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Speaker 1: The Nicky Glazer Podcast Here, Nicky, Hello, and welcome to

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Speaker 1: the Nicky Glazer Podcast. Here. I am. I'm Nicky Glazer. Uh.

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Speaker 1: Day three of canker sores taking over my mouth. They

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Speaker 1: are on the mend. I'm feeling better. Thank you for

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Speaker 1: your support and love. Yesterday you texted me if they

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Speaker 1: were at how are you doing? Today? Went down another

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Speaker 1: ten percent? So and and you know what I said,

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Speaker 1: forty percent? Yesterday we went back up a little bit.

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Speaker 1: I would want to say sixty percent, but now we're

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Speaker 1: down to thirty percent of what they were the day before. Um,

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Speaker 1: that to backter all. Damn. I'm still having PTSD from

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Speaker 1: like the pain of that stuff when you put it on.

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Speaker 1: Oh boy, it was just just tears down my face,

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Speaker 1: Like I just can't even believe I was stingy was Um,

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Speaker 1: but yeah, I feel better. I feel a lot better.

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Speaker 1: Today is a new day. Um. I'm going on tour

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Speaker 1: again this weekend. Where are we at Charleston on Saturday?

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Speaker 1: Somewhere else on Friday? Damn it, it's somewhere else. Raleigh

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Speaker 1: on Friday. I love Ralie so much. It was one

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Speaker 1: of those towns I was like, Oh I could live here.

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Speaker 1: If I had a different life and now I realized

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Speaker 1: I can live anywhere. Um, really I can. Um. It's

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Speaker 1: so nice to just be able to But the problem

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Speaker 1: with that is now that I can go anywhere, Like

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Speaker 1: where should I go? Like I've got friends scattered everywhere.

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Speaker 1: I think maybe I just had my friends come here,

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Speaker 1: but it's just so I don't know. I'm just trying

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Speaker 1: to I'm starting to explore the idea that like marriage

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Speaker 1: and kids, just I don't I just fear all of

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Speaker 1: my friends getting pregnant because it's just like bye bye.

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Speaker 1: And I know that like the oldest story in the book,

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Speaker 1: Like we all know that, like life changes, but it

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Speaker 1: really person and I were talking about this morning. She

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Speaker 1: feels like she sometimes misses out on um social events

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Speaker 1: because you know, it's like a child's birthday party and

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Speaker 1: it's all families there, and it's like you bring your

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Speaker 1: kids to play with other kids, and if you don't

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Speaker 1: have kids, you don't really go to those things. And

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Speaker 1: she's like, I feel like my life is less social

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Speaker 1: because I don't have kids. And I'm like, but I

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Speaker 1: feel like a lot of parents would say I've heard

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Speaker 1: a lot of parents complaining, like, oh, I've got to

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Speaker 1: hang out with these people because my kids like the kids,

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Speaker 1: you know, and that it's not always like better social

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Speaker 1: activities and that, and also think of all the things

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Speaker 1: you lose out on by by having kids and not

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Speaker 1: going to be able to go to places because you

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Speaker 1: have kids. But also Kursen her husband aren't like big boozers,

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Speaker 1: And I think that that's like it's one or the other.

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Speaker 1: It's like you have kids and you like focus on

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Speaker 1: your kids, and you have kids party things, or it's

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Speaker 1: like adult parties where you throw your key in a

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Speaker 1: bowl and you get wasted, you funk everyone. It's like,

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Speaker 1: why can't there be in between where people just like

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Speaker 1: I don't know, I just don't drink and hang out.

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Speaker 1: Like what do you do socially? Noah, you and IVI

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Speaker 1: Like you're in a new town, you have new friends,

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Speaker 1: Like what do you do? Want to what do you

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Speaker 1: do at night? Like when you guys are done working

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Speaker 1: for the day, let's talk about week nights, let's talk

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Speaker 1: about weekends. I just I think we just project a

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Speaker 1: like so boring, but we're all just sucking sitting around

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Speaker 1: watching squid game. Well, I'm I'm listening to you, and

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Speaker 1: I'm thinking about the friends that I made here in Tucson.

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Speaker 1: And all of them are older, and all of them

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Speaker 1: have kids who are like in their twenties, and the

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Speaker 1: kids are in other states, so they're so. Um. We

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Speaker 1: two weeks ago we went camping together. Um, we get together.

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Speaker 1: We have friends. By the way, how do you meet

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Speaker 1: new friends in a new city? Okay, these friends I

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Speaker 1: just met in a parking lot, that's right, I remember

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Speaker 1: the parking lot friends that you like. Someone had a

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Speaker 1: jiu jitsu shirt on. Um. One of the guys had

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Speaker 1: a Crawmaga shirt and AV and I just started talking

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Speaker 1: to him and he was with his Crawmaga instructor who

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Speaker 1: was visiting him. Long story short, he invited us over

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Speaker 1: for pizza later um, later that day, and uh, the

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Speaker 1: We just hit it off. This is shirts bringing people together.

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Speaker 1: It really is about that. That's the way to like

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Speaker 1: advertise what you're into, to find people with interests like yours.

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Speaker 1: That's it really is the key. No one ever says

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Speaker 1: anything about my tailor swift shirts when I'm out in public.

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Speaker 1: They must think I'm like wearing my daughter's shirt or

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Speaker 1: to just talk about Taylor Swift and talk about um speculation,

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Speaker 1: just like, speculate about her life, talk about her life

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Speaker 1: in ways that we have no business doing because she's

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Speaker 1: a famous person. Like last night, I kind of got

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Speaker 1: some of my friends here who are following me around

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Speaker 1: with cameras. I kind of got them into some like

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Speaker 1: you know online. There's a whole. I can't even go

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Speaker 1: into it. There's a whole The Swifties are split into

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Speaker 1: find that I'm part of both camps and you can't

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Speaker 1: really be in both camps and neither are against Taylor.

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Speaker 1: But um, there's a very controversial theory out there regarding

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Speaker 1: Taylor that I can't even I'm not even going to

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Speaker 1: get into because it's none of my business. But god

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Speaker 1: do I want it to be a thing and it's

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Speaker 1: you know, it's just us speculating about her personal life

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Speaker 1: and and also reading into her lyrics and being like, oh,

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Speaker 1: and these people are such sleuths. I love sleuths and

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Speaker 1: yesterday of of sleuthing about UM. And again, I don't

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Speaker 1: none of my business and I don't want other people

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Speaker 1: to like I just when I go on this dem

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Speaker 1: MOI reddit group discussion, and I've talked about it before.

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Speaker 1: These are people that are very obsessed with celebrities and

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Speaker 1: have strong opinions, and the Reddit threat is always like

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Speaker 1: who do you hate the most? Who's someone that demos

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Speaker 1: made you hate? And it's you know, dem wa If

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Speaker 1: you don't know, it's all just hearsay about celebrities, like

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Speaker 1: people being like I saw Nikki Glazes. I mean they've

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Speaker 1: only mentioned me once or twice, but it's been you know,

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Speaker 1: and it's not it's regulous thing, but it's it's regular

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Speaker 1: people contributing, right, yes, but publicists, because they know that

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Speaker 1: dem is so huge, publicists will pose as regular people,

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Speaker 1: and like say, what an angel it was. That's so

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Speaker 1: dirt though you think, oh that must be true. But

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Speaker 1: all there's a lot of positive stories, a lot of

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Speaker 1: negative stories, but um, they're just so just the people.

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Speaker 1: I can't even I can't read these subredits because these

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Speaker 1: people who are obsessed with these celebrities have such strong

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Speaker 1: I went through this one like wormhole yesterday that came

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Speaker 1: from me going through these the subredit about um Jamila, Um,

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Speaker 1: what's her name, Jamie? Her name is, yeah, Jamala Jamille.

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Speaker 1: it's just took one person to go, hey, I've noticed

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Speaker 1: whole thing about they claimed that Jamiale is like a

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Speaker 1: why Jamiale is a liar with all of this, like,

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Speaker 1: oh my god, you guys, she's still deeming me. It's

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Speaker 1: been seven hours and I'm not even responding anymore. She's crazy.

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Speaker 1: has Dema changed about you? Like for you? And someone

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Speaker 1: Did you watch the new Brittany doc? No? I haven't.

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Speaker 1: Oh my god, it's actually really good. Um. There's parts

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Speaker 1: they're like, now, read the last page here, and it's like, no,

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Speaker 1: you guys already know what. Don't act like you're reading

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Speaker 1: this being like, wait, you're telling me she was working three,

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Speaker 1: like thirty hours a day and they said that she

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Speaker 1: couldn't take Now read the next thing. And it's like,

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Speaker 1: you guys highlighted the stuff before the scene took place.

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Speaker 1: Don't act like it's like just presented to us, like, hey,

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Speaker 1: we have some interesting stuff. Don't act like you're both

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Speaker 1: two hosts have been like they're delivering some podcast about

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Speaker 1: I don't know, aliens or some murder podcasts and they're like,

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Speaker 1: did next? Oh, it's incredible. Listen to this, like just

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Speaker 1: know fakeness um, But the documentary is really good. Noah,

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Speaker 1: I felt like I knew most of the Britney Spears

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Speaker 1: from the lens of like pro Brittany, but I mean

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Speaker 1: cool with that, so now I want to blow everything up.

425
00:23:00,640 --> 00:23:03,359
Speaker 1: So no, everyone needs different times to cool down. And

426
00:23:03,400 --> 00:23:06,200
Speaker 1: I'm just someone who's like, okay, now, like forgive me now,

427
00:23:06,240 --> 00:23:08,920
Speaker 1: like you know that I'm sorry. But I still don't

428
00:23:09,000 --> 00:23:11,240
Speaker 1: understand why people can't accept sorries if it's like a

429
00:23:11,320 --> 00:23:14,399
Speaker 1: real heartfelt sorry and can't just be like I forgive you,

430
00:23:14,440 --> 00:23:16,719
Speaker 1: Like I'm just a little like because I think our

431
00:23:16,760 --> 00:23:19,760
Speaker 1: nervous system. I think when you go through something where

432
00:23:19,800 --> 00:23:23,879
Speaker 1: you're mad at someone or feeling like, uh, blittled or

433
00:23:23,880 --> 00:23:27,200
Speaker 1: attacked or alienate or whatever it is, you get so

434
00:23:27,359 --> 00:23:30,719
Speaker 1: traumatized by it that just someone going I'm sorry and

435
00:23:30,760 --> 00:23:32,840
Speaker 1: like even really meaning it, and you know they mean it,

436
00:23:32,840 --> 00:23:35,119
Speaker 1: it's not enough to calm down from what your nervous

437
00:23:35,160 --> 00:23:37,359
Speaker 1: system just went through, and so you still need like

438
00:23:38,240 --> 00:23:42,399
Speaker 1: let's talk tomorrow, yes, and then yeah, and look I

439
00:23:42,760 --> 00:23:44,400
Speaker 1: am it is tough for me to be like, yeah,

440
00:23:44,440 --> 00:23:46,600
Speaker 1: we'll give it a couple of days, let it calm down.

441
00:23:46,720 --> 00:23:49,400
Speaker 1: It's like, why can't you calm down now? Because it's

442
00:23:49,440 --> 00:23:51,240
Speaker 1: the time we're living in and why can't we look

443
00:23:51,240 --> 00:23:53,760
Speaker 1: at positives instead of negatives? And like all this ship

444
00:23:54,560 --> 00:23:57,639
Speaker 1: but whatever. So I didn't sleep that well, But you know,

445
00:23:58,560 --> 00:24:00,680
Speaker 1: I'm excited for this weekend. I'm getting to see my

446
00:24:00,760 --> 00:24:03,240
Speaker 1: dad for the first time in months. Oh my god. Yes,

447
00:24:03,320 --> 00:24:05,960
Speaker 1: and Charleston, Charleston, we're going to Kiowa. It's a golf

448
00:24:06,000 --> 00:24:09,320
Speaker 1: trip I've been. He's coming to Charleston. Is he gonna

449
00:24:09,320 --> 00:24:11,280
Speaker 1: go to our shows? I think he's going to go

450
00:24:11,680 --> 00:24:14,960
Speaker 1: to Charleston show or Durham. I don't know. I gotta

451
00:24:15,000 --> 00:24:19,480
Speaker 1: call him to have this air stream uh, not the

452
00:24:19,520 --> 00:24:21,760
Speaker 1: air stream but the sprinter van. I don't I don't

453
00:24:21,760 --> 00:24:23,600
Speaker 1: know if he's going to drive up or not. He

454
00:24:23,600 --> 00:24:26,240
Speaker 1: he doesn't fly though, Yeah, he doesn't love flying, so

455
00:24:26,280 --> 00:24:28,240
Speaker 1: you don't know how he's getting there. I'm gonna talk

456
00:24:28,240 --> 00:24:31,160
Speaker 1: to him today. I need to call him back. It's

457
00:24:31,200 --> 00:24:34,720
Speaker 1: been two days. But he's coming to Charleston or like,

458
00:24:34,880 --> 00:24:37,320
Speaker 1: but then you're staying on. Yeah, we're going to Kiowa

459
00:24:37,440 --> 00:24:41,600
Speaker 1: with my older brother. It's this like island golf course,

460
00:24:41,720 --> 00:24:45,800
Speaker 1: like resort area, I guess. And my older brother is coming.

461
00:24:45,880 --> 00:24:48,320
Speaker 1: My younger brother who I don't see and we're all

462
00:24:48,359 --> 00:24:51,320
Speaker 1: having this golf trip and we're gonna do teams, and

463
00:24:51,520 --> 00:24:54,239
Speaker 1: you know, my dad was a big golfer. So it's like,

464
00:24:54,680 --> 00:24:57,479
Speaker 1: you know how much I've been playing, I'm so excited

465
00:24:57,520 --> 00:25:01,200
Speaker 1: to show off, but I'm go but I've worked so

466
00:25:01,280 --> 00:25:04,359
Speaker 1: hard that I if I play shitty because my older

467
00:25:04,359 --> 00:25:07,879
Speaker 1: brother hasn't bought new clubs in like eight years, and

468
00:25:07,920 --> 00:25:10,239
Speaker 1: I feel like he's gonna win and it's gonna be

469
00:25:10,320 --> 00:25:13,080
Speaker 1: so demoralized. You know, you're gonna whoop their butts. But

470
00:25:13,160 --> 00:25:15,199
Speaker 1: like the thing is if you don't do have a

471
00:25:15,240 --> 00:25:21,000
Speaker 1: plan for like how to feel and like that after Yeah, yeah, No,

472
00:25:21,560 --> 00:25:24,360
Speaker 1: It's funny with rivalry. You know, we all have its

473
00:25:24,359 --> 00:25:27,960
Speaker 1: sibling rivalry and and we're all pretty cool about like

474
00:25:28,280 --> 00:25:32,119
Speaker 1: we're not we're competitive, but we're not like fuck you competitive.

475
00:25:33,280 --> 00:25:36,639
Speaker 1: But you know, I'm really just looking forward to just

476
00:25:36,680 --> 00:25:39,560
Speaker 1: spending time with them, and and we've been talking. You know,

477
00:25:39,600 --> 00:25:43,080
Speaker 1: this is what happens. I guess we do skiing. But yeah,

478
00:25:43,160 --> 00:25:45,960
Speaker 1: like your dad gets older and you're like, okay, how

479
00:25:46,000 --> 00:25:48,200
Speaker 1: many you know my dad was sick a few years ago,

480
00:25:48,320 --> 00:25:51,320
Speaker 1: and it's like and we keep planning this trip and

481
00:25:51,359 --> 00:25:53,600
Speaker 1: you keep you could put off a trip. Very easy

482
00:25:53,640 --> 00:25:58,080
Speaker 1: to plan this my little brother because he lives in Durham,

483
00:25:58,160 --> 00:25:59,879
Speaker 1: and we were talking about it forever and then it

484
00:26:00,040 --> 00:26:04,119
Speaker 1: just kind of you know, us being on tour going

485
00:26:04,200 --> 00:26:07,200
Speaker 1: through North Carolina just kinda or South Carolina at this point,

486
00:26:07,240 --> 00:26:10,360
Speaker 1: but uh, kind of just worked out to just schedule

487
00:26:10,440 --> 00:26:13,560
Speaker 1: around that. And so yeah, I mean you could put

488
00:26:13,640 --> 00:26:16,480
Speaker 1: this off and are you sleeping together? Are you getting

489
00:26:16,640 --> 00:26:21,400
Speaker 1: separate hotel? I think we're gonna an Airbnb house and yeah,

490
00:26:21,400 --> 00:26:25,560
Speaker 1: I'm gonna maybe talking about some serious stuff. Maybe maybe

491
00:26:25,840 --> 00:26:28,480
Speaker 1: get some stories from your dad's life that you never got,

492
00:26:28,560 --> 00:26:30,679
Speaker 1: you know, like just get one or two. Yeah. The

493
00:26:30,720 --> 00:26:34,720
Speaker 1: only thing I know is in he uh, he was

494
00:26:34,760 --> 00:26:39,960
Speaker 1: in the newspaper for bowling, I think like a two

495
00:26:41,119 --> 00:26:45,320
Speaker 1: thirty five or something and he had a rooster or turkey,

496
00:26:45,960 --> 00:26:49,040
Speaker 1: a lot of turkeys. Uh. In high school and he

497
00:26:49,080 --> 00:26:53,800
Speaker 1: was in Colin Man's whatever. And then he played college

498
00:26:53,800 --> 00:26:57,120
Speaker 1: baseball and he shot like a or he was only

499
00:26:57,160 --> 00:26:59,320
Speaker 1: batting average was like ninety five, and so it was

500
00:26:59,320 --> 00:27:02,320
Speaker 1: like freshman bay. So he didn't play again, but he

501
00:27:02,359 --> 00:27:05,160
Speaker 1: didn't make the freshman teach. Talking about stories, yeah, that's

502
00:27:05,160 --> 00:27:07,760
Speaker 1: pretty much it though, Like those are. I mean, those

503
00:27:07,760 --> 00:27:09,639
Speaker 1: are stories, but I wouldn't hear like, you know, the

504
00:27:09,680 --> 00:27:12,080
Speaker 1: worst trouble he ever got into. Maybe we walk in

505
00:27:12,080 --> 00:27:14,679
Speaker 1: with some prompts. Okay here, like that's what we'll do.

506
00:27:14,760 --> 00:27:17,760
Speaker 1: How about the fans? Right in questions for my questions

507
00:27:17,840 --> 00:27:20,920
Speaker 1: for you should actually do an I G like story thing,

508
00:27:21,080 --> 00:27:22,880
Speaker 1: and then you should be like questions for my dad

509
00:27:22,880 --> 00:27:27,320
Speaker 1: to get to know him better before he died. Because listen,

510
00:27:27,359 --> 00:27:30,840
Speaker 1: we're all going to wouldn't you, Yeah, wouldn't you like

511
00:27:30,880 --> 00:27:33,840
Speaker 1: to pass down some of those stories too your kids?

512
00:27:34,000 --> 00:27:36,679
Speaker 1: You know? I mean, I just feel like I don't

513
00:27:36,720 --> 00:27:40,480
Speaker 1: know that. I mean the girls you date? Come on,

514
00:27:40,560 --> 00:27:45,640
Speaker 1: can we stop doing that? Yeah? I mean I joke

515
00:27:45,680 --> 00:27:48,320
Speaker 1: about Brenda being young, but like, you know how I

516
00:27:48,320 --> 00:27:50,960
Speaker 1: feel about it, and I we can joke all day.

517
00:27:51,240 --> 00:27:55,679
Speaker 1: She is young, but she I would recommend anyone in

518
00:27:55,760 --> 00:27:58,399
Speaker 1: their mid to late forties date her, and that she

519
00:27:58,440 --> 00:28:00,720
Speaker 1: should be able to date. Not in my mid the

520
00:28:00,800 --> 00:28:04,920
Speaker 1: late forties. Nikki, I'm forty one years old. She's twenty five.

521
00:28:05,000 --> 00:28:08,600
Speaker 1: She's t and two months. That's not that long. It's

522
00:28:08,600 --> 00:28:12,639
Speaker 1: a driver's license away. Yes, she she is. She is

523
00:28:12,680 --> 00:28:14,600
Speaker 1: younger than you, but you wouldn't know it. She does

524
00:28:14,640 --> 00:28:16,720
Speaker 1: have an old soul, and I give guys shit about

525
00:28:16,720 --> 00:28:19,200
Speaker 1: that for saying they love their girlfriend because of adult soul.

526
00:28:19,640 --> 00:28:21,760
Speaker 1: The problem is, I just don't want to hear that's

527
00:28:21,760 --> 00:28:23,840
Speaker 1: the only that's the thing you love about her most.

528
00:28:24,080 --> 00:28:26,159
Speaker 1: It's like she's she also has a body of a

529
00:28:26,600 --> 00:28:29,960
Speaker 1: year old, which is also awesome too. Yes, it's fantastic.

530
00:28:30,000 --> 00:28:32,840
Speaker 1: I picked up her pants, I folded her laundry, and

531
00:28:32,920 --> 00:28:34,720
Speaker 1: I swear to god, I thought it was a Barbie doll.

532
00:28:34,800 --> 00:28:39,040
Speaker 1: Like it's so tiny. I know, I'm not bragging. I'm

533
00:28:39,040 --> 00:28:43,640
Speaker 1: just saying, like, it's hilarious, how little girl, she's so tiny.

534
00:28:43,800 --> 00:28:48,040
Speaker 1: I'm just folding them. It takes one little like, especially

535
00:28:48,040 --> 00:28:50,280
Speaker 1: when there's a stretching them and she's already like just

536
00:28:50,320 --> 00:28:53,360
Speaker 1: a petite girl. Yeah. Like if if you're folding her

537
00:28:53,400 --> 00:28:56,600
Speaker 1: like legging, you mean, oh my god, they're probably just

538
00:28:56,720 --> 00:29:00,240
Speaker 1: like her little like she has shorts like biker short. Yes,

539
00:29:00,320 --> 00:29:02,000
Speaker 1: oh my god. And I'm like, oh, does this come

540
00:29:02,040 --> 00:29:04,560
Speaker 1: with a ken car? Like it just felt like a

541
00:29:04,640 --> 00:29:09,040
Speaker 1: little my hands felt like. I was like, yes, I mean,

542
00:29:09,080 --> 00:29:13,320
Speaker 1: it's so funny folding us the smallest amount of fabric

543
00:29:13,320 --> 00:29:15,200
Speaker 1: at lout Lemon to buy like a size she's probably

544
00:29:15,240 --> 00:29:17,080
Speaker 1: like a size zero at lout Lemon and it's like

545
00:29:17,320 --> 00:29:21,480
Speaker 1: probably sixty dollars for this little piece of fabric that women.

546
00:29:22,080 --> 00:29:23,840
Speaker 1: But I guess, how do you mean to charge more?

547
00:29:23,880 --> 00:29:26,280
Speaker 1: If you're bigger? That would be a big problem. Yes,

548
00:29:26,320 --> 00:29:28,760
Speaker 1: it would be huge even though it's more fabric and

549
00:29:28,800 --> 00:29:31,720
Speaker 1: it should cost more, does it? Not know? And no,

550
00:29:31,840 --> 00:29:34,400
Speaker 1: they couldn't do that. Literally does cost them more because

551
00:29:34,680 --> 00:29:38,320
Speaker 1: fabric eaten more, yes, and more like stitching, there's more

552
00:29:38,640 --> 00:29:42,800
Speaker 1: to do, but they don't charge More's a difference. Yes,

553
00:29:44,000 --> 00:29:47,239
Speaker 1: it adds up. Everything adds up, but it's not like

554
00:29:47,280 --> 00:29:51,240
Speaker 1: the difference between like a compact car versus four door

555
00:29:52,880 --> 00:29:56,600
Speaker 1: you know what I mean? Video where they this girl,

556
00:29:56,680 --> 00:29:59,280
Speaker 1: This girl is I don't know she identifies as a woman,

557
00:29:59,320 --> 00:30:02,360
Speaker 1: but she's like a woman that works in like a

558
00:30:01,080 --> 00:30:05,000
Speaker 1: um a person who works in a auto shop. And

559
00:30:05,040 --> 00:30:08,040
Speaker 1: she's on TikTok and she's like, listen, elon musk, good

560
00:30:08,080 --> 00:30:11,480
Speaker 1: job of making an affordable, not only friendly car, But

561
00:30:11,560 --> 00:30:14,200
Speaker 1: this car is a piece of ship. Honestly, the construction

562
00:30:14,320 --> 00:30:16,880
Speaker 1: is worthless. And she just walks you around and all

563
00:30:17,040 --> 00:30:19,120
Speaker 1: the errors with the tesla she talked me out of

564
00:30:19,200 --> 00:30:22,280
Speaker 1: buying a tusla. I don't like. I hate when things

565
00:30:22,280 --> 00:30:24,720
Speaker 1: don't match up, Like it's really wide here, and then

566
00:30:24,720 --> 00:30:28,680
Speaker 1: this space over here is really short. This looks poorly constructed.

567
00:30:28,800 --> 00:30:30,880
Speaker 1: It looks like a four year old put together a

568
00:30:30,960 --> 00:30:33,440
Speaker 1: Lego car and which just was like, now this piece

569
00:30:33,520 --> 00:30:38,120
Speaker 1: is fine. Yeah, yeah, child, voice the same as your

570
00:30:38,200 --> 00:30:42,320
Speaker 1: dad's voice. No, my dad's now I got, Drew, that's

571
00:30:42,360 --> 00:30:45,960
Speaker 1: my mom's my mom is over here, the same voice

572
00:30:46,000 --> 00:30:49,000
Speaker 1: as the child. You just said, yes do child, but

573
00:30:49,000 --> 00:30:50,280
Speaker 1: you said it was the same thing. My dad, my

574
00:30:50,360 --> 00:30:53,520
Speaker 1: dad is he? And my dad is your Drew? Hey, Drew? No,

575
00:30:53,760 --> 00:30:59,920
Speaker 1: sometimes you got that's my mom. That's wait. Do you

576
00:31:00,000 --> 00:31:01,800
Speaker 1: do an impression in your act of your dad? Is

577
00:31:01,800 --> 00:31:04,480
Speaker 1: there any joke that your dad? Which one when he's like,

578
00:31:05,320 --> 00:31:08,960
Speaker 1: uh when he said he goes bubblicious, What does he

579
00:31:09,040 --> 00:31:13,360
Speaker 1: say he wrote bubblicious like talking about my stepmom and

580
00:31:13,520 --> 00:31:17,480
Speaker 1: just say he wrote bubblicious voice. Oh yeah, I used

581
00:31:17,520 --> 00:31:19,800
Speaker 1: to do. Oh yeah, when my dad the single joke

582
00:31:19,880 --> 00:31:23,280
Speaker 1: about sleeping in the he goes he drew your single

583
00:31:23,320 --> 00:31:25,640
Speaker 1: you might sleep be there in the pantry. Okay, that's

584
00:31:25,640 --> 00:31:30,000
Speaker 1: a good point. Next next to the good son of

585
00:31:30,000 --> 00:31:33,600
Speaker 1: a bit. Huh, put a fucking in your mouth. I

586
00:31:33,640 --> 00:31:36,200
Speaker 1: love that famous face. Let's get a person in here.

587
00:31:36,440 --> 00:31:39,560
Speaker 1: That's what my dad said. Yeah, his dad one time,

588
00:31:39,600 --> 00:31:41,720
Speaker 1: one FaceTime, was like, let me talk to Nikki, let

589
00:31:41,720 --> 00:31:44,880
Speaker 1: me see that famous face. And Andrew was mortified how

590
00:31:44,920 --> 00:31:47,840
Speaker 1: he said it, because let me see that famous face.

591
00:31:48,440 --> 00:31:52,520
Speaker 1: And he grabbed the phone. He goes, Oh, the famousest

592
00:31:52,600 --> 00:31:56,280
Speaker 1: thing I could ever hear. I mean, I love it.

593
00:31:56,880 --> 00:31:59,120
Speaker 1: I love that our dad's get excited over Nikki. Like

594
00:31:59,200 --> 00:32:04,200
Speaker 1: my dad's also changes. Well, he's just happy she's paying

595
00:32:04,720 --> 00:32:07,959
Speaker 1: paying me money and he doesn't have to anymore. They

596
00:32:08,120 --> 00:32:10,640
Speaker 1: loved me. Yeah, pick that up. That's good. Do you

597
00:32:10,680 --> 00:32:15,560
Speaker 1: just put your nails? I was like, why did you

598
00:32:15,600 --> 00:32:20,280
Speaker 1: think of hold on? Person was painting her toe nails.

599
00:32:20,320 --> 00:32:23,240
Speaker 1: She's she's sitting right now. I could never even sit

600
00:32:23,320 --> 00:32:25,720
Speaker 1: like this. This is she's doing like a frog squat.

601
00:32:25,960 --> 00:32:32,640
Speaker 1: What is that called yoga? The frog? It's looped there,

602
00:32:32,680 --> 00:32:37,040
Speaker 1: it's looped on the headphones. It's looped on the headphones. No, no, no, okay,

603
00:32:37,600 --> 00:32:40,520
Speaker 1: she's figuring out wires right now. Sorry, folks, it's a

604
00:32:40,520 --> 00:32:44,280
Speaker 1: wire situation here, all right. The wire. Welcome to the

605
00:32:44,320 --> 00:32:47,560
Speaker 1: wire where a girl does the frog squat while trying

606
00:32:47,560 --> 00:32:52,480
Speaker 1: to figure out pick up your wait, wait, wouldn't be funny.

607
00:32:52,480 --> 00:32:57,640
Speaker 1: A yoga teacher is also fights crime. But hi, Carson,

608
00:32:57,800 --> 00:33:01,560
Speaker 1: welcome to the show. Um. Everyone's happy to have you back,

609
00:33:01,600 --> 00:33:04,800
Speaker 1: including me, Noah and Andrew. Um. And I'm assuming our

610
00:33:04,840 --> 00:33:07,240
Speaker 1: listeners even though you know they haven't heard this yet.

611
00:33:07,600 --> 00:33:11,920
Speaker 1: But her, what's not to love? She's a fantastic person.

612
00:33:12,280 --> 00:33:14,240
Speaker 1: I mean, there's a few things that I could tell you.

613
00:33:14,400 --> 00:33:16,680
Speaker 1: Let's start listing them, because I really cannot find a

614
00:33:16,760 --> 00:33:21,920
Speaker 1: flo being roasted. Smell of nail polish. Yeah, I was

615
00:33:22,000 --> 00:33:23,880
Speaker 1: just organizing what's not to love? I was in your

616
00:33:23,880 --> 00:33:27,200
Speaker 1: bathroom organizing your is this mind drawer? Yeah? And I

617
00:33:27,640 --> 00:33:30,480
Speaker 1: was trying to good that's a good color. It's it's

618
00:33:30,520 --> 00:33:33,480
Speaker 1: a taste swift. Oh it's Taylor Swift color. Yeah, totally

619
00:33:33,520 --> 00:33:35,400
Speaker 1: so cute. Anyways, I that did slap a normal cricket.

620
00:33:35,400 --> 00:33:37,960
Speaker 1: Then you're like cars Dad and my pinky toe. I

621
00:33:38,040 --> 00:33:40,040
Speaker 1: know Kerson did an impression of me yesterday and it

622
00:33:40,120 --> 00:33:47,520
Speaker 1: hurt my feelings. Hold on, hold done. It was let

623
00:33:47,520 --> 00:33:50,920
Speaker 1: me just say, much like when I get roasted on

624
00:33:51,040 --> 00:33:54,520
Speaker 1: the roast, I hope you choked on whatever little piece

625
00:33:54,520 --> 00:33:58,680
Speaker 1: of whisker you just inhaled by mocking my tone, I

626
00:33:58,760 --> 00:34:06,920
Speaker 1: do inhale whiskers you yeah, my face apart into my mouth. Um.

627
00:34:06,960 --> 00:34:08,880
Speaker 1: But Curson did an impression of me that was like

628
00:34:08,880 --> 00:34:11,000
Speaker 1: a physical one. We'll have you do it in a second.

629
00:34:11,160 --> 00:34:15,839
Speaker 1: And the fact that the people following me around with cameras, uh,

630
00:34:15,880 --> 00:34:17,960
Speaker 1: they were in the other room watching it and then

631
00:34:17,960 --> 00:34:21,200
Speaker 1: they came we cut, and then they came in and

632
00:34:21,239 --> 00:34:24,239
Speaker 1: one of them remarked and said, oh my god. We

633
00:34:24,239 --> 00:34:25,719
Speaker 1: were all just watching that, like, oh my god, that

634
00:34:25,840 --> 00:34:28,600
Speaker 1: is that's Nikki. We're watching Nikki. And I was so

635
00:34:29,280 --> 00:34:31,920
Speaker 1: I was secretly so hurt because it's like it's the

636
00:34:31,960 --> 00:34:34,240
Speaker 1: way that people I don't want an impression and everyone

637
00:34:34,280 --> 00:34:36,879
Speaker 1: going like it's funny, but when people are like, I mean,

638
00:34:37,080 --> 00:34:39,600
Speaker 1: that's just you, and it's like it's like a caricature.

639
00:34:39,640 --> 00:34:42,040
Speaker 1: It's like when the you know, it's supposed to be

640
00:34:42,080 --> 00:34:43,960
Speaker 1: this over the top impression and they're like, I mean

641
00:34:44,280 --> 00:34:47,080
Speaker 1: that's just you, and it's like, well guess what, because

642
00:34:47,120 --> 00:34:49,359
Speaker 1: I moved like that and I'm fast and hasty. It's

643
00:34:49,400 --> 00:34:51,680
Speaker 1: why you all fucking have a job right now, because

644
00:34:51,680 --> 00:34:55,239
Speaker 1: if I moved like a commander a bailing whale that

645
00:34:55,360 --> 00:34:58,400
Speaker 1: was breaching in the sea. No one would have a

646
00:34:58,480 --> 00:35:01,160
Speaker 1: job work, No none us would be here. The fact

647
00:35:01,200 --> 00:35:03,200
Speaker 1: that I moved like this is also why I'm single

648
00:35:03,280 --> 00:35:05,239
Speaker 1: and everyone can make fun of me, and I'm I'm

649
00:35:05,280 --> 00:35:08,120
Speaker 1: also a bad person to be around sometimes. But it's

650
00:35:08,160 --> 00:35:11,840
Speaker 1: also note and we're all here. Well, you move real Jagged.

651
00:35:12,160 --> 00:35:15,160
Speaker 1: I know I'm a Jagget, little pill. Don't you just

652
00:35:15,200 --> 00:35:18,799
Speaker 1: go so fast? It's unbelievable, and it's in like a

653
00:35:18,840 --> 00:35:24,560
Speaker 1: really cool and endearing ways the impression do it right?

654
00:35:25,440 --> 00:35:30,640
Speaker 1: Just okay here Christian, or like take this off, Go

655
00:35:30,800 --> 00:35:36,560
Speaker 1: get my makeup bag and you can take that off. Yes, okay,

656
00:35:36,640 --> 00:35:39,640
Speaker 1: she's gonna move. Chrison, you move like in front of

657
00:35:40,320 --> 00:35:42,040
Speaker 1: keep it here so the camera can get you. You

658
00:35:42,080 --> 00:35:44,239
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying. Can we rewrite the song? Move

659
00:35:44,320 --> 00:35:48,000
Speaker 1: like Jagger? She's got the moves like Nikki or moves

660
00:35:48,080 --> 00:35:52,120
Speaker 1: real Jagged. Got those moves, real Jagged. She's got those moves,

661
00:35:53,760 --> 00:35:59,279
Speaker 1: real Jagget. She don't need no time to I mean,

662
00:35:59,320 --> 00:36:01,080
Speaker 1: I don't even know what I would say for myself.

663
00:36:01,120 --> 00:36:02,800
Speaker 1: I don't know why I moved like that. I've always

664
00:36:03,040 --> 00:36:05,560
Speaker 1: we were watching old clips of myself that Krisen's mom

665
00:36:05,640 --> 00:36:09,960
Speaker 1: took and you're moving. I moved like Jack Jagger. I've

666
00:36:10,040 --> 00:36:12,799
Speaker 1: got those moves that Jagger um. That's one of my

667
00:36:12,840 --> 00:36:15,120
Speaker 1: least favorite songs, by the way, Yeah, it's it feels

668
00:36:15,120 --> 00:36:18,360
Speaker 1: like a commercial. Yes, a lot of you know what

669
00:36:18,400 --> 00:36:20,839
Speaker 1: I mean, Like they were like, oh yeah that rock.

670
00:36:21,080 --> 00:36:23,560
Speaker 1: I never knew that song was not a commercial song.

671
00:36:23,719 --> 00:36:25,600
Speaker 1: I didn't know that was when I hear that, Like, Okay,

672
00:36:25,640 --> 00:36:31,080
Speaker 1: here comes Nicky. Hey, Nikki, we gotta get to the airport. Yeah,

673
00:36:31,160 --> 00:36:39,200
Speaker 1: just put some stuff together. Yeah, okay, thanks yeah nick Yeah,

674
00:36:39,520 --> 00:36:43,279
Speaker 1: okay are you a little starting to podcast? Yeah, well yeah,

675
00:36:43,360 --> 00:36:49,239
Speaker 1: we're so, I'm talking to Nicki right now. Hey. I know,

676
00:36:49,320 --> 00:36:51,040
Speaker 1: but the podcast was supposed to start a little while.

677
00:36:51,320 --> 00:36:53,239
Speaker 1: Yeah are you I was going to be carrying like

678
00:36:53,239 --> 00:36:57,440
Speaker 1: ten of these and it so, NICKI don't know, how's

679
00:36:57,440 --> 00:36:59,640
Speaker 1: your day going? I mean it's like it's fine, Like

680
00:36:59,680 --> 00:37:03,400
Speaker 1: I just like like two minutes, like it's like, where

681
00:37:03,560 --> 00:37:08,120
Speaker 1: is my my I don't know where? What do you

682
00:37:08,120 --> 00:37:10,520
Speaker 1: have to do? Say? Can you get Luigi's leash? Yeah?

683
00:37:11,560 --> 00:37:15,520
Speaker 1: Got it? Andrew, Andrew, what I'm trying to work on

684
00:37:15,520 --> 00:37:17,560
Speaker 1: my golf swing. I feel just like a bean, mean

685
00:37:17,680 --> 00:37:19,759
Speaker 1: right now, But I can take it. I can take it.

686
00:37:19,800 --> 00:37:22,799
Speaker 1: But the thing is the thing is you get so

687
00:37:22,880 --> 00:37:27,919
Speaker 1: much stuff done. I like this new set. Yeah, go ahead,

688
00:37:29,040 --> 00:37:31,640
Speaker 1: get so much stuff done and so little time, and

689
00:37:31,719 --> 00:37:34,960
Speaker 1: you are efficient and you just you command the Okay,

690
00:37:35,120 --> 00:37:38,319
Speaker 1: how am I supposed to do? Like? I just don't.

691
00:37:38,360 --> 00:37:41,120
Speaker 1: I mean, I don't know how I Sometimes I try

692
00:37:41,120 --> 00:37:43,120
Speaker 1: to just move like this is the way person would

693
00:37:43,120 --> 00:37:45,160
Speaker 1: put away brushes. Okay, let me do this here for

694
00:37:45,200 --> 00:37:48,360
Speaker 1: the camera, like she would just go and then she

695
00:37:48,360 --> 00:37:50,719
Speaker 1: would put them each in the sleeve like individually like

696
00:37:50,800 --> 00:37:54,120
Speaker 1: this and like slide them in and then okay, now

697
00:37:54,120 --> 00:37:56,440
Speaker 1: you do you And then this is this is person zipping?

698
00:37:56,960 --> 00:38:00,120
Speaker 1: Can I actually do it and show you? No? And

699
00:38:00,120 --> 00:38:03,759
Speaker 1: I would just go like that in person would go

700
00:38:04,520 --> 00:38:09,279
Speaker 1: no me. It's just a difference. It's a different um style. No,

701
00:38:09,400 --> 00:38:11,040
Speaker 1: I move in away that It's like I try to

702
00:38:11,080 --> 00:38:12,920
Speaker 1: be really fast. But I also if you had like

703
00:38:13,040 --> 00:38:17,200
Speaker 1: vinyasa yoga like flowing, and I go too fast into

704
00:38:17,239 --> 00:38:19,719
Speaker 1: like out of control, then it makes me think, oh

705
00:38:19,760 --> 00:38:21,600
Speaker 1: my god, like if I just go here, this is

706
00:38:21,600 --> 00:38:27,560
Speaker 1: the same speed. Okay, yeah, you're pretty much getting exactly

707
00:38:27,600 --> 00:38:32,080
Speaker 1: the same done. No no, no, no, you aren't okay,

708
00:38:32,120 --> 00:38:36,720
Speaker 1: Well that was that was pretty efficient? But was that pretty?

709
00:38:36,840 --> 00:38:38,719
Speaker 1: When she's on her phone? This is my impression of

710
00:38:38,719 --> 00:38:41,400
Speaker 1: like Anya on her phone us me, So this is

711
00:38:41,440 --> 00:38:43,360
Speaker 1: me on my phone. I'm just gonna give for the

712
00:38:43,440 --> 00:38:45,320
Speaker 1: for the audio listeners. You can watch this on YouTube.

713
00:38:45,320 --> 00:38:47,960
Speaker 1: But I'll do clicks for this. So I'll go like

714
00:38:48,239 --> 00:38:50,920
Speaker 1: I'll just swipe up and then like I'm just like

715
00:38:51,360 --> 00:38:54,319
Speaker 1: I used both my thumbs active. Anya will go with

716
00:38:54,360 --> 00:39:02,520
Speaker 1: her finger like genitally like swipe, swipe, swipe, pressing each

717
00:39:02,560 --> 00:39:05,640
Speaker 1: button like press. There's a press, I just go tap on.

718
00:39:05,800 --> 00:39:12,399
Speaker 1: You will like press and then press do you want

719
00:39:12,400 --> 00:39:14,640
Speaker 1: to watch? You want to watch something? Watch me blindly

720
00:39:14,680 --> 00:39:17,200
Speaker 1: type on my okay, tell me what to text. I'm

721
00:39:17,200 --> 00:39:21,000
Speaker 1: gonna see you look this way headed to Starbucks and

722
00:39:21,080 --> 00:39:23,560
Speaker 1: I look at the first letter I need this stire Bucks.

723
00:39:23,560 --> 00:39:25,520
Speaker 1: I'm putting a mobile order in what do you want?

724
00:39:26,200 --> 00:39:28,719
Speaker 1: That's such a real text you would get Andrew new

725
00:39:28,800 --> 00:39:33,520
Speaker 1: right away. I mean your thumbs are are your right

726
00:39:33,600 --> 00:39:35,479
Speaker 1: thumb is something else? I did the Starbucks and putting

727
00:39:35,520 --> 00:39:38,840
Speaker 1: a moile order in what do you want? Boom no,

728
00:39:39,000 --> 00:39:42,040
Speaker 1: looking that's pretty good. That's very good. So don't tell

729
00:39:42,080 --> 00:39:46,880
Speaker 1: me I can't text and drive. I'm just kidding. I

730
00:39:46,880 --> 00:39:49,080
Speaker 1: don't text and drive. Take your movement, Nikki. I think

731
00:39:49,080 --> 00:39:51,919
Speaker 1: it makes you know what I do. Who I am.

732
00:39:52,000 --> 00:39:53,840
Speaker 1: I can't fight it. You know what it's like the

733
00:39:54,200 --> 00:39:56,799
Speaker 1: it's like love on the spectrum. I can't help who

734
00:39:56,920 --> 00:39:59,640
Speaker 1: I am. I'm that girl on love in the spectrum

735
00:39:59,680 --> 00:40:02,680
Speaker 1: who talk like that. Yeah, hi, guys, I just having

736
00:40:02,719 --> 00:40:06,000
Speaker 1: a good day, just like do you find that you

737
00:40:06,080 --> 00:40:09,440
Speaker 1: might either a forget something because you're moving so fast

738
00:40:09,520 --> 00:40:11,960
Speaker 1: the last second, or you have to do something twice

739
00:40:12,120 --> 00:40:13,919
Speaker 1: because you don't do it right the first time because

740
00:40:13,920 --> 00:40:16,680
Speaker 1: you're going too fast. The times I do forget things

741
00:40:16,719 --> 00:40:20,400
Speaker 1: and the times that I do overlook things, um is

742
00:40:20,960 --> 00:40:23,480
Speaker 1: I I do. I get more done than the average person.

743
00:40:23,480 --> 00:40:25,600
Speaker 1: There are times where I think slip my mind, but

744
00:40:25,640 --> 00:40:28,680
Speaker 1: I think that those times I either make do without

745
00:40:28,680 --> 00:40:31,840
Speaker 1: the thing I forgot or I just go back and

746
00:40:31,880 --> 00:40:34,120
Speaker 1: get it and I don't. In the end, I'm saving

747
00:40:34,160 --> 00:40:36,360
Speaker 1: time by moving fast, and it's not because I'm in

748
00:40:36,400 --> 00:40:39,040
Speaker 1: a rush. It's because that's just like how I like

749
00:40:39,160 --> 00:40:42,080
Speaker 1: to move. And when I watch people like tapping and

750
00:40:42,120 --> 00:40:47,759
Speaker 1: putting in orders like yeah, I just listen. If someone

751
00:40:47,840 --> 00:40:50,560
Speaker 1: like me who classically is a very fast person, and

752
00:40:50,600 --> 00:40:52,719
Speaker 1: it's always like, you know, there was a question on

753
00:40:52,719 --> 00:40:55,120
Speaker 1: that sixteen Personalities test that we were talking about that

754
00:40:55,239 --> 00:40:58,120
Speaker 1: was like, do you frequently get impatient with people? Andrew

755
00:40:58,200 --> 00:40:59,759
Speaker 1: was asking me the question and I just go yes

756
00:41:00,080 --> 00:41:03,400
Speaker 1: before he would finish the question. So if someone like

757
00:41:03,480 --> 00:41:08,200
Speaker 1: that can meditate and sit for twenty minutes still and meditate,

758
00:41:08,680 --> 00:41:11,839
Speaker 1: you can too, So like I can slow down. I

759
00:41:11,880 --> 00:41:15,200
Speaker 1: don't like yoga, I don't like slow exercises. I like

760
00:41:15,239 --> 00:41:17,880
Speaker 1: being fast, but I can. I can slow down. I

761
00:41:17,920 --> 00:41:19,839
Speaker 1: feel like it's all the way one way or all

762
00:41:19,840 --> 00:41:22,440
Speaker 1: the way the other way. But I'm with you too.

763
00:41:22,520 --> 00:41:25,080
Speaker 1: I do the same kind of ship. Like I'm very uh,

764
00:41:25,160 --> 00:41:28,360
Speaker 1: you know, I've left my suitcase. I ran away in

765
00:41:28,400 --> 00:41:31,560
Speaker 1: a taxi. I came to New York to visit family.

766
00:41:31,600 --> 00:41:33,759
Speaker 1: I just ran away from my own suitcase and lost

767
00:41:33,800 --> 00:41:36,920
Speaker 1: my suitcase. Like it's a d D probably similar and

768
00:41:36,960 --> 00:41:39,960
Speaker 1: stuff like that. But like I I do plenty of things. Lately,

769
00:41:39,960 --> 00:41:41,960
Speaker 1: I've been able to slow down. I think ZOFT helps

770
00:41:42,000 --> 00:41:44,719
Speaker 1: a lot for that. Yeah, is there anything though that

771
00:41:44,800 --> 00:41:47,080
Speaker 1: like this is one of the things of my personality

772
00:41:47,120 --> 00:41:50,759
Speaker 1: that I wish I could just I'm glad honestly now

773
00:41:50,800 --> 00:41:52,920
Speaker 1: I'm fine with it and I know that I get

774
00:41:53,120 --> 00:41:55,880
Speaker 1: that people benefit from me and I benefit from me

775
00:41:56,000 --> 00:41:57,560
Speaker 1: moving the way I am, and I'm not doing it

776
00:41:57,600 --> 00:41:59,279
Speaker 1: to be a bad person. I'm just in the way

777
00:41:59,280 --> 00:42:01,640
Speaker 1: I am. I can't help bit. But is there anything

778
00:42:01,680 --> 00:42:03,360
Speaker 1: like it used to be? Like the thing I was

779
00:42:03,440 --> 00:42:06,360
Speaker 1: most ashamed of of, Like why can't I just be graceful?

780
00:42:06,480 --> 00:42:08,440
Speaker 1: You know, like no one's ever described me as graceful

781
00:42:08,440 --> 00:42:11,880
Speaker 1: except one person, and I like, well, never forget it.

782
00:42:11,920 --> 00:42:14,319
Speaker 1: Just was like I laughed at their face because I

783
00:42:14,360 --> 00:42:17,480
Speaker 1: was like, that is so funny. No, that's the last

784
00:42:17,520 --> 00:42:21,320
Speaker 1: thing ever to be great. You're a good enough actor

785
00:42:21,320 --> 00:42:24,359
Speaker 1: impersonator where but it would feel like you're acting as

786
00:42:24,400 --> 00:42:26,759
Speaker 1: someone that's being great, like you're really graceful and f

787
00:42:26,880 --> 00:42:29,359
Speaker 1: boy when you're hosting, like you would stand up and

788
00:42:29,400 --> 00:42:32,920
Speaker 1: like here I felt naturally like because I was like

789
00:42:33,040 --> 00:42:35,319
Speaker 1: the commander of that show, so I felt like I

790
00:42:35,480 --> 00:42:41,279
Speaker 1: need to show poise and you know, direct it's not

791
00:42:41,440 --> 00:42:44,279
Speaker 1: your natural state, right, and so I don't feel as

792
00:42:44,280 --> 00:42:47,279
Speaker 1: comfortable doing it enough. Way it was comfortable because it

793
00:42:47,320 --> 00:42:49,200
Speaker 1: was what I needed to do for that moment, So

794
00:42:49,239 --> 00:42:51,600
Speaker 1: like what I need to do for a moment feels natural,

795
00:42:51,680 --> 00:42:55,720
Speaker 1: but um or for the role. However, is there anything

796
00:42:55,760 --> 00:42:57,759
Speaker 1: that you guys can think of that like about your

797
00:42:57,760 --> 00:42:59,879
Speaker 1: own selves that you're like, God, if I could change

798
00:42:59,880 --> 00:43:02,080
Speaker 1: the thing about myself. I feel like my whole life

799
00:43:02,080 --> 00:43:04,279
Speaker 1: has been like I wish I could just not be

800
00:43:04,480 --> 00:43:06,560
Speaker 1: this way and that way and that, And I'm just wondering,

801
00:43:06,640 --> 00:43:10,319
Speaker 1: is that is it just me? No? Everyone has that,

802
00:43:10,560 --> 00:43:12,960
Speaker 1: And even the people that you perceive physic that you

803
00:43:13,040 --> 00:43:16,480
Speaker 1: perceive as graceful had to work on being graced And

804
00:43:16,520 --> 00:43:18,279
Speaker 1: I was looking at on Reddit and they were just

805
00:43:18,280 --> 00:43:21,120
Speaker 1: showing like pictures of her, like her last phote. I followed.

806
00:43:23,000 --> 00:43:27,400
Speaker 1: I followed, like, yeah, last images and it's like the

807
00:43:27,480 --> 00:43:30,480
Speaker 1: last picture of people before they die. And even that,

808
00:43:30,640 --> 00:43:36,600
Speaker 1: she was just like like her cheekbones were just sucked

809
00:43:36,600 --> 00:43:38,319
Speaker 1: in and she was so and her hair's pulled back

810
00:43:38,360 --> 00:43:41,480
Speaker 1: like a ballerina. She just looked graceful. And I'm just liked,

811
00:43:41,600 --> 00:43:45,280
Speaker 1: even when she was just rickety and old, she still

812
00:43:45,280 --> 00:43:48,840
Speaker 1: looked like graceful. And there's something about not being graceful

813
00:43:48,880 --> 00:43:50,879
Speaker 1: that's not like you're not a woman, and that's why

814
00:43:50,880 --> 00:43:54,959
Speaker 1: I feel, Yeah, but I love when women don't there's

815
00:43:54,960 --> 00:43:58,120
Speaker 1: something about but but there's like a boogie nous, too

816
00:43:58,160 --> 00:44:01,319
Speaker 1: graceful that I don't really find attractive, Like I kind

817
00:44:01,320 --> 00:44:03,000
Speaker 1: of like a girl that you feel like would roll

818
00:44:03,040 --> 00:44:05,880
Speaker 1: around in the mud and like like you know what

819
00:44:05,920 --> 00:44:09,279
Speaker 1: I mean, Like I don't know, like doesn't isn't too like, Oh,

820
00:44:09,440 --> 00:44:15,279
Speaker 1: is there anything about your personality pompous? Yeah, when you're

821
00:44:15,280 --> 00:44:18,560
Speaker 1: on a show. Oh my gosh, it's on. It's worse

822
00:44:18,680 --> 00:44:20,480
Speaker 1: as the mask I found in your drawer to throw away.

823
00:44:20,480 --> 00:44:22,480
Speaker 1: And I pulled up the trust to the example of

824
00:44:22,480 --> 00:44:24,279
Speaker 1: what I was, like, I need a mask because that's

825
00:44:24,360 --> 00:44:26,920
Speaker 1: when I gave you to use as a poopil. This

826
00:44:27,040 --> 00:44:29,640
Speaker 1: was in the drawer and I found it. Anyways, I

827
00:44:29,719 --> 00:44:32,000
Speaker 1: would say that, like I have to be a certain

828
00:44:32,040 --> 00:44:34,719
Speaker 1: way for work to look, like if people see me

829
00:44:34,800 --> 00:44:36,399
Speaker 1: like I'm training all day, if they see me coming

830
00:44:36,440 --> 00:44:39,719
Speaker 1: in like like greeting my next client, like hey, I

831
00:44:39,800 --> 00:44:42,640
Speaker 1: want to me okay, um wait next thing, We're gonna

832
00:44:42,640 --> 00:44:46,160
Speaker 1: don okay this. But like you're behind the scenes, you

833
00:44:46,200 --> 00:44:48,480
Speaker 1: can do that and no one is going to judge you.

834
00:44:48,520 --> 00:44:52,840
Speaker 1: But I need to appear like I don't feel but no,

835
00:44:52,960 --> 00:44:54,759
Speaker 1: when I'm like when I have like one minute to

836
00:44:54,840 --> 00:44:56,719
Speaker 1: run and go pee and go get a second running

837
00:44:56,719 --> 00:44:58,399
Speaker 1: back at grab an ex client and be like, hey,

838
00:44:58,520 --> 00:45:01,120
Speaker 1: calman present, I have to be like if I bring

839
00:45:01,120 --> 00:45:03,680
Speaker 1: that energy into the next hour and be like I'm

840
00:45:03,719 --> 00:45:05,920
Speaker 1: doing the behavior around people all the time that are

841
00:45:05,920 --> 00:45:08,480
Speaker 1: working for me. I supposed to, but you're not to

842
00:45:08,520 --> 00:45:11,440
Speaker 1: be supposed to be like a calm present like teacher

843
00:45:11,520 --> 00:45:14,440
Speaker 1: for an hour. It's like people are paying for me

844
00:45:14,520 --> 00:45:16,399
Speaker 1: to show up. I wasn't asking if you have that,

845
00:45:16,440 --> 00:45:18,040
Speaker 1: but like, do you have anything about your personality that

846
00:45:18,080 --> 00:45:20,439
Speaker 1: you're like, God, I wish is just the way I am. Well,

847
00:45:20,480 --> 00:45:23,160
Speaker 1: I've overcome the fact that I'm like a total spas.

848
00:45:23,880 --> 00:45:27,279
Speaker 1: What do you mean by your your total spas? Like

849
00:45:27,440 --> 00:45:30,440
Speaker 1: I always wished I wouldn't be one of those Like

850
00:45:31,640 --> 00:45:33,480
Speaker 1: how do I explain it? Like a girl who's just

851
00:45:33,560 --> 00:45:36,440
Speaker 1: like kind of just cool and coy and like beautiful

852
00:45:36,560 --> 00:45:42,839
Speaker 1: versus like like doing like faces and funny. My face

853
00:45:42,960 --> 00:45:45,960
Speaker 1: is really animated and like I've been called like you

854
00:45:45,960 --> 00:45:47,920
Speaker 1: look like a cartoon character and it's like, don't know

855
00:45:48,000 --> 00:45:50,000
Speaker 1: how to I'd rather look like, oh, you look like

856
00:45:50,000 --> 00:45:51,839
Speaker 1: a supermodel, but that's not me. I don't know if

857
00:45:51,840 --> 00:45:54,120
Speaker 1: I don't want to change that, but in the past

858
00:45:54,160 --> 00:45:56,600
Speaker 1: I have had to battle with that's just who I am,

859
00:45:56,880 --> 00:45:58,879
Speaker 1: that that people are always going to laugh at things

860
00:45:58,920 --> 00:46:00,480
Speaker 1: that you're not even trying to be funny. You're just

861
00:46:00,520 --> 00:46:02,800
Speaker 1: trying to describe your day, and you're so weird and

862
00:46:02,960 --> 00:46:07,400
Speaker 1: you're so quirky, you're so random. It's kind of a compliment.

863
00:46:07,440 --> 00:46:10,080
Speaker 1: I guess I've gotten spass so much too. It just

864
00:46:10,160 --> 00:46:13,279
Speaker 1: means it comes off as like you're crazy and young,

865
00:46:13,360 --> 00:46:15,319
Speaker 1: lady light and when people say you're like all over,

866
00:46:15,440 --> 00:46:17,319
Speaker 1: like whoa, You're like here and there and all over.

867
00:46:17,360 --> 00:46:20,920
Speaker 1: It's like I try to reel it in, but I

868
00:46:20,960 --> 00:46:23,440
Speaker 1: don't know. I just don't want to confuse people, like

869
00:46:23,600 --> 00:46:25,640
Speaker 1: especially like it worked when I'm supposed to be professional,

870
00:46:25,719 --> 00:46:27,840
Speaker 1: Like I don't want to like be a confusing You

871
00:46:27,840 --> 00:46:29,320
Speaker 1: guys are like I wish I was more lady like,

872
00:46:29,440 --> 00:46:31,000
Speaker 1: And then part of me is like I wish I

873
00:46:31,080 --> 00:46:34,600
Speaker 1: was more I guess manly, like I could build stuff

874
00:46:34,840 --> 00:46:37,200
Speaker 1: and like want to do it. That's the thing. It's

875
00:46:37,200 --> 00:46:39,440
Speaker 1: like I don't want to do. Yes, there's a lot

876
00:46:39,440 --> 00:46:42,560
Speaker 1: of things even though the whole like measure twice, cut once.

877
00:46:42,920 --> 00:46:45,960
Speaker 1: I'm more of a cut once and then leave it

878
00:46:46,000 --> 00:46:50,000
Speaker 1: and then move out, you know, with your eye wing

879
00:46:50,040 --> 00:46:55,160
Speaker 1: it and off. I worked for my brother and we

880
00:46:55,160 --> 00:46:57,560
Speaker 1: were working in this factory, and for some reason we

881
00:46:57,640 --> 00:47:02,040
Speaker 1: had to paint cages. So then like gave you whatever

882
00:47:02,160 --> 00:47:05,319
Speaker 1: you they wanted, like more brightness, to know where things are,

883
00:47:05,960 --> 00:47:08,160
Speaker 1: like to organize, because that was the whole thing, to

884
00:47:08,239 --> 00:47:11,319
Speaker 1: organize factories and sore, like here's some red paint, Go

885
00:47:11,440 --> 00:47:15,359
Speaker 1: paint that cage. And I started like, oh, you know,

886
00:47:15,640 --> 00:47:17,680
Speaker 1: and then by the end of it, I had paint

887
00:47:17,840 --> 00:47:20,719
Speaker 1: all over me, and the floor had paint on it,

888
00:47:20,840 --> 00:47:22,799
Speaker 1: and there was paint on the wall. Like it was

889
00:47:22,880 --> 00:47:25,000
Speaker 1: just like have you ever used a sharpie marker? And

890
00:47:25,040 --> 00:47:28,080
Speaker 1: I'm like, how did this get on my ass? Crack?

891
00:47:28,360 --> 00:47:30,640
Speaker 1: Like how did this bleed? Every Like I can't use

892
00:47:30,640 --> 00:47:33,160
Speaker 1: a marker without it all down my arm, all over

893
00:47:33,200 --> 00:47:36,400
Speaker 1: my body underneath my clothing. I'm like, can't I just

894
00:47:36,600 --> 00:47:39,440
Speaker 1: use my hand and like be gentle even the way

895
00:47:39,480 --> 00:47:41,600
Speaker 1: I right is just chaotic. We gotta get to the name.

896
00:47:41,640 --> 00:47:45,360
Speaker 1: They call me crumbs, you know, they do call you cross,

897
00:47:46,000 --> 00:47:54,239
Speaker 1: They do call you crops. They cross firststay, just cleaned

898
00:47:54,280 --> 00:47:57,320
Speaker 1: up all those crumbs out there. Appreciate that. All the

899
00:47:57,400 --> 00:47:59,960
Speaker 1: swells to you, both of you. Um, I hope you already.

900
00:48:00,000 --> 00:48:02,320
Speaker 1: Great time out there. It's Wednesday. You know what that means, folks,

901
00:48:02,400 --> 00:48:06,560
Speaker 1: It is a Wednesday alright. A year ago, a young

902
00:48:06,600 --> 00:48:10,000
Speaker 1: girl lost her favorite toy, Teddy, while hiking with her

903
00:48:10,000 --> 00:48:12,960
Speaker 1: family in Glacier National Park. Thanks to a park ranger,

904
00:48:13,080 --> 00:48:17,600
Speaker 1: she was recently reunited with it. Teddy was no average bear,

905
00:48:18,040 --> 00:48:21,000
Speaker 1: holding deep significance to her, as he was the first

906
00:48:21,040 --> 00:48:24,160
Speaker 1: gift she received from her adoptive family before meeting them

907
00:48:24,200 --> 00:48:28,560
Speaker 1: when she was still in Ethiopian orphanage in two thousand sixteen.

908
00:48:28,840 --> 00:48:32,080
Speaker 1: Oh my god. Also, the park ranger founded in a

909
00:48:32,160 --> 00:48:35,560
Speaker 1: snowstorm and put it on his truck's dashboard for about

910
00:48:35,560 --> 00:48:38,360
Speaker 1: a year. A friend of a family spotted it a

911
00:48:38,440 --> 00:48:42,680
Speaker 1: year later. That's so cute. What a story. It's like

912
00:48:42,719 --> 00:48:45,440
Speaker 1: a dog over it. By then she was like, no,

913
00:48:45,560 --> 00:48:52,920
Speaker 1: I'm into yeah, I'm doing M D M A. Now

914
00:48:54,160 --> 00:48:57,040
Speaker 1: that's so adorable. I love the story of like it's

915
00:48:57,120 --> 00:48:59,760
Speaker 1: kind of like, you know, that's a toy. That's toy story, Like, yeah,

916
00:49:00,320 --> 00:49:03,440
Speaker 1: that should be a motion picture where a child loses

917
00:49:03,440 --> 00:49:08,279
Speaker 1: their bear in Yellowstone Park and encounters real bears. I

918
00:49:08,320 --> 00:49:10,799
Speaker 1: think that is a story. That's a movie. It is,

919
00:49:10,920 --> 00:49:13,400
Speaker 1: it has to be. I want to buy the rights

920
00:49:13,400 --> 00:49:16,279
Speaker 1: to that. Like today we make it about my baby

921
00:49:16,280 --> 00:49:18,840
Speaker 1: blanket that I still sleep with. Bernal. Yeah, is that

922
00:49:18,880 --> 00:49:24,919
Speaker 1: what it's called. His name is Bernal. It's a guy.

923
00:49:25,400 --> 00:49:28,680
Speaker 1: It was like called Bernal again. I don't know I

924
00:49:28,719 --> 00:49:30,600
Speaker 1: came up. I was such a cute name. I was

925
00:49:30,640 --> 00:49:33,879
Speaker 1: like in free school, kindergarten and I came home from

926
00:49:33,880 --> 00:49:35,960
Speaker 1: my neighbor's house and I was like, this is my Bernal.

927
00:49:36,040 --> 00:49:38,160
Speaker 1: Her mom was like okay, and I still have it.

928
00:49:38,280 --> 00:49:39,880
Speaker 1: I always wanted to be one of those kids with

929
00:49:39,920 --> 00:49:42,279
Speaker 1: like a velveteen rabbit or something that was like I

930
00:49:42,280 --> 00:49:44,480
Speaker 1: loved it so much. It will you do? It's that

931
00:49:44,520 --> 00:49:46,680
Speaker 1: pillow you sleep. I know now I have one, but

932
00:49:46,760 --> 00:49:48,560
Speaker 1: as a kid, I always dreamed of it. I would

933
00:49:48,600 --> 00:49:50,600
Speaker 1: get new stuffed animals. I'd be like, this is it,

934
00:49:50,719 --> 00:49:56,200
Speaker 1: and then I would just ditch it in a day. Honestly. Yeah,

935
00:49:56,239 --> 00:49:58,319
Speaker 1: we had doodle Bear. We had right on that thing

936
00:49:59,000 --> 00:50:00,440
Speaker 1: that was a real That was a old toy that

937
00:50:00,480 --> 00:50:01,840
Speaker 1: came with a marker and you write on it. And

938
00:50:02,000 --> 00:50:05,680
Speaker 1: throw it in the wash. It's like a kid's cast. Yeah.

939
00:50:05,719 --> 00:50:08,840
Speaker 1: Did you ever have a loved a velveteen rabbit of sorts?

940
00:50:09,000 --> 00:50:11,160
Speaker 1: I guess you would say, like we had these wrestling

941
00:50:11,920 --> 00:50:16,160
Speaker 1: like plastic Wrestling, Whole Cogan and Ultimate wor Yeah, and

942
00:50:16,200 --> 00:50:18,920
Speaker 1: those are pretty nice. Like I slept with those guys

943
00:50:18,960 --> 00:50:20,840
Speaker 1: and I think I blew one. But I wanted a

944
00:50:20,960 --> 00:50:22,960
Speaker 1: thing like even just suck my thumb. I wanted a

945
00:50:23,080 --> 00:50:26,040
Speaker 1: kid thing that like never had that. I remember saying

946
00:50:26,080 --> 00:50:29,200
Speaker 1: what I wanted. You know, like my friend, my friend,

947
00:50:29,320 --> 00:50:31,480
Speaker 1: she still sucks her thumb as a thirty, like a

948
00:50:31,480 --> 00:50:34,160
Speaker 1: forty year old woman. She just still sucks. It's like

949
00:50:34,200 --> 00:50:36,520
Speaker 1: a soothing I wanted to. I don't know why I

950
00:50:36,520 --> 00:50:38,960
Speaker 1: didn't come up with a soothing technique. Stressed out kid,

951
00:50:39,160 --> 00:50:41,480
Speaker 1: you well your cuticles now, I picked up my knee

952
00:50:42,000 --> 00:50:43,680
Speaker 1: thing and then I also picked up my cuticles. But

953
00:50:43,680 --> 00:50:45,000
Speaker 1: I didn't have that as a kid. I wasn't picking

954
00:50:45,080 --> 00:50:47,120
Speaker 1: up cuticles. You didn't like do I would wake up

955
00:50:47,120 --> 00:50:48,520
Speaker 1: in the middle of the night, I still do it?

956
00:50:48,840 --> 00:50:53,840
Speaker 1: Hold on what and I was just like down and

957
00:50:53,880 --> 00:50:56,279
Speaker 1: then I just stroke it and my wrist goes limp

958
00:50:56,280 --> 00:50:58,120
Speaker 1: and it just goes like this, you and coke with

959
00:50:58,160 --> 00:51:01,440
Speaker 1: Andrew back in two thousand for How About to Go?

960
00:51:01,960 --> 00:51:04,040
Speaker 1: And it's like, Andrew, would you even do coke? Because

961
00:51:04,560 --> 00:51:07,120
Speaker 1: his wrist would get limp, do your coke face? And

962
00:51:07,120 --> 00:51:11,600
Speaker 1: he'd go up to girls and hey, my friends got

963
00:51:11,600 --> 00:51:14,040
Speaker 1: a table out in the back, and you thought it

964
00:51:14,080 --> 00:51:16,320
Speaker 1: was like the hottest thing. Did you see a picture

965
00:51:16,360 --> 00:51:18,600
Speaker 1: of yourself or something to see that? Oh? Yeah, I

966
00:51:18,600 --> 00:51:21,200
Speaker 1: have this picture here, I'll show you. I literally have

967
00:51:21,280 --> 00:51:23,200
Speaker 1: it on my Instagram. I posted it the other day

968
00:51:23,200 --> 00:51:25,920
Speaker 1: with Rusty. You're gonna see it. You're gonna lose your

969
00:51:25,920 --> 00:51:29,120
Speaker 1: mind because it's exactly what I'm describing. It's funny, how

970
00:51:29,120 --> 00:51:32,840
Speaker 1: like when you're drinking or you'd bring it in. Really

971
00:51:32,920 --> 00:51:35,239
Speaker 1: did look like that? We gotta put that up on

972
00:51:35,440 --> 00:51:40,600
Speaker 1: the YouTube. Yeah, And in my mind, I'm going that

973
00:51:40,800 --> 00:51:43,560
Speaker 1: guy's did you realize you looked like that from that picture?

974
00:51:43,680 --> 00:51:46,759
Speaker 1: Or when? Did anyone ever tell you? Hey? But I

975
00:51:46,760 --> 00:51:49,200
Speaker 1: could feel it happening, but I couldn't do anything about it.

976
00:51:49,600 --> 00:51:51,160
Speaker 1: Have you ever had a moment where someone did an

977
00:51:51,200 --> 00:51:54,200
Speaker 1: impression of you and your or said something about you

978
00:51:54,280 --> 00:51:56,720
Speaker 1: and Jess and you go, wait what and everyone laughs

979
00:51:56,719 --> 00:51:58,759
Speaker 1: and you go. I didn't even know. I was like that, Well,

980
00:51:58,760 --> 00:52:00,520
Speaker 1: you know what. I also did limp brisk when I

981
00:52:00,520 --> 00:52:03,279
Speaker 1: played football, and people made fun of They would see

982
00:52:03,280 --> 00:52:05,040
Speaker 1: it on the video. We'd watched the video and they're like, wait,

983
00:52:05,080 --> 00:52:08,200
Speaker 1: look at Colin and I would stand like this, like

984
00:52:08,360 --> 00:52:10,960
Speaker 1: on foot, like this is the last thing to show

985
00:52:11,000 --> 00:52:13,319
Speaker 1: how tough you are on a football field. Wrestler stance

986
00:52:13,360 --> 00:52:16,880
Speaker 1: they got to begin. It's like always that weird. I

987
00:52:16,920 --> 00:52:20,960
Speaker 1: wish I called it the raptor, you know, but they're

988
00:52:20,960 --> 00:52:23,759
Speaker 1: actually the size of a turkey on Yeah. Well that's

989
00:52:23,760 --> 00:52:27,120
Speaker 1: what I learned from Love on the Spectrum. Noah asked

990
00:52:27,120 --> 00:52:30,160
Speaker 1: me what I learned from that series and upon completion,

991
00:52:31,000 --> 00:52:34,200
Speaker 1: and I just learned it was they're the best people. Yeah,

992
00:52:34,360 --> 00:52:37,000
Speaker 1: I love I love people with autism. I love them.

993
00:52:37,080 --> 00:52:39,399
Speaker 1: And now when they come up to the meeting, great

994
00:52:39,440 --> 00:52:41,400
Speaker 1: after show you can you can see it. I think

995
00:52:41,440 --> 00:52:43,200
Speaker 1: a little bit more. I was just telling about that

996
00:52:43,200 --> 00:52:45,200
Speaker 1: guy that I met this weekend and I was so

997
00:52:45,719 --> 00:52:48,919
Speaker 1: he was almost like, easy, lady, I don't need more friends. Yeah,

998
00:52:48,920 --> 00:52:50,799
Speaker 1: the first time you ever made in contact was to

999
00:52:50,800 --> 00:52:55,040
Speaker 1: tell you to get away from him. He's like, okay,

1000
00:52:55,320 --> 00:52:58,680
Speaker 1: all right, Okay, I was kidding about this autism thing, Lady,

1001
00:52:58,680 --> 00:53:01,319
Speaker 1: get out of here. I really was like, Hi, oh

1002
00:53:01,360 --> 00:53:03,080
Speaker 1: my god, like because I could sense it from a

1003
00:53:03,640 --> 00:53:06,680
Speaker 1: like far off. And his sister was like, this is

1004
00:53:07,320 --> 00:53:09,160
Speaker 1: so and so, and I was just like hot, like

1005
00:53:09,920 --> 00:53:13,600
Speaker 1: spiders and toothpaste. Yeah, that's what they did. That's the

1006
00:53:13,600 --> 00:53:15,960
Speaker 1: funny thing on Love on the Spectrum is whenever they

1007
00:53:15,960 --> 00:53:18,640
Speaker 1: introduced a new character, they say, there's this British woman

1008
00:53:18,680 --> 00:53:23,640
Speaker 1: who goes this is Katie. She hates loud screaming noises

1009
00:53:23,640 --> 00:53:25,759
Speaker 1: and it'll be like a woman like yeah, and be

1010
00:53:25,920 --> 00:53:30,480
Speaker 1: like and doors opening quietly and also spiders with more

1011
00:53:30,600 --> 00:53:34,000
Speaker 1: than three legs and it's just like it's worst. You

1012
00:53:34,000 --> 00:53:36,400
Speaker 1: can just tell that. They asked people with in the

1013
00:53:36,400 --> 00:53:38,160
Speaker 1: show like what are your likes and what are your

1014
00:53:38,160 --> 00:53:40,640
Speaker 1: just likes, and they it's just a way to intro characters.

1015
00:53:40,880 --> 00:53:43,600
Speaker 1: But then there was this one woman or guy that

1016
00:53:43,640 --> 00:53:45,920
Speaker 1: went on a date with an euotypical person that did

1017
00:53:45,920 --> 00:53:49,520
Speaker 1: not have autism, and they did the same intro because

1018
00:53:49,520 --> 00:53:52,160
Speaker 1: I go, as, this person have autism, and then they

1019
00:53:52,200 --> 00:53:55,080
Speaker 1: did an intro for him of like this person hates traffic,

1020
00:53:55,520 --> 00:53:59,239
Speaker 1: people being late, and cold coffee and it was like

1021
00:53:59,640 --> 00:54:01,919
Speaker 1: and I was like, oh wait, we all have those

1022
00:54:01,960 --> 00:54:07,439
Speaker 1: things we you know, that's not yours. Hates um, two

1023
00:54:07,520 --> 00:54:12,719
Speaker 1: lane highways, UH, air shows and fat men who do

1024
00:54:12,800 --> 00:54:17,120
Speaker 1: daring tricks on diving boards. That's mine? What about you?

1025
00:54:17,160 --> 00:54:20,320
Speaker 1: What your words? Wait? What do you like? Though? Nikki

1026
00:54:20,440 --> 00:54:23,680
Speaker 1: likes uh, soft spoken women who remind her of a

1027
00:54:23,760 --> 00:54:27,640
Speaker 1: maternal instinct she didn't get as a child. She likes

1028
00:54:27,719 --> 00:54:33,239
Speaker 1: rice cakes with tofu cream cheese, and seaweed snacks with

1029
00:54:33,440 --> 00:54:36,200
Speaker 1: hummus in the middle. I mean mine is of a

1030
00:54:36,200 --> 00:54:38,960
Speaker 1: lot of food, weird food things. What do you won

1031
00:54:39,120 --> 00:54:42,359
Speaker 1: about you? What do you hate? And what you like? Um?

1032
00:54:42,480 --> 00:54:48,120
Speaker 1: Kirsten hates staying up too late. Kirsten also hates reading

1033
00:54:48,120 --> 00:54:52,480
Speaker 1: her phone too long. She loves a good cup of

1034
00:54:52,480 --> 00:54:58,279
Speaker 1: hot tea. She also loves doing a nice heavy dead lift.

1035
00:54:57,560 --> 00:55:01,600
Speaker 1: I want to be normal, trying to think about stuff

1036
00:55:01,640 --> 00:55:04,840
Speaker 1: I hate. I love that you like like you don't

1037
00:55:04,880 --> 00:55:06,520
Speaker 1: like things that are bad for you? When you like

1038
00:55:06,640 --> 00:55:09,600
Speaker 1: things that are good for you? What's yours? Andrew Andrew

1039
00:55:10,040 --> 00:55:19,640
Speaker 1: hates this voice because he can do it well. You're

1040
00:55:19,680 --> 00:55:23,359
Speaker 1: in one direction. Andrew hates brushing his teeth more than

1041
00:55:23,440 --> 00:55:27,120
Speaker 1: once a day. He hates having to put on recticare

1042
00:55:27,200 --> 00:55:29,319
Speaker 1: with his own finger, because then he feels that his

1043
00:55:29,400 --> 00:55:32,520
Speaker 1: buttole is a weird shape. But what does he like?

1044
00:55:32,880 --> 00:55:37,840
Speaker 1: He likes vegan pizza with fake Pappa Boni, and he

1045
00:55:38,040 --> 00:55:41,239
Speaker 1: also likes playing golf and hitting the balls far and

1046
00:55:41,360 --> 00:55:44,240
Speaker 1: so far where they look like they reached the clouds

1047
00:55:44,239 --> 00:55:50,239
Speaker 1: and the skoy gave iris at the very end the sky.

1048
00:55:51,239 --> 00:56:00,360
Speaker 1: James Joyce poem from There was a James Joyce mural

1049
00:56:00,480 --> 00:56:02,880
Speaker 1: in Buffalo, And I go as he from Buffalo to

1050
00:56:02,920 --> 00:56:06,080
Speaker 1: our driver and the girl goes, I don't know maybe,

1051
00:56:06,200 --> 00:56:07,600
Speaker 1: And I was like, I think he must be why

1052
00:56:07,600 --> 00:56:09,239
Speaker 1: would they have a big mural to him? And then

1053
00:56:09,239 --> 00:56:12,440
Speaker 1: I looked it up and it's like he's obviously from Ireland.

1054
00:56:12,760 --> 00:56:16,160
Speaker 1: I don't know if he's ever been to Buffalo. Okay, Noah, okay,

1055
00:56:16,400 --> 00:56:23,920
Speaker 1: Noah likes Noah likes petting hook cat and it's poop.

1056
00:56:26,719 --> 00:56:34,239
Speaker 1: We had comfort. She hates. She hates large crowds and

1057
00:56:34,320 --> 00:56:41,000
Speaker 1: figuring out what a yard is like the like the measurement,

1058
00:56:41,080 --> 00:56:44,400
Speaker 1: the measurement. A friend of mine told me, um, you know,

1059
00:56:44,719 --> 00:56:47,040
Speaker 1: like to meet her twenty five yards away from the

1060
00:56:47,040 --> 00:56:52,319
Speaker 1: parking lot, and I'm like isn't a yard? Get out

1061
00:56:52,320 --> 00:56:55,160
Speaker 1: of here with yards? Who's using yards? I thought it

1062
00:56:55,200 --> 00:56:57,759
Speaker 1: was metric for a while it is three feet, but like,

1063
00:56:57,880 --> 00:57:05,319
Speaker 1: come on, s a feet? Well, what's easier yards? You're

1064
00:57:05,920 --> 00:57:10,239
Speaker 1: you're bad at distances. I'm so bad at distances. Like

1065
00:57:10,320 --> 00:57:13,640
Speaker 1: Noah protest person like Carlyle that you know, driving down

1066
00:57:13,640 --> 00:57:16,800
Speaker 1: the street, It'll be like, you know, the locations half

1067
00:57:16,800 --> 00:57:19,280
Speaker 1: a mile on the left and and no Noah and

1068
00:57:19,400 --> 00:57:21,360
Speaker 1: Carla will start breaking looking for it, and I'm like,

1069
00:57:21,440 --> 00:57:22,840
Speaker 1: is that a half a mile? And they're like, I

1070
00:57:22,840 --> 00:57:27,040
Speaker 1: don't know what that is. I guess it would be better. Wait,

1071
00:57:27,680 --> 00:57:29,960
Speaker 1: would you feel like you would think it's farther if

1072
00:57:29,960 --> 00:57:34,480
Speaker 1: it's at half a mile or twenty eight feet? Would

1073
00:57:34,520 --> 00:57:37,200
Speaker 1: be the same to me? Yeah, what about you anything?

1074
00:57:37,240 --> 00:57:38,680
Speaker 1: I don't know half mile? I feel like I could,

1075
00:57:38,800 --> 00:57:41,560
Speaker 1: I could run that. So it's like, okay, yeah, yeah,

1076
00:57:41,600 --> 00:57:45,200
Speaker 1: that's what Carl Just like I don't want so I

1077
00:57:45,200 --> 00:57:49,040
Speaker 1: don't know what miles Like you also drive and that's

1078
00:57:49,040 --> 00:57:51,080
Speaker 1: what miles are. All right, let's get to the next

1079
00:57:51,080 --> 00:57:53,600
Speaker 1: news story. Oh my god, I forgot we were even

1080
00:57:53,640 --> 00:57:55,280
Speaker 1: doing the news. I mean we I forgot we were

1081
00:57:55,280 --> 00:57:59,520
Speaker 1: doing a podcast. This is fun. We're just having fun.

1082
00:57:59,640 --> 00:58:02,600
Speaker 1: Three in, come on in, I don't give a shirt.

1083
00:58:03,320 --> 00:58:05,240
Speaker 1: I got a drawer now in the kitchen. Okay, keep

1084
00:58:05,240 --> 00:58:09,680
Speaker 1: going sorky um okay. An Indonesian woman fed up cooks

1085
00:58:09,680 --> 00:58:13,400
Speaker 1: her husband's prize fish after he breaks a promise to

1086
00:58:13,440 --> 00:58:18,800
Speaker 1: clean its tank in protests for his laziness. Oh his

1087
00:58:19,000 --> 00:58:23,160
Speaker 1: pet fish. She ate it his dragonfish? Heed it up

1088
00:58:23,200 --> 00:58:31,480
Speaker 1: and fish? What fucking bitch Yep, that's awful. Okay, but

1089
00:58:31,520 --> 00:58:34,000
Speaker 1: what is it like? Okay, is it about the fish

1090
00:58:34,160 --> 00:58:35,919
Speaker 1: or what if? Like he didn't put his clothes away

1091
00:58:35,960 --> 00:58:40,720
Speaker 1: so she burned his favorite shirt? Bitch? Yeah, I mean this.

1092
00:58:41,040 --> 00:58:44,120
Speaker 1: Today we cleaned out the refrigerator or curson, I will

1093
00:58:44,160 --> 00:58:46,040
Speaker 1: say did And she was just like what about this?

1094
00:58:46,080 --> 00:58:48,480
Speaker 1: And I'm just like I just don't want to clean.

1095
00:58:48,640 --> 00:58:50,880
Speaker 1: I don't care. I want something so moldy. I don't

1096
00:58:50,880 --> 00:58:52,480
Speaker 1: want to touch it, you know, and I just want

1097
00:58:52,480 --> 00:58:55,160
Speaker 1: to let it say that. I just don't. I just

1098
00:58:55,320 --> 00:58:57,240
Speaker 1: I'm so grossed up with a smell. I might smell

1099
00:58:57,240 --> 00:58:59,560
Speaker 1: when I dump it out, like I just and I'm

1100
00:58:59,600 --> 00:59:02,120
Speaker 1: stressed out about throwing away plastic, so I know that

1101
00:59:02,160 --> 00:59:04,600
Speaker 1: I can't just throw the plastic out together I have

1102
00:59:04,720 --> 00:59:06,800
Speaker 1: to like open it. This was very clear when we

1103
00:59:06,840 --> 00:59:08,440
Speaker 1: went through the front. I have stressed about that. I

1104
00:59:08,480 --> 00:59:12,720
Speaker 1: do too. I think that's why we three. Will you

1105
00:59:12,720 --> 00:59:15,440
Speaker 1: stop putting away three pieces of broccoli that you're not

1106
00:59:15,440 --> 00:59:18,200
Speaker 1: going to eat? And I don't believe I got caught

1107
00:59:18,240 --> 00:59:20,400
Speaker 1: on that that was only a day ago and then

1108
00:59:20,480 --> 00:59:23,960
Speaker 1: one two different containers with a lot of little Well,

1109
00:59:23,960 --> 00:59:26,200
Speaker 1: maybe I go through what you go through in in

1110
00:59:26,480 --> 00:59:30,240
Speaker 1: uh because of the step of the recycling. If I

1111
00:59:30,240 --> 00:59:32,440
Speaker 1: could just throw it away, I don't think I would know.

1112
00:59:32,680 --> 00:59:35,439
Speaker 1: But it's it's not gonna smell when you rinse it out,

1113
00:59:35,480 --> 00:59:38,640
Speaker 1: you know. But you killed my broccoli apparently I did.

1114
00:59:38,960 --> 00:59:40,440
Speaker 1: It was so gross and I had to just go

1115
00:59:41,800 --> 00:59:44,920
Speaker 1: when I dumped it out. So this woman kills the

1116
00:59:45,000 --> 00:59:48,040
Speaker 1: fish the guy forgave her apparently, and it's going to

1117
00:59:48,120 --> 00:59:51,000
Speaker 1: looking into get another dragon fish, which is the sign

1118
00:59:51,000 --> 00:59:54,400
Speaker 1: of wealth apparently. So I mean maybe they're you know,

1119
00:59:54,600 --> 00:59:56,760
Speaker 1: sometimes when you get a fish it's ten bucks, that

1120
00:59:56,800 --> 01:00:00,280
Speaker 1: shows the sign of wealth. You're probably poor so of

1121
01:00:00,480 --> 01:00:03,760
Speaker 1: someone for eating your pet. And add a spite too.

1122
01:00:03,840 --> 01:00:06,720
Speaker 1: I think it's just so anything to do at a spite,

1123
01:00:06,760 --> 01:00:10,000
Speaker 1: to be like I'm gonna make them suffer. Like that's

1124
01:00:10,040 --> 01:00:12,080
Speaker 1: that's making someone suffer. That isn't like I'm going to

1125
01:00:12,200 --> 01:00:14,200
Speaker 1: leave in this broccoli to see how long Andrew will

1126
01:00:14,280 --> 01:00:17,000
Speaker 1: let this thing sit. That's not like making you suffer.

1127
01:00:17,040 --> 01:00:18,520
Speaker 1: That's just like I just want to show him how

1128
01:00:18,640 --> 01:00:21,720
Speaker 1: ridiculous this is, like diating his golf club or something

1129
01:00:21,880 --> 01:00:27,520
Speaker 1: like I'll kill you do your Yeah. My dad's sister, Uh,

1130
01:00:27,840 --> 01:00:30,600
Speaker 1: she got blamed for something he did. Something happened as

1131
01:00:30,600 --> 01:00:32,920
Speaker 1: a kid where my dad like excellently, like hit a

1132
01:00:33,040 --> 01:00:35,520
Speaker 1: baseball to hit her in the face, something accidental, and

1133
01:00:35,600 --> 01:00:36,960
Speaker 1: she was so mad at him. She went and she

1134
01:00:37,040 --> 01:00:39,680
Speaker 1: ripped up all of his comic books, hundreds of comic

1135
01:00:39,680 --> 01:00:43,080
Speaker 1: books that he had saved. And my dad, you know,

1136
01:00:43,360 --> 01:00:46,080
Speaker 1: has never let that go because it was like those

1137
01:00:46,120 --> 01:00:48,640
Speaker 1: could be collector's items now it was the first Superman

1138
01:00:48,720 --> 01:00:51,600
Speaker 1: and all like he was fastidious about them to collecting them,

1139
01:00:51,600 --> 01:00:53,600
Speaker 1: and she knew they were important, so she went and

1140
01:00:53,640 --> 01:00:55,560
Speaker 1: she tore up all of them. I forget what it

1141
01:00:55,600 --> 01:00:59,720
Speaker 1: was about. It was something so dumb. I mean, his

1142
01:00:59,760 --> 01:01:03,080
Speaker 1: ball on the drums on his brother's drums, like it's

1143
01:01:03,120 --> 01:01:06,800
Speaker 1: just egregious and to something you love, like it makes

1144
01:01:06,840 --> 01:01:10,280
Speaker 1: me sick to think about someone doing someone I love

1145
01:01:10,560 --> 01:01:12,920
Speaker 1: doing Ruining something that I care about would be like

1146
01:01:13,000 --> 01:01:17,080
Speaker 1: the meanest, would be the worst for you. Taylor Swift

1147
01:01:17,120 --> 01:01:21,400
Speaker 1: signed poster or something, or just um maybe like I

1148
01:01:21,440 --> 01:01:24,120
Speaker 1: guess my pillow, like or just picking something they know

1149
01:01:24,280 --> 01:01:26,280
Speaker 1: I love that pillow that I love a lot, or

1150
01:01:26,360 --> 01:01:28,520
Speaker 1: like something that means a lot to me, stealing a

1151
01:01:28,560 --> 01:01:32,840
Speaker 1: shirt or like ruining something your hair, my um. If

1152
01:01:32,880 --> 01:01:35,400
Speaker 1: any out of my life that would be I would.

1153
01:01:35,560 --> 01:01:39,040
Speaker 1: I would. I would literally if someone tried to pull

1154
01:01:39,080 --> 01:01:43,280
Speaker 1: out my hair to hurt me, I might murder you. Wait,

1155
01:01:43,320 --> 01:01:45,600
Speaker 1: honestly would be so sad. So my friend we were

1156
01:01:45,600 --> 01:01:48,520
Speaker 1: talking about earlier, her ex boyfriend went into her house

1157
01:01:48,720 --> 01:01:52,280
Speaker 1: to get revenge, stole her woobies, through them in the dumpster.

1158
01:01:52,360 --> 01:01:54,040
Speaker 1: I don't know what would be her like blank ease

1159
01:01:54,800 --> 01:01:59,880
Speaker 1: took her blank and threw away. That is unforgivable. Unforgivable

1160
01:02:00,000 --> 01:02:02,200
Speaker 1: when you just when you you have intent to go

1161
01:02:02,320 --> 01:02:04,760
Speaker 1: going to take something from this person. It's like when

1162
01:02:04,800 --> 01:02:08,960
Speaker 1: men murder their wives or like murder the kids, you know,

1163
01:02:09,040 --> 01:02:10,960
Speaker 1: just to get back at their acts, and then they

1164
01:02:11,080 --> 01:02:13,240
Speaker 1: instead murdering the actually go I'm actually gonna make your

1165
01:02:13,240 --> 01:02:15,320
Speaker 1: life way worse than taking it. I'm going to take

1166
01:02:15,320 --> 01:02:17,240
Speaker 1: away the thing that I know you love more than anything.

1167
01:02:17,280 --> 01:02:21,000
Speaker 1: It's just so fucking disgusting. Let's take a quick break

1168
01:02:21,040 --> 01:02:26,440
Speaker 1: and come back with Finish my Sentence. It's Wednesday, so

1169
01:02:26,480 --> 01:02:31,760
Speaker 1: we're gonna play finish my Sentence? Do we have an

1170
01:02:32,480 --> 01:02:39,520
Speaker 1: We don't? Okay? Uh? Oh my gosh uh. This is

1171
01:02:39,560 --> 01:02:41,600
Speaker 1: the segment where we have a prompt and then we

1172
01:02:41,680 --> 01:02:44,000
Speaker 1: each finish the sentence for each other. Since there's four

1173
01:02:44,040 --> 01:02:45,959
Speaker 1: of us now, I think we're all just gonna try

1174
01:02:46,040 --> 01:02:48,200
Speaker 1: for each other and see if we can guess. But

1175
01:02:48,520 --> 01:02:52,720
Speaker 1: what each other's um sentence would sound like? What is

1176
01:02:52,760 --> 01:02:56,680
Speaker 1: the sentence we're doing today? Noah? My personal hell is?

1177
01:02:58,080 --> 01:03:05,480
Speaker 1: My personal hell is all right? Um I okay uh,

1178
01:03:05,760 --> 01:03:09,280
Speaker 1: speaking as cursed, and my personal hell is not being

1179
01:03:09,320 --> 01:03:12,160
Speaker 1: able to get to a gym or to be able

1180
01:03:12,200 --> 01:03:17,680
Speaker 1: to work out for over two weeks. Ding ding ding. Yeah, yes,

1181
01:03:22,280 --> 01:03:28,680
Speaker 1: when I had COVID, that would yes, my personal hell is. Yes,

1182
01:03:28,760 --> 01:03:30,760
Speaker 1: I mean it would be the same thing not having access.

1183
01:03:30,880 --> 01:03:33,600
Speaker 1: My personal hell wouldn't be not being able to move

1184
01:03:33,680 --> 01:03:36,680
Speaker 1: my body and having to have like a lazy day

1185
01:03:36,720 --> 01:03:40,160
Speaker 1: where I do nothing, no activity with my body and

1186
01:03:40,880 --> 01:03:45,520
Speaker 1: also having to go to like a baby shower. Oh,

1187
01:03:45,760 --> 01:03:48,400
Speaker 1: I can take a day off, but if it were

1188
01:03:48,440 --> 01:03:53,800
Speaker 1: like okay, one month, you can't. You can't walk anywhere.

1189
01:03:53,960 --> 01:03:56,960
Speaker 1: Oh that would be hell. Yeah. And you can't like

1190
01:03:57,080 --> 01:03:59,880
Speaker 1: you a stretch or something. You can't be like, oh,

1191
01:04:00,440 --> 01:04:06,480
Speaker 1: you can't do that. Our views. This this is my trick, yeah,

1192
01:04:06,520 --> 01:04:08,560
Speaker 1: Kurson not being able to I think I can do

1193
01:04:08,600 --> 01:04:11,120
Speaker 1: that too. Hold on, Yeah, I do this in a

1194
01:04:11,240 --> 01:04:13,160
Speaker 1: like a work meeting, like go pin the table. Just

1195
01:04:13,240 --> 01:04:14,760
Speaker 1: I don't think it's that easy for me, but I

1196
01:04:14,800 --> 01:04:17,720
Speaker 1: think I could probably so. Kurston's leg is behind her shoulder.

1197
01:04:19,160 --> 01:04:20,680
Speaker 1: I won't kick you. I would just want to try it.

1198
01:04:20,840 --> 01:04:23,680
Speaker 1: Try it your jeans on those so it's harder. Oh

1199
01:04:24,000 --> 01:04:26,000
Speaker 1: oh my god. Yeah, hold on, I can do it.

1200
01:04:26,080 --> 01:04:29,560
Speaker 1: I think over your head over my shoulder. I mean

1201
01:04:29,600 --> 01:04:34,680
Speaker 1: that looks like someone else's leg. Sorry, okay, my personal

1202
01:04:35,280 --> 01:04:37,760
Speaker 1: You guys look like you're eleven years old and you're

1203
01:04:37,800 --> 01:04:46,640
Speaker 1: competing right now. I'm not competing, okay, but higher my legs,

1204
01:04:47,040 --> 01:04:49,960
Speaker 1: my toes more pointed, it's closer to my head. Okay.

1205
01:04:50,040 --> 01:04:53,520
Speaker 1: I'm being anner though, and you're I'm not. Patricia pilates

1206
01:04:53,560 --> 01:04:58,800
Speaker 1: over here, you know, okay, and I'm out of breath

1207
01:04:58,840 --> 01:05:01,000
Speaker 1: from that. It's hard and I'm wearing a Fannie pack.

1208
01:05:01,560 --> 01:05:06,400
Speaker 1: So many excuses and like I gotta keep my ori

1209
01:05:06,520 --> 01:05:13,720
Speaker 1: gels in my fucking canker men. Okay, My personal health,

1210
01:05:13,760 --> 01:05:21,040
Speaker 1: I mean, Andrew, my personal hell is a deadline and

1211
01:05:22,240 --> 01:05:26,840
Speaker 1: having to uh oh wait, sorry, my personal my personal

1212
01:05:26,880 --> 01:05:37,320
Speaker 1: health is having uh deadline and uh like a countdown clock.

1213
01:05:37,840 --> 01:05:40,800
Speaker 1: Oh no, I know it. My personal health is Nikki

1214
01:05:40,920 --> 01:05:44,480
Speaker 1: telling me that I can't do something when I am

1215
01:05:44,600 --> 01:05:46,520
Speaker 1: already set to do it and I have to change

1216
01:05:46,560 --> 01:05:50,680
Speaker 1: my plans last minute. And my personal hell is working

1217
01:05:50,720 --> 01:05:56,840
Speaker 1: for Nicki Glazer. Know, your personal hell is truly like

1218
01:05:57,160 --> 01:06:01,200
Speaker 1: having um people like tell you you have to do something,

1219
01:06:01,440 --> 01:06:04,040
Speaker 1: or being or or asking you to do something without

1220
01:06:04,240 --> 01:06:08,720
Speaker 1: um without considering stuff where if I don't feel like

1221
01:06:08,760 --> 01:06:14,120
Speaker 1: it's there's consideration yea, or or how they asked, or

1222
01:06:14,200 --> 01:06:17,400
Speaker 1: having to do something like it's funny because I almost

1223
01:06:17,400 --> 01:06:19,400
Speaker 1: settled on something. Asking you to do something last minute,

1224
01:06:19,400 --> 01:06:21,320
Speaker 1: but you're also a fly but your pants see your

1225
01:06:21,320 --> 01:06:25,320
Speaker 1: pants kind of guy. So I think that your personal

1226
01:06:25,320 --> 01:06:29,200
Speaker 1: hell is being asked to do something you don't want

1227
01:06:29,240 --> 01:06:33,360
Speaker 1: to do yes, I I would say that's that's definitely

1228
01:06:33,400 --> 01:06:36,040
Speaker 1: up there. I think sometimes my personal hell is being

1229
01:06:36,080 --> 01:06:38,880
Speaker 1: asked to do something. It's like the Larry David thing

1230
01:06:38,880 --> 01:06:41,440
Speaker 1: of someone get this person a napkin, and it's like

1231
01:06:41,600 --> 01:06:44,880
Speaker 1: you get them to napkin. Like sometimes my personal hell

1232
01:06:45,080 --> 01:06:47,160
Speaker 1: is like, oh wait, but you could grab that napkin,

1233
01:06:47,240 --> 01:06:49,160
Speaker 1: but you're asking me to grab the napkin. Why am

1234
01:06:49,160 --> 01:06:51,480
Speaker 1: I grabbing the napkin? And I want to say that,

1235
01:06:51,520 --> 01:06:53,400
Speaker 1: but then it will open up like a whole like thing,

1236
01:06:53,440 --> 01:06:55,640
Speaker 1: but it's not even a thing. You know, yeah, well,

1237
01:06:55,680 --> 01:06:58,360
Speaker 1: because sometimes the napkin is part of your job to

1238
01:06:58,440 --> 01:07:01,040
Speaker 1: grab And then even though the person could grab the napkin,

1239
01:07:01,560 --> 01:07:05,120
Speaker 1: they are they need to eat breakfast or they need

1240
01:07:05,120 --> 01:07:08,640
Speaker 1: to do you know, they're facilitating that there are even

1241
01:07:08,720 --> 01:07:11,960
Speaker 1: napkins in this place. So sometimes just because you can

1242
01:07:12,040 --> 01:07:13,560
Speaker 1: do something, like the boss could do a lot of

1243
01:07:13,600 --> 01:07:16,000
Speaker 1: things around the office, but they have people doing them

1244
01:07:16,040 --> 01:07:19,120
Speaker 1: because they need even if they're not doing work. When

1245
01:07:19,120 --> 01:07:21,360
Speaker 1: you're grabbing the napkin, they might need to just rest

1246
01:07:21,480 --> 01:07:25,360
Speaker 1: because that's what they need to the napkin. And that's

1247
01:07:25,400 --> 01:07:27,200
Speaker 1: when the person should just say, listen, why don't you

1248
01:07:27,240 --> 01:07:31,480
Speaker 1: grab the napkin bitch, and and then the bitch will say,

1249
01:07:31,520 --> 01:07:34,440
Speaker 1: because I don't because I asked you to do it

1250
01:07:34,600 --> 01:07:36,880
Speaker 1: pretty please, And then I'll say I mean, and then

1251
01:07:36,880 --> 01:07:39,320
Speaker 1: the person will say I should say please more often,

1252
01:07:40,400 --> 01:07:42,200
Speaker 1: Like last night. Can I give you example of the

1253
01:07:42,320 --> 01:07:45,960
Speaker 1: same thing that happened last night? Um, I took the

1254
01:07:45,960 --> 01:07:48,240
Speaker 1: sheets off the bed in there because they were like

1255
01:07:48,280 --> 01:07:50,040
Speaker 1: I had slept with them two nights in a row. Yeah,

1256
01:07:50,040 --> 01:07:52,360
Speaker 1: and I and yesterday during the day, I took them

1257
01:07:52,360 --> 01:07:53,960
Speaker 1: off because I knew that I wanted to change them

1258
01:07:53,960 --> 01:07:56,080
Speaker 1: before Chris and I slept on them. It gets around

1259
01:07:56,080 --> 01:08:00,280
Speaker 1: to bedtime. I'm on the couch with a I that

1260
01:08:00,320 --> 01:08:04,280
Speaker 1: I'm dating and watching Love on the Spectrum and Kirsten

1261
01:08:04,320 --> 01:08:05,920
Speaker 1: decides to go to bed and she walks in there

1262
01:08:05,920 --> 01:08:07,600
Speaker 1: and she walks back out and she goes, Nicky, wear

1263
01:08:07,680 --> 01:08:09,280
Speaker 1: your sheets and I go, oh, they're in the closet,

1264
01:08:09,280 --> 01:08:10,960
Speaker 1: and she goes, can you come help me put it on,

1265
01:08:11,040 --> 01:08:12,680
Speaker 1: like the fitted sheet because it's kind of a bit

1266
01:08:12,800 --> 01:08:14,160
Speaker 1: to get on it. And I said that I would

1267
01:08:14,160 --> 01:08:16,680
Speaker 1: help her before, but that was before like I was

1268
01:08:16,960 --> 01:08:18,920
Speaker 1: cozied up on someone's lap kind of like in the

1269
01:08:19,000 --> 01:08:22,240
Speaker 1: dark under a blanket, and I just go, wrap your

1270
01:08:22,320 --> 01:08:24,040
Speaker 1: arm around me. I walked and you were like this

1271
01:08:24,400 --> 01:08:27,519
Speaker 1: yeah so under a yeah, and I go, can't you

1272
01:08:27,600 --> 01:08:29,559
Speaker 1: just do it? Can you just do it like I've

1273
01:08:29,600 --> 01:08:32,800
Speaker 1: done it by herself? She goes, She goes, and I

1274
01:08:32,840 --> 01:08:36,360
Speaker 1: go because I didn't know where they were. No, no, no,

1275
01:08:36,560 --> 01:08:38,080
Speaker 1: but I told you where they were. But I just

1276
01:08:38,120 --> 01:08:41,360
Speaker 1: thought in my head, what the fitted she goes on?

1277
01:08:41,400 --> 01:08:43,559
Speaker 1: They don't need to be match there are no sets

1278
01:08:43,600 --> 01:08:46,760
Speaker 1: to match the pay I just put on whatever, willy nilly.

1279
01:08:46,840 --> 01:08:49,800
Speaker 1: I was tired. Sorry, but Krison, I just go because

1280
01:08:49,800 --> 01:08:52,439
Speaker 1: earlier in the day I was thinking, like, God, it

1281
01:08:52,560 --> 01:08:54,639
Speaker 1: can't even look over there. It's really making me laugh.

1282
01:08:58,600 --> 01:09:01,639
Speaker 1: But no, I even thought to go, I go, god,

1283
01:09:01,680 --> 01:09:03,160
Speaker 1: I need to help Curson put on the sheets. I

1284
01:09:03,160 --> 01:09:04,519
Speaker 1: know I need to. And then I was like, wait

1285
01:09:04,520 --> 01:09:07,120
Speaker 1: a second, I do it by myself. She it is

1286
01:09:07,160 --> 01:09:09,200
Speaker 1: a job you can do without someone's help. There are

1287
01:09:09,240 --> 01:09:11,320
Speaker 1: some things that you do need two people for. And

1288
01:09:11,360 --> 01:09:13,280
Speaker 1: I was like, I know she's used to making the

1289
01:09:13,280 --> 01:09:15,200
Speaker 1: bed with Corey and having like you get it's easier

1290
01:09:15,200 --> 01:09:17,120
Speaker 1: to put on a fitted sheet with two people. Doubt

1291
01:09:17,120 --> 01:09:19,479
Speaker 1: about it, but I know you can do it by

1292
01:09:19,479 --> 01:09:21,519
Speaker 1: yourself because I've done it by myself. So I just go,

1293
01:09:21,920 --> 01:09:24,320
Speaker 1: well you, I go, I'm so cozy person, we please

1294
01:09:24,320 --> 01:09:26,000
Speaker 1: do it by yourself. And I go, I'm sorry, I've

1295
01:09:26,000 --> 01:09:27,599
Speaker 1: done it by myself. I know you can do it.

1296
01:09:27,920 --> 01:09:29,599
Speaker 1: And I felt bad doing it, and then I went.

1297
01:09:29,640 --> 01:09:31,320
Speaker 1: I was kind of scared to go in later because

1298
01:09:31,360 --> 01:09:33,080
Speaker 1: I'm like, she's going to be mad at me because

1299
01:09:33,120 --> 01:09:35,280
Speaker 1: I made her do that, But she wasn't. She forgave

1300
01:09:35,320 --> 01:09:37,080
Speaker 1: me for being a little bit selfish in that moment

1301
01:09:37,080 --> 01:09:39,479
Speaker 1: and just wanting to be like a cozy little baby bird.

1302
01:09:40,080 --> 01:09:42,439
Speaker 1: And like you were. You were annoyed that you had

1303
01:09:42,479 --> 01:09:44,960
Speaker 1: to do it yourself, and I totally respect that. Yes

1304
01:09:45,040 --> 01:09:47,639
Speaker 1: you were because I was tired and I was where

1305
01:09:47,640 --> 01:09:50,640
Speaker 1: are the sheet? But you did me a favor by

1306
01:09:50,680 --> 01:09:52,800
Speaker 1: doing that, and I really appreciate you doing that, and

1307
01:09:52,800 --> 01:09:55,680
Speaker 1: I appreciate it, like I really. I got into bed

1308
01:09:55,720 --> 01:09:57,280
Speaker 1: and you were already asleep when I got in, but

1309
01:09:57,360 --> 01:09:59,320
Speaker 1: I was like, curs, and thank you so much for

1310
01:09:59,520 --> 01:10:01,320
Speaker 1: because you changed my pillowcase. And I was like, thank

1311
01:10:01,320 --> 01:10:03,720
Speaker 1: you so much for doing that. Yeah, and you were like,

1312
01:10:04,120 --> 01:10:08,400
Speaker 1: she rubbed a vagina on your old pillow though you

1313
01:10:08,400 --> 01:10:11,040
Speaker 1: know I appreciated that sometimes I do need favors and

1314
01:10:11,080 --> 01:10:13,080
Speaker 1: I could do it, and I just want someone to

1315
01:10:13,120 --> 01:10:15,479
Speaker 1: do it for me because I'm just like I don't

1316
01:10:15,520 --> 01:10:18,879
Speaker 1: want to do it and like, and I really appreciate

1317
01:10:18,960 --> 01:10:21,160
Speaker 1: that last night when when you you're staying at my house,

1318
01:10:21,200 --> 01:10:23,160
Speaker 1: I should have done it for you, and I just

1319
01:10:23,200 --> 01:10:26,080
Speaker 1: appreciated you doing the help. I know it was hell.

1320
01:10:26,240 --> 01:10:27,880
Speaker 1: I was like hell, and I was like where is

1321
01:10:27,920 --> 01:10:29,880
Speaker 1: And I think I even said out loud just to

1322
01:10:29,960 --> 01:10:31,800
Speaker 1: like maybe see if you would hear it. I was like,

1323
01:10:32,560 --> 01:10:34,840
Speaker 1: where are the top sheets? Even I don't even know

1324
01:10:34,880 --> 01:10:36,840
Speaker 1: where they are? Just like why are you so just

1325
01:10:37,120 --> 01:10:40,160
Speaker 1: or you're like the sheets are in the tower that

1326
01:10:40,240 --> 01:10:41,320
Speaker 1: I went in, and like, you know, you go to

1327
01:10:41,360 --> 01:10:43,840
Speaker 1: someone else's house and you don't know like which one fitted,

1328
01:10:43,880 --> 01:10:45,920
Speaker 1: You don't know the colors, you don't know is this

1329
01:10:45,960 --> 01:10:47,479
Speaker 1: a fit? That I took them all out and I

1330
01:10:47,560 --> 01:10:49,360
Speaker 1: discovered it wasn't fit and I put it back in.

1331
01:10:50,160 --> 01:10:53,120
Speaker 1: Are these pillowcases? No? Their towels? I just took away.

1332
01:10:53,439 --> 01:10:55,880
Speaker 1: I was last night, but I was just so you

1333
01:10:55,960 --> 01:10:58,000
Speaker 1: look cozy and you were tired. I know you work

1334
01:10:58,040 --> 01:11:00,120
Speaker 1: hard and I'm here staying and you're like no, I

1335
01:11:00,120 --> 01:11:01,400
Speaker 1: should have done it for you. But there are just

1336
01:11:01,439 --> 01:11:03,360
Speaker 1: times where I was like next time, I knew she

1337
01:11:03,400 --> 01:11:06,439
Speaker 1: would forgive me for being a bit right. Then there's

1338
01:11:06,479 --> 01:11:09,120
Speaker 1: some people, though, that I'm totally scared to ever like

1339
01:11:09,520 --> 01:11:11,719
Speaker 1: you know, they're I have certain friends who I would

1340
01:11:12,120 --> 01:11:14,840
Speaker 1: not ever ask to do that themselves. I would just

1341
01:11:14,880 --> 01:11:17,200
Speaker 1: get off the couch and do it myself because I'd

1342
01:11:17,200 --> 01:11:19,120
Speaker 1: be scared they would never forgive me and it would

1343
01:11:19,120 --> 01:11:21,559
Speaker 1: become this thing that they like talk about forever, Like

1344
01:11:21,680 --> 01:11:23,760
Speaker 1: Nikki one time made me do this and it's not

1345
01:11:23,800 --> 01:11:26,280
Speaker 1: worth it to me. But I knew Kirsten I could

1346
01:11:26,320 --> 01:11:28,320
Speaker 1: be like her. I'm sorry, I was selfish last night

1347
01:11:28,320 --> 01:11:30,479
Speaker 1: and just tired, and you're the same way, Like I

1348
01:11:30,520 --> 01:11:37,000
Speaker 1: can be like Andrewid just please. You know. There's times when,

1349
01:11:37,080 --> 01:11:40,080
Speaker 1: like I really like it depends when you catch the

1350
01:11:40,160 --> 01:11:42,600
Speaker 1: person like you're like, hey, grab this parcel. I'm like,

1351
01:11:42,640 --> 01:11:44,920
Speaker 1: I'm downstairs, I'll grab the I'm not even thinking about.

1352
01:11:44,960 --> 01:11:46,559
Speaker 1: I'm like, yeah, i'll help you. I got your back,

1353
01:11:47,000 --> 01:11:49,320
Speaker 1: I'm helping you out. And then there's other times where

1354
01:11:49,320 --> 01:11:52,080
Speaker 1: I'm just like it's like I don't know, like I

1355
01:11:52,160 --> 01:11:54,800
Speaker 1: never send you parcels anymore. By the way, yeah, yeah,

1356
01:11:54,840 --> 01:11:59,439
Speaker 1: that is true. Never stop, we got to you just

1357
01:11:59,439 --> 01:12:02,919
Speaker 1: stop like kidding me. Final thought, I'm getting so many parcels.

1358
01:12:02,960 --> 01:12:06,280
Speaker 1: I cannot stop buying things on fucking Poshmark. Dude, I

1359
01:12:06,320 --> 01:12:11,479
Speaker 1: got a parcel Posh problems. This is not an ad.

1360
01:12:11,840 --> 01:12:14,720
Speaker 1: It is not do not. It's like TikTok dude. It

1361
01:12:14,840 --> 01:12:19,000
Speaker 1: is addictive as fun. It's just like oh for me, yes,

1362
01:12:19,040 --> 01:12:21,519
Speaker 1: it feels because it feels better because it's resale, you know.

1363
01:12:22,479 --> 01:12:25,200
Speaker 1: But I gotta wonder if anyone knows what you DM me?

1364
01:12:25,479 --> 01:12:28,000
Speaker 1: How the fund do all these women get these brand

1365
01:12:28,000 --> 01:12:33,080
Speaker 1: new NWT new with tags clothing? Are they shoplifting them

1366
01:12:33,280 --> 01:12:36,519
Speaker 1: and then reselling them? Because I look at these women's profiles,

1367
01:12:36,560 --> 01:12:38,400
Speaker 1: they don't have a good sense of style. The stuff

1368
01:12:38,439 --> 01:12:40,519
Speaker 1: from their personal wardrobe is garbage and none of the

1369
01:12:40,600 --> 01:12:42,960
Speaker 1: same sizes that all this new stuff is. Do they

1370
01:12:42,960 --> 01:12:44,960
Speaker 1: even in a case you think they work there? Do

1371
01:12:45,000 --> 01:12:46,680
Speaker 1: you think they work at these places and they don't

1372
01:12:46,720 --> 01:12:48,880
Speaker 1: know what's happening to people they buy it and they

1373
01:12:48,920 --> 01:12:50,880
Speaker 1: don't know that they want Can you get it for

1374
01:12:51,000 --> 01:12:53,640
Speaker 1: cheaper than what news? So it's not like one of

1375
01:12:53,640 --> 01:13:00,320
Speaker 1: these that's like the thing on Posh Mark. You like things,

1376
01:13:00,400 --> 01:13:02,280
Speaker 1: you go through and all like a ton of stuff

1377
01:13:02,720 --> 01:13:06,840
Speaker 1: and heard it and then people will make will go, hey, Nikki,

1378
01:13:07,240 --> 01:13:11,040
Speaker 1: thanks for liking the you know, pink eighties belt. I'm

1379
01:13:11,040 --> 01:13:13,720
Speaker 1: now offering twenty percent off on all bundles. Take a

1380
01:13:13,720 --> 01:13:15,200
Speaker 1: look through my closet. And then you go, Okay, I'm

1381
01:13:15,200 --> 01:13:16,800
Speaker 1: gonna go look at the other stuff they got selling.

1382
01:13:17,040 --> 01:13:20,559
Speaker 1: If I buy three items, I buy four. It becomes

1383
01:13:20,640 --> 01:13:23,400
Speaker 1: like this and then it just arrives three days later

1384
01:13:23,400 --> 01:13:27,000
Speaker 1: in a fucking little package, and it's just it feels

1385
01:13:27,000 --> 01:13:28,559
Speaker 1: good because it's not new, but a lot of it

1386
01:13:28,640 --> 01:13:31,320
Speaker 1: is new. But you're not like adding to you're not

1387
01:13:31,360 --> 01:13:34,080
Speaker 1: going to a mall, and it's like you can find

1388
01:13:34,320 --> 01:13:36,240
Speaker 1: I don't know, I'm addicted. I bought so much stuff

1389
01:13:36,320 --> 01:13:39,000
Speaker 1: last night. Every day I buy like four things. Dude,

1390
01:13:40,720 --> 01:13:42,880
Speaker 1: let's hear an example of like what are you buying

1391
01:13:43,280 --> 01:13:45,559
Speaker 1: and why did you buy it? And maybe we could

1392
01:13:45,600 --> 01:13:48,640
Speaker 1: figure out. Well, I don't want to stop to be

1393
01:13:48,680 --> 01:13:54,080
Speaker 1: honest with you, So here's them something. Um oh no,

1394
01:13:54,240 --> 01:13:56,679
Speaker 1: these are Then they invite you to parties. They're like, hey,

1395
01:13:56,680 --> 01:14:00,839
Speaker 1: we've got a white logo party happening. We got oh okay,

1396
01:14:00,880 --> 01:14:04,760
Speaker 1: here's one. This a meme, A meme bing, I don't

1397
01:14:04,760 --> 01:14:06,320
Speaker 1: even know how to say your name. A nine bing.

1398
01:14:07,160 --> 01:14:11,840
Speaker 1: This fleece pull over, it's so cute and I haven't

1399
01:14:11,920 --> 01:14:15,200
Speaker 1: hearted and I'm watching it. You know, it's two nine dollars.

1400
01:14:15,479 --> 01:14:16,920
Speaker 1: I'm not going to spend that much on it. I

1401
01:14:17,000 --> 01:14:18,720
Speaker 1: just don't know how much I'm gonna wear it. Then

1402
01:14:18,760 --> 01:14:22,680
Speaker 1: there's um uh. This one was so cute. But what

1403
01:14:22,760 --> 01:14:25,080
Speaker 1: did you buy last night? You said, I'll tell you

1404
01:14:25,160 --> 01:14:31,679
Speaker 1: everything I've bought. It's insane. So free people, cheetah, free people,

1405
01:14:31,720 --> 01:14:35,639
Speaker 1: pink sequence, cheetah mini skirt. I need that form the stage.

1406
01:14:35,720 --> 01:14:39,439
Speaker 1: Just a fun sequen mini skirt. Um oh ship and

1407
01:14:39,439 --> 01:14:43,160
Speaker 1: a mean bing sweatshirt. It's like a crew next sweach.

1408
01:14:43,280 --> 01:14:46,120
Speaker 1: It's a cropped sweatshirt with like a cute white Look

1409
01:14:46,120 --> 01:14:50,360
Speaker 1: look how cute this is? Fuck? Look at this now? Now?

1410
01:14:50,560 --> 01:14:54,360
Speaker 1: Can you put it back? Times and you're kind of

1411
01:14:54,400 --> 01:14:57,280
Speaker 1: put it back? You can reposh, you can reposh. I

1412
01:14:57,320 --> 01:15:00,839
Speaker 1: got a baby Dakota black crush vegan leather high waste miniskirt,

1413
01:15:00,920 --> 01:15:04,439
Speaker 1: forty two bucks. I gotta below the belt Barcelona studded

1414
01:15:04,960 --> 01:15:08,000
Speaker 1: waist belt that Kendall Jenner was spotted wearing for forty

1415
01:15:08,040 --> 01:15:11,160
Speaker 1: five bucks. I got a Nasty Gale starfol leather high

1416
01:15:11,200 --> 01:15:13,120
Speaker 1: rise skirt twenty five bucks, and as I got some

1417
01:15:13,160 --> 01:15:15,759
Speaker 1: pink leather gups for fifteen bucks. I got free people

1418
01:15:15,800 --> 01:15:18,000
Speaker 1: holding onto a dream miniskirt, I got the Express But

1419
01:15:18,120 --> 01:15:26,040
Speaker 1: who you are? You're your mom finally turned into your mom, Julie.

1420
01:15:27,560 --> 01:15:31,799
Speaker 1: This brings us full circle because over the weekend, Britta

1421
01:15:31,960 --> 01:15:34,840
Speaker 1: Curson's sister, was in Kansas City with us backstage, and

1422
01:15:34,880 --> 01:15:36,640
Speaker 1: I was like, I was doing my makeup and I

1423
01:15:36,640 --> 01:15:39,000
Speaker 1: thought felt like, oh my god, I'm looking great like

1424
01:15:39,040 --> 01:15:41,400
Speaker 1: this makeup. My skin looks great, like my hair looks great.

1425
01:15:41,720 --> 01:15:43,960
Speaker 1: And Britta goes, oh my god, do you know who

1426
01:15:44,040 --> 01:15:46,439
Speaker 1: you look like? And I literally was gonna thought she

1427
01:15:46,479 --> 01:15:48,960
Speaker 1: was gonna say Jennifer Lawrence. Like I was just feeling hot,

1428
01:15:49,000 --> 01:15:50,759
Speaker 1: you know, when you just have like so much confidence,

1429
01:15:50,800 --> 01:15:53,519
Speaker 1: You're like, I look amazing, and she and I go

1430
01:15:53,840 --> 01:15:55,559
Speaker 1: and I literally was just like and I was so

1431
01:15:55,600 --> 01:15:57,559
Speaker 1: happy because cameras were filming too. I'm like, oh my god,

1432
01:15:57,560 --> 01:15:59,760
Speaker 1: they're gonna catch her like honestly telling me I look

1433
01:15:59,840 --> 01:16:02,720
Speaker 1: like a sucking celebrity. And she's like, your mom, and

1434
01:16:02,760 --> 01:16:05,840
Speaker 1: I was just like, it was what you said though.

1435
01:16:05,840 --> 01:16:08,840
Speaker 1: You came in and it was like, just like, you

1436
01:16:08,920 --> 01:16:10,759
Speaker 1: look like your mom. But then I spun it because

1437
01:16:10,800 --> 01:16:13,000
Speaker 1: my mom, first of all, very good looking woman. Will

1438
01:16:13,000 --> 01:16:15,000
Speaker 1: never admit it, but very good looking. I don't want

1439
01:16:15,000 --> 01:16:16,800
Speaker 1: to look like my mom now because my mom's sixty two.

1440
01:16:16,840 --> 01:16:20,880
Speaker 1: That would be insane form. But Britta remembers my mom

1441
01:16:21,040 --> 01:16:23,559
Speaker 1: when she was in her thirties, So I look like

1442
01:16:23,640 --> 01:16:26,920
Speaker 1: my mom in her thirties. Bang. But now it's a

1443
01:16:26,920 --> 01:16:31,439
Speaker 1: compliment again. Well, maybe you have your mom sell some

1444
01:16:31,520 --> 01:16:34,680
Speaker 1: of your stuff. I'll do that for you. Nick, You

1445
01:16:34,840 --> 01:16:38,120
Speaker 1: kid me, this ship is so good? Whit Where did

1446
01:16:38,120 --> 01:16:40,720
Speaker 1: you get that? Bucks? Did you paid that for that?

1447
01:16:40,880 --> 01:16:44,759
Speaker 1: I see that at Goodwill all the time. That's ridiculous. Well,

1448
01:16:45,160 --> 01:16:47,120
Speaker 1: when you got money, I guess you're gonna spend it.

1449
01:16:47,680 --> 01:16:51,800
Speaker 1: When you spent a hundred and seventy five dollars on

1450
01:16:51,840 --> 01:16:55,400
Speaker 1: a denim rush dress, Nick, what does this even mean?

1451
01:16:56,240 --> 01:16:59,080
Speaker 1: Why would you do that? I saw you wear a

1452
01:16:59,160 --> 01:17:01,679
Speaker 1: rush to bring out the target rack at good Will,

1453
01:17:01,800 --> 01:17:03,640
Speaker 1: and I'm gonna find that for you. I'll show you,

1454
01:17:03,680 --> 01:17:06,120
Speaker 1: I'll show you, I'll get that for you. But you

1455
01:17:06,160 --> 01:17:07,720
Speaker 1: know when you have money, you can just spend it.

1456
01:17:07,760 --> 01:17:11,160
Speaker 1: I guess it's fine. It's fine. I'm gonna look for

1457
01:17:11,200 --> 01:17:13,040
Speaker 1: these for you now, nick I'm gonna look for them.

1458
01:17:13,080 --> 01:17:16,040
Speaker 1: I'm gonna find you a denim rush dress. Look, you're

1459
01:17:16,040 --> 01:17:21,599
Speaker 1: doing little tiny purchases. It's not the little tps. But

1460
01:17:22,040 --> 01:17:24,200
Speaker 1: if you were, if you had, if you came home

1461
01:17:24,240 --> 01:17:26,680
Speaker 1: with four different watching the other girls out there are

1462
01:17:26,760 --> 01:17:29,160
Speaker 1: addicted to Posh Mark, give me some of your tips,

1463
01:17:29,479 --> 01:17:31,080
Speaker 1: tell me some of the because of the ways. Because

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Speaker 1: I'm addicted to this app. It brings me a lot

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Speaker 1: of like. I just like liking things. I like people

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Speaker 1: going haydake, we saw you scoping out this, won't offer

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Speaker 1: you this. I like that they see me. I feel

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Speaker 1: And my name is Nicky Glazer. On there if you

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Speaker 1: want to. This is your mom going in the good

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Speaker 1: will and the person working there and go hey there, Hey,

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Speaker 1: hi guys, Hey did you bring the rack out? You're

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Speaker 1: waiting to bring the rack out my mom. Yeah, there's

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Speaker 1: a certain rack that comes out of new things that

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Speaker 1: my mom is always waiting around. All right, we gotta Oh,

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Speaker 1: thank you for listening to the show today, Kurson, Thank

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Speaker 1: you for being on it. Again. We'll be back tomorrow

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Speaker 1: on the podcast, a round out the week. Uh, don't

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Speaker 1: be care. What is it, Jack Mark? Oh got it.