WEBVTT - A Routine Check-Up 0:00:00.520 --> 0:00:04.760 Scrubbing In with Becca Tilly and Tanya rap An iHeartRadio podcast. 0:00:09.119 --> 0:00:14.600 Hello everybody, we are scrubbing in and it is Thursday. 0:00:14.680 --> 0:00:21.240 Thursday, Thursday, Gold Gold Baby, mushroom tea. Yeah, money today 0:00:21.440 --> 0:00:26.680 Tanya exploring different types of Oh wait do you oh 0:00:26.720 --> 0:00:28.360 you did watch The Last of Us? So you know 0:00:28.400 --> 0:00:31.920 the mushroom that's like that that happened coralman? 0:00:32.159 --> 0:00:33.120 Are coralman? 0:00:33.320 --> 0:00:38.280 Yes? Yes, that is infected the infection, yes, yeah, not zombies. 0:00:38.400 --> 0:00:42.360 That mushroom is in my coffee. Wow, I know, I'm 0:00:42.440 --> 0:00:43.880 so on top of pop culture. 0:00:44.000 --> 0:00:49.200 I'm a little bit concerned that that's available. 0:00:49.520 --> 0:00:51.959 Yeah, it's very available. It's one of the mushrooms that's 0:00:52.000 --> 0:00:53.120 in my coffee. 0:00:53.159 --> 0:00:55.600 Is the caffeine in your mushroom tea? Nope, I don't 0:00:55.600 --> 0:01:00.360 want to try it. Oh I drink nothing but water. 0:01:00.360 --> 0:01:02.200 But I'm curious what mushroom tea would taste like. 0:01:02.680 --> 0:01:04.959 It's not about the taste. It's the ceremony for me. 0:01:05.200 --> 0:01:05.959 It doesn't taste good. 0:01:06.040 --> 0:01:08.840 No, no, it doesn't tastes It tastes fine, but it's like, 0:01:08.920 --> 0:01:12.680 doesn't taste like coffee. But it's the ceremony for me. 0:01:12.720 --> 0:01:16.200 It's waking up, making something warm and cozy coming into work, like, 0:01:16.600 --> 0:01:20.200 I can't miss that step getting up the caffeine. 0:01:19.840 --> 0:01:21.840 Was I'd missed that step beat of more time in 0:01:21.880 --> 0:01:24.640 the morning. You could sleep in another ten minutes, you know, but. 0:01:24.600 --> 0:01:27.000 Then I wouldn't be happy. Would you rather be comfortable 0:01:27.080 --> 0:01:29.280 or happy? That's a really profound. 0:01:29.440 --> 0:01:32.080 I like both, that'll be both, but I don't. I 0:01:32.120 --> 0:01:34.679 also don't have your ritual. I've never ever had a 0:01:34.760 --> 0:01:36.639 ritual even similar to that, so I can't relate. 0:01:36.840 --> 0:01:38.920 I saw this question on Instagram. It was like would 0:01:38.959 --> 0:01:40.760 you rather be comfortable or happy? And it really stuck 0:01:40.800 --> 0:01:41.000 with me. 0:01:41.040 --> 0:01:44.280 I was like, Wow, doesn't one bring the other hm? 0:01:45.040 --> 0:01:47.800 I feel like it's comfortable brings happiness. 0:01:47.319 --> 0:01:55.120 Or comfortable might just bring complacency mm, which brings unhappiness, 0:01:55.680 --> 0:01:56.800 which brings. 0:01:56.640 --> 0:01:59.400 Well, it limits your happiness, right correct. It kind of 0:01:59.400 --> 0:02:01.080 puts a cap on how happy you could be, because 0:02:01.080 --> 0:02:02.960 who knows. If you weren't comfortable and you kept going, 0:02:03.000 --> 0:02:04.400 you could be even happier if. 0:02:04.320 --> 0:02:06.000 You were uncomfortable for a little bit and you could 0:02:06.000 --> 0:02:09.040 be happy. Would you do it. 0:02:11.080 --> 0:02:13.200 For those who are like, oh, maybe I want to 0:02:13.200 --> 0:02:17.960 give up caffeine? How long was the withdrawal period. 0:02:17.639 --> 0:02:22.040 A little over a week. Yeah, I was getting headaches for. 0:02:21.800 --> 0:02:23.240 A week either a week. 0:02:23.480 --> 0:02:25.800 Yeah, Robbie didn't have it as like as long as 0:02:25.840 --> 0:02:27.679 I did, but he had him pretty bad too. 0:02:28.320 --> 0:02:28.880 Ikes. 0:02:29.400 --> 0:02:31.880 Yeah, Robbie's so like insolidarity. 0:02:32.120 --> 0:02:33.359 I know, he's the cutest. 0:02:33.440 --> 0:02:36.359 Like he's just like, oh yeah, I'll give up caffeine too. 0:02:36.480 --> 0:02:40.800 Yeah, yeah, give it up gluten alcohol right now too? 0:02:41.360 --> 0:02:43.480 What fun time? What you'll do? 0:02:45.080 --> 0:02:49.840 Yeah, like two weeks and how long a you're going 0:02:49.840 --> 0:02:50.280 to be off. 0:02:50.680 --> 0:02:53.000 We don't have like a time. We're just getting off 0:02:53.160 --> 0:02:55.640 caffeine and alcohol to see if it like helps with 0:02:55.680 --> 0:02:58.359 our sleep and just energy and just all the things 0:02:58.400 --> 0:02:59.320 that are Yeah. 0:02:59.320 --> 0:03:00.280 I like it that. 0:03:01.040 --> 0:03:03.720 I applaud that too, because I bought like sleep time 0:03:03.880 --> 0:03:04.840 edibles to help me. 0:03:05.639 --> 0:03:07.160 Yeah. I could probably give up. 0:03:07.120 --> 0:03:07.960 Caffeine or something. 0:03:07.960 --> 0:03:10.120 But I didn't realize how much I well, I know 0:03:10.120 --> 0:03:12.000 how much caffeine I drink, but I didn't realize how 0:03:12.080 --> 0:03:15.440 much alcohol I drank. Oh interesting, until I was like, no, 0:03:15.520 --> 0:03:17.440 I'm not gonna have it at this lunch or or 0:03:17.520 --> 0:03:20.200 at this party. I can go out and not have 0:03:20.280 --> 0:03:22.880 a glass of wine or two. Yeah, it's interesting. 0:03:22.960 --> 0:03:25.840 It's very much like a social like, yeah, just thing. 0:03:26.000 --> 0:03:28.680 Yeah, I've been hearing a lot of people say that 0:03:28.720 --> 0:03:31.160 in years, they think alcohol will be how we think 0:03:31.200 --> 0:03:31.919 of cigarettes. 0:03:32.440 --> 0:03:35.920 Like someone drinks and you're like, oh wow, really interesting. 0:03:36.000 --> 0:03:37.840 Yeah, I've heard I've heard a doctor say it on 0:03:37.880 --> 0:03:39.520 a podcast, and then I've heard a lot of people 0:03:39.560 --> 0:03:42.200 posting videos about like I think eventually we'll get to 0:03:42.200 --> 0:03:44.040 a point where people look at alcohol how we look 0:03:44.080 --> 0:03:44.600 at cigarettes. 0:03:44.640 --> 0:03:47.000 I hear people saying that about phones, like like in 0:03:47.000 --> 0:03:49.160 fifty years, they're gonna watch movies where everyone's texting, like, 0:03:49.200 --> 0:03:50.080 oh my god, people used. 0:03:49.960 --> 0:03:51.400 To do that, Like, well, what we're gonna do it 0:03:51.400 --> 0:03:53.640 in their heads? We're gonna just like beam messages. 0:03:53.800 --> 0:03:55.760 I don't know something. I mean, we used to smoke everywhere, 0:03:55.920 --> 0:03:56.480 Now we don't. 0:03:56.680 --> 0:03:57.200 That's true. 0:03:57.240 --> 0:03:58.720 I've heard a lot of it. They always say something 0:03:58.880 --> 0:04:01.000 is the new cigarette, something the new smoking. I've heard 0:04:01.000 --> 0:04:03.680 it for red meat is the new smoking. I've also 0:04:03.760 --> 0:04:06.720 heard football is the new smoking because it's so incredibly 0:04:06.720 --> 0:04:08.800 bad for these football players that in the future, the 0:04:08.840 --> 0:04:11.200 people are not going to believe that we all gathered 0:04:11.240 --> 0:04:13.200 to watch that by the hundreds of millions of people. 0:04:13.680 --> 0:04:19.160 I don't see that going away much to honess, not 0:04:19.240 --> 0:04:21.520 dismay the opposite joy. 0:04:21.720 --> 0:04:23.120 What's wrong with a football? Gal? 0:04:23.320 --> 0:04:29.560 A football gal? Okay, we got a couple of conversations 0:04:30.400 --> 0:04:30.920 red meat. 0:04:31.400 --> 0:04:33.520 I didn't know red meat was in the conversation. 0:04:33.720 --> 0:04:35.200 Yeah, I've stopped red meat. 0:04:35.560 --> 0:04:35.640 What. 0:04:36.320 --> 0:04:39.799 Yeah, the hamburgers, no hammer like steak. 0:04:40.200 --> 0:04:44.480 No never ground beef, no ground beef. Are you ground turkey? 0:04:44.520 --> 0:04:47.200 I'll do impossible burgers. I'll do turkey burgers. 0:04:47.920 --> 0:04:49.560 Why I'm so it's not good for you. 0:04:49.680 --> 0:04:51.599 I'm telling you red meat is not good for you. 0:04:51.720 --> 0:04:53.200 Why it's always bad? 0:04:53.320 --> 0:04:54.600 The cholesterol, the sodium. 0:04:57.040 --> 0:04:59.080 What about what you're on? Your period? 0:04:59.240 --> 0:05:01.120 That is an issue? I times they do crave it. Yeah, 0:05:01.200 --> 0:05:01.720 that period. 0:05:02.560 --> 0:05:04.480 That's interesting. Yeah. 0:05:05.040 --> 0:05:07.239 One thing about me is I'm just living my life 0:05:07.279 --> 0:05:09.080 and doing what makes me happy. 0:05:11.200 --> 0:05:16.159 I love caffeine, I love edibles. So I'll just be 0:05:16.279 --> 0:05:16.919 here till I not. 0:05:17.320 --> 0:05:20.560 Yeah, you know, whatever takes me down takes me. Like 0:05:20.839 --> 0:05:23.720 when people are talking about like surviving the apocalypse, I'm like, 0:05:24.000 --> 0:05:26.400 I don't want to, like please, I don't want to 0:05:26.440 --> 0:05:29.080 live in that stressful time, like let me go. 0:05:29.960 --> 0:05:32.400 It is funny. I do read like all these instagrams 0:05:32.400 --> 0:05:34.800 that like it's like just ingredients or whatever. It tells 0:05:34.839 --> 0:05:36.720 you all the problems with all these things. And it's 0:05:36.760 --> 0:05:38.560 a lot of stuff you eat, and I think I've 0:05:38.640 --> 0:05:40.000 used to send it to you, and I just stop 0:05:40.040 --> 0:05:41.520 sending it to you because I was like, she doesn't care. 0:05:42.320 --> 0:05:43.279 Like I've been living. 0:05:43.440 --> 0:05:45.880 I've been eating this my entire life, like it's in 0:05:45.920 --> 0:05:48.400 my veins. My body is built to handle. 0:05:48.640 --> 0:05:49.680 Yeah, but who. 0:05:49.600 --> 0:05:51.559 Knows, Maybe you'd feel better if you stop these things. 0:05:51.600 --> 0:05:55.680 I could, but maybe I want it. And then it's like, well, 0:05:55.720 --> 0:05:58.839 I just wasted that time. Man, miserable for what true 0:05:58.880 --> 0:05:59.679 precious time? 0:06:00.040 --> 0:06:01.960 Precious time time is pre life. 0:06:02.160 --> 0:06:04.720 Live at how you want unless you're hurting somebody else. 0:06:04.800 --> 0:06:06.159 But I'm not doing I'm not hurting. 0:06:06.800 --> 0:06:07.400 I'm better. 0:06:08.200 --> 0:06:08.880 You know who I'm not. 0:06:08.960 --> 0:06:10.359 You know what I'm not good as is when I 0:06:10.360 --> 0:06:14.400 give up caffeine, I'm not a good person. 0:06:15.320 --> 0:06:17.479 I'm sad, I'm mad. 0:06:19.000 --> 0:06:21.800 Actually, caffeine doesn't affect me in the sense that like 0:06:21.880 --> 0:06:25.640 it doesn't give me energy. So like the caffeine, i'll 0:06:25.640 --> 0:06:27.839 get like a headache if I don't drink it, like 0:06:27.880 --> 0:06:30.719 I'll notice if I don't drink it in the morning 0:06:30.760 --> 0:06:33.080 or at some point by the evening, I'm like, oh, 0:06:33.640 --> 0:06:35.160 I feel off. My head hurts, and I'm like, oh, 0:06:35.160 --> 0:06:36.880 I haven't had caffeine, but like I don't get like 0:06:37.200 --> 0:06:37.960 energy from it. 0:06:38.400 --> 0:06:38.960 Interesting. 0:06:40.160 --> 0:06:41.599 Yeah, so that's a little bit about me. 0:06:41.760 --> 0:06:44.039 Yeah. Oh, we have some business to take care to. 0:06:45.560 --> 0:06:46.559 Get to know us better. 0:06:46.920 --> 0:06:50.800 I don't know anything anything about us already. We have 0:06:51.440 --> 0:06:55.400 an episode today where we answer your questions. 0:06:55.480 --> 0:06:59.000 And we're gonna answer those questions when we come back. 0:07:18.000 --> 0:07:19.680 Why don't we start with this one because you kind 0:07:19.680 --> 0:07:21.480 of joked about you know, if you don't know us 0:07:21.480 --> 0:07:22.680 and want to get to know us, there is that 0:07:22.760 --> 0:07:24.400 getting to know you. What is the story of how 0:07:24.440 --> 0:07:27.160 Mark Easton and Tanya met? What were your first impressions? 0:07:27.240 --> 0:07:30.080 Well, I don't even know this answer, so let's let's 0:07:30.080 --> 0:07:30.680 get into it. 0:07:31.040 --> 0:07:31.960 East Then you start. 0:07:32.160 --> 0:07:33.160 You do know this answer? 0:07:33.760 --> 0:07:34.120 I don't. 0:07:34.320 --> 0:07:36.400 Oh, how do you want me to start? 0:07:36.440 --> 0:07:37.760 I don't know. How did you and Tanya? What were 0:07:37.800 --> 0:07:39.360 you do? Remember meeting Tanya for the first time? 0:07:39.840 --> 0:07:40.520 Somewhat? 0:07:41.080 --> 0:07:44.000 I was I just started working here at the Seacrest show, 0:07:44.720 --> 0:07:47.200 and uh, we were down at e at the East studios, 0:07:47.560 --> 0:07:50.800 and I remember I helped Tanya had got locked out 0:07:50.800 --> 0:07:52.880 of email or something, and I helped her, and then 0:07:52.960 --> 0:07:55.840 Tanya messaged me on aim back then ails the messenger 0:07:55.840 --> 0:07:58.320 and say, can you let me know what song is next? 0:07:58.720 --> 0:08:01.560 And I said it's sorry by just whatever the song was. 0:08:02.200 --> 0:08:04.200 He said, thank you. That's a big part of the job. 0:08:04.240 --> 0:08:05.400 I want to make sure you can do that. 0:08:06.360 --> 0:08:07.520 Oh well she was testing. 0:08:07.680 --> 0:08:12.520 Wow really, I guess yeah, and uh I was, and 0:08:12.560 --> 0:08:14.680 I was very like, hey just a while, let you know, 0:08:14.720 --> 0:08:16.200 these are next couple of songs. 0:08:18.720 --> 0:08:22.520 You were around today? 0:08:22.720 --> 0:08:23.920 Who did you come in after? 0:08:24.320 --> 0:08:25.040 Was it Andy? 0:08:25.400 --> 0:08:26.960 Yeah? I had. 0:08:27.480 --> 0:08:29.040 I used to give me as that engineer from the 0:08:29.040 --> 0:08:31.240 morning replacing it. 0:08:31.440 --> 0:08:32.520 The year was that? 0:08:32.520 --> 0:08:34.080 That was twenty fifteen. 0:08:34.800 --> 0:08:36.720 So was that the same time you met Mark? 0:08:37.160 --> 0:08:38.679 Yeah, yeah, yeah, it would have been. 0:08:38.720 --> 0:08:40.080 What was your first impression of Mark? 0:08:40.480 --> 0:08:42.240 I feel like Easter and I co existed for a 0:08:42.280 --> 0:08:45.160 while without really talking. Yes, because the engineer's job is 0:08:45.240 --> 0:08:46.640 kind of standing in the back of the room if 0:08:46.720 --> 0:08:47.800 in case anything goes wrong. 0:08:47.800 --> 0:08:48.719 I don't want to get in the way. 0:08:49.040 --> 0:08:50.720 See, he was just a new guy for a little while. 0:08:51.040 --> 0:08:52.880 And I don't know, you and me and Dmitriy probably 0:08:52.920 --> 0:08:56.400 started shit yetting from time to time. Yeah, sitting in 0:08:56.400 --> 0:08:59.679 the room waiting for Ryan or doing whatever we're doing. Yeah, 0:09:00.000 --> 0:09:00.880 getting ready for the show. 0:09:00.960 --> 0:09:05.160 Who did do like more off? Based off first impressions, I. 0:09:05.040 --> 0:09:08.400 Was terrified of Mark, really scared at him. 0:09:09.080 --> 0:09:11.640 He's a big you're both big deals on the show, 0:09:11.679 --> 0:09:13.880 you know, and I had filled in a couple times before, 0:09:14.640 --> 0:09:17.360 and you know, everyone here is so cool and you know, 0:09:17.480 --> 0:09:20.800 they got the big microphones and everything. I was so nervous. 0:09:21.120 --> 0:09:24.599 I guess I Tanya was more outwardly friendly to me 0:09:24.720 --> 0:09:27.679 right away. Mark wasn't mean, but we you know, we. 0:09:27.679 --> 0:09:29.280 Just Mark just keeps himself a little bit. 0:09:29.320 --> 0:09:30.480 Yeah, he's got a job to do. 0:09:30.520 --> 0:09:32.400 I'm a little reserved and that's not great. That can 0:09:32.440 --> 0:09:34.760 be standoffish, and I don't want to be that. Yeah, 0:09:34.960 --> 0:09:36.440 But I remember in those early days, I was at 0:09:36.440 --> 0:09:38.600 Disneyland with my family and I saw Eastern and I 0:09:38.800 --> 0:09:41.360 wasn't I didn't know him that well, and I was like, 0:09:41.400 --> 0:09:43.720 I'm ninety percent sure that's our new engineer, but I 0:09:43.720 --> 0:09:45.640 don't want to say hi, because I'm not one hundred 0:09:45.640 --> 0:09:48.080 percent sure, and that'd be really embarrassing. And it was 0:09:48.160 --> 0:09:51.040 right right in the right in the beginning part of Disneyland, 0:09:51.120 --> 0:09:52.720 right on Main Street there when you first walked in 0:09:53.040 --> 0:09:54.640 and there he was. There was a huge crowd of people. 0:09:54.720 --> 0:09:56.560 I think that's Oh, I'm not going to say anything. 0:09:56.840 --> 0:09:58.240 Never said anything, never said a thing. 0:09:58.679 --> 0:10:00.960 He said something to me on Monday. You like, I 0:10:00.960 --> 0:10:02.760 think I saw you in Disneyland. You were wearing a hat. 0:10:02.800 --> 0:10:05.480 I don't know, you look like in a hat, like 0:10:06.520 --> 0:10:11.240 a man that's broke a beautiful friendship. 0:10:11.280 --> 0:10:14.440 Yeah, exactly. And like I've always said, every loves Easton 0:10:14.600 --> 0:10:16.120 and so it's just so endearing once you get to 0:10:16.120 --> 0:10:18.920 tell him that the Disneyland that cheese Kicks hacked frocks 0:10:18.960 --> 0:10:21.480 and everything, it's so fun. It's fun to dig. 0:10:21.800 --> 0:10:22.720 It is fun to dig. 0:10:22.880 --> 0:10:25.280 And you and I I just remember, so we were 0:10:25.320 --> 0:10:27.439 doing the show down there at e and I kept 0:10:27.480 --> 0:10:28.880 hearing about Blonde Tanya. 0:10:29.160 --> 0:10:33.520 Yeah that was her name, Yeah, Blondie. 0:10:34.000 --> 0:10:35.959 They're bringing in blond Tanya. She's going to be the 0:10:36.000 --> 0:10:38.240 blogger on the show and she'll also be on Mikes. 0:10:38.240 --> 0:10:40.600 You're kind of a younger voice, you know, the next generation, 0:10:41.080 --> 0:10:42.640 and so she was going to be part of the show. 0:10:42.679 --> 0:10:45.920 Blontania's coming, Like all right, I know, but everyone knew 0:10:45.920 --> 0:10:48.320 you and loved you, like everyone's like, oh is great. Oh, 0:10:48.320 --> 0:10:51.280 she's great. Oh, she's so fun. Love and then there 0:10:51.320 --> 0:10:51.760 you were. 0:10:53.160 --> 0:10:56.240 Really never heard about because I don't think there was 0:10:56.240 --> 0:10:59.080 any other blonde that worked on Oh Ellen. 0:10:59.160 --> 0:11:00.000 Well, Ellen Kyah. 0:11:00.360 --> 0:11:01.360 Is there another Tonya? 0:11:01.760 --> 0:11:03.880 No, but there was not a lot of blondes. 0:11:04.240 --> 0:11:06.600 But the air that's just what they you. 0:11:06.760 --> 0:11:08.200 That was her name behind the scenes. 0:11:08.400 --> 0:11:10.480 That was more internal inside baseball. 0:11:11.040 --> 0:11:13.559 Yeah, wow, blondie. 0:11:13.880 --> 0:11:14.120 Yeah. 0:11:14.440 --> 0:11:16.920 Was I stand office to you? I'm sorry if I was, No. 0:11:16.920 --> 0:11:21.280 You weren't. Everybody was pretty nice to me initially. Patty 0:11:21.280 --> 0:11:22.240 and I didn't get off. 0:11:22.280 --> 0:11:23.480 On the right foot. 0:11:23.520 --> 0:11:23.720 Hold. 0:11:24.880 --> 0:11:26.280 Yeah, I read a whole chapter in the book about 0:11:26.280 --> 0:11:28.640 it because we didn't get off on the right foot 0:11:28.800 --> 0:11:32.400 and didn't really get along for a minute. And then 0:11:32.600 --> 0:11:35.800 she extended, like an olive branch. I was going through 0:11:35.800 --> 0:11:38.760 my breakup and she gave me this necklace that'said hope 0:11:38.840 --> 0:11:42.160 on it. And she said, basically, like this woman gave 0:11:42.200 --> 0:11:45.200 her this necklace at a church when she was going 0:11:45.200 --> 0:11:47.160 through a breakup, and she said to pass it on 0:11:47.559 --> 0:11:49.520 to somebody when she was done with it, and so 0:11:49.559 --> 0:11:51.480 she gave it to me, And like that, to me 0:11:51.800 --> 0:11:57.319 was the most beautiful gesture from somebody that I didn't 0:11:57.360 --> 0:11:59.280 even really get along with do you know what I mean? 0:11:59.400 --> 0:12:02.640 And so that really broke the ice between us, and 0:12:02.679 --> 0:12:05.960 then we became each other's biggest cheerleaders and we would 0:12:06.000 --> 0:12:08.959 bond and like we're just telling each other our stories 0:12:09.040 --> 0:12:13.240 and like our relationship completely changed after that. That's beautiful, 0:12:13.280 --> 0:12:14.040 isn't that beautiful? 0:12:14.200 --> 0:12:14.480 Love that? 0:12:14.760 --> 0:12:15.800 Yeah, it was really nice. 0:12:16.600 --> 0:12:18.000 What was your first impression of Mark? 0:12:19.800 --> 0:12:24.040 My first impression of Mark was honestly kind of the 0:12:24.040 --> 0:12:26.600 same as it is here. You were really really nice 0:12:26.640 --> 0:12:29.200 to me. You're always really encouraging to me. It was 0:12:29.240 --> 0:12:33.040 a weird. It's a really big staff to go into, 0:12:33.160 --> 0:12:35.160 Like you think there's like five people, but it's like 0:12:35.280 --> 0:12:39.120 thirty people, and so there's a lot going on back there. 0:12:39.120 --> 0:12:43.160 And I remember Mark always making me feel part of 0:12:43.280 --> 0:12:47.800 and welcome. Yeah, and I remember Easton. I immediately felt 0:12:47.800 --> 0:12:51.160 your energy and I really liked your energy. So I 0:12:51.200 --> 0:12:53.200 remember really liking Easton when I met him. But I 0:12:53.240 --> 0:12:55.640 also was a big fan of Andy's, so I feel 0:12:55.679 --> 0:12:58.200 like I was, Yeah, I was like, I'm really sad 0:12:58.280 --> 0:13:00.720 Andy's not here, but I guess you're, well. 0:13:00.640 --> 0:13:02.199 You guy. You guys about to marry each other. 0:13:04.600 --> 0:13:08.920 And yeah, we called him on the Air checked in 0:13:09.000 --> 0:13:09.800 and he said. 0:13:09.640 --> 0:13:10.280 He was engaged. 0:13:10.320 --> 0:13:12.520 So part of my calling in the One work Book 0:13:12.720 --> 0:13:13.440 was cutting all. 0:13:13.320 --> 0:13:15.880 Those ties off your promises. 0:13:15.520 --> 0:13:17.600 Your promises like we'll get married by forty if neither 0:13:17.600 --> 0:13:18.800 one of us are married. So I had to like 0:13:18.840 --> 0:13:21.040 call him to basically say we're never getting married, and 0:13:21.040 --> 0:13:22.360 he was like, I'm engaged. 0:13:25.000 --> 0:13:28.200 Wow, You're like cool, cool, cool, cool too. 0:13:29.280 --> 0:13:29.480 Yeah. 0:13:29.520 --> 0:13:31.959 I remember real protective of Tiny because she was getting 0:13:31.960 --> 0:13:34.600 a raw deal, like like the people. There are people 0:13:34.679 --> 0:13:37.840 within the organization, not Ryan at all. Ryan was very supportive. 0:13:38.040 --> 0:13:40.360 They were not treating Tanya very well, so I really 0:13:40.400 --> 0:13:42.960 tried to keep her because they could have broken her. 0:13:42.960 --> 0:13:45.400 Pretty my god did break me for sure. 0:13:45.640 --> 0:13:48.080 Yeah, so I did. I remember trying to keep you 0:13:48.520 --> 0:13:52.920 engaged and positive and because yeah, people really jerked her around. 0:13:53.040 --> 0:13:59.960 That chapter was very shape shifting. Is that the right word. 0:14:00.160 --> 0:14:03.880 I doubt it cheap shifting character shifting character building character 0:14:03.920 --> 0:14:08.040 building for me, character building because it was brutal. It 0:14:08.080 --> 0:14:13.120 was like brutal beatings and not physically obviously, emotionally mentally. 0:14:14.160 --> 0:14:15.560 But I think I'm strong enough from it. 0:14:17.120 --> 0:14:18.800 I agree. Yeah, I think so too. 0:14:19.920 --> 0:14:22.000 No, I can go toe to toe with the best 0:14:22.000 --> 0:14:23.240 of them, right, Yeah. 0:14:23.120 --> 0:14:23.480 That's right. 0:14:23.920 --> 0:14:26.120 What is something This is another question. What is something 0:14:26.160 --> 0:14:27.960 you wish you could have done your twenties but didn't. 0:14:28.000 --> 0:14:30.760 This would be good advice for twenty somethings listening right now. 0:14:31.080 --> 0:14:32.680 Something that you wish you would have done in your 0:14:32.680 --> 0:14:35.800 twenties didn't do? What can they do to not make 0:14:35.800 --> 0:14:36.480 the same mistake. 0:14:37.520 --> 0:14:40.080 I would have gotten a credit card earlier. Oh my 0:14:40.160 --> 0:14:40.960 credit I. 0:14:40.920 --> 0:14:42.360 Was going to go the money route too. I wish 0:14:42.400 --> 0:14:45.440 I would have started investing, even if it's a little 0:14:45.480 --> 0:14:49.480 amount really understanding what all that means. 0:14:49.240 --> 0:14:51.800 Like learning, like putting in the effort to learn about 0:14:51.800 --> 0:14:54.640 those things. Yeah, but I think when you're at that age, 0:14:54.680 --> 0:14:57.360 you literally don't care, even if you're listening to someone 0:14:57.440 --> 0:14:58.760 say they wish they would have done that. 0:14:58.720 --> 0:15:00.880 Because you're living check to paycheck. 0:15:01.360 --> 0:15:03.760 Yeah, like you were, like I can barely. 0:15:03.640 --> 0:15:05.600 Write, Like what am I going to invest? Like I would? 0:15:05.720 --> 0:15:07.360 I would look at my account and be like, thirty 0:15:07.360 --> 0:15:07.960 five cents? 0:15:08.040 --> 0:15:08.320 Great? 0:15:08.920 --> 0:15:11.400 What can I order? Right, I'm gonna go negative. 0:15:12.280 --> 0:15:16.240 I'll pay the thirty dollars fee because I have to man. 0:15:16.360 --> 0:15:19.720 The thirty dollars feet killed me a lot. They should 0:15:19.760 --> 0:15:20.360 get rid of those. 0:15:20.440 --> 0:15:22.440 They absolutely should that it's hard. 0:15:22.960 --> 0:15:25.840 Five dollars fee, but like thirty dollars is like significant. 0:15:25.920 --> 0:15:27.880 Yeah, the whole point is they don't have the money, 0:15:28.440 --> 0:15:30.600 so you can't charge the money when you know we 0:15:30.640 --> 0:15:31.280 don't have it. 0:15:31.320 --> 0:15:33.440 Oh, I had to make some really uncomfortable calls with 0:15:33.480 --> 0:15:35.240 my dad. Yeah, it happened again. 0:15:36.000 --> 0:15:38.400 I don't know how I remember telling it, pointing out 0:15:38.400 --> 0:15:39.960 that they don't teach you that stuff in high school. 0:15:39.960 --> 0:15:41.240 They teach you a lot of stuff high school, but 0:15:41.240 --> 0:15:43.360 they should be teaching you basic finan college. 0:15:43.480 --> 0:15:48.160 It's like, you don't, you don't learn anything about Yeah, 0:15:48.280 --> 0:15:50.280 you get to your real job and you're like what 0:15:50.520 --> 0:15:50.840 I was. 0:15:50.880 --> 0:15:52.400 In the room when you found out you can write 0:15:52.400 --> 0:15:54.200 off business expenses on your taxis. 0:15:54.280 --> 0:15:55.760 Yeah, I was like, what is this? 0:15:56.240 --> 0:15:58.120 I also think I would have I would say, like 0:15:58.600 --> 0:16:02.120 the things that you worry about, like what people think 0:16:02.160 --> 0:16:06.600 of you, they genuinely as you get older, don't matter you. 0:16:06.920 --> 0:16:09.400 I also heard I can't vouch works I do not have. 0:16:09.600 --> 0:16:12.080 I have not birthed a child, but I saw a 0:16:12.160 --> 0:16:15.800 TikTok that said that when you have a kid, you 0:16:16.000 --> 0:16:18.240 really don't care what anybody thinks about you, because your 0:16:18.320 --> 0:16:19.720 kid thinks you're like a superhero. 0:16:20.200 --> 0:16:20.800 Yeah. 0:16:21.000 --> 0:16:22.760 Yeah, but then you get judged on your parenting. 0:16:24.120 --> 0:16:29.360 Yeah. People talk so intense about judging parents, but I 0:16:29.360 --> 0:16:31.320 would just say, like, the things that you think are 0:16:31.400 --> 0:16:34.440 so big and important, they just as you get older, 0:16:34.480 --> 0:16:36.680 they tend to And it's also the same. 0:16:36.760 --> 0:16:40.400 You know, the expression goes, you'd be super shoot. I 0:16:40.480 --> 0:16:42.600 use this so much and I can't. You'd be surprised 0:16:42.640 --> 0:16:44.800 how much people think of you when you realize how 0:16:44.800 --> 0:16:47.080 little they do. Something like that. People don't care about you, 0:16:47.120 --> 0:16:49.520 they don't They're focused on their own stuff, their own life. 0:16:49.520 --> 0:16:51.000 And that's true if you're in high school. It's true. 0:16:51.040 --> 0:16:53.200 If you're a parent, it doesn't matter. So when, yes, 0:16:53.200 --> 0:16:55.160 when you're at the park and your kid is having 0:16:55.160 --> 0:16:59.440 an absolute meltdown scream fest, and you think all the kids, 0:16:59.440 --> 0:17:01.160 all the other parents are judging, you think you're the 0:17:01.160 --> 0:17:03.400 worst parent in the world. They're just focused. There's happiest 0:17:03.440 --> 0:17:05.600 out there, kid. Yeah, and just take your kid out 0:17:05.600 --> 0:17:08.160 of the situation. Everything's fine, And it's the same thing 0:17:08.280 --> 0:17:09.879 my daughter's going through it. Oh my god, I just 0:17:09.960 --> 0:17:11.440