1 00:00:09,720 --> 00:00:14,040 Speaker 1: Broadcasting live from the Abraham Lincoln Radio Studio, the George 2 00:00:14,080 --> 00:00:18,360 Speaker 1: Washington Broadcast Center. Jack Armstrong, Shoe, Caddy arm. 3 00:00:18,280 --> 00:00:25,920 Speaker 2: Strong and Jet Taking and he Armstrong and Catty Strong and. 4 00:00:31,800 --> 00:00:32,200 Speaker 3: Katie. 5 00:00:32,960 --> 00:00:34,080 Speaker 2: Why do you look so surprised? 6 00:00:34,159 --> 00:00:38,000 Speaker 4: Katie is a joke about her new eyebrow tattoos, which 7 00:00:38,000 --> 00:00:39,920 Speaker 4: she mentioned during the show. So, I don't know anything 8 00:00:39,960 --> 00:00:44,120 Speaker 4: about eyebrow tattoos. You're going to get them today? Is 9 00:00:44,159 --> 00:00:45,919 Speaker 4: this a common thing? Why do you do it? What 10 00:00:45,960 --> 00:00:48,000 Speaker 4: does it cost? I need all the ins and outs. 11 00:00:48,600 --> 00:00:51,479 Speaker 5: It is relatively common. There's a few different ways you 12 00:00:51,479 --> 00:00:53,320 Speaker 5: can have it done. You can have them tattooed. There's 13 00:00:53,360 --> 00:00:57,720 Speaker 5: something called micro blading, which is similar to tattooing. And 14 00:00:58,040 --> 00:00:59,640 Speaker 5: so I'm doing the tattooing. 15 00:01:01,240 --> 00:01:03,120 Speaker 4: So you mentioned that one of the reasons you want 16 00:01:03,160 --> 00:01:04,520 Speaker 4: to do it is so you don't have to tattoo 17 00:01:04,560 --> 00:01:06,800 Speaker 4: yourself every day before you come to work. Those those 18 00:01:06,840 --> 00:01:08,520 Speaker 4: eyebrows I'm looking at right now aren't real. 19 00:01:09,240 --> 00:01:12,040 Speaker 5: They they're I mean, I have eyebrows, but I need 20 00:01:12,080 --> 00:01:15,039 Speaker 5: to fill them in regularly, and they they don't line 21 00:01:15,120 --> 00:01:17,320 Speaker 5: up properly and it drives me nuts. So yeah, I 22 00:01:17,760 --> 00:01:20,440 Speaker 5: draw them on every day at three o'clock in the morning. 23 00:01:20,680 --> 00:01:23,119 Speaker 2: They don't line up properly. No, they don't. 24 00:01:23,240 --> 00:01:25,440 Speaker 5: One like starts farther back than the other and it 25 00:01:25,600 --> 00:01:27,400 Speaker 5: just dies. I'm so sick of it. 26 00:01:27,560 --> 00:01:29,640 Speaker 2: You're a monster. I can hardly look at you. Uh 27 00:01:29,760 --> 00:01:33,360 Speaker 2: huh wow, bridge troll. But eyebrows. 28 00:01:33,959 --> 00:01:37,080 Speaker 4: Eyebrows are hair, So isn't it gonna look like Groucho 29 00:01:37,160 --> 00:01:38,240 Speaker 4: Marx's mustache. 30 00:01:38,440 --> 00:01:42,000 Speaker 5: No, So they they do the tattooing and microblading in 31 00:01:42,400 --> 00:01:45,440 Speaker 5: hair strokes, so it's it's a very fine needle and 32 00:01:45,480 --> 00:01:47,720 Speaker 5: they go in and they actually make it look like hair, 33 00:01:48,080 --> 00:01:51,280 Speaker 5: so it'll look somewhat natural. But the healing process is 34 00:01:51,320 --> 00:01:52,960 Speaker 5: going to be hilarious. 35 00:01:53,520 --> 00:01:55,840 Speaker 3: So are you gonna be wearing like big Yoko Ono 36 00:01:55,960 --> 00:01:57,480 Speaker 3: sunglasses tomorrow or what? 37 00:01:57,800 --> 00:01:59,800 Speaker 5: I was debating a hat, but I'm not too sure 38 00:01:59,840 --> 00:02:02,280 Speaker 5: how close I can get to, so I might just 39 00:02:02,320 --> 00:02:04,160 Speaker 5: have to let you guys stare at them. 40 00:02:04,280 --> 00:02:05,440 Speaker 2: Look at your open wounds. 41 00:02:05,720 --> 00:02:09,079 Speaker 4: Yeah, losing open wounds above your eyes. 42 00:02:09,200 --> 00:02:10,760 Speaker 2: I'm so excited about this. 43 00:02:10,880 --> 00:02:13,200 Speaker 5: I know it's it's probably sounds insane to you guys, 44 00:02:13,240 --> 00:02:16,680 Speaker 5: but the process of drawing them on and messing them 45 00:02:16,720 --> 00:02:19,079 Speaker 5: up and having to go back and redo them it's 46 00:02:19,240 --> 00:02:22,040 Speaker 5: just at thirty five, I don't know how to draw 47 00:02:22,120 --> 00:02:22,880 Speaker 5: my eyebrows on. 48 00:02:22,960 --> 00:02:25,560 Speaker 2: So this is going to be a huge time saver. Yeah, 49 00:02:25,600 --> 00:02:26,880 Speaker 2: well where do you get that? 50 00:02:26,960 --> 00:02:27,080 Speaker 3: Will? 51 00:02:27,120 --> 00:02:29,200 Speaker 4: They move with your face like you you can look 52 00:02:29,240 --> 00:02:31,320 Speaker 4: surprised her it's on her skin. 53 00:02:31,680 --> 00:02:31,960 Speaker 2: Nine. 54 00:02:32,360 --> 00:02:35,399 Speaker 5: No, they're like floating, so they stay while the rest 55 00:02:35,480 --> 00:02:36,680 Speaker 5: of my face is animated. 56 00:02:36,800 --> 00:02:39,280 Speaker 3: It's like a filter on Google. 57 00:02:39,320 --> 00:02:42,800 Speaker 2: Means. Ah see, I've never been a party girl. 58 00:02:42,880 --> 00:02:45,520 Speaker 3: So all of this is to me, like, you know, 59 00:02:46,080 --> 00:02:49,079 Speaker 3: like a tribe in the Amazon that's had no contact 60 00:02:49,080 --> 00:02:49,960 Speaker 3: with the modern world. 61 00:02:50,040 --> 00:02:54,320 Speaker 2: Your ways are foreign to me. Well, not problems you 62 00:02:54,320 --> 00:02:58,400 Speaker 2: guys would have. No, No, you guys both have great eyebrows. 63 00:02:58,480 --> 00:03:02,320 Speaker 2: Well I'm I am someone who started mediocre at best started. 64 00:03:02,080 --> 00:03:04,359 Speaker 4: Dyeing his goatee now and then, so I understand the 65 00:03:04,840 --> 00:03:07,800 Speaker 4: need to uh do something to your face. 66 00:03:07,840 --> 00:03:11,200 Speaker 2: What is this going to cost you? It's five hundred dollars? WHOA, 67 00:03:11,280 --> 00:03:12,040 Speaker 2: But it's permanent. 68 00:03:12,280 --> 00:03:12,519 Speaker 1: M h. 69 00:03:12,800 --> 00:03:14,720 Speaker 5: It's permanent, which I mean if you think about it, 70 00:03:14,760 --> 00:03:16,880 Speaker 5: if you get a tattoo, like a really good one, 71 00:03:17,400 --> 00:03:19,960 Speaker 5: you're getting up in that range especially, you know, and 72 00:03:20,000 --> 00:03:22,519 Speaker 5: this is the permanent makeup. So I mean, people get 73 00:03:22,520 --> 00:03:26,079 Speaker 5: their their eyeliner done, which I can't do. People get 74 00:03:26,080 --> 00:03:28,720 Speaker 5: their lipliner. My mom did her eyeliner and her lip liner. 75 00:03:28,720 --> 00:03:30,360 Speaker 5: I have no idea how she let a needle that 76 00:03:30,440 --> 00:03:31,360 Speaker 5: close to her eyeball. 77 00:03:31,720 --> 00:03:34,280 Speaker 4: Yeah, I know some people that have done those, and 78 00:03:34,400 --> 00:03:39,920 Speaker 4: I don't dig it. So maybe there's probably, like everything else, 79 00:03:39,960 --> 00:03:43,160 Speaker 4: there's getting a really good version of it done and 80 00:03:43,160 --> 00:03:45,760 Speaker 4: not as good version depending on price. I don't know, 81 00:03:45,800 --> 00:03:49,080 Speaker 4: but I've known some people that did the permanent eyeliner thing, 82 00:03:49,080 --> 00:03:51,119 Speaker 4: and you just you look a little like a raccoon. 83 00:03:51,880 --> 00:03:58,760 Speaker 2: Yeah. Uh, it depends. You can always add more, you 84 00:03:58,840 --> 00:04:00,320 Speaker 2: can't go full. 85 00:04:00,440 --> 00:04:06,080 Speaker 3: I'm Courtney Love at a nightclub to start, I think, right. 86 00:04:06,160 --> 00:04:09,440 Speaker 5: But I am taking a risk because I mean, I'm 87 00:04:09,480 --> 00:04:12,119 Speaker 5: praying to all that is holy that it doesn't get done, 88 00:04:12,160 --> 00:04:12,880 Speaker 5: and I hate it. 89 00:04:13,600 --> 00:04:16,200 Speaker 2: The eyebrow makes more sense to me than the eyes 90 00:04:16,279 --> 00:04:16,760 Speaker 2: or the lips. 91 00:04:16,800 --> 00:04:23,200 Speaker 3: Actually, oh yeah, unless some sort of shaven headed look 92 00:04:23,279 --> 00:04:24,960 Speaker 3: becomes super hot in the future. 93 00:04:25,000 --> 00:04:28,479 Speaker 2: I mean, women shave their eyebrows, shave their heads just the. 94 00:04:29,040 --> 00:04:32,560 Speaker 4: You don't notice what eyebrows do for your look until 95 00:04:32,560 --> 00:04:34,279 Speaker 4: you don't have them. When I was doing chemotherapy and 96 00:04:34,279 --> 00:04:35,920 Speaker 4: I lost all my hair, and my eyebrows went away. 97 00:04:35,960 --> 00:04:37,239 Speaker 2: It's it makes you look weird. 98 00:04:38,200 --> 00:04:41,000 Speaker 5: Yeah, and people are shaving them off right now as 99 00:04:41,080 --> 00:04:43,960 Speaker 5: like a trend. Yeah, there's a girl I follow on 100 00:04:44,000 --> 00:04:46,840 Speaker 5: Instagram who shaves her eyebrows off only to draw them 101 00:04:46,880 --> 00:04:49,560 Speaker 5: back on every day because she doesn't like how they're placed. 102 00:04:50,240 --> 00:04:52,719 Speaker 2: Oh so she wants me in a different place. This 103 00:04:52,800 --> 00:04:54,240 Speaker 2: is real life, guys. 104 00:04:55,800 --> 00:04:59,919 Speaker 4: Do we know why human beings have eyebrows? 105 00:05:00,000 --> 00:05:00,680 Speaker 2: I think it's just. 106 00:05:00,640 --> 00:05:03,080 Speaker 3: Part of the whole keeping stuff out of your eyes, 107 00:05:05,279 --> 00:05:09,440 Speaker 3: you know, multiple layers of protection. I think it may 108 00:05:09,520 --> 00:05:12,080 Speaker 3: be partly just to catch stuff that would fall in 109 00:05:12,160 --> 00:05:15,719 Speaker 3: your eyes, and partly for sensory reasons. Because where you 110 00:05:15,760 --> 00:05:20,080 Speaker 3: have hair, anything that touches it, even though it hasn't 111 00:05:20,120 --> 00:05:23,040 Speaker 3: got your actual skin yet, you become aware. 112 00:05:22,720 --> 00:05:26,680 Speaker 4: Of animals kind of have eyebrows. You can feel them, 113 00:05:26,720 --> 00:05:27,800 Speaker 4: like on a dog or whatever. 114 00:05:28,120 --> 00:05:30,720 Speaker 5: The Google is telling me that eyebrows help protect our 115 00:05:30,760 --> 00:05:31,840 Speaker 5: eyes from bright light. 116 00:05:34,200 --> 00:05:37,200 Speaker 4: Advisors, you gotta have a pretty heavy brow for that 117 00:05:37,240 --> 00:05:37,560 Speaker 4: to work. 118 00:05:38,440 --> 00:05:42,000 Speaker 3: Damn cave many quick question, Katie, So if you do 119 00:05:42,080 --> 00:05:43,640 Speaker 3: not like these, is there a way to get them 120 00:05:43,680 --> 00:05:44,400 Speaker 3: removed at all? 121 00:05:45,040 --> 00:05:46,240 Speaker 2: Or is it permanent? No matter what? 122 00:05:46,640 --> 00:05:49,479 Speaker 5: Well, I mean there's a there's tattoo removal. But no, 123 00:05:49,560 --> 00:05:52,080 Speaker 5: I'm pretty much screwed if I don't. 124 00:05:52,000 --> 00:05:55,479 Speaker 2: Like, do you have to choose a color? Yeah? 125 00:05:55,520 --> 00:05:58,720 Speaker 5: So, and the woman who does this is fantastic. I've 126 00:05:58,760 --> 00:06:00,800 Speaker 5: seen a lot of her work, so I'm I'm very 127 00:06:01,120 --> 00:06:03,200 Speaker 5: excited about this. But she's going to go in look 128 00:06:03,200 --> 00:06:05,680 Speaker 5: at the color of my natural hair and do all 129 00:06:05,720 --> 00:06:07,039 Speaker 5: of that stuff that I don't know how to do 130 00:06:07,120 --> 00:06:08,000 Speaker 5: and line them up and. 131 00:06:08,240 --> 00:06:10,160 Speaker 4: Well, I wouldn't normally ask this, but is that your 132 00:06:10,240 --> 00:06:12,200 Speaker 4: natural hair color that we see every day? 133 00:06:12,400 --> 00:06:14,880 Speaker 2: Yeah? Yeah, I'm like a dirtyish blonde. 134 00:06:15,000 --> 00:06:16,560 Speaker 4: Oh okay, So a lot of women have to spend 135 00:06:16,560 --> 00:06:17,880 Speaker 4: a lot of money to get their hair the color 136 00:06:17,920 --> 00:06:18,520 Speaker 4: your hair. 137 00:06:18,360 --> 00:06:21,640 Speaker 2: Is naturally, that's handy. Yeah, okay. Then you get your 138 00:06:21,640 --> 00:06:23,240 Speaker 2: eyebrows to match. I got it. 139 00:06:23,560 --> 00:06:25,320 Speaker 3: And if you hate the look, you can just start 140 00:06:25,360 --> 00:06:29,400 Speaker 3: wearing a sweatband a headband like John McEnroe in the 141 00:06:29,480 --> 00:06:33,400 Speaker 3: nineteen seventies. Which is my third count the third out 142 00:06:33,440 --> 00:06:35,920 Speaker 3: of date cultural reference this podcast. 143 00:06:36,440 --> 00:06:37,200 Speaker 2: Thanks for coming. 144 00:06:38,080 --> 00:06:42,120 Speaker 4: So now we are in the uncomfortable position since we 145 00:06:42,200 --> 00:06:43,560 Speaker 4: know you're getting this done. 146 00:06:43,440 --> 00:06:46,680 Speaker 2: That we have to tomorrow say, oh, it looks great. No, 147 00:06:46,920 --> 00:06:47,360 Speaker 2: you don't. 148 00:06:47,400 --> 00:06:50,400 Speaker 5: I don't want that. If it doesn't work, I need. 149 00:06:50,200 --> 00:06:52,800 Speaker 2: To know, so, oh please, not going to be me. 150 00:06:54,040 --> 00:06:57,560 Speaker 3: Besides, you know, a couple of my kids have a 151 00:06:57,560 --> 00:07:00,599 Speaker 3: handful of tattoos, and so I know it takes a 152 00:07:00,640 --> 00:07:03,600 Speaker 3: while before it looks good. There's the whole healing process. 153 00:07:03,600 --> 00:07:05,960 Speaker 3: Although with that microfid needle you're talking about, it might 154 00:07:06,000 --> 00:07:08,520 Speaker 3: be different. So I'm expecting you to look like a 155 00:07:08,560 --> 00:07:09,920 Speaker 3: box through had a rough night. 156 00:07:10,480 --> 00:07:10,800 Speaker 2: Yeah. 157 00:07:10,880 --> 00:07:13,640 Speaker 5: They said that there can be bruising and that it 158 00:07:13,680 --> 00:07:16,880 Speaker 5: takes about ten days for it to look how it's 159 00:07:16,960 --> 00:07:18,640 Speaker 5: going to look. So this is going to be a 160 00:07:18,720 --> 00:07:19,920 Speaker 5: journey we're taking together. 161 00:07:20,240 --> 00:07:22,480 Speaker 3: Is this gonna is gonna have to have a card 162 00:07:22,520 --> 00:07:25,640 Speaker 3: to hand out? No, there's no domestic violence. 163 00:07:26,400 --> 00:07:28,600 Speaker 2: Right, no kidding? Have they told you is this gonna 164 00:07:28,640 --> 00:07:32,080 Speaker 2: hurt more than a regular tattoo? I've been told it's painless. 165 00:07:32,080 --> 00:07:34,880 Speaker 5: Apparently she puts this lydacane cream over them and then 166 00:07:34,960 --> 00:07:36,640 Speaker 5: lets it sit for a while and does it mind. 167 00:07:36,840 --> 00:07:37,800 Speaker 2: My mom had it done and. 168 00:07:37,760 --> 00:07:40,000 Speaker 5: Said that she didn't feel a thing, So I don't 169 00:07:40,000 --> 00:07:42,800 Speaker 5: know if that's my sweet mother trying to comfort me 170 00:07:43,040 --> 00:07:44,280 Speaker 5: or if it actually is painless. 171 00:07:44,400 --> 00:07:48,120 Speaker 2: Are you a piercings person. Yeah, I have tattoos and piercings. 172 00:07:48,320 --> 00:07:51,000 Speaker 2: Oh okay, so this is not unfamiliar to you this 173 00:07:51,040 --> 00:07:51,600 Speaker 2: sort of time. 174 00:07:51,680 --> 00:07:55,160 Speaker 3: I'm thinking of getting a hairline tattooed, like in roughly 175 00:07:55,200 --> 00:07:57,720 Speaker 3: the color of my hair as it is now, kind 176 00:07:57,720 --> 00:08:02,800 Speaker 3: of salt and pepper, but like the Eddie Munster, the 177 00:08:02,840 --> 00:08:05,520 Speaker 3: low like almost chimp like hairline. 178 00:08:05,520 --> 00:08:07,400 Speaker 2: I'm going to give you a hard no on that, Joe, 179 00:08:07,520 --> 00:08:08,120 Speaker 2: don't do that. 180 00:08:08,840 --> 00:08:11,720 Speaker 4: Could I get my bald head like tattooed to make 181 00:08:11,760 --> 00:08:12,640 Speaker 4: it look like there's hair? 182 00:08:13,440 --> 00:08:15,680 Speaker 5: That is a thing that people are doing. Yes, Oh, 183 00:08:15,880 --> 00:08:19,000 Speaker 5: I've seen that. There is actually a business that just 184 00:08:19,120 --> 00:08:22,840 Speaker 5: opened up in my old hometown that specializes in that procedure, 185 00:08:22,880 --> 00:08:25,800 Speaker 5: where guys are going in and having little black or 186 00:08:25,880 --> 00:08:28,760 Speaker 5: whatever dots done all over their head to make it 187 00:08:28,800 --> 00:08:30,840 Speaker 5: look like just a little bit of hair growth, like 188 00:08:31,120 --> 00:08:31,760 Speaker 5: like a shadow. 189 00:08:32,160 --> 00:08:35,280 Speaker 2: Yeah, I might do that. That is doable. I could 190 00:08:35,320 --> 00:08:38,719 Speaker 2: see doing that. Do that, dire dire goatee. 191 00:08:38,960 --> 00:08:42,079 Speaker 3: Yeah, just knowing you, you'll like read the first paragraph 192 00:08:42,120 --> 00:08:44,280 Speaker 3: of an article about it, then try to do it yourself. 193 00:08:45,280 --> 00:08:47,920 Speaker 3: Problend the money. I'll lend you the money. 194 00:08:48,080 --> 00:08:49,840 Speaker 2: What color hair Jack, would you would you be a 195 00:08:49,880 --> 00:08:50,880 Speaker 2: redhead or would you. 196 00:08:51,840 --> 00:08:56,000 Speaker 4: Ooh, I don't remember what color my hair was. 197 00:08:57,040 --> 00:08:57,800 Speaker 2: You can get the pattern. 198 00:08:57,800 --> 00:08:59,079 Speaker 5: You could just get a stripe down the middle so 199 00:08:59,160 --> 00:09:00,880 Speaker 5: it looks like a little moha. 200 00:09:02,559 --> 00:09:04,120 Speaker 4: Well okay, well we look forward to seeing how this 201 00:09:04,160 --> 00:09:06,840 Speaker 4: turns out tomorrow. Maybe we'll post pictures at the website. 202 00:09:06,840 --> 00:09:09,439 Speaker 4: And that's why not let people comment. That's always a 203 00:09:09,480 --> 00:09:09,840 Speaker 4: good idea. 204 00:09:09,880 --> 00:09:15,840 Speaker 2: You could take a poll. Do these look like Armstrong 205 00:09:15,920 --> 00:09:21,000 Speaker 2: and Getty? They're gonna word fast? Don't you think it's 206 00:09:21,000 --> 00:09:23,640 Speaker 2: a little hat Absolutely, there's no doubt in my mind. 207 00:09:23,840 --> 00:09:26,120 Speaker 2: This is the Armstrong and Getty Show. 208 00:09:28,720 --> 00:09:31,920 Speaker 3: This is the Armstrong and Getty Show, featuring our podcast 209 00:09:32,080 --> 00:09:34,679 Speaker 3: One more Thing, get it wherever you like to get 210 00:09:34,720 --> 00:09:40,079 Speaker 3: podcasts Chris author Abigail Schreyer, who's written a bunch of 211 00:09:40,120 --> 00:09:41,400 Speaker 3: different things, got a lot of attention. 212 00:09:41,480 --> 00:09:48,400 Speaker 4: But anyway, this particular aspect, given my dislike of most 213 00:09:48,559 --> 00:09:51,880 Speaker 4: therapy and my experiences with therapy both for me and 214 00:09:51,960 --> 00:09:55,199 Speaker 4: my family and my kids, and the many thousands of 215 00:09:55,240 --> 00:09:57,120 Speaker 4: dollars spent, and how little good it did, if not 216 00:09:57,240 --> 00:09:59,400 Speaker 4: more harm, I thought was really really interesting. So this 217 00:09:59,480 --> 00:10:01,960 Speaker 4: is from the Joe Rogan Podcasts with an author who's 218 00:10:01,960 --> 00:10:03,520 Speaker 4: written a book about this sort of thing. 219 00:10:03,760 --> 00:10:06,920 Speaker 6: I mean, it's the number one symptom of depression is 220 00:10:06,920 --> 00:10:11,880 Speaker 6: what they call rumination, this pathological obsessing over your pain. Yeah, 221 00:10:11,960 --> 00:10:14,560 Speaker 6: that's why stuff like exercise. That's one of the reasons 222 00:10:14,600 --> 00:10:17,559 Speaker 6: aside from chemical reasons. One of the reasons that doing 223 00:10:17,559 --> 00:10:20,480 Speaker 6: You know that running errands is good for your mental health. 224 00:10:20,520 --> 00:10:24,320 Speaker 6: Getting out of your house and accomplishing anything is good 225 00:10:24,320 --> 00:10:27,880 Speaker 6: for you. But sitting around talking and thinking about your problems, 226 00:10:28,160 --> 00:10:31,480 Speaker 6: that's a bad habit. And the best cognitive behavioral therapists 227 00:10:31,520 --> 00:10:34,439 Speaker 6: and others, you know, the dialectical behavioral therapist, the ones 228 00:10:34,480 --> 00:10:37,160 Speaker 6: who do really well with depression, the first thing they 229 00:10:37,160 --> 00:10:40,280 Speaker 6: do is try to break that on that bad pattern. 230 00:10:40,760 --> 00:10:42,640 Speaker 6: But a lot of therapists just indulge it. 231 00:10:43,000 --> 00:10:46,120 Speaker 4: Yes, a lot is in practically all of them. What 232 00:10:46,200 --> 00:10:50,400 Speaker 4: you do every week is go in and restate your 233 00:10:50,679 --> 00:10:54,160 Speaker 4: miserable situation, whatever it is, and talk about it some more, 234 00:10:54,480 --> 00:10:55,959 Speaker 4: and then give them a bunch of money and come 235 00:10:56,000 --> 00:10:59,079 Speaker 4: back next week and ruminate on it some more, sometimes 236 00:10:59,080 --> 00:11:00,160 Speaker 4: for years at a time. 237 00:11:00,240 --> 00:11:00,640 Speaker 2: Yeah, I was. 238 00:11:00,640 --> 00:11:03,760 Speaker 3: Clicking around about this book and other things, and how 239 00:11:03,840 --> 00:11:05,880 Speaker 3: did it come across a piece in the National Review 240 00:11:05,920 --> 00:11:08,480 Speaker 3: which talks about this book bad therapy. White kids aren't 241 00:11:08,480 --> 00:11:12,319 Speaker 3: growing up with Jonathan Height's brilliant new book, The Anxious Generation, 242 00:11:12,440 --> 00:11:15,040 Speaker 3: how the great rewiring childhood is causing an epidemic of 243 00:11:15,080 --> 00:11:15,760 Speaker 3: mental illness. 244 00:11:16,000 --> 00:11:17,280 Speaker 2: And it's all of a piece. 245 00:11:17,360 --> 00:11:21,560 Speaker 3: It's all just a constant focus on your own mental health. 246 00:11:22,000 --> 00:11:25,080 Speaker 3: It sounds revolutionary to say in the modern world, but 247 00:11:25,760 --> 00:11:28,679 Speaker 3: just just get stuff done. You'll be thatppier. 248 00:11:29,120 --> 00:11:31,800 Speaker 5: Yes, Kenny, Well, no knock on on therapy, But I'm 249 00:11:31,800 --> 00:11:32,560 Speaker 5: thinking about. 250 00:11:32,480 --> 00:11:34,880 Speaker 2: People need to knock on therapy all day long. 251 00:11:35,559 --> 00:11:37,600 Speaker 5: Well, I and I am too. I went through it 252 00:11:37,640 --> 00:11:40,200 Speaker 5: and it's just not it's not for me. There's good 253 00:11:40,200 --> 00:11:41,480 Speaker 5: therapy helps lots of people. 254 00:11:41,520 --> 00:11:43,840 Speaker 4: I know people have been helped, but most of it's 255 00:11:43,920 --> 00:11:45,280 Speaker 4: crap and a waste of money. 256 00:11:45,480 --> 00:11:48,600 Speaker 5: But I'm thinking about what she said there, and the 257 00:11:48,640 --> 00:11:51,360 Speaker 5: people that I know that are actively going to therapy 258 00:11:51,400 --> 00:11:54,160 Speaker 5: weekly are my friends that talk the most about their 259 00:11:54,200 --> 00:11:56,920 Speaker 5: problems all the time. And I wonder if there's like 260 00:11:56,920 --> 00:11:59,880 Speaker 5: a can if it carries over, like once you open 261 00:11:59,880 --> 00:12:02,640 Speaker 5: that threshold, you just now you just talk about them. 262 00:12:02,760 --> 00:12:06,280 Speaker 4: What's interesting is like the knock on American culture back 263 00:12:06,280 --> 00:12:09,560 Speaker 4: in the day was nobody talked about their problems and 264 00:12:09,640 --> 00:12:15,840 Speaker 4: kept them inside, and that was supposedly awful unhealthy. Maybe 265 00:12:15,920 --> 00:12:18,760 Speaker 4: it was maybe we just got it wrong with the 266 00:12:18,800 --> 00:12:22,480 Speaker 4: pendulum swinging too far the other direction, or maybe that 267 00:12:22,679 --> 00:12:25,120 Speaker 4: was the way people are kind of designed to deal 268 00:12:25,160 --> 00:12:27,280 Speaker 4: with them. You just try to put them out of 269 00:12:27,280 --> 00:12:30,080 Speaker 4: your mind and move on. I don't know, but the 270 00:12:31,240 --> 00:12:33,240 Speaker 4: focusing on it and talking about it all the time 271 00:12:33,280 --> 00:12:34,720 Speaker 4: doesn't seem to be working for people. 272 00:12:35,320 --> 00:12:39,200 Speaker 3: It's a great industry, yes, and sells a hell of 273 00:12:39,240 --> 00:12:43,640 Speaker 3: a lot of pills. If I wish I had one 274 00:12:43,800 --> 00:12:46,640 Speaker 3: one thousandths of a share of all the money that 275 00:12:46,679 --> 00:12:52,080 Speaker 3: has been made on questionable psychiatric pills. That's one of 276 00:12:52,080 --> 00:12:55,560 Speaker 3: the uh one of the failures of capitalism, I think, 277 00:12:55,679 --> 00:13:01,920 Speaker 3: is the nexus between private equity industry and medicine. It's 278 00:13:02,080 --> 00:13:05,360 Speaker 3: really perverted the doctor patient relationship in a lot of 279 00:13:05,440 --> 00:13:06,240 Speaker 3: unhealthy ways. 280 00:13:06,760 --> 00:13:09,080 Speaker 4: But the talking therapy, you go in and so you 281 00:13:09,160 --> 00:13:11,000 Speaker 4: had a bad mom who treated you poorly, and you 282 00:13:11,040 --> 00:13:13,560 Speaker 4: go in and you talk about that every week for 283 00:13:13,760 --> 00:13:17,240 Speaker 4: decades in some cases. Yeah, and a lots of people 284 00:13:17,280 --> 00:13:20,120 Speaker 4: that have done that, And I just, why is it 285 00:13:20,160 --> 00:13:21,280 Speaker 4: ever going to change? 286 00:13:21,840 --> 00:13:22,080 Speaker 2: Yeah? 287 00:13:22,160 --> 00:13:24,480 Speaker 3: I just I don't have all I have is my 288 00:13:24,520 --> 00:13:26,880 Speaker 3: own experience and that of some people I've known very 289 00:13:26,880 --> 00:13:29,560 Speaker 3: well who've dealt with similar things. But Number one, I'll 290 00:13:29,559 --> 00:13:32,640 Speaker 3: tell you from my experience, depression is entirely inward facing. 291 00:13:32,920 --> 00:13:37,600 Speaker 3: If you can outward face and interact and accomplish things 292 00:13:37,640 --> 00:13:39,480 Speaker 3: and look at other people and their needs and their 293 00:13:39,600 --> 00:13:42,200 Speaker 3: challenges and their pain, that is the best cure for 294 00:13:42,240 --> 00:13:43,440 Speaker 3: depression in the world. 295 00:13:43,840 --> 00:13:45,400 Speaker 2: Getting out of your own head. 296 00:13:46,720 --> 00:13:48,880 Speaker 3: And the second thing that just occurred to me, And 297 00:13:48,920 --> 00:13:52,319 Speaker 3: this is an oversimplification, but you know what, Like I'm 298 00:13:52,320 --> 00:13:56,559 Speaker 3: always saying, the two things human beings do is underthink 299 00:13:56,800 --> 00:14:00,199 Speaker 3: and overthink. And I think this may be one of 300 00:14:00,240 --> 00:14:03,080 Speaker 3: those overthinking things in that you remember, we've talked about 301 00:14:03,679 --> 00:14:08,040 Speaker 3: what you do, that's your priorities. How you spend your time, 302 00:14:08,360 --> 00:14:10,680 Speaker 3: those are your priorities. I don't want you know any 303 00:14:10,720 --> 00:14:12,520 Speaker 3: blah blah blah no. What's really important to me is 304 00:14:12,520 --> 00:14:14,400 Speaker 3: blah blah blah no. The way you spend your time 305 00:14:14,400 --> 00:14:17,280 Speaker 3: and attention is what's important to you. And if you 306 00:14:17,440 --> 00:14:20,080 Speaker 3: spend all of your time and attention on your problems, 307 00:14:20,880 --> 00:14:26,400 Speaker 3: that is the that's the occupation of your life. And 308 00:14:26,600 --> 00:14:30,360 Speaker 3: I've got to believe that all of us have an identity. 309 00:14:30,520 --> 00:14:33,280 Speaker 3: I'm the whatever guy. I'm the athlete, I'm the good 310 00:14:33,280 --> 00:14:36,040 Speaker 3: looking woman, I'm the go go achiever here at the 311 00:14:36,080 --> 00:14:36,960 Speaker 3: car lot or whatever. 312 00:14:37,200 --> 00:14:40,800 Speaker 2: I'm the necessurly bald guy with RBF right exactly. 313 00:14:41,400 --> 00:14:46,960 Speaker 3: But if your identity becomes I'm the depressed, anxious person. 314 00:14:47,040 --> 00:14:49,800 Speaker 3: Everybody knows that about me. They're sympathetic towards me. I'm 315 00:14:50,000 --> 00:14:52,120 Speaker 3: taking a pill, babba. If that becomes your image, you 316 00:14:52,160 --> 00:14:55,800 Speaker 3: can't let your image go. You can't abandon yourself image. 317 00:14:56,040 --> 00:14:57,800 Speaker 2: Yeah, that's a tough one, and I've known that. 318 00:14:57,840 --> 00:14:59,880 Speaker 4: I got to make sure that doesn't happen with my 319 00:15:00,120 --> 00:15:03,480 Speaker 4: son that just to gets so locked into that identity 320 00:15:03,680 --> 00:15:07,080 Speaker 4: of his various problems. I've known people whose identity was 321 00:15:07,200 --> 00:15:10,720 Speaker 4: I was sexually abused, and that was it fit into 322 00:15:10,880 --> 00:15:12,280 Speaker 4: everything of the worldview. 323 00:15:12,680 --> 00:15:17,600 Speaker 2: I don't know. There's the Bromide axiom rule, whatever it is. 324 00:15:19,320 --> 00:15:21,720 Speaker 4: Focus on your problems and the problems grow. Focus on 325 00:15:21,760 --> 00:15:24,200 Speaker 4: the solution, and the solution grows. I've found that to 326 00:15:24,240 --> 00:15:25,240 Speaker 4: be pretty damn true. 327 00:15:25,680 --> 00:15:27,880 Speaker 2: Wow. Yeah, that's a good one. 328 00:15:28,560 --> 00:15:31,560 Speaker 3: So a quick excerpt from the book, as Shreer notes, 329 00:15:31,600 --> 00:15:36,440 Speaker 3: is helpful to remember that your feelings are at the 330 00:15:36,480 --> 00:15:39,760 Speaker 3: center of everything, all the time, thing is new, it 331 00:15:39,840 --> 00:15:42,640 Speaker 3: was not always. Thus, she recalls two pieces of advice 332 00:15:42,640 --> 00:15:45,120 Speaker 3: that parents of Gen xers and of earlier generations would 333 00:15:45,120 --> 00:15:48,000 Speaker 3: prefer to their children, Knock it off and shake it off. 334 00:15:48,400 --> 00:15:51,560 Speaker 3: The first didn't over explain, it credited kids with a 335 00:15:51,600 --> 00:15:54,840 Speaker 3: common sense, or nudged them to develop rules, had exceptions 336 00:15:54,840 --> 00:15:58,160 Speaker 3: and workarounds. But knock it off single to parent's disinclination 337 00:15:58,200 --> 00:16:00,720 Speaker 3: to become entangled in them, and shape it off didn't 338 00:16:00,720 --> 00:16:03,200 Speaker 3: solve the worst injuries, but it did a hell of 339 00:16:03,240 --> 00:16:06,840 Speaker 3: a job playing triage nurse to kids minor heartaches and injuries, 340 00:16:06,960 --> 00:16:09,520 Speaker 3: proving to kids that the hurt, or fear or possibility 341 00:16:09,520 --> 00:16:11,680 Speaker 3: of failure need not overwhelm them. 342 00:16:12,080 --> 00:16:14,480 Speaker 2: I like that, Hey, knock it off, You'll be fine. 343 00:16:14,720 --> 00:16:18,280 Speaker 3: As a method of triage, if the kid made it clear, 344 00:16:18,400 --> 00:16:22,400 Speaker 3: infinitely clear, like convincingly clear, no I'm not okay, Well, 345 00:16:22,440 --> 00:16:24,480 Speaker 3: that's when you offer the treatment. 346 00:16:25,200 --> 00:16:27,760 Speaker 2: But if in the huge majority of times the kid. 347 00:16:29,120 --> 00:16:33,680 Speaker 3: And then they're playing thirty seconds later, that's that's brilliant triage. 348 00:16:33,680 --> 00:16:36,640 Speaker 3: What a great way to put that. You know part 349 00:16:36,680 --> 00:16:38,920 Speaker 3: of it, I think, and you know me, I believe 350 00:16:38,960 --> 00:16:41,120 Speaker 3: that balance in all things. We need men and women 351 00:16:41,160 --> 00:16:43,720 Speaker 3: and compassion and order, and it's got to be in 352 00:16:43,800 --> 00:16:46,840 Speaker 3: the right mix. I just think we've become so feminized 353 00:16:46,880 --> 00:16:52,320 Speaker 3: as a society. The doting mom who falls to her 354 00:16:52,360 --> 00:16:54,320 Speaker 3: knees as the kid is skinned his knee. 355 00:16:54,120 --> 00:16:57,520 Speaker 2: And you, oh, my honey, made my own it's okay. 356 00:16:57,600 --> 00:17:02,400 Speaker 3: Oh, that's become like eighty percent of American life. And 357 00:17:02,440 --> 00:17:04,600 Speaker 3: the dad it says, that'll be fine, or splash a 358 00:17:04,600 --> 00:17:06,200 Speaker 3: little water on it, go play, you'll be great. 359 00:17:06,640 --> 00:17:09,720 Speaker 2: That is now so completely out of fashion. We're making 360 00:17:09,760 --> 00:17:10,719 Speaker 2: our kids nuts. 361 00:17:13,320 --> 00:17:15,440 Speaker 4: Quick question for you, what if you happen to miss 362 00:17:15,520 --> 00:17:17,400 Speaker 4: this unbelievable radio program. 363 00:17:17,560 --> 00:17:20,879 Speaker 3: The answer is easy, friends, Just download our podcast, Armstrong 364 00:17:20,920 --> 00:17:22,800 Speaker 3: and Getty on demand. It's the podcast version of the 365 00:17:22,800 --> 00:17:26,840 Speaker 3: podcast show, available anytime, any day, every single podcast platform 366 00:17:26,880 --> 00:17:27,439 Speaker 3: known demand. 367 00:17:27,760 --> 00:17:30,440 Speaker 2: Download it now, Armstrong and Getty on Demand. 368 00:17:38,760 --> 00:17:41,440 Speaker 3: It's the Armstrong and Getty Show featuring our podcast. 369 00:17:41,520 --> 00:17:42,360 Speaker 2: One more thing. 370 00:17:42,520 --> 00:17:45,399 Speaker 3: Download it, subscribe to it wherever you like to get podcasts. 371 00:17:45,920 --> 00:17:47,520 Speaker 2: So I read this article in the Wall Street Journal. 372 00:17:47,800 --> 00:17:50,720 Speaker 4: The title was the Chess Master Trying to propel Google's 373 00:17:50,760 --> 00:17:54,920 Speaker 4: AI push, they hired a new guy, Chest the Game 374 00:17:54,960 --> 00:17:59,160 Speaker 4: of Chest. They hired this genius at Google to try 375 00:17:59,200 --> 00:18:01,680 Speaker 4: to make sure that they win the whole AI race. 376 00:18:02,080 --> 00:18:05,919 Speaker 2: But what's the guy arounds Google Putchai? How do you 377 00:18:05,920 --> 00:18:10,160 Speaker 2: say his name? Sundar? I hadn't heard this quote. 378 00:18:10,320 --> 00:18:13,960 Speaker 4: He thinks that the development of AI will be more 379 00:18:14,000 --> 00:18:18,720 Speaker 4: profound than the invention of fire or electricity. If he's 380 00:18:18,800 --> 00:18:22,360 Speaker 4: right about that, we better hold on to our seats 381 00:18:23,119 --> 00:18:28,480 Speaker 4: because holy crappings, I mean, and this fits in with 382 00:18:28,520 --> 00:18:31,560 Speaker 4: what I saw at the sphere, So the sphere is 383 00:18:31,600 --> 00:18:34,880 Speaker 4: all about super high tex stuff. Henry my Son even 384 00:18:34,880 --> 00:18:37,399 Speaker 4: asked me what's the theme here because there's lots of 385 00:18:37,440 --> 00:18:41,000 Speaker 4: math equations on the wall and lots of planets, and 386 00:18:41,040 --> 00:18:43,480 Speaker 4: I just I don't know if it was just science 387 00:18:43,640 --> 00:18:46,520 Speaker 4: or exploration or I don't know what the theme was 388 00:18:46,560 --> 00:18:49,600 Speaker 4: of the building because originally it was a U two 389 00:18:49,680 --> 00:18:51,880 Speaker 4: show for the first week though, why are all these 390 00:18:51,880 --> 00:18:56,720 Speaker 4: math equations on the to see bono? But Nicole accomplishment 391 00:18:57,200 --> 00:19:01,239 Speaker 4: In the lobby they had this AI chick. So it 392 00:19:01,280 --> 00:19:03,600 Speaker 4: was a robot. It's like your latest coolest robot that 393 00:19:03,640 --> 00:19:06,119 Speaker 4: i'd seen videos of before and like I said earlier, 394 00:19:06,200 --> 00:19:07,439 Speaker 4: too hot. I don't know why you got to make 395 00:19:07,440 --> 00:19:09,240 Speaker 4: the robot saw it. I mean, why'd she, you know, 396 00:19:09,480 --> 00:19:12,080 Speaker 4: make it look like a normal person. But she's standing 397 00:19:12,119 --> 00:19:14,919 Speaker 4: there and she's talking to the crowd. She's on a 398 00:19:14,920 --> 00:19:16,840 Speaker 4: little stage and she's talking to the crowd, and she 399 00:19:16,880 --> 00:19:20,239 Speaker 4: would ask people questions. Somebody asked me a question, and 400 00:19:20,320 --> 00:19:25,199 Speaker 4: somebody'd say something. She'd say, what's your name? And he 401 00:19:25,240 --> 00:19:27,240 Speaker 4: would say, Billy, Okay, Billy, what would you like to 402 00:19:27,280 --> 00:19:29,760 Speaker 4: ask me like your red shirt, Billy? 403 00:19:29,960 --> 00:19:31,000 Speaker 2: You know that sort of thing. 404 00:19:31,119 --> 00:19:35,199 Speaker 4: Just conversing with this AI computer, and it was disturbing. 405 00:19:35,320 --> 00:19:37,680 Speaker 4: And it was one of those that has the ability 406 00:19:37,680 --> 00:19:40,919 Speaker 4: for the face to move, so not just mouth opening 407 00:19:40,960 --> 00:19:43,280 Speaker 4: and closing in like eyes, but like the cheeks and 408 00:19:43,320 --> 00:19:47,000 Speaker 4: the like expression yeah expressions, that's the word. It had 409 00:19:47,080 --> 00:19:51,320 Speaker 4: full facial expressions, and it was disturbing. 410 00:19:50,960 --> 00:19:51,600 Speaker 2: And it was hot. 411 00:19:51,720 --> 00:19:55,200 Speaker 4: He bought two thousand and was having conversations with these people, 412 00:19:55,240 --> 00:19:57,200 Speaker 4: and no matter what you brought up, it would it 413 00:19:57,240 --> 00:19:59,600 Speaker 4: would engage in it, or ask you about how your 414 00:19:59,640 --> 00:20:03,440 Speaker 4: day was, or tell you something. And I thought, this 415 00:20:03,520 --> 00:20:07,000 Speaker 4: is clearly going to be in a classroom someday. Why 416 00:20:07,000 --> 00:20:12,120 Speaker 4: would you have individual teachers teaching Hamlet every year when 417 00:20:12,119 --> 00:20:14,199 Speaker 4: you got this robot who knows more about Hamlet than 418 00:20:14,240 --> 00:20:17,359 Speaker 4: any individual human being has ever known, can do the 419 00:20:17,359 --> 00:20:22,119 Speaker 4: same routine every year, every semester and answer questions and 420 00:20:22,200 --> 00:20:22,600 Speaker 4: it's hot. 421 00:20:25,880 --> 00:20:26,720 Speaker 2: That's all I need. 422 00:20:26,760 --> 00:20:29,440 Speaker 4: But I mean in terms of taking over jobs, it 423 00:20:29,560 --> 00:20:32,879 Speaker 4: was disturbing. Henry and I especially couldn't stop watching it. 424 00:20:32,920 --> 00:20:35,520 Speaker 4: We went back to watch more after the Sphere show. 425 00:20:35,560 --> 00:20:38,360 Speaker 4: It's like, this is crazy that this is even happening. 426 00:20:38,880 --> 00:20:42,560 Speaker 3: Well, yeah, I could see virtually every university class being 427 00:20:43,320 --> 00:20:48,360 Speaker 3: you got, whether sexy or not, a robot teaching the class, 428 00:20:49,280 --> 00:20:52,920 Speaker 3: you know, giving the material, answering questions from its vast, 429 00:20:53,040 --> 00:20:56,520 Speaker 3: unending trove of knowledge on the topic. And then if 430 00:20:56,840 --> 00:20:58,919 Speaker 3: you still have a question as a student or you 431 00:20:58,960 --> 00:21:02,560 Speaker 3: need something clarified, you just get on a chat, a 432 00:21:02,600 --> 00:21:05,200 Speaker 3: computer chat like you're trying to figure out why you're 433 00:21:05,320 --> 00:21:08,320 Speaker 3: whatever doesn't work, And that'll be the university experience. 434 00:21:08,560 --> 00:21:10,679 Speaker 4: Yeah, I don't know what it wouldn't be able to answer, 435 00:21:10,880 --> 00:21:13,240 Speaker 4: especially in the near future. Keeping in mind that whatever 436 00:21:13,280 --> 00:21:18,280 Speaker 4: we saw on Friday, they've probably got better technology already 437 00:21:18,280 --> 00:21:21,040 Speaker 4: today as we record this on Tuesday, and five years 438 00:21:21,040 --> 00:21:22,800 Speaker 4: from now, it'll be that much better than that. So 439 00:21:22,800 --> 00:21:24,760 Speaker 4: why won't that be the person doing the sales present 440 00:21:25,160 --> 00:21:27,959 Speaker 4: presentation over there in the boardroom in front of your salespeople, 441 00:21:28,119 --> 00:21:30,240 Speaker 4: and it can answer the questions of hey, but what 442 00:21:30,240 --> 00:21:32,320 Speaker 4: do I do? If you know, if a client says this, well, 443 00:21:32,320 --> 00:21:35,920 Speaker 4: this is what you do because it knows more than anybody. 444 00:21:36,280 --> 00:21:40,439 Speaker 5: Have you guys heard about the uncanny Valley with with 445 00:21:40,520 --> 00:21:42,480 Speaker 5: this AI and the robotics and whatnot. 446 00:21:43,359 --> 00:21:45,480 Speaker 2: It's it's a part of our brain. 447 00:21:45,600 --> 00:21:50,120 Speaker 5: That gets really uncomfortable when you start getting into that 448 00:21:50,359 --> 00:21:53,439 Speaker 5: area where it's kind of a human but you know 449 00:21:53,520 --> 00:21:54,480 Speaker 5: it's not a human. 450 00:21:54,600 --> 00:21:56,920 Speaker 2: Henry was having that problem. What's that called? It's called 451 00:21:56,960 --> 00:21:58,159 Speaker 2: the uncanny Valley? 452 00:21:58,280 --> 00:22:02,920 Speaker 3: Wow, Henry, is the basis of so many horror creatures 453 00:22:03,080 --> 00:22:03,919 Speaker 3: in horror movies. 454 00:22:04,119 --> 00:22:07,119 Speaker 2: You make it almost human. It's disturbing to us. 455 00:22:07,320 --> 00:22:09,200 Speaker 4: Yeah, Henry was having that and he said, I'm this 456 00:22:09,240 --> 00:22:10,639 Speaker 4: is gonna give me nightmares tonight. 457 00:22:11,440 --> 00:22:14,480 Speaker 5: Yeah, it's a cool genre of horror that's like blowing 458 00:22:14,600 --> 00:22:17,239 Speaker 5: up right now, especially because these robots are popping up 459 00:22:17,240 --> 00:22:19,440 Speaker 5: all over the place and kind of give people the ick. 460 00:22:19,760 --> 00:22:23,159 Speaker 4: The facial expressions on this robot were the most disturbing 461 00:22:23,320 --> 00:22:25,960 Speaker 4: part is that it would answer, you know, a kid's 462 00:22:26,040 --> 00:22:28,199 Speaker 4: question or an adult's question, or whatever, and just the 463 00:22:28,240 --> 00:22:31,320 Speaker 4: facial expressions like looking interested and then wow, that's interesting 464 00:22:31,320 --> 00:22:35,440 Speaker 4: and puzzled and just and not like cartoonishly interested or puzzled, 465 00:22:35,480 --> 00:22:37,040 Speaker 4: but like an actual human being. 466 00:22:37,080 --> 00:22:37,840 Speaker 2: It was weird. 467 00:22:38,680 --> 00:22:41,000 Speaker 3: So at the risk of senning, like a guy calling 468 00:22:41,119 --> 00:22:44,159 Speaker 3: some sort of sex line of the past, what was 469 00:22:44,200 --> 00:22:45,119 Speaker 3: the hot bot. 470 00:22:44,920 --> 00:22:53,240 Speaker 4: Wearing like a sex spot like a unitard oh sort 471 00:22:53,280 --> 00:22:55,439 Speaker 4: of thing. So it had bare legs even though they 472 00:22:55,440 --> 00:22:58,719 Speaker 4: were gray, like the color of carbon fiber. 473 00:22:59,200 --> 00:23:06,600 Speaker 2: I mean, was it not like carrion gray, but like, there. 474 00:23:06,440 --> 00:23:09,240 Speaker 3: Are many hues of humans around the world, and we're 475 00:23:09,240 --> 00:23:12,600 Speaker 3: all deserving of love, Josh, but gray is generally reserved 476 00:23:12,600 --> 00:23:13,160 Speaker 3: for the dead. 477 00:23:13,400 --> 00:23:21,080 Speaker 4: She was shaved headed, but like really well built, attractive 478 00:23:21,080 --> 00:23:24,040 Speaker 4: woman and very pretty and uh and obviously if you 479 00:23:24,080 --> 00:23:26,120 Speaker 4: want to go that direction, and it is Las Vegas, 480 00:23:26,359 --> 00:23:28,919 Speaker 4: they will have those with blonde hair or brown hair 481 00:23:29,000 --> 00:23:31,360 Speaker 4: or whatever hair color you prefer, doing whatever you want 482 00:23:31,400 --> 00:23:32,280 Speaker 4: to do over there. 483 00:23:32,400 --> 00:23:36,199 Speaker 2: I'm sure it's at some point they may already they 484 00:23:36,280 --> 00:23:40,120 Speaker 2: might already. Yeah, yeah, that's a different level of where 485 00:23:40,200 --> 00:23:41,840 Speaker 2: it's on. It. It's an extra you can tack onto 486 00:23:41,840 --> 00:23:42,320 Speaker 2: your room. 487 00:23:42,720 --> 00:23:46,920 Speaker 4: But having seen that and having Sonja Putai or whatever 488 00:23:46,920 --> 00:23:49,400 Speaker 4: his name is, say, this is going to be as 489 00:23:49,440 --> 00:23:52,640 Speaker 4: big as fire or electricity. Even if he's half right 490 00:23:53,640 --> 00:23:57,000 Speaker 4: with what I just saw, we have no We human 491 00:23:57,040 --> 00:23:59,560 Speaker 4: beings aren't ready for what's about to happen. 492 00:24:00,760 --> 00:24:03,399 Speaker 2: True, I believe that to be true. 493 00:24:03,600 --> 00:24:08,720 Speaker 3: Yeah, there could be a sharp turn unlike any other 494 00:24:08,760 --> 00:24:11,080 Speaker 3: sharp turn, Yeah, right ahead of us. 495 00:24:11,359 --> 00:24:15,239 Speaker 4: Yeah, and I'm old enough that I'm gonna catch it, 496 00:24:15,359 --> 00:24:16,879 Speaker 4: you know, at the tail end of my life and 497 00:24:17,000 --> 00:24:19,879 Speaker 4: have to adjust. My kids are going to grow up 498 00:24:19,880 --> 00:24:22,800 Speaker 4: in a world that I can't even imagine. Now, they 499 00:24:22,840 --> 00:24:25,640 Speaker 4: can't imagine. I have no idea what's the best way 500 00:24:25,680 --> 00:24:28,480 Speaker 4: to prepare them for it. Neither does anybody else. 501 00:24:29,119 --> 00:24:34,280 Speaker 3: Meanwhile, he says, brainstorming his screenplay, the third world is 502 00:24:34,320 --> 00:24:38,400 Speaker 3: going to send wave after wave of millions of armed 503 00:24:38,480 --> 00:24:41,840 Speaker 3: people to come and take it right because they're still 504 00:24:41,880 --> 00:24:46,080 Speaker 3: without as we the developed world will be basking in 505 00:24:46,160 --> 00:24:52,000 Speaker 3: the wealthy glow of the AI affluence that's coming our way. 506 00:24:52,280 --> 00:24:54,080 Speaker 4: I had one more question I had to ask Katie, 507 00:24:54,160 --> 00:24:57,800 Speaker 4: And this is just about the way some people dress 508 00:24:57,800 --> 00:25:03,160 Speaker 4: in Las Vegas. Women who are dressed crazy like I'm 509 00:25:03,200 --> 00:25:06,760 Speaker 4: a stripper outfit in Las Vegas. 510 00:25:06,840 --> 00:25:09,520 Speaker 2: That is what is going on there mostly. 511 00:25:10,240 --> 00:25:13,040 Speaker 5: Unfortunately, that's just like the Vegas club attire. 512 00:25:13,440 --> 00:25:15,200 Speaker 2: So that's just the vibe. If you're going to go 513 00:25:15,240 --> 00:25:15,720 Speaker 2: to a club. 514 00:25:15,960 --> 00:25:18,800 Speaker 5: Yeah, if you have a really short dress that you're 515 00:25:18,840 --> 00:25:21,439 Speaker 5: not too sure where you could ever wear it, you 516 00:25:21,480 --> 00:25:22,280 Speaker 5: take it to Vegas. 517 00:25:22,480 --> 00:25:23,840 Speaker 2: Okay, it's true. 518 00:25:23,920 --> 00:25:27,200 Speaker 4: It doesn't stand out as weird there whereas it would 519 00:25:27,800 --> 00:25:31,600 Speaker 4: at the company Christmas party or certainly Easter Sunday services. 520 00:25:31,880 --> 00:25:36,120 Speaker 3: Right, but yeah, they don't put on your whe where 521 00:25:36,320 --> 00:25:37,360 Speaker 3: for Easter Sunday. 522 00:25:37,800 --> 00:25:38,119 Speaker 2: Kidding. 523 00:25:38,240 --> 00:25:40,160 Speaker 4: But even if you went to a bar or something, yeah, 524 00:25:40,280 --> 00:25:43,320 Speaker 4: dressed like that, you'd stand out as what But there 525 00:25:43,320 --> 00:25:45,840 Speaker 4: are so many women dressed like that there, Like, how 526 00:25:45,880 --> 00:25:48,720 Speaker 4: do you even walk in those shoes? You're if you 527 00:25:48,720 --> 00:25:50,639 Speaker 4: you know, don't bend down to pick up your keys 528 00:25:50,680 --> 00:25:52,520 Speaker 4: or I'm gonna you know, my kids are gonna be 529 00:25:52,520 --> 00:25:53,359 Speaker 4: exposed to something. 530 00:25:53,720 --> 00:25:55,679 Speaker 2: It's just I just wonder, what was I just? 531 00:25:56,119 --> 00:26:00,320 Speaker 3: I think people enjoy escaping their workaday lives and they 532 00:26:00,359 --> 00:26:02,159 Speaker 3: get to be somebody different. 533 00:26:01,960 --> 00:26:05,120 Speaker 2: Cool, cool. Then what happens there stays there is. It 534 00:26:05,240 --> 00:26:07,400 Speaker 2: famously said it's. 535 00:26:07,240 --> 00:26:09,399 Speaker 4: Tough to walk through those casinos with a couple with 536 00:26:09,400 --> 00:26:11,080 Speaker 4: a twelve year old and a fourteen year old though 537 00:26:11,840 --> 00:26:13,119 Speaker 4: that's just the two boys. 538 00:26:13,359 --> 00:26:16,119 Speaker 2: It's like educational. If I hadn't walked through there, I 539 00:26:16,160 --> 00:26:16,960 Speaker 2: was just thinking about this. 540 00:26:17,600 --> 00:26:19,919 Speaker 4: If my dad had taken me through there when I 541 00:26:19,960 --> 00:26:22,439 Speaker 4: was a fourteen year old boy, Holy crap. I did 542 00:26:22,520 --> 00:26:24,760 Speaker 4: never stopped thinking about it. I never saw stuff like 543 00:26:24,800 --> 00:26:26,720 Speaker 4: that in real life. At age fourteen. 544 00:26:27,800 --> 00:26:29,800 Speaker 3: I had to run off and hidden behind a slot 545 00:26:29,840 --> 00:26:32,640 Speaker 3: machine and an attempt to stay there permanently. He'd still 546 00:26:32,640 --> 00:26:38,560 Speaker 3: be there, exactly, go ooching around like Gollum in the shadows. 547 00:26:39,400 --> 00:26:41,159 Speaker 2: I'm surprised. I'm surprised. 548 00:26:41,200 --> 00:26:43,359 Speaker 4: At some point I didn't say where's Sam, and Henry 549 00:26:43,400 --> 00:26:46,720 Speaker 4: says he's back there, and he just locked up, locked 550 00:26:46,760 --> 00:26:47,920 Speaker 4: up with his eyes wide. 551 00:26:48,520 --> 00:26:49,720 Speaker 2: Too much, too much. 552 00:26:51,000 --> 00:27:00,280 Speaker 1: Jack Armstrong and Joe Armstrong and Getty show, Hey, We're Strong, 553 00:27:00,320 --> 00:27:02,680 Speaker 1: and Getty we're featuring our podcast One More Thing. 554 00:27:02,800 --> 00:27:05,280 Speaker 2: Find it wherever you find all your podcasts. 555 00:27:05,960 --> 00:27:08,800 Speaker 3: I'd never run into the concept of a personality higher 556 00:27:08,960 --> 00:27:11,920 Speaker 3: before the Wall Street Journal was writing about this. 557 00:27:13,840 --> 00:27:15,359 Speaker 2: Have you ever heard this term, Katie? 558 00:27:15,359 --> 00:27:17,920 Speaker 3: Just out of curiosity now as you are, I have 559 00:27:18,040 --> 00:27:21,399 Speaker 3: not Younger and hipper, so as the Journal describes it. 560 00:27:21,440 --> 00:27:24,840 Speaker 3: If you get further on charm than skill, and you 561 00:27:24,960 --> 00:27:28,440 Speaker 3: carry a workload light enough to float atop your bubbly demeanor, 562 00:27:28,480 --> 00:27:32,359 Speaker 3: then you might be a personality higher. And this has 563 00:27:32,440 --> 00:27:39,320 Speaker 3: actually become a thing. Charismatic, friendly, likable employees who might 564 00:27:39,400 --> 00:27:41,640 Speaker 3: not be that great at their job or even work 565 00:27:41,720 --> 00:27:46,520 Speaker 3: that hard, but employers are so desperate for any sort 566 00:27:46,560 --> 00:27:50,200 Speaker 3: of joy and camaraderie in the workplace they're hiring these people. 567 00:27:50,200 --> 00:27:51,880 Speaker 2: They call them personality hires. 568 00:27:52,000 --> 00:27:58,760 Speaker 4: Wow, so that's how I got hired exactly minor personality 569 00:27:58,800 --> 00:28:03,679 Speaker 4: Me too, Michael. So I'm thinking of somebody right now. 570 00:28:03,680 --> 00:28:06,720 Speaker 4: I won't say their name. They're out there in the newsroom. 571 00:28:06,880 --> 00:28:09,400 Speaker 4: I could see hiring them because of their personality, because 572 00:28:09,400 --> 00:28:12,919 Speaker 4: they just make the whole room better. Everybody's happier when 573 00:28:12,920 --> 00:28:16,880 Speaker 4: they're around, I can tell, just because of their personality. 574 00:28:17,560 --> 00:28:19,240 Speaker 2: Well, here are a couple of facts. In this case. 575 00:28:19,280 --> 00:28:20,359 Speaker 2: They're also to stop it. 576 00:28:20,400 --> 00:28:23,920 Speaker 4: But I would I would like I would have hired 577 00:28:23,920 --> 00:28:26,359 Speaker 4: this person if they were not quite as competent as 578 00:28:26,440 --> 00:28:29,880 Speaker 4: person X, just because their personality the kind of place 579 00:28:29,880 --> 00:28:32,679 Speaker 4: that's gonna make the place more lively and happy. 580 00:28:32,720 --> 00:28:35,200 Speaker 2: Sure. Yeah, well here they quote. 581 00:28:35,200 --> 00:28:37,480 Speaker 3: They start off the article quoting this one gal who's 582 00:28:37,480 --> 00:28:39,800 Speaker 3: definitely not a personality hier. She's a very matter of 583 00:28:39,840 --> 00:28:43,080 Speaker 3: fact person, just gets craped done. But she said, oh, 584 00:28:43,160 --> 00:28:47,120 Speaker 3: some people actually proudly advertise themselves as personal personality hires 585 00:28:47,160 --> 00:28:51,840 Speaker 3: on LinkedIn. By the way, interesting, so they quote this 586 00:28:51,920 --> 00:28:55,840 Speaker 3: gal who's not that and finds it very annoying and described. 587 00:28:55,280 --> 00:28:59,520 Speaker 4: Now you're like me. We kind of, we kinda bitterly 588 00:29:02,080 --> 00:29:04,640 Speaker 4: are resentful against people who are like that because we're 589 00:29:04,640 --> 00:29:08,000 Speaker 4: not and they're adotizing it. Though that's what I'm like. 590 00:29:08,040 --> 00:29:10,200 Speaker 5: I wouldn't want to advertise, Hey, I'm not very good 591 00:29:10,200 --> 00:29:11,920 Speaker 5: at my job, but I'm funny. 592 00:29:12,800 --> 00:29:18,000 Speaker 3: Leave that first part unsad, but she cites she worked 593 00:29:18,000 --> 00:29:20,760 Speaker 3: with a personal personality hire in a previous job. Though 594 00:29:20,760 --> 00:29:23,400 Speaker 3: fun to be around, the person eventually generated resentment, didn't 595 00:29:23,400 --> 00:29:26,800 Speaker 3: really pull her load, and after winning a promotion, prompted 596 00:29:26,880 --> 00:29:28,280 Speaker 3: several coworkers to quit. 597 00:29:28,880 --> 00:29:29,920 Speaker 2: There's just too much. 598 00:29:30,360 --> 00:29:32,600 Speaker 4: Well I would I would think if they're not good 599 00:29:32,600 --> 00:29:34,320 Speaker 4: at their job, that's not enough to overcome it. 600 00:29:34,360 --> 00:29:36,440 Speaker 2: But I'd never thought about this before. 601 00:29:36,480 --> 00:29:38,959 Speaker 4: I could see hiring somebody, you know, if you're going 602 00:29:39,040 --> 00:29:42,680 Speaker 4: to weigh them on a bunch of different things. Man 603 00:29:43,200 --> 00:29:46,280 Speaker 4: lump in the hole brings the room up as opposed 604 00:29:46,320 --> 00:29:50,320 Speaker 4: to down, so bosses want the warm and fuzzies. Is 605 00:29:50,360 --> 00:29:52,800 Speaker 4: the mood at work is generally sour. One third of 606 00:29:52,880 --> 00:29:55,640 Speaker 4: US employees say they're engaged in their jobs, only a 607 00:29:55,680 --> 00:29:58,640 Speaker 4: third near an all time low. Half of workers say 608 00:29:58,640 --> 00:29:59,560 Speaker 4: they feel a lot of stress. 609 00:29:59,720 --> 00:30:03,000 Speaker 3: Half interested in new jobs are actively applying with so 610 00:30:03,040 --> 00:30:06,480 Speaker 3: many lonely, unhappy charges. Bosses are desperate for a good 611 00:30:06,520 --> 00:30:09,400 Speaker 3: workplace energy. They say camaraderie is hard to build on 612 00:30:09,480 --> 00:30:13,320 Speaker 3: hybrid schedules, so they prize upbeat employees whose energy is 613 00:30:13,440 --> 00:30:16,280 Speaker 3: hopefully infectious. Then they quote a bunch of people and 614 00:30:16,320 --> 00:30:19,760 Speaker 3: recruiters from various industries and saying, yeah, we really, we 615 00:30:19,840 --> 00:30:20,960 Speaker 3: really need more people. 616 00:30:20,960 --> 00:30:23,600 Speaker 4: Oh, it's clearly true. I haven't had a job I 617 00:30:23,600 --> 00:30:25,520 Speaker 4: don't like in a long long time. But when I 618 00:30:25,600 --> 00:30:29,320 Speaker 4: worked jobs that I didn't like, oh, there were certain 619 00:30:29,360 --> 00:30:32,000 Speaker 4: people that made it bearable, and when they weren't there, 620 00:30:32,200 --> 00:30:33,400 Speaker 4: it was awful. 621 00:30:34,320 --> 00:30:36,600 Speaker 2: Right, Or if they quit, everybody who's like, I can't 622 00:30:36,600 --> 00:30:37,800 Speaker 2: do this so right? 623 00:30:38,240 --> 00:30:40,320 Speaker 5: I wonder if they're hiring these people to make it 624 00:30:40,400 --> 00:30:42,600 Speaker 5: more appealing to come back into the office too, Like 625 00:30:42,640 --> 00:30:43,640 Speaker 5: after COVID. 626 00:30:44,480 --> 00:30:46,080 Speaker 2: That's got to be a factor. Sure. 627 00:30:46,400 --> 00:30:51,760 Speaker 3: Yeah, so, But anyway, there's this comedian Gal who has 628 00:30:52,920 --> 00:30:55,640 Speaker 3: done a couple of bits about being a personality higher 629 00:30:55,800 --> 00:30:59,320 Speaker 3: that I think are brilliant and illustrating what it is 630 00:30:59,320 --> 00:31:03,240 Speaker 3: all about. Our name is Vienna Ailah and it's clip fifteen. Michael, 631 00:31:03,440 --> 00:31:03,960 Speaker 3: So what's the. 632 00:31:03,920 --> 00:31:05,080 Speaker 2: Project about today? 633 00:31:05,280 --> 00:31:06,000 Speaker 3: I have no idea. 634 00:31:06,120 --> 00:31:08,080 Speaker 2: Do you guys say if we need to get an extension? Yeah, 635 00:31:09,000 --> 00:31:11,800 Speaker 2: we can't call Greg. He's so scary. Greg is our CEO. 636 00:31:12,080 --> 00:31:16,000 Speaker 2: I'll call Greg, of course, are you sure? Yeah, let's 637 00:31:16,000 --> 00:31:20,280 Speaker 2: call Greg. Greg is so terrifying. Greggy, Hey you where 638 00:31:20,320 --> 00:31:23,120 Speaker 2: are you? How are your kids? I didn't know that. 639 00:31:23,520 --> 00:31:25,400 Speaker 2: So I was doing the school production Annie. 640 00:31:27,320 --> 00:31:28,520 Speaker 3: She's playing Annie. 641 00:31:28,960 --> 00:31:33,160 Speaker 2: Oh that's so amazing. Hold on one, said Greg when 642 00:31:33,240 --> 00:31:35,440 Speaker 2: I asked me presentation. Yeah, Greg, you. 643 00:31:35,440 --> 00:31:35,880 Speaker 1: Know I'm that saying. 644 00:31:35,880 --> 00:31:37,760 Speaker 2: You're talking Annie with you all day? But Greg, I 645 00:31:37,800 --> 00:31:38,640 Speaker 2: have to ask you something. 646 00:31:38,680 --> 00:31:41,200 Speaker 1: We're gonna need a couple of days, Greg, take a week. 647 00:31:42,440 --> 00:31:45,200 Speaker 2: Oh yeah, we's such plays next week. I don't want 648 00:31:45,200 --> 00:31:45,880 Speaker 2: to come to Nannie. 649 00:31:46,040 --> 00:31:48,400 Speaker 5: Back to the important stuff. Where are you? 650 00:31:48,920 --> 00:31:51,600 Speaker 2: I'll come me he right now. Let's freaking eat it 651 00:31:51,640 --> 00:31:53,200 Speaker 2: fri ocean talk Annie. 652 00:31:52,960 --> 00:31:57,360 Speaker 6: My guy. I'll be right back, Okay, thank you, thank you, Greg, 653 00:31:57,440 --> 00:31:58,120 Speaker 6: I'm coming to you. 654 00:31:59,160 --> 00:32:01,560 Speaker 3: And then there's an other bit where they have the 655 00:32:02,600 --> 00:32:05,440 Speaker 3: permit revoked for an event at the last minute, and 656 00:32:05,480 --> 00:32:07,600 Speaker 3: they're like, oh my god, the only way we could 657 00:32:08,040 --> 00:32:10,440 Speaker 3: deal with this is to like have the mayor on 658 00:32:10,480 --> 00:32:10,920 Speaker 3: our side. 659 00:32:11,120 --> 00:32:13,400 Speaker 2: She says, the mayor. The mayor's in my ass in 660 00:32:13,520 --> 00:32:16,960 Speaker 2: abs class. I'll call her right now. She cos, hello, girl, 661 00:32:17,480 --> 00:32:20,560 Speaker 2: what's going on? Oh my god, you don't need that class. 662 00:32:20,600 --> 00:32:24,160 Speaker 3: Your ass is amazing anyway, and she gets the permit reinstated. 663 00:32:24,960 --> 00:32:27,360 Speaker 2: The ass she's. 664 00:32:27,280 --> 00:32:30,080 Speaker 3: Just a schmoozer and a networker and that sort of 665 00:32:30,160 --> 00:32:32,960 Speaker 3: super uppy person doesn't but and it's harder to tell 666 00:32:33,040 --> 00:32:36,840 Speaker 3: without the visuals in that first video, but she doesn't 667 00:32:36,880 --> 00:32:40,280 Speaker 3: know anything about the project. Then she gets on the 668 00:32:40,320 --> 00:32:42,760 Speaker 3: call with Greggy and says, what am I asking for 669 00:32:42,840 --> 00:32:44,120 Speaker 3: again to our coworkers? 670 00:32:44,240 --> 00:32:47,400 Speaker 2: An extension? Oh right, right, very She goes into that. 671 00:32:48,160 --> 00:32:50,600 Speaker 2: So it's a parody, obviously, but that's what we're talking about. 672 00:32:50,680 --> 00:32:53,640 Speaker 4: I never I don't think enough attention is paid to 673 00:32:54,120 --> 00:32:57,520 Speaker 4: like chemistry in a group of people for work. 674 00:32:57,560 --> 00:32:57,800 Speaker 2: I don't. 675 00:32:57,840 --> 00:32:59,840 Speaker 4: I don't think most bosses ever even think about it. 676 00:33:00,080 --> 00:33:03,640 Speaker 4: They should and now in the modern world of boy 677 00:33:03,760 --> 00:33:07,200 Speaker 4: that like they said, the hybrid working in zoom, I'm 678 00:33:07,240 --> 00:33:10,200 Speaker 4: not sure any of that translates to zoom. 679 00:33:10,600 --> 00:33:12,800 Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, you know. I meant to talk about this 680 00:33:12,880 --> 00:33:14,360 Speaker 2: on the show. Maybe I will. 681 00:33:15,480 --> 00:33:17,600 Speaker 3: But I was talking to my son, who's just about 682 00:33:17,640 --> 00:33:23,600 Speaker 3: to turn thirty, and he was talking about and he's 683 00:33:24,760 --> 00:33:28,160 Speaker 3: been a performer of various sorts for a very long time. 684 00:33:28,200 --> 00:33:31,120 Speaker 3: He's a musician and a gifted actor who decided not 685 00:33:31,160 --> 00:33:35,360 Speaker 3: to act. And it's fine, but he said, coming out 686 00:33:35,400 --> 00:33:40,600 Speaker 3: of COVID, the very thought of performing just seemed enormous 687 00:33:41,320 --> 00:33:43,000 Speaker 3: and terrifying and overwhelming. 688 00:33:43,880 --> 00:33:46,560 Speaker 2: Just so, and it's worth mentioning he lived. 689 00:33:46,880 --> 00:33:51,200 Speaker 3: He lives in Oregon, which is so cultish in it 690 00:33:51,520 --> 00:33:54,760 Speaker 3: or was in its adherence to every COVID policy, and 691 00:33:54,800 --> 00:33:57,360 Speaker 3: as a show of hating Trump, they wouldn't let their 692 00:33:57,480 --> 00:34:00,000 Speaker 3: children play with other children for a year and a half. 693 00:34:00,720 --> 00:34:03,280 Speaker 3: And it's just devastating to so many people who so 694 00:34:03,320 --> 00:34:09,600 Speaker 3: many ages, even people in their twenties. It's horrible anyway, 695 00:34:09,640 --> 00:34:13,880 Speaker 3: speaking of people who have difficulty communicating and communing and 696 00:34:13,880 --> 00:34:15,520 Speaker 3: looking people in the eye and the rest of it. 697 00:34:15,600 --> 00:34:20,480 Speaker 3: Man COVID Deco declan my son said to me, He said, 698 00:34:20,640 --> 00:34:23,080 Speaker 3: I know a lot of people who are really damaged 699 00:34:23,080 --> 00:34:26,040 Speaker 3: by it, and they're not healing very quickly. 700 00:34:26,560 --> 00:34:29,440 Speaker 5: Was it just the act of having to go out 701 00:34:29,440 --> 00:34:33,000 Speaker 5: and perform again, or were there people that weren't going 702 00:34:33,000 --> 00:34:35,440 Speaker 5: to the shows? What made it so much more difficult 703 00:34:35,480 --> 00:34:38,560 Speaker 5: post COVID, Well, because everything was so locked down. You 704 00:34:38,600 --> 00:34:41,200 Speaker 5: just you had like your roommate and you would interact 705 00:34:41,239 --> 00:34:43,920 Speaker 5: with maybe somebody at work if you were allowed to 706 00:34:43,960 --> 00:34:45,160 Speaker 5: work a little bit. 707 00:34:45,560 --> 00:34:48,360 Speaker 3: It was like living in solitary confinement in a prison. 708 00:34:48,440 --> 00:34:50,440 Speaker 3: Obviously not that bad, but I know. 709 00:34:50,400 --> 00:34:52,680 Speaker 4: A couple of people who talk about that dark period 710 00:34:53,160 --> 00:34:58,200 Speaker 4: where they didn't have any communication and they would, you know, 711 00:34:58,239 --> 00:35:03,120 Speaker 4: struggle to have any opportunity just to like wave to 712 00:35:03,200 --> 00:35:04,720 Speaker 4: another car far away. 713 00:35:05,360 --> 00:35:06,840 Speaker 2: All right. I didn't live that way. 714 00:35:06,680 --> 00:35:08,160 Speaker 4: So I. 715 00:35:10,000 --> 00:35:13,480 Speaker 3: Guarantee they lived in a blue state. There's a prominent 716 00:35:13,560 --> 00:35:17,000 Speaker 3: musician who thinks a wonderful songwriter, but he tweeted at 717 00:35:17,040 --> 00:35:19,160 Speaker 3: one point that he felt bad for his kids because 718 00:35:19,520 --> 00:35:22,080 Speaker 3: his kids hadn't had a playdate or hugged another child 719 00:35:22,160 --> 00:35:22,520 Speaker 3: or whatever. 720 00:35:22,560 --> 00:35:24,120 Speaker 2: For a year. I wanted to. 721 00:35:24,120 --> 00:35:27,520 Speaker 3: Fly to Portlandia, where he resides, and punch him in 722 00:35:27,520 --> 00:35:31,040 Speaker 3: the stomach, and and just to wake him up and 723 00:35:31,120 --> 00:35:35,320 Speaker 3: say what are you doing? And all the dad about 724 00:35:35,400 --> 00:35:37,920 Speaker 3: children and being fine was out there, all of it. 725 00:35:38,160 --> 00:35:41,600 Speaker 3: But you had to virtue signal how much you despise 726 00:35:41,719 --> 00:35:45,440 Speaker 3: Trump by torturing yourself and your loved ones. And and 727 00:35:45,880 --> 00:35:50,560 Speaker 3: Declann lived in the midst of that. And anyway, sorry 728 00:35:50,560 --> 00:35:51,760 Speaker 3: to get started on that stuff. 729 00:35:52,080 --> 00:35:53,920 Speaker 5: It's a well, no, it's a reality a lot of 730 00:35:53,920 --> 00:35:56,640 Speaker 5: people are dealing with still. 731 00:35:56,400 --> 00:35:59,000 Speaker 2: And that's why his company needs a personality hire. 732 00:36:00,160 --> 00:36:04,360 Speaker 3: Things up a little bit full circle Armstrong and Getty