1 00:00:01,960 --> 00:00:05,400 Speaker 1: Wind Down with Janet Kramer and I'm Heeart Radio podcast. 2 00:00:06,720 --> 00:00:11,039 Speaker 2: So this week's podcast, do you guys ever watch Riverdale? No? 3 00:00:11,080 --> 00:00:11,480 Speaker 3: I did not. 4 00:00:11,640 --> 00:00:14,720 Speaker 4: Did I watch? Did I maybe had? I don't know 5 00:00:14,720 --> 00:00:17,240 Speaker 4: how many seasons there were? Yeah, but I think I 6 00:00:17,280 --> 00:00:20,320 Speaker 4: watched like maybe three or four seasons. Yeah, I don't 7 00:00:20,320 --> 00:00:22,400 Speaker 4: remember how many there were, though I stopped at some point. 8 00:00:22,440 --> 00:00:24,280 Speaker 2: I think I auditioned for it, but I can't remember. 9 00:00:25,040 --> 00:00:26,560 Speaker 4: I feel like we've talked about this. I feel like 10 00:00:26,600 --> 00:00:29,320 Speaker 4: you did, did I? It was really great? 11 00:00:29,800 --> 00:00:29,920 Speaker 2: Uh? 12 00:00:30,120 --> 00:00:30,560 Speaker 3: Riverdale? 13 00:00:30,680 --> 00:00:31,520 Speaker 4: Yeah? I liked it. 14 00:00:32,400 --> 00:00:35,519 Speaker 2: I yeah, I never I never watched it, but I 15 00:00:35,520 --> 00:00:38,320 Speaker 2: heard it was a great show. But we've got Marisol 16 00:00:38,440 --> 00:00:42,879 Speaker 2: Nichols coming on, and this is a conversations that started 17 00:00:43,159 --> 00:00:44,880 Speaker 2: in our dms. Did you ever end up seeing that 18 00:00:44,960 --> 00:00:47,480 Speaker 2: video I posted? Because I never really talked about it. 19 00:00:48,720 --> 00:00:51,080 Speaker 4: I saw your like explanation, but I didn't see the. 20 00:00:51,080 --> 00:00:54,040 Speaker 2: Actual video of actual video. It's cute, but we'll get 21 00:00:54,040 --> 00:01:01,440 Speaker 2: into that. But uh, yeah, she works with a nonprofit 22 00:01:01,520 --> 00:01:05,520 Speaker 2: organization dedicated to combating human trafficking. So it's going to 23 00:01:05,560 --> 00:01:08,560 Speaker 2: be a tough conversation, but a conversation that we all 24 00:01:10,080 --> 00:01:15,800 Speaker 2: should obviously learn. And and and here and how it's just. 25 00:01:15,840 --> 00:01:17,360 Speaker 3: It's going to be it's going to be else. 26 00:01:17,520 --> 00:01:20,319 Speaker 2: Yeah, a little education, and also it's going to be tough, 27 00:01:20,360 --> 00:01:23,120 Speaker 2: but it's one that needs to be had. So let's 28 00:01:23,160 --> 00:01:24,000 Speaker 2: get Marisol on. 29 00:01:26,360 --> 00:01:27,680 Speaker 1: How are you guys good? 30 00:01:27,680 --> 00:01:28,800 Speaker 3: How are you good? 31 00:01:28,840 --> 00:01:32,040 Speaker 1: I'm good. I have my dog on my lap now 32 00:01:32,120 --> 00:01:36,039 Speaker 1: we're talking. He is refusing to go anywhere else but 33 00:01:36,200 --> 00:01:36,560 Speaker 1: on my. 34 00:01:36,600 --> 00:01:39,120 Speaker 3: Lap, so it doesn't need to go anywhere else. 35 00:01:39,440 --> 00:01:43,479 Speaker 2: Well, we're really excited to have you on and have 36 00:01:43,560 --> 00:01:46,920 Speaker 2: a very important conversation. And we were kind of just 37 00:01:47,280 --> 00:01:50,680 Speaker 2: talking before the show too, because I remember talking to 38 00:01:50,760 --> 00:01:55,240 Speaker 2: David because he was so passionate about, you know, all 39 00:01:55,280 --> 00:01:56,800 Speaker 2: of this, and and then he said that you guys 40 00:01:56,800 --> 00:01:59,360 Speaker 2: started this podcast and that was I mean, how how 41 00:01:59,360 --> 00:02:00,440 Speaker 2: many years was has it been? 42 00:02:00,440 --> 00:02:00,560 Speaker 5: Now? 43 00:02:00,640 --> 00:02:01,520 Speaker 3: Is a two? Three? 44 00:02:02,320 --> 00:02:04,320 Speaker 1: Well? Three? Or actually about three? 45 00:02:04,360 --> 00:02:05,560 Speaker 3: Yeah, okay three years? 46 00:02:06,000 --> 00:02:09,800 Speaker 2: And so you know, I and we were trying to 47 00:02:09,880 --> 00:02:11,760 Speaker 2: chat because I'm like, wait it did it start from 48 00:02:11,760 --> 00:02:13,880 Speaker 2: a role? Was it something you've just always been passionate about? 49 00:02:13,960 --> 00:02:17,960 Speaker 2: Or like, how did you get into the sex trafficking 50 00:02:18,000 --> 00:02:19,359 Speaker 2: fighting exactly? 51 00:02:19,360 --> 00:02:23,400 Speaker 1: It's like the question, I've been doing this since twenty twelve, 52 00:02:23,400 --> 00:02:27,160 Speaker 1: twenty thirteen. I have my own nonprofit called Foundation for 53 00:02:27,280 --> 00:02:32,000 Speaker 1: Slavery fee World, and I dove in kind of pretty 54 00:02:32,040 --> 00:02:35,560 Speaker 1: much as soon as I started hearing about the horrific 55 00:02:35,600 --> 00:02:37,840 Speaker 1: things that were happening to children, and I was shocked 56 00:02:37,919 --> 00:02:41,120 Speaker 1: that it was in this country, like it was always 57 00:02:41,120 --> 00:02:43,640 Speaker 1: something that like that wasn't always, but it was. You 58 00:02:43,639 --> 00:02:47,000 Speaker 1: would hear whisperings about it back in twenty twelve, twenty thirteen, 59 00:02:47,040 --> 00:02:50,799 Speaker 1: and I would I would think, probably like everyone else did, oh, 60 00:02:50,840 --> 00:02:53,800 Speaker 1: that's such a horrible thing to happen to kids over there. 61 00:02:54,960 --> 00:02:58,320 Speaker 1: Over there was because there's no way this could be happening, 62 00:02:58,960 --> 00:03:02,040 Speaker 1: you know, here in America CA. And then I learned 63 00:03:02,200 --> 00:03:04,320 Speaker 1: it was here in America, and then I learned it 64 00:03:04,360 --> 00:03:06,480 Speaker 1: was in every single city, and then I learned the 65 00:03:06,520 --> 00:03:10,160 Speaker 1: extent of it. And it's grown, you know, exponentially since 66 00:03:10,200 --> 00:03:14,280 Speaker 1: I started back then. So I dove in and I 67 00:03:14,440 --> 00:03:17,920 Speaker 1: ended up. You know, I'm sure you've read that I've 68 00:03:18,160 --> 00:03:22,760 Speaker 1: gone undercover and done these stingops in both here in 69 00:03:22,760 --> 00:03:25,920 Speaker 1: America and different countries off and on for the last decade. 70 00:03:26,440 --> 00:03:28,280 Speaker 3: How many sting operations have you been on? 71 00:03:29,080 --> 00:03:30,799 Speaker 1: At least a dozen, if not more. 72 00:03:31,160 --> 00:03:32,280 Speaker 3: And have you caught them? 73 00:03:32,320 --> 00:03:35,680 Speaker 2: And have you caught the sex trafficker in each sting 74 00:03:35,760 --> 00:03:36,720 Speaker 2: operation that you've done. 75 00:03:37,800 --> 00:03:42,120 Speaker 1: I wish I could say, yes, some of them we 76 00:03:42,240 --> 00:03:45,280 Speaker 1: haven't been able to go back and take down yet, 77 00:03:45,320 --> 00:03:48,360 Speaker 1: and a lot of them, yes, like that's the payoff. 78 00:03:48,440 --> 00:03:52,000 Speaker 1: Like a lot of them is these women and children 79 00:03:52,320 --> 00:03:55,880 Speaker 1: being like wait and able to go home and putting 80 00:03:55,880 --> 00:03:58,680 Speaker 1: the bad guy behind bars. And it's not like I 81 00:03:58,720 --> 00:04:01,600 Speaker 1: can say, oh, hey, I did that one. But you know, 82 00:04:01,640 --> 00:04:04,240 Speaker 1: I've saved the newspaper clippings and stuff when they when 83 00:04:04,280 --> 00:04:06,920 Speaker 1: they do go down, because it's really nice. 84 00:04:06,600 --> 00:04:09,080 Speaker 2: You know, it's really sad. And maybe I'm just missing it. 85 00:04:09,160 --> 00:04:11,160 Speaker 2: But I just don't feel like I hear the stories 86 00:04:11,720 --> 00:04:15,640 Speaker 2: of sex traffickers getting caught. I feel like it should 87 00:04:15,680 --> 00:04:18,120 Speaker 2: be headline, headline news. Am I missing something or is 88 00:04:18,120 --> 00:04:18,520 Speaker 2: it just not? 89 00:04:18,839 --> 00:04:22,080 Speaker 4: I think if for me personally, because it is not 90 00:04:22,279 --> 00:04:24,640 Speaker 4: like you by any means but a passion of mine. 91 00:04:24,960 --> 00:04:28,120 Speaker 4: I do see those stories, but I am looking for that, 92 00:04:28,600 --> 00:04:31,800 Speaker 4: you know, So I am following things, looking at things 93 00:04:31,839 --> 00:04:34,359 Speaker 4: for those success stories. So I do see them, but 94 00:04:34,440 --> 00:04:37,680 Speaker 4: I don't think that if you otherwise are. 95 00:04:37,640 --> 00:04:41,040 Speaker 2: Hearing a mainstream media, I've not seen them. 96 00:04:41,120 --> 00:04:45,400 Speaker 1: When you've got like a diddy. Yes, that's me, sure, sure, yeah, 97 00:04:46,279 --> 00:04:50,159 Speaker 1: But when it's it's so prevalent, you would think you'd 98 00:04:50,160 --> 00:04:53,279 Speaker 1: be hearing about it. Oh And like she said, like, 99 00:04:53,440 --> 00:04:57,800 Speaker 1: once you do start hearing about this and educating yourself, 100 00:04:57,800 --> 00:05:01,160 Speaker 1: you tend to see it everywhere. But before that, it's 101 00:05:01,240 --> 00:05:02,440 Speaker 1: just sort of I don't know what it is. I 102 00:05:02,440 --> 00:05:04,960 Speaker 1: don't know if it's a protective mechanism, but you just 103 00:05:05,160 --> 00:05:07,960 Speaker 1: kind of it's a hard thing to confront. 104 00:05:08,520 --> 00:05:10,680 Speaker 2: Yeah, well, I think what's interesting too. And something that 105 00:05:10,720 --> 00:05:13,920 Speaker 2: you said was, we think that it's happening everywhere else, 106 00:05:14,040 --> 00:05:15,960 Speaker 2: and up until a couple of years ago, that's what 107 00:05:16,160 --> 00:05:18,440 Speaker 2: my thought process was. I truly was like, oh, this 108 00:05:18,560 --> 00:05:22,279 Speaker 2: just happens in you know, these smaller countries or countries 109 00:05:22,320 --> 00:05:25,000 Speaker 2: that are far away. There's no way that happens here. 110 00:05:25,040 --> 00:05:28,279 Speaker 2: And then you realize it's a whate hundred and fifty something. 111 00:05:29,520 --> 00:05:31,120 Speaker 2: How much money is this business? 112 00:05:31,360 --> 00:05:33,000 Speaker 1: One hundred and fifty billion, one. 113 00:05:32,960 --> 00:05:36,719 Speaker 2: Hundred and fifty billion dollar business. I'm like here here 114 00:05:37,080 --> 00:05:39,440 Speaker 2: in the United States, Like, that's right, that's the number 115 00:05:39,440 --> 00:05:40,080 Speaker 2: for the United States. 116 00:05:40,120 --> 00:05:43,239 Speaker 1: It's percent of all women and children that are rescued 117 00:05:43,279 --> 00:05:46,320 Speaker 1: in the United States from sex trafficking or American citizens. 118 00:05:46,120 --> 00:05:49,520 Speaker 2: Like, that's insane, that's I mean, that's just like, how 119 00:05:49,560 --> 00:05:52,120 Speaker 2: were people not like eyes wide open on that. 120 00:05:53,120 --> 00:05:57,840 Speaker 1: I think everyone's sort of still catching up to it, Jane. 121 00:05:57,920 --> 00:05:59,840 Speaker 1: I think most people are still like, what do you 122 00:06:00,000 --> 00:06:02,680 Speaker 1: I mean, this happens here? Like even police departments in 123 00:06:02,720 --> 00:06:04,640 Speaker 1: this country are still catching up to it. You know. 124 00:06:04,680 --> 00:06:07,720 Speaker 1: One of my dear dear friends started the trafficking department 125 00:06:07,760 --> 00:06:10,880 Speaker 1: here in the LAPD and he goes around the whole 126 00:06:11,279 --> 00:06:14,320 Speaker 1: all around the United States, lecturing and talking to other 127 00:06:14,360 --> 00:06:18,200 Speaker 1: police departments, educating them and teaching them how to do 128 00:06:18,240 --> 00:06:21,719 Speaker 1: this and what to look for. Because people are still 129 00:06:21,760 --> 00:06:24,920 Speaker 1: kind of playing catch up. You know, for the longest time, 130 00:06:24,920 --> 00:06:27,720 Speaker 1: we thought, oh that girl on the street is there 131 00:06:27,760 --> 00:06:32,320 Speaker 1: willingly you didn't know, Oh she's being controlled by someone 132 00:06:32,320 --> 00:06:33,640 Speaker 1: that you don't see. 133 00:06:34,360 --> 00:06:37,320 Speaker 5: Tell us is there something that you and I know 134 00:06:37,440 --> 00:06:40,560 Speaker 5: this Like, I'm so overwhelmed by the topic. I think 135 00:06:40,560 --> 00:06:42,719 Speaker 5: I don't even know what specifically to ask you. There's 136 00:06:42,760 --> 00:06:44,400 Speaker 5: like a couple of things I have pinned in my brain. 137 00:06:44,480 --> 00:06:49,520 Speaker 5: But is there something that is like ultra red flag 138 00:06:49,640 --> 00:06:52,359 Speaker 5: everyone could see that we just choose not to see. 139 00:06:52,600 --> 00:06:54,800 Speaker 5: When say, you're at a mall or you're on a 140 00:06:54,839 --> 00:06:56,360 Speaker 5: street or whatever. 141 00:06:57,440 --> 00:07:00,200 Speaker 1: That's a great question because there's so many different tactics 142 00:07:00,240 --> 00:07:06,560 Speaker 1: these guys use. My main number one, major, major thing 143 00:07:07,040 --> 00:07:14,040 Speaker 1: is Instagram, meta, Facebook apps, anywhere where these predators can 144 00:07:14,600 --> 00:07:18,600 Speaker 1: contact a child, and I look for who's following. Okay, 145 00:07:18,600 --> 00:07:20,880 Speaker 1: so there's a young girl, she's twelve or thirteen, she's posting, 146 00:07:21,000 --> 00:07:23,320 Speaker 1: you know, I don't know her pictures that she drew, 147 00:07:24,360 --> 00:07:28,080 Speaker 1: and you'll see immediately like hundreds and hundreds of men 148 00:07:28,760 --> 00:07:32,840 Speaker 1: immediately following her. So looking in the dms, looking in 149 00:07:32,880 --> 00:07:37,840 Speaker 1: the messages on roadblocks or minecraft or anywhere really where 150 00:07:37,840 --> 00:07:42,800 Speaker 1: they can contact kids. Another red flag would be, you know, 151 00:07:42,840 --> 00:07:45,400 Speaker 1: something that's more obvious that maybe a mother would just 152 00:07:45,440 --> 00:07:48,240 Speaker 1: see going to Like I'm the hawk, I'm the one 153 00:07:48,240 --> 00:07:50,280 Speaker 1: who will go to a park where my kid may 154 00:07:50,280 --> 00:07:52,200 Speaker 1: be playing at and then I'm looking for all the 155 00:07:52,240 --> 00:07:54,400 Speaker 1: men that are at the park, and do they have kids, 156 00:07:54,400 --> 00:07:57,080 Speaker 1: are they talking to kids? Is there a guy in 157 00:07:57,160 --> 00:08:00,720 Speaker 1: a car idling which happens all the time, just watching 158 00:08:00,760 --> 00:08:04,720 Speaker 1: the kids play? So any any like even gymnastics. My 159 00:08:04,840 --> 00:08:09,240 Speaker 1: daughter was in a gymnastics class and I was looking 160 00:08:09,280 --> 00:08:12,560 Speaker 1: at the men in the audience just you know, they're observing. 161 00:08:13,720 --> 00:08:15,520 Speaker 1: And then when the class ended, I was like, oh, 162 00:08:15,520 --> 00:08:17,400 Speaker 1: half these men are not half. I shouldn't say that. 163 00:08:17,720 --> 00:08:20,440 Speaker 1: Some of these men aren't walking home with any kids, 164 00:08:20,600 --> 00:08:22,920 Speaker 1: aren't leaving with any kids. They're just they're observing. 165 00:08:23,440 --> 00:08:26,040 Speaker 5: And these are areas that I'd assume you're in safer 166 00:08:26,160 --> 00:08:29,000 Speaker 5: areas safer in air quotes like it's not like you're 167 00:08:30,240 --> 00:08:32,320 Speaker 5: I just want to, like, I guess expand our brains 168 00:08:32,320 --> 00:08:35,240 Speaker 5: in the way that like this is quite literally everywhere. 169 00:08:34,840 --> 00:08:37,319 Speaker 4: Christen, you do know, sorry, but you know it's one 170 00:08:37,320 --> 00:08:39,160 Speaker 4: of the largest hubs is here. 171 00:08:39,240 --> 00:08:42,640 Speaker 2: Yeah, Brent with Tennessee, which is rich and spring into 172 00:08:42,640 --> 00:08:43,439 Speaker 2: spring Hill. 173 00:08:43,360 --> 00:08:45,880 Speaker 4: Because of I sixty five. It's an easy out. 174 00:08:45,880 --> 00:08:49,640 Speaker 1: Everywhere, everywhere everywhere in the United States. 175 00:08:49,960 --> 00:08:52,520 Speaker 3: How do you know what you know and be a mom? 176 00:08:52,960 --> 00:08:55,640 Speaker 5: I think that's where like my throat is like literally closing, 177 00:08:55,679 --> 00:08:57,480 Speaker 5: Like I was reading through everything last night and I'm 178 00:08:57,520 --> 00:08:59,559 Speaker 5: just like, I just want to cry and I feel 179 00:08:59,559 --> 00:09:02,440 Speaker 5: helpless and it feels huge and unstoppable, and I hate 180 00:09:02,480 --> 00:09:03,000 Speaker 5: that feeling. 181 00:09:03,720 --> 00:09:07,360 Speaker 1: I'm sorry, as I know, it's just real. It's why 182 00:09:07,400 --> 00:09:11,080 Speaker 1: I started, you know, my nonprofits, why I started the podcast, 183 00:09:11,120 --> 00:09:13,920 Speaker 1: It's why I started going undercover because it was so overwhelming. 184 00:09:14,440 --> 00:09:17,400 Speaker 1: To be honest, I just couldn't sleep. I was like, 185 00:09:17,520 --> 00:09:19,440 Speaker 1: I don't know how to do this. Once you know, 186 00:09:19,520 --> 00:09:22,360 Speaker 1: you can't unknow I can't pretend that I don't know 187 00:09:22,400 --> 00:09:25,640 Speaker 1: anymore that these things are happening, or once I've seen stuff, 188 00:09:25,679 --> 00:09:28,480 Speaker 1: I can't pretend I haven't seen it. So I couldn't sleep. 189 00:09:29,120 --> 00:09:30,840 Speaker 1: And so the only way that I could come to 190 00:09:30,920 --> 00:09:32,440 Speaker 1: terms with it was like, Okay, I have to find 191 00:09:32,480 --> 00:09:36,520 Speaker 1: something that I can do about this. What is needed? 192 00:09:36,679 --> 00:09:40,560 Speaker 1: Where can I help the most? And by diving in 193 00:09:40,600 --> 00:09:42,120 Speaker 1: and learning as much as I could, and then with 194 00:09:42,160 --> 00:09:44,800 Speaker 1: the audience that was kind of built in from Riverdale, 195 00:09:45,480 --> 00:09:48,200 Speaker 1: I was like, okay, let me talk about this. Let me. 196 00:09:48,280 --> 00:09:52,200 Speaker 1: Let me speak directly to teenagers and directly to moms 197 00:09:52,240 --> 00:09:55,120 Speaker 1: and dads and be like, hey, guys, this is what's happening. 198 00:09:55,480 --> 00:09:57,360 Speaker 1: This is what you can do to protect your kid 199 00:09:57,840 --> 00:09:59,839 Speaker 1: or hey, teen that person that you're talking to the 200 00:10:00,640 --> 00:10:04,640 Speaker 1: guess what that could not be. That's not them, that's 201 00:10:04,679 --> 00:10:07,079 Speaker 1: not them. Especially with AI. 202 00:10:07,679 --> 00:10:09,520 Speaker 3: Remind me how old your daughter is. 203 00:10:09,920 --> 00:10:12,240 Speaker 1: Well, now she's sixteen, but I started this when she 204 00:10:12,400 --> 00:10:13,200 Speaker 1: was six. 205 00:10:13,920 --> 00:10:16,240 Speaker 2: Did you let her have what was your journey with 206 00:10:16,400 --> 00:10:18,480 Speaker 2: letting her be on social media? Did you let her 207 00:10:18,520 --> 00:10:20,960 Speaker 2: have it? Did you or did you ever see it? Like? 208 00:10:21,000 --> 00:10:24,200 Speaker 3: What is? What has that journey? And now that she's sixteen. 209 00:10:24,200 --> 00:10:27,640 Speaker 1: So she still doesn't have an Instagram account and not 210 00:10:27,720 --> 00:10:32,400 Speaker 1: because she she's just like no, she's like no, But 211 00:10:33,280 --> 00:10:36,400 Speaker 1: it was it was a bit I had to gently 212 00:10:36,559 --> 00:10:39,440 Speaker 1: explain because I don't want to scare my kid, and 213 00:10:39,480 --> 00:10:41,720 Speaker 1: how do you explain this? So I would sort of go, look, 214 00:10:42,880 --> 00:10:44,800 Speaker 1: I go the internet. I would draw a picture and 215 00:10:44,840 --> 00:10:47,920 Speaker 1: I go, you can contact like all of these people. 216 00:10:48,040 --> 00:10:50,440 Speaker 1: And I did like a thousand dots, right, all of 217 00:10:50,480 --> 00:10:52,679 Speaker 1: these people and any of them can talk to you. 218 00:10:53,320 --> 00:10:54,719 Speaker 1: And then I used like a red pen and I 219 00:10:54,760 --> 00:10:59,000 Speaker 1: was like that this many people are bad guys and 220 00:10:59,040 --> 00:11:02,319 Speaker 1: they look like the good guy and you can't tell 221 00:11:03,320 --> 00:11:05,520 Speaker 1: and so you have to be very, very careful. And 222 00:11:05,520 --> 00:11:06,880 Speaker 1: then I'm going to tell you what to look for 223 00:11:07,679 --> 00:11:10,120 Speaker 1: bad guys. But I want to know how old you are. 224 00:11:11,400 --> 00:11:15,520 Speaker 1: The bad guys are going to tell you you're pretty, You're one. 225 00:11:15,520 --> 00:11:19,280 Speaker 1: They're gonna be so nice and so interested. They're going 226 00:11:19,320 --> 00:11:22,360 Speaker 1: to ask you where do you live? Where do you 227 00:11:22,400 --> 00:11:25,160 Speaker 1: go to school? They're going to ask personal questions. So 228 00:11:25,200 --> 00:11:26,679 Speaker 1: at first my daughter would go, oh, I just say 229 00:11:26,760 --> 00:11:30,000 Speaker 1: Venus or I say Canada, or I say this, And 230 00:11:30,040 --> 00:11:32,840 Speaker 1: then now I'm like, let's just not we don't even 231 00:11:32,840 --> 00:11:37,520 Speaker 1: talk to those guys. And I explained to her, I go, look, 232 00:11:37,559 --> 00:11:40,920 Speaker 1: you're going to run into this. It's not everybody out there. 233 00:11:40,920 --> 00:11:42,400 Speaker 1: And I go and I lecture at high schools, and 234 00:11:42,440 --> 00:11:45,680 Speaker 1: I lecture at where kids are to explain like, it's 235 00:11:45,720 --> 00:11:49,400 Speaker 1: gonna it's there no matter what, but if you know 236 00:11:49,440 --> 00:11:51,200 Speaker 1: what to look for and you know what not to 237 00:11:51,280 --> 00:11:55,920 Speaker 1: give away, and that these guys can pretend to be anyone. 238 00:11:56,440 --> 00:11:58,040 Speaker 1: And I show people how easy it is to make 239 00:11:58,040 --> 00:12:02,160 Speaker 1: a fake profile and put a fake kid's face, and 240 00:12:02,200 --> 00:12:03,880 Speaker 1: now you're that kid, and you're talking like that kid, 241 00:12:03,920 --> 00:12:07,080 Speaker 1: because that's what I do in the stints. I pretend 242 00:12:07,080 --> 00:12:09,760 Speaker 1: to be kid. It's it's just kind of like, do 243 00:12:09,800 --> 00:12:15,000 Speaker 1: you see the difference, And so she's very I had 244 00:12:15,040 --> 00:12:17,080 Speaker 1: to educate her because there was no way to avoid it. 245 00:12:17,800 --> 00:12:21,480 Speaker 1: There's literally no way. You're never gonna unless you never 246 00:12:21,559 --> 00:12:24,520 Speaker 1: let your kid online, which is I just don't. I 247 00:12:24,520 --> 00:12:27,640 Speaker 1: don't think that's real. So I had to educate her. 248 00:12:27,640 --> 00:12:29,480 Speaker 1: And then as she got older, I told her more 249 00:12:29,520 --> 00:12:32,760 Speaker 1: and more and more, you know, but not not. It's 250 00:12:32,800 --> 00:12:34,439 Speaker 1: a fine line because you don't want to freak out 251 00:12:34,440 --> 00:12:34,920 Speaker 1: your kid. 252 00:12:35,480 --> 00:12:38,120 Speaker 2: Hmm yeah, and you also want like, you know, Catherine 253 00:12:38,120 --> 00:12:40,960 Speaker 2: has older children, and you know, she's like, my kids 254 00:12:40,960 --> 00:12:43,480 Speaker 2: talk through Snapchat, like that's the new generation, Like that's 255 00:12:43,480 --> 00:12:45,640 Speaker 2: not something. So I'm going to be obviously leaning on 256 00:12:45,720 --> 00:12:47,520 Speaker 2: her when you know, my kids get older. But you 257 00:12:47,559 --> 00:12:50,120 Speaker 2: knew she's got high schooler and middle schooler. So it's 258 00:12:50,160 --> 00:12:53,199 Speaker 2: like that world has got to be so tricky to 259 00:12:53,320 --> 00:12:54,160 Speaker 2: navigate well. 260 00:12:54,160 --> 00:12:56,960 Speaker 4: And I think that every parent parents differently when it 261 00:12:56,960 --> 00:12:59,440 Speaker 4: comes to that. I know, for me personally, we have 262 00:12:59,559 --> 00:13:03,600 Speaker 4: those toscussions a lot. I have all their passwords, I 263 00:13:03,640 --> 00:13:05,840 Speaker 4: go through their dms to make sure they're not talking 264 00:13:05,880 --> 00:13:08,880 Speaker 4: to anybody they shouldn't. Snapchat is a new one for us. 265 00:13:09,000 --> 00:13:12,440 Speaker 4: I was very anti snapchat until lately, but they do 266 00:13:12,520 --> 00:13:16,440 Speaker 4: all communicate via Snapchat, which has been you know. But 267 00:13:17,559 --> 00:13:20,200 Speaker 4: I just think everyone navigates that differently, and I agree 268 00:13:20,200 --> 00:13:22,920 Speaker 4: with you that you cannot avoid it and it's a 269 00:13:22,960 --> 00:13:27,400 Speaker 4: conversation that has to be had, so just everybody has 270 00:13:27,400 --> 00:13:28,400 Speaker 4: to navigate that differently. 271 00:13:28,720 --> 00:13:31,000 Speaker 1: One of the things that I also did because My 272 00:13:31,080 --> 00:13:33,040 Speaker 1: daughter would do this thing when we were out in public, 273 00:13:33,080 --> 00:13:35,040 Speaker 1: like let's say we were at like an outdoor mall 274 00:13:35,160 --> 00:13:37,360 Speaker 1: or something, and she would love to run ahead, and 275 00:13:37,400 --> 00:13:40,319 Speaker 1: I was like absolute, or she would love to like 276 00:13:40,679 --> 00:13:41,840 Speaker 1: I want to be friends with this, I want to 277 00:13:41,840 --> 00:13:44,280 Speaker 1: go here, that kind of thing. So I very gently 278 00:13:46,679 --> 00:13:49,800 Speaker 1: because what I was saying didn't get through. I had 279 00:13:49,840 --> 00:13:51,560 Speaker 1: to explain to her. I go, look, there's like I said, 280 00:13:51,559 --> 00:13:53,760 Speaker 1: there's very few bad guys, but they like, they go 281 00:13:53,800 --> 00:13:55,720 Speaker 1: after kids, and then these kids are missing, and we 282 00:13:55,760 --> 00:13:58,280 Speaker 1: don't want that to happen, and it wasn't real to her. 283 00:13:58,800 --> 00:14:00,640 Speaker 1: It was like, no, don't know. So finally I was like, okay, fine. 284 00:14:00,640 --> 00:14:02,040 Speaker 1: As she got older, I was like, let me explain 285 00:14:02,080 --> 00:14:05,040 Speaker 1: this to you, and I went on, there's the National 286 00:14:05,120 --> 00:14:08,600 Speaker 1: Center for Missing and Exploited Children, right, they're the milk 287 00:14:08,640 --> 00:14:12,120 Speaker 1: carton guys. So and I would go look, let's look 288 00:14:12,120 --> 00:14:15,640 Speaker 1: at and I would show all the missing kids posters 289 00:14:16,160 --> 00:14:19,960 Speaker 1: and then it was real. And then she was like, Okay, 290 00:14:20,040 --> 00:14:22,920 Speaker 1: my mom's not making this up. My mom's not being 291 00:14:23,080 --> 00:14:26,600 Speaker 1: you know, exaggerating or anything like that. And she finally 292 00:14:26,680 --> 00:14:29,520 Speaker 1: got it, and now she educates other kids of what 293 00:14:29,600 --> 00:14:31,400 Speaker 1: to look for and actually got one of her friends 294 00:14:31,440 --> 00:14:33,400 Speaker 1: off of a chat with the predator. 295 00:14:34,640 --> 00:14:39,920 Speaker 2: When did this become the because again my naiveness goes, well, 296 00:14:40,000 --> 00:14:43,160 Speaker 2: the drug industry, that was what the big industry was. 297 00:14:43,200 --> 00:14:44,880 Speaker 2: When did it switch to children? 298 00:14:45,760 --> 00:14:49,560 Speaker 1: It's a great again, a great question. It's been gradual. 299 00:14:50,320 --> 00:14:53,800 Speaker 1: But as the internet sort of as the internet and 300 00:14:54,000 --> 00:14:58,880 Speaker 1: other things became more available to everyone, this the child 301 00:14:58,880 --> 00:15:03,200 Speaker 1: thing kind of grew. And then not to do a 302 00:15:03,200 --> 00:15:07,400 Speaker 1: whole comment on society, but we kind of sexualized children. 303 00:15:08,520 --> 00:15:11,400 Speaker 1: We kind of do. It's like you know, the hot er, 304 00:15:11,640 --> 00:15:14,560 Speaker 1: all this in music and you see you see it, right, 305 00:15:15,280 --> 00:15:18,280 Speaker 1: So along around two thousand, two thousand and four, two 306 00:15:18,280 --> 00:15:22,240 Speaker 1: thousand and five, this whole thing started to started to 307 00:15:22,280 --> 00:15:24,200 Speaker 1: take off. Because you didn't hear about this in the 308 00:15:24,240 --> 00:15:25,640 Speaker 1: nineties eighties. 309 00:15:25,400 --> 00:15:25,760 Speaker 3: Well that's it. 310 00:15:25,760 --> 00:15:28,680 Speaker 2: And I was also curious statistically what the stats are 311 00:15:28,720 --> 00:15:32,000 Speaker 2: between missing kids in the nineties versus missing kids today, 312 00:15:32,040 --> 00:15:34,360 Speaker 2: Like what that's what that stat looks like, because that'd 313 00:15:34,360 --> 00:15:36,720 Speaker 2: be an interesting stat It's huge. 314 00:15:36,920 --> 00:15:40,280 Speaker 1: I mean, it's the numbers between just people in modern 315 00:15:40,360 --> 00:15:44,760 Speaker 1: day slavery overall have doubled in the last decade, like doubled. 316 00:15:45,200 --> 00:15:47,440 Speaker 1: I remember when it was it was I think it 317 00:15:47,480 --> 00:15:50,280 Speaker 1: was twelve or thirteen million worldwide, I think back in 318 00:15:50,320 --> 00:15:54,600 Speaker 1: two thousand and one, and now it is thirty the 319 00:15:54,720 --> 00:16:01,320 Speaker 1: latest numbers of thirty seven million people worldwide? Why and 320 00:16:01,400 --> 00:16:03,160 Speaker 1: the sex trade? I believe the number is six point 321 00:16:03,200 --> 00:16:05,240 Speaker 1: six million women and children? 322 00:16:18,560 --> 00:16:22,520 Speaker 2: Do you know the number of girls or women being 323 00:16:22,880 --> 00:16:24,920 Speaker 2: Is it primarily? I just want to say, is that 324 00:16:25,040 --> 00:16:27,200 Speaker 2: is that statistically right that it's mostly just women? Or 325 00:16:27,240 --> 00:16:29,320 Speaker 2: is there also a percentage of the boys And. 326 00:16:29,320 --> 00:16:31,760 Speaker 1: There's a small percentage of boys for sure, it's not 327 00:16:32,000 --> 00:16:36,280 Speaker 1: just exclusively, but the majority is women and children, but 328 00:16:36,320 --> 00:16:37,560 Speaker 1: it is do people as well? 329 00:16:38,120 --> 00:16:40,800 Speaker 3: So what is the percentage of. 330 00:16:40,840 --> 00:16:46,680 Speaker 2: The kids being trafficked overseas being brought here? And then 331 00:16:47,040 --> 00:16:50,880 Speaker 2: is are the American kids that are being trafficked? Are 332 00:16:50,880 --> 00:16:54,480 Speaker 2: they going overseas too? Like? What is the like when 333 00:16:54,520 --> 00:16:57,280 Speaker 2: you've seen in your what you've been doing? Like what 334 00:16:57,560 --> 00:17:00,160 Speaker 2: what does that even look like? Because again, this is 335 00:17:00,200 --> 00:17:03,240 Speaker 2: the only reference that I have that's been out there, 336 00:17:03,320 --> 00:17:06,359 Speaker 2: you know, which got pretty much torn to shreds with 337 00:17:06,400 --> 00:17:11,959 Speaker 2: sound of freedom with what they shared. And I don't know, 338 00:17:12,000 --> 00:17:15,600 Speaker 2: I've I've heard kind of like people having difference of opinions, 339 00:17:15,640 --> 00:17:17,119 Speaker 2: but that was the first thing where I was like, 340 00:17:17,119 --> 00:17:19,680 Speaker 2: oh wow, I'm like, is there a truth in all this? 341 00:17:19,840 --> 00:17:23,399 Speaker 1: And yeah, it was very interesting to watch who was 342 00:17:23,440 --> 00:17:27,400 Speaker 1: doing the tearing. That was interesting to me. I was like, wow, 343 00:17:27,440 --> 00:17:30,960 Speaker 1: you really have a you're going after this like very 344 00:17:31,480 --> 00:17:34,640 Speaker 1: Why is what I was exactly why does this bother 345 00:17:34,720 --> 00:17:35,480 Speaker 1: you so much? 346 00:17:35,760 --> 00:17:36,080 Speaker 3: Yeah? 347 00:17:36,200 --> 00:17:40,840 Speaker 1: Period? Yeah, like period. It's this has been an issue 348 00:17:40,920 --> 00:17:44,439 Speaker 1: for it, Like the United Nations has been doing this forever. 349 00:17:44,520 --> 00:17:47,840 Speaker 1: It was Barack Obama when he was president, the coin 350 00:17:47,920 --> 00:17:51,000 Speaker 1: the term modern day slavery. This has been going on. 351 00:17:51,240 --> 00:17:54,040 Speaker 1: It's not a it's not a Republican issue, it's not 352 00:17:54,080 --> 00:17:56,719 Speaker 1: a democratic issue. It's the one issue that both sides 353 00:17:56,760 --> 00:18:02,879 Speaker 1: actually agree on. Period. It's kids, right. It has nothing 354 00:18:02,920 --> 00:18:05,400 Speaker 1: to do with the political climate today, even though it's 355 00:18:05,400 --> 00:18:08,760 Speaker 1: being sort of turned into that. Right. But to answer 356 00:18:08,800 --> 00:18:15,280 Speaker 1: your question about a decade ago, it was the United 357 00:18:15,320 --> 00:18:18,960 Speaker 1: States was not on the list of countries that people 358 00:18:19,040 --> 00:18:23,119 Speaker 1: traveled to for sex with kids. It's called sex tourism, right, 359 00:18:23,160 --> 00:18:25,159 Speaker 1: And there's a whole list of countries. I know. 360 00:18:26,240 --> 00:18:28,440 Speaker 3: Sorry, so let's just say I'm just say it. 361 00:18:28,440 --> 00:18:30,960 Speaker 1: Used to be countries that you always heard like Thailand, 362 00:18:31,080 --> 00:18:37,960 Speaker 1: you knew about Highland the Philippines, Mexico, Dominican Republic, places 363 00:18:38,000 --> 00:18:41,119 Speaker 1: like that. The United States is now not only on 364 00:18:41,119 --> 00:18:44,440 Speaker 1: that list, but high on that list. So a decade ago, 365 00:18:45,520 --> 00:18:49,359 Speaker 1: if you were a kid taken, essentially you would be 366 00:18:49,359 --> 00:18:52,560 Speaker 1: shipped off to one of those countries because it was easier. 367 00:18:53,240 --> 00:18:57,080 Speaker 1: Now that there's not really a need to bring in 368 00:18:58,440 --> 00:19:02,080 Speaker 1: supply for lack of a better word, from other countries 369 00:19:02,200 --> 00:19:06,080 Speaker 1: into America because you've got the supply and the demand 370 00:19:06,760 --> 00:19:11,280 Speaker 1: right here period. You've got it and the majority of 371 00:19:11,359 --> 00:19:13,280 Speaker 1: kids and you don't And anyone who's listening to this, like, 372 00:19:13,440 --> 00:19:16,119 Speaker 1: just look this up. Please, don't just base it on 373 00:19:16,200 --> 00:19:19,080 Speaker 1: what I'm saying. Do your own research. You can look 374 00:19:19,080 --> 00:19:22,200 Speaker 1: it up. But in America it's foster care children or 375 00:19:22,200 --> 00:19:28,080 Speaker 1: the number one foster care children and runaways are number one, period. 376 00:19:28,119 --> 00:19:30,040 Speaker 1: And they're picked up by a trafficker, and their traffic 377 00:19:30,040 --> 00:19:33,960 Speaker 1: through hotel rooms, hotel rooms and businesses pretending to be businesses, 378 00:19:33,960 --> 00:19:37,320 Speaker 1: and they're traveled all along the corridors want to be mentioned. 379 00:19:37,520 --> 00:19:42,040 Speaker 2: And they're drugged, threatened, yes, fully, all of yeah. 380 00:19:41,800 --> 00:19:44,000 Speaker 1: Fully, And I hate to say it, but I'm like, 381 00:19:44,960 --> 00:19:51,640 Speaker 1: because it's such a horrific and unconscionable thing to imagine. 382 00:19:51,880 --> 00:19:53,719 Speaker 1: I was like, oh my god, thank god they're drugged, 383 00:19:54,520 --> 00:19:58,320 Speaker 1: because I can't imagine going through something like that as 384 00:19:58,359 --> 00:20:04,200 Speaker 1: a kid without something to numb you, something to shield you, 385 00:20:04,240 --> 00:20:08,560 Speaker 1: because it's it's un it's unthinkable. Now. At the same time, 386 00:20:08,560 --> 00:20:10,920 Speaker 1: the good news is that there's a lot, a lot, 387 00:20:11,040 --> 00:20:14,880 Speaker 1: a lot of organizations doing things about this and rescuing 388 00:20:14,960 --> 00:20:20,680 Speaker 1: children or rehabilitating women and children. And there isn't one 389 00:20:20,920 --> 00:20:23,480 Speaker 1: sort of state government that I've seen that's not doing 390 00:20:23,520 --> 00:20:26,720 Speaker 1: something about this, that isn't like, Okay, great, we have organizations, 391 00:20:26,760 --> 00:20:29,640 Speaker 1: we have money set aside, we have laws being put 392 00:20:29,680 --> 00:20:34,280 Speaker 1: in trying to tackle this. So that's the good upside 393 00:20:34,359 --> 00:20:36,399 Speaker 1: of this is that once people do hear about it, 394 00:20:36,400 --> 00:20:37,160 Speaker 1: they want to help. 395 00:20:37,600 --> 00:20:39,080 Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean like, how can we help? Well, how 396 00:20:39,080 --> 00:20:40,520 Speaker 2: can we go on? I'm like, I want to go 397 00:20:40,560 --> 00:20:42,720 Speaker 2: into stings. How do we how do I help find these? 398 00:20:42,720 --> 00:20:46,119 Speaker 2: Like what can we do? And on that side of things. 399 00:20:45,880 --> 00:20:48,399 Speaker 1: Like exactly, I mean educating people about it. You have 400 00:20:48,440 --> 00:20:52,639 Speaker 1: a giant audience. It's that's number one, right because if 401 00:20:52,680 --> 00:20:54,840 Speaker 1: people don't know about it, people can't do anything about it. 402 00:20:54,960 --> 00:20:58,119 Speaker 1: And I always say, the good people the moms, the 403 00:20:58,560 --> 00:21:01,400 Speaker 1: people that are not criminals, the people that don't think 404 00:21:01,520 --> 00:21:05,040 Speaker 1: like this, don't know about these things, but they're the 405 00:21:05,119 --> 00:21:07,840 Speaker 1: exact people that need to know about it because nothing 406 00:21:07,880 --> 00:21:11,760 Speaker 1: will happen about it. Nothing will happen, nothing will be 407 00:21:11,840 --> 00:21:15,719 Speaker 1: done about it unless good people know about it. So 408 00:21:15,760 --> 00:21:19,240 Speaker 1: that's number one is education and awareness. The sound of freedom. 409 00:21:19,280 --> 00:21:21,640 Speaker 1: There's another movie that I'm an ambassador of called City 410 00:21:21,680 --> 00:21:26,320 Speaker 1: of Dreams. Yeah, that really focuses on just Los Angeles 411 00:21:27,160 --> 00:21:31,320 Speaker 1: and just the people that are labor trafficked in Los Angeles, 412 00:21:31,359 --> 00:21:34,320 Speaker 1: which is a case of bringing in cheap labor from 413 00:21:34,400 --> 00:21:39,159 Speaker 1: other countries, which also fully happens. It fully happens. So 414 00:21:39,160 --> 00:21:43,320 Speaker 1: that's another movie that's out there that's being, you know, 415 00:21:43,400 --> 00:21:47,160 Speaker 1: a good educational tool. Secondly, you don't have to reinvent 416 00:21:47,200 --> 00:21:51,680 Speaker 1: the wheel. There are already organizations doing things about this, right, 417 00:21:51,800 --> 00:21:54,159 Speaker 1: so obviously I have one. I'm always like, please donate. 418 00:21:54,800 --> 00:21:57,040 Speaker 1: We have a whole mail campaign. We have a whole 419 00:21:57,440 --> 00:22:00,000 Speaker 1: educational campaign that will put together for junior high kids, 420 00:22:00,280 --> 00:22:05,199 Speaker 1: high school and college. Because it keeps going right and 421 00:22:05,240 --> 00:22:06,880 Speaker 1: then even your local area. 422 00:22:06,640 --> 00:22:08,840 Speaker 2: What is that can you can you talk about that foundation? 423 00:22:09,000 --> 00:22:10,000 Speaker 2: Just so that what we can all. 424 00:22:10,160 --> 00:22:14,080 Speaker 1: Yeah. So it's called Slavery Free World. I Foundation for 425 00:22:14,119 --> 00:22:16,720 Speaker 1: a Slavery Free World, and I named it that way 426 00:22:16,800 --> 00:22:20,480 Speaker 1: because I wanted the I wanted the end product. I 427 00:22:20,520 --> 00:22:24,359 Speaker 1: wanted this idea of modern day slavery and trafficking to 428 00:22:24,440 --> 00:22:26,320 Speaker 1: be something that we read about in the history books 429 00:22:26,760 --> 00:22:29,560 Speaker 1: that's just done right that we go I didn't even know, 430 00:22:29,600 --> 00:22:31,480 Speaker 1: oh my god, and it's done, not something that we 431 00:22:31,560 --> 00:22:33,919 Speaker 1: have to deal with on a daily basis. So my 432 00:22:33,960 --> 00:22:38,160 Speaker 1: website is called Slavery Freeworld dot org and we do 433 00:22:38,320 --> 00:22:40,679 Speaker 1: a lot. In addition to me going undercover when I 434 00:22:40,680 --> 00:22:43,840 Speaker 1: can with different law enforcement, my main thing is trying 435 00:22:43,840 --> 00:22:47,600 Speaker 1: to educate preventative because that's what I care about more 436 00:22:47,640 --> 00:22:51,080 Speaker 1: than anything, is preventing any of this happening in the 437 00:22:51,080 --> 00:22:55,119 Speaker 1: first place. So the podcast where I Reach My My, 438 00:22:55,640 --> 00:22:57,720 Speaker 1: you know, a very good audience, which I'm very proud of, 439 00:22:58,520 --> 00:23:01,000 Speaker 1: but also going face to face with kids. I can't 440 00:23:01,000 --> 00:23:03,000 Speaker 1: be everywhere in every school at all times, but we're 441 00:23:03,040 --> 00:23:06,240 Speaker 1: putting together something that we can put into schools that 442 00:23:06,359 --> 00:23:09,159 Speaker 1: sort of like add a water and mix. Here's the 443 00:23:09,240 --> 00:23:13,159 Speaker 1: data here. It is geared down to a junior high kid. 444 00:23:13,400 --> 00:23:15,399 Speaker 1: This is what a junior high kid or an elementary's 445 00:23:15,480 --> 00:23:18,080 Speaker 1: kid should look for. This is how to protect yourself 446 00:23:18,080 --> 00:23:21,640 Speaker 1: without overwhelming and making every single person a bad guy, 447 00:23:21,720 --> 00:23:25,800 Speaker 1: because you don't want that. And then okay, hi, high school, Okay, college, 448 00:23:26,359 --> 00:23:28,959 Speaker 1: this is what you have to be aware of because 449 00:23:30,320 --> 00:23:33,000 Speaker 1: and the Internet now is the new white van. You know, 450 00:23:33,040 --> 00:23:34,720 Speaker 1: growing up, it was like, look for the white van. Sure, 451 00:23:34,760 --> 00:23:37,720 Speaker 1: the white van, it exists, but it's the Internet now 452 00:23:38,200 --> 00:23:39,360 Speaker 1: that's the right van. 453 00:23:40,000 --> 00:23:42,160 Speaker 2: Yeah, and that's kind of where I want to transition 454 00:23:42,240 --> 00:23:45,560 Speaker 2: to because obviously this conversation came about after I posted 455 00:23:45,560 --> 00:23:49,680 Speaker 2: that video of my daughter. Yes, for those that didn't 456 00:23:49,680 --> 00:23:52,320 Speaker 2: see it, I'd posted a photo video of us doing 457 00:23:52,359 --> 00:23:56,120 Speaker 2: this cute little TikTok dance. My daughter that morning we 458 00:23:56,119 --> 00:23:57,359 Speaker 2: were saying we were going to do yoga and then 459 00:23:57,359 --> 00:24:00,320 Speaker 2: we were going to go grocery shopping and then get 460 00:24:00,320 --> 00:24:03,080 Speaker 2: some Halloween decorations, and we were doing this. So she 461 00:24:03,160 --> 00:24:06,400 Speaker 2: comes down, you know, in her little sportspra and little shorts, 462 00:24:06,440 --> 00:24:08,760 Speaker 2: and I again thought nothing of it, because like she 463 00:24:08,880 --> 00:24:10,680 Speaker 2: likes to be in the gym while I'm working out 464 00:24:10,720 --> 00:24:15,080 Speaker 2: and just stretching, and we love dancing. And my almost 465 00:24:15,119 --> 00:24:18,480 Speaker 2: one year old little boy is just loves to dance 466 00:24:18,520 --> 00:24:19,760 Speaker 2: as well, and so I was like, oh, we should 467 00:24:19,760 --> 00:24:21,920 Speaker 2: do this cute little TikTok dance and so I then 468 00:24:22,000 --> 00:24:25,520 Speaker 2: post it. She was wearing her sports bra and her shorts. 469 00:24:25,640 --> 00:24:28,800 Speaker 2: I again just thought nothing of it, and then I 470 00:24:28,880 --> 00:24:32,199 Speaker 2: started to see comments, and you know, I when it 471 00:24:32,240 --> 00:24:35,399 Speaker 2: came to the thing of the AI and like, I 472 00:24:35,400 --> 00:24:37,560 Speaker 2: don't know anything. I don't know what AI can do. 473 00:24:38,160 --> 00:24:40,960 Speaker 2: I because I didn't look at it, and I was like, wow, 474 00:24:41,000 --> 00:24:43,959 Speaker 2: people are like sexualizing my daughter. I don't understand. And 475 00:24:43,960 --> 00:24:46,719 Speaker 2: that was that kind of blew me away. But then 476 00:24:46,760 --> 00:24:47,440 Speaker 2: they're like protector. 477 00:24:47,560 --> 00:24:47,959 Speaker 3: I'm like what. 478 00:24:48,160 --> 00:24:49,800 Speaker 2: At first, I was a little like this is more 479 00:24:49,840 --> 00:24:52,560 Speaker 2: than a bathing suit. I don't understand, Like this was 480 00:24:52,560 --> 00:24:54,520 Speaker 2: a sweet little video I did with my daughter, and 481 00:24:54,560 --> 00:24:58,119 Speaker 2: I at first was a little defensive when I was 482 00:24:58,119 --> 00:25:00,600 Speaker 2: talking about it to my husband, but then when I 483 00:25:00,640 --> 00:25:03,200 Speaker 2: texted David, I was like, Hey, you know this world, 484 00:25:03,280 --> 00:25:05,760 Speaker 2: and people are saying that they could take her cute 485 00:25:05,760 --> 00:25:09,239 Speaker 2: little dancing, change her face or use her face and 486 00:25:09,280 --> 00:25:12,199 Speaker 2: then like AI into a sexual video. If that is 487 00:25:12,240 --> 00:25:14,000 Speaker 2: the case, please tell me and I will take it down. 488 00:25:14,040 --> 00:25:16,600 Speaker 2: Like I trust your opinion, because you know this world. 489 00:25:16,680 --> 00:25:18,800 Speaker 2: I just didn't and I didn't think that that could 490 00:25:18,840 --> 00:25:21,359 Speaker 2: be a possibility. And he was like, I would advise 491 00:25:21,440 --> 00:25:24,159 Speaker 2: to take it down. You should talk to Marisol, you know, 492 00:25:24,240 --> 00:25:27,080 Speaker 2: and this is why. And I was like all right, 493 00:25:27,119 --> 00:25:29,199 Speaker 2: and then I was like delete immediately. And then I 494 00:25:29,240 --> 00:25:30,760 Speaker 2: just felt terrible because I'm like, well, I didn't I 495 00:25:30,760 --> 00:25:33,880 Speaker 2: didn't know. And then I'm like, you know, going through 496 00:25:33,920 --> 00:25:36,800 Speaker 2: all the things in my brain, and then I'm like, gosh, 497 00:25:37,000 --> 00:25:39,000 Speaker 2: I posted a video of her in her swimsuit at 498 00:25:39,040 --> 00:25:40,440 Speaker 2: the pool, and then I'm like, this is so sad 499 00:25:40,440 --> 00:25:41,960 Speaker 2: that we even have to think about this. I'm like, 500 00:25:42,000 --> 00:25:46,119 Speaker 2: why can't I just show a beautiful backyard? And then like, 501 00:25:46,160 --> 00:25:48,080 Speaker 2: I know, you posted things, you know, with your daughter 502 00:25:48,080 --> 00:25:50,239 Speaker 2: in a bathing suit, and I'm like what, It's just 503 00:25:50,320 --> 00:25:52,560 Speaker 2: like I'm not saying that to you either, but I'm 504 00:25:52,600 --> 00:25:54,159 Speaker 2: just like it's just so sad that I'm like, we 505 00:25:54,200 --> 00:25:57,240 Speaker 2: can't just post photos of our family without being like, oh, 506 00:25:57,240 --> 00:25:59,280 Speaker 2: the Internet's going to take this and have a heyday 507 00:25:59,280 --> 00:26:01,280 Speaker 2: with it. But also I don't know the risks, so 508 00:26:01,320 --> 00:26:01,880 Speaker 2: what are they? 509 00:26:02,640 --> 00:26:06,760 Speaker 1: So I mean, AI is a whole other tool that 510 00:26:07,040 --> 00:26:11,359 Speaker 1: is like a snowball rolling downhill that's growing and growing 511 00:26:11,359 --> 00:26:17,160 Speaker 1: and growing uncontrolled right now, period and law like, legally 512 00:26:17,480 --> 00:26:20,359 Speaker 1: and politically, everyone's again trying to play catch up with 513 00:26:20,400 --> 00:26:22,600 Speaker 1: this thing because this is something brand new that we've 514 00:26:22,720 --> 00:26:26,960 Speaker 1: never had to deal with. But yes, to answer your question, yes, 515 00:26:27,000 --> 00:26:29,800 Speaker 1: they can take an image of anybody. They're called deep fakes. 516 00:26:29,840 --> 00:26:31,680 Speaker 1: You may have heard of deep fakes, right, And they 517 00:26:31,680 --> 00:26:33,480 Speaker 1: do it with celebrities, but they can do it with anybody. 518 00:26:34,119 --> 00:26:38,000 Speaker 1: And they'll put your face on a naked body and 519 00:26:38,000 --> 00:26:40,160 Speaker 1: put it together and you will never, ever, ever, ever know. 520 00:26:40,880 --> 00:26:44,679 Speaker 1: It's very scary and bad actors are always going to 521 00:26:45,640 --> 00:26:49,080 Speaker 1: take technology and twist it and use it for criminal 522 00:26:49,200 --> 00:26:54,679 Speaker 1: and nefarious means. Now there's I work a lot with Meta, 523 00:26:54,840 --> 00:26:59,320 Speaker 1: right I've actually they're doing some really good things right now. 524 00:26:59,359 --> 00:27:01,239 Speaker 1: And one of the things that they are doing is 525 00:27:01,600 --> 00:27:05,680 Speaker 1: they made it so that all child accounts immediately on 526 00:27:05,720 --> 00:27:10,040 Speaker 1: Instagram and Facebook are immediately private no matter what by default, 527 00:27:11,000 --> 00:27:16,600 Speaker 1: which means that strangers cannot just DM them, strangers cannot 528 00:27:16,640 --> 00:27:21,600 Speaker 1: just follow them. You have to approve access and improve 529 00:27:21,680 --> 00:27:23,840 Speaker 1: access for these guys to have access to your kids. 530 00:27:24,200 --> 00:27:28,359 Speaker 1: So if your kid is posting something, it's controlled as 531 00:27:28,359 --> 00:27:31,840 Speaker 1: opposed to just out there in the world. But again 532 00:27:31,920 --> 00:27:34,760 Speaker 1: you should know and as parents, what these guys are 533 00:27:34,760 --> 00:27:40,440 Speaker 1: looking for is they're looking for vulnerable children. They're looking 534 00:27:40,480 --> 00:27:44,000 Speaker 1: for kids that are like that are insecure, they come 535 00:27:44,040 --> 00:27:47,600 Speaker 1: from a troubled home, that are easy targets, right, kids 536 00:27:47,600 --> 00:27:49,760 Speaker 1: that are posting things like, you know, f my parents, 537 00:27:49,760 --> 00:27:52,159 Speaker 1: so I hate my mother, or oh my god, they 538 00:27:52,160 --> 00:27:56,800 Speaker 1: grounded me again? And sexually sexual kids. You know, we 539 00:27:56,840 --> 00:27:59,720 Speaker 1: all know kids like this. Those are the kids that 540 00:27:59,720 --> 00:28:05,080 Speaker 1: they're looking for. They're looking for vulnerable kids. So even 541 00:28:03,800 --> 00:28:08,320 Speaker 1: in life, I always use this example to my daughter. 542 00:28:08,400 --> 00:28:11,720 Speaker 1: There's let's say five girls walking down the street and 543 00:28:11,760 --> 00:28:14,639 Speaker 1: one guy who's a bad guy. I say, hey, you 544 00:28:14,680 --> 00:28:18,080 Speaker 1: guys are so pretty. If four of the girls are 545 00:28:18,359 --> 00:28:20,280 Speaker 1: you know, hey f you? Or get away from me 546 00:28:20,400 --> 00:28:27,000 Speaker 1: or where it all great? The one kid that's thank you, 547 00:28:28,560 --> 00:28:34,439 Speaker 1: that's their target. They're looking for vulnerable, easy kids. So 548 00:28:35,680 --> 00:28:37,960 Speaker 1: again this is speaking from the education point of view 549 00:28:38,000 --> 00:28:40,800 Speaker 1: and how to talk to your own kids and what 550 00:28:40,880 --> 00:28:43,360 Speaker 1: you're posting. But Janna, in the case of you, I 551 00:28:43,400 --> 00:28:47,680 Speaker 1: agree with you. It's heartbreaking that you can't just post 552 00:28:47,680 --> 00:28:49,160 Speaker 1: a picture of your kid Like I went back and 553 00:28:49,200 --> 00:28:52,160 Speaker 1: I deleted most of my pictures and rain my daughter. 554 00:28:52,360 --> 00:28:56,040 Speaker 1: I don't post anything of her now as her age 555 00:28:56,280 --> 00:28:58,480 Speaker 1: because I also know I'm a target. So I'll post 556 00:28:58,520 --> 00:29:00,960 Speaker 1: something of her being younger. Here she was, I'm so 557 00:29:01,000 --> 00:29:03,120 Speaker 1: happy of you. You're sixteen years old. Here's a baby 558 00:29:03,120 --> 00:29:07,160 Speaker 1: pic kind of thing. Because we have to think with 559 00:29:10,520 --> 00:29:14,120 Speaker 1: we have to think like these guys think, think how 560 00:29:14,160 --> 00:29:17,600 Speaker 1: bad guys think, and how they could twist something. And 561 00:29:17,640 --> 00:29:19,680 Speaker 1: then it's up to each individual if you want to 562 00:29:21,000 --> 00:29:23,160 Speaker 1: you know what you want to put out there and 563 00:29:23,160 --> 00:29:23,720 Speaker 1: what you don't. 564 00:29:24,640 --> 00:29:24,920 Speaker 4: Sure. 565 00:29:25,320 --> 00:29:27,080 Speaker 1: I know some parents that are like, sure, fine, I 566 00:29:27,120 --> 00:29:28,800 Speaker 1: don't care, You're going to do it anyway. I'm proud 567 00:29:28,800 --> 00:29:30,680 Speaker 1: of my kids and I'm going to celebrate this moment. 568 00:29:31,280 --> 00:29:33,080 Speaker 3: Well that's where I'm and I'll let you. 569 00:29:33,160 --> 00:29:34,440 Speaker 2: I know you. I know you've got something that you 570 00:29:34,440 --> 00:29:36,400 Speaker 2: want to say too. But like there was a for me. 571 00:29:36,480 --> 00:29:38,600 Speaker 2: It's like I don't want to not not share my 572 00:29:38,680 --> 00:29:42,560 Speaker 2: family because that is a part of I love sharing. 573 00:29:44,520 --> 00:29:46,400 Speaker 2: But I also know that now I can be a 574 00:29:46,400 --> 00:29:50,000 Speaker 2: little bit more aware of what I share right to protect. 575 00:29:50,120 --> 00:29:52,720 Speaker 4: But sure, Well I had a question about the meta stuff. 576 00:29:52,800 --> 00:29:56,920 Speaker 4: So they're going to now make kids automatically private, yes, 577 00:29:57,000 --> 00:29:59,720 Speaker 4: which just so we're clear, my kids cannot have social 578 00:29:59,760 --> 00:30:02,880 Speaker 4: media that is public. It has always been private. Yes, 579 00:30:03,240 --> 00:30:04,640 Speaker 4: that is rule number one. 580 00:30:04,800 --> 00:30:06,560 Speaker 3: But I hope you know there's no shame either way. 581 00:30:06,680 --> 00:30:10,400 Speaker 4: Like I mean, I've gotten it from some people on 582 00:30:10,480 --> 00:30:13,480 Speaker 4: here because I've open about that my kids do have 583 00:30:13,560 --> 00:30:17,360 Speaker 4: social media. People like or don't like that I control it. 584 00:30:17,400 --> 00:30:19,239 Speaker 4: You know they have. They all have opinions, which is 585 00:30:19,800 --> 00:30:22,320 Speaker 4: everyone has an opinion. That's fine, but just so everyone 586 00:30:22,360 --> 00:30:25,640 Speaker 4: knows they are private. It is interesting to me to 587 00:30:25,680 --> 00:30:28,000 Speaker 4: hear that. I love that. But can they change it 588 00:30:28,040 --> 00:30:28,560 Speaker 4: to public? 589 00:30:30,240 --> 00:30:32,120 Speaker 1: Okay, So there's two things coming out, So that's a 590 00:30:32,120 --> 00:30:36,400 Speaker 1: great question. So by default, every kid's account is now private. 591 00:30:36,600 --> 00:30:41,000 Speaker 1: They rolled that out. I'm working with them on legislation that. 592 00:30:41,880 --> 00:30:43,320 Speaker 1: In fact, they just spoke about it in the South 593 00:30:43,360 --> 00:30:45,320 Speaker 1: Dakota Congress. They're going to state to state the state 594 00:30:45,360 --> 00:30:48,200 Speaker 1: and them federally. But what they what met US is 595 00:30:48,480 --> 00:30:53,800 Speaker 1: behind right now is making it controllable. Also at the 596 00:30:53,920 --> 00:30:57,880 Speaker 1: app store, So what does that mean? So that means 597 00:30:57,920 --> 00:31:02,000 Speaker 1: that when you buy a phone for your kid and 598 00:31:02,040 --> 00:31:05,240 Speaker 1: you download the software to start that phone from the 599 00:31:05,280 --> 00:31:08,840 Speaker 1: app store, you as a parent, right there go, this 600 00:31:09,000 --> 00:31:10,840 Speaker 1: is a phone for a twelve year old kid. 601 00:31:11,360 --> 00:31:12,120 Speaker 3: Oh that's cool. 602 00:31:12,320 --> 00:31:16,680 Speaker 1: I know. So that automatically everything that is on that 603 00:31:16,800 --> 00:31:21,200 Speaker 1: phone is known that it's for a kid, So any 604 00:31:21,320 --> 00:31:24,000 Speaker 1: every single app, every single thing, every single setting, because 605 00:31:24,000 --> 00:31:26,600 Speaker 1: who parents know how to do that right and know 606 00:31:26,600 --> 00:31:28,400 Speaker 1: how to go into every single app and set the 607 00:31:28,440 --> 00:31:31,640 Speaker 1: safety settings and set the privacy settings. It's impossible, and 608 00:31:31,640 --> 00:31:36,320 Speaker 1: they're constantly changing. So it's by default that everything would 609 00:31:36,360 --> 00:31:39,440 Speaker 1: all automatically be registered as a kid. And then anytime 610 00:31:39,480 --> 00:31:43,680 Speaker 1: your kid tries to change anything, download something, you as 611 00:31:43,680 --> 00:31:47,360 Speaker 1: a parent get a notification and you can approve or 612 00:31:47,440 --> 00:31:51,840 Speaker 1: not approve. And it's something that I really really believe 613 00:31:51,880 --> 00:31:55,320 Speaker 1: in because I think it's twofold, do you know what 614 00:31:55,400 --> 00:31:58,280 Speaker 1: I mean? It's if we can stop it at the source, 615 00:31:59,080 --> 00:32:02,120 Speaker 1: so that the phone, the advice itself is registered as 616 00:32:02,160 --> 00:32:05,400 Speaker 1: a kid. That is something that I think is going 617 00:32:05,440 --> 00:32:08,440 Speaker 1: to be very beneficial, especially as a parent and how 618 00:32:08,440 --> 00:32:11,880 Speaker 1: everything's changing and there's new apps and Snapchat and discord 619 00:32:11,920 --> 00:32:14,560 Speaker 1: and all of these different things. Can we just have 620 00:32:14,680 --> 00:32:17,880 Speaker 1: one sort of stable thing that everyone just knows and 621 00:32:17,920 --> 00:32:19,680 Speaker 1: does and it's automatic and I don't have to think 622 00:32:19,720 --> 00:32:20,080 Speaker 1: about it. 623 00:32:33,600 --> 00:32:35,440 Speaker 2: I'm such a This is where I go cynical, though, 624 00:32:35,520 --> 00:32:38,160 Speaker 2: is I'm like, it's controlled by someone probably in the 625 00:32:38,160 --> 00:32:41,720 Speaker 2: government that will change it or that can do loopholes 626 00:32:41,760 --> 00:32:44,480 Speaker 2: around it. I don't know where I just get or 627 00:32:44,600 --> 00:32:48,040 Speaker 2: corruption twins yeah where. I'm just like it's corrupt and 628 00:32:48,080 --> 00:32:49,920 Speaker 2: they'll find a way to make more money. 629 00:32:50,200 --> 00:32:50,520 Speaker 3: Like it may. 630 00:32:50,600 --> 00:32:52,280 Speaker 5: It gave me a deep breath that you said you're 631 00:32:52,320 --> 00:32:55,240 Speaker 5: working with Meta. I was like, okay, okay, I mean 632 00:32:55,280 --> 00:32:57,440 Speaker 5: I think I might have taken one breath since you've 633 00:32:57,480 --> 00:32:59,080 Speaker 5: started talking, because I'm just like. 634 00:32:59,160 --> 00:33:01,840 Speaker 2: Spyraling I do a life check on your I'm just 635 00:33:01,960 --> 00:33:02,520 Speaker 2: this is like. 636 00:33:02,440 --> 00:33:04,280 Speaker 3: My worst nightmare. Like it makes me emotional. 637 00:33:04,680 --> 00:33:06,600 Speaker 1: I don't yeah, it's scary, mind too. 638 00:33:07,280 --> 00:33:07,920 Speaker 3: It's wild. 639 00:33:08,040 --> 00:33:10,480 Speaker 5: That's so I have first once I can emotionally get 640 00:33:10,480 --> 00:33:16,960 Speaker 5: myself together. It's just it's such a big, crazy world 641 00:33:17,040 --> 00:33:19,360 Speaker 5: and it makes me so anxious as a mom. I mean, 642 00:33:19,400 --> 00:33:22,000 Speaker 5: I've got beautiful babies. We all want to share our 643 00:33:22,080 --> 00:33:25,520 Speaker 5: kids are listen and not to like be funny, but 644 00:33:25,600 --> 00:33:27,440 Speaker 5: like literally it's how I don't have to answer the 645 00:33:27,440 --> 00:33:28,800 Speaker 5: phone for a lot of people, you know, because like 646 00:33:28,800 --> 00:33:30,760 Speaker 5: they checked in on Facebook and we can keep rolling, 647 00:33:30,880 --> 00:33:33,080 Speaker 5: Like I don't have to send pictures out to the 648 00:33:33,080 --> 00:33:36,480 Speaker 5: group or all the things, but it's so wildly overwhelming 649 00:33:36,560 --> 00:33:38,640 Speaker 5: because it's like I don't take my kids to target, 650 00:33:38,880 --> 00:33:40,360 Speaker 5: I don't take my kids to the mall. 651 00:33:40,480 --> 00:33:42,360 Speaker 3: I don't want to be that mom, but I am 652 00:33:42,440 --> 00:33:42,880 Speaker 3: that mom. 653 00:33:43,120 --> 00:33:45,960 Speaker 5: Like it's like the I have to kind of almost 654 00:33:46,120 --> 00:33:49,840 Speaker 5: learn at a real slow pace because I digest it 655 00:33:50,040 --> 00:33:52,120 Speaker 5: so much into my DNA that I feel like I 656 00:33:52,120 --> 00:33:54,920 Speaker 5: can't sleep. So one, I want to just commend you 657 00:33:54,960 --> 00:33:57,800 Speaker 5: for the way that you're built, because I don't. I mean, 658 00:33:57,960 --> 00:34:02,840 Speaker 5: it's just heroic to me what you're up to. But two, 659 00:34:03,000 --> 00:34:04,840 Speaker 5: this is more of like a personal question how do 660 00:34:04,880 --> 00:34:05,920 Speaker 5: you know what you know? 661 00:34:06,760 --> 00:34:07,680 Speaker 3: Like how do you. 662 00:34:07,760 --> 00:34:10,319 Speaker 5: Come home from being like in a sting operation and 663 00:34:10,320 --> 00:34:13,200 Speaker 5: then just like wash your face and go to sleep 664 00:34:13,320 --> 00:34:17,080 Speaker 5: Because I don't, So I don't know how you're processing this, 665 00:34:17,239 --> 00:34:19,640 Speaker 5: Like you're still just a human and a mom. You 666 00:34:19,680 --> 00:34:23,760 Speaker 5: know this is really big, heavy, important work that you're doing. 667 00:34:24,800 --> 00:34:24,880 Speaker 2: It. 668 00:34:26,360 --> 00:34:30,319 Speaker 1: I'm it's overwhelming. I don't come home and wash my 669 00:34:30,360 --> 00:34:32,360 Speaker 1: face and just go to bed. I come home and 670 00:34:32,440 --> 00:34:37,520 Speaker 1: it takes me like a week to decompress to start 671 00:34:37,560 --> 00:34:38,840 Speaker 1: seeing people as normal. 672 00:34:39,520 --> 00:34:43,319 Speaker 3: Yeah, like I hate everyone right now. For you. You know, 673 00:34:43,400 --> 00:34:43,959 Speaker 3: it's a lot. 674 00:34:44,600 --> 00:34:48,680 Speaker 1: It messes me up. It takes a toll, and so 675 00:34:48,840 --> 00:34:53,719 Speaker 1: I dive in and I dive out because otherwise I 676 00:34:53,760 --> 00:34:57,720 Speaker 1: can't function, And so I have to constantly remind myself 677 00:34:57,760 --> 00:35:01,560 Speaker 1: and look around and go, Okay, it's not everybody, it's 678 00:35:01,600 --> 00:35:05,520 Speaker 1: not every man. It's not like go I go if 679 00:35:05,520 --> 00:35:07,480 Speaker 1: I go to like, let's say when my child was younger, 680 00:35:07,480 --> 00:35:09,040 Speaker 1: and I would go to a park, and I'd be like, 681 00:35:09,520 --> 00:35:11,080 Speaker 1: I'd look at all the kids and I'd go, Okay, well, 682 00:35:11,120 --> 00:35:14,040 Speaker 1: all of these kids are perfectly fine. None of these 683 00:35:14,120 --> 00:35:16,680 Speaker 1: kids are being taken. Okay, I'll go to a high school. Okay, 684 00:35:16,680 --> 00:35:19,680 Speaker 1: all of these kids are doing well. The majority of 685 00:35:19,719 --> 00:35:22,880 Speaker 1: these kids are never nothing bad is ever going to 686 00:35:23,000 --> 00:35:27,120 Speaker 1: happen to them, And I constantly have to look at 687 00:35:27,200 --> 00:35:32,520 Speaker 1: and have to like train myself to really look and 688 00:35:32,600 --> 00:35:36,719 Speaker 1: observe from myself. Okay, the majority of people, I think 689 00:35:36,800 --> 00:35:41,359 Speaker 1: eighty percent of people are still very good and care 690 00:35:42,160 --> 00:35:46,880 Speaker 1: very much about this issue, and including men. And then 691 00:35:46,960 --> 00:35:50,680 Speaker 1: there's just the twenty percent that are the bad actors 692 00:35:50,760 --> 00:35:56,640 Speaker 1: that you have to protect yourself against. But otherwise I 693 00:35:56,680 --> 00:35:58,719 Speaker 1: could never live my life, my kid could never live 694 00:35:59,120 --> 00:36:02,400 Speaker 1: their lives. And it's a it's a it's a balance, 695 00:36:02,480 --> 00:36:06,799 Speaker 1: but it still is the majority. It's still good. 696 00:36:07,040 --> 00:36:09,920 Speaker 5: Yeah, I needed that sentence from you selfishly, just because 697 00:36:09,960 --> 00:36:13,000 Speaker 5: I default to everyone's a creep. I mean, they would 698 00:36:13,040 --> 00:36:15,680 Speaker 5: probably tell you I'm the psychopath here, like I'm a 699 00:36:15,680 --> 00:36:18,000 Speaker 5: psych I mean we homeschool, we do, and not to 700 00:36:18,080 --> 00:36:20,279 Speaker 5: keep them in a bubble all the way, all the way, 701 00:36:20,640 --> 00:36:22,719 Speaker 5: but a lot of that reasoning is for me just 702 00:36:23,960 --> 00:36:27,520 Speaker 5: what they're exposed to. I feel like kids, even and 703 00:36:27,680 --> 00:36:30,200 Speaker 5: all things, are exposed way too fast, way too soon. 704 00:36:30,440 --> 00:36:32,200 Speaker 3: They don't get a chance to be kids anymore. 705 00:36:32,360 --> 00:36:36,359 Speaker 2: Like and we've just I think some passionate environment though, 706 00:36:36,400 --> 00:36:38,600 Speaker 2: like you know what I mean, Like in cat situation, 707 00:36:38,840 --> 00:36:41,279 Speaker 2: their kids, you know, kids got social media earlier because 708 00:36:41,320 --> 00:36:43,279 Speaker 2: her kids were hanging on older people, you know, like 709 00:36:43,920 --> 00:36:45,759 Speaker 2: with the sports and stuff like that. So it's like, 710 00:36:46,120 --> 00:36:49,000 Speaker 2: you know, yeah, it's navigate it. 711 00:36:48,960 --> 00:36:49,520 Speaker 3: You know what I mean? 712 00:36:49,640 --> 00:36:52,440 Speaker 4: Like, well, yeah, and I think it's a lot of 713 00:36:52,440 --> 00:36:54,920 Speaker 4: its conversation but also kind of going back to what 714 00:36:54,960 --> 00:36:57,040 Speaker 4: y'all were saying and not being able to sleep, I 715 00:36:57,080 --> 00:36:59,640 Speaker 4: think that touches on a lot of not that people 716 00:36:59,719 --> 00:37:01,960 Speaker 4: don't know that this is going on. I have a 717 00:37:02,040 --> 00:37:03,920 Speaker 4: lot of moms that I've tried to talk to about this. 718 00:37:04,160 --> 00:37:07,319 Speaker 4: The problem is it is so overwhelming they put their 719 00:37:07,360 --> 00:37:09,760 Speaker 4: heads in the sand. I'm just going to be frank. 720 00:37:09,800 --> 00:37:12,719 Speaker 4: It is actually very frustrating for me because I'm like, 721 00:37:13,400 --> 00:37:16,719 Speaker 4: you have to be aware of this, especially if they're 722 00:37:16,719 --> 00:37:20,080 Speaker 4: on social media, especially if they're online. And I get 723 00:37:20,200 --> 00:37:22,960 Speaker 4: that it's overwhelming. And I've had people tell me that 724 00:37:22,960 --> 00:37:24,600 Speaker 4: they're like, if I go down that rabbit hole, my 725 00:37:24,640 --> 00:37:28,080 Speaker 4: anxiety will be so high. And I understand that, and 726 00:37:28,120 --> 00:37:31,120 Speaker 4: I think it's figuring out how to go in and 727 00:37:31,160 --> 00:37:34,239 Speaker 4: go out and to be able to educate yourself. You've 728 00:37:34,239 --> 00:37:37,000 Speaker 4: done it, but not control your life. And it's not easy. 729 00:37:37,080 --> 00:37:38,920 Speaker 4: I mean, I understand that. Again, I've had lots of 730 00:37:38,960 --> 00:37:41,319 Speaker 4: conversations with moms who feel that way, but then they 731 00:37:41,440 --> 00:37:43,759 Speaker 4: just go, I can't, I can't handle it. 732 00:37:43,800 --> 00:37:45,880 Speaker 5: We're really close with the family that's like that, and 733 00:37:45,960 --> 00:37:48,960 Speaker 5: I can't. I can't know. And kids are on roadblocks 734 00:37:49,000 --> 00:37:52,560 Speaker 5: and all the things, and I've I know, same face, 735 00:37:53,520 --> 00:37:56,600 Speaker 5: and I've had to have you know, the kids wear 736 00:37:56,800 --> 00:37:59,640 Speaker 5: less clothes and I've had to say to my daughter, 737 00:38:00,120 --> 00:38:02,520 Speaker 5: understand that you would love to wear that crop top, 738 00:38:02,640 --> 00:38:05,279 Speaker 5: and I said, there's I'm just I have to. She's eight, 739 00:38:05,480 --> 00:38:08,080 Speaker 5: so you know, they're still young, and I'm going, I'm 740 00:38:08,080 --> 00:38:09,680 Speaker 5: not going to go in the deep deep dive, but 741 00:38:09,680 --> 00:38:11,120 Speaker 5: I've had to say that. I was like, there is 742 00:38:11,160 --> 00:38:14,799 Speaker 5: something something called perception, and I need to help you 743 00:38:14,880 --> 00:38:17,880 Speaker 5: understand what perception could be if you're wearing something like 744 00:38:17,880 --> 00:38:20,440 Speaker 5: this or something like that. Like, but it is just 745 00:38:20,680 --> 00:38:23,799 Speaker 5: crazy that they're eight and we're having to talk about this. 746 00:38:24,480 --> 00:38:26,040 Speaker 2: The reason my daughter thought I was okay to wear 747 00:38:26,040 --> 00:38:28,000 Speaker 2: sports Burrow around the house was because I wear sports 748 00:38:28,040 --> 00:38:30,640 Speaker 2: Borrow on the house. So like call myself out, like 749 00:38:30,800 --> 00:38:33,160 Speaker 2: I'm not. That's an example that I'm not really putting 750 00:38:33,200 --> 00:38:35,680 Speaker 2: my best foot forward with that. Now, would I ever 751 00:38:35,760 --> 00:38:38,120 Speaker 2: let her go out in public wearing a sports prop. 752 00:38:38,160 --> 00:38:38,600 Speaker 3: No, I didn't. 753 00:38:38,640 --> 00:38:40,120 Speaker 2: Obviously made her put her shirt off, but then I 754 00:38:40,160 --> 00:38:42,400 Speaker 2: posted it to too milliy people like. 755 00:38:42,440 --> 00:38:45,719 Speaker 5: I was like, I don't think anybody is nailing it, 756 00:38:45,760 --> 00:38:47,920 Speaker 5: by the way, and I don't think none of us 757 00:38:47,960 --> 00:38:50,600 Speaker 5: are not nailing it, and I think we're all the 758 00:38:50,719 --> 00:38:53,200 Speaker 5: reason to me for women that like really have their 759 00:38:53,400 --> 00:38:56,120 Speaker 5: like pulse on it, I think it's just so overwhelming. 760 00:38:56,160 --> 00:38:57,000 Speaker 3: It's like where do we start? 761 00:38:57,560 --> 00:38:58,960 Speaker 4: Well, And I was going to say, I mean, and 762 00:38:58,960 --> 00:39:00,800 Speaker 4: this is hard for me because my daughters a cheerleader 763 00:39:00,840 --> 00:39:03,640 Speaker 4: who basically lives in a sports bra. R you know, 764 00:39:03,800 --> 00:39:06,279 Speaker 4: so I want to like throw that in there. I mean, 765 00:39:06,320 --> 00:39:09,200 Speaker 4: there are definitely things that are I just posted my 766 00:39:09,239 --> 00:39:11,759 Speaker 4: daughter doing a tumbling pass last night in a sports bra. 767 00:39:12,080 --> 00:39:13,680 Speaker 4: She is in it ninety nine percent of the time. 768 00:39:14,200 --> 00:39:16,600 Speaker 4: So I am aware of the AI part of this. 769 00:39:17,320 --> 00:39:21,000 Speaker 4: I am this close to taking my Instagram but I'm nobody. 770 00:39:21,239 --> 00:39:22,799 Speaker 4: I am this close to taking it back to the 771 00:39:22,840 --> 00:39:25,080 Speaker 4: people I know and making it private because I couldn't 772 00:39:25,080 --> 00:39:28,000 Speaker 4: care less about a following, you know, I am. I 773 00:39:28,080 --> 00:39:30,920 Speaker 4: think that that's where my path is going because I 774 00:39:30,960 --> 00:39:32,759 Speaker 4: do want to share that. I want to share that 775 00:39:32,800 --> 00:39:34,560 Speaker 4: she got a new skill last night. I want to 776 00:39:34,600 --> 00:39:37,040 Speaker 4: you know whatever. So I think that things will be 777 00:39:37,120 --> 00:39:40,239 Speaker 4: changing in our household anyway in that sense. But having 778 00:39:40,280 --> 00:39:43,880 Speaker 4: said that, I hate to hear you say that that 779 00:39:44,000 --> 00:39:46,680 Speaker 4: was a bad mom move on you because you wear 780 00:39:46,719 --> 00:39:49,239 Speaker 4: a sports bra to work out. That's not the way 781 00:39:49,280 --> 00:39:52,880 Speaker 4: to approach this, in my opinion, I don't think that. 782 00:39:53,360 --> 00:39:55,840 Speaker 3: But I d saying that for her, for her to 783 00:39:55,840 --> 00:39:57,040 Speaker 3: come down in a sports. 784 00:39:56,760 --> 00:39:59,200 Speaker 4: Bra, I don't. I don't what is wrong with the 785 00:39:59,239 --> 00:40:01,920 Speaker 4: sports bra. Understand showing it to the world, but what 786 00:40:02,040 --> 00:40:03,560 Speaker 4: is wrong with her wearing a sports bra. 787 00:40:04,200 --> 00:40:07,160 Speaker 5: That's where I'm also like the over sexualization of all 788 00:40:07,200 --> 00:40:11,840 Speaker 5: of us, Like we're women, we are I If I 789 00:40:12,000 --> 00:40:14,239 Speaker 5: have an AB, I'm wearing a sports bra so that 790 00:40:14,320 --> 00:40:16,600 Speaker 5: you can see it because I'm going to be so proud. 791 00:40:16,400 --> 00:40:19,480 Speaker 4: And I'm never don't right. 792 00:40:21,760 --> 00:40:25,080 Speaker 1: As a mom after you have kids, if you and 793 00:40:25,239 --> 00:40:27,960 Speaker 1: you have abs, I'm sorry. I'm like, absolutely, I'm not 794 00:40:28,040 --> 00:40:31,040 Speaker 1: twenty thank you. 795 00:40:30,840 --> 00:40:32,759 Speaker 3: You are naked all the time. 796 00:40:32,920 --> 00:40:38,200 Speaker 1: But we're adults. It's a thing we're not putting. I'm assuming. 797 00:40:38,960 --> 00:40:41,520 Speaker 1: Like to me, it's about the intention behind the photo. 798 00:40:41,640 --> 00:40:45,719 Speaker 1: Like two people could could post the same outfit and 799 00:40:46,000 --> 00:40:48,120 Speaker 1: they could be similar age, and one could be like 800 00:40:48,320 --> 00:40:51,000 Speaker 1: posting the outfit because it's like this is only book 801 00:40:51,040 --> 00:40:53,560 Speaker 1: when I have sex, and the other one could be 802 00:40:53,560 --> 00:40:57,240 Speaker 1: posting the same outfit. That's like, look at me proud. 803 00:40:57,600 --> 00:41:01,520 Speaker 1: It's the intention, I think, and the flow and what 804 00:41:01,520 --> 00:41:03,319 Speaker 1: you're trying to communicate, you know. 805 00:41:03,880 --> 00:41:05,839 Speaker 4: Yeah, if you look at these teens, like you're saying, 806 00:41:05,840 --> 00:41:08,759 Speaker 4: the ones that are more vulnerable, the ones, there is 807 00:41:08,800 --> 00:41:12,000 Speaker 4: a difference, I'm sorry, than my daughter's account and the 808 00:41:12,120 --> 00:41:16,400 Speaker 4: daughter who's doing this. It's just doesn't necessarily make it 809 00:41:16,480 --> 00:41:18,320 Speaker 4: right or wrong. But there's a difference. 810 00:41:18,680 --> 00:41:22,120 Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm like, you're literally wanting, you're asking for older 811 00:41:22,160 --> 00:41:24,600 Speaker 2: men to comment on your page, and like it's like 812 00:41:24,640 --> 00:41:27,719 Speaker 2: it's painful. As someone close to this person, I'm like, like, 813 00:41:27,800 --> 00:41:31,400 Speaker 2: you know, young, and it's just you know, it's trying 814 00:41:31,440 --> 00:41:34,120 Speaker 2: to help teach, but just had a tough upbringing and 815 00:41:34,600 --> 00:41:36,440 Speaker 2: you know, so it's been it's been hard. 816 00:41:37,400 --> 00:41:40,520 Speaker 1: I think that I understand. I have friends that don't 817 00:41:40,520 --> 00:41:42,640 Speaker 1: want to hear about it. I have friends that are like, 818 00:41:42,680 --> 00:41:43,839 Speaker 1: I don't know how you do it. I don't want 819 00:41:43,840 --> 00:41:46,239 Speaker 1: to know. I don't to know. And then literally that 820 00:41:46,400 --> 00:41:49,799 Speaker 1: same friend something happened with her young son who she 821 00:41:49,800 --> 00:41:53,640 Speaker 1: thought would never ever, ever, ever happen, and he was 822 00:41:53,680 --> 00:41:56,000 Speaker 1: talking to what he thought was another fifteen year old 823 00:41:56,040 --> 00:42:02,880 Speaker 1: girl on Instagram on DM and sure enough, this girl 824 00:42:03,200 --> 00:42:06,600 Speaker 1: had sent an uber to him at midnight convinced him 825 00:42:06,600 --> 00:42:11,080 Speaker 1: to sneak out of his house and she caught him, 826 00:42:11,160 --> 00:42:15,480 Speaker 1: thank god, caught him and called me immediately, and I 827 00:42:15,520 --> 00:42:17,400 Speaker 1: put her in touch with different law enforcement in that 828 00:42:17,440 --> 00:42:19,920 Speaker 1: town and whereas and where the boy was headed, who 829 00:42:19,920 --> 00:42:23,160 Speaker 1: didn't even know where he was going these things. I 830 00:42:23,200 --> 00:42:28,120 Speaker 1: think when you know what to look for, when you've 831 00:42:28,120 --> 00:42:31,200 Speaker 1: gotten passed and through the horror of it and you're like, okay, 832 00:42:31,360 --> 00:42:35,560 Speaker 1: what can I do about it, it becomes less overwhelming 833 00:42:36,560 --> 00:42:40,799 Speaker 1: because it's specific. It's not everyone, it's not every communication, 834 00:42:41,239 --> 00:42:43,640 Speaker 1: it's not every single thing, and you know nothing about 835 00:42:43,680 --> 00:42:48,440 Speaker 1: it and it's all overwhelming. It's very specific. You look 836 00:42:48,520 --> 00:42:52,920 Speaker 1: for this, this, this, this. You know what to look for, 837 00:42:53,000 --> 00:42:56,840 Speaker 1: and so will your kids. And those conversations and that 838 00:42:57,000 --> 00:43:03,040 Speaker 1: education I think is empowered. Not you do have to 839 00:43:03,040 --> 00:43:06,120 Speaker 1: get through the confront of it, but on the other side, 840 00:43:06,520 --> 00:43:08,960 Speaker 1: it's a lot easier to control once you know what 841 00:43:09,040 --> 00:43:11,440 Speaker 1: to look for and you know how to protect yourself 842 00:43:11,440 --> 00:43:12,680 Speaker 1: and you know how to protect your friends. 843 00:43:12,920 --> 00:43:16,719 Speaker 2: What are the ages that it's again statistically, I know 844 00:43:16,760 --> 00:43:18,880 Speaker 2: it's a bunch, but what does the age range? 845 00:43:19,280 --> 00:43:24,439 Speaker 1: It depends on specifically for what thing. So it's as 846 00:43:24,520 --> 00:43:29,600 Speaker 1: young as an eight year old chatting right and somebody 847 00:43:29,600 --> 00:43:31,920 Speaker 1: pretending to be another kid and show me or like, 848 00:43:31,960 --> 00:43:33,879 Speaker 1: it depends on what they're going for. If they're going 849 00:43:33,920 --> 00:43:37,440 Speaker 1: for I need a video or picture of a young 850 00:43:37,480 --> 00:43:42,080 Speaker 1: girl showing me her body. That can range from anywhere 851 00:43:42,080 --> 00:43:47,200 Speaker 1: from eight years old up. If they're going for convincing 852 00:43:47,239 --> 00:43:52,080 Speaker 1: a kid to sneak out to go do something nefarious 853 00:43:52,200 --> 00:43:56,480 Speaker 1: with them, right, that happens. That happens. I have a 854 00:43:56,480 --> 00:43:58,840 Speaker 1: whole episode on my podcast with the sheriff out of Michigan. 855 00:43:59,840 --> 00:44:02,839 Speaker 1: The guy who's traveling straight state doing this. That's your 856 00:44:02,840 --> 00:44:05,319 Speaker 1: twelve year old, your thirteen year old, your fourteen year old. 857 00:44:06,360 --> 00:44:09,799 Speaker 1: And then it also depends on if it's a boy. Right, 858 00:44:09,880 --> 00:44:11,759 Speaker 1: So mom's out there that have boys, think, Okay, I 859 00:44:11,800 --> 00:44:14,400 Speaker 1: don't have to worry about that. Well, with boys, what 860 00:44:14,440 --> 00:44:16,560 Speaker 1: they're doing, it's a fifteen year old, sixteen year old, 861 00:44:16,600 --> 00:44:18,960 Speaker 1: seventeen year old boy who's you know, they're going through 862 00:44:18,960 --> 00:44:21,680 Speaker 1: hormonal changes. Let's just say it is what it is, 863 00:44:22,280 --> 00:44:27,280 Speaker 1: and they're they're looking for stuff, right, and so with that, 864 00:44:27,280 --> 00:44:32,120 Speaker 1: that'll be your your AI. That'll be your man pretending 865 00:44:32,160 --> 00:44:36,839 Speaker 1: to be a girl contacting the sun and sending what's 866 00:44:36,880 --> 00:44:40,040 Speaker 1: supposed to be a naked video or naked picture, convincing 867 00:44:40,040 --> 00:44:43,279 Speaker 1: the boy to do the same thing. And then they've 868 00:44:43,280 --> 00:44:47,480 Speaker 1: got them, and then it's it so. And then if 869 00:44:47,480 --> 00:44:52,239 Speaker 1: it's plain old trafficking and your own thing, that's a 870 00:44:52,320 --> 00:44:57,080 Speaker 1: little bit older fourteen on up if that makes sense 871 00:44:57,280 --> 00:45:00,160 Speaker 1: at least in America. Right, this is what we're looking 872 00:45:00,160 --> 00:45:00,840 Speaker 1: at in America. 873 00:45:01,120 --> 00:45:01,799 Speaker 3: That's good to know. 874 00:45:03,480 --> 00:45:05,239 Speaker 2: I have a question, and again this might be a 875 00:45:06,440 --> 00:45:08,600 Speaker 2: political question. You can also pass with it because obviously 876 00:45:08,600 --> 00:45:12,680 Speaker 2: you're an extremely successful actress. You were on obviously Riverdale. 877 00:45:14,480 --> 00:45:17,680 Speaker 2: Have you seen pushback from the industry because of what 878 00:45:17,719 --> 00:45:18,160 Speaker 2: you're doing? 879 00:45:19,160 --> 00:45:20,920 Speaker 3: Would you like to pass? You can also pass. 880 00:45:21,080 --> 00:45:22,520 Speaker 1: I just know it's okay. 881 00:45:22,560 --> 00:45:24,799 Speaker 2: It's interesting to me because I just feel like when 882 00:45:24,840 --> 00:45:30,000 Speaker 2: someone even scripts that people are wanting to make scripted, 883 00:45:30,920 --> 00:45:33,320 Speaker 2: there there's pushback on it in this world. 884 00:45:33,520 --> 00:45:37,320 Speaker 1: Yes, So you know, I have a movie that we're doing. 885 00:45:37,400 --> 00:45:41,080 Speaker 1: It started out as a TV show based on my 886 00:45:41,160 --> 00:45:44,440 Speaker 1: life and as an undercover operative and an actress and 887 00:45:44,480 --> 00:45:47,040 Speaker 1: a mom. And I will tell you that when we pitched, 888 00:45:47,080 --> 00:45:49,440 Speaker 1: and we pitched everybody in town. We pitched, you know, 889 00:45:50,200 --> 00:45:54,840 Speaker 1: Natsille Likes and m and Apple and everyone Fox, everyone, 890 00:45:55,360 --> 00:45:59,720 Speaker 1: And in the rooms people would be crying, like literally, 891 00:46:00,760 --> 00:46:03,880 Speaker 1: and every individual that I would meet would be like, 892 00:46:06,040 --> 00:46:09,080 Speaker 1: oh my god, we have to this is incredible. Almost 893 00:46:09,080 --> 00:46:12,799 Speaker 1: every I can always tell the one that's like uncomfortable, 894 00:46:12,800 --> 00:46:14,040 Speaker 1: he doesn't want to hear, and I'm like, oh, I 895 00:46:14,040 --> 00:46:16,120 Speaker 1: see where you're up to. Got it? You can tell, 896 00:46:16,200 --> 00:46:22,360 Speaker 1: you can always tell. Unfortunately, every single solitary entity though 897 00:46:22,840 --> 00:46:28,360 Speaker 1: passed this is too dark, we don't want to And 898 00:46:28,400 --> 00:46:30,200 Speaker 1: this is right before Sound of Freedom, which is what 899 00:46:30,239 --> 00:46:33,160 Speaker 1: I liked about Sound of Freedom was that it proved 900 00:46:34,040 --> 00:46:37,440 Speaker 1: that people wanted to know about this, that that this is. 901 00:46:37,520 --> 00:46:39,839 Speaker 1: People do need to know. This can't be something that's 902 00:46:39,880 --> 00:46:40,840 Speaker 1: just in the dark. 903 00:46:41,520 --> 00:46:43,759 Speaker 2: But yet so many people wrote that it's all just 904 00:46:43,760 --> 00:46:46,320 Speaker 2: a bunch of bullshit and that it wasn't That's not true. 905 00:46:46,360 --> 00:46:49,479 Speaker 1: Look at who was writing that, right, Look, I mean. 906 00:46:49,440 --> 00:46:52,000 Speaker 4: I yeah, why did it become a political thing? I 907 00:46:52,000 --> 00:46:53,680 Speaker 4: can write? I can never understand that. 908 00:46:53,719 --> 00:46:54,959 Speaker 3: I'm like, how are why are we? Yeah? 909 00:46:55,040 --> 00:46:57,960 Speaker 2: But anyways, but yes too so so that was passed upon. 910 00:46:58,040 --> 00:47:00,440 Speaker 1: That was all passed upon. It Now we're doing it, 911 00:47:00,480 --> 00:47:03,080 Speaker 1: I think, for lifetime and doing it as a movie, 912 00:47:03,520 --> 00:47:07,080 Speaker 1: which makes me very very happy because there are now 913 00:47:07,200 --> 00:47:09,440 Speaker 1: and because of Sound of Freedom, of these other movies 914 00:47:10,480 --> 00:47:14,279 Speaker 1: and individuals in these positions will make these decisions. They 915 00:47:14,320 --> 00:47:16,799 Speaker 1: do want to tell this, they do want people to know, 916 00:47:17,280 --> 00:47:19,480 Speaker 1: they do want to talk about it. So it's very interesting. 917 00:47:19,560 --> 00:47:24,399 Speaker 1: Janet your question because Hollywood as an entity, yes, there's 918 00:47:24,440 --> 00:47:30,200 Speaker 1: pushback individuals within there, there isn't and there's no I 919 00:47:30,239 --> 00:47:32,880 Speaker 1: want to know, please tell us what can we do 920 00:47:32,920 --> 00:47:36,839 Speaker 1: about this? And so it always gives me hope because 921 00:47:36,840 --> 00:47:38,919 Speaker 1: when I meet people individually, they do care. 922 00:47:39,360 --> 00:47:41,520 Speaker 2: It's just the boss that's paying the bills that's going 923 00:47:41,560 --> 00:47:42,520 Speaker 2: to end up saying. 924 00:47:42,280 --> 00:47:47,560 Speaker 1: Whoever's behind that whole thing. There's definitely a h on 925 00:47:47,680 --> 00:47:51,160 Speaker 1: it as far as I run across, run across. Yeah. 926 00:47:51,239 --> 00:47:55,319 Speaker 2: Yeah, Well, Marisol, thank you for coming on. I mean, 927 00:47:55,400 --> 00:47:58,319 Speaker 2: you know, there's having me many questions. I you know, 928 00:47:58,360 --> 00:48:00,759 Speaker 2: would want to ask about what I think. You know, 929 00:48:01,480 --> 00:48:03,319 Speaker 2: listeners want hear about Riverdale, but honest, this is what 930 00:48:03,360 --> 00:48:05,360 Speaker 2: I want to listen to. And so, you know, just 931 00:48:05,360 --> 00:48:10,000 Speaker 2: thank you for coming on and spreading not only awareness 932 00:48:10,040 --> 00:48:13,360 Speaker 2: but teaching and everything that you're doing. So can you 933 00:48:13,400 --> 00:48:15,600 Speaker 2: please let our listeners once again know where they can 934 00:48:15,640 --> 00:48:17,399 Speaker 2: find you your podcast and everything that you're doing. 935 00:48:17,560 --> 00:48:19,439 Speaker 1: Very thank you, very much, and thank you for having me, 936 00:48:19,600 --> 00:48:22,719 Speaker 1: and thank you for talking about the subjects. You can 937 00:48:22,719 --> 00:48:25,520 Speaker 1: find my podcast Mari soul Nichols podcast. We made it 938 00:48:25,560 --> 00:48:27,600 Speaker 1: as simple as possible so that it could be found 939 00:48:27,640 --> 00:48:31,520 Speaker 1: as easily as possible. And then my nonprofit is called 940 00:48:31,600 --> 00:48:35,000 Speaker 1: Slavery Free World and it's Slaveryfreeworld dot org. And we've 941 00:48:35,000 --> 00:48:38,719 Speaker 1: got lots of information on there and on the website immediately. 942 00:48:38,760 --> 00:48:41,000 Speaker 1: So you, okay, what can I do? What else should 943 00:48:41,000 --> 00:48:43,760 Speaker 1: I look for? It's all It's there and we're updating 944 00:48:43,800 --> 00:48:44,440 Speaker 1: it constantly. 945 00:48:45,000 --> 00:48:45,759 Speaker 3: Yes, I love it. 946 00:48:45,840 --> 00:48:48,760 Speaker 2: Well, thank you for coming on. We appreciate you, and 947 00:48:49,080 --> 00:48:51,600 Speaker 2: let us know when we can join the next thing. 948 00:48:51,800 --> 00:48:56,200 Speaker 3: Because yes, thank you, guys, dance take them down, thank you, 949 00:48:56,239 --> 00:48:56,759 Speaker 3: thanks girl. 950 00:48:57,000 --> 00:48:57,680 Speaker 1: Thanks. 951 00:48:59,000 --> 00:49:00,960 Speaker 3: I can't be honest ing. I think we all know 952 00:49:01,080 --> 00:49:02,319 Speaker 3: that we. 953 00:49:02,440 --> 00:49:04,400 Speaker 4: Got on the website right now to see what I 954 00:49:04,400 --> 00:49:04,719 Speaker 4: can do. 955 00:49:04,760 --> 00:49:07,600 Speaker 3: I want to talk to children, you about it. 956 00:49:07,800 --> 00:49:10,600 Speaker 4: You would probably be great, would be in the like 957 00:49:10,640 --> 00:49:15,560 Speaker 4: the rehabilitate rehabilitation part of it, agreed, okay, because that 958 00:49:15,560 --> 00:49:17,400 Speaker 4: would I mean that I wanted to kind of get 959 00:49:17,440 --> 00:49:19,000 Speaker 4: into that too, But there's just so much to ask. 960 00:49:19,080 --> 00:49:19,719 Speaker 3: I could talk to her. 961 00:49:20,080 --> 00:49:23,680 Speaker 4: I literally did a part it is, but there's there's 962 00:49:23,680 --> 00:49:24,600 Speaker 4: that side of it too. 963 00:49:25,239 --> 00:49:29,160 Speaker 2: It's so true what you were saying about other people 964 00:49:29,160 --> 00:49:31,120 Speaker 2: that you've talked to is just putting the hand head 965 00:49:31,120 --> 00:49:33,759 Speaker 2: in the sand. Because this is was obviously a very 966 00:49:33,840 --> 00:49:37,399 Speaker 2: tough conversation, and I think a lot of people get 967 00:49:37,440 --> 00:49:39,359 Speaker 2: so uncomfortable with it that they just don't or it's 968 00:49:39,400 --> 00:49:45,799 Speaker 2: just too mature. It's like these are our kids, I know. Yeah, 969 00:49:45,840 --> 00:49:48,560 Speaker 2: it's a wild world, and that it's just makes me 970 00:49:48,680 --> 00:49:52,640 Speaker 2: sick that it's the number one yeah money maker, Like 971 00:49:52,680 --> 00:49:55,640 Speaker 2: it's disgusting, and that's what people don't know. 972 00:49:55,960 --> 00:49:58,600 Speaker 4: Like, I literally, I don't think people understand those numbers. 973 00:49:59,160 --> 00:50:01,919 Speaker 2: No, I really, and I I do think a lot 974 00:50:01,960 --> 00:50:05,080 Speaker 2: of those people probably will go into the conspiracy of 975 00:50:05,120 --> 00:50:06,840 Speaker 2: those Oh it's just political. 976 00:50:06,880 --> 00:50:09,239 Speaker 4: Oh, it's just I had someone I had this conversation 977 00:50:09,400 --> 00:50:12,120 Speaker 4: with about when Sound of Freedom Freedom came out and 978 00:50:12,160 --> 00:50:15,440 Speaker 4: they were very angry about the movie because that's not 979 00:50:15,560 --> 00:50:16,640 Speaker 4: the only way it happens. 980 00:50:16,760 --> 00:50:18,080 Speaker 3: I'm like, oh, I know. 981 00:50:18,280 --> 00:50:21,959 Speaker 2: Yes, it's always it's usually the uncle or the person. Yes, 982 00:50:22,000 --> 00:50:24,360 Speaker 2: a lot of those cases are too Yet it's. 983 00:50:24,239 --> 00:50:26,800 Speaker 4: Still shedding light and I'm not saying to be aware. 984 00:50:27,960 --> 00:50:29,640 Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean it's people that we know. 985 00:50:29,840 --> 00:50:32,520 Speaker 4: And like she said, she talked about how there's so 986 00:50:32,680 --> 00:50:34,680 Speaker 4: many different ways. What are they looking for, what are 987 00:50:34,680 --> 00:50:38,160 Speaker 4: they doing? There's so many aspects of this that to me, 988 00:50:38,640 --> 00:50:42,799 Speaker 4: I can't fathom or understand why any light being shed 989 00:50:42,840 --> 00:50:46,080 Speaker 4: on it can be a negative, right, And that's hard 990 00:50:46,120 --> 00:50:47,759 Speaker 4: for me. And I understand that there might be other 991 00:50:47,840 --> 00:50:52,120 Speaker 4: alternatives or ulterior motives, or there may be whatever, But 992 00:50:52,239 --> 00:50:56,759 Speaker 4: to me, the positive outweighs the negative to awareness on it. 993 00:50:57,080 --> 00:50:59,279 Speaker 4: And I understand there's so many different aspects of it, 994 00:50:59,320 --> 00:51:01,200 Speaker 4: and yes, there's a lot of people that are close 995 00:51:01,239 --> 00:51:04,320 Speaker 4: to people that do it, but there's also different ways 996 00:51:04,360 --> 00:51:06,160 Speaker 4: and all the things we talked about. 997 00:51:06,239 --> 00:51:07,239 Speaker 3: Yep, learn it all. 998 00:51:07,719 --> 00:51:12,239 Speaker 4: Yep, right ladies, Well, yeah, thank a lot, maybe all right, 999 00:51:13,239 --> 00:51:23,200 Speaker 4: good bye,