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Speaker 1: don't joy y. You gotta use that turn. You gotta

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Speaker 1: morning everybody, y'all listening to the voice, come on dig

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Speaker 1: me now, one and only Steve Harvey got a radio show.

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Speaker 1: Hey man, back in business too? Man, Man, how good

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Speaker 1: is God? I mean, really, if you think about it

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Speaker 1: in spite of all that's going down in your life,

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Speaker 1: first of all, it could be worse. But secondly, sometimes

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Speaker 1: you have to remember. And I've just had to have

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Speaker 1: this conversation with myself this morning. That's how I'm fresh

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Speaker 1: on this one right here. When a challenge faces you,

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Speaker 1: are you going through a difficult moment, or you didn't

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Speaker 1: hit a bump in the road in the middle of that,

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Speaker 1: If you could manage to be grateful, it would take

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Speaker 1: is a powerful resource when it's dim for you, And

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Speaker 1: was last week or last year. You gotta be grateful

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Speaker 1: to get right? Man? Can I share that with you? Man?

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Speaker 1: Is that a tough one to learn? It is for me.

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Speaker 1: It has been one of my toughest challenges is to

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Speaker 1: See when something go wrong, I want to focus on

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Speaker 1: for pity from other people. All of that, right there,

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Speaker 1: has nothing to do with the fix. Sometimes you're just

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Speaker 1: that's been cropped up. I was going kind of smooth

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Speaker 1: ain't always been that way. I want you to understand

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Speaker 1: the end of the day, folks, is have a better

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Speaker 1: the forgiving business. And some of us have done some

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Speaker 1: another person. And I wasted time doing that, and that's

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Speaker 1: is prayer changes things. Yes, it does. Now read about

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Speaker 1: prayer as of wonderful weapons. You're listening to show. Ladies

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Speaker 1: dog gone it, Shirley Strong. We let Steve, we let Oh,

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Speaker 1: that's so that at one time we let Steve Man.

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Speaker 1: We didn't live fun. That was fun. It's young people

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Speaker 1: listening to this show going, uh, we live back, and

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Speaker 1: they probably ain't even saying that. No ball, they say,

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Speaker 1: We let bla for rel what's happening? We bought that life?

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Speaker 1: What's going on? Junior? You got one? I just gonna

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Speaker 1: say more than one, Tommy, you got one lit light lit?

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Speaker 1: My man? Slapping five? You did that that you may

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Speaker 1: still say right on. I still say amen. When I'm

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Speaker 1: talk to my older brother, it's it's like talking to

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Speaker 1: Marvin Gay. Serious, man, I'm talking to them, Hey, what's up? Drunk?

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Speaker 1: What's handing with you? Up? Man? Give me some of

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Speaker 1: that skin? Man, some skin, don't that's five on the

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Speaker 1: black hand? Keeping like that. It's all right, man, right on.

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Speaker 1: What's been going on with your players? You still doing it?

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Speaker 1: Ain't you? You know, people ain't easy. But somebody kind

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Speaker 1: of doing it might be me. Yeah, what's up? What's up? Tommy?

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Speaker 1: One of my little girls? What are friends of the

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Speaker 1: house saying? Miss Timmy? You lit? I said, baby? I

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Speaker 1: be a drop either way. I wasn't there. I don't know.

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Speaker 1: of your kids. No, but you gotta stay fresh and hill, Timmy,

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Speaker 1: let me tell you what I did one day in Atlanta.

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Speaker 1: I came out my office with my shirt open, and

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Speaker 1: my kids friends was in the house. When you say, Dad,

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Speaker 1: your shirt is open, I said, I live here. Tell

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Speaker 1: all your little flat stomach ass from to turn around

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Speaker 1: quick looking over here. But it's so funny, Steve, You're

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Speaker 1: right because we're at an age now where everything we

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Speaker 1: that where our kids think we're cool. Nothing. All right, listen,

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Speaker 1: coming up at thirty two after the hour, we'll have

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Speaker 1: more of the Steve Harvey Morning Shop right after this. Wait,

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Speaker 1: we let turn up. You're listening to show, all right.

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Speaker 1: I want to ask the guys something. What is something

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Speaker 1: you wish you weren't too old to do anymore? Like,

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Speaker 1: for instance, Carla, you jumped in a bouncy castle with

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Speaker 1: kids at a festival. You did that? Yeah? Uh oh wait,

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Speaker 1: too much and too old to be doing that. I

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Speaker 1: was exhausted. Jay do a flip flip? I tried knocking

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Speaker 1: all the kid yes, yeah, yeah, all of that way

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Speaker 1: be done? Hello, But Steve, how did yours end? I

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Speaker 1: As I said, this goes out to all of your

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Speaker 1: how you doing? I'm looking for uh Stania. This is

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Speaker 1: Sitana Stania. This is brother Fuller from the church. How

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Speaker 1: are you? Oh, I'm with brother. How are you? I'm good?

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Speaker 1: I'm good. Um. We wanted to give you a call

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Speaker 1: First of all, I wanted to really show you how

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Speaker 1: And what things are those? Well? Since a Tania has

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Speaker 1: But uh, like I said, I've been electing to give

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Speaker 1: Hey what jat raiding? Brother Fuller. I don't know who

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Speaker 1: I don't know what you do all days, but I

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Speaker 1: You're gonna make me curse up here and let me

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Speaker 1: You know what? I gotta go to work now again.

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Speaker 1: What's to tell you? Before you was a praise, then

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Speaker 1: Hu didn't do no stripping? Now that did you? Why

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Speaker 1: I see you near one of my girls. That's why

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Speaker 1: I'm coming after you myself. Do you understand me? I

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Speaker 1: You act with them? One is coming through it? You

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Speaker 1: Is you're gonna stop the job? Rating is doing that,

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Speaker 1: and that's what I'm doing. Who they you're talking to

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Speaker 1: like that? You're supposed to be a mine of your say, yeah,

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Speaker 1: have died listening to tell you? Now I'm getting ready

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Speaker 1: to get when I got one more thing to say

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Speaker 1: to you? Fold your league. Now you ain't got a

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Speaker 1: damn thing to say to me. I said I was telling,

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Speaker 1: and I said, I got one more thing to say?

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Speaker 1: Is you listen? You know what? Men, get off my phone.

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna say it anyway. This is nephew Timmy from

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Speaker 1: the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Your entire praise and ministry congregation,

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Speaker 1: all your girls got me the frank phone called you.

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Speaker 1: Oh I'm a shooty. Oh I think I'm ursing on

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Speaker 1: the radio. Oh wait, why you know it was all

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Speaker 1: over five of Now I got some explaining this show.

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Speaker 1: Lord ha Mercy, you did good, though, you did really

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Speaker 1: you in there. Oh wait, I talked to Bishop. You

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Speaker 1: might want. Oh, I think I'm gonna have a show.

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Speaker 1: I got one thing to ask you. Tell you what

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Speaker 1: it is the baddest radio show in the land, nobody

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Speaker 1: else but the Steve Harvey Morning the Show. Huh you know.

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Speaker 1: I mean when you're listening to the again, you don't

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Speaker 1: think to get some people up there. Don't need to

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Speaker 1: be up there. Absolutely, that's not for me to say.

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Speaker 1: I'm just judging church a praise dance limit. What do

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Speaker 1: you agree with? Time in which I seldom do, but

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Speaker 1: we have got to limit the time that praise dancers

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Speaker 1: can be up down. It's never moved me. It has

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Speaker 1: never made me want to join. It ain't never made

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Speaker 1: me want to do better. It always has made me

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Speaker 1: want to go home. Really, I want this service overWe

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Speaker 1: I want y'all stop all that waving. Can tell you

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Speaker 1: the real thing. It ain't like synchronized women women own key.

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Speaker 1: I don't like watching people ain't all at the same time.

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Speaker 1: Thank you. Coming up more of the Steve Harvey Morning Show.

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Speaker 1: Right up to this. You're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show.

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Speaker 1: All right, the Chief Love Officer, the CLO is in

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Speaker 1: the building and Steve, it's a big decision, you know,

457
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Speaker 1: to enter into a long term relationship, and before you

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00:29:10,200 --> 00:29:13,320
Speaker 1: take that step, make sure you are on solid ground.

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Speaker 1: Would you agree with that, Steve? Well, yeah, okay, all right.

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Speaker 1: The commitment doesn't need to come with a ring, but

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Speaker 1: you should present your boot with certain questions and it

462
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Speaker 1: helps you both to know what you're getting into. So, Steve,

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Speaker 1: what about these questions? I'm going to read the questions

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Speaker 1: off to give me your opinions on these questions. All right,

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Speaker 1: you can ask your your your significant other this what

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Speaker 1: are you willing to sacrifice for this relationship? Good question,

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Speaker 1: not necessarily because that's an open ended question because if

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Speaker 1: you ask a guide what are you willing to sacrifice

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Speaker 1: for this relationship? What? What? What's the answer you would

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Speaker 1: expect other than everything? You know? And nobody means that. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: you know, everything is everything, and so I don't know that.

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Speaker 1: That's a great question, this question. Yeah, let's give us

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Speaker 1: one that we can that we should ask what are

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Speaker 1: you willing to for this relationship? Because you know, you're

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Speaker 1: almost like you know, because how can you how can

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Speaker 1: you answer that correctly? Okay? So just cross that out altogether.

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Speaker 1: So okay, So instead of saying, what would you be

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Speaker 1: willing to sacrifice? You know, I think a better question is,

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Speaker 1: what does this relationship mean to you? Like that? You know,

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Speaker 1: okay sacrifice? On top of that, you would say, and

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Speaker 1: on your on your list of priorities, where is this

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Speaker 1: relationship for you? You know? I think that's a better

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Speaker 1: way to phrase, Yeah, that's all, or what would just

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Speaker 1: do you know? You know, you can throw that in it.

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Speaker 1: I'm just saying what would just exactly lie? Okay, do

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Speaker 1: you have the original product? Do you have another? Here's

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Speaker 1: another question, Steve, do you have anything that's no negotiable?

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Speaker 1: I'm assuming you're talking they're talking about deal breakers here. Well, okay,

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Speaker 1: now this is for what tell me what this is

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Speaker 1: for again, Shelly? Okay, these are you know, it's a

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Speaker 1: big decision to enter into a long term relationship. So

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Speaker 1: when you're you've decided that you're going to be in

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Speaker 1: a relationship, you know, you and this person, you want

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Speaker 1: to make sure you're on solid ground. So these are

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Speaker 1: some of the questions that that's, you know, maybe we

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Speaker 1: should ask. We're trying to figure out what should you

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Speaker 1: asking forward to find out you're moving forward into a

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Speaker 1: long term relationship. I think these are This question right

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Speaker 1: here is not a bad question, but it should actually

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Speaker 1: happen later on. See why invest a lot of time

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Speaker 1: in the relationship to find out about the deal breakers?

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Speaker 1: So should you already know the answer to this if

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Speaker 1: you've been in the relationship, if you're considering a long

504
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Speaker 1: term relationship with somebody, you probably should have had this

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Speaker 1: conversation beforehand about what's the deal breakers? Because what you

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Speaker 1: don't want an old guy? He loves me, I love him.

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Speaker 1: Oh God, we're going to spend the rest of our

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Speaker 1: lives together. I don't like women who have babies. Well,

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Speaker 1: my baby back that sleep. Yeah, you know what I'm saying. Hey,

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Speaker 1: that ain't the time to get that, you know what

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Speaker 1: I'm saying. Yeah, okay, I like these. Okay, this is

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Speaker 1: if you have decided to be in a long term

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Speaker 1: relationship with somebody. Here's another another question. What are your

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Speaker 1: financial goals? That's not before you get into that's in

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Speaker 1: the relationship somewhere? Can I tell women a women a

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Speaker 1: slick way when you meet a guy. Yeah, you know,

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Speaker 1: when you talk about your financial goals, that's you got

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Speaker 1: to be in the relationship. Pretty good to ask that. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: here's a question I created for women, especially women in

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Speaker 1: our age bracket and thirty thirty something and up. This

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Speaker 1: is not a twenty year old question. You can ask, okay,

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Speaker 1: but in the thirties. If you're a lady and you're

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Speaker 1: dating in the thirties forties, up, here's a question you

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Speaker 1: ask if you want to know how much a man makes.

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Speaker 1: Here's the question I created for that. Without asking you,

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Speaker 1: how much do you make? Ask a man what he

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Speaker 1: does in his downtime? Say it again, Ask a man

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Speaker 1: what he does in his downtime, so like his hobbies

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Speaker 1: and stuff. Yeah, what he does in his downtime. That

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Speaker 1: will tell you a lot about his financial Still if

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Speaker 1: he says, play video games or catch up on my

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Speaker 1: reality shows or yeah, okay, that ain't what you want

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Speaker 1: sing out. You know. I play golf, I collect wine,

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Speaker 1: I read a lot all these things about money. I travel,

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Speaker 1: I go, I jump on a plane and go places.

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Speaker 1: I like seeing different parts of the world. You know,

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Speaker 1: I all and mc coin collected your things like that

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Speaker 1: that require some type of investment. I collect, I collect

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Speaker 1: vintage cause you gotta have extra money. Do all this

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Speaker 1: kind of stuff. Okay, so instead of asking a man

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Speaker 1: first night, you know, what do you do? How much

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Speaker 1: you make just asking what he's doing the downtime? If

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Speaker 1: he's a good and grown man, his downtime will be spent.

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Speaker 1: I create things that didn't happen. Yeah yeah yeah. Or

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Speaker 1: you know I pay for assaults on myself. Yeah yeah

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Speaker 1: yeah yeah. If you could pay a nice amount of

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Speaker 1: for the assault, you got a lot of money. I

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Speaker 1: high African meuny to do different things. You know you

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Speaker 1: could do that. Yeah, you got some money. Has nothing

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Speaker 1: to do with relationship questions. I just want you guys

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Speaker 1: to know that. All right, here's the last question. They

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Speaker 1: stoopid both. This is the last question. If you're thinking

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Speaker 1: about entering into a long term relationship with someone or

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Speaker 1: a serious relationship with someone, what do you think? What

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Speaker 1: do you think of this question? Do you have a

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Speaker 1: history of mental illness in your family? You should have

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00:35:16,520 --> 00:35:19,520
Speaker 1: been the name. How you gotta do is go over

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00:35:19,600 --> 00:35:22,760
Speaker 1: the house to the holiday and then you're do Steve.

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Speaker 1: You got to ask nobody have you been over the

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Speaker 1: house and seen anything that came out as Craig? Has

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Speaker 1: anybody come bust out some double doors? And you were,

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Speaker 1: oh yeah, all right, we'll be back with more of

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Speaker 1: the Steve Harvey Morning Show right after you're listening to

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Speaker 1: Steven Show. All right, Steve, we need you again. It's

565
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Speaker 1: time for right or wrong with your nephew and junior.

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Speaker 1: So you need to be the judge, ladies and gentlemen.

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Speaker 1: This is right or wrong. This is where decisions get made.

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Speaker 1: Debatable issues come to the forefront. And I'm a decision

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Speaker 1: as to who's right or wrong. Tommy, it's always the

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Speaker 1: one who wants to know whether he's right or wrong. Now,

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00:36:07,040 --> 00:36:13,399
Speaker 1: so far it has been a ninety that he has

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Speaker 1: been wrong. Well, I think ten percent of the time

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Speaker 1: I have agreed with him, but the ninety percent of

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Speaker 1: the time, So go ahead turn check this out. So

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00:36:21,440 --> 00:36:24,680
Speaker 1: and actually, for u s split second, he agreed with

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Speaker 1: me last night. I said, Amber is a little girl

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Speaker 1: that got lost a long time ago and death when

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Speaker 1: amber Ler came from He agreed with me on that.

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Speaker 1: I did not agree with you on that you did.

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Speaker 1: What did you say? I said, they named it that

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Speaker 1: just because let people know that people miss That's all

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Speaker 1: I said. I say nothing about this being no Amber alert.

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Speaker 1: What made you even think of that? Christ ball. I'll

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Speaker 1: let you know. It was a little girl named Amber,

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00:36:50,800 --> 00:36:53,960
Speaker 1: and that's what that's where Amber alert came from. Then

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Speaker 1: I told you, I said, Foster is a little boy

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Speaker 1: who didn't have his mind his daddy, and that's where

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Speaker 1: Foster Home came from. Oh no, right there, But Foster

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Speaker 1: and Amber don't know each other. Do you know what? Well,

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Speaker 1: he's correct on Amber, Yeah, give him that. I might

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Speaker 1: right about Foster though Amber is actually a color. Amber

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Speaker 1: is also a young young girl's name right, my name

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Speaker 1: is his name Amber? Right? So that led you to say, what, Now,

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Speaker 1: Foster was a little boy who didn't have no mama,

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Speaker 1: no daddy, and they were trying to find a home

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Speaker 1: for him. I can't right, that's where Foster Home comes from. Well,

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Speaker 1: I thought that was a serial foster flake, right, the

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Speaker 1: wrong worster what we were saying that for? I have

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Speaker 1: Foster place quickly, not love me. It's a Foster flea.

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Speaker 1: I know that, you know, since we're just gonna be

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Speaker 1: ignorant there. I thought it was a sil foster flat

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Speaker 1: we called it though. That's how he said it. Foster

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Speaker 1: means to develop y ring about to nur falter, to

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Speaker 1: nurture a situation. Foster is a definition. It's not a

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Speaker 1: little boy. There's people named Foster, most of them don't

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Speaker 1: end up in cal was the lead singer of the

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Speaker 1: Silvers One. He wasn't lead saying the singers. Now he

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Speaker 1: played Dr Mean in u King of Scott. That was

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Speaker 1: Forest cart you see where he gets from. And then

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Speaker 1: Forrest Griffin was fighting in the UFC. Let the Stepar

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Speaker 1: and Barner has some epic. You're listening morning show. All right,

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Speaker 1: it's time for comedy Roulette Jay now quickly. It's very simple.

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Speaker 1: You guys test our ability to be comedians. Give us

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Speaker 1: five subjects. Anything you want. Let the wheels stop. We

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Speaker 1: put it out on Roulett wheel. Wherever you stop. We

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Speaker 1: do a couple of minutes on. That's how good we are,

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Speaker 1: all right, that's how good we are. All right, all right,

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Speaker 1: we'll see about that. We have five topics for you,

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Speaker 1: all right. Number one the movies. You got this one,

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Speaker 1: No Steed. Number two being dumped, all right, that's on

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Speaker 1: the wheel. Number three, bad wedding's been there, I got

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Speaker 1: that one. Number four, bad grades. Number five when to

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Speaker 1: shut up cats beend the wheel? Bad grades week I

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Speaker 1: like movies. Steve whoa, okay, okay, that's a good one.

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Speaker 1: When to shut up? When to shut up? I'll tell

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Speaker 1: you when you shut up. The minute you look in

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Speaker 1: your redume mirror and you see that blue light, it

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Speaker 1: is time. And I don't want time for you to

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Speaker 1: shut up. You make an announcement of everybody in the

630
00:40:23,400 --> 00:40:28,080
Speaker 1: damn card to shut the hell all right. We don't

631
00:40:28,120 --> 00:40:31,160
Speaker 1: let that. There's gonna be one person talking, all right,

632
00:40:31,400 --> 00:40:35,160
Speaker 1: and the sober is one if they gotta lean from

633
00:40:35,200 --> 00:40:38,200
Speaker 1: the back and talk. The rest have been told to

634
00:40:38,440 --> 00:40:43,480
Speaker 1: shut the hell up. In that same lane, yes, the

635
00:40:43,640 --> 00:40:47,200
Speaker 1: same lang in the neighborhood, when you see somebody running

636
00:40:47,320 --> 00:40:50,840
Speaker 1: from the low, when the low look at us, we

637
00:40:50,960 --> 00:40:54,719
Speaker 1: don't know nothing. I had one fring on points he

638
00:40:54,840 --> 00:40:58,840
Speaker 1: went that way? What did you telling them? Down already?

639
00:40:59,480 --> 00:41:02,319
Speaker 1: Know up? Now you're sitting the laws the same way

640
00:41:02,400 --> 00:41:05,200
Speaker 1: down with you could have pointed the other way that way?

641
00:41:05,239 --> 00:41:07,640
Speaker 1: He seeing us? Who you think he looking fun? You

642
00:41:07,760 --> 00:41:14,080
Speaker 1: didn't see Nash, shut the hell up? Got it? Well,

643
00:41:14,600 --> 00:41:18,120
Speaker 1: I'm gonna going another route. Let me just do too quickly,

644
00:41:18,360 --> 00:41:25,440
Speaker 1: fellas you know, it's time to shut up. When you're

645
00:41:25,560 --> 00:41:34,279
Speaker 1: feeling guilty and you want to confess that I don't

646
00:41:34,280 --> 00:41:38,520
Speaker 1: know what this moment you have pardon, We're not going

647
00:41:38,600 --> 00:41:44,280
Speaker 1: in there to do that. Yeah. Something. When my first marriage,

648
00:41:45,200 --> 00:41:47,239
Speaker 1: I went out one night, me and my pardner. You know,

649
00:41:49,360 --> 00:41:51,480
Speaker 1: you know, I just told told me I was going

650
00:41:51,520 --> 00:41:55,440
Speaker 1: out right, I'm over with the house. A couple of

651
00:41:55,520 --> 00:41:57,680
Speaker 1: days later, my partner reged I went to club with

652
00:41:58,280 --> 00:42:02,719
Speaker 1: This is what he said. Hey, man, tell your wife

653
00:42:02,719 --> 00:42:09,680
Speaker 1: about to club we went. You're looking at like what

654
00:42:14,280 --> 00:42:19,800
Speaker 1: I just just something? Just go what are you talking about?

655
00:42:20,200 --> 00:42:27,440
Speaker 1: Wrong with you? Hell? My wife the club went to you.

656
00:42:27,920 --> 00:42:34,360
Speaker 1: Never shut up. I never supposed I'll tell you another

657
00:42:34,400 --> 00:42:37,719
Speaker 1: time to shut up. And it's a trick too when

658
00:42:37,760 --> 00:42:43,719
Speaker 1: your mama say, say something else. But then did you

659
00:42:43,880 --> 00:42:46,879
Speaker 1: hear me? What were I'm supposed to do? Yeah, I'm

660
00:42:46,880 --> 00:42:49,120
Speaker 1: gonna answer y'all just supposed to be quiet. I'm just

661
00:42:49,160 --> 00:42:52,480
Speaker 1: gonna take my chids on shutting. He play something else?

662
00:42:52,960 --> 00:42:56,800
Speaker 1: Something else? You got one? You got one time to

663
00:42:56,840 --> 00:42:59,440
Speaker 1: go ahead. When you on the phone with a woman

664
00:43:00,400 --> 00:43:05,960
Speaker 1: and you hear the hell are you talking to? Man?

665
00:43:06,600 --> 00:43:19,239
Speaker 1: Shut your mind? Hang up up. I'm not doing you

666
00:43:20,239 --> 00:43:25,080
Speaker 1: as far as my mama. When my mama say, I

667
00:43:25,200 --> 00:43:30,000
Speaker 1: guess I'm landing shut up, shut up, got shut up?

668
00:43:30,080 --> 00:43:32,680
Speaker 1: All right? All right, you guys did it again. It's

669
00:43:32,719 --> 00:43:37,040
Speaker 1: always all right. We'll be back with the frank phone

670
00:43:37,040 --> 00:43:43,200
Speaker 1: call from the nephew right after this. You're listening, coming

671
00:43:43,280 --> 00:43:45,680
Speaker 1: up at the top of the hour, right about four

672
00:43:45,719 --> 00:43:48,680
Speaker 1: minutes after. It's my strawberry letter for today subject when

673
00:43:48,920 --> 00:43:54,239
Speaker 1: role playing goes to wait till you guys hear this letter.

674
00:43:54,600 --> 00:43:56,360
Speaker 1: All right, but right now it is a nephew in

675
00:43:56,480 --> 00:43:58,839
Speaker 1: the building with today's frank phone call. What you got

676
00:43:59,000 --> 00:44:09,000
Speaker 1: neat roommate Betty? Okay, a roommate Betty running, cad running Batty. Hello,

677
00:44:09,400 --> 00:44:12,120
Speaker 1: must be to Devin, Yeah to see okay. Hey man,

678
00:44:12,200 --> 00:44:14,359
Speaker 1: this is Chris a live above you. I ain't ever

679
00:44:14,440 --> 00:44:17,279
Speaker 1: met you before, but you you you have. You've been

680
00:44:17,440 --> 00:44:21,200
Speaker 1: calling the leasing office about complaining on me about I'm

681
00:44:21,239 --> 00:44:24,279
Speaker 1: making too much noise away. Yeah, man, I'm my bad, bro.

682
00:44:24,760 --> 00:44:26,839
Speaker 1: I was trying to catch you, man. I could never.

683
00:44:27,520 --> 00:44:29,520
Speaker 1: I could never catch you at home. Man. It's just

684
00:44:29,640 --> 00:44:32,000
Speaker 1: like you know, bro, I work at nice I work

685
00:44:32,080 --> 00:44:33,880
Speaker 1: at night. Yeah. Yeah, you're saying. I say I work

686
00:44:33,920 --> 00:44:36,319
Speaker 1: in a day, but I can't sleeping night brocking. I'm

687
00:44:36,360 --> 00:44:38,399
Speaker 1: I don't know what's going on your apartment. I'm saying,

688
00:44:38,400 --> 00:44:40,120
Speaker 1: I ain't trying to be in your business. I'm not

689
00:44:40,200 --> 00:44:42,239
Speaker 1: trying to be in your business. Player. I just can't

690
00:44:42,280 --> 00:44:44,000
Speaker 1: get a sleeping night, man, because it'd be a lot

691
00:44:44,080 --> 00:44:46,480
Speaker 1: of noise, a lot of noise, a lot of talking.

692
00:44:46,680 --> 00:44:50,520
Speaker 1: And what you do is your business. Bro. I'm just saying, pleased, man,

693
00:44:50,600 --> 00:44:52,680
Speaker 1: But you ain't have to go to the leasing office. Man,

694
00:44:52,800 --> 00:44:54,800
Speaker 1: all you had to do. You know what's hall at me?

695
00:44:54,960 --> 00:44:56,759
Speaker 1: You ain't the you know they got me written up,

696
00:44:56,840 --> 00:44:59,600
Speaker 1: like you know, one more complaint on me, they're gonna

697
00:44:59,640 --> 00:45:01,680
Speaker 1: put me out of something. Well, yeah, die. Like I said,

698
00:45:01,680 --> 00:45:03,600
Speaker 1: though I was trying to get I was trying to

699
00:45:03,680 --> 00:45:05,600
Speaker 1: find you. You know what I'm saying. But we I

700
00:45:05,680 --> 00:45:07,759
Speaker 1: guess we miss each other because you you work at night.

701
00:45:08,040 --> 00:45:10,200
Speaker 1: I work in the day. So you know when you're going,

702
00:45:10,280 --> 00:45:12,200
Speaker 1: I'm coming, and when I'm coming, you going. I'm saying,

703
00:45:12,840 --> 00:45:15,640
Speaker 1: Brian trying starting. I'm just trying to, you know, go

704
00:45:15,800 --> 00:45:18,160
Speaker 1: to work and pay my pay my bills. Man, it's time.

705
00:45:18,320 --> 00:45:20,279
Speaker 1: I'll be at work at night. Man. You know what

706
00:45:20,360 --> 00:45:22,000
Speaker 1: I'm saying, I'm trying to get my hustle on, like

707
00:45:22,040 --> 00:45:24,359
Speaker 1: you're trying to get yours on doing lalla hala hala

708
00:45:24,480 --> 00:45:26,960
Speaker 1: hala on. Okay, okay, let's make it my sense. Bro,

709
00:45:27,320 --> 00:45:30,320
Speaker 1: if you are working night, somebody in your somebody in

710
00:45:30,400 --> 00:45:34,440
Speaker 1: your apartment, howking loud in them keeping me up square bidding? Okay,

711
00:45:34,600 --> 00:45:38,080
Speaker 1: you've got a roommate us long, No, No, I ain't

712
00:45:38,080 --> 00:45:41,960
Speaker 1: got no roommate, man, Benny, somebody in the talking loud

713
00:45:42,160 --> 00:45:45,240
Speaker 1: holding a conversation. It's like two people in the talking

714
00:45:45,320 --> 00:45:49,840
Speaker 1: loud every night. That's Bro's Benny man Beatty be talking. Okay,

715
00:45:49,880 --> 00:45:51,480
Speaker 1: you say you ain't got a roommates? Now, who who

716
00:45:51,600 --> 00:45:54,640
Speaker 1: is Benny? Who is Benny? Benny is my bird? My parents?

717
00:45:55,239 --> 00:45:58,440
Speaker 1: Does Betty be talking? It's like, man, stop doing me

718
00:45:58,520 --> 00:46:01,959
Speaker 1: dive listen mine why why wait a minute, you're trying

719
00:46:01,960 --> 00:46:06,560
Speaker 1: to tell me um bird that was bearing. Man, I

720
00:46:06,600 --> 00:46:09,600
Speaker 1: don't have pity ten years that's my bird. Fires don't

721
00:46:09,640 --> 00:46:12,239
Speaker 1: even live that long. So so now I'm sucking night.

722
00:46:12,320 --> 00:46:15,080
Speaker 1: I'm at the work because because a bird, that's what

723
00:46:15,200 --> 00:46:17,600
Speaker 1: you want. That's what you called me to tell me.

724
00:46:18,680 --> 00:46:20,560
Speaker 1: Don't call you to tell you. You ain't gonna be

725
00:46:20,600 --> 00:46:23,759
Speaker 1: putting these complaints on me, man, But I'm I'm gone

726
00:46:23,800 --> 00:46:29,760
Speaker 1: and that's been in talking, man, I bit it in yo, Penny,

727
00:46:30,440 --> 00:46:32,759
Speaker 1: Wait a minute, hey, look, I'm telling you now do

728
00:46:32,960 --> 00:46:35,360
Speaker 1: something with the bird then, or that's gonna be some

729
00:46:35,480 --> 00:46:38,880
Speaker 1: consequestions and repercussions. I'm talking about some fried chicken round it,

730
00:46:39,239 --> 00:46:41,560
Speaker 1: and man, Penny is like a family member to me.

731
00:46:41,960 --> 00:46:45,959
Speaker 1: Birds too, can sam the chicken on the car flake box,

732
00:46:46,280 --> 00:46:50,359
Speaker 1: can tuck your chicken bride. Hey, man, you don't tell

733
00:46:50,440 --> 00:46:52,840
Speaker 1: me nothing better about my bird? Okay, brother, you know what,

734
00:46:53,239 --> 00:46:55,080
Speaker 1: Maybe me and you need to square off from front

735
00:46:55,080 --> 00:46:57,560
Speaker 1: of each other because you don't you don't disrespect betty man?

736
00:46:58,200 --> 00:47:01,600
Speaker 1: All right, all right? An taking something? All right? All right?

737
00:47:01,760 --> 00:47:04,399
Speaker 1: I bet that be on my table when I get home.

738
00:47:04,560 --> 00:47:07,840
Speaker 1: If it's a bird, then I bet that beyall my

739
00:47:08,400 --> 00:47:10,600
Speaker 1: try the table, man, a man, They ain't gonna sit

740
00:47:10,640 --> 00:47:12,480
Speaker 1: in disrespect me and try to tell me what you're

741
00:47:12,520 --> 00:47:14,320
Speaker 1: gonna do to my bird. But you ain't gonna do

742
00:47:14,400 --> 00:47:16,919
Speaker 1: nothing stupid to better tell you what I tell you? What? See,

743
00:47:16,920 --> 00:47:18,759
Speaker 1: you can date you at home right now? What you

744
00:47:18,880 --> 00:47:20,640
Speaker 1: got to work tonight? I bet you get it. I'll

745
00:47:20,680 --> 00:47:23,399
Speaker 1: bet that tomorrow I bet you we'll be fingering liking

746
00:47:23,480 --> 00:47:26,120
Speaker 1: good tomorrow man, ain't. Man, Hold on a minute, man,

747
00:47:26,400 --> 00:47:28,839
Speaker 1: wait a minute, though, what you played do and start

748
00:47:28,920 --> 00:47:30,920
Speaker 1: talking about what you're gonna do to my bird? Not

749
00:47:31,120 --> 00:47:33,960
Speaker 1: and told you you file for going to the listening

750
00:47:34,000 --> 00:47:36,160
Speaker 1: office calling me y'all and now you're on the phone.

751
00:47:36,200 --> 00:47:38,120
Speaker 1: I'm trying to work this out with you, and now

752
00:47:38,200 --> 00:47:40,200
Speaker 1: you ain't trying to work right now. First stop you

753
00:47:40,760 --> 00:47:43,640
Speaker 1: you called me and tell me that it's a bird

754
00:47:44,040 --> 00:47:48,560
Speaker 1: holding a conversation with itself. I'm I'm a stupid right now.

755
00:47:49,040 --> 00:47:53,800
Speaker 1: I'm I'm a stupid even continue this conversation excuse with me?

756
00:47:53,880 --> 00:47:56,320
Speaker 1: I fly to night? Are you serious? Man? Man you

757
00:47:56,360 --> 00:47:59,959
Speaker 1: do some areas or something like? Man, listen, bro listen,

758
00:48:00,239 --> 00:48:03,320
Speaker 1: whatever it is, this is a bird or recording whatever

759
00:48:03,400 --> 00:48:06,160
Speaker 1: if you gotta do, stop to waiting. Its an bird, man,

760
00:48:06,200 --> 00:48:08,399
Speaker 1: I'm gonna be solid softed if this is a bird.

761
00:48:08,480 --> 00:48:12,600
Speaker 1: I'm really it's a bird. It's spinning, man, it's spinning you.

762
00:48:12,719 --> 00:48:14,279
Speaker 1: All you got to do is come to me and

763
00:48:14,360 --> 00:48:17,720
Speaker 1: we could have had a little like me. Hola, hola, hola. Okay, okay, okay,

764
00:48:17,880 --> 00:48:19,759
Speaker 1: we're gonna have it like me. And then, first off,

765
00:48:20,040 --> 00:48:22,200
Speaker 1: leasing office wouldn't give me a name. What's your name

766
00:48:22,440 --> 00:48:25,480
Speaker 1: my name Chris. Okay, Chris, I'm different. There we go,

767
00:48:25,840 --> 00:48:29,320
Speaker 1: there we go. Listen, doal I ain't for the past

768
00:48:29,480 --> 00:48:31,600
Speaker 1: three months, you know what I'm saying. I ain't really

769
00:48:31,640 --> 00:48:35,520
Speaker 1: been getting no sleep because of this bird. You say

770
00:48:35,520 --> 00:48:38,720
Speaker 1: it's a bird. I don't believe that. But a bird

771
00:48:38,920 --> 00:48:44,640
Speaker 1: like a bird. Come on, dog, that's birds for two years.

772
00:48:44,840 --> 00:48:47,719
Speaker 1: We'll take to work with you is I don't care.

773
00:48:47,920 --> 00:48:50,759
Speaker 1: Figure something out, but whatever going on up there with

774
00:48:50,920 --> 00:48:53,560
Speaker 1: you and your bird needs to come to an immediate

775
00:48:53,680 --> 00:48:56,680
Speaker 1: house or it's gonna be something. Hey man, hey man,

776
00:48:56,880 --> 00:48:58,799
Speaker 1: what you can't do is threatened me by what's going

777
00:48:58,880 --> 00:49:01,480
Speaker 1: on in my house. Home man, look kill you ain't

778
00:49:01,520 --> 00:49:04,680
Speaker 1: been it's being in minny whatever the nine meals. You

779
00:49:04,840 --> 00:49:07,560
Speaker 1: need to do something with that. It's gonna be some reader.

780
00:49:07,640 --> 00:49:09,440
Speaker 1: It shows like why am I going back and forth

781
00:49:09,480 --> 00:49:11,919
Speaker 1: with you about this? You keep telling me something about

782
00:49:11,960 --> 00:49:14,160
Speaker 1: a virus. It's a bird. What's the problem with it?

783
00:49:14,400 --> 00:49:17,000
Speaker 1: What's the problem? I understanding that people have pet birds?

784
00:49:17,200 --> 00:49:19,160
Speaker 1: Say man, I don't give them if you have a

785
00:49:19,320 --> 00:49:23,040
Speaker 1: pet bird, But really, this how all night long? How

786
00:49:23,120 --> 00:49:25,120
Speaker 1: do you? How do you? How do you live with this? Then?

787
00:49:25,280 --> 00:49:28,160
Speaker 1: Come Y'll never shut up, I'll tell you what. I'll

788
00:49:28,200 --> 00:49:30,040
Speaker 1: tell you what Benny told me to tell you, though,

789
00:49:30,320 --> 00:49:32,319
Speaker 1: God'll tell you what Benny told Wait wait wait wait

790
00:49:32,400 --> 00:49:34,960
Speaker 1: wait wait wait wait wait wait wait wait waite. Chris

791
00:49:35,120 --> 00:49:37,360
Speaker 1: White White Brother, I don't want to hear what no

792
00:49:37,960 --> 00:49:42,160
Speaker 1: bird told you to tell me? Can I tell you

793
00:49:42,280 --> 00:49:44,560
Speaker 1: what Benny told me to tell you? What? What? What?

794
00:49:44,719 --> 00:49:48,000
Speaker 1: The Benny told me to tell you? This? That? This

795
00:49:48,640 --> 00:49:52,360
Speaker 1: is nephew Timmy from the Steve Harvey Martin Show. You

796
00:49:52,520 --> 00:50:06,359
Speaker 1: took God pranked by your boys, Sean these things? Did

797
00:50:06,400 --> 00:50:09,040
Speaker 1: I get your? Man? Got me? You got it man,

798
00:50:09,160 --> 00:50:10,920
Speaker 1: that guy, I'm gonna get it. I'm gonna get it.

799
00:50:13,280 --> 00:50:14,960
Speaker 1: I'm gonna I'm gonna have to wait to this dude,

800
00:50:15,040 --> 00:50:17,279
Speaker 1: get armed out and talk to him. I don't talk

801
00:50:17,320 --> 00:50:21,320
Speaker 1: to much shot about some posing bird. I don't know

802
00:50:21,440 --> 00:50:24,239
Speaker 1: what's or staff man. I may even do go. I'll

803
00:50:24,280 --> 00:50:27,440
Speaker 1: be up our night and I'm saying I'm missing, I'm

804
00:50:27,480 --> 00:50:30,160
Speaker 1: missing my sleep, I'm missing now. I'm saying I'm missing

805
00:50:30,239 --> 00:50:32,840
Speaker 1: y'all in the morning because I'm broadly hitting the flues.

806
00:50:32,920 --> 00:50:35,200
Speaker 1: But I got one more thing to ask you. What

807
00:50:35,600 --> 00:50:37,840
Speaker 1: is what is the baddest I'm talking about the baddest

808
00:50:37,920 --> 00:50:41,239
Speaker 1: radio show in the land, man Steve Harden More in

809
00:50:41,280 --> 00:50:45,839
Speaker 1: the shot we never something. You know. Your roommate does

810
00:50:45,920 --> 00:50:47,520
Speaker 1: not have to be a human dude. You know that

811
00:50:47,640 --> 00:50:50,360
Speaker 1: though there's some people with the other kind of roommates,

812
00:50:53,719 --> 00:50:57,719
Speaker 1: there's people with ostriches in the house. I got a pair.

813
00:50:57,840 --> 00:51:01,680
Speaker 1: That's my roommate, Benny, Benny, All right, we gotta get

814
00:51:01,680 --> 00:51:04,120
Speaker 1: out of here. Thank you, nephew. Coming up next, it

815
00:51:04,280 --> 00:51:08,239
Speaker 1: is the Strawberry Letters, subject when role playing goes too Far.

816
00:51:08,560 --> 00:51:11,480
Speaker 1: We'll get into it right after this. You're listening to

817
00:51:11,719 --> 00:51:16,759
Speaker 1: the morning show. It is time now for today's Strawberry Letter.

818
00:51:16,800 --> 00:51:20,640
Speaker 1: And if you need advice and relationships on dating, work, sex, parenting,

819
00:51:20,680 --> 00:51:24,080
Speaker 1: and more, please submit your Strawberry Letter to Steve Harvey

820
00:51:24,200 --> 00:51:27,839
Speaker 1: FM and click submit Strawberry Letter. We could be reading

821
00:51:27,880 --> 00:51:29,839
Speaker 1: your letter live on the air, just like we're reading

822
00:51:29,920 --> 00:51:32,719
Speaker 1: this one today. And I guarantee you we haven't had

823
00:51:32,800 --> 00:51:37,960
Speaker 1: one like this up. Hold on tight, we got it

824
00:51:38,040 --> 00:51:40,759
Speaker 1: for you here. It is the Strawberry Letter, all right,

825
00:51:40,840 --> 00:51:45,640
Speaker 1: subject when role playing goes too far. Dear Stephen Shirley.

826
00:51:45,760 --> 00:51:48,360
Speaker 1: I am in my early twenties and I'm dating a

827
00:51:48,440 --> 00:51:51,800
Speaker 1: guy that I've known since high school. He was my

828
00:51:52,000 --> 00:51:55,359
Speaker 1: high school crush and I always dreamed of being his girl.

829
00:51:55,800 --> 00:51:58,759
Speaker 1: He had a longtime girlfriend and they broke up last year,

830
00:51:59,200 --> 00:52:02,000
Speaker 1: so I may the first move to see if he

831
00:52:02,160 --> 00:52:05,440
Speaker 1: was interested. He was, and we've been dating for five

832
00:52:05,560 --> 00:52:08,719
Speaker 1: months now. He is a good boyfriend and the sex

833
00:52:08,920 --> 00:52:11,680
Speaker 1: was as good as I thought it would be. Everything

834
00:52:11,719 --> 00:52:15,880
Speaker 1: about him was pretty normal until recently when I noticed

835
00:52:15,920 --> 00:52:19,280
Speaker 1: he had a couple of furry animal costumes in his closet.

836
00:52:19,880 --> 00:52:23,000
Speaker 1: We were lying in his bed talking and I noticed them,

837
00:52:23,120 --> 00:52:28,200
Speaker 1: so I jokingly asked if they were some old Halloween costumes.

838
00:52:28,480 --> 00:52:30,919
Speaker 1: He said no and jumped out of bed to show

839
00:52:30,960 --> 00:52:34,120
Speaker 1: the costumes to me. He said that the dog costume

840
00:52:34,320 --> 00:52:37,520
Speaker 1: was his favorite and he loves to wear it during sex.

841
00:52:38,200 --> 00:52:40,640
Speaker 1: Then he asked me if he could try it out

842
00:52:40,840 --> 00:52:43,440
Speaker 1: on me. I was so turned off when he put

843
00:52:43,520 --> 00:52:45,920
Speaker 1: the dog costume on, but I didn't want to let

844
00:52:46,040 --> 00:52:49,160
Speaker 1: him know right then. I went along with it, and

845
00:52:49,280 --> 00:52:53,319
Speaker 1: it was by far the weirdest thing I have ever done,

846
00:52:53,640 --> 00:52:56,280
Speaker 1: and I was just glad that he did not start

847
00:52:56,440 --> 00:53:01,960
Speaker 1: barking hot during while you were doing it. Afterwards, it

848
00:53:02,160 --> 00:53:05,279
Speaker 1: was very awkward, so I just turned over and went

849
00:53:05,360 --> 00:53:08,160
Speaker 1: to sleep. That was a few nights ago, and we

850
00:53:08,280 --> 00:53:12,200
Speaker 1: have not discussed this incident at all. I do like him,

851
00:53:12,320 --> 00:53:15,680
Speaker 1: but this has shattered the dreamy image I've had of

852
00:53:15,800 --> 00:53:18,919
Speaker 1: him for all these years. I'm not into this kind

853
00:53:19,000 --> 00:53:22,480
Speaker 1: of weird, kinky thing, and I'm afraid he might want

854
00:53:22,520 --> 00:53:25,319
Speaker 1: me to wear the costumes, wear costume to bed too.

855
00:53:26,640 --> 00:53:28,400
Speaker 1: I want to ask him if he plans to keep

856
00:53:28,480 --> 00:53:31,960
Speaker 1: putting on costumes for sex, or or if it was

857
00:53:32,080 --> 00:53:34,640
Speaker 1: just a one time thing to see if I'd like it,

858
00:53:35,080 --> 00:53:37,800
Speaker 1: or should I just leave him now and find a

859
00:53:37,920 --> 00:53:42,920
Speaker 1: man that's not crazy? Please help. I told you we've

860
00:53:43,000 --> 00:53:46,760
Speaker 1: never had a letter like this, Okay, I gotta tell you, guys,

861
00:53:47,000 --> 00:53:49,320
Speaker 1: this is kind of a thing. This is kind of

862
00:53:49,360 --> 00:53:53,920
Speaker 1: a thing, the whole furry costume thing. You know, the

863
00:53:54,040 --> 00:53:58,600
Speaker 1: thing where where in certain circles in they're called furries

864
00:53:58,640 --> 00:54:02,920
Speaker 1: and furry circles they have like first, Yeah, it's not

865
00:54:03,080 --> 00:54:04,879
Speaker 1: I didn't say it was a black thing. I didn't

866
00:54:04,920 --> 00:54:10,680
Speaker 1: say that. They have furry conventions, they have furry parties,

867
00:54:10,840 --> 00:54:12,759
Speaker 1: all of this kind of stuff. You've been to some

868
00:54:12,800 --> 00:54:16,960
Speaker 1: of these parts. No, I'm not into this. Yeah, I've

869
00:54:17,040 --> 00:54:19,680
Speaker 1: heard about things like this. I just have I don't

870
00:54:19,680 --> 00:54:23,680
Speaker 1: know on YouTube. You heard about it on YouTube. I've

871
00:54:23,719 --> 00:54:27,640
Speaker 1: heard about this sure, and you'll just at no, no, no,

872
00:54:28,160 --> 00:54:32,520
Speaker 1: you type that in, Yeah, you got it in because

873
00:54:32,560 --> 00:54:35,160
Speaker 1: I've heard about him before. Yeah. Well, yeah, we'll send it.

874
00:54:35,280 --> 00:54:37,600
Speaker 1: I'm gonna let you see it right now. It's called fury,

875
00:54:37,640 --> 00:54:41,680
Speaker 1: they're called furries. But I just can't help to laugh

876
00:54:41,719 --> 00:54:44,520
Speaker 1: at it. Help but laugh at this because the visual

877
00:54:44,640 --> 00:54:48,640
Speaker 1: of him barking and a dog costume is just funny.

878
00:54:48,719 --> 00:54:51,200
Speaker 1: I'm sorry, it's just funny. I'm not a furry. I

879
00:54:51,239 --> 00:54:53,520
Speaker 1: don't think anyone on the show is a furry. But

880
00:54:53,960 --> 00:54:58,400
Speaker 1: it seems strange, but I don't know. Otherwise, pretty harmless, right,

881
00:54:58,480 --> 00:55:02,160
Speaker 1: That's all he does is put on the has during

882
00:55:03,120 --> 00:55:06,120
Speaker 1: I don't know. It is weird, but I mean, he's

883
00:55:06,200 --> 00:55:09,719
Speaker 1: not harming you or any in any way, or harming himself. Uh.

884
00:55:09,920 --> 00:55:13,480
Speaker 1: He just he just seems to be a guy who

885
00:55:13,719 --> 00:55:17,080
Speaker 1: enjoys furry costumes. I'm not judging at all. I don't

886
00:55:17,120 --> 00:55:21,120
Speaker 1: know this. It's crazy to me, but that's all he did.

887
00:55:21,239 --> 00:55:23,120
Speaker 1: You guys haven't talked about it. You do have to

888
00:55:23,160 --> 00:55:25,640
Speaker 1: talk about this at some point, and maybe he'll open

889
00:55:25,760 --> 00:55:28,040
Speaker 1: up to you. I don't know, but if you don't

890
00:55:28,120 --> 00:55:30,520
Speaker 1: like it, it's okay not to like it. If you're

891
00:55:30,560 --> 00:55:32,879
Speaker 1: not comfortable, you have to let him know that too.

892
00:55:33,080 --> 00:55:36,120
Speaker 1: You'd rather not, you know, do do this. You guys

893
00:55:36,160 --> 00:55:40,040
Speaker 1: have only been together for five months, so I mean,

894
00:55:40,320 --> 00:55:45,600
Speaker 1: you know, hey, if you don't like it, if you

895
00:55:45,719 --> 00:55:48,680
Speaker 1: don't like it, tell him and move on. If you're

896
00:55:48,719 --> 00:55:50,920
Speaker 1: not interested in this, it was he was okay up

897
00:55:51,000 --> 00:55:52,960
Speaker 1: until this point. And if it's a thing with you,

898
00:55:53,160 --> 00:55:55,480
Speaker 1: it's a thing, it's okay to let him know that

899
00:55:55,560 --> 00:56:01,960
Speaker 1: you don't like it. This hill. Let somebody send me

900
00:56:02,080 --> 00:56:05,680
Speaker 1: some pictures of fairies. I got that. Yeah, I'm not

901
00:56:06,280 --> 00:56:09,600
Speaker 1: let me google this first. Girls in her early twenties.

902
00:56:10,520 --> 00:56:14,799
Speaker 1: This is I needn't introduced this into your sex life

903
00:56:14,800 --> 00:56:17,640
Speaker 1: when you're in your late FARTI or something. You don't

904
00:56:17,680 --> 00:56:21,800
Speaker 1: start this in your twenties. I mean where we're going up. First,

905
00:56:21,840 --> 00:56:24,279
Speaker 1: we got dog costumes inn where we're gonna in. We're

906
00:56:24,280 --> 00:56:26,160
Speaker 1: gonna end up with a dog in the room at

907
00:56:26,200 --> 00:56:29,360
Speaker 1: the wire, a real damn dog. Because this type of

908
00:56:29,400 --> 00:56:32,359
Speaker 1: stuff has to graduate. You know. It's like drugs. If

909
00:56:32,440 --> 00:56:36,799
Speaker 1: you take enough astra over and over and over, you're

910
00:56:36,840 --> 00:56:39,160
Speaker 1: gonna need more than two to get rid of your headache,

911
00:56:39,320 --> 00:56:41,279
Speaker 1: you gonna need more than eight out the wire. So

912
00:56:41,400 --> 00:56:44,800
Speaker 1: if you start with these costumes, where we going with

913
00:56:45,000 --> 00:56:47,920
Speaker 1: this now? As we're really gonna be outside killing deal,

914
00:56:48,040 --> 00:56:51,800
Speaker 1: wrapping up in real deerskin? Where we're going high school? Sweetheart?

915
00:56:51,840 --> 00:56:54,399
Speaker 1: She had a crush on this man. He was dating

916
00:56:54,440 --> 00:56:57,080
Speaker 1: this girl. They broke up. She wanted to see if

917
00:56:57,120 --> 00:57:00,120
Speaker 1: he was interested. They was. He's a good boyfriend. The

918
00:57:00,200 --> 00:57:02,800
Speaker 1: sex was as good as I thought it was. It

919
00:57:02,960 --> 00:57:06,719
Speaker 1: reminds me of a song. Why must I feel like that?

920
00:57:07,120 --> 00:57:11,760
Speaker 1: Why must I chase the cat? Nothing but the dog

921
00:57:12,400 --> 00:57:18,120
Speaker 1: in me? This is a story about the dog, famous dog,

922
00:57:19,640 --> 00:57:26,480
Speaker 1: rhythmic dog, Tommy Dog. Anyway, when you notice a couple

923
00:57:26,520 --> 00:57:31,400
Speaker 1: of fair animal costumes in his clothes, now see this

924
00:57:31,600 --> 00:57:33,960
Speaker 1: ain't no one time stop because he got more than

925
00:57:34,040 --> 00:57:38,040
Speaker 1: one suit hanging in there. He got a few, and

926
00:57:38,200 --> 00:57:43,120
Speaker 1: there ain't costumes. There is out fits. You jokingly asked

927
00:57:43,120 --> 00:57:46,240
Speaker 1: if there was some old Halloween costume. Hell now, the

928
00:57:46,280 --> 00:57:49,880
Speaker 1: ain't Halloween. Jumped out of bed, show you the costume,

929
00:57:50,800 --> 00:57:53,280
Speaker 1: said the dog costumes and favor he loved a wad

930
00:57:53,440 --> 00:57:55,680
Speaker 1: doing sex. You should have got your ass about the

931
00:57:55,800 --> 00:57:59,360
Speaker 1: bed right there. Put your damn clothes home and took

932
00:57:59,400 --> 00:58:02,520
Speaker 1: your ass. All right, listen, We'll have part two of

933
00:58:02,600 --> 00:58:05,800
Speaker 1: Steve's response coming up at twenty three after the hour.

934
00:58:06,720 --> 00:58:12,840
Speaker 1: Right after this. You're listening, all right, Let's recap today's

935
00:58:12,840 --> 00:58:17,960
Speaker 1: Strubb recap. Crazy Fool lay in the twenties and messed around,

936
00:58:18,320 --> 00:58:21,840
Speaker 1: had sexual this boy. Everything was pretty normal too. Recently,

937
00:58:22,200 --> 00:58:25,240
Speaker 1: I noticed he has a couple of fairy animal costumes

938
00:58:25,280 --> 00:58:27,760
Speaker 1: in the closet we end up in here laying in

939
00:58:27,880 --> 00:58:31,320
Speaker 1: bed one night talking laughing, and I noticed, and I

940
00:58:31,480 --> 00:58:34,920
Speaker 1: jokingly said, today, was you know the mold Halloween costume?

941
00:58:35,200 --> 00:58:37,520
Speaker 1: He said, hell no, jumped out of bed and showed

942
00:58:37,560 --> 00:58:40,360
Speaker 1: him to me. He said that the dog costume was

943
00:58:40,440 --> 00:58:44,320
Speaker 1: his favorite and he loves it wearing doing sex. Then

944
00:58:44,400 --> 00:58:46,560
Speaker 1: he asked me if he could try it out on me.

945
00:58:47,560 --> 00:58:50,520
Speaker 1: I was so turned off when he put that dog

946
00:58:50,640 --> 00:58:53,560
Speaker 1: costume on, but I didn't want to let him know

947
00:58:53,720 --> 00:58:56,280
Speaker 1: right then, so I went along with it. So you

948
00:58:56,480 --> 00:59:01,640
Speaker 1: had something with the dog outfit on. I went along

949
00:59:01,760 --> 00:59:03,960
Speaker 1: with it and was by far the weirdest thing I've

950
00:59:04,040 --> 00:59:07,000
Speaker 1: ever done, and I was glad that he did not

951
00:59:07,160 --> 00:59:11,160
Speaker 1: start barking while we was doing it. Afterwards, It was

952
00:59:11,360 --> 00:59:13,640
Speaker 1: very awkward, so I turned over and went to sleep.

953
00:59:13,960 --> 00:59:15,920
Speaker 1: That was a few nights ago, and we ain't disgusted

954
00:59:16,080 --> 00:59:19,000
Speaker 1: at all. I do like him, but this is shattered

955
00:59:19,080 --> 00:59:21,880
Speaker 1: the dreamy energe I had in him for all these years.

956
00:59:21,880 --> 00:59:26,120
Speaker 1: You didn't know what he was. Girl, he got way more.

957
00:59:26,200 --> 00:59:31,640
Speaker 1: There a dog suiting there, a monkey suiting there. Yeah,

958
00:59:31,640 --> 00:59:33,520
Speaker 1: he gonna come out there. He gonna be caeesared from

959
00:59:33,560 --> 00:59:39,240
Speaker 1: planet at the age tomorrow next week. Then he gonna

960
00:59:39,280 --> 00:59:42,680
Speaker 1: be king Coom. Yeah, they ain't gonna come out then.

961
00:59:42,720 --> 00:59:44,360
Speaker 1: You really are gonna like when he when he come

962
00:59:44,400 --> 00:59:48,640
Speaker 1: out there with the big ass shoes on, he goofy. Yeah,

963
00:59:48,640 --> 00:59:51,520
Speaker 1: you're not understanding he got he got feathery too. He

964
00:59:51,800 --> 00:59:54,360
Speaker 1: gonna be Donald Dug one day. I don't know what

965
00:59:54,480 --> 00:59:56,640
Speaker 1: to say to this side. This letter to me is ridiculous.

966
00:59:57,280 --> 01:00:00,720
Speaker 1: I think it's crazy. I don't have no suggestions. If

967
01:00:00,760 --> 01:00:02,680
Speaker 1: you go to a party, how do you know who

968
01:00:02,880 --> 01:00:06,480
Speaker 1: under that? You just it's not good. You ain't supposed

969
01:00:06,480 --> 01:00:09,920
Speaker 1: to be attracted a person attracted the fur right. But

970
01:00:10,120 --> 01:00:12,800
Speaker 1: you know what, I just think if she should use

971
01:00:12,880 --> 01:00:15,040
Speaker 1: her voice. If you're not into this and that's not

972
01:00:15,160 --> 01:00:19,400
Speaker 1: the guy for you, just you know, get out into

973
01:00:19,600 --> 01:00:25,480
Speaker 1: stuff for you. Right. He liked to wear suits. I see,

974
01:00:25,520 --> 01:00:28,920
Speaker 1: I'm a neck it man myself. I've done some of

975
01:00:29,000 --> 01:00:33,400
Speaker 1: my greatest moments have been naked. Nothing, Ben, I don't

976
01:00:33,440 --> 01:00:36,880
Speaker 1: even want to sock on go that's too much. I

977
01:00:37,040 --> 01:00:39,880
Speaker 1: stick my toe down there on the on the inside

978
01:00:39,920 --> 01:00:42,200
Speaker 1: of my ankle to what that little creasy is why

979
01:00:42,240 --> 01:00:46,280
Speaker 1: I can get that other damn soccer. I can't be

980
01:00:46,360 --> 01:00:48,120
Speaker 1: in there. I don't want nothing in the where I

981
01:00:48,200 --> 01:00:55,760
Speaker 1: need my toes, right, yea, no, because I need my toes.

982
01:00:55,840 --> 01:00:58,720
Speaker 1: My toes grabbed the sheet, I get a little bit more,

983
01:00:58,800 --> 01:01:02,040
Speaker 1: pushed one of my toes out. But it's dark and

984
01:01:02,160 --> 01:01:05,560
Speaker 1: here long and somebody coming here with this suito mark,

985
01:01:05,760 --> 01:01:08,240
Speaker 1: what happened? Now? Well, someone are gonna get the ad

986
01:01:09,960 --> 01:01:12,240
Speaker 1: because I don't know who he is, and I don't

987
01:01:12,240 --> 01:01:14,560
Speaker 1: know who ire him. And I just said I do

988
01:01:14,680 --> 01:01:18,200
Speaker 1: my work naked. Now I see this first suit in him,

989
01:01:18,560 --> 01:01:20,680
Speaker 1: I'll probably run out that damn window because I'm gonna

990
01:01:20,680 --> 01:01:24,960
Speaker 1: thank you something. Trying to eat out here now bigfoot

991
01:01:25,040 --> 01:01:30,200
Speaker 1: in hill. Yeah, I can't do no, it's hard. I

992
01:01:30,240 --> 01:01:34,439
Speaker 1: don't even like this letter. And shure he's like leave him. Yeah,

993
01:01:34,520 --> 01:01:36,680
Speaker 1: if you're not into it, just yeah, you don't have

994
01:01:36,760 --> 01:01:39,880
Speaker 1: to stay around, stick around. Yeah, you don't have to

995
01:01:39,960 --> 01:01:42,520
Speaker 1: do that. Use your voice. Yeah. And if you don't

996
01:01:42,600 --> 01:01:44,760
Speaker 1: like the suits, he gonna go find somebody who do.

997
01:01:44,960 --> 01:01:47,400
Speaker 1: Even if y'all get together. Yeah, And it's a show

998
01:01:47,480 --> 01:01:50,400
Speaker 1: on Vice lamb about the people to get get this.

999
01:01:50,560 --> 01:01:55,720
Speaker 1: Got fetishes like that, and fetishes is real. Ain't you're

1000
01:01:55,720 --> 01:01:58,640
Speaker 1: spitting fur out three foot later? Ain't you steady spitting

1001
01:01:58,680 --> 01:02:01,880
Speaker 1: all that out here? But it is a show guys

1002
01:02:02,120 --> 01:02:06,960
Speaker 1: on Viceland called furries fandom, not fetish. Yeah, surely you

1003
01:02:07,040 --> 01:02:12,480
Speaker 1: saw that. Yeah, it ain't nobody from the Washington they doing.

1004
01:02:13,800 --> 01:02:15,680
Speaker 1: I knew I had seen it somewhere. I didn't. I

1005
01:02:15,680 --> 01:02:17,840
Speaker 1: haven't seen the show, but I knew I saw something

1006
01:02:17,880 --> 01:02:24,400
Speaker 1: about furry doing a whole thing. But I don't know.

1007
01:02:25,160 --> 01:02:30,840
Speaker 1: I'm on Viceland, TV Land and no other day, I

1008
01:02:30,880 --> 01:02:35,000
Speaker 1: don't give waters. They dress like jaguars and shark. I

1009
01:02:35,000 --> 01:02:37,600
Speaker 1: wouldn't even wear a movie you was telling me about

1010
01:02:37,640 --> 01:02:41,240
Speaker 1: the other day, Shirley, which one what's the name of

1011
01:02:41,280 --> 01:02:47,960
Speaker 1: that movie? With a man slept with everybody that it's

1012
01:02:48,040 --> 01:02:51,320
Speaker 1: serious that I don't get it may be serious, but

1013
01:02:51,920 --> 01:02:54,160
Speaker 1: I don't see how it happened. Well, he slept with

1014
01:02:54,280 --> 01:02:58,320
Speaker 1: a little girl. It's called mother and the father. Ye,

1015
01:02:58,960 --> 01:03:02,200
Speaker 1: it's called abducted in plain sight, and uh it's a

1016
01:03:02,280 --> 01:03:07,240
Speaker 1: true story. And he was get your ass to This

1017
01:03:07,400 --> 01:03:12,920
Speaker 1: guy was a master of manipulator. I'm just telling you

1018
01:03:13,000 --> 01:03:15,840
Speaker 1: how he did it to that family. It's no way,

1019
01:03:17,600 --> 01:03:22,720
Speaker 1: not really, I don't understand. Back to the okay, yeah, yeah, letter,

1020
01:03:24,280 --> 01:03:26,720
Speaker 1: nobody's stating this little boy with this damn monkey suit

1021
01:03:26,800 --> 01:03:31,760
Speaker 1: on the dog suit, dog suit, monkey suit, cheetah suit.

1022
01:03:31,840 --> 01:03:33,960
Speaker 1: What do you want? You can't come in the bedroom

1023
01:03:34,000 --> 01:03:36,240
Speaker 1: with a damn football suit on't for me? Let long

1024
01:03:36,400 --> 01:03:40,840
Speaker 1: damn monkey suit. Yeah, yeah, she doesn't like it. Yeah.

1025
01:03:41,360 --> 01:03:45,400
Speaker 1: The other costume in there was your simity Sam that

1026
01:03:46,600 --> 01:03:50,120
Speaker 1: they just fury. Yeah, he got all that must so

1027
01:03:50,240 --> 01:03:54,920
Speaker 1: it's called yeah furries. Can't you're talking about boys? Man,

1028
01:03:55,040 --> 01:03:59,520
Speaker 1: tit tried to push upon me. You getting ug to

1029
01:03:59,600 --> 01:04:02,800
Speaker 1: play this man? Say, man, who are you seeing now?

1030
01:04:05,040 --> 01:04:08,760
Speaker 1: Can't say none of it's done. Got a little road

1031
01:04:08,840 --> 01:04:12,400
Speaker 1: run in my life. This was a different kind at

1032
01:04:12,440 --> 01:04:18,320
Speaker 1: the party last night. Yeah, who just get it's funny?

1033
01:04:20,320 --> 01:04:23,240
Speaker 1: All right? Listen, you can email us your Instagram as

1034
01:04:23,320 --> 01:04:26,200
Speaker 1: your thoughts on today's Strawberry Letter at Steve Harvey FM.

1035
01:04:26,920 --> 01:04:32,760
Speaker 1: You're listening all right, So Steve, we had a question

1036
01:04:32,960 --> 01:04:35,520
Speaker 1: for the clo. Actually, it's from a twenty three year

1037
01:04:35,520 --> 01:04:39,400
Speaker 1: old woman. Her name is Linthia from Chicago. She's a virgin.

1038
01:04:40,080 --> 01:04:43,560
Speaker 1: She said she's had the absolute worst experiences with dating.

1039
01:04:44,000 --> 01:04:47,080
Speaker 1: When the topic of sex comes up, the guys usually run.

1040
01:04:48,680 --> 01:04:51,120
Speaker 1: Her most recent experience was with a guy that she

1041
01:04:51,240 --> 01:04:54,040
Speaker 1: had been dating for three months. They had the sex talk,

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01:04:54,320 --> 01:04:56,720
Speaker 1: but he didn't pressure her about it, so she didn't

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01:04:56,760 --> 01:04:59,240
Speaker 1: tell him that she was a virgin until the very

1044
01:04:59,360 --> 01:05:02,600
Speaker 1: last minute when they were about to do the deed.

1045
01:05:03,040 --> 01:05:06,280
Speaker 1: She says, I told him it was my first time,

1046
01:05:06,400 --> 01:05:09,280
Speaker 1: and he laughed hysterically at me, and he didn't believe

1047
01:05:09,320 --> 01:05:11,960
Speaker 1: me because I was acting so dominant the whole time.

1048
01:05:12,600 --> 01:05:15,320
Speaker 1: He told me that he didn't want a girl that

1049
01:05:15,440 --> 01:05:17,720
Speaker 1: didn't know what she was doing. She says, I was

1050
01:05:17,800 --> 01:05:21,000
Speaker 1: ashamed and I left his house and he hasn't called

1051
01:05:21,040 --> 01:05:24,320
Speaker 1: me since. I don't want to be a virgin anymore.

1052
01:05:24,600 --> 01:05:26,760
Speaker 1: But why is it so hard to find a good

1053
01:05:26,840 --> 01:05:29,880
Speaker 1: guy to help me out? Well, you know, it's the

1054
01:05:30,040 --> 01:05:34,240
Speaker 1: same problem that every woman has in finding a great guy.

1055
01:05:34,960 --> 01:05:37,760
Speaker 1: That's the number one thing with most women who don't

1056
01:05:37,800 --> 01:05:42,400
Speaker 1: have anybody, it's finding a great guy. You'll have a

1057
01:05:42,640 --> 01:05:46,240
Speaker 1: guy that'll that'll be the right guy for you, that'll

1058
01:05:46,280 --> 01:05:49,560
Speaker 1: be patient with you, take his time with you, be understanding,

1059
01:05:49,920 --> 01:05:53,280
Speaker 1: and want you all they want. You just haven't met

1060
01:05:53,360 --> 01:05:56,440
Speaker 1: the guy yet. And if you keep having the same experiences,

1061
01:05:56,760 --> 01:05:59,560
Speaker 1: it could possibly be with the way you're breaking the

1062
01:05:59,680 --> 01:06:04,640
Speaker 1: news and how you're explaining the news, maybe your approach

1063
01:06:04,760 --> 01:06:08,680
Speaker 1: to expressing yourself is a little bit off. Because a

1064
01:06:08,880 --> 01:06:11,520
Speaker 1: dude that kicks you out because I want somebody know

1065
01:06:11,600 --> 01:06:14,640
Speaker 1: what he's doing. He just wants somebody. That's freaking that's

1066
01:06:14,640 --> 01:06:17,560
Speaker 1: all it was. And Steve the fact that she just

1067
01:06:17,800 --> 01:06:21,640
Speaker 1: doesn't want to be a virgin anymore, I mean right,

1068
01:06:23,560 --> 01:06:28,040
Speaker 1: I mean she's aggressive. Yeah, you know you're not. You

1069
01:06:28,120 --> 01:06:30,920
Speaker 1: don't want to be a virgin anymore. That's your decision.

1070
01:06:31,640 --> 01:06:34,400
Speaker 1: I can't not the one to tell you to hang

1071
01:06:34,480 --> 01:06:37,680
Speaker 1: on to your married because if you've made that your

1072
01:06:37,720 --> 01:06:40,240
Speaker 1: mind up, why why would I tell you anything else?

1073
01:06:40,360 --> 01:06:44,160
Speaker 1: You know, but you haven't found mister Wright, you're twenty

1074
01:06:44,240 --> 01:06:48,480
Speaker 1: three years old, You're still very young. Please take the

1075
01:06:48,600 --> 01:06:51,520
Speaker 1: pressure off yourself, because you got the rest of your

1076
01:06:51,600 --> 01:06:56,840
Speaker 1: life not to be a virgin. You ain't out of time, No, Tommy,

1077
01:06:56,960 --> 01:07:01,120
Speaker 1: anything you want to say? Oh no, no, no, no, sir, no,

1078
01:07:02,640 --> 01:07:06,160
Speaker 1: sirly why how are you answer for me? Sir? Yeah, sure,

1079
01:07:06,640 --> 01:07:09,080
Speaker 1: it's the best thing to do at this moment. Trust me.

1080
01:07:09,720 --> 01:07:16,920
Speaker 1: I'm sir, I'm smart. Stop and I know the question. Tommy.

1081
01:07:17,080 --> 01:07:20,880
Speaker 1: I don't think Shirley's gonna let you interject here. You

1082
01:07:20,960 --> 01:07:25,200
Speaker 1: don't realize how smart I am. That's exactly right, Eddy

1083
01:07:25,400 --> 01:07:30,800
Speaker 1: is right there, Okay, exactly right. All right. We'll be

1084
01:07:30,920 --> 01:07:32,720
Speaker 1: back at the top of the hour with more of

1085
01:07:32,800 --> 01:07:35,760
Speaker 1: the Steve Harvey Morning Show right after this. You're listening

1086
01:07:36,520 --> 01:07:41,680
Speaker 1: Steven Show. All right, Here we go with something funny.

1087
01:07:42,000 --> 01:07:45,560
Speaker 1: This is a story about marriage though um signs a

1088
01:07:45,680 --> 01:07:49,600
Speaker 1: marriage is doomed. According this is according now Jay to

1089
01:07:49,800 --> 01:07:54,640
Speaker 1: wedding photographers. Okay, there's no doubt wedding photographers have seen it,

1090
01:07:54,760 --> 01:08:02,439
Speaker 1: all right, We all hired wedding photographers. Was that the police? Yeah,

1091
01:08:02,760 --> 01:08:09,400
Speaker 1: you guys can't call the police. Sirens and stuff, all right. Anyway,

1092
01:08:09,480 --> 01:08:12,400
Speaker 1: wedding photographers have seen it all and since they spend

1093
01:08:12,480 --> 01:08:14,480
Speaker 1: a lot of time getting to know a couple before

1094
01:08:14,520 --> 01:08:17,000
Speaker 1: a big day. Many can see the signs of a

1095
01:08:17,080 --> 01:08:21,360
Speaker 1: doomed relationship even before the IDEs, even before they're even

1096
01:08:21,439 --> 01:08:24,720
Speaker 1: said okay. Wedding photographers have shared the red flags that

1097
01:08:24,880 --> 01:08:27,960
Speaker 1: tell them a couple maybe headed for divorce. Red flags

1098
01:08:28,000 --> 01:08:32,920
Speaker 1: include here we go, a partner who's completely uninterested in

1099
01:08:33,160 --> 01:08:38,519
Speaker 1: taking the pictures in the first place, could be already married.

1100
01:08:41,040 --> 01:08:44,880
Speaker 1: A couple who doesn't spend any time together at a reception.

1101
01:08:45,800 --> 01:08:50,679
Speaker 1: All right, that's another sigh. That's another relay when her family,

1102
01:08:50,840 --> 01:08:54,920
Speaker 1: he's with his family. You know how it goes. Yeah,

1103
01:08:55,520 --> 01:08:57,760
Speaker 1: here's another one. And couples who aren't on the same

1104
01:08:57,800 --> 01:09:01,960
Speaker 1: page over money. That definitely a red flag. Any relation

1105
01:09:02,040 --> 01:09:05,880
Speaker 1: that was James first, that first man. All right, here's

1106
01:09:05,880 --> 01:09:08,840
Speaker 1: another issue. If a couple has between a twenty and

1107
01:09:08,920 --> 01:09:13,000
Speaker 1: twenty five percent rejection rate plus in fighting amongst the

1108
01:09:13,120 --> 01:09:19,400
Speaker 1: wedding party. Wow, yeah, but other people said that he's

1109
01:09:19,439 --> 01:09:21,080
Speaker 1: not good for you and she's not good for you.

1110
01:09:22,400 --> 01:09:24,920
Speaker 1: Of your friends that you shouldn't beat up with that. Yeah,

1111
01:09:25,240 --> 01:09:28,519
Speaker 1: And a couple couple who makes, you know, like little tiny,

1112
01:09:28,640 --> 01:09:31,400
Speaker 1: little bitty subtle digs at each other throughout the wedding.

1113
01:09:31,560 --> 01:09:38,400
Speaker 1: Not that when we had stuff like that you're an

1114
01:09:38,479 --> 01:09:42,519
Speaker 1: expert at you get a fixed don't get that as

1115
01:09:43,520 --> 01:09:44,840
Speaker 1: I don't think you're gonna be to get in that

1116
01:09:45,000 --> 01:09:55,200
Speaker 1: dress to be which what think you, daddy? Bet so

1117
01:09:56,760 --> 01:09:58,600
Speaker 1: Jay and seems here of course we want you to

1118
01:09:58,720 --> 01:10:01,759
Speaker 1: chime in. It's your I mean when you get through. Yeah, okay,

1119
01:10:01,800 --> 01:10:03,360
Speaker 1: well I'm just about through. But I do have a

1120
01:10:03,439 --> 01:10:05,679
Speaker 1: question to ask you. Did you guys have any doubts?

1121
01:10:05,840 --> 01:10:08,719
Speaker 1: Did you see any red flags? Yeah? Before you got married?

1122
01:10:08,840 --> 01:10:12,680
Speaker 1: The best sign ever ever. And I didn't listen. My

1123
01:10:12,880 --> 01:10:17,120
Speaker 1: daughter said to me. She said to me, Daddy, you

1124
01:10:17,160 --> 01:10:19,240
Speaker 1: ain't got to go through with us. We can just

1125
01:10:19,400 --> 01:10:27,439
Speaker 1: have a party and lead. I have the reception, but

1126
01:10:27,560 --> 01:10:31,000
Speaker 1: not win. Another friend of Matt, Stephanie, said, this was

1127
01:10:31,120 --> 01:10:40,000
Speaker 1: my honey times match you've been married? Which one? Yeah? Yeah,

1128
01:10:40,000 --> 01:10:43,160
Speaker 1: about thirty for Stephanie says that Stephanie's coming to my witch.

1129
01:10:43,200 --> 01:10:46,840
Speaker 1: Stephanie said, and I repeat, now, dog, I catch the

1130
01:10:47,000 --> 01:10:55,439
Speaker 1: next one like it's a movie a flight. Yeah, I'll

1131
01:10:55,520 --> 01:11:01,799
Speaker 1: catch the next one. No, No, I have a short

1132
01:11:01,920 --> 01:11:06,599
Speaker 1: list of things that I have discovered that can happen

1133
01:11:06,800 --> 01:11:11,080
Speaker 1: during the wedding day or reading up to that. We'll

1134
01:11:11,160 --> 01:11:13,040
Speaker 1: let you know the same thing to work. Come on

1135
01:11:13,880 --> 01:11:19,559
Speaker 1: from the wedding photographer perspective. Okay, if at no point

1136
01:11:20,040 --> 01:11:29,719
Speaker 1: do they want to whole hands for pictures, here's another

1137
01:11:29,840 --> 01:11:33,080
Speaker 1: sign at the wedding. If it ain't but one person

1138
01:11:33,280 --> 01:11:38,880
Speaker 1: on top of the cake, the kind of make a

1139
01:11:38,920 --> 01:11:42,920
Speaker 1: cake like that? Yeah, just a bride or just the

1140
01:11:43,040 --> 01:11:46,800
Speaker 1: groove what I'm saying, don't you know? You gotta put

1141
01:11:46,840 --> 01:11:51,240
Speaker 1: me up? And here's the biggest way you could tell this.

1142
01:11:51,960 --> 01:11:54,760
Speaker 1: This this weird and ain't gonna last. If at the

1143
01:11:54,880 --> 01:12:00,280
Speaker 1: reception ain't no gifts on the table, that's a people

1144
01:12:00,320 --> 01:12:07,599
Speaker 1: and just said I'm not wasting my money. Somebody says,

1145
01:12:07,720 --> 01:12:18,200
Speaker 1: so what day is that? Again? Really getting Marie? Coming

1146
01:12:18,280 --> 01:12:20,840
Speaker 1: up more of the Steve Harvey Morning Show right after this.

1147
01:12:21,560 --> 01:12:29,200
Speaker 1: You're listening to the Steven Show. That vacation glow. It

1148
01:12:29,400 --> 01:12:32,479
Speaker 1: is not just being on vacation that makes you happy,

1149
01:12:33,160 --> 01:12:36,040
Speaker 1: that joyful feeling, you know, the one I'm talking about.

1150
01:12:36,080 --> 01:12:39,680
Speaker 1: It starts a week before you leave. You know when

1151
01:12:39,720 --> 01:12:42,960
Speaker 1: you say you're in vacation mode. That's what we're talking about.

1152
01:12:43,400 --> 01:12:46,280
Speaker 1: Seventy percent of people in a new survey said they

1153
01:12:46,400 --> 01:12:50,160
Speaker 1: got into vacation mode Carla several days before they leave.

1154
01:12:50,360 --> 01:12:55,400
Speaker 1: Can we not relate to that? Or what? No? Right?

1155
01:12:56,040 --> 01:12:59,720
Speaker 1: Ten percent said their vacation glow lasts up into a

1156
01:13:00,080 --> 01:13:03,639
Speaker 1: month after getting back from their trip. Fifty four percent

1157
01:13:03,760 --> 01:13:06,639
Speaker 1: said they felt lost if they didn't have a vacation

1158
01:13:06,720 --> 01:13:09,120
Speaker 1: to look forward to, and seventy percent said they need

1159
01:13:09,200 --> 01:13:15,880
Speaker 1: to book a vacation now more than ever. Amen to that. Okay, now, Carla,

1160
01:13:16,080 --> 01:13:19,040
Speaker 1: does your vacation glows start? When? Does it start week

1161
01:13:19,120 --> 01:13:22,200
Speaker 1: before you leave it, you know? Or is it that

1162
01:13:22,320 --> 01:13:24,519
Speaker 1: week of stress with you packing and trying to get

1163
01:13:24,560 --> 01:13:27,920
Speaker 1: everything done at work before you leave? How long into

1164
01:13:28,000 --> 01:13:31,840
Speaker 1: your vacation does it take you to finally relax the

1165
01:13:31,960 --> 01:13:36,240
Speaker 1: whole thing, the count packing, turn in, the memo saying

1166
01:13:36,320 --> 01:13:41,920
Speaker 1: I'm leaving all of it, the above, the above, the countdown,

1167
01:13:42,000 --> 01:13:46,320
Speaker 1: what I'm all vacation, leaving all all of that on

1168
01:13:46,479 --> 01:13:52,960
Speaker 1: the way airport. Social media posted, don't hay baca bayc bayca,

1169
01:13:53,880 --> 01:13:56,320
Speaker 1: and it takes so long for us to get to vacation,

1170
01:13:56,400 --> 01:14:00,840
Speaker 1: but vacation is over like that? Yeah, all right, all right,

1171
01:14:00,880 --> 01:14:04,840
Speaker 1: if you're going on vacation, happy vaka everybody coming up.

1172
01:14:04,920 --> 01:14:07,160
Speaker 1: More of the Steve Harvey Morning Show at thirty three

1173
01:14:07,200 --> 01:14:13,840
Speaker 1: minutes after the hour, right after this, you're listening. All right, Steve,

1174
01:14:14,000 --> 01:14:16,639
Speaker 1: we need you again. It's time for right or wrong

1175
01:14:16,720 --> 01:14:19,640
Speaker 1: with your nephew and junior or so you need to

1176
01:14:19,680 --> 01:14:22,120
Speaker 1: be the judge. Ladies and gentlemen. This is right or wrong.

1177
01:14:22,240 --> 01:14:25,880
Speaker 1: This is where decisions getting made. Debatable issues come to

1178
01:14:25,960 --> 01:14:28,519
Speaker 1: the forefront, and I make a decision as to who's

1179
01:14:28,600 --> 01:14:32,000
Speaker 1: right or wrong. Tommy is always the one who wants

1180
01:14:32,040 --> 01:14:34,680
Speaker 1: to know whether he's right or wrong. Now, so far

1181
01:14:35,200 --> 01:14:40,040
Speaker 1: it has been a ninety to him to stay fast

1182
01:14:40,160 --> 01:14:43,559
Speaker 1: that he has been wrong. Well, I think ten percent

1183
01:14:43,600 --> 01:14:45,639
Speaker 1: of time I have agreed with him, but the ninety

1184
01:14:45,640 --> 01:14:48,360
Speaker 1: percent of time, so go ahead tur check this out.

1185
01:14:48,840 --> 01:14:52,160
Speaker 1: Me and him. Actually, for a split second he agreed

1186
01:14:52,240 --> 01:14:56,040
Speaker 1: with me last night. I said, Amber is a little

1187
01:14:56,160 --> 01:14:59,320
Speaker 1: girl that got lost a long time ago, and death

1188
01:14:59,360 --> 01:15:02,040
Speaker 1: one Amber alert came from. He agreed with me on that.

1189
01:15:02,320 --> 01:15:04,960
Speaker 1: I did not agree with you on that you did.

1190
01:15:05,800 --> 01:15:08,200
Speaker 1: What did you say? I said, they named it that

1191
01:15:08,360 --> 01:15:11,160
Speaker 1: just because let people know that people miss That's all

1192
01:15:11,240 --> 01:15:14,000
Speaker 1: I said. I say nothing about this being no Amber alert?

1193
01:15:14,640 --> 01:15:16,599
Speaker 1: What made you even think of that? First of all,

1194
01:15:16,680 --> 01:15:18,519
Speaker 1: I let you know it was a little girl named

1195
01:15:18,520 --> 01:15:21,800
Speaker 1: Amber and that's what That's where Amber alert came from.

1196
01:15:22,120 --> 01:15:26,479
Speaker 1: Then I told you, I said, Foster is a little

1197
01:15:26,600 --> 01:15:30,040
Speaker 1: boy who didn't have his mama or his daddy, and

1198
01:15:30,320 --> 01:15:35,519
Speaker 1: that's where foster home came from. Oh no, right there,

1199
01:15:36,120 --> 01:15:39,439
Speaker 1: But Foster and Amber don't know each other. Do you

1200
01:15:39,560 --> 01:15:44,120
Speaker 1: know what? Well he's correct on am Amber, Yeah, give

1201
01:15:44,200 --> 01:15:47,879
Speaker 1: him that. I might write about Foster though, No, Amber

1202
01:15:48,280 --> 01:15:52,599
Speaker 1: is actually a color. Amber is also a young young

1203
01:15:52,680 --> 01:15:56,320
Speaker 1: girl's name right, My name name Amber? Right? So that

1204
01:15:56,560 --> 01:16:00,680
Speaker 1: led you to say, what now, Foster, it was a

1205
01:16:00,800 --> 01:16:04,160
Speaker 1: little boy who didn't have no mama, no daddy, and

1206
01:16:04,280 --> 01:16:06,519
Speaker 1: they were trying to find a home for them. That

1207
01:16:06,760 --> 01:16:10,360
Speaker 1: can't be right, and that's where a foster home coming. Well,

1208
01:16:10,520 --> 01:16:16,880
Speaker 1: I thought that was a seal foster flake, right, the

1209
01:16:16,960 --> 01:16:25,320
Speaker 1: wrong worse. We were saying that for years. I had

1210
01:16:25,360 --> 01:16:31,439
Speaker 1: a calling foster flack. I love me a foster flake.

1211
01:16:33,280 --> 01:16:36,679
Speaker 1: I know that, you know, since we're just gonna be ignorant,

1212
01:16:39,000 --> 01:16:41,400
Speaker 1: I thought it was a seal foster flake when we

1213
01:16:41,479 --> 01:16:45,640
Speaker 1: called it. Though, that's how you said, foster me to

1214
01:16:46,040 --> 01:16:52,160
Speaker 1: develop y ring about to nurture, to falter, to nurture

1215
01:16:52,240 --> 01:16:57,400
Speaker 1: a situation. Foster is a definition. It's not a little boy.

1216
01:16:57,680 --> 01:17:01,280
Speaker 1: There's people named Foster. Most of them don't end up

1217
01:17:01,360 --> 01:17:06,160
Speaker 1: in care the lead singer of the Sibe, he wasn't

1218
01:17:06,160 --> 01:17:08,920
Speaker 1: the lead saying the singers. Now he played Dr Mean

1219
01:17:09,600 --> 01:17:16,840
Speaker 1: in King of Scottland. Now Forest, let me see where

1220
01:17:16,880 --> 01:17:21,120
Speaker 1: he gets from. And then Forrest Riffin was fighting in

1221
01:17:21,200 --> 01:17:28,639
Speaker 1: the UFC. Stefan and Bonner had some epic back. You're

1222
01:17:28,720 --> 01:17:33,479
Speaker 1: listening all right, Steve. Here we are last break of

1223
01:17:33,560 --> 01:17:36,240
Speaker 1: the day on this Monday. It's been a good day.

1224
01:17:36,320 --> 01:17:39,960
Speaker 1: We've had some fun today. Thank you, and now it's

1225
01:17:40,000 --> 01:17:41,720
Speaker 1: time for you to take us home, get back to

1226
01:17:41,840 --> 01:17:46,439
Speaker 1: work with some closing remarks. You know what, um again.

1227
01:17:47,000 --> 01:17:49,400
Speaker 1: I like to use things that are happening to me

1228
01:17:49,560 --> 01:17:53,880
Speaker 1: in my life to encourage people that might be going

1229
01:17:53,960 --> 01:17:57,040
Speaker 1: through some of the same things in theirs. It's just

1230
01:17:57,160 --> 01:17:59,880
Speaker 1: a couple of piece of encouragements I got this week.

1231
01:18:00,800 --> 01:18:02,960
Speaker 1: So many people have reached out to me man given

1232
01:18:03,000 --> 01:18:07,120
Speaker 1: me love. It's far ways anything else that's going on

1233
01:18:07,240 --> 01:18:11,640
Speaker 1: in my life. I'm actually surrounded by a lot of

1234
01:18:11,720 --> 01:18:17,960
Speaker 1: love and prayers, and I'm actually actually really not even

1235
01:18:18,080 --> 01:18:20,720
Speaker 1: privy to a lot of the swirl that goes around me.

1236
01:18:20,840 --> 01:18:23,960
Speaker 1: Like I was saying, the other day. God's peace keeps

1237
01:18:24,040 --> 01:18:27,120
Speaker 1: me in the center of the hurricane. And I do

1238
01:18:27,320 --> 01:18:30,200
Speaker 1: understand that there's a swirl going on out there, but

1239
01:18:30,320 --> 01:18:34,160
Speaker 1: it's none of my business. I can't stop the swirld,

1240
01:18:35,120 --> 01:18:39,000
Speaker 1: but I cannot participate in the swirld. And by not

1241
01:18:39,320 --> 01:18:43,760
Speaker 1: participating in it nor acknowledging it, it has it has

1242
01:18:43,840 --> 01:18:46,439
Speaker 1: no room with me. If you stay the center of

1243
01:18:46,479 --> 01:18:49,639
Speaker 1: the hurricane and the swirl is going around you, if

1244
01:18:49,640 --> 01:18:52,439
Speaker 1: you're gonna stay, if you don't step out into the swirld,

1245
01:18:52,760 --> 01:18:55,280
Speaker 1: you stay in the center. It's peaceful in the eye

1246
01:18:55,320 --> 01:18:57,880
Speaker 1: of hurricane. The problem is when you get caught up

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Speaker 1: in this world. A couple of people will sent me something.

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Speaker 1: I'm going to share a couple of them with you.

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Speaker 1: You talk about people in your life that you need

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Speaker 1: to kind of get rid of. Somebody sent this to me,

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Speaker 1: says sometimes people have to be escorted out of the

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Speaker 1: VIP section in your life and you just have to

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Speaker 1: put them in regular seats. Sometimes people have to be

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Speaker 1: escorted out the VIP section of your life and you

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Speaker 1: just have to put them in some regular seats. Sometimes

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Speaker 1: we place too much importance on people, period, and we

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Speaker 1: give so much people so much importance that they now

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Speaker 1: have a say, so, they have authority, They got ruled.

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Speaker 1: They get comfortable all of a sudden day in a

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Speaker 1: position and they don't even really mean. There's no good

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Speaker 1: So now here they are they in your life? You

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Speaker 1: then gave them permission to sit in the VIP section,

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Speaker 1: But you know sometimes you need to escort them out.

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Speaker 1: You say, you know what you know? Longer welcome in

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Speaker 1: the VRP section. You could take a seat right over here.

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Speaker 1: Those are only seats that's available. I got the view

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Speaker 1: ain't that good from over here, But those are the

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Speaker 1: only seats that's available in my arena. As a matter

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Speaker 1: of fact, security, could you escort them out? Please? See

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Speaker 1: what I don't do is but I can't stop some people.

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Speaker 1: I just I let people sit up in the stands

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Speaker 1: and say what they want to say, because they're not

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Speaker 1: on my stage in my life. You're not on the

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Speaker 1: same stage I'm on. So why do I allow your

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Speaker 1: insults from in back of the room that I can't

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Speaker 1: hardly nobody here but you and your little fourteen followers.

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Speaker 1: So I've learned that that the credit belongs to the

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Speaker 1: man who is actually in the arena, whose face is

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Speaker 1: marred with dust, blood, sweat, and tears. Not to those

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Speaker 1: cold and timid souls in the stands who know neither

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Speaker 1: victory nor defeat. I live like that, all right. Next

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Speaker 1: thing I'm gonna share with you, I'm gonna share with

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Speaker 1: you something about somebody told me about trusting in God.

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Speaker 1: And this is what they sent me. And this is

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Speaker 1: really nice, and it says I asked for strength, and

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Speaker 1: God gave me difficulties to make me strong. I asked

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Speaker 1: for wisdom and God gave me problems to solve. I

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Speaker 1: asked for prosperity and God gave me brain and braun

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Speaker 1: to work. I asked for courage and God gave me

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Speaker 1: danger to overcome. I asked for love, and God gave

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Speaker 1: me troubled people to help. I asked for favors and

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Speaker 1: God gave me opportunities. I've received nothing I wanted. I

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Speaker 1: received everything I need it trust in God. Do you

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Speaker 1: know how rich those words were to me today, that

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Speaker 1: someone sent to me, Because what that says to me was, Steve,

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Speaker 1: you gotta trust the process, man, I don't care how

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Speaker 1: it looks. What you're asking for. God is working on

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Speaker 1: your behalf. Now. It might not look that good to

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Speaker 1: some people. It might not even look that good to you.

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Speaker 1: I would imagine those on the outside looking in just

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Speaker 1: look kind of crazy. But you have no idea the

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Speaker 1: what God is working. So when you ask God for strength,

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Speaker 1: and then God give you a bunch of difficulties, guess

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Speaker 1: what to make you stronger? So you ask God for wisdom,

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Speaker 1: and God give you problems to solve. You're asking for prosperity.

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Speaker 1: God give you a brain and some braun to go

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Speaker 1: to work. I asked for courage and God gave me

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Speaker 1: danger to overcome. I ask for love, and God turn

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Speaker 1: around and gave me troubled people to hell what it is.

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Speaker 1: I asked for favors, and God turn around, give me opportunities.

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Speaker 1: I've received nothing I wanted, but I received everything I needed.

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Speaker 1: You got to trust in God, man, You got to

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Speaker 1: trust in the process. Y'all. We are all in the

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Speaker 1: middle of the process. We're being processed. God ain't through

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Speaker 1: with none of us. God ain't through with you yet.

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Speaker 1: Do you know if God was through with you that

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Speaker 1: you wouldn't wake up in the morning. But as long

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Speaker 1: as you're waking up, to put a smile on your face,

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Speaker 1: because I mean he ain't through with us. Man, God

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Speaker 1: is processing us. We all in the process. You got

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Speaker 1: to trust the process that God knows what he's doing.

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Speaker 1: I'm over here grinning because of that. Cool because guess what,

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Speaker 1: I know he working on my Yeah, you know why,

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Speaker 1: because he processed me. You know why he processing me

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Speaker 1: because he ain't through with me yet, ain't through with

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Speaker 1: you either. Those are my clothes were remarks. Y'all have

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Speaker 1: a good weekend. I bet you I'll wheel drop it.

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Speaker 1: Man been drawn. Whoever sent you that. Thank you for

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