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Speaker 2: Bryce is on the phone today for our first day

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Speaker 2: follow up and he's getting ghosted by a girl named Crystal,

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Speaker 2: and he really liked her. So we're about to call

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Speaker 2: her in a few minutes to see if she'll tell

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Speaker 2: us why she's ghosting him, but first got to find

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Speaker 2: out about the date. Bryce, how long has it been

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Speaker 2: since you heard from Crystal?

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Speaker 3: It's been a week.

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Speaker 4: What was your communication like leading up to the date.

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Speaker 3: We met on hinge and we started messing each other

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Speaker 3: and like for a good while, I'd said, like a week,

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Speaker 3: week and a half. We had like a pretty good rapport.

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Speaker 3: We were messaging each other back and forth. I asked

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Speaker 3: her out to Wings because she said on her profile

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Speaker 3: that she's a wing lover. Great, and we played Darts

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Speaker 3: its Wings and we talked like a lot and even

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Speaker 3: like we're jokingly very friendly competitive with each other. I

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Speaker 3: vibing a lot, and I liked that she was kind

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Speaker 3: so I was like, oh, she's comfortable around me. It

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Speaker 3: And she'd actually really get a dart too, which like

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Speaker 3: you know, made fun, and we even kissed. So after

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Speaker 3: all that, I'm kind of very confused because like what happens.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, a week does seem like a long time not

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Speaker 5: to hear from somebody. After all that, definitely getting ghosted, sorry,

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Speaker 5: and it seemed like she really she was into it.

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Speaker 5: I mean, did anything happen where it got awkward at all?

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Speaker 3: No, not at all. Like That's what I'm confused about,

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Speaker 3: is like I keep replaying that night, and I felt

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Speaker 3: like we were biting a lot and there were no

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Speaker 3: like red flags from either side. Never thought she felt uncomfortable,

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Speaker 3: Like quite the opposite. I felt like we felt like, yeah,

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Speaker 5: But did anything happen you think that maybe made her

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Speaker 3: Well, it was okay. So at one point I feel

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Speaker 3: like I did get I got hot SEUs in her

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Speaker 3: an accident, and I reached over to move the hair

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Speaker 3: and and I must have had sauce on my finger

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Speaker 3: and I got it in her eye. She was a

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Speaker 3: That hurt, Yeah, yeah, I could tell she was in

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Speaker 3: And I think we laughed, Yeah, we laughed a bunch

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Speaker 3: about it. Do you think maybe that was what it was.

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Speaker 4: For, probably the reason to goests someone.

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Speaker 5: But at the same time, yeah, it hurts a lot.

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Speaker 4: I mean maybe was she more hostile, you would.

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Speaker 1: Have been able to tell, how did you come back?

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Speaker 1: And yeah, she.

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Speaker 5: Was shy, So I can't imagine how a shy, nice

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Speaker 4: Make a joke about it, Victoria.

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Speaker 1: Did her mood change after you saw stir.

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Speaker 3: Eye plase for like a little bit? I thought, okay,

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Speaker 2: Okay, all right, man, we'll play a song come back,

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Speaker 2: another date. Okay, okay, all right, play a song, come back,

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Speaker 2: just joining us for today's first day follow up. Bryce

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Speaker 2: him and maybe get him another date. But first, Bryce,

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Speaker 2: why don't you catch everybody up on your date with Crystal?

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Speaker 1: What happened?

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Speaker 3: All right? Sque met on Hinge. We messaged for a

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Speaker 5: Yeah, you think you deserve a second date despite the

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Speaker 5: hot there was an accident.

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Speaker 1: You didn't spray hot sauce on her eye on purpose.

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Speaker 3: No.

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Speaker 6: No.

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Speaker 1: For some people, that could be a red flag. For

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Speaker 2: Could be a all right, man, well are you ready

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Speaker 2: for us to call her?

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Speaker 3: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: Okay, here we go. Hi, man, I speak to Crystal

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Speaker 2: please she Hey, Crystal?

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Speaker 1: How are you? My name is And this is a

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Speaker 1: radio show. It's called the Jubil Show.

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Speaker 4: Hi, Crystal, whole show is here. My name's Nina.

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Speaker 1: I'm Victoria. How's your eye?

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Speaker 6: I'm so sorry. You just really caught me off guard.

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Speaker 6: This is a radio show.

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Speaker 2: Yes, we do a segment on our show. It's called

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Speaker 2: the first Date follow Up. What that is is if

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Speaker 2: you want a date with somebody and you end up

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Speaker 2: ghosting them, that person can ask us to get you

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Speaker 2: on the phone and ask why you're ghosting them. And

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Speaker 2: we got an email about.

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Speaker 6: You, Oh geez from who?

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Speaker 2: Well the reason I asked about your I was because

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Speaker 2: when you were on the date with them, they got

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Speaker 2: hot sauce in your eye?

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Speaker 6: Is this from Bryce? H my god? Oh my god?

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Speaker 7: You know this is okay, this is creepy, this is

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Speaker 7: this is freaking me out.

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Speaker 6: Okay, So I don't I don't really know what I don't.

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Speaker 6: I don't know what he told you.

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Speaker 7: I don't know why he called a radio to try

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Speaker 7: just gonna come right out with it. That guy gave

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Speaker 7: me for real serial killer vibes. Yeah, yeah, I know

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Speaker 7: that's really harsh to say about somebody. And I don't

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Speaker 6: But I watch a lot of of.

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Speaker 7: Like true crime shows and listen to a lot of podcasts,

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Speaker 7: so I like to think that i'm pretty uh, you know,

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Speaker 6: O no, no.

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Speaker 7: No, Because as you know, you're eating ways, you wipe

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Speaker 7: But for some particular reason, when he goes to to

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Speaker 6: Oh and then and then it was weird.

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Speaker 7: So so but then he said something that really freaked

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Speaker 7: You should see the other guy I played darts with,

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Speaker 6: And I'm thinking, I don't know what that means. Did

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Speaker 7: No, no, I didn't want I don't want to know

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Speaker 6: I just knew right then that I was going to

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Speaker 7: Go, you know, call it a knight and go home

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Speaker 4: Yeah.

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Speaker 6: So yeah, that was That was my date with Brice.

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Speaker 1: You think it was a joke or like he really

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Speaker 6: Who knows who. I didn't want to stick around long

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Speaker 5: But if it was just it's easy to accidentally get

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Speaker 4: I've done it a lot, not on purpose, my.

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Speaker 1: Talk to you.

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Speaker 1: Bryce, are you still there?

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Speaker 3: Hey, Hey Crystal, Hi Bryce, Hi one. I'm sorry I

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Speaker 6: Okay, that's that's a very very convincing price.

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Speaker 1: I think most cereal kills would probably promise they weren't

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Speaker 3: No, I don't even like killing bugs. And I put

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Speaker 3: So if that behavior made you feel like I was

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Speaker 3: You didn't even have any professionally profiled you at ease.

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Speaker 3: We can google it and figure it out.

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Speaker 7: Hey, if if if the radio station that you had

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Speaker 7: called me this morning can help me professionally profile you,

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Speaker 7: then I'd be happy to go on another dam with you.

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Speaker 4: Before we agree to the profiling Rice, what happened to

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Speaker 3: Yeah, oh, he was just was a sore loser, that's all.

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Speaker 3: Like I was just trying to impress her, that's it.

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Speaker 1: And what happens to sore losers.

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Speaker 3: Nothing happened. They just lose and they go on with

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Speaker 6: Yeah. Yeah, you made it sound like you stabbed him

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Speaker 3: It's trying to come up as cool. Clearly that didn't.

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Speaker 1: Work, Crystal, would you like to go on another day

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Speaker 1: with Bryce? We'll pay for it.

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Speaker 2: I don't know if we can find someone the profile,

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Speaker 1: If you're seriously yeah, yeah, yeah.

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Speaker 6: If you're willing to pay, then then I'm down. I'm done.

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Speaker 6: But I have one request for Bryce. I have one request.

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Speaker 7: Is that next time you put your chapstick on, don't

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Speaker 7: stare at me weirdly while you're doing it.

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Speaker 6: And then and then we'll be we'll be good. Okay,

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Speaker 6: and uh, maybe this time the hot Yeah.

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Speaker 3: I got one request to leading up to our day.

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Speaker 3: I would like it if maybe you laid off the

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Speaker 3: true crime, maybe watching rom com or something, you know,

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Speaker 3: definitely maybe another good rom com.

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Speaker 6: Oh but those aren't factual.

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Speaker 3: Wait.

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Speaker 5: I have a request to before this next date, Crystal,

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Speaker 5: make sure you share your location with somebody.

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Speaker 4: Oh.

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Speaker 6: Absolutely, I let you know.

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Speaker 1: Congratulations.

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Speaker 3: Juble's first date follow up