1 00:00:01,000 --> 00:00:04,560 Speaker 1: It happens in movies and reality TV shows all the time, 2 00:00:05,440 --> 00:00:08,879 Speaker 1: people meddling in the dating lives of their other friends. 3 00:00:09,200 --> 00:00:12,760 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, in all the time. You know, is it 4 00:00:12,800 --> 00:00:16,320 Speaker 1: okay to do that? Because if it is? And Brook, 5 00:00:16,360 --> 00:00:19,280 Speaker 1: after this is over, Alexis says she has some thoughts 6 00:00:19,320 --> 00:00:23,079 Speaker 1: on your current situationship with the guy that you live with. 7 00:00:23,680 --> 00:00:24,680 Speaker 2: It just if you're open to them. 8 00:00:24,720 --> 00:00:25,639 Speaker 3: It's a marriage. 9 00:00:26,040 --> 00:00:32,479 Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, but Brook's life aside. We are about to 10 00:00:32,520 --> 00:00:35,879 Speaker 1: do some love life meddling today because one of our 11 00:00:35,920 --> 00:00:40,040 Speaker 1: listeners swears she has a really, really good reason. She 12 00:00:40,120 --> 00:00:42,879 Speaker 1: needs to stop her close friend from going out on 13 00:00:42,920 --> 00:00:47,519 Speaker 1: a blind date, and she wants our help to block it. 14 00:00:50,200 --> 00:00:50,640 Speaker 3: I don't know. 15 00:00:50,760 --> 00:00:53,319 Speaker 1: I know you're skeptical, but you might be on her 16 00:00:53,440 --> 00:00:56,320 Speaker 1: side when you hear why in a brand new awkward 17 00:00:56,320 --> 00:00:57,240 Speaker 1: Tuesday phone call. 18 00:00:57,560 --> 00:01:04,440 Speaker 4: Next awkward It's Tuesday. It's awkward Tuesday phone call. 19 00:01:05,280 --> 00:01:09,440 Speaker 1: As an adult going out with high schoolers, bad idea, 20 00:01:09,920 --> 00:01:15,600 Speaker 1: It's terrible idea. Get word, That's what I said. Bad idea? 21 00:01:16,440 --> 00:01:19,319 Speaker 1: So DoD Chalantley though, what about going out with people 22 00:01:19,440 --> 00:01:22,199 Speaker 1: you knew from back when you were in high school? 23 00:01:22,800 --> 00:01:23,559 Speaker 1: Is that okay? 24 00:01:25,040 --> 00:01:25,840 Speaker 5: Is totally different? 25 00:01:25,920 --> 00:01:29,880 Speaker 1: Well, one of our listeners, Carrie says, absolutely not. What terrible, 26 00:01:30,280 --> 00:01:33,320 Speaker 1: horrible idea to date your old high school class mate. 27 00:01:33,480 --> 00:01:37,720 Speaker 1: Apparently that's why she needs our help today, Carrie, Welcome 28 00:01:37,760 --> 00:01:38,319 Speaker 1: to the show. 29 00:01:39,200 --> 00:01:41,040 Speaker 6: Hi thinks sounds like high. 30 00:01:40,840 --> 00:01:43,679 Speaker 1: School drama is still following you right into adulthood. 31 00:01:43,760 --> 00:01:46,920 Speaker 6: Huh yeah, it's weird. And let me just let me 32 00:01:46,959 --> 00:01:50,960 Speaker 6: just specify. I'm not opposed to other people dating people 33 00:01:51,000 --> 00:01:54,120 Speaker 6: that they knew in high school, but not my friend Justin. 34 00:01:54,480 --> 00:01:57,800 Speaker 5: Oh, just Justin. So it's not even other people from 35 00:01:57,840 --> 00:01:59,360 Speaker 5: your high school, it's just justin you. 36 00:01:59,720 --> 00:02:02,560 Speaker 1: This is that's a special case. What's going on with Justin? 37 00:02:03,200 --> 00:02:03,520 Speaker 7: Okay? 38 00:02:03,560 --> 00:02:06,040 Speaker 6: So just and our friends, we've been friends, like you said, 39 00:02:06,040 --> 00:02:08,320 Speaker 6: since high school. We're now in our late twenties. 40 00:02:08,600 --> 00:02:08,960 Speaker 5: Okay. 41 00:02:09,280 --> 00:02:12,560 Speaker 6: And the other day he told me, Hey, I'm going 42 00:02:12,560 --> 00:02:16,400 Speaker 6: on a date. It's crazy. You can't even imagine who 43 00:02:16,480 --> 00:02:19,320 Speaker 6: I'm going to date with. And it turns out to 44 00:02:19,360 --> 00:02:26,919 Speaker 6: be this girl we knew in high school, Catalina Leena. 45 00:02:28,360 --> 00:02:30,440 Speaker 1: I don't know anything matters. What's with Catalina? 46 00:02:31,080 --> 00:02:33,600 Speaker 6: Well, she was the awkward girl. She was like kind 47 00:02:33,639 --> 00:02:36,239 Speaker 6: of like science geeky, a little. 48 00:02:36,160 --> 00:02:39,600 Speaker 5: Still bullying, the awkward girl in high school. Are we 49 00:02:39,639 --> 00:02:39,919 Speaker 5: over that? 50 00:02:40,120 --> 00:02:43,520 Speaker 6: Oh no, no, no, no, Like she knew she was awkward. 51 00:02:43,639 --> 00:02:46,200 Speaker 6: She was like the awkward smart science ye girl, Listen, 52 00:02:46,320 --> 00:02:48,280 Speaker 6: I was a little awkward. It's just I was able 53 00:02:48,320 --> 00:02:50,040 Speaker 6: to play it off better than she was. 54 00:02:50,919 --> 00:02:53,160 Speaker 1: May Brooke, You must have had somebody at your school 55 00:02:53,200 --> 00:02:55,400 Speaker 1: who was like that at handling their mess and that 56 00:02:55,560 --> 00:02:56,680 Speaker 1: was the awkward. 57 00:02:57,960 --> 00:03:00,760 Speaker 5: Yes, why are you better at chemistry? That was our 58 00:03:00,840 --> 00:03:01,840 Speaker 5: chemistry class? Right? 59 00:03:02,000 --> 00:03:07,040 Speaker 1: Yeah, So that's bad news that your friend might be 60 00:03:07,080 --> 00:03:09,360 Speaker 1: going out with your awkward kid from high school. 61 00:03:10,120 --> 00:03:12,760 Speaker 6: Well, I'm going to give you a little more backstory 62 00:03:12,800 --> 00:03:15,959 Speaker 6: before I tell you why that's bad. Okay, he got 63 00:03:15,960 --> 00:03:18,519 Speaker 6: hooked up through another friend of ours from high school 64 00:03:18,560 --> 00:03:19,720 Speaker 6: who was connected. 65 00:03:19,840 --> 00:03:21,480 Speaker 8: She had a crush on him from high school. 66 00:03:21,760 --> 00:03:24,280 Speaker 6: Blah blah blah blah. So they like got each other's 67 00:03:24,280 --> 00:03:27,720 Speaker 6: phone numbers. We're talking. He still has no clue what 68 00:03:27,800 --> 00:03:30,799 Speaker 6: she looks like. No one could find her on social media. 69 00:03:32,040 --> 00:03:36,480 Speaker 6: I was curious, and I discovered that her parents got 70 00:03:36,480 --> 00:03:39,440 Speaker 6: divorced and she took her mom's maiden name. So I 71 00:03:39,560 --> 00:03:42,240 Speaker 6: found her on social media under her maiden name. 72 00:03:42,480 --> 00:03:46,440 Speaker 5: Okay, snooping, So why are you doing all this work? 73 00:03:46,480 --> 00:03:47,520 Speaker 1: He's just going down on. 74 00:03:47,480 --> 00:03:52,920 Speaker 6: A date because she's gorgeous. I mean, she's like Scarlet Johansson, Britain's. 75 00:03:52,560 --> 00:03:57,760 Speaker 1: Met It's amazing. Why is it bad? Yeah? 76 00:03:57,920 --> 00:04:00,480 Speaker 6: Generally that is great for her. I'm happy for her, 77 00:04:00,680 --> 00:04:05,320 Speaker 6: are you? But here's the thing, guys, I don't want 78 00:04:05,400 --> 00:04:09,160 Speaker 6: him to know, but I'm I kind of have a 79 00:04:09,200 --> 00:04:09,920 Speaker 6: thing for Justin. 80 00:04:10,200 --> 00:04:12,480 Speaker 8: It we've known each other for so long. 81 00:04:12,760 --> 00:04:16,680 Speaker 6: It just a few years ago started and I'm not 82 00:04:16,839 --> 00:04:20,080 Speaker 6: ready for him to know. I need more time. But 83 00:04:20,440 --> 00:04:23,120 Speaker 6: if he gets put in front of this girl, I 84 00:04:23,160 --> 00:04:23,960 Speaker 6: have no chance. 85 00:04:26,279 --> 00:04:29,080 Speaker 1: This is why it was good being nerdier in high school, 86 00:04:29,080 --> 00:04:31,560 Speaker 1: because she actually has probably a cool personality too. 87 00:04:32,120 --> 00:04:35,400 Speaker 5: Oh, they're not helping, Jose. I mean you sounded petty, 88 00:04:35,440 --> 00:04:38,240 Speaker 5: and I get why you're jealous, and you admit it. 89 00:04:38,320 --> 00:04:39,520 Speaker 5: That all makes sense now. 90 00:04:39,560 --> 00:04:41,560 Speaker 6: Yeah, I just I don't think I could compete. 91 00:04:41,720 --> 00:04:43,800 Speaker 1: Okay, you don't want Justin going out with the now 92 00:04:43,880 --> 00:04:46,919 Speaker 1: pretty girl? Is Justin the type of guy that's into 93 00:04:46,920 --> 00:04:47,479 Speaker 1: pretty women? 94 00:04:47,920 --> 00:04:51,080 Speaker 6: Or is there any guy that's not into pretty women? 95 00:04:51,760 --> 00:04:52,279 Speaker 1: Yeah? 96 00:04:52,520 --> 00:04:55,760 Speaker 6: Sorry, no, please, I'd prefer an ugly, stupid woman. 97 00:04:56,600 --> 00:04:58,359 Speaker 5: So wait, what do you want to do though? Do 98 00:04:58,400 --> 00:04:59,960 Speaker 5: you just finally want to tell him how you feel 99 00:05:00,760 --> 00:05:01,920 Speaker 5: before he goes out with her. 100 00:05:02,000 --> 00:05:04,719 Speaker 6: No, I'm not ready for that. I need more time. 101 00:05:05,200 --> 00:05:08,400 Speaker 6: But I just need to figure out to convince him 102 00:05:08,440 --> 00:05:09,480 Speaker 6: not to go out with her. 103 00:05:10,320 --> 00:05:13,720 Speaker 5: Oh oh, you could just stay in this like not zone, 104 00:05:13,760 --> 00:05:14,360 Speaker 5: but I have a crush. 105 00:05:14,680 --> 00:05:17,880 Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean this is tricky, Like alexis, what do 106 00:05:17,920 --> 00:05:20,800 Speaker 1: you think about this situation, trying to stop your friend 107 00:05:20,839 --> 00:05:24,000 Speaker 1: from going out with somebody hotter. I don't know if. 108 00:05:23,880 --> 00:05:26,359 Speaker 9: It's the nicest thing to do, but I would do 109 00:05:26,400 --> 00:05:27,479 Speaker 9: it probably myself too. 110 00:05:27,680 --> 00:05:30,760 Speaker 6: Yeah, but what did you just tell the guy that 111 00:05:30,800 --> 00:05:31,440 Speaker 6: you like him? 112 00:05:31,520 --> 00:05:33,120 Speaker 1: Yeah, like, you're you're. 113 00:05:32,920 --> 00:05:34,880 Speaker 5: In your late twenties at this point. 114 00:05:34,640 --> 00:05:37,600 Speaker 1: You got to shoot your shot. How many decades have 115 00:05:37,680 --> 00:05:40,320 Speaker 1: you been waiting? Maybe she's waiting till he gets married 116 00:05:40,360 --> 00:05:43,240 Speaker 1: and then divorced, so that his confidence is so low 117 00:05:43,279 --> 00:05:45,640 Speaker 1: he'll settle for anything. That could be a good strategy. 118 00:05:46,080 --> 00:05:48,640 Speaker 5: Yeah, what if he likes you too, and you guys 119 00:05:48,680 --> 00:05:50,800 Speaker 5: are both just living in this world of not telling 120 00:05:50,839 --> 00:05:51,240 Speaker 5: each other. 121 00:05:51,560 --> 00:05:53,160 Speaker 6: Well, I haven't. I mean that's kind of why I 122 00:05:53,200 --> 00:05:54,800 Speaker 6: feel like I need a little more time, Like I 123 00:05:54,839 --> 00:05:58,200 Speaker 6: haven't really tried to look for the signals and. 124 00:05:58,160 --> 00:06:01,000 Speaker 1: Stuff like that, Like lighting the fire. Now you realize 125 00:06:01,480 --> 00:06:02,320 Speaker 1: he's not going to be single. 126 00:06:02,600 --> 00:06:05,239 Speaker 5: I would fully like him until he found somebody hotter 127 00:06:05,320 --> 00:06:05,840 Speaker 5: and smarter. 128 00:06:08,440 --> 00:06:13,200 Speaker 10: Yeah, listen, let me say like he stated other girls, 129 00:06:13,480 --> 00:06:16,280 Speaker 10: and this is going to make me sound really superficial, 130 00:06:16,560 --> 00:06:18,880 Speaker 10: but they didn't feel like competition to me, and so 131 00:06:18,920 --> 00:06:21,520 Speaker 10: I don't think that I really realized it until like 132 00:06:21,560 --> 00:06:24,560 Speaker 10: a woman came along that would totally blow me out 133 00:06:24,560 --> 00:06:25,039 Speaker 10: of the water. 134 00:06:25,680 --> 00:06:27,080 Speaker 8: Now I wouldn't have a chance. 135 00:06:27,360 --> 00:06:29,840 Speaker 1: Okay, now the gloves are coming off this. 136 00:06:32,440 --> 00:06:33,719 Speaker 5: What do you want our help doing? 137 00:06:33,760 --> 00:06:33,920 Speaker 7: Then? 138 00:06:34,000 --> 00:06:36,120 Speaker 5: Like, are we calling Justin and telling him not to 139 00:06:36,160 --> 00:06:36,800 Speaker 5: go out with her? 140 00:06:37,360 --> 00:06:37,760 Speaker 7: Yeah? 141 00:06:37,800 --> 00:06:40,720 Speaker 6: Yeah, this is convincing Justin not to go out with her, 142 00:06:42,360 --> 00:06:44,640 Speaker 6: telling him that you like him exactly. 143 00:06:44,880 --> 00:06:49,560 Speaker 1: Okay, chances that's all our job to come up with 144 00:06:49,600 --> 00:06:53,000 Speaker 1: a way to convince Justin to cancel his date with 145 00:06:53,160 --> 00:06:57,960 Speaker 1: the now gorgeous looking Catalina without letting her know that 146 00:06:58,000 --> 00:06:58,760 Speaker 1: she's gorgeous. 147 00:06:59,360 --> 00:07:01,839 Speaker 6: Okay, And you don't have to keep rubbing in how 148 00:07:01,880 --> 00:07:04,720 Speaker 6: gorgeous she is. I get that, I obviously know what 149 00:07:04,760 --> 00:07:05,360 Speaker 6: I've seen her. 150 00:07:05,560 --> 00:07:06,800 Speaker 1: Okay. I don't think you. 151 00:07:06,760 --> 00:07:10,680 Speaker 5: Can be named Catalina without being absolutely dropped gorgeous. 152 00:07:11,600 --> 00:07:14,000 Speaker 1: She's not gorgeous. She's just stunning, and we're going to 153 00:07:14,080 --> 00:07:19,040 Speaker 1: convince Justin to not go out with her. We'll give 154 00:07:19,080 --> 00:07:20,520 Speaker 1: us a little bit of advice and let you make 155 00:07:20,520 --> 00:07:22,720 Speaker 1: your awkward Tuesday phone call right after this. 156 00:07:24,520 --> 00:07:29,280 Speaker 4: It's awkward, It's Tuesday. It's awkward Tuesday phone call. 157 00:07:29,680 --> 00:07:32,640 Speaker 1: If you're just joining us for this awkward Tuesday phone call, 158 00:07:32,880 --> 00:07:35,760 Speaker 1: it's a story that really speaks to my soul. The 159 00:07:35,840 --> 00:07:38,880 Speaker 1: awkward kid in high school who was maybe a little shy, 160 00:07:39,160 --> 00:07:43,360 Speaker 1: did school plays and chess club, and during field trips 161 00:07:43,360 --> 00:07:45,640 Speaker 1: he would crawl underneath the seats on the bus and 162 00:07:45,640 --> 00:07:49,920 Speaker 1: then pop up from below and say, guess who. They 163 00:07:49,920 --> 00:07:55,200 Speaker 1: were completely undateable back then, but a few years ago 164 00:07:55,400 --> 00:08:00,600 Speaker 1: by and now they've matured mentally and physically. 165 00:08:00,720 --> 00:08:04,720 Speaker 5: I feel like you still do that thing, Rail, and that. 166 00:08:04,880 --> 00:08:09,320 Speaker 1: Ugly duckling has grown into an undeniable, bubbling cauldron of 167 00:08:09,520 --> 00:08:18,400 Speaker 1: raw desires. Because it's undeniable. Listener, Carrie, she's not that person. 168 00:08:19,000 --> 00:08:21,640 Speaker 1: She's actually kind of threatened by that person. That's why 169 00:08:21,680 --> 00:08:25,040 Speaker 1: she wants our help to stop her friend Justin from 170 00:08:25,040 --> 00:08:27,600 Speaker 1: going out with the awkward girl from high school who's 171 00:08:27,640 --> 00:08:34,280 Speaker 1: now blossomed into the female me, why why did you 172 00:08:34,280 --> 00:08:37,360 Speaker 1: want to Jeff? Because I mean, secretly she does have 173 00:08:37,440 --> 00:08:40,080 Speaker 1: some feelings for Justin, but isn't ready to tell him that. Carrie, 174 00:08:40,160 --> 00:08:42,480 Speaker 1: your goal is to convince him to not go out with. 175 00:08:42,440 --> 00:08:44,400 Speaker 6: Her, right, yeah, exactly? 176 00:08:44,720 --> 00:08:45,120 Speaker 8: All right? 177 00:08:45,200 --> 00:08:47,640 Speaker 1: But how are we gonna do that? I think Jose 178 00:08:47,840 --> 00:08:50,640 Speaker 1: has an idea for you. Yeah. So look, we kind 179 00:08:50,640 --> 00:08:53,000 Speaker 1: of want him to just naturally not like her anymore 180 00:08:53,040 --> 00:08:55,240 Speaker 1: and pass up on the date. We have to do 181 00:08:55,440 --> 00:08:58,880 Speaker 1: the old fashioned high school trick is start a rumor 182 00:08:58,960 --> 00:09:01,520 Speaker 1: about her because you know what's that? 183 00:09:01,800 --> 00:09:04,319 Speaker 9: I heard she made out with her brother and it 184 00:09:04,480 --> 00:09:06,120 Speaker 9: wasn't that long ago, are you? 185 00:09:06,720 --> 00:09:09,480 Speaker 1: That's what I brother's review of the kids was not 186 00:09:09,600 --> 00:09:15,319 Speaker 1: good your words. 187 00:09:16,520 --> 00:09:19,240 Speaker 6: I mean, I think it would be effective, but that's 188 00:09:19,280 --> 00:09:20,239 Speaker 6: the little. 189 00:09:20,000 --> 00:09:24,280 Speaker 1: Means that's gross. You're gonna have to play a little 190 00:09:24,360 --> 00:09:28,480 Speaker 1: bit dirty to get what you want. What do you think, bro? Okay, listen, 191 00:09:28,520 --> 00:09:29,760 Speaker 1: I don't think it's about. 192 00:09:29,440 --> 00:09:32,320 Speaker 5: Putting the hot girl down. I think it's about building 193 00:09:32,400 --> 00:09:32,880 Speaker 5: him up. 194 00:09:33,280 --> 00:09:34,760 Speaker 1: He doesn't even know this girl is hot. 195 00:09:34,800 --> 00:09:37,160 Speaker 5: All you need to say is, listen, you are so hot, 196 00:09:37,200 --> 00:09:41,200 Speaker 5: You're so beyond blind dates, like, yes, so above that. 197 00:09:41,480 --> 00:09:42,680 Speaker 2: Then you tell. 198 00:09:42,600 --> 00:09:46,240 Speaker 5: Him I have the most gorgeous friend ever that I 199 00:09:46,360 --> 00:09:49,120 Speaker 5: have to set you up with. She's funny, she's everything 200 00:09:49,160 --> 00:09:51,720 Speaker 5: you've ever been looking for. Like that, I can't tell 201 00:09:51,720 --> 00:09:52,319 Speaker 5: you who it is. 202 00:09:52,520 --> 00:09:56,280 Speaker 1: It's Brookes with your guy. 203 00:09:56,840 --> 00:10:00,200 Speaker 5: O God, more competition, and then you drop it on 204 00:10:00,320 --> 00:10:04,000 Speaker 5: him later when you're ready that the mysterious perfect woman 205 00:10:04,240 --> 00:10:04,720 Speaker 5: is you. 206 00:10:05,040 --> 00:10:06,040 Speaker 11: Oh wow? 207 00:10:11,679 --> 00:10:14,479 Speaker 6: I'm like, what if I meet him at a restaurant. 208 00:10:14,520 --> 00:10:16,280 Speaker 6: I'm the one that walks in and I have to 209 00:10:16,320 --> 00:10:18,840 Speaker 6: deal with the potential rejection of him being like, what 210 00:10:18,880 --> 00:10:19,800 Speaker 6: are you doing here? 211 00:10:20,080 --> 00:10:23,280 Speaker 5: All guy friends want to sleep with their girlfriends. 212 00:10:25,240 --> 00:10:29,800 Speaker 1: There's Brooks advice, just sleep around. All right, Let's just 213 00:10:29,800 --> 00:10:31,800 Speaker 1: give him a call and we're gonna let you make 214 00:10:31,840 --> 00:10:35,160 Speaker 1: your awkward Tuesday phone call and try and convince him 215 00:10:35,360 --> 00:10:39,880 Speaker 1: not to go out on his date. We're we're here 216 00:10:39,960 --> 00:10:41,920 Speaker 1: for you, all right, We're down the number right now? 217 00:10:42,600 --> 00:10:44,199 Speaker 6: Okay, good luck? 218 00:10:50,880 --> 00:10:54,680 Speaker 7: Hello? Hey, how's it going? Hey? 219 00:10:54,720 --> 00:10:54,920 Speaker 1: Care? 220 00:10:54,960 --> 00:10:55,200 Speaker 10: Bara? 221 00:10:55,280 --> 00:10:57,760 Speaker 7: What's going on? Not much? 222 00:10:57,800 --> 00:10:58,320 Speaker 6: How are you doing? 223 00:10:59,520 --> 00:11:01,319 Speaker 7: I'm just killing some time before I have to go 224 00:11:01,400 --> 00:11:02,200 Speaker 7: to work. What's up? 225 00:11:03,400 --> 00:11:03,559 Speaker 5: Oh? 226 00:11:04,320 --> 00:11:05,199 Speaker 11: You know, I just wanted the chat. 227 00:11:05,280 --> 00:11:07,319 Speaker 7: Say hey, oh, did. 228 00:11:07,120 --> 00:11:08,000 Speaker 8: Billy get a hold of you? 229 00:11:09,440 --> 00:11:13,440 Speaker 7: Yeah? I assume you're talking about the blind date that 230 00:11:13,480 --> 00:11:14,360 Speaker 7: I mentioned the other day. 231 00:11:15,559 --> 00:11:16,240 Speaker 11: No, no, no, I just. 232 00:11:16,200 --> 00:11:18,040 Speaker 8: Meant about hanging out next weekend. 233 00:11:19,080 --> 00:11:20,360 Speaker 7: Oh yeah, we're gonna say now. 234 00:11:20,240 --> 00:11:22,840 Speaker 8: That you mention it, are you Are you still doing that? 235 00:11:23,320 --> 00:11:24,320 Speaker 8: You're still going to hang out? 236 00:11:25,559 --> 00:11:27,599 Speaker 7: I mean, I'm very I'm very curious. I mean, he 237 00:11:28,040 --> 00:11:32,360 Speaker 7: mentioned that Catalina's doing all kinds of neat things right now, 238 00:11:32,400 --> 00:11:36,160 Speaker 7: and I don't know, I just figured, what the hell? Yeah, 239 00:11:36,160 --> 00:11:36,640 Speaker 7: that's cool. 240 00:11:37,080 --> 00:11:39,080 Speaker 8: You know, this is kind of weird. But I kind 241 00:11:39,080 --> 00:11:41,959 Speaker 8: of heard something really random recently about her, like a. 242 00:11:41,960 --> 00:11:46,679 Speaker 7: Rumor, a rumor. What are you doing about? 243 00:11:47,400 --> 00:11:49,400 Speaker 6: Okay? So I heard that she was at a party 244 00:11:50,200 --> 00:11:53,040 Speaker 6: like a month ago and kind of mete out with 245 00:11:53,080 --> 00:11:53,520 Speaker 6: her brother. 246 00:11:55,360 --> 00:11:59,040 Speaker 7: What where did you hear this? 247 00:12:00,440 --> 00:12:03,120 Speaker 8: Yeah, I don't know, just randomly. 248 00:12:04,800 --> 00:12:09,880 Speaker 2: Randomly what Yeah, I don't know, But like, blind needs 249 00:12:09,880 --> 00:12:10,880 Speaker 2: are really weird, aren't they. 250 00:12:10,920 --> 00:12:12,720 Speaker 8: Like are you sure you really want to a blind date? 251 00:12:12,800 --> 00:12:15,320 Speaker 8: I mean, you're so cool and like you're good looking, 252 00:12:15,800 --> 00:12:18,560 Speaker 8: and you really want to like go through the awkwardness 253 00:12:18,640 --> 00:12:20,760 Speaker 8: of a blind date and all that. 254 00:12:22,200 --> 00:12:24,360 Speaker 7: Well, I mean it's just a blind date. I'm not 255 00:12:24,400 --> 00:12:27,040 Speaker 7: going to marry the girl. Just figured made up for 256 00:12:27,080 --> 00:12:30,080 Speaker 7: a cup of coffee then just talk, you know, you 257 00:12:30,120 --> 00:12:31,040 Speaker 7: know what, how about this? 258 00:12:31,240 --> 00:12:34,400 Speaker 8: Like, I have a friend, she's awesome, she's. 259 00:12:34,240 --> 00:12:35,240 Speaker 6: Great, she's super hot. 260 00:12:36,240 --> 00:12:38,000 Speaker 8: What have I set you up with her? 261 00:12:38,160 --> 00:12:42,040 Speaker 7: Instead? You you want to set me up on a 262 00:12:42,040 --> 00:12:42,560 Speaker 7: blind date? 263 00:12:43,440 --> 00:12:45,320 Speaker 8: No, it's not a blind date because I've seen her 264 00:12:45,360 --> 00:12:46,120 Speaker 8: and I know her well. 265 00:12:46,360 --> 00:12:48,880 Speaker 11: But like Helen, and no one has seen her, none 266 00:12:48,920 --> 00:12:51,040 Speaker 11: of us is like talk to her in a long time. 267 00:12:51,120 --> 00:12:53,080 Speaker 11: I mean, I guess you guys have been texting. That's something, 268 00:12:53,200 --> 00:12:58,160 Speaker 11: but like, you know, I don't know, this might be better. 269 00:13:00,120 --> 00:13:01,720 Speaker 7: Will tell me about this friend of yours. 270 00:13:04,040 --> 00:13:06,520 Speaker 8: I mean, she was great, you know, like you would. 271 00:13:06,720 --> 00:13:09,200 Speaker 8: I think you really like her. She's you would totally 272 00:13:09,240 --> 00:13:11,520 Speaker 8: get along. I know you guys have a lot in common. 273 00:13:12,160 --> 00:13:14,800 Speaker 6: And I know one hundred percent that she does not 274 00:13:14,920 --> 00:13:19,840 Speaker 6: make out with her brother at party. 275 00:13:20,080 --> 00:13:20,880 Speaker 7: I firmly hope. 276 00:13:20,920 --> 00:13:33,640 Speaker 1: Not laughing too hard? Hey, Justin, Hey, Justin. 277 00:13:33,880 --> 00:13:35,720 Speaker 7: What are you at a party or something? What's all 278 00:13:35,760 --> 00:13:36,160 Speaker 7: that laughter? 279 00:13:40,480 --> 00:13:43,240 Speaker 1: I think we're kind of a party. We're we're a 280 00:13:43,280 --> 00:13:46,040 Speaker 1: morning radio show. Justin called Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning. 281 00:13:46,160 --> 00:13:48,080 Speaker 1: Why did you go with those days advice? 282 00:13:48,280 --> 00:13:52,360 Speaker 7: I thought that was solid though, kidding, but I am 283 00:13:52,480 --> 00:13:53,760 Speaker 7: so lost right now. 284 00:13:55,480 --> 00:13:59,480 Speaker 1: You're on the radio right now, man, Okay, we're doing 285 00:13:59,480 --> 00:14:02,960 Speaker 1: a segment on an awkward Tuesday phone call. Carrie reached 286 00:14:03,000 --> 00:14:04,760 Speaker 1: out wanting a little bit of help to talk to 287 00:14:04,760 --> 00:14:08,760 Speaker 1: you about your upcoming blind date with this girl. We're 288 00:14:08,840 --> 00:14:11,439 Speaker 1: not so sure it's a good idea for you to. 289 00:14:11,360 --> 00:14:14,880 Speaker 7: Go out with her because of the brother thing or 290 00:14:15,960 --> 00:14:16,560 Speaker 7: I mean, that's. 291 00:14:16,440 --> 00:14:17,800 Speaker 1: Just one of many, many. 292 00:14:17,679 --> 00:14:22,920 Speaker 5: Reasons, because Carrie does have someone really cool that she 293 00:14:22,960 --> 00:14:23,880 Speaker 5: wants to set you up with. 294 00:14:24,320 --> 00:14:26,520 Speaker 7: Kerry. What exactly is going on here? This is is 295 00:14:26,520 --> 00:14:27,080 Speaker 7: a little weird. 296 00:14:28,840 --> 00:14:32,920 Speaker 6: Okay, listen, justin, I I haven't been super honest with you. 297 00:14:33,120 --> 00:14:35,520 Speaker 8: I have not been the best friend in the sense 298 00:14:35,560 --> 00:14:40,400 Speaker 8: that I discovered Katalina's. 299 00:14:40,320 --> 00:14:44,440 Speaker 7: Social media and well you found her social media. What 300 00:14:44,480 --> 00:14:45,120 Speaker 7: does she look like? 301 00:14:48,160 --> 00:14:50,560 Speaker 1: That sound is probably all you need to know. Just 302 00:14:52,160 --> 00:14:54,080 Speaker 1: new rumor coming in. I hear she looks like Oscar 303 00:14:54,160 --> 00:14:57,520 Speaker 1: the Groudy, like a muppet whatever. Who cares what she 304 00:14:57,560 --> 00:14:59,560 Speaker 1: looks like. You're not the type of guy that bases 305 00:14:59,600 --> 00:15:01,360 Speaker 1: a relation ship on looks, are you? 306 00:15:01,560 --> 00:15:05,040 Speaker 7: Just Like I said, at the very least, we would 307 00:15:05,080 --> 00:15:06,760 Speaker 7: just get a cup of coffee and catch up a 308 00:15:06,800 --> 00:15:08,560 Speaker 7: little bit. That doesn't mean we go on the second 309 00:15:08,640 --> 00:15:09,280 Speaker 7: date or anything. 310 00:15:09,400 --> 00:15:11,560 Speaker 1: Yeah, it starts with coffee drinking. Next thing, you know, 311 00:15:11,640 --> 00:15:12,680 Speaker 1: brothers are kissing. 312 00:15:13,280 --> 00:15:16,200 Speaker 6: Okay, I don't feel. 313 00:15:15,960 --> 00:15:17,960 Speaker 8: Like any of this is helping you guys. 314 00:15:18,760 --> 00:15:20,280 Speaker 4: Did you need to do the thing? 315 00:15:20,400 --> 00:15:20,680 Speaker 1: I mean? 316 00:15:20,840 --> 00:15:23,840 Speaker 6: Okay, Okay, I think this has become too much of 317 00:15:23,840 --> 00:15:27,080 Speaker 6: an awkward quagmire for me not to say the thing 318 00:15:27,160 --> 00:15:30,760 Speaker 6: that I have been trying to not say. Say the thing? 319 00:15:31,000 --> 00:15:32,520 Speaker 1: Carrie, what thing? 320 00:15:32,680 --> 00:15:34,320 Speaker 7: What? I still don't know what the hell is going 321 00:15:34,360 --> 00:15:34,800 Speaker 7: on here? 322 00:15:38,120 --> 00:15:42,720 Speaker 2: We have such a good connection, and I just kind 323 00:15:42,720 --> 00:15:47,240 Speaker 2: of wondering if, like, maybe there's a mutual attraction beyond 324 00:15:47,240 --> 00:15:48,640 Speaker 2: friendship between us? 325 00:15:49,400 --> 00:15:52,480 Speaker 1: Is m what do you think? 326 00:15:52,520 --> 00:15:54,440 Speaker 7: So you dragged me through a whole radio show to 327 00:15:54,480 --> 00:15:56,120 Speaker 7: finally spill the beams here? 328 00:15:59,080 --> 00:16:01,160 Speaker 1: Maybe she was nervous. 329 00:16:01,560 --> 00:16:04,760 Speaker 8: Obviously, I realize now this is not the right way 330 00:16:04,800 --> 00:16:07,400 Speaker 8: to do it. I just I just thought it. 331 00:16:07,360 --> 00:16:10,440 Speaker 6: Like maybe we needed some more organic time to let 332 00:16:10,520 --> 00:16:15,360 Speaker 6: it evolve. But then I saw Katalina and I would 333 00:16:15,400 --> 00:16:16,920 Speaker 6: have no chance if you met her. 334 00:16:17,560 --> 00:16:19,520 Speaker 1: That is not true. 335 00:16:19,880 --> 00:16:22,280 Speaker 5: Justin don't you think that Carrie is amazing? Could you 336 00:16:22,360 --> 00:16:24,000 Speaker 5: see something more between you two? 337 00:16:24,160 --> 00:16:26,240 Speaker 7: Have you ever picked I wouldn't have been friends with her? 338 00:16:26,240 --> 00:16:28,160 Speaker 7: For the last decade. If I didn't think she was 339 00:16:28,200 --> 00:16:31,320 Speaker 7: amazing you We've talked about this. You always you know, 340 00:16:31,560 --> 00:16:35,400 Speaker 7: undersell yourself, see and to be perfectly honest, Yeah, I 341 00:16:35,480 --> 00:16:37,280 Speaker 7: think you kind of went about this the wrong way. 342 00:16:37,320 --> 00:16:40,080 Speaker 7: Is so finally getting this out in the open. But hey, 343 00:16:40,720 --> 00:16:42,680 Speaker 7: might make a great story for our first date. 344 00:16:45,720 --> 00:16:49,040 Speaker 1: So justin you're into the idea of maybe going out 345 00:16:49,080 --> 00:16:52,120 Speaker 1: with Carrie here, not a friend date, like a romantic date. 346 00:16:52,640 --> 00:16:53,760 Speaker 7: I wouldn't mind one bit. 347 00:16:54,320 --> 00:16:55,920 Speaker 1: Yeah. 348 00:16:56,160 --> 00:16:58,960 Speaker 5: Really it sounds justin like you have liked her for 349 00:16:59,000 --> 00:16:59,760 Speaker 5: a long time. 350 00:17:00,360 --> 00:17:01,720 Speaker 7: To be probably be honest, I have. 351 00:17:02,040 --> 00:17:04,720 Speaker 1: Yeah, Oh my god. 352 00:17:04,560 --> 00:17:06,439 Speaker 7: I was afraid that I was in the zone. But 353 00:17:06,520 --> 00:17:07,960 Speaker 7: you know, I just kind of I just you know, 354 00:17:08,320 --> 00:17:10,280 Speaker 7: like you said, we've been friends for a long time. 355 00:17:10,400 --> 00:17:12,480 Speaker 7: I didn't know how you felt, so I didn't want 356 00:17:12,480 --> 00:17:13,480 Speaker 7: to like ruin a good thing. 357 00:17:13,880 --> 00:17:18,000 Speaker 8: But we've yeah, both kind of been. 358 00:17:18,200 --> 00:17:20,880 Speaker 1: Idiots in all of our years. 359 00:17:20,880 --> 00:17:21,040 Speaker 7: Here. 360 00:17:21,119 --> 00:17:24,040 Speaker 1: I never thought Brooks advice of just sleep with all 361 00:17:24,080 --> 00:17:27,760 Speaker 1: of your friends what's the worst happen would actually work 362 00:17:29,320 --> 00:17:33,920 Speaker 1: a good job, bro A. You gonna find out. 363 00:17:34,160 --> 00:17:36,359 Speaker 7: Brook and Jeffrey in the morning. 364 00:17:36,560 --> 00:17:38,320 Speaker 5: Actually, I think that one was really cute. 365 00:17:38,560 --> 00:17:41,120 Speaker 1: Yeah, we were I an update from them. 366 00:17:41,280 --> 00:17:43,639 Speaker 9: I mean a lot of drama to just ask someone 367 00:17:43,640 --> 00:17:46,320 Speaker 9: out that you've known for a long Yeah. 368 00:17:46,640 --> 00:17:47,240 Speaker 6: It's true. 369 00:17:47,760 --> 00:17:49,760 Speaker 11: Was just telling your closest friend, hey, I have a crush. 370 00:17:49,560 --> 00:17:51,840 Speaker 1: On you, or crossing the borders hard? 371 00:17:52,359 --> 00:17:53,080 Speaker 5: Can I kiss you? 372 00:17:53,320 --> 00:17:55,440 Speaker 6: That's what I'm straight for. 373 00:17:55,960 --> 00:17:58,879 Speaker 4: Yeah, straight for it after ten years of friendship. 374 00:17:59,600 --> 00:18:04,639 Speaker 3: No, yeah, Bill, But the first time I kissed one 375 00:18:04,680 --> 00:18:08,000 Speaker 3: of my best friends, oh this is I was like sixteen, right, 376 00:18:08,119 --> 00:18:10,320 Speaker 3: and it was like my second kiss I'd ever had, 377 00:18:10,320 --> 00:18:12,119 Speaker 3: and the first one went horribly wrong. 378 00:18:12,520 --> 00:18:14,200 Speaker 5: So this one was really. 379 00:18:13,880 --> 00:18:17,119 Speaker 9: Good and I got so excited I high five him afterwards. 380 00:18:17,320 --> 00:18:23,560 Speaker 9: Oh and he was like, she goes Brooke, don't ever 381 00:18:23,640 --> 00:18:24,200 Speaker 9: do that again. 382 00:18:25,720 --> 00:18:27,040 Speaker 1: You're close enough he could tell you that. 383 00:18:27,240 --> 00:18:28,400 Speaker 6: Yeah. 384 00:18:27,880 --> 00:18:29,720 Speaker 5: Yeah, he's still one of my best buddies. 385 00:18:29,840 --> 00:18:31,480 Speaker 1: Yeah, so a couple. 386 00:18:32,040 --> 00:18:34,640 Speaker 5: I think what I think what this is is if 387 00:18:34,680 --> 00:18:36,920 Speaker 5: you have a crush, just tell him all right, there's 388 00:18:36,960 --> 00:18:38,160 Speaker 5: nothing yeah. 389 00:18:39,440 --> 00:18:43,240 Speaker 3: Friendship and then when that backfires, call us okay and 390 00:18:43,280 --> 00:18:43,720 Speaker 3: we'll do it. 391 00:18:43,800 --> 00:18:47,960 Speaker 5: Another awkward Tuesday for you. 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