1 00:00:00,320 --> 00:00:02,160 Speaker 1: So he breaks up with me to date the sophomore 2 00:00:02,200 --> 00:00:05,400 Speaker 1: and I made him a mixed tape of mixed CD 3 00:00:06,080 --> 00:00:08,520 Speaker 1: of all of these love songs and it had like 4 00:00:08,560 --> 00:00:12,640 Speaker 1: Brian McKnight like back at Once, Yeah, like as yet, 5 00:00:12,840 --> 00:00:15,080 Speaker 1: like all these like a shy you know the ones 6 00:00:15,640 --> 00:00:18,000 Speaker 1: mixtape and like confess my love and put a picture 7 00:00:18,040 --> 00:00:19,560 Speaker 1: of us in a frame and I like waited for 8 00:00:19,640 --> 00:00:20,960 Speaker 1: him and I gave it to him afterwards, and I 9 00:00:20,960 --> 00:00:24,360 Speaker 1: was like, come on, get back together like Desperado, Calm 10 00:00:24,400 --> 00:00:27,400 Speaker 1: down with Erin and Carissa is a production of iHeartRadio. 11 00:00:33,159 --> 00:00:34,520 Speaker 2: Thank you, Audrey? 12 00:00:35,479 --> 00:00:35,800 Speaker 1: What are we? 13 00:00:35,960 --> 00:00:38,120 Speaker 2: What are you doing over there? I'm right on top 14 00:00:38,159 --> 00:00:38,720 Speaker 2: of that, bros. 15 00:00:39,080 --> 00:00:42,080 Speaker 1: Well you look, it's the start of the season. 16 00:00:44,360 --> 00:00:44,839 Speaker 2: This is. 17 00:00:46,760 --> 00:00:50,280 Speaker 1: You know the one, the lone Crush strip, the seventy 18 00:00:50,360 --> 00:00:53,199 Speaker 1: five pairs of Gypsy. 19 00:00:53,880 --> 00:00:58,480 Speaker 2: Oh you know this necklace like chain for those things great, 20 00:01:00,120 --> 00:01:03,320 Speaker 2: and that's at the YZ Golf Club. That's that thing 21 00:01:03,440 --> 00:01:07,720 Speaker 2: is fire where guys. Look, you want to fake tennis necklace? 22 00:01:07,920 --> 00:01:10,640 Speaker 2: No problem, I got that you too. We got jewelry 23 00:01:10,720 --> 00:01:14,280 Speaker 2: for every occasion. Welcome to the pregame, everybody. Aaron and 24 00:01:14,319 --> 00:01:17,640 Speaker 2: I are fresh off of coming from ten different places. 25 00:01:17,680 --> 00:01:19,759 Speaker 2: Are going to be home for about five seconds before 26 00:01:19,760 --> 00:01:21,920 Speaker 2: we head out again. So let's do this. 27 00:01:21,959 --> 00:01:23,160 Speaker 1: Gal, you just got your hair done. 28 00:01:23,200 --> 00:01:26,040 Speaker 2: You look fantastic. Thanks for adding some low lights. Adding 29 00:01:26,080 --> 00:01:30,520 Speaker 2: some low lights. The orange overprocessed look is out out 30 00:01:30,520 --> 00:01:32,640 Speaker 2: the door? What is this accent? 31 00:01:33,280 --> 00:01:40,479 Speaker 1: I don't know as I'm looking at my Uti medicine. 32 00:01:42,560 --> 00:01:45,480 Speaker 2: Is the brand? What is the brand? Got out too? 33 00:01:45,600 --> 00:01:49,320 Speaker 1: I was doing so well Nitro Feodoraniani, macro what is 34 00:01:49,360 --> 00:01:50,200 Speaker 1: that generic for? 35 00:01:51,040 --> 00:01:54,680 Speaker 2: Macrobin? It stops the burn, That's what it's generic for. 36 00:01:54,840 --> 00:01:58,200 Speaker 1: Thank god for my guyd in college. Seriously, those of 37 00:01:58,240 --> 00:01:59,680 Speaker 1: you that don't know my gyn in colleges set me 38 00:01:59,760 --> 00:02:02,240 Speaker 1: up with a boyfriend one time. That really that work 39 00:02:02,280 --> 00:02:05,919 Speaker 1: to work out. But my gynecologists and I are very close. 40 00:02:06,880 --> 00:02:10,280 Speaker 1: You do look like your sister. What is that from 41 00:02:10,600 --> 00:02:11,480 Speaker 1: from Knocked Up? 42 00:02:11,880 --> 00:02:12,160 Speaker 2: Great? 43 00:02:12,520 --> 00:02:13,240 Speaker 1: So funny? 44 00:02:13,480 --> 00:02:16,519 Speaker 2: Was that? Ken Jong? It sure was? Yeah? 45 00:02:16,800 --> 00:02:20,680 Speaker 1: Sure was? Wait, I don't think he's no, Maybe it wasn't. 46 00:02:20,919 --> 00:02:23,200 Speaker 2: You can ask him if it was. That would make 47 00:02:23,240 --> 00:02:23,919 Speaker 2: me so happy. 48 00:02:24,000 --> 00:02:25,720 Speaker 1: Yeah. For those of you that are new to the podcast, 49 00:02:25,800 --> 00:02:27,960 Speaker 1: I got a cute you guys a lot. They weren't 50 00:02:27,960 --> 00:02:30,400 Speaker 1: happening very regularly, but for some reason it's back, and 51 00:02:30,440 --> 00:02:33,640 Speaker 1: it happened on a cross country flight from DC to 52 00:02:33,720 --> 00:02:37,000 Speaker 1: Los Angeles. And with that, shall we get into our questions, 53 00:02:37,000 --> 00:02:39,880 Speaker 1: comments and concerns this week, because apparently I have a 54 00:02:39,880 --> 00:02:40,359 Speaker 1: lot of them. 55 00:02:40,720 --> 00:02:45,000 Speaker 2: Okay, Fenn, Yeah, are you on this medication as well? 56 00:02:45,120 --> 00:02:46,560 Speaker 2: Fen Ya's slung man. 57 00:02:46,760 --> 00:02:50,880 Speaker 1: I don't have money, cute it with you? Ladies prefer 58 00:02:51,080 --> 00:02:53,640 Speaker 1: sauna or hot tab? Well, not a hot tap with 59 00:02:53,680 --> 00:02:57,000 Speaker 1: this current situation. I'm betther can't do that. That's dangerous. 60 00:02:57,440 --> 00:03:02,440 Speaker 1: I like infrared sauna. Yeah, yeah, we do get one 61 00:03:02,840 --> 00:03:06,600 Speaker 1: gets right clear light little wink wink situation. We will 62 00:03:06,639 --> 00:03:09,280 Speaker 1: have more on that after the break. But I like 63 00:03:09,880 --> 00:03:13,600 Speaker 1: a full as Steve refers to it, the Wallgrove resort 64 00:03:13,600 --> 00:03:16,320 Speaker 1: and spot. I like the whole experience. I like a 65 00:03:16,360 --> 00:03:19,520 Speaker 1: cold plunge. I like into the hot tub. I like 66 00:03:19,720 --> 00:03:22,720 Speaker 1: when the sauna is available that as well. I give 67 00:03:22,760 --> 00:03:25,720 Speaker 1: me a d all of the above. It really depends 68 00:03:25,760 --> 00:03:28,040 Speaker 1: on what we're in for. I don't use my hot 69 00:03:28,320 --> 00:03:31,440 Speaker 1: Steve uses it every day because he has back pain. Yeah, 70 00:03:31,680 --> 00:03:34,600 Speaker 1: but and so does my Dad's the same kind of way. 71 00:03:34,639 --> 00:03:36,720 Speaker 1: When my dad's here, he's in that bad boy every day. 72 00:03:36,760 --> 00:03:39,080 Speaker 1: But do you use your hot to I don't see 73 00:03:39,120 --> 00:03:40,320 Speaker 1: you going out there very often. 74 00:03:40,600 --> 00:03:43,760 Speaker 2: No, I use our hot tub in Montana. That's a 75 00:03:43,840 --> 00:03:47,600 Speaker 2: time and Maggie doodle Doo loves getting in that too. 76 00:03:47,720 --> 00:03:52,640 Speaker 2: Bobbles Bobble lot on for the bubbles. Those are cute. 77 00:03:52,680 --> 00:03:56,240 Speaker 2: But yeah, I am really really excited about this infrared 78 00:03:56,320 --> 00:03:59,880 Speaker 2: song I sit light. I mean, I'm expecting to look 79 00:04:00,120 --> 00:04:04,000 Speaker 2: like I'm twenty four, ammon system like I'm fifteen. 80 00:04:04,240 --> 00:04:07,880 Speaker 1: It's really going to change things. Oh yeah, give me off, 81 00:04:08,400 --> 00:04:11,080 Speaker 1: give me all of the attachments that come with it 82 00:04:11,120 --> 00:04:15,360 Speaker 1: as well, Castle Family. Any new routines you will add 83 00:04:15,360 --> 00:04:17,640 Speaker 1: to this season to keep you going well, I love 84 00:04:17,680 --> 00:04:18,200 Speaker 1: that question. 85 00:04:18,960 --> 00:04:21,920 Speaker 2: Have you thought about her as the doctor Cindy? That's 86 00:04:21,960 --> 00:04:23,400 Speaker 2: a routine good. 87 00:04:23,400 --> 00:04:25,479 Speaker 1: I should have her on this to like talk to 88 00:04:25,560 --> 00:04:27,760 Speaker 1: people about what we're up to in the streets. 89 00:04:27,839 --> 00:04:29,040 Speaker 2: You know we should. 90 00:04:29,200 --> 00:04:32,760 Speaker 1: Doctor Cindy is Aaron's doctor, who she's been kind Aaron. 91 00:04:33,000 --> 00:04:33,680 Speaker 2: This is what Aaron. 92 00:04:33,880 --> 00:04:35,320 Speaker 1: This is who Aaron is in my life, you guys. 93 00:04:35,600 --> 00:04:39,200 Speaker 1: She does all the research, she finds all these incredible 94 00:04:39,279 --> 00:04:43,320 Speaker 1: specialists in their respective field, and then I just piggyback 95 00:04:43,320 --> 00:04:47,160 Speaker 1: off of it, whether it is hair, makeup, health, all 96 00:04:47,200 --> 00:04:52,200 Speaker 1: the things. So Aaron is my my yelp uh review 97 00:04:52,279 --> 00:04:54,920 Speaker 1: guy that I just go great. She gives it five stars. 98 00:04:54,920 --> 00:04:58,680 Speaker 1: So doctor Cindy is incredible. I did a couple nads 99 00:04:58,800 --> 00:05:00,920 Speaker 1: because you did them. Steve actually brought that up the 100 00:05:01,000 --> 00:05:03,080 Speaker 1: other day. We need to do ramp that up before 101 00:05:03,200 --> 00:05:07,040 Speaker 1: even starts get a little things going. Okay, So health 102 00:05:07,120 --> 00:05:09,720 Speaker 1: is one. I'm going to do two things that I've 103 00:05:09,760 --> 00:05:13,040 Speaker 1: already thought about as I'm cleaning out my jewelry things. 104 00:05:13,800 --> 00:05:15,680 Speaker 1: I'm done with all the pouches. You and I have 105 00:05:15,720 --> 00:05:18,920 Speaker 1: talked about this. You give me all of them. We're 106 00:05:18,920 --> 00:05:21,160 Speaker 1: done with it. We're going into or We're going to 107 00:05:21,240 --> 00:05:25,920 Speaker 1: consolidate into one big pouch because this side little. 108 00:05:25,880 --> 00:05:28,880 Speaker 2: One, here, one, here, so many pouches. I don't know 109 00:05:29,040 --> 00:05:30,120 Speaker 2: what I'm doing with them. 110 00:05:30,360 --> 00:05:32,839 Speaker 1: And then when I'm on the airplane, I'm taking out 111 00:05:32,839 --> 00:05:35,640 Speaker 1: all the pouches, and then I'm afraid that someone I'm 112 00:05:35,640 --> 00:05:37,520 Speaker 1: going to leave one on the floor. There's one in 113 00:05:37,520 --> 00:05:39,919 Speaker 1: the overhead. They're just all over. So I need to 114 00:05:39,960 --> 00:05:43,160 Speaker 1: be better about my organization of the bag, the little 115 00:05:43,200 --> 00:05:46,960 Speaker 1: compartments and as cheesy as sometimes those Amazon like organizers 116 00:05:47,000 --> 00:05:49,680 Speaker 1: are within the bag, maybe I need to do that 117 00:05:49,920 --> 00:05:51,880 Speaker 1: where it has all the compartments I know. 118 00:05:51,960 --> 00:05:54,279 Speaker 2: But I got a question. We need our pouches. What 119 00:05:54,400 --> 00:05:56,680 Speaker 2: are we putting in our pouches? Because I got one 120 00:05:56,680 --> 00:05:59,400 Speaker 2: pouch with forty lip glosses. Don't need it all? No 121 00:06:00,120 --> 00:06:03,240 Speaker 2: know when you do. Gotten another one with the hand sanitizers, 122 00:06:03,279 --> 00:06:06,080 Speaker 2: the face spray, got another one with the Creed team 123 00:06:06,080 --> 00:06:07,119 Speaker 2: the call. What am I doing? 124 00:06:08,279 --> 00:06:11,039 Speaker 1: We're gonna get We're gonna get organized on that. So 125 00:06:11,120 --> 00:06:13,280 Speaker 1: I just need less stuff. I also don't need to 126 00:06:13,320 --> 00:06:15,599 Speaker 1: take it all. And that's like, it can't be week 127 00:06:15,680 --> 00:06:17,839 Speaker 1: three and I look like I'm having a garage sale 128 00:06:17,880 --> 00:06:19,120 Speaker 1: in the bottom of these bags. 129 00:06:19,320 --> 00:06:21,000 Speaker 2: It's disgusting. It's so gross. 130 00:06:21,200 --> 00:06:24,040 Speaker 1: So organization, and then I'm also going to be better 131 00:06:24,080 --> 00:06:26,880 Speaker 1: and I say this with great optimism prior to the 132 00:06:26,880 --> 00:06:28,960 Speaker 1: start of the season again, check back in with us 133 00:06:29,000 --> 00:06:32,799 Speaker 1: week seven. I'm not going to pack five minutes before 134 00:06:32,839 --> 00:06:34,760 Speaker 1: my flight. I'm done with that. And I'm going to 135 00:06:34,839 --> 00:06:37,920 Speaker 1: try my clothes on before I get to the location. 136 00:06:38,480 --> 00:06:41,880 Speaker 1: So then I'm not running to the local mall. I mean, 137 00:06:41,960 --> 00:06:44,560 Speaker 1: twenty years, I'm into this fucking gig and I was 138 00:06:44,600 --> 00:06:47,440 Speaker 1: still doing it the last interview that I had. Thank God, 139 00:06:47,480 --> 00:06:51,479 Speaker 1: the ballad was attached the Tyson Center at the you 140 00:06:51,520 --> 00:06:55,279 Speaker 1: know whatever in DC. Yeah, enough with the running to 141 00:06:55,320 --> 00:06:57,279 Speaker 1: the mall and looking for the right undergarment. 142 00:06:57,680 --> 00:06:58,440 Speaker 2: I almost think. 143 00:06:58,279 --> 00:07:02,280 Speaker 1: You're addicted to the like the thrill of the chase. 144 00:07:02,680 --> 00:07:04,880 Speaker 1: I think you might be right. I mean, this is ridiculous. 145 00:07:04,920 --> 00:07:07,480 Speaker 1: And then I get like I'm all stressed out and like, no, 146 00:07:07,720 --> 00:07:10,760 Speaker 1: just plan ahead. I am too old to be rummaging 147 00:07:10,800 --> 00:07:14,880 Speaker 1: around and yeah, last second on everything, like, no, just 148 00:07:15,080 --> 00:07:20,480 Speaker 1: be an adult, crisa so organization and trying call. 149 00:07:21,080 --> 00:07:24,480 Speaker 2: You're in two cities in two weeks. That's over one year. 150 00:07:24,640 --> 00:07:27,840 Speaker 2: That's really difficult. It is. It's a lot. Imagine. I 151 00:07:27,840 --> 00:07:29,560 Speaker 2: don't even know how I did it. That's why I 152 00:07:29,600 --> 00:07:32,080 Speaker 2: write the list. And it's still Yeah, you are really 153 00:07:32,120 --> 00:07:35,520 Speaker 2: good about a list. No, but it's fine, it doesn't matter, okay, Ah, 154 00:07:37,280 --> 00:07:41,320 Speaker 2: I'm Emerson. I'm Emerson. What do these final weeks before 155 00:07:41,400 --> 00:07:44,240 Speaker 2: football takes over your life look like? Are you prepping? 156 00:07:44,240 --> 00:07:45,200 Speaker 2: You want to know what it looks like? 157 00:07:45,280 --> 00:07:48,040 Speaker 1: It looks like that, Like it's this you should see 158 00:07:48,080 --> 00:07:50,840 Speaker 1: like we're doing we're doing opening packages. 159 00:07:51,000 --> 00:07:54,520 Speaker 2: We're I got to go through my closet too. Am 160 00:07:54,520 --> 00:07:57,760 Speaker 2: I prepping? Yeah? I'm watching a lot. I need to 161 00:07:57,800 --> 00:08:01,440 Speaker 2: start dialing in and reading soon, but I'm watching a lot. 162 00:08:01,520 --> 00:08:04,120 Speaker 2: I liked watching the pregame coverage the other day for 163 00:08:04,200 --> 00:08:06,920 Speaker 2: the Hall of Fame game. That was fun. I've got 164 00:08:06,920 --> 00:08:09,720 Speaker 2: training camp on every day. Yeah, I said to my 165 00:08:09,800 --> 00:08:12,240 Speaker 2: husband the other day, it's just so good to have 166 00:08:12,320 --> 00:08:14,440 Speaker 2: these guys back on TV. I was like, I could 167 00:08:14,520 --> 00:08:16,760 Speaker 2: have it on silence, but just so see. I'm like, 168 00:08:17,080 --> 00:08:19,840 Speaker 2: what's up, Mike Tomlin, what's going on? Drave Like, you know, 169 00:08:19,880 --> 00:08:21,760 Speaker 2: it's just nice to see the guys out there. 170 00:08:22,040 --> 00:08:25,680 Speaker 1: I was watching our friend Shregor, this morning host, get up, 171 00:08:25,720 --> 00:08:28,040 Speaker 1: and I just love him, Shregs. I already miss him 172 00:08:28,040 --> 00:08:30,840 Speaker 1: because I used to have spent the last however many 173 00:08:30,880 --> 00:08:34,120 Speaker 1: years with Sregor at Fox, and then he went to 174 00:08:34,400 --> 00:08:36,920 Speaker 1: ESPN and he's doing all these wonderful things. But they 175 00:08:36,960 --> 00:08:39,720 Speaker 1: were having a conversation of the top five quarterbacks in 176 00:08:39,760 --> 00:08:45,959 Speaker 1: the NFC, and yeah, the fact that Matthew Stafford isn't 177 00:08:46,040 --> 00:08:49,800 Speaker 1: in the top five quarterback conversation in the NFC. 178 00:08:49,640 --> 00:08:50,720 Speaker 2: Who are they singing? 179 00:08:51,160 --> 00:08:54,559 Speaker 1: Nuts? All due respect to these five, I'm sorry none 180 00:08:54,559 --> 00:08:55,520 Speaker 1: of them are won a Super Bowl. 181 00:08:55,559 --> 00:08:58,120 Speaker 2: So, first of all, who said this? It was my 182 00:08:58,240 --> 00:08:59,240 Speaker 2: ten and Bomb had his list. 183 00:08:59,280 --> 00:09:02,160 Speaker 1: He was saying, Jordan's Love is the number one quarterback 184 00:09:02,200 --> 00:09:02,840 Speaker 1: in the NFC. 185 00:09:03,360 --> 00:09:04,640 Speaker 2: Totally personal opinion. 186 00:09:04,640 --> 00:09:08,200 Speaker 1: But dan Rolovsky was like, dude, where's Matthew Stafford on 187 00:09:08,240 --> 00:09:10,120 Speaker 1: this list? Like they had Jayalen Hurts. 188 00:09:10,120 --> 00:09:10,720 Speaker 2: Okay, we get it. 189 00:09:10,760 --> 00:09:13,280 Speaker 1: You just won a Super Bowl. It was Baker Mayfield, 190 00:09:13,400 --> 00:09:20,040 Speaker 1: it was who was number two? Oh, Jayden Daniels, Jordan Love. 191 00:09:20,520 --> 00:09:22,240 Speaker 1: But it was just one of these things where I'm like, 192 00:09:22,480 --> 00:09:24,920 Speaker 1: Matthews in his like seventeenth year and we're still having 193 00:09:24,960 --> 00:09:28,120 Speaker 1: this conversation of like, how is he not a top 194 00:09:28,120 --> 00:09:30,439 Speaker 1: five quarterback in the NFC? Anyways, it just blew my mind. 195 00:09:30,640 --> 00:09:32,920 Speaker 1: Or dani Rolofsky was doing the same thing. He's like, 196 00:09:33,040 --> 00:09:36,120 Speaker 1: you guys, wake up. So I just like those kinds 197 00:09:36,120 --> 00:09:39,040 Speaker 1: of debates. I like, the whole before the season starts, 198 00:09:39,360 --> 00:09:41,600 Speaker 1: what team is going to be great? And then it's like, 199 00:09:41,720 --> 00:09:44,240 Speaker 1: you know, oh, do the Bengals do they have to? 200 00:09:44,600 --> 00:09:46,440 Speaker 1: Are they the team with you know, the most pressure 201 00:09:46,480 --> 00:09:48,360 Speaker 1: on it because they always have. They've started the last 202 00:09:48,400 --> 00:09:50,800 Speaker 1: however many years going oh and two or oh and three, 203 00:09:50,840 --> 00:09:52,280 Speaker 1: and then they got to climb out of the basement, 204 00:09:52,360 --> 00:09:55,040 Speaker 1: especially in that division. So it's just always fun with 205 00:09:55,080 --> 00:09:58,520 Speaker 1: the prognostications of like quarterbacks or teams or all of 206 00:09:58,559 --> 00:09:59,079 Speaker 1: those things. 207 00:10:00,240 --> 00:10:04,400 Speaker 2: What is prognostic? I'll telling you something. Matthew Stafford one 208 00:10:04,400 --> 00:10:08,240 Speaker 2: of the top five quarterbacks in the NFC also probably 209 00:10:08,320 --> 00:10:12,880 Speaker 2: top two NFC or top five humor. The guy's funny. 210 00:10:12,960 --> 00:10:17,959 Speaker 2: I mean we like every joke he makes or any 211 00:10:17,960 --> 00:10:19,800 Speaker 2: little comment or like the things that we. 212 00:10:21,400 --> 00:10:23,960 Speaker 1: And the best part about Matthew is he knows it. 213 00:10:24,240 --> 00:10:27,000 Speaker 1: You know, we are the laughing track for everything he. 214 00:10:27,000 --> 00:10:27,560 Speaker 2: Has to say. 215 00:10:27,640 --> 00:10:29,880 Speaker 1: Yeah, exactly, Matthew wants is around at all times because 216 00:10:29,880 --> 00:10:31,840 Speaker 1: we laugh at everything he says. Kelly's like, okay, we 217 00:10:31,920 --> 00:10:34,880 Speaker 1: got it, Like I said, Einfeld laugh track. 218 00:10:37,240 --> 00:10:37,440 Speaker 2: Yeah. 219 00:10:37,440 --> 00:10:39,920 Speaker 1: I'm very excited for the season, But what do the 220 00:10:40,240 --> 00:10:42,160 Speaker 1: what did the few weeks leading up to the season 221 00:10:42,160 --> 00:10:46,160 Speaker 1: look like. I'm trying to take in as much like 222 00:10:46,440 --> 00:10:48,560 Speaker 1: of the last little free time as I can, which 223 00:10:48,600 --> 00:10:51,800 Speaker 1: is which is, you know, go do this a little bit, 224 00:10:51,880 --> 00:10:53,960 Speaker 1: do this a little bit. I've got an event that's 225 00:10:54,000 --> 00:10:58,240 Speaker 1: going to take me up to Monterey, like, uh, Steve's 226 00:10:58,240 --> 00:11:01,480 Speaker 1: never been to pebble me. I'm very fancy. Okay, I 227 00:11:02,440 --> 00:11:04,400 Speaker 1: was just putting diamonds in my ears in case you 228 00:11:04,440 --> 00:11:08,440 Speaker 1: missed it. Yeah, it's called I need to pay my bills. 229 00:11:08,679 --> 00:11:11,120 Speaker 1: But no, just things like that were kind of fit 230 00:11:11,160 --> 00:11:12,840 Speaker 1: them in last second. I hope, I well, I'm going 231 00:11:12,920 --> 00:11:15,640 Speaker 1: to see you today actually, but I hope we get 232 00:11:15,679 --> 00:11:18,559 Speaker 1: like one more four Top six Top Dealing. 233 00:11:18,960 --> 00:11:21,400 Speaker 2: Okay, next, what do we got. 234 00:11:23,360 --> 00:11:27,360 Speaker 1: Macaiah Cruz Krause, what is your funniest moment in. 235 00:11:27,320 --> 00:11:28,840 Speaker 2: High school with a boyfriend? 236 00:11:29,240 --> 00:11:32,599 Speaker 1: Boyfriend? Like a failed kiss? My dad walked in on 237 00:11:32,679 --> 00:11:36,599 Speaker 1: my boyfriend and I in my bedroom my house. That 238 00:11:36,920 --> 00:11:42,440 Speaker 1: was and anyone that knows my father to have Scott 239 00:11:42,520 --> 00:11:46,319 Speaker 1: Thompson walk in now, granted, like my shirt was off, 240 00:11:46,320 --> 00:11:47,840 Speaker 1: I was in a braa, but like my pants were 241 00:11:47,880 --> 00:11:51,600 Speaker 1: on or something. But like, still, that's mortifying when your 242 00:11:51,720 --> 00:11:52,600 Speaker 1: father walks in. 243 00:11:52,840 --> 00:11:56,480 Speaker 2: He say middle oh oh, he said no. 244 00:11:57,120 --> 00:12:00,640 Speaker 1: He grabbed the guy by the back of his which 245 00:12:00,760 --> 00:12:04,679 Speaker 1: was still on, pushed him out out the thing, and 246 00:12:04,720 --> 00:12:07,120 Speaker 1: we got a stern talking to and told that young 247 00:12:07,160 --> 00:12:10,199 Speaker 1: man that he needed to leave the house immediately. Then 248 00:12:10,240 --> 00:12:12,720 Speaker 1: proceeded to call his parents because they were all friends 249 00:12:13,040 --> 00:12:15,480 Speaker 1: and was like the middle of the day on a Friday. 250 00:12:15,559 --> 00:12:16,440 Speaker 2: He was golfing. 251 00:12:16,800 --> 00:12:19,360 Speaker 1: My dad was golfing and I should have known, like 252 00:12:19,400 --> 00:12:21,880 Speaker 1: on a Friday afternoon, and I should have heard the 253 00:12:21,920 --> 00:12:26,280 Speaker 1: garage door open, the sheer risk that your father's cat, 254 00:12:27,360 --> 00:12:30,520 Speaker 1: Kathy was at work. Kathy was busy, I don't know. 255 00:12:30,600 --> 00:12:33,040 Speaker 1: So that one didn't go over very well. So that 256 00:12:33,120 --> 00:12:35,840 Speaker 1: wasn't really funny. That was just really traumatizing from my 257 00:12:35,920 --> 00:12:37,880 Speaker 1: high school boyfriend and I had getting caught by my 258 00:12:38,000 --> 00:12:39,559 Speaker 1: father the Friday afternoon. 259 00:12:40,240 --> 00:12:42,640 Speaker 2: What about you? I don't really have boyfriends. No, I 260 00:12:42,640 --> 00:12:45,679 Speaker 2: don't know what's the funniest moment in high school with 261 00:12:45,800 --> 00:12:50,800 Speaker 2: a boyfriend. I can't really think I remember one guy 262 00:12:51,640 --> 00:12:54,319 Speaker 2: fun Oh, I actually have another one too. My mom 263 00:12:54,480 --> 00:12:58,240 Speaker 2: would always like a guy that I dated. She'd always 264 00:12:58,280 --> 00:13:00,880 Speaker 2: like after we broke up. After the would be like, 265 00:13:03,080 --> 00:13:04,760 Speaker 2: oh I just thought of another one. No, I would 266 00:13:04,800 --> 00:13:09,439 Speaker 2: never tell that that's bad. God. Wait, now you have 267 00:13:09,520 --> 00:13:11,400 Speaker 2: to say it, Matt. 268 00:13:11,800 --> 00:13:16,079 Speaker 1: So what was like this one guy I like broke 269 00:13:16,160 --> 00:13:18,560 Speaker 1: up with or whatever broken off? Was like thank God 270 00:13:18,640 --> 00:13:21,360 Speaker 1: because he showed Dad and I promise ring he was 271 00:13:21,360 --> 00:13:21,880 Speaker 1: gonna give me. 272 00:13:22,200 --> 00:13:29,040 Speaker 2: What are we promising that I would go off to 273 00:13:29,120 --> 00:13:34,000 Speaker 2: Florida and stay No, what's going on? Crazy? Promise Ring? 274 00:13:34,840 --> 00:13:38,679 Speaker 2: Oh my god, I promise you. How about the same boyfriend. 275 00:13:38,760 --> 00:13:41,240 Speaker 1: I was like so in love with him, and he 276 00:13:41,360 --> 00:13:44,440 Speaker 1: broke up with me to date the sophomore. I was 277 00:13:44,480 --> 00:13:46,960 Speaker 1: this old senior at that point, So he breaks up 278 00:13:46,960 --> 00:13:49,360 Speaker 1: with me to date the sophomore, and I made him 279 00:13:49,400 --> 00:13:53,160 Speaker 1: a mixed tape of mixed CD of all of these 280 00:13:53,240 --> 00:13:56,360 Speaker 1: love songs, and it had like Brian McKnight like back 281 00:13:56,440 --> 00:13:59,640 Speaker 1: at Once, Yeah, like as Yet and like all these 282 00:13:59,640 --> 00:14:03,200 Speaker 1: like shy you know the ones mixtape and like confess 283 00:14:03,280 --> 00:14:05,120 Speaker 1: my love and put a picture of us in a frame. 284 00:14:05,160 --> 00:14:06,480 Speaker 1: And I like waited for him and I gave it 285 00:14:06,520 --> 00:14:08,440 Speaker 1: to him afterwards, and I was like, let's come on, 286 00:14:08,520 --> 00:14:11,760 Speaker 1: get back together, like desperado, and he's like, no, bitch 287 00:14:12,120 --> 00:14:13,520 Speaker 1: with the hot young sophomore. 288 00:14:13,880 --> 00:14:17,400 Speaker 2: See ya. Did you ever get your parents to like 289 00:14:17,880 --> 00:14:20,440 Speaker 2: maybe tell a fib for you if you got it. 290 00:14:20,480 --> 00:14:22,840 Speaker 2: This is before cell phones and you got to call 291 00:14:22,920 --> 00:14:26,360 Speaker 2: it home from a boy. Oh yeah, but home. Yeah, 292 00:14:26,560 --> 00:14:29,280 Speaker 2: my and my parents knew I was out with somebody else. 293 00:14:29,320 --> 00:14:31,960 Speaker 2: And my dad's like, I'm not doing that again. Oh 294 00:14:32,000 --> 00:14:34,840 Speaker 2: he lied for you. Yeah, well I needed him too, 295 00:14:35,440 --> 00:14:36,760 Speaker 2: that's crue. No. 296 00:14:36,920 --> 00:14:38,720 Speaker 1: I didn't have that. I just had like if I 297 00:14:38,720 --> 00:14:41,160 Speaker 1: didn't want to talk to somebody. I still remember my 298 00:14:41,240 --> 00:14:44,640 Speaker 1: house line four two, five, four and eight. I wonder 299 00:14:44,640 --> 00:14:46,440 Speaker 1: if someone has that number again, I should call it. 300 00:14:46,640 --> 00:14:48,960 Speaker 2: I still have my parents still have our house line. 301 00:14:49,160 --> 00:14:50,680 Speaker 2: They do. Yeah. 302 00:14:50,720 --> 00:14:54,160 Speaker 1: God, I remember everyone's phone number, like I still know 303 00:14:54,200 --> 00:14:57,560 Speaker 1: my mom's self everything because we had to. He was number. 304 00:14:57,560 --> 00:14:59,440 Speaker 1: Now I couldn't. I only know your area code. 305 00:14:59,480 --> 00:15:01,560 Speaker 2: I know none of the other part of your phone number. Yeah, 306 00:15:01,560 --> 00:15:04,000 Speaker 2: I don't know yours either. Do you know Jared's phone number? 307 00:15:04,520 --> 00:15:05,040 Speaker 2: I think so. 308 00:15:05,520 --> 00:15:07,560 Speaker 1: Oh see, I don't know Steve's And he'll ask me. 309 00:15:07,600 --> 00:15:09,400 Speaker 1: He'll be like, you got that thing memorize and I'm like, 310 00:15:09,880 --> 00:15:10,720 Speaker 1: I'm working on it. 311 00:15:10,920 --> 00:15:14,040 Speaker 2: The only reason why I know it is because it's. 312 00:15:13,840 --> 00:15:18,280 Speaker 1: Our CBS like rewards things like pass code. 313 00:15:18,320 --> 00:15:18,760 Speaker 2: That's it. 314 00:15:18,840 --> 00:15:22,280 Speaker 1: Oh, I got to be incentivized with the old Ralph's 315 00:15:22,960 --> 00:15:23,560 Speaker 1: phone number. 316 00:15:32,920 --> 00:15:36,080 Speaker 2: This is a great question, ALYSSA two two one two. 317 00:15:36,240 --> 00:15:39,400 Speaker 2: How are we dealing with post extension hair? My Ramen 318 00:15:39,680 --> 00:15:43,440 Speaker 2: noodle blonde hair is screaming. I love her. I love 319 00:15:43,560 --> 00:15:46,760 Speaker 2: this romy noodle. That was me, That's been me for 320 00:15:46,800 --> 00:15:48,680 Speaker 2: a whole year and a half. I'm on a new 321 00:15:48,960 --> 00:15:51,440 Speaker 2: I'm on a new journey. Hey, can I tell you. 322 00:15:51,480 --> 00:15:53,480 Speaker 2: And literally we were talking about Chris's hair and how 323 00:15:53,520 --> 00:15:56,400 Speaker 2: healthy and lovely it's going. I am on, I'm not 324 00:15:56,440 --> 00:15:58,240 Speaker 2: paid by these people, but I'll say it. I do 325 00:15:58,360 --> 00:16:01,000 Speaker 2: take nutrifole. I love it. 326 00:16:01,240 --> 00:16:05,000 Speaker 1: Also, again not paid, but I will jose another thing 327 00:16:05,080 --> 00:16:05,640 Speaker 1: I really love. 328 00:16:05,680 --> 00:16:07,120 Speaker 2: And I was just talking to the girl that was 329 00:16:07,160 --> 00:16:10,720 Speaker 2: coloring my hair about this. I love the Rose Park 330 00:16:10,800 --> 00:16:14,840 Speaker 2: products our o z. Those products are fire okay, through 331 00:16:14,880 --> 00:16:18,360 Speaker 2: the conditioner, the hair mask. It is a little hard 332 00:16:18,400 --> 00:16:21,440 Speaker 2: to open. There is a treatment oil to put in 333 00:16:21,920 --> 00:16:24,680 Speaker 2: like at night or like maybe ten minutes before you 334 00:16:24,840 --> 00:16:27,200 Speaker 2: wash your hair, which I you would love. There's a 335 00:16:27,240 --> 00:16:30,080 Speaker 2: finishing oil. There's like a milk that you can do. 336 00:16:30,440 --> 00:16:32,640 Speaker 2: There's a thickening spray. I love all the products. Okay, 337 00:16:32,760 --> 00:16:36,080 Speaker 2: go marrow with your bad self. It's called rose Roz. 338 00:16:36,280 --> 00:16:38,600 Speaker 2: You can get it at Sephora, not an ad, but 339 00:16:38,640 --> 00:16:39,120 Speaker 2: I love. 340 00:16:39,000 --> 00:16:42,640 Speaker 1: It, okay along those Similianes Alyssa, I totally hear you 341 00:16:42,680 --> 00:16:44,440 Speaker 1: on the RAM. No, So this is where I got 342 00:16:44,480 --> 00:16:46,520 Speaker 1: mine and it still is a little bit like this. 343 00:16:47,800 --> 00:16:50,280 Speaker 1: It's the underpart where all the extensions are and then 344 00:16:50,280 --> 00:16:52,920 Speaker 1: it just like crinkles and crinkles up like you know, 345 00:16:52,920 --> 00:16:55,600 Speaker 1: when you had that ribbon that you had to take 346 00:16:55,640 --> 00:16:59,560 Speaker 1: the scissors. It's like that, but mine's getting so much healthier. 347 00:17:00,120 --> 00:17:02,320 Speaker 1: My products that have saved me again, not an ad 348 00:17:02,440 --> 00:17:07,600 Speaker 1: Wela Nikki nine zero one has helped reshape this bad 349 00:17:07,640 --> 00:17:11,600 Speaker 1: boy and wella products. She was like, just listen to me, 350 00:17:11,640 --> 00:17:13,359 Speaker 1: and I'm like, you know, I want to do my 351 00:17:13,359 --> 00:17:16,680 Speaker 1: own thing. She goes, just be religious about using these 352 00:17:16,720 --> 00:17:17,879 Speaker 1: and it will get your hair healthy. 353 00:17:17,920 --> 00:17:21,959 Speaker 2: What is it? It's just it's like a repair shampoo. 354 00:17:22,119 --> 00:17:24,600 Speaker 1: It's a I did it today, the conditioner one that 355 00:17:24,640 --> 00:17:26,240 Speaker 1: you like leave in for a couple of minutes while 356 00:17:26,280 --> 00:17:28,680 Speaker 1: you shave your legs, because. 357 00:17:28,480 --> 00:17:29,240 Speaker 2: That's also so me. 358 00:17:29,480 --> 00:17:31,639 Speaker 1: It says recommended leave in for three minutes, and I'm like, 359 00:17:31,680 --> 00:17:34,240 Speaker 1: thirty seconds, that's enough. Nope, point I know who has time? 360 00:17:34,520 --> 00:17:35,879 Speaker 1: I know, But then I do it when I have 361 00:17:35,880 --> 00:17:37,680 Speaker 1: to shave my legs. So I'm trying to be better 362 00:17:37,720 --> 00:17:40,800 Speaker 1: about it. And I notice such a difference in my 363 00:17:40,920 --> 00:17:44,200 Speaker 1: overall hair and so Aaron knows this. I was contemplating 364 00:17:44,200 --> 00:17:46,399 Speaker 1: putting extensions back in to start the seasons. I have 365 00:17:46,440 --> 00:17:49,199 Speaker 1: to do these marketing shoots for Amazon this week, so 366 00:17:49,240 --> 00:17:51,640 Speaker 1: I had to make the decision at the hair place. 367 00:17:51,680 --> 00:17:53,000 Speaker 1: I was like, am I doing it or not? 368 00:17:53,200 --> 00:17:53,639 Speaker 2: And I'm not. 369 00:17:53,800 --> 00:17:55,240 Speaker 1: And now I'm feeling like it's going to be a 370 00:17:55,280 --> 00:17:57,520 Speaker 1: little boring without selling. 371 00:17:57,640 --> 00:18:00,359 Speaker 2: Your hair looks so fanned. I don't mean to whine. 372 00:18:00,400 --> 00:18:04,600 Speaker 2: Why am I whining? Mac? Your hair looks great. It's gorgeous. 373 00:18:04,880 --> 00:18:07,600 Speaker 2: You You're in such a great spot with your hair. 374 00:18:07,640 --> 00:18:11,520 Speaker 2: It's beautiful. It's very Charlie, it's very Cameron Diaz Holiday like. 375 00:18:11,600 --> 00:18:14,400 Speaker 2: It is gorgeous. Oh well, thank you. 376 00:18:14,440 --> 00:18:16,480 Speaker 1: I appreciate it. Just feels a little and I say 377 00:18:16,480 --> 00:18:20,320 Speaker 1: this respectfully. Isn't it kind of like b like in 378 00:18:20,400 --> 00:18:22,920 Speaker 1: terms of length, Like I'm happy with the collars uckfully 379 00:18:24,160 --> 00:18:28,080 Speaker 1: lud just like it feels a little boring now. But anyway, 380 00:18:28,200 --> 00:18:31,000 Speaker 1: so Melyssa, how do we pronounce the products? 381 00:18:31,119 --> 00:18:34,200 Speaker 2: Rose? Ross Rose? Also another one I want to add 382 00:18:34,320 --> 00:18:40,320 Speaker 2: Kelly eighteen. That handisher is fire, Aaron's rich. That's very expensive. 383 00:18:40,440 --> 00:18:44,720 Speaker 1: It is, okay, it isn't I have that little one 384 00:18:44,760 --> 00:18:47,280 Speaker 1: like it's like a little same Oh oh I thought 385 00:18:47,320 --> 00:18:50,680 Speaker 1: it was pricey. Oh. Anyways, we think about all the 386 00:18:50,720 --> 00:18:52,560 Speaker 1: same money we spend our hair, like for our hair, 387 00:18:52,600 --> 00:18:55,080 Speaker 1: it's worth it a listen, let us know on your 388 00:18:55,160 --> 00:18:58,240 Speaker 1: journey now, I'm just stay with it, don't put them 389 00:18:58,280 --> 00:18:58,600 Speaker 1: back in. 390 00:18:58,800 --> 00:18:59,359 Speaker 2: Stay with it. 391 00:18:59,400 --> 00:19:01,960 Speaker 1: And if you can get clip ins clip back, that's good. 392 00:19:02,160 --> 00:19:04,240 Speaker 1: In between, I'm gonna throw on a few tonight when 393 00:19:04,240 --> 00:19:05,200 Speaker 1: we go see our boys. 394 00:19:05,240 --> 00:19:07,640 Speaker 2: Hey, but your hair looks your hairt color is really good. 395 00:19:07,800 --> 00:19:09,720 Speaker 2: I'm happy with what you're getting there. We're getting there. 396 00:19:09,720 --> 00:19:12,080 Speaker 2: We're getting there. Yeah, told me it's going to take 397 00:19:12,119 --> 00:19:15,520 Speaker 2: a couple couple times. We'll get there. Everybody's great, Okay, 398 00:19:17,880 --> 00:19:20,560 Speaker 2: sin A go go. How do you balance the professional 399 00:19:20,680 --> 00:19:23,879 Speaker 2: interviewing with the one hundred percent fan energy. 400 00:19:24,640 --> 00:19:25,119 Speaker 3: I don't. 401 00:19:25,600 --> 00:19:27,560 Speaker 2: I don't. I'm a huge fan of all the guys 402 00:19:27,600 --> 00:19:30,480 Speaker 2: that I cover, and I get so excited to talk 403 00:19:30,520 --> 00:19:32,080 Speaker 2: to them. I don't. 404 00:19:32,160 --> 00:19:35,760 Speaker 1: I I same. I mean I look back and I 405 00:19:35,800 --> 00:19:36,520 Speaker 1: think on some of them. 406 00:19:36,560 --> 00:19:38,639 Speaker 2: I'll like them, I you know. 407 00:19:38,680 --> 00:19:41,119 Speaker 1: And all my interviews now come on the desk with 408 00:19:41,200 --> 00:19:43,320 Speaker 1: the other guys, like yours are all one on one, 409 00:19:43,359 --> 00:19:46,720 Speaker 1: and your yours are right after the game like mine. 410 00:19:47,520 --> 00:19:48,160 Speaker 2: The boys are. 411 00:19:48,240 --> 00:19:49,840 Speaker 1: You know, the guys will either they go into the 412 00:19:49,840 --> 00:19:51,720 Speaker 1: locker room or it'll be like a few you know, 413 00:19:51,760 --> 00:19:53,720 Speaker 1: they'll do the on field interview, or they'll do a 414 00:19:53,720 --> 00:19:55,480 Speaker 1: couple of things, So it's not right away, so it's 415 00:19:55,520 --> 00:19:59,040 Speaker 1: a little less like in the moment, but yeah, I 416 00:19:59,080 --> 00:20:01,919 Speaker 1: still I get really excited for whoever it is. I 417 00:20:01,960 --> 00:20:06,760 Speaker 1: remember Baker Mayfield had this like crazy, crazy comeback and 418 00:20:06,800 --> 00:20:08,840 Speaker 1: I was like, oh my, I was like totally turned 419 00:20:08,880 --> 00:20:10,760 Speaker 1: into a fan and that was probably not professional, but 420 00:20:10,760 --> 00:20:11,240 Speaker 1: I didn't care. 421 00:20:11,359 --> 00:20:12,720 Speaker 2: I was like, that was fucking awesome. 422 00:20:12,760 --> 00:20:15,040 Speaker 1: I'm a sports fan and like dramatic finishes and no 423 00:20:15,080 --> 00:20:16,760 Speaker 1: matter who it is, so next week it could have 424 00:20:16,800 --> 00:20:18,880 Speaker 1: been the opposite team that I'm rooting for. In terms 425 00:20:18,920 --> 00:20:21,600 Speaker 1: of I like to watch good football, and if something 426 00:20:21,640 --> 00:20:24,720 Speaker 1: happens or something good happens for guys that we root 427 00:20:24,760 --> 00:20:28,359 Speaker 1: for and care about, then yeah, I also think, listen, 428 00:20:28,680 --> 00:20:31,120 Speaker 1: it's taken us a minute to get where we are. 429 00:20:31,240 --> 00:20:32,920 Speaker 1: You have to build up credibility. 430 00:20:33,000 --> 00:20:35,560 Speaker 2: You have to build up with not only the viewers 431 00:20:35,600 --> 00:20:38,520 Speaker 2: at home, your bosses, but also the players and the coaches. 432 00:20:38,560 --> 00:20:40,479 Speaker 2: You can't go into things when you first start with 433 00:20:40,520 --> 00:20:43,440 Speaker 2: any job and be like, oh my god, people will 434 00:20:43,440 --> 00:20:46,040 Speaker 2: look at you and be like you're an asshole. But now, 435 00:20:46,359 --> 00:20:48,720 Speaker 2: I mean, I think of certain times that I've interviewed 436 00:20:48,920 --> 00:20:54,040 Speaker 2: Patrick or I've interviewed Aaron after big games, you know, 437 00:20:54,400 --> 00:20:58,320 Speaker 2: or anybody really and you're just like fans at home. 438 00:20:58,400 --> 00:21:00,680 Speaker 2: And I love this about Fox much. And I remember 439 00:21:00,680 --> 00:21:03,320 Speaker 2: when I first got to Fox, somebody said they want 440 00:21:03,359 --> 00:21:06,639 Speaker 2: to see you having a good time and smiling, and 441 00:21:06,680 --> 00:21:08,760 Speaker 2: it's so true. And I love that about Fox and 442 00:21:08,800 --> 00:21:11,800 Speaker 2: the way, you know, we have our talent look like 443 00:21:11,840 --> 00:21:13,919 Speaker 2: they're having a good time because we are. We have 444 00:21:13,960 --> 00:21:16,280 Speaker 2: one of the best jobs in the world. So yeah, 445 00:21:16,320 --> 00:21:18,800 Speaker 2: there's nothing wrong with like sitting on the desk with 446 00:21:18,840 --> 00:21:21,200 Speaker 2: Baker after an amazing game or any of these guys 447 00:21:21,200 --> 00:21:23,480 Speaker 2: and be like, can we just talk about this last play? 448 00:21:24,440 --> 00:21:25,080 Speaker 2: It's awesome. 449 00:21:25,240 --> 00:21:28,600 Speaker 3: So yeah, yeah, that's a good point though, because I've 450 00:21:29,119 --> 00:21:31,159 Speaker 3: I tried to pay it forward and I know you 451 00:21:31,200 --> 00:21:34,080 Speaker 3: do too, in terms of you know, young women or 452 00:21:34,240 --> 00:21:36,000 Speaker 3: men that want to do this job and they'll ask, 453 00:21:36,320 --> 00:21:38,480 Speaker 3: you know, like look at their resume tape or different 454 00:21:38,480 --> 00:21:40,080 Speaker 3: things and stuff like that, and I'm like, Okay, we're 455 00:21:40,080 --> 00:21:41,640 Speaker 3: gonna need to break it down. 456 00:21:41,440 --> 00:21:41,919 Speaker 2: Just a little bit. 457 00:21:41,960 --> 00:21:44,600 Speaker 1: It can't be like nah, It's like there's a time 458 00:21:44,640 --> 00:21:46,919 Speaker 1: and a place. But then you also still need to 459 00:21:47,000 --> 00:21:53,920 Speaker 1: have the balance of professional cadence. Anonymous. I love Anonymous, 460 00:21:53,920 --> 00:21:56,000 Speaker 1: been with my husband for a total of seven years married. 461 00:21:56,000 --> 00:21:58,840 Speaker 1: For the last two we've had a long distance relationship 462 00:21:58,840 --> 00:22:01,399 Speaker 1: and some heartsre ccumstances due to jobs. But we are 463 00:22:01,400 --> 00:22:04,040 Speaker 1: finally home together. I'm starting to realize I've ignored red 464 00:22:04,040 --> 00:22:08,040 Speaker 1: flags and I'm not happy in my marriage, and I 465 00:22:08,040 --> 00:22:09,919 Speaker 1: think I've reached a point where I don't want to 466 00:22:10,000 --> 00:22:12,240 Speaker 1: fix it either. Any advice for a thirty year old 467 00:22:12,240 --> 00:22:14,719 Speaker 1: girl who's scared to leave and start over. Am I 468 00:22:14,800 --> 00:22:17,040 Speaker 1: doing the right thing? Oh? My god, I feel this 469 00:22:17,320 --> 00:22:21,399 Speaker 1: so much. Oh I feel this deep in my soul. 470 00:22:21,440 --> 00:22:25,200 Speaker 1: First of all, thank you for being honest to yourself 471 00:22:25,400 --> 00:22:27,800 Speaker 1: about the situation, because it's one thing to be in 472 00:22:27,840 --> 00:22:32,200 Speaker 1: denial like oh it's fine, everything's fine. You've clearly had 473 00:22:32,280 --> 00:22:36,040 Speaker 1: like an awakening of like, no, this is not this 474 00:22:36,119 --> 00:22:37,080 Speaker 1: is not what I want. 475 00:22:37,440 --> 00:22:39,480 Speaker 2: I would say, because you have. 476 00:22:39,840 --> 00:22:44,200 Speaker 1: And again, so much of their relationship wasn't together that. Yeah, 477 00:22:44,240 --> 00:22:47,119 Speaker 1: once you're under the same roof, then you realize like, 478 00:22:47,280 --> 00:22:50,520 Speaker 1: oh god, maybe I really don't like this person. Number one, 479 00:22:50,560 --> 00:22:53,080 Speaker 1: I would start with communication. You've got to talk to 480 00:22:53,320 --> 00:22:57,240 Speaker 1: your significant other. Maybe he's feeling the same thing. Maybe 481 00:22:57,280 --> 00:23:01,359 Speaker 1: there's maybe there's something that you guys both can work 482 00:23:01,440 --> 00:23:03,240 Speaker 1: through Now you say like, you don't know if you 483 00:23:03,240 --> 00:23:06,120 Speaker 1: want to fix it. I would put together a pros 484 00:23:06,160 --> 00:23:08,639 Speaker 1: and cons list and then tear it up and burn 485 00:23:08,680 --> 00:23:10,639 Speaker 1: it and never let him see it. Because wasn't there 486 00:23:10,640 --> 00:23:12,600 Speaker 1: a sex in the City episode where there was the 487 00:23:12,680 --> 00:23:16,320 Speaker 1: long King Polly or that, Yeah, yeah, you don't want 488 00:23:16,320 --> 00:23:18,240 Speaker 1: the other, you don't want the I just mean for 489 00:23:18,280 --> 00:23:21,240 Speaker 1: yourself to put down on paper and then ultimately ask 490 00:23:21,280 --> 00:23:23,600 Speaker 1: yourself the one question, is my life better with this 491 00:23:23,640 --> 00:23:26,680 Speaker 1: person or is it better without this person? And if 492 00:23:26,680 --> 00:23:29,760 Speaker 1: you can answer that question even before having an honest, 493 00:23:29,800 --> 00:23:31,680 Speaker 1: sit down conversation with him, and you're saying that your 494 00:23:31,680 --> 00:23:34,240 Speaker 1: life is better without him, then you got to get out. 495 00:23:34,320 --> 00:23:36,160 Speaker 1: I am the biggest, but you're only thirty years old. 496 00:23:36,160 --> 00:23:38,440 Speaker 1: I mean, I don't care what age you are. I 497 00:23:38,480 --> 00:23:43,280 Speaker 1: got my second divorce at what was I forty? Was 498 00:23:43,320 --> 00:23:46,480 Speaker 1: I forty? Yeah, it's been three It's been three years, 499 00:23:47,240 --> 00:23:50,359 Speaker 1: So it's like I was scared to death to have to, 500 00:23:50,480 --> 00:23:53,880 Speaker 1: you know, fail again. I was like, oh, but nothing 501 00:23:53,920 --> 00:23:56,800 Speaker 1: could have kept me in a situation that didn't make 502 00:23:56,840 --> 00:23:58,000 Speaker 1: me happy at the end of the day. 503 00:23:58,080 --> 00:23:59,800 Speaker 2: So you have to put yourself first. 504 00:23:59,840 --> 00:24:03,119 Speaker 1: But at least you owe it to that other person 505 00:24:03,240 --> 00:24:08,120 Speaker 1: to exhaust the options and really see where you guys 506 00:24:08,119 --> 00:24:10,000 Speaker 1: are both at, because you did make a commitment, and 507 00:24:10,040 --> 00:24:12,199 Speaker 1: I'm not even though I've had two divorces, I'm a 508 00:24:12,200 --> 00:24:15,480 Speaker 1: big believer of like, you made a commitment. But at 509 00:24:15,480 --> 00:24:17,440 Speaker 1: the end of the day, if you've kind of exhausted 510 00:24:17,480 --> 00:24:19,840 Speaker 1: all things to fix it, then you have every right 511 00:24:19,920 --> 00:24:21,440 Speaker 1: to live your own life and walk away. 512 00:24:21,480 --> 00:24:25,080 Speaker 2: But I hope that helps. Please let us know, like 513 00:24:25,200 --> 00:24:30,800 Speaker 2: what's going on if you can. But on the bright side, 514 00:24:30,960 --> 00:24:35,240 Speaker 2: it's really great you're recognizing this and not suppressing it. Yep, 515 00:24:36,119 --> 00:24:36,639 Speaker 2: it's scary. 516 00:24:36,640 --> 00:24:41,320 Speaker 1: It's scary, but your girlfriend life is too short. But 517 00:24:41,600 --> 00:24:44,160 Speaker 1: just remember that. I just I always remember. I kept 518 00:24:44,200 --> 00:24:47,000 Speaker 1: asking myself this question, is my life better with this 519 00:24:47,040 --> 00:24:50,000 Speaker 1: person or without it? And if it's very obvious, it's 520 00:24:50,000 --> 00:24:51,000 Speaker 1: better without the person? 521 00:24:53,160 --> 00:24:54,440 Speaker 2: Bye bye God. 522 00:24:54,800 --> 00:24:57,640 Speaker 1: Coming up on the Big Show, we got a lot 523 00:24:57,640 --> 00:24:59,480 Speaker 1: of fun things to talk about. The season is right 524 00:24:59,520 --> 00:25:02,199 Speaker 1: around the corner. We've just sort of ran through right 525 00:25:02,240 --> 00:25:04,400 Speaker 1: here and discussed a little bit. Also, Aarin has her 526 00:25:04,440 --> 00:25:06,800 Speaker 1: incredible new line. Here's a little preview for those that 527 00:25:06,880 --> 00:25:08,600 Speaker 1: can see her WWE line. 528 00:25:08,840 --> 00:25:11,359 Speaker 2: I'm going to take you chopping with me for a 529 00:25:11,400 --> 00:25:13,560 Speaker 2: little bit on the Biggest Show. I love it. 530 00:25:13,600 --> 00:25:16,120 Speaker 1: We're gonna do a little shopping where by Aaron Andrews. 531 00:25:16,119 --> 00:25:16,800 Speaker 2: Some fun there. 532 00:25:16,840 --> 00:25:21,800 Speaker 1: We've got some fun headlines, and I am worried that 533 00:25:21,880 --> 00:25:24,120 Speaker 1: something's gonna go wrong because everything in my life right 534 00:25:24,160 --> 00:25:25,960 Speaker 1: now is great. So join us on. 535 00:25:26,000 --> 00:25:30,560 Speaker 2: The Big Show. 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