Speaker 1: Welcome to Can't Flee Reckless, the production of iHeart Radio
Speaker 1: and the Black Effects, And just like that, we're back
Speaker 1: with yet another carefully reckless episode with your Girl. Just hilarious.
Speaker 1: What I'll be doing, I'll be fixing mess and we're
Speaker 1: gonna get straight into it. We got Taylor here today.
Speaker 1: Say hi to Taylor, and Taylor say hi to thosteners per.
Speaker 1: All right, so we're about to jump straight in. Of course,
Speaker 1: we have no voice memos because people's significant others and
Speaker 1: best friends and family members know their voices. So I'm
Speaker 1: starting to understand that more and more, and I do
Speaker 1: get it. I just want y'all to make y'all grammatical
Speaker 1: errors correct before y'all sending these passages in these PDFs
Speaker 1: and these fucking essays for me to read and then
Speaker 1: turn around and tell me I can't fucking read. So
Speaker 1: here we go. Hey, jas, I am fresh out of
Speaker 1: a breakup which just happened on Sunday. It was a
Speaker 1: six year relationship. The mess I need your help with
Speaker 1: is we had a plan where for one year I
Speaker 1: would pay bills while he saves, and the next year
Speaker 1: we would flip. Okay, that's that's that's pretty you know, compromising.
Speaker 1: We only made it through one year though, Okay, damn,
Speaker 1: so I was the one contributing all the savings. My
Speaker 1: question is should I split the money with him as agreed?
Speaker 1: And the only reason I'm asking is because he took
Speaker 1: away my house key and I have no access to
Speaker 1: my house. What. I'm pretty much a person of my word.
Speaker 1: That's why I don't want to go back on it,
Speaker 1: because morally, that's just not good and that's not how
Speaker 1: I live my life. But something just tells me, man,
Speaker 1: this shit is not right because I don't even have
Speaker 1: access to my own house, are you? Yeah? Like, what
Speaker 1: the fuck? Where's the cops? The fuck? Because it is
Speaker 1: his name? Is his name the only name on the
Speaker 1: least or the mortgage or the rent? Like what, I
Speaker 1: don't understand how you don't have access to your house? Yes,
Speaker 1: she said, she said they just broke up Sunday, so
Speaker 1: apparently it's probably still stuff in the house. But yeah,
Speaker 1: she's a woman off her work. Now listen, let's just
Speaker 1: go to this arrangement. But let's start with the arrangement,
Speaker 1: because she said that they made a deal for one year,
Speaker 1: one person would pay the bills and the other one saves,
Speaker 1: and then the next year they're supposed to flip. So
Speaker 1: then the next year the person who got to save
Speaker 1: the year before has to pay the bills, and the
Speaker 1: next the other person save. Okay, Okay, she so she
Speaker 1: said they only got to one year, though they didn't
Speaker 1: get to they didn't get A year is a long time.
Speaker 1: But here's a long time for me to have all
Speaker 1: the bills. Yeah, exactly, and then you're just sitting back saving,
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. It should definitely be quarterly.
Speaker 1: I think that would quarterly would be better, I think.
Speaker 1: But I'm kind of confused because she said we made
Speaker 1: it past one year. We only made it to one year,
Speaker 1: and she said, My question is, oh no, she said
Speaker 1: we only made it through one year, so I was
Speaker 1: the one contributing all the savings. So basically, so she's
Speaker 1: saying she don't want to pay the bills for the
Speaker 1: first year and then he was saving, okay, or is
Speaker 1: she saying she saved? I think while he paid the bills,
Speaker 1: because my question is should I split the money with
Speaker 1: him as a greed And the only reason I'm asking
Speaker 1: is because he took my house kid away and I
Speaker 1: have no access to our house.
Speaker 2: Because I'm confused, like she was saving more than you
Speaker 2: think it was her saving.
Speaker 1: That's what I don't know. It kind of seems like
Speaker 1: it was her saving because she said, my question is
Speaker 1: should I split the money with him? As a greed?
Speaker 1: Should I should I split the money with him? I
Speaker 1: just feel like maybe she's the one that saved, She's
Speaker 1: the one that got to save, and he was the
Speaker 1: one that paid the bills. All yeah, yeah, because there
Speaker 1: would be no reason that she's asking me that question
Speaker 1: if she's not the one who had to pay the bills.
Speaker 1: That Nigga mad, he took that key because she Yeah,
Speaker 1: so that's what it was. I just had to figure
Speaker 1: that part out. Okay, sure tell her. I don't care
Speaker 1: if they can hear me chewing, because look like john Sway,
Speaker 1: it's all right, they eating too shit. This should come
Speaker 1: up so early in the fucking morning, I ain't had
Speaker 1: no breakfast, So I think I think that Nigga got
Speaker 1: mad and he took that mother fucking key. I was like,
Speaker 1: all right, bitch, we had an agreement. Broke up though,
Speaker 1: I think so that's all she wrote, I fresh out
Speaker 1: of a breakup. It just happened Sunday and we were
Speaker 1: together for six years. I mean, what was she like?
Speaker 2: So she just needs help.
Speaker 1: My opinion always say the mess I need your help with.
Speaker 1: I mean, I don't know if my question is should
Speaker 1: I split the money because she's still outside of her
Speaker 1: house because she kept her want to be able to
Speaker 1: give him the money.
Speaker 2: But I heard her say like she kept her word,
Speaker 2: or she keeps her word and everything.
Speaker 1: Sometimes you don't have to keep your word yet exactly so,
Speaker 1: but she wanted to know if she should. He took
Speaker 1: that ho to worry though. That's all for to keep
Speaker 1: your word. I'm just saying, like they had an agreement, Okay,
Speaker 1: is it written down? Oh my god? He wanted to say.
Speaker 2: Yeah, but they're not together no more.
Speaker 1: So she's just giving him the money two hours ago. Yeah,
Speaker 1: So did she play a game back? Does that bitch
Speaker 1: ain't give him no money but going back with him? No,
Speaker 1: it just sounds like does she want to get back
Speaker 1: in her house? Oh so that's what it sounds like.
Speaker 1: That's why she was trying to figure out she give
Speaker 1: them some money, split the money whatever, because she wanted
Speaker 1: to get access to the house.
Speaker 2: I feel like.
Speaker 1: And I feel like it's other ways to gain access
Speaker 1: to your house. Again. I mean, like Taylor said, if
Speaker 1: that shit, if it wasn't a written agreement, or it
Speaker 1: wasn't court ordered or whatever, the fuck, y'all don't have
Speaker 1: a contract in place and everything. And this is not
Speaker 1: your husband, this is your boyfriend. It depends on whose
Speaker 1: names are on the lease, if your name is on it, whatever,
Speaker 1: Because you can call the police, like you can, y'all
Speaker 1: can call authorities and get that situated. I mean, because
Speaker 1: it's like, technically he puts you out. Yeah, you know
Speaker 1: what I'm saying. He technically put you out if you
Speaker 1: get mailed there, even if your name is not on
Speaker 1: the lease. If you get mailed there, technically you're a tenant,
Speaker 1: right you can provide that, and they would he would
Speaker 1: have to give you a thirty day or sixty day something. Notice,
Speaker 1: he can't just put you out or not that he
Speaker 1: put her out. He just took the key. Yeah, even
Speaker 1: get another key made.
Speaker 2: Shut well, he gets that key to get made though.
Speaker 1: I know what I'm saying. The whole time, supposed to
Speaker 1: keep a spare key somewhere just in case you lose
Speaker 1: your key. You supposed to keep another key. But that's crazy.
Speaker 1: I think I do think she should give him the money,
Speaker 1: give him some money. Not even to keep my word.
Speaker 1: The nigga paid the bills the dad in the agreement.
Speaker 1: So let's let's say, let's put the shoe on the
Speaker 1: other foot. Hold up, Hold up, I know the ship
Speaker 1: getting good. But listen to just a couple of seconds
Speaker 1: of a commercial. If you love me, you'll listen. Let's
Speaker 1: say she's the one, you know what I'm saying, like
Speaker 1: that's a high ass, is the one that paid the
Speaker 1: bills that whole time while he was saving, and he
Speaker 1: ain't want to give you no money. Come come the
Speaker 1: second year. And then so you you took his key,
Speaker 1: And I say this, the guy's right in me. You
Speaker 1: think I should give it the money. We're gonna say,
Speaker 1: hell yeah, you should get that girl some money. She
Speaker 1: paid them bills all that first year. While you say,
Speaker 1: I think it's the same thing, she should definitely huh.
Speaker 1: That was saying this are real, but fuck that. Nah,
Speaker 1: she just you know, get that nigga some bread. And
Speaker 1: because you lived there, you live there, you know, and
Speaker 1: this was agreement y'all made.
Speaker 2: You know, so well, do what you want to do,
Speaker 2: do what you want to because it seems like to
Speaker 2: that they're probably don't get back to I just feel
Speaker 2: they gonna get back together.
Speaker 1: It does seem like that, it does it does I
Speaker 1: know you say it seemed like they will or they won't.
Speaker 2: They will.
Speaker 1: Nah that that Nigga didn't be probably don't. That probably
Speaker 1: put pads in his mouth because she she's not really
Speaker 1: expressing no fucking love neither. She just like yeah, ain't whatever.
Speaker 2: But I want to know why they broke up though,
Speaker 2: Like why didn't because.
Speaker 1: Yeah, like is that is that the only reason why
Speaker 1: type ship? I mean, I think she would have said
Speaker 1: if it was something else. I'm saying though, is that
Speaker 1: the only problem?
Speaker 2: He just took the key because she didn't get them
Speaker 2: money yet, Like, I just want to.
Speaker 1: Know, like what he probably took the key after the breakup.
Speaker 1: They probably got into a big fight, okay, because she
Speaker 1: said it was Sunday. They just broke up Sunday. I'm
Speaker 1: not gonna keep repeating the details, Team Tailor, but I
Speaker 1: just want to know because it ain't harlly shit. I
Speaker 1: know she ain't really give us a lot. Probably that
Speaker 1: Nigga probably broke as a motherfucking joke, especially in this economy.
Speaker 1: This just happened Sunday. So this ain't like the story
Speaker 1: from a long long time agose days. This is from
Speaker 1: like currently. Yeah, and they both worked, but it's like, yo,
Speaker 1: you saved all yeah, like come on with this ship
Speaker 1: and you acting like you ain't all right? Cool? Fuck dad?
Speaker 1: You know.
Speaker 2: So why they thought it would be a good idea
Speaker 2: for you?
Speaker 1: I know, I literally think quarterly, quarterly, and look, you
Speaker 1: just you try to take her side. I'm no, Shane,
Speaker 1: I give him no money when all the time you
Speaker 1: just said it's hot out here exactly for that nigga too.
Speaker 1: So it definitely should have been a quarterly thing. I
Speaker 1: think that. But no, they're not married, they're just boyfriend
Speaker 1: and girlfriends. So well, if you all do break up,
Speaker 1: I mean, if y'all do get back together, maybe that's
Speaker 1: what y'all should discussed too quarterly. Not yeah, if they
Speaker 1: do get back together, yeah, So I really don't know.
Speaker 1: They like the concrete advice that you wanted, sweetheart, but
Speaker 1: oh the concrete advice, Well, I don't know the concrete
Speaker 1: advice for your relationship, but I do think, yeah, you
Speaker 1: definitely should give him some money, like you know, because
Speaker 1: he he bared the household for the whole year. Okay,
Speaker 1: and I and it up y'all out there talking about
Speaker 1: and that's what I'm as posted. No, not if you
Speaker 1: set into it, not if you set an agreement up,
Speaker 1: you know before y'all moved with each other and shit,
Speaker 1: and no, that's that's not it. You shouldn't want it
Speaker 1: to that agreement if you didn't, you know, if you
Speaker 1: really didn't want to uphold your end. You know what
Speaker 1: I'm saying, you know, but keep me updated.
Speaker 2: What before we get into the other story, did you
Speaker 2: see that video of this guy he like brought his
Speaker 2: wife a house, but she wasn't happy about it. No,
Speaker 2: she was mad as hell about it, like it's not
Speaker 2: the house I wanted, bitch.
Speaker 1: No, or was this on the show or was this
Speaker 1: on line? On line? Yeah, no, that's said, So it's
Speaker 1: not the one that she was so but look, is
Speaker 1: he like a millionaire or a billionaire.
Speaker 2: No, that's what he could afford all the time.
Speaker 1: So he got what he could afford starting and it's
Speaker 1: not the house that it wasn't like terrible, that was
Speaker 1: his wife okay, and she was like upset look like
Speaker 1: he married the wrong bench. Ain't no way or what.
Speaker 1: What probably happened is they collectively together made a decision
Speaker 1: on one house and he didn't get that one. When
Speaker 1: he bought another one and brought her there to see it,
Speaker 1: she like, the same what we talked about probably like
Speaker 1: we were like they've been going to see houses together
Speaker 1: as a married couple, and he just went all in
Speaker 1: without telling her. You know what I'm saying, made a
Speaker 1: decision on a house that was smaller than probably all
Speaker 1: the ones that they went to go see, or not
Speaker 1: even smaller, like because I'm looking at the house and
Speaker 1: I'm like, eh, no, you know what I mean. So
Speaker 1: she said, and listen, she said, we have enough in
Speaker 1: the bank, so apparently they're both paying for this house,
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. So I I'm sorry, Like,
Speaker 1: I yeah, you that's why you shouldn't make a decision
Speaker 1: on things until you look at the whole situation. Because
Speaker 1: if y'all could see the house that this woman pulled
Speaker 1: up to, yeah, it's a ranch house, but I get it,
Speaker 1: I get it. She said, we might as well stay
Speaker 1: where we at now, where we're at now we renting. Yeah,
Speaker 1: but that don't maybe we should go buy anything just
Speaker 1: because we're renting how much he was a house that
Speaker 1: she wanted though, I want to see that too, or
Speaker 1: that they both probably agreed on it. He was just
Speaker 1: like no, but I do. I will say, he is right,
Speaker 1: You're not supposed to spend all your money on the house,
Speaker 1: Like no, because we still need other money. You know,
Speaker 1: we got furniture, we got thenny got kids, like we
Speaker 1: got to furnished rooms. We got grocery shop, and we
Speaker 1: got bills. We need to get these lights on. We
Speaker 1: got water, we got utilities that you know what I'm saying,
Speaker 1: all of that type shit. You know, and if you
Speaker 1: when you buy a house, it's other things you gotta
Speaker 1: pay for, like you know, the title of the fucking
Speaker 1: house and all, like all of that type shit, so
Speaker 1: you need It's just like buy a car, like you
Speaker 1: need tags and title and all that shit. Like you
Speaker 1: need all of that shit, the deed and everything when
Speaker 1: you're buying a home. And so it's not just easy.
Speaker 1: So I want to see the house, the ship, I know,
Speaker 1: because I don't know how we go from fixing somebody
Speaker 1: else's mess to trying to fix that mess.
Speaker 2: But agreements and yeah, I just saw that video clip.
Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, but I think that this lady should keep
Speaker 1: us updated because, you know, going back to the story,
Speaker 1: I just I'm with you till I think it should
Speaker 1: have been like a quarterly situation. It definitely shouldn't have
Speaker 1: been like a oh yeah this, you know, we a
Speaker 1: year you paid for you pay the bills and I
Speaker 1: saved or I said, yeah, it's a lot. It's a lot,
Speaker 1: and that's a lot of strain on that man's bank account.
Speaker 1: If you love me, you'll listen to this commercial and
Speaker 1: then we'll be right back. And I don't like I said,
Speaker 1: she left a lot of meat off the bone. I
Speaker 1: don't know if they have kids. I don't know if
Speaker 1: they you know. Also, yeah, their jobs are yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: like what are you making? What are you? You know
Speaker 1: what I'm saying, that's exhausted. That's that's exhausting as fucking
Speaker 1: I know you probably feel like, but y'all could live
Speaker 1: on my own, like I got to live on my
Speaker 1: own with this, you know. So, are you gonna marry
Speaker 1: your baby's daddy? I love so Look, but look that's
Speaker 1: the thing right, So I was watching Actually, no, I
Speaker 1: want to ask you this all right, Well, since you're
Speaker 1: going to marry him. When it comes to y'all buying
Speaker 1: a house, right, what are.
Speaker 2: You thinking about talk into the right into talking about
Speaker 2: buying house now?
Speaker 1: Or we should wait because you're talking too low tail line?
Speaker 2: Where are you talking about buying the house now? But
Speaker 2: this economy is right now?
Speaker 1: Oh no, it's most definitely. But are you one of
Speaker 1: those types of women who want the man to take
Speaker 1: care of everything? Or are you because you're working, you're
Speaker 1: a working woman as well? Would you what are you
Speaker 1: fifty to fifty?
Speaker 2: I'm fifty fifty fifty fifty as in like it's one
Speaker 2: of those things where we have an agreemar who takes
Speaker 2: care of for yes, but if something happens he falls short,
Speaker 2: it's like.
Speaker 1: You have to be there to pick the slack up
Speaker 1: and vice versus. That. That is what a relationship is.
Speaker 1: That is what a marriage is. And I'll be getting
Speaker 1: so tired of seeing, you know, people on social media
Speaker 1: and on these fucking podcasts like I just wish Trump
Speaker 1: can write an executive order to remove everybody's podcast equipment
Speaker 1: who talk about dumb shit and just like you know,
Speaker 1: because you got certain men and women up here talking about.
Speaker 2: They're trying to live their life like the women that's like, oh,
Speaker 2: man's supposed to do this. And the third yes, they're
Speaker 2: living their life.
Speaker 1: Through another lens that they will never even have. Fuck.
Speaker 1: That's where even Gabrielle Union came out and was like,
Speaker 1: baby fifty fifty ain't working for me, honey, Hollywood is
Speaker 1: fucking dried the fuck up. I haven't had a project
Speaker 1: and I don't know how long I am. I have
Speaker 1: my hair care line, but it's not doing as well.
Speaker 1: I'm not doing as well as my billionaire athlete husband
Speaker 1: who want to fucking paint his nails and toes every day.
Speaker 1: You come help me the fot shit. I know that,
Speaker 1: Like I literally felt her, like yo, I've been relationships
Speaker 1: where I took care of niggas. It's not fun. It's
Speaker 1: it's not fun. And I'm not saying you can't help
Speaker 1: your man, no, you like no, but I've been. I
Speaker 1: just feel like you guys grow together. Yeah. Yes, I've
Speaker 1: been in three fucking relationships that shit drained. Drink drains you.
Speaker 1: Three relationships with a niggas. They were working, the men
Speaker 1: were working, and then they got comfortable and just decided
Speaker 1: to let me take care of them. Now, a lot
Speaker 1: of that is on me because bitch I should have
Speaker 1: been was like, oh bye.
Speaker 2: Won't say take care of like this, what like bills.
Speaker 1: I'm paying for everything. Then I got my own kid,
Speaker 1: you know what I mean. Like then I got like
Speaker 1: I'm taking care of the house and shit like yo.
Speaker 1: I remember the first nigger I was saying here with
Speaker 1: taking care of his mother was on drugs. I put
Speaker 1: her through rehab. I'm paying her rent, you know what
Speaker 1: I'm saying, like all that type shit. And this nigga
Speaker 1: was working when he first got with me, but he
Speaker 1: lost his job and not understanding shit happens. But then
Speaker 1: he just got comfortable. No fuck No, second time shit
Speaker 1: happened a little different, but I still ended up taking
Speaker 1: care of the nigga. The third time I dipped, I'm like,
Speaker 1: oh no, fuck that. That's why I like, I love
Speaker 1: Chris yo. I love like I have a partner, because
Speaker 1: that nigga ain't even a type his mom and his
Speaker 1: grandparents and not raised him to sit back and let
Speaker 1: a woman just take care of everything. That's why I
Speaker 1: say like my partner, like I have a real partner,
Speaker 1: you know, what I mean. But yeah, that's that I.
Speaker 2: Guess also in since the person that that showed you,
Speaker 2: she put that on her story and she was like
Speaker 2: at the end of the day too, make sure you
Speaker 2: did according to what you want though.
Speaker 1: Yes, like yeah, oh this woman, yea a guy that's.
Speaker 2: Gonna this a millionaire and want to take care of you.
Speaker 1: Make sure you date that instead of that's what you want. Yeah,
Speaker 1: because you'll get in a relationship with somebody that's not
Speaker 1: a millionaire, you'll expect millionaire shit, that's not gonna happen.
Speaker 1: You can't do that, you know what I mean. So
Speaker 1: and then millionaires just don't get money out of nowhere.
Speaker 1: Motherfuckers work for what they have.
Speaker 2: That's what I'm saying too, though, like why no one
Speaker 2: want to build with Like.
Speaker 1: Yeah, no, that is I'm about that all day, I really,
Speaker 1: But I love that.
Speaker 2: I know people don't I understand times of her or whatever.
Speaker 2: They just want to live a soft life whatever, But no,
Speaker 2: it means more. I think when you it definitely means more.
Speaker 2: You are totally right.
Speaker 1: And just like that, we've come to the end of
Speaker 1: yet another carefully reckless episode with your girl. Just hilarious
Speaker 1: and my girl, Taylor, she that girl right now, but
Speaker 1: she had that baby. She's gonna be that good. Love
Speaker 1: her so much so say bye to Taylor and Tay
Speaker 1: let's stay by her, listeners by, and we'll see y'all
Speaker 1: next week. Peace. The class Past Name Name Can't Fully
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