1 00:00:00,520 --> 00:00:03,040 Speaker 1: Okay, I mean, so this week going to act casual. 2 00:00:03,240 --> 00:00:05,520 Speaker 1: We are talking about fertility. That doesn't seem like a 3 00:00:05,600 --> 00:00:09,600 Speaker 1: very casual topic. I mean, some people take it pretty casually. 4 00:00:10,000 --> 00:00:12,760 Speaker 1: Well I do not. The reason this is of topic 5 00:00:12,960 --> 00:00:16,000 Speaker 1: is because I was in Chicago this week with this 6 00:00:16,040 --> 00:00:18,920 Speaker 1: new company that I am going to freeze my eggs with. 7 00:00:19,640 --> 00:00:23,320 Speaker 1: I'm very excited. That's amazing. I mean, anyway, wait, excited 8 00:00:23,360 --> 00:00:24,720 Speaker 1: it's a weird word to say. I don't know if 9 00:00:24,720 --> 00:00:29,320 Speaker 1: I'm excited, but I'm anxious to get this process done. 10 00:00:29,400 --> 00:00:31,640 Speaker 1: I've been thinking about this for over a year now. 11 00:00:32,000 --> 00:00:34,600 Speaker 1: I think it's fair to be excited about that. Well, 12 00:00:34,720 --> 00:00:37,760 Speaker 1: the whole process itself is a lot, I mean, and 13 00:00:37,800 --> 00:00:39,840 Speaker 1: it's not like you know, when I went to Chicago, 14 00:00:40,159 --> 00:00:42,960 Speaker 1: and obviously on season two Very Cavalry you can also 15 00:00:43,000 --> 00:00:45,080 Speaker 1: see this. But I have a low egg count. I'm 16 00:00:45,080 --> 00:00:48,919 Speaker 1: thirty seven, and this is you know, basically at this 17 00:00:49,000 --> 00:00:52,199 Speaker 1: point we are told as women that are eggs are geriatric, 18 00:00:52,320 --> 00:00:57,000 Speaker 1: which is just, I mean, super discouraging. Right. However, this 19 00:00:57,040 --> 00:00:59,440 Speaker 1: company that the reason I even chose them, their name 20 00:00:59,480 --> 00:01:03,280 Speaker 1: is over there in Chicago, and they have a really 21 00:01:03,280 --> 00:01:06,600 Speaker 1: great outlook on this and they only do egg freezing, 22 00:01:06,640 --> 00:01:10,080 Speaker 1: and so they're very specialized in this area and they 23 00:01:10,120 --> 00:01:12,640 Speaker 1: really feel positive that they can, you know, have some 24 00:01:12,720 --> 00:01:16,399 Speaker 1: good results with me. So, um, yeah, it's not like over, 25 00:01:16,840 --> 00:01:19,760 Speaker 1: but it is a process and you have to go 26 00:01:19,800 --> 00:01:22,920 Speaker 1: through all these shots and like it's just to pump 27 00:01:23,000 --> 00:01:26,240 Speaker 1: up that account. Yeah, it's you get basically pump yourself 28 00:01:26,240 --> 00:01:30,280 Speaker 1: with hormones. So it's yeah, I'm gonna be like insane. 29 00:01:31,360 --> 00:01:34,560 Speaker 1: You're ready for the tears. My friend Mary Holliard went 30 00:01:34,600 --> 00:01:37,440 Speaker 1: with me and she said, she asked my doctor, while 31 00:01:37,520 --> 00:01:39,759 Speaker 1: Kelly is almost medicine, is there medicine you can give 32 00:01:39,760 --> 00:01:45,080 Speaker 1: the rest of us? Fair question? I felt like it 33 00:01:45,200 --> 00:01:47,400 Speaker 1: was a very fair question. I told the money to 34 00:01:47,440 --> 00:01:51,120 Speaker 1: probably just lock myself in my condo there for two 35 00:01:51,120 --> 00:01:53,680 Speaker 1: weeks and not talk to anybody. But is that all 36 00:01:53,680 --> 00:01:55,720 Speaker 1: it is is two weeks? It's two weeks. So you 37 00:01:55,760 --> 00:01:57,960 Speaker 1: go in for two weeks, you pump yourself full of 38 00:01:57,960 --> 00:02:01,760 Speaker 1: these hormones and you can't act, sercides, you can't drink, 39 00:02:01,920 --> 00:02:06,520 Speaker 1: you can't have sex. Basically any fun thing, any vice 40 00:02:06,600 --> 00:02:10,040 Speaker 1: that I have is not happening for two weeks. Um. 41 00:02:10,080 --> 00:02:12,320 Speaker 1: I think the week before that, I also or a 42 00:02:12,360 --> 00:02:14,480 Speaker 1: couple of weeks before that, I have to do birth control. 43 00:02:14,520 --> 00:02:16,200 Speaker 1: I mean, all of these things go against everything I 44 00:02:16,240 --> 00:02:18,880 Speaker 1: do in my life, Like I hate chemicals, I hate hormones, 45 00:02:18,960 --> 00:02:22,280 Speaker 1: I hate medicine. But I'm going to do this because 46 00:02:22,320 --> 00:02:27,320 Speaker 1: I want a baby. I love babies. So anyway, the 47 00:02:27,360 --> 00:02:30,200 Speaker 1: reason this came up is because I'm telling Chip about 48 00:02:30,200 --> 00:02:32,400 Speaker 1: my experience this week and he was like, oh my god, 49 00:02:32,520 --> 00:02:36,200 Speaker 1: but did you hear about It's like literally a waterfall 50 00:02:36,320 --> 00:02:38,880 Speaker 1: of fertility stories happening right now. And I think, why 51 00:02:38,919 --> 00:02:41,120 Speaker 1: is this happening in your life? Because you've rambled off 52 00:02:41,200 --> 00:02:43,399 Speaker 1: like three different stories. Some of its stuff that I've 53 00:02:43,440 --> 00:02:46,000 Speaker 1: just you know, read in the news, but um, I 54 00:02:46,080 --> 00:02:49,920 Speaker 1: had some two of my friends told me pretty shocking 55 00:02:49,960 --> 00:02:52,800 Speaker 1: things when I saw them last. And I think it's 56 00:02:53,480 --> 00:02:56,560 Speaker 1: the timing is just because of the proliferation of things 57 00:02:56,560 --> 00:03:00,200 Speaker 1: like ancestry dot com and three in me. Oh so 58 00:03:00,280 --> 00:03:03,079 Speaker 1: much more connected now by our DNA than we ever were. 59 00:03:03,200 --> 00:03:07,160 Speaker 1: So it's like the amazing things of science that make 60 00:03:07,320 --> 00:03:12,760 Speaker 1: the fertility clinics possible is now like we're uncovering things 61 00:03:12,800 --> 00:03:16,280 Speaker 1: through science that we didn't know was we would have 62 00:03:16,320 --> 00:03:18,680 Speaker 1: access to, which is always the way it is, right like, 63 00:03:18,720 --> 00:03:21,519 Speaker 1: there's these positive things that come This is amazing the things. 64 00:03:21,560 --> 00:03:23,720 Speaker 1: It's amazing. I can freeze my eggs. You know that 65 00:03:23,720 --> 00:03:25,960 Speaker 1: I even have this option as a woman to go 66 00:03:26,040 --> 00:03:30,600 Speaker 1: do something like this, But there's always these negatives or 67 00:03:31,040 --> 00:03:34,840 Speaker 1: the crazy people out there who do insane things. Yeah, 68 00:03:34,840 --> 00:03:37,320 Speaker 1: I mean, look, it's the laws of physics like qual 69 00:03:37,360 --> 00:03:41,880 Speaker 1: and opposite reactions to everything. And look, I mean, the 70 00:03:41,960 --> 00:03:44,640 Speaker 1: birth of a child is a good thing no matter 71 00:03:44,720 --> 00:03:49,560 Speaker 1: the circumstances. I mean, hopefully, you know, things turn out great. 72 00:03:50,160 --> 00:03:52,480 Speaker 1: There's nothing more beautiful than the fact that, like, you 73 00:03:52,520 --> 00:03:55,800 Speaker 1: can have a child. And um, people are overcoming these 74 00:03:55,840 --> 00:03:58,600 Speaker 1: issues that are causing them not to be able to so. 75 00:03:59,200 --> 00:04:01,120 Speaker 1: But I think it's are you remarkable some of these 76 00:04:01,160 --> 00:04:04,360 Speaker 1: stories that are coming out about You're at a party 77 00:04:04,440 --> 00:04:06,640 Speaker 1: and a couple of your friends. So I went to 78 00:04:06,680 --> 00:04:08,400 Speaker 1: a party in New York. This is a few months ago, 79 00:04:08,480 --> 00:04:12,880 Speaker 1: and obviously won't name any names, but um, one of 80 00:04:13,040 --> 00:04:15,600 Speaker 1: I was talking to a friend of mine and she 81 00:04:16,080 --> 00:04:20,000 Speaker 1: told me that she was contacted by someone saying that 82 00:04:20,440 --> 00:04:23,640 Speaker 1: he was her brother, and she has a biological brother 83 00:04:23,680 --> 00:04:27,240 Speaker 1: that she grew up with. And meanwhile, he had been 84 00:04:27,279 --> 00:04:31,240 Speaker 1: contacted by a woman that's saying that she was his sister. 85 00:04:31,640 --> 00:04:33,560 Speaker 1: How are they finding this out? And what do you 86 00:04:33,600 --> 00:04:40,200 Speaker 1: mean the people? Okay, so it was through me. And 87 00:04:40,839 --> 00:04:42,960 Speaker 1: the funny thing was was my friend had been given 88 00:04:42,960 --> 00:04:46,839 Speaker 1: a kid and she did it against her husband's wishes, 89 00:04:47,920 --> 00:04:53,000 Speaker 1: and it came back inconclusive. Um, her brother had done one, 90 00:04:53,880 --> 00:04:57,200 Speaker 1: and UM, I think he was contacted first. That's yeah, 91 00:04:57,240 --> 00:04:59,680 Speaker 1: that was the story. So she was like, oh, no, 92 00:05:00,040 --> 00:05:01,440 Speaker 1: I'm going to go get another kid, and I'm going 93 00:05:01,480 --> 00:05:04,799 Speaker 1: to do it. She found out that they had another brother. 94 00:05:05,480 --> 00:05:09,839 Speaker 1: So basically the story was that her dad had donated 95 00:05:09,880 --> 00:05:12,479 Speaker 1: sperm for whatever, fifty bucks or whatever when he was 96 00:05:12,480 --> 00:05:14,839 Speaker 1: in college. It's a little more than I mean, we're 97 00:05:14,839 --> 00:05:18,799 Speaker 1: talking like, you know, this was in the sixties, seventies early. 98 00:05:19,680 --> 00:05:22,920 Speaker 1: I'm googling it. Um, yeah, but I don't I've never 99 00:05:22,960 --> 00:05:25,920 Speaker 1: done it. But yeah, her father, their father had donated 100 00:05:25,920 --> 00:05:29,000 Speaker 1: sperm when he was in college, just to make beer money, 101 00:05:29,040 --> 00:05:32,360 Speaker 1: probably and never thought twice about it because fertility clinics 102 00:05:32,480 --> 00:05:36,520 Speaker 1: was a thing of the future. And and behold, they 103 00:05:36,839 --> 00:05:41,440 Speaker 1: have siblings and they've met them. I'm sorry, I'm making 104 00:05:42,760 --> 00:05:48,120 Speaker 1: the floor. You're right though. Diurners Diurners donors earned seventy 105 00:05:48,200 --> 00:05:51,560 Speaker 1: dollars for each donation fifty at the time of donation 106 00:05:51,600 --> 00:05:55,560 Speaker 1: in twenty when this sample is released. That's it. That's 107 00:05:55,600 --> 00:05:59,919 Speaker 1: today's numbers. So think what he was getting. Wow, I mean, 108 00:06:00,200 --> 00:06:02,560 Speaker 1: I know if you go through the egg process, like 109 00:06:02,600 --> 00:06:04,560 Speaker 1: I've had friends or girls that I've known in the 110 00:06:04,600 --> 00:06:07,280 Speaker 1: past that have donated their eggs and you can make 111 00:06:07,320 --> 00:06:09,760 Speaker 1: like ten dollars. I mean, I had a friend in 112 00:06:09,800 --> 00:06:11,960 Speaker 1: New York who did it, and we would be out 113 00:06:12,000 --> 00:06:15,200 Speaker 1: drinking and she'd be like, hey, um, I gotta go 114 00:06:15,240 --> 00:06:17,760 Speaker 1: to the bathroom, and the other shot in my ass like, wow, 115 00:06:18,320 --> 00:06:20,799 Speaker 1: it's crazy they're doing that. They were doing the process 116 00:06:20,800 --> 00:06:23,440 Speaker 1: that I'm going to go through, Like, I just can't. 117 00:06:23,520 --> 00:06:27,320 Speaker 1: I can't imagine electively doing that. Because she was getting 118 00:06:27,360 --> 00:06:29,000 Speaker 1: I think she made ten thousand. She did it twice. 119 00:06:29,040 --> 00:06:31,000 Speaker 1: I think she got ten thousand dollars both times. And 120 00:06:31,560 --> 00:06:35,159 Speaker 1: because it wasn't for her child, she didn't take nearly 121 00:06:35,200 --> 00:06:38,360 Speaker 1: the care of herself that you're going to take. So 122 00:06:38,800 --> 00:06:42,120 Speaker 1: she was basically selling bad egg right. I mean, you 123 00:06:42,120 --> 00:06:45,440 Speaker 1: would assume that they wouldn't be useful. Also, wouldn't you 124 00:06:45,600 --> 00:06:49,000 Speaker 1: walk around and wonder like I think for the rest 125 00:06:49,040 --> 00:06:50,719 Speaker 1: of my life. If I saw a kid that was, 126 00:06:50,839 --> 00:06:52,760 Speaker 1: you know, had my coloring or something, I'd be like, 127 00:06:52,839 --> 00:06:55,479 Speaker 1: is that my kid? Exactly? And look, I mean not 128 00:06:55,560 --> 00:06:58,599 Speaker 1: to like. I was doing some research on this topic 129 00:06:58,640 --> 00:07:00,479 Speaker 1: and I just read a story of out a guy 130 00:07:00,480 --> 00:07:04,320 Speaker 1: in Oregon who is suing a fertility clinic because he 131 00:07:04,400 --> 00:07:07,640 Speaker 1: when he donated sperm, the contract that he signed said 132 00:07:07,680 --> 00:07:10,280 Speaker 1: that no more than five children could be produced with 133 00:07:10,280 --> 00:07:11,600 Speaker 1: his sperm, and they all had to be on the 134 00:07:11,600 --> 00:07:15,920 Speaker 1: East coast, and through ancestry dot Com, he got contacted 135 00:07:15,960 --> 00:07:18,600 Speaker 1: by two people saying that they thought he was their 136 00:07:18,600 --> 00:07:22,440 Speaker 1: biological father. Meanwhile, he has three biological children and an 137 00:07:22,440 --> 00:07:24,520 Speaker 1: adopted child that he's raising, so there's four kids in 138 00:07:24,560 --> 00:07:27,360 Speaker 1: his life that are his. And because of that, he 139 00:07:27,440 --> 00:07:30,640 Speaker 1: then submitted his DNA to ancestry dot com. He has 140 00:07:31,040 --> 00:07:36,440 Speaker 1: seventeen children in the Oregon area, some of which go 141 00:07:36,560 --> 00:07:40,080 Speaker 1: to the same school and attend the same churches, and 142 00:07:40,120 --> 00:07:44,000 Speaker 1: they don't know they're related. So he's suing for millions 143 00:07:44,040 --> 00:07:52,520 Speaker 1: of dollars for fraud. Well his seventy dollars just wow, crazy, 144 00:07:52,720 --> 00:07:55,520 Speaker 1: that's insane, and it's emotional distress and it's like you 145 00:07:55,520 --> 00:07:58,000 Speaker 1: would think, like I don't know. I haven't been in 146 00:07:58,080 --> 00:08:01,640 Speaker 1: his shoes, obviously, I can't imagine what that does to 147 00:08:01,680 --> 00:08:04,280 Speaker 1: the psyche. I mean, you certainly can't act casual, no, 148 00:08:04,480 --> 00:08:06,680 Speaker 1: but can you? I mean, can you even imagine You're 149 00:08:06,720 --> 00:08:09,080 Speaker 1: just strolling her along in your day and all of 150 00:08:09,120 --> 00:08:10,480 Speaker 1: a sudden you get a call on someone's like, hey, 151 00:08:10,520 --> 00:08:12,880 Speaker 1: I'm your sibling and you have a whole another part 152 00:08:12,920 --> 00:08:15,280 Speaker 1: of your family you never knew about. Or you pass 153 00:08:15,360 --> 00:08:18,920 Speaker 1: somebody in the store and you're like, that person looked 154 00:08:18,920 --> 00:08:22,000 Speaker 1: a lot like me, you know, or like I don't know, 155 00:08:22,160 --> 00:08:25,600 Speaker 1: as humans were pretty intuitive to it's like a feeling, 156 00:08:25,960 --> 00:08:30,200 Speaker 1: or it's like, think about him. Now, he's gonna he's 157 00:08:30,200 --> 00:08:33,280 Speaker 1: gonna be seeing himself in strangers for the rest of 158 00:08:33,320 --> 00:08:38,160 Speaker 1: his time. I mean, he's definitely going to have PTSD. 159 00:08:38,960 --> 00:08:42,360 Speaker 1: Have you seen the advertisements for that new TV show 160 00:08:42,400 --> 00:08:46,280 Speaker 1: on Fox about this is just like a different branch 161 00:08:46,320 --> 00:08:50,880 Speaker 1: of fertility stories, but it was a dot fertility doctor. 162 00:08:51,000 --> 00:08:52,880 Speaker 1: And this is a think based on a truth story, 163 00:08:52,880 --> 00:08:56,000 Speaker 1: but a fertility doctor who was using his own sperm 164 00:08:56,240 --> 00:09:01,880 Speaker 1: to impregnate his patients. I mean, talk about a violation 165 00:09:02,040 --> 00:09:06,560 Speaker 1: of patient doctor whatever. Well, I immediately started thinking about 166 00:09:06,600 --> 00:09:11,839 Speaker 1: my doctor in Chicago. He's like, it's I mean, I 167 00:09:12,440 --> 00:09:16,440 Speaker 1: can't find words right now. I mean he is a 168 00:09:16,440 --> 00:09:20,080 Speaker 1: good looking man, but he's older and married. Like think 169 00:09:20,120 --> 00:09:22,800 Speaker 1: about that, Like, well, first of all, I'm not going 170 00:09:22,800 --> 00:09:25,800 Speaker 1: through I'm not making an embryo. I'm just kidding. I'm 171 00:09:25,800 --> 00:09:29,440 Speaker 1: doing eggs. But yeah, I mean later in life, wouldn't 172 00:09:29,440 --> 00:09:33,800 Speaker 1: that be so crazy? Apparently in this show, the guy 173 00:09:34,200 --> 00:09:37,120 Speaker 1: has like over a hundred kids because his daughter confronts 174 00:09:37,160 --> 00:09:39,800 Speaker 1: him and she's like how many times He's like, I 175 00:09:39,840 --> 00:09:41,679 Speaker 1: don't know. I think I stopped counting it a hundred, 176 00:09:43,400 --> 00:09:49,080 Speaker 1: so basically populated America. I mean the psychology, like, who 177 00:09:49,120 --> 00:09:53,000 Speaker 1: thinks are that great that they well, I think probably 178 00:09:53,360 --> 00:09:55,600 Speaker 1: the premise of the show is that he just thought 179 00:09:55,640 --> 00:09:58,920 Speaker 1: he was helping these moment who wanted babies and like, okay, 180 00:09:58,920 --> 00:10:01,800 Speaker 1: so I started reading about the actual man this I 181 00:10:01,880 --> 00:10:06,200 Speaker 1: believe is based on. His name is Cecil Jacobson, and 182 00:10:06,240 --> 00:10:08,840 Speaker 1: there's been other movies and stories written about this guy. 183 00:10:08,920 --> 00:10:12,480 Speaker 1: But I mean, he has a long list of things 184 00:10:12,520 --> 00:10:14,240 Speaker 1: that he was in trouble with the law for, so 185 00:10:14,440 --> 00:10:17,640 Speaker 1: maybe he's not the best person. But he just said, 186 00:10:17,720 --> 00:10:20,960 Speaker 1: like sometimes the sperm donor wouldn't show up or sometimes 187 00:10:21,040 --> 00:10:23,240 Speaker 1: there was issues, and so I don't know what could 188 00:10:23,240 --> 00:10:25,320 Speaker 1: just go jack off on a cup and then be like, Okay, 189 00:10:25,360 --> 00:10:29,840 Speaker 1: we're back in business. So bizarre, and you know, I 190 00:10:29,840 --> 00:10:33,280 Speaker 1: don't I don't know a ton about the sort of 191 00:10:33,400 --> 00:10:36,760 Speaker 1: picking a sperm donor situation. But I feel like you 192 00:10:36,800 --> 00:10:40,040 Speaker 1: don't know who it is, but you pick qualifying things 193 00:10:40,080 --> 00:10:42,000 Speaker 1: like I want a tall person, I want someone with 194 00:10:42,600 --> 00:10:47,440 Speaker 1: blonde hair, I want yeah, those sorts of things. And 195 00:10:47,480 --> 00:10:51,480 Speaker 1: it's like, did he check those, check off all the 196 00:10:51,520 --> 00:10:54,280 Speaker 1: boxes or was he literally just giving them sperm? He's 197 00:10:54,320 --> 00:10:56,280 Speaker 1: just giving them sperm. I see what you're saying though 198 00:10:56,280 --> 00:10:58,840 Speaker 1: about kind of being like this god complex. I don't 199 00:10:58,880 --> 00:11:01,640 Speaker 1: a lot of doctors kind of that way. Anyway. It's 200 00:11:01,640 --> 00:11:05,360 Speaker 1: probably a generalization, but I feel like people say that, 201 00:11:05,440 --> 00:11:07,600 Speaker 1: and so I wonder if there was some sort of 202 00:11:07,640 --> 00:11:12,480 Speaker 1: like ha ha ha interesting I met I once met 203 00:11:12,520 --> 00:11:14,840 Speaker 1: a guy on the back when I lived in Los Angeles. 204 00:11:14,840 --> 00:11:16,600 Speaker 1: I met a guy at the dog park who lived 205 00:11:16,640 --> 00:11:19,840 Speaker 1: in an RV, and um, I still have his number, 206 00:11:19,880 --> 00:11:21,840 Speaker 1: if it's still his numbers, so it's in my phone 207 00:11:21,840 --> 00:11:26,800 Speaker 1: as sperm guy. And yeah, he told me and I 208 00:11:26,880 --> 00:11:29,320 Speaker 1: researched him at the time because I was also like 209 00:11:29,360 --> 00:11:32,719 Speaker 1: writing ideas for a reality production company and I thought 210 00:11:32,720 --> 00:11:35,160 Speaker 1: we should do a show on him. He uh. There 211 00:11:35,200 --> 00:11:38,240 Speaker 1: was an article in play Playgirl or Playboy, one of 212 00:11:38,280 --> 00:11:41,120 Speaker 1: them about him, and like the New York Times at 213 00:11:41,160 --> 00:11:43,520 Speaker 1: the time, he was known as like sperm donor one 214 00:11:43,559 --> 00:11:47,200 Speaker 1: oh one and he had like the most that he 215 00:11:47,280 --> 00:11:50,240 Speaker 1: did of like tracking. He had the most kids of 216 00:11:50,280 --> 00:11:52,800 Speaker 1: any sperm donner in the country, and it was because 217 00:11:52,920 --> 00:11:55,079 Speaker 1: he had gone to a really gary college. He was tall, 218 00:11:55,240 --> 00:11:57,360 Speaker 1: he had blonde hair, blue eyes. Like on paper, he 219 00:11:57,440 --> 00:12:00,760 Speaker 1: was perfect. But he lived at the park in his 220 00:12:00,880 --> 00:12:05,280 Speaker 1: RV because he's only making seventy bucks, he's not like 221 00:12:05,520 --> 00:12:07,679 Speaker 1: breaking it in. But he had started to meet kids. 222 00:12:07,720 --> 00:12:10,079 Speaker 1: This was like early days of like ancestry dot com 223 00:12:10,080 --> 00:12:13,880 Speaker 1: and everything, and um, he was forming relationships with his kids, 224 00:12:14,480 --> 00:12:15,839 Speaker 1: and I was like, do they know that you live 225 00:12:15,880 --> 00:12:17,200 Speaker 1: in an r V? And then I got to go 226 00:12:17,280 --> 00:12:19,959 Speaker 1: on his r V and I was terrified really well, 227 00:12:20,400 --> 00:12:22,160 Speaker 1: with like five dogs and it was a small RV. 228 00:12:22,880 --> 00:12:24,520 Speaker 1: It kind of like fits on the back of a pickup, 229 00:12:24,559 --> 00:12:28,600 Speaker 1: you know, yeah, not a pretty life. Wow. And here's 230 00:12:28,640 --> 00:12:33,120 Speaker 1: the number one from pick that's why the girls that 231 00:12:33,160 --> 00:12:34,920 Speaker 1: I knew who used to donate their eggs, and they 232 00:12:34,960 --> 00:12:37,160 Speaker 1: were beautiful girls, and like they would be in high 233 00:12:37,240 --> 00:12:40,160 Speaker 1: demand in the book just because Yeah, they physically were 234 00:12:40,280 --> 00:12:42,840 Speaker 1: very attractive to the eye, and that's what people are 235 00:12:42,920 --> 00:12:49,760 Speaker 1: drawn to. And what a shallow world with m You 236 00:12:49,800 --> 00:12:52,600 Speaker 1: said something about the um you're not making embryo. Well. 237 00:12:53,120 --> 00:12:58,120 Speaker 1: I also read an interesting story about that a m 238 00:12:58,240 --> 00:13:01,640 Speaker 1: A couple is suing the fertility clinic in Los Angeles 239 00:13:02,800 --> 00:13:06,120 Speaker 1: because there was a mix up with their embryo. I 240 00:13:06,120 --> 00:13:09,680 Speaker 1: always wonder about that though, I mean, it was okay, 241 00:13:09,720 --> 00:13:12,880 Speaker 1: hopefully I get this right. So UM, they wanted to 242 00:13:12,920 --> 00:13:15,560 Speaker 1: have a second child because they already had an older daughter, 243 00:13:16,080 --> 00:13:20,560 Speaker 1: and so they went in to get their embryo inserted. UM. Meanwhile, 244 00:13:20,640 --> 00:13:24,040 Speaker 1: a lady in Queens went to get an embryo inserted. 245 00:13:24,679 --> 00:13:27,800 Speaker 1: An Asian woman in Queens um went to get her 246 00:13:27,800 --> 00:13:32,559 Speaker 1: embryo inserted, and the family in California lost the baby. 247 00:13:33,120 --> 00:13:36,640 Speaker 1: The woman in Queens ended up giving birth to two babies, 248 00:13:36,960 --> 00:13:40,800 Speaker 1: both of which were non Asian, and we're from different families. 249 00:13:42,080 --> 00:13:45,679 Speaker 1: It was not their embryo, and um, ultimately she had 250 00:13:45,720 --> 00:13:50,360 Speaker 1: to give the babies back their biological parents, so she 251 00:13:50,440 --> 00:13:54,560 Speaker 1: carried them from them, and the woman in California, I mean, 252 00:13:54,559 --> 00:13:57,000 Speaker 1: they're obviously suing, but the woman in California even was 253 00:13:57,160 --> 00:14:00,280 Speaker 1: said something like I didn't get to hold an nurse 254 00:14:00,400 --> 00:14:02,600 Speaker 1: my baby and have skin to skin contact for the 255 00:14:02,640 --> 00:14:06,040 Speaker 1: first few months of his life. So it's not only 256 00:14:06,080 --> 00:14:09,720 Speaker 1: did she carry these babies, she was raising them. Oh 257 00:14:09,800 --> 00:14:13,720 Speaker 1: my god. Yeah, before they figured out what had happened. Wow. 258 00:14:14,840 --> 00:14:17,400 Speaker 1: I mean I've thought about that, like, because obviously when 259 00:14:17,400 --> 00:14:21,080 Speaker 1: you freeze your eggs, ultimately, unless I just randomly randomly 260 00:14:21,120 --> 00:14:23,600 Speaker 1: get pregnant naturally, which that would be the thing, like 261 00:14:23,640 --> 00:14:25,000 Speaker 1: I'll go through this whole thing and then I'm just 262 00:14:25,000 --> 00:14:27,880 Speaker 1: gonna get pregnant or something. But it's good to have backup. 263 00:14:28,240 --> 00:14:33,000 Speaker 1: But um, anyway, I've thought about that, Like, you then 264 00:14:33,120 --> 00:14:35,280 Speaker 1: your guy has to go in, right, and like, I 265 00:14:35,280 --> 00:14:38,160 Speaker 1: guess you really do you just jack off into a cup? 266 00:14:38,640 --> 00:14:40,640 Speaker 1: Do you think you could do it under the pressure, 267 00:14:40,640 --> 00:14:42,920 Speaker 1: Like you know, a doctor's waiting outside and you're just 268 00:14:43,000 --> 00:14:49,560 Speaker 1: like really, two hours later you emerge, you know, Like 269 00:14:49,680 --> 00:14:53,000 Speaker 1: that was a long session. Sorry for the way, but 270 00:14:53,120 --> 00:15:03,160 Speaker 1: really it was too many. You're listening to velvets Edge podcast, Yeah, 271 00:15:01,080 --> 00:15:04,960 Speaker 1: I mean, I've never done it, but I feel like 272 00:15:04,960 --> 00:15:08,120 Speaker 1: they give you like porn they do. That's what I've 273 00:15:08,160 --> 00:15:12,200 Speaker 1: heard that. Oh my god. Well, so anyway, I've thought 274 00:15:12,240 --> 00:15:14,560 Speaker 1: about if my guy goes in to do that, I'm 275 00:15:14,560 --> 00:15:17,600 Speaker 1: gonna like escort them and be like, have that egg ready, 276 00:15:17,880 --> 00:15:21,320 Speaker 1: I'm taking that sperm. And we were on straight no 277 00:15:21,440 --> 00:15:25,080 Speaker 1: mix ups here, because that would be sad. You already 278 00:15:25,080 --> 00:15:29,000 Speaker 1: are going through so much in this process, you know. Yeah, 279 00:15:29,040 --> 00:15:31,440 Speaker 1: and like you would think that in the case of 280 00:15:31,480 --> 00:15:35,840 Speaker 1: this doctor that actually used his sperm, like they're trying 281 00:15:35,880 --> 00:15:38,640 Speaker 1: to please their customer, right, Like what you want is 282 00:15:38,680 --> 00:15:42,320 Speaker 1: a baby? Yeah, you know. So it's just common human, 283 00:15:42,600 --> 00:15:47,080 Speaker 1: common human era. Okay, maybe not common. Hopefully it's not 284 00:15:47,160 --> 00:15:51,080 Speaker 1: so common. Wow. Well, I feel so comforted going into 285 00:15:51,160 --> 00:15:54,160 Speaker 1: my eggitary. Well thank you. Hey, wait, I got another 286 00:15:54,200 --> 00:15:56,480 Speaker 1: story for you. After I left that party in New 287 00:15:56,560 --> 00:15:58,600 Speaker 1: York where I found out that my friend had two siblings, 288 00:15:59,040 --> 00:16:01,120 Speaker 1: I was telling my friend that I was staying with 289 00:16:01,960 --> 00:16:04,640 Speaker 1: about it and she was like, oh my god, and 290 00:16:04,680 --> 00:16:06,280 Speaker 1: I was like what she was like. Another one of 291 00:16:06,280 --> 00:16:09,640 Speaker 1: our friends at that party has recently found out she 292 00:16:09,720 --> 00:16:13,840 Speaker 1: has six sisters and she's gotten to know them. They've 293 00:16:13,880 --> 00:16:18,160 Speaker 1: they've gone on a sister's vacation. What it was, basically, 294 00:16:18,520 --> 00:16:20,880 Speaker 1: she has confronted her father about it. That's what I 295 00:16:20,880 --> 00:16:23,280 Speaker 1: was going to say, are asking their dad? Yeah, she's 296 00:16:23,320 --> 00:16:25,880 Speaker 1: she's confronted her father about it, and he admitted it. 297 00:16:25,960 --> 00:16:30,840 Speaker 1: And what he told her was that the sperm bank 298 00:16:31,040 --> 00:16:33,560 Speaker 1: that he was donating told him that he had really 299 00:16:33,640 --> 00:16:38,240 Speaker 1: strong sperm, strong swimmers, and what they were using his 300 00:16:38,280 --> 00:16:40,880 Speaker 1: sperm for was to help push along the other guys. 301 00:16:41,960 --> 00:16:43,880 Speaker 1: And you know, he's a college kid and this was 302 00:16:43,960 --> 00:16:47,440 Speaker 1: early day's fertility stuff, so he didn't know they were 303 00:16:47,520 --> 00:16:50,320 Speaker 1: lying to him, but they were basically saying, your sperm 304 00:16:50,400 --> 00:16:53,640 Speaker 1: is so strong, it's going to help the other man's sperm, 305 00:16:53,720 --> 00:16:57,000 Speaker 1: like it's going to push it along. Yeah, but really 306 00:16:57,000 --> 00:17:01,000 Speaker 1: what it was doing was impregnating these women. So he is, um, 307 00:17:01,040 --> 00:17:03,800 Speaker 1: there were six kids and um the crazy thing. So 308 00:17:03,960 --> 00:17:06,080 Speaker 1: she's told her dad, but she hasn't told her mother 309 00:17:06,240 --> 00:17:11,200 Speaker 1: or her biological sister, because her biological sister they grew 310 00:17:11,280 --> 00:17:16,520 Speaker 1: up together, so they you know, it's it's it's it's 311 00:17:16,520 --> 00:17:18,119 Speaker 1: not a full but it's a half sister. It's a 312 00:17:18,119 --> 00:17:21,840 Speaker 1: half sister. So it would leave her without other sisters. 313 00:17:22,000 --> 00:17:23,600 Speaker 1: She would be the only one without other sisters, so 314 00:17:23,640 --> 00:17:25,440 Speaker 1: she hasn't figured out how to tell her sister yet. 315 00:17:25,800 --> 00:17:28,320 Speaker 1: I mean, but in reality is it? I mean it 316 00:17:28,359 --> 00:17:31,880 Speaker 1: would be weird for sure, but like you can't really 317 00:17:31,880 --> 00:17:33,520 Speaker 1: be even mad at your dad. What if you just 318 00:17:33,560 --> 00:17:36,159 Speaker 1: need the money or I mean what he did was 319 00:17:36,240 --> 00:17:39,600 Speaker 1: not was innocent? Yeah, it's I think it would just 320 00:17:39,640 --> 00:17:42,400 Speaker 1: be weird. I mean would also maybe would be exciting, 321 00:17:42,560 --> 00:17:47,359 Speaker 1: Like what if your sister was like really cool? That's true. 322 00:17:47,440 --> 00:17:53,080 Speaker 1: What if your sister was Beyonce ame um. I also 323 00:17:53,200 --> 00:17:55,159 Speaker 1: was thinking as you were talking. It almost be like 324 00:17:55,200 --> 00:17:58,000 Speaker 1: if your dad was just really promiscuous and you didn't 325 00:17:58,040 --> 00:18:01,320 Speaker 1: find out till later in your life, like if he 326 00:18:01,320 --> 00:18:06,320 Speaker 1: had nothing to do, maybe that was a stret Well. 327 00:18:07,400 --> 00:18:09,479 Speaker 1: The difference is that like if your dad was just 328 00:18:09,520 --> 00:18:12,960 Speaker 1: like running around knocking people up like I mean he was, 329 00:18:13,080 --> 00:18:16,119 Speaker 1: he would have a lot more responsibility though the women. 330 00:18:16,119 --> 00:18:18,000 Speaker 1: He would also be a deadbeat dad and you could 331 00:18:18,040 --> 00:18:20,840 Speaker 1: really be mad at him. That's true. Okay, that's okay. Well, 332 00:18:20,880 --> 00:18:23,600 Speaker 1: you know what, you just made a great point. Unless 333 00:18:23,600 --> 00:18:25,919 Speaker 1: your dad's just loaded in paying for everybody and not 334 00:18:26,000 --> 00:18:29,000 Speaker 1: telling you, right, But I mean, if you do go 335 00:18:29,080 --> 00:18:31,959 Speaker 1: donate your sperm, you are impregnant. You are pretty sure 336 00:18:31,960 --> 00:18:37,240 Speaker 1: you're probably gonna impregnant some women. Yeah, so I don't 337 00:18:37,240 --> 00:18:39,119 Speaker 1: know if it's test unless you can I don't know. 338 00:18:39,160 --> 00:18:41,040 Speaker 1: Maybe you can sign something where it's only used for 339 00:18:41,400 --> 00:18:45,320 Speaker 1: testing our research. I doubt that. But also the women 340 00:18:45,359 --> 00:18:47,760 Speaker 1: who are using the sperm are signing up. It gets 341 00:18:47,800 --> 00:18:50,840 Speaker 1: a consensual you're not going to be involved, right, So 342 00:18:50,880 --> 00:18:53,880 Speaker 1: there you go. That's the difference. I'm really glad. So wait, 343 00:18:54,000 --> 00:18:57,160 Speaker 1: we'll tell us a little bit about the process. Oh, 344 00:18:57,200 --> 00:19:00,720 Speaker 1: the egg process, but you haven't done that yet. So 345 00:19:00,720 --> 00:19:05,080 Speaker 1: so I went in for my initial ultrasound, which is 346 00:19:05,520 --> 00:19:08,920 Speaker 1: um yeah, I mean this will all be documented too, 347 00:19:08,920 --> 00:19:11,000 Speaker 1: so because I get a lot of messages because I 348 00:19:11,040 --> 00:19:13,320 Speaker 1: started talking about it last season on the show and 349 00:19:13,480 --> 00:19:15,359 Speaker 1: people want to know, like did you do it? And 350 00:19:15,400 --> 00:19:17,360 Speaker 1: I haven't really talked about it because I'm just now 351 00:19:17,400 --> 00:19:19,520 Speaker 1: doing it now. But it will all be documented and 352 00:19:19,560 --> 00:19:23,679 Speaker 1: people can see that. But um yeah, I went in 353 00:19:23,760 --> 00:19:26,479 Speaker 1: and got the ultrasound and I had much better results 354 00:19:26,480 --> 00:19:28,879 Speaker 1: than I had the first time, which was great. But 355 00:19:29,119 --> 00:19:32,480 Speaker 1: still my blood work shows that, like I mean, it's 356 00:19:32,560 --> 00:19:37,240 Speaker 1: very common for my age where I'm at. But yeah, 357 00:19:37,240 --> 00:19:45,480 Speaker 1: they shove something up you. Basically, it's not not up closetsthing. 358 00:19:48,119 --> 00:19:53,160 Speaker 1: You're so perverse, like you even like vagina. Okay, so anyway, Yeah, 359 00:19:53,280 --> 00:19:56,520 Speaker 1: you have this weird thing that almost resembles a penis 360 00:19:56,960 --> 00:19:59,480 Speaker 1: put up there, and then they go look at your 361 00:20:00,040 --> 00:20:03,000 Speaker 1: ovaries and they can see follicles on your ovaries. So 362 00:20:03,040 --> 00:20:05,439 Speaker 1: the first time I did it, I had assist on 363 00:20:05,440 --> 00:20:07,840 Speaker 1: one of my ovaries, which is common as well, most 364 00:20:07,880 --> 00:20:09,919 Speaker 1: women do at some point, and they kind of kind 365 00:20:09,960 --> 00:20:12,600 Speaker 1: of just go away by themselves. So that's what happened. 366 00:20:12,600 --> 00:20:14,840 Speaker 1: But they couldn't see any follicles, and so I was 367 00:20:14,920 --> 00:20:17,960 Speaker 1: freaking out even more because I had a really low number. 368 00:20:18,440 --> 00:20:21,560 Speaker 1: This time I had it's still a low number, but better. 369 00:20:21,760 --> 00:20:24,720 Speaker 1: So yeah, they see the follicles and that's what can 370 00:20:24,760 --> 00:20:29,239 Speaker 1: produce an egg. So then then they can decide how 371 00:20:29,359 --> 00:20:32,440 Speaker 1: much medicine you need or like what kind of protocol 372 00:20:32,480 --> 00:20:35,040 Speaker 1: they should use on you. And so when I go back, 373 00:20:35,440 --> 00:20:39,960 Speaker 1: I will um start taking two shots a day basically 374 00:20:41,040 --> 00:20:44,600 Speaker 1: and um pop myself full of hormones, probably cry a lot, 375 00:20:44,840 --> 00:20:46,639 Speaker 1: maybe be mad, I don't know, or maybe I'll be 376 00:20:46,720 --> 00:20:52,480 Speaker 1: normal who maybe so so um, and then they it 377 00:20:52,680 --> 00:20:57,040 Speaker 1: just stimulates your ovaries, which they expand really big, and 378 00:20:57,080 --> 00:20:59,800 Speaker 1: that's why you can't like exercise or anything because they 379 00:20:59,800 --> 00:21:03,160 Speaker 1: can twisted. So then at the end of the two weeks, 380 00:21:03,240 --> 00:21:06,000 Speaker 1: they do a procedure where you kind of get put 381 00:21:06,080 --> 00:21:08,600 Speaker 1: under and they stick that same thing that the ultra 382 00:21:08,680 --> 00:21:11,080 Speaker 1: soothing is with a needle on the end of it 383 00:21:11,480 --> 00:21:15,879 Speaker 1: in there and they tap the end of the follicle. 384 00:21:16,600 --> 00:21:18,920 Speaker 1: This is I'm gonna probably doing a terrible job of explaining, 385 00:21:18,920 --> 00:21:21,280 Speaker 1: but they tapped into the follicle with the needle. It 386 00:21:21,520 --> 00:21:23,399 Speaker 1: burst and they can see if there's an egg in 387 00:21:23,440 --> 00:21:27,000 Speaker 1: there and then they can retrieve it. That's so insane. 388 00:21:28,119 --> 00:21:30,040 Speaker 1: So then you pull you know, you pull out all 389 00:21:30,080 --> 00:21:34,199 Speaker 1: the eggs you can, and then they go into the 390 00:21:34,240 --> 00:21:36,520 Speaker 1: freezing process. And here's where it gets Like when you're 391 00:21:36,560 --> 00:21:39,840 Speaker 1: sitting that doctor's office, it gets so discouraging because you're like, 392 00:21:40,920 --> 00:21:43,440 Speaker 1: they say, you know, we're gonna pull out. Let's say 393 00:21:43,480 --> 00:21:45,679 Speaker 1: we pull out. They want to pull out between eighteen 394 00:21:45,680 --> 00:21:48,280 Speaker 1: and twenty one, and like with me, they're like, we'd 395 00:21:48,280 --> 00:21:51,000 Speaker 1: be happy with four to eight because that's where I'm at. 396 00:21:51,040 --> 00:21:52,919 Speaker 1: So that's why I might have to do it multiple times. 397 00:21:53,000 --> 00:21:56,439 Speaker 1: But so let's say they got eighteen eggs. Well, the 398 00:21:56,440 --> 00:21:59,159 Speaker 1: reason they want more than less is because it's just 399 00:21:59,200 --> 00:22:01,199 Speaker 1: a numbers game, because not all of those are going 400 00:22:01,240 --> 00:22:03,439 Speaker 1: to be viable. You know, the older you get, the 401 00:22:03,600 --> 00:22:07,040 Speaker 1: less healthier eggs get. Then once you freeze them, I 402 00:22:07,040 --> 00:22:09,520 Speaker 1: mean they have to go in when they're making the embryos. 403 00:22:09,640 --> 00:22:13,240 Speaker 1: Later they have to take and like that is a 404 00:22:13,240 --> 00:22:17,359 Speaker 1: whole another part of the process. So the probability is low. 405 00:22:17,440 --> 00:22:19,399 Speaker 1: I mean, it's there's all like a numbers game, and 406 00:22:19,400 --> 00:22:20,760 Speaker 1: so you just want as many as you can get. 407 00:22:20,920 --> 00:22:25,720 Speaker 1: And yeah, it's so fascinating. I mean when you when 408 00:22:25,760 --> 00:22:27,879 Speaker 1: I look at an ultrasound of a baby, I'm like, 409 00:22:28,000 --> 00:22:29,960 Speaker 1: I don't see its eyes are like look at his face. 410 00:22:30,000 --> 00:22:31,600 Speaker 1: I'm like, it looks oh my god. They were like, 411 00:22:31,600 --> 00:22:34,240 Speaker 1: look there's your Yeah, they were like, look there's a follicle. 412 00:22:34,359 --> 00:22:36,320 Speaker 1: There's a follicle. And I was like, it looks like 413 00:22:36,359 --> 00:22:39,800 Speaker 1: a black hole. I don't see anything. But they're able 414 00:22:39,880 --> 00:22:44,560 Speaker 1: to see that themselves and then see an egg and extracted. 415 00:22:44,640 --> 00:22:47,919 Speaker 1: It's insane. And just the fact that you have, Like 416 00:22:47,960 --> 00:22:49,639 Speaker 1: the reason I want to document all of this is 417 00:22:49,640 --> 00:22:52,119 Speaker 1: because I want girls to know, you know, like my 418 00:22:52,280 --> 00:22:55,320 Speaker 1: career and just honestly, the way that my dating life 419 00:22:55,320 --> 00:22:57,959 Speaker 1: has played out, it hasn't worked out. That I got 420 00:22:58,040 --> 00:23:00,720 Speaker 1: married young, you know, and that's okay. I'm so glad 421 00:23:00,760 --> 00:23:04,080 Speaker 1: that I've never settled or that some of those relationships 422 00:23:04,160 --> 00:23:06,560 Speaker 1: didn't work out, you know. I mean, looking back, I'm 423 00:23:06,600 --> 00:23:10,240 Speaker 1: just super grateful and I love my life, but I 424 00:23:10,280 --> 00:23:12,800 Speaker 1: want a family and I want kids, and so it's 425 00:23:12,840 --> 00:23:14,679 Speaker 1: so great that we have this option, and I just 426 00:23:14,680 --> 00:23:16,720 Speaker 1: want I wish I had done it earlier, is the 427 00:23:16,760 --> 00:23:19,440 Speaker 1: only thing. And so of course I want girls now 428 00:23:19,520 --> 00:23:21,840 Speaker 1: to know, like you can do this, and we have 429 00:23:21,920 --> 00:23:25,280 Speaker 1: this option, and like if you're thirty and you don't 430 00:23:25,440 --> 00:23:28,680 Speaker 1: see a relationship in your future, like start saving now 431 00:23:28,720 --> 00:23:31,439 Speaker 1: and do it right, because that's the thing you're you 432 00:23:31,480 --> 00:23:34,679 Speaker 1: have more eggs at that point. Oh absolutely, yeah. I 433 00:23:34,680 --> 00:23:38,040 Speaker 1: mean they you know, my age is basically the last 434 00:23:38,080 --> 00:23:40,960 Speaker 1: that they really want you to do this or before 435 00:23:41,000 --> 00:23:43,159 Speaker 1: the eggs you can do it. It can happen, but 436 00:23:43,240 --> 00:23:46,120 Speaker 1: like your eggs start to be less healthy and that's 437 00:23:46,119 --> 00:23:49,520 Speaker 1: when you start seeing like birth defects and stuff like that. Again, 438 00:23:49,720 --> 00:23:52,480 Speaker 1: it can be done. It's not like you know it's over. 439 00:23:52,640 --> 00:23:56,520 Speaker 1: But they say you can get more when you're younger, 440 00:23:56,560 --> 00:23:59,320 Speaker 1: and you're just healthier eggs, so I think the whole 441 00:23:59,320 --> 00:24:03,639 Speaker 1: process is probab easier. But anyway, that's it. Keep that 442 00:24:03,680 --> 00:24:06,840 Speaker 1: freeze on her lock and key. I don't know if 443 00:24:06,840 --> 00:24:12,480 Speaker 1: anybody else could like handle raising a Kelly. It will 444 00:24:12,520 --> 00:24:18,359 Speaker 1: take a special kind of person, or maybe two dads would. 445 00:24:18,520 --> 00:24:20,760 Speaker 1: Would probably be about, you're trying to get my eggs. 446 00:24:20,800 --> 00:24:24,520 Speaker 1: Le's see what's here, Okay, got any leftovers? Fass them? 447 00:24:24,560 --> 00:24:28,040 Speaker 1: Over All of a sudden, I'm just passing eggs around. 448 00:24:28,320 --> 00:24:30,640 Speaker 1: I've thought about that too, though, I'm like, what if 449 00:24:30,680 --> 00:24:32,480 Speaker 1: I don't end up using these, They're just gonna be 450 00:24:32,560 --> 00:24:36,600 Speaker 1: sitting in the freezer, right, I gotta do something with them, 451 00:24:36,720 --> 00:24:40,560 Speaker 1: so well, count yourself in dozen eggs coming your way. 452 00:24:43,800 --> 00:24:47,320 Speaker 1: I wish that would be great. Hopefully it's not my 453 00:24:47,440 --> 00:24:51,560 Speaker 1: doctor sperm, but you never know, you never know. I 454 00:24:51,560 --> 00:24:56,400 Speaker 1: loved him, He's great. Okay, Well, on that note, they're 455 00:24:56,400 --> 00:24:57,919 Speaker 1: going to be like, actually, we don't want to do 456 00:24:58,000 --> 00:25:01,479 Speaker 1: your procedure anymore. Yeah, we gotta make sure that this 457 00:25:01,520 --> 00:25:07,320 Speaker 1: is a post later. Let's save this one. Oh my god. Okay, Well, 458 00:25:07,359 --> 00:25:09,760 Speaker 1: hopefully none of these weird fertility stories happen to me 459 00:25:10,200 --> 00:25:12,880 Speaker 1: and more to come on my egg journey. And best 460 00:25:12,880 --> 00:25:16,560 Speaker 1: of luck to all these babies out there. Yeah, seriously, everybody, 461 00:25:16,640 --> 00:25:20,919 Speaker 1: just keep remaining casual at casual. Bye. 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