Speaker 1: Brooking jubil in the morning. Second date update. I've always
Speaker 1: thought that there should be a Yelp preview for people
Speaker 1: you know, or you can just rank people based on
Speaker 1: all sorts of things, including dating and apparently the girl
Speaker 1: on the phone for a second day update today actually
Speaker 1: had an experience kind of like that after her date.
Speaker 1: We'll get to that in a second, but first, Alicia,
Speaker 1: what's up? What's going on? Hi? How are you not
Speaker 1: too bad? Before we get into the whole Yelp preview thing,
Speaker 1: I was talking about, why don't you tell us about
Speaker 1: the dude you want to call today? What's his name? Gino? Gino?
Speaker 1: All right? And where did you meet Gino? I'm at
Speaker 1: him online? Okay. He instantly drew me to him because
Speaker 1: of his profile picture. What was his profile picture? It
Speaker 1: was clearly a photoshot picture of him on a t
Speaker 1: Rex shirtless with a sword in one hand and a
Speaker 1: box of KFC and the other. Yeah, all right, that
Speaker 1: is a modern day prince right there. Who's a white horse?
Speaker 1: Made you laugh and realize it's probably a funny guy, then, yeah,
Speaker 1: I thought it's a good sense of humoring. Okay, And
Speaker 1: did he deliver on the date was he actually fun
Speaker 1: and funny? He did? He was like super nice, he's funny.
Speaker 1: We went out for dinner and drinks. He picked like
Speaker 1: the best restaurant. Oh my god, that makes such a
Speaker 1: difference too, Like if you're eating good food, suddenly everyone
Speaker 1: becomes more attractive. Seriously, though, with that dinner, I had
Speaker 1: the best salmon that I've had in my entire life.
Speaker 1: And if I could go back right now, or I
Speaker 1: should go back right now, it's just it was so good.
Speaker 1: So do you want us to get you a second date?
Speaker 1: Or you just want to go back to this restaurant? Yeah,
Speaker 1: I just want to go back to I feel like
Speaker 1: I feel like this is like a case of like
Speaker 1: food goggles. You know, like beer goggles makes people more attractive.
Speaker 1: I feel like food goggles was work the same. Possibly
Speaker 1: it was so good, though I can hear that I
Speaker 1: can't plan it other than the salmon. How was the
Speaker 1: rest of the date? So afterwards he took me to
Speaker 1: an arcade, Okay, which is pretty cool because I haven't
Speaker 1: been able to play most of those games and stuff
Speaker 1: with like Mi pract Man and all that good stuff.
Speaker 1: And how is that? How is like the banter between
Speaker 1: you two Banto was fine. I mean, he's a really
Speaker 1: personal person to have the date end. Did you guys
Speaker 1: make out anything like that? No, it was just like
Speaker 1: a little kiss on a cheek, go see you later. Okay,
Speaker 1: you know, but the weird part happened when I got home. Okay,
Speaker 1: I had an email from Gino and it was a
Speaker 1: link to survey monkeys. Yeah, and so I was super confused.
Speaker 1: But apparently he wanted me to rate the conversation to
Speaker 1: date itself. So he made a whole survey asking you
Speaker 1: about your date experience with Gino. A whole survey. I mean,
Speaker 1: what do you think was that funny to you? I
Speaker 1: thought it was like a little weird, But then like
Speaker 1: I guess, like I kind of respect it because he
Speaker 1: wants to step trying to improve. Yeah, or you thought
Speaker 1: it was a funny thing to do. Yeah, I could
Speaker 1: see myself doing that and be like, oh, she's gonna
Speaker 1: think this is really funny. Right. But then like at
Speaker 1: the end of the survey, so the time and date
Speaker 1: for like the next date. Okay, so it was a
Speaker 1: creative way to ask you out again. Convenient. I guess
Speaker 1: that I haven't hear from him. Okay, did you did
Speaker 1: you forget to fill that part out of the survey? No,
Speaker 1: I totally did because I would love to go out
Speaker 1: with him again. Okay, so you filled out his whole survey,
Speaker 1: which most people probably wouldn't do, and he hasn't responded you.
Speaker 1: Have you tried to actually text him and stuff where
Speaker 1: you just left it at the survey? So I mean,
Speaker 1: like I did try and text him after I filled
Speaker 1: out the date and time for the next date, but
Speaker 1: I haven't heard back from him nothing. Do you think
Speaker 1: he's just too good at online dating? Like he sounds
Speaker 1: like he's fun and funny, but almost like a player
Speaker 1: in disguise, do you know what I mean? Like everything's
Speaker 1: a little bit too smooth, too funny. I guess he
Speaker 1: does take great places to go, like that restaurant, Like
Speaker 1: he's like cutesy photograph and then the survey. Maybe he's
Speaker 1: just going through a lot of dates and you're not
Speaker 1: on the call back list. Oh I hope that's not
Speaker 1: the case, but that's why I would like to find out.
Speaker 1: Or were you just way too honest in your survey?
Speaker 1: Did you like rip on him? I didn't give him
Speaker 1: like a perfect review, because like if I gave him
Speaker 1: five stars like he would you know, it would maybe
Speaker 1: look desperate. Yeah, yeah, for sure. Yeah there's that too.
Speaker 1: All right, well we'll play a song and then come
Speaker 1: back and call him and get your second date update. Okay,
Speaker 1: thank you, all right, hang on looking jubil in the morning.
Speaker 1: Second date update if you're just tuning in to today's
Speaker 1: second date update. Alicia is on the phone and she
Speaker 1: wants to call a dude named Gino. They met online.
Speaker 1: She thought he was funny. They ended up going out
Speaker 1: for dinner, then they went to an arcade after and
Speaker 1: when she got home, he actually sent her a survey
Speaker 1: about the date, probably as a creative way to ask
Speaker 1: her out again. She filled out the survey. It even
Speaker 1: included a time and place for them to go out again.
Speaker 1: She filled all that out, but now he's not responding
Speaker 1: to her at all, and she doesn't know why. So,
Speaker 1: speaking of surveys after a date, let's do one before
Speaker 1: the second date. Alicia, Yes, are you ready to play?
Speaker 1: Who wants a second date? Sure? Okay, here's your question.
Speaker 1: If you don't get a second date, are you a
Speaker 1: going to yell at Gino, B going to cry see
Speaker 1: going to yell at us? Or d Portugal. Choose carefully, Alicia.
Speaker 1: I want to say D Portugal. That is wrong. It's
Speaker 1: not Portugal. I know that was a tempting answer, but no,
Speaker 1: this is not Portugal. I hope this works out for you,
Speaker 1: and it's just a case if he's been too busy.
Speaker 1: I doubt it, but that's what I'm still hoping for.
Speaker 1: I'm really hoping that you guys can get a hold
Speaker 1: of him because I went through a long survey. Who's
Speaker 1: still up the survey for him? And I really just
Speaker 1: like to know why he didn't call it back. Maybe
Speaker 1: the answers Portugal. We'll find out. I'm gonna die this
Speaker 1: funny right now? Here we go? Hello? All right? Is
Speaker 1: this Gino? Yes? It is Hey, what's up? Man? How
Speaker 1: are you? This is Jewel from the radio show Brook
Speaker 1: and Jewel in the Morning. Okay, how are you? I'm fine?
Speaker 1: What is this about? It's about you right now, Gino,
Speaker 1: That's what it's about. Okay, A little confused? Right now?
Speaker 1: Why are you guys calling me? Well, I'm calling you,
Speaker 1: Gino because we got an email about you. Now I'm
Speaker 1: more confused. Can you explain? Sure? Her name is Alicia?
Speaker 1: And you guys went out on a date recently. Oh wow, okay, okay,
Speaker 1: we do a segment on our show. It's called the
Speaker 1: second Date Update. This where if you go out on
Speaker 1: a date with somebody and then they blow you off,
Speaker 1: you can email us and we'll call that person and
Speaker 1: find out why. So Alicia is wondering why you're not
Speaker 1: calling her back after she even filled out that survey
Speaker 1: you sent her. Oh my god, Alicia told you about
Speaker 1: the survey. Yep. I actually thought it was a pretty
Speaker 1: cool idea. I think we all thought it was a
Speaker 1: pretty cool idea and like a great way to ask
Speaker 1: somebody out again. Well, this kind of like standard procedure
Speaker 1: for me, just to like not waste anybody's time. Oh wait,
Speaker 1: you were doing it for real. It wasn't like a
Speaker 1: funny joke. Yeah, I mean I always ask people to
Speaker 1: fill out a survey just because, like, we don't want
Speaker 1: to waste time if we're not compatible. It just sucks
Speaker 1: to wait like a month or two to figure that out.
Speaker 1: I thought it was just like a flirty thing to
Speaker 1: be like, here's this survey. I'm a whacking dude, but
Speaker 1: we'll definitely go out again. You actually, like you read
Speaker 1: over it and then decide if you want to date
Speaker 1: them again, that's correct. Wait, you're not a business, you realize,
Speaker 1: like going out with you is it the same as
Speaker 1: like eating food at a restaurant? No, it's not. But again,
Speaker 1: it's in the interest of everybody. Did not waste our time?
Speaker 1: You know. So you saw something in her responses to
Speaker 1: your survey that makes you not want to call her back. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I know she's a nice girl, but definitely some red
Speaker 1: flags came up. Yeah, okay, what are what are some
Speaker 1: of those red flags? I mean, she didn't tell us
Speaker 1: any of the questions that were on the survey. I
Speaker 1: guess we could have asked her that, but yeah, no,
Speaker 1: she definitely got some answers wrong. How do you how
Speaker 1: do you answer a rug? We need? It's a survey.
Speaker 1: Isn't that just asking for your opinion? An opinion can't
Speaker 1: be wrong? Well, I mean, I guess in this case,
Speaker 1: it can be. Like I mean, if you really want
Speaker 1: to know, Like, we went out to dinner and one
Speaker 1: of the questions was what was your favorite part of dinner?
Speaker 1: And she answered the salmon, And clearly the best part
Speaker 1: of dinner was the banana split Sunday at the end
Speaker 1: you know. Oh wow, you're not being that picky, are you.
Speaker 1: You're joking? That's not a red flag. Well, to clarify,
Speaker 1: there's nothing technically wrong with her liking salmon. It's just
Speaker 1: that to me, there's no comparison with the ice cream
Speaker 1: portion of the meal. So it's just the compatibility thing.
Speaker 1: You know what. People don't base compatibility on food likes. Well,
Speaker 1: i'll elaborate. Another question that was incorrect was what was
Speaker 1: your favorite part of the night, and she answered dinner,
Speaker 1: which again raised a serious red flag because the best
Speaker 1: part of the night was no brainer the arcade. Okay,
Speaker 1: I mean, come on, you know, and again that's fine
Speaker 1: if she likes dinner better than in arcades. But you know,
Speaker 1: I'm like a young person. I'm not, you know, a
Speaker 1: grandparent yet. So if you're a person like she can't
Speaker 1: like dinner and you like arcades, yeah, I'm just saying
Speaker 1: salmon and dinner as opposed to ice cream in arcade.
Speaker 1: You know, I'm looking for somebody younger. Hear what you
Speaker 1: don't sound I'm sorry, but you don't sound young and
Speaker 1: fun at all. You sound like kind of anal retentive
Speaker 1: and weirdly stuck on surveys. Well, you actually sound like
Speaker 1: my mom right now so far? Oh well, I mean
Speaker 1: I think about it though. If you say like you
Speaker 1: want somebody young and fun or whatever, you're sending out
Speaker 1: surveys after your dates. Yeah, yeah, I don't know you
Speaker 1: can call it that. To me, it's a big time
Speaker 1: saver and more time to have fun and be young.
Speaker 1: But if you want to Okay, if you wanted to
Speaker 1: save time, why didn't you just send her a survey
Speaker 1: before you even went out on the date and said
Speaker 1: what do you prefer video games or eating food? And
Speaker 1: if she would have picked eating food, then you know
Speaker 1: that you shouldn't have even started the date to begin with. Well,
Speaker 1: I think that's the human portion of the interview is
Speaker 1: also very important, So you do that first than the
Speaker 1: survey after. Okay. Okay, dude, well that is so basically
Speaker 1: you just don't feel like you guys are compatible based
Speaker 1: on your interests. It's not a perfect bit, no, Okay,
Speaker 1: you need to loose it up a bit. Man. You
Speaker 1: could be missing out on someone who could be like
Speaker 1: an amazing partner, or I could just be getting rid
Speaker 1: of the people who aren't amazing partners. Yeah, I guess
Speaker 1: you can look at it both ways, no matter how
Speaker 1: you look at it, though, Gino, Alicia is on the
Speaker 1: other line and wants to talk to you. I know
Speaker 1: that for a fact. She is. Yep, unless you hung up, Alicia,
Speaker 1: are you there? Oh I'm still here? Yeah? Or what
Speaker 1: do you think about? What Gino said? Sounds like a
Speaker 1: survey question? Oh my god, are you kidding me? No,
Speaker 1: I'm not kidding you. I think you're insane. It's a survey, like,
Speaker 1: how are they wrong? Answers on the survey? But no sense,
Speaker 1: they're not wrong, it's just incompatible. I'm just confused. Just
Speaker 1: because I enjoyed the salmon better than the ice cream,
Speaker 1: that's a problem. Well it's not a problem for you,
Speaker 1: but it's a problem for us. I mean, if you
Speaker 1: know the score doesn't add up at the end of
Speaker 1: the survey, it's just not gonna work. Oh my gosh,
Speaker 1: I'm not sure why you're like writing the off as
Speaker 1: some old lady. Look, Alicia, you are perfectly great, and
Speaker 1: there's nothing wrong with your answers. It's just that you know,
Speaker 1: I'm looking for somebody who's gonna be into arcades, and
Speaker 1: that's gonna be the obvious answer. Every time, climbing trees,
Speaker 1: going outdoors, like pizza parties. Those are more in line with,
Speaker 1: you know, the correct answers. It sounds like you're looking
Speaker 1: to date a child, yet a child at heart. Okay,
Speaker 1: here's into fun stuff and you know there's clearly an
Speaker 1: age question and requirement on there. Anyway. Oh my god,
Speaker 1: So Alicia, did you get a sense for this on
Speaker 1: the date, because from his description, he was running your
Speaker 1: date as if it was almost a job interview. Yeah.
Speaker 1: I didn't feel like that at all. I mean, it's
Speaker 1: kind of like a job interview if you're interviewing to
Speaker 1: be my girlfriend, and and you know, I think it's
Speaker 1: fair for me to, you know, see what your qualifications are.
Speaker 1: And so you're saying that Alicia is not qualified to
Speaker 1: be your girlfriend. I'm sure she would make a great,
Speaker 1: great girlfriend for somebody. Oh my god, not for me. Well,
Speaker 1: I just feel like, you know, you're taking like the
Speaker 1: humanity out of dating, right. It should be about chemistry
Speaker 1: and about how you connect with somebody and your trust
Speaker 1: level with them and your comfortability. You know, I mean,
Speaker 1: I'll keep her on file. Oh oh cool, all right,
Speaker 1: keep her on file. Oh dude, this is beyond me, Like,
Speaker 1: I spent so much time filling out that survey, and
Speaker 1: little did I know that you were going to be
Speaker 1: judging me on the answers. You're such a jerk, dude.
Speaker 1: I don't know what to say. I mean, I don't
Speaker 1: think of it as judging. I know what you could say, Gino,
Speaker 1: what you could say that you'll go out on a
Speaker 1: second date with Alicia will pay for it. Yeah, I mean,
Speaker 1: as entertaining as that may seem, I just think that
Speaker 1: my time is better spent finding somebody who, you know,
Speaker 1: a little bit more compatible. Wow. Well, good like I
Speaker 1: hope I actually never see you again. Oh so no
Speaker 1: second date? No, Well, I appreciate that sentiment, Alicia, and
Speaker 1: I wish you the best of luck, and you're a
Speaker 1: great girl, and I'm sure you'll find a place that
Speaker 1: you fit in. That did sound like a job interview.
Speaker 1: Let down, Broken Jewel in the morning.