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Speaker 1: Have I ever been left waiting by the phone.

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Speaker 2: It's the Fred Show, Sarah, good morning.

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Speaker 3: Welcome, good morning, Thanks for having me.

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Speaker 1: You know, it's our pleasure. I think maybe remains to

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Speaker 1: be seen, but it's waiting by the phone. So we're

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Speaker 1: trying to figure out why you were ghosted by this guy.

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Speaker 1: Michael set us up though with all the backstory. How

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Speaker 1: did you meet? How many dates have you been on?

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Speaker 1: Sort of what's going on?

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Speaker 3: Okay, So we met on hinge and you know, we

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Speaker 3: had like texted and blurted for a few weeks before

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Speaker 3: we decided to meet in person, and so we you know,

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Speaker 3: we've only been on one date. He asked me out

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Speaker 3: to dinner, and I had an amazing time, honestly, like

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Speaker 3: you know, like he's the full package. Like I just

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Speaker 3: he's cute, he's funny, he's a gentleman. I'm like, I just,

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Speaker 3: I mean, what's not to love at that?

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Speaker 2: Right?

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Speaker 4: Okay, Well, what's nuts love is that I just haven't.

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Speaker 1: Heard from him since then, so okay, it's a pretty standard.

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Speaker 1: So one day you liked everything about him. You felt

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Speaker 1: like you maybe you found like of all the people

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Speaker 1: you've been out with, you found something that really stands

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Speaker 1: out because he has a lot of the things that

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Speaker 1: you're looking for, exactly, he has a lot of things.

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Speaker 3: I'm looking for. We really clicked, you know, like I

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Speaker 3: just felt like there was a good vibe going on,

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Speaker 3: and like I just felt like this is this is

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Speaker 3: great Okay. But then you know I waited to hear

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Speaker 3: from him and it happened.

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Speaker 2: Okay.

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Speaker 1: Because you want him to reach out to you, you

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Speaker 1: want him to ask you out again. You still want

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Speaker 1: to be pursued by him.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, you know, I.

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Speaker 3: Mean like I yeah, I might seem old fashion, but

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Speaker 3: I mean he asked me on the first date, and

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Speaker 3: why I didn't even get like a it was great,

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Speaker 3: you know, I had a great time, like really said

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Speaker 1: All right, Well that's where we come in. We're gonna

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Speaker 1: call this guy Michael, see if we can get him

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Speaker 1: on the phone. You'll be on the phone as well,

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Speaker 1: And I don't want you to say anything right at first.

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Speaker 1: Hopefully we can get some info out of him and

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Speaker 1: maybe straighten things out and set you guys up on

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Speaker 1: another date that we pay for, but you're welcome to

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Speaker 1: jump in at some point and we'll do it in

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Speaker 1: just a second. Get to play one song and then

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Speaker 1: we'll come back. So hang on.

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Speaker 2: Okay, thank you, Let's find out what's up?

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Speaker 1: Part two of waiting by the phone after Billy Eilis

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Speaker 1: back in two minutes. Freads show Eilish is The Fred Show,

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Speaker 1: eight hundred and fifty bucks showb Shelley. If you can

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Speaker 1: beat her in five questions, you win it in less

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Speaker 1: than ten minutes. Hey, Sarah, Hey, welcome back. Let's call Michael.

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Speaker 1: You guys, you met on Hinge, the dating app. You

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Speaker 1: flirted for a bit, went on a date, and this

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Speaker 1: guy was so many things that you were looking for.

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Speaker 1: You were attracted to him. He was polite, he was

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Speaker 1: a gentleman, he was funny, he was engaging, he's all

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Speaker 1: this stuff. The problem is he hasn't reached out for

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Speaker 1: another date. You want to know why?

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Speaker 3: Yeah? For sure?

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Speaker 2: Okay, all right, let's call him now.

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Speaker 5: Good luck, Thank you. Hello, Hi, this is Michael, Yes speaking.

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Speaker 2: Hi Michael, good morning. My name is Fredam calling from

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Speaker 2: The Fred's Show.

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Speaker 1: Sorry to bother, but I do have to tell you

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Speaker 1: that we are on the radio right now and I

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Speaker 1: would need your consent to continue with the calls, and

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Speaker 1: okay if we chat for a little bit.

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Speaker 5: M Yeah, yeah, that's okay.

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Speaker 2: Okay, Yeah, well thank you very much.

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Speaker 1: No, no, no, no, well maybe actually maybe we're calling on

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Speaker 1: behalf of a woman who said she met you on

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Speaker 1: hand you guys went out recently. Her name is Sarah.

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Speaker 1: Do you remember her?

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Speaker 5: Yes?

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Speaker 6: I yes, I remember Sarah.

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Speaker 2: Okay, So what's going on?

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Speaker 1: Because she had a lot of nice things to say

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Speaker 1: about you, said you were a gentleman, you were funny,

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Speaker 1: you were a lot of things, and she was excited

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Speaker 1: to hear from you again for another day, but said

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Speaker 2: So what's going on?

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Speaker 4: Uh?

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Speaker 6: I didn't expect to be on one of these before.

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Speaker 2: Nobody does.

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, well my situation makes sense as to why you're calling.

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Speaker 5: I get it.

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Speaker 6: I yeah, listen. Basically, Sarah just does not respect my stuff,

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Speaker 6: my things, me. So I I'm just like, I'm not

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Speaker 6: interested in somebody who's not going to be respectful of

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Speaker 6: me and my things.

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Speaker 2: What does that mean?

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Speaker 4: Basically?

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Speaker 2: How does she disrespect your saying?

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Speaker 6: So I'm a sneaker ed and I I made that

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Speaker 6: very clear to her in our conversations and I just

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Speaker 6: let her know, you know, but these are very important

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Speaker 6: to me.

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Speaker 5: And like.

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Speaker 6: I get somebody not like being at at the same

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Speaker 6: level as me, but like saying like yeah, yeah, I

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Speaker 6: get it. I'm I'm pretty out there. But like she

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Speaker 6: stepped on my sneak, like she stepped on my Jordan's

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Speaker 6: like like that's like a that's like a that's like

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Speaker 6: I don't know, that's like pouring coffee on your new corvette.

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Speaker 1: I mean, well, wait a minute, was it an accident?

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Speaker 1: I mean, was she stopping on him? Like I don't

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Speaker 6: Like it's like it's like it's like just respecting my boundaries,

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Speaker 6: like respecting my face. I gave her, I gave her space.

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Speaker 6: I gave her the respect from the space she deserved.

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Speaker 3: And that's fine. Like I get it.

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Speaker 6: I let the first one go. I didn't even get mad.

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Speaker 2: More than it happened more than once. Okay, she's clumsy.

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Speaker 2: It happened.

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Speaker 1: No No, I mean no, I like step the second

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Speaker 1: time was you said? You said the first time is

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Speaker 1: an accident, the second time is we got a problem.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, she poured on my shoes.

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Speaker 2: How did she purpose?

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Speaker 5: So?

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Speaker 2: She stepped on them and then she poured stuff on him.

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Speaker 6: She silt stuff, she spilled stuff. It was it wasn't

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Speaker 6: like on purpose, on purpose. But again it's like it's

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Speaker 6: like I can't be with somebody who doesn't respect like

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Speaker 6: cost more than.

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Speaker 3: Than I'm so sorry I called me over shoes.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, that's I forgot to mention that that Sarah is

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Speaker 1: here now, I mean that let me ask you this, Sarah, Well, man,

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Speaker 1: I see, I mean, look, there are some very expensive

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Speaker 1: jays out there. Some of them are very hard to

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Speaker 1: get and collectible. I get all of that. How would

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Speaker 1: you feel, Sarah if somebody repeatedly sort of messed up

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Speaker 1: your uh, your lubatons or whatever the hell they're gucciese

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Speaker 1: or whatever they are.

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Speaker 3: I'm just like, oh my goodness, tennis shoes come on.

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Speaker 1: Okay, but even answer my question, like, how would you

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Speaker 1: feel if you spent one thousand dollars or five hundred

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Speaker 1: somebody stepped on them and poured stuff on them, even

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Speaker 1: if it was just because they were clums how would

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Speaker 1: you feel about it?

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Speaker 3: I mean, whether if it bothers it or anything. Hey,

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Speaker 3: you should have been like, hey, can you be more careful?

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Speaker 4: I am in love with my shoes?

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Speaker 2: Well head sod, I'm tired.

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Speaker 1: I mean, like, I don't know, so you've got a

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Speaker 1: very fancy bag. What if somebody just constantly, I don't know,

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Speaker 1: was spilling stuff want to hear in our little uh

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Speaker 1: I don't know what if somebody what if I were

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Speaker 1: kicking it all the time or stepping on it, you'd

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Speaker 1: say something to me because it's.

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Speaker 2: Expensive, say something. But I wouldn't not date someone because

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Speaker 2: they're doing that. You know what I mean? Is there

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Speaker 2: materialistic things? That's how I feel.

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Speaker 3: He didn't even say anything. He didn't even say like, oh, hey,

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Speaker 3: wash your shoes. You know, like I knew that he

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Speaker 3: liked shoes, I didn't know he.

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Speaker 4: Was in love with shoes.

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Speaker 1: I mean, he's definitely taking the sneakerhead thing very seriously.

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Speaker 1: At the same time, it sounds like you don't necessarily

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Speaker 1: see the value in you know, how much he has

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Speaker 1: invested in these things, and and nobody wants their stuff

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Speaker 1: stepped on. Okay, see now you keep saying that, but

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Speaker 1: like shoes are not just yes, money here investments.

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Speaker 4: Listen, listen, though the ground is dirty and you're walking

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Speaker 4: on the dirty ground with your fancy shoes, and that

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Speaker 4: doesn't bother you. Do you do you take.

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Speaker 3: Your do you clean them.

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Speaker 4: And kiss them?

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Speaker 6: And it sounds like someone's jealous, get and some cleaning.

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Speaker 1: It sounds like she's not getting much on the Nike either.

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Speaker 1: These she's not able to cop too much. You don't

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Speaker 1: have much to say.

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Speaker 2: About you, because I hate for myself that I'm siding

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Speaker 2: with the guy on this. Like she's just not the

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Speaker 2: one respect the Jay tennis shoes. That's another thing. I

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Speaker 2: don't understand him. We went out here, we ain't playing tennis.

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Speaker 1: And I'm no, well, not with you.

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Speaker 2: All right, classic bags. If you want a second.

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Speaker 1: Date, yeah, I don't know. I mean, it does sound silly,

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Speaker 1: but it also I kind of understand too. So all right,

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Speaker 1: look Sarah, it's not going to work out. I don't

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Speaker 1: really have to ask Michael. I will Michael, no way

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Speaker 1: we could reconcile now that we've aired it all absolutely not.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, you ain't got no beaters you could wear on

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Speaker 2: this date.

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Speaker 5: You know what I'm saying, some old ones.

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Speaker 1: Class the thing he will be seeing in those though,

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Speaker 1: that's the problem, Like what are you going to?

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Speaker 2: Where teams Jordan's got No, he ain't. No, I'm certainly

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Speaker 2: gonna wear some under armors. You can wear some Steph.

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Speaker 1: Curry's out there. No, absolutely not. You got a reputation

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Speaker 1: to a whole Hell no, Sarah, I'm sorry it's not

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Speaker 1: going to work out, but pass of luck to you.

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Speaker 1: Shew with Shelley and eight hundred and fifty bucks in

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Speaker 1: the showdown. Next on the French show Say here Back

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Speaker 1: in two minutes