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Speaker 1: waiting by the phone. It's the Fred Show. Hey Greg,

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Speaker 1: good morning, welcome to the program. How are you? I'm

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Speaker 1: great man, Thanks for having me. This guy, he sounds

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Speaker 1: very positive for a guy who I mean, you were ghosted? Bro,

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Speaker 1: Like you're not sad about it? I mean, I guess

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Speaker 1: it's sad enough that you want some answers. I am shack.

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Speaker 2: I mean, come on, I'm a little let down, but

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Speaker 2: I'm a pretty confident guy.

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Speaker 1: Well I hear that, you hear this? Yeah, yeah, Grant,

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Speaker 1: he is a confident man. So what happened here? We

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Speaker 1: are confident that maybe you got ghosted, but what happened

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Speaker 1: with Natalie? We got to know how you met? I

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Speaker 1: want to hear about any dates you've been on, and

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Speaker 1: then why you think go you know we were here.

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Speaker 2: Okay, Well I met Natalie the way you mostly meet

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Speaker 2: people nowadays online of course, on an app. We matched

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Speaker 2: and we got to talking back and forth. I asked

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Speaker 2: her out. Things went great. We had a really amazing date.

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Speaker 2: And I know the date was amazing because I wouldn't

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Speaker 2: normally reveal this, but we ended up, you know, cooking up.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, he wouldn't normally kiss and tell. Granted is no

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Speaker 1: grant is, but he's sudd the kind of guy that

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Speaker 1: wouldn't normally kiss and tell. But in this case, for context,

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Speaker 1: I appreciate that. Thank you for this, Thank you transparency.

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Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, and congratulations by the way as well.

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Speaker 2: Well, well, first off, thank you, and it's important because

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Speaker 2: it went well. I mean that normally is a sign

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Speaker 2: that things are, you know, going good for you. And

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Speaker 2: let me tell you, we had a really good time.

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Speaker 1: So that's what you did. But okay, no, you had

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Speaker 1: a good time, all right, So you're confused.

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Speaker 2: I am confused. Why she she's not hitting me back.

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Speaker 2: I can't reach her anymore. I just I had no

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Speaker 2: idea why she's not like we're answering my calls. It's weird.

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Speaker 2: I can't think of anything that went wrong. It's not

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Speaker 1: Then I don't know. Then maybe this is going to

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Speaker 1: be very easy. We call her. She's like, I've been busy.

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Speaker 1: I want to go out with you again. You were

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Speaker 1: such a stud. And then we pay for it, you

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Speaker 1: get a free date. Maybe that's what this is. Probably not,

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Speaker 1: but we have no idea and here I can't do here,

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Speaker 1: I honestly can't wait. I'm gonna hurry up and play

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Speaker 1: a song. We'll come back in a couple of minutes.

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Speaker 1: Grant will call Natalie. You'll be on the phone. We'll

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Speaker 1: ask some questions on your behalf. And the hope is

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Speaker 1: it is just that that we can straighten things out,

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Speaker 1: set you guys, have lunch, another date, and pay for it.

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Speaker 2: I hope.

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Speaker 1: So, I hope it's going to be that. Hey, Grant, yes, sir,

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Speaker 1: let's call Natalie. You guys, you met on one of

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Speaker 1: the apps, you went on a date. You felt the

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Speaker 1: date was very successful. I believe it. He just said

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Speaker 1: flaw one about the date, and then he very humbly

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Speaker 1: shared with us that there was, you know, some physicality

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Speaker 1: we're gonna call her now and see if we can

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Speaker 1: straighten this out. Good luck, thank you. Hello, Hi, this is Natalie, Yes, Natalie, Hi,

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Speaker 1: good morning. My name is Fred. I'm calling from the

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Speaker 1: Fred's Show, the Morning radio Show, and I have to

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Speaker 1: Yeah? I know, and thank you very much. We appreciate

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Speaker 1: you and your patients. Here we're actually talking about a

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Speaker 1: Yeah, less confidence from her there than him. But we

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Speaker 3: I mean, it's all pretty embarrassing. But we did have

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Speaker 3: a good time. It was it was fun. We have chemistry,

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Speaker 3: We did have drinks and we were just vibing and

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Speaker 3: So at that point it seemed fine. But the issue

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Speaker 3: he's he's a total douche. What did he do so

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Speaker 3: during our hook up I did something for him specifically,

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Speaker 3: and he did nothing for me.

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Speaker 1: No, I love mister conviny grant man. Come on bro,

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Speaker 1: all right, all right, okay? Is that is that the issue?

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Speaker 1: You know?

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Speaker 3: It was a much at that time, But when he

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Speaker 4: You yo, yo, you He never do that nice he

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Speaker 1: I mean, that's not something you say to somebody. Maybe

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Speaker 1: didn't do anything, okay, let me bring Grant in. I

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Speaker 1: that part. Granted is here. Dude, she did something nice

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Speaker 2: But listen, I don't understand why Natalie's so upset.

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Speaker 1: I'm just being honest with her.

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Speaker 2: I'm one of those guys where I don't lie to

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Speaker 2: the woman that I'm with.

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Speaker 1: I just wanted to offer him sometimes, don't be the honesty, bro.

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Speaker 1: Come on, what's the big deal? If you expect to

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Speaker 1: don't do is after they did something that they thought

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Speaker 1: you would enjoy, you don't tell it that they weren't good. Well,

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Speaker 1: you didn't enjoy it enough, apparently, because you had to

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Speaker 1: let me ask you. I still want to hang out well, well,

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Speaker 1: that remains to be seen. But let me ask you then,

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Speaker 1: grant mister confident. So let's say you had decided to

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Speaker 1: and right, and then she says to you that wasn't

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Speaker 1: that good? What I mean, it wasn't good enough? Like

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Speaker 1: wouldn't like that. Here's the thing, though, I know I'm

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Speaker 1: good at that. Oh here, yeah, you know what, which

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Speaker 1: means he's not, which means he's not good at what

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Speaker 1: I do. I'm telling you, if you're so good, then

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Speaker 1: why don't you do it?

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Speaker 3: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: Right? Like, if if I think I'm good at something,

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Speaker 1: then I'm going to make sure that I do that

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Speaker 1: then why don't you do it? Well, I would love

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Speaker 1: the opportunity to do it if you had it. You

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Speaker 1: had the opportunity. So she's not good. You wanted to

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Speaker 1: tell her that, but you do want to see her again,

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Speaker 1: and you want to let her do that thing to

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Speaker 1: you again. But you're really good. You want to give

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Speaker 2: You know what, man, I look, I was just trying

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Speaker 2: to be honest. I thought that's what people wanted, especially women.

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Speaker 2: They say all the time to midline. I was just

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Speaker 1: You want to do that read the room you just met,

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Speaker 1: you just met, like, it's not it's said maybe in time, ladies,

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Speaker 1: you can tell me, ladies and Jason, maybe in time,

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Speaker 1: Like you coach someone like, if you like them enough

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Speaker 1: and there's enough of a foundation there with that, then

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Speaker 1: it takes time. You don't just deflate someone because Natalie,

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Speaker 1: I assume that you you you you were just doing

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Speaker 1: out there again. Okay, Well, then you didn't go about

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Speaker 1: it the right way. You don't. You don't tell someone

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Speaker 1: see them and have them do it again. To Calin's point, look,

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Speaker 1: I'll ask the question, Natalie. I think I know the answer.

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Speaker 1: But would you like to go out with Grant again?

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Speaker 1: We'll pay for it. I mean, apparently he's good and

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Speaker 1: a lot of stuff. He just didn't show you, but

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Speaker 1: he'd like to show you. And you're not that good,

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Speaker 1: but he'd like it again. So which makes a ton

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Speaker 1: of sense. You're not helping near you, right, girl? I

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Speaker 1: don't like you and get yours, don't kid, don't get

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Speaker 1: mad at me.

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Speaker 4: Bro.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, Natalie, would you like to see him again?

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Speaker 3: No, this is perfect closure. I appreciate Grant.

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Speaker 1: Grant, you gotta sometimes you got to. You gonna have

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Speaker 1: to keep that mouth of yours well, hold on. Sometimes

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Speaker 1: you need to open it and then sometimes you need

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Speaker 1: to shut it. And you're not doing it in the

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Speaker 1: right order exactly. Man, I think Natalie's making a big mistake.

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Speaker 1: I have a lot to offer. I do. I don't know, ma'am.

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Speaker 1: But Natalie, thank you so much for your time and

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Speaker 1: for answering and grank good luck to you. Thank you