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Speaker 2: I don't. I don't even know if I'll ever meet.

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Speaker 1: But what I want to know is if things work

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Speaker 1: At what point do I have to fire my hairstylist

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Speaker 2: That's it. Could you pay her? Yess? Yeah, no, not

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Speaker 2: even after a month. No, I've never paid Jess for

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Speaker 1: Once you get married maybe, but like I would think

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Speaker 2: No, just give her something later. Yeah you know, well

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Speaker 2: we know what that would be like because you've talked

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Speaker 2: In the beginning, I was getting a national average up,

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Speaker 1: Ah, the Philippines was not on this lesson, but I know,

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Speaker 2: No, So I mean, did you have you ever had this?

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Speaker 1: But I mean, have you ever had this happen before?

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Speaker 6: Maybe?

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Speaker 5: So mad, but He's probably like, well whatever, like you

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Speaker 2: She just said, I want you to hit that mark.

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Speaker 2: You don't want that the apology tour. Yeah you know

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Speaker 1: So well, that was my opening line to her, was

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Speaker 1: I would not want my boyfriend to fire their stylist. Plus,

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Speaker 1: She's never in thirteen years, she's never changed my price.

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Speaker 2: It went up the men's haircut the barbershops day. They're

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm been dating my fiancee now for the last

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Speaker 2: Well, I mean that's different.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, you know, if your barber's incarcerated, what are you

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Speaker 2: I don't mix personal with business. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: A lot of people here are saying this is you know,

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Speaker 1: hey Kelly, Yes, hey Kelly.

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: So this woman and by the way, I've never even

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Speaker 1: and you are a hairstylist, apparently, Kelly, wouldn't it be offensive?

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Speaker 2: Though?

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Speaker 1: If I'm like, no, I mean, I really enjoy seeing

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Speaker 9: The guy that i've been does it really trust me

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Speaker 6: And honestly, it's the best thing that the hair happened

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Speaker 6: all the time, or be like worried about his hair

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Speaker 6: looking bad because I'm the one that's doing it.

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Speaker 2: Ice, So you're like, if your hair looks got as

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Speaker 7: I love it, I love it?

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Speaker 6: Okay, honestly, No, it's not really that bad, I don't think.

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Speaker 9: I'm not offended, okay, And I've been doing hair for fifteen.

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Speaker 1: Yes, thank you so much.

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Speaker 2: I remember I love you too.

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Speaker 1: I remember when Rufio you were trying to put color

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Speaker 2: Aer a perm. That's what it was, per Jesus Bruno Mars.

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Speaker 2: He wanted a perm and she wouldn't do it. But

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Speaker 1: One because she wouldn't do it because she didn't think

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Speaker 2: Basically, Oh, she wouldn't have been mad.

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Speaker 3: No, she would have been like, see you got what

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Speaker 3: No, she would have been fine of me doing it.

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Speaker 3: She just didn't want to do it because it's a

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Speaker 3: Like I can't do that at the house, and you're

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Speaker 3: not paying for it either. So this guy, well, I mean,

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Speaker 3: I guess I wouldn't pay my wife either. I wouldn't

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Speaker 3: that you're not doing. Hey, Ryan, Hey man, why is

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Speaker 2: Ryan?

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Speaker 1: Should I fire my and I've never met this woman,

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Speaker 1: but if I dated or should I fire my hairstylist Christy?

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Speaker 9: Who?

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Speaker 2: I can't imagine if.

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Speaker 7: I would say based on your tracks, probably waiting a

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Speaker 7: your wife partner because if you guys break up, then

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Speaker 7: you're gonna have to go back to your old hair.

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Speaker 2: So yeah, go crawling back. You're so right, I say, Is.

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Speaker 7: She canceled because she's sick of the appointment, then go

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Speaker 7: to your current girl.

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Speaker 2: Right right? That makes sense? That makes it? Okay?

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Speaker 1: All right, fair enough, Bryan, thank you, and then you're

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Speaker 1: you're not wrong. Have a good day, ob Gy and Lena? Hi,

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Speaker 1: ob guy and Lena? How are you a long time?

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Speaker 2: No see?

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Speaker 7: Hi?

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Speaker 1: Are you offering to do ob g I n inspections

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Speaker 1: here in the on the show, Is that what you

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Speaker 1: want to do? Those are called right inspections? Yes. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: it's like like an emissions check. Right, you're just pulling

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Speaker 1: the old garage and they just take it. Look see

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Speaker 1: is that what happens in the inspection.

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Speaker 2: And everything? They call them exam? You go for a

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Speaker 2: yearly exam.

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Speaker 9: You're yearly well woman exam. Every woman should go out

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Speaker 9: there and get it. Let's cut their cancer while we can't.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, good p s a shout out glean. I

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Speaker 2: think you're right, So would you?

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Speaker 1: I mean, I'm trying to think of the example, like

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Speaker 1: do you do you do your friends come and see

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Speaker 1: you or do they keep that separate?

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Speaker 9: I do so I have some friends and even some

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Speaker 9: that come and see me. It's at first it was

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Speaker 9: a little weird to some of them, but then they

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Speaker 9: realized that it's still there's still a level of a

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Speaker 9: professional relationship. So they know that I'm not going to

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Speaker 9: go around telling their business or anything like that, and

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Speaker 9: they actually know they're going to get better here with

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Speaker 9: me more than anything else. So I took care of

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Speaker 9: my sister during her pregnancy, and but it was my

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Speaker 9: partners who actually when it came to surgery, we kind

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Speaker 9: of drew the line and my partner actually did hear

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Speaker 9: the sections.

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Speaker 2: Okay, because yeah, ethically, isn't it like it's a little

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Speaker 2: too close to home?

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Speaker 9: Oh definitely, Like I was there for it, but if

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Speaker 9: I was the one operating, I probably wouldn't have made

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Speaker 9: the decision that was made in the o R. And

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Speaker 9: they have had a bad outcome, So okay, that's why

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Speaker 9: we stay out of the surgery.

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Speaker 2: Okay.

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Speaker 9: But I did do my nephew's circumcision, and there was

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Speaker 9: a lot of like, oh my god, are you sure

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Speaker 9: you want.

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Speaker 7: To do that?

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Speaker 9: And I was like, you know, if I trust myself

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Speaker 9: to do it on anybody else, why would it be

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Speaker 9: any different in this case?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, he's never going to live. That dad at family

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Speaker 1: reunions be like hey, yeah, right, I think is that

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Speaker 1: thing looking?

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Speaker 8: Is that thing?

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Speaker 2: Is that thing banging? Because I know it's my best

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Speaker 2: work right there, I will say.

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Speaker 9: And his dad came to me a few days later

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Speaker 9: and he's like, all the nurses keep asking he did

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Speaker 9: his circumcision, like that it looks great? And I was like, see,

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Speaker 9: I told you, I don't just make this up.

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: So yeah, when he's like sixteen seventeen, he can tell

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Speaker 1: his girlfriend be like, hey, I think that I did that.

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Speaker 2: I did that.

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Speaker 7: You're welcome, Yeah exactly.

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Speaker 9: There have things going over there.

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Speaker 1: But see lean like if you were my friend and

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Speaker 1: I were a girl, I mean, and I know that

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Speaker 1: you guys are it's different, and I know that people

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Speaker 1: have different attitudes towards doctors than I do. Like in

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Speaker 1: that I think you guys are internalizing everything when I

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Speaker 1: go in, I think you're looking this is me, this

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Speaker 1: is my self consciousness. I feel like when I go

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Speaker 1: to the doctor and I'm like, I got the poops

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Speaker 1: or something, I feel like you guys are going, oh,

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Speaker 1: that's gross, even though you've heard a million things and

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Speaker 1: don't care, But like, are wouldn't you be afraid that, like,

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Speaker 1: if you had something embarrassing that your friend just knows

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Speaker 1: that it's just hanging out way back there in the

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Speaker 1: storage closet in the back of your brain, that you

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Speaker 1: came in there with that nasty thing.

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Speaker 9: Well, I mean, I'll speak for myself at least and

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Speaker 9: a lot of my colleagues that I work with. When

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Speaker 9: we when you go into medicine, especially into a field

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Speaker 9: like OBGYN, you view like the female anatomy very differently.

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Speaker 9: I don't think about those parts the way that the

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Speaker 9: average person does. And so to me, it's not so

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Speaker 9: much oh my god, that's gross. It's more like, oh,

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Speaker 9: she has a pathology and it needs to be treated.

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Speaker 9: It's a lot more enclosed in that realm, rather than

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Speaker 9: oh my god, that's gross.

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Speaker 1: Okay, because I don't. I want to be clear, it's

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Speaker 1: not gross. But for me, I guess I would be like, oh, great,

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Speaker 1: my friend knows that I got the civius, you know

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Speaker 1: what I mean, And to be very convenient, because then

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Speaker 1: if my friend knows that I got the cervius, then

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Speaker 1: she could just come over here, or she could just

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Speaker 1: come over and treat the civist and I never had

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Speaker 1: to go anywhere. But but yet my friend knows I

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Speaker 1: got the simbus, and I don't know if I want that.

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Speaker 9: Yeah, I mean, I could see where that would come

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Speaker 9: into play. But that's why, you know, the personal decision. Overall,

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Speaker 9: I think that if you are practicing in this field,

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Speaker 9: more than likely you're able to compartmentalize things, and okay,

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Speaker 9: not think about that when you're out with your friends.

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Speaker 1: Well, shout out to you, obgu I and Lena been

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Speaker 1: listening for a long time. She does all my inspections,

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Speaker 1: so I'm yeah, all of that, all the inspections.

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Speaker 2: Thank you, Lena.

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Speaker 9: Have a good day, no problem, have a great day.

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Speaker 1: And I'm glad you called. Thanks for still listening. I

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Speaker 1: was wondering where she was. Our free medical advice more

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