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I listened to the Black Guy Who Tips 10 00:00:31,040 --> 00:00:35,080 Speaker 1: podcast because Rod and Karen are a hot Who. 11 00:00:34,800 --> 00:00:37,519 Speaker 2: The fuck at bino this nigga on your tvo? My 12 00:00:37,600 --> 00:00:40,319 Speaker 2: hotel costs a kilo. I'm banking like a free throw. 13 00:00:40,600 --> 00:00:43,840 Speaker 2: Fuck y'all. We eighteen y'all playing be like Walgreens cop 14 00:00:43,880 --> 00:00:46,440 Speaker 2: that shit in painted black niggas. Won't they sum up that? 15 00:00:46,800 --> 00:00:50,320 Speaker 2: Ha ha, No way, Hue blows doughce Bean's in my 16 00:00:50,360 --> 00:00:52,560 Speaker 2: head girl, MCOs you see over the man, but seeing 17 00:00:52,560 --> 00:00:55,320 Speaker 2: me tomorrow homegirl own that master p watch us ball 18 00:00:55,400 --> 00:00:59,560 Speaker 2: like referees, unnecessary roughness. Were just trying to function. Used 19 00:00:59,560 --> 00:01:01,600 Speaker 2: to support them, feel us because my cousin packed them. 20 00:01:01,600 --> 00:01:03,720 Speaker 2: He is, you know, wipe them like Aleva. We just 21 00:01:03,760 --> 00:01:05,920 Speaker 2: partied and we leave them tell them what we're hitting. 22 00:01:05,920 --> 00:01:07,520 Speaker 2: We don't really see him a girl look best which 23 00:01:07,520 --> 00:01:09,280 Speaker 2: you fitted me and being in the house and your 24 00:01:09,360 --> 00:01:13,840 Speaker 2: niggas in the Senate get it. Hey, welcome to the 25 00:01:13,840 --> 00:01:17,280 Speaker 2: Blackout Tips podcast. Your host Rod and and we're in 26 00:01:17,280 --> 00:01:20,880 Speaker 2: the house on a Saturday morning. M hm, which means 27 00:01:20,920 --> 00:01:24,840 Speaker 2: it's feedback time. That's all right, time to talk about uh, 28 00:01:25,520 --> 00:01:27,720 Speaker 2: all the stuff that you guys sent us. 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The The donate button is on the right 39 00:02:00,080 --> 00:02:04,080 Speaker 2: hand side of the website on the front page. We 40 00:02:04,120 --> 00:02:06,200 Speaker 2: go to the Blackout Tips dot com just go hey, 41 00:02:06,400 --> 00:02:09,240 Speaker 2: donate button and it'll pop up and you can you 42 00:02:09,240 --> 00:02:12,240 Speaker 2: can do that as well, so lots of ways to 43 00:02:12,280 --> 00:02:14,560 Speaker 2: get in touch with them, lots of ways to let 44 00:02:14,639 --> 00:02:17,160 Speaker 2: us know that you're out there, your listener, enjoying what 45 00:02:17,200 --> 00:02:19,480 Speaker 2: we're talking about. You're picking up what we're putting down, 46 00:02:19,520 --> 00:02:24,400 Speaker 2: as they say. And you know this, this this episode 47 00:02:24,720 --> 00:02:26,799 Speaker 2: once a week is dedicated to the fans, you know, 48 00:02:26,919 --> 00:02:29,440 Speaker 2: the people that we wouldn't be doing this show if 49 00:02:29,480 --> 00:02:33,720 Speaker 2: nobody was listening. You know, people that have been riding 50 00:02:33,720 --> 00:02:37,119 Speaker 2: with USS and stuff like that. You know, it's weird 51 00:02:37,120 --> 00:02:39,040 Speaker 2: because it's like our least listened to show of the week, 52 00:02:39,080 --> 00:02:40,880 Speaker 2: but it's one of my it's my favorite show to dude, 53 00:02:41,280 --> 00:02:43,160 Speaker 2: because we get to hear from you guys and what 54 00:02:43,240 --> 00:02:46,519 Speaker 2: you think and about what we said, and interact and 55 00:02:46,680 --> 00:02:50,679 Speaker 2: kind of get to know people via their feedback. So uh. 56 00:02:50,720 --> 00:02:52,760 Speaker 2: And you can also leave voicemails at two minutes or 57 00:02:52,840 --> 00:02:56,720 Speaker 2: less seven or four five, five, seven, zero one eighty six. Uh, 58 00:02:56,760 --> 00:02:58,440 Speaker 2: but they have to be two minutes or less because 59 00:02:58,520 --> 00:02:59,399 Speaker 2: kite will cut it off. 60 00:02:59,480 --> 00:03:01,120 Speaker 3: Okay, then we didn't set that rule. 61 00:03:01,320 --> 00:03:03,399 Speaker 2: Yeah, and so we'll play those if we got any 62 00:03:03,480 --> 00:03:06,640 Speaker 2: this week as well, and you won't hear a prompt. 63 00:03:06,639 --> 00:03:09,560 Speaker 2: It'll just say like you've reached the skip caller who 64 00:03:09,600 --> 00:03:11,320 Speaker 2: is not at the line. 65 00:03:11,200 --> 00:03:14,560 Speaker 3: To take your call a generic white woman, right, so 66 00:03:14,600 --> 00:03:15,040 Speaker 3: you can. 67 00:03:15,240 --> 00:03:21,320 Speaker 2: You could just you could just uh leave leave there 68 00:03:21,320 --> 00:03:24,000 Speaker 2: in the fifty three, Uh Carr, you know I take 69 00:03:24,000 --> 00:03:26,360 Speaker 2: offense to that now that I'm over here, Pumpkins, Spike Staf, Okay, 70 00:03:27,639 --> 00:03:28,600 Speaker 2: it's not all of us. 71 00:03:28,720 --> 00:03:30,919 Speaker 4: Well, you're gonna have to be offended because them your people, 72 00:03:30,960 --> 00:03:32,720 Speaker 4: women of white women of color over there. 73 00:03:32,800 --> 00:03:34,520 Speaker 2: And this is why we not get ollives. That's why 74 00:03:34,800 --> 00:03:39,560 Speaker 2: I'm not starting. That's why I wasn't with her. 75 00:03:39,920 --> 00:03:41,960 Speaker 3: Everything is that's darkest falling. 76 00:03:41,720 --> 00:03:44,560 Speaker 2: And comments like that. And I'll just make sure to 77 00:03:44,600 --> 00:03:46,520 Speaker 2: get my infinitive caf and get the hell out of here. 78 00:03:46,760 --> 00:03:49,280 Speaker 3: I know, gone in there, do your yoga class. 79 00:03:50,040 --> 00:03:52,880 Speaker 2: But yeah, you can leave feedback out those ways we 80 00:03:52,960 --> 00:03:57,360 Speaker 2: just brought up. All right, let's the official weapon of 81 00:03:57,360 --> 00:04:02,160 Speaker 2: the show is and the unoffen show sport. It's ball 82 00:04:02,520 --> 00:04:09,320 Speaker 2: at bullet ball to the motherfucking extreme nigga. Uh all right, 83 00:04:09,400 --> 00:04:13,720 Speaker 2: Let's see if I can find the music for for 84 00:04:13,920 --> 00:04:17,560 Speaker 2: our donations. Uh, you guys send money in and we 85 00:04:17,760 --> 00:04:35,080 Speaker 2: like to to h read the names depression. Today's a 86 00:04:35,120 --> 00:04:39,280 Speaker 2: new day, that's right, Kimberly Jay, thank you very much 87 00:04:39,320 --> 00:04:44,680 Speaker 2: for your current donation. We appreciate you. Uh. Who else 88 00:04:44,680 --> 00:04:47,280 Speaker 2: he got here? Sorry, my phones with us, so Marcus E. 89 00:04:47,960 --> 00:04:51,719 Speaker 2: Thank you so much. Marcus Hall eight. Oh, this is 90 00:04:51,760 --> 00:04:53,719 Speaker 2: doing the same thing. It's going back to the AH. 91 00:04:54,120 --> 00:04:56,440 Speaker 2: I read these people's names, all right. 92 00:04:56,520 --> 00:04:56,840 Speaker 3: Let me. 93 00:04:58,279 --> 00:05:01,800 Speaker 2: Let me start at the top. Johnny, thank you very much. Jonathan. 94 00:05:01,839 --> 00:05:07,160 Speaker 2: We appreciate your recurrent donation. Anthonys Andy, I'm sorry, Thank you, Andy. 95 00:05:07,760 --> 00:05:11,520 Speaker 2: Corey B. We appreciate your Corey K M. Thank you 96 00:05:11,600 --> 00:05:11,960 Speaker 2: so much. 97 00:05:12,080 --> 00:05:12,240 Speaker 5: Kay. 98 00:05:12,400 --> 00:05:16,239 Speaker 2: We'll appreciate your recurrent donation. Early Daily Photography, of course, 99 00:05:16,279 --> 00:05:19,560 Speaker 2: thank you so much. Early Daily Photographer. Yes, Calter H. 100 00:05:19,720 --> 00:05:23,080 Speaker 2: Thank you, Calter. Appreciate you. Mic Cole F. Thank you, 101 00:05:23,120 --> 00:05:28,520 Speaker 2: Mi Cole. Let's see who else you got here. Marvin B. Yes, 102 00:05:29,560 --> 00:05:35,719 Speaker 2: Marvin B. Recurrent donations. J Full, appreciate you j Full. Chrishelle, 103 00:05:35,880 --> 00:05:40,120 Speaker 2: she hooked us up. Thank you, Chrishelle. Appreciate you. Candice 104 00:05:40,480 --> 00:05:42,320 Speaker 2: H is good to see you in church this morning. 105 00:05:43,200 --> 00:05:48,080 Speaker 2: Asia D, thank you so much. Asia D. Nerves and luxury, Okay, 106 00:05:48,200 --> 00:05:52,479 Speaker 2: appreciate them coming through and donating a little something. Justin Jay, 107 00:05:52,640 --> 00:05:55,680 Speaker 2: we appreciate you. Justin, Thank you so much. For donating 108 00:05:55,680 --> 00:06:00,520 Speaker 2: to the show. Bambi, thank you very much. Bamby H. 109 00:06:00,720 --> 00:06:06,279 Speaker 2: Latanya dep appreciate you, Latanya, Adam S. Thank you. Adam 110 00:06:06,279 --> 00:06:10,280 Speaker 2: will appreciate you. Looking out for the show. Katie G. 111 00:06:11,000 --> 00:06:14,320 Speaker 2: Thank you so much. Katie. Jason J. I feel like 112 00:06:14,320 --> 00:06:17,000 Speaker 2: I said his name already, but thank you Jason for 113 00:06:17,120 --> 00:06:20,960 Speaker 2: coming through it helping us out. Annie p Annie are yeah, okay, 114 00:06:21,040 --> 00:06:23,719 Speaker 2: ask yourself that because we want to know. Email us 115 00:06:23,760 --> 00:06:26,200 Speaker 2: in and let us know if you're all right. Calfani G. 116 00:06:26,480 --> 00:06:29,960 Speaker 2: Thank you very much. Cal Fannie, we appreciate you. Nidra 117 00:06:30,080 --> 00:06:34,440 Speaker 2: D thank you very much. Nidra will appreciate you as well. 118 00:06:34,920 --> 00:06:37,320 Speaker 2: And then I only remember this because she sent me 119 00:06:37,320 --> 00:06:39,200 Speaker 2: an email today. This lady would like us to call 120 00:06:39,240 --> 00:06:43,400 Speaker 2: her Auntie Maine. I don't know if that's like you 121 00:06:43,440 --> 00:06:46,440 Speaker 2: know what was like. I hope I can remember that 122 00:06:46,520 --> 00:06:49,680 Speaker 2: every week every month, because I won't see this name 123 00:06:49,720 --> 00:06:51,760 Speaker 2: again for thirty days. And I hope I don't fuck 124 00:06:51,800 --> 00:06:53,440 Speaker 2: it up. And I'm sorry if I do in advance, 125 00:06:53,480 --> 00:06:55,440 Speaker 2: but I'm gonna try to remember call your Auntie Maine. 126 00:06:55,760 --> 00:06:58,480 Speaker 2: But she's a brand new recurrent donator. Go to the 127 00:06:58,520 --> 00:07:04,120 Speaker 2: new member's class. Auntie Maine. We appreciate you. Uh, let's 128 00:07:04,120 --> 00:07:06,240 Speaker 2: see who else we got here. Okay, that one doesn't 129 00:07:06,240 --> 00:07:09,840 Speaker 2: wanta load? All right? How about this one and that 130 00:07:09,880 --> 00:07:12,200 Speaker 2: one doesn't want to load? All right? We'll take your time. 131 00:07:12,280 --> 00:07:16,680 Speaker 3: You know, I mean, now we got new Wi Fi. 132 00:07:16,760 --> 00:07:17,960 Speaker 3: We got three of them to choose. 133 00:07:17,960 --> 00:07:20,280 Speaker 2: Wrong, I know it's I don't. I don't think it's 134 00:07:20,320 --> 00:07:21,960 Speaker 2: I don't think it's the WAFFI I think it's just 135 00:07:21,960 --> 00:07:25,520 Speaker 2: this this email program. Let me open up and go 136 00:07:25,560 --> 00:07:29,640 Speaker 2: back in. Oh god, it's embarrassing. Oh great, now it's 137 00:07:29,680 --> 00:07:32,000 Speaker 2: going all the way back to all of them are 138 00:07:32,000 --> 00:07:37,360 Speaker 2: back in there. Oh god, Okay, here we goes. Okay, 139 00:07:37,400 --> 00:07:40,120 Speaker 2: that was last week. What happened? It used to work? 140 00:07:40,680 --> 00:07:44,880 Speaker 2: Christina asked, thank you, Christina, Nicholas Z, thank you, Nicholas 141 00:07:45,600 --> 00:07:48,160 Speaker 2: Bomari Jones. You guys know him the right time with 142 00:07:48,480 --> 00:07:52,720 Speaker 2: Donnie Jones, Miss Hathaway, thank you, Miss Hathaway, Rita may 143 00:07:52,800 --> 00:07:57,440 Speaker 2: c And that's everybody, Okay, good grief. Every week. This 144 00:07:57,520 --> 00:08:00,960 Speaker 2: is just a damn roller cover for coaches. 145 00:08:05,120 --> 00:08:18,720 Speaker 6: Smiles working for a wi I smile, smile. 146 00:08:19,920 --> 00:08:22,080 Speaker 2: It's so hard to look up when you look down. 147 00:08:23,400 --> 00:08:26,920 Speaker 2: Sure would hate to see you give but now, you 148 00:08:27,080 --> 00:08:32,000 Speaker 2: look so much better when you smile. So smile. Oh 149 00:08:32,200 --> 00:08:34,280 Speaker 2: tell you look so much better when your. 150 00:08:35,720 --> 00:08:40,679 Speaker 7: And you look so much better when you. 151 00:08:39,080 --> 00:08:40,960 Speaker 2: And you look so much better when your. 152 00:08:42,400 --> 00:08:45,800 Speaker 7: And you look so much better when your hot, and 153 00:08:45,920 --> 00:08:49,640 Speaker 7: you look so much better when your and you look 154 00:08:49,720 --> 00:08:53,360 Speaker 7: so much better when your fat. You look so much 155 00:08:53,400 --> 00:08:54,120 Speaker 7: better when you. 156 00:08:55,760 --> 00:08:57,920 Speaker 3: And you look so much better when your smile. 157 00:09:00,920 --> 00:09:04,720 Speaker 2: Oh damn, play the whole song all right. Five star reviews. 158 00:09:04,760 --> 00:09:09,960 Speaker 2: We had a few on iTunes over here. Thank you 159 00:09:10,040 --> 00:09:13,800 Speaker 2: so much, thank you. We got one from claiming my 160 00:09:13,920 --> 00:09:19,600 Speaker 2: tithe from none your d business. Ah ha, and it's 161 00:09:19,600 --> 00:09:23,240 Speaker 2: been nass b I D N A z Z Hello 162 00:09:23,360 --> 00:09:27,560 Speaker 2: Queen carn and husband Ron. My phone finally gave me 163 00:09:27,600 --> 00:09:30,040 Speaker 2: a place to write a review instead of a blank page. 164 00:09:30,360 --> 00:09:33,800 Speaker 2: I got my cup and I'm finally chipping in. Please 165 00:09:33,840 --> 00:09:37,600 Speaker 2: find the attached time don tae time to be paid. 166 00:09:38,280 --> 00:09:41,240 Speaker 2: I've been faithfully freeloading the podcast. It's my first black 167 00:09:41,280 --> 00:09:45,800 Speaker 2: centric podcast, Black Girls Talking ghosted their fans, their fans 168 00:09:45,840 --> 00:09:50,960 Speaker 2: on every platform all around. Dang, that's sad man hashtag 169 00:09:51,040 --> 00:09:54,880 Speaker 2: still bitter. Hey, that is a bad feeling when you 170 00:09:54,920 --> 00:09:57,280 Speaker 2: love a podcast and they just be like it's not 171 00:09:57,360 --> 00:10:00,520 Speaker 2: worth it, and they just stop working, stop doing right, and. 172 00:10:00,440 --> 00:10:02,760 Speaker 4: Then, like you said, you can a lot of most 173 00:10:02,760 --> 00:10:04,679 Speaker 4: people leave their stuff out there, but you actually can 174 00:10:04,720 --> 00:10:07,040 Speaker 4: go and just remove your stuff like you never existed 175 00:10:07,080 --> 00:10:07,840 Speaker 4: and something to do. 176 00:10:07,840 --> 00:10:08,080 Speaker 2: Do that? 177 00:10:08,800 --> 00:10:09,000 Speaker 4: Uh? 178 00:10:09,200 --> 00:10:11,800 Speaker 2: Now, I just recently discovered that Mike and Jamel are 179 00:10:11,840 --> 00:10:14,840 Speaker 2: carving us on the O G podcast. All that's just 180 00:10:14,920 --> 00:10:17,600 Speaker 2: to say, you cannot quit us ever. Please please please, 181 00:10:18,120 --> 00:10:20,000 Speaker 2: I like it. This is your first time putting in 182 00:10:20,040 --> 00:10:24,000 Speaker 2: and then you like listen, guys, Okay, mama, all my 183 00:10:24,120 --> 00:10:25,720 Speaker 2: other men did me dirty. 184 00:10:25,520 --> 00:10:28,520 Speaker 3: Right, All my other podcasts left me high and dry. 185 00:10:29,000 --> 00:10:32,160 Speaker 2: Now you can't do me like that. Okay. I work 186 00:10:32,200 --> 00:10:34,000 Speaker 2: in the field that taxes. What I'm gonna do if 187 00:10:34,000 --> 00:10:36,560 Speaker 2: you let me down right, what I'm sauce to do? 188 00:10:37,760 --> 00:10:37,880 Speaker 3: Uh? 189 00:10:38,080 --> 00:10:40,800 Speaker 2: I work in the field that taxes. Oh this is 190 00:10:41,000 --> 00:10:44,199 Speaker 2: not so open. I work in the field that taxes 191 00:10:44,240 --> 00:10:48,000 Speaker 2: the soul. I require ignorant amounts of you, of us 192 00:10:48,040 --> 00:10:50,079 Speaker 2: on the drive in, on the ride home, and in 193 00:10:50,160 --> 00:10:52,680 Speaker 2: my office when the boss is away, I get my 194 00:10:52,720 --> 00:10:55,000 Speaker 2: whole ass life. The Queen Cairns rants, it's like a 195 00:10:55,040 --> 00:10:58,520 Speaker 2: twenty seventeen version of Claire Huxtable or Juliet sugar bea baker. 196 00:10:59,280 --> 00:11:07,200 Speaker 2: Sugar Baker read, I'm here for Karen's yelling wait hold on, 197 00:11:07,440 --> 00:11:10,080 Speaker 2: I'm here for karen yelling of color when not playing 198 00:11:10,080 --> 00:11:14,200 Speaker 2: against the race. I'm here for Rod's unexpected playing game 199 00:11:14,280 --> 00:11:17,200 Speaker 2: and the heartfelt thank you babies that Karen gives is 200 00:11:17,280 --> 00:11:19,200 Speaker 2: like the mac and cheese that's cooked in the big 201 00:11:19,240 --> 00:11:22,360 Speaker 2: oval pot with the white specs on it. If anyone 202 00:11:22,440 --> 00:11:25,120 Speaker 2: is looking for Auntie at the cookout level blackness, this 203 00:11:25,160 --> 00:11:30,480 Speaker 2: podcast will recharge your soul, plug in and find your sanity. PS. 204 00:11:30,640 --> 00:11:33,160 Speaker 2: Fifty three and what the fuck are we doing here 205 00:11:33,280 --> 00:11:36,840 Speaker 2: have found their way into my daily verbiage. Lina, Yes, 206 00:11:37,559 --> 00:11:41,480 Speaker 2: thank you so much, right man, that's that's great. Great review. 207 00:11:43,559 --> 00:11:47,640 Speaker 2: Wolf Girl rights in Ain't nothing Change, Still informative and fun. 208 00:11:48,400 --> 00:11:51,480 Speaker 2: I still thoroughly steal in all caps. I still thoroughly 209 00:11:51,600 --> 00:11:54,960 Speaker 2: enjoyed this TV listening to TVGWT every day. I'm now 210 00:11:55,040 --> 00:11:57,439 Speaker 2: listening for about two years. I still love the discussions 211 00:11:57,440 --> 00:12:00,559 Speaker 2: on current events that affect the black community, the witty remarks, games, 212 00:12:00,760 --> 00:12:02,800 Speaker 2: and just the down to earth personalities of the host 213 00:12:02,920 --> 00:12:05,720 Speaker 2: Rod and Carr. I still appreciate the different views and 214 00:12:05,720 --> 00:12:08,920 Speaker 2: insights they have on the shared subjects today discussed. I 215 00:12:08,960 --> 00:12:11,120 Speaker 2: still haven't been able to stop listening, and I started 216 00:12:11,240 --> 00:12:13,920 Speaker 2: always looking forward to the next podcast right of carrying 217 00:12:13,920 --> 00:12:16,480 Speaker 2: all the best and well worth the investment for premium. 218 00:12:16,559 --> 00:12:18,520 Speaker 2: I listened to them at work and can't do, can't 219 00:12:18,600 --> 00:12:21,560 Speaker 2: and won't do without them. Absolutely love them with girl 220 00:12:21,640 --> 00:12:27,200 Speaker 2: at Butterfly Rolls for my read review. Thank you very helpful. 221 00:12:28,760 --> 00:12:31,920 Speaker 2: This is my husband's phone by Project Sick, who says 222 00:12:32,920 --> 00:12:35,840 Speaker 2: he's asleep and I'm only here the leader's review. This 223 00:12:35,840 --> 00:12:38,240 Speaker 2: show is fantastic and the co host will enlighten and 224 00:12:38,360 --> 00:12:41,840 Speaker 2: entertain you, and I think he's waking up a let 225 00:12:41,840 --> 00:12:45,400 Speaker 2: me tell you something. One, you're a true fan, okay, 226 00:12:45,920 --> 00:12:47,800 Speaker 2: and I love the y'all in your relationship. You can 227 00:12:47,840 --> 00:12:50,120 Speaker 2: sneak in his phone not to check to see if 228 00:12:50,120 --> 00:12:53,240 Speaker 2: he's dming somebody or what his text message look like. 229 00:12:53,360 --> 00:12:56,079 Speaker 2: Who's dick pics might be in there? No you in? 230 00:12:56,080 --> 00:12:58,160 Speaker 2: And that said, let me leave a five star review. 231 00:12:58,520 --> 00:13:02,800 Speaker 2: That's that's love, right Love A fave by Renewal with 232 00:13:03,120 --> 00:13:06,719 Speaker 2: our h Newal. It says one of my favorite, one 233 00:13:06,760 --> 00:13:09,480 Speaker 2: of my favorite podcasts. Honestly a gateway drug to several others, 234 00:13:09,600 --> 00:13:12,600 Speaker 2: blood interaction between Roder Karen, the political commentary, the pop 235 00:13:12,600 --> 00:13:15,440 Speaker 2: culture discussions, the Game of Thrones recaps, But my favorite 236 00:13:15,480 --> 00:13:18,320 Speaker 2: part is the pun storms that Rod randomly goes on 237 00:13:18,400 --> 00:13:20,240 Speaker 2: with honorable mention to Karen's attempts. 238 00:13:20,679 --> 00:13:22,400 Speaker 3: Oh ya, I'm bad, I'm real bad. 239 00:13:22,800 --> 00:13:24,800 Speaker 2: Thank you so much guys for your five star reviews 240 00:13:24,800 --> 00:13:28,160 Speaker 2: this week. Yes, we got one on Stitcher as well. 241 00:13:29,480 --> 00:13:34,800 Speaker 2: Lee Michelle Link Lee Micheline True says one of the 242 00:13:34,840 --> 00:13:37,640 Speaker 2: pot one of the best podcasts out there. My favorite 243 00:13:37,679 --> 00:13:41,120 Speaker 2: things about this show One insightful commentary. Two Rod's sarcasm 244 00:13:41,200 --> 00:13:44,920 Speaker 2: game is strong. Three Karen's laugh is everything. I've been 245 00:13:44,920 --> 00:13:47,200 Speaker 2: listening to the show for several months. Every single show 246 00:13:47,280 --> 00:13:49,800 Speaker 2: makes me think and laugh so hard. And I also 247 00:13:49,840 --> 00:13:52,280 Speaker 2: appreciate both of them will admit if they don't know 248 00:13:52,320 --> 00:13:54,960 Speaker 2: something and correct themselves they made a mistake. I don't 249 00:13:54,960 --> 00:13:57,480 Speaker 2: even know how I found this podcast just now. When 250 00:13:57,520 --> 00:13:59,120 Speaker 2: I saw the picture and the title, I had I 251 00:13:59,240 --> 00:14:01,400 Speaker 2: just I just I just know. When I saw the 252 00:14:01,440 --> 00:14:03,440 Speaker 2: picture on the title, I had to listen. Best decision 253 00:14:03,480 --> 00:14:06,000 Speaker 2: I ever made. Keep up to excellent work, guys, Thank you, 254 00:14:06,280 --> 00:14:06,800 Speaker 2: thank you. 255 00:14:06,880 --> 00:14:10,000 Speaker 4: I know if you has a really really good algorithm 256 00:14:10,240 --> 00:14:12,720 Speaker 4: that actually matches up and kind of puts us in 257 00:14:13,120 --> 00:14:15,760 Speaker 4: people's rotations if they listen to other podcasts that are 258 00:14:16,000 --> 00:14:17,000 Speaker 4: connected to us. 259 00:14:17,160 --> 00:14:21,880 Speaker 2: And I'm gonna tell you something real talk. I uh, 260 00:14:22,600 --> 00:14:24,560 Speaker 2: I don't always know what the fuck I'm talking about, 261 00:14:25,680 --> 00:14:27,720 Speaker 2: and I don't like and I'm not saying that some 262 00:14:27,800 --> 00:14:29,720 Speaker 2: ignorant like Pride should have like nigger, I don't know 263 00:14:29,760 --> 00:14:32,560 Speaker 2: what that shit like. I try to know what I'm 264 00:14:32,600 --> 00:14:35,600 Speaker 2: talking about, like I try to, honestly. I try to 265 00:14:35,720 --> 00:14:38,600 Speaker 2: do research and stuff. Some of these issues, man, I 266 00:14:38,640 --> 00:14:40,720 Speaker 2: don't know, like, and some of this stuff is not 267 00:14:40,760 --> 00:14:43,440 Speaker 2: as black and white as people make it seem. Some 268 00:14:43,480 --> 00:14:45,640 Speaker 2: of this stuff does have shades of gray. Some things 269 00:14:45,640 --> 00:14:49,440 Speaker 2: I feel very passionately about, but it's a secondhand type 270 00:14:49,440 --> 00:14:52,040 Speaker 2: of passion where it's like, well, I know people who 271 00:14:52,120 --> 00:14:53,960 Speaker 2: are going through such and such and this is what 272 00:14:54,000 --> 00:14:56,720 Speaker 2: they say, and I believe them, you know, Like I 273 00:14:56,760 --> 00:14:59,040 Speaker 2: don't know for myself because I haven't. I can't live 274 00:14:59,080 --> 00:15:02,680 Speaker 2: everybody else's life. I know what I think feels right sometimes. 275 00:15:02,720 --> 00:15:05,520 Speaker 2: And then there's just certain shit where I'm like, like, there's 276 00:15:05,560 --> 00:15:10,760 Speaker 2: this thing happening in Spain right now where there's a 277 00:15:10,840 --> 00:15:13,240 Speaker 2: certain sub section of Spain. They don't even speak like 278 00:15:13,240 --> 00:15:15,160 Speaker 2: the same language and shit, and they don't want to 279 00:15:15,160 --> 00:15:18,600 Speaker 2: be part of Spain, and they want to succeed basically 280 00:15:18,960 --> 00:15:21,200 Speaker 2: from Spain, and they voted for their own independence and 281 00:15:21,200 --> 00:15:25,160 Speaker 2: all this shit, and Spain is sending there like police 282 00:15:25,200 --> 00:15:28,280 Speaker 2: and shit to make sure that these motherfuckers stay within 283 00:15:28,440 --> 00:15:32,320 Speaker 2: the Spain you know, jurisdiction or whatever. And I saw 284 00:15:32,360 --> 00:15:34,320 Speaker 2: stuff with people saying, well, this is happening because it's 285 00:15:34,320 --> 00:15:37,000 Speaker 2: funded by Russia or something like Russia's making this happen. 286 00:15:37,400 --> 00:15:39,480 Speaker 2: I've seen people that are like, listen, these people are 287 00:15:39,520 --> 00:15:42,400 Speaker 2: basically the Palestinians of Spain. They like they have just 288 00:15:42,440 --> 00:15:45,160 Speaker 2: been oppressed by these motherfuckers and they don't even this, 289 00:15:45,320 --> 00:15:48,200 Speaker 2: not even their culture. They just, you know, I don't know. 290 00:15:48,840 --> 00:15:53,120 Speaker 2: I don't live there. I've read various different accounts. All 291 00:15:53,160 --> 00:15:55,080 Speaker 2: I know is enough to they'll say, I don't really 292 00:15:55,120 --> 00:15:57,560 Speaker 2: fucking know, and I had to leave it at that, 293 00:15:57,800 --> 00:15:59,880 Speaker 2: you know, like I'll never know. I didn't live there. 294 00:16:00,040 --> 00:16:01,920 Speaker 2: I just I see what people say, and I just, 295 00:16:02,440 --> 00:16:04,760 Speaker 2: you know, I hope they know more than I know, 296 00:16:04,960 --> 00:16:07,920 Speaker 2: because I don't. You know, it's hard to be I 297 00:16:07,920 --> 00:16:12,080 Speaker 2: don't know. I don't feel like there's a there's not 298 00:16:12,280 --> 00:16:16,200 Speaker 2: a credit in saying you know shit when you don't. 299 00:16:16,440 --> 00:16:19,080 Speaker 2: I just don't feel that way. Like if I don't know, 300 00:16:19,120 --> 00:16:21,000 Speaker 2: I don't know, and like I said, and like you 301 00:16:21,120 --> 00:16:23,360 Speaker 2: rot up if we are wrong about something or we 302 00:16:23,360 --> 00:16:25,680 Speaker 2: get some information wrong and we find out that it's wrong, 303 00:16:25,840 --> 00:16:29,280 Speaker 2: like someone told us this thing happened and it absolutely 304 00:16:29,320 --> 00:16:32,560 Speaker 2: didn't happen. I do believe in going back on the 305 00:16:32,600 --> 00:16:35,920 Speaker 2: show to address that. I believe in handling it privately 306 00:16:36,080 --> 00:16:38,240 Speaker 2: if we talked about it publicly. I don't believe in 307 00:16:40,040 --> 00:16:42,440 Speaker 2: being like, well, I just don't believe it. I mean, 308 00:16:43,080 --> 00:16:46,920 Speaker 2: sometimes the truth isn't convenient. But that's what makes I think, 309 00:16:47,840 --> 00:16:51,040 Speaker 2: that's what makes people with integrity better is that they 310 00:16:51,080 --> 00:16:54,120 Speaker 2: can admit that. Rather than to be like, I'm not 311 00:16:54,200 --> 00:16:57,640 Speaker 2: gonna admit that a bad person did a good thing, 312 00:16:57,840 --> 00:17:00,600 Speaker 2: or that something I thought was fucked up, really something 313 00:17:00,600 --> 00:17:03,480 Speaker 2: I thought was good really wasn't, you know, I'd rather 314 00:17:03,600 --> 00:17:05,800 Speaker 2: try to live with the truth and make up my 315 00:17:05,880 --> 00:17:06,680 Speaker 2: own shit. 316 00:17:07,400 --> 00:17:08,160 Speaker 3: Yeah that's true. 317 00:17:08,240 --> 00:17:12,879 Speaker 4: And I know for me, I don't know everything, and 318 00:17:13,040 --> 00:17:15,360 Speaker 4: a lot of people will never admit that you don't 319 00:17:15,400 --> 00:17:18,200 Speaker 4: know everything. There are people that specialize in certain fields 320 00:17:18,280 --> 00:17:19,600 Speaker 4: and this is their shit, and this is what they 321 00:17:19,600 --> 00:17:23,200 Speaker 4: do en they dedicate their lives to these things. And 322 00:17:23,240 --> 00:17:25,320 Speaker 4: we also live in a society and we talked about 323 00:17:25,359 --> 00:17:28,919 Speaker 4: before when it comes to social media where everybody just 324 00:17:28,960 --> 00:17:32,399 Speaker 4: wants to talk loud and nobody actually wants to actually 325 00:17:32,400 --> 00:17:37,240 Speaker 4: listen or understand people who actually know about these particular 326 00:17:37,280 --> 00:17:40,879 Speaker 4: fields or or can actually teach them about whatever the 327 00:17:40,880 --> 00:17:42,760 Speaker 4: particular field is. And like I said, I don't know 328 00:17:42,800 --> 00:17:44,840 Speaker 4: if it's a generational thing. I don't know if I'm 329 00:17:44,880 --> 00:17:47,520 Speaker 4: just old. But I don't have a pride issue too, 330 00:17:47,560 --> 00:17:49,600 Speaker 4: because I think for some people it's a big pride thing. 331 00:17:50,000 --> 00:17:53,480 Speaker 4: I don't have that prideful thing in me that says 332 00:17:53,520 --> 00:17:55,680 Speaker 4: that I can't be wrong. I don't have that prideful 333 00:17:55,720 --> 00:17:58,240 Speaker 4: thing in me that this stands up and say I 334 00:17:58,280 --> 00:18:01,919 Speaker 4: can't apologize or I can't say I'm I'm sorry. A 335 00:18:01,960 --> 00:18:05,320 Speaker 4: lot of times what happens too is as new information 336 00:18:05,440 --> 00:18:09,399 Speaker 4: comes out, your views and opinions should change because you 337 00:18:09,560 --> 00:18:12,760 Speaker 4: actually got more information, and the more information you have 338 00:18:12,960 --> 00:18:15,480 Speaker 4: that means the more educated your decisions should be. 339 00:18:16,080 --> 00:18:18,680 Speaker 3: But when we live in the world without critical. 340 00:18:18,280 --> 00:18:20,960 Speaker 4: Thinking skills, and I am amazed how many adults do 341 00:18:21,080 --> 00:18:23,960 Speaker 4: not have your basic critical thinking skills that I learned 342 00:18:23,960 --> 00:18:27,000 Speaker 4: in my twenties in college. Probably should have learned before then, 343 00:18:27,080 --> 00:18:29,119 Speaker 4: but you know, I took a class on it what 344 00:18:29,160 --> 00:18:31,119 Speaker 4: it actually went through it and taught you what it 345 00:18:31,160 --> 00:18:34,240 Speaker 4: was about. You know, you have a lot of older 346 00:18:34,280 --> 00:18:38,520 Speaker 4: people who in young people who just want to deny 347 00:18:38,760 --> 00:18:41,679 Speaker 4: things because it makes them feel better to deny it. 348 00:18:41,720 --> 00:18:44,640 Speaker 4: Because if you accept certain things, you have to accept 349 00:18:44,640 --> 00:18:46,639 Speaker 4: the fact that you could be wrong. You have to 350 00:18:46,680 --> 00:18:49,760 Speaker 4: accept the fact that your foundation and everything you learned, 351 00:18:49,760 --> 00:18:51,679 Speaker 4: and everything your mama taught you, and your day to 352 00:18:51,680 --> 00:18:54,240 Speaker 4: taught you, and everything your family taught you could be wrong. 353 00:18:54,560 --> 00:18:56,400 Speaker 3: And nobody wants to admit. 354 00:18:56,160 --> 00:18:59,680 Speaker 4: That the things that you thought were the foundation or 355 00:18:59,720 --> 00:19:01,200 Speaker 4: your life life, we're wrong. 356 00:19:02,160 --> 00:19:04,840 Speaker 2: Yeah, I think, And even before you get to like 357 00:19:04,920 --> 00:19:08,199 Speaker 2: the crucial truths of stuff like that where it's the 358 00:19:08,240 --> 00:19:10,360 Speaker 2: foundation and everything, you know, I think even little shit, 359 00:19:11,119 --> 00:19:13,359 Speaker 2: you know, like if we read a story that says, 360 00:19:14,640 --> 00:19:18,399 Speaker 2: you know, when we read that Matt Damon made that 361 00:19:18,520 --> 00:19:23,679 Speaker 2: story not being The New York Times for Weinstein, you know, 362 00:19:23,880 --> 00:19:26,040 Speaker 2: at the time, I was like, oh, okay, yep, totally can 363 00:19:26,119 --> 00:19:29,240 Speaker 2: believe that this is what's being reported. A couple of 364 00:19:29,320 --> 00:19:30,639 Speaker 2: days later, so I was like, Oh, did you know 365 00:19:30,680 --> 00:19:33,000 Speaker 2: that got retracted? I think it was Nino on Facebook. 366 00:19:33,040 --> 00:19:35,639 Speaker 2: I was like, oh, no, I hadn't heard that. The 367 00:19:35,720 --> 00:19:39,879 Speaker 2: last I heard was just the initial accusations and the 368 00:19:39,920 --> 00:19:42,960 Speaker 2: writer saying that he called and tanked this story. She 369 00:19:43,080 --> 00:19:45,040 Speaker 2: was like, no, the writer retracted it. It's on her 370 00:19:45,040 --> 00:19:47,400 Speaker 2: Twitter page. So I go. And I felt a responsibility 371 00:19:47,440 --> 00:19:49,840 Speaker 2: to say that on the show because despite the fact 372 00:19:49,840 --> 00:19:52,400 Speaker 2: that I don't see it for Matt Damon, I also 373 00:19:52,440 --> 00:19:53,919 Speaker 2: don't want to do the type of show you just 374 00:19:53,960 --> 00:19:57,360 Speaker 2: say fucked up shit, it's not true, you find out 375 00:19:57,359 --> 00:19:59,440 Speaker 2: that it's not true, and then you just go, ah, whatever, 376 00:19:59,640 --> 00:20:02,199 Speaker 2: already you know what I mean. I think that's fucked up. 377 00:20:02,240 --> 00:20:03,879 Speaker 2: I know people do it all the time. I don't 378 00:20:03,960 --> 00:20:07,000 Speaker 2: personally want to be that kind of person. And you know, 379 00:20:07,160 --> 00:20:09,960 Speaker 2: and I also don't think people are super black and white. 380 00:20:09,960 --> 00:20:13,399 Speaker 2: I think most people are in some shade of gray, 381 00:20:13,480 --> 00:20:17,160 Speaker 2: whether it's you know, closer to good or bad. Almost 382 00:20:17,160 --> 00:20:19,480 Speaker 2: every person got some shit about them where it's like, 383 00:20:20,000 --> 00:20:22,520 Speaker 2: okay with this thing, they weren't fucked up that day, 384 00:20:22,920 --> 00:20:24,639 Speaker 2: but they still you know, it doesn't mean I have 385 00:20:24,680 --> 00:20:26,840 Speaker 2: to now be their best friend. But you know, I 386 00:20:26,960 --> 00:20:30,359 Speaker 2: just think I think that's what makes people gravitate towards 387 00:20:30,400 --> 00:20:33,639 Speaker 2: our show, is that we're not just out here trying 388 00:20:33,640 --> 00:20:36,679 Speaker 2: to take everything one way or the other. So, but 389 00:20:36,760 --> 00:20:40,120 Speaker 2: thank you for writing. Then we got some right people 390 00:20:40,160 --> 00:20:43,520 Speaker 2: that wrote in comments on the website. Episode fourteen, I 391 00:20:43,520 --> 00:20:48,080 Speaker 2: mean fifteen forty eight madea goes to Wakanda. We had 392 00:20:48,119 --> 00:20:51,439 Speaker 2: some feedback. D raanzyph Done says the title of this 393 00:20:51,480 --> 00:20:54,240 Speaker 2: episode will go down to history along with Happy Negro Day. 394 00:20:54,280 --> 00:20:57,480 Speaker 2: Five stars. Well, I believe it was Happy Nigga Day. 395 00:20:57,480 --> 00:21:02,440 Speaker 2: But okay, nor Dinadh says, first of all, first off, 396 00:21:02,440 --> 00:21:04,760 Speaker 2: I'm all for the next four years of Cheetoh forty 397 00:21:04,760 --> 00:21:08,320 Speaker 2: five being called call being call of racist or racist 398 00:21:08,320 --> 00:21:12,760 Speaker 2: to his or her face. Yeah. Uh, I saw that 399 00:21:12,840 --> 00:21:16,680 Speaker 2: dude again today, same thing. Uh don't trip rid. Your 400 00:21:16,720 --> 00:21:19,320 Speaker 2: Medea impression was good enough to deliver these jokes. Thank you. 401 00:21:19,680 --> 00:21:23,000 Speaker 2: Most importantly, I could picture and hear Medea saying those things. 402 00:21:23,240 --> 00:21:25,239 Speaker 2: I was literally at tears by the end of all 403 00:21:25,280 --> 00:21:27,240 Speaker 2: the jokes. That was right up there with gay Jesus 404 00:21:27,320 --> 00:21:29,920 Speaker 2: jokes from last week. We don't tell Mac you you've 405 00:21:29,960 --> 00:21:32,199 Speaker 2: been you've been in your bag as of late with 406 00:21:32,240 --> 00:21:35,640 Speaker 2: these rapid fire jokes. Keep it with Conda, y'all. Ps. 407 00:21:35,720 --> 00:21:38,720 Speaker 2: Let's get that Queen Care and the Safety pin Box 408 00:21:38,840 --> 00:21:44,040 Speaker 2: Queen's mixtape popping fifteen tracks of all three of them 409 00:21:44,720 --> 00:21:47,280 Speaker 2: telling folks about themselves to tainting these jokes. Also, Care 410 00:21:47,400 --> 00:21:50,680 Speaker 2: gotta have a track called fifty three percent. 411 00:21:50,960 --> 00:21:55,320 Speaker 3: Oh you know that my FIFA be licked. Everybody gonna 412 00:21:55,320 --> 00:22:01,040 Speaker 3: be fifty three Yeah, it is y' horsemele lady, she 413 00:22:01,160 --> 00:22:02,119 Speaker 3: fifty three percent. 414 00:22:02,720 --> 00:22:06,440 Speaker 2: The poll was a very complicated pole. Would you watch 415 00:22:06,440 --> 00:22:10,000 Speaker 2: a Tyler Perry movie directed by I mean, did you 416 00:22:10,040 --> 00:22:15,199 Speaker 2: watch a Tyler Perry directed Marble movie? Yes? Or no? 417 00:22:18,119 --> 00:22:18,720 Speaker 2: That hard? 418 00:22:19,720 --> 00:22:24,679 Speaker 3: But you know what, I trust Marble. I trust Marvel 419 00:22:24,760 --> 00:22:27,800 Speaker 3: enough that they will let Tyler. 420 00:22:27,840 --> 00:22:31,399 Speaker 4: I will watch a fucking if marvels on it and 421 00:22:31,440 --> 00:22:32,440 Speaker 4: that woman. 422 00:22:32,160 --> 00:22:34,320 Speaker 3: Is standing behind him going nigga, you fuck up, I 423 00:22:34,359 --> 00:22:37,840 Speaker 3: will fire your ass. I will watch it. 424 00:22:39,080 --> 00:22:39,680 Speaker 2: I will watch. 425 00:22:39,720 --> 00:22:41,560 Speaker 3: How much I trust Marble. 426 00:22:41,520 --> 00:22:44,320 Speaker 2: I will watch it. I don't I feel no conflict 427 00:22:44,320 --> 00:22:46,080 Speaker 2: about it. 428 00:22:45,160 --> 00:22:48,399 Speaker 3: It will be fabu less. 429 00:22:48,920 --> 00:22:52,000 Speaker 2: I will watch the fuck out of mar Black Panther 430 00:22:52,080 --> 00:22:55,680 Speaker 2: two madea goes to Wakanda, But that's just me anyway. 431 00:22:55,720 --> 00:22:59,560 Speaker 2: Thirty eight percent of aldist said yes sixty two No, Uh, 432 00:22:59,600 --> 00:23:00,640 Speaker 2: Brooklyn Day as. 433 00:23:00,520 --> 00:23:02,800 Speaker 3: Soon as they go on Sailer, you got the tickets 434 00:23:05,040 --> 00:23:06,520 Speaker 3: three d Imax, they're begetting all. 435 00:23:06,640 --> 00:23:07,359 Speaker 2: We'll upgrade it. 436 00:23:07,400 --> 00:23:10,000 Speaker 3: They're begetting all. I'm when y'all be mad at y'all. 437 00:23:10,080 --> 00:23:11,639 Speaker 3: Niggas are part of the problem. Show this. 438 00:23:12,040 --> 00:23:15,480 Speaker 2: Let him do the Nick Fury movie. Yes, Emeo Jackson 439 00:23:15,560 --> 00:23:18,600 Speaker 2: solo movie as Nick Fury. Well, we find out that 440 00:23:18,640 --> 00:23:22,680 Speaker 2: he got a secret wife, babies. He don't take care 441 00:23:22,720 --> 00:23:28,280 Speaker 2: of age. Uh anyway, Brooklyn Shoe Baby says, I watch 442 00:23:28,320 --> 00:23:29,199 Speaker 2: it on DVD. 443 00:23:30,600 --> 00:23:35,280 Speaker 3: No, I'm watching it today, the first day three d Imax. 444 00:23:35,160 --> 00:23:39,720 Speaker 2: HD, the twist where all the evengers get aged. I 445 00:23:39,760 --> 00:23:44,040 Speaker 2: gotta see it. Come on with Sam hold a baby 446 00:23:44,080 --> 00:23:47,399 Speaker 2: outside of a window. Yes, I need to see it. 447 00:23:47,600 --> 00:23:50,600 Speaker 2: I need to see it. Guys. We had an episode. 448 00:23:53,119 --> 00:23:55,880 Speaker 3: When Old Tron is light skinned man who loves Jesus. 449 00:23:58,080 --> 00:23:59,800 Speaker 3: I am here for the fuckery. 450 00:24:00,200 --> 00:24:06,160 Speaker 2: Yeah, he gonna bring back Terrence Howard Y episode fifteen 451 00:24:06,240 --> 00:24:09,560 Speaker 2: forty nine, Pumpkin Spices Up Your Life. We had several 452 00:24:09,560 --> 00:24:13,600 Speaker 2: comments on this one. Michelle says Sessions is helping with 453 00:24:13,640 --> 00:24:17,640 Speaker 2: the prosecution of Kadari Johnson case because the suspects fit 454 00:24:17,680 --> 00:24:19,639 Speaker 2: the demographics of the type of person he liked to 455 00:24:19,680 --> 00:24:22,400 Speaker 2: portrays violent. When it's all said and done, this will 456 00:24:22,440 --> 00:24:24,840 Speaker 2: be another story that the white supremacists use for that 457 00:24:24,880 --> 00:24:28,240 Speaker 2: what about black on black crime response. I honestly don't 458 00:24:28,240 --> 00:24:30,480 Speaker 2: think it goes much deeper than that for someone likes sessions. 459 00:24:31,280 --> 00:24:35,240 Speaker 2: Maybe you're right, man, I honestly don't know what the 460 00:24:35,280 --> 00:24:38,639 Speaker 2: fuck is going through that guy's mind. I think him Trump, 461 00:24:38,840 --> 00:24:45,600 Speaker 2: the entire administration loves to make showy anecdotal things. They 462 00:24:45,680 --> 00:24:48,960 Speaker 2: love to do showy and oh he might dance with 463 00:24:49,040 --> 00:24:52,400 Speaker 2: Caitlyn Jenner, Yes, and then he's going to strip all 464 00:24:52,600 --> 00:24:55,199 Speaker 2: the rights for trans people throughout the entire federal government. 465 00:24:55,359 --> 00:24:58,639 Speaker 2: Like to me, it fits a pattern. But if if, 466 00:24:59,200 --> 00:25:02,359 Speaker 2: But it definitely does fit the agenda in this case, 467 00:25:02,800 --> 00:25:05,439 Speaker 2: specifically that they would be prosecuting to people of color. 468 00:25:06,960 --> 00:25:10,679 Speaker 2: I do wonder if there's what the other cases are, 469 00:25:10,680 --> 00:25:13,080 Speaker 2: because they didn't say this was the only case. But 470 00:25:13,320 --> 00:25:14,919 Speaker 2: I do wonder I would have to look at the 471 00:25:14,960 --> 00:25:17,960 Speaker 2: other DLJ cases and see what else they're prosecuting. But 472 00:25:19,440 --> 00:25:22,240 Speaker 2: like a lot of times when Republicans and stuff, they 473 00:25:22,240 --> 00:25:26,160 Speaker 2: don't believe in the government protecting these people's rights to live, 474 00:25:27,080 --> 00:25:31,119 Speaker 2: like not not even some great, grand grandiose shit just breathing, 475 00:25:31,400 --> 00:25:33,640 Speaker 2: you know, Like they don't believe in that on a 476 00:25:33,720 --> 00:25:37,080 Speaker 2: on a holistic level, But they do believe in individuals 477 00:25:37,080 --> 00:25:41,400 Speaker 2: showy prosecute prosecutions and a lot of cases, and that's 478 00:25:41,440 --> 00:25:43,600 Speaker 2: something we all need to get our system. But in 479 00:25:43,640 --> 00:25:45,679 Speaker 2: a lot of cases, that's also because we believe in 480 00:25:45,800 --> 00:25:50,439 Speaker 2: punishment as a deterrent to crime. When it's not no, 481 00:25:50,600 --> 00:25:53,960 Speaker 2: it's not, but that's but but showy shit like this 482 00:25:54,160 --> 00:25:56,879 Speaker 2: is why I mean, but we're being honest, though we 483 00:25:57,040 --> 00:26:00,240 Speaker 2: all buy into the not all, but a lot of 484 00:26:00,280 --> 00:26:02,320 Speaker 2: us buy into this, Like why do we care if 485 00:26:02,320 --> 00:26:04,840 Speaker 2: it's if something is prosecuted as a hate crime or not. 486 00:26:06,359 --> 00:26:09,040 Speaker 2: We assume that this will then make another person who 487 00:26:09,080 --> 00:26:12,040 Speaker 2: was gonna do something hateful, go, I don't want to 488 00:26:12,080 --> 00:26:14,840 Speaker 2: do that because I'll get more time for doing it 489 00:26:15,000 --> 00:26:18,040 Speaker 2: a hateful act that will be prosecuted as such as 490 00:26:18,080 --> 00:26:21,119 Speaker 2: opposed to whatever I already did. Right like you already 491 00:26:21,119 --> 00:26:26,159 Speaker 2: shot somebody that's already manslaughter, tempted man murder, depending on 492 00:26:26,240 --> 00:26:28,800 Speaker 2: the outcome. Oh well, now we're gonna throw hate crime 493 00:26:28,840 --> 00:26:30,959 Speaker 2: on top of it. And when I see that, I'm 494 00:26:30,960 --> 00:26:33,080 Speaker 2: always like, good, give them a hate crime, fuck them. 495 00:26:33,119 --> 00:26:35,240 Speaker 2: But I don't know that it's actually a deterrent to 496 00:26:35,359 --> 00:26:38,800 Speaker 2: racist violence happening to people. I just feel better because 497 00:26:38,800 --> 00:26:42,960 Speaker 2: I have that vengeance inside of me. But but I 498 00:26:43,000 --> 00:26:45,240 Speaker 2: think this is the kind of shit that Republicans sell 499 00:26:45,320 --> 00:26:48,439 Speaker 2: us too, is is we need the death penalty to 500 00:26:48,520 --> 00:26:50,760 Speaker 2: keep these motherfuckers from killing people, but we all the 501 00:26:50,800 --> 00:26:55,000 Speaker 2: statistics say it doesn't stop anybody from doing shit. So yeah, it. 502 00:26:54,960 --> 00:26:56,880 Speaker 4: Actually works as a shit nobody wants to do, which 503 00:26:56,920 --> 00:26:58,720 Speaker 4: is actually rehabilitation. 504 00:26:58,440 --> 00:27:00,920 Speaker 2: Right, Yeah, you know this is just it's just very 505 00:27:01,040 --> 00:27:04,120 Speaker 2: uh interesting. So yeah, Michelle, I'm not saying you're wrong, 506 00:27:05,359 --> 00:27:07,080 Speaker 2: fuck it for all I know, you could be absolutely 507 00:27:07,119 --> 00:27:10,280 Speaker 2: one hundred percent right. And it definitely serves both purposes 508 00:27:10,320 --> 00:27:12,200 Speaker 2: of him being able to say I'm not a biggot. 509 00:27:12,359 --> 00:27:15,360 Speaker 2: Why would I prosecute this case if I'm a biggot, 510 00:27:15,880 --> 00:27:19,000 Speaker 2: while also stripping out the protections of people who are 511 00:27:19,000 --> 00:27:25,280 Speaker 2: trans from the government. So uh destructo kiddy says I tried. 512 00:27:25,359 --> 00:27:28,600 Speaker 2: I cried reading Lapita's piece, y'all. The fact that Harvey 513 00:27:28,640 --> 00:27:31,000 Speaker 2: the Hutt rolled out of his filth to explicitly try 514 00:27:31,000 --> 00:27:33,359 Speaker 2: to refute her story made the whole thing so much worse. 515 00:27:34,280 --> 00:27:36,639 Speaker 2: God didn't reply to any of the other women, but 516 00:27:36,760 --> 00:27:39,560 Speaker 2: really tried it when a prominent black woman share her story. 517 00:27:39,880 --> 00:27:41,720 Speaker 2: Hope he gets dragged in to the after life. And 518 00:27:41,760 --> 00:27:44,480 Speaker 2: I hope him and a few others recently fired aren't 519 00:27:44,520 --> 00:27:47,080 Speaker 2: the only predatory gatekeepers we get rid of as a 520 00:27:47,080 --> 00:27:53,480 Speaker 2: result of all that happen. That's happened. Yeah, the Lapita joint, 521 00:27:53,840 --> 00:27:56,080 Speaker 2: it was, it was so fucked up because it was 522 00:27:56,240 --> 00:27:59,480 Speaker 2: right after that other piece came out that was like, see, 523 00:27:59,640 --> 00:28:02,119 Speaker 2: black women don't get these roles because they're not seen 524 00:28:02,280 --> 00:28:05,160 Speaker 2: and they're not And I'm like and I like, I said, 525 00:28:05,480 --> 00:28:07,000 Speaker 2: this isn't a disc to the person that wrote that. 526 00:28:07,040 --> 00:28:10,720 Speaker 2: I understood that point, and it you know, it's not 527 00:28:10,920 --> 00:28:13,160 Speaker 2: it's not that they're wrong or anything, because it does 528 00:28:13,200 --> 00:28:14,760 Speaker 2: belie a lot of that Like, how do you even 529 00:28:14,800 --> 00:28:18,000 Speaker 2: get in a row? What makes a movie star? How 530 00:28:18,000 --> 00:28:21,720 Speaker 2: do you get an agent who decides what roles to 531 00:28:21,800 --> 00:28:24,960 Speaker 2: cast you for? Like, all that shit is affected in 532 00:28:25,000 --> 00:28:28,520 Speaker 2: the game, and it's definitely involves racism and what in 533 00:28:28,640 --> 00:28:33,320 Speaker 2: bias and discrimination. All that being said, these predators, they 534 00:28:33,359 --> 00:28:35,679 Speaker 2: prey on them the people they decide they feel are 535 00:28:35,720 --> 00:28:38,960 Speaker 2: the most desperate. So I think there's gotta be a 536 00:28:39,080 --> 00:28:43,560 Speaker 2: litany of black and brown women that have been abused 537 00:28:43,560 --> 00:28:46,400 Speaker 2: by the Harvey Wine scenes of the world, whether they 538 00:28:46,440 --> 00:28:47,200 Speaker 2: come forward. 539 00:28:47,040 --> 00:28:48,720 Speaker 3: Or not, whether we know them or not. 540 00:28:48,760 --> 00:28:50,440 Speaker 2: Do you they feel like they can. 541 00:28:50,560 --> 00:28:54,120 Speaker 4: Come forward, right because it's already I mean, because you're 542 00:28:54,160 --> 00:28:55,440 Speaker 4: already modulized group. 543 00:28:55,440 --> 00:28:56,600 Speaker 3: And that's why they attack group. 544 00:28:56,640 --> 00:28:59,040 Speaker 4: People that do shit like this always attack a group 545 00:28:59,240 --> 00:29:01,560 Speaker 4: that they feel uote unquote don't have no rights. Like 546 00:29:01,600 --> 00:29:04,280 Speaker 4: you said, he normally attacked people that are not for 547 00:29:04,400 --> 00:29:06,720 Speaker 4: the United States, the normal English is normally not their 548 00:29:06,720 --> 00:29:08,200 Speaker 4: first language, and shit like that. 549 00:29:08,840 --> 00:29:12,400 Speaker 2: She's the only one that he tried to refute her story. 550 00:29:13,560 --> 00:29:17,520 Speaker 2: Now here's the thing, twofold. Right on the one hand, 551 00:29:19,000 --> 00:29:21,920 Speaker 2: why this is, in my opinion, why a lot of 552 00:29:21,960 --> 00:29:24,320 Speaker 2: times I think women of color and people that feel 553 00:29:24,360 --> 00:29:28,040 Speaker 2: like they're more on the fringe won't come forward cause 554 00:29:28,040 --> 00:29:31,440 Speaker 2: he attacked her like he he like he was offended 555 00:29:31,480 --> 00:29:33,280 Speaker 2: at the mere idea. Now these other women, he didn't 556 00:29:33,280 --> 00:29:35,080 Speaker 2: say shit. And keep in mind, this is a man 557 00:29:35,080 --> 00:29:38,480 Speaker 2: who's apologized. Remember before this happened, he tried to stem 558 00:29:38,480 --> 00:29:41,840 Speaker 2: it with an apology. He went and hired Gloria Already's daughter. 559 00:29:41,680 --> 00:29:43,000 Speaker 3: Because he thought I was gonna fix it. 560 00:29:43,160 --> 00:29:46,360 Speaker 2: Yeah, he like he tried, like, he tried to get 561 00:29:46,360 --> 00:29:49,720 Speaker 2: ahead of this by showing contrition. Didn't refute anybody else's 562 00:29:49,720 --> 00:29:54,720 Speaker 2: claims except hers, right, Okay, So like, how dare you right? 563 00:29:54,920 --> 00:29:58,600 Speaker 2: Your black ass? You know I would never write So 564 00:29:58,720 --> 00:30:00,920 Speaker 2: you got that part of it. Here's the second part 565 00:30:00,920 --> 00:30:04,400 Speaker 2: of it, though. The people that are leading the charge 566 00:30:04,520 --> 00:30:08,440 Speaker 2: of me too, and let's stay off Twitter for a day, 567 00:30:09,560 --> 00:30:14,520 Speaker 2: they are so coming up so short on intersectionality and 568 00:30:14,640 --> 00:30:19,040 Speaker 2: the racial dynamics to all this shit. I can understand 569 00:30:19,080 --> 00:30:21,640 Speaker 2: why if I was abused by this dude, I might 570 00:30:21,680 --> 00:30:24,520 Speaker 2: not want to come forward and join you. You know 571 00:30:24,520 --> 00:30:27,080 Speaker 2: what I'm saying. I don't think it's a coincidence that 572 00:30:27,360 --> 00:30:30,240 Speaker 2: her ship dropped, Like a few days afterwards, after some 573 00:30:30,280 --> 00:30:33,400 Speaker 2: of the stuff died down, she just released one statement. 574 00:30:33,840 --> 00:30:36,680 Speaker 2: No press conferences, no interviews, no, just. 575 00:30:37,080 --> 00:30:40,040 Speaker 4: What was the protest? What was the solidarity? Where was Hey, 576 00:30:40,120 --> 00:30:42,120 Speaker 4: y'all guys, let's get off Twitter. 577 00:30:43,440 --> 00:30:44,760 Speaker 2: Because she didn't get kicked off Twitter. 578 00:30:44,800 --> 00:30:46,560 Speaker 4: But I'm just saying, no, no, no, what were the white 579 00:30:46,560 --> 00:30:50,760 Speaker 4: women coming and going, hey, let's join this solidarity filipido 580 00:30:51,360 --> 00:30:52,280 Speaker 4: and get off Twitter. 581 00:30:53,080 --> 00:30:55,720 Speaker 2: I don't think it's the same situation. Rose mcgawan got 582 00:30:55,800 --> 00:30:59,160 Speaker 2: kicked off Twitter. Yeah, that's why they did that. But 583 00:31:00,320 --> 00:31:03,320 Speaker 2: though when Jamel Hill got her assed, there was no 584 00:31:03,520 --> 00:31:05,400 Speaker 2: there's no solidarity, like, it doesn't have to be a 585 00:31:05,400 --> 00:31:07,840 Speaker 2: boycott of Twitter. It was my point, he still could 586 00:31:07,840 --> 00:31:10,680 Speaker 2: have Did you even say anything? Did any of them 587 00:31:10,720 --> 00:31:14,440 Speaker 2: say anything? Jill Scott had an interaction where she was 588 00:31:14,480 --> 00:31:17,200 Speaker 2: pregnant and he said some nasty shit to her. Are 589 00:31:17,200 --> 00:31:20,480 Speaker 2: they saying anything, like, I don't think it's a coincidence 590 00:31:20,480 --> 00:31:23,840 Speaker 2: that these stories came out. Tessa Thompson had a story like, 591 00:31:24,040 --> 00:31:26,040 Speaker 2: I don't think it's a coincidence that these stories came 592 00:31:26,040 --> 00:31:31,480 Speaker 2: out later and they weren't joined up and locked in 593 00:31:31,640 --> 00:31:33,400 Speaker 2: arms of all these women who were talking about some 594 00:31:33,520 --> 00:31:37,760 Speaker 2: solidarity just a couple of days before that. It's very complicated. 595 00:31:38,840 --> 00:31:41,600 Speaker 2: He's still a piece of shit, he's still scum. But 596 00:31:41,800 --> 00:31:45,080 Speaker 2: there's levels to the pushback, and I can understand why. 597 00:31:45,800 --> 00:31:48,000 Speaker 2: You know, like I said, there may be black women 598 00:31:48,040 --> 00:31:49,840 Speaker 2: that are just silent about the shit because it's like 599 00:31:49,880 --> 00:31:51,840 Speaker 2: I don't want to have to fucking fight every on 600 00:31:51,960 --> 00:31:54,320 Speaker 2: every side. I don't I don't get to be the 601 00:31:54,440 --> 00:31:57,000 Speaker 2: leader of these movements. I don't get to be Uh. 602 00:31:57,120 --> 00:31:59,840 Speaker 2: People don't defend me, people don't step up, don't say 603 00:32:00,320 --> 00:32:02,240 Speaker 2: like it has to get so out of control for 604 00:32:02,360 --> 00:32:05,600 Speaker 2: someone like me in order for these motherfuckers to even 605 00:32:05,680 --> 00:32:07,480 Speaker 2: see me as a person that I don't it's not 606 00:32:07,600 --> 00:32:10,440 Speaker 2: worth the fight. Yeah, you know, but that's what made 607 00:32:10,520 --> 00:32:13,520 Speaker 2: me mad about reading Lapita's piece. And yeah, of course 608 00:32:13,600 --> 00:32:16,600 Speaker 2: he he would come out and disavow her, So you 609 00:32:16,640 --> 00:32:20,160 Speaker 2: would think, being that he's the one, she's the only 610 00:32:20,200 --> 00:32:24,120 Speaker 2: one he came out and like basically attacked. You would 611 00:32:24,200 --> 00:32:27,360 Speaker 2: think all these white women that's been fighting for days 612 00:32:27,520 --> 00:32:31,000 Speaker 2: while he sat silently would come out and be like, Hey, 613 00:32:32,160 --> 00:32:35,200 Speaker 2: we staying with Lapita. You're not gonna do this, but 614 00:32:35,280 --> 00:32:37,360 Speaker 2: how can you win? The day before you tweeted out, 615 00:32:37,680 --> 00:32:41,680 Speaker 2: Will James Corden would have said the N word, y'all 616 00:32:41,680 --> 00:32:44,560 Speaker 2: would have y'all would have been mad. But he said women. 617 00:32:44,640 --> 00:32:47,280 Speaker 2: So it's okay for him to make these jokes. What 618 00:32:48,760 --> 00:32:51,800 Speaker 2: you know what I mean, like like, oh, sorry, y'all 619 00:32:51,840 --> 00:32:53,440 Speaker 2: all smoking a lot of weeds? You know how it is? 620 00:32:53,440 --> 00:32:55,960 Speaker 2: I get racist when I smoke wig like, it's that 621 00:32:56,080 --> 00:32:58,480 Speaker 2: kind of shit. So yeah, it's it's to me, it's 622 00:32:58,520 --> 00:33:01,480 Speaker 2: more sad to see the reaction to her coming out 623 00:33:01,560 --> 00:33:03,440 Speaker 2: and the fact that this dude shot took a shot 624 00:33:03,440 --> 00:33:06,000 Speaker 2: at her, and I still it's been days now, I 625 00:33:06,040 --> 00:33:09,280 Speaker 2: still haven't seen any rallying around her from anyone that's 626 00:33:09,320 --> 00:33:10,120 Speaker 2: not a person of color. 627 00:33:12,640 --> 00:33:14,160 Speaker 3: And that shit just matters. 628 00:33:14,200 --> 00:33:18,880 Speaker 4: And that's why, you know, that's all put like this, 629 00:33:19,320 --> 00:33:22,040 Speaker 4: There's always gonna be separation, gonna there's gonna be individual 630 00:33:22,080 --> 00:33:25,720 Speaker 4: people when it comes between black feminists and white feminis, 631 00:33:25,880 --> 00:33:28,600 Speaker 4: just black women and white women that kind of crossed. 632 00:33:28,640 --> 00:33:31,200 Speaker 4: But overall, that's why the division is there in individual 633 00:33:31,560 --> 00:33:33,880 Speaker 4: always continue to be there because at the end of 634 00:33:33,920 --> 00:33:36,320 Speaker 4: the day, you're white and you will always stand on 635 00:33:36,320 --> 00:33:40,560 Speaker 4: the side of whiteness, and your whiteness, your whiteness comes 636 00:33:40,560 --> 00:33:45,080 Speaker 4: before your womanhood, right, And that's the thing for black women. 637 00:33:46,080 --> 00:33:49,680 Speaker 4: People want our womanhood to come before our blackness. But nigga, 638 00:33:49,640 --> 00:33:52,960 Speaker 4: I'm black first because I get everything that the man 639 00:33:53,040 --> 00:33:55,960 Speaker 4: gets too when it comes to blackness, and then my 640 00:33:56,040 --> 00:33:57,240 Speaker 4: womanhood comes second. 641 00:33:57,400 --> 00:33:58,960 Speaker 2: Yeah, you know, I was thinking about the day, you know, 642 00:33:58,960 --> 00:34:02,080 Speaker 2: how Bernie Sanders is now promoting He's like, we just 643 00:34:02,080 --> 00:34:04,760 Speaker 2: need to get some wins. So he's promoting local politicians 644 00:34:04,760 --> 00:34:11,360 Speaker 2: that don't fucking support uh women's choice, you know, Like 645 00:34:11,600 --> 00:34:16,040 Speaker 2: and he's decided that that's a identity politics issue and 646 00:34:16,080 --> 00:34:18,000 Speaker 2: it's not important and the only thing that's important is 647 00:34:18,000 --> 00:34:23,000 Speaker 2: the economy. Right. Keep in mind that the access to 648 00:34:23,480 --> 00:34:29,799 Speaker 2: birth control, abortion and and and other uh mammograms, all 649 00:34:29,840 --> 00:34:31,920 Speaker 2: the ship that that that happens at playing parenthood and 650 00:34:31,960 --> 00:34:37,600 Speaker 2: places like that, that's the economy come. So I don't 651 00:34:37,600 --> 00:34:39,960 Speaker 2: know how that turned into is we need to worry 652 00:34:39,960 --> 00:34:43,160 Speaker 2: about the economy and not identity politics. Motherfucker. If I 653 00:34:43,200 --> 00:34:46,719 Speaker 2: have to have a baby, guess what that cost? Right? 654 00:34:47,080 --> 00:34:49,080 Speaker 2: If I get If I get can't get a cancer 655 00:34:49,120 --> 00:34:51,160 Speaker 2: screen and or a mammogram, guess what. Guess what that 656 00:34:51,200 --> 00:34:53,920 Speaker 2: cost me? If I got cancer? You know, if I 657 00:34:53,960 --> 00:34:57,080 Speaker 2: can't get access to birth control, guess what that does 658 00:34:57,320 --> 00:35:01,080 Speaker 2: cost me money? Like what any Sorry that's a whole 659 00:35:01,160 --> 00:35:05,640 Speaker 2: nother tangent, right, but uh yeah, it's just it was 660 00:35:05,719 --> 00:35:09,600 Speaker 2: just interesting that they would, uh they would do that 661 00:35:09,680 --> 00:35:15,719 Speaker 2: shit because that's whack. Uh But that I wonder where 662 00:35:15,760 --> 00:35:19,000 Speaker 2: those women who support Bernie Sanders that I never Hillary 663 00:35:19,080 --> 00:35:22,440 Speaker 2: white women, and shit, you know, where do they stand 664 00:35:22,640 --> 00:35:26,880 Speaker 2: on him promoting these candidates that are anti choice? You 665 00:35:26,920 --> 00:35:28,880 Speaker 2: know what I mean? Like, are they still standing with 666 00:35:28,960 --> 00:35:30,560 Speaker 2: him or not? Because I don't because I don't know 667 00:35:30,600 --> 00:35:32,920 Speaker 2: because I don't roll in those circles. But it's like, 668 00:35:33,000 --> 00:35:35,760 Speaker 2: are y'all still back in this dude when he's literally 669 00:35:35,800 --> 00:35:39,600 Speaker 2: telling you your issues are not important to him and 670 00:35:39,680 --> 00:35:42,799 Speaker 2: I'm going to support candidates that don't give a fuck 671 00:35:42,800 --> 00:35:45,600 Speaker 2: about you. But because the economy is the only thing 672 00:35:45,640 --> 00:35:48,720 Speaker 2: that matter, at least we won, Like the social issues 673 00:35:48,719 --> 00:35:51,640 Speaker 2: of the Democratic Party are just as fucking important as 674 00:35:51,680 --> 00:35:54,200 Speaker 2: the quote unquote economy because they are the economy for 675 00:35:54,320 --> 00:35:57,040 Speaker 2: most of us, everyone who's not a white man. That 676 00:35:57,080 --> 00:35:59,640 Speaker 2: shit is the economy, Yes, sir, you know what I mean. 677 00:35:59,719 --> 00:36:01,239 Speaker 2: Race is the economy for me. 678 00:36:01,880 --> 00:36:02,080 Speaker 7: You know. 679 00:36:02,320 --> 00:36:06,280 Speaker 2: It's like it's not just because it another separate issue, right, because. 680 00:36:06,040 --> 00:36:08,160 Speaker 3: It affects my ability to make money. 681 00:36:08,800 --> 00:36:13,160 Speaker 2: Yeah, so uh yeah, they still support, They still support 682 00:36:13,200 --> 00:36:16,000 Speaker 2: because this whiteness over everything, Like, yeah. 683 00:36:15,920 --> 00:36:18,319 Speaker 4: You against my own interest. I don't give a fuck. 684 00:36:18,360 --> 00:36:20,040 Speaker 4: It's whiteness over everything. 685 00:36:22,760 --> 00:36:25,960 Speaker 2: All right, So back to this, sim Simmons says, I've 686 00:36:26,000 --> 00:36:28,680 Speaker 2: been disgusted reading so many of the details from the 687 00:36:28,719 --> 00:36:31,200 Speaker 2: women who were harassed and started about Harvey Weinstein, but 688 00:36:31,280 --> 00:36:33,799 Speaker 2: reading the full op ed that Lapita Niango wrote had 689 00:36:33,840 --> 00:36:36,879 Speaker 2: me in tears, feeling cornered in a bedroom in his home, 690 00:36:36,960 --> 00:36:39,440 Speaker 2: surrounded by his staff, and feeling so scared that she 691 00:36:39,600 --> 00:36:43,720 Speaker 2: tried offering to give him to give instead of receiving 692 00:36:43,719 --> 00:36:46,520 Speaker 2: a massage. I'm glad that she now feels empowered enough 693 00:36:46,520 --> 00:36:48,760 Speaker 2: to share experience and has been able to thrive despite 694 00:36:48,760 --> 00:36:52,440 Speaker 2: this monster. People need to go to jail with Weinstein, 695 00:36:52,560 --> 00:36:54,759 Speaker 2: but they probably won't. I don't know if that was 696 00:36:54,800 --> 00:36:57,279 Speaker 2: Wapeter's experience. I thought Lapita was the one that he 697 00:36:57,360 --> 00:37:00,239 Speaker 2: told her to come up to her hotel room. Uh, 698 00:37:00,400 --> 00:37:02,560 Speaker 2: she brought somebody with her to dinner and then so 699 00:37:02,600 --> 00:37:05,840 Speaker 2: he didn't try anything. Then the next time he invited 700 00:37:05,880 --> 00:37:08,160 Speaker 2: her out to dinner and said you need to come 701 00:37:08,239 --> 00:37:10,239 Speaker 2: up to the hotel room, and she said no, And 702 00:37:10,280 --> 00:37:12,799 Speaker 2: then he was like, well, if you don't do this, 703 00:37:12,960 --> 00:37:14,920 Speaker 2: I can't promise your career gonna be okay. And she 704 00:37:15,080 --> 00:37:16,480 Speaker 2: was like, are you trying to say you're gonna do 705 00:37:16,480 --> 00:37:19,719 Speaker 2: something to my career And he was like, I'm just 706 00:37:19,760 --> 00:37:22,000 Speaker 2: saying I mean you should be okay, but I don't 707 00:37:22,040 --> 00:37:24,879 Speaker 2: know about your career. And she left anyway, I thought 708 00:37:24,920 --> 00:37:25,440 Speaker 2: that was her. 709 00:37:26,200 --> 00:37:29,640 Speaker 3: I'm not sure, like goddamn so much. They had three 710 00:37:29,680 --> 00:37:30,200 Speaker 3: different ones. 711 00:37:30,280 --> 00:37:32,200 Speaker 4: Yeah, they had three different ones, and one of them 712 00:37:32,320 --> 00:37:33,800 Speaker 4: she did do like a back masuge. 713 00:37:33,840 --> 00:37:34,080 Speaker 3: I know that. 714 00:37:34,280 --> 00:37:37,439 Speaker 2: Yeah, there's several. There's the dude he jacked off into 715 00:37:37,480 --> 00:37:38,000 Speaker 2: a plant. 716 00:37:38,760 --> 00:37:40,480 Speaker 3: Yeah that was that one. Now that one was her. 717 00:37:40,640 --> 00:37:43,400 Speaker 2: Yeah, there's so many at this point, I don't know. 718 00:37:44,480 --> 00:37:47,360 Speaker 2: They're starting to run together. Uh they are, Land says. 719 00:37:47,400 --> 00:37:49,720 Speaker 2: I had my first PSL. That's what we call pumpy 720 00:37:49,760 --> 00:37:52,719 Speaker 2: spots light tays Cam. Okay, I had my first PSL 721 00:37:52,719 --> 00:37:54,960 Speaker 2: a little bit after hearing your revelation, and it was 722 00:37:55,120 --> 00:37:59,040 Speaker 2: so good. It damn that I'll knock me out, my 723 00:37:59,160 --> 00:38:02,359 Speaker 2: Lulu limits. I know. It was so good. I had 724 00:38:02,360 --> 00:38:04,040 Speaker 2: to tell a manager how good it was. I even 725 00:38:04,080 --> 00:38:06,479 Speaker 2: left a fifty three percent tip in the jar. Yes, 726 00:38:08,800 --> 00:38:11,800 Speaker 2: I've been talking to management a lot lately. I was 727 00:38:11,840 --> 00:38:13,560 Speaker 2: at the basketball court the day I said, can y'all 728 00:38:13,560 --> 00:38:16,960 Speaker 2: lower this divider? I mean, raise this divider so we 729 00:38:16,960 --> 00:38:18,719 Speaker 2: can play on both sides. I used to wouldn't do 730 00:38:18,800 --> 00:38:22,080 Speaker 2: something like that, but now I'm smelling so pumpkin spicy 731 00:38:22,160 --> 00:38:24,040 Speaker 2: fresh and she did it too. 732 00:38:24,120 --> 00:38:26,239 Speaker 4: Yeah, because you smelled the punkin spice on you game 733 00:38:26,320 --> 00:38:27,080 Speaker 4: recognized game. 734 00:38:27,480 --> 00:38:31,600 Speaker 2: I'm thinking white people are scent activated, like Be's or something. Even, 735 00:38:31,680 --> 00:38:34,040 Speaker 2: he says. Although I'm not a fan of pumpkin spices, 736 00:38:34,120 --> 00:38:36,640 Speaker 2: I do love extra male on my sandwiches cheese ug 737 00:38:36,680 --> 00:38:39,680 Speaker 2: boots and berry Manilow. My inner Becky really comes out 738 00:38:39,680 --> 00:38:42,000 Speaker 2: when Brittany is on the radio. Here's the U ride 739 00:38:42,000 --> 00:38:44,560 Speaker 2: for living your best white woman in life. Thank you. 740 00:38:45,080 --> 00:38:48,320 Speaker 3: I do like extra male on my bot and sometimes 741 00:38:48,320 --> 00:38:48,839 Speaker 3: I do an. 742 00:38:48,719 --> 00:38:51,440 Speaker 2: A Now I'm more of a miracle whip person, but 743 00:38:51,480 --> 00:38:53,360 Speaker 2: you know I'm gonna get this male shot guys. 744 00:38:53,600 --> 00:38:56,040 Speaker 3: I mean yeah, I mean I'm a male person too. 745 00:38:56,120 --> 00:38:58,880 Speaker 3: Most of time when you do sound when an America person. 746 00:38:59,640 --> 00:39:01,200 Speaker 2: What else you said? Mayo Verson? 747 00:39:01,280 --> 00:39:04,120 Speaker 4: Oh, I'm a miracle whip person, but I will do 748 00:39:04,200 --> 00:39:06,440 Speaker 4: Mayo when we're out and about because most people don't. 749 00:39:06,280 --> 00:39:08,040 Speaker 3: Have miracle whip on the menu. You just gonna get 750 00:39:08,160 --> 00:39:08,879 Speaker 3: regular ass Mayo. 751 00:39:09,040 --> 00:39:11,200 Speaker 2: The whites just have Mayo miracle. 752 00:39:11,440 --> 00:39:14,959 Speaker 4: Yeah, and that's not funny Mayo. It tasted like water. 753 00:39:15,000 --> 00:39:16,920 Speaker 4: It don't got no flavor. It just makes the ship win. 754 00:39:17,200 --> 00:39:19,759 Speaker 2: It's just not my thing, but you know what, I'm 755 00:39:19,760 --> 00:39:21,759 Speaker 2: gonna try it. I keep knocking it. Maybe they got 756 00:39:21,800 --> 00:39:24,239 Speaker 2: pumpkin spice Mayo out there they might like to do. 757 00:39:24,600 --> 00:39:28,080 Speaker 2: You know, maybe that's off the hook, but yeah, I'm 758 00:39:28,120 --> 00:39:31,799 Speaker 2: just you know, yeah, I've been acclimating to the whole lifestyle. 759 00:39:31,880 --> 00:39:32,080 Speaker 4: Man. 760 00:39:32,160 --> 00:39:36,600 Speaker 2: I got uh, you know, my punkin spice uh lotion 761 00:39:37,440 --> 00:39:41,360 Speaker 2: hemps your herbal extracts, Pumpkin spice of vanilla chy herbal 762 00:39:41,360 --> 00:39:46,279 Speaker 2: body moisturizing smells so good. Listen, y'all think I'm joking. 763 00:39:46,320 --> 00:39:49,239 Speaker 2: I'll be smelling good and this ship I put some 764 00:39:49,320 --> 00:39:51,440 Speaker 2: extra on just now. But yeah, you have out to 765 00:39:51,480 --> 00:39:55,200 Speaker 2: shower and hydrate your skin some of this lotion, I mean, 766 00:39:55,600 --> 00:39:56,680 Speaker 2: moisturize yourself. 767 00:39:56,840 --> 00:39:59,320 Speaker 4: I mean we're going to start using using the pumpkin 768 00:39:59,360 --> 00:40:01,239 Speaker 4: spice sugars. 769 00:40:01,719 --> 00:40:04,920 Speaker 2: I can find some, if I can find some. And 770 00:40:04,960 --> 00:40:07,759 Speaker 2: then I got my pumpkin spice playlist. You know, I've 771 00:40:07,800 --> 00:40:11,279 Speaker 2: been playing that on title. I got a lot of 772 00:40:11,840 --> 00:40:15,160 Speaker 2: a lot of uh spicy hits on there, guys, you know, 773 00:40:15,920 --> 00:40:18,759 Speaker 2: trying to get my best life on. It's relaxing too. 774 00:40:19,760 --> 00:40:19,880 Speaker 4: Uh. 775 00:40:20,200 --> 00:40:24,600 Speaker 2: The pole was easy. Pumpkin spice yay or nay, forty 776 00:40:25,320 --> 00:40:29,200 Speaker 2: is very close. Forty Yay. I mean fifty five percent 777 00:40:29,200 --> 00:40:31,880 Speaker 2: of y'all don't know the magical glory of pumpkin spices. 778 00:40:31,920 --> 00:40:35,520 Speaker 2: That's so sad. That's so sad. Maybe if you guys 779 00:40:35,520 --> 00:40:38,719 Speaker 2: can get a little bit of basic like me, you 780 00:40:38,719 --> 00:40:41,799 Speaker 2: can live your base basket, your best, basic basic life. 781 00:40:41,880 --> 00:40:45,600 Speaker 4: Yes, who somebody said miss Marshay's pumpkin spice whipsha butter. 782 00:40:46,400 --> 00:40:48,799 Speaker 2: I believe it. I believe it. I have to look 783 00:40:48,840 --> 00:40:49,120 Speaker 2: it up. 784 00:40:49,239 --> 00:40:49,839 Speaker 3: I know right. 785 00:40:50,440 --> 00:40:52,640 Speaker 2: No, I didn't know. It's so much pumpkin spice out 786 00:40:52,680 --> 00:40:53,280 Speaker 2: here in this world. 787 00:40:54,680 --> 00:40:57,040 Speaker 4: I'm so thankful it's their time and a year hunting 788 00:40:57,080 --> 00:40:58,680 Speaker 4: pumpkin spices come at the closet. 789 00:41:00,239 --> 00:41:03,720 Speaker 2: I had a pumpkin drink the other day, wasn't it? No? 790 00:41:03,840 --> 00:41:04,319 Speaker 5: It was well. 791 00:41:04,360 --> 00:41:07,080 Speaker 2: I had punkin spice martini too. That was that was 792 00:41:07,160 --> 00:41:11,200 Speaker 2: last Saturday to uh the Liberty. But I also had 793 00:41:11,280 --> 00:41:17,200 Speaker 2: pumpkin spike, pumpkin pumpkin coffee and vodka drink. Or we 794 00:41:17,239 --> 00:41:20,400 Speaker 2: went out with Leslie and Drew and that ship was 795 00:41:20,840 --> 00:41:24,480 Speaker 2: tasty and punkin spice pancakes too. It wasn't as good 796 00:41:24,480 --> 00:41:27,200 Speaker 2: as the punkin spice flap Jack stough that I had 797 00:41:27,200 --> 00:41:30,080 Speaker 2: from the toast. Now that was the pancakes was good. 798 00:41:31,239 --> 00:41:35,200 Speaker 2: But yeah, I've been listening to my Punkin spice uh playlist, 799 00:41:35,520 --> 00:41:37,360 Speaker 2: got a lot of songs, got like nineteen songs and 800 00:41:37,400 --> 00:41:38,680 Speaker 2: I still got to add some more. 801 00:41:39,920 --> 00:41:42,000 Speaker 4: I know this time of the year is Apple season two. 802 00:41:42,040 --> 00:41:44,040 Speaker 4: You know they love like apple cider, So this is 803 00:41:44,120 --> 00:41:45,080 Speaker 4: me apple cider. 804 00:41:55,960 --> 00:41:57,520 Speaker 2: That's what people sad. 805 00:41:58,920 --> 00:42:03,160 Speaker 7: That people said, Bay, I go up to maybe days, 806 00:42:08,000 --> 00:42:14,120 Speaker 7: that's what people say. That's what people say. But I 807 00:42:14,360 --> 00:42:20,640 Speaker 7: keep cool, can't stop, won't stop blue mant God got. 808 00:42:20,400 --> 00:42:25,319 Speaker 2: This usic in my mind saying it up. Y'all right, 809 00:42:29,520 --> 00:42:32,160 Speaker 2: it's so good, y'all need to get like this. Let's 810 00:42:32,160 --> 00:42:35,879 Speaker 2: see how happy y'all just were. A Brooklyn shoe babe 811 00:42:36,000 --> 00:42:37,920 Speaker 2: left a comments. She said, this weekend I had Punkins 812 00:42:37,920 --> 00:42:42,200 Speaker 2: spice flavored Hershey kisses. It was everything. Maybe white Maybe 813 00:42:42,239 --> 00:42:45,359 Speaker 2: white women are on the something, aren't they. I feel 814 00:42:45,360 --> 00:42:48,560 Speaker 2: like we should be appropriating they ship. Let's take it back. 815 00:42:49,239 --> 00:42:51,399 Speaker 2: They probably stolen from somebody to get in the first place. 816 00:42:51,640 --> 00:42:55,880 Speaker 4: Of course, of course, of course, honey, honey, if if 817 00:42:56,200 --> 00:42:58,600 Speaker 4: niggas did punker spikes punkers spikes, But I mean cause 818 00:42:58,600 --> 00:42:59,200 Speaker 4: it's a cool thing. 819 00:42:59,280 --> 00:43:00,520 Speaker 3: Don't get me wrong for white people. 820 00:43:00,520 --> 00:43:03,000 Speaker 4: But if niggas got actually like pumpkin spicing it up, 821 00:43:03,280 --> 00:43:04,759 Speaker 4: they would leave you. 822 00:43:04,760 --> 00:43:07,280 Speaker 3: They would like, nah, getting too dark around this pumpkin spice. 823 00:43:08,440 --> 00:43:12,880 Speaker 2: Listen, I say, oh my god, I just want to 824 00:43:12,920 --> 00:43:18,000 Speaker 2: shake it. Ha ha Episode fifteen fifty, No Hugs for 825 00:43:18,120 --> 00:43:22,759 Speaker 2: my Nazis. We had a lot of stuff to talk 826 00:43:22,760 --> 00:43:25,800 Speaker 2: about on this one Eve, and other people left comments. 827 00:43:25,880 --> 00:43:29,880 Speaker 2: Let me see when shoe Babe says Queen Cairenes regarding 828 00:43:29,920 --> 00:43:33,480 Speaker 2: the straight hairs on women's chins, cheeks, and necks. I 829 00:43:33,520 --> 00:43:36,560 Speaker 2: started getting them in my mid twenties because I have PCOS, 830 00:43:36,680 --> 00:43:41,919 Speaker 2: a hormonal problem that includes such symptoms as heiressness, hereousness. 831 00:43:42,560 --> 00:43:45,000 Speaker 2: I don't know how to pronounce this. I'm sorry for 832 00:43:45,040 --> 00:43:48,560 Speaker 2: letting you down, lack of ovulation, insulin resistance, and male 833 00:43:48,600 --> 00:43:51,279 Speaker 2: powder and boundness. Most of the time I go to 834 00:43:51,320 --> 00:43:53,760 Speaker 2: the salon to get my face wax. Now, my twelve 835 00:43:53,840 --> 00:43:56,680 Speaker 2: yard daughter tweezes my chin and neck, and I give 836 00:43:56,719 --> 00:43:59,839 Speaker 2: her a dollar for doing it. The closer you get, 837 00:43:59,840 --> 00:44:01,759 Speaker 2: then a pause, the more hair you're going to see 838 00:44:01,760 --> 00:44:04,759 Speaker 2: on your face. However, you'll find yourself having to shave 839 00:44:04,800 --> 00:44:07,120 Speaker 2: your under arm's legs and bikini line less if you 840 00:44:07,160 --> 00:44:09,719 Speaker 2: shave now. I am forty five years old and my 841 00:44:09,840 --> 00:44:13,759 Speaker 2: pews started going gray around age forty. When I discovered it, 842 00:44:13,960 --> 00:44:16,400 Speaker 2: I called my mom and shouted, why didn't you warn me? 843 00:44:17,040 --> 00:44:17,120 Speaker 6: Da? 844 00:44:19,600 --> 00:44:21,440 Speaker 2: I think we spend so much time as women as 845 00:44:21,480 --> 00:44:24,280 Speaker 2: a society fighting and aging that we don't have honest 846 00:44:24,320 --> 00:44:26,880 Speaker 2: conversations about what actually happens to our bodies will get older, 847 00:44:26,880 --> 00:44:28,640 Speaker 2: come out. We might be able to keep a flat 848 00:44:28,640 --> 00:44:31,759 Speaker 2: stomach through exercise or smooth faced the creams, the sunscreen, 849 00:44:31,840 --> 00:44:33,840 Speaker 2: but the rest of our body will always give us away, 850 00:44:34,080 --> 00:44:37,320 Speaker 2: and we're never prepared. Actually our type, as I type, 851 00:44:37,440 --> 00:44:40,080 Speaker 2: we don't really have honest conversations as our body changes 852 00:44:40,080 --> 00:44:43,200 Speaker 2: from puberty onward. Sometimes our daughter's ages ten to twelve 853 00:44:43,200 --> 00:44:46,959 Speaker 2: don't want to hear it, but you just need to know, sincerely, Brooklyn. 854 00:44:46,600 --> 00:44:49,680 Speaker 8: Shoe babe, right, And even when it comes to having children, 855 00:44:49,760 --> 00:44:52,160 Speaker 8: like I've never had children, but women have had children, said, 856 00:44:52,200 --> 00:44:53,960 Speaker 8: your body changes, and a lot of women say your 857 00:44:53,960 --> 00:44:57,799 Speaker 8: body is never the same like you just you know, 858 00:44:58,040 --> 00:45:01,520 Speaker 8: you age and you mature, but there's something there's like 859 00:45:01,560 --> 00:45:04,839 Speaker 8: a pre child and post child thing. 860 00:45:05,000 --> 00:45:07,080 Speaker 4: So your body is adjusting to that. You go through 861 00:45:07,080 --> 00:45:11,080 Speaker 4: hormonal changes with children. And I didn't even know it's 862 00:45:11,120 --> 00:45:14,720 Speaker 4: a special type of diabetes that only happen when you're pregnant. 863 00:45:14,920 --> 00:45:15,520 Speaker 3: Shit like that. 864 00:45:15,719 --> 00:45:17,799 Speaker 4: A girlfriend of mine had, I said, what, I think 865 00:45:17,800 --> 00:45:19,440 Speaker 4: it's called just stational diabetes. 866 00:45:19,480 --> 00:45:21,799 Speaker 3: I was like, you got diabetes. She was like, yeah, 867 00:45:21,840 --> 00:45:24,440 Speaker 3: you can only get it while you're putting. I was like, wow, 868 00:45:24,800 --> 00:45:26,040 Speaker 3: just shit like that a lot. 869 00:45:25,960 --> 00:45:29,640 Speaker 4: Of times, just because society and a lot of women 870 00:45:29,960 --> 00:45:33,040 Speaker 4: truthfully buy a bit if they know it or not, 871 00:45:33,080 --> 00:45:35,720 Speaker 4: they buy into a lot of the patriarchy because women 872 00:45:35,840 --> 00:45:40,480 Speaker 4: don't talk to women about going through menopause. Women don't 873 00:45:40,480 --> 00:45:43,879 Speaker 4: talk about women to other women about you know, pre 874 00:45:43,960 --> 00:45:47,800 Speaker 4: impost children, post popum depress. Like this shit really affects women. 875 00:45:48,239 --> 00:45:49,799 Speaker 4: And it's a lot of women out there that think 876 00:45:49,800 --> 00:45:52,560 Speaker 4: they have another's breakdowns. They think something's wrong with them. 877 00:45:52,600 --> 00:45:55,520 Speaker 4: They think they're going crazy. Even with the internet out there, 878 00:45:55,680 --> 00:45:58,200 Speaker 4: and unless you have somebody that you can even talk to. 879 00:45:58,239 --> 00:46:00,200 Speaker 3: It even when it comes to talking to your children. 880 00:46:00,280 --> 00:46:03,520 Speaker 4: About periods, you know, you've got to talk to your 881 00:46:03,600 --> 00:46:07,800 Speaker 4: children because your child will actually think there's something wrong 882 00:46:07,880 --> 00:46:10,520 Speaker 4: with them unless they know that they're not alone. That's 883 00:46:10,760 --> 00:46:12,719 Speaker 4: one big reason why, because I know I was kind 884 00:46:12,719 --> 00:46:14,799 Speaker 4: of anti the period party. 885 00:46:14,840 --> 00:46:16,400 Speaker 3: When you was talking about it, I was like you, no, no, no, 886 00:46:16,520 --> 00:46:17,120 Speaker 3: this makes sense. 887 00:46:17,160 --> 00:46:19,879 Speaker 4: This makes sense because you need to let a young 888 00:46:19,920 --> 00:46:22,440 Speaker 4: lady know that you're not alone. There's nothing wrong with you, 889 00:46:22,480 --> 00:46:24,799 Speaker 4: nothing to be ashamed of, nothing to be afraid of. 890 00:46:25,160 --> 00:46:28,759 Speaker 4: We all go through this, and it makes it something 891 00:46:28,800 --> 00:46:32,560 Speaker 4: that's more embracing versus they feel like they're on a long, dark, 892 00:46:32,680 --> 00:46:35,279 Speaker 4: cold roll by themselves. You're bleeding every month, and you 893 00:46:35,360 --> 00:46:38,759 Speaker 4: be like forever ever, forever ever until somebody tells you know, 894 00:46:38,840 --> 00:46:40,000 Speaker 4: you go through menopause. 895 00:46:40,040 --> 00:46:41,880 Speaker 3: But you know, it depends on your age. You know, 896 00:46:41,960 --> 00:46:44,359 Speaker 3: some women have their peers into their fifties. I did 897 00:46:44,360 --> 00:46:47,920 Speaker 3: not know this. You know, so it varies per woman. 898 00:46:48,320 --> 00:46:51,319 Speaker 4: And I think if more women were truthful to other 899 00:46:51,440 --> 00:46:54,080 Speaker 4: women about shit versus be like, our girl, go ahead 900 00:46:54,080 --> 00:46:56,719 Speaker 4: and have that baby. You don't know what you know, 901 00:46:56,840 --> 00:46:59,120 Speaker 4: let's just keep it here. Every woman isn't meant to 902 00:46:59,120 --> 00:47:02,120 Speaker 4: have a child. Every woman doesn't have this burning sensation 903 00:47:02,239 --> 00:47:04,759 Speaker 4: in her soul to get married to a man. And 904 00:47:04,800 --> 00:47:09,439 Speaker 4: you know, and I think that if women across the board, 905 00:47:09,480 --> 00:47:12,640 Speaker 4: regardless of their sexuality would be truthful to other women. 906 00:47:13,040 --> 00:47:15,520 Speaker 3: You would have more women that would make the right 907 00:47:15,600 --> 00:47:17,879 Speaker 3: choices and then the best decisions. 908 00:47:17,280 --> 00:47:21,280 Speaker 4: For them and actually live a lot happier life versus 909 00:47:21,600 --> 00:47:24,239 Speaker 4: you living a life you're putting yourself in boxes, you 910 00:47:24,360 --> 00:47:26,840 Speaker 4: chain yourself to the ground. You're not living up to 911 00:47:26,880 --> 00:47:28,879 Speaker 4: the best of your ability because you're so concerned about 912 00:47:28,880 --> 00:47:30,680 Speaker 4: what these other women thinking about you, and these other 913 00:47:30,760 --> 00:47:32,600 Speaker 4: women are like, bitch, that shit is fake. 914 00:47:34,120 --> 00:47:37,720 Speaker 2: Yes, yes, it's always as a guy, it's always interesting 915 00:47:37,760 --> 00:47:40,520 Speaker 2: to see how much work goes into you know, women's 916 00:47:40,560 --> 00:47:43,640 Speaker 2: looks and stuff, because it's you know, like we even 917 00:47:43,680 --> 00:47:46,600 Speaker 2: built society where this is a commodity for women in 918 00:47:46,640 --> 00:47:48,560 Speaker 2: a way that it was not for men, you know 919 00:47:48,560 --> 00:47:51,760 Speaker 2: what I mean. It's like it's a necessity for women 920 00:47:51,800 --> 00:47:53,520 Speaker 2: to look a certain way and all this shit or 921 00:47:53,520 --> 00:47:58,200 Speaker 2: else we just completely devalue everything about them. But yeah, 922 00:47:58,480 --> 00:48:01,239 Speaker 2: you know that that is interesting, And yeah, says we 923 00:48:01,280 --> 00:48:03,279 Speaker 2: don't talk about it. There's probably gonna be women that 924 00:48:03,280 --> 00:48:05,239 Speaker 2: don't want to talk about it. Men definitely don't want 925 00:48:05,239 --> 00:48:05,879 Speaker 2: to talk about it. 926 00:48:06,840 --> 00:48:09,160 Speaker 4: Yep, and and and and the thing is, and it's 927 00:48:09,239 --> 00:48:12,919 Speaker 4: funny though, because you can have men and I've even 928 00:48:12,960 --> 00:48:16,000 Speaker 4: heard people talk about this. You can have men deliver 929 00:48:16,160 --> 00:48:19,719 Speaker 4: women live in the same household with a woman, you 930 00:48:19,840 --> 00:48:22,279 Speaker 4: fuck her, you know you have sex with them, but 931 00:48:22,400 --> 00:48:25,880 Speaker 4: yet you uh, you won't go pick up past the 932 00:48:25,920 --> 00:48:28,080 Speaker 4: tampons for you won't go pick up a birth control 933 00:48:28,200 --> 00:48:31,320 Speaker 4: but you you had, you are very intimate with this woman. 934 00:48:31,800 --> 00:48:33,240 Speaker 3: It's like, oh, she got the cooties. 935 00:48:33,680 --> 00:48:37,120 Speaker 4: Everybody knows how fucking body functions, dog like, come on 936 00:48:37,440 --> 00:48:39,120 Speaker 4: like and man, maybe this is ju't like me. 937 00:48:39,400 --> 00:48:41,040 Speaker 3: I don't understand the separation there. 938 00:48:41,160 --> 00:48:44,279 Speaker 4: You know, you have men they never they say they 939 00:48:44,360 --> 00:48:48,799 Speaker 4: never uh to pass the tampons anywhere around the house 940 00:48:48,840 --> 00:48:51,560 Speaker 4: because a lot of women have been trained to just 941 00:48:51,680 --> 00:48:53,640 Speaker 4: keep that ship away from men. I don't talk about 942 00:48:53,640 --> 00:48:55,680 Speaker 4: my period, I don't talk about the bloating. I don't 943 00:48:55,680 --> 00:48:57,600 Speaker 4: talk about any of this. I got to quote unquote 944 00:48:57,600 --> 00:49:00,839 Speaker 4: protect him. But but we in this together, ain't we. 945 00:49:01,160 --> 00:49:04,640 Speaker 4: You're intimate with me, aren't you you? Just like just 946 00:49:04,719 --> 00:49:07,440 Speaker 4: like I feel like I should be open with my 947 00:49:07,520 --> 00:49:11,200 Speaker 4: body and the vice versas men are open with their bodies. 948 00:49:11,400 --> 00:49:15,720 Speaker 3: There's a lot of men in reverse who have erectile dysfunction. 949 00:49:15,400 --> 00:49:17,960 Speaker 4: And shit like that, but they too afraid to talk 950 00:49:18,000 --> 00:49:18,480 Speaker 4: to they mate. 951 00:49:18,520 --> 00:49:21,080 Speaker 3: If I'm fucking you, I know this something's wrong because 952 00:49:21,520 --> 00:49:23,920 Speaker 3: you know, the sex is not the same. But a 953 00:49:23,920 --> 00:49:26,280 Speaker 3: lot of that is that that thing that. 954 00:49:26,400 --> 00:49:29,040 Speaker 4: Prevents men from opening up to women and prevents women 955 00:49:29,040 --> 00:49:29,920 Speaker 4: from opening up to men. 956 00:49:30,040 --> 00:49:32,719 Speaker 3: And I think there were people with be in happier relationships. 957 00:49:32,760 --> 00:49:35,160 Speaker 2: There were two with the mates well, I mean the 958 00:49:35,400 --> 00:49:38,680 Speaker 2: music like with that, there's like other things to it 959 00:49:38,719 --> 00:49:40,680 Speaker 2: as well, because like there's this pressure to be like 960 00:49:42,239 --> 00:49:45,080 Speaker 2: masculine in a way that's like people want to fit 961 00:49:45,120 --> 00:49:46,719 Speaker 2: into a mode the same way women want to fit 962 00:49:46,719 --> 00:49:49,560 Speaker 2: into a certain like feminine mode. But you know, obviously 963 00:49:50,040 --> 00:49:53,120 Speaker 2: not everybody that's people in same sex relationships as people 964 00:49:53,200 --> 00:49:56,640 Speaker 2: that you know kind of don't have those same roles 965 00:49:56,640 --> 00:49:58,640 Speaker 2: within their life or whatever. But I do think for 966 00:49:58,680 --> 00:50:01,560 Speaker 2: the most part is unhealthy try to make everyone fit 967 00:50:01,600 --> 00:50:07,319 Speaker 2: into these boxes or whatever. But the openness about what 968 00:50:07,360 --> 00:50:10,200 Speaker 2: happens to women's bodies and stuff is you know, definitely 969 00:50:12,000 --> 00:50:14,640 Speaker 2: something that I just don't think people discuss it at 970 00:50:14,680 --> 00:50:17,600 Speaker 2: all because like everything's just a fight against age and 971 00:50:17,640 --> 00:50:19,520 Speaker 2: not this is what is going to happen to you, 972 00:50:19,560 --> 00:50:20,960 Speaker 2: This is what you're gonna look like, This is what's 973 00:50:20,960 --> 00:50:22,960 Speaker 2: gonna change. So I think that's why I saw so 974 00:50:23,000 --> 00:50:25,120 Speaker 2: many people on Twitter that were like responding to that 975 00:50:25,480 --> 00:50:28,239 Speaker 2: segment where you talked about the chin hairs and all 976 00:50:28,280 --> 00:50:30,400 Speaker 2: that stuff, is because they were like, yeah, just like 977 00:50:30,440 --> 00:50:32,000 Speaker 2: this is a universal thing and we don't get to 978 00:50:32,000 --> 00:50:32,799 Speaker 2: talk about it enough. 979 00:50:32,960 --> 00:50:35,760 Speaker 4: No, And I did not realize that so many women 980 00:50:35,840 --> 00:50:38,640 Speaker 4: dealt with it, like literally dealt with it until I 981 00:50:38,680 --> 00:50:41,120 Speaker 4: did a post on Facebook, you know, because twitters little different, 982 00:50:41,440 --> 00:50:44,239 Speaker 4: and a lot of people just started chiming in, you know, 983 00:50:44,480 --> 00:50:46,840 Speaker 4: about it. I did it as a joke, but so 984 00:50:46,920 --> 00:50:49,440 Speaker 4: many women were chiming in about it and things they 985 00:50:49,440 --> 00:50:49,879 Speaker 4: went through. 986 00:50:49,920 --> 00:50:50,799 Speaker 3: Some women got lazy. 987 00:50:50,800 --> 00:50:52,960 Speaker 4: It's like people talking about different methods that use some 988 00:50:53,000 --> 00:50:55,600 Speaker 4: women whack some women's shape, you know, and you just 989 00:50:55,680 --> 00:51:00,480 Speaker 4: kind of learning what people deal with and what people 990 00:51:00,520 --> 00:51:02,360 Speaker 4: go through, and it was like, Okay, this is a 991 00:51:02,480 --> 00:51:06,360 Speaker 4: very open space where we could be honest and truthful 992 00:51:06,400 --> 00:51:10,280 Speaker 4: and also kind of piggyback into what I said before. 993 00:51:10,560 --> 00:51:12,720 Speaker 4: A lot of people never got over their sex education 994 00:51:12,840 --> 00:51:15,879 Speaker 4: of human bodies, and so like you said, you got 995 00:51:15,920 --> 00:51:18,280 Speaker 4: boys going ooh, that's cooties, and they ooh that cooties 996 00:51:18,360 --> 00:51:19,719 Speaker 4: until they die and you're like. 997 00:51:19,719 --> 00:51:21,280 Speaker 3: Well, god, damn, this doesn't make no sense. 998 00:51:21,640 --> 00:51:24,120 Speaker 4: And you got women who's been taught to be ashamed 999 00:51:24,120 --> 00:51:25,920 Speaker 4: of your body, and they're shame that their body and 1000 00:51:25,960 --> 00:51:27,560 Speaker 4: everything that functions around their body. 1001 00:51:27,400 --> 00:51:28,319 Speaker 3: Until the day they die. 1002 00:51:28,800 --> 00:51:31,280 Speaker 4: But my thing is, you know, when, in my opinion, 1003 00:51:31,280 --> 00:51:34,520 Speaker 4: particularly if you're in a you know, a relationship where 1004 00:51:34,680 --> 00:51:38,440 Speaker 4: it's a loving relationship, you need to be truthful and 1005 00:51:38,480 --> 00:51:41,000 Speaker 4: honest with your mate because even though you're a man, 1006 00:51:41,840 --> 00:51:46,239 Speaker 4: if something affects your woman sexually, it is as a 1007 00:51:46,320 --> 00:51:48,960 Speaker 4: direct impact on you in various different ways. 1008 00:51:49,920 --> 00:51:51,400 Speaker 3: But you know, it's one of those things where she 1009 00:51:51,440 --> 00:51:52,560 Speaker 3: don't feel comfortable with you. 1010 00:51:52,800 --> 00:51:55,440 Speaker 4: She might be going to doctor's appointments, making all these 1011 00:51:55,520 --> 00:51:56,120 Speaker 4: arrangs and just. 1012 00:51:56,160 --> 00:51:58,560 Speaker 3: Leaving you about to look. You won't even know what's happening. 1013 00:51:58,680 --> 00:52:02,960 Speaker 2: Look, and then she just got an order. Well she's 1014 00:52:02,960 --> 00:52:05,120 Speaker 2: got a fifty thousand dollars advanced for some pause. But 1015 00:52:05,120 --> 00:52:06,600 Speaker 2: it's like, you ain't never gonna be able to make 1016 00:52:06,600 --> 00:52:09,640 Speaker 2: all them damn pause if you don't come clean. You know, like, 1017 00:52:09,680 --> 00:52:12,000 Speaker 2: you gotta tell that man what's going on with your body, 1018 00:52:12,000 --> 00:52:14,080 Speaker 2: because how he gonna support you? He a good man, 1019 00:52:14,480 --> 00:52:15,840 Speaker 2: you know, It's not like he just out here in 1020 00:52:15,880 --> 00:52:18,200 Speaker 2: these streets or whatever like he been. I know it's 1021 00:52:18,239 --> 00:52:20,360 Speaker 2: an age difference. I know it's an age difference. And 1022 00:52:20,440 --> 00:52:21,840 Speaker 2: you don't want to be a burden to him, but 1023 00:52:21,880 --> 00:52:23,360 Speaker 2: he don't want to be a burden to you either, 1024 00:52:23,680 --> 00:52:25,359 Speaker 2: So he gonna be out here trying to help you 1025 00:52:25,640 --> 00:52:27,600 Speaker 2: make your paths, even if you gotta quit his job, 1026 00:52:27,640 --> 00:52:29,160 Speaker 2: because he ain't go not gonna work for the Landrys 1027 00:52:29,239 --> 00:52:31,880 Speaker 2: and betray the family like that. No, he part of 1028 00:52:31,880 --> 00:52:34,160 Speaker 2: the family too at this point. So if you gonna 1029 00:52:34,239 --> 00:52:37,160 Speaker 2: keep these secrets, you know, because your body is aging 1030 00:52:37,160 --> 00:52:39,359 Speaker 2: and you feel some level of shame that you can't 1031 00:52:39,400 --> 00:52:41,759 Speaker 2: just keep up like you used to. That like you 1032 00:52:41,800 --> 00:52:44,640 Speaker 2: gotta let that go for the health of your relationship. Okay, 1033 00:52:44,800 --> 00:52:47,879 Speaker 2: that's all I'm asking, because now you can't make Dollar's cake. 1034 00:52:48,320 --> 00:52:50,600 Speaker 2: You know, she getting married and the baby ain might 1035 00:52:50,640 --> 00:52:52,399 Speaker 2: not be Rolph Fangels. I don't know what the hell 1036 00:52:52,480 --> 00:52:55,040 Speaker 2: is going on right now, but if people would just 1037 00:52:55,040 --> 00:52:57,799 Speaker 2: stop keep all these goddamn secrets, maybe we can get 1038 00:52:57,800 --> 00:53:02,839 Speaker 2: this family together again. Okay, sorry, get carried away like that. 1039 00:53:04,520 --> 00:53:06,759 Speaker 2: Uncle Ebaniza says, Hey, Rod and Cary, this is my 1040 00:53:06,800 --> 00:53:09,920 Speaker 2: first time comment here. I usually emailed the show, but 1041 00:53:10,040 --> 00:53:12,120 Speaker 2: figured this is the perfect time to lose my comment 1042 00:53:12,160 --> 00:53:15,200 Speaker 2: in virginity here because of the topics of this particular episode. 1043 00:53:15,239 --> 00:53:18,280 Speaker 2: I am so excited at the convergence between the Blackout 1044 00:53:18,280 --> 00:53:20,480 Speaker 2: Tips and Living Color. I'm a musician, and I played 1045 00:53:20,520 --> 00:53:22,600 Speaker 2: guitar and drums is in the late eighties. In fact, 1046 00:53:22,880 --> 00:53:24,440 Speaker 2: Living Color was one of the reasons I decided to 1047 00:53:24,440 --> 00:53:26,640 Speaker 2: play music at all, because I was so inspired when 1048 00:53:26,640 --> 00:53:29,640 Speaker 2: a friend's brother crank Colder Personality in the station wagon 1049 00:53:29,680 --> 00:53:32,640 Speaker 2: stereo on the way to see the movie Twins. As 1050 00:53:32,800 --> 00:53:34,640 Speaker 2: as soon as I got home, I started trying to 1051 00:53:34,680 --> 00:53:36,480 Speaker 2: figure out how to play that awesome riff on my 1052 00:53:36,560 --> 00:53:39,560 Speaker 2: dad's acoustic guitar. All white families must have an acoustic 1053 00:53:39,600 --> 00:53:43,080 Speaker 2: guitar in the house. To buy the cree there were. 1054 00:53:43,880 --> 00:53:46,960 Speaker 2: They were my first concert without parental supervision. I've seen 1055 00:53:47,000 --> 00:53:49,080 Speaker 2: them a dozen or so times throughout the years, and 1056 00:53:49,120 --> 00:53:51,480 Speaker 2: more than any other band, deeply influenced my own approach 1057 00:53:51,520 --> 00:53:53,920 Speaker 2: to music. When I first started listening to the podcast 1058 00:53:53,960 --> 00:53:55,839 Speaker 2: and you would often talk about music, I would often 1059 00:53:55,880 --> 00:53:58,000 Speaker 2: wonder if either you knew Living Colors work, because their 1060 00:53:58,080 --> 00:53:59,680 Speaker 2: lyrics are such a perfect fit for everything you talk 1061 00:53:59,719 --> 00:54:02,640 Speaker 2: about on the show. They were singing about police abuse, 1062 00:54:02,680 --> 00:54:06,360 Speaker 2: house discrimination, black pride and liberation, microaggressions, et cetera, thirty 1063 00:54:06,440 --> 00:54:08,680 Speaker 2: years ago, and their lyrics are more relevant than ever. 1064 00:54:09,800 --> 00:54:12,400 Speaker 2: Check Out their first couple of albums, Vivid and Times 1065 00:54:12,480 --> 00:54:16,360 Speaker 2: Up and songs like Funny Vibe, Which Way to America 1066 00:54:16,400 --> 00:54:19,520 Speaker 2: and Pride for a couple examples you might dig. Listen 1067 00:54:19,600 --> 00:54:21,640 Speaker 2: to this podcast actually reminded me to go back and 1068 00:54:21,640 --> 00:54:24,040 Speaker 2: listen to some of that stuff again, so many years later, 1069 00:54:24,080 --> 00:54:27,080 Speaker 2: with a much better appreciation for just how truly groundbreaking 1070 00:54:27,120 --> 00:54:29,520 Speaker 2: it was in a predominantly white world a hard rock 1071 00:54:29,800 --> 00:54:33,640 Speaker 2: I've always suspected that ELC was held back significantly because 1072 00:54:33,640 --> 00:54:37,120 Speaker 2: they spoke truth that made white artists and sponsors uncomfortable. 1073 00:54:37,360 --> 00:54:39,680 Speaker 2: In fact, I know it's true because I can't tell 1074 00:54:39,719 --> 00:54:41,920 Speaker 2: you how many of my white friends who love vanhal 1075 00:54:42,000 --> 00:54:44,399 Speaker 2: and Aerosmith, Guns and Roses, Faith, No More, Bands, etc. 1076 00:54:44,960 --> 00:54:48,279 Speaker 2: Bands without similar musical styles just couldn't get into Living 1077 00:54:48,280 --> 00:54:53,680 Speaker 2: Color for some strange reason. Right. Yeah, It's like it's 1078 00:54:53,719 --> 00:54:56,440 Speaker 2: like with some how I imagine when people bring up 1079 00:54:56,440 --> 00:54:58,840 Speaker 2: our podcast, it's like, well, I don't know, I didn't 1080 00:54:58,880 --> 00:55:02,720 Speaker 2: like that one. It's like I can imagine why. Anyway, 1081 00:55:02,800 --> 00:55:04,640 Speaker 2: I hope you have a blast to show. Elsie is 1082 00:55:04,680 --> 00:55:07,480 Speaker 2: one of the most amazing live rock bands you'll ever see. 1083 00:55:07,680 --> 00:55:09,960 Speaker 2: All four members are virtual also talents, and they play 1084 00:55:09,960 --> 00:55:12,279 Speaker 2: together with a chemistry that's unmatched. You might want to 1085 00:55:12,280 --> 00:55:14,120 Speaker 2: bring air plugs because they don't hold back and it 1086 00:55:14,120 --> 00:55:17,480 Speaker 2: gets loud in an awesome way. Love you all, Ride, Karen, 1087 00:55:17,600 --> 00:55:21,319 Speaker 2: Elsie and all the TVGWT fans. Ps care. I love 1088 00:55:21,320 --> 00:55:23,439 Speaker 2: when you jump into the bad pun game. The way 1089 00:55:23,480 --> 00:55:25,399 Speaker 2: you don't give a single f whether they make sense 1090 00:55:25,480 --> 00:55:27,919 Speaker 2: or not makes them even more enjoyable. It always makes 1091 00:55:27,920 --> 00:55:32,839 Speaker 2: me laugh. Thank you, Thanks Uncle Ebenezer, appreciate it. And yeah, 1092 00:55:32,880 --> 00:55:35,960 Speaker 2: we can't wait. Man thirty First, we're gonna be in Raleigh. 1093 00:55:36,000 --> 00:55:39,319 Speaker 2: I'm gonna go go see Living Color. Justin might be 1094 00:55:39,400 --> 00:55:41,560 Speaker 2: up there too, so hopefully you get to come. Yay, 1095 00:55:42,360 --> 00:55:44,239 Speaker 2: he says. The only way I would hugging Nazi is 1096 00:55:44,280 --> 00:55:46,160 Speaker 2: to get close enough to punch them in the stomach. 1097 00:55:46,400 --> 00:55:48,720 Speaker 2: Seeing that picture literally made me sick, and it probably 1098 00:55:48,719 --> 00:55:51,359 Speaker 2: didn't accomplish the damn thing except make white people feel 1099 00:55:51,360 --> 00:55:54,640 Speaker 2: better about themselves. That Nazi is probably having a laugh 1100 00:55:54,760 --> 00:55:58,799 Speaker 2: right now, calling that guy all kinds of racial slurs. Yeah, 1101 00:55:58,800 --> 00:56:00,319 Speaker 2: I don't think we're gonna hug our way out of 1102 00:56:00,320 --> 00:56:03,520 Speaker 2: this one, guys. I think if that was the case, 1103 00:56:03,960 --> 00:56:06,479 Speaker 2: racism would have stopped a long time ago. White people 1104 00:56:06,560 --> 00:56:09,719 Speaker 2: just needed a hug, you know what I'm saying, Oh Man, 1105 00:56:10,080 --> 00:56:12,640 Speaker 2: would you forgive Timberlake if he brought Janet to the 1106 00:56:12,640 --> 00:56:13,160 Speaker 2: Super Bowl? 1107 00:56:13,320 --> 00:56:13,520 Speaker 5: Yes? 1108 00:56:13,840 --> 00:56:16,759 Speaker 2: No, or I was never mad at him? This is 1109 00:56:16,800 --> 00:56:19,479 Speaker 2: a this is a tough foe right here, Karen, Would 1110 00:56:19,480 --> 00:56:21,120 Speaker 2: you forgive him if he brought Jennet to the Super 1111 00:56:21,120 --> 00:56:29,040 Speaker 2: Bowl this year? I mean next year? Okay? Thirty three 1112 00:56:29,080 --> 00:56:31,160 Speaker 2: percent of our audience says yes, they would forgive him 1113 00:56:31,200 --> 00:56:34,879 Speaker 2: if he showed up with Janet. Forty five percent say no, 1114 00:56:35,239 --> 00:56:36,359 Speaker 2: they would not forgive him. 1115 00:56:36,760 --> 00:56:38,400 Speaker 3: Because it doing a race what you did, and you 1116 00:56:38,560 --> 00:56:39,760 Speaker 3: never made a public apology. 1117 00:56:40,280 --> 00:56:47,640 Speaker 2: And twenty two percent say I was never mad at him. Interesting, Uh, 1118 00:56:49,719 --> 00:56:52,600 Speaker 2: I'm not gonna lie, guys. I would need to see 1119 00:56:52,600 --> 00:56:57,239 Speaker 2: it to know for sure how I feel. But I 1120 00:56:57,280 --> 00:56:59,560 Speaker 2: can imagine that if I saw him come out on 1121 00:56:59,640 --> 00:57:03,080 Speaker 2: stage and Janet was there, I would feel some level 1122 00:57:03,120 --> 00:57:06,360 Speaker 2: of forgiveness in my heart for him. I know I would, 1123 00:57:06,360 --> 00:57:08,440 Speaker 2: because I would because it would be such a powerful 1124 00:57:08,480 --> 00:57:14,279 Speaker 2: moment in that you know, in that moment, and I 1125 00:57:14,280 --> 00:57:16,800 Speaker 2: would you know, I still would need him to apologize. 1126 00:57:17,200 --> 00:57:19,520 Speaker 2: I would imagine that that would take place before they 1127 00:57:19,520 --> 00:57:23,240 Speaker 2: got on stage. I can't imagine or after something. I 1128 00:57:23,240 --> 00:57:25,920 Speaker 2: can't imagine him doing that without an open apology. But 1129 00:57:28,320 --> 00:57:30,120 Speaker 2: I don't know. That's the only thing I could imagine, 1130 00:57:30,120 --> 00:57:32,000 Speaker 2: Like I would, it would be hard for me to 1131 00:57:32,040 --> 00:57:33,720 Speaker 2: hold I think it's hard for me to hold a 1132 00:57:33,760 --> 00:57:38,080 Speaker 2: grudge when the person that is involved is over it. 1133 00:57:38,880 --> 00:57:40,960 Speaker 2: Like I don't like holding a grudge on behalf or 1134 00:57:40,960 --> 00:57:43,240 Speaker 2: some shit. And you're like, I don't care about that anymore. 1135 00:57:43,240 --> 00:57:46,480 Speaker 2: I've moved on. Then I move on, you know, But 1136 00:57:46,880 --> 00:57:48,600 Speaker 2: as of right now, you know, I still hold a 1137 00:57:48,640 --> 00:57:52,680 Speaker 2: grudge against that dude, and it's still very much a 1138 00:57:52,720 --> 00:57:56,080 Speaker 2: relevant story, Like don't don't sleep on this. This ain't 1139 00:57:56,120 --> 00:58:01,400 Speaker 2: never go away. You google Timberlake apology and and literally 1140 00:58:01,440 --> 00:58:05,320 Speaker 2: the first art USA today October twenty third, Why justin 1141 00:58:05,320 --> 00:58:09,480 Speaker 2: timerlate Oh's Janet Jackson a super Bowl size apology Vogue 1142 00:58:09,760 --> 00:58:12,160 Speaker 2: justice Timberlay will performing super Bowl halftime. They mentioned that 1143 00:58:12,320 --> 00:58:16,400 Speaker 2: he need to apologize. Quick read from essence fans want 1144 00:58:16,600 --> 00:58:20,200 Speaker 2: justice for Jack Janet Jackson. After Justin Timberlay gets the 1145 00:58:20,240 --> 00:58:24,880 Speaker 2: Super Bowl, like this shit ain't going away, and it's 1146 00:58:24,920 --> 00:58:28,080 Speaker 2: definitely gonna hang over him until he says or does something, 1147 00:58:28,640 --> 00:58:30,600 Speaker 2: and he could definitely wipe boy his way out of 1148 00:58:30,600 --> 00:58:32,360 Speaker 2: it and just not have her own. But he did 1149 00:58:32,440 --> 00:58:34,600 Speaker 2: mention that she's not banned and all this shit, so 1150 00:58:35,440 --> 00:58:37,160 Speaker 2: I don't know. Maybe he gonna show up with her 1151 00:58:37,200 --> 00:58:39,600 Speaker 2: and try to do what Chris Brown did when he 1152 00:58:39,720 --> 00:58:44,320 Speaker 2: danced real hard at the BT Awards. Remember that Nigga 1153 00:58:44,400 --> 00:58:48,080 Speaker 2: tried to dance his way into forgiveness. Oh man, so 1154 00:58:48,240 --> 00:58:52,400 Speaker 2: good anyway, even he says, Justin Timerlay can bring Jannet 1155 00:58:52,440 --> 00:58:54,160 Speaker 2: on stage, let her throw a couple of piss in 1156 00:58:54,200 --> 00:58:56,640 Speaker 2: his face, and I'll still say fuck him forever. When 1157 00:58:56,640 --> 00:59:01,160 Speaker 2: someone shows you who they are, believe them strong. I 1158 00:59:01,240 --> 00:59:07,600 Speaker 2: do believe you too, Justin. Oh man, Jessica, I had 1159 00:59:07,600 --> 00:59:09,000 Speaker 2: to go out there and pull them to this out 1160 00:59:09,000 --> 00:59:14,959 Speaker 2: one more time. Let him pull his dick out. That's 1161 00:59:13,400 --> 00:59:17,280 Speaker 2: what he used to have a patch on his pants, 1162 00:59:17,320 --> 00:59:20,200 Speaker 2: and she gets to pull his dick out and be like, see, America, 1163 00:59:20,680 --> 00:59:23,720 Speaker 2: how do you like it? You know what happened? Yeah, 1164 00:59:23,800 --> 00:59:24,440 Speaker 2: blame Janet? 1165 00:59:26,640 --> 00:59:28,320 Speaker 3: Of course he. 1166 00:59:28,480 --> 00:59:31,040 Speaker 2: Was playing the fuck out of Janet. Never let her 1167 00:59:31,080 --> 00:59:37,360 Speaker 2: come back. It's her fault, oh Man fifteen fifty one 1168 00:59:37,400 --> 00:59:41,760 Speaker 2: Pumpkin Spice, Uggs and White People News Tie Rights. I 1169 00:59:41,800 --> 00:59:43,880 Speaker 2: know y'all announced it in the previous episode, but shout 1170 00:59:43,880 --> 00:59:46,120 Speaker 2: out to Queen Careen on the New Gig. I think 1171 00:59:46,120 --> 00:59:50,040 Speaker 2: it takes oh, well, okay, she's working part time for 1172 00:59:50,080 --> 00:59:52,880 Speaker 2: Safety Pending Box, not full time at least not yet, 1173 00:59:53,040 --> 00:59:55,720 Speaker 2: you know. Hopefully it could be that at some point. 1174 00:59:56,960 --> 00:59:59,480 Speaker 2: But I saw people that were just like, oh, you 1175 00:59:59,560 --> 01:00:01,480 Speaker 2: left your and all this stuff, and I was like, ah, 1176 01:00:01,680 --> 01:00:04,400 Speaker 2: not yet, not yet. Guys were working towards it, you know, 1177 01:00:05,120 --> 01:00:08,000 Speaker 2: but hopefully, you know. I think it takes tremendous courage 1178 01:00:08,000 --> 01:00:09,920 Speaker 2: to leave a corporate job and branch out do something different. 1179 01:00:09,920 --> 01:00:12,000 Speaker 2: It's wonderful to see that you have supported your husband 1180 01:00:12,000 --> 01:00:15,960 Speaker 2: and the TVGWT family. Now to your husband an All, 1181 01:00:16,000 --> 01:00:19,160 Speaker 2: Tom must Prime. I don't know if this is an 1182 01:00:19,200 --> 01:00:22,000 Speaker 2: evolution of Ride the Most Trife, but instead of making 1183 01:00:22,000 --> 01:00:25,720 Speaker 2: songs about Hillary white people, covers about Bernie are surely 1184 01:00:25,760 --> 01:00:27,600 Speaker 2: something we can all get behind. I mean, am I 1185 01:00:27,720 --> 01:00:30,640 Speaker 2: right to embrace your white woman? The color identity is 1186 01:00:30,640 --> 01:00:33,280 Speaker 2: truly something to admire you're gonna wear your ugs to 1187 01:00:33,320 --> 01:00:35,200 Speaker 2: the while when you go play ball. Thought about it, 1188 01:00:35,240 --> 01:00:37,480 Speaker 2: but one, I don't want them niggas stepping on my ugs. 1189 01:00:38,600 --> 01:00:41,560 Speaker 2: Two two, I don't think they have the angle support 1190 01:00:41,600 --> 01:00:44,800 Speaker 2: for basketball shoes, so I don't feel too and they're flat. 1191 01:00:44,840 --> 01:00:46,960 Speaker 2: They're not they don't have that curved arch like in 1192 01:00:47,000 --> 01:00:49,320 Speaker 2: your nikes and shit. So I would never fuck my 1193 01:00:49,360 --> 01:00:53,760 Speaker 2: feet up by playing in some motherfucking uh uh some ugs. Dog. 1194 01:00:54,160 --> 01:00:56,720 Speaker 2: They're for relaxing, you know, They're for kicking your feet 1195 01:00:56,800 --> 01:00:59,880 Speaker 2: up on the nice autumn day, sipping on the punkins, 1196 01:01:01,120 --> 01:01:03,600 Speaker 2: looking out at the rest of the world and all 1197 01:01:03,600 --> 01:01:07,080 Speaker 2: the people that don't have enough being grateful. 1198 01:01:07,280 --> 01:01:09,480 Speaker 4: Talking about that, Lee reminded me, what about that song 1199 01:01:09,520 --> 01:01:10,960 Speaker 4: that popped up when we was out eating? 1200 01:01:11,040 --> 01:01:12,080 Speaker 3: What was the name of that song? 1201 01:01:12,200 --> 01:01:16,000 Speaker 2: Oh? Man, we was out at I don't even know 1202 01:01:16,040 --> 01:01:17,920 Speaker 2: what the song was, but we was out somewhere and 1203 01:01:18,000 --> 01:01:21,280 Speaker 2: it was like a cover of like a white people 1204 01:01:21,320 --> 01:01:24,600 Speaker 2: knew song Start. Yeah, a cover of no Diggy Start 1205 01:01:24,640 --> 01:01:27,480 Speaker 2: playing in the middle of fucking Where did we go? 1206 01:01:27,920 --> 01:01:30,880 Speaker 2: Where do we call the biscuit? Flying biscuits? We went? Man, 1207 01:01:31,360 --> 01:01:33,960 Speaker 2: It's like it was following me around but you know what, guys, 1208 01:01:34,360 --> 01:01:36,040 Speaker 2: thank god I have my ugs on. I wasn't as 1209 01:01:36,080 --> 01:01:36,600 Speaker 2: bothered as. 1210 01:01:36,480 --> 01:01:38,920 Speaker 3: I would be, but you were disgusted. 1211 01:01:41,200 --> 01:01:42,040 Speaker 2: I just couldn't believe. 1212 01:01:42,040 --> 01:01:44,800 Speaker 3: It got quiet, like what is that song? 1213 01:01:45,160 --> 01:01:47,000 Speaker 2: Somebody was pranking me or something? I was like, do 1214 01:01:47,120 --> 01:01:48,240 Speaker 2: they know about the show? 1215 01:01:49,360 --> 01:01:49,680 Speaker 3: Idea? 1216 01:01:50,000 --> 01:01:51,160 Speaker 2: What the fuck? Who plays that? 1217 01:01:51,840 --> 01:01:52,240 Speaker 3: Terrible? 1218 01:01:52,560 --> 01:01:56,400 Speaker 2: It was like, no diggity right? Thank god I prepared 1219 01:01:56,400 --> 01:01:58,560 Speaker 2: everyone at that table. Who would have know? 1220 01:01:59,360 --> 01:02:01,800 Speaker 3: I like the way you were good. 1221 01:02:02,000 --> 01:02:04,560 Speaker 2: If we wouldn't have been prepared on a moment's notice 1222 01:02:04,600 --> 01:02:07,560 Speaker 2: for the idea that I gotta be ready for covers 1223 01:02:07,640 --> 01:02:10,360 Speaker 2: that white people might try to cover our ship, boy, 1224 01:02:10,600 --> 01:02:12,480 Speaker 2: it would have been we would have flipped the table over. 1225 01:02:12,560 --> 01:02:15,400 Speaker 2: The man couldn't imagine. You know, it was all good. 1226 01:02:16,480 --> 01:02:20,080 Speaker 2: Then I spilled icing Justin's pancakes. That was hilarious, but 1227 01:02:20,120 --> 01:02:22,080 Speaker 2: I didn't care because I was unbothered because I was. 1228 01:02:22,000 --> 01:02:27,200 Speaker 4: White and demanded that they made him brand new pancakes too, 1229 01:02:27,880 --> 01:02:29,040 Speaker 4: Just like a white woman. 1230 01:02:29,160 --> 01:02:31,120 Speaker 2: She knew that I didn't want to have to call 1231 01:02:31,320 --> 01:02:33,120 Speaker 2: to see a manager. She didn't want me to back 1232 01:02:33,160 --> 01:02:34,720 Speaker 2: there because I'll go all the way back there and 1233 01:02:34,720 --> 01:02:39,040 Speaker 2: see a manager. Back in the kitchen, I'll sure them 1234 01:02:39,040 --> 01:02:41,160 Speaker 2: more comfortable than a pair of Nike slides anyway. And 1235 01:02:41,240 --> 01:02:43,480 Speaker 2: I mean, if yoga pants are what the future holds 1236 01:02:43,480 --> 01:02:46,000 Speaker 2: for you, who are me to judge? I mean, you know, 1237 01:02:46,320 --> 01:02:48,760 Speaker 2: we'll see and they do have pants, and that's what 1238 01:02:48,760 --> 01:02:49,560 Speaker 2: everybody keeps telling me. 1239 01:02:49,600 --> 01:02:52,520 Speaker 3: And pants because you know I take you take the 1240 01:02:52,560 --> 01:02:53,120 Speaker 3: class at the. 1241 01:02:53,040 --> 01:02:56,360 Speaker 2: Why Yeah, I just can't picture me wearing yo. I 1242 01:02:56,440 --> 01:02:58,760 Speaker 2: just can't see it yet. Guys, we'll say. 1243 01:02:59,280 --> 01:02:59,760 Speaker 3: You tried them. 1244 01:03:00,000 --> 01:03:03,040 Speaker 2: I'm not notable. Listen. I couldn't see myself wearing ugs 1245 01:03:03,080 --> 01:03:06,120 Speaker 2: not too long ago. So we'll see. I'm embracing my 1246 01:03:06,160 --> 01:03:08,680 Speaker 2: life and like a second skin, stepping into the fall 1247 01:03:08,720 --> 01:03:11,960 Speaker 2: of me is what I like. You mentioned your doctor 1248 01:03:11,960 --> 01:03:13,960 Speaker 2: gave you good news on Twitter, so why not show 1249 01:03:14,000 --> 01:03:17,880 Speaker 2: off that snap back? Well, those numbers were more for 1250 01:03:18,040 --> 01:03:22,160 Speaker 2: my my blood pressures down to like the goal that 1251 01:03:22,240 --> 01:03:26,000 Speaker 2: we had, which is good. All my other numbers are 1252 01:03:26,080 --> 01:03:28,640 Speaker 2: I've already been good, Like cholesterol and stuff has always 1253 01:03:28,640 --> 01:03:30,240 Speaker 2: been good. I know, we both we've both. 1254 01:03:30,040 --> 01:03:31,200 Speaker 3: Been getting it to nine. 1255 01:03:31,320 --> 01:03:34,760 Speaker 4: I'm I got my same thing. Blood press down, cholesterol 1256 01:03:35,000 --> 01:03:37,680 Speaker 4: down and stuff like that. So we've actually been doing 1257 01:03:37,760 --> 01:03:38,240 Speaker 4: pretty good. 1258 01:03:38,280 --> 01:03:38,760 Speaker 3: I've been. 1259 01:03:40,360 --> 01:03:43,240 Speaker 4: Running and stuff. And I've been using that the fitbit, 1260 01:03:43,680 --> 01:03:44,520 Speaker 4: and the fit bit is. 1261 01:03:44,560 --> 01:03:46,600 Speaker 3: Like, hey, you ran twenty six miles. 1262 01:03:46,640 --> 01:03:52,760 Speaker 2: I was like, yaybe yeah, so uh yeah that was 1263 01:03:52,800 --> 01:03:55,520 Speaker 2: the news out and you know, I guess I'll say 1264 01:03:55,520 --> 01:03:58,080 Speaker 2: it here. The theme that I was saying on there 1265 01:03:58,360 --> 01:04:01,480 Speaker 2: was that I don't know if other people had this 1266 01:04:01,640 --> 01:04:05,000 Speaker 2: mental hurdle, but like I have issues going to the doctor. 1267 01:04:05,040 --> 01:04:07,400 Speaker 2: And it's not that I don't go. I always go right, 1268 01:04:08,720 --> 01:04:11,120 Speaker 2: But I don't know why I have these issues, cause 1269 01:04:11,200 --> 01:04:14,080 Speaker 2: I mean, one your doctors that will help you, your 1270 01:04:14,120 --> 01:04:18,640 Speaker 2: doctor is you know, I think in my mind I 1271 01:04:18,720 --> 01:04:22,440 Speaker 2: go back to like school almost and it's like past 1272 01:04:22,520 --> 01:04:24,640 Speaker 2: or fail, like an exam in my mind, like oh, 1273 01:04:25,080 --> 01:04:27,439 Speaker 2: what if my number isn't this? What if this number 1274 01:04:27,480 --> 01:04:29,760 Speaker 2: isn't that? What if I haven't been doing everything the 1275 01:04:29,840 --> 01:04:32,720 Speaker 2: right way? What if it's not enough? What if you 1276 01:04:32,760 --> 01:04:34,640 Speaker 2: know that? So I think I get in my head 1277 01:04:34,720 --> 01:04:39,440 Speaker 2: like that as opposed to really understanding that it's you know, 1278 01:04:39,520 --> 01:04:43,720 Speaker 2: your numbers are it's to help you to guide you 1279 01:04:43,760 --> 01:04:46,120 Speaker 2: towards the goals that you have in life, towards you know, 1280 01:04:46,160 --> 01:04:49,760 Speaker 2: obviously being and staying healthy, getting healthy, things of this nature. 1281 01:04:50,600 --> 01:04:55,080 Speaker 2: But it's like how you would look at you know, 1282 01:04:55,280 --> 01:04:57,840 Speaker 2: it's it's it's kind of like how you would look at, uh, say, 1283 01:04:58,880 --> 01:05:01,240 Speaker 2: your budget or your space, any habits where you're It's 1284 01:05:01,240 --> 01:05:03,360 Speaker 2: to help you make better decisions in the future and 1285 01:05:03,360 --> 01:05:05,560 Speaker 2: to show you what the decisions you are making currently 1286 01:05:05,600 --> 01:05:09,480 Speaker 2: doing to you. So I will sometimes do all the 1287 01:05:09,560 --> 01:05:12,200 Speaker 2: right shit, like I've been losing weight this year. I'm 1288 01:05:12,240 --> 01:05:17,320 Speaker 2: like fifteen pounds down. I've kept it off. I and 1289 01:05:17,360 --> 01:05:19,240 Speaker 2: I and like, sometimes I do stuff like I won't 1290 01:05:19,280 --> 01:05:21,400 Speaker 2: weigh myself even though I'm trying to lose weight. I'll 1291 01:05:21,440 --> 01:05:23,280 Speaker 2: just and I'll get in a point like I am 1292 01:05:23,320 --> 01:05:24,800 Speaker 2: most afraid of the scale, Like I don't want to 1293 01:05:24,920 --> 01:05:27,560 Speaker 2: weigh myself. What if I weigh more than yesterday? Or 1294 01:05:27,560 --> 01:05:29,560 Speaker 2: what if I weigh what do I What if I 1295 01:05:29,560 --> 01:05:31,960 Speaker 2: put on fucking fifteen pounds I didn't even notice it, 1296 01:05:32,160 --> 01:05:34,120 Speaker 2: and I'm just gonna touch the scale and be like, fuck, 1297 01:05:34,240 --> 01:05:37,960 Speaker 2: I put on fifteen pounds yesterday. So like I just yesterday. 1298 01:05:38,600 --> 01:05:41,600 Speaker 2: It's not it's not rational. I know that. I just 1299 01:05:41,760 --> 01:05:44,480 Speaker 2: like I'm hilarious though I know, but it is in 1300 01:05:44,560 --> 01:05:46,040 Speaker 2: my head. Yeah, it is in my head. 1301 01:05:46,080 --> 01:05:47,640 Speaker 3: You're not the only one. A lot of other people 1302 01:05:47,760 --> 01:05:48,120 Speaker 3: deal with. 1303 01:05:48,080 --> 01:05:52,240 Speaker 2: This so so uh and so when I do stuff 1304 01:05:52,280 --> 01:05:54,640 Speaker 2: like that, I'll be like, well, I don't even really 1305 01:05:54,680 --> 01:05:56,480 Speaker 2: want to go to a doctor. Then, you know, like 1306 01:05:56,600 --> 01:05:59,040 Speaker 2: I or you know, what I'll do is I'll schedule 1307 01:05:59,080 --> 01:06:01,200 Speaker 2: my appointment at the time I know I can make it. 1308 01:06:01,600 --> 01:06:05,560 Speaker 2: There's no excuses, and even then I'll still find like 1309 01:06:05,680 --> 01:06:09,720 Speaker 2: myself making excuses up until like literally getting in the 1310 01:06:09,720 --> 01:06:14,760 Speaker 2: car to go. Like I remember last earlier this year, 1311 01:06:14,760 --> 01:06:19,920 Speaker 2: I had an appointment where because traffic was bad, I 1312 01:06:19,960 --> 01:06:22,280 Speaker 2: actually was late. Now I was only late by like 1313 01:06:22,520 --> 01:06:25,880 Speaker 2: ten fifteen minutes, but you know, doctors are busy, and 1314 01:06:25,920 --> 01:06:29,800 Speaker 2: so they were like, hey, man, you can sit here 1315 01:06:29,840 --> 01:06:33,640 Speaker 2: and wait, but it may be like till noon all day, 1316 01:06:33,720 --> 01:06:36,080 Speaker 2: like you might not like And that's if she gets 1317 01:06:36,160 --> 01:06:39,280 Speaker 2: kind to see you. And it's just a blood pressure 1318 01:06:39,360 --> 01:06:41,080 Speaker 2: check up, so it only takes like fifteen minutes, but 1319 01:06:41,120 --> 01:06:43,080 Speaker 2: still if she can't find the time, your ass is 1320 01:06:43,080 --> 01:06:44,600 Speaker 2: gonna be sitting down. You should have been on time. 1321 01:06:45,080 --> 01:06:47,200 Speaker 2: I said, you know, let me just reschedule this joint. 1322 01:06:47,240 --> 01:06:50,080 Speaker 2: So I rescheduled it and it's like, well, we won't 1323 01:06:50,080 --> 01:06:52,640 Speaker 2: have nothing for two months or whatever. So you know, 1324 01:06:52,720 --> 01:06:55,480 Speaker 2: I didn't want to miss my appointment. But in my mind, 1325 01:06:55,680 --> 01:06:57,640 Speaker 2: when stuff like that happens, I'm like, oh cool, I 1326 01:06:57,680 --> 01:06:59,520 Speaker 2: get to wait two more months, two more months to 1327 01:06:59,560 --> 01:07:03,040 Speaker 2: make better decisions, be healthier. Then I'm gonna really come 1328 01:07:03,040 --> 01:07:05,200 Speaker 2: in here. I'm gonna kill this shit. And like it's 1329 01:07:05,200 --> 01:07:08,320 Speaker 2: so ridiculous because, like you, I've already been doing that work. 1330 01:07:08,360 --> 01:07:10,360 Speaker 2: So I should just be happy to be there, and 1331 01:07:10,680 --> 01:07:14,520 Speaker 2: I still should want to know what my body is saying. 1332 01:07:14,600 --> 01:07:17,720 Speaker 2: You know, if I'm on medicine, what medicines are working right, 1333 01:07:19,280 --> 01:07:22,000 Speaker 2: numbers too right, if they're you know, side effects and shit, 1334 01:07:22,040 --> 01:07:24,920 Speaker 2: you want to know all that stuff. So I was 1335 01:07:24,960 --> 01:07:26,960 Speaker 2: going to a doctor basically like every three months or 1336 01:07:27,000 --> 01:07:30,480 Speaker 2: so for this blood pressure check up thing, and and 1337 01:07:30,520 --> 01:07:34,200 Speaker 2: it was coming down. And I was still even this time, 1338 01:07:34,360 --> 01:07:35,600 Speaker 2: like I don't know if I want to go to 1339 01:07:35,640 --> 01:07:38,400 Speaker 2: the doctor, Like what if what if it's still up? 1340 01:07:38,440 --> 01:07:39,960 Speaker 2: What if it's not where I wanted to be? What 1341 01:07:40,000 --> 01:07:42,320 Speaker 2: if I wait longer and then it'll be perfect later 1342 01:07:42,440 --> 01:07:47,200 Speaker 2: or whatever. So what I did this time was a 1343 01:07:47,240 --> 01:07:52,040 Speaker 2: little bit different. The night before, Uh, when I was 1344 01:07:52,160 --> 01:07:53,840 Speaker 2: so I was worried about it, Like I wasn't even 1345 01:07:53,840 --> 01:07:56,160 Speaker 2: gonna set cause I had a very early morning appointment. 1346 01:07:56,520 --> 01:07:58,240 Speaker 2: Uh that's when I like to go. And I wasn't 1347 01:07:58,280 --> 01:08:00,560 Speaker 2: even gonna set my alarm. I was like it, I'll 1348 01:08:00,600 --> 01:08:02,800 Speaker 2: just if I wake up, I'll go. If not, then 1349 01:08:02,880 --> 01:08:05,400 Speaker 2: fuck it, you know. And of course they call you 1350 01:08:05,480 --> 01:08:09,680 Speaker 2: like three four days before. Yes, I have the app 1351 01:08:09,720 --> 01:08:10,240 Speaker 2: on my phone. 1352 01:08:10,480 --> 01:08:13,360 Speaker 3: Emails were mind of the got an appointment. 1353 01:08:13,040 --> 01:08:14,880 Speaker 2: Right, So I know I have the appointment. This is 1354 01:08:14,960 --> 01:08:16,640 Speaker 2: not and I don't know if other people go through this. 1355 01:08:16,640 --> 01:08:18,200 Speaker 2: It's the only reason I'm talking about it because maybe 1356 01:08:18,240 --> 01:08:21,280 Speaker 2: you do, and maybe it'll help you. I cause, and 1357 01:08:21,600 --> 01:08:23,800 Speaker 2: this is something I've been doing, especially this year, because 1358 01:08:23,800 --> 01:08:25,400 Speaker 2: I've been trying to stepping out of my comfort zone 1359 01:08:25,439 --> 01:08:29,519 Speaker 2: with certain things, doing things that I, you know, typically 1360 01:08:29,520 --> 01:08:34,240 Speaker 2: don't do, kind of embracing the idea that you know, 1361 01:08:34,360 --> 01:08:36,479 Speaker 2: some of the ship that's coming to our life is good, 1362 01:08:36,520 --> 01:08:38,000 Speaker 2: but you have to take advantage of it, you know. 1363 01:08:38,720 --> 01:08:42,559 Speaker 2: So what I did was I just closed my eyes. 1364 01:08:42,760 --> 01:08:46,160 Speaker 2: I'll sit on the couch and I just visualize the 1365 01:08:46,280 --> 01:08:50,760 Speaker 2: entire thing ordeal, like waking up in the morning, tay 1366 01:08:50,800 --> 01:08:54,519 Speaker 2: in the shower early in the morning. Uh, what clothes 1367 01:08:54,520 --> 01:08:57,680 Speaker 2: I was gonna wear? Driving? What if there's traffic, what 1368 01:08:57,680 --> 01:08:59,720 Speaker 2: if there's not what time do I need to lead 1369 01:08:59,760 --> 01:09:01,880 Speaker 2: a house. The fact that it would be dark in 1370 01:09:01,880 --> 01:09:04,040 Speaker 2: the morning, it kind of cold, what you know, like 1371 01:09:04,760 --> 01:09:10,679 Speaker 2: bringing my my uh sweater and my uh my hoodie 1372 01:09:10,680 --> 01:09:13,240 Speaker 2: and all this ship you know what what what book 1373 01:09:13,360 --> 01:09:17,360 Speaker 2: was I gonna read in the lobby, bringing my headphone 1374 01:09:17,439 --> 01:09:21,000 Speaker 2: so I could listen to a podcast during the waiting room, 1375 01:09:21,040 --> 01:09:22,559 Speaker 2: which you know, it's early in the morning, so I 1376 01:09:22,560 --> 01:09:26,559 Speaker 2: didn't have to wait long. But still, you know, talking 1377 01:09:26,600 --> 01:09:29,519 Speaker 2: to my doctor. My doctor is great. She has like 1378 01:09:29,720 --> 01:09:33,439 Speaker 2: such great bedside manner quote unquote, like she's really nice. 1379 01:09:33,520 --> 01:09:37,519 Speaker 2: She's very positive and supported, right, very positive, and she's 1380 01:09:37,760 --> 01:09:41,519 Speaker 2: always uh you know. She she remembers personal details about 1381 01:09:43,160 --> 01:09:45,040 Speaker 2: what I do for a living and all that stuff. 1382 01:09:45,200 --> 01:09:48,160 Speaker 2: Uh and the SODA's the nurse tech who takes the 1383 01:09:48,280 --> 01:09:52,040 Speaker 2: lab results and stuff. They remember me. He asked me 1384 01:09:52,080 --> 01:09:55,559 Speaker 2: about the Walking Dead podcast we do and the recap 1385 01:09:55,640 --> 01:09:57,080 Speaker 2: and he was like, well, what is it again, I'm 1386 01:09:57,080 --> 01:10:00,599 Speaker 2: gonna listen to this and all this stuff and so 1387 01:10:02,320 --> 01:10:04,439 Speaker 2: but I imagine all that before I even got I 1388 01:10:04,439 --> 01:10:06,800 Speaker 2: imagine all that. What the conversation's gonna look like. What 1389 01:10:06,840 --> 01:10:08,880 Speaker 2: if it goes bad? What if my numbers are crazy, 1390 01:10:08,920 --> 01:10:11,720 Speaker 2: and I'm like, what the fuck did happened? Or what 1391 01:10:11,760 --> 01:10:15,080 Speaker 2: if they're great or whatever? You know, So I just 1392 01:10:15,240 --> 01:10:18,639 Speaker 2: imagined like best and worst case scenarios and all that stuff, 1393 01:10:18,760 --> 01:10:23,400 Speaker 2: and I went in and I mean it was like 1394 01:10:23,439 --> 01:10:25,200 Speaker 2: when I was there, I almost felt silly. I was like, 1395 01:10:25,200 --> 01:10:27,880 Speaker 2: I don't know why I was so anxious about this, 1396 01:10:28,160 --> 01:10:32,240 Speaker 2: But it helped to visualize it. It helped because you know, 1397 01:10:32,439 --> 01:10:37,280 Speaker 2: in my mind, that's just a thing that bothered me 1398 01:10:37,520 --> 01:10:39,439 Speaker 2: and I wasn't one hundred per cent sure why, and 1399 01:10:39,479 --> 01:10:41,560 Speaker 2: the same thing happened. Sometimes I go to the gym, 1400 01:10:41,600 --> 01:10:44,160 Speaker 2: like you know, off on the left waist. I got 1401 01:10:44,240 --> 01:10:46,760 Speaker 2: on this gym with all this motherfuckers that already a 1402 01:10:46,960 --> 01:10:49,920 Speaker 2: great shape already there. You know, they already know what 1403 01:10:49,960 --> 01:10:53,040 Speaker 2: they're doing on every machine. And I'm not gonna know 1404 01:10:53,040 --> 01:10:55,040 Speaker 2: I'm be looking at the fucking instructions of the ship. 1405 01:10:55,120 --> 01:10:57,800 Speaker 2: But if I visualize it, I feel like I can do. 1406 01:10:58,720 --> 01:11:01,240 Speaker 2: I'm more mentally prepare to go through it because it's 1407 01:11:01,280 --> 01:11:06,000 Speaker 2: never as bad as my as the phobia or the 1408 01:11:06,040 --> 01:11:08,720 Speaker 2: fear or the anxiousness or the anxiety is making it. 1409 01:11:08,720 --> 01:11:12,960 Speaker 2: It's never that bad. It's always better because for the 1410 01:11:13,000 --> 01:11:15,519 Speaker 2: most part, as much as I think people ain't shit. 1411 01:11:15,680 --> 01:11:18,240 Speaker 2: For the most part, people aren't that bad when it 1412 01:11:18,280 --> 01:11:21,479 Speaker 2: comes to like stuff like this, right, Like it's oh, 1413 01:11:21,520 --> 01:11:23,240 Speaker 2: this person's trying to work out, good for them, or 1414 01:11:23,280 --> 01:11:25,080 Speaker 2: this person going to the doctor, good for them. They're 1415 01:11:25,120 --> 01:11:27,800 Speaker 2: in the right place to make to get informed about 1416 01:11:27,840 --> 01:11:29,599 Speaker 2: what kind of things are gonna help them out in life. 1417 01:11:31,320 --> 01:11:35,400 Speaker 2: And I do this with traveling stuff, you know, I 1418 01:11:35,439 --> 01:11:39,519 Speaker 2: do like because and I think it's added to my 1419 01:11:40,800 --> 01:11:43,120 Speaker 2: ability to be I'm already a very patient person, but 1420 01:11:43,120 --> 01:11:46,320 Speaker 2: it's added to my ability to be patient with certain stuff, okay, 1421 01:11:46,439 --> 01:11:50,360 Speaker 2: because I'm like, well, I imagined already that a scenario where 1422 01:11:50,360 --> 01:11:53,840 Speaker 2: this went terrible, So when it's going terrible, I'm like, 1423 01:11:54,120 --> 01:11:57,320 Speaker 2: this is what I imagined before I left the house. But 1424 01:11:57,760 --> 01:12:01,679 Speaker 2: I've never really visualized as before. Like I know, I've 1425 01:12:01,720 --> 01:12:05,960 Speaker 2: always done I've always done the oh, this is gonna 1426 01:12:06,000 --> 01:12:08,559 Speaker 2: be terrible. If I expect the worst and the worst 1427 01:12:08,600 --> 01:12:10,599 Speaker 2: doesn't happen, it was a good day. I do that 1428 01:12:10,640 --> 01:12:13,720 Speaker 2: all the time, but sometimes that negativity puts me in 1429 01:12:13,760 --> 01:12:15,519 Speaker 2: a state where I'm like, well, why even fucking leave 1430 01:12:15,560 --> 01:12:18,040 Speaker 2: a house? Why even do this thing? Because if what 1431 01:12:18,120 --> 01:12:19,719 Speaker 2: if it goes bad? Then I'd be like I could 1432 01:12:19,720 --> 01:12:22,639 Speaker 2: have stayed home and fucking played video games and didn't 1433 01:12:22,640 --> 01:12:25,559 Speaker 2: have to deal with any of this shit. But yeah, 1434 01:12:25,640 --> 01:12:28,320 Speaker 2: I think that's been helping. Uh So, yeah, that's what 1435 01:12:28,400 --> 01:12:30,240 Speaker 2: I did. I don't know if you guys want to 1436 01:12:30,280 --> 01:12:34,880 Speaker 2: try later on Twitter, I kind of did a thread 1437 01:12:34,920 --> 01:12:38,240 Speaker 2: about it, and Uh, Dara he used to be on 1438 01:12:38,280 --> 01:12:41,200 Speaker 2: twelve she was saying like, yeah, that like therapists and stuff, 1439 01:12:41,200 --> 01:12:43,920 Speaker 2: recomhen you do that for certain anxiety issues and stuff. 1440 01:12:44,000 --> 01:12:46,400 Speaker 2: I was like, I didn't get it from a therapist 1441 01:12:46,400 --> 01:12:48,600 Speaker 2: that I didn't know. I just just thought about it, 1442 01:12:48,600 --> 01:12:51,040 Speaker 2: and they helped me calm myself. And when I woke 1443 01:12:51,120 --> 01:12:54,320 Speaker 2: up in the morning and I didn't imagine like sunny 1444 01:12:54,520 --> 01:12:57,920 Speaker 2: days like I imagine like I'm gonna wake up, I'm 1445 01:12:57,920 --> 01:12:59,760 Speaker 2: not gonna wanna get up. I'm just gonna be dark, 1446 01:13:00,200 --> 01:13:00,679 Speaker 2: be tired. 1447 01:13:01,439 --> 01:13:03,920 Speaker 3: Uh you did with the early appointments. I do the 1448 01:13:04,040 --> 01:13:05,479 Speaker 3: like them six six thirty appointments. 1449 01:13:05,560 --> 01:13:07,559 Speaker 2: Yeah, I like, just gotta get up, get out of bed, 1450 01:13:07,680 --> 01:13:10,439 Speaker 2: get in the other room, get your clothes on. Okay, 1451 01:13:10,520 --> 01:13:12,519 Speaker 2: you gotta you know, brush tea, you gotta you know, 1452 01:13:12,600 --> 01:13:15,360 Speaker 2: take the shower, do all this shit, and uh, like 1453 01:13:15,400 --> 01:13:17,240 Speaker 2: I said, it helped to visualize it. And if y'all 1454 01:13:17,280 --> 01:13:20,040 Speaker 2: are struggling with stuff like that, even whether it's travel, 1455 01:13:20,680 --> 01:13:25,160 Speaker 2: meeting people, going out places, Uh, it's been helping me 1456 01:13:25,439 --> 01:13:30,160 Speaker 2: to do stuff like that. And like even now I 1457 01:13:30,160 --> 01:13:32,679 Speaker 2: don't know if I'm looking more approachable for what the fuck, 1458 01:13:32,760 --> 01:13:36,120 Speaker 2: but now people are coming up to me and like, uh, 1459 01:13:36,200 --> 01:13:38,120 Speaker 2: that's kind of a drawback. But people are coming up 1460 01:13:38,160 --> 01:13:40,280 Speaker 2: to me being like, oh my god, I like that 1461 01:13:40,400 --> 01:13:43,120 Speaker 2: shirt or you know, you look like so and so 1462 01:13:43,240 --> 01:13:44,639 Speaker 2: or whatever, and you can. 1463 01:13:44,600 --> 01:13:46,320 Speaker 3: Pick up on that is what does that may sound? 1464 01:13:46,600 --> 01:13:49,040 Speaker 4: I personally think that people give up orals, you know, 1465 01:13:49,160 --> 01:13:51,960 Speaker 4: like you can just feel their positive or negative energy, 1466 01:13:52,479 --> 01:13:54,840 Speaker 4: and people consent those things. And like you say, and 1467 01:13:54,880 --> 01:13:57,120 Speaker 4: to an extent, I'm like that. Then to an extent, 1468 01:13:58,080 --> 01:13:59,599 Speaker 4: we were like night and day. I'm not gonna put 1469 01:13:59,600 --> 01:14:01,559 Speaker 4: the opposite. I'm like, okay, let's go and whatever happened 1470 01:14:01,600 --> 01:14:03,439 Speaker 4: just whenever we get there, you know. 1471 01:14:03,560 --> 01:14:05,559 Speaker 2: Yeah. Well, I, like I said, it was a good 1472 01:14:05,600 --> 01:14:07,439 Speaker 2: trip to the doctor, not just because of the results. 1473 01:14:07,439 --> 01:14:10,560 Speaker 2: I mean, obviously I'm very pleased and happy about the 1474 01:14:10,600 --> 01:14:13,000 Speaker 2: results and trending in the right way, and I still 1475 01:14:13,000 --> 01:14:18,240 Speaker 2: put off that I still would say, because even though 1476 01:14:18,280 --> 01:14:19,640 Speaker 2: I was like, she was like, well, your up a 1477 01:14:19,680 --> 01:14:21,559 Speaker 2: couple of pounds from this summer. But I was like, 1478 01:14:21,640 --> 01:14:24,680 Speaker 2: well this summer, I wasn't wearing jagging pants and a 1479 01:14:24,840 --> 01:14:29,080 Speaker 2: hoodie and I didn't have my uggs on an moore. 1480 01:14:29,560 --> 01:14:32,320 Speaker 2: But like I was like, you know, it might just 1481 01:14:32,360 --> 01:14:34,880 Speaker 2: be the pants. Like I'm still like I'm doing a 1482 01:14:34,880 --> 01:14:37,720 Speaker 2: good job. I'm still you know, still what ways to go, 1483 01:14:37,840 --> 01:14:41,120 Speaker 2: but uh, you know, I'm just glad I got there 1484 01:14:41,160 --> 01:14:43,120 Speaker 2: because you know, I felt so relieved when I walked 1485 01:14:43,120 --> 01:14:45,559 Speaker 2: out because I was like, I did it because I 1486 01:14:45,640 --> 01:14:47,559 Speaker 2: really didn't want to do it. And when you're that's 1487 01:14:47,600 --> 01:14:50,000 Speaker 2: the thing, when you're an adult, you realize there's that 1488 01:14:50,040 --> 01:14:51,800 Speaker 2: switch when you realize you ain't gonta do nothing you 1489 01:14:51,800 --> 01:14:54,479 Speaker 2: don't want to do, correct, but there's certain ship that 1490 01:14:54,520 --> 01:14:57,479 Speaker 2: you just need to do as an adult to take 1491 01:14:57,520 --> 01:15:01,080 Speaker 2: care of yourself and all kinds of other reasons you 1492 01:15:01,120 --> 01:15:04,000 Speaker 2: have to do things. And yeah, I was so glad 1493 01:15:04,040 --> 01:15:06,080 Speaker 2: I was able to do it. Same thing with uh, 1494 01:15:06,880 --> 01:15:09,600 Speaker 2: you know, travel, Same thing with meeting people like I 1495 01:15:09,600 --> 01:15:10,479 Speaker 2: don't you know, oh. 1496 01:15:10,360 --> 01:15:12,960 Speaker 3: Yeah you came up. If people realize you have literally 1497 01:15:13,040 --> 01:15:14,240 Speaker 3: came a very long. 1498 01:15:14,120 --> 01:15:20,000 Speaker 2: Way with yeah. So anyway, Uh, I don't know how 1499 01:15:20,000 --> 01:15:23,320 Speaker 2: we got on a changement, but uh that's what I like, 1500 01:15:23,320 --> 01:15:25,000 Speaker 2: I said. I have to give the pumpkin spice most 1501 01:15:25,000 --> 01:15:27,000 Speaker 2: of the credit though, because if it wasn't for the 1502 01:15:27,040 --> 01:15:30,640 Speaker 2: pumpkin spice, uh smells around the house, the candles and 1503 01:15:30,880 --> 01:15:34,920 Speaker 2: uh the lotions and the ugs and stuff, I don't 1504 01:15:34,920 --> 01:15:37,320 Speaker 2: know that I would have the ability to center myself 1505 01:15:37,360 --> 01:15:41,439 Speaker 2: like that, you know, because like I couldn't even that day, 1506 01:15:41,560 --> 01:15:43,559 Speaker 2: but I did, I did, I could. 1507 01:15:44,360 --> 01:15:46,960 Speaker 3: Yes, you need a badge. I'm so happy for you. 1508 01:15:47,040 --> 01:15:50,439 Speaker 4: And before we move on, I know for me, I 1509 01:15:50,439 --> 01:15:53,040 Speaker 4: haven't been in the wound, but like when I was 1510 01:15:53,040 --> 01:15:56,759 Speaker 4: taking the yoga classes at the Wine, I'm with you. 1511 01:15:56,600 --> 01:15:59,839 Speaker 3: With the you go in there and particularly yoga. 1512 01:15:59,920 --> 01:16:02,400 Speaker 4: I know when you first, particularly if you first started 1513 01:16:02,439 --> 01:16:06,960 Speaker 4: taking classes, it could be very intimidating, particularly being black, 1514 01:16:07,200 --> 01:16:09,439 Speaker 4: like I've tried. I don't know, but I'm gonna see 1515 01:16:09,479 --> 01:16:11,439 Speaker 4: if they have black yoga classes here. 1516 01:16:11,720 --> 01:16:13,879 Speaker 2: I'm sure they. It's Charlotte, so of course. 1517 01:16:13,720 --> 01:16:17,639 Speaker 3: They do, right, So, because I think that I'm. 1518 01:16:17,479 --> 01:16:19,040 Speaker 2: Sorry I didn't cut you off, but you can probably 1519 01:16:19,120 --> 01:16:21,000 Speaker 2: just go to like one of the black or wise 1520 01:16:21,920 --> 01:16:24,439 Speaker 2: and be in a class fell of black people. You 1521 01:16:24,520 --> 01:16:26,679 Speaker 2: just go to the down you'll be that that class 1522 01:16:26,720 --> 01:16:28,160 Speaker 2: probably mostly black women. 1523 01:16:28,880 --> 01:16:32,519 Speaker 4: Ah okay, I never did even think about that, right, 1524 01:16:32,640 --> 01:16:34,800 Speaker 4: And I think that like when I first started taking 1525 01:16:34,880 --> 01:16:35,720 Speaker 4: your class. 1526 01:16:36,560 --> 01:16:38,200 Speaker 3: But I realized it is one of those things like. 1527 01:16:38,160 --> 01:16:42,280 Speaker 4: You say when you I'm gonna say when I envisioned yoga, 1528 01:16:42,360 --> 01:16:44,600 Speaker 4: like before I even started classes. When you go on 1529 01:16:44,680 --> 01:16:47,879 Speaker 4: YouTube and all that stuff, everything's white. You know, eventually 1530 01:16:47,920 --> 01:16:49,960 Speaker 4: you'll find out, oh, it's niggas to do yoga too. 1531 01:16:50,479 --> 01:16:53,519 Speaker 4: But you know, eventually it's like like the podcast outs, 1532 01:16:53,520 --> 01:16:56,280 Speaker 4: they just bombarred you with all this whiteness. So you 1533 01:16:56,520 --> 01:16:58,320 Speaker 4: I know, for me, I thought yoga was just a 1534 01:16:58,320 --> 01:16:59,960 Speaker 4: white thing. And when I was going to the class, 1535 01:17:00,000 --> 01:17:01,760 Speaker 4: same thing, it was just a white thing. But once 1536 01:17:01,800 --> 01:17:04,839 Speaker 4: I realized it's people in there of all shapes. 1537 01:17:05,080 --> 01:17:07,760 Speaker 3: All women ain't tiny. All all white women ain't tiny. 1538 01:17:07,800 --> 01:17:09,519 Speaker 4: Because you know, a lot of a lot of times 1539 01:17:09,560 --> 01:17:12,759 Speaker 4: yoga be intimidating because you always see like these small, slender, 1540 01:17:13,240 --> 01:17:16,360 Speaker 4: average blow average white women stretching the shit. You be like, look, 1541 01:17:16,400 --> 01:17:18,000 Speaker 4: I can't do that. I can't bend on my head, 1542 01:17:18,040 --> 01:17:20,960 Speaker 4: I can't squat, I can't do none of that. But 1543 01:17:21,040 --> 01:17:23,479 Speaker 4: once I started going, I realized, Hey, none of them 1544 01:17:23,479 --> 01:17:24,640 Speaker 4: people give a fuck about you. 1545 01:17:24,680 --> 01:17:27,679 Speaker 3: They trying to do their own thing. A lot of times. 1546 01:17:28,560 --> 01:17:30,479 Speaker 4: One thing I one thing I realized, a lot of 1547 01:17:30,560 --> 01:17:32,640 Speaker 4: yoga is about the meditation thing. A lot of it's 1548 01:17:32,640 --> 01:17:36,120 Speaker 4: about getting it in your own world and centering yourself and 1549 01:17:36,240 --> 01:17:39,519 Speaker 4: making about you and closing your eyes and clearing your 1550 01:17:39,600 --> 01:17:43,200 Speaker 4: mind and stuff like that. And so I know, for me, 1551 01:17:43,760 --> 01:17:46,800 Speaker 4: once I started doing that, it kind of opened my 1552 01:17:46,840 --> 01:17:49,519 Speaker 4: mind up to not allowing you know, the shape in 1553 01:17:49,600 --> 01:17:51,680 Speaker 4: my body and shit like that, or the color of 1554 01:17:51,680 --> 01:17:54,439 Speaker 4: my skin actually intimidating me walking into eye. You know, 1555 01:17:54,800 --> 01:17:56,400 Speaker 4: I know I might sound sitting, but I deserve the 1556 01:17:56,479 --> 01:17:58,639 Speaker 4: right to be there just like they do. But when 1557 01:17:58,680 --> 01:18:01,360 Speaker 4: you kind of walking and it almost takes you back 1558 01:18:01,400 --> 01:18:03,360 Speaker 4: to childhood, when you walk into a class there's nothing 1559 01:18:03,400 --> 01:18:06,519 Speaker 4: but a white instructor with white people around you, and 1560 01:18:06,560 --> 01:18:08,760 Speaker 4: you're the only brown dot. Or it sometimes might be 1561 01:18:08,760 --> 01:18:11,040 Speaker 4: one to two of y'all, or sometimes there's no. 1562 01:18:11,040 --> 01:18:13,599 Speaker 3: Other people of coloring there. It makes a difference. 1563 01:18:13,840 --> 01:18:15,760 Speaker 4: But now I'm like, well, shit, I'm here to do 1564 01:18:15,800 --> 01:18:17,120 Speaker 4: the down with dog like you bitch. 1565 01:18:17,240 --> 01:18:18,680 Speaker 3: I stepped my game up. 1566 01:18:18,680 --> 01:18:21,360 Speaker 4: I got my mad shot shot out to the fans, 1567 01:18:21,360 --> 01:18:24,200 Speaker 4: that got me my straps in my blocks and shit 1568 01:18:24,320 --> 01:18:24,559 Speaker 4: like that. 1569 01:18:24,600 --> 01:18:25,840 Speaker 3: So when I go in down, I'm like, I'm not 1570 01:18:25,880 --> 01:18:27,639 Speaker 3: toughy y'all nasty shit. I got my owum. 1571 01:18:28,200 --> 01:18:30,600 Speaker 2: Yeah. If you don't, if you don't see yourself, and 1572 01:18:30,640 --> 01:18:33,640 Speaker 2: a lot of times you can't see yourself, like it's like, 1573 01:18:33,680 --> 01:18:35,559 Speaker 2: well I don't see anybody like me in here doing this, 1574 01:18:35,600 --> 01:18:38,160 Speaker 2: so I can't. But also I think the thing I 1575 01:18:38,200 --> 01:18:40,400 Speaker 2: always forget is that, like I said, because and it's 1576 01:18:40,439 --> 01:18:42,320 Speaker 2: mostly because I just think people ain't shit. But I 1577 01:18:42,360 --> 01:18:44,840 Speaker 2: have to get over that sometimes because for the most part, 1578 01:18:44,840 --> 01:18:47,960 Speaker 2: in certain spaces, people want you there, right like they 1579 01:18:48,040 --> 01:18:51,320 Speaker 2: want more people to join. They want me, They want people, 1580 01:18:51,520 --> 01:18:54,360 Speaker 2: you know, like they don't make them necessarily great people 1581 01:18:54,439 --> 01:18:56,920 Speaker 2: like they still might have whatever they're fucked up or whatever, 1582 01:18:56,960 --> 01:19:00,880 Speaker 2: but they want to be they want people to join 1583 01:19:00,920 --> 01:19:03,280 Speaker 2: them in their things, in their journey. So you know, 1584 01:19:03,400 --> 01:19:06,360 Speaker 2: I just forget that sometimes, you know. But all right, 1585 01:19:06,560 --> 01:19:10,559 Speaker 2: uh back to this, uh this comment. The white women 1586 01:19:10,600 --> 01:19:13,880 Speaker 2: of color even call it snap back on it's something 1587 01:19:13,880 --> 01:19:17,960 Speaker 2: else that OC probably permits it. Anyway, keep up the 1588 01:19:18,000 --> 01:19:19,759 Speaker 2: good work. Y'all have a good one ride of Karen 1589 01:19:19,800 --> 01:19:23,720 Speaker 2: and my DJ Mike Hitman voice. Thanks time. And the 1590 01:19:23,800 --> 01:19:27,240 Speaker 2: pole was which is more essential to your life, pumpkin 1591 01:19:27,280 --> 01:19:31,479 Speaker 2: spice or ugs? And this is a close pole but uh, 1592 01:19:32,600 --> 01:19:36,680 Speaker 2: fifty nine percent of y'all sau said pumpkin spice, and 1593 01:19:36,800 --> 01:19:38,280 Speaker 2: only forty one percent said us. 1594 01:19:38,320 --> 01:19:40,720 Speaker 4: I've never owned a peel ugs, but everybody talk about them, 1595 01:19:40,800 --> 01:19:43,080 Speaker 4: say they feel like flames on your feet. 1596 01:19:43,160 --> 01:19:44,640 Speaker 2: Not flames, caring clouds. 1597 01:19:44,840 --> 01:19:47,160 Speaker 4: Oh clouds, I'm sorry, I mean flaming motions as far 1598 01:19:47,200 --> 01:19:48,960 Speaker 4: as like it's Hotney streets. 1599 01:19:49,000 --> 01:19:52,920 Speaker 2: Oh, it's lit really dark. Knight says, I hate, really 1600 01:19:52,960 --> 01:19:55,240 Speaker 2: hate you for this pole ride. However, listening to you 1601 01:19:55,280 --> 01:19:57,760 Speaker 2: to get your pumpkin spice lives this week makes me 1602 01:19:57,800 --> 01:19:59,240 Speaker 2: want to give it a shot. I don't know why 1603 01:19:59,320 --> 01:20:01,960 Speaker 2: y'all hate me. See that's the thing. A lot of 1604 01:20:02,000 --> 01:20:06,200 Speaker 2: y'all so jealous of my happiness, and I don't understand 1605 01:20:06,280 --> 01:20:10,839 Speaker 2: because ugs coming all shades and sizes, and punkin spice 1606 01:20:10,960 --> 01:20:13,800 Speaker 2: is everywhere. Okay, yeah this time of the year, get 1607 01:20:13,840 --> 01:20:17,000 Speaker 2: your life, okay, stop worrying about my life and get 1608 01:20:17,040 --> 01:20:19,720 Speaker 2: your own life. You're holding yourself back. 1609 01:20:19,760 --> 01:20:22,160 Speaker 3: People coming at the punkin spikes closet. 1610 01:20:22,320 --> 01:20:25,759 Speaker 4: They got everybody's sharing all kinds of pumpkin spice shit online. 1611 01:20:25,800 --> 01:20:27,519 Speaker 2: I'm like, oh, I didn't know they had that a 1612 01:20:27,600 --> 01:20:31,120 Speaker 2: right join us, Okay, instead of being so salty over there, 1613 01:20:31,160 --> 01:20:35,280 Speaker 2: all these flavors, and you choose to be salty while 1614 01:20:35,280 --> 01:20:38,439 Speaker 2: we choose to be pumpkin spicy. That's so sad. 1615 01:20:38,880 --> 01:20:41,519 Speaker 3: Oh yeah, miss monk. The candles is flamed, y'all. 1616 01:20:41,600 --> 01:20:43,800 Speaker 2: I got so many punkin spice candles in this house, y'all. 1617 01:20:44,080 --> 01:20:45,559 Speaker 3: It smells so good in here. 1618 01:20:45,680 --> 01:20:47,760 Speaker 2: Listen, white people. I hate to tell y'all this white 1619 01:20:47,760 --> 01:20:50,960 Speaker 2: people was on the something with this one. It happens sometimes. 1620 01:20:51,000 --> 01:20:53,599 Speaker 2: It's all right, every once in a while, white people 1621 01:20:53,640 --> 01:20:55,880 Speaker 2: be on something and it's like they knew what they 1622 01:20:55,880 --> 01:20:58,920 Speaker 2: were talking about. That's that's I didn't know, you know. 1623 01:20:59,040 --> 01:21:00,920 Speaker 2: And this is just one of them. They just happened 1624 01:21:00,920 --> 01:21:05,439 Speaker 2: to know. It ain't it's rare. But these white women, 1625 01:21:05,840 --> 01:21:09,840 Speaker 2: they was on some shit. Man, it's punkin spice, these ugs. 1626 01:21:10,040 --> 01:21:10,960 Speaker 3: I can't explain it. 1627 01:21:11,000 --> 01:21:14,120 Speaker 4: You like, you just feel like smiling and the day 1628 01:21:14,720 --> 01:21:15,639 Speaker 4: start shining. 1629 01:21:15,760 --> 01:21:16,840 Speaker 3: I can't explain it. 1630 01:21:17,120 --> 01:21:19,320 Speaker 2: Yeah, there's a lot of shit they wrong for, but 1631 01:21:20,439 --> 01:21:22,479 Speaker 2: it was on the song with this one. You know, 1632 01:21:23,200 --> 01:21:25,920 Speaker 2: It's like, how I mean, I hate to say it, guys, 1633 01:21:25,920 --> 01:21:28,280 Speaker 2: but it's like, how all the black people in my 1634 01:21:28,360 --> 01:21:30,760 Speaker 2: life keep lying about Taylor Swift being whack And I'm like, 1635 01:21:30,880 --> 01:21:34,040 Speaker 2: these songs is kind of jamming though. Ah, Like I 1636 01:21:34,080 --> 01:21:37,000 Speaker 2: get it. We don't like her for whatever reason. So 1637 01:21:37,040 --> 01:21:38,960 Speaker 2: I'm sure she's done plenty of things. I'm just not 1638 01:21:39,000 --> 01:21:41,040 Speaker 2: remembering at the time because the pumpkin spice on my brain. 1639 01:21:41,120 --> 01:21:44,760 Speaker 2: But I the songs we jamming to me, I'll be 1640 01:21:44,840 --> 01:21:46,640 Speaker 2: listening to my call like this ship is damn is 1641 01:21:46,640 --> 01:21:46,960 Speaker 2: the ship? 1642 01:21:47,120 --> 01:21:49,000 Speaker 3: It be going hard now. I ain't gonna lie. 1643 01:21:49,560 --> 01:21:52,400 Speaker 2: You know, I don't know, but I know we got 1644 01:21:52,400 --> 01:21:54,759 Speaker 2: the jokes. We gotta call her whack. I'm on board, 1645 01:21:55,360 --> 01:21:58,240 Speaker 2: But in my private life I throw on some Taylor 1646 01:21:58,240 --> 01:21:59,719 Speaker 2: Swift every once in a while and just had. 1647 01:21:59,600 --> 01:22:00,280 Speaker 5: To deal it. 1648 01:22:01,600 --> 01:22:04,599 Speaker 2: Really Dark Knight says for our episode fifteen to fifty two, 1649 01:22:04,600 --> 01:22:06,800 Speaker 2: which happens smart on It where we recapp walking dead, 1650 01:22:07,360 --> 01:22:11,200 Speaker 2: U nausey hugging Gabe, was the title? Really dark? Knight says. 1651 01:22:11,240 --> 01:22:13,559 Speaker 2: Gabe got out his car, gets his car, Jack walks 1652 01:22:13,600 --> 01:22:15,960 Speaker 2: to a trailer with a big ass gud and he's 1653 01:22:16,000 --> 01:22:18,439 Speaker 2: the one who's got a ship, got a shitting fans 1654 01:22:18,479 --> 01:22:21,160 Speaker 2: on he deserves to get got We were rooting for you. 1655 01:22:21,360 --> 01:22:24,080 Speaker 2: We were all rooting for you. Buy food he was, Yeah, 1656 01:22:24,120 --> 01:22:27,439 Speaker 2: he gonna die. The poems will Nigga killed Gabe can't 1657 01:22:27,479 --> 01:22:31,320 Speaker 2: says yes. Fifty people agree with you, which means forty 1658 01:22:31,320 --> 01:22:34,320 Speaker 2: one percent say no. Never can't tell what nig Kane. 1659 01:22:35,000 --> 01:22:37,080 Speaker 4: Yeah, if he don't kill him, it's sitting up with 1660 01:22:37,120 --> 01:22:39,240 Speaker 4: the Zimbies after he get information out of him. 1661 01:22:39,680 --> 01:22:40,120 Speaker 2: Mm hmm. 1662 01:22:40,439 --> 01:22:42,519 Speaker 4: And I think he's gonna want information because he's gonna 1663 01:22:42,520 --> 01:22:44,120 Speaker 4: be like somethinge right for them to be able to 1664 01:22:44,160 --> 01:22:47,080 Speaker 4: by pass all this ship and make their way in here, right. 1665 01:22:48,760 --> 01:22:50,639 Speaker 2: Yeah. Bree in the chat says she has her own 1666 01:22:50,720 --> 01:22:54,000 Speaker 2: ugs in ten years. I say, uggs like passports. It's 1667 01:22:54,000 --> 01:22:58,120 Speaker 2: time to renew this. Ay, yes, queen, as they say, 1668 01:23:00,080 --> 01:23:02,920 Speaker 2: all right, let's uh see if we have any voicemails. 1669 01:23:02,920 --> 01:23:05,280 Speaker 2: I don't know if we do. I know I had 1670 01:23:05,360 --> 01:23:08,120 Speaker 2: somebody that left a couple of that I wasn't gonna play. 1671 01:23:08,800 --> 01:23:15,439 Speaker 2: Uh okay, so that's Saturday, okay, so must be uh 1672 01:23:16,479 --> 01:23:18,800 Speaker 2: oh we got something from Thursday? All right, let me 1673 01:23:18,880 --> 01:23:19,360 Speaker 2: see what this. 1674 01:23:19,560 --> 01:23:27,599 Speaker 5: Is, Hey, rod Can, this is dance. I think it's 1675 01:23:27,680 --> 01:23:29,519 Speaker 5: still roden Can because I still don't hear that. 1676 01:23:30,160 --> 01:23:31,320 Speaker 2: Yes to be. 1677 01:23:33,320 --> 01:23:37,760 Speaker 5: Anyway, if this is rod Can Jesus comment y'all made 1678 01:23:37,960 --> 01:23:40,360 Speaker 5: as soon as he was sitting there, saying I picked 1679 01:23:40,439 --> 01:23:48,040 Speaker 5: up the whole single uh scholarly scholarly ship on whether 1680 01:23:48,120 --> 01:23:51,120 Speaker 5: got Jesus gay. Yes, I mean just Google ship just 1681 01:23:51,400 --> 01:23:55,000 Speaker 5: Jesus gay. Googled it was Jesus gay, as vice was 1682 01:23:55,080 --> 01:24:02,320 Speaker 5: Jesus gay, probably opinion piece on the guardian sexuality of Jesus, 1683 01:24:02,600 --> 01:24:07,880 Speaker 5: all the whole thing, and Wikipedia snopes that it was 1684 01:24:07,960 --> 01:24:11,080 Speaker 5: a parent as a film was supposed to come out 1685 01:24:11,520 --> 01:24:17,600 Speaker 5: portraying Jesus as a homosexual, just clicking on the sexuality 1686 01:24:17,680 --> 01:24:25,120 Speaker 5: of Jesus under the section of homosexuality. The disciple who 1687 01:24:25,360 --> 01:24:28,720 Speaker 5: Jesus loved. The Gospel of John makes reference to the 1688 01:24:28,800 --> 01:24:34,000 Speaker 5: disciple of Jesus disciple of whom Jesus loved, a phrase 1689 01:24:34,040 --> 01:24:37,519 Speaker 5: which does not occur in the Synoptic Gospels. In the text, 1690 01:24:37,760 --> 01:24:41,920 Speaker 5: this beloved disciple is president at present at the crucifixion 1691 01:24:41,960 --> 01:24:46,719 Speaker 5: of Jesus with Jesus' mother Mary. The disciple whom Jesus 1692 01:24:46,800 --> 01:24:49,880 Speaker 5: loved may be a self reference by the author of 1693 01:24:50,120 --> 01:24:53,880 Speaker 5: the gospel John twenty one twenty four, traditionally regarded as John. 1694 01:24:53,920 --> 01:24:59,840 Speaker 5: They are possible. I don't see anything. I don't remember. 1695 01:25:00,040 --> 01:25:04,040 Speaker 5: I saw some documentary that that had a whole segment 1696 01:25:04,120 --> 01:25:08,679 Speaker 5: of life. Uh, there's some guy who in certain texts 1697 01:25:08,760 --> 01:25:12,400 Speaker 5: of the Gospel that I'm not in the official cannon 1698 01:25:12,520 --> 01:25:17,679 Speaker 5: or whatever. Him and this guy snook off. Several times. 1699 01:25:18,320 --> 01:25:23,599 Speaker 5: Him and Jesus would be like together, this is Dad. 1700 01:25:23,800 --> 01:25:26,880 Speaker 5: I just wanted to finish with what I was talking about. 1701 01:25:27,760 --> 01:25:30,200 Speaker 5: I put on a couple of different things. The Vice 1702 01:25:31,240 --> 01:25:35,920 Speaker 5: article about the Jesus being gay was like Jesus was 1703 01:25:35,920 --> 01:25:39,000 Speaker 5: the top anti bottom. Most of the stuff I found 1704 01:25:39,400 --> 01:25:47,040 Speaker 5: there are hints of his sexuality. There are things that 1705 01:25:47,040 --> 01:25:50,400 Speaker 5: you can read into the you know how like during 1706 01:25:50,479 --> 01:25:53,880 Speaker 5: slavery there was no concept of actual racism, but there 1707 01:25:54,120 --> 01:25:56,360 Speaker 5: was racism, and back in the days of the Bible, 1708 01:25:56,439 --> 01:25:59,880 Speaker 5: there was no, I guess, no idea of sexual orientation. 1709 01:26:00,520 --> 01:26:02,600 Speaker 5: But you know, to describe if he was laid with 1710 01:26:02,720 --> 01:26:05,320 Speaker 5: a man as a man was laid with a woman, 1711 01:26:05,640 --> 01:26:10,960 Speaker 5: then that's old Testament. And Jesus didn't necessarily specifically thinging 1712 01:26:11,040 --> 01:26:13,559 Speaker 5: out that kind of thing as a sin. But it's 1713 01:26:13,600 --> 01:26:16,439 Speaker 5: not like the ship. There's no proof the nigga even existed. 1714 01:26:16,720 --> 01:26:20,320 Speaker 5: I mean, it's just like the X Men and all 1715 01:26:20,320 --> 01:26:24,559 Speaker 5: these different versions of scriptions is like alternative reality versions 1716 01:26:24,720 --> 01:26:27,799 Speaker 5: of Jesus of a person that never ever fucking existed. 1717 01:26:28,080 --> 01:26:32,880 Speaker 5: Or there's no concrete proof that the motherfucking existed. So 1718 01:26:33,600 --> 01:26:37,479 Speaker 5: it's fascinating as a discussion of me. But yeah, think 1719 01:26:37,560 --> 01:26:42,360 Speaker 5: my marvel or I mean, make my marvel. 1720 01:26:42,720 --> 01:26:45,280 Speaker 2: Now, that's the thing. Like I wasn't even trying to 1721 01:26:46,160 --> 01:26:50,400 Speaker 2: be like facetious and mock people, Like I honestly feel 1722 01:26:50,520 --> 01:26:55,400 Speaker 2: like if anybody right now alive made it thirty three years, 1723 01:26:55,560 --> 01:26:58,240 Speaker 2: never associated with a woman, and was a religious figure, 1724 01:26:59,000 --> 01:27:02,760 Speaker 2: the vast majority of us jaded human beings would be like, Oh, 1725 01:27:02,800 --> 01:27:06,360 Speaker 2: that dude's muzzy gay. We do it with politicians. We 1726 01:27:06,520 --> 01:27:09,120 Speaker 2: do it, you know, we do it with everybody else. 1727 01:27:09,280 --> 01:27:11,120 Speaker 2: Like you can't even be a celebrity and be like 1728 01:27:11,280 --> 01:27:13,200 Speaker 2: I'm You can say I'm thirty three and I'm a 1729 01:27:13,280 --> 01:27:14,920 Speaker 2: virgin and people will be like, oh, it's because they're gay. 1730 01:27:15,400 --> 01:27:18,599 Speaker 2: Like we guess people's uh sexual orientation all the time. 1731 01:27:18,680 --> 01:27:21,160 Speaker 2: I've just like I said, I just now I'm not 1732 01:27:21,320 --> 01:27:25,040 Speaker 2: very religious, but I had not heard that discussion before, 1733 01:27:26,000 --> 01:27:27,720 Speaker 2: you know what I mean, And so it came to 1734 01:27:27,840 --> 01:27:29,559 Speaker 2: me on the show. I was like, what if he's gay? 1735 01:27:30,640 --> 01:27:33,040 Speaker 2: Like what is y'all? He can't be a savior and 1736 01:27:33,240 --> 01:27:36,760 Speaker 2: suck dick? Like that's we know so many activists that 1737 01:27:36,800 --> 01:27:39,960 Speaker 2: are LGBTQ and we see how people treat them. 1738 01:27:40,240 --> 01:27:41,720 Speaker 3: Come on, you know what I mean. 1739 01:27:41,920 --> 01:27:45,880 Speaker 2: But it's like, what if everybody's favorite uh savior is 1740 01:27:46,280 --> 01:27:49,639 Speaker 2: was on the spectrum as well? Like what the fuck happens? 1741 01:27:49,680 --> 01:27:49,800 Speaker 7: Then? 1742 01:27:50,560 --> 01:27:54,040 Speaker 2: You know, like, are you still so fucking hateful towards 1743 01:27:54,120 --> 01:27:57,400 Speaker 2: gay people? Why you're worshiping one? Cause I can see 1744 01:27:57,439 --> 01:27:59,320 Speaker 2: a scenario what that's possible. I know people that think 1745 01:27:59,360 --> 01:28:02,160 Speaker 2: black lives matter but not gay lives, But you saying 1746 01:28:02,200 --> 01:28:05,679 Speaker 2: the slogan of LGBTQ people that came up with the shit. 1747 01:28:06,120 --> 01:28:09,080 Speaker 2: So you know, it's to me, it's very people are 1748 01:28:09,120 --> 01:28:12,480 Speaker 2: so hypocritical. But it's another angle to examine the hypocrisy 1749 01:28:13,120 --> 01:28:18,000 Speaker 2: within religion, especially Christianity, since that's the one that's dominant 1750 01:28:18,040 --> 01:28:20,960 Speaker 2: in our culture in America. But it's it's it's just 1751 01:28:21,000 --> 01:28:23,240 Speaker 2: another way to examine it. You know, this is like, 1752 01:28:23,360 --> 01:28:27,040 Speaker 2: if we make jokes, I don't intend to be disrespectful 1753 01:28:27,080 --> 01:28:29,560 Speaker 2: to anybody, but I'm going to make the jokes, and 1754 01:28:29,640 --> 01:28:32,280 Speaker 2: I understand people are gonna not always get down with them, 1755 01:28:32,720 --> 01:28:35,000 Speaker 2: totally within their rights. I'm not here to make you 1756 01:28:35,280 --> 01:28:38,200 Speaker 2: like a joke. But I never felt like we crossed 1757 01:28:38,240 --> 01:28:41,040 Speaker 2: some line into territory where our show doesn't go all 1758 01:28:41,120 --> 01:28:45,080 Speaker 2: the time. So uh, but yeah, I think that that's uh. 1759 01:28:46,400 --> 01:28:48,160 Speaker 2: Like I said, I just thought that must have been 1760 01:28:48,240 --> 01:28:50,439 Speaker 2: obvious that someone would have thought to do was gay? 1761 01:28:50,479 --> 01:28:53,240 Speaker 2: I mean, he died at thirty three with no kids 1762 01:28:53,320 --> 01:28:58,960 Speaker 2: and no family, supposedly didn't have I mean maybe John 1763 01:28:59,040 --> 01:29:01,200 Speaker 2: might have been in the will. I don't know, you know, 1764 01:29:01,720 --> 01:29:03,280 Speaker 2: but if we know, so much of the shit gets 1765 01:29:03,320 --> 01:29:06,760 Speaker 2: manipulated and taken out, you know, like like you said, 1766 01:29:06,800 --> 01:29:10,479 Speaker 2: people even argue about did he exist? We found his tune? 1767 01:29:10,600 --> 01:29:13,439 Speaker 2: We didn't find his tune? Did you know? What is 1768 01:29:13,760 --> 01:29:16,599 Speaker 2: this story even real? Like so much of that shit 1769 01:29:16,800 --> 01:29:19,479 Speaker 2: comes up, We're we're a show that talks about it. 1770 01:29:19,560 --> 01:29:22,640 Speaker 2: I don't think it's that's such a bad thing. And 1771 01:29:22,800 --> 01:29:26,200 Speaker 2: like I said, no intent, no, no offense intended. But 1772 01:29:26,439 --> 01:29:29,760 Speaker 2: if people took offense, I'm not sorry, like at the 1773 01:29:29,840 --> 01:29:32,760 Speaker 2: same time, like it was jokes and it was a 1774 01:29:33,000 --> 01:29:37,439 Speaker 2: commentary and we do it all the time. Wakanda, Black 1775 01:29:37,479 --> 01:29:41,000 Speaker 2: Americans and a dashper unite. This is from my girl 1776 01:29:41,439 --> 01:29:45,240 Speaker 2: chi Chi, who says, DearS Karen and Rod. I'm listening 1777 01:29:45,280 --> 01:29:47,439 Speaker 2: to Saturday's feedback show from the twenty first and I 1778 01:29:47,560 --> 01:29:50,760 Speaker 2: just had to comment about Rod's divination about the Black Americans. 1779 01:29:50,840 --> 01:29:53,519 Speaker 2: What Black Americans may do, where or speak like on 1780 01:29:53,640 --> 01:29:56,559 Speaker 2: their way to see black Panther as a resident As 1781 01:29:56,600 --> 01:29:59,040 Speaker 2: a resident Nigerian little sister of the podcast, I'm claiming 1782 01:29:59,080 --> 01:30:02,280 Speaker 2: that title. Growing up, I used to get really upset 1783 01:30:02,360 --> 01:30:05,200 Speaker 2: whenever I would see Black Americans portray what they thought 1784 01:30:05,280 --> 01:30:08,160 Speaker 2: Africans or Africa was like the accents that never quite 1785 01:30:08,280 --> 01:30:10,679 Speaker 2: landed on the right words, and the clothing that didn't 1786 01:30:10,680 --> 01:30:13,479 Speaker 2: necessarily match the region, etc. But I realized that I 1787 01:30:13,520 --> 01:30:15,120 Speaker 2: was great than black people on the scale that was 1788 01:30:15,200 --> 01:30:18,000 Speaker 2: not only ridiculous, but unachievable for my own damn self. 1789 01:30:18,479 --> 01:30:20,800 Speaker 2: I truly do believe that around two thousand and eight, 1790 01:30:20,880 --> 01:30:23,880 Speaker 2: through the election of Barack Obama, I saw more Black 1791 01:30:23,920 --> 01:30:27,760 Speaker 2: Americans comfortable with an African identity, y'all. I never thought 1792 01:30:27,760 --> 01:30:30,680 Speaker 2: about that but that's gotta be true, you know what 1793 01:30:30,760 --> 01:30:33,240 Speaker 2: I mean, because it wasn't just that Barack. Listen, when 1794 01:30:33,280 --> 01:30:36,080 Speaker 2: I first heard the name Barack Obama, and I fucking 1795 01:30:36,120 --> 01:30:39,479 Speaker 2: triple dog, motherfucking dare any nigga to say opposite it, 1796 01:30:39,479 --> 01:30:41,760 Speaker 2: because I know it's one hundred percent of us. I say, 1797 01:30:41,880 --> 01:30:45,200 Speaker 2: all nigga, all, every last one of us heard his 1798 01:30:45,320 --> 01:30:47,720 Speaker 2: motherfucking name. Was like, ain't got a shot of hell 1799 01:30:47,920 --> 01:30:50,639 Speaker 2: that nigga won't be winning. I guess he's just maybe 1800 01:30:50,720 --> 01:30:53,720 Speaker 2: for the next time, or maybe he practicing, maybe he 1801 01:30:53,760 --> 01:30:57,240 Speaker 2: want to move up, cause nigga. Everybody who's debating the night, 1802 01:30:57,640 --> 01:31:05,599 Speaker 2: John Edwards, Hillary Clinton, and Barack Obama, it was like, Nigga, Mmm, 1803 01:31:06,320 --> 01:31:09,519 Speaker 2: that's unfortunate for him. That's his name. He don't want 1804 01:31:09,520 --> 01:31:13,240 Speaker 2: to go buy something else. Nope, Barack Obama, M he 1805 01:31:13,320 --> 01:31:17,920 Speaker 2: don't want to be known as Barry oh something, that 1806 01:31:18,080 --> 01:31:21,479 Speaker 2: that's what it's going by, Big Barry something Something. All 1807 01:31:21,560 --> 01:31:23,880 Speaker 2: of us had the same thought, like Nigga can't win, 1808 01:31:24,160 --> 01:31:27,559 Speaker 2: that's too Africans sound like Osama, like all of us had. 1809 01:31:29,280 --> 01:31:33,120 Speaker 2: And anybody that tells you differently is motherfucking lying. I'm 1810 01:31:33,160 --> 01:31:34,960 Speaker 2: telling you right now. I can't speak with people. 1811 01:31:36,640 --> 01:31:39,320 Speaker 3: Everybody was like, who that nigga? Who is that? 1812 01:31:39,600 --> 01:31:41,880 Speaker 2: I can't speak with people outside of America, I can't 1813 01:31:41,880 --> 01:31:44,479 Speaker 2: speak with people from Africa, and shit, maybe first generation 1814 01:31:44,840 --> 01:31:49,760 Speaker 2: or whatever. All of the niggas I know and most 1815 01:31:49,800 --> 01:31:53,960 Speaker 2: of the niggas own the motherfucking continent was like, Oh, 1816 01:31:54,600 --> 01:31:58,160 Speaker 2: that nigga can't win, you know. So, yeah, they had it. 1817 01:31:58,280 --> 01:32:01,400 Speaker 2: Must have made people except it because it's like, oh, yeah, 1818 01:32:01,520 --> 01:32:04,920 Speaker 2: he's still he gave. That's his best attribute is he's 1819 01:32:04,920 --> 01:32:08,920 Speaker 2: a very disarming person. And uh, for better or worse, 1820 01:32:09,160 --> 01:32:11,719 Speaker 2: you know you do. I'm not trying to pass value judges, 1821 01:32:11,760 --> 01:32:14,840 Speaker 2: but he's very disarming and he makes ship that was 1822 01:32:14,960 --> 01:32:19,160 Speaker 2: impossible seem extremely ordinary. At this point, we now feel 1823 01:32:19,280 --> 01:32:22,640 Speaker 2: like the idea of a Barack Obama is not so 1824 01:32:22,880 --> 01:32:25,479 Speaker 2: fucking crazy, as that's one of the reasons they labeled 1825 01:32:25,520 --> 01:32:29,880 Speaker 2: him as foreign Muslim all this shit. He sounded like Osama. 1826 01:32:30,400 --> 01:32:33,040 Speaker 2: He sounded like he wasn't from here as far as 1827 01:32:33,080 --> 01:32:35,960 Speaker 2: his name. You see him and motherfucking Barry shows up 1828 01:32:36,000 --> 01:32:39,640 Speaker 2: from Chicago and you're like, uh, I don't know. This 1829 01:32:39,720 --> 01:32:42,320 Speaker 2: guy seems kind of like a regular black person to mean, like, 1830 01:32:43,680 --> 01:32:46,520 Speaker 2: at least in all the ways that pol polic politically 1831 01:32:46,800 --> 01:32:50,120 Speaker 2: people like black people. He's very well educated, well spoken. 1832 01:32:50,920 --> 01:32:53,000 Speaker 2: Uh yeah, they looked at but your wife now she 1833 01:32:53,080 --> 01:32:55,719 Speaker 2: and Nigga married, happy all that shit. 1834 01:32:55,920 --> 01:32:56,040 Speaker 7: Man. 1835 01:32:56,120 --> 01:32:59,320 Speaker 2: Even Michelle Obama is so excellent, like oh yeah, yeah yeah, 1836 01:32:59,320 --> 01:33:02,640 Speaker 2: also league educated, like they are the cream of the 1837 01:33:02,720 --> 01:33:06,760 Speaker 2: crop of respectability despite how people feel about it. Right, 1838 01:33:06,960 --> 01:33:09,040 Speaker 2: but that's part of being elected as a black person. 1839 01:33:09,120 --> 01:33:12,800 Speaker 2: You can't you ain't gonna have no motherfucking uh you know, 1840 01:33:12,960 --> 01:33:15,120 Speaker 2: nappy dredds Yet we ain't got there yet, you know 1841 01:33:15,120 --> 01:33:17,559 Speaker 2: what I mean. Naughty dreads wasn't nappy dress. We ain't 1842 01:33:17,560 --> 01:33:19,880 Speaker 2: got to naughty dredgs yet. We ain't got to uh 1843 01:33:20,040 --> 01:33:22,000 Speaker 2: sag pants yet, we ain't got to. You can speak 1844 01:33:22,000 --> 01:33:24,680 Speaker 2: a little boni. Yet we ain't there yet. But in 1845 01:33:24,840 --> 01:33:28,160 Speaker 2: all the measurable ways that we judge what an acceptable 1846 01:33:28,200 --> 01:33:30,880 Speaker 2: black person is, they are both excellent in those case, 1847 01:33:30,960 --> 01:33:34,439 Speaker 2: in those measurable ways. And it's just so funny because 1848 01:33:35,200 --> 01:33:39,719 Speaker 2: yet it still felt impossible. Like I saw him talking 1849 01:33:39,800 --> 01:33:43,120 Speaker 2: and was like, oh man, it's too bad for him, 1850 01:33:43,520 --> 01:33:45,439 Speaker 2: you know, like what it seemed like a good guy, 1851 01:33:46,360 --> 01:33:49,680 Speaker 2: love his family. Ya. I think I'm not, But he 1852 01:33:49,720 --> 01:33:52,080 Speaker 2: speaks so well, yeah, it felt that way. 1853 01:33:52,200 --> 01:33:53,439 Speaker 3: That's how everybody kept saying. 1854 01:33:53,960 --> 01:33:56,800 Speaker 2: But she's right, that ship did change a lot of 1855 01:33:56,840 --> 01:33:59,360 Speaker 2: people because now it's like, oh, Africa, they black too, 1856 01:33:59,560 --> 01:34:01,680 Speaker 2: like even you know what I'm saying it like, well, 1857 01:34:01,920 --> 01:34:04,000 Speaker 2: I mean, you can be African and we can still. 1858 01:34:04,040 --> 01:34:07,320 Speaker 2: It's not a rivalry. It's not a angst and animosity 1859 01:34:07,400 --> 01:34:09,240 Speaker 2: between It didn't have to be. And I feel like 1860 01:34:09,320 --> 01:34:11,960 Speaker 2: before that, it was a lot of like, oh, you 1861 01:34:12,240 --> 01:34:14,439 Speaker 2: just like these white people. You come to this country 1862 01:34:14,479 --> 01:34:17,360 Speaker 2: and you judging me as a nigga here, and you know, 1863 01:34:17,680 --> 01:34:20,759 Speaker 2: people making distinctions of I didn't come from this slavery 1864 01:34:20,880 --> 01:34:22,559 Speaker 2: like you guys, and like, oh, what are you trying 1865 01:34:22,600 --> 01:34:25,720 Speaker 2: to say? I didn't have no saying that shit, you know, 1866 01:34:27,200 --> 01:34:30,280 Speaker 2: stuff like that, and then vice versa two people talking 1867 01:34:30,320 --> 01:34:33,719 Speaker 2: bad about folks accents. I remember why I worked at Wendy's. 1868 01:34:34,040 --> 01:34:37,280 Speaker 2: There's an old African dude named Sam, and everybody used 1869 01:34:37,280 --> 01:34:39,360 Speaker 2: to make jokes about how much he stank, and like, 1870 01:34:39,560 --> 01:34:43,439 Speaker 2: that's a very fucked up stereotype that we have with 1871 01:34:43,479 --> 01:34:46,240 Speaker 2: people from Africa. Now, in Samn's case, he did stank, y'all, 1872 01:34:46,560 --> 01:34:50,120 Speaker 2: but in general, I've heard that about just people because 1873 01:34:50,120 --> 01:34:52,920 Speaker 2: they're from Africa, Like, oh, he must stank he from Africa, 1874 01:34:53,439 --> 01:34:56,080 Speaker 2: you know what I mean. I'm like, Okay, that seems 1875 01:34:56,160 --> 01:34:59,200 Speaker 2: fucked up on some level. So hopefully some of that 1876 01:34:59,280 --> 01:35:02,639 Speaker 2: shit did die down a bit under Obama because people 1877 01:35:02,760 --> 01:35:06,320 Speaker 2: had this, people wanted to claim him essentially, Like I'm 1878 01:35:06,360 --> 01:35:08,960 Speaker 2: not saying this because people were great people. It was 1879 01:35:09,000 --> 01:35:11,360 Speaker 2: a selfish motivation of being like, oh, I want to 1880 01:35:11,400 --> 01:35:14,479 Speaker 2: claim him as the black president. So I don't give fuck. 1881 01:35:14,600 --> 01:35:20,439 Speaker 2: He's Barack Obama, first generation, you know, from roots going 1882 01:35:20,520 --> 01:35:23,960 Speaker 2: back to Africa. I don't give fuck, like he my president, 1883 01:35:24,080 --> 01:35:26,400 Speaker 2: and I think that's where it came from. So yeah, 1884 01:35:26,439 --> 01:35:28,200 Speaker 2: I guess I didn't think about that. That's a good point. 1885 01:35:28,720 --> 01:35:28,880 Speaker 7: Yeah. 1886 01:35:28,960 --> 01:35:32,720 Speaker 4: Also, I know, with the advancement of technology, I think 1887 01:35:32,800 --> 01:35:34,640 Speaker 4: that Barack Obama may have something to do with the 1888 01:35:35,040 --> 01:35:37,800 Speaker 4: spike in people doing their ancestry stuff to find out 1889 01:35:37,840 --> 01:35:39,600 Speaker 4: how far their roots go back, you know, and. 1890 01:35:40,040 --> 01:35:43,280 Speaker 2: All that stuff. Yeah, naming their kids different stuff now, 1891 01:35:43,680 --> 01:35:46,280 Speaker 2: you know, not that I mean black people always kind 1892 01:35:46,320 --> 01:35:47,840 Speaker 2: of did it, but just you know, I bet you 1893 01:35:47,880 --> 01:35:50,880 Speaker 2: it's more intentional now, you know, like these are proud 1894 01:35:51,040 --> 01:35:55,439 Speaker 2: this our heritage. You know, I hate it I hate 1895 01:35:55,479 --> 01:35:59,840 Speaker 2: all devides between black people man, because you know, and 1896 01:36:00,200 --> 01:36:01,880 Speaker 2: some of them are self inflicted. Some of them are 1897 01:36:01,880 --> 01:36:04,519 Speaker 2: people that just ain't shit, so fucked them obviously, but 1898 01:36:04,640 --> 01:36:07,120 Speaker 2: I hate that they exist because in so many ways, 1899 01:36:08,160 --> 01:36:11,880 Speaker 2: we're stuck in this cycle and we're just trying to 1900 01:36:12,000 --> 01:36:15,360 Speaker 2: survive and navigate, and then we end up taking each 1901 01:36:15,400 --> 01:36:20,200 Speaker 2: other out for shit that you know. It was like, 1902 01:36:20,479 --> 01:36:23,560 Speaker 2: like she said, it's unrealistic for us to think that 1903 01:36:24,479 --> 01:36:27,800 Speaker 2: anyone can be perfect. But we'll, like it's not just 1904 01:36:27,880 --> 01:36:30,840 Speaker 2: a matter of we disagree, but now I have to 1905 01:36:31,000 --> 01:36:33,120 Speaker 2: like take you out of your blackness, like I don't. 1906 01:36:33,160 --> 01:36:35,320 Speaker 2: You're not black to me anymore. You're out of the club. 1907 01:36:36,600 --> 01:36:40,559 Speaker 2: And it can be something silly as you from Africa 1908 01:36:40,640 --> 01:36:44,800 Speaker 2: or your names sound funny or you know, something like 1909 01:36:44,880 --> 01:36:47,800 Speaker 2: that as opposed to you know, when people will fully 1910 01:36:47,880 --> 01:36:50,720 Speaker 2: do fucked up shit and then I understand, but some 1911 01:36:50,880 --> 01:36:53,240 Speaker 2: of us just not, you know, Like I hope, like 1912 01:36:53,320 --> 01:36:55,639 Speaker 2: I said, we'll see, we'll see. I really do think 1913 01:36:55,720 --> 01:36:57,800 Speaker 2: niggas are gonna work dashikis and people gonna be mad 1914 01:36:57,800 --> 01:37:00,320 Speaker 2: about it, but hopefully is not enough people to make 1915 01:37:00,320 --> 01:37:02,639 Speaker 2: it a big deal. But just prepare yourself and please 1916 01:37:02,640 --> 01:37:05,519 Speaker 2: don't jump in these people's mentions and shit because I 1917 01:37:05,640 --> 01:37:08,920 Speaker 2: get it. I get it, you know, But I don't 1918 01:37:08,960 --> 01:37:11,720 Speaker 2: do the appropriation fighting shit anyway. But I get the 1919 01:37:11,840 --> 01:37:14,120 Speaker 2: whole thing that's going to exist and people are gonna 1920 01:37:14,160 --> 01:37:19,280 Speaker 2: be made anyway. It was because I was in college 1921 01:37:19,280 --> 01:37:22,320 Speaker 2: and exposed to more individuals, however, the Afro identity manifested, 1922 01:37:22,600 --> 01:37:25,680 Speaker 2: whether it was in music, fashion culture. I started to 1923 01:37:25,720 --> 01:37:28,799 Speaker 2: become extremely proud of seeing the African dasper in popular 1924 01:37:28,840 --> 01:37:31,599 Speaker 2: culture from New Orleans to the West Indies up to Europe, 1925 01:37:31,640 --> 01:37:36,599 Speaker 2: and the Afro Latinic's cousins all o familiar. I say 1926 01:37:36,640 --> 01:37:38,280 Speaker 2: all this to say, this is not Jerian cousin of 1927 01:37:38,320 --> 01:37:40,519 Speaker 2: yours excited to see my black American cousins dress up 1928 01:37:40,520 --> 01:37:42,560 Speaker 2: and they finest d sheik is an African Where the 1929 01:37:42,720 --> 01:37:45,840 Speaker 2: finest Pan African jeurry selling fish place and going to 1930 01:37:45,880 --> 01:37:48,679 Speaker 2: see the blackest movie of twenty eighteen. I'll be there 1931 01:37:48,800 --> 01:37:52,760 Speaker 2: in for Niger regalia. Perhaps I'll leave the head tied 1932 01:37:52,840 --> 01:37:56,160 Speaker 2: home so y'all can actually see the movie. She's in 1933 01:37:56,280 --> 01:38:00,000 Speaker 2: a picture of her at I think this is her husband, 1934 01:38:00,240 --> 01:38:03,160 Speaker 2: but I don't want to I don't want to guess 1935 01:38:03,160 --> 01:38:06,160 Speaker 2: too much. But yeah, it is her husband, her West 1936 01:38:06,200 --> 01:38:10,400 Speaker 2: Indian husband. Yeah, they have a picture together in the 1937 01:38:10,479 --> 01:38:14,320 Speaker 2: African garden at their wedding. It looks so beautiful. All 1938 01:38:14,400 --> 01:38:16,560 Speaker 2: in a'll come on and cousins, have I saved the 1939 01:38:16,600 --> 01:38:19,639 Speaker 2: seat for you. Much love as always, she Chie Chief 1940 01:38:19,640 --> 01:38:22,800 Speaker 2: from Cleveland, PS. The photo is my traditional wedding to 1941 01:38:22,880 --> 01:38:25,439 Speaker 2: my West Indian husband almost five years ago. This is Thanksgiving. 1942 01:38:25,520 --> 01:38:31,000 Speaker 2: Y'all look beautiful. But yeah, man, I hope that, you know, 1943 01:38:31,720 --> 01:38:33,920 Speaker 2: hopefully most people be cool about it, because I really 1944 01:38:33,960 --> 01:38:36,760 Speaker 2: do think it's gonna be a fun time. But I 1945 01:38:36,880 --> 01:38:39,719 Speaker 2: recognize with the Internet, nothing is sacred. 1946 01:38:39,920 --> 01:38:40,080 Speaker 5: You know. 1947 01:38:40,600 --> 01:38:42,400 Speaker 2: Somebody always gonna be mad about something. 1948 01:38:42,720 --> 01:38:43,200 Speaker 5: Yes they are. 1949 01:38:45,000 --> 01:38:48,519 Speaker 2: Feedback show message from new member Auntie Main. Let me 1950 01:38:48,600 --> 01:38:53,120 Speaker 2: begin by thanking you Roz and Kevin forgiving forgiving you 1951 01:38:53,360 --> 01:38:55,600 Speaker 2: your old Auntie Main life. I've been living in a 1952 01:38:55,640 --> 01:38:58,880 Speaker 2: foreign country, Silicon Valley, San Jose for almost ten years 1953 01:38:59,520 --> 01:39:01,720 Speaker 2: with no black folks in my community. The truth is 1954 01:39:01,760 --> 01:39:04,559 Speaker 2: I've got my entire life on your podcast. Your love, 1955 01:39:04,840 --> 01:39:07,519 Speaker 2: laughter and insights have lifted and carried me through three 1956 01:39:07,520 --> 01:39:10,120 Speaker 2: of the most dreadful years of my past fifty years. 1957 01:39:11,240 --> 01:39:13,320 Speaker 2: Like many have said before me, I feel like y'all 1958 01:39:13,360 --> 01:39:15,680 Speaker 2: are my little cousins I didn't know I had, and 1959 01:39:16,400 --> 01:39:19,040 Speaker 2: having finally found you, yours are the voices I seek 1960 01:39:19,080 --> 01:39:21,920 Speaker 2: out every time the family gathers. I won't lie. I 1961 01:39:22,000 --> 01:39:23,840 Speaker 2: spend way more time with y'all than I do my 1962 01:39:24,000 --> 01:39:26,680 Speaker 2: own blood. But I have a confession to make. For 1963 01:39:26,840 --> 01:39:29,360 Speaker 2: far too long, I boldly slid my black ass into 1964 01:39:29,400 --> 01:39:31,960 Speaker 2: the second pew and sung along with fucking with black 1965 01:39:32,000 --> 01:39:35,200 Speaker 2: people key keyed alone and Kevin and Rodger's painful puns 1966 01:39:35,320 --> 01:39:38,719 Speaker 2: in front of it, like I've been tithing this whole time. Haha, shame. 1967 01:39:39,360 --> 01:39:41,640 Speaker 2: There's no way to make up for my money you 1968 01:39:41,800 --> 01:39:44,720 Speaker 2: unquestionably deserve not to mention could have used over the 1969 01:39:44,760 --> 01:39:46,920 Speaker 2: past three years, but I'm gonna try count. This is 1970 01:39:46,960 --> 01:39:49,320 Speaker 2: my first five on it now where the new members 1971 01:39:49,400 --> 01:39:52,000 Speaker 2: class at with love and appreciation your auntie man. 1972 01:39:52,240 --> 01:39:55,879 Speaker 3: Oh, thank you, and in fact, it's down the hallway 1973 01:39:55,960 --> 01:39:57,040 Speaker 3: to the right. Yep. 1974 01:39:58,800 --> 01:40:04,000 Speaker 2: Oh that's so dope. Thank you. Brandy wrote in She's 1975 01:40:04,080 --> 01:40:06,720 Speaker 2: the woman who went to the Living Color concert and 1976 01:40:06,800 --> 01:40:10,880 Speaker 2: sent us the video where we got invited by Corey Glover. 1977 01:40:11,680 --> 01:40:14,400 Speaker 2: She says, hello, Rod and Karen caught the podcast yesterday. 1978 01:40:14,400 --> 01:40:16,120 Speaker 2: I'm so glad to hear you're going to the show. 1979 01:40:16,160 --> 01:40:18,360 Speaker 2: I quit my job last year and I've been trying 1980 01:40:18,400 --> 01:40:21,000 Speaker 2: to live my best Pumpkins spice life ever since. I 1981 01:40:21,120 --> 01:40:23,200 Speaker 2: heard some of the questions about how the invite came, 1982 01:40:23,280 --> 01:40:25,880 Speaker 2: and I thought i'd give a little more detail about 1983 01:40:25,880 --> 01:40:28,479 Speaker 2: the experience. I'll try to keep it brief, but please 1984 01:40:28,600 --> 01:40:30,439 Speaker 2: don't feel like you have to read this on the show. 1985 01:40:32,280 --> 01:40:34,519 Speaker 2: For the past decade, I've been taking myself on what 1986 01:40:34,680 --> 01:40:36,960 Speaker 2: I've dobe my Party of One tour, where I basically 1987 01:40:37,040 --> 01:40:39,880 Speaker 2: try to catch as much live show music as my 1988 01:40:39,960 --> 01:40:42,439 Speaker 2: budget will allow, and sometimes I call in birthday presents 1989 01:40:42,439 --> 01:40:44,920 Speaker 2: early to make it happen. I love live music, but 1990 01:40:45,000 --> 01:40:46,800 Speaker 2: got tired of my friends canceling on me, so I 1991 01:40:46,880 --> 01:40:49,360 Speaker 2: started going to shows on my own come and now 1992 01:40:49,400 --> 01:40:51,840 Speaker 2: it's my preferred thing. I seen everyone from Prince to 1993 01:40:51,920 --> 01:40:55,200 Speaker 2: Kanye and then so Wow. This past weekend, it was 1994 01:40:55,280 --> 01:40:57,800 Speaker 2: all about rock and the Queen City. Thanks to your 1995 01:40:57,880 --> 01:41:01,439 Speaker 2: interview with Corey Glover, I started tracking Living Color again 1996 01:41:01,960 --> 01:41:04,480 Speaker 2: and was shocked to see them coming close to Cincinnati. 1997 01:41:04,840 --> 01:41:06,519 Speaker 2: I was on my way to see another band when 1998 01:41:06,520 --> 01:41:09,120 Speaker 2: I dropped everything to buy my ticket for ELC. That 1999 01:41:09,280 --> 01:41:12,719 Speaker 2: other band was Sam Ferman. Indie Chill Vibe also locked 2000 01:41:12,800 --> 01:41:16,599 Speaker 2: up on a food Fighters ticket to say so. Last Friday, 2001 01:41:16,600 --> 01:41:18,760 Speaker 2: I spent three hours getting my gen X life on 2002 01:41:18,880 --> 01:41:21,960 Speaker 2: the river. I then hit the road Saturday afternoon and 2003 01:41:22,439 --> 01:41:25,240 Speaker 2: to trek to Dayton to catch Living Color with my 2004 01:41:25,360 --> 01:41:27,960 Speaker 2: ear still buzzing. I'm not gonna spoil the show for you. 2005 01:41:28,040 --> 01:41:30,320 Speaker 2: I'm a bit of a purist, rarely looking at reviews 2006 01:41:30,439 --> 01:41:32,200 Speaker 2: or set list before I go see an act, so 2007 01:41:32,240 --> 01:41:34,920 Speaker 2: I can be surprising in the moment, and I'll say. 2008 01:41:35,200 --> 01:41:37,360 Speaker 2: All I'll say is way your ear plugs for any 2009 01:41:37,400 --> 01:41:40,080 Speaker 2: opening acts, Well, whip those suckers out for ELC and 2010 01:41:40,200 --> 01:41:43,000 Speaker 2: let the sound hit you. I rocked out on crutches 2011 01:41:43,080 --> 01:41:45,360 Speaker 2: surfing accident and got the oh, you are living your 2012 01:41:45,400 --> 01:41:47,439 Speaker 2: best white woman life come on, and got the chance 2013 01:41:47,479 --> 01:41:49,400 Speaker 2: to meet everyone after the show. They even signed a 2014 01:41:49,439 --> 01:41:51,800 Speaker 2: thank you note for my mom after I told them 2015 01:41:51,840 --> 01:41:56,400 Speaker 2: how I stole her case single of Love. Oh, her 2016 01:41:56,520 --> 01:42:00,479 Speaker 2: cassette single of Love rears up its ugly heads got it. 2017 01:42:01,040 --> 01:42:02,880 Speaker 2: When I got the chance to speak with Corey Glove, 2018 01:42:02,920 --> 01:42:04,920 Speaker 2: I basically was like, I'm so glad you did the 2019 01:42:04,960 --> 01:42:07,400 Speaker 2: blackout tips and that we nerded out then we nerded 2020 01:42:07,439 --> 01:42:09,840 Speaker 2: out about the blackout tips and how much we want 2021 01:42:09,880 --> 01:42:12,320 Speaker 2: to hug her. I had I had made up a 2022 01:42:12,360 --> 01:42:14,920 Speaker 2: little card for a tvg dot selviy, but he was like, 2023 01:42:15,040 --> 01:42:17,320 Speaker 2: let's do a video. I've been trying to reach them, 2024 01:42:17,360 --> 01:42:19,280 Speaker 2: and I was like, we can make that happen right now. 2025 01:42:19,400 --> 01:42:22,240 Speaker 2: And that's how that went down. Lol. That's my completely 2026 01:42:22,320 --> 01:42:25,040 Speaker 2: dazed post show facing the video. It takes a while 2027 01:42:25,080 --> 01:42:28,200 Speaker 2: for me to come down after guitars get in my chest. Lol. 2028 01:42:28,560 --> 01:42:30,960 Speaker 2: I could get a bit nervous and Crowdsticklar Rocket Indy 2029 01:42:31,040 --> 01:42:33,360 Speaker 2: krowds at Trump's America, but I felt at home as 2030 01:42:33,400 --> 01:42:35,040 Speaker 2: soon as they hit the stage and everyone was kind 2031 01:42:35,080 --> 01:42:37,720 Speaker 2: of me easily in my top ten concert experiences. Hope 2032 01:42:37,720 --> 01:42:39,479 Speaker 2: you both have a great experience too. All Right, this 2033 01:42:39,560 --> 01:42:41,519 Speaker 2: email fils hell alone, but I hope you both know 2034 01:42:41,640 --> 01:42:44,000 Speaker 2: you I loved out there in these podcasts, Rockstar Streets 2035 01:42:44,280 --> 01:42:47,439 Speaker 2: for the Cult of B. Thank you, Thank you. How 2036 01:42:47,520 --> 01:42:50,679 Speaker 2: much time we y'all left? Sixteen? All right? Let me see, 2037 01:42:51,600 --> 01:42:53,120 Speaker 2: Oh this is too long? All right, let me go, 2038 01:42:53,280 --> 01:42:55,760 Speaker 2: let me add another session right quick over. Yeah, I 2039 01:42:55,840 --> 01:42:59,599 Speaker 2: want to get everybody's feedback in everybody can hear it? Yeah, 2040 01:43:00,120 --> 01:43:01,080 Speaker 2: give me one second. 2041 01:43:01,560 --> 01:43:02,400 Speaker 3: And baby, thank you. 2042 01:43:02,560 --> 01:43:05,040 Speaker 4: And you know, there's something I've learned to As you 2043 01:43:05,160 --> 01:43:07,080 Speaker 4: get older, you learn how to do most shit on 2044 01:43:07,160 --> 01:43:10,360 Speaker 4: your own because, like I said, working out, I had 2045 01:43:10,400 --> 01:43:12,799 Speaker 4: to learn. Look, this is my journey, and my journey 2046 01:43:12,920 --> 01:43:16,200 Speaker 4: only you know. And you get tired of counseling shit 2047 01:43:16,320 --> 01:43:18,680 Speaker 4: and rearranging shit and all that stuff just to try 2048 01:43:18,720 --> 01:43:21,719 Speaker 4: to get on somebody else's schedule. So honey, go ahead 2049 01:43:21,800 --> 01:43:23,680 Speaker 4: and see you got to see people that are no 2050 01:43:23,800 --> 01:43:24,280 Speaker 4: longer here. 2051 01:43:24,680 --> 01:43:26,320 Speaker 2: Oh, we have one in one minute, but go ahead. 2052 01:43:26,439 --> 01:43:29,040 Speaker 3: Oh I said one sixteen Oh I'm. 2053 01:43:28,920 --> 01:43:31,320 Speaker 2: Sorry, I read I've misunderstood. I thought you said we 2054 01:43:31,400 --> 01:43:34,720 Speaker 2: had one minute sixteen seconds. No, no o, yeah, hey, 2055 01:43:34,800 --> 01:43:36,560 Speaker 2: let me all right, but no, go ahead, finish with 2056 01:43:36,640 --> 01:43:37,000 Speaker 2: your thoughts. 2057 01:43:37,040 --> 01:43:39,280 Speaker 3: Oh, no problem. And uh yeah. 2058 01:43:39,360 --> 01:43:42,439 Speaker 4: So I think for me, the older you get, the 2059 01:43:42,560 --> 01:43:44,280 Speaker 4: more you willing to do that stuff because I go 2060 01:43:44,360 --> 01:43:46,799 Speaker 4: out to eat by myself, I go shopping by myself. 2061 01:43:46,960 --> 01:43:51,360 Speaker 3: I do a lot of of more stuff by myself, and. 2062 01:43:51,320 --> 01:43:52,960 Speaker 4: A lot of times it's a connection. Time to get 2063 01:43:53,080 --> 01:43:55,559 Speaker 4: your own mind, time trying to do your own thing. 2064 01:43:56,600 --> 01:44:00,360 Speaker 2: So, baby, I am so happy and excited not hugging 2065 01:44:00,400 --> 01:44:03,719 Speaker 2: white thugs, white while wearing ugs and sipilates and living 2066 01:44:03,800 --> 01:44:06,920 Speaker 2: my best life equals living my best life by miss 2067 01:44:07,560 --> 01:44:11,840 Speaker 2: my ten MARCHI kens that hug thing makes me sick 2068 01:44:11,960 --> 01:44:15,599 Speaker 2: like Naja Stephen stink God just Eu just no, uh 2069 01:44:16,040 --> 01:44:19,040 Speaker 2: stee Justin. Would have to bring Janet miss Jackson if 2070 01:44:19,040 --> 01:44:21,280 Speaker 2: you're nasty out to do her rhythm Nation that includes 2071 01:44:21,320 --> 01:44:24,200 Speaker 2: a mashup of the Knowledge of Formation It all black 2072 01:44:24,320 --> 01:44:27,240 Speaker 2: with a Bodac yellow dance break. The timeline will be hot. 2073 01:44:27,920 --> 01:44:30,160 Speaker 2: I will be at the virtual super Bowl party. I'm 2074 01:44:30,200 --> 01:44:32,400 Speaker 2: taking the next day off so I can lie, tweet 2075 01:44:32,439 --> 01:44:35,200 Speaker 2: and get my entire life. I live overseas, so I 2076 01:44:35,320 --> 01:44:38,679 Speaker 2: plan on making that a long weekend. Since that's not happening, 2077 01:44:38,760 --> 01:44:40,920 Speaker 2: I'll be getting that Jordan crowd face ready for your 2078 01:44:40,960 --> 01:44:43,200 Speaker 2: boy the sweet soul sip. Oh yeah, he gonna get. 2079 01:44:43,240 --> 01:44:46,280 Speaker 2: He gonna get roasted. Either way, I'll win. If you 2080 01:44:46,320 --> 01:44:48,439 Speaker 2: don't bring Janet out, he get roasted, and I'm laughing 2081 01:44:48,439 --> 01:44:50,120 Speaker 2: at the jokes on Twitter. If he brings her out, 2082 01:44:50,160 --> 01:44:53,120 Speaker 2: then okay, cool, good for Janet, good of him. You're 2083 01:44:53,120 --> 01:44:56,599 Speaker 2: gonna regardless, Oh, the roast is gonna happen. I can't wait. 2084 01:44:57,040 --> 01:44:59,680 Speaker 2: On another note, I'm avoiding most social media into a 2085 01:44:59,680 --> 01:45:01,680 Speaker 2: black after comes out. I want to go in and 2086 01:45:01,800 --> 01:45:04,479 Speaker 2: code experience. For some reason, the pod being app diload 2087 01:45:04,520 --> 01:45:07,240 Speaker 2: the wrong episode for yesterday's podcast also confused. I thought 2088 01:45:07,280 --> 01:45:09,560 Speaker 2: you already discussed the accent for Wakanda, which sent me 2089 01:45:09,640 --> 01:45:12,760 Speaker 2: to search as she found the La Times article about 2090 01:45:12,840 --> 01:45:15,600 Speaker 2: Chad with Bozman for the website. I don't expect you 2091 01:45:15,640 --> 01:45:17,080 Speaker 2: to read this on the show, and I also figured 2092 01:45:17,120 --> 01:45:19,240 Speaker 2: you'd read it. Read this, but just in case you didn't, 2093 01:45:19,640 --> 01:45:21,479 Speaker 2: you may have covered it and I missed it. As 2094 01:45:21,520 --> 01:45:24,280 Speaker 2: far as where the accent comes from is, it's obviously 2095 01:45:24,400 --> 01:45:26,839 Speaker 2: fictional African country, but I wanted to base it in reality. 2096 01:45:26,960 --> 01:45:29,439 Speaker 2: I had done a movie before Civil War called Message 2097 01:45:29,439 --> 01:45:31,800 Speaker 2: from the King, and I'd done the South Africa a 2098 01:45:31,840 --> 01:45:34,120 Speaker 2: couple times for research and for filming in that movie. 2099 01:45:34,160 --> 01:45:36,559 Speaker 2: While I was there, I found a dialect coach, same 2100 01:45:36,840 --> 01:45:40,720 Speaker 2: coach I'm using for Civil War. It primarily based in 2101 01:45:41,520 --> 01:45:44,679 Speaker 2: I don't know how you pronounce his Xhosa dialect dialect, 2102 01:45:45,160 --> 01:45:47,920 Speaker 2: and it's not if, but it's not that he had 2103 01:45:48,040 --> 01:45:51,200 Speaker 2: extensive knowledge of various places, so he basically went all 2104 01:45:51,200 --> 01:45:55,320 Speaker 2: the way through and made it official that's dope. Also, 2105 01:45:55,400 --> 01:45:57,280 Speaker 2: I know y'all love punkin spice, but don't sleep on 2106 01:45:57,320 --> 01:46:00,280 Speaker 2: her dark skins. Sister, flavor of the maple pecan latte, Baby, 2107 01:46:00,360 --> 01:46:02,840 Speaker 2: it's life. When I find one, I'm gonna send y'all 2108 01:46:02,880 --> 01:46:05,320 Speaker 2: a candle so you can have all the punkin spices. 2109 01:46:05,400 --> 01:46:08,440 Speaker 2: Maplele pecan warm tasted winter time afternoons. 2110 01:46:08,520 --> 01:46:10,360 Speaker 3: That's what I'm talking about. Mm hmm. 2111 01:46:10,720 --> 01:46:11,920 Speaker 2: About to get cut off. Let me go to the 2112 01:46:11,960 --> 01:46:14,200 Speaker 2: next session. Guys, coming right back. We'll be right back 2113 01:46:14,240 --> 01:46:18,600 Speaker 2: on your screens. But yeah, I mean I that's the 2114 01:46:18,720 --> 01:46:20,960 Speaker 2: next wave. That's what the white women is on now. 2115 01:46:21,200 --> 01:46:24,559 Speaker 2: You know, I'm still catching up on pumpkin spices, but uh, 2116 01:46:25,040 --> 01:46:28,160 Speaker 2: maybe pecan. The stock is rising, you know, so I 2117 01:46:28,320 --> 01:46:31,320 Speaker 2: like pecan mm hm. I can imagine I will be uh, 2118 01:46:32,439 --> 01:46:37,400 Speaker 2: I'll be moving to that. Yeah, but I don't want that. 2119 01:46:37,520 --> 01:46:40,840 Speaker 2: I like maybe the mabe pecan donuts and coffees and stuff. 2120 01:46:41,240 --> 01:46:44,040 Speaker 2: You know they got candles. I'll take that, But you know, 2121 01:46:44,240 --> 01:46:45,840 Speaker 2: I gotta get all the punkin spices out of my 2122 01:46:45,880 --> 01:46:47,960 Speaker 2: system first. You know, I got a lot of catching 2123 01:46:48,040 --> 01:46:52,760 Speaker 2: up to do. She also says, also, I know y'all 2124 01:46:52,840 --> 01:46:56,200 Speaker 2: love Oh wait all right, Black people love the Golden Girls. 2125 01:46:56,240 --> 01:46:58,240 Speaker 2: Remember your boy who remixed the thing song? Of course 2126 01:46:58,280 --> 01:47:00,439 Speaker 2: we do. I don't watch the Street. I didn't watch 2127 01:47:00,439 --> 01:47:02,080 Speaker 2: the stream of this episode. Listening to work and the 2128 01:47:02,120 --> 01:47:05,280 Speaker 2: hell's my colleagues stay punch nose punch free. So I 2129 01:47:05,479 --> 01:47:09,439 Speaker 2: just imagine you got the Golden Girls power Powderpuff Girls 2130 01:47:10,000 --> 01:47:14,200 Speaker 2: shirt mashup on. That's the only one I have. Oh nah, 2131 01:47:14,280 --> 01:47:17,880 Speaker 2: my Golden Girls shirt. It looks like the cover for 2132 01:47:18,040 --> 01:47:23,280 Speaker 2: Queens album, but it's it's just the four ladies and 2133 01:47:23,360 --> 01:47:26,840 Speaker 2: then at the bottom it says Queens. So you know 2134 01:47:27,160 --> 01:47:33,559 Speaker 2: you got Rolls Blanche, Uh, Sophia and was it Agile? 2135 01:47:33,640 --> 01:47:38,120 Speaker 2: I think Dorothy, Dorothy and you have. It's like it's 2136 01:47:38,160 --> 01:47:40,840 Speaker 2: all of them and that like kind of triangle shape. 2137 01:47:41,120 --> 01:47:42,680 Speaker 2: It's a dope shirt. I really love it. It's one 2138 01:47:42,720 --> 01:47:43,200 Speaker 2: of my face. 2139 01:47:44,360 --> 01:47:44,559 Speaker 5: Rod. 2140 01:47:44,680 --> 01:47:46,760 Speaker 2: You go on ahead and step into the fullness of you. 2141 01:47:46,840 --> 01:47:49,840 Speaker 2: I'm following, suit Car. If everyone loved our people like 2142 01:47:49,960 --> 01:47:53,040 Speaker 2: you do, we be okay. Y'all keep supporting each other's dreams, 2143 01:47:53,120 --> 01:47:55,599 Speaker 2: come through, love on love, love to show oliveyo best 2144 01:47:55,680 --> 01:47:58,479 Speaker 2: lives like Oprah, Gucci, Keisha, Janet, Cardi, Blue Ivy and 2145 01:47:58,560 --> 01:48:02,200 Speaker 2: Obama's and your listeners. Thank you, Thank you. Shout out 2146 01:48:02,200 --> 01:48:06,400 Speaker 2: to Carty. She got married last night, I mean proposed 2147 01:48:06,439 --> 01:48:07,799 Speaker 2: to Cool last night, engaged. 2148 01:48:08,120 --> 01:48:08,280 Speaker 4: You know. 2149 01:48:08,400 --> 01:48:10,439 Speaker 2: It's weird about that though. I was like, yeah, what 2150 01:48:10,640 --> 01:48:14,120 Speaker 2: if she would have said no? That would have been 2151 01:48:14,160 --> 01:48:17,080 Speaker 2: the most infamous curve in the history of the Internet. 2152 01:48:17,400 --> 01:48:19,080 Speaker 2: People were taking a lot of chances to these public 2153 01:48:19,120 --> 01:48:22,439 Speaker 2: proposals these days. Man, he musta knew she was gonna 2154 01:48:22,479 --> 01:48:22,840 Speaker 2: say yes. 2155 01:48:23,360 --> 01:48:25,599 Speaker 4: One day somebody is gonna say no, because you're gonna 2156 01:48:25,600 --> 01:48:28,040 Speaker 4: have somebody like what this is what I'm not gonna do. 2157 01:48:28,320 --> 01:48:30,160 Speaker 2: Yeah, that had just broke up for like a day 2158 01:48:30,240 --> 01:48:32,680 Speaker 2: last weekend. Like glad, I mean, I'm glad it's working out. 2159 01:48:32,720 --> 01:48:35,280 Speaker 2: But that was my first thought was, Oh, boy, couldn't 2160 01:48:35,320 --> 01:48:36,840 Speaker 2: be me. What if she would have hit hit that. 2161 01:48:37,160 --> 01:48:41,120 Speaker 2: I don't think so offset so fast. 2162 01:48:41,360 --> 01:48:43,599 Speaker 3: There's nothing wrong with doing big proposals. But you better 2163 01:48:43,760 --> 01:48:44,960 Speaker 3: know she gonna say yeah. 2164 01:48:44,960 --> 01:48:47,160 Speaker 2: Oh, that would have been awk. I'm glad, I'm glad 2165 01:48:47,240 --> 01:48:50,559 Speaker 2: she said yeah, we were. The timeline would have been crazy. Oh, 2166 01:48:50,760 --> 01:48:52,280 Speaker 2: the ashes would have been all out. 2167 01:48:52,479 --> 01:48:52,639 Speaker 5: Oh. 2168 01:48:53,280 --> 01:48:57,639 Speaker 2: Anyway, lastly, Rossallee right said high Rod and Karen. First 2169 01:48:57,680 --> 01:48:59,640 Speaker 2: of all, I love you both. You have done so 2170 01:48:59,760 --> 01:49:02,160 Speaker 2: much improve my critical thinking, although I do find myself 2171 01:49:02,200 --> 01:49:04,960 Speaker 2: in a constant state of giving side. Still no other 2172 01:49:05,080 --> 01:49:07,360 Speaker 2: podcast can make me get angry and laugh out loud 2173 01:49:07,400 --> 01:49:10,000 Speaker 2: and walk away with so many quotables. Anyway, I was 2174 01:49:10,080 --> 01:49:12,559 Speaker 2: so excited to hear about Karen's new venture, but an 2175 01:49:12,600 --> 01:49:15,040 Speaker 2: older episode is playing instead. Yeah, I fixed that. That 2176 01:49:15,160 --> 01:49:17,439 Speaker 2: was my bad, y'all. I'm still enjoying the repeat. Will 2177 01:49:17,479 --> 01:49:20,240 Speaker 2: love to hear more about Karen's role at Safety Pin. 2178 01:49:20,880 --> 01:49:21,040 Speaker 5: Oh. 2179 01:49:21,120 --> 01:49:23,720 Speaker 2: Okay, by the way, I've already been contemplating signing up 2180 01:49:23,720 --> 01:49:25,600 Speaker 2: for Safety Pain, especially after a recent promo for a 2181 01:49:25,680 --> 01:49:28,160 Speaker 2: free box. I didn't submit a request then, because I 2182 01:49:28,240 --> 01:49:31,000 Speaker 2: believe they should get all the money possible. However, having 2183 01:49:31,040 --> 01:49:33,640 Speaker 2: Karen involved just up the anty for me. Thanks for 2184 01:49:33,760 --> 01:49:36,120 Speaker 2: all you do. Much love from a recurring donator at 2185 01:49:36,160 --> 01:49:42,880 Speaker 2: Rosalie V. Rosalie Okay, Rosalie V. Thank you. And I 2186 01:49:43,000 --> 01:49:45,560 Speaker 2: fixed the episode so a lot of people had the 2187 01:49:45,560 --> 01:49:48,120 Speaker 2: same issue. I uploaded the wrong audio, but I deleted. 2188 01:49:48,160 --> 01:49:50,880 Speaker 2: If you delete that and then read upload, it's fine 2189 01:49:50,920 --> 01:49:54,080 Speaker 2: now okay. And then, Karen, did you want to? I mean, 2190 01:49:54,120 --> 01:49:56,559 Speaker 2: I don't know. You haven't started officially yet, so did 2191 01:49:56,600 --> 01:49:58,680 Speaker 2: you want to talk about the role there what you'll 2192 01:49:58,720 --> 01:49:59,759 Speaker 2: be doing, or you want to wait. 2193 01:50:00,160 --> 01:50:01,639 Speaker 3: Wait to more about what I'm doing. 2194 01:50:01,680 --> 01:50:02,599 Speaker 2: All right, let's let it wait. 2195 01:50:02,640 --> 01:50:04,680 Speaker 3: I know what I'm doing, but just more detail about it. 2196 01:50:04,800 --> 01:50:07,160 Speaker 2: Yeah, let's let it wait, y'all. But you know she'll 2197 01:50:07,200 --> 01:50:11,680 Speaker 2: be letting y'all know the tea, you know. Uh, I 2198 01:50:11,840 --> 01:50:15,160 Speaker 2: just made up a whole entire reality where we come 2199 01:50:15,200 --> 01:50:17,360 Speaker 2: on the show and talk bad about yourybody safety pin box. 2200 01:50:17,439 --> 01:50:20,560 Speaker 2: Like listen, y'all, Marissa had onions for lunch today and 2201 01:50:20,600 --> 01:50:22,680 Speaker 2: she ain't even brush her tear rafter. Mm hm, it 2202 01:50:22,760 --> 01:50:24,960 Speaker 2: was all up in can face. Yeah, we're gonna get 2203 01:50:25,000 --> 01:50:25,280 Speaker 2: your tea. 2204 01:50:25,320 --> 01:50:27,519 Speaker 3: We're gonna do a podcast called Unclipped Pen. 2205 01:50:27,600 --> 01:50:32,559 Speaker 2: Rightlipped paper Clip Box. We're gonna be out here. Paper 2206 01:50:32,600 --> 01:50:36,200 Speaker 2: clip Box got a spy inside now god. Okay, and 2207 01:50:36,280 --> 01:50:39,559 Speaker 2: don't forget this month's paper clip clip Box, Pumpkin spice 2208 01:50:39,680 --> 01:50:43,800 Speaker 2: and ugs. Okay, we're gonna Yes, you get a discount. 2209 01:50:44,360 --> 01:50:47,040 Speaker 2: Just send me money. Uh, and you can use me 2210 01:50:47,240 --> 01:50:49,719 Speaker 2: as your black friend for when you say something racist online. 2211 01:50:49,920 --> 01:50:52,680 Speaker 2: Just send me the money. And uh, we're gonna make 2212 01:50:52,720 --> 01:50:55,200 Speaker 2: sure you sign up for my new petition. We got 2213 01:50:55,240 --> 01:50:57,880 Speaker 2: some people, we're gonna be boycotting, and I'm gonna let 2214 01:50:57,920 --> 01:51:00,760 Speaker 2: you know when we're gonna be boy hot them after 2215 01:51:00,800 --> 01:51:03,160 Speaker 2: you share our show and let people know that. Come 2216 01:51:03,240 --> 01:51:07,400 Speaker 2: listen to the show. So we'll paper clip box is happening. 2217 01:51:07,840 --> 01:51:10,960 Speaker 2: Speaking of what's happening, At three o'clock today, me and 2218 01:51:11,120 --> 01:51:14,719 Speaker 2: BOSSI are gonna recap this is us from this this week. 2219 01:51:14,840 --> 01:51:17,720 Speaker 3: Y'all surprised y'all talk get one. 2220 01:51:17,880 --> 01:51:19,840 Speaker 2: I didn't think y'all were gonna get one, so we 2221 01:51:20,720 --> 01:51:22,240 Speaker 2: I haven't even watched it yet. I gotta watch as 2222 01:51:22,280 --> 01:51:24,439 Speaker 2: soon as we get off of here. But yeah, we're 2223 01:51:24,439 --> 01:51:26,439 Speaker 2: gonna do that at three. I'll tweet out the links 2224 01:51:27,240 --> 01:51:29,920 Speaker 2: on on Twitter and Facebook and stuff. 2225 01:51:30,439 --> 01:51:30,559 Speaker 5: Uh. 2226 01:51:30,800 --> 01:51:33,599 Speaker 2: So, yeah, we will be recapping it. Still, it's gonna happen, 2227 01:51:33,760 --> 01:51:35,600 Speaker 2: so glad and I'm happy to do it. I'm so 2228 01:51:35,720 --> 01:51:38,720 Speaker 2: glad we can do it. And uh yeah, so I'll 2229 01:51:38,760 --> 01:51:41,479 Speaker 2: see some of you guys at three again. Uh for 2230 01:51:41,600 --> 01:51:44,280 Speaker 2: the rest of you guys, Uh, kiss my act and 2231 01:51:44,320 --> 01:51:46,080 Speaker 2: not just kid for the rest of you guys. Uh, 2232 01:51:46,400 --> 01:51:49,760 Speaker 2: we'll see y'all tomorrow tomorrow when our guess will be 2233 01:51:49,920 --> 01:51:53,280 Speaker 2: Ray Sni from the Miss Sandy Podcast. I'm looking forward 2234 01:51:53,320 --> 01:51:56,240 Speaker 2: to that and oh yeah, this week gonna be a uh, 2235 01:51:57,360 --> 01:51:58,360 Speaker 2: it's gonna be a weird week. 2236 01:51:58,520 --> 01:52:03,519 Speaker 3: Monday, but Sunday, Monday. We're not doing Tuesday, are we not? 2237 01:52:03,880 --> 01:52:05,600 Speaker 2: I don't know. We don't have to leave to go 2238 01:52:06,120 --> 01:52:08,400 Speaker 2: up there for a while. We're glad to do an 2239 01:52:08,400 --> 01:52:09,160 Speaker 2: early morning show. 2240 01:52:09,600 --> 01:52:10,200 Speaker 3: I would like that. 2241 01:52:10,600 --> 01:52:14,720 Speaker 2: Just depends, but I got tipped in the morning. We'll 2242 01:52:14,760 --> 01:52:16,760 Speaker 2: see guys until then. I love you. 2243 01:52:17,120 --> 01:52:17,920 Speaker 3: I love you too.