WEBVTT - Splitting the Bills

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<v Speaker 1>Welcome to Can't Flee Reckless, the production of iHeart Radio

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<v Speaker 1>and the Black Effects, And just like that, we're back

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<v Speaker 1>with yet another carefully reckless episode with your Girl. Just hilarious.

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<v Speaker 1>What I'll be doing, I'll be fixing mess and we're

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<v Speaker 1>gonna get straight into it. We got Taylor here today.

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<v Speaker 1>Say hi to Taylor, and Taylor say hi to thosteners per.

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<v Speaker 1>All right, so we're about to jump straight in. Of course,

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<v Speaker 1>we have no voice memos because people's significant others and

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<v Speaker 1>best friends and family members know their voices. So I'm

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<v Speaker 1>starting to understand that more and more, and I do

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<v Speaker 1>get it. I just want y'all to make y'all grammatical

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<v Speaker 1>errors correct before y'all sending these passages in these PDFs

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<v Speaker 1>and these fucking essays for me to read and then

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<v Speaker 1>turn around and tell me I can't fucking read. So

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<v Speaker 1>here we go. Hey, jas, I am fresh out of

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<v Speaker 1>a breakup which just happened on Sunday. It was a

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<v Speaker 1>six year relationship. The mess I need your help with

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<v Speaker 1>is we had a plan where for one year I

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<v Speaker 1>would pay bills while he saves, and the next year

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<v Speaker 1>we would flip. Okay, that's that's that's pretty you know, compromising.

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<v Speaker 1>We only made it through one year though, Okay, damn,

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<v Speaker 1>so I was the one contributing all the savings. My

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<v Speaker 1>question is should I split the money with him as agreed?

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<v Speaker 1>And the only reason I'm asking is because he took

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<v Speaker 1>away my house key and I have no access to

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<v Speaker 1>my house. What. I'm pretty much a person of my word.

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<v Speaker 1>That's why I don't want to go back on it,

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<v Speaker 1>because morally, that's just not good and that's not how

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<v Speaker 1>I live my life. But something just tells me, man,

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<v Speaker 1>this shit is not right because I don't even have

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<v Speaker 1>access to my own house, are you? Yeah? Like, what

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<v Speaker 1>the fuck? Where's the cops? The fuck? Because it is

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<v Speaker 1>his name? Is his name the only name on the

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<v Speaker 1>least or the mortgage or the rent? Like what, I

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<v Speaker 1>don't understand how you don't have access to your house? Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>she said, she said they just broke up Sunday, so

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<v Speaker 1>apparently it's probably still stuff in the house. But yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>she's a woman off her work. Now listen, let's just

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<v Speaker 1>go to this arrangement. But let's start with the arrangement,

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<v Speaker 1>because she said that they made a deal for one year,

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<v Speaker 1>one person would pay the bills and the other one saves,

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<v Speaker 1>and then the next year they're supposed to flip. So

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<v Speaker 1>then the next year the person who got to save

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<v Speaker 1>the year before has to pay the bills, and the

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<v Speaker 1>next the other person save. Okay, Okay, she so she

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<v Speaker 1>said they only got to one year, though they didn't

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<v Speaker 1>get to they didn't get A year is a long time.

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<v Speaker 1>But here's a long time for me to have all

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<v Speaker 1>the bills. Yeah, exactly, and then you're just sitting back saving,

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<v Speaker 1>you know what I'm saying. It should definitely be quarterly.

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<v Speaker 1>I think that would quarterly would be better, I think.

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<v Speaker 1>But I'm kind of confused because she said we made

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<v Speaker 1>it past one year. We only made it to one year,

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<v Speaker 1>and she said, My question is, oh no, she said

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<v Speaker 1>we only made it through one year, so I was

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<v Speaker 1>the one contributing all the savings. So basically, so she's

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<v Speaker 1>saying she don't want to pay the bills for the

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<v Speaker 1>first year and then he was saving, okay, or is

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<v Speaker 1>she saying she saved? I think while he paid the bills,

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<v Speaker 1>because my question is should I split the money with

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<v Speaker 1>him as a greed And the only reason I'm asking

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<v Speaker 1>is because he took my house kid away and I

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<v Speaker 1>have no access to our house.

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<v Speaker 2>Because I'm confused, like she was saving more than you

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<v Speaker 2>think it was her saving.

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<v Speaker 1>That's what I don't know. It kind of seems like

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<v Speaker 1>it was her saving because she said, my question is

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<v Speaker 1>should I split the money with him? As a greed?

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<v Speaker 1>Should I should I split the money with him? I

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<v Speaker 1>just feel like maybe she's the one that saved, She's

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<v Speaker 1>the one that got to save, and he was the

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<v Speaker 1>one that paid the bills. All yeah, yeah, because there

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<v Speaker 1>would be no reason that she's asking me that question

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<v Speaker 1>if she's not the one who had to pay the bills.

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<v Speaker 1>That Nigga mad, he took that key because she Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>so that's what it was. I just had to figure

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<v Speaker 1>that part out. Okay, sure tell her. I don't care

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<v Speaker 1>if they can hear me chewing, because look like john Sway,

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<v Speaker 1>it's all right, they eating too shit. This should come

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<v Speaker 1>up so early in the fucking morning, I ain't had

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<v Speaker 1>no breakfast, So I think I think that Nigga got

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<v Speaker 1>mad and he took that mother fucking key. I was like,

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<v Speaker 1>all right, bitch, we had an agreement. Broke up though,

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<v Speaker 1>I think so that's all she wrote, I fresh out

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<v Speaker 1>of a breakup. It just happened Sunday and we were

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<v Speaker 1>together for six years. I mean, what was she like?

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<v Speaker 2>So she just needs help.

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<v Speaker 1>My opinion always say the mess I need your help with.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, I don't know if my question is should

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<v Speaker 1>I split the money because she's still outside of her

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<v Speaker 1>house because she kept her want to be able to

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<v Speaker 1>give him the money.

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<v Speaker 2>But I heard her say like she kept her word,

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<v Speaker 2>or she keeps her word and everything.

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<v Speaker 1>Sometimes you don't have to keep your word yet exactly so,

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<v Speaker 1>but she wanted to know if she should. He took

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<v Speaker 1>that ho to worry though. That's all for to keep

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<v Speaker 1>your word. I'm just saying, like they had an agreement, Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>is it written down? Oh my god? He wanted to say.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, but they're not together no more.

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<v Speaker 1>So she's just giving him the money two hours ago. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>So did she play a game back? Does that bitch

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<v Speaker 1>ain't give him no money but going back with him? No,

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<v Speaker 1>it just sounds like does she want to get back

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<v Speaker 1>in her house? Oh so that's what it sounds like.

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<v Speaker 1>That's why she was trying to figure out she give

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<v Speaker 1>them some money, split the money whatever, because she wanted

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<v Speaker 1>to get access to the house.

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<v Speaker 2>I feel like.

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<v Speaker 1>And I feel like it's other ways to gain access

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<v Speaker 1>to your house. Again. I mean, like Taylor said, if

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<v Speaker 1>that shit, if it wasn't a written agreement, or it

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<v Speaker 1>wasn't court ordered or whatever, the fuck, y'all don't have

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<v Speaker 1>a contract in place and everything. And this is not

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<v Speaker 1>your husband, this is your boyfriend. It depends on whose

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<v Speaker 1>names are on the lease, if your name is on it, whatever,

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<v Speaker 1>Because you can call the police, like you can, y'all

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<v Speaker 1>can call authorities and get that situated. I mean, because

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<v Speaker 1>it's like, technically he puts you out. Yeah, you know

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<v Speaker 1>what I'm saying. He technically put you out if you

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<v Speaker 1>get mailed there, even if your name is not on

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<v Speaker 1>the lease. If you get mailed there, technically you're a tenant,

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<v Speaker 1>right you can provide that, and they would he would

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<v Speaker 1>have to give you a thirty day or sixty day something. Notice,

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<v Speaker 1>he can't just put you out or not that he

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<v Speaker 1>put her out. He just took the key. Yeah, even

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<v Speaker 1>get another key made.

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<v Speaker 2>Shut well, he gets that key to get made though.

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<v Speaker 1>I know what I'm saying. The whole time, supposed to

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<v Speaker 1>keep a spare key somewhere just in case you lose

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<v Speaker 1>your key. You supposed to keep another key. But that's crazy.

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<v Speaker 1>I think I do think she should give him the money,

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<v Speaker 1>give him some money. Not even to keep my word.

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<v Speaker 1>The nigga paid the bills the dad in the agreement.

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<v Speaker 1>So let's let's say, let's put the shoe on the

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<v Speaker 1>other foot. Hold up, Hold up, I know the ship

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<v Speaker 1>getting good. But listen to just a couple of seconds

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<v Speaker 1>of a commercial. If you love me, you'll listen. Let's

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<v Speaker 1>say she's the one, you know what I'm saying, like

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<v Speaker 1>that's a high ass, is the one that paid the

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<v Speaker 1>bills that whole time while he was saving, and he

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<v Speaker 1>ain't want to give you no money. Come come the

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<v Speaker 1>second year. And then so you you took his key,

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<v Speaker 1>And I say this, the guy's right in me. You

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<v Speaker 1>think I should give it the money. We're gonna say,

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<v Speaker 1>hell yeah, you should get that girl some money. She

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<v Speaker 1>paid them bills all that first year. While you say,

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<v Speaker 1>I think it's the same thing, she should definitely huh.

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<v Speaker 1>That was saying this are real, but fuck that. Nah,

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<v Speaker 1>she just you know, get that nigga some bread. And

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<v Speaker 1>because you lived there, you live there, you know, and

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<v Speaker 1>this was agreement y'all made.

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<v Speaker 2>You know, so well, do what you want to do,

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<v Speaker 2>do what you want to because it seems like to

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<v Speaker 2>that they're probably don't get back to I just feel

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<v Speaker 2>they gonna get back together.

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<v Speaker 1>It does seem like that, it does it does I

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<v Speaker 1>know you say it seemed like they will or they won't.

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<v Speaker 2>They will.

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<v Speaker 1>Nah that that Nigga didn't be probably don't. That probably

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<v Speaker 1>put pads in his mouth because she she's not really

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<v Speaker 1>expressing no fucking love neither. She just like yeah, ain't whatever.

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<v Speaker 2>But I want to know why they broke up though,

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<v Speaker 2>Like why didn't because.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, like is that is that the only reason why

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<v Speaker 1>type ship? I mean, I think she would have said

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<v Speaker 1>if it was something else. I'm saying though, is that

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<v Speaker 1>the only problem?

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<v Speaker 2>He just took the key because she didn't get them

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<v Speaker 2>money yet, Like, I just want to.

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<v Speaker 1>Know, like what he probably took the key after the breakup.

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<v Speaker 1>They probably got into a big fight, okay, because she

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<v Speaker 1>said it was Sunday. They just broke up Sunday. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>not gonna keep repeating the details, Team Tailor, but I

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<v Speaker 1>just want to know because it ain't harlly shit. I

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<v Speaker 1>know she ain't really give us a lot. Probably that

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<v Speaker 1>Nigga probably broke as a motherfucking joke, especially in this economy.

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<v Speaker 1>This just happened Sunday. So this ain't like the story

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<v Speaker 1>from a long long time agose days. This is from

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<v Speaker 1>like currently. Yeah, and they both worked, but it's like, yo,

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<v Speaker 1>you saved all yeah, like come on with this ship

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<v Speaker 1>and you acting like you ain't all right? Cool? Fuck dad?

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<v Speaker 1>You know.

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<v Speaker 2>So why they thought it would be a good idea

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<v Speaker 2>for you?

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<v Speaker 1>I know, I literally think quarterly, quarterly, and look, you

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<v Speaker 1>just you try to take her side. I'm no, Shane,

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<v Speaker 1>I give him no money when all the time you

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<v Speaker 1>just said it's hot out here exactly for that nigga too.

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<v Speaker 1>So it definitely should have been a quarterly thing. I

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<v Speaker 1>think that. But no, they're not married, they're just boyfriend

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<v Speaker 1>and girlfriends. So well, if you all do break up,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, if y'all do get back together, maybe that's

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<v Speaker 1>what y'all should discussed too quarterly. Not yeah, if they

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<v Speaker 1>do get back together, yeah, So I really don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>They like the concrete advice that you wanted, sweetheart, but

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<v Speaker 1>oh the concrete advice, Well, I don't know the concrete

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<v Speaker 1>advice for your relationship, but I do think, yeah, you

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<v Speaker 1>definitely should give him some money, like you know, because

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<v Speaker 1>he he bared the household for the whole year. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>and I and it up y'all out there talking about

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<v Speaker 1>and that's what I'm as posted. No, not if you

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<v Speaker 1>set into it, not if you set an agreement up,

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<v Speaker 1>you know before y'all moved with each other and shit,

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<v Speaker 1>and no, that's that's not it. You shouldn't want it

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<v Speaker 1>to that agreement if you didn't, you know, if you

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<v Speaker 1>really didn't want to uphold your end. You know what

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<v Speaker 1>I'm saying, you know, but keep me updated.

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<v Speaker 2>What before we get into the other story, did you

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<v Speaker 2>see that video of this guy he like brought his

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<v Speaker 2>wife a house, but she wasn't happy about it. No,

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<v Speaker 2>she was mad as hell about it, like it's not

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<v Speaker 2>the house I wanted, bitch.

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<v Speaker 1>No, or was this on the show or was this

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<v Speaker 1>on line? On line? Yeah, no, that's said, So it's

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<v Speaker 1>not the one that she was so but look, is

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<v Speaker 1>he like a millionaire or a billionaire.

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<v Speaker 2>No, that's what he could afford all the time.

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<v Speaker 1>So he got what he could afford starting and it's

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<v Speaker 1>not the house that it wasn't like terrible, that was

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<v Speaker 1>his wife okay, and she was like upset look like

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<v Speaker 1>he married the wrong bench. Ain't no way or what.

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<v Speaker 1>What probably happened is they collectively together made a decision

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<v Speaker 1>on one house and he didn't get that one. When

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<v Speaker 1>he bought another one and brought her there to see it,

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<v Speaker 1>she like, the same what we talked about probably like

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<v Speaker 1>we were like they've been going to see houses together

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<v Speaker 1>as a married couple, and he just went all in

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<v Speaker 1>without telling her. You know what I'm saying, made a

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<v Speaker 1>decision on a house that was smaller than probably all

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<v Speaker 1>the ones that they went to go see, or not

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<v Speaker 1>even smaller, like because I'm looking at the house and

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<v Speaker 1>I'm like, eh, no, you know what I mean. So

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<v Speaker 1>she said, and listen, she said, we have enough in

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<v Speaker 1>the bank, so apparently they're both paying for this house,

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<v Speaker 1>you know what I'm saying. So I I'm sorry, Like,

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<v Speaker 1>I yeah, you that's why you shouldn't make a decision

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<v Speaker 1>on things until you look at the whole situation. Because

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<v Speaker 1>if y'all could see the house that this woman pulled

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<v Speaker 1>up to, yeah, it's a ranch house, but I get it,

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<v Speaker 1>I get it. She said, we might as well stay

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<v Speaker 1>where we at now, where we're at now we renting. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>but that don't maybe we should go buy anything just

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<v Speaker 1>because we're renting how much he was a house that

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<v Speaker 1>she wanted though, I want to see that too, or

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<v Speaker 1>that they both probably agreed on it. He was just

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<v Speaker 1>like no, but I do. I will say, he is right,

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<v Speaker 1>You're not supposed to spend all your money on the house,

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<v Speaker 1>Like no, because we still need other money. You know,

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<v Speaker 1>we got furniture, we got thenny got kids, like we

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<v Speaker 1>got to furnished rooms. We got grocery shop, and we

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<v Speaker 1>got bills. We need to get these lights on. We

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<v Speaker 1>got water, we got utilities that you know what I'm saying,

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<v Speaker 1>all of that type shit. You know, and if you

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<v Speaker 1>when you buy a house, it's other things you gotta

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<v Speaker 1>pay for, like you know, the title of the fucking

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<v Speaker 1>house and all, like all of that type shit, so

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<v Speaker 1>you need It's just like buy a car, like you

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<v Speaker 1>need tags and title and all that shit. Like you

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<v Speaker 1>need all of that shit, the deed and everything when

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<v Speaker 1>you're buying a home. And so it's not just easy.

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<v Speaker 1>So I want to see the house, the ship, I know,

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<v Speaker 1>because I don't know how we go from fixing somebody

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<v Speaker 1>else's mess to trying to fix that mess.

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<v Speaker 2>But agreements and yeah, I just saw that video clip.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah yeah, but I think that this lady should keep

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<v Speaker 1>us updated because, you know, going back to the story,

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<v Speaker 1>I just I'm with you till I think it should

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<v Speaker 1>have been like a quarterly situation. It definitely shouldn't have

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<v Speaker 1>been like a oh yeah this, you know, we a

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<v Speaker 1>year you paid for you pay the bills and I

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<v Speaker 1>saved or I said, yeah, it's a lot. It's a lot,

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<v Speaker 1>and that's a lot of strain on that man's bank account.

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<v Speaker 1>If you love me, you'll listen to this commercial and

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<v Speaker 1>then we'll be right back. And I don't like I said,

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<v Speaker 1>she left a lot of meat off the bone. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know if they have kids. I don't know if

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<v Speaker 1>they you know. Also, yeah, their jobs are yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>like what are you making? What are you? You know

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<v Speaker 1>what I'm saying, that's exhausted. That's that's exhausting as fucking

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<v Speaker 1>I know you probably feel like, but y'all could live

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<v Speaker 1>on my own, like I got to live on my

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<v Speaker 1>own with this, you know. So, are you gonna marry

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<v Speaker 1>your baby's daddy? I love so Look, but look that's

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<v Speaker 1>the thing right, So I was watching Actually, no, I

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<v Speaker 1>want to ask you this all right, Well, since you're

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<v Speaker 1>going to marry him. When it comes to y'all buying

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<v Speaker 1>a house, right, what are.

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<v Speaker 2>You thinking about talk into the right into talking about

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<v Speaker 2>buying house now?

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<v Speaker 1>Or we should wait because you're talking too low tail line?

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<v Speaker 2>Where are you talking about buying the house now? But

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<v Speaker 2>this economy is right now?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh no, it's most definitely. But are you one of

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<v Speaker 1>those types of women who want the man to take

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<v Speaker 1>care of everything? Or are you because you're working, you're

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<v Speaker 1>a working woman as well? Would you what are you

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<v Speaker 1>fifty to fifty?

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<v Speaker 2>I'm fifty fifty fifty fifty as in like it's one

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<v Speaker 2>of those things where we have an agreemar who takes

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<v Speaker 2>care of for yes, but if something happens he falls short,

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<v Speaker 2>it's like.

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<v Speaker 1>You have to be there to pick the slack up

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<v Speaker 1>and vice versus. That. That is what a relationship is.

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<v Speaker 1>That is what a marriage is. And I'll be getting

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<v Speaker 1>so tired of seeing, you know, people on social media

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<v Speaker 1>and on these fucking podcasts like I just wish Trump

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<v Speaker 1>can write an executive order to remove everybody's podcast equipment

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<v Speaker 1>who talk about dumb shit and just like you know,

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<v Speaker 1>because you got certain men and women up here talking about.

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<v Speaker 2>They're trying to live their life like the women that's like, oh,

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<v Speaker 2>man's supposed to do this. And the third yes, they're

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<v Speaker 2>living their life.

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<v Speaker 1>Through another lens that they will never even have. Fuck.

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<v Speaker 1>That's where even Gabrielle Union came out and was like,

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<v Speaker 1>baby fifty fifty ain't working for me, honey, Hollywood is

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<v Speaker 1>fucking dried the fuck up. I haven't had a project

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<v Speaker 1>and I don't know how long I am. I have

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<v Speaker 1>my hair care line, but it's not doing as well.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not doing as well as my billionaire athlete husband

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<v Speaker 1>who want to fucking paint his nails and toes every day.

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<v Speaker 1>You come help me the fot shit. I know that,

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<v Speaker 1>Like I literally felt her, like yo, I've been relationships

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<v Speaker 1>where I took care of niggas. It's not fun. It's

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<v Speaker 1>it's not fun. And I'm not saying you can't help

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<v Speaker 1>your man, no, you like no, but I've been. I

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<v Speaker 1>just feel like you guys grow together. Yeah. Yes, I've

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<v Speaker 1>been in three fucking relationships that shit drained. Drink drains you.

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<v Speaker 1>Three relationships with a niggas. They were working, the men

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<v Speaker 1>were working, and then they got comfortable and just decided

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<v Speaker 1>to let me take care of them. Now, a lot

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<v Speaker 1>of that is on me because bitch I should have

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<v Speaker 1>been was like, oh bye.

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<v Speaker 2>Won't say take care of like this, what like bills.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm paying for everything. Then I got my own kid,

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<v Speaker 1>you know what I mean. Like then I got like

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<v Speaker 1>I'm taking care of the house and shit like yo.

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<v Speaker 1>I remember the first nigger I was saying here with

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<v Speaker 1>taking care of his mother was on drugs. I put

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<v Speaker 1>her through rehab. I'm paying her rent, you know what

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<v Speaker 1>I'm saying, like all that type shit. And this nigga

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<v Speaker 1>was working when he first got with me, but he

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<v Speaker 1>lost his job and not understanding shit happens. But then

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<v Speaker 1>he just got comfortable. No fuck No, second time shit

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<v Speaker 1>happened a little different, but I still ended up taking

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<v Speaker 1>care of the nigga. The third time I dipped, I'm like,

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<v Speaker 1>oh no, fuck that. That's why I like, I love

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<v Speaker 1>Chris yo. I love like I have a partner, because

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<v Speaker 1>that nigga ain't even a type his mom and his

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<v Speaker 1>grandparents and not raised him to sit back and let

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<v Speaker 1>a woman just take care of everything. That's why I

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<v Speaker 1>say like my partner, like I have a real partner,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, what I mean. But yeah, that's that I.

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<v Speaker 2>Guess also in since the person that that showed you,

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<v Speaker 2>she put that on her story and she was like

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<v Speaker 2>at the end of the day too, make sure you

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<v Speaker 2>did according to what you want though.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, like yeah, oh this woman, yea a guy that's.

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<v Speaker 2>Gonna this a millionaire and want to take care of you.

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<v Speaker 1>Make sure you date that instead of that's what you want. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>because you'll get in a relationship with somebody that's not

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<v Speaker 1>a millionaire, you'll expect millionaire shit, that's not gonna happen.

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<v Speaker 1>You can't do that, you know what I mean. So

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<v Speaker 1>and then millionaires just don't get money out of nowhere.

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<v Speaker 1>Motherfuckers work for what they have.

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<v Speaker 2>That's what I'm saying too, though, like why no one

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<v Speaker 2>want to build with Like.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, no, that is I'm about that all day, I really,

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<v Speaker 1>But I love that.

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<v Speaker 2>I know people don't I understand times of her or whatever.

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<v Speaker 2>They just want to live a soft life whatever, But no,

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<v Speaker 2>it means more. I think when you it definitely means more.

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<v Speaker 2>You are totally right.

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<v Speaker 1>And just like that, we've come to the end of

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<v Speaker 1>yet another carefully reckless episode with your girl. Just hilarious

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<v Speaker 1>and my girl, Taylor, she that girl right now, but

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<v Speaker 1>she had that baby. She's gonna be that good. Love

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<v Speaker 1>her so much so say bye to Taylor and Tay

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<v Speaker 1>let's stay by her, listeners by, and we'll see y'all

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<v Speaker 1>next week. Peace. The class Past Name Name Can't Fully

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