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Speaker 1: Well, I invited.

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Speaker 2: You here, thought I made myself perfectly clear.

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Speaker 1: But you're I guess to my home, you gotta come

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Speaker 1: to be.

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Speaker 2: Empty, and I said, no, guess, your presences presents enough.

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Speaker 2: I already had too much stuff, So how did you

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Speaker 2: dare to surbey me?

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Speaker 3: Welcome to, I said, no gifts. I'm Richard Wineker. I

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Speaker 3: didn't put much thought into what I was gonna say here.

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Speaker 3: I've I've been uh, you know, kind of towing around

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Speaker 3: the idea of a do it yourself at home project,

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Speaker 3: which has just caused me an incredible deal of anxiety.

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Speaker 3: I've really never drilled anything into a wall or even

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Speaker 3: hopefully you're not going to feel too much of that

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Speaker 3: for me. Hopefully you're feeling nice and not thinking about

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Speaker 3: home projects. Hopefully your home is finished and you feel complete,

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Speaker 3: because right now I want you to enjoy. I want

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Speaker 3: you to feel good because we have a wonderful guest today,

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Speaker 3: the absolutely wonderful it's so funny ots Go Okotsuka yay.

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Speaker 3: Welcome to my said no gifts. Thanks for having me.

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Speaker 3: I'm oh go ahead. I'm gonna go off immediately. That's

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Speaker 3: my you know, my mo is to bring a guest

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Speaker 4: No, you were going to ask me how are you,

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Speaker 4: which is a very good host thing to do. How

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Speaker 4: are you doing good? Your thoughts made me wonder what

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Speaker 4: you're trying to build over there.

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Speaker 3: Oh well, I need night stands. I bought a new

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Speaker 3: of course have gotten on Instagram and started looking at

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Speaker 3: you know, there are these these people who have these

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Speaker 3: This woman has essentially drilled old She stained old crates

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Speaker 3: I went and bought some crates, you know, I went

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Speaker 3: I mean, just the thought of it, they thought of

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Speaker 4: Do you do anything like this? No, not at all. Yeah,

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Speaker 4: I mean when you said Crates Instagram. I was like, Oh,

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Speaker 4: What is that called just being crafty?

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Speaker 3: I guess which I just am not crafty at all.

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Speaker 3: I feel so just pathetic.

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Speaker 4: Would you say you're a late bloomer? Now I'm interviewing you,

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Speaker 4: would you say, now, Bridger, would you say you're a

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Speaker 3: Made? You're late bloomer, especially when it comes to home

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Speaker 3: I actually growing up like every single Saturday we had

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Speaker 4: You know. Yeah, And if I were your therapist, you know,

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Speaker 3: Well, we just moved and our new dishwasher doesn't seem

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Speaker 3: And it feels so inadequate? How can I get this?

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Speaker 4: Not because I had a schizophrenic mom that didn't teach

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Speaker 4: not going to fall for you know, capitalism. Okay, that's

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I'm slowly. You know, when ultimatums come, I'm forced

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Speaker 3: Oh, twelve years is fairly recent, I would say. I mean, yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 4: I used to do that because yeah, because I didn't

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Speaker 4: patient with all of this totally. He knows my upbringing

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Speaker 4: I was about to tell you Bridger. My husband's mom

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Speaker 4: there's empathy, a lot of empathy in me because I

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Speaker 3: Right, But that sort of thing kind of doesn't matter.

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Speaker 3: So you, I think you probably just have better perspective.

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Speaker 4: I don't know, or maybe subconsciously I do. I don't know.

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Speaker 3: And he's had it since March. He's just powering through

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Speaker 4: No, I'm going to see if Steven will just edit

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Speaker 4: You know what else needs to be nailed in? What

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Speaker 3: here for the weekend. I go somewhere else.

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Speaker 4: I don't know. You have to do this sort of planning.

435
00:23:13,600 --> 00:23:15,480
Speaker 4: I don't know. It sounds it sounds more like a

436
00:23:15,640 --> 00:23:19,920
Speaker 4: romantic getaway you're trying to.

437
00:23:19,000 --> 00:23:22,480
Speaker 3: Give your friend. Maybe he needs fun. We all could

438
00:23:22,560 --> 00:23:24,160
Speaker 3: use to get away right now.

439
00:23:24,680 --> 00:23:26,959
Speaker 4: Oh for sure, for sure, Hey come over. You can

440
00:23:27,000 --> 00:23:29,040
Speaker 4: do some work for me, but you get to stay

441
00:23:29,119 --> 00:23:32,320
Speaker 4: the weekend and maybe like we'll fall in love.

442
00:23:36,320 --> 00:23:42,840
Speaker 3: Well, speaking of you know, people doing favors and the unexpected,

443
00:23:42,880 --> 00:23:43,640
Speaker 3: this sort of thing.

444
00:23:44,040 --> 00:23:44,359
Speaker 4: Let's go.

445
00:23:44,480 --> 00:23:46,880
Speaker 3: You know, you know this podcast is called I said

446
00:23:46,880 --> 00:23:49,960
Speaker 3: no gifts. Yeah, and we arranged a couple of weeks

447
00:23:50,000 --> 00:23:53,040
Speaker 3: ago for you to come on the show. And you know,

448
00:23:53,320 --> 00:23:55,760
Speaker 3: the emails have all said the name of the podcast,

449
00:23:55,800 --> 00:23:58,240
Speaker 3: this sort of thing. The podcast is out there for listening,

450
00:23:58,280 --> 00:24:03,119
Speaker 3: and the rule is clear. I said no gifts, and

451
00:24:03,200 --> 00:24:07,639
Speaker 3: yet this morning I looked at my email in preparation

452
00:24:07,760 --> 00:24:10,800
Speaker 3: for you to be here, and I had received an

453
00:24:10,840 --> 00:24:14,080
Speaker 3: email from you with the subject line high bridger, do

454
00:24:14,240 --> 00:24:18,560
Speaker 3: not open, Do not open, several exclamation marks, and then

455
00:24:18,760 --> 00:24:23,160
Speaker 3: a did I say exclamation mark? It's an exclamation point.

456
00:24:23,840 --> 00:24:25,520
Speaker 3: I feel like I'm losing my mind here, and then

457
00:24:25,560 --> 00:24:28,800
Speaker 3: a little emoji of a whispering smiley face, and then

458
00:24:28,840 --> 00:24:31,840
Speaker 3: oh yeah, see is I know you said no gifts,

459
00:24:31,880 --> 00:24:37,080
Speaker 3: but dot dot dot enclosed below dot dot dot and

460
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Speaker 3: that's all I'm seeing right now.

461
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Speaker 4: So let's go. Is Is this a gift for me?

462
00:24:41,760 --> 00:24:47,760
Speaker 4: It is Bridger, Yeah, because you need this gift. Should

463
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Speaker 4: I open it? I think you should open it.

464
00:24:50,040 --> 00:24:52,040
Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm going to open this. I'm going to open

465
00:24:52,080 --> 00:24:54,480
Speaker 3: this email. And this is very unconventional. This is an

466
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Speaker 3: get an E gift, which you know, living our current

467
00:24:58,320 --> 00:25:01,320
Speaker 3: pandemic is one erful way to send a gift, and

468
00:25:01,359 --> 00:25:03,399
Speaker 3: it's you never know what you're gonna be able to

469
00:25:03,440 --> 00:25:08,240
Speaker 3: do electronically. So I'm very I'm intrigued. I'm going to

470
00:25:08,320 --> 00:25:12,000
Speaker 3: do the click and we're gonna see what this this holds.

471
00:25:12,160 --> 00:25:21,359
Speaker 3: Go ahead, here we go full Now it says I

472
00:25:21,440 --> 00:25:23,719
Speaker 3: know you said no gifts, but in closed below is

473
00:25:23,720 --> 00:25:27,639
Speaker 3: something I know you've always wanted. A free dance hall

474
00:25:27,840 --> 00:25:32,840
Speaker 3: workout taught by me. What enjoy you can share with

475
00:25:32,880 --> 00:25:35,560
Speaker 3: buddies or whoever you love as well. Since we can't

476
00:25:35,600 --> 00:25:37,680
Speaker 3: go outside, and this will take up at least forty

477
00:25:37,720 --> 00:25:41,800
Speaker 3: minutes of your time, let's go a dance hall workout.

478
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Speaker 3: This is wonder Tell me.

479
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Speaker 4: Everything, yep, oh tell you well. First of all, I'm

480
00:25:48,080 --> 00:25:50,960
Speaker 4: sorry I disrespected you, But second of all, I think

481
00:25:51,000 --> 00:25:53,920
Speaker 4: you for the apology. I think if I know anything

482
00:25:53,960 --> 00:25:59,560
Speaker 4: about you, it's that you're gonna want something to procrastinate doing.

483
00:26:00,160 --> 00:26:02,880
Speaker 4: You're not putting up those crates on your wall, right,

484
00:26:03,560 --> 00:26:07,640
Speaker 4: So for forty minutes every time you can dance work

485
00:26:07,680 --> 00:26:11,320
Speaker 4: out with me? Is this something you do regularly? I

486
00:26:11,640 --> 00:26:17,240
Speaker 4: used to, but not anymore. But yes, you know when

487
00:26:17,400 --> 00:26:20,320
Speaker 4: before the pandemic, so you know, there was comedy. I

488
00:26:20,320 --> 00:26:23,720
Speaker 4: do comedy right, and then just like twice a week

489
00:26:24,000 --> 00:26:27,639
Speaker 4: for like cause I love it. I love doing it

490
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Speaker 4: just for two hours a week. I taught a dance

491
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Speaker 4: hall like workout dance class. That's incredible. Involve what dance

492
00:26:35,480 --> 00:26:38,240
Speaker 4: hall music, which is like Jamaica and dance hall music,

493
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Speaker 4: and yeah, it involves usually you know moms, right, a

494
00:26:46,040 --> 00:26:49,280
Speaker 4: lot of moms coming and taking my class. And where

495
00:26:49,320 --> 00:26:52,000
Speaker 4: was this taking place? Just down the street from me

496
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Speaker 4: and Atwater Village, Okay, at a studio village beautiful Atwater Village,

497
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Speaker 4: at a studiowhere near the restaurant dune. Yes, yeah, it's

498
00:27:02,200 --> 00:27:04,280
Speaker 4: Heartbeat House. I did it at heartbea House. Yeah.

499
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Speaker 3: Yeah, hear that music. When I got done done, reach

500
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Speaker 3: out to me, I love you.

501
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Speaker 4: Yeah. Sometimes you would write, you would just it's one

502
00:27:13,840 --> 00:27:16,399
Speaker 4: of those studios where from like because it's on a

503
00:27:16,440 --> 00:27:21,040
Speaker 4: busy kind of a lot of restaurants around there. Right,

504
00:27:21,119 --> 00:27:25,760
Speaker 4: You always hear moms being like ooh, ooh, ooh doing

505
00:27:25,800 --> 00:27:27,639
Speaker 4: their zombus. That's where I taught.

506
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Speaker 3: Wow, And so is it kind of like I've never

507
00:27:31,320 --> 00:27:33,080
Speaker 3: taken a class like this. I mean I did in

508
00:27:33,200 --> 00:27:36,200
Speaker 3: high school. I took aerobics class, which I thought would

509
00:27:36,240 --> 00:27:38,240
Speaker 3: be a funny thing to do, and then it ended

510
00:27:38,280 --> 00:27:41,040
Speaker 3: up being maybe the most difficult class I took in

511
00:27:41,080 --> 00:27:43,359
Speaker 3: high school because of the level of intensity. And then

512
00:27:43,400 --> 00:27:46,280
Speaker 3: our teacher became pregnant about halfway through, and so she

513
00:27:46,359 --> 00:27:50,080
Speaker 3: was no longer exercising, and I think forgot how difficult

514
00:27:50,119 --> 00:27:54,040
Speaker 3: it was and really put us through the ringer right right, Wow,

515
00:27:54,440 --> 00:27:57,520
Speaker 3: But that as far as aerobic exercise, that's as far

516
00:27:57,560 --> 00:28:00,880
Speaker 3: as I got. What So are you doing dances? Are

517
00:28:00,920 --> 00:28:02,200
Speaker 3: you doing? What is it?

518
00:28:02,359 --> 00:28:02,520
Speaker 1: Oh?

519
00:28:02,600 --> 00:28:05,560
Speaker 4: Yeah? So it is like, so the music is to

520
00:28:05,720 --> 00:28:08,560
Speaker 4: dance hall and then there's dance hall moves that I

521
00:28:08,560 --> 00:28:12,720
Speaker 4: also teach during the class. Okay, and what are a

522
00:28:12,800 --> 00:28:17,560
Speaker 4: dance hall move? Like, Well, they're they're invented by dance

523
00:28:17,600 --> 00:28:23,719
Speaker 4: hall dancers, mostly in Jamaica, so and then it just

524
00:28:23,840 --> 00:28:27,560
Speaker 4: kind of gets taught through other teachers and then it

525
00:28:27,600 --> 00:28:35,440
Speaker 4: gets passed down to at Water Village. But yeah, that's

526
00:28:35,680 --> 00:28:39,320
Speaker 4: kind of there's always new moves in dance hall. It's

527
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Speaker 4: it's not it's unlike, well, I guess it's kind of

528
00:28:42,360 --> 00:28:45,880
Speaker 4: like TikTok has become that where there's new moves that

529
00:28:45,920 --> 00:28:48,720
Speaker 4: you kind of catch on to, right like trends. Does

530
00:28:48,760 --> 00:28:52,080
Speaker 4: that make sense. It's like that with dance hall and

531
00:28:52,160 --> 00:28:54,960
Speaker 4: they but they name the dance is like whatever they're

532
00:28:55,040 --> 00:28:58,360
Speaker 4: kind of going through at the time, or it could

533
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Speaker 4: be like a for example, there's a move called thunderclap.

534
00:29:03,720 --> 00:29:06,160
Speaker 4: That's a dance hall move where you literally like reach

535
00:29:06,200 --> 00:29:09,840
Speaker 4: your arms out in the air and then clap. That's

536
00:29:09,840 --> 00:29:12,760
Speaker 4: called a thunderclap. Give it a run. It's literally you

537
00:29:12,880 --> 00:29:18,560
Speaker 4: running but really high up and taking slower strides. And

538
00:29:18,600 --> 00:29:21,040
Speaker 4: it's a way for like, once you get to know

539
00:29:21,160 --> 00:29:24,640
Speaker 4: dancehall dance, it's a way for people who might just

540
00:29:24,720 --> 00:29:29,880
Speaker 4: be at a gathering in a backyard, so they have moves. Yeah,

541
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Speaker 4: if dancehole music plays, the DJ will just call out

542
00:29:33,600 --> 00:29:36,280
Speaker 4: these moves and people will know to do it together

543
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Speaker 4: in a group. Oh yeah, kind of like you know

544
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Speaker 4: the electric slide types.

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Speaker 3: Yes, yeah, yeah, yeah yeah. In my I had to

546
00:29:46,240 --> 00:29:49,720
Speaker 3: teach like, as our final assignment in aerobics class, I

547
00:29:49,760 --> 00:29:53,560
Speaker 3: had to run the whole class through the aerobics thing.

548
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Speaker 3: And you know, I put on a Britney Spears type

549
00:29:55,360 --> 00:29:58,040
Speaker 3: microphone and had this whole thing set up, and I

550
00:29:58,080 --> 00:30:03,720
Speaker 3: created a move called the Raspberry twirl, which socially squatting

551
00:30:04,040 --> 00:30:07,560
Speaker 3: and then uh, spinning your arms in the air. And

552
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Speaker 3: I thought it would be funny for people to do.

553
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Speaker 3: But then real like, you do twenty of those and

554
00:30:11,640 --> 00:30:12,760
Speaker 3: you feel like you're gonna die.

555
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Speaker 4: Yeah, so you're squatting and then you spin your arms

556
00:30:16,680 --> 00:30:20,720
Speaker 4: around above you. Yeah, yes, I mean I could show

557
00:30:20,720 --> 00:30:22,800
Speaker 4: you right now if you'd like. Yeah, And this was

558
00:30:22,840 --> 00:30:24,800
Speaker 4: in high school and you didn't come out till you

559
00:30:24,840 --> 00:30:25,640
Speaker 4: were thirty.

560
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Speaker 3: Can you imagine I hate to show you.

561
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Speaker 4: Yeah, go, Brittany, that was so good.

562
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Speaker 3: So you imagine doing that over and over and over

563
00:30:44,840 --> 00:30:49,280
Speaker 3: and suddenly the whole class hates you. And yeah, then

564
00:30:49,320 --> 00:30:51,760
Speaker 3: you come out twelve years.

565
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Speaker 4: Later Raspberry swirl. Yeah, that one was good. To which

566
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Speaker 4: Brittany's track again.

567
00:31:00,240 --> 00:31:01,920
Speaker 3: You know this is you're gonna want to do this

568
00:31:01,960 --> 00:31:05,480
Speaker 3: to Toxic. I think, yes, you get those kind of

569
00:31:05,480 --> 00:31:10,040
Speaker 3: shrieking violins and you you know, I mean, yeah, is

570
00:31:10,080 --> 00:31:11,240
Speaker 3: there a better Britney song?

571
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Speaker 4: Gosh, that one's really good. I think I mean Swan song,

572
00:31:14,720 --> 00:31:17,360
Speaker 4: that's it. It's I mean, you know, there's just like

573
00:31:17,520 --> 00:31:20,000
Speaker 4: people just like it's Brittany bitch. But they just say

574
00:31:20,040 --> 00:31:22,720
Speaker 4: that part right, It's not like they like the entire song.

575
00:31:22,840 --> 00:31:26,000
Speaker 4: You know, it's very forgettable. I think yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah,

576
00:31:26,000 --> 00:31:27,720
Speaker 4: I would say Toxic is the one.

577
00:31:27,920 --> 00:31:30,640
Speaker 3: Toxic is her big you know, her shining jewel.

578
00:31:31,160 --> 00:31:37,400
Speaker 4: Apparently it was. The music was like, uh, not lifted

579
00:31:37,440 --> 00:31:39,320
Speaker 4: but inspired by Bollywood.

580
00:31:39,560 --> 00:31:41,600
Speaker 3: Ah, that kind of makes sense. And also it's kind

581
00:31:41,640 --> 00:31:45,600
Speaker 3: of like a weirdly like spaghetti western field.

582
00:31:45,840 --> 00:31:49,360
Speaker 4: Yeah, kind of both. Yeah, I think that the Yeah, yeah,

583
00:31:49,360 --> 00:31:52,560
Speaker 4: there's like a whole probably like a now this video

584
00:31:52,720 --> 00:31:53,640
Speaker 4: or something about it.

585
00:31:53,920 --> 00:31:56,600
Speaker 3: Well, another fact, let's just keep I mean, who who

586
00:31:56,640 --> 00:31:59,120
Speaker 3: would have thought that we'd be just talking Britney spears.

587
00:31:59,120 --> 00:32:01,880
Speaker 3: But I learned recently that that song was originally going

588
00:32:01,920 --> 00:32:05,360
Speaker 3: to be a Kylie Minogue song. She passed up on it.

589
00:32:05,560 --> 00:32:07,520
Speaker 3: What would what would the world be right now if

590
00:32:07,560 --> 00:32:09,240
Speaker 3: Toxic was a Kylie Minogue song.

591
00:32:09,520 --> 00:32:12,040
Speaker 4: Wow, you know I can totally see that too though,

592
00:32:12,120 --> 00:32:17,240
Speaker 4: Oh yeah, you know yem hmmm hmm, yeah, what would

593
00:32:17,280 --> 00:32:21,320
Speaker 4: the world be The world would be watching Kylie's Instagram's,

594
00:32:21,480 --> 00:32:22,440
Speaker 4: not Brittany's.

595
00:32:22,440 --> 00:32:25,360
Speaker 3: That's what would be happening. But it's the other way.

596
00:32:25,440 --> 00:32:29,520
Speaker 3: What's your feeling on Britney spears Instagram? I like going there,

597
00:32:30,400 --> 00:32:33,800
Speaker 3: I know, I like, I like Brittany. I'm all for

598
00:32:33,880 --> 00:32:36,200
Speaker 3: Brittany and I think people people were too mean to

599
00:32:36,240 --> 00:32:40,560
Speaker 3: Brittany And yeah, so like we knew she was like

600
00:32:40,680 --> 00:32:45,200
Speaker 3: quirky and kookie and that's what her instagram says she is. Yeah,

601
00:32:45,280 --> 00:32:47,360
Speaker 3: I think that, you know, I mean I think that

602
00:32:48,840 --> 00:32:52,920
Speaker 3: the world was very terrible to her. And obviously there's

603
00:32:52,920 --> 00:32:56,960
Speaker 3: some arrested development happening or something going on, but she

604
00:32:57,040 --> 00:32:57,520
Speaker 3: seems to.

605
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Speaker 4: Be having a good time. I don't know what to say. Yeah, no,

606
00:33:01,040 --> 00:33:04,640
Speaker 4: I mean that's shaving her head thing. Oh my god.

607
00:33:04,880 --> 00:33:07,840
Speaker 4: And you know how everyone's shaved their head during quarantine,

608
00:33:08,000 --> 00:33:10,600
Speaker 4: right and people are always like, oh, you know, it

609
00:33:10,760 --> 00:33:14,960
Speaker 4: just means you've lost it or whatever. But it's like, Okay,

610
00:33:16,080 --> 00:33:18,880
Speaker 4: you see my hair, Bridger, I love your hair. This

611
00:33:19,000 --> 00:33:22,640
Speaker 4: chop bank kind of bowl cut. Okay, it's a lot

612
00:33:22,680 --> 00:33:27,040
Speaker 4: to upkeep. Okay. The other day I almost changed it,

613
00:33:27,160 --> 00:33:31,719
Speaker 4: and I said, and I had scissors to my head. Okay,

614
00:33:32,160 --> 00:33:36,120
Speaker 4: by the way, this is like, this is my brand, Okay,

615
00:33:36,360 --> 00:33:39,200
Speaker 4: likes phenomenal. My hair has been like this since I

616
00:33:39,360 --> 00:33:40,040
Speaker 4: was a baby.

617
00:33:40,360 --> 00:33:43,680
Speaker 3: Well, still have somebody who keeps a haircut from baby

618
00:33:43,720 --> 00:33:46,520
Speaker 3: to adulthood. I only have one other friend who's done that.

619
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Speaker 3: And if you find a haircut that works for you

620
00:33:49,000 --> 00:33:50,520
Speaker 3: and you can hang on to it, I say, do

621
00:33:50,600 --> 00:33:51,400
Speaker 3: it right.

622
00:33:51,800 --> 00:33:53,880
Speaker 4: Well, so there were a few years where I changed

623
00:33:53,880 --> 00:33:56,880
Speaker 4: it up, but then it's back to this right now.

624
00:33:57,400 --> 00:33:59,600
Speaker 4: The other day I had scissors to my head. I said,

625
00:33:59,640 --> 00:34:02,120
Speaker 4: I'm gonna change it. Okay, I'm gonna go crazy, And

626
00:34:02,160 --> 00:34:05,080
Speaker 4: then I literally couldn't. I said, I don't have the

627
00:34:05,160 --> 00:34:08,640
Speaker 4: emotional capacity to change my hair even a bit right now,

628
00:34:08,800 --> 00:34:12,480
Speaker 4: which made me think, shaving your head that is actually

629
00:34:12,800 --> 00:34:16,480
Speaker 4: an act of bravery. It takes a lot of strength

630
00:34:16,560 --> 00:34:21,040
Speaker 4: to do that. When I can't even I was gonna

631
00:34:21,080 --> 00:34:24,399
Speaker 4: just cut off like a centimeter, I couldn't even do that.

632
00:34:24,880 --> 00:34:25,840
Speaker 4: Does that make sense?

633
00:34:26,000 --> 00:34:29,600
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, absolutely, Well, you think about getting a haircut

634
00:34:29,920 --> 00:34:33,239
Speaker 3: in a normal time when nothing, when the world is

635
00:34:33,280 --> 00:34:34,440
Speaker 3: only kind of horrible.

636
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Speaker 2: M hm.

637
00:34:35,840 --> 00:34:37,959
Speaker 3: You get a haircut, and even if it's good, there's

638
00:34:38,000 --> 00:34:40,680
Speaker 3: the adjustment period, the emotional adjustment.

639
00:34:40,160 --> 00:34:40,920
Speaker 4: To the haircut.

640
00:34:41,320 --> 00:34:45,120
Speaker 3: So yeah, right now, the idea of giving yourself a haircut.

641
00:34:45,200 --> 00:34:48,160
Speaker 3: If it goes wrong, you are going to be devastated.

642
00:34:48,360 --> 00:34:50,960
Speaker 3: You're going to I mean, we're all just hanging by

643
00:34:50,960 --> 00:34:53,080
Speaker 3: a thread right now. The last thing you need is

644
00:34:53,080 --> 00:34:55,480
Speaker 3: a bad haircut. Even if it's good, you're gonna have

645
00:34:55,520 --> 00:34:59,120
Speaker 3: to adjust to it. It's too much emotionally. I absolutely.

646
00:34:59,520 --> 00:35:01,160
Speaker 3: Let me ask what time of day was it when

647
00:35:01,160 --> 00:35:02,600
Speaker 3: you started considering the haircut?

648
00:35:03,040 --> 00:35:03,239
Speaker 2: Oh?

649
00:35:03,360 --> 00:35:06,600
Speaker 4: Like two pm? Oh, that's that's when I'm like the

650
00:35:06,640 --> 00:35:09,760
Speaker 4: biggest hot mess. Oh why do you usually consider haircuts

651
00:35:09,800 --> 00:35:11,239
Speaker 4: at midnight or something late at night?

652
00:35:11,280 --> 00:35:13,040
Speaker 3: That's the only time I can tell it's time to

653
00:35:13,080 --> 00:35:14,719
Speaker 3: go to bed when I'm like, oh, maybe I could

654
00:35:14,719 --> 00:35:19,200
Speaker 3: cut my hair a little bit and so interesting two PM.

655
00:35:19,239 --> 00:35:21,719
Speaker 3: I wonder what's going on chemically for you that two

656
00:35:21,719 --> 00:35:24,799
Speaker 3: pm is the time that feels like haircut time.

657
00:35:25,520 --> 00:35:30,600
Speaker 4: Well, it's just I have more energy, I'm not drunk

658
00:35:30,800 --> 00:35:34,400
Speaker 4: on a couch. And do you not have the strength

659
00:35:34,400 --> 00:35:37,920
Speaker 4: to get up to even get scissors. What other haircuts

660
00:35:37,920 --> 00:35:42,640
Speaker 4: have you had just you know, like a side swipe? Yeah,

661
00:35:42,680 --> 00:35:46,520
Speaker 4: like was it like a fierce fiarce sorry?

662
00:35:46,840 --> 00:35:47,480
Speaker 1: Or was it?

663
00:35:47,600 --> 00:35:50,400
Speaker 4: Or it wasn't just like a chopp bang through the

664
00:35:50,440 --> 00:35:52,799
Speaker 4: middle or you know this kind of book. But I

665
00:35:52,800 --> 00:35:55,600
Speaker 4: had like long hair with like a side swipe, you know,

666
00:35:55,800 --> 00:36:00,560
Speaker 4: very like early two thousand. Yeah, that makes sense, early

667
00:36:00,600 --> 00:36:04,640
Speaker 4: two thousand, you know when everyone was wearing ballet flats,

668
00:36:04,719 --> 00:36:07,560
Speaker 4: you know it was that time, and had side swipes

669
00:36:07,600 --> 00:36:12,160
Speaker 4: and just truly didn't have an identity for our era. Sure, sure,

670
00:36:12,480 --> 00:36:15,239
Speaker 4: have you ever dyed your hair? I had it bleached

671
00:36:15,520 --> 00:36:19,120
Speaker 4: in like the seventh grade, okay, And how did you feel?

672
00:36:19,719 --> 00:36:19,920
Speaker 1: You know?

673
00:36:20,080 --> 00:36:23,319
Speaker 4: I was going through a period where I was ashamed

674
00:36:23,440 --> 00:36:27,200
Speaker 4: of me, of who I was, and sure here I

675
00:36:27,440 --> 00:36:33,640
Speaker 4: was trying to look like Arian. And then I was like, wait,

676
00:36:33,680 --> 00:36:36,799
Speaker 4: this makes me look more Asian If I have blonde hair,

677
00:36:37,360 --> 00:36:39,959
Speaker 4: complete blonde hair, it just highlights my face even more.

678
00:36:40,400 --> 00:36:43,680
Speaker 4: And I was like, cool, well I couldn't get it

679
00:36:43,719 --> 00:36:47,640
Speaker 4: all blonde. It was it was a diy at home.

680
00:36:47,760 --> 00:36:50,200
Speaker 4: So it was it like orange e yeah yeah, yeah,

681
00:36:50,640 --> 00:36:53,400
Speaker 4: like yeah, yeah, I was gonna say like but I

682
00:36:53,440 --> 00:36:57,320
Speaker 4: was like, no, that looks really natural and really good. Yeah,

683
00:36:57,400 --> 00:37:05,160
Speaker 4: my shit looked like, yeah, like a literal nectarine. Nectarine

684
00:37:05,239 --> 00:37:11,400
Speaker 4: to me, tangerine, tangerine, But I knew exactly what you

685
00:37:11,440 --> 00:37:16,239
Speaker 4: were talking a nectarine. I cannot picture what a nectarine

686
00:37:16,280 --> 00:37:19,480
Speaker 4: is in my mind right now. You can't. Well, it's

687
00:37:19,600 --> 00:37:28,480
Speaker 4: just like, you know, just like a sunburnt ginger butt. Wait,

688
00:37:28,800 --> 00:37:29,080
Speaker 4: let's go.

689
00:37:29,440 --> 00:37:31,880
Speaker 3: You're not describing a nectarine to me. You're now describing

690
00:37:31,880 --> 00:37:35,720
Speaker 3: a tangerine again. Oh, that is a nectarine.

691
00:37:36,239 --> 00:37:40,040
Speaker 4: A nectarine is like a peach, but like a fuzz.

692
00:37:40,040 --> 00:37:43,080
Speaker 3: Oh, like a hybrid peach or something. I just can't

693
00:37:43,200 --> 00:37:45,400
Speaker 3: picture in my mind. For some reason. That's one of

694
00:37:45,440 --> 00:37:47,640
Speaker 3: the well say the word and then it just vanishes

695
00:37:47,680 --> 00:37:50,239
Speaker 3: from your mind. I don't know what that is psychologically

696
00:37:50,320 --> 00:37:51,000
Speaker 3: what they call that.

697
00:37:51,080 --> 00:37:53,560
Speaker 4: But well, honey, let me tell you. If you live

698
00:37:53,680 --> 00:37:57,120
Speaker 4: close to three sixty five per Chance, which is near

699
00:37:57,480 --> 00:38:02,439
Speaker 4: me Silver Lake, there's a sale of neck darines right now,

700
00:38:02,520 --> 00:38:05,799
Speaker 4: and you can go in consider it, you know, but

701
00:38:06,239 --> 00:38:07,920
Speaker 4: you can look at it. I don't know. That's the

702
00:38:07,920 --> 00:38:10,120
Speaker 4: only reason why I think I said necktrain was because

703
00:38:10,120 --> 00:38:15,719
Speaker 4: I clocked a sale yesterday at the grocery store. Oh sure, sure, yeah,

704
00:38:15,800 --> 00:38:21,640
Speaker 4: favorite fruit. H No, I'm so basic. I'm just like, well,

705
00:38:21,640 --> 00:38:28,399
Speaker 4: then I just name the basic fruit just you know, apple, orange, right, banana?

706
00:38:28,440 --> 00:38:29,040
Speaker 4: How about you?

707
00:38:30,360 --> 00:38:32,560
Speaker 3: I mean, it was unfair for me to ask, because

708
00:38:32,600 --> 00:38:35,759
Speaker 3: of course I don't have an answer. But off the

709
00:38:35,760 --> 00:38:37,320
Speaker 3: top of my head, if a peach is good, I

710
00:38:37,360 --> 00:38:39,480
Speaker 3: will say the peach. A good peach is the best

711
00:38:39,520 --> 00:38:41,840
Speaker 3: fruit by far. But I love an orange. I love

712
00:38:41,880 --> 00:38:44,200
Speaker 3: a good orange. I love a good blood orange. I

713
00:38:44,280 --> 00:38:47,040
Speaker 3: come quat anything citrus and a little bit tangy.

714
00:38:47,480 --> 00:38:50,160
Speaker 4: I love. I love limes. So you don't eat a lime, but.

715
00:38:51,920 --> 00:38:54,759
Speaker 3: It is such a beautiful fruit, the perfect flavor of

716
00:38:54,760 --> 00:38:59,320
Speaker 3: the perfect color. Really nailed it with the lime. But yeah,

717
00:38:59,400 --> 00:39:03,000
Speaker 3: and then I like berries, black berries, berries.

718
00:39:03,239 --> 00:39:06,640
Speaker 4: You do okay? Yeah, so you you're kind of you

719
00:39:06,680 --> 00:39:08,960
Speaker 4: do it all. I do it all. I mean, you

720
00:39:09,080 --> 00:39:11,240
Speaker 4: just don't do the big fruits like canalo.

721
00:39:11,680 --> 00:39:16,200
Speaker 3: Melon for me is not happening. Why melon, The flavor

722
00:39:16,239 --> 00:39:17,000
Speaker 3: doesn't work for me.

723
00:39:17,280 --> 00:39:19,720
Speaker 4: And you know, like a melon salad huh.

724
00:39:19,520 --> 00:39:21,320
Speaker 3: Oh, thank you. And I was thinking about that recently.

725
00:39:21,360 --> 00:39:24,560
Speaker 3: You know, there are those fruit stands around LA, like

726
00:39:24,600 --> 00:39:27,439
Speaker 3: the little guys on the side of the road. I've

727
00:39:27,480 --> 00:39:29,000
Speaker 3: never been to one, And I think part of it

728
00:39:29,040 --> 00:39:31,120
Speaker 3: is because I see so much melon in there. I

729
00:39:31,120 --> 00:39:32,719
Speaker 3: feel like I'm gonna get a bag of melon. Have

730
00:39:32,760 --> 00:39:33,600
Speaker 3: you ever been to one?

731
00:39:33,719 --> 00:39:36,280
Speaker 4: Yeah, you will get a bag of melon. It's bigger

732
00:39:36,360 --> 00:39:40,399
Speaker 4: fruit usually like pineapples too. I love a pineapple and yeah,

733
00:39:40,600 --> 00:39:44,520
Speaker 4: I mean we'll go go get a get the pineapple bags.

734
00:39:45,480 --> 00:39:47,640
Speaker 3: I mean, do you get to request the fruit or

735
00:39:47,680 --> 00:39:48,759
Speaker 3: is it just like a of.

736
00:39:48,800 --> 00:39:53,240
Speaker 4: Course bridger, of course you get. It's not a surprise bag.

737
00:39:53,320 --> 00:39:57,480
Speaker 4: It's not a it's not a it's not a close

738
00:39:57,520 --> 00:40:01,560
Speaker 4: your eyes and pick. You're the customer bridger. That's why

739
00:40:01,560 --> 00:40:03,279
Speaker 4: you've been avoiding those places.

740
00:40:03,400 --> 00:40:05,000
Speaker 3: I think that's why I avoid a lot of things

741
00:40:05,000 --> 00:40:06,200
Speaker 3: because I'm afraid to ask.

742
00:40:06,880 --> 00:40:07,319
Speaker 1: And so.

743
00:40:08,920 --> 00:40:11,520
Speaker 3: Do they put My other question is do they put

744
00:40:11,520 --> 00:40:13,080
Speaker 3: like hot sauce or something on it?

745
00:40:13,320 --> 00:40:15,759
Speaker 4: Oh, if you want, if you want, that to me,

746
00:40:15,880 --> 00:40:19,319
Speaker 4: sounds intriguing. Chili. Yeah it's good. I mean I grew

747
00:40:19,400 --> 00:40:22,479
Speaker 4: up in La, so you know all my friends were

748
00:40:22,680 --> 00:40:29,080
Speaker 4: eating eating like chili fruit, chili, mango, you know, like

749
00:40:29,760 --> 00:40:32,719
Speaker 4: stuff like that, and so it is good. But you

750
00:40:32,719 --> 00:40:34,920
Speaker 4: don't have to do it again again. You're the customer

751
00:40:34,960 --> 00:40:37,880
Speaker 4: bridger who I don't know who gave you the idea

752
00:40:38,000 --> 00:40:41,600
Speaker 4: that you would not get to choose when you're paying melon.

753
00:40:41,880 --> 00:40:44,120
Speaker 3: Well, it's just you know, you drive past and it

754
00:40:44,200 --> 00:40:48,000
Speaker 3: just seems to be a melon upon melon upon melon,

755
00:40:48,040 --> 00:40:51,879
Speaker 3: And I don't want a melon. I simply can't eat

756
00:40:51,880 --> 00:40:56,680
Speaker 3: a honeydew. I can't cantalope. I can deal with a

757
00:40:56,680 --> 00:40:57,800
Speaker 3: water melon, but I'm never.

758
00:40:58,360 --> 00:41:01,319
Speaker 4: Oh you say that now when a senior Okay, when

759
00:41:01,320 --> 00:41:05,919
Speaker 4: you're a senior citizen five years old, when you're eighty

760
00:41:05,920 --> 00:41:09,160
Speaker 4: five years old, you're gonna be fed melons like no

761
00:41:09,200 --> 00:41:09,960
Speaker 4: one's business.

762
00:41:10,040 --> 00:41:10,120
Speaker 3: You.

763
00:41:10,560 --> 00:41:12,319
Speaker 4: I have a grandma that I hang out with all

764
00:41:12,360 --> 00:41:14,719
Speaker 4: the time. All she wants is melons, and it's just

765
00:41:14,760 --> 00:41:17,799
Speaker 4: softer for your dentures. And that's true. You're gonna have

766
00:41:17,880 --> 00:41:22,319
Speaker 4: a lover by your bedside just feeding your melons. Your

767
00:41:22,360 --> 00:41:25,200
Speaker 4: taste bus might change too by then, that's true.

768
00:41:25,200 --> 00:41:27,840
Speaker 3: Maybe I'll grow into it. Maybe I'm like a melon

769
00:41:27,880 --> 00:41:28,520
Speaker 3: late bloomer.

770
00:41:29,040 --> 00:41:33,399
Speaker 4: Yeah, like with all things in our lives, is your

771
00:41:33,680 --> 00:41:36,719
Speaker 4: is your grandma in La? My grandma is. But currently

772
00:41:36,760 --> 00:41:41,200
Speaker 4: she's in Taiwan just partying. Oh did she travel there

773
00:41:41,239 --> 00:41:43,759
Speaker 4: on vacation or something? She traveled there to get a

774
00:41:43,840 --> 00:41:47,880
Speaker 4: knee replacement surgery which went successful and she is now healing.

775
00:41:48,200 --> 00:41:51,560
Speaker 4: But also just there's no cases of COVID there, so

776
00:41:51,600 --> 00:41:52,560
Speaker 4: she's able to wait.

777
00:41:53,920 --> 00:41:57,880
Speaker 3: Yeah, that's fantastic. Good for Taiwan, I know if they

778
00:41:58,000 --> 00:41:59,440
Speaker 3: just cracked down on it in a big.

779
00:41:59,320 --> 00:42:03,120
Speaker 4: Way because there were neighbors to neighbors to China, so

780
00:42:03,400 --> 00:42:06,319
Speaker 4: they were able to kind of just you know, see

781
00:42:06,320 --> 00:42:10,400
Speaker 4: what was happening quicker and just act on it. And yeah,

782
00:42:10,480 --> 00:42:12,719
Speaker 4: for example, like if you enter the country now, if

783
00:42:12,760 --> 00:42:19,200
Speaker 4: you enter Taiwan, now you have to quarantine inside like

784
00:42:19,239 --> 00:42:23,040
Speaker 4: an airbnb for it two weeks, and you know, they

785
00:42:23,080 --> 00:42:26,480
Speaker 4: take your temperature every day, and yeah, they just track you.

786
00:42:26,520 --> 00:42:27,600
Speaker 4: There's a phone that tracks.

787
00:42:28,120 --> 00:42:31,640
Speaker 3: There's somebody smart in charge rather than a lunatic.

788
00:42:31,719 --> 00:42:35,880
Speaker 4: Right right, right, Yeah, they have a female president.

789
00:42:36,120 --> 00:42:38,560
Speaker 3: Yes, it seems to be kind of the common theme

790
00:42:38,600 --> 00:42:40,800
Speaker 3: of countries that have it under control.

791
00:42:41,280 --> 00:42:46,120
Speaker 4: Right, Yeah, and they hit that they did it. And

792
00:42:46,239 --> 00:42:50,760
Speaker 4: so she's there, yeah, not eating melons? What was she eating?

793
00:42:52,200 --> 00:42:55,040
Speaker 4: She always shows me fruit. I don't know about your

794
00:42:55,080 --> 00:42:58,600
Speaker 4: grandma or other people's grandma, but your grandma is always

795
00:42:58,680 --> 00:43:01,160
Speaker 4: like when I do face, I'm with her, she's always

796
00:43:01,200 --> 00:43:04,399
Speaker 4: just like, look at this fruit that I'm eating good

797
00:43:04,440 --> 00:43:07,960
Speaker 4: for anybody else? Yeah? Yeah, okay, yeah.

798
00:43:08,000 --> 00:43:10,360
Speaker 3: I can't remember the last time I had a conversation

799
00:43:10,400 --> 00:43:13,680
Speaker 3: with my grandma about fruit, but it's probably time. Maybe

800
00:43:13,680 --> 00:43:15,480
Speaker 3: I'll reach out to her today and just see what

801
00:43:15,520 --> 00:43:16,720
Speaker 3: she's been eating fruit wise.

802
00:43:17,040 --> 00:43:17,440
Speaker 1: I like.

803
00:43:18,200 --> 00:43:21,440
Speaker 4: Okay, So growing up, I liked the rumors of fruit

804
00:43:21,640 --> 00:43:25,879
Speaker 4: that were always like sexual, like what like you know, like, oh,

805
00:43:26,000 --> 00:43:28,040
Speaker 4: if you eat pineapples like.

806
00:43:28,080 --> 00:43:31,239
Speaker 3: Ohmen disiak or oh yeah right, like.

807
00:43:31,239 --> 00:43:34,839
Speaker 4: Your cemen tastes sweeter or whatever. Right, and then in

808
00:43:35,040 --> 00:43:37,880
Speaker 4: Timewan like if you eat papayas, I guess your boobs

809
00:43:37,920 --> 00:43:41,480
Speaker 4: get bigger like these you know, these rumors of fruit

810
00:43:41,920 --> 00:43:45,640
Speaker 4: like that like weird, like erotic old wives tales almost

811
00:43:46,000 --> 00:43:49,360
Speaker 4: yeah yeah, yeah, they're like no scientists ever like okayed

812
00:43:50,320 --> 00:43:52,200
Speaker 4: or like said it was true.

813
00:43:52,080 --> 00:43:54,200
Speaker 3: Well, but they're like, you know, there's like, what's that

814
00:43:54,239 --> 00:43:56,680
Speaker 3: thing that is it Cindy Crawford is selling on TV

815
00:43:56,800 --> 00:43:59,760
Speaker 3: that's like I put melon all over my face or something.

816
00:44:00,239 --> 00:44:04,719
Speaker 4: So that just feels like wait, currently in nineteen ninety eight.

817
00:44:05,719 --> 00:44:07,799
Speaker 3: Twenty at least as of I think I saw this

818
00:44:07,880 --> 00:44:11,719
Speaker 3: in twenty nineteen, but Cindy, I think it was Cindy Crawford.

819
00:44:11,880 --> 00:44:14,760
Speaker 3: She's on TV. She's got lotion made out of melons

820
00:44:14,840 --> 00:44:19,080
Speaker 3: or something, which is clearly just nonsense. And I mean

821
00:44:20,440 --> 00:44:24,760
Speaker 3: she's legitimized these rumors. I mean next she'll be right

822
00:44:24,880 --> 00:44:26,920
Speaker 3: selling some other fruit. Who knows.

823
00:44:27,440 --> 00:44:30,960
Speaker 4: Yeah, oh my god. It's just like that sounds like

824
00:44:31,040 --> 00:44:35,640
Speaker 4: such a latist days kind of infomercial total, you know

825
00:44:35,680 --> 00:44:40,120
Speaker 4: what I mean, Like Richard Simmons food calculator days kind

826
00:44:40,160 --> 00:44:44,320
Speaker 4: of remember his food calculator. Well, it was like this

827
00:44:44,680 --> 00:44:48,239
Speaker 4: tangible thing. It wasn't a calculator. It had pictures of

828
00:44:48,920 --> 00:44:52,279
Speaker 4: like the food pyramid. Do you remember this? Okay, And

829
00:44:52,400 --> 00:44:54,680
Speaker 4: as you ate them throughout the day, you would have

830
00:44:54,719 --> 00:44:57,279
Speaker 4: to like close the blinds on it. So it's like

831
00:44:57,280 --> 00:45:00,880
Speaker 4: like an only event calendar. Yeah exactly. It's like, okay,

832
00:45:00,920 --> 00:45:03,799
Speaker 4: now you only can eat one more fruit for the day.

833
00:45:03,960 --> 00:45:07,440
Speaker 4: You've you almost had your fill, you know, and there

834
00:45:07,520 --> 00:45:13,759
Speaker 4: was only like four fats so yeah, yeah, yeah, but yeah,

835
00:45:14,040 --> 00:45:16,520
Speaker 4: I know this because I bought it. You bought it,

836
00:45:16,640 --> 00:45:18,200
Speaker 4: and did you use it for a time?

837
00:45:19,040 --> 00:45:19,439
Speaker 1: I did.

838
00:45:19,560 --> 00:45:23,319
Speaker 4: Yeah. It came with three VHS videos of his workouts.

839
00:45:23,440 --> 00:45:27,120
Speaker 4: Oh fantastic, and and it did a lot for me

840
00:45:27,280 --> 00:45:29,680
Speaker 4: and That's why I think this, see, this is me

841
00:45:29,840 --> 00:45:32,480
Speaker 4: bringing it all back, and that's why I think this

842
00:45:32,680 --> 00:45:35,560
Speaker 4: dancehall workout will do a lot for you. Yeah. Did

843
00:45:35,600 --> 00:45:40,920
Speaker 4: you any of Richard's moves into your workout routines? No? No, no,

844
00:45:41,000 --> 00:45:44,160
Speaker 4: that's I mean, I don't know if it's like patented,

845
00:45:44,400 --> 00:45:46,960
Speaker 4: you can't do. I want you to get sued by Richards.

846
00:45:49,080 --> 00:45:53,520
Speaker 4: You can't bring in his hot hot hot, how you

847
00:45:53,560 --> 00:45:58,040
Speaker 4: can't those are his moves you can't bring in, right.

848
00:45:58,000 --> 00:46:01,200
Speaker 3: I mean he has vanished from this, so who knows,

849
00:46:01,440 --> 00:46:03,720
Speaker 3: But maybe he's lying in wait just to sue someone,

850
00:46:03,920 --> 00:46:05,000
Speaker 3: just waiting to strike.

851
00:46:05,840 --> 00:46:10,640
Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean, you know, he's probably still he probably

852
00:46:10,640 --> 00:46:13,400
Speaker 4: still like looks at fitness videos out there.

853
00:46:13,520 --> 00:46:16,360
Speaker 3: Right, Yeah, I wonder what he thinks of today's fitness.

854
00:46:16,880 --> 00:46:18,719
Speaker 3: Did you ever listen to that podcast about him?

855
00:46:18,960 --> 00:46:22,680
Speaker 4: I did? I did, and I felt like, yeah, because

856
00:46:22,680 --> 00:46:25,840
Speaker 4: he was just at home this whole time when I

857
00:46:25,880 --> 00:46:29,600
Speaker 4: were just bothering this person. He was like, yeah, I

858
00:46:29,680 --> 00:46:33,160
Speaker 4: just don't feel like talking, like you're being out.

859
00:46:33,040 --> 00:46:35,320
Speaker 3: Who doesn't want to do the job. I want to retire.

860
00:46:35,400 --> 00:46:37,880
Speaker 3: I want to live at my house and not be bothered.

861
00:46:38,320 --> 00:46:41,240
Speaker 4: I don't know. Yeah, yeah, and I think that's okay.

862
00:46:41,680 --> 00:46:43,920
Speaker 3: You know what, I think that it's time for a game.

863
00:46:44,080 --> 00:46:45,560
Speaker 3: I think I want to play a game with you.

864
00:46:46,000 --> 00:46:46,839
Speaker 4: Let's play a game.

865
00:46:47,000 --> 00:46:49,720
Speaker 3: Let me give you two choices. One is called Gift Master,

866
00:46:50,400 --> 00:46:53,040
Speaker 3: the other is called gift or a Curse. Which would

867
00:46:53,080 --> 00:46:58,239
Speaker 3: you rather play? Oh, gift Master, okay, fantastic. Give me

868
00:46:58,280 --> 00:47:01,640
Speaker 3: a number between one and ten seven, Okay, I have

869
00:47:01,680 --> 00:47:05,319
Speaker 3: to do some calculating in the next minute or so.

870
00:47:05,360 --> 00:47:07,480
Speaker 3: Who knows how much time it'll actually take me to

871
00:47:07,520 --> 00:47:10,280
Speaker 3: do this. You can promote something, you can recommend something,

872
00:47:10,680 --> 00:47:12,719
Speaker 3: you can share a secret, you can do whatever you want.

873
00:47:12,719 --> 00:47:14,279
Speaker 3: You have the microphone, okay.

874
00:47:14,520 --> 00:47:17,759
Speaker 4: For a whole minute, well or maybe four minutes, I

875
00:47:17,760 --> 00:47:29,480
Speaker 4: don't know. Wow. So I'm currently staring at Bridger's eyebrows.

876
00:47:29,840 --> 00:47:38,520
Speaker 4: It's very He's very expressive when he's concentrating. He is

877
00:47:38,800 --> 00:47:43,880
Speaker 4: in it. I think I'm not good at math, but

878
00:47:45,640 --> 00:47:50,200
Speaker 4: I bet he is. Like I know he's counting hard

879
00:47:50,320 --> 00:47:53,439
Speaker 4: right now, because if you could see if you could

880
00:47:53,480 --> 00:47:57,320
Speaker 4: see his face right now, you would you would go, wow,

881
00:47:57,480 --> 00:48:02,880
Speaker 4: is he he's solving climate change right now? But no,

882
00:48:03,080 --> 00:48:09,760
Speaker 4: it's for a game called Gift Master, And I'm assuming

883
00:48:09,920 --> 00:48:13,400
Speaker 4: that's what I'm playing for is to be the master.

884
00:48:14,520 --> 00:48:22,239
Speaker 4: I have gifts. Check out my podcast. Let's go check

885
00:48:22,280 --> 00:48:25,600
Speaker 4: out my show Ohio live streaming every last Sunday at

886
00:48:25,680 --> 00:48:34,520
Speaker 4: six pm. Anyway, So back to bridgerd counting. I mean,

887
00:48:34,719 --> 00:48:36,960
Speaker 4: I don't know how much he has to count because

888
00:48:37,320 --> 00:48:41,000
Speaker 4: he asked for a number, just a random number from

889
00:48:41,040 --> 00:48:43,720
Speaker 4: one through ten, and I said seven, So I don't

890
00:48:44,360 --> 00:48:50,280
Speaker 4: I don't really know if he's like multiplying seven seven

891
00:48:50,360 --> 00:48:58,960
Speaker 4: times or if he's having to dividing seven seven times

892
00:48:59,000 --> 00:48:59,720
Speaker 4: would be harder.

893
00:49:00,200 --> 00:49:06,759
Speaker 3: Okay, okay, I that was a beautiful, interesting look at

894
00:49:06,840 --> 00:49:09,960
Speaker 3: the time, use of that time, and I think you've

895
00:49:10,040 --> 00:49:14,319
Speaker 3: kind of did a whole milage of things which was

896
00:49:14,360 --> 00:49:17,440
Speaker 3: so wonderful. And I hope that people enjoyed that minute

897
00:49:17,440 --> 00:49:20,520
Speaker 3: alone with you, and I feel like everyone grew closer.

898
00:49:20,160 --> 00:49:22,040
Speaker 4: Because of it. Oh yeah for sure. Yeah.

899
00:49:22,160 --> 00:49:24,120
Speaker 3: All that said, let me tell you how this game works.

900
00:49:24,400 --> 00:49:27,520
Speaker 3: I'm going to tell you three items, three potential gifts,

901
00:49:28,120 --> 00:49:30,160
Speaker 3: and then I'm also going to tell you three celebrities.

902
00:49:30,600 --> 00:49:33,000
Speaker 3: You have to tell me which gift you would give

903
00:49:33,040 --> 00:49:36,040
Speaker 3: which celebrity and why does that make sense?

904
00:49:36,719 --> 00:49:40,879
Speaker 4: Yeah? That makes sense? Gift Master. Yeah, here we go. Okay,

905
00:49:40,960 --> 00:49:45,040
Speaker 4: let me tell you. The gifts are as follows.

906
00:49:45,120 --> 00:49:53,480
Speaker 3: The gifts are an eyebrow threading session, a thirteen day

907
00:49:53,600 --> 00:49:59,320
Speaker 3: carnival cruise, and an Emmy for Outstanding Lead Actress in

908
00:49:59,360 --> 00:50:00,960
Speaker 3: a limited say movie.

909
00:50:01,360 --> 00:50:03,840
Speaker 4: Those are the great gifts that you'll be giving. I

910
00:50:03,920 --> 00:50:04,200
Speaker 4: love it.

911
00:50:04,239 --> 00:50:07,360
Speaker 3: Okay, Now you have to give them to the following people.

912
00:50:07,920 --> 00:50:11,480
Speaker 3: First of all, we have R and B singer Miguel

913
00:50:12,040 --> 00:50:18,080
Speaker 3: Are you familiar, Yes I am, yeah, actor Hugh Jackman,

914
00:50:18,520 --> 00:50:24,120
Speaker 3: Hugh Jackman. And finally, finally, where is it on here?

915
00:50:25,000 --> 00:50:29,920
Speaker 3: We've got oh, we have actor Catherine Zeta Jones.

916
00:50:30,640 --> 00:50:32,919
Speaker 4: Okay, so who are you going to give?

917
00:50:32,960 --> 00:50:33,040
Speaker 3: What?

918
00:50:33,239 --> 00:50:37,399
Speaker 4: And why? Hold on? So you said an Emmy for

919
00:50:37,719 --> 00:50:39,440
Speaker 4: a series.

920
00:50:39,800 --> 00:50:43,320
Speaker 3: Now the exact gift you'll be giving is an Emmy

921
00:50:43,400 --> 00:50:46,720
Speaker 3: for Outstanding Lead Actress in a Limited series or movie.

922
00:50:47,360 --> 00:50:48,480
Speaker 3: That's a specific Emmy.

923
00:50:48,520 --> 00:50:48,719
Speaker 2: You know.

924
00:50:48,800 --> 00:50:51,680
Speaker 3: This isn't lighting design, this is not directing, this is

925
00:50:51,719 --> 00:50:59,239
Speaker 3: not uh right, best children's show. This is this is

926
00:50:59,480 --> 00:51:00,240
Speaker 3: very hard.

927
00:51:00,360 --> 00:51:02,400
Speaker 4: This is very hard because whoever I put on that

928
00:51:02,560 --> 00:51:06,799
Speaker 4: carnival cruise ship is going to get COVID and so

929
00:51:08,280 --> 00:51:11,800
Speaker 4: and maybe more maybe an Emmy. You know, sometimes people

930
00:51:11,960 --> 00:51:18,279
Speaker 4: rise victoriously. Now, unfortunately for me, right, and my just

931
00:51:18,320 --> 00:51:23,080
Speaker 4: the way I was brought up, Katherine Zeta Jones. You know,

932
00:51:23,840 --> 00:51:27,960
Speaker 4: besides Chicago, which was a long time ago, you know,

933
00:51:30,719 --> 00:51:35,680
Speaker 4: I didn't. I never like grew up really watching her stuff, right,

934
00:51:35,840 --> 00:51:38,759
Speaker 4: and Chicago was eighteen years ago. What have you done

935
00:51:38,840 --> 00:51:40,400
Speaker 4: for me lately? Catherine? You know?

936
00:51:40,960 --> 00:51:43,839
Speaker 3: And tell you the only movie I can remember her

937
00:51:43,840 --> 00:51:46,960
Speaker 3: being in is the one where she's like a sexy

938
00:51:47,080 --> 00:51:49,040
Speaker 3: spy going between the laser beams.

939
00:51:49,080 --> 00:51:51,600
Speaker 4: Do you remember that? Oh that sounds hot and I

940
00:51:51,719 --> 00:51:57,120
Speaker 4: definitely missed it. That's all like an remember of her career. Yeah,

941
00:51:57,200 --> 00:52:00,719
Speaker 4: I think the mask of Zora all right? Right, but

942
00:52:00,840 --> 00:52:04,799
Speaker 4: you know, again, what have you done for me lately? Unfortunately? Catherine,

943
00:52:05,120 --> 00:52:07,439
Speaker 4: Maybe you take a break and think about what you're

944
00:52:07,480 --> 00:52:12,680
Speaker 4: gonna do for me lately, you know, and go ky

945
00:52:13,400 --> 00:52:16,600
Speaker 4: put a mask on. She's rich enough she can make

946
00:52:16,640 --> 00:52:19,319
Speaker 4: sure that nobody else is on that carnival cruise if she.

947
00:52:19,440 --> 00:52:24,600
Speaker 3: Wanted, or just thirteen days alone on a carnival cruise, yeah, with.

948
00:52:24,520 --> 00:52:28,279
Speaker 4: Like maybe her loved ones, you know. So I'm going

949
00:52:28,320 --> 00:52:33,960
Speaker 4: to send her on that, okay, And uh, Kathy, you

950
00:52:34,000 --> 00:52:38,360
Speaker 4: know I'm going to give that eyebrow threading to Hugh Jackman, Okay,

951
00:52:38,920 --> 00:52:41,480
Speaker 4: because I don't let me look at his eyebrows. I

952
00:52:41,520 --> 00:52:43,600
Speaker 4: haven't seen his eyebrows at a while. I don't think

953
00:52:43,600 --> 00:52:48,640
Speaker 4: they're actually well. Because Hugh is an actor. We've seen

954
00:52:48,719 --> 00:52:52,399
Speaker 4: him in all cuts this stuff, musicals, TV, I don't

955
00:52:52,440 --> 00:52:55,040
Speaker 4: know if he is seeing TV shows. He's in so

956
00:52:55,160 --> 00:52:58,960
Speaker 4: many Okay, logan, I'm gonna call on. He's Logan Okay

957
00:52:59,160 --> 00:53:03,520
Speaker 4: is Wolverine. Yeah, and he sings and dances. Everyone's appressed. Okay,

958
00:53:04,000 --> 00:53:08,279
Speaker 4: his So I want to give Miguel the chance to

959
00:53:08,320 --> 00:53:12,600
Speaker 4: be like a Emmy winning for sure. Sure, you know,

960
00:53:12,800 --> 00:53:16,120
Speaker 4: because I don't know if I feel like Miguel will

961
00:53:16,200 --> 00:53:18,879
Speaker 4: just like saying in Coco. But I don't know how

962
00:53:18,920 --> 00:53:23,120
Speaker 4: close he's gone to like being in motion pictures, but might.

963
00:53:23,080 --> 00:53:27,840
Speaker 3: Have that interest. He's kind of godic and moody.

964
00:53:28,760 --> 00:53:32,040
Speaker 4: Yeah, I want to see that, you know, not not

965
00:53:32,160 --> 00:53:35,959
Speaker 4: all I've already seen, you know. So that's why that's

966
00:53:36,000 --> 00:53:38,719
Speaker 4: why those are the people the gifts are going to.

967
00:53:39,200 --> 00:53:42,160
Speaker 3: Okay, fantastic, I think that that's a great you know,

968
00:53:42,400 --> 00:53:44,120
Speaker 3: you know, I put eyebrow threading.

969
00:53:43,840 --> 00:53:44,800
Speaker 4: On this list.

970
00:53:44,960 --> 00:53:46,800
Speaker 3: At some point, you know, I fall into kind of

971
00:53:46,840 --> 00:53:49,080
Speaker 3: these States where I'm just typing out things that come

972
00:53:49,120 --> 00:53:53,160
Speaker 3: to mind. I quite understand even what eyebrow threading is.

973
00:53:53,160 --> 00:53:56,279
Speaker 3: Is it they like put threads on your eyebrows and

974
00:53:56,280 --> 00:53:58,160
Speaker 3: then pull them out. Is that what's going on?

975
00:53:58,760 --> 00:53:59,080
Speaker 1: I think?

976
00:53:59,160 --> 00:54:01,400
Speaker 4: So I haven't done it before. Sorry, I just ate

977
00:54:01,440 --> 00:54:04,239
Speaker 4: a chip. Well, you know you've got to fill up

978
00:54:04,239 --> 00:54:10,400
Speaker 4: on the podcast. What kind of chip? But just got hungry?

979
00:54:11,160 --> 00:54:14,359
Speaker 4: You know, just a generic It's a sea salt potato chip. Oh,

980
00:54:14,400 --> 00:54:19,640
Speaker 4: I love a plane salted chip, that's all. Yeah. So, yeah,

981
00:54:19,719 --> 00:54:23,480
Speaker 4: I've seen people do it. I think the way I've

982
00:54:23,520 --> 00:54:28,680
Speaker 4: seen people do it is there's they the people doing

983
00:54:28,719 --> 00:54:33,360
Speaker 4: it have stread in their mouth what and they're using

984
00:54:33,440 --> 00:54:37,120
Speaker 4: their mouth and their two hands while they kind of

985
00:54:37,680 --> 00:54:41,520
Speaker 4: I think, kind of yeah straight away at the eyebrows.

986
00:54:41,520 --> 00:54:42,720
Speaker 4: I don't know exactly how.

987
00:54:42,600 --> 00:54:44,600
Speaker 3: You don't look into the science of that, because I

988
00:54:44,640 --> 00:54:47,720
Speaker 3: just don't understand why it's better than just plucking the eyebrows.

989
00:54:48,120 --> 00:54:50,120
Speaker 4: Yeah, me too, I don't know why.

990
00:54:50,280 --> 00:54:52,520
Speaker 3: I don't know if that, Yeah, well you will find

991
00:54:52,520 --> 00:54:54,440
Speaker 3: out what this new gift. I think you did an

992
00:54:54,480 --> 00:54:57,920
Speaker 3: excellent job there. I think Miguel getting the Emmy for

993
00:54:58,000 --> 00:55:02,360
Speaker 3: Lead Actress in a Limited series or movie is perfect.

994
00:55:01,960 --> 00:55:05,600
Speaker 4: Oh you said lead actress. Yeah, gender is such a

995
00:55:05,680 --> 00:55:06,360
Speaker 4: drug anyway.

996
00:55:06,440 --> 00:55:08,319
Speaker 3: Yeah, I think that it's time for anyone to get

997
00:55:08,360 --> 00:55:12,560
Speaker 3: anything who can, And I think Miguel would be happy

998
00:55:12,600 --> 00:55:14,520
Speaker 3: to do, you know. And I think anyone would be

999
00:55:14,560 --> 00:55:18,000
Speaker 3: thrilled to be getting this award for a limited series

1000
00:55:18,200 --> 00:55:19,280
Speaker 3: or movie.

1001
00:55:20,080 --> 00:55:20,279
Speaker 4: Yeah.

1002
00:55:20,280 --> 00:55:24,120
Speaker 3: So let's move on. We've got one final part of

1003
00:55:24,120 --> 00:55:26,319
Speaker 3: this podcast. People have been reaching out to me at

1004
00:55:26,400 --> 00:55:29,600
Speaker 3: I said no gifts at gmail dot com. They're desperate

1005
00:55:29,640 --> 00:55:32,520
Speaker 3: for answers. They need these answers or they're not going

1006
00:55:32,560 --> 00:55:35,359
Speaker 3: to be able to move on with their lives. Would

1007
00:55:35,400 --> 00:55:37,120
Speaker 3: you mind helping me answer a couple of questions?

1008
00:55:37,480 --> 00:55:38,680
Speaker 4: I would love to help you.

1009
00:55:38,600 --> 00:55:40,520
Speaker 3: All right, let me read this first one. It says,

1010
00:55:40,520 --> 00:55:43,279
Speaker 3: dear Bridger, My mother is a dear lady with some

1011
00:55:43,320 --> 00:55:46,560
Speaker 3: progressive hoarding tendencies and a very cluttered home that is

1012
00:55:46,600 --> 00:55:50,480
Speaker 3: slowly driving my stepdad to the teetering brink of insanity.

1013
00:55:50,800 --> 00:55:52,840
Speaker 3: Each year on her birthday, I want to buy her something,

1014
00:55:52,840 --> 00:55:55,359
Speaker 3: but repeatedly face the reality that she has too much

1015
00:55:55,360 --> 00:56:00,240
Speaker 3: of everything, including too many small trinket gifts like necklaces,

1016
00:56:00,600 --> 00:56:02,960
Speaker 3: which she apparently she has been giving her for the

1017
00:56:03,000 --> 00:56:05,440
Speaker 3: last decade or so, so I don't live close to her,

1018
00:56:05,480 --> 00:56:06,919
Speaker 3: so I can't take her out to a nice dinner

1019
00:56:07,040 --> 00:56:11,120
Speaker 3: or other event. Oh and of course, now this person

1020
00:56:11,239 --> 00:56:14,280
Speaker 3: is saying, love your podcast, so buttering me up as usual.

1021
00:56:15,840 --> 00:56:18,360
Speaker 3: This is from Holly and she says in parentheses like

1022
00:56:18,400 --> 00:56:23,520
Speaker 3: Holly Berry, not Haley Steinfeld. Now Hailey Steinfelder, that what

1023
00:56:23,680 --> 00:56:26,759
Speaker 3: happened to her? She was in true grit and then

1024
00:56:26,840 --> 00:56:29,560
Speaker 3: kind of vanished. Is that what's going on with the

1025
00:56:29,600 --> 00:56:32,719
Speaker 3: Haley steinfeldser the world? Do you don't even know who

1026
00:56:32,719 --> 00:56:33,440
Speaker 3: I'm talking about?

1027
00:56:33,719 --> 00:56:34,719
Speaker 4: No? I did not.

1028
00:56:35,160 --> 00:56:36,880
Speaker 3: I remember her being good and true grit and then

1029
00:56:37,080 --> 00:56:40,520
Speaker 3: that was the end of it. But that's why are

1030
00:56:40,520 --> 00:56:41,280
Speaker 3: we getting into.

1031
00:56:41,880 --> 00:56:43,920
Speaker 4: Oh she's okay, she's like twenty.

1032
00:56:44,480 --> 00:56:48,080
Speaker 3: Yeah, she's probably an adult. Now, well let's you know,

1033
00:56:48,520 --> 00:56:49,319
Speaker 3: I've taken a.

1034
00:56:49,280 --> 00:56:51,160
Speaker 4: S Oh she's in Dickinson.

1035
00:56:51,560 --> 00:56:53,719
Speaker 3: Oh she's in Dickinson. I haven't seen that. That's the

1036
00:56:53,760 --> 00:56:54,359
Speaker 3: Apple thing.

1037
00:56:55,120 --> 00:56:58,719
Speaker 4: Yeah, I did watch that. I have seen her. It

1038
00:56:58,840 --> 00:57:03,560
Speaker 4: was fine. It's like goth girls meet, you know, a

1039
00:57:03,640 --> 00:57:04,320
Speaker 4: period piece.

1040
00:57:04,560 --> 00:57:09,120
Speaker 3: Okay, sure, okay, she's working and she you know, Hailee

1041
00:57:09,160 --> 00:57:12,279
Speaker 3: Steinfeld didn't write in Holly like Holly Berry wrote in

1042
00:57:12,560 --> 00:57:15,360
Speaker 3: her mom is a hoarder. She doesn't need a single

1043
00:57:15,400 --> 00:57:17,120
Speaker 3: other thing. What could we give this person?

1044
00:57:17,880 --> 00:57:22,280
Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean, wow, you're asking a hoarder, you're a order.

1045
00:57:22,720 --> 00:57:28,919
Speaker 4: Well I'm not organized, remember right? Right? So like besides, yeah,

1046
00:57:29,000 --> 00:57:33,600
Speaker 4: on Netflix account to watch that new organizational show?

1047
00:57:33,640 --> 00:57:34,640
Speaker 1: Is that on?

1048
00:57:35,080 --> 00:57:36,200
Speaker 4: Is that on Netflix? Is?

1049
00:57:36,480 --> 00:57:39,400
Speaker 3: There are a few organizational shows on Netflix at this point.

1050
00:57:39,440 --> 00:57:42,680
Speaker 3: There's one called like Editing Home Editing or something.

1051
00:57:43,160 --> 00:57:46,400
Speaker 4: Yeah, that one, that's the one.

1052
00:57:46,640 --> 00:57:49,400
Speaker 3: See there are yeah, several of That's actually not a

1053
00:57:49,440 --> 00:57:52,560
Speaker 3: bad idea to get her because you know, Netflix is

1054
00:57:52,560 --> 00:57:55,640
Speaker 3: not a tangible object. It's not going to be adding

1055
00:57:55,640 --> 00:58:00,120
Speaker 3: anything to her home, and suddenly she's something that can

1056
00:58:00,400 --> 00:58:03,880
Speaker 3: at least guide her in getting rid of stuff. There's

1057
00:58:03,920 --> 00:58:06,960
Speaker 3: also you know, you send somebody over like a closet

1058
00:58:07,040 --> 00:58:11,160
Speaker 3: expert or something like that, you have the experience. Well,

1059
00:58:11,400 --> 00:58:13,760
Speaker 3: of course, yeah, we're also living in a pandemic, so

1060
00:58:13,800 --> 00:58:16,280
Speaker 3: this all becomes very difficult. But if you can find

1061
00:58:16,320 --> 00:58:18,240
Speaker 3: somebody that can go over there and help get rid

1062
00:58:18,320 --> 00:58:20,400
Speaker 3: of some of this crap, some of the necklaces you've

1063
00:58:20,440 --> 00:58:25,080
Speaker 3: been sending Holly, which, let's just say you a problem.

1064
00:58:25,600 --> 00:58:28,320
Speaker 3: It's time to help mom clean up the house, and

1065
00:58:28,400 --> 00:58:33,240
Speaker 3: this Stepdad is you know, stepping over the decades of

1066
00:58:33,320 --> 00:58:37,320
Speaker 3: gifts that have just kind of piled up. I think that,

1067
00:58:37,960 --> 00:58:41,320
Speaker 3: you know, for the you know, if your budgets smaller,

1068
00:58:41,360 --> 00:58:44,200
Speaker 3: the Netflix thing is perfect. You recommend the show which

1069
00:58:44,240 --> 00:58:48,240
Speaker 3: also feels deeply past aggressive, which it is.

1070
00:58:48,360 --> 00:58:53,520
Speaker 4: Fine, it's very passive aggressive. Or I like like a

1071
00:58:53,560 --> 00:58:57,160
Speaker 4: free zoom session with an organizer, right, which is also

1072
00:58:57,720 --> 00:59:00,520
Speaker 4: passive aggressive. But you got to tell your mom she

1073
00:59:00,560 --> 00:59:01,800
Speaker 4: has a problem for us, and I need to do

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00:59:01,880 --> 00:59:02,440
Speaker 4: these things.

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00:59:02,720 --> 00:59:05,120
Speaker 3: Right right, And I guess it just all depends on

1076
00:59:05,120 --> 00:59:07,160
Speaker 3: the hordor level of your mom. You know, you know,

1077
00:59:07,360 --> 00:59:09,680
Speaker 3: you can have someone who's just collects a little too

1078
00:59:09,720 --> 00:59:12,280
Speaker 3: much of it, then there's genuine, you know, dealing with

1079
00:59:12,320 --> 00:59:15,760
Speaker 3: the mental illness. So let's let's figure out where that

1080
00:59:15,840 --> 00:59:19,320
Speaker 3: where your mom lies on that category and then move

1081
00:59:19,480 --> 00:59:23,840
Speaker 3: forward with helping her clear out the house because uh,

1082
00:59:24,360 --> 00:59:27,600
Speaker 3: you know, there's don't send her another thing unless I

1083
00:59:27,600 --> 00:59:29,880
Speaker 3: guess maybe it's like a Actually, I'm not going to

1084
00:59:30,120 --> 00:59:34,080
Speaker 3: recommend a single material object, Holly, unless it's a Hailey

1085
00:59:34,080 --> 00:59:38,800
Speaker 3: Steinfeld poster that seems would have benefit your mother and

1086
00:59:38,880 --> 00:59:43,640
Speaker 3: Hailey Steinfeld. So I think we answered Holly's question. Just fine,

1087
00:59:44,800 --> 00:59:48,160
Speaker 3: Let's move on to the next one. This one, says Bridger.

1088
00:59:48,200 --> 00:59:51,360
Speaker 3: My new upstairs neighbors, whom I've never met, are constantly

1089
00:59:51,440 --> 00:59:54,520
Speaker 3: either drumming or dancing or tapping their feet so loud

1090
00:59:54,840 --> 00:59:57,960
Speaker 3: that it's driving me crazy. These are these apartments are

1091
00:59:57,960 --> 00:59:59,840
Speaker 3: one bedroom, so I can't imagine what the hell they're

1092
00:59:59,840 --> 01:00:02,320
Speaker 3: doing up there. I'm desperate for it to stop. I'd

1093
01:00:02,360 --> 01:00:04,600
Speaker 3: go up and talk to them in person, but feel

1094
01:00:04,640 --> 01:00:07,280
Speaker 3: I will most definitely come across as bitchy, and then

1095
01:00:07,320 --> 01:00:10,720
Speaker 3: they may purposely be louder. I understand that feeling. What's

1096
01:00:10,760 --> 01:00:13,200
Speaker 3: a small inexpensive gift I could leave for them with

1097
01:00:13,240 --> 01:00:15,760
Speaker 3: a note welcoming them they've been here for four months

1098
01:00:16,240 --> 01:00:18,520
Speaker 3: and then oh and here we are, and then passively

1099
01:00:18,520 --> 01:00:21,160
Speaker 3: aggressively asking them to stop ruining my days and nights

1100
01:00:21,160 --> 01:00:24,400
Speaker 3: with their incessants stopping. That's from Erica in Vancouver. So

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01:00:24,600 --> 01:00:26,760
Speaker 3: you know, we were just talking about being passive aggressive,

1102
01:00:26,800 --> 01:00:32,360
Speaker 3: So this is perfect. We're kind of in passive aggression territory.

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01:00:32,960 --> 01:00:36,400
Speaker 4: And you know, I'm sure you've dealt with upstairs neighbors,

1104
01:00:36,920 --> 01:00:40,240
Speaker 4: have and did you? I feel like mostly I was

1105
01:00:40,280 --> 01:00:42,040
Speaker 4: the upstairs for the most part.

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01:00:42,200 --> 01:00:46,280
Speaker 3: Oh sure you did anybody ever approach you about being

1107
01:00:46,360 --> 01:00:47,320
Speaker 3: loud or anything?

1108
01:00:48,320 --> 01:00:51,440
Speaker 4: No, I was so quiet, or I lived in garages.

1109
01:00:52,040 --> 01:00:55,880
Speaker 3: Oh okay, so we've got to think about you know,

1110
01:00:55,960 --> 01:00:58,360
Speaker 3: I think this is a good move to give the

1111
01:00:58,440 --> 01:01:01,640
Speaker 3: upstairs neighbor it literally anything, just to remind them that

1112
01:01:01,680 --> 01:01:05,720
Speaker 3: there's a human being living beneath them. Now, the curse

1113
01:01:06,120 --> 01:01:08,840
Speaker 3: for this upstairs neighbor, of course, is that I think

1114
01:01:08,880 --> 01:01:11,800
Speaker 3: being an upstairs neighbor in an apartment building, no matter

1115
01:01:11,840 --> 01:01:14,880
Speaker 3: what you do, you are going to be noisy and annoying.

1116
01:01:15,160 --> 01:01:19,600
Speaker 3: There's truly no escaping it because most apartment buildings are

1117
01:01:20,120 --> 01:01:25,200
Speaker 3: owned and operated by people who use the cheapest materials

1118
01:01:25,840 --> 01:01:30,160
Speaker 3: and the noise proof so they these places are just

1119
01:01:30,240 --> 01:01:34,520
Speaker 3: kind of designed to make neighbors hate each other. But

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01:01:34,760 --> 01:01:37,400
Speaker 3: let's get this upstairs neighbor. I think it's a baked good.

1121
01:01:37,840 --> 01:01:42,240
Speaker 3: I think that it's a nice little cake which I

1122
01:01:42,240 --> 01:01:44,240
Speaker 3: would not make at home because they don't know you.

1123
01:01:44,280 --> 01:01:46,960
Speaker 3: And nobody has a baked good from someone that they

1124
01:01:46,960 --> 01:01:47,480
Speaker 3: don't know.

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01:01:48,120 --> 01:01:51,200
Speaker 4: Yeah, it's nice from a store, I agree. Or soft

1126
01:01:51,240 --> 01:01:54,800
Speaker 4: slippers if you want to be going to doing soft

1127
01:01:54,840 --> 01:01:57,400
Speaker 4: slippers if you want to go past the aggressive.

1128
01:01:57,520 --> 01:02:02,080
Speaker 3: Yeah, it feels like that a very you know, get

1129
01:02:02,120 --> 01:02:06,520
Speaker 3: them an area rug, leave a giant area rug outside

1130
01:02:06,520 --> 01:02:10,320
Speaker 3: their apartment and they're gonna be Yeah, if it's heavy enough,

1131
01:02:10,320 --> 01:02:12,480
Speaker 3: they're not gonna want to take it back downstairs. They're

1132
01:02:12,520 --> 01:02:14,440
Speaker 3: going to have to take it into their apartment and

1133
01:02:14,480 --> 01:02:15,040
Speaker 3: put it on the.

1134
01:02:15,000 --> 01:02:18,760
Speaker 4: Floor, right, and a cake and or a cake.

1135
01:02:18,920 --> 01:02:20,960
Speaker 3: Right, and then they kind of get a little bit

1136
01:02:21,000 --> 01:02:23,600
Speaker 3: of everything. And suddenly you're spending five hundred dollars to

1137
01:02:23,880 --> 01:02:27,000
Speaker 3: possibly get these people to stop being And then finally,

1138
01:02:27,080 --> 01:02:30,800
Speaker 3: if if they if it's really annoying, eventually you just

1139
01:02:30,840 --> 01:02:33,760
Speaker 3: have to start ratting them out. You've got you've got

1140
01:02:33,800 --> 01:02:36,520
Speaker 3: to reach out to the building manager and say, there's

1141
01:02:36,560 --> 01:02:39,080
Speaker 3: a little bit of noise, is there anything that can

1142
01:02:39,160 --> 01:02:43,240
Speaker 3: be done? But I think that the slippers in a

1143
01:02:43,360 --> 01:02:46,640
Speaker 3: rug are kind of the key things. Or maybe you

1144
01:02:46,640 --> 01:02:50,560
Speaker 3: buy them like a thirteen day carnival cruise and then

1145
01:02:50,840 --> 01:02:52,000
Speaker 3: you put the heaps off.

1146
01:02:52,840 --> 01:02:55,560
Speaker 4: That's maybe they're trapped on a boat. That's the most

1147
01:02:55,560 --> 01:02:56,480
Speaker 4: expensive option.

1148
01:02:56,840 --> 01:03:01,160
Speaker 3: Yeah, well, right now, it's probably a deeply discounted that's true.

1149
01:03:01,360 --> 01:03:03,000
Speaker 4: Yeah, that's true. I didn't think about that.

1150
01:03:03,440 --> 01:03:06,600
Speaker 3: Send your neighbors on a cruise, they open the door,

1151
01:03:06,640 --> 01:03:09,880
Speaker 3: they're tickets to a cruise. Nobody can resist a freak

1152
01:03:10,000 --> 01:03:15,240
Speaker 3: vacation and or get them a cake it on vacation.

1153
01:03:15,560 --> 01:03:17,840
Speaker 3: While they're on this cruise. You break into the apartment

1154
01:03:17,880 --> 01:03:21,439
Speaker 3: and sound proof. The options are almost endless. You're even

1155
01:03:21,480 --> 01:03:25,000
Speaker 3: writing in for question Erica. I mean, just off the

1156
01:03:25,040 --> 01:03:27,240
Speaker 3: top of our head, we've thought of some very simple

1157
01:03:27,360 --> 01:03:30,400
Speaker 3: solutions that will take care of the neighbor and you'll

1158
01:03:30,440 --> 01:03:34,120
Speaker 3: be living in peace. Also, I think that we've absolutely

1159
01:03:34,240 --> 01:03:35,760
Speaker 3: nailed this and I couldn't.

1160
01:03:35,440 --> 01:03:36,240
Speaker 4: Have done you.

1161
01:03:37,200 --> 01:03:40,200
Speaker 3: Thank you, what a wonderful time I've had with you

1162
01:03:40,280 --> 01:03:43,080
Speaker 3: here on the podcast and this gift. I'm looking forward

1163
01:03:43,120 --> 01:03:48,520
Speaker 3: to a dancehole workout and I will be in touch

1164
01:03:48,560 --> 01:03:53,160
Speaker 3: and figure that out. And it's going to be deeply uncomfortable, I imagine.

1165
01:03:53,960 --> 01:03:58,960
Speaker 4: But no, Look, you can do it with people that

1166
01:03:59,080 --> 01:04:02,560
Speaker 4: you like, or send it to other people who you like.

1167
01:04:02,640 --> 01:04:06,040
Speaker 4: It would this be over zoom? What's the what's the situation? No,

1168
01:04:06,120 --> 01:04:08,440
Speaker 4: it's already pre recorded, so you can open it up

1169
01:04:08,480 --> 01:04:11,480
Speaker 4: and work out to it anytime you want. Oh, you're kidding, No,

1170
01:04:11,960 --> 01:04:16,040
Speaker 4: it's that's the situation. It's pre recorded, a pre recorded thing,

1171
01:04:16,080 --> 01:04:17,920
Speaker 4: not in my email. What do you mean did I

1172
01:04:18,000 --> 01:04:26,120
Speaker 4: not send it? No, you didn't send it. Oh no, here, here's.

1173
01:04:25,080 --> 01:04:27,880
Speaker 3: Just a just literally text in the email. So there's

1174
01:04:27,920 --> 01:04:29,040
Speaker 3: no link or anything.

1175
01:04:29,640 --> 01:04:30,280
Speaker 4: Oh no.

1176
01:04:30,360 --> 01:04:32,440
Speaker 3: So I've been living in a little bit of confusion,

1177
01:04:32,840 --> 01:04:35,320
Speaker 3: and I'm glad I asked this. Is you have to

1178
01:04:35,360 --> 01:04:39,320
Speaker 3: ask gifts or questions about gifts because you too, the

1179
01:04:39,320 --> 01:04:44,919
Speaker 3: the giver doesn't quite or may have got an element. Yeah, yeah,

1180
01:04:45,480 --> 01:04:48,040
Speaker 3: are deeply unsatisfied. But now see I'm getting the link

1181
01:04:48,120 --> 01:04:51,280
Speaker 3: to this, to this workout, and I'm gonna be able

1182
01:04:51,280 --> 01:04:52,280
Speaker 3: to have a wonderful time.

1183
01:04:52,680 --> 01:04:54,960
Speaker 4: Yeah you need the link, Oh my god. Not just

1184
01:04:55,400 --> 01:04:59,320
Speaker 4: like words that say, hey, hey you can work out

1185
01:04:59,440 --> 01:05:00,880
Speaker 4: to if you want.

1186
01:05:01,080 --> 01:05:03,960
Speaker 3: His going to be doing a live like this is

1187
01:05:04,040 --> 01:05:05,480
Speaker 3: like a huge commitment for her.

1188
01:05:07,440 --> 01:05:11,120
Speaker 4: You're right here here, bridger if you want to just

1189
01:05:11,280 --> 01:05:16,960
Speaker 4: you know, and my husband works out with me for

1190
01:05:17,160 --> 01:05:21,320
Speaker 4: like the first five minutes. Okay, surely, so you'll see

1191
01:05:21,360 --> 01:05:24,640
Speaker 4: that he's there too. In case you're like, what's going on,

1192
01:05:24,720 --> 01:05:29,680
Speaker 4: that's what's happening? This strange Yeah yeah, yeah, boom, I

1193
01:05:29,760 --> 01:05:30,280
Speaker 4: sent it.

1194
01:05:30,360 --> 01:05:35,840
Speaker 3: Now you have a complete gift and praise everything, because

1195
01:05:36,040 --> 01:05:39,640
Speaker 3: I would have fallen apart otherwise you can open.

1196
01:05:39,400 --> 01:05:41,360
Speaker 4: It if you wanted to, just make sure it's real.

1197
01:05:41,840 --> 01:05:45,919
Speaker 3: Okay, fantastic, I'm gonna just click it right now while

1198
01:05:45,960 --> 01:05:49,200
Speaker 3: everything's on the podcast. You know, we've got the audience listening.

1199
01:05:49,240 --> 01:05:51,600
Speaker 3: I'm trying to keep people honest here. Oh perfect, this

1200
01:05:51,640 --> 01:05:54,720
Speaker 3: looks incredible. There's your husband in the background. You've got

1201
01:05:54,720 --> 01:05:58,680
Speaker 3: an incredible outfit on. Oh I'm thrilled about this.

1202
01:05:59,200 --> 01:06:04,560
Speaker 4: Now. Is this something anybody can access? That one's private, okay,

1203
01:06:04,920 --> 01:06:09,920
Speaker 4: because I sold the classes like it was like per class.

1204
01:06:09,960 --> 01:06:13,360
Speaker 4: But if they yeah, if they wanted to, I they're

1205
01:06:13,400 --> 01:06:18,800
Speaker 4: available to to purchase on my website. Oh, everybody, go

1206
01:06:18,920 --> 01:06:19,760
Speaker 4: buy this class.

1207
01:06:19,800 --> 01:06:21,680
Speaker 3: I mean I haven't even started it, but I'm already

1208
01:06:21,840 --> 01:06:23,520
Speaker 3: entertained and feel like this is going to be a

1209
01:06:23,520 --> 01:06:27,600
Speaker 3: wonderful workout. So go to her website buy the classes.

1210
01:06:28,120 --> 01:06:32,800
Speaker 3: You're inside, you should be dancing and having a nice time. Well, look,

1211
01:06:32,920 --> 01:06:34,840
Speaker 3: this is the end of the podcast. That's I mean,

1212
01:06:35,000 --> 01:06:37,840
Speaker 3: that's all I have to say. Let's go. You've been wonderful.

1213
01:06:37,960 --> 01:06:40,400
Speaker 3: You've been it's been delightful and I'm so happy to

1214
01:06:40,760 --> 01:06:44,000
Speaker 3: have had you here. Thank you for the gift, of course,

1215
01:06:44,440 --> 01:06:48,600
Speaker 3: and everybody go enjoy yourself for the rest of the day,

1216
01:06:48,920 --> 01:06:52,280
Speaker 3: or go buy a class and dance and we'll meet

1217
01:06:52,320 --> 01:06:55,320
Speaker 3: again at some other point. Goodbye. I said no gifts

1218
01:06:55,360 --> 01:07:00,160
Speaker 3: isn't exactly right production. It's engineered by Earth Angel Steven Raymore. Yes,

1219
01:07:00,320 --> 01:07:03,400
Speaker 3: the theme song is by Miracle Worker Amy Mann. You

1220
01:07:03,440 --> 01:07:06,120
Speaker 3: can follow the show on Instagram and Twitter. At I

1221
01:07:06,160 --> 01:07:09,080
Speaker 3: said no gifts, And if you have a question or

1222
01:07:09,560 --> 01:07:11,560
Speaker 3: need help getting a gift for someone in your life,

1223
01:07:12,040 --> 01:07:15,840
Speaker 3: email me at I said no gifts at gmail dot com.

1224
01:07:15,880 --> 01:07:19,680
Speaker 3: Listen and subscribe on Apple podcast, Stitcher or wherever you

1225
01:07:19,760 --> 01:07:22,200
Speaker 3: found me. And why not leave a review while you're

1226
01:07:22,240 --> 01:07:22,560
Speaker 3: at it?

1227
01:07:24,600 --> 01:07:31,600
Speaker 2: Well, I invited you, hear Gonta mad myself perfectly clear.

1228
01:07:32,920 --> 01:07:38,240
Speaker 1: When you're a guest to me, you gotta come to

1229
01:07:38,280 --> 01:07:39,400
Speaker 1: me empty.

1230
01:07:39,800 --> 01:07:46,920
Speaker 2: And I said, no guests, you're presences, presents, and and

1231
01:07:47,200 --> 01:07:52,360
Speaker 2: I'm already too much stuff. So how did you dad

1232
01:07:52,520 --> 01:07:54,120
Speaker 2: to surbey me?