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Speaker 1: It's the fresh show. This is what's trending A woman,

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Speaker 1: This is for you, Klein. A woman warned both close

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Speaker 1: and estranged friends not to invite her to weddings or

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Speaker 1: baby showers if they aren't regularly inviting her to movie night's,

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Speaker 1: coffee runs or lunch dates. She thinks an invitation is

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Speaker 1: just for the sake of receiving a gift. In a TikTok,

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Speaker 1: the woman sam, don't invite me to baby showers, weddings,

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Speaker 1: house swarming parties if you don't invite me to other

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Speaker 1: stuff movie nights, girls' night out, dinner, coffee dates, to lunch.

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Speaker 1: It's extremely offensive to pressure somebody into spending money on

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Speaker 1: life milestones without including them in your life's professions. Oh

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Speaker 1: that is period, it's what she said. Other people commented

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Speaker 1: that they are sick of people desiring their presence only

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Speaker 1: at important events that command the pricey present. One person said,

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Speaker 1: funny how I only get invited when my presence requires

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Speaker 1: that I bring a gift. Another said I couldn't have

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Speaker 1: said this better. I feel this so deeply on many levels.

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Speaker 1: Another praise people saying preach love this. Yeah, a lot

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Speaker 1: of people, I guess can relate to the idea that

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Speaker 1: out of nowhere you get an invitation in the mail

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Speaker 1: from somebody who I don't even know if they really

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Speaker 1: think you're going to show up or not, but but

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Speaker 1: they know that once you've gotten the invitation, that you're

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Speaker 1: going to feel some obligation to send something at least right, yep,

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Speaker 1: But I want to know how to eight five five

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Speaker 1: five one three five. You can text the same number.

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Speaker 1: By the way, how do you treat that that random invitation?

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Speaker 1: Because I've gotten invited in more than one thing before

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Speaker 1: that included it was like an email invitation, or even

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Speaker 1: if it was a written invitation, and then it included

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Speaker 1: like some form of link you know to to Here's

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Speaker 1: how you can donate to our honey fund, here's here's

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Speaker 1: an easy way for you to send a present. And

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Speaker 1: I haven't heard from this person in years, so I'm like,

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Speaker 1: you don't you don't care one way or another if

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Speaker 1: I actually show up, I don't think, right, but you

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Speaker 1: definitely want to get something out of me. I feel this,

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Speaker 1: But how do you treat how do you? I mean,

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Speaker 1: are the people as offended? Are they or are you

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Speaker 1: guys as enthusiastic about the idea of like forget about it.

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Speaker 1: If I don't see you regularly, then I'm not going

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Speaker 1: or is it like no, I'll just I'll acknowledge I

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Speaker 1: once knew this person, so I'll acknowledge their special occasion

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Speaker 1: for me, I don't. Like I love a party.

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Speaker 2: I don't mind, Like it doesn't bother me that if

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Speaker 2: I if I really don't talk to somebody in whatever,

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Speaker 2: like on a normal basis, and they invite me to

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Speaker 2: their wedding or a house orring party, I'm going to

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Speaker 2: bring a gift and have a good time, Like this

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Speaker 2: doesn't it really doesn't bother.

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Speaker 1: Me, Like especially if like.

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Speaker 2: I invited them to our like they were at my

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Speaker 2: wedding and I was at their wedding, so we do

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Speaker 2: have history, like I actually feel sometimes I get more

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Speaker 2: mad if I don't get an invite to Like if

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Speaker 2: I had history with somebody in the past and we're

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Speaker 2: really not that close but they're getting married and I

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Speaker 2: kind of don't get an invite to that, I'm like, damn,

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Speaker 2: that's kind of like like yes, like like I knew

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Speaker 2: you when you guys were together, and yeah, like life changes,

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Speaker 2: people drift apart, but like to not get an invite

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Speaker 2: to your wedding just because we're not currently friends right now,

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Speaker 2: that's kind of rude to me.

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Speaker 3: Damn, I have that issue too. I don't know. I

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Speaker 3: think I'm supposed to be invited everywhere.

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Speaker 4: Like I feel like if I knew you in high

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Speaker 4: or you having birthday party for kids. Yeah, I just

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Speaker 4: feel like, like, dang, I thought we were like, I

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Speaker 4: would invite you to my stuff, and I still do.

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Speaker 4: Like if I have a big birthday party, I literally

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Speaker 4: just invite everybody on my Facebook list. I don't care, like,

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Speaker 4: I just love like every like I love coming to

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Speaker 4: people's stuff. I feel like we can have a good time.

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Speaker 4: But I do get offended when I'm like, dang, I

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Speaker 4: thought we were cooler.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, you know you got I'm.

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Speaker 1: Kind of relieved if I don't get invited to something's

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Speaker 1: just that means I don't have to do it. But

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Speaker 1: but I guess at the same time, sometimes I'll see

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Speaker 1: people get married, oh, and I'll be like that person

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Speaker 1: got invited. Yea, why them? And you know what I mean, Like,

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Speaker 1: But and it was a I'm trusting I didn't want

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Speaker 1: I was still like what wa right, like wa time,

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Speaker 1: like they invite wasn't even there, like for me to

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Speaker 1: to say hell, no, hey, so figure good morning, Hi,

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Speaker 1: good morning. Hey. Does it bother you if out of

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Speaker 1: nowhere you get an invitation to something or do you

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Speaker 1: interpret that as this person just wants more gifts?

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Speaker 5: I it's it's that they just want gifts because they

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Speaker 5: don't invite you to one thing, but then they won't

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Speaker 5: invite you to the rest. So I kind of feel like, oh,

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Speaker 5: like you said, do in buy people you know, and

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Speaker 5: then they won't invite you, but then something big don't

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Speaker 5: invite you because that want they want that good kiss.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I guess.

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Speaker 5: I mean, I just feel like if you can invite

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Speaker 5: me to a baby shower and then I'm not going

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Speaker 5: to get to know your baby, that just doesn't mean.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, that's true, and that makes sense. And I agree,

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Speaker 1: like if if I don't see you in other stuff,

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Speaker 1: and then I get this random invitation for the special occasion.

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Speaker 1: Then I guess I'm going to assume it's a gift grab.

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Speaker 1: But what if you make I have a big impact

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Speaker 1: on someone's life and you just didn't know, Well that

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Speaker 1: could be, or if we don't live in the same town.

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Speaker 1: I mean, you know, I'm not expecting to get phone

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Speaker 1: calls from people who eat I can't, you know what

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Speaker 1: I mean, Like they might check in with me, but

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Speaker 1: I'm not expecting to get invited in you know, Friday night,

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Speaker 1: Bengo night or game night or whatever your house when

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Speaker 1: you live in Atlanta. You know what I'm saying, Like,

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Speaker 1: I don't so if someone got married like that, then

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Speaker 1: it's case by case.

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Speaker 4: It's tough though, because you're kind of offended if you

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Speaker 4: don't get invited. Okay, you know the person, but then

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Speaker 4: you're kind of offended if I do invite you because

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Speaker 4: you think I just want to.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, No, it's true. Yeah, it's true. Sophia. Thank you.

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Speaker 1: Have a good day.

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Speaker 5: I have a good one.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, as long as I can send a gift actually

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Speaker 1: for me, if I can send a gift and get

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Speaker 1: out of physical appearance. Then I'll find with that. So

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Speaker 1: I'm actually the opposite now. But I can remember my

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Speaker 1: in my mid to late twenties, early thirties. It was

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Speaker 1: like then, this is why I say this topic is

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Speaker 1: for you, Caitline, because I know last year, a couple

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Speaker 1: of years was this way for you. But it was

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Speaker 1: like this just just onslaught. It was. It was all

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Speaker 1: these weddings and all these bachelor parties and all these

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Speaker 1: baby showers, and it's just constant stuff. And I'm like,

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Speaker 1: I don't know you barely. Hey, Cam, all right, good morning,

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Speaker 1: I can good morning. This woman went viral on TikTok

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Speaker 1: because she's like, look, if you don't invite me to

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Speaker 1: regular stuff, like regular like lunch and coffee and whatever,

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Speaker 1: then then don't send me an invitation of baby showers,

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Speaker 1: weddings or house rumming parties, because why would I go.

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Speaker 1: I barely know you. I know why because you want

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Speaker 5: Right.

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Speaker 6: I've been feeling that way probably the past year or two.

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Speaker 6: I feel like I don't see my friends on the regular,

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Speaker 6: but I'm getting invites to baby showers in particular, and

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Speaker 6: I show up and I am a great baby shower

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Speaker 6: gift giver, Like I go all out two themes of everything,

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Speaker 6: and then from there, like I.

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Speaker 5: Don't meet the baby.

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Speaker 6: It takes like a year to two years to meet

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Speaker 6: the actual baby, and it's like so depressing because I

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Speaker 6: don't even see you. Yeah, so I agree. I mean,

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Speaker 6: I don't know. People have different things going on with

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Speaker 5: Show up for you.

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Speaker 1: So I agree. I agree, Thank you, Cam have a

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Speaker 1: good day. Of course you do. But that's my thing

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Speaker 1: is like I don't. That's why the older I get

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Speaker 1: I think it would be for me if I ever

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Speaker 1: got married, if it were up to me just to

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Speaker 1: go elope, because the problem is once you get outside

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Speaker 1: like your immediate like you guys are family, my family,

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Speaker 1: I'm talking about fewer than twenty people who really really

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Speaker 1: people then there's a circle outside of that. They still matter,

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Speaker 1: there's a circle outside of that. But I can think

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Speaker 1: it's a slippery slope, who would expect to be invited

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Speaker 1: or would be offended if they weren't invited to something

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Speaker 1: So we can get out of hand quickly to where

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Speaker 1: me at this point in my life, I would just

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Speaker 1: then that way, no one's offended because nobody was there,

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Speaker 1: you know what I mean, Because I don't want to

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Speaker 1: have to play this game where like you know this

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Speaker 1: mentor of mine, well I thought we were closer and

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Speaker 1: people get their feelings certain they would have won. This

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Speaker 1: have wanted to go, and I don't want any gifts,

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Speaker 1: so I don't care about that. Oh I'm going to

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Speaker 1: be so offended if I'm not there for it. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: but like, don't send me a I don't need you

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Speaker 1: to send me a toaster, you know what I'm saying,

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Speaker 1: Like I don't need you to send me I'm like,

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Speaker 1: I'm like China. You know what I mean, Like I don't,

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Speaker 1: I don't know. Like I'm just not about the presence

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Speaker 1: at that point. It's about the only people or who

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Speaker 1: are getting invited to my wedding at this point in

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Speaker 1: my life are people I actually would want to be present.

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Speaker 1: Oh and I'm having it on Thanksgiving, but.

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Speaker 2: If you want to Lobe, I think you should have

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Speaker 2: Lope on Christmas Day.

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Speaker 1: Hey, Kylie, Hey, Hi morning, Kylie. I have felt this

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Speaker 1: way before too, but go ahead please. Yeah.

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Speaker 6: So we got a wedding invite for someone that we

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Speaker 6: weren't very close with, like you know, hung out with.

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Speaker 1: We didn't even know how they had our new address,

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Speaker 1: to be honest, And it was like a week.

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Speaker 6: Before the wedding and it was like RCP immediately barly feeless.

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Speaker 1: Exactly they had leftover, they had already committed to a

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Speaker 1: certain number of people. They got the first round of

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Speaker 1: of you know, acceptances RSVPs or whatever, and then you

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Speaker 1: were on the second tier yep, yep. And that means

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Speaker 1: they didn't really care if you were there or not.

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Speaker 1: I'm telling you that, but it's not free because you

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm not doing it. Thank you, Kevin.

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Speaker 1: You had a good day. No, this happened to me,

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Speaker 1: And I'm like, hell no. I didn't say hell no

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Speaker 1: Somebody bailed on you. There's no way that she didn't

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Speaker 3: A maid of honor.

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Speaker 1: What you're doing a lot of things. Don't tell me

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Speaker 4: So what's the timeframe? Henk, fine advance? Do I need

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Speaker 1: Like, Hank, what you can't defend this? Seven days is

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Speaker 1: not seven days for me. It was in a different

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Speaker 1: I thought it was I thought it was a little arrogant.

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Speaker 1: it was. It was like a Sunday. Literally, it's like, hey, Saturday,

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Speaker 1: my sister's getting married in this other place. Uh, will

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Speaker 1: you be my date? Like I don't. You had you

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Speaker 3: I invite big timis of an hour before we go.

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Speaker 1: Again, it's not your wedding, but it's not your sister's wedding.

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Speaker 1: Oh come on, I don't think she's arrogant. Arrogant because

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Speaker 1: I don't think she I don't think she expected me

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Speaker 1: You should be happy you made the list. You know

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Speaker 1: Like is a good time?

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Speaker 1: we're Shelley here, we're Shelley. Hold on this time, push

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Speaker 1: here's my question to you guys, and I already know

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Speaker 1: I came in here and said, it's a Monday and

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Speaker 1: would say that is so rude. No, No, she has

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Speaker 1: expecting that you could ask someone to a major family

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Speaker 1: Miss Riad. You guys, I'm sorry, but I stand by this.

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Speaker 1: I'm one hundred percent right. I want to ask.

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Speaker 3: I want to ask how many I would ask?

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Speaker 1: How many people did you ask before her? No, she

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Speaker 3: Who cares, That's okay, choice you were the choice.

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Speaker 1: I was the last choice. I was be team at best.

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Speaker 3: You guys weren't dating. It's okay.

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Speaker 1: I think I thought it was rude. I didn't like.

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Speaker 1: I was rude. I didn't like. I didn't go thank you.

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Speaker 1: Don't tell me, Shelley, do not tell me you wouldn't

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Speaker 7: Okay, take that aside. Do you like this girl like

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Speaker 7: you said you liked your right? She seems like a

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Speaker 1: Well, I thought this. I held her to hire regard.

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Speaker 1: I don't think it would be cool for me to

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Speaker 1: I don't think it would be cool.

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Speaker 3: Who knows what kind of bind she got caught in,

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Speaker 1: Somebody else that you're much into this.

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Speaker 2: She invited you to a wedding, So what if it

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Speaker 1: She invited you. That's it because the other guy who

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Speaker 6: Right?

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Speaker 3: Who knows? Can we talk about poop again?

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Speaker 1: I don't want hear about weddings anymore.

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Speaker 1: We've had a number of days of conversation worth of Well, Shell,

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Speaker 7: I know that I have the opposite problem. I always

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Speaker 1: All right, showdown. I love you guys, But I'm one

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Speaker 1: idea like I really believe in it, but I don't today.

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Speaker 1: I'm right.

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Speaker 6: So this sample group means nothing to you saying my

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Speaker 1: Because our text is blowing up with people agreeing with me,

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Speaker 1: it's over. Well, did you want to know you would

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Speaker 2: Did you ever follow up after the wedding?

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Speaker 1: Like, hey, you want to hang out?

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Speaker 3: Like?

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Speaker 1: Hey, you know?

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Speaker 5: No?

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Speaker 1: But I never heard from her either, So I was

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Speaker 3: That I never am parents.

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Speaker 7: She was like, oh.

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Speaker 1: No, this did to herself. I didn't do that. I

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Speaker 1: why is this fault all of a sudden a phone call?

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Speaker 1: Can you come to the biggest occasion in my family's history.

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Speaker 1: Maybe her, Maybe she doesn't care about weddings.

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Speaker 3: Maybe it wasn't right.

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Speaker 4: Maybe they got closer to the day found out that

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Speaker 4: you can't bring a date you know what?

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Speaker 3: Right? And then oh, you know what, let me call.

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Speaker 1: Frand for of course she knew the rules, you guys,

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Speaker 3: I know, but Fred, I can't ride with you on this.

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Speaker 3: I love a party, Yeah.

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Speaker 1: Care if I'm fifth choice, I'm going and drinking. I

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