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Speaker 1: Fred Show. Hey Diana, good morning, Welcome to the show.

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Speaker 1: How are you, hey, Diana? What's going on with this

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Speaker 1: guy Kevin? I need you to fill me in. I

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Speaker 1: know this is all kind of you know, weird and

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Speaker 1: maybe a little nervous, but we're trying to help you

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Speaker 1: out with this guy Kevin, who you think is ghosting you.

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Speaker 2: So give us the backstory, please.

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Speaker 3: So, yeah, I met I met Kevin at a bar.

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Speaker 3: I'm like nice, like you know, kind of glorry, but

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Speaker 3: he got my and like after talking there for a bit,

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Speaker 3: like he asked me out for a drink, and like

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Speaker 3: he was also tutor than I remember, and I like,

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Speaker 3: you know, I was like, yeah, but after our date,

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Speaker 3: he added me on Snapchat and I want to know why.

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Speaker 1: Okay, So yeah, you guys exchanged or he got your

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Speaker 2: You go out and you thought the day went well.

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Speaker 1: But the dude not only disappeared by by dropping you

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Speaker 1: on Snapchat, but he also has not reached out. Have

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Speaker 1: you reached out? To him any other way? Do you

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Speaker 1: have his number? Like, have you tried to call him?

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Speaker 4: No?

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Speaker 2: No, no, no, we just do you just do snapchat? Yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 2: it's how the youth communicate Freddy. Yeah well yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 1: I still thought it was just for news at least

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Speaker 1: I've only been sending nuts on it. But anyway, it

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Speaker 1: turns out you can do other stuff. So I'm learning

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Speaker 1: right now. This is educational for me, all right. So look, basically,

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Speaker 1: you guys have lost contact. You want to know what's

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Speaker 1: going on because it's annoying, and I don't blame you.

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Speaker 1: So let's see if we can get Kevin on the phone.

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Speaker 1: We'll ask some questions. You'll be on the phone at

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Speaker 1: the same time. Maybe he has a good explanation for,

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Speaker 1: you know, removing you from Snapchat and not talking to

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Speaker 1: going on, Diana. I'm going to play one song. We'll

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Speaker 2: Okay, thank you. We're gonna find.

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Speaker 1: Out what's going on after Cascatta back in two minutes

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Speaker 1: on the fred Show. He's the Friend Show. Good morning,

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Speaker 1: thanks so much for waking up with us. Hey, Diana, yeh, Hi, okay,

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Speaker 1: welcome back. Let's call it Kevin. You guys actually met

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Speaker 1: in person, which doesn't happen that often anymore, exchange numbers,

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Speaker 1: snapchat all that you went on a date and you

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Speaker 1: thought the date went well. But he has removed you

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Speaker 1: from Snapchat. He hasn't called you or reached out since

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Speaker 1: the date. You feel like you're being ghosted and we

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Speaker 1: get that, and you want to know why. Let's call

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Speaker 1: him now? Good luck? Hello, Hi?

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Speaker 2: Is this Kevin? It is hi Kevin, good morning. My

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Speaker 2: name is Fred.

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Speaker 1: I'm calling from the Fred Show, the morning radio show,

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Speaker 1: and I have to tell you that we are on

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Speaker 1: the radio right now, and I would need your permission

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Speaker 1: to continue with the call.

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Speaker 2: Is it okay if chat for just a second?

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Speaker 1: Sure?

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Speaker 4: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: Why not? Well, thank you so much.

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Speaker 1: We're calling on behalf of a woman named Diana, who says,

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Speaker 1: I guess you guys met in a bar and and

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Speaker 2: But do you remember this woman? Do you remember going

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Speaker 4: Can I take that back?

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Speaker 3: Wait?

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Speaker 2: Can you take back meeting her? Which part can you take?

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Speaker 4: Can you?

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Speaker 2: Can you?

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Speaker 3: You know?

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Speaker 2: I don't?

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Speaker 4: It's not something I really want to talk about, a

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Speaker 1: Well you can hang up if you want, but we

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Speaker 2: She called you in?

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Speaker 4: Though she called in about it?

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Speaker 1: Well, yeah, that's how we know about you. She called us,

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Speaker 1: And if we did, very lucky. But I found you.

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Speaker 1: But can you would you mind, you know, indulge us

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Speaker 2: Oh man? All right?

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Speaker 4: So yeah, i'd met u. I met a whole bunch

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Speaker 4: Lots of play, a big, big night, big, It was

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Speaker 4: Interesting people came out, came out with a lot of

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Speaker 2: And I went.

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Speaker 1: Right and I believe, I believe her name is Diana.

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Speaker 1: But you sound generally very confused. Where are we going

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Speaker 4: Uh So, when we went on a date and I

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Speaker 4: I didn't remember who she was. So when she asked

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Speaker 1: And I assume that means that you were into at

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Speaker 2: So how do you lose here?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean because we're chatting and then snapping and

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Speaker 4: then like are you so nervous?

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Speaker 2: Is she ugly? Is that what you're saying?

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Speaker 1: Like if we spitted out like did you somehow mix

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Speaker 2: Is that what this is?

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Speaker 4: No, I thought it was a different Diana I thought

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Speaker 1: Okay, So you were excited to meet a different person.

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Speaker 1: I little confused. It took us a little while to

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Speaker 1: Well, but I'm still confused though, because I'm not exchanging

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Speaker 2: A big night.

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Speaker 2: It was a big met a lot of people, a

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Speaker 1: But I guess what I'm saying is like, how do

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Speaker 2: I don't want to go out with. Give myself what

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Speaker 4: But it's not that it's not like I wasn't like,

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Speaker 4: it's just not the one that's not the person I

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Speaker 2: He got mixed. You got mixed Kevin.

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Speaker 1: Kevin here, it's shocking to me he'd get a little

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Speaker 1: And you just weren't the person he thought he was

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Speaker 2: Well, because we weren't the person.

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Speaker 4: No I got, I got. I was embarrassed. I didn't

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Speaker 4: I ghosted. I didn't know what I didn't know what

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Speaker 4: And well, here it is.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, because I guess it's kind of awkward to be like, Hey,

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Speaker 1: you're the right name and the wrong human. So I

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Speaker 1: I don't I'm a little I don't know if he's

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Speaker 1: him a little bit. So you're not interested, Diana. Kevin

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Speaker 1: And there's your answer. You you were flat out not

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Speaker 2: I don't even want to go on date.

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Speaker 1: It's very very hard for me to figure this all out.

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Speaker 1: But that's that's where we're at. Diana, you are not

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Speaker 1: the person he thought you were. Cool. Thanks, Yeah, I

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Speaker 1: guess I don't know what I would say either. Look, guys,

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Speaker 1: I wish you the best. I I need to go

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Speaker 1: and I need to I need to be alone for

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Speaker 1: a white board out and explain this to me. Somebody,

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Speaker 1: all right, carry the one, and yeah, everyone's Diana, Princess Diana.

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Speaker 2: Somebody thought that she was there. All right, guys, best

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Speaker 2: elected both of you. Okay, yeah, you guys, have a

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Speaker 2: good one.