatural peace, that thing 768 00:38:46,160 --> 00:38:49,480 Speaker 4: that they say you can't explain. But it was after 769 00:38:49,600 --> 00:38:54,560 Speaker 4: a lot of traumatic days of becoming my dad's full 770 00:38:54,600 --> 00:38:59,200 Speaker 4: time hospice nurse. You know, I tried not to get 771 00:38:59,200 --> 00:39:03,440 Speaker 4: emotional talking him about it, but I took him to 772 00:39:03,520 --> 00:39:08,440 Speaker 4: excuse me. I took him to an appointment and before 773 00:39:08,440 --> 00:39:10,600 Speaker 4: we were getting ready, I was putting his shoes on 774 00:39:10,600 --> 00:39:13,400 Speaker 4: because he couldn't bend over to do it anymore. And 775 00:39:13,480 --> 00:39:19,000 Speaker 4: he he reached around and patted my back, and uh, 776 00:39:19,600 --> 00:39:22,360 Speaker 4: he said, I'm just looking for your wings. 777 00:39:23,440 --> 00:39:25,680 Speaker 3: You know that I was his angel. 778 00:39:26,040 --> 00:39:33,680 Speaker 4: And yeah, God put me there to be with him 779 00:39:34,360 --> 00:39:37,799 Speaker 4: in his last six months, and I'm so thankful for that, 780 00:39:38,080 --> 00:39:41,000 Speaker 4: and put me in a place with a lot of 781 00:39:41,040 --> 00:39:43,920 Speaker 4: God fearing men because he knew i'd need the support 782 00:39:44,000 --> 00:39:45,480 Speaker 4: system and men that really weren't a part of my 783 00:39:45,520 --> 00:39:48,640 Speaker 4: life until about four months before shit really hit the 784 00:39:48,680 --> 00:39:51,680 Speaker 4: fan for me, and I'll always be thankful to God 785 00:39:51,760 --> 00:39:53,759 Speaker 4: for giving me that time with him. 786 00:39:54,520 --> 00:39:56,879 Speaker 3: But you know, they you. 787 00:39:56,840 --> 00:40:00,440 Speaker 4: Think about God's purpose for your life and what his 788 00:40:00,480 --> 00:40:03,600 Speaker 4: purpose for my life was. And to watch my dad 789 00:40:03,680 --> 00:40:07,360 Speaker 4: lose his autonomy as a result of what was probably 790 00:40:07,400 --> 00:40:09,680 Speaker 4: not living a life centered around health and wellness. 791 00:40:09,680 --> 00:40:12,239 Speaker 3: You know, he was never overweight, but he grew up 792 00:40:12,239 --> 00:40:12,880 Speaker 3: in the fifties. 793 00:40:13,040 --> 00:40:15,160 Speaker 4: He smoked from the time he was a kid until 794 00:40:15,200 --> 00:40:16,800 Speaker 4: the day he almost the day he died, until he 795 00:40:16,840 --> 00:40:17,960 Speaker 4: couldn't go outside to smoke. 796 00:40:18,000 --> 00:40:21,080 Speaker 3: He ate whatever he wanted, whenever he wanted, and he didn't. 797 00:40:21,120 --> 00:40:22,760 Speaker 3: He stopped exercising in his forties. 798 00:40:22,800 --> 00:40:24,960 Speaker 4: He's a D one two sport athlete at Georgia and 799 00:40:25,000 --> 00:40:27,840 Speaker 4: he would always say, Bubby, I hit my exercise quote 800 00:40:27,880 --> 00:40:30,320 Speaker 4: a long time ago. 801 00:40:31,360 --> 00:40:34,440 Speaker 1: You know, I think I've heard myself say that one 802 00:40:34,480 --> 00:40:35,840 Speaker 1: to my daughters recently. 803 00:40:36,840 --> 00:40:40,720 Speaker 3: I'm all weight lifted out, That's what he would say. Yeah, yeah, 804 00:40:40,920 --> 00:40:42,319 Speaker 3: But the beauty of. 805 00:40:43,800 --> 00:40:46,400 Speaker 4: Watching my dad go through that and being there for 806 00:40:46,560 --> 00:40:50,520 Speaker 4: him was It's made me so much more convicted on 807 00:40:50,760 --> 00:40:55,719 Speaker 4: teaching people that everybody has a lot of problems until 808 00:40:55,760 --> 00:40:57,640 Speaker 4: they have a health problem, and then they have one 809 00:40:57,680 --> 00:41:01,960 Speaker 4: problem because nothing else. When your body fails you and 810 00:41:02,000 --> 00:41:03,920 Speaker 4: you don't have a spare one hanging up in the closet, 811 00:41:03,920 --> 00:41:09,480 Speaker 4: you just don't. And I'm thankful that God granted me 812 00:41:09,520 --> 00:41:11,799 Speaker 4: the ability to suffer through that, because it gave me 813 00:41:12,600 --> 00:41:15,520 Speaker 4: a true power and conviction to teach people how important 814 00:41:15,560 --> 00:41:17,719 Speaker 4: this is, and not only how important it is, but 815 00:41:17,840 --> 00:41:20,319 Speaker 4: how attainable health and vitality is. 816 00:41:20,400 --> 00:41:21,560 Speaker 3: It is not unattainable. 817 00:41:21,600 --> 00:41:24,279 Speaker 4: It is in the four or five key choices you 818 00:41:24,360 --> 00:41:26,279 Speaker 4: are or are not making every day, and if you 819 00:41:26,320 --> 00:41:29,520 Speaker 4: don't make them, they will materialize in the form of 820 00:41:29,520 --> 00:41:32,000 Speaker 4: a lifestyle related disease on average, not always. 821 00:41:32,040 --> 00:41:32,920 Speaker 3: You can play the odds. 822 00:41:32,960 --> 00:41:35,279 Speaker 4: You can gamble like my dad did, so you don't 823 00:41:35,280 --> 00:41:38,000 Speaker 4: always win that. You don't always win that bet, and 824 00:41:38,040 --> 00:41:40,080 Speaker 4: so I'm fortunate and it's you know, it reminds me 825 00:41:40,080 --> 00:41:42,719 Speaker 4: of one of my favorite verses of all time that 826 00:41:42,800 --> 00:41:45,600 Speaker 4: really got me through that, which was James Chapter one, 827 00:41:45,680 --> 00:41:48,480 Speaker 4: verse two through four, counted all joy, brethren, when you 828 00:41:48,560 --> 00:41:51,200 Speaker 4: face trials of many kinds, because you know that the 829 00:41:51,200 --> 00:41:54,839 Speaker 4: testing of your faith produces perseverance, and let perseverance run 830 00:41:54,880 --> 00:41:57,920 Speaker 4: its course so that you may be full, complete and mature, 831 00:41:58,040 --> 00:42:03,399 Speaker 4: not lacking anything. That process made me mature, it made 832 00:42:03,440 --> 00:42:05,680 Speaker 4: me complete, and it's just a piece of my journey 833 00:42:05,719 --> 00:42:07,640 Speaker 4: to prevent me from lacking something in the future. 834 00:42:07,680 --> 00:42:10,480 Speaker 3: So ultimately, I'm not thankful my dad passed. 835 00:42:10,480 --> 00:42:12,200 Speaker 4: I miss him every day, but I'm thankful for what 836 00:42:12,239 --> 00:42:14,200 Speaker 4: that experience taught me and how it's going to allow 837 00:42:14,239 --> 00:42:15,400 Speaker 4: me to pour into other people. 838 00:42:16,719 --> 00:42:21,960 Speaker 1: Well, I'll tell you what, man, as trying to figure 839 00:42:21,960 --> 00:42:26,560 Speaker 1: out what it was that sucks me in every time 840 00:42:26,600 --> 00:42:30,280 Speaker 1: you start ranting on in front of that screen, and 841 00:42:30,280 --> 00:42:35,600 Speaker 1: and now I know, thank you for sharing that with everybody. 842 00:42:35,640 --> 00:42:36,759 Speaker 2: I really appreciate that. 843 00:42:36,760 --> 00:42:40,920 Speaker 1: That's beyond anything I could have imagined you would be 844 00:42:40,960 --> 00:42:43,040 Speaker 1: willing to share with me, Man, And that's proof that 845 00:42:43,080 --> 00:42:46,080 Speaker 1: you are who you say are and you do believe 846 00:42:46,120 --> 00:42:50,800 Speaker 1: what you believe. So where can people come and follow 847 00:42:50,840 --> 00:42:55,080 Speaker 1: and participate and get on this journey with you? 848 00:42:56,080 --> 00:42:59,319 Speaker 4: I appreciate that. I do thank you for saying that. 849 00:42:59,360 --> 00:43:02,920 Speaker 4: And it goes back to vulnerability. I want everybody to 850 00:43:02,960 --> 00:43:05,520 Speaker 4: know that their vulnerability and their authenticity is their superpower. 851 00:43:05,640 --> 00:43:07,799 Speaker 4: And don't be scared to show the world who you are, 852 00:43:07,880 --> 00:43:11,160 Speaker 4: because if anybody judges you, or thinks differently of you, 853 00:43:12,280 --> 00:43:15,200 Speaker 4: it doesn't matter. It's like Goggins says so beautifully, You'll 854 00:43:15,239 --> 00:43:17,319 Speaker 4: never be shit on by anybody doing better than you. 855 00:43:17,960 --> 00:43:20,400 Speaker 3: And I want people to remember that and to live it. 856 00:43:20,440 --> 00:43:24,640 Speaker 4: And if they're interested, yeah, if they're interested in coming 857 00:43:24,680 --> 00:43:28,279 Speaker 4: along and learning more. My username across all platforms is 858 00:43:28,320 --> 00:43:30,759 Speaker 4: the same. My name is Michael Smoke, but my username 859 00:43:30,880 --> 00:43:32,920 Speaker 4: is higher Up Wellness on everything. 860 00:43:33,400 --> 00:43:35,719 Speaker 3: I have a podcast called the Higher Up Podcast. 861 00:43:35,760 --> 00:43:40,520 Speaker 4: It's available on Spotify, YouTube, and Apple Podcasts. And if 862 00:43:40,520 --> 00:43:43,440 Speaker 4: they're interested in working with me, they can simply DM 863 00:43:43,480 --> 00:43:45,799 Speaker 4: me the word fit on Instagram and it triggers in 864 00:43:45,840 --> 00:43:48,880 Speaker 4: my inbox to start a conversation with you and we 865 00:43:48,880 --> 00:43:50,920 Speaker 4: can learn more and figure out if we're potentially a 866 00:43:50,920 --> 00:43:52,200 Speaker 4: fit to work together and if we're not. 867 00:43:52,320 --> 00:43:52,800 Speaker 3: No worries. 868 00:43:52,840 --> 00:43:55,760 Speaker 4: I hope that they get some value from the content alone, 869 00:43:55,840 --> 00:43:58,200 Speaker 4: and I appreciate you giving me the time and the 870 00:43:58,200 --> 00:44:00,600 Speaker 4: space to come on and be a part of your platform. 871 00:44:00,719 --> 00:44:01,920 Speaker 3: Is truly in honor and it was a It was 872 00:44:01,920 --> 00:44:03,200 Speaker 3: a great time, man. I had a blast. 873 00:44:04,040 --> 00:44:06,319 Speaker 2: Awesome. God bless you, Thank you. 874 00:44:06,280 --> 00:44:07,080 Speaker 3: Brother, you as well. 875 00:44:09,480 --> 00:44:11,680 Speaker 1: M hm m m hm.