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Speaker 1: Welcome to Can't Flee Reckless, the production of iHeart Radio

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Speaker 1: and the Black Effects, And just like that, we're back

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Speaker 1: with yet another carefully reckless episode with your Girl. Just hilarious.

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Speaker 1: What I'll be doing, I'll be fixing mess and we're

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Speaker 1: gonna get straight into it. We got Taylor here today.

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Speaker 1: Say hi to Taylor, and Taylor say hi to thosteners per.

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Speaker 1: All right, so we're about to jump straight in. Of course,

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Speaker 1: we have no voice memos because people's significant others and

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Speaker 1: best friends and family members know their voices. So I'm

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Speaker 1: starting to understand that more and more, and I do

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Speaker 1: get it. I just want y'all to make y'all grammatical

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Speaker 1: errors correct before y'all sending these passages in these PDFs

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Speaker 1: and these fucking essays for me to read and then

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Speaker 1: turn around and tell me I can't fucking read. So

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Speaker 1: here we go. Hey, jas, I am fresh out of

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Speaker 1: a breakup which just happened on Sunday. It was a

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Speaker 1: six year relationship. The mess I need your help with

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Speaker 1: is we had a plan where for one year I

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Speaker 1: would pay bills while he saves, and the next year

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Speaker 1: we would flip. Okay, that's that's that's pretty you know, compromising.

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Speaker 1: We only made it through one year though, Okay, damn,

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Speaker 1: so I was the one contributing all the savings. My

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Speaker 1: question is should I split the money with him as agreed?

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Speaker 1: And the only reason I'm asking is because he took

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Speaker 1: away my house key and I have no access to

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Speaker 1: my house. What. I'm pretty much a person of my word.

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Speaker 1: That's why I don't want to go back on it,

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Speaker 1: because morally, that's just not good and that's not how

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Speaker 1: I live my life. But something just tells me, man,

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Speaker 1: this shit is not right because I don't even have

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Speaker 1: access to my own house, are you? Yeah? Like, what

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Speaker 1: the fuck? Where's the cops? The fuck? Because it is

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Speaker 1: his name? Is his name the only name on the

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Speaker 1: least or the mortgage or the rent? Like what, I

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Speaker 1: don't understand how you don't have access to your house? Yes,

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Speaker 1: she said, she said they just broke up Sunday, so

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Speaker 1: apparently it's probably still stuff in the house. But yeah,

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Speaker 1: she's a woman off her work. Now listen, let's just

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Speaker 1: go to this arrangement. But let's start with the arrangement,

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Speaker 1: because she said that they made a deal for one year,

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Speaker 1: one person would pay the bills and the other one saves,

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Speaker 1: and then the next year they're supposed to flip. So

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Speaker 1: then the next year the person who got to save

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Speaker 1: the year before has to pay the bills, and the

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Speaker 1: next the other person save. Okay, Okay, she so she

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Speaker 1: said they only got to one year, though they didn't

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Speaker 1: get to they didn't get A year is a long time.

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Speaker 1: But here's a long time for me to have all

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Speaker 1: the bills. Yeah, exactly, and then you're just sitting back saving,

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Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. It should definitely be quarterly.

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Speaker 1: I think that would quarterly would be better, I think.

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Speaker 1: But I'm kind of confused because she said we made

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Speaker 1: it past one year. We only made it to one year,

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Speaker 1: and she said, My question is, oh no, she said

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Speaker 1: we only made it through one year, so I was

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Speaker 1: the one contributing all the savings. So basically, so she's

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Speaker 1: saying she don't want to pay the bills for the

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Speaker 1: first year and then he was saving, okay, or is

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Speaker 1: she saying she saved? I think while he paid the bills,

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Speaker 1: because my question is should I split the money with

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Speaker 1: him as a greed And the only reason I'm asking

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Speaker 2: Because I'm confused, like she was saving more than you

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Speaker 2: think it was her saving.

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Speaker 1: That's what I don't know. It kind of seems like

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Speaker 1: it was her saving because she said, my question is

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Speaker 1: Should I should I split the money with him? I

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Speaker 1: just feel like maybe she's the one that saved, She's

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Speaker 1: one that paid the bills. All yeah, yeah, because there

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Speaker 1: would be no reason that she's asking me that question

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Speaker 1: if she's not the one who had to pay the bills.

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Speaker 1: That Nigga mad, he took that key because she Yeah,

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Speaker 1: so that's what it was. I just had to figure

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Speaker 1: if they can hear me chewing, because look like john Sway,

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Speaker 1: it's all right, they eating too shit. This should come

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Speaker 1: all right, bitch, we had an agreement. Broke up though,

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Speaker 1: I think so that's all she wrote, I fresh out

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Speaker 1: of a breakup. It just happened Sunday and we were

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Speaker 1: together for six years. I mean, what was she like?

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Speaker 2: So she just needs help.

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Speaker 1: My opinion always say the mess I need your help with.

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Speaker 1: I mean, I don't know if my question is should

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Speaker 2: But I heard her say like she kept her word,

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Speaker 2: or she keeps her word and everything.

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Speaker 1: Sometimes you don't have to keep your word yet exactly so,

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Speaker 1: but she wanted to know if she should. He took

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Speaker 1: that ho to worry though. That's all for to keep

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Speaker 1: your word. I'm just saying, like they had an agreement, Okay,

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Speaker 1: is it written down? Oh my god? He wanted to say.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, but they're not together no more.

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Speaker 1: So she's just giving him the money two hours ago. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: So did she play a game back? Does that bitch

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Speaker 1: ain't give him no money but going back with him? No,

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Speaker 1: it just sounds like does she want to get back

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Speaker 1: in her house? Oh so that's what it sounds like.

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Speaker 1: That's why she was trying to figure out she give

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Speaker 1: them some money, split the money whatever, because she wanted

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Speaker 2: I feel like.

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Speaker 1: And I feel like it's other ways to gain access

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Speaker 1: that shit, if it wasn't a written agreement, or it

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Speaker 1: wasn't court ordered or whatever, the fuck, y'all don't have

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Speaker 1: a contract in place and everything. And this is not

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Speaker 1: your husband, this is your boyfriend. It depends on whose

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Speaker 1: names are on the lease, if your name is on it, whatever,

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Speaker 1: Because you can call the police, like you can, y'all

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Speaker 1: it's like, technically he puts you out. Yeah, you know

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Speaker 1: what I'm saying. He technically put you out if you

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Speaker 1: get mailed there, even if your name is not on

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Speaker 1: the lease. If you get mailed there, technically you're a tenant,

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Speaker 1: right you can provide that, and they would he would

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Speaker 1: have to give you a thirty day or sixty day something. Notice,

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Speaker 1: he can't just put you out or not that he

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Speaker 1: put her out. He just took the key. Yeah, even

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Speaker 1: get another key made.

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Speaker 2: Shut well, he gets that key to get made though.

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Speaker 1: I know what I'm saying. The whole time, supposed to

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Speaker 1: keep a spare key somewhere just in case you lose

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Speaker 1: your key. You supposed to keep another key. But that's crazy.

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Speaker 1: I think I do think she should give him the money,

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Speaker 1: The nigga paid the bills the dad in the agreement.

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Speaker 1: So let's let's say, let's put the shoe on the

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Speaker 1: other foot. Hold up, Hold up, I know the ship

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Speaker 1: getting good. But listen to just a couple of seconds

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Speaker 1: of a commercial. If you love me, you'll listen. Let's

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Speaker 1: say she's the one, you know what I'm saying, like

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Speaker 1: that's a high ass, is the one that paid the

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Speaker 1: ain't want to give you no money. Come come the

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Speaker 1: second year. And then so you you took his key,

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Speaker 1: And I say this, the guy's right in me. You

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Speaker 1: think I should give it the money. We're gonna say,

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Speaker 1: hell yeah, you should get that girl some money. She

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Speaker 1: paid them bills all that first year. While you say,

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Speaker 1: I think it's the same thing, she should definitely huh.

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Speaker 1: That was saying this are real, but fuck that. Nah,

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Speaker 1: because you lived there, you live there, you know, and

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Speaker 1: this was agreement y'all made.

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Speaker 2: You know, so well, do what you want to do,

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Speaker 2: do what you want to because it seems like to

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Speaker 2: that they're probably don't get back to I just feel

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Speaker 2: they gonna get back together.

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Speaker 1: It does seem like that, it does it does I

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Speaker 1: know you say it seemed like they will or they won't.

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Speaker 2: They will.

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Speaker 1: Nah that that Nigga didn't be probably don't. That probably

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Speaker 1: put pads in his mouth because she she's not really

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Speaker 1: expressing no fucking love neither. She just like yeah, ain't whatever.

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Speaker 2: But I want to know why they broke up though,

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Speaker 2: Like why didn't because.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, like is that is that the only reason why

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Speaker 2: He just took the key because she didn't get them

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Speaker 1: Know, like what he probably took the key after the breakup.

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Speaker 1: They probably got into a big fight, okay, because she

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Speaker 1: said it was Sunday. They just broke up Sunday. I'm

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Speaker 1: Nigga probably broke as a motherfucking joke, especially in this economy.

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Speaker 1: This just happened Sunday. So this ain't like the story

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Speaker 1: like currently. Yeah, and they both worked, but it's like, yo,

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Speaker 1: and you acting like you ain't all right? Cool? Fuck dad?

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Speaker 2: So why they thought it would be a good idea

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Speaker 2: for you?

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Speaker 1: I know, I literally think quarterly, quarterly, and look, you

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Speaker 1: just you try to take her side. I'm no, Shane,

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Speaker 1: I give him no money when all the time you

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Speaker 1: So it definitely should have been a quarterly thing. I

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Speaker 1: think that. But no, they're not married, they're just boyfriend

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Speaker 1: and girlfriends. So well, if you all do break up,

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Speaker 1: I mean, if y'all do get back together, maybe that's

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Speaker 1: what y'all should discussed too quarterly. Not yeah, if they

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Speaker 1: do get back together, yeah, So I really don't know.

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Speaker 1: They like the concrete advice that you wanted, sweetheart, but

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Speaker 1: oh the concrete advice, Well, I don't know the concrete

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Speaker 1: advice for your relationship, but I do think, yeah, you

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Speaker 1: definitely should give him some money, like you know, because

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Speaker 1: he he bared the household for the whole year. Okay,

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Speaker 1: and I and it up y'all out there talking about

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Speaker 1: and that's what I'm as posted. No, not if you

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Speaker 1: set into it, not if you set an agreement up,

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Speaker 1: you know before y'all moved with each other and shit,

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Speaker 1: and no, that's that's not it. You shouldn't want it

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Speaker 1: to that agreement if you didn't, you know, if you

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Speaker 1: really didn't want to uphold your end. You know what

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Speaker 1: I'm saying, you know, but keep me updated.

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Speaker 2: What before we get into the other story, did you

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Speaker 2: see that video of this guy he like brought his

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Speaker 2: wife a house, but she wasn't happy about it. No,

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Speaker 2: she was mad as hell about it, like it's not

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Speaker 2: the house I wanted, bitch.

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Speaker 1: No, or was this on the show or was this

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Speaker 2: it means more. I think when you it definitely means more.

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Speaker 2: You are totally right.

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Speaker 1: And just like that, we've come to the end of

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Speaker 1: yet another carefully reckless episode with your girl. Just hilarious

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Speaker 1: and my girl, Taylor, she that girl right now, but

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