WEBVTT - Baby Daddy 0:00:00.120 --> 0:00:04.480 Dean and I wanted to wish a huge congratulations to Vanessa. 0:00:04.680 --> 0:00:09.000 Vanessa Grimaldi, she obviously hosted this podcast for a very 0:00:09.039 --> 0:00:11.799 long time and she did such a great job. And 0:00:11.880 --> 0:00:15.080 I miss her energy and her positivity, uh, and her 0:00:15.240 --> 0:00:20.480 overall enthusiasm every time she hosted. I really do miss that. 0:00:20.560 --> 0:00:23.640 And she got married today, so Dean and I wanted 0:00:23.680 --> 0:00:27.159 to say congratulations. I'm so happy for Vanessa. Vanessa is 0:00:27.200 --> 0:00:29.560 just a good a good human being. She's got a 0:00:29.560 --> 0:00:32.440 great soul. You know, a lot of people say, oh, 0:00:32.479 --> 0:00:35.599 you have a smile that lights up a room. Vanessa 0:00:35.640 --> 0:00:37.880 has a smile that lights up a room. Every time 0:00:38.040 --> 0:00:40.440 she hosted a podcast, every time she was here, every 0:00:40.440 --> 0:00:44.280 time I interacted with her, she was nothing but warm 0:00:44.560 --> 0:00:50.320 and sweet and uh. I definitely miss her energy on 0:00:50.360 --> 0:00:55.000 a weekly basis. But I want to say congratulations. She 0:00:55.200 --> 0:01:01.040 married her beautiful now husband, josh Um the the Gray Wolf, 0:01:01.400 --> 0:01:05.200 Silver Wolf, very very handsome men. So they are a 0:01:05.200 --> 0:01:09.480 beautiful husband and wife. And um, I haven't seen any 0:01:09.480 --> 0:01:12.040 pictures from the wedding. I know it is a pretty 0:01:12.080 --> 0:01:16.840 small intimate ceremony, and I'm excited to see them on 0:01:16.880 --> 0:01:20.000 their wedding day. And I wish them nothing but the 0:01:20.040 --> 0:01:23.560 best and a lifetime of happiness. And I hope they 0:01:23.680 --> 0:01:27.039 grow their family soon because I know that Vanessa is 0:01:27.080 --> 0:01:30.880 going to be an incredible mother, and I just I 0:01:31.080 --> 0:01:34.080 just I'm really happy for and I'm happy for Josh, 0:01:34.400 --> 0:01:36.560 and I'm happy they found each other, and so I 0:01:36.600 --> 0:01:39.119 wish them the best. Ashley and I are sending them 0:01:39.120 --> 0:01:43.200 are love hell. I Suck at Dating with Dean, Vanessa 0:01:43.240 --> 0:01:50.000 and Jared and I heart radio podcast. What is going on? Everyone? 0:01:50.120 --> 0:01:52.960 Welcome to help. I Suck at Dating. This is Dean 0:01:53.080 --> 0:01:57.640 Ungler joined in studio Across the World by Jared Haven. 0:01:57.840 --> 0:02:00.440 Jared Um. I was told that you were gonna be 0:02:01.120 --> 0:02:04.560 recording from a car, But it looks like you're not 0:02:04.640 --> 0:02:08.639 in a car. What's the deal. So we were at 0:02:08.639 --> 0:02:11.000 a doctor's appointment. I thought it was gonna be running late, 0:02:11.560 --> 0:02:14.680 but we got out of there just in time. Uh. 0:02:14.880 --> 0:02:17.720 So we had our third doctor's appointment. I got to 0:02:17.760 --> 0:02:21.960 see an ultrasound once again, and the baby is doing well. 0:02:22.120 --> 0:02:26.359 Everything is healthy. We had a blood test drawn today. 0:02:26.400 --> 0:02:28.560 We don't get the results for a little while, uh 0:02:28.720 --> 0:02:32.640 to see if the child has any health complications with 0:02:32.680 --> 0:02:36.320 spina bifia. So hopefully those come back normal, and hopefully 0:02:36.400 --> 0:02:40.480 everything is healthy. Everything is looking good. The sonogram, man, 0:02:40.560 --> 0:02:44.600 it's it's crazy. I honestly, for the first time I 0:02:44.680 --> 0:02:49.800 felt really connected to the kid because it's starting to 0:02:49.800 --> 0:02:52.239 look real. It's starting to look real. Sorry, of course, 0:02:52.280 --> 0:02:54.519 the phone of the ring when I'm going into this moment, 0:02:54.800 --> 0:02:57.520 I hope the landline. Oh, it's a landline. I'm at 0:02:57.520 --> 0:02:59.079 my in laws right now. You don't think my in 0:02:59.160 --> 0:03:01.960 laws have a landline that gets called nine times a day. 0:03:02.600 --> 0:03:05.840 I don't think I've heard a landline phone ring in 0:03:06.160 --> 0:03:08.480 over a decade. It's been a while for me too. 0:03:08.520 --> 0:03:10.600 Every time the phone rings, it's quite jarring. I'm like, 0:03:10.639 --> 0:03:14.480 what is this obscure sound I'm hearing in the background. Nope, 0:03:14.520 --> 0:03:19.120 it's just the phone ringing. But anyway, let's see if 0:03:19.160 --> 0:03:22.359 it ends. Do you want to how many you want 0:03:22.360 --> 0:03:24.440 to answer it live on air? I should huh. I 0:03:24.440 --> 0:03:26.800 don't want to move the mic because I'm gonna understand up. 0:03:26.800 --> 0:03:29.400 Ashley's coming in now. Just this is such part for 0:03:29.440 --> 0:03:31.880 the course of help. I second dating. Thank you so much. 0:03:31.880 --> 0:03:34.080 I appreciate it. How many rings does that landline have? 0:03:34.280 --> 0:03:36.680 It goes for like twelve times. Yeah, can you get 0:03:36.680 --> 0:03:39.800 a voicemail? You know, remember the old days where you 0:03:39.800 --> 0:03:43.080 would hear your voicemail played like you would the phone 0:03:43.080 --> 0:03:45.440 would ring and then it would directly go to voicemail 0:03:45.480 --> 0:03:49.480 and then you could hear your voicemail. Those are the days, man, 0:03:50.320 --> 0:03:52.520 I do remember those days. Hey, So okay, So beyond 0:03:52.640 --> 0:03:55.400 all of those things that you're saying, this appointment was 0:03:55.440 --> 0:04:00.800 there was there any other big news shared at the appointment. Oh, 0:04:00.840 --> 0:04:03.160 that news is already shared. We know the sex of 0:04:03.200 --> 0:04:05.960 the baby. We've I'm not sure if I've I've told 0:04:06.360 --> 0:04:09.240 you that, are told people on Instagram that, but yeah, 0:04:09.280 --> 0:04:11.360 we know we found out the sex. We had a 0:04:11.360 --> 0:04:13.600 little moment between Ashley and I. This was like two 0:04:13.640 --> 0:04:17.680 weeks ago. Now. We were in Rhode Island and uh, 0:04:17.960 --> 0:04:22.080 we drove to the place that we're looking to build 0:04:22.120 --> 0:04:24.279 our home and it's by the water, so we had 0:04:24.279 --> 0:04:27.040 like we sat on these docks and uh it was 0:04:27.080 --> 0:04:29.200 actually quite awkward because there was a guy on the 0:04:29.240 --> 0:04:31.400 boat just staring at us because we definitely were not 0:04:31.440 --> 0:04:34.160 allowed on those docks. But uh, it got sent in 0:04:34.160 --> 0:04:37.800 an email form, which is so where we found out 0:04:37.800 --> 0:04:41.320 the sex of our baby via email. Very anticlimactic, but still, 0:04:41.520 --> 0:04:44.120 you know, technology is crazy these days. So we had 0:04:44.160 --> 0:04:46.560 a moment and uh we sat down with Lois and 0:04:46.640 --> 0:04:48.560 opened the email and found out the sex of our kid, 0:04:48.600 --> 0:04:51.520 which is pretty crazy. Now it's much more real and 0:04:51.600 --> 0:04:55.640 what is that, uh gender the kid? Well, we're just 0:04:55.680 --> 0:04:58.440 trying to we're trying to figure out how to tell 0:04:58.640 --> 0:05:02.279 people on social media. To you, we told our families, Um, 0:05:02.360 --> 0:05:04.200 so they you're trying to figure out how you can 0:05:04.240 --> 0:05:06.200 make a quick buck on social media by sharing it 0:05:06.279 --> 0:05:11.440 and possibly we'll say, but it's it's crazy, man, it's exciting. 0:05:11.839 --> 0:05:14.840 And uh, the you know, the ultrasound was pretty It 0:05:14.920 --> 0:05:16.320 was the first time that I felt, like, I said, 0:05:16.320 --> 0:05:20.520 really connected to our baby. And uh I I didn't cry, 0:05:20.560 --> 0:05:24.960 but I could definitely feel myself overwhelmed with emotion, which 0:05:25.200 --> 0:05:27.760 made me really happy because that was the first time 0:05:28.320 --> 0:05:31.800 that's really happened. I I felt more emotional seeing the 0:05:31.880 --> 0:05:35.479 ultrasound of our baby today, more so than when I 0:05:35.480 --> 0:05:38.280 found out we were pregnant. Um. And I think it's 0:05:38.279 --> 0:05:42.039 just becoming more and more real seeing you know, literally 0:05:42.080 --> 0:05:45.680 so that the baby was like moving around, you know, 0:05:46.080 --> 0:05:49.640 and you know, the legs kicking and and you could 0:05:49.680 --> 0:05:52.479 see hands and the head and you could see the 0:05:52.520 --> 0:05:55.840 mouth moving. It was it was pretty surreal. And then 0:05:56.000 --> 0:05:59.760 you know you're watching all this while simultaneously hearing you know, 0:05:59.800 --> 0:06:03.839 you're child's heartbeat, and um it was cool, man, it 0:06:03.920 --> 0:06:06.000 was really cool. Would you be would you be equally 0:06:06.000 --> 0:06:09.359 as excited, more or less excited if it was a 0:06:09.400 --> 0:06:12.920 baby of the opposite sex of whatever the baby's sex is, 0:06:13.200 --> 0:06:16.719 I would be equal. I'm very indifferent about the sex 0:06:17.160 --> 0:06:19.359 of our baby. Ashley has made it known that she would, 0:06:19.800 --> 0:06:21.960 uh say, you know, she'd love either a boy or 0:06:22.040 --> 0:06:26.800 a girl, but she would prefer a girl. I'm very indifferent. Um, 0:06:26.839 --> 0:06:29.880 so as long as the baby is healthy, I've always 0:06:29.920 --> 0:06:34.279 wanted a boy and a girl. Um, So, I don't 0:06:34.320 --> 0:06:37.040 think i'd be you know, I don't think my emotion 0:06:37.080 --> 0:06:39.520 would change at all. Something this to say, this is 0:06:39.560 --> 0:06:42.000 not the last time you guys will be getting an 0:06:42.040 --> 0:06:46.760 ultrasound together for obviously you're gonna get more with this kid. Yeah, definitely, 0:06:46.800 --> 0:06:49.120 not for this pregnancy. Yeah yeah, But I'm saying you 0:06:49.160 --> 0:06:51.280 guys are definitely have more kids after this, I hope. So. 0:06:51.400 --> 0:06:54.719 I mean, the problem is Ashley is still having a 0:06:54.760 --> 0:06:57.680 pretty bad pregnancy up to this point where she's sick constantly. 0:06:57.760 --> 0:07:01.480 Did she threw up? She had macaroni and cheese yesterday 0:07:01.640 --> 0:07:05.599 like one o'clock in the afternoon because she was really hungry. Dude, 0:07:06.279 --> 0:07:09.520 five minutes later, she puked it all back up. It 0:07:09.640 --> 0:07:14.040 was disgusting. This might sound really ignorant of me, but 0:07:14.480 --> 0:07:17.000 I kind of would like dig being pregnant for nine months. 0:07:17.080 --> 0:07:18.600 You know, you can kind of get away with just 0:07:18.600 --> 0:07:20.800 about anything you want. You can eat anything you want, 0:07:21.080 --> 0:07:23.640 you can like far and puke wherever you want. Like, 0:07:23.720 --> 0:07:26.360 you get a lot of liberties for being a pregnant 0:07:26.440 --> 0:07:28.680 lady or you know, walking around the house. Yeah, but 0:07:28.720 --> 0:07:31.680 I also feel like you just explained like liberties of 0:07:31.720 --> 0:07:34.040 a of a guy, the things that we I feel 0:07:34.040 --> 0:07:35.680 like you and I as a guy, we can kind 0:07:35.680 --> 0:07:39.520 of far anywhere we could be disgusting and it's socially acceptable. 0:07:39.960 --> 0:07:41.880 I guess the only thing I can really compare it 0:07:41.880 --> 0:07:43.320 to is you know when you get like really sick 0:07:43.400 --> 0:07:44.840 or something like you have a flu, and it just 0:07:44.880 --> 0:07:46.680 like kind of knocks you on your butt. It's so 0:07:46.800 --> 0:07:48.720 nice to like just have an excuse to lay in 0:07:48.760 --> 0:07:51.440 bed all day and watch movies and eat crap. Because 0:07:51.480 --> 0:07:53.120 it's like, I'm sick, so I'm just gonna do this 0:07:53.200 --> 0:07:56.040 until I feel better. I guess pregnancy. I just would 0:07:56.040 --> 0:07:59.400 imagine be like that on steroids and for nine months 0:07:59.440 --> 0:08:03.200 instead of five days. I find myself eating worse because 0:08:03.440 --> 0:08:05.680 she's eating way worse. So when she sends me to 0:08:05.880 --> 0:08:09.400 McDonald's because she's craving a cheeseburger, like, wholl, I might 0:08:09.440 --> 0:08:11.280 as well get the big macmeal, you know. I mean, 0:08:11.400 --> 0:08:14.680 I'm here and so. But the problem is like one 0:08:14.720 --> 0:08:17.000 day it's McDonald's, the next day it's Taco Bell, and 0:08:17.000 --> 0:08:20.040 then we're making McCarney cheese at home, and I haven't 0:08:20.080 --> 0:08:23.640 had greens and eight days and like, oh god, I'm 0:08:23.680 --> 0:08:25.960 I am just not in the best shape of my life. 0:08:26.320 --> 0:08:29.120 She's gonna lose ten pounds in one day, and you're 0:08:29.120 --> 0:08:31.360 gonna take a year to get the ten pounds that 0:08:31.360 --> 0:08:34.640 you're gonna gain off a thousand percent um. But everything 0:08:34.720 --> 0:08:38.839 is good. I appreciate you asking um, and uh yeah, 0:08:38.920 --> 0:08:40.200 I want you to share the sex of the baby 0:08:40.320 --> 0:08:42.400 right now. That's the reason I'm asking Jared, what is 0:08:42.400 --> 0:08:44.680 the sex of the baby? Three to one? Say it? 0:08:47.000 --> 0:08:52.280 I can't, did you say it? I didn't. Unfortunately. Where 0:08:52.280 --> 0:08:54.880 are you right now in the world. I'm somewhere in Utah. 0:08:55.200 --> 0:08:57.400 So are you driving? Are you? Are you with Kalin? 0:08:57.440 --> 0:09:00.839 What are you doing? Yeah? I'm driving, driving around for 0:09:00.840 --> 0:09:03.760 a nice hike this morning for sunrise. Saw a nice 0:09:03.840 --> 0:09:07.280 natural hot spring up in the mountains here in Utah. 0:09:07.520 --> 0:09:09.480 I am uh oh. I fly back to l A 0:09:09.520 --> 0:09:12.080 today and then I fly back to utap tomorrow, and 0:09:12.080 --> 0:09:15.559 then I'm driving to Montana to uh hang out with 0:09:15.559 --> 0:09:17.280 my brother for a week before we go to New 0:09:17.360 --> 0:09:19.080 York for a couple of days. So when you fly 0:09:19.080 --> 0:09:20.800 out to l A, will you just leave your van 0:09:21.400 --> 0:09:23.600 in a safe spot? I hope. I'm just gonna park 0:09:23.640 --> 0:09:25.640 it at the airport and come back for it because 0:09:25.640 --> 0:09:27.040 it's only gonna be like a day, I think. So 0:09:27.360 --> 0:09:30.520 that makes sense. But then, so Caitlin and I are 0:09:30.559 --> 0:09:32.319 flying to New York. She really wants to go to 0:09:32.320 --> 0:09:33.800 the US Open. So we're gonna go see the US 0:09:33.840 --> 0:09:35.520 Open in New York next week or a week and 0:09:35.520 --> 0:09:38.520 a half or whatever it is. And then that'll be 0:09:38.559 --> 0:09:40.719 cool for you too. Yeah, I mean, I'm not a 0:09:40.720 --> 0:09:44.160 big tennis fan, but I'll gladly go there to support 0:09:44.160 --> 0:09:46.760 her interests. Um, and then from there we're gonna fly 0:09:47.000 --> 0:09:49.960 to Greece and then go to Italy for like a 0:09:49.960 --> 0:09:51.560 week and a half or two weeks. So that'll be 0:09:51.559 --> 0:09:54.400 like our first well it'll be my first time in 0:09:54.440 --> 0:09:56.920 Europe in a long time, obviously because of COVID, But 0:09:57.240 --> 0:09:58.880 it'll be interesting to see how it all plays out. 0:09:58.880 --> 0:10:01.000 I know Italy like might kind shut down again, so 0:10:01.080 --> 0:10:04.880 I'm a little skeptical of the trip. But um, yeah, 0:10:04.960 --> 0:10:07.440 you're getting hit pretty hard with this Delta Barrea right now, 0:10:07.480 --> 0:10:09.280 which sucks. But hopefully you guys are still a bit 0:10:09.320 --> 0:10:11.600 to go and stay safe and do Greece. Oh my god, 0:10:11.640 --> 0:10:13.120 I'm so jealous if you guys are able to go 0:10:13.160 --> 0:10:17.160 to Greece. We I dream of Santorini. Yeah, that's where 0:10:17.160 --> 0:10:19.360 we're going. I just feel a little guilty, like I 0:10:19.400 --> 0:10:21.640 know that COVID, Like it's just the fact that there's 0:10:21.640 --> 0:10:23.880 like so many cases coming up again, and like, yeah, 0:10:23.920 --> 0:10:26.360 we're vaccinated, but it's just I still feel like a 0:10:26.400 --> 0:10:28.960 little bit of guilt traveling to Europe at the moment. 0:10:29.080 --> 0:10:31.079 I don't think you should at all. I mean a 0:10:31.120 --> 0:10:34.720 lot of these places, I mean, especially places like Greece 0:10:34.880 --> 0:10:36.679 or even Italy to a certain extent, A lot of 0:10:36.720 --> 0:10:39.439 the you know, tourism is the one that brings in money. 0:10:39.960 --> 0:10:43.640 I mean, it's you know, one day we're all gonna die. 0:10:44.000 --> 0:10:48.120 So like they don't feel guilty about taking a week 0:10:48.160 --> 0:10:50.840 and a half vacation with your girlfriend. Yeah, no, I 0:10:50.880 --> 0:10:52.839 know you're right, but I just can't help it a 0:10:52.880 --> 0:10:55.320 little bit. But yeah, that's that's kinda what what we're doing. 0:10:55.400 --> 0:11:00.079 So nothing nothing. Oh yeah, you might have to this 0:11:00.120 --> 0:11:01.640 podcast on your own, by the way, next week. I 0:11:01.679 --> 0:11:02.800 don't know if I told you that. Yeah, I don't 0:11:02.800 --> 0:11:05.079 think I feel anyone that yet, but we'll see. Okay, 0:11:05.320 --> 0:11:07.640 Well that sucks because you're the true talent behind this. 0:11:07.720 --> 0:11:09.760 I just kind of the entire time, we all know 0:11:09.840 --> 0:11:12.079 it's true. Well, let's get into a couple of hot 0:11:12.080 --> 0:11:15.959 topics before we move into our guest um. This is 0:11:16.000 --> 0:11:19.720 from the New York Post headline frisky couple spotted having 0:11:19.840 --> 0:11:24.160 naked morning sex on cliff during lockdown, Dean, we all 0:11:24.200 --> 0:11:26.760 know this was you and Kalen. They took quote sex 0:11:26.800 --> 0:11:29.800 on the beach to New Heights in Australian couple are 0:11:29.840 --> 0:11:32.720 going viral after they're spotty getting frisky on a cliff 0:11:32.920 --> 0:11:35.839 during lockdown. Quote just don't just thought it was a 0:11:35.840 --> 0:11:38.760 little levity given the times and the new restrictions. Photographed 0:11:38.760 --> 0:11:42.600 Scott Robinson told the news, Uh, he was the one 0:11:42.640 --> 0:11:45.800 who took these picks. Uh. He took them from the 0:11:45.840 --> 0:11:50.880 water while swimming. Uh sees quote he says, see lots 0:11:50.920 --> 0:11:53.920 of wildlife, but never hear up on the cliffs. So 0:11:54.000 --> 0:11:56.000 the resulting pick, First of all, is this legal? Can 0:11:56.040 --> 0:11:59.200 you like take pictures of people having sex publicly? I 0:11:59.280 --> 0:12:01.120 was gonna say that's kind of messed up. I would 0:12:01.120 --> 0:12:04.000 be piste off. I was the couple. I mean granted, like, yeah, 0:12:04.000 --> 0:12:05.760 you're having sex outside, so it's like you kind of 0:12:06.160 --> 0:12:09.120 get what's coming to you. But like, who just takes 0:12:09.120 --> 0:12:11.960 a picture of people banging and then go ahead, goes 0:12:11.960 --> 0:12:14.200 ahead and like publishes it to the news outlets. It's 0:12:14.280 --> 0:12:16.640 kind of weird. That's pretty great, So it goes on. 0:12:16.679 --> 0:12:20.480 The resulting pick, which Robinson posted in the private Facebook group, 0:12:21.440 --> 0:12:24.640 shows the buck naked couple going at it halfway up 0:12:24.640 --> 0:12:28.679 a coastal cliff, right under the noses of obvious sightseers 0:12:28.720 --> 0:12:31.760 standing atop the bluff. These people are insane and the 0:12:31.800 --> 0:12:37.479 incompany caption the photo jokingly pondered whether they're sextra circular 0:12:37.520 --> 0:12:42.720 activities were considered quote outdoor recreation or outdoor exercise. Wow, 0:12:42.760 --> 0:12:45.000 he's a real he's a real jokes or that one 0:12:45.000 --> 0:12:47.760 should be a stand up comedian. The photographer also referenced 0:12:47.800 --> 0:12:52.840 Australia's renewed lockdown restrictions would stipulate that New South Wales 0:12:52.960 --> 0:12:57.800 residents cannot leave their government areas except to exercise or 0:12:57.880 --> 0:13:01.120 engage in other essential active at ease. I mean this 0:13:01.240 --> 0:13:03.480 is kind of essential. I think sex is essential, you 0:13:03.559 --> 0:13:08.760 know what I mean? Alright, quick, nice quick sidebar? Is 0:13:08.800 --> 0:13:11.680 it buck naked or butt naked? Okay? I was thought 0:13:11.679 --> 0:13:13.959 it was butt naked, but in the article it is 0:13:14.000 --> 0:13:18.199 spelled b u c k dash naked, So maybe that's 0:13:18.240 --> 0:13:20.360 like an Australian thing. Yeah, I was thinking, I don't know, 0:13:20.400 --> 0:13:24.520 because you know, maybe bucks like a like a you know, 0:13:25.160 --> 0:13:27.840 like a buck, because they're naked. Why not? Why wouldn't 0:13:27.840 --> 0:13:29.960 it be like moose naked or something? I don't know. 0:13:30.240 --> 0:13:32.520 I'm currently drinking coffee out of a monkey cup, so 0:13:32.520 --> 0:13:34.800 why would it be mucky naked? Their monkey? There? You 0:13:34.840 --> 0:13:37.200 know they're naked too. That's a good point. Jared where 0:13:37.240 --> 0:13:40.400 is Speaking of buck naked, where was the weirdest place 0:13:40.440 --> 0:13:44.080 that you and Ashley have ever been buck naked together? Uh? 0:13:44.160 --> 0:13:48.520 The weirdest, like the most bizarre, the most out of 0:13:48.559 --> 0:13:51.560 the Um. Oh, that's a great question. I feel like 0:13:51.600 --> 0:13:55.439 you probably have a better answer than me. Uh, yeah, 0:13:55.520 --> 0:14:00.200 we haven't. Really we never did it in a public place. Um. 0:14:00.520 --> 0:14:03.560 I guess, man, I'm so lame. Probably just in the 0:14:03.640 --> 0:14:07.880 living room, you know, so in the apartment, but you know, 0:14:07.920 --> 0:14:11.320 getting frisky in the in the non bedroom environment, and 0:14:11.360 --> 0:14:13.640 you know, we we stayed down in the living room 0:14:13.640 --> 0:14:15.680 and you know, did some things and had a good time. 0:14:15.679 --> 0:14:18.360 And now I tell the tale and help I suck 0:14:18.360 --> 0:14:22.680 a dating. Is that where baby Haven was conceived? No, 0:14:22.880 --> 0:14:29.280 baby Haven was conceived, Actually baby Haven was conceived. I 0:14:29.320 --> 0:14:31.520 don't even know if I should say this. Yeah, come on, 0:14:31.600 --> 0:14:36.840 say it in her parents house, in her parents bedroom. No, God, 0:14:36.960 --> 0:14:39.800 that would be I don't think I'd ever be able 0:14:39.840 --> 0:14:42.280 to look at our kid h the same way. Again, 0:14:42.320 --> 0:14:44.400 if that happened it was down in the guest room. 0:14:44.600 --> 0:14:46.160 It would have been cool if it was their bedroom, 0:14:46.200 --> 0:14:48.360 because then it would be like Ashley was conceived there. 0:14:48.480 --> 0:14:51.160 And now you guys, kid is conceived there. Yeah, no, 0:14:51.280 --> 0:14:55.120 that's disgusting. Where's the weirdest place you and Kaylin have 0:14:55.240 --> 0:14:59.600 ever been frisky? Whoa dude? That's a really personal question. 0:15:01.480 --> 0:15:05.920 Who brought this guy? I don't know. We're pretty we're 0:15:05.960 --> 0:15:08.000 kind of in the same thing as you guys, probably 0:15:09.520 --> 0:15:12.320 somewhere in the living room. I gotta admit I feel 0:15:12.560 --> 0:15:14.840 if if people had to pull, like if we pulled 0:15:14.880 --> 0:15:16.680 all of suck Army and said, who do you think 0:15:16.840 --> 0:15:19.080 is more adventurous in their sex life Dean and Caitlin 0:15:19.160 --> 0:15:21.000 or Ashley and Jared, I feel like you guys would 0:15:21.000 --> 0:15:23.560 win in a landslide. Yeah. Maybe we just give off 0:15:23.560 --> 0:15:25.840 that vibe. I don't know. I feel like all like 0:15:25.960 --> 0:15:28.360 all that, all the oddities and like the weirdness when 0:15:28.400 --> 0:15:30.640 it comes to like fun locations when you're doing it 0:15:30.720 --> 0:15:32.480 like that, I feel like that's just like something you 0:15:32.520 --> 0:15:34.240 do as a kid, you know, like up until you're 0:15:34.240 --> 0:15:38.000 like I think you just kind of grow out of 0:15:38.040 --> 0:15:39.960 it at some point, yeah, because then you start pulling 0:15:40.000 --> 0:15:42.760 hamstrings and your back gets tight and you're like, this 0:15:42.800 --> 0:15:44.440 is just so stupid. What are we doing. Let's go 0:15:44.480 --> 0:15:46.640 in the bedroom. We can have much more flexibility in there. 0:15:46.840 --> 0:15:51.240 I would say, I'm assuming that the weirdest or most 0:15:51.240 --> 0:15:54.200 obscure place that you guys have ever, you know, mm 0:15:54.320 --> 0:16:01.560 hmm would be the van. Oh yeah, yeah, that's probably 0:16:01.560 --> 0:16:05.320 not wrong. Again, I just yeah, I guess, do you ever? 0:16:05.680 --> 0:16:07.920 I mean whatever, we're open books, but like just it 0:16:07.960 --> 0:16:11.440 kind of feels a little weird talking about this. This 0:16:11.480 --> 0:16:14.040 whole thing is weird talking about it. I just like 0:16:14.080 --> 0:16:16.680 I could see a kid Carrie Kaylin getting upset, but like, 0:16:17.680 --> 0:16:21.760 you know, she's a Christian woman, she's pure. I mean, 0:16:21.760 --> 0:16:24.840 we don't have to go into details here. It's just like, yeah, 0:16:25.000 --> 0:16:28.400 you know, maybe you guys have had overnight dates in 0:16:28.440 --> 0:16:31.600 the in the van. We moved together. We lived together 0:16:31.600 --> 0:16:33.240 for like two years, so I guess it's bound that 0:16:33.320 --> 0:16:35.040 we're bound to touch each other's privates at least a 0:16:35.040 --> 0:16:37.680 little bit at some Yeah, the the van would probably 0:16:37.680 --> 0:16:42.120 be the weird spot. Um there, maybe it's like another 0:16:42.160 --> 0:16:43.840 weird one, but I can't seem to think of it 0:16:43.960 --> 0:16:48.600 right now. But in my entire life, I don't know, 0:16:49.120 --> 0:16:50.920 Like I said, I I used did it. Maybe I 0:16:50.960 --> 0:16:52.520 did weird things when I was like a kid, like 0:16:52.560 --> 0:16:57.120 a teenager, but I haven't done anything anything it's overly 0:16:57.160 --> 0:16:59.040 weird in a long time. One time I got a 0:16:59.080 --> 0:17:03.760 black eye, uh from you know, doing the damn thing 0:17:03.760 --> 0:17:06.280 as they say. I thought we were being We were 0:17:06.280 --> 0:17:09.360 down in a basement and there were pipes and like 0:17:09.480 --> 0:17:13.040 exposed edges of tables, and we thought it was a 0:17:13.040 --> 0:17:17.720 good idea, and then i'd like leaned down for something. 0:17:17.760 --> 0:17:20.920 I forget why, but I hit my heart my eye 0:17:21.119 --> 0:17:25.480 so hard on a pipe and my eye immediately blew 0:17:25.600 --> 0:17:28.080 up and it was all bloodshot. Dude. It was bloodshot 0:17:28.119 --> 0:17:30.159 and black and blue for a week afterwards, and I 0:17:30.200 --> 0:17:32.359 had to explain to people what the hell happened to me, 0:17:32.760 --> 0:17:34.320 and they were like, what happened to you? And my 0:17:34.680 --> 0:17:37.760 just I just I walked into a pole. It's a 0:17:37.840 --> 0:17:41.840 long story, so pathetic, of course, Like as soon as 0:17:41.840 --> 0:17:44.359 I tried something adventurous, it just goes downhill. I think 0:17:44.400 --> 0:17:46.440 I've shared this already on this podcast, but I can't 0:17:46.440 --> 0:17:48.040 remember it. There was a weird phase I was in 0:17:48.040 --> 0:17:50.040 in college where I wanted people to punch me in 0:17:50.080 --> 0:17:51.560 the face and so, like, I had a crush on 0:17:51.600 --> 0:17:54.280 this girl, what do you Brad Pitt from Fight Club? 0:17:54.680 --> 0:17:56.280 I guess maybe I had just seen the movie and 0:17:56.280 --> 0:17:58.280 I was inspired. I like had the crush on this girl. 0:17:58.320 --> 0:18:00.639 She's really pretty begun on a you dates. And then 0:18:00.680 --> 0:18:02.720 we were all like this house party together and I 0:18:02.760 --> 0:18:04.199 was like, just punched me in the face as hard 0:18:04.240 --> 0:18:06.600 as you can, and she was like, no, that's weird, 0:18:06.680 --> 0:18:08.320 and I was like do it. And then and then 0:18:08.359 --> 0:18:10.080 eventually she started just like punching me in the face 0:18:10.160 --> 0:18:11.919 and I was like, yeah, I don't know, it was 0:18:11.920 --> 0:18:15.479 really weird. Did this escalate into a frisky situation? Like 0:18:15.600 --> 0:18:17.320 is there a good ending to this story? Or did 0:18:17.359 --> 0:18:19.280 she just punch you in the face. We were like 0:18:19.280 --> 0:18:20.879 in the middle of a house party and she was 0:18:20.960 --> 0:18:22.800 like she was like laying on top, like I was 0:18:22.840 --> 0:18:24.399 like laying flat on my back on the ground, and 0:18:24.400 --> 0:18:26.359 she was like straddling me like a fully clothed like 0:18:26.359 --> 0:18:28.080 not sexual at all, and I was just like punched 0:18:28.080 --> 0:18:30.639 me in the face. And it was really weird. And 0:18:30.640 --> 0:18:31.879 then I woke up the next morning and I had 0:18:31.880 --> 0:18:33.840 this really bad black eye and I was like, Okay, 0:18:34.080 --> 0:18:36.240 as far as anyone is concerned, that doesn't know how 0:18:36.240 --> 0:18:38.720 I got this. I got like a six street fight 0:18:38.960 --> 0:18:41.159 with a big guy. He kicked his butt, but he 0:18:41.200 --> 0:18:44.800 got one lucky punch in so yeah, you should see. Yeah. 0:18:44.840 --> 0:18:47.560 I wouldn't say those are my proudest moments, but it was, 0:18:47.960 --> 0:18:50.200 you know, it was, it happened, So it's it's part 0:18:50.240 --> 0:18:51.600 of what makes me me, I guess, and I know 0:18:51.640 --> 0:18:53.560 in reality Dean woke up and was like, I'm never 0:18:53.640 --> 0:18:57.480 drinking again. Um. Yeah. We do have a great couple 0:18:57.480 --> 0:19:00.600 of guests coming up from Shaws of on Set. We 0:19:00.680 --> 0:19:06.600 have Mike show It and Paulina ben Cohen, which, of course, uh, 0:19:06.760 --> 0:19:09.919 Shaw's of Sunset airs on Bravo Sunday nights, eight pm. 0:19:09.920 --> 0:19:12.919 It's in its ninth season. Uh. And they're gonna be 0:19:12.960 --> 0:19:24.120 coming up on the podcast right after this quick break. 0:19:25.680 --> 0:19:28.800 Welcome back to help I suck at dating Dean myself, 0:19:28.840 --> 0:19:31.560 and we have some very special guests from Shaws of Sunset, 0:19:31.600 --> 0:19:33.919 which of course airs on Bravo Sunday nights at eight 0:19:34.000 --> 0:19:37.359 p m. In its ninth season. It is Mike show 0:19:37.400 --> 0:19:40.320 It and Paulina ben Cohen. How are you guys, Thanks 0:19:40.320 --> 0:19:44.160 for coming on the podcast, Thanks for having us, Oh 0:19:44.200 --> 0:19:46.800 my god. Of course. So, like I said, it's going 0:19:46.840 --> 0:19:50.480 into its ninth season, Shaw's of Sunset. Uh, it's a 0:19:50.520 --> 0:19:53.760 crazy successful show. Mike, Uh, you know when you first 0:19:53.760 --> 0:19:55.000 were on the show, did you ever think it was 0:19:55.000 --> 0:19:59.920 gonna turn into this? Not a chance? Like they gave 0:20:00.000 --> 0:20:03.760 a six episode season one. We filmed the teaser in 0:20:04.119 --> 0:20:06.960 a friend's backyard. I think it's gonna be a fun run. 0:20:06.960 --> 0:20:10.800 I'll have some some little bit of fame, and man, 0:20:11.280 --> 0:20:14.360 it was incredible to see what it blew up into 0:20:14.440 --> 0:20:18.040 becoming like, uh yeah the show. The show aired, and 0:20:18.080 --> 0:20:22.000 Bravo was just in shock, like wow, we found the 0:20:22.119 --> 0:20:24.680 next big thing. Over a million and a half people 0:20:24.680 --> 0:20:27.760 tuned into the show. They were super excited, and before 0:20:27.800 --> 0:20:30.639