1 00:00:00,760 --> 00:00:03,800 Speaker 1: This is the Ben and Ashley I Almost Famous podcast 2 00:00:03,840 --> 00:00:04,640 Speaker 1: with iHeartRadio. 3 00:00:05,760 --> 00:00:08,240 Speaker 2: Welcome back to the Almost Famous podcast. My name is 4 00:00:08,320 --> 00:00:10,840 Speaker 2: Kaylin Bell, and I am jumping in here to take over. 5 00:00:11,280 --> 00:00:14,080 Speaker 2: We're in the beautiful Carmel, California for the annual Almost 6 00:00:14,080 --> 00:00:17,400 Speaker 2: Famous golf trip, one of my favorite trips of the year. Today, 7 00:00:17,480 --> 00:00:19,720 Speaker 2: I am joined by some of our Bachelor Nation favorites. 8 00:00:19,760 --> 00:00:24,360 Speaker 2: I've got Katie Bigger, Ann Golden's, Kathy Schwartz and Cindy Colors. 9 00:00:24,440 --> 00:00:26,600 Speaker 3: I'm so excited to be joined by you guys today. 10 00:00:27,200 --> 00:00:30,640 Speaker 4: Thanks for having that amazing Yeah, I'm glowed you didn't 11 00:00:30,680 --> 00:00:31,560 Speaker 4: say warts. 12 00:00:35,120 --> 00:00:38,760 Speaker 5: Straws backwards. I was waiting. 13 00:00:40,479 --> 00:00:43,120 Speaker 3: I'm excited. I've been here with you before, Kathy. Have 14 00:00:43,200 --> 00:00:45,120 Speaker 3: you guys been to Carmel before Katie and Cindy? 15 00:00:45,240 --> 00:00:47,120 Speaker 4: Yes, Actually, Zach and I took a trip up here 16 00:00:47,159 --> 00:00:49,479 Speaker 4: two years ago because I really wanted to come up here, 17 00:00:49,479 --> 00:00:52,000 Speaker 4: but the weather wasn't great. So I'm happy to be back. 18 00:00:52,159 --> 00:00:55,920 Speaker 5: Yeah. Today's fabulous thunderstorms and wind. Yeah, just like what 19 00:00:56,000 --> 00:00:57,000 Speaker 5: it was lost here. 20 00:00:59,160 --> 00:01:03,760 Speaker 2: I think Moses entering the room potentially. And today we're 21 00:01:03,840 --> 00:01:08,639 Speaker 2: celebrating Valentine's Day. Valentine's day, all of the fun things. 22 00:01:09,319 --> 00:01:11,240 Speaker 2: This is your first Valentine's Day being married. 23 00:01:14,120 --> 00:01:17,120 Speaker 4: I didn't even realize that. Yes it is, because every 24 00:01:17,200 --> 00:01:18,400 Speaker 4: day feels like Valentine's. 25 00:01:19,280 --> 00:01:22,000 Speaker 6: Man, it was so cute. He just left a minute ago. 26 00:01:22,040 --> 00:01:25,240 Speaker 6: You're like, bye, babe, yeah, blowing him. Oh I got 27 00:01:25,280 --> 00:01:27,760 Speaker 6: a cab so much it's crazy. 28 00:01:28,040 --> 00:01:32,760 Speaker 3: Wait, okay, so you just got married this summer or wait. 29 00:01:33,080 --> 00:01:33,520 Speaker 4: Last May? 30 00:01:33,720 --> 00:01:36,120 Speaker 5: Last May? Yeah, coming up on a year, so. 31 00:01:36,200 --> 00:01:39,040 Speaker 2: You okay yeah yeah, but then the celebration was this 32 00:01:39,360 --> 00:01:40,640 Speaker 2: summer fall November? 33 00:01:40,680 --> 00:01:40,760 Speaker 1: Ye? 34 00:01:41,080 --> 00:01:43,440 Speaker 4: Yes, yes, yeah, we did the big celebration in November, 35 00:01:43,440 --> 00:01:44,320 Speaker 4: which was a lot of fun. 36 00:01:44,520 --> 00:01:47,880 Speaker 5: I was there. Can I just tell you you make 37 00:01:48,120 --> 00:01:51,600 Speaker 5: a gorgeous bride the first time, and at your reception 38 00:01:51,640 --> 00:01:54,200 Speaker 5: the second unbelievautiful, so beautiful. 39 00:01:54,320 --> 00:01:56,920 Speaker 2: Yes you do you have any big plans for the 40 00:01:56,960 --> 00:01:59,000 Speaker 2: first Valentine's Day of being married. 41 00:02:01,840 --> 00:02:05,920 Speaker 4: We're going to a steakhouse the day before. Actually we 42 00:02:05,960 --> 00:02:08,280 Speaker 4: have to cancel that because we're we're not even gonna 43 00:02:08,280 --> 00:02:11,560 Speaker 4: make it. We're here because this was so last minute. 44 00:02:11,560 --> 00:02:14,160 Speaker 4: But yeah, so we're actually going to a comedy show 45 00:02:14,240 --> 00:02:18,160 Speaker 4: with our friends. Wait, that's so fun, yeah, fun, Yeah. 46 00:02:17,919 --> 00:02:20,480 Speaker 5: I think I like that. We had a comedy show 47 00:02:20,480 --> 00:02:24,440 Speaker 5: on Valentine's Day. That's so somehow that's poetic justice that 48 00:02:25,280 --> 00:02:28,119 Speaker 5: for us it would be Yeah, I think it's fun. 49 00:02:28,120 --> 00:02:30,040 Speaker 4: We're actually going to the Comedy Brothership, which is a 50 00:02:30,200 --> 00:02:34,200 Speaker 4: huge comedy venue in Austin. So and I have wanted 51 00:02:34,200 --> 00:02:36,079 Speaker 4: to go to a comedy show for a long time. 52 00:02:36,160 --> 00:02:38,760 Speaker 4: I love laughing. Who doesn't, So yeah, We're going to 53 00:02:38,840 --> 00:02:40,600 Speaker 4: do that, and Zach and I'll probably get drinks like 54 00:02:40,760 --> 00:02:44,600 Speaker 4: just ourselves before. But yeah, fun. 55 00:02:44,800 --> 00:02:47,000 Speaker 2: Yeah, So we have two married ladies, two single ladies. 56 00:02:47,000 --> 00:02:48,840 Speaker 2: What are you guys doing for Valentine's Day? 57 00:02:49,040 --> 00:02:52,239 Speaker 5: Well, I am going to my daughter and son in 58 00:02:52,320 --> 00:02:55,800 Speaker 5: law could not get a reservation for Valentine's Night, so 59 00:02:55,800 --> 00:02:59,239 Speaker 5: they're going out Valentine's afternoon. So I'm babysitting for my granddaughter. 60 00:02:59,639 --> 00:03:02,880 Speaker 5: Fun and then Cindy and I what are we doing? Cindy, 61 00:03:03,080 --> 00:03:05,600 Speaker 5: So I will be traveling back from Denver. I have 62 00:03:05,639 --> 00:03:08,240 Speaker 5: a Gallantine's event on Friday, so I'll be traveling back 63 00:03:08,280 --> 00:03:10,480 Speaker 5: and then when I get back, hopefully Kathy will be 64 00:03:10,520 --> 00:03:12,880 Speaker 5: done with the grandkids. We're gonna grab a quick dinner 65 00:03:12,919 --> 00:03:16,120 Speaker 5: and go to a concert at acl which is in 66 00:03:16,160 --> 00:03:16,560 Speaker 5: my building. 67 00:03:17,000 --> 00:03:20,760 Speaker 7: That's so far with a concert and the Midnight Orchestra. 68 00:03:21,000 --> 00:03:25,000 Speaker 7: Have you ever seen Bob Schneider original icon? Well, thanks 69 00:03:25,040 --> 00:03:27,000 Speaker 7: for them, Bob, You're welcome. 70 00:03:27,080 --> 00:03:29,200 Speaker 5: Actually you're going to you're right down the street. 71 00:03:30,200 --> 00:03:30,640 Speaker 3: Let us know. 72 00:03:33,240 --> 00:03:35,440 Speaker 2: And you guys knew each other prior to the show, 73 00:03:35,520 --> 00:03:37,440 Speaker 2: or you met you just lived in the same town 74 00:03:37,480 --> 00:03:38,160 Speaker 2: and met after. 75 00:03:38,360 --> 00:03:41,240 Speaker 5: So we actually said we lived in the same zip code, 76 00:03:41,240 --> 00:03:44,200 Speaker 5: not even the same town until she moved downtown. But 77 00:03:44,240 --> 00:03:45,840 Speaker 5: we did not know each other till she was on 78 00:03:45,880 --> 00:03:47,720 Speaker 5: the show. Now we have some mutual friends. 79 00:03:48,400 --> 00:03:50,880 Speaker 6: But the first time I met Kathy was at the 80 00:03:50,920 --> 00:03:52,360 Speaker 6: pajama party on the show. 81 00:03:52,560 --> 00:03:56,400 Speaker 5: Right, So Susan and I went out to uhlond mel 82 00:03:56,520 --> 00:03:58,720 Speaker 5: season we came out to do a pajama party with 83 00:03:58,760 --> 00:04:03,160 Speaker 5: the women. So yeah, that's wirst. It was aired, Yes 84 00:04:03,480 --> 00:04:06,480 Speaker 5: the Sun thanks for catching gave away that. 85 00:04:06,440 --> 00:04:13,960 Speaker 4: I did not watch me you want so exciting. 86 00:04:16,760 --> 00:04:18,800 Speaker 3: I also didn't. But maybe I don't know. 87 00:04:19,600 --> 00:04:25,040 Speaker 4: Maybe we're back. Everybody for Taylor Freaky Paul, Bachelor and 88 00:04:25,560 --> 00:04:27,159 Speaker 4: The Bachelor. 89 00:04:27,520 --> 00:04:29,440 Speaker 5: You know, I have to say, I can't wait for that. 90 00:04:29,800 --> 00:04:31,760 Speaker 5: I mean it's gonna she has a Valentine too. 91 00:04:32,200 --> 00:04:33,120 Speaker 4: Who do you do? 92 00:04:33,279 --> 00:04:35,520 Speaker 5: Oh? I think she's engaged. I'm going out. I have 93 00:04:35,640 --> 00:04:38,360 Speaker 5: no I think she's engaged to I don't know anything. Really, 94 00:04:38,480 --> 00:04:39,160 Speaker 5: I think she is. 95 00:04:39,320 --> 00:04:40,720 Speaker 3: You don't think so, kindad not? 96 00:04:42,160 --> 00:04:42,600 Speaker 5: I think so? 97 00:04:43,360 --> 00:04:46,280 Speaker 4: Really? Now, if it will it? Will it last? That's 98 00:04:46,279 --> 00:04:46,880 Speaker 4: the question? 99 00:04:47,520 --> 00:04:49,760 Speaker 5: You know what If it doesn't? And he likes older women, 100 00:04:49,839 --> 00:04:50,360 Speaker 5: I'm in. 101 00:04:53,360 --> 00:04:54,480 Speaker 4: Like, I'll take your seconds. 102 00:04:54,760 --> 00:04:56,640 Speaker 3: We're on the prowl and Carmel for you guys to find. 103 00:04:56,760 --> 00:04:59,920 Speaker 5: Yes. Please, you know I always on the prowl with cat. 104 00:05:00,720 --> 00:05:03,920 Speaker 5: You need to come on. 105 00:05:04,000 --> 00:05:04,800 Speaker 3: Tomorrow's our day. 106 00:05:04,920 --> 00:05:08,680 Speaker 5: Even today, I am manifesting love. 107 00:05:08,920 --> 00:05:10,680 Speaker 2: It's going to happen. It's going to happen, are you 108 00:05:10,720 --> 00:05:12,039 Speaker 2: guys big Galentine's people? 109 00:05:13,400 --> 00:05:16,240 Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean since moving to Texas, obviously, I'm still 110 00:05:16,240 --> 00:05:19,200 Speaker 4: trying to like build my my friend group in my community. 111 00:05:19,320 --> 00:05:23,719 Speaker 4: But there is actually a Galentine's Day tonight. Oh I'm here, 112 00:05:23,839 --> 00:05:25,799 Speaker 4: So you guys are my gallant on a Wednesday? 113 00:05:25,920 --> 00:05:26,280 Speaker 7: Yeah? 114 00:05:26,520 --> 00:05:27,760 Speaker 3: Random? Huh? 115 00:05:28,200 --> 00:05:31,360 Speaker 2: All my girlfriends in Colorado are celebrating on Valentine's Day 116 00:05:31,360 --> 00:05:35,360 Speaker 2: because nobody's partner planned anything, which is kind of telling. 117 00:05:35,640 --> 00:05:37,120 Speaker 2: So we're all doing like a brunch. 118 00:05:37,440 --> 00:05:40,280 Speaker 5: Okay, but wait, can let me ask you a question here? 119 00:05:40,839 --> 00:05:43,600 Speaker 5: I am. I am not a Hallmark girl like I 120 00:05:44,360 --> 00:05:46,680 Speaker 5: I believe and I'm you're gonna laugh, but I mean this. 121 00:05:47,120 --> 00:05:51,520 Speaker 5: But if you're in love, every day should be Valentine's Day. 122 00:05:51,600 --> 00:05:54,479 Speaker 5: That's what you're saying, kating every day should you should 123 00:05:54,520 --> 00:05:58,120 Speaker 5: be expressing your love for each other. And so yeah, 124 00:05:58,240 --> 00:06:00,760 Speaker 5: you know, like my husband used to, I told him 125 00:06:00,760 --> 00:06:02,360 Speaker 5: I'd kill him if, you know, he gave me flowers 126 00:06:02,400 --> 00:06:04,800 Speaker 5: or candy because like be creative, and he did. He 127 00:06:04,839 --> 00:06:07,080 Speaker 5: would give me some fun gifts. But the point of 128 00:06:07,200 --> 00:06:11,760 Speaker 5: Valentine's Day, I think is like, you know, it's just 129 00:06:11,920 --> 00:06:14,760 Speaker 5: to pick a day and remember, but it's really about 130 00:06:14,960 --> 00:06:16,279 Speaker 5: I think it's a commercial holiday. 131 00:06:16,400 --> 00:06:18,520 Speaker 2: Yeah, I agree, and I think it's fun to just 132 00:06:19,120 --> 00:06:23,159 Speaker 2: really celebrate your girlfriends and like your love girlfriends. Dean 133 00:06:23,200 --> 00:06:25,520 Speaker 2: and I are kind of anti Valentine's Day just because 134 00:06:26,320 --> 00:06:30,520 Speaker 2: the like cover charges are so high, premium plates and. 135 00:06:31,200 --> 00:06:33,760 Speaker 4: So we're not even fun. Not to interrupt you, but 136 00:06:33,800 --> 00:06:35,520 Speaker 4: it's not even fun. Like if you go to a restaurant, 137 00:06:35,520 --> 00:06:37,320 Speaker 4: it literally looks like speed dating. 138 00:06:37,800 --> 00:06:41,200 Speaker 5: Yes, yes, yeah, and by the way, your table's up 139 00:06:41,200 --> 00:06:42,400 Speaker 5: in an hour and a half, so get up. 140 00:06:42,920 --> 00:06:43,760 Speaker 4: Yeah, exactly. 141 00:06:44,520 --> 00:06:45,640 Speaker 5: You love each other and then get out. 142 00:06:45,640 --> 00:06:49,320 Speaker 6: We have another couple of twice surprised the same flowers 143 00:06:49,480 --> 00:06:50,560 Speaker 6: were there yesterday. 144 00:06:51,080 --> 00:06:51,840 Speaker 3: Would be really anti. 145 00:06:51,920 --> 00:06:55,359 Speaker 5: Yeah, that's true. And flowers. You are right, Cindy flowers. 146 00:06:55,480 --> 00:06:59,440 Speaker 5: It's like weddings and funerals. Valentine's Day, A six dollars 147 00:06:59,440 --> 00:07:02,119 Speaker 5: tulip all of a sudden turns into a thirty dollars rose. 148 00:07:02,200 --> 00:07:03,720 Speaker 4: I mean it, sin, it's going to die in a week. 149 00:07:04,440 --> 00:07:05,520 Speaker 5: I feel lucky. Yeah. 150 00:07:05,520 --> 00:07:09,120 Speaker 6: Now I have Valentines with my kids. That's three daughters, 151 00:07:09,120 --> 00:07:11,720 Speaker 6: so sweet and so since they were little, we would 152 00:07:11,720 --> 00:07:15,120 Speaker 6: do Valentine's things, like starting in February first until Valentine's 153 00:07:15,160 --> 00:07:18,720 Speaker 6: I would do little hearts and punch a hole through 154 00:07:18,720 --> 00:07:20,800 Speaker 6: it and hang them from a chandelier above our table. 155 00:07:21,200 --> 00:07:23,800 Speaker 6: And anything that they did something kind or nice. From 156 00:07:23,840 --> 00:07:26,080 Speaker 6: then until Valentine's I'd write their name on the front 157 00:07:26,120 --> 00:07:28,840 Speaker 6: and on the back wrote what they did, like you, 158 00:07:29,000 --> 00:07:31,160 Speaker 6: I saw you being kind to so and so you 159 00:07:31,160 --> 00:07:31,720 Speaker 6: helped take the. 160 00:07:31,680 --> 00:07:34,520 Speaker 5: Trash out for dad or whatever. It was really cute. 161 00:07:34,520 --> 00:07:36,480 Speaker 6: And then at the end of the season you could 162 00:07:36,520 --> 00:07:39,280 Speaker 6: wrap them together and they fold up to nothing and 163 00:07:39,320 --> 00:07:39,800 Speaker 6: save them. 164 00:07:40,760 --> 00:07:43,840 Speaker 5: That can I just say, if you talk to my mom. 165 00:07:45,360 --> 00:07:48,560 Speaker 5: It sounds like that's the Santa Claus of Valentine's Day. 166 00:07:48,760 --> 00:07:51,280 Speaker 5: You got five hearts, you only got to you get nothing. 167 00:07:51,320 --> 00:07:53,120 Speaker 6: Oh no, it was so cute because my older two 168 00:07:53,320 --> 00:07:55,080 Speaker 6: or there are two and a half years older than 169 00:07:55,280 --> 00:07:57,760 Speaker 6: the younger one, and so when the younger one couldn't read, 170 00:07:57,840 --> 00:08:00,000 Speaker 6: she'd come downstairs for breakfast, and the older two would 171 00:08:00,120 --> 00:08:02,880 Speaker 6: check out the new hearts. Caroline, Caroline, you got a 172 00:08:02,920 --> 00:08:05,320 Speaker 6: new heart. It says that you were kind to Ariana 173 00:08:05,440 --> 00:08:06,640 Speaker 6: on the playgrounds. 174 00:08:07,240 --> 00:08:10,520 Speaker 5: We're so proud of you. The elf on the shelf, 175 00:08:10,920 --> 00:08:12,000 Speaker 5: the heart on the chandelier. 176 00:08:12,600 --> 00:08:13,960 Speaker 4: I have. 177 00:08:14,120 --> 00:08:16,520 Speaker 5: I'm the only when he has grandkids, and I always 178 00:08:16,600 --> 00:08:20,000 Speaker 5: get my granddaughters. I always I have two, and then 179 00:08:20,040 --> 00:08:23,360 Speaker 5: I have three grandsons. But the girls, I always get 180 00:08:23,360 --> 00:08:28,200 Speaker 5: a little gift and I get a card for them, 181 00:08:28,440 --> 00:08:30,840 Speaker 5: and they always make me at Valentine It's just but again, 182 00:08:31,160 --> 00:08:32,920 Speaker 5: I don't make a big deal of it that day 183 00:08:32,960 --> 00:08:35,360 Speaker 5: because they know how much I love them. I get 184 00:08:35,400 --> 00:08:38,360 Speaker 5: my daughter a gift. I guess I'm being sexist here 185 00:08:38,400 --> 00:08:40,000 Speaker 5: because I don't get my boy. I have two sons. 186 00:08:40,280 --> 00:08:42,160 Speaker 5: I don't get that. I mean, I love them to pieces, 187 00:08:42,200 --> 00:08:44,920 Speaker 5: but my daughter I just wait. This is another thing 188 00:08:44,960 --> 00:08:49,360 Speaker 5: you guys should do when you have kids. Just listen 189 00:08:49,480 --> 00:08:52,400 Speaker 5: during the year to things that they say they want. 190 00:08:53,160 --> 00:08:56,000 Speaker 5: I keep a running list. So like my daughter, she 191 00:08:56,080 --> 00:08:57,960 Speaker 5: just she won't be listening to this. She's too busy 192 00:08:58,400 --> 00:09:04,520 Speaker 5: catching up on the Housewives of somewhere. But she she 193 00:09:04,760 --> 00:09:07,960 Speaker 5: found this body cream perfume that she really loved from 194 00:09:08,000 --> 00:09:11,560 Speaker 5: some hotels she stayed in, actually in California somewhere, so 195 00:09:11,840 --> 00:09:15,200 Speaker 5: oh no, it's in Montreal. So I called and I 196 00:09:15,360 --> 00:09:17,880 Speaker 5: got them to send me the perfume that matches the 197 00:09:17,880 --> 00:09:19,960 Speaker 5: body cream. That's gonna be her. 198 00:09:20,000 --> 00:09:23,360 Speaker 4: Valentine's Day so meaningful on so many different levels, just 199 00:09:23,400 --> 00:09:27,120 Speaker 4: showing you I heard that you listen, you pay attention 200 00:09:27,280 --> 00:09:28,640 Speaker 4: like that means so much. 201 00:09:28,840 --> 00:09:29,040 Speaker 7: Yeah. 202 00:09:29,200 --> 00:09:31,360 Speaker 2: Yeah, I feel like it is just like the girls 203 00:09:31,400 --> 00:09:33,960 Speaker 2: holiday because growing up, there's something about pink and red 204 00:09:33,960 --> 00:09:35,200 Speaker 2: that just makes me so happy. 205 00:09:35,200 --> 00:09:36,640 Speaker 3: And growing up I loved. 206 00:09:36,720 --> 00:09:39,840 Speaker 2: Valentine's Day, and now as a married person, it's like 207 00:09:40,120 --> 00:09:43,559 Speaker 2: it is romantic and sweet. But I agree it should 208 00:09:43,600 --> 00:09:44,440 Speaker 2: always be celebrated. 209 00:09:44,559 --> 00:09:47,520 Speaker 5: But if you've been married Calen two years, oh two years? 210 00:09:47,600 --> 00:09:50,920 Speaker 4: Yeah, we have been like six or seven, okay, because yeah, 211 00:09:50,960 --> 00:09:52,200 Speaker 4: you guys have been together for a while. 212 00:09:52,280 --> 00:09:54,400 Speaker 3: Yeah, but spark is still alive. 213 00:09:56,240 --> 00:09:59,679 Speaker 5: I mean people who say I'm just I just need 214 00:09:59,679 --> 00:10:02,839 Speaker 5: to point out here first runner up, Okay you didn't 215 00:10:02,960 --> 00:10:05,160 Speaker 5: you know, you walked away, but still you you got 216 00:10:05,240 --> 00:10:08,720 Speaker 5: almost got there? You too. You You met on Batchelor 217 00:10:08,800 --> 00:10:11,640 Speaker 5: and you met on Paraise And that just tells me 218 00:10:11,679 --> 00:10:14,000 Speaker 5: that you know you can find love anywhere. And I 219 00:10:14,040 --> 00:10:15,760 Speaker 5: mean that seriously. Yeah you can. 220 00:10:16,280 --> 00:10:18,480 Speaker 3: Yeah, li In Carmel. 221 00:10:19,200 --> 00:10:21,800 Speaker 5: This in fact, I hate to leave. I have I 222 00:10:21,840 --> 00:10:25,640 Speaker 5: have a guy waiting for me. Just line up dates. 223 00:10:25,840 --> 00:10:26,960 Speaker 5: Just kidding, not kidding. 224 00:10:28,520 --> 00:10:29,360 Speaker 3: Have you guys tried dating? 225 00:10:29,360 --> 00:10:29,520 Speaker 6: As? 226 00:10:29,520 --> 00:10:34,280 Speaker 3: How do you feel about dating? 227 00:10:30,360 --> 00:10:30,520 Speaker 2: Oh? 228 00:10:35,880 --> 00:10:36,760 Speaker 5: Oh, we had some fun. 229 00:10:36,800 --> 00:10:38,880 Speaker 6: We were on the plane on the way out yesterday 230 00:10:39,040 --> 00:10:43,160 Speaker 6: and Kathy was going through her portfolio on the dating app. 231 00:10:43,080 --> 00:10:43,959 Speaker 4: Kuwie, what app are you? 232 00:10:44,320 --> 00:10:48,640 Speaker 5: I'm here, I'm sorry, I am my daughter. There may 233 00:10:48,679 --> 00:10:51,480 Speaker 5: have been some alcohol involved. My daughter and I were 234 00:10:51,480 --> 00:10:54,640 Speaker 5: hanging out and she said, Mom, you're so fun, You're beautiful. 235 00:10:54,640 --> 00:10:57,640 Speaker 5: You need It's like Caitlin, I'm not doing it anyway, 236 00:10:58,480 --> 00:11:01,320 Speaker 5: put me in another drink. All of a sudden, I'm sometimes 237 00:11:01,360 --> 00:11:03,760 Speaker 5: you need to push Yeah, can I just tell you 238 00:11:05,400 --> 00:11:07,280 Speaker 5: I would let Cindy tell you because she see the 239 00:11:07,320 --> 00:11:11,040 Speaker 5: first hand. Go not all of them had teeth? 240 00:11:11,280 --> 00:11:15,000 Speaker 3: Oh what apper you want? 241 00:11:15,080 --> 00:11:18,280 Speaker 6: It does no matter what people that this app believes 242 00:11:18,320 --> 00:11:21,240 Speaker 6: would be Kathy would be interested in is horrific. First 243 00:11:21,240 --> 00:11:23,160 Speaker 6: of all, we need to have like a whole program 244 00:11:23,200 --> 00:11:25,000 Speaker 6: on how to put together a profile. 245 00:11:25,160 --> 00:11:25,640 Speaker 5: We've talked. 246 00:11:25,960 --> 00:11:28,280 Speaker 4: Oh, I think they would put their teeth in before. 247 00:11:31,120 --> 00:11:34,000 Speaker 5: Some of the pictures are like from like they couldn't 248 00:11:34,040 --> 00:11:38,920 Speaker 5: even the frame that the lighting is terrible, taking off 249 00:11:38,920 --> 00:11:41,320 Speaker 5: their shirt like after sixty please don't take off your 250 00:11:41,320 --> 00:11:45,880 Speaker 5: shirt shirtless shirtless picks shirt. Oh yeah, yes, and you 251 00:11:46,040 --> 00:11:48,839 Speaker 5: pull this up and I need to see it is 252 00:11:48,880 --> 00:11:49,520 Speaker 5: a good laugh. 253 00:11:49,640 --> 00:11:52,280 Speaker 6: You don't need a comedy show. 254 00:11:52,360 --> 00:11:54,360 Speaker 5: She did not believe it. She said, oh, come on, 255 00:11:54,400 --> 00:11:59,440 Speaker 5: I can't be that bad. Literally, she is, no, literally, 256 00:11:59,480 --> 00:12:00,480 Speaker 5: we need to pull this up. 257 00:12:11,280 --> 00:12:13,679 Speaker 3: Okay, so Kathy has her dating profile pulled up. 258 00:12:13,880 --> 00:12:15,880 Speaker 5: Now this guy, the first guy that comes up, he 259 00:12:15,960 --> 00:12:17,960 Speaker 5: is a fake. I'm an expert at this. That is 260 00:12:17,960 --> 00:12:21,079 Speaker 5: not a real man. Because he's good looking, he's a fake. 261 00:12:21,559 --> 00:12:25,480 Speaker 5: Do you know, because trust me, let me tell you 262 00:12:25,559 --> 00:12:27,520 Speaker 5: I know, because you know I was in the FBI 263 00:12:27,679 --> 00:12:34,040 Speaker 5: last week. This guy when their pictures are out of focus. 264 00:12:34,080 --> 00:12:36,800 Speaker 5: What they do is they lift pictures from the Internet, 265 00:12:36,840 --> 00:12:39,080 Speaker 5: and of course the resolution is not great. So this 266 00:12:39,160 --> 00:12:41,120 Speaker 5: picture is out of focus. So this guy's a fake. 267 00:12:41,400 --> 00:12:43,480 Speaker 4: Wait, but if you match them, don't really know? 268 00:12:43,760 --> 00:12:47,880 Speaker 5: No, Yes, yesterday, yesterday I said, this guy's a fake, 269 00:12:48,640 --> 00:12:50,160 Speaker 5: but I'm going to match him, just to shay how 270 00:12:50,160 --> 00:12:52,680 Speaker 5: this works. And so sure enough I match with him 271 00:12:53,000 --> 00:12:56,040 Speaker 5: and he writes, Hey, you know, Kathy, how is fake? 272 00:12:56,280 --> 00:12:59,480 Speaker 5: I promise you he's a fake. Well up, now go 273 00:12:59,520 --> 00:13:04,160 Speaker 5: down to Yeah, okay, now go to the profile of him. Yeah, 274 00:13:04,320 --> 00:13:07,640 Speaker 5: of him? Oh wait, wait he likes me? Yeah, look 275 00:13:07,720 --> 00:13:11,359 Speaker 5: at that. I just saying, what would you? 276 00:13:11,400 --> 00:13:15,000 Speaker 4: No regrets? Fifty not even one lesson? 277 00:13:15,360 --> 00:13:15,839 Speaker 5: No regret. 278 00:13:16,040 --> 00:13:16,280 Speaker 2: Wait? 279 00:13:16,480 --> 00:13:18,679 Speaker 5: Wait, then I had the guy Wait there, we had 280 00:13:18,679 --> 00:13:22,760 Speaker 5: the guy here? Literally, who's Dennis who wears a headband 281 00:13:22,800 --> 00:13:26,200 Speaker 5: that says Spartan and he's fifty eight years old and 282 00:13:26,200 --> 00:13:28,839 Speaker 5: he super liked me, which means apparently I'm fabulous. 283 00:13:29,040 --> 00:13:29,800 Speaker 3: Do you have to pay for that? 284 00:13:29,880 --> 00:13:32,080 Speaker 5: Yes? I think it's extra. I killed my I called 285 00:13:32,120 --> 00:13:33,720 Speaker 5: my daughter the next morning. I said, you cost me 286 00:13:33,800 --> 00:13:37,280 Speaker 5: forty dollars and I canceled it. Literally, but unfortunately you 287 00:13:37,280 --> 00:13:39,480 Speaker 5: have it. Wait I want you to see old Dennis 288 00:13:39,520 --> 00:13:43,920 Speaker 5: here is fifty eight years old. She literally sent me 289 00:13:43,960 --> 00:13:47,360 Speaker 5: a super like and then literally half an hour after 290 00:13:47,400 --> 00:13:50,120 Speaker 5: he super liked me, he goes, hi, Okay, well, thanks 291 00:13:50,160 --> 00:13:56,079 Speaker 5: for not saying anything thirty minutes. For thirty minutes, I'm sorry. No, 292 00:13:56,920 --> 00:13:59,839 Speaker 5: let me show you this man. No, no, no, odd. 293 00:14:00,280 --> 00:14:03,079 Speaker 6: Then there's some fifty six year old, never trusted six 294 00:14:03,120 --> 00:14:05,319 Speaker 6: year old. Is this for like an outlier? I can 295 00:14:05,400 --> 00:14:08,360 Speaker 6: understand it. This is this is really the standard. It's 296 00:14:08,360 --> 00:14:09,120 Speaker 6: not an outlier. 297 00:14:09,400 --> 00:14:13,839 Speaker 5: Yeah, it's there there. I can't even tell you. Oh, 298 00:14:14,080 --> 00:14:16,160 Speaker 5: look at this guy. Look at this guy. Look at 299 00:14:16,160 --> 00:14:19,200 Speaker 5: his teeth. Just check out those teeth, like I wouldn't 300 00:14:19,200 --> 00:14:24,560 Speaker 5: want him near me, Like, no, no, can I see this? 301 00:14:25,440 --> 00:14:27,400 Speaker 4: Let me see that. Oh those are veneers? For sure? 302 00:14:27,760 --> 00:14:32,640 Speaker 5: Veneers? He needs a refund? That is those are veneers? 303 00:14:32,680 --> 00:14:36,040 Speaker 5: Oh for sure. Anyway, the guys are I had one 304 00:14:36,080 --> 00:14:39,400 Speaker 5: guy on there. There was a guy who wrote me 305 00:14:39,440 --> 00:14:43,840 Speaker 5: a novella about his legend, the guy last night. Yeah, 306 00:14:43,840 --> 00:14:46,800 Speaker 5: the super insolent. Okay, wait then guy with nothing, Yeah, 307 00:14:46,960 --> 00:14:50,520 Speaker 5: here's here's they've completely lost it here. 308 00:14:50,760 --> 00:14:53,320 Speaker 3: Okay, this guy's cute at going three went three? 309 00:14:53,880 --> 00:14:58,720 Speaker 6: Yeah, let me say, why are you trying to hide 310 00:14:58,720 --> 00:14:59,040 Speaker 6: your name? 311 00:14:59,120 --> 00:15:03,520 Speaker 5: Oh no, he's not. He's the app is. Can I 312 00:15:03,520 --> 00:15:05,600 Speaker 5: show you the app is? I was on hints before 313 00:15:05,600 --> 00:15:08,280 Speaker 5: that was miserable too. The app is our time, and 314 00:15:08,320 --> 00:15:10,120 Speaker 5: I can assure you it is not my time nor 315 00:15:10,200 --> 00:15:14,760 Speaker 5: their time. But wait, the guy yesterday, I said, he's 316 00:15:14,800 --> 00:15:17,120 Speaker 5: a fake, and she said me, goes, how do you know? 317 00:15:17,120 --> 00:15:19,200 Speaker 5: I said, I'm going to show you, and so I 318 00:15:19,360 --> 00:15:22,640 Speaker 5: matched with him two minutes later, Hi, how are you doing? 319 00:15:22,680 --> 00:15:26,000 Speaker 5: You're so beautifully whatever? You know, sure file and your 320 00:15:26,040 --> 00:15:28,120 Speaker 5: grandfather doesn't have much any My profile is nothing. But 321 00:15:28,200 --> 00:15:30,960 Speaker 5: he wrote, hey, gorgeous. I loved your private profile. You're 322 00:15:31,040 --> 00:15:33,120 Speaker 5: so unique. And I thought, nope, because that's not my 323 00:15:33,160 --> 00:15:36,280 Speaker 5: profile you're looking at. But it's a fake. So I said, 324 00:15:36,360 --> 00:15:37,960 Speaker 5: so tell me a little bit about yourself. Where are 325 00:15:38,000 --> 00:15:40,560 Speaker 5: you from now? And his profile he says he's from 326 00:15:40,600 --> 00:15:44,080 Speaker 5: San Antonio, Texas. He said, well, right now, I'm in Austin. 327 00:15:44,080 --> 00:15:46,920 Speaker 5: I'm in Houston, Texas. Unfortunately for him, I lived in 328 00:15:46,960 --> 00:15:50,320 Speaker 5: Houston for twenty three years. So I said, oh, really, 329 00:15:50,800 --> 00:15:53,360 Speaker 5: I know Houston very well. What part well, First of all, 330 00:15:53,400 --> 00:15:55,000 Speaker 5: when asked him where he was, he had to go 331 00:15:55,040 --> 00:15:57,320 Speaker 5: research the map and he comes up with Houston, Texas. 332 00:15:57,600 --> 00:16:01,080 Speaker 5: Not thinking straight and then I said, oh, really I 333 00:16:01,120 --> 00:16:03,560 Speaker 5: know Houston. Where are you from? What part of Houston? 334 00:16:04,120 --> 00:16:09,160 Speaker 5: Dead silence because unfortunately you cannot google what area is? 335 00:16:09,200 --> 00:16:10,960 Speaker 5: You know, really, you know, he couldn't come up with this, 336 00:16:11,040 --> 00:16:15,320 Speaker 5: so he just he just faded away. Another guy liked 337 00:16:15,320 --> 00:16:17,320 Speaker 5: me and I had some fun with him, and when 338 00:16:17,320 --> 00:16:19,640 Speaker 5: I went to match him the apps that you she 339 00:16:19,760 --> 00:16:23,360 Speaker 5: want to match this accounties in Nigeria. I mean, it's 340 00:16:23,640 --> 00:16:26,680 Speaker 5: bad out there, so I'm going to go hang out 341 00:16:26,680 --> 00:16:27,600 Speaker 5: in the grocery store. 342 00:16:29,000 --> 00:16:30,040 Speaker 4: You need to get on like Riya. 343 00:16:30,960 --> 00:16:31,720 Speaker 5: They won't take me. 344 00:16:32,000 --> 00:16:32,200 Speaker 4: Yeah. 345 00:16:32,240 --> 00:16:34,280 Speaker 6: Well, so in Raya you get matched with people from 346 00:16:34,280 --> 00:16:37,680 Speaker 6: across the country. You know, it's just would I would 347 00:16:37,680 --> 00:16:40,440 Speaker 6: definitely move too, but it's just hard to start that 348 00:16:40,520 --> 00:16:42,760 Speaker 6: connection in those circumstances, Madre. 349 00:16:42,880 --> 00:16:45,680 Speaker 4: But you can like reduce your radius. So that is 350 00:16:46,000 --> 00:16:47,200 Speaker 4: just in like you can. 351 00:16:47,520 --> 00:16:50,040 Speaker 6: There's no one. 352 00:16:50,240 --> 00:16:52,440 Speaker 5: Listen that my trainer help it. You could help us, 353 00:16:52,600 --> 00:16:55,840 Speaker 5: my trainer, uh trains. The guy whose wife died, I'm 354 00:16:55,920 --> 00:16:58,320 Speaker 5: very sorry. It makes you rest in peace. However, I'm available. 355 00:16:59,160 --> 00:17:01,680 Speaker 5: She died of answer, but she was six for like 356 00:17:02,040 --> 00:17:06,359 Speaker 5: eight years and he is a very he lives like 357 00:17:07,359 --> 00:17:09,720 Speaker 5: not even mile from me, but I don't know him, 358 00:17:09,880 --> 00:17:11,560 Speaker 5: and so I'm trying to get my trainer introducing me 359 00:17:11,600 --> 00:17:13,800 Speaker 5: because I don't do that. I don't do that. I'm like, 360 00:17:14,280 --> 00:17:15,879 Speaker 5: and the guys got a home gym. I said, well, 361 00:17:15,880 --> 00:17:17,240 Speaker 5: why don't you ask him if I can just use 362 00:17:17,240 --> 00:17:22,320 Speaker 5: his home gym? Like that's not happening. I am, I'm trying. 363 00:17:22,560 --> 00:17:23,840 Speaker 3: Okay, this is so good. 364 00:17:23,840 --> 00:17:25,120 Speaker 2: I feel like you guys need to do an ad 365 00:17:25,160 --> 00:17:28,120 Speaker 2: with bumble or something to like, Yes, show show how. 366 00:17:29,080 --> 00:17:31,120 Speaker 5: Craved a mile down the street from me? You know that? 367 00:17:31,160 --> 00:17:32,960 Speaker 5: You know she went to where I went to school? 368 00:17:33,000 --> 00:17:35,560 Speaker 5: Do you know her? I watched her. I don't know where. 369 00:17:35,560 --> 00:17:39,280 Speaker 5: I know that she sold she sold it. That's a 370 00:17:39,320 --> 00:17:41,320 Speaker 5: good movie, you know. I'm telling you guys, it is 371 00:17:41,400 --> 00:17:44,800 Speaker 5: rough out there. It is. You think the serengetti is bad. 372 00:17:45,320 --> 00:17:49,520 Speaker 2: This is but maybe, yeah, your people aren't on dating apps. 373 00:17:49,680 --> 00:17:51,640 Speaker 2: I saw something recently where it was like this guy 374 00:17:51,720 --> 00:17:53,720 Speaker 2: was an Internet troll because he had no one in 375 00:17:53,760 --> 00:17:55,480 Speaker 2: his life. He was just so miserable, and then he 376 00:17:55,560 --> 00:17:58,320 Speaker 2: became an uber driver and like connected with people, found 377 00:17:58,359 --> 00:17:59,000 Speaker 2: purpose in his life. 378 00:17:59,000 --> 00:17:59,920 Speaker 3: So maybe these are just like. 379 00:18:00,359 --> 00:18:01,840 Speaker 5: Are you telling me to become an uber driver? 380 00:18:02,000 --> 00:18:05,639 Speaker 3: No, no driver, but just be out there. You know 381 00:18:05,840 --> 00:18:07,240 Speaker 3: in Carmel, in the town. 382 00:18:07,240 --> 00:18:09,760 Speaker 5: We're out, we go out. I We're out all the 383 00:18:09,840 --> 00:18:13,639 Speaker 5: time in Carmel. So we met some people at the 384 00:18:13,640 --> 00:18:18,040 Speaker 5: airport and they were like, oh, you know, there's lots 385 00:18:18,080 --> 00:18:20,240 Speaker 5: of people here. I literally said to her, do you 386 00:18:20,320 --> 00:18:24,680 Speaker 5: know anyone like I'm ruthless and I'm relentless. I will ask. 387 00:18:25,240 --> 00:18:27,520 Speaker 6: But she met someone at the Phoenix airport. She's like, 388 00:18:27,640 --> 00:18:30,280 Speaker 6: he was darling. He was absolutely precious. And she was like, 389 00:18:30,320 --> 00:18:31,960 Speaker 6: do you have a dad? Do you have an uncle? 390 00:18:32,960 --> 00:18:33,920 Speaker 6: And he was able. 391 00:18:34,359 --> 00:18:36,600 Speaker 5: He came up to me. He recognized us in the 392 00:18:36,600 --> 00:18:38,360 Speaker 5: club and he came up to me. He goes, I'm 393 00:18:38,359 --> 00:18:42,120 Speaker 5: really sorry, and then he recognized Cindy and we made 394 00:18:42,119 --> 00:18:45,240 Speaker 5: a little video for his wife, who's a doctor. And 395 00:18:45,880 --> 00:18:48,960 Speaker 5: the guy was adorable and he's I asked him, I said, 396 00:18:49,000 --> 00:18:52,240 Speaker 5: you're so adorable. We can't say much about it because 397 00:18:52,280 --> 00:18:54,040 Speaker 5: he told us some secrets about her that we can't 398 00:18:54,440 --> 00:18:58,480 Speaker 5: you know, God forbid they listen. And I asked him 399 00:18:58,480 --> 00:19:01,399 Speaker 5: and he said, yeah, you know, he's his father's actually single. 400 00:19:01,560 --> 00:19:03,480 Speaker 5: And he was a good looking guy and he was tall. 401 00:19:03,520 --> 00:19:05,119 Speaker 3: So I'm like, man, where did you get his number? 402 00:19:06,000 --> 00:19:07,080 Speaker 5: Is father's number. 403 00:19:08,359 --> 00:19:10,080 Speaker 4: Going into the conversation to get his number? 404 00:19:10,240 --> 00:19:13,040 Speaker 5: Well no, he no, but he did send us. 405 00:19:13,119 --> 00:19:15,080 Speaker 6: The sweet man sent us a video back of he 406 00:19:15,119 --> 00:19:18,960 Speaker 6: and his wife, and Kathy writes back, Okay, what about 407 00:19:18,960 --> 00:19:19,280 Speaker 6: your dad? 408 00:19:19,320 --> 00:19:23,000 Speaker 5: What about your uncle? Listen, where's my day? Pretty much? 409 00:19:23,080 --> 00:19:24,840 Speaker 5: Quid pro quoile bring me the dad. 410 00:19:25,600 --> 00:19:26,760 Speaker 4: That's so funny. 411 00:19:27,000 --> 00:19:30,119 Speaker 5: I mean everyone says, when you're out, just tell people 412 00:19:30,200 --> 00:19:32,320 Speaker 5: you're looking. Do you see how lucky you two are? 413 00:19:33,119 --> 00:19:33,239 Speaker 2: Oh? 414 00:19:33,359 --> 00:19:35,840 Speaker 4: I'm very lucky. And I wake up every day and 415 00:19:35,880 --> 00:19:36,320 Speaker 4: I know that. 416 00:19:37,240 --> 00:19:39,959 Speaker 5: Never forget that. I never forget it. I'm telling you, 417 00:19:40,200 --> 00:19:46,719 Speaker 5: it goes. It's it is. Children will change your relationship 418 00:19:46,720 --> 00:19:52,359 Speaker 5: because it just does. And and but finding true love 419 00:19:53,320 --> 00:19:56,159 Speaker 5: is and I had it. I had it once. So 420 00:19:56,240 --> 00:19:59,359 Speaker 5: I'm grateful for that. But you know there's room in 421 00:19:59,400 --> 00:20:03,960 Speaker 5: my heart from I'm just saying, enjoy the time. Enjoy 422 00:20:04,000 --> 00:20:06,439 Speaker 5: the time that you have with each other. When you 423 00:20:06,440 --> 00:20:10,360 Speaker 5: have children, it becomes a whole different special time. It's 424 00:20:10,520 --> 00:20:13,639 Speaker 5: just you're just you're lucky. You guys are really lucky. 425 00:20:13,680 --> 00:20:15,920 Speaker 5: And I I don't know about you, Cindy, but I 426 00:20:16,680 --> 00:20:19,000 Speaker 5: don't want to say I envy you because but I'm 427 00:20:19,040 --> 00:20:21,280 Speaker 5: happy for you. I'm joyous for you guys that you 428 00:20:21,320 --> 00:20:24,159 Speaker 5: have such great love and Cindy. Yeah no, maybe I 429 00:20:24,160 --> 00:20:28,480 Speaker 5: should switch teams just date each other. Sorry, Kathy, not 430 00:20:28,520 --> 00:20:32,200 Speaker 5: a possibility. Why I'm tall, dark, and here you're fabulous. 431 00:20:32,240 --> 00:20:34,480 Speaker 5: But you are a fabulous. Someone is going to be 432 00:20:34,480 --> 00:20:37,600 Speaker 5: super lucky to have you. Oh too sweet, Baey and 433 00:20:37,680 --> 00:20:38,199 Speaker 5: I believe that. 434 00:20:38,240 --> 00:20:41,120 Speaker 6: But until then, we have other parts of our lives 435 00:20:41,119 --> 00:20:43,040 Speaker 6: that we dial up. The love from our friends and 436 00:20:43,080 --> 00:20:45,680 Speaker 6: our family and each other and our new Bachelor nation, 437 00:20:45,880 --> 00:20:48,960 Speaker 6: and that's great, but we do miss it. Do you 438 00:20:49,000 --> 00:20:49,639 Speaker 6: miss having that? 439 00:20:49,720 --> 00:20:49,840 Speaker 5: Well? 440 00:20:49,840 --> 00:20:52,239 Speaker 4: You guys are high caliber women. Yes, I mean it's 441 00:20:52,280 --> 00:20:53,520 Speaker 4: hard to find high caliber. 442 00:20:53,720 --> 00:20:53,880 Speaker 3: Well. 443 00:20:53,960 --> 00:20:55,920 Speaker 6: I always say that I'm not looking for ten, I'm 444 00:20:55,960 --> 00:20:59,080 Speaker 6: just looking for one. Yeah, so I do recognize. I'm 445 00:20:59,119 --> 00:21:00,960 Speaker 6: just looking for someone super special. 446 00:21:01,480 --> 00:21:04,000 Speaker 5: I'm gonna embarrass. I would like to have me has 447 00:21:04,000 --> 00:21:07,960 Speaker 5: a stable of men. Oh, I can see that she does. 448 00:21:08,240 --> 00:21:10,480 Speaker 4: That's that's where you get hit on all the time. 449 00:21:10,680 --> 00:21:14,000 Speaker 5: That's not fair, that's not fair. Wait a minute, wait, 450 00:21:14,040 --> 00:21:15,919 Speaker 5: I'm sorry. Do you want to transfer your stable over 451 00:21:15,960 --> 00:21:20,840 Speaker 5: to me? I'll pay you. She's got guys dating her, 452 00:21:21,440 --> 00:21:23,399 Speaker 5: wanting to date her, and you want to tell the 453 00:21:23,400 --> 00:21:27,359 Speaker 5: bar incident. Yesterday, Cindy said, I can't flirt. Cindy said 454 00:21:27,359 --> 00:21:30,359 Speaker 5: I can't, so I I, uh, she goes cat. You 455 00:21:30,359 --> 00:21:32,920 Speaker 5: don't flirt. I do not have to flirt. I doesn't 456 00:21:32,920 --> 00:21:35,359 Speaker 5: know how to. She proved me wrong. So this guy 457 00:21:35,600 --> 00:21:37,600 Speaker 5: walks by him yesterday. I thought, because this is the 458 00:21:37,640 --> 00:21:40,280 Speaker 5: stuff that goes through my mind, thought, oh, perfect opportunity. 459 00:21:40,359 --> 00:21:44,240 Speaker 5: So Cindy, how I flirt? The guy had on a 460 00:21:44,800 --> 00:21:47,480 Speaker 5: on a yellow called irridescent yellow. 461 00:21:47,560 --> 00:21:50,680 Speaker 6: She named him Highlighter. She named my nickname. Everybody gets 462 00:21:50,680 --> 00:21:53,040 Speaker 6: a nickname. Every everybody gets a nickname because it's too 463 00:21:53,359 --> 00:21:55,040 Speaker 6: too much of a matrix to remember. 464 00:21:55,080 --> 00:21:59,240 Speaker 5: Really, Highlighter, he's all he's all chitty chatty with me. 465 00:21:59,280 --> 00:22:02,080 Speaker 5: And the guy sixty seven years old, a little short 466 00:22:02,080 --> 00:22:03,520 Speaker 5: for me, but he's from New York. I like a 467 00:22:03,520 --> 00:22:07,560 Speaker 5: Northeastern guy. He's got muscles that don't quit. He's telling 468 00:22:07,600 --> 00:22:09,639 Speaker 5: me about his divorce. He just broke up with a 469 00:22:09,680 --> 00:22:11,840 Speaker 5: woman he was engaged with for ten years. That she 470 00:22:11,880 --> 00:22:13,720 Speaker 5: broke up with the message. I wonder why she broke 471 00:22:13,800 --> 00:22:18,800 Speaker 5: up ten years engaged And anyway, we're chit chatting and 472 00:22:19,119 --> 00:22:22,679 Speaker 5: I'm saying and he's laughing, and then he zones in 473 00:22:22,720 --> 00:22:25,280 Speaker 5: on this one. I could have got stood up and 474 00:22:25,320 --> 00:22:27,240 Speaker 5: peeled off my clothes and danced down the bar, and 475 00:22:27,280 --> 00:22:30,280 Speaker 5: he would not dance. And can I just tell you 476 00:22:30,920 --> 00:22:35,280 Speaker 5: guess whose Instagram he followed? Guess who he's reached out to. 477 00:22:36,040 --> 00:22:38,000 Speaker 3: Cindy, are you into him? 478 00:22:38,320 --> 00:22:41,960 Speaker 6: She's not interested in I don't know how to answer that. No, 479 00:22:42,080 --> 00:22:44,400 Speaker 6: he was super nice, but he lives in New York 480 00:22:44,640 --> 00:22:47,119 Speaker 6: and he has a girlfriend. 481 00:22:47,720 --> 00:22:51,639 Speaker 5: Oh well, wait a minute, he doesn't. I asked him 482 00:22:51,680 --> 00:22:55,160 Speaker 5: if he was not no, no to him. He broke 483 00:22:55,280 --> 00:22:57,639 Speaker 5: up five months ago. I said, so are you dating? 484 00:22:58,080 --> 00:23:00,760 Speaker 5: He said, I'm trying to She took it to me 485 00:23:00,800 --> 00:23:02,760 Speaker 5: and that he has a girlfriend. And I said, did 486 00:23:02,800 --> 00:23:04,880 Speaker 5: he ask for your number? She goes, no, he's dating 487 00:23:04,920 --> 00:23:06,960 Speaker 5: a girl. He doesn't get my number if he's dating someone, 488 00:23:07,000 --> 00:23:08,600 Speaker 5: I said no. He said he was trying to date. 489 00:23:08,640 --> 00:23:09,480 Speaker 5: That's what he told me. 490 00:23:10,200 --> 00:23:12,800 Speaker 6: Well, but there was a singular woman in it anyway, 491 00:23:12,880 --> 00:23:14,760 Speaker 6: So I just I got the vibe that he was 492 00:23:15,280 --> 00:23:16,360 Speaker 6: still trying to figure it out. 493 00:23:16,440 --> 00:23:19,199 Speaker 5: And I got the vibe he was not interested in me. 494 00:23:19,280 --> 00:23:24,520 Speaker 5: After Cindy, after Cindy tipped her hat. Here's the solution, 495 00:23:24,600 --> 00:23:26,840 Speaker 5: here's the deal. I love you to pieces. You will 496 00:23:26,880 --> 00:23:28,160 Speaker 5: never be my wing woman. 497 00:23:30,520 --> 00:23:32,600 Speaker 6: Although we've had fun together, and I think the one 498 00:23:32,600 --> 00:23:34,520 Speaker 6: thing that I love going out with you is that 499 00:23:34,560 --> 00:23:37,679 Speaker 6: we just don't care if somebody does pick us up 500 00:23:37,760 --> 00:23:39,280 Speaker 6: or somebody does try to send us drinks. 501 00:23:39,280 --> 00:23:40,640 Speaker 5: We're just there to have fun. 502 00:23:40,720 --> 00:23:44,200 Speaker 6: And the energy that we have is contagious and infectious, and. 503 00:23:44,160 --> 00:23:48,520 Speaker 5: It's I can't honestly I am. I hope my daughter, Caitlin, 504 00:23:48,520 --> 00:23:51,440 Speaker 5: if you're listening, get home early, because I think it'll 505 00:23:51,480 --> 00:23:55,240 Speaker 5: be hysterical to be out with this one on although 506 00:23:55,359 --> 00:23:57,280 Speaker 5: let me hear all the other dates, so there's gonna 507 00:23:57,240 --> 00:23:58,800 Speaker 5: be a lot of Well, that's the thing. If we 508 00:23:58,880 --> 00:24:01,240 Speaker 5: ride on Valentine's Day, the girl, they either think we're 509 00:24:01,280 --> 00:24:04,680 Speaker 5: a couple or they're losers because they don't have a date, 510 00:24:04,680 --> 00:24:06,440 Speaker 5: Which makes it? Does that make us losers? 511 00:24:06,440 --> 00:24:10,320 Speaker 6: Because listen, there are there are people that I could 512 00:24:10,480 --> 00:24:12,760 Speaker 6: have a date with on Valentine's and I don't want 513 00:24:12,800 --> 00:24:14,600 Speaker 6: it in Cindy, No, I just I don't want to 514 00:24:14,640 --> 00:24:18,080 Speaker 6: give the emphasis to the relationship by saying I will 515 00:24:18,080 --> 00:24:20,239 Speaker 6: go out with you on Valentine's Day, because then it 516 00:24:20,240 --> 00:24:21,400 Speaker 6: it's kind of declarative. 517 00:24:23,119 --> 00:24:27,720 Speaker 5: Not to me, I'd be grateful because what everybody I 518 00:24:27,760 --> 00:24:29,600 Speaker 5: had a date on Valentine's to Day? 519 00:24:29,920 --> 00:24:32,920 Speaker 4: You too need a podcast? I know I would sit. 520 00:24:34,520 --> 00:24:35,880 Speaker 4: This is hilarious. 521 00:24:36,280 --> 00:24:38,520 Speaker 5: It's just we do have people, we do get a 522 00:24:38,520 --> 00:24:39,359 Speaker 5: little silly together. 523 00:24:39,880 --> 00:24:41,400 Speaker 4: Oh that's the best. 524 00:24:41,720 --> 00:24:44,080 Speaker 5: I don't know. I just I think that you guys, wait, 525 00:24:44,119 --> 00:24:45,879 Speaker 5: are you going to get a Valentine's gift? Have you? 526 00:24:46,359 --> 00:24:47,960 Speaker 5: I did you? What you get? 527 00:24:48,320 --> 00:24:50,680 Speaker 2: So Dean before our wedding, climbed all the fourteeners in 528 00:24:50,720 --> 00:24:53,479 Speaker 2: Colorado and there's this water bottle with like all of 529 00:24:53,480 --> 00:24:55,399 Speaker 2: the fourteen ers on it, and it's kind of dumb, 530 00:24:55,440 --> 00:24:57,000 Speaker 2: but I got that. 531 00:24:58,920 --> 00:24:59,840 Speaker 4: Yeah, that's really soon. 532 00:25:00,040 --> 00:25:01,920 Speaker 3: He keeps sealing my eyemasks, and I got him his own. 533 00:25:02,400 --> 00:25:03,879 Speaker 4: Yeah that's what. 534 00:25:04,359 --> 00:25:06,040 Speaker 5: And you have any idea what he's getting you? 535 00:25:06,720 --> 00:25:08,439 Speaker 3: Probably flowers, but maybe something else. 536 00:25:08,440 --> 00:25:14,840 Speaker 5: I would him. Yeah, it's what would you like? I'll 537 00:25:14,880 --> 00:25:17,520 Speaker 5: make it happen. Seriously tell me that's a really good question. 538 00:25:17,560 --> 00:25:18,239 Speaker 3: I actually don't know. 539 00:25:18,680 --> 00:25:20,439 Speaker 5: Think about it. Get back to me before dinner. What 540 00:25:20,480 --> 00:25:22,000 Speaker 5: about your girlfriend? You know what? 541 00:25:22,040 --> 00:25:27,600 Speaker 4: I think just like quality time together, like language, silly 542 00:25:27,600 --> 00:25:30,080 Speaker 4: little answer. But I will say the first year, our 543 00:25:30,119 --> 00:25:33,160 Speaker 4: first Valentine's ever, I did make him like a little book. 544 00:25:33,240 --> 00:25:35,440 Speaker 4: It was like a cartoon book of all the reasons 545 00:25:35,480 --> 00:25:37,640 Speaker 4: why I love him. So you know what, I am 546 00:25:37,720 --> 00:25:42,359 Speaker 4: cute and I have done like really sweet things. But 547 00:25:42,359 --> 00:25:44,720 Speaker 4: but yeah, I know, just honestly spending time with each 548 00:25:44,760 --> 00:25:46,280 Speaker 4: other truly. 549 00:25:46,280 --> 00:25:48,040 Speaker 5: Is that your love language? Quality time? 550 00:25:48,160 --> 00:25:48,919 Speaker 4: Quality time? 551 00:25:49,240 --> 00:25:49,480 Speaker 6: Yeah? 552 00:25:49,960 --> 00:25:53,440 Speaker 4: I would say, yeah, okay, I always. 553 00:25:55,880 --> 00:25:59,120 Speaker 5: Give her gat physical touch. Wait, which is it give 554 00:25:59,200 --> 00:26:01,440 Speaker 5: or gat? When you asked what her love language is, 555 00:26:01,480 --> 00:26:03,439 Speaker 5: what do you mean? What does she want or what 556 00:26:03,480 --> 00:26:05,800 Speaker 5: does she give? I never can get it right. 557 00:26:05,840 --> 00:26:08,320 Speaker 6: I think love language is written for both that Typically, 558 00:26:08,320 --> 00:26:11,840 Speaker 6: a love language is how you feel love, but it's 559 00:26:11,960 --> 00:26:15,280 Speaker 6: usually also manifested, because you know that's how it feels 560 00:26:15,320 --> 00:26:17,680 Speaker 6: you manifested and you show love that way. 561 00:26:17,720 --> 00:26:20,919 Speaker 5: Yeah, but in my life, what I don't know, what 562 00:26:20,960 --> 00:26:23,160 Speaker 5: I've heard is when people talk about what is your 563 00:26:23,200 --> 00:26:27,879 Speaker 5: love language? It's what I think, it's what do you receive? 564 00:26:27,960 --> 00:26:29,240 Speaker 5: What makes you feel like? 565 00:26:29,359 --> 00:26:29,479 Speaker 1: Right? 566 00:26:29,680 --> 00:26:32,240 Speaker 5: Yeah? So quality times makes you feel loved? 567 00:26:32,480 --> 00:26:32,880 Speaker 4: Yes? 568 00:26:32,960 --> 00:26:36,120 Speaker 5: What do you give Zach? What is your gift to him? 569 00:26:36,200 --> 00:26:39,240 Speaker 4: Of his affection and words of affirmation? I would say, 570 00:26:39,280 --> 00:26:41,760 Speaker 4: that's what you give to him, that's his love language. 571 00:26:41,800 --> 00:26:45,080 Speaker 4: What about you physical touch? And I think quality time. 572 00:26:45,359 --> 00:26:46,400 Speaker 5: That's what you give to him. 573 00:26:46,520 --> 00:26:48,479 Speaker 3: Yeah, well no, that's what I want. And then I 574 00:26:48,560 --> 00:26:50,400 Speaker 3: like to give gifts. 575 00:26:50,600 --> 00:26:52,160 Speaker 4: Yeah I love giving gifts too. 576 00:26:52,280 --> 00:26:52,480 Speaker 7: Yeah. 577 00:26:52,600 --> 00:26:55,439 Speaker 4: Yeah, and Zach like acts of service to. 578 00:26:55,720 --> 00:26:57,280 Speaker 3: Like acts of service deans big on that. 579 00:26:57,440 --> 00:27:00,800 Speaker 4: Yeah, I would say want wanting that, yeah, wanting you 580 00:27:00,880 --> 00:27:02,359 Speaker 4: to do Yeah. 581 00:27:02,359 --> 00:27:04,320 Speaker 3: He's very much an active service person. 582 00:27:04,520 --> 00:27:07,760 Speaker 5: And he wants you to give a due access. Oh wow, yeah, 583 00:27:07,800 --> 00:27:09,480 Speaker 5: well I have an active service for you. Find me 584 00:27:09,520 --> 00:27:13,040 Speaker 5: a guy. I can always bring it back to finding 585 00:27:13,080 --> 00:27:13,639 Speaker 5: Kathy a day. 586 00:27:13,840 --> 00:27:27,639 Speaker 8: Always Wait, Katie, I was just told that you're a 587 00:27:27,640 --> 00:27:28,680 Speaker 8: big Justin Bieber fan. 588 00:27:28,760 --> 00:27:32,879 Speaker 4: Oh my god. Yes, I am a huge believer okay, 589 00:27:33,280 --> 00:27:35,800 Speaker 4: like literally since I came out of the womb Belieber. 590 00:27:36,280 --> 00:27:36,600 Speaker 5: Wow. 591 00:27:37,720 --> 00:27:38,199 Speaker 4: I don't know. 592 00:27:38,320 --> 00:27:39,399 Speaker 5: I like him. I am not. 593 00:27:39,560 --> 00:27:43,119 Speaker 4: I do not like get all hyped up over celebrities 594 00:27:43,200 --> 00:27:47,199 Speaker 4: or anything like that. But Justin Bieber I think I 595 00:27:47,240 --> 00:27:50,879 Speaker 4: don't know. I think he's also Canadian. He lived like 596 00:27:50,920 --> 00:27:53,160 Speaker 4: two hours away from me. I loved his music growing up. 597 00:27:53,440 --> 00:27:57,440 Speaker 4: It was like the first I ever like cried at IM. 598 00:27:57,520 --> 00:28:03,840 Speaker 5: Sure he's Canadian that's great. She's not Justin Bieber, not 599 00:28:03,960 --> 00:28:04,359 Speaker 5: Justin Bieber. 600 00:28:04,359 --> 00:28:09,200 Speaker 4: But he's not Justin Bieber like Justin Bieber. No wrong tours? 601 00:28:09,240 --> 00:28:10,520 Speaker 4: Have you been great concerts? 602 00:28:10,520 --> 00:28:13,080 Speaker 3: Have you been to? Literally the only one when like 603 00:28:13,160 --> 00:28:13,960 Speaker 3: early stages? 604 00:28:14,040 --> 00:28:14,200 Speaker 1: Ya? 605 00:28:14,600 --> 00:28:15,560 Speaker 4: Wow? Yeah? 606 00:28:15,720 --> 00:28:16,760 Speaker 3: Are you gonna go to Coachella? 607 00:28:17,400 --> 00:28:22,840 Speaker 4: Okay? I really want to. I want to, but I'm 608 00:28:22,880 --> 00:28:24,879 Speaker 4: so over it, Like I'm so over it. And I 609 00:28:24,920 --> 00:28:26,520 Speaker 4: was like, you know, I'm not going this year, like 610 00:28:26,720 --> 00:28:30,960 Speaker 4: I can't do that anymore. And of course he's headlining. 611 00:28:31,080 --> 00:28:32,240 Speaker 5: Yeah, but I also. 612 00:28:32,080 --> 00:28:35,440 Speaker 4: Don't really care for the other headliners like he is. 613 00:28:35,560 --> 00:28:38,240 Speaker 4: It's Saturday, he is Saturday. That is all I would 614 00:28:38,280 --> 00:28:40,640 Speaker 4: go and see. And I'm like, is that worth all 615 00:28:40,720 --> 00:28:44,440 Speaker 4: my time and energy? You know where Zach was like, baby, 616 00:28:44,560 --> 00:28:47,160 Speaker 4: we could just do a live concert, play it live, 617 00:28:47,440 --> 00:28:49,160 Speaker 4: get some surround sound at home. 618 00:28:49,800 --> 00:28:53,920 Speaker 3: Oh it's a powerful of your love for him. Yeah. 619 00:28:54,040 --> 00:28:54,440 Speaker 8: Yeah. 620 00:28:54,600 --> 00:28:58,640 Speaker 4: He thinks it's a little excessive for sure, but I pass. 621 00:28:58,720 --> 00:29:00,640 Speaker 5: You don't have a hall of pass for Justin Well, 622 00:29:00,680 --> 00:29:00,920 Speaker 5: you know. 623 00:29:00,840 --> 00:29:03,280 Speaker 4: What, I don't look at Justin Bieber and I'm like, damn, 624 00:29:03,520 --> 00:29:07,320 Speaker 4: like hello, I look at him and I'm just like oh, 625 00:29:08,120 --> 00:29:13,000 Speaker 4: like you know, it's like A. 626 00:29:13,200 --> 00:29:15,040 Speaker 5: It's like a she cried at the concert. 627 00:29:15,200 --> 00:29:18,400 Speaker 4: It's like a like yeah, go JB, Like not like 628 00:29:18,440 --> 00:29:21,960 Speaker 4: a oh yeah JB. Like it's not like that, you 629 00:29:22,000 --> 00:29:27,120 Speaker 4: know what I'm saying trying to say, Like it's not 630 00:29:27,240 --> 00:29:32,840 Speaker 4: like if it was Paul Walker or like any pass 631 00:29:32,920 --> 00:29:35,000 Speaker 4: even though r I p but like you know what 632 00:29:35,040 --> 00:29:35,520 Speaker 4: I mean. 633 00:29:37,440 --> 00:29:41,080 Speaker 5: You know, not not. 634 00:29:40,560 --> 00:29:46,160 Speaker 4: Not justin Bieber, that's not just like I like yeah wow, 635 00:29:46,520 --> 00:29:49,240 Speaker 4: and he's like me. So it's like we've grown up together. 636 00:29:49,440 --> 00:29:52,640 Speaker 5: But did you did you did you hang out together? 637 00:29:52,760 --> 00:29:56,840 Speaker 5: Because you're both such a small country. I'm sure you 638 00:29:56,840 --> 00:29:57,920 Speaker 5: were next door kissing. 639 00:29:57,720 --> 00:30:01,600 Speaker 4: Guys I wish, but no that I think he's like 640 00:30:01,960 --> 00:30:05,280 Speaker 4: the Beasnees for sure. Like if I ever met him 641 00:30:05,320 --> 00:30:09,040 Speaker 4: in person, I swear to god, I think I would 642 00:30:09,040 --> 00:30:11,280 Speaker 4: have to change my under becausage in my pants. Like 643 00:30:11,360 --> 00:30:14,760 Speaker 4: I literally that It's so unlikely, they like to say, 644 00:30:14,800 --> 00:30:16,280 Speaker 4: but like I don't know what I would do. I 645 00:30:16,320 --> 00:30:18,680 Speaker 4: think my body would just like take over. 646 00:30:19,000 --> 00:30:20,880 Speaker 2: You know, he used to be a huge Bachelor fan. 647 00:30:21,360 --> 00:30:23,440 Speaker 2: He would like FaceTime a lot of the girls. 648 00:30:23,640 --> 00:30:27,840 Speaker 4: Okay, isn't too late, I have not stopped Wait no, 649 00:30:28,000 --> 00:30:31,920 Speaker 4: I heard he message Andrew Spencer oh, so he is 650 00:30:31,920 --> 00:30:34,520 Speaker 4: still watching. Well, I don't know. 651 00:30:34,720 --> 00:30:35,040 Speaker 5: I was. 652 00:30:35,120 --> 00:30:36,800 Speaker 4: I was when I heard that. I was like, I 653 00:30:36,840 --> 00:30:39,800 Speaker 4: would refresh my DMS. I'm like, did you watch a season? 654 00:30:39,880 --> 00:30:44,600 Speaker 5: Like I'm like, have you ever DMed him? Yeah? 655 00:30:44,600 --> 00:30:48,000 Speaker 4: But I had to uncend them all because he looked, 656 00:30:48,600 --> 00:30:49,960 Speaker 4: Now I look crazy. 657 00:30:50,440 --> 00:30:53,120 Speaker 5: You didn't say, Hi, this is Katie, I'm the beautiful 658 00:30:53,160 --> 00:30:55,040 Speaker 5: girl from the Bachelor, And I just wanted. 659 00:30:54,800 --> 00:30:56,000 Speaker 4: To say I couldn't do that. 660 00:30:56,080 --> 00:30:57,840 Speaker 5: Nobody do it for you because I never got back. 661 00:30:57,840 --> 00:31:03,280 Speaker 4: We're like, not that, but that would be embarrassed, right, 662 00:31:03,680 --> 00:31:06,760 Speaker 4: Like if I I think genuinely like every other day, 663 00:31:06,800 --> 00:31:09,640 Speaker 4: like what I would say to him, Oh my gosh. Yeah, 664 00:31:09,640 --> 00:31:13,280 Speaker 4: Like I'm a fan of ship up. So like I 665 00:31:13,320 --> 00:31:15,520 Speaker 4: didn't even care to watch super Bowl, don't know anything 666 00:31:15,560 --> 00:31:18,280 Speaker 4: really about football. Obviously Zach loves it, but like I 667 00:31:18,280 --> 00:31:20,680 Speaker 4: didn't give two shits about it. But when I found 668 00:31:20,680 --> 00:31:24,000 Speaker 4: out he was at the Super Bowl, I was locked 669 00:31:24,280 --> 00:31:26,800 Speaker 4: into that screen and I just couldn't wait for them 670 00:31:26,840 --> 00:31:29,280 Speaker 4: to show him for like two point two seconds and then. 671 00:31:29,320 --> 00:31:32,880 Speaker 5: You wait about it. I just need to understand something, 672 00:31:32,920 --> 00:31:36,760 Speaker 5: and that was to see a two seconds clip shot 673 00:31:36,880 --> 00:31:39,160 Speaker 5: of just that's correct and TikTok. 674 00:31:40,720 --> 00:31:42,560 Speaker 2: Wait, you need to talk to Dean because he DM 675 00:31:42,640 --> 00:31:45,640 Speaker 2: Dean years ago and was like, hey man, check your 676 00:31:45,680 --> 00:31:48,840 Speaker 2: head up, like I hope you're doing okay. 677 00:31:49,680 --> 00:31:50,880 Speaker 3: And then every since Dean. 678 00:31:50,880 --> 00:31:54,360 Speaker 2: Was like walking near the grove in West Hollywood and 679 00:31:54,400 --> 00:31:57,560 Speaker 2: someone yells Dean Dean and this black suv rolls up 680 00:31:57,760 --> 00:31:58,880 Speaker 2: justin Bieber pops out. 681 00:32:07,520 --> 00:32:08,520 Speaker 5: It's actually crazy. 682 00:32:08,960 --> 00:32:10,040 Speaker 4: Why can't that happen to me? 683 00:32:11,840 --> 00:32:12,640 Speaker 5: That didn't see? 684 00:32:15,920 --> 00:32:17,760 Speaker 3: Also, come busy, he's always an Aspen. 685 00:32:17,920 --> 00:32:18,800 Speaker 5: He just walked around. 686 00:32:19,040 --> 00:32:22,360 Speaker 4: I will literally book a flight the minute you say 687 00:32:22,440 --> 00:32:24,320 Speaker 4: JB is in Aspen, I will be. 688 00:32:24,280 --> 00:32:25,760 Speaker 3: There there, like three weeks ago. 689 00:32:25,840 --> 00:32:32,560 Speaker 4: So one day, one day, manifested for one day, like Katie, 690 00:32:32,840 --> 00:32:34,400 Speaker 4: kat Where Katie? 691 00:32:34,840 --> 00:32:36,560 Speaker 5: Have you seen Katie? Yeah? I think she went to 692 00:32:36,600 --> 00:32:37,840 Speaker 5: see JB and Aspen. 693 00:32:41,320 --> 00:32:42,200 Speaker 4: That's my wife. 694 00:32:42,760 --> 00:32:44,760 Speaker 3: Oh my gosh, this is incredible. I had no idea 695 00:32:44,760 --> 00:32:45,360 Speaker 3: this about you. 696 00:32:45,560 --> 00:32:46,800 Speaker 7: Not well. 697 00:32:46,800 --> 00:32:48,840 Speaker 6: The sad thing is she's going to probably meet JB 698 00:32:49,000 --> 00:32:50,040 Speaker 6: before we meet a man. 699 00:32:52,040 --> 00:32:54,240 Speaker 5: Thanks, you got any other things this morning? 700 00:32:55,000 --> 00:32:57,240 Speaker 2: So we are in Carmel and this place is crawling 701 00:32:57,240 --> 00:33:00,160 Speaker 2: with men right now, men who love golf, men who 702 00:33:00,680 --> 00:33:02,560 Speaker 2: you know may be wealthy, which is. 703 00:33:02,560 --> 00:33:05,440 Speaker 3: Also about single pro Oh that's the most important. 704 00:33:05,480 --> 00:33:08,680 Speaker 4: Yes, yes, yes, single, a little bit of money you'll help. 705 00:33:08,920 --> 00:33:10,920 Speaker 2: And for those that are single, when we leave here, 706 00:33:10,960 --> 00:33:13,480 Speaker 2: what kind of guys are we open to attracting? 707 00:33:13,560 --> 00:33:15,760 Speaker 5: Right now, I'm going to take a sip. You go ahead, 708 00:33:15,760 --> 00:33:18,080 Speaker 5: and no, no, Nody please, you're the one that has 709 00:33:18,120 --> 00:33:19,640 Speaker 5: the stable of mend going, you go ahead. 710 00:33:19,800 --> 00:33:24,040 Speaker 6: I would like to have somebody who is smart. I 711 00:33:24,120 --> 00:33:26,600 Speaker 6: love sports. Golf is a sport, So if golf is 712 00:33:26,600 --> 00:33:29,320 Speaker 6: your sport, then then that works for me. My two 713 00:33:29,360 --> 00:33:31,479 Speaker 6: cent and laws play golf, so that works with the family. 714 00:33:32,160 --> 00:33:36,840 Speaker 6: I want definitely want them single. Yeah, yeah, and age appropriate, 715 00:33:37,080 --> 00:33:40,360 Speaker 6: so like fifties sixties would be great. 716 00:33:40,560 --> 00:33:40,760 Speaker 5: Yeah. 717 00:33:40,920 --> 00:33:44,040 Speaker 6: Okay, heartbeat that's another one that i'd like to I 718 00:33:44,120 --> 00:33:45,160 Speaker 6: like them to be above ground. 719 00:33:45,200 --> 00:33:49,240 Speaker 5: Yeah, having their own teeth is a definite plus. Yeah, 720 00:33:49,360 --> 00:33:52,400 Speaker 5: But just a really good guy. We're both looking for 721 00:33:52,440 --> 00:33:56,280 Speaker 5: the same thing. I think a good guy single goes 722 00:33:56,280 --> 00:33:58,360 Speaker 5: with that saying. But you know, when I was younger, 723 00:33:58,480 --> 00:34:00,560 Speaker 5: I had this list of stuff you did too. We 724 00:34:00,600 --> 00:34:03,880 Speaker 5: talked about this. Yeah, I don't care if they're you know, 725 00:34:04,000 --> 00:34:05,680 Speaker 5: six feet tall. I mean, i'd like a tall guy 726 00:34:05,720 --> 00:34:08,160 Speaker 5: because I'm a tall woman. But I'm looking for a 727 00:34:08,200 --> 00:34:12,200 Speaker 5: guy who wants adventure, who wants fun, who will cook 728 00:34:12,239 --> 00:34:15,680 Speaker 5: with me, will do things with me, not twenty four 729 00:34:15,719 --> 00:34:18,520 Speaker 5: to seven, but wants to have adventure. And I've said 730 00:34:18,520 --> 00:34:22,120 Speaker 5: it a million times. Enjoy and laugh, make me laugh, 731 00:34:22,200 --> 00:34:25,239 Speaker 5: let me have that, you know, laugh together, travel, do 732 00:34:25,360 --> 00:34:28,400 Speaker 5: the fun things. We've worked hard our whole lives. This 733 00:34:28,560 --> 00:34:31,960 Speaker 5: is like our time, kind of like the dating app, 734 00:34:32,920 --> 00:34:36,240 Speaker 5: but it's our time and I want to have fun 735 00:34:36,320 --> 00:34:39,520 Speaker 5: in this last great long chapter of my life. And 736 00:34:39,600 --> 00:34:42,200 Speaker 5: I know he's out there. I make jokes about it, 737 00:34:42,560 --> 00:34:44,960 Speaker 5: you know, I'm constantly making jokes about it. But I 738 00:34:45,080 --> 00:34:47,640 Speaker 5: do think there are good men out there. And I 739 00:34:47,680 --> 00:34:51,759 Speaker 5: also love sports. I play golf. I should explorers. I 740 00:34:51,760 --> 00:34:54,000 Speaker 5: should just I should. You know what I should have done? 741 00:34:54,160 --> 00:34:55,920 Speaker 5: I should next guy year. Right now, I'm going to 742 00:34:55,960 --> 00:34:59,480 Speaker 5: bring my pitching wedge and I'm going to stand on 743 00:34:59,520 --> 00:35:03,160 Speaker 5: the on the driving range and I'm just gonna, you know, 744 00:35:03,280 --> 00:35:05,920 Speaker 5: just keep hitting the balls, Just keep hitting balls and 745 00:35:05,960 --> 00:35:07,160 Speaker 5: see if someone comes up to me. 746 00:35:08,239 --> 00:35:13,960 Speaker 4: Which want to be all. 747 00:35:11,800 --> 00:35:15,279 Speaker 5: Right, I need to go Who's going to be the 748 00:35:15,280 --> 00:35:16,719 Speaker 5: wing one? Will you be my wing one? 749 00:35:16,800 --> 00:35:17,320 Speaker 4: Absolutely? 750 00:35:19,280 --> 00:35:22,720 Speaker 5: In austin this and the then wait if if we don't. 751 00:35:22,840 --> 00:35:24,840 Speaker 5: If we like the guy, what I think we should 752 00:35:24,880 --> 00:35:31,280 Speaker 5: say like highlight highlight And if we don't like the guy, Cindy, 753 00:35:31,360 --> 00:35:31,640 Speaker 5: let's go. 754 00:35:31,680 --> 00:35:34,360 Speaker 4: We got a flight to catch cat cheesy, but I 755 00:35:34,360 --> 00:35:35,759 Speaker 4: feel like they would catch on to that. I think 756 00:35:35,800 --> 00:35:37,720 Speaker 4: it needs to be a little bit more discreet. 757 00:35:38,200 --> 00:35:41,719 Speaker 6: How about I feel like I'm gonna oh okay and 758 00:35:41,840 --> 00:35:50,880 Speaker 6: golf four four not that we've talked about Justin Bieber. 759 00:35:50,920 --> 00:35:51,719 Speaker 6: It's all coming out. 760 00:35:52,280 --> 00:35:54,400 Speaker 4: No, you don't even understand. I'm still thinking about that 761 00:35:54,520 --> 00:35:58,040 Speaker 4: Dean and the Justin Bieber things like I won't stop 762 00:35:58,080 --> 00:36:00,200 Speaker 4: thinking about it. 763 00:35:59,320 --> 00:36:04,239 Speaker 5: But well, I'd love to chit chat Lager, but I 764 00:36:04,280 --> 00:36:06,120 Speaker 5: need to go over to the golf course because yeah, 765 00:36:06,120 --> 00:36:06,799 Speaker 5: I got work to do. 766 00:36:06,880 --> 00:36:07,160 Speaker 6: Girls. 767 00:36:08,560 --> 00:36:10,200 Speaker 2: This is a perfect place for you, guys, And it's 768 00:36:10,239 --> 00:36:13,600 Speaker 2: a perfect weekend to celebrate Valentine's Day Galentinees. 769 00:36:13,640 --> 00:36:16,720 Speaker 5: And and I'm glad to be here with all you all. Yeah, 770 00:36:17,120 --> 00:36:17,480 Speaker 5: this is. 771 00:36:17,560 --> 00:36:20,120 Speaker 6: Very special, recognized the level we have in our lives, 772 00:36:20,160 --> 00:36:24,120 Speaker 6: whether it's with men or with friends or with our family, right, 773 00:36:24,160 --> 00:36:25,640 Speaker 6: And I'm grateful to be here with you guys. 774 00:36:25,680 --> 00:36:27,600 Speaker 5: Thank you, thanks for having me, guys. 775 00:36:27,640 --> 00:36:28,160 Speaker 3: I love it. 776 00:36:29,280 --> 00:36:32,239 Speaker 1: Follow the Ben and Ashley I Almost Famous Podcast on 777 00:36:32,320 --> 00:36:35,520 Speaker 1: iHeartRadio or subscribe wherever you listen to podcasts.