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Speaker 1: The Jewels Show on demand jewils dirty Little Secret? Hello, Hey,

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Speaker 1: what's up? This is the Jewel Show. You texted us

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Speaker 1: at four one o six one and said you had

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Speaker 1: a dirty little secret, so we're calling you back to

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Speaker 1: ask you what your dirty little secret is? Hi, what's up?

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Speaker 1: Good morning. Wow, I'm really surprised. We're just gonna go

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Speaker 1: ahead and do it right now. Yeah, well if you can. Wow. No,

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Speaker 1: I've never even pick for anything like this before. This

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Speaker 1: is awesome, like put on the pot obviously right now.

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Speaker 1: But okay, yeah, all right, what's your little little secret? Yes? Yeah, absolutely,

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Speaker 1: that's why I talk about else. We're fine, talk about

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Speaker 1: whatever up to you. Really, No, I want to talk

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Speaker 1: about this. I gotta get it off my chests a

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Speaker 1: little bit here, especially about my boyfriend. Okay, so my

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Speaker 1: boyfriend is a quote unquote singer, and he loves what

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Speaker 1: he does. At first, like I really love that for him.

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Speaker 1: But you know, after a little while, I realized that

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Speaker 1: he's pretty terrible. Um did even say tone death? Really? Yeah?

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Speaker 1: Big time? I mean like nails on a chalkboard. And

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Speaker 1: I can't tell him this because I know that it

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Speaker 1: would crush him. But the truth is, like he really

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Speaker 1: does suck, and not only can suck, like his entire

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Speaker 1: band sucks. It's actually pretty crazy. Really Okay, well, how

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Speaker 1: do they get like gigs and stuff if they suck?

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Speaker 1: You know, I had no idea what it was ultimately

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Speaker 1: going to turn into it. I like, he got some

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Speaker 1: training and then he started like doing like coffee shop

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Speaker 1: gigs and things like that, which maybe he is destined

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Speaker 1: for that, but I don't know that he's been trying

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Speaker 1: to like play bars and stuff. Now training he got

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Speaker 1: just didn't help keep it up. You can play more personally.

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Speaker 1: I just thought it was going to be a side project,

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Speaker 1: but then he ended up putting his day job for good.

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Speaker 1: Oh wow, Okay, you know they say in entertainment when

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Speaker 1: you do things like that, don't quit your day job,

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Speaker 1: meaning keep grinding, make money so you can still live

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Speaker 1: and buy things, so you can grind at what you

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Speaker 1: really want to do, and then when you finally start

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Speaker 1: to make a living at that, quit your day job.

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Speaker 1: Is he making a living off of his music yet?

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Speaker 1: I could not agree more with what you just said.

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Speaker 1: And no, but he's kind of delusional because he thinks

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Speaker 1: that like in a few years time or less, he's

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Speaker 1: gonna make it big. Okay, so what are you doing

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Speaker 1: at this point? Are you see making a living off

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Speaker 1: of you? Because I mean who's bringing in the Dallas? Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I mean he had a little bit of money saved,

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Speaker 1: but as we all know, like that goes quick. I

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Speaker 1: don't know what the future near a future even it's

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Speaker 1: going to look like are you going to tell him eventually?

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Speaker 1: I feel like you would have to if you're gonna

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Speaker 1: have if you plan on having a healthy relationship, yeah,

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Speaker 1: with money. I don't know if I'm going to tell

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Speaker 1: him or if just like my laugh of I guess

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Speaker 1: enthusiasm will be a hint if that makes sense, Like,

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Speaker 1: I don't know what I'm going to have to do.

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Speaker 1: But how we just yeah, I kind of don't talk

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Speaker 1: much about it with him, right, How would you have

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Speaker 1: that conversation, you know, to let him know that, because

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Speaker 1: do you think that you could be wrong about him?

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Speaker 1: Or are you like, no, trust me, you haven't seen him.

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Speaker 1: He's really that bad. He's really that okay for you

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Speaker 1: guys if you want, Yeah, So how do you have

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Speaker 1: that conversation to be like, yeah, hey, you're singing that

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Speaker 1: you think is good is not very good at all,

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Speaker 1: and I don't think that you should pursue that as

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Speaker 1: a career, or don't make it. Don't make it about

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Speaker 1: his singing or his talent or lack thereof. You make

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Speaker 1: it about the money he's bringing in since he quit

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Speaker 1: his job. Oh that's a good idea. So suggests like, hey, like,

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Speaker 1: I need some help, but with the bills, you know,

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Speaker 1: maybe you get that day job again and you put

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Speaker 1: your energy into that instead of this. Maybe the exactly

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Speaker 1: maybe like, don't say you gotta quit. You could do both,

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Speaker 1: but you gotta try to get the draw back or

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Speaker 1: something along the line. Maybe you could. Does he play

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Speaker 1: an instrument? No, like that. He's got some band members

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Speaker 1: for that. He's just vocal, and so his band members

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Speaker 1: obviously think that he's good. I don't know. I mean,

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Speaker 1: I haven't talked about it. I don't look they're all

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Speaker 1: lying to themselves, if you know. For a while, I

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Speaker 1: did wonder if it was just me, But I did

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Speaker 1: ask some friends around the same page. How did you ask, like,

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Speaker 1: as my boyfriend as horrible as I thank you is. Yeah, well,

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Speaker 1: good luck and thank you for telling us your dirty

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Speaker 1: little secret. Hopefully it works out for you somehow. We'll

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Speaker 1: send you some airplugs. Yeah, thank you. The Jewel Show

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