Speaker 1: Hey, guys, welcome to get another episode of Horrible Decisions.
Speaker 1: This your girl, Mandy b a k A Peggy Bundy
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Speaker 1: is two years? There you go? Because I was getting on,
Speaker 1: how do man for ship? I don't know how I
Speaker 1: let that happen? I think because I was like thinking,
Speaker 1: forty eight hours, forty eight that's that's what it is.
Speaker 1: That okay, wait, that's what it was. I was just
Speaker 1: thinking that when you said it, I was like, yeah,
Speaker 1: it's two years. I really that. Actually, now that you're
Speaker 1: actually coming from you saying that, I could say, that's
Speaker 1: what we're just talking, we're having and yeah, I can
Speaker 1: see how you can make that mistaken. I think I
Speaker 1: ain't even gonna hold you. Forty eight hours is two days.
Speaker 1: That's two years, Okay, Okay, I bet you. Okay, So
Speaker 1: hor have y'all, gotta y'all gotta can you tell you
Speaker 1: what it's like? It's one of these ready all right,
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Speaker 1: you do with a red light stop? What do you
Speaker 1: do with a green light stop? Oh? Ship, Yeah, I
Speaker 1: wasna make sure you're as you guys can tell. We
Speaker 1: have a third voice Ambi Mike, and we've been actually
Speaker 1: trying to get your ass on, but she's like, can
Speaker 1: you guys record at eleven am during the week. It
Speaker 1: was like, pitch, honestly, yes, you have time to really
Speaker 1: grow on me. Like now I like you. But at
Speaker 1: first I was like, are we gonna be honest? Be honest,
Speaker 1: I will be honest, bring it to bring you on
Speaker 1: a while ago, and we were riding back and forth
Speaker 1: and I was like, you know, she has her pod
Speaker 1: and we was last when we first started talking and
Speaker 1: was trying to hate Oh. She was like, she was like,
Speaker 1: I'm not even gonna lie. Maybe if you can bring
Speaker 1: the second girl on, She's like she's has some very
Speaker 1: um that action. She said, um, but wait, you know
Speaker 1: what she's like, And then she tried to be like
Speaker 1: have you heard her on Brilliant Idiots? Have you listened
Speaker 1: to her show? It's like me time And then like
Speaker 1: she used to even said, like some of your like
Speaker 1: it's the stories like you you agree with you want
Speaker 1: to bring her on our show, and I'm not gonna lie.
Speaker 1: We have sometimes you gotta have people on that you
Speaker 1: don't fully agree with. You know, you have grown to learn. Yeah,
Speaker 1: my most convert like, my most intriguing conversations come from
Speaker 1: people that I don't have the same opinion with um.
Speaker 1: But it took me time. Actually, I think it was
Speaker 1: Alex who changed my mind a little bit. He was like, yo,
Speaker 1: I filmed an episode of their show They're dope, blah
Speaker 1: blah blah. And I was like, and then I loosened
Speaker 1: and I was like, Okay, yeah, so you really really
Speaker 1: frant episode. You probably should have been all like like
Speaker 1: eight month. It took eight months for her to really
Speaker 1: like warm up to you because you And I was like,
Speaker 1: why are white women so mad? Were you? Like? Yes,
Speaker 1: I like you from some all sides, you know. I mean,
Speaker 1: it's the same thing when you listen to Brilliant, it's
Speaker 1: hard to like. And I get it because the reason
Speaker 1: I fell in love a Brilliant Idiots years ago was
Speaker 1: because they were so different. There were certain things Andre
Speaker 1: would say that would really piss me the funk off.
Speaker 1: But then once you get to learn and know someone
Speaker 1: and like listen through and through you just realize they're
Speaker 1: trying to spark the convo. And I see that's what
Speaker 1: you're doing now. And also it's like so especially like
Speaker 1: right now in like the climate that like we live in,
Speaker 1: like if we could all just like allow people to
Speaker 1: like have their own And I'm not saying allow their
Speaker 1: own opinions where it's like we want to kill all
Speaker 1: the Jews or anything like that, saying like people like
Speaker 1: are going to have different opinions on things because we
Speaker 1: all have different life experiences and just because someone might
Speaker 1: think a little differently doesn't mean that they're x y
Speaker 1: Z and you should cancel them and never talk to
Speaker 1: them again and forget them, you know what I mean.
Speaker 1: Like even Kanye, like, so don't even say that because
Speaker 1: with with our platform, like me and we are open
Speaker 1: to a lot of things, um, and so even bringing
Speaker 1: people on here that may think differently and I'm not
Speaker 1: even gonna lie me. And we thought we were open
Speaker 1: until we've had some guests and we both looked at
Speaker 1: them like like we ain't doing this ship. So like
Speaker 1: even to finally be able to come across people and
Speaker 1: just genuinely ask them questions, you like, growth, bitch, all
Speaker 1: growing here? You know what? It took my wokest friends, seriously,
Speaker 1: my most socially conscious for the people friends to tell
Speaker 1: me like, yes, you can be with friends with someone
Speaker 1: that voted for Trump. And I've like was really struggling.
Speaker 1: I was on Instagram live like trying to like have
Speaker 1: a breaking friends with this one. No no, no no Dada
Speaker 1: is like breaking up a friendship over it, you know.
Speaker 1: And someone that I've known for a while that told
Speaker 1: it to me and I don't even want to say
Speaker 1: their name. I was really hurt. Asked about three friends
Speaker 1: that I know are like in the streets for black people,
Speaker 1: women fighting for our rights every day that we're like,
Speaker 1: it is what it is. You have to get over it.
Speaker 1: You're gonna have to grow up at some point. You
Speaker 1: just have to. So why are you still like uncancelled Kanye?
Speaker 1: Because I think Kanye is detrimental towards black people with
Speaker 1: the ship that he says, and you don't think and
Speaker 1: I think he'll be voting for Trump is technically detrimental
Speaker 1: to black people. I think that someone voting for Trump
Speaker 1: for a financial gain and that didn't realize what they
Speaker 1: were doing, like as long as you voted for Strup
Speaker 1: and you can realize that you made a mistake. You know,
Speaker 1: people thinking, wait, hold because are you a Trump supporter? No,
Speaker 1: I'm like not, like, but I'm gonna tell you I
Speaker 1: didn't vote. I didn't vote. Remember you saying yeah, I
Speaker 1: didn't vote. Then I said yeah, no, because guess we
Speaker 1: get the freedom to not vote, like that's the thing.
Speaker 1: And I've never not voted. I was like, at one point,
Speaker 1: women couldn't vote. This is my women for this, And
Speaker 1: then this last election, I was like, hell to the fun, No,
Speaker 1: I'm not voting for voting for him. Voting for E's
Speaker 1: a Green Party thing? Right, like if it gus, yes,
Speaker 1: I could have voted, like right exactly, but it was
Speaker 1: just also my mind like I just wasn't. But no,
Speaker 1: I mean, I'll be honest. I need the people in
Speaker 1: my life that And it's only two that I know
Speaker 1: that voted for Trump to acknowledge and tell me that
Speaker 1: they realized that they had done something wrong that they
Speaker 1: weren't all the way like, look at it, bro, what
Speaker 1: if kids are in cages, but hold on, kids have
Speaker 1: been in cages. Fine, Okay, they've been in cages, but
Speaker 1: they've been tear gassed. You know, we've been bombing people.
Speaker 1: George Bush was not a good president. His father wasn't
Speaker 1: a good president. They that wants conversion therapy for me
Speaker 1: and Mandy with eight pussy before Wait, wait what for
Speaker 1: caes He wants conversion So because me and you are
Speaker 1: Mike parents, he wants you guys to go to conversion therapy.
Speaker 1: He about it. He has like horrible decisions. I got you.
Speaker 1: I'm sending you sucking bitches. You gotta stop being home
Speaker 1: stopping pussy. Me and my wife are gonna get the
Speaker 1: Holy ghost going through you and you. But I'm a cheerleader.
Speaker 1: Wait what the movie with God the girl from American
Speaker 1: Pie with a curly hair name starts with Natasha something,
Speaker 1: but I'm a cheerleader. Her parents were saying that she
Speaker 1: thought she was a lesbian. She's like, but I'm a cheerleader.
Speaker 1: And they sent up to a gay conversion therapy and
Speaker 1: all the guys they were like, no, I totally love women.
Speaker 1: Now it changed me. That's amazing somebody to remember that movie.
Speaker 1: But look, my look, you know I have family that's
Speaker 1: that are Trump supporters, that are not racists. I think,
Speaker 1: I think, I think it's it's cool that you can't
Speaker 1: align the two together. It doesn't mean are they There's
Speaker 1: also this really like there's a lack of understanding for
Speaker 1: like the white working class, Like white working class and
Speaker 1: black working class people have so much in common with
Speaker 1: each other and they don't even know it. But I
Speaker 1: don't know it. Have more um foodstamp and section eate
Speaker 1: the black people. And of course they attached they attached it.
Speaker 1: And it's not just white people, are they? Yeah? But no.
Speaker 1: I think another thing that I had to realize is
Speaker 1: and that friends had to put in my head. These
Speaker 1: are black friends. They were like, Look, prejudice and racism
Speaker 1: are two different things, right, So like when we see
Speaker 1: certain things happen with women in the street called the
Speaker 1: police and black men or just people doing shings like that,
Speaker 1: that's a prejudice in their mind right, where racism is
Speaker 1: more of a hatred, where we still have to destigmatize both.
Speaker 1: But we keep aligning Trump with racism. And the main
Speaker 1: thing that I have to be willing to accept is
Speaker 1: that I can't vote for Trump because I do feel
Speaker 1: like what he's doing is hurtful towards people that look
Speaker 1: like me and that army, right, but not everybody is
Speaker 1: going to put that first. The hardest thing that I
Speaker 1: have to learn to get that. The hardest thing that
Speaker 1: I think I had to realize was like and that
Speaker 1: I even had to openly admit, was bitch. I'm still
Speaker 1: a fan of American. Friend is bitch the American American? Well,
Speaker 1: well it was in America because they have other apprentices
Speaker 1: in other countries. So there's that and celebrity apprentice. Everything
Speaker 1: that Trump was when he was on TV. I didn't
Speaker 1: even gonna hold you. I like Trump on TV. A
Speaker 1: lot of people didn't why he's on right in and
Speaker 1: watch You're fired. That's why he's present, I mean. But
Speaker 1: also hip hop community like loved because he represented like
Speaker 1: so much him with Puff Daddy and everyone. I don't
Speaker 1: think that he's like I don't think he's like straight up,
Speaker 1: he's not. But here's what makes it bad, right, he
Speaker 1: is inciting people too. He's exactly he's race baiting and
Speaker 1: was a liberal in my opinion person before that phrase
Speaker 1: more misogynists than yes. I think he is. Even just
Speaker 1: the things that he the things he aligned himself with
Speaker 1: shows he's a quote unquote more liberal person that he's
Speaker 1: trying to act like today. But what kills me is
Speaker 1: like you get someone like Mike Vinson's total opposite that
Speaker 1: really can rile ship up for the people that you
Speaker 1: know be kind of sketch about you, and now you've
Speaker 1: pretty much enraged them to fucking act like these white nationalists.
Speaker 1: Like I watched this documentary on Netflix where they were like,
Speaker 1: he follows our rule book, like all of the principles
Speaker 1: we have and stuff like that, making the country whole
Speaker 1: again and getting back to its roots and ship like that.
Speaker 1: Like it's just crazy. And I think the more and
Speaker 1: more I educate myself about it, I get more angry
Speaker 1: at the person that voted for Trump, knowing they might
Speaker 1: not have the information that I do or And this
Speaker 1: is the other thing, because when when we just had
Speaker 1: like the mid terms and really quick, I just want
Speaker 1: to remind everyone you are listening to horrible decisions. If
Speaker 1: you guys didn't know what show you all were listening,
Speaker 1: should we switch it to Cana I really like the
Speaker 1: fucking and I'm like, yeah, none of my friends voted
Speaker 1: for Trump, so can we go ahead and get off
Speaker 1: this off throw listen? I'm sorry none of my friends.
Speaker 1: Trump was black. That's fine, but none of my friends
Speaker 1: voted for you know how hard that was. They told
Speaker 1: me we were, and I was. I was shaking up set.
Speaker 1: I was like, bit, you've been looking at me. We've
Speaker 1: been out here, I've been talking about these people. They're scared. Yeah,
Speaker 1: it was awful. Alright, eyes break up for you because
Speaker 1: we got to get you open to talk some hole.
Speaker 1: I'm still thinking how happy I am that I've grown
Speaker 1: on her. It's so much better. No, it's like a
Speaker 1: corn because it's like it's so much better, like when
Speaker 1: someone doesn't like you and then oh it's even better.
Speaker 1: It's because if someone automatically loves you, it's like there's
Speaker 1: no talent, you know. But those are my favorite dams
Speaker 1: from people and they're like I used toy you. I'm like,
Speaker 1: thank you. So know. So Leah, I text Lea today
Speaker 1: because I was like, damn, what should we talk about? Right?
Speaker 1: We thought Laura would be able to join us. We
Speaker 1: really wanted to do a horrible decision. It's in proper etiquette.
Speaker 1: Oh my god. Yeah right. So I'm like, well, real quick,
Speaker 1: before we get into this, can you let the listen
Speaker 1: because we kind of introduce you, but not really. We
Speaker 1: just did the white bitch that like real quick. Lea
Speaker 1: was late and here goes we weally don't text. She
Speaker 1: talked into her phone, so what in the caucassity? And
Speaker 1: then that you're late. Man, you are not allowed to
Speaker 1: be one time woman. You're like, I was like a
Speaker 1: whole woman. I hear you that you're a whole Caucasian
Speaker 1: ass moment. Then let our listeners know what you do
Speaker 1: and you know why the fun you're here? Um, my
Speaker 1: name is Leah nick Sweeney. I'm a whole Caucasian woman.
Speaker 1: Have we Yeah? I like that. I like to make
Speaker 1: sure that you know that I'm calling the manager right
Speaker 1: now right, I'm getting where is where is your manager? Um?
Speaker 1: And I have a podcast called improper Etiquette. I have
Speaker 1: a brand called Married to the mom etiquette about ahead
Speaker 1: a weird section of We don't even like that. I
Speaker 1: don't think we even pay like, I don't know who
Speaker 1: put it there. We just like do it. We didn't
Speaker 1: get to pick comedy. No, but where was it when
Speaker 1: it's in music comedy? I think it's in music because
Speaker 1: of Laura, I would assume. I don't know if I
Speaker 1: got like shoved there or something or does it matter
Speaker 1: where it is? I don't even realind it does, like
Speaker 1: if people want to look because if y'all play music
Speaker 1: or talk about music, no, yeah, you got to change music. Second,
Speaker 1: all right, I'm gonna tell her. So what is it about?
Speaker 1: Let's see, um, current events, okay, sex, relationships, parenting, which
Speaker 1: I'll chime in a lot about. We have guests, um
Speaker 1: pretty much every episode. I know y'all tried to book
Speaker 1: me but that eleven am. But we're going to change
Speaker 1: it so you'll be back on white women. Just think
Speaker 1: we could be available to twinty four hours. I don't care.
Speaker 1: Just believe your office. They come here like, I'm like, no, sorry,
Speaker 1: I can't make it. Actually, you have one of my
Speaker 1: favorite cover arts for a podcast. What is it like?
Speaker 1: Its gonna that? I know? I was like, I have
Speaker 1: to that was in my mind for so long. I'm like,
Speaker 1: we need a male blow up doll, and we need
Speaker 1: to be molesting this blow up doll. Laura. She was
Speaker 1: like all right, Leah, like she's you know, not as
Speaker 1: extreme the mob. I feel like I've heard that name
Speaker 1: years ago. I've had the brand for a really long
Speaker 1: What is it it's this female street where brand I've
Speaker 1: had it for thought she was like mob wives or something,
Speaker 1: and say it again. I thought she was on like
Speaker 1: mob Wives, looked a lot of people like it, and
Speaker 1: then I read like, you've done a lot of featured articles,
Speaker 1: like a lot of people. I've written on you. When
Speaker 1: I write, I write for Penthouse. Okay, yeah, okay, right
Speaker 1: now we're gonna talk about you. Basically, forget all that
Speaker 1: she has any importance of worrying. Hey, I know. The
Speaker 1: reason I wanted her to talk about certain topics today
Speaker 1: is because when you came on Flagrant, you seem to
Speaker 1: be going through current events. So it's like, hey, what
Speaker 1: do you what should we talk about with you? She's like, well,
Speaker 1: I recently started getting anals, so there's this. Okay, well
Speaker 1: I know, But the thing is is I used to
Speaker 1: be like, not about anything near my asshole. I don't
Speaker 1: want to playing with it, not fingers and a half. Right,
Speaker 1: And I'm a thirty six year old moment, can you
Speaker 1: believe this? So don't look so ashamed at eighteen, I did.
Speaker 1: I started. That's when I even I was looking in Atlanta.
Speaker 1: What do you think? Of course, they all wanted to
Speaker 1: get in my ass. So, yeah, let's talk about the
Speaker 1: new boy six thirty six and you just started. Does
Speaker 1: it have anything to do with his size? I want
Speaker 1: to ask that, No, he's got a good size, like
Speaker 1: average size dick. What's average? A lot of guys one
Speaker 1: of the American average five inches is definitely not five.
Speaker 1: It's like seven or like, I don't know, and it's
Speaker 1: definitely like thick too. I like, but I'm like a
Speaker 1: size queen. I can't say no small dicks. Like I
Speaker 1: once went out with the guy with a small dick.
Speaker 1: My sister knew, and she was like when I broke up,
Speaker 1: and she's like, Leo, it's just you can't ever You're
Speaker 1: never going to be with a guy that's got a
Speaker 1: small dick. You just can't. You never feel finished. You're
Speaker 1: not little dick shaming. By the way, because they say that,
Speaker 1: I'm sorry, I mean a lot of women, I'm shocked.
Speaker 1: I asked so many in my anti dating game show.
Speaker 1: Women raise their hand that they liked met more than
Speaker 1: big dicks. They don't like pain, and see, I'm not
Speaker 1: gonna like for me, I get pleasure from pain. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I wanted to hurt like a motherfucker. I want to.
Speaker 1: I like sometimes when it gets dry, just so I
Speaker 1: can feel I'm crazy, but yeah, I'm like yeah, but
Speaker 1: I also like to, like I wiped the dick off
Speaker 1: before I cleaned myself off. Yeah, I just like a challenge,
Speaker 1: just wipe it all off. And I'm like, okay, I'll
Speaker 1: say we differ there, it's too one for that. Just try.
Speaker 1: I'm just saying a little. I don't like friction at all,
Speaker 1: Like that's one part like to me in my mind psychologically,
Speaker 1: I do like I get really wet for certain guys,
Speaker 1: like who really wouldn't turn me off. So as soon
Speaker 1: as I start drawing up or I feel friction, I'm like,
Speaker 1: oh yeah, bitch, I'm I ain't into you in real life.
Speaker 1: Like I know my pussy is telling me, like girl,
Speaker 1: they say what you want, yeah, not from you being dry.
Speaker 1: But I'm just saying I've noticed when it gets too wet,
Speaker 1: I don't like I feel like I got a big
Speaker 1: gass pussy when it's all wet. I'm like, it's like
Speaker 1: sliding in and out. Ship. I'm like, sorry, I swear
Speaker 1: like I do kegels. You know that's valid. That's that's
Speaker 1: a little embarrassing and it's like really, well, but I'm
Speaker 1: not like I think. Also, I'm a side queen. So
Speaker 1: especially when I was bigger, I had an issue where
Speaker 1: I would be sucking a guy and I like, he's
Speaker 1: in my pussy. But it's like blah, but I've had
Speaker 1: guys because I do get so wet. I had guys
Speaker 1: sucking the inside of my thigh. It's not realizing it
Speaker 1: was just my thoughts. I just want a guy with
Speaker 1: little dicks. That's happened, you know what. I think It's
Speaker 1: happened to me too, and I'm like, that's not my pussy,
Speaker 1: that's not like, this is embarrassing a little you have
Speaker 1: like spread I not like the BBW thing. So to
Speaker 1: know that y'all have experienced this too, like I don't
Speaker 1: think a lot of guys realize how much does this
Speaker 1: happen to Like y'all be strike in between our thoughts
Speaker 1: with some pussy juices, not even knowing. This is why
Speaker 1: you can make anything feel like a pussy, your hand,
Speaker 1: your fucking mouth, anything you have you can utilize as
Speaker 1: a fake pussy. You write it's just a crevice, just
Speaker 1: literally just hello the dick once right and I remember
Speaker 1: it was like buying my cheek and I just started
Speaker 1: sliding my hand like this my mouth and he came
Speaker 1: just like that. Okay, so how has anto been for you?
Speaker 1: So we kind of slightly had anal but not really
Speaker 1: but then she did but then she didn't, but the
Speaker 1: head went in. But then it's like I feel like
Speaker 1: I thought I got sucked in the ask, but I
Speaker 1: don't think I did well. Every time I tried, I
Speaker 1: didn't get like fully like its whole dick didn't go
Speaker 1: inside the same. It was like half but it was stroking.
Speaker 1: Oh if it was stroking, it was stroking. It was stroking.
Speaker 1: It doesn't all have to go in, right. It was
Speaker 1: stroking half in because I can't do the hole yet.
Speaker 1: It's really like because you were like, I love it,
Speaker 1: now I do. I mean there's sometimes I can't even
Speaker 1: come unless he's playing with my ass. Now that's that's good,
Speaker 1: But I have to be in a mood. It has
Speaker 1: to be that just happens out of nowhere, Like we
Speaker 1: didn't eat that heavy exactly exactly. I'm not into any
Speaker 1: type of anal. If I knew I had a crazy
Speaker 1: ship that morning because I drink coffee and certain coffees
Speaker 1: just don't don't sit right. And if I had kind
Speaker 1: of like a running ship that morning, I ain't have
Speaker 1: an anal because I feel like not, you don't know
Speaker 1: what all clean out yet. It ain't even been twenty
Speaker 1: four hours, so do you know before you're gonna be
Speaker 1: asked it? No, it just happens, like I just want
Speaker 1: it hasn't been dirty. No, I've been so worried about
Speaker 1: that though. I'm like, I know there's on your diff
Speaker 1: right now, and I'm like, you're never gonna want to
Speaker 1: suck me again. He's like, Babe, there's no ship, Like
Speaker 1: what are you talking about? And if there is, it's
Speaker 1: all good like anything, but y'all are going to be like,
Speaker 1: what the fuck? I hope it's not related. I don't
Speaker 1: want to just wait until it happens. What she had
Speaker 1: a skid mark? Look at that? I can't see it
Speaker 1: could be a birthmark, bro shuld I mean see, this
Speaker 1: is why I'm so scary and acts in general. I mean,
Speaker 1: it's very you gotta make sure you're totally clean. You
Speaker 1: think that was a skid mark? So this dude, for
Speaker 1: all of you that there's no video either today Okay.
Speaker 1: So this dude sends me a fucking sex stape and
Speaker 1: I said, what are you doing? And he sent me
Speaker 1: that back and I'm like an hour later, I reply
Speaker 1: and I'm like, Nika, did you look at what you
Speaker 1: sent me? He's like l ol huh. Then he clicks
Speaker 1: on it and he's like, oh wow, that's crazy, and
Speaker 1: I'm like, so was that him? It's so funny. So
Speaker 1: I have a story and it actually started um where
Speaker 1: I tweeted and made it started a whole conversation on
Speaker 1: Twitter Instagram. So this dude sent me a video. So
Speaker 1: both of us are into our partners sending us videos
Speaker 1: of them sucking other people, and so he like this
Speaker 1: guy that I'm talking to six seven, the one I
Speaker 1: went to the sex club. Boy, he sent me a
Speaker 1: video of him sucking a girl. And when I got
Speaker 1: the videos, they were old videos, just that and he
Speaker 1: sent it to me and as soon as I saw it,
Speaker 1: I was like, did you know she had a yeast infection?
Speaker 1: Oh my god? His whole dick was so creamy, but
Speaker 1: it was a thick cream and I thought that it
Speaker 1: would be no bro, I'm like a chunky, thick creaming.
Speaker 1: It was like it was like, and I'm like, I
Speaker 1: know you might have thought maybe the pussy was just
Speaker 1: extra wet, my guy, but I know that you know
Speaker 1: your pussy like pussy juices. So we should talk about
Speaker 1: what cream is, right. We can't only cream while ovulating, Okay,
Speaker 1: so I use an ovulation calendar and if you actually
Speaker 1: I think it was the kink of the week. I
Speaker 1: remember the first episodode with Jesse. I met Jeeves and
Speaker 1: he was like, yo, like the first time he had sex.
Speaker 1: I feel like I came too early, but I want
Speaker 1: to explain why I'm really into, you know, creamy pussy.
Speaker 1: I even like search gruel. I'm like, what the fund
Speaker 1: is that it's basically like a white thing. What's gruel?
Speaker 1: I don't know you're white, you don't know. I'm just
Speaker 1: I don't so cool. It's like another word for when
Speaker 1: a pussy is ovulating. So if you type it in
Speaker 1: on porn hub g r o O L, it comes
Speaker 1: up and it's like creamy pussy. Now, what about that
Speaker 1: slime something that's that's obulating fluid. However, there is there
Speaker 1: is a difference. So when you're pussy is wet, when
Speaker 1: you're turned on, when you're aroused. Our pussies get wet
Speaker 1: all the time. Um, but particular slimy white, so that's
Speaker 1: obviously that's the thing. When it's slimy and white, you're good.
Speaker 1: When it cleamy like logret, that's not okay. And if
Speaker 1: it has like chunks in it like that, if it's thick,
Speaker 1: so even if you're ovulating, it's still going to be
Speaker 1: kind of it's not gonna be chinking. Also, a period,
Speaker 1: so this is is called my p tracker, right, so
Speaker 1: this is an app I use, I mean using it
Speaker 1: for a year and a half now, so right, this
Speaker 1: gray shows when my period is, right, so basically tomorrow,
Speaker 1: let's see this. Okay, this green dot and this flower,
Speaker 1: this is when I'm ovulating. So I would screenshot at
Speaker 1: him me like, even though you're pregnant, this is this
Speaker 1: is when I'm ovulating, super stretchy, puzzy. I'll be like,
Speaker 1: you can come inside me. Wait no, nook, So that's
Speaker 1: like my that those are my ovaries talking right now,
Speaker 1: because I do you know what, though your post is
Speaker 1: more wet because it's ready for a baby, right, it's
Speaker 1: when I'm ovulating. I'm better commnition. Now we have none
Speaker 1: of them problems over here. See, I'm really scared to
Speaker 1: get pregnant because I use the rhythm method. But I
Speaker 1: always want to funk when I'm obulating, by the way,
Speaker 1: Like I'm taking a sex cation. I'm time soon right
Speaker 1: with this guy and this girl and fucking and what
Speaker 1: is a sex kid when you don't have sex? But
Speaker 1: I'm going on vacation. Yeah, well well well we'll confirm it.
Speaker 1: So we'll confirm it soon. Yeah, we're both going on
Speaker 1: this sex cation. Yeah, but they confirm it pay a
Speaker 1: bit shit, so we can't We can't say and you're
Speaker 1: going to Yeah, now we're not gonna fun. Hell no,
Speaker 1: I'm bringing the motherfucker I fucked. And actually, so I
Speaker 1: have two options. I hit both of them up depending
Speaker 1: on who's available. So the one he allows me to
Speaker 1: fuck him with a strap on, so I really want
Speaker 1: to bring him. He's the one I took to the
Speaker 1: sex club. The other one's my second option. He just
Speaker 1: not playing right now. So in the league, yeah, he
Speaker 1: ain't playing. He can't get picked up this year. So
Speaker 1: I'm like, you want to go to Jamaica and we
Speaker 1: fucked a lot. Wait Jamaica too, When are you guys
Speaker 1: gonna go. Basically, a company reached out. They want us
Speaker 1: to come to this sex thing in Jamaica. We'll talk
Speaker 1: about it once they confirm it. They get flights. But yeah,
Speaker 1: I haven't. I asked him, like, yo, and I bring
Speaker 1: another person's I have a guy flow and Beard Bay Right.
Speaker 1: So I was writing her because Mandy's going, we have
Speaker 1: to go the same time. Obviously it's a horrible decision thing.
Speaker 1: She's also going. I text both of them when is
Speaker 1: your periods? Literally we're talking and she's like, okay, so
Speaker 1: let's figure out the weekends we want to go when
Speaker 1: your period beyond bitch, And I'm like, do you notice
Speaker 1: we have our parod we get the same good thing? Yeah,
Speaker 1: but not good because this bitch want to bring a girl.
Speaker 1: So now we got to go base off three people.
Speaker 1: So now we're cutting out two weekends out. My point
Speaker 1: is we're all ovulating when we get there. So if
Speaker 1: I haven't, you make a child. I just gotta know
Speaker 1: they're gonna have seven brothers. Choice. That doesn't mean that
Speaker 1: you're gonna like necessarily we might we might need to go.
Speaker 1: I was gonna say, we still might need to ask
Speaker 1: them for the five hunting. Take care of that. Just
Speaker 1: in my bad. Bad these people are geting a free baca. Okay, bad,
Speaker 1: all right. So anyways, what we like to do as well,
Speaker 1: every week we like to have vanilla ship. We like
Speaker 1: to talk about some vanilla hole ash ship and apparently
Speaker 1: we found some vanilla as ship. Good to talk with you.
Speaker 1: We've been people send us some vanilla shipped too, but
Speaker 1: this one I thought was fucking crazy, and I actually
Speaker 1: didn't pick it at first. I wanted to do the
Speaker 1: one you sent me, Leah, but this I really wanted
Speaker 1: your opinion on, since you know you'd be very problematic.
Speaker 1: So this was on BuzzFeed. Okay, this is the headline.
Speaker 1: She thought she was in bed with her boyfriend until
Speaker 1: she saw his face. This happened in Indiana. Oh I
Speaker 1: saw this. Okay, he's a rapist. Yeah, he was sleeping
Speaker 1: her boyfriend's bed when she felt him. Officially, they've been
Speaker 1: going out for a few weeks, one of those college
Speaker 1: romances where someone in the friend group slowly becomes more
Speaker 1: than a friend through private, joke stolen moments. Um. Let's
Speaker 1: fast forward. So their dorm rooms were down the hall
Speaker 1: from each other. She went to a party. They were
Speaker 1: drinking at the party. She's nineteen years old, by the way.
Speaker 1: She wasn't in the mood, so she went upstairs fell
Speaker 1: asleep in his bed. Her boyfriend popped up the ladder
Speaker 1: every now and then to snuggle in and check in
Speaker 1: on her. At one point, his friend Grant made a
Speaker 1: gross comment about hoping that she would get good sex
Speaker 1: from her boyfriend tonight. She thought he was being drunk
Speaker 1: and stupid. It was done, so it got late the
Speaker 1: night peered out. She fell asleep. Her boyfriend was next
Speaker 1: to her. Apparently her boyfriend reached up behind her, fondling
Speaker 1: her breast over her t shirt. She let him touch her.
Speaker 1: They were quiet, his friends were asleep. She felt his
Speaker 1: hand slide under her pajama pants and she started touching
Speaker 1: her clip. She went along with it, still facing away.
Speaker 1: She grabbed his penis and put it in her vagina.
Speaker 1: They had sex maybe for a minute. She stopped and
Speaker 1: told She told him she had to use the bathroom.
Speaker 1: When she was done, she got back in bed and
Speaker 1: she saw it was the friend Grant. I remember him grinning,
Speaker 1: grinning at me. It was a freaking image. I was
Speaker 1: so friendic. I didn't know what was going on. She
Speaker 1: ran downstairs, noticed her keys were missing, rushed to her
Speaker 1: dorm and her boyfriend was there. She asked how long
Speaker 1: he had been there. He said that he couldn't sleep
Speaker 1: because she was taking up space in a small twin bed,
Speaker 1: so he left three hours ago. Dad now, so she
Speaker 1: was confused whether it was illegal, basically on state law
Speaker 1: saying what he did was not technically illegal, even though
Speaker 1: he admitted he knew she wasn't consenting because in Indiana,
Speaker 1: sex is only rape when it's compelled through force or threats,
Speaker 1: if the vintom is mentally disabled and can't consent, or
Speaker 1: the person is unwhere that the sex is occurring like that.
Speaker 1: But basically, she knew she was having sex, she just
Speaker 1: didn't know it was him. And I think something someone
Speaker 1: said to me that I thought was very interesting. They
Speaker 1: told me someone they felt like your boyfriend was in
Speaker 1: on this there like maybe a couple of weeks. I
Speaker 1: wouldn't doubt that. They definitely maybe he was, Like that's
Speaker 1: what I was gonna say. I was gonna say that
Speaker 1: specifically because only because there are a lot of men,
Speaker 1: or there's a lot of things where women will create
Speaker 1: a relationship in their mind, and it's technically not my
Speaker 1: stomach turn. I know it does. But now other women
Speaker 1: in the comments on BuzzFeed were saying, there's no way
Speaker 1: I wouldn't know my boyfriend's dick. Oh, shut the funk
Speaker 1: up when you're first off, when you're half sleep, when
Speaker 1: you've been drinking. Well she wasn't. Yeah, but depending on
Speaker 1: maybe they have the same dick size, bitch. So there's
Speaker 1: a lot of dicks that are comparable. I'm gonna be honest.
Speaker 1: When I thought about it first, I was like I
Speaker 1: used to think about when I went to sleep with
Speaker 1: Collette and the guy that we were sucking, right, we
Speaker 1: were dating this guy together, me and this girl I
Speaker 1: used to date, and even though I couldn't, I could
Speaker 1: I would know when who touched me when I was sleeping.
Speaker 1: But I thought that too, like even just from my face,
Speaker 1: I don't know. I felt like new it's right. I was,
Speaker 1: but she was too. But here's the other thing. If
Speaker 1: they were only dating a few weeks and someone was
Speaker 1: already touching your tips and maybe you wouldn't know. Like
Speaker 1: I agree, I'm not gonna lie. So when I had
Speaker 1: my threesome, Um, I was on edibles and literally during
Speaker 1: the threesome, I'm not gonna lie, I don't know which
Speaker 1: one was sucking me, but one was like almost making
Speaker 1: me squirt and yeah, and I literally didn't know which one.
Speaker 1: I was like, so out of it. Have you ever
Speaker 1: sucked either before though one of them, yes, the other
Speaker 1: one the other one no. Well that's a that's a
Speaker 1: great point. I think it's I think it's very easy
Speaker 1: to not for her to not think that it's the boy.
Speaker 1: If you're behind me too, like you started, she got up,
Speaker 1: listen to the story. If she got up, she ran,
Speaker 1: she looked for her boyfriend. You know, she did all
Speaker 1: these things. And listen with this problematic things, I say,
Speaker 1: I am so I am. I criticize this kind of
Speaker 1: stuff because rape, because I think rape and sexual assault
Speaker 1: is such a fucking disgusting serious gnarly asked, fucking matter
Speaker 1: that when people call things rape that aren't rape, it
Speaker 1: makes me fucking crazy. You because I remember the last
Speaker 1: time that rape was regarding the rape that never triangle
Speaker 1: with where things started the levels, and you were like,
Speaker 1: this is bullshit. Yeah, Now, why do you feel like
Speaker 1: some of the things towards the bottom are bullshit? Watch
Speaker 1: things like sending people or things like that. Yeah, I know.
Speaker 1: Do you think there's Do you believe in rape culture?
Speaker 1: Do you think that's the thing. No, I don't believe
Speaker 1: it that we have a rape culture here. I believe
Speaker 1: that we have a culture that objectifies women. That is
Speaker 1: beyond it's through the media, it's through society, it's through culture.
Speaker 1: It's crazy. But we do not like we frown upon rape.
Speaker 1: Rape is very weird do But I think that the
Speaker 1: reason that I always find myself disagreeing is because I
Speaker 1: don't think we have a culture to do bad things.
Speaker 1: But I do think that those things can encourage rape
Speaker 1: or rape. Things like you know, being too forward or
Speaker 1: snarky remarks. There are things that are unwarranted or unwanted.
Speaker 1: But I will say, just with what you're saying, I
Speaker 1: do get so you said that rape to everyone is
Speaker 1: by disgusting, it's violent, it's something that no one stands for.
Speaker 1: We know what's a bad things, of course, but with
Speaker 1: the rape culture in that pyramid, we're putting a lot
Speaker 1: of more like um things like miscellaneous things. I would
Speaker 1: I would say things that aren't as like we wouldn't
Speaker 1: consider vile or dangerous or or stuff like that. And
Speaker 1: so when you include those into the idea of rape,
Speaker 1: it's just like then you start creating a really puritanical
Speaker 1: kind of society. You know, you start creating a puritanical society,
Speaker 1: you start creating a really hyper sensitive society. You start
Speaker 1: creating an anti sex society. Don't you think that we
Speaker 1: should be a little more Okay, I know you're more,
Speaker 1: you're so sex positive. I'm surprised that you're not a
Speaker 1: little more cautious or that you're not a little more
Speaker 1: like um against all these things being in a rap
Speaker 1: bubble or triangle. Because I've had things happened to me
Speaker 1: that I didn't want. I think that's why. And I've
Speaker 1: also when I read that disease story, I can't even friendly,
Speaker 1: like we not, let's not get into because you don't
Speaker 1: happen today. And I wished I said no, all right,
Speaker 1: And I remember being that age and like I had
Speaker 1: sex with a guy of nineteen ish, I had sex
Speaker 1: with a guy that I wish I did not, And
Speaker 1: I remember like I was giving him all of the cues,
Speaker 1: like I was closing my legs. I couldn't do. I
Speaker 1: don't know why I couldn't do it. I couldn't get
Speaker 1: it out. But see, so to me so and I
Speaker 1: kind of said this, and I said this one. We
Speaker 1: talked about this and I don't want to get into
Speaker 1: it because I don't want to, but I still feel
Speaker 1: like with that. Unfortunately, we are in a society too
Speaker 1: where we do try to the woman is the victim
Speaker 1: and the man is always the you know, and so
Speaker 1: I can I didn't understand. Why didn't that be wrong too?
Speaker 1: But when that's why I think consent is important Because
Speaker 1: I'm not that person anymore, right, I would absolutely say no,
Speaker 1: I'm more confident, I'm older, understand and myself. But I
Speaker 1: do remember from that. I remember for months on end
Speaker 1: being traumatized a little bit from me. He had no
Speaker 1: idea did you watch the vice consent thing? I want
Speaker 1: to wrap this up quick, but so we were on
Speaker 1: it or whatever. I need to see it. Yea, it
Speaker 1: was dope. Um. So at the end of it, they
Speaker 1: have this couple right where this girl wants to confront
Speaker 1: her rapists. It's been ten years, she's went through therapy,
Speaker 1: all kinds of ship. He sat down right next to
Speaker 1: her and had no idea that he raped her like
Speaker 1: was like, I didn't know that I did that. Yeah,
Speaker 1: He's like, I thought we were drinking and sex. She
Speaker 1: was fucking traumatizing, know what. I believed him, And I
Speaker 1: only believe him because he showed up and he hear
Speaker 1: him crying and feeling guilty that she felt so much hurt.
Speaker 1: And I know that night that guy didn't think he
Speaker 1: did that to me. So I think because of women's
Speaker 1: that women that get that feeling, like her and myself
Speaker 1: in that moment, we should have men more sensitive to
Speaker 1: the idea of But again, we're making it the man's responsibility.
Speaker 1: And it's something that I said even in that episode,
Speaker 1: we don't whole accountable what we as women need to
Speaker 1: do and as mothers instead of taking your teenage daughters
Speaker 1: and saying, don't give up your pussy, don't do this.
Speaker 1: This is your sacred you know, pouch to keep it
Speaker 1: to yourself, it's you know, it's all of these things.
Speaker 1: We need to teach women to voice these and we
Speaker 1: need and even in a situation like you, But but
Speaker 1: even in a situation like you, like where now you're
Speaker 1: with someone may be of power or of success and
Speaker 1: now you you want to do it, But you don't
Speaker 1: want to do it. Those conversations were never had with
Speaker 1: you or me, likely even my mom. I feel like
Speaker 1: told me enough. I think. I think in that moment,
Speaker 1: I genuinely wasn't confident enough to say no, or I didn't.
Speaker 1: I just kind of thought he would stop when he
Speaker 1: saw my face. It's not that I don't listen. It's
Speaker 1: not that I don't think men should be more sensitive
Speaker 1: to women's needs. But that's like I also think that
Speaker 1: like World Hunger should end like facts, you know what
Speaker 1: I mean, Like humans are humans. They're flawed. We have to.
Speaker 1: It's just all we have is ourselves, that's it. And
Speaker 1: we can not checking in though, and at least verbal
Speaker 1: cues like we can't say if my legs were closed
Speaker 1: and Leah and how does a guy? But every though,
Speaker 1: because then at the same time, the very same episode
Speaker 1: you said you do it as a sometimes we do
Speaker 1: it like that, but it gets because we do. But
Speaker 1: but I think that as well, we do like that
Speaker 1: as the story. That's because I'm like his whole career
Speaker 1: got And look, I'm not even a fan, did I'm
Speaker 1: not a fan. I actually just watched Master of None
Speaker 1: for the first time, Like two days ago. I don't care.
Speaker 1: It's one of my favorite shows. So I'm really speaking
Speaker 1: from a very objective standpoint because I don't have any
Speaker 1: skin in the games. I don't care about him same
Speaker 1: and you know whatever. But like that whole story was
Speaker 1: like such an obvious like that was like revenge, Like
Speaker 1: she was getting straight up revenge. She didn't like I
Speaker 1: want to so much of the sex I've had, I
Speaker 1: read she wanted a different attach, the way we want
Speaker 1: to be. She she didn't want to be treated like
Speaker 1: she was treated like a hoe, and she didn't like that.
Speaker 1: I'll gave you I don't. I don't know about her
Speaker 1: wanting to be more. I think that she maybe felt
Speaker 1: and to his point, bitches have been doing this and
Speaker 1: the only thing I'm gonna I don't know how much
Speaker 1: of the story so I heard um Kareem Hunt, the
Speaker 1: football player who just pretty much lost his job for
Speaker 1: kicking the woman. The story that I heard was that
Speaker 1: it was him and a bunch of friends, and basically
Speaker 1: the girl got upset because he's like, yo, I want
Speaker 1: you to suck my friends. So she went in there
Speaker 1: and got treated like a ho and then it turned
Speaker 1: into a crazy thing. They went to kick him out.
Speaker 1: She and my boyfriend were fighting over this because because
Speaker 1: I was that she didn't want to be treated like
Speaker 1: I don't know, because he's very much like he only
Speaker 1: pushed her. He pushed her. It sucked up. But his
Speaker 1: friend was like, the kick was like not really like
Speaker 1: a hard kick and could have hit everybody, could have
Speaker 1: killed he could have knocked everyone out, and he played
Speaker 1: and I was like, the hitting is unacceptable, but it
Speaker 1: goes back to the point where I lose his whole
Speaker 1: him first, So it goes into the violence of a
Speaker 1: woman hitting a guy first. But that's what I'm saying,
Speaker 1: women being accountable for our actions and not like just
Speaker 1: making it like she went to slap him first, right,
Speaker 1: slap him first. We had that conversation if you guys
Speaker 1: want to listen. We talked about domestic violence thing though,
Speaker 1: and women to say the men try to wrap it
Speaker 1: just like with police, they should be able to pacify
Speaker 1: someone more than they should reach for something harder. Men
Speaker 1: should be able to especially at that size pass by control.
Speaker 1: His words were trying to like if he wanted to,
Speaker 1: you know, hrder, he really could, Yeah, of course, but
Speaker 1: like obviously just watching a video like that is so
Speaker 1: just I got to look at it. No, ship, let's
Speaker 1: get into the kink of the week and then we
Speaker 1: don't have to have a quick as motherfucking horrible well
Speaker 1: we will, we will kick in a week. I found
Speaker 1: because I was looking at porn and it came up,
Speaker 1: how do you find this important? You watch white people porn?
Speaker 1: I'm convinced. So I was watching there was an episode
Speaker 1: like watching paint Dicks with black pussies. I love watching
Speaker 1: inter racial stuff. It's all I can watch. And black
Speaker 1: actually black guys with white girls too, but I'd rather
Speaker 1: watch the white guys with black girls. And first of all,
Speaker 1: the black women way better. Yeah, black girls who seem
Speaker 1: like they see just like I like watching them. I
Speaker 1: don't I have a black as podcast. I can't. I
Speaker 1: don't really watch many black women in porn only because
Speaker 1: I feel like they don't keep themselves up the same.
Speaker 1: Their production via you is much less, Their weaves are trash,
Speaker 1: their makeup they put like green eyes watching and so
Speaker 1: on porn Hub. Unless you can find some free as,
Speaker 1: you don't read pay with black women like no caprix styles.
Speaker 1: I don't see you no more. Cherke only matter pinky.
Speaker 1: It seems to like to get these girls that are
Speaker 1: like all the girls like this, like off the like
Speaker 1: that's the only reason I have a hard time watching
Speaker 1: that point. There's this one like Tampa Boukocky, because y'all
Speaker 1: know I love Boukacki and they always get these like
Speaker 1: on the street, like I love cream Pie gang bangs. Really,
Speaker 1: I like, dude, this is how I got here. Sex
Speaker 1: in the City as an episode where she jerked the
Speaker 1: guy off and like just from that tantric massage remember that.
Speaker 1: Remember I've been trying to learn how to do it,
Speaker 1: so in looking up tantric massage. By the way, if
Speaker 1: you do tantric massage, please come on the show and
Speaker 1: write us to come on. Uh, tantric sex anything. I found.
Speaker 1: Erotic hypnosis here's what it is. Practice of reducing inhibitions
Speaker 1: and increasing arousal is a notable goal for hypnosis. The
Speaker 1: placement of trigger words in the subject's mind as a
Speaker 1: post hypnotic suggestion to produce actions and experiences on demand.
Speaker 1: As a common practice, it basically improves sexual health. Um
Speaker 1: techniques to overcome apprehension about flatio, increased sensuality, and improve libido.
Speaker 1: Another common form of it is hypnotic fantasy where the
Speaker 1: subject is taking in a trance through a sexual experience. Okay,
Speaker 1: but listen to people that I identify with a submissive
Speaker 1: side that can't as their personal self. So basically they'll
Speaker 1: take over your like you as someone else. Like let's say,
Speaker 1: for you, you said you don't really like being submissive.
Speaker 1: If you went through the hypnosis and thought you were
Speaker 1: someone else, you can let your inhibitions go. So basically
Speaker 1: they hypnotize you. I gotta go somewhere and get hypnotized
Speaker 1: with my niggag hypnotize me, like you about to hypnotize
Speaker 1: somebody I was pouring, bro. I don't know what happened
Speaker 1: in the porn. What had to be scripted, bitch. Okay,
Speaker 1: so I don't know the scripted or not, but I
Speaker 1: saw some different ones. So basically, they sit there, they
Speaker 1: do the ding of the bell like they wait, they
Speaker 1: do the little swinging there and they're touching you slow,
Speaker 1: and they like start talking you through it and telling
Speaker 1: you that you're someone else. And actually I can't wait.
Speaker 1: Hopefully they come King Noir and and Jasmine actually do
Speaker 1: things like this with couples. Good. Yeah, so we'll have
Speaker 1: to bring them on. Come okay, hypnotize before I went
Speaker 1: to a show years ago in Orlando where this dude
Speaker 1: hypnotize me, and I remember in that moment he just
Speaker 1: really got me to like get I'm very vulnerable to
Speaker 1: anything though, alcohol, drugs, whatever, So he got me really
Speaker 1: just relaxed and he was like touching me certain places
Speaker 1: I'd make a noise, so he said, I was like
Speaker 1: a perfect candidate for hypnosis. So like, if you can
Speaker 1: do that and just relax and like turn into another
Speaker 1: person in role play, it's like, really, I don't tara
Speaker 1: card reading palm reading, so I guarantee you which I
Speaker 1: don't want the devil touching me. It don't matter. We
Speaker 1: talked in the episode, I gotta do with some chakras
Speaker 1: and ship and ain't nobody got time fall. Devil Dick
Speaker 1: is the best dick. I got double dick. His name
Speaker 1: is the devil in my phone and got a he
Speaker 1: got a big Old Knights did one of the things
Speaker 1: I'm trying to bring to the sex pation right now.
Speaker 1: The Horrible Decision for the Week is NSFW. This is
Speaker 1: inspired by a White listener. He bought tickets to Chicago.
Speaker 1: He said, he's gonna be three out of twenty six
Speaker 1: white listeners that go to the show. He wrote me
Speaker 1: a d M. I think his name is Ryan, I
Speaker 1: don't know, and he said, can definitely a white name.
Speaker 1: How Ryan, don't really I sucked Ryan to a white guy,
Speaker 1: have you? Ryan? Um? No, I actually call white guys
Speaker 1: the brads and chads and I'm not interested chat, you
Speaker 1: know what I'm not. So brads and chads are a
Speaker 1: very specific kind of definitely uniform. If you look on Instagram,
Speaker 1: there's instagram called Midtown Uniform and it's that best with
Speaker 1: the khaki pants and it's like all the frat boys
Speaker 1: and midtelling. Yeah, I've seen that and like the man,
Speaker 1: you gotta have that. You don't know, the Midtown uniform. Bro.
Speaker 1: The white people that were this like broy looking out, yeah,
Speaker 1: and they were like those hats look at they look
Speaker 1: like they're all from Boston or like New Hampshire. Basically, oh,
Speaker 1: like the Colombia best exactly. So this, yeah, I don't
Speaker 1: know if Ryan looks like that. But basically he was like,
Speaker 1: can y'all talk about this tumbler band? Um, all my
Speaker 1: gays are in fucking they dronk off this Tumbler like
Speaker 1: this is awful, So basically becauys that know what happened.
Speaker 1: Tumbler is removing its nsf W content. A lot of
Speaker 1: sex workers and a lot of sex performers are like
Speaker 1: super Piste because they love to share their pages ridiculous,
Speaker 1: not even Tumbler, I mean ship we these thirst straps.
Speaker 1: So now, bitch, where are you going to go to
Speaker 1: be where you like immediately? Bit five minutes. I just
Speaker 1: like people, just five people. I just saw that Rose
Speaker 1: McGowan's like partner or like whatever, like I don't know
Speaker 1: if they were, well it's a heat by the way,
Speaker 1: her name, it's like a non binary piper pipe. The
Speaker 1: person she's mwen. She was. She was charmed. I was
Speaker 1: like chimed out, so rained of that's the day's name,
Speaker 1: and they were they decided to go on Instagram and
Speaker 1: she they have double D boobs and so they were
Speaker 1: like not wearing a bra or shirt and was like
Speaker 1: playing basketball their boobs flying everywhere, and they were like Instagram,
Speaker 1: this is not sexual and I'm not a woman, so
Speaker 1: these are not actually breast with female breasts. So if
Speaker 1: you take this down, your transphobic. And they fucking kept
Speaker 1: it up. I don't know for how long. I don't
Speaker 1: know it's still up there, but that is some ship
Speaker 1: and I'm gonna start doing that, start just putting my
Speaker 1: tips up there, being like this isn't female nipple. Well
Speaker 1: I do. That's part In New York, it's actually legal
Speaker 1: for women to be talking about that's party. If that
Speaker 1: should cost money is here's a few thoughts. I'm actually
Speaker 1: just gonna kind of walk through this outline a little
Speaker 1: bit and you guys jump in when you want. Here's
Speaker 1: the things I want to talk about. So Tumbler did
Speaker 1: this band right? I want to talk about why are
Speaker 1: people so offended by breasts? Extreme from feminists say that
Speaker 1: breasts are just for babies and it's disgusting when people
Speaker 1: sexualize it. Fox says that like evangelical, like what No,
Speaker 1: A lot of people actually they would be the opposite
Speaker 1: because they feel like you shouldn't show your breast. But
Speaker 1: a lot of feminists say that my breast shouldn't be offensive.
Speaker 1: Oh they shouldn't be. I'm sorry. I thought even like yeah,
Speaker 1: they're they're just like these are for babies, Like why
Speaker 1: does that? Why is everyone? So I also want to
Speaker 1: talk about places it's legal to be topless, and these
Speaker 1: places have been tested Asheville, North Carolina, Austin, Texas, Boulder, Colorado, Columbus, Ohio, Eugene, Oregon, Honolulu, Magranolas.
Speaker 1: This is like some mad so that means somebody walked
Speaker 1: out there, like in front of it, some crazy like
Speaker 1: white liberals, New York and Oregon, Santa Fe, South Beach,
Speaker 1: and DC beaches. In qus, there are now I mean,
Speaker 1: these states have laws against not being able to get arrested.
Speaker 1: I got this from go topless dot org. Okay um,
Speaker 1: and yeah, I mean I do want to talk about
Speaker 1: the NFFW shild. Obviously tumber was out there, but about titties,
Speaker 1: people are super offended. Like I haven't warn a braw
Speaker 1: in a while. You know, I wear sports bras just
Speaker 1: because it hurts when they bound, but I don't really
Speaker 1: wear flower bras to work. But the female breasts that
Speaker 1: makes it so weird. Do you think that nipples should
Speaker 1: be up on Instagram? Do you feel like it is so?
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna lie with the new fashion right now,
Speaker 1: and Rihanna was I would say the trend setter in it.
Speaker 1: I'm not a fan personally of the nude mesh t
Speaker 1: shirts with just no brawl on. To me, it is
Speaker 1: a little to me um, like if you're just out
Speaker 1: or say I'm out at dinner and I see a
Speaker 1: girl and her whole last titties are out, Like to me, yeah,
Speaker 1: I'm not for it. In certain spaces, however, I would
Speaker 1: enjoy going to a nude you know, resort. I've gone
Speaker 1: to nude beaches, I go on. I feel like there's
Speaker 1: a time and a place for it. I also feel like,
Speaker 1: to me, breasts like feet, women's breast, women's bodies in general,
Speaker 1: like the reason why we're sexualized, Like that's such a
Speaker 1: like historical and like long fucking conversation, and like the
Speaker 1: reasons why. I go so deep that it's like yeah,
Speaker 1: I mean they do, you know, And it's like we're
Speaker 1: our bodies are a commodity like men. I mean there
Speaker 1: are men prostitutes, but not really like women. We can
Speaker 1: sell sex, we can all. We'll always have our pussies
Speaker 1: to sell, will always have our cities to sell, like
Speaker 1: you always have at this point if you really want
Speaker 1: to get into it. We'll always have our mouths, but
Speaker 1: will always have our feet to sell. Always. Yes, we'll
Speaker 1: always also have there's hand models where people fetish size hands,
Speaker 1: like I don't know, we can get into elbows and
Speaker 1: we had someone on here blood Zilla said he likes
Speaker 1: arm bits. Like all parts of the only states banned
Speaker 1: toplessness it's Utah, Indiana and Tennessee. And who then lives there,
Speaker 1: Like I was thinking about this actually on the way here,
Speaker 1: I mean live in Tennessee. You know places like Spain
Speaker 1: and France, and you know these these places are like
Speaker 1: just so like my years ahead of us in terms
Speaker 1: of dealing with sexuality. That was my first experience, like
Speaker 1: really letting go. Went to the beach in Barcelona and
Speaker 1: I it was a nude beach and I had my
Speaker 1: clothes on, and I felt stupid. I can't believe how
Speaker 1: like exhilarating it felt to just take my top off
Speaker 1: and feel good about it. I fell asleep and I
Speaker 1: was like, oh, probably people probably took pictures of me.
Speaker 1: But now it's really the u s. It's crazy because
Speaker 1: we are so ahead, but we're not like also we're
Speaker 1: not sexually about dealing with like young guys. I'd be like,
Speaker 1: if we go out the country, he could drink because
Speaker 1: it's like eighteen and sixteen for legal drinking ages anywhere else,
Speaker 1: it's fine. We'll just go to another country together, like
Speaker 1: that's fine. And it is our culture. I mean we
Speaker 1: it's just our culture here, you know. And it's different
Speaker 1: out there. The way they the way they that they
Speaker 1: teach sex, the way that they like deal with sex, nudity, everything,
Speaker 1: it's just completely different. I will say, if they do
Speaker 1: to Twitter what they just did to Tumbler, then I
Speaker 1: don't know where the funk else to go. But I'm
Speaker 1: not gonna lie. I'll be on the train some mornings
Speaker 1: going just on my timeline wanting to read the updates
Speaker 1: and a whole dick. And I don't worry because I'm
Speaker 1: like my kid too, So I'm like looking and then
Speaker 1: I'm like, oh my god, there's sixteen. How do you
Speaker 1: have she's not sixteen? She looks like a grown I
Speaker 1: love it. Actually she's a middle school I'm sorry. She
Speaker 1: looks past tween. Let me see, she looks the leven
Speaker 1: You definitely fourteen, a freshman in person. She looks your
Speaker 1: video she was so grown. Do you have the conversations
Speaker 1: with her or do you hide? Are you able to hide?
Speaker 1: Tumbler Twitter like now knowing that you could just see
Speaker 1: those things that I'm like, so I no, no. I
Speaker 1: told her, like, if you ever see like on the computer,
Speaker 1: have you ever seen on the internet, have you ever
Speaker 1: come across like pictures or videos of people having sex
Speaker 1: out of it? I told her, it's like it's not real,
Speaker 1: it's acting, you know, because I don't want her to
Speaker 1: think that that's like real, like sax, you know. I
Speaker 1: went to a porn panel with Eric Cindy Galla told
Speaker 1: me that that's what I should say. She's so she's
Speaker 1: this like she's a genius. She has a ted talk
Speaker 1: that you should watch, but it's called make Love Porn.
Speaker 1: But so some of her stuff look yeah, but it's
Speaker 1: not like she's not anti porn. She's not that. She's
Speaker 1: just like not she's about sex education and real sex
Speaker 1: and like also showing people how to actually like how
Speaker 1: real sex. Probably I went to a porn panel where
Speaker 1: this woman Erkalla has shot up to her. She basically
Speaker 1: was like, um, she's known as a feminist porn maker,
Speaker 1: where basically the main thing with doing that is making
Speaker 1: sure you see women come and you see the man's face, right,
Speaker 1: so you see real sex. And she said I always
Speaker 1: felt like in schools they should show to people and
Speaker 1: kind of how it happens, whether they don't, they make
Speaker 1: it a huge scene just showing how it happens instead
Speaker 1: of showing these pictures so people can understand that it
Speaker 1: can come from love and it's not just bang bang bang,
Speaker 1: because when they start to search it on their own,
Speaker 1: they find porn. And boys are very out of touch
Speaker 1: with how they have sex with women, and that's why
Speaker 1: girls are having these experiences because men think are supposed
Speaker 1: to funk like this. You know, I'm so open, like
Speaker 1: and I'm totally like comfortable like with sex and everything.
Speaker 1: But it's still there's something about talking about it with
Speaker 1: your kid that is is it weird? Yes, school, the
Speaker 1: school pretty much having the conversation and not you have.
Speaker 1: I don't know if I've had the conversation with her.
Speaker 1: I still do, but it's not like you have. When
Speaker 1: she was like six years old and she was like,
Speaker 1: how did the baby get in there? And I was like,
Speaker 1: do you really want to know? And she was like yeah.
Speaker 1: I was like, well yeah, I told her. And then
Speaker 1: she was like, I'm telling dad that you said that,
Speaker 1: and I was like, go ahead. But it's how it happened.
Speaker 1: So whatever. What was his response, like that you had
Speaker 1: that conversation. He was just like yo, she told like
Speaker 1: all her friends and like all the parents, are you
Speaker 1: call it her penis and her vagina? Yes? Okay, oh yeah,
Speaker 1: I know some of the parents, some of my friends called,
Speaker 1: have their kids calling there's a problem with that, like
Speaker 1: to sit here and call it like your coin purse
Speaker 1: or any other type of names like who who and ship.
Speaker 1: I'm like, what made me call it my private? And
Speaker 1: I was like what? And then my mommy so private.
Speaker 1: We would be in the car and my mom would
Speaker 1: touch my leg and make me slap her hand if
Speaker 1: like men did that to me, like she would like
Speaker 1: always teach me that. Wow, that's amazing. It was I
Speaker 1: was young, young, young. I think it's a nasty uncle.
Speaker 1: She wanted to make sure that I really believe that,
Speaker 1: because every time I'd be alone with him, they'd be like,
Speaker 1: where is she? Oh my god, I'm scared, where is she? Where?
Speaker 1: Where's a little wheezy? Like my daughter is very aware
Speaker 1: of men looking at me on the street, and she's
Speaker 1: very aware of all of that. And I told her
Speaker 1: soon they're going to be looking at you, you know,
Speaker 1: like it's going to happen soon. You're developing, you know, like,
Speaker 1: so that sucks. I worried I'm gonna like murder somebody.
Speaker 1: I really am. And her dad took her to the
Speaker 1: mall not long ago when he was walking like thirty
Speaker 1: behind her. She was with a friend, yeah, and he
Speaker 1: saw guys looking at them. Adult one adult man was
Speaker 1: looking at her friend, who's a or older. So she's
Speaker 1: like extra, you know, she's more developed than my daughter.
Speaker 1: But yeah, it's starting. It's like crazy. And the other
Speaker 1: day she found my vibrator that was really Yeah. Talked
Speaker 1: about was a single mom um, so I grew up
Speaker 1: in a single parent household. And one of the things
Speaker 1: that she talked to us a lot was how dating
Speaker 1: was hard because as we were getting older and mine
Speaker 1: there's there's three of us, so as we were getting older,
Speaker 1: she literally was like, I feel like I can't date
Speaker 1: certain men and bringing certain men into the house scare
Speaker 1: me because you guys, now, even if you're covered, now
Speaker 1: you have hips and thighs and ass and titties. And
Speaker 1: I don't want my boyfriends to look at you ladies.
Speaker 1: But y'all are women like y'all are y'all are crawing?
Speaker 1: I do want to go ahead and and I think
Speaker 1: our homel is quite hilarious today. So I want to
Speaker 1: go ahead and get your feedback on this, because I'm
Speaker 1: sure you have some in your bag too. Um. So
Speaker 1: it says, hey, my loves. Of course, I have to
Speaker 1: be like everyone else to say I love the podcast
Speaker 1: and love you ladies and everything you're about. Okay, So
Speaker 1: I'm twenty six. I've been married since June, but with
Speaker 1: my hobby since we were seniors in high school two
Speaker 1: thousand eleven. Jesus Christ, that's a long time. We have
Speaker 1: a great marriage, and due to me being bisexual, we
Speaker 1: have allowed other women to join us in the bedroom. Hey,
Speaker 1: recently I started joking about really wanting to funk my
Speaker 1: favorite singer who may or may not be out of
Speaker 1: my league, girl Jack Quiz. We're gonna go ahead and
Speaker 1: put his name out. You're gonna speaking into the universe.
Speaker 1: Did you hear about girl? The lm A remake the
Speaker 1: nigg who remains anything Black people will follow you and
Speaker 1: you do the same. You need to be tipping no, no, no,
Speaker 1: And he just still and as I sound, okay, anyways,
Speaker 1: seeing this guy. He is all of five foot six.
Speaker 1: This bro, that's my favorite song, jack Quis trip again anyway. Anyways,
Speaker 1: he's blue check mark. Oh, he looks like he's from
Speaker 1: like or something. He said. I figured he's famous, but
Speaker 1: not too full of himself yet. Oh he has a
Speaker 1: great smile. It doesn't make makeup for five six. Um,
Speaker 1: sorry for hight shaving, all right, let me fin it.
Speaker 1: Just says I figured he's famous but not too full
Speaker 1: of himself yet. I just want to suck him and
Speaker 1: go back to my life, not ask him to marry
Speaker 1: me or try to have his baby or anything. My
Speaker 1: husband said that would be the only nigga I could fuck,
Speaker 1: because he like a lesbian. He said. My husband is
Speaker 1: greedy and doesn't want to have an MMF threesome or
Speaker 1: group sex where another man could touch me. Basically, he
Speaker 1: figures it will never happen. So he said, yes, but
Speaker 1: ship now I'm determined. So here's my question. How do
Speaker 1: I make it known to jac Quis that I'm trying
Speaker 1: to be a one night stand without being put on
Speaker 1: blast or rejected. He's supposed to go on tour next year,
Speaker 1: and if he comes back to my City St. Louis.
Speaker 1: I'm tell of y'all. All I need is ten minutes
Speaker 1: with him. Did you have any questions? Let me know.
Speaker 1: Love Wheezy and Mandy and hope to see you guys
Speaker 1: and say Louis some day signed Hella thirsty for Jacquis
Speaker 1: bro Net girl planning in St. Louis And you actually no, ma'am.
Speaker 1: The Rams got moved to l A. There's no more
Speaker 1: football team. I don't believe. Yeah. I don't know why
Speaker 1: you thought you would know sports. I don't either. I
Speaker 1: was one. There was a high in high school and
Speaker 1: data that went to the RAM. So that's how do yeah, say,
Speaker 1: Louis Rams they moved there. Now the Chicago RAM or
Speaker 1: not chic to slide into his DM. Okay a nude photo,
Speaker 1: Yeah that's okay. Girls are had it there. Pause. I
Speaker 1: wasn't gonna say nude. I was. When she said a photo,
Speaker 1: I heard no, she said nude first, So send the
Speaker 1: pussy spread over you really just she's married, right, so
Speaker 1: you're getting what it's called a hall pass. You guys
Speaker 1: have that one person that each can fuck and it's allowed.
Speaker 1: I would jack queezes your one em and m would
Speaker 1: be mine whould be your if you were in a relationship,
Speaker 1: who would you want to haul pass for? Jason Momo?
Speaker 1: Oh yes, Jason Momo was fine man and Carl did
Speaker 1: I go, He's fine? Yeah, I think, And I just
Speaker 1: I don't know, I'm really interested in and I know
Speaker 1: he's here but he's married. But methyd Man, I just
Speaker 1: feel like he would like, Yeah, I do have like
Speaker 1: something about methyd Man. I feel like, oh my god,
Speaker 1: I feel like what meThe Manic looks like my god,
Speaker 1: his mouth, his teeth are so good, so good. I
Speaker 1: love me some Methemic old something you know, I don't
Speaker 1: even liked because I just feel like he could show
Speaker 1: me something I love. Old man. Yeah, I just thought
Speaker 1: the guy that's my age recently and I was like
Speaker 1: it was good. But you know, he's a fucking women
Speaker 1: old like old man, you're like elders. She won a wheelchair,
Speaker 1: not even almost dying, so she's saying new photo. The
Speaker 1: reason that I'm kind of like sending a risk a
Speaker 1: photo is a good idea is because she has a
Speaker 1: man and she just wants to fun. Whereas like, all right,
Speaker 1: how about sexy lingerie like Guarden. I think she's just
Speaker 1: like at least like a cute ash shot something in
Speaker 1: the mirror. I love that y'all are going this route.
Speaker 1: I'm gonna take it somewhere completely different when it's worked
Speaker 1: for friends of mine, specifically maybe regular girls who don't
Speaker 1: have a ton of followers. So since this is what
Speaker 1: you do, you find out who's in his camp. You
Speaker 1: somehow befriend the people in his camp, so then when
Speaker 1: he comes to the show, you get free tickets, you
Speaker 1: get backstage, and you're able to just see him in
Speaker 1: his seat. Niggas is asking Alex for pictures of my feet.
Speaker 1: That's why. No, you go to the people in the
Speaker 1: camp and you befriends someone in the camp because this way,
Speaker 1: when he does come to St. Louis, I'm sure there's
Speaker 1: gonna be a lot of girls, but this way you're
Speaker 1: able to get in his vicinity. So you're gonna get
Speaker 1: tickets to the show, possibly backstage, and the homies might
Speaker 1: be trying to funk with you, but you they ain't
Speaker 1: gotta know. You got out to hear your motive bit
Speaker 1: you're trying to go for the goal. With some stories
Speaker 1: like when you're singing in the car and ship especially music.
Speaker 1: Make sure your page is public mentioned him in stories.
Speaker 1: That's actually how I got one dude that I'm fucked
Speaker 1: from attack. I was like, oh, ship, wait, what tell me?
Speaker 1: I don't want to be too obviously already doing mad
Speaker 1: obvious ship yo. But it was months months months months ago,
Speaker 1: or just like a random guy, but you just kept
Speaker 1: like famous guy. It was months ago and I mentioned
Speaker 1: him in the story and he was like, laughing my
Speaker 1: ass off, you wild And then months later he did
Speaker 1: it again and I was like, yeah, it works. You
Speaker 1: just gotta make sure you're really cute. You know you
Speaker 1: do so, make sure you have your first couple pictures
Speaker 1: are really bomb when you do it right. I will
Speaker 1: say a lot of men aren't even turned off if
Speaker 1: you don't have a K behind your number anymore. They
Speaker 1: like the little low key bitches. So my god, I
Speaker 1: made a choke about a dude saying like, oh, like
Speaker 1: whatever you hit me with the lines you a blue
Speaker 1: check as he's like, I say the same thing with
Speaker 1: bitches with a K a k oh. They love when
Speaker 1: I said, like, so, I have a wide variety of friends,
Speaker 1: and the ones with the low count niggas be really
Speaker 1: interested in like oh, don't nobody know her? So like
Speaker 1: so like, even if you don't have a lot of followers,
Speaker 1: don't beat the turt like, but you could still get it.
Speaker 1: I like men that just don't have Instagram or why
Speaker 1: don't you like when he is coming to your city,
Speaker 1: right be like, yo, I see you're coming to St. Louis.
Speaker 1: I bought a ticket just to let you know. I
Speaker 1: have a whole husband. I've been telling him about how
Speaker 1: bad I want to fuck you, like or you could
Speaker 1: do the other rout. Sometimes it works. It's a little cheesy.
Speaker 1: But the girl from Howard who just hit up Michael B.
Speaker 1: Jordan's and was like, I want to get you a
Speaker 1: smoothie and he responded and they had like a SMOOTHI
Speaker 1: dayzing bro wasn't the shocker. You know, since I've tked
Speaker 1: about Michael be joining on this podcast, I have seen
Speaker 1: him three fucking times. I guess you didn't look like
Speaker 1: did you have those? It's okay, it's his club bit
Speaker 1: he's a part owner in it. Okay, Well, I don't
Speaker 1: like y'all last lab go check him out. But it's fine.
Speaker 1: If you go, he'll probably wave at you. But her
Speaker 1: were these braids because you don't like you don't like
Speaker 1: black girls. Really, it's always one word here. She goes like,
Speaker 1: i'ven showing your podcast. You can look a little cultured
Speaker 1: and some picture right wait, I got arching in my eyebrows.
Speaker 1: Be she bought a reka. So seriously, look, you don't
Speaker 1: want to look Latina. Don't feel No, I'm not, I'm
Speaker 1: I'm it's a consult. Yeah, seriously, you could be a
Speaker 1: little mixed. I ain't gonna li so real quick, paulse
Speaker 1: I had I had a diversity and inclusive way. I
Speaker 1: had a diversity and inclusive event. So it's all the
Speaker 1: black and Latina first year highers of my company and
Speaker 1: we just had it. And I'm not gonna lie. Me
Speaker 1: and the other black people were looking at some of
Speaker 1: the latinos like so they just let white people come
Speaker 1: in here. But I guess I'm all the mother tags
Speaker 1: like you better say Alvarez, bitch. I better not seeing
Speaker 1: a white person name and a lot of people of
Speaker 1: color spaces. And let me say this, one white girl
Speaker 1: wrote me, and I was so. I did this event
Speaker 1: called Sage and Sex with a miliorities, so I put
Speaker 1: black and brown girls and men ladies and men on
Speaker 1: bran are people finally have an event for us. This
Speaker 1: white girl wrote me and was like, hey, I want
Speaker 1: to buy a ticket, but I also don't want to violate,
Speaker 1: like if this is a safe space for just them
Speaker 1: and I won't come. And I was like, wow, of course,
Speaker 1: nice of her. I'm not gonna lie. I'm I'm a
Speaker 1: part of the National Association of Black Accountants, and blacks
Speaker 1: were very welcoming. I'll be mad as fun when Asians
Speaker 1: and white spearing on mother fucking events like y'all better
Speaker 1: go to the people. I've come, but they're not black.
Speaker 1: It's National Association of Black Accountants. Bit they got the organizations,
Speaker 1: but by coming and taking it, like I'll admit that,
Speaker 1: I've definitely been like damn no, Like I've definitely caught
Speaker 1: some like feelings like what I'm white, I get left
Speaker 1: out now, Like I felt like that I'm not gonna
Speaker 1: lie like I'm lying, yeah, yes, yes, I mean I
Speaker 1: have experienced that, like the white tears. It's real. How
Speaker 1: does it make you feel? You know? I'm just like,
Speaker 1: can I tell you before we part? I will say
Speaker 1: this was great, this was great? All right, we got
Speaker 1: for a minute. I'm make this really quick. I am, well,
Speaker 1: I'm glad she didn't say you're leaving me out. But
Speaker 1: also I'm like, it wasn't black and brown exclusive. It
Speaker 1: was just that space for them to talk about, you know,
Speaker 1: sex and motions. And so I had an event. Um
Speaker 1: it was also talk New York and a friend of
Speaker 1: mine who's white, she's a woman. Then she wrote me
Speaker 1: and she said, oh, I have an idea for your show.
Speaker 1: Text me. I'm like, girl, you hang up with me
Speaker 1: all the time, Like you know about my show. You
Speaker 1: know it's in two hours. Why aren't you here? You
Speaker 1: funk with me? Right, I've had three shows in New
Speaker 1: York and you've never made an effort to come to
Speaker 1: any of them. Are we friends or not? She wrote me.
Speaker 1: She wrote me back and she said this, did I
Speaker 1: have to lead her number? How good a friends were
Speaker 1: you with her? Good enough to where we hang out
Speaker 1: about two or three times a month ago out. You're
Speaker 1: not that inviting to white people. I know you, So
Speaker 1: I don't take that offense. You're not mean to stay
Speaker 1: in office. But it's a little jaden and it comes
Speaker 1: off with some of your followers. They can be mean.
Speaker 1: It's noticed that, but I mean, I'm not your demographic.
Speaker 1: I said, I don't mean the fuck you know, I
Speaker 1: funk white man, and they come bitch or my friends. Yeah,
Speaker 1: that's if you're of someone's friends. And she said, you
Speaker 1: make jokes like my friends Sarah Palin, And that's fine,
Speaker 1: But say we're at your show and you say that
Speaker 1: to me, and people are crazy, and it puts me
Speaker 1: in a poor position. I don't know, maybe I'm overthinking it.
Speaker 1: First of all, she was scared to go with her.
Speaker 1: Don't get me wrong, I love you, know what I'm saying,
Speaker 1: But like, after a few hours, I'm ready to go, right.
Speaker 1: I go to these bars with you, with these midtown
Speaker 1: uniform dudes, and even though I dave white men like
Speaker 1: I'm talking about far down the European, they got to
Speaker 1: be like not do so that we go. I just
Speaker 1: like these places for the drinks in the vibe. I
Speaker 1: go to places that make me uncomfortable all of the
Speaker 1: time with her. That is never my space. So you
Speaker 1: can't for one second come to my black ass show,
Speaker 1: which you know is my demo. My people, you know
Speaker 1: what I'm saying, And I only have this space for
Speaker 1: them because everything else is for you. And it blew
Speaker 1: my mind that she wrote me that, and I haven't
Speaker 1: spoken her like I've been curving her. I've really he
Speaker 1: had a hard time. Yeah, no, no, no, I'm I'm
Speaker 1: talking out like you have. But but to me, that
Speaker 1: also shows that she's not really accepting of you who
Speaker 1: you are. Why you're so prideful to be black? Why
Speaker 1: you why you vouch for why? Why? Why? Why you
Speaker 1: cater to the audience you do? Why you say this
Speaker 1: ship you do? Like do? We don't have a lot
Speaker 1: of things. This Dub has a friend who voter for Trump,
Speaker 1: but she cut off and now she's friends with her again.
Speaker 1: And I talked to Dub about it. I'm like, what
Speaker 1: would you do? And she's like, I'm not gonna lie.
Speaker 1: She lives doub List in Denver's one of my black friends. Right,
Speaker 1: how did that one go in there next weekend? Uh?
Speaker 1: She's like, bro, Like I had to talk to her.
Speaker 1: I had to tell my friend why I'm upset. Not
Speaker 1: every friend is going to be there with me, And
Speaker 1: I feel like I can't because I have so many
Speaker 1: white friends that get it. Why do I have to
Speaker 1: teach you? But at the same time, it did bother
Speaker 1: me so she meant enough to where it bothered me.
Speaker 1: It's just crazy to me that someone would think like
Speaker 1: I don't see like horrible decisions like alive. She's like,
Speaker 1: I don't see that as just for black people. Say
Speaker 1: anybody we have such think we also have I do
Speaker 1: also want to say we've done We've done three live shows.
Speaker 1: Now we're about to go on a tour. Not one
Speaker 1: live show, mind you. One of them we had an
Speaker 1: open bar. The other we did have a bar available,
Speaker 1: not one live show. Have we even had security? Also?
Speaker 1: Why really great, respectable, well worked like higher to upper
Speaker 1: middle class, like all with corporate jobs, very well respected
Speaker 1: black listeners black Latino. Let me let me add everyone
Speaker 1: in there and we actually do as she feel. But
Speaker 1: did she feel like she wasn't wanted there or did
Speaker 1: she feel like unsafe because she thinks black people hate
Speaker 1: her like I think she's saying those are too differ
Speaker 1: Sarah Palin friend, I realized that, to be fair, why
Speaker 1: did you call her that? Like Sarah, She's like in
Speaker 1: a quest and like I'm going to Saratoga for the
Speaker 1: weekend to ride my horse, and she could Could I
Speaker 1: ask you a question? Would you have a would you
Speaker 1: be offended if she called you her black friend, because essentially,
Speaker 1: if you take it to that, look, I know you're
Speaker 1: saying it, don't say my white friend, but Sarah Palin. Yeah,
Speaker 1: but even even still, like if she called you, say,
Speaker 1: a black celebrity because you're black. To be fair, Sarah
Speaker 1: Palin loves the guns and like all that ship like
Speaker 1: that's why I call her sarap. But to her, to her,
Speaker 1: she could be looking at it that way. She told
Speaker 1: you that she didn't like that. She could have been like, yo,
Speaker 1: stop calling me that. He said, you called me her
Speaker 1: you're Sarah pa never heard it before. She may not
Speaker 1: like that, so saying she should have said that, she
Speaker 1: never did so that honestly meant it from the gun thing,
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. If she would have called me,
Speaker 1: I'm trying to think of a beautiful black Beyonce Sara Palin. Ever,
Speaker 1: I don't know. I mean, okay, who's a ratchet like
Speaker 1: she called you? If she goes and introduces you to
Speaker 1: her friends as an Jemima bro, oh my god, you
Speaker 1: have to talk out on text message about this because
Speaker 1: he's like, and that's the thing. It's like, is it
Speaker 1: worth it enough to talk about because now that you're
Speaker 1: saying it, I didn't realize that could have been hurtful.
Speaker 1: Angel Marma, I could be your new white friends and
Speaker 1: you couldn't like you could guys. My friend Rosa parks like, oh,
Speaker 1: that's what I'm saying. She called me Angela. See does
Speaker 1: some say Sarah Palin is not a compliment? Si? Yeah,
Speaker 1: you're not like, hey, I'm with my Like it's not
Speaker 1: Mi Gwen Stefani over here. I'd be like, yeah, I
Speaker 1: don't know how the backgirl, I love being outdoors with
Speaker 1: guns and I would make I would bumble rope out.
Speaker 1: She's like got she got no. I mean, first of all,
Speaker 1: people can call me anything, and I'm not like I
Speaker 1: think a lot of sensitive people. And if she's bringing
Speaker 1: up the race issue with you, look some type of
Speaker 1: way of how you view her as a white woman,
Speaker 1: being that we always talk about our three white listeners. Also,
Speaker 1: I really do friend but my white friends does because
Speaker 1: I'm nobody. I mean, I guess sometimes someone being so
Speaker 1: pro black and be intimidating because you're like that, does
Speaker 1: does that mean that they're anti white? So it takes
Speaker 1: a minute. It's like some people are anti corn, you know,
Speaker 1: and then we're having these conversations about gun violence, about
Speaker 1: you know, the things that are happening within our black community,
Speaker 1: the appropriation and these white girls now trying to be black.
Speaker 1: Like there's a lot of yeah, the black fish, and
Speaker 1: so there's just a lot of conversation black fish. I
Speaker 1: just saw this. What the hell see when you be
Speaker 1: having him eyebrows done? No, I'm just a podcast, okay, um,
Speaker 1: improper etiquette. We're on iTunes and everything else. She says
Speaker 1: some problematic ships. So if y'all like problematic view, you
Speaker 1: don't want the female Andrew, Yeah, listen to hip. It's true. Listen,
Speaker 1: that's that's a compliment to me. I don't. Yeah, I
Speaker 1: love him. I think he's great, and you don't want
Speaker 1: to take him every fucking conversation and push it over
Speaker 1: the edge that I'm not lied though. This was really refreshing.
Speaker 1: I think I'm very in the middle about everything I'm
Speaker 1: trying to I'm nervous as fun because I've been talking
Speaker 1: about sympathizing and empathizing with and you are here calling
Speaker 1: people Sarah Palin this ship. Why are you worried about that? Well,
Speaker 1: because I mean, for the first time. Everyone I said,
Speaker 1: there's growth. How I've been learning to accept people for
Speaker 1: who they are. I think at one point for a while,
Speaker 1: probably the last year, I was like, funk everybody that
Speaker 1: vote for Trump? Yeah, well, I mean a lot of
Speaker 1: people feel that way. Yeah, But now I'm realizing, like
Speaker 1: once my black friend did it, I was punk. So
Speaker 1: were And where can our listeners follow you? Um? You
Speaker 1: can follow me on Instagram at Liam mob and on
Speaker 1: Twitter at Liam McSweeney. Hey, well, I of course you're amazing.
Speaker 1: Everyone follow her. I also want to see here and
Speaker 1: say shout out to everyone in the d m V area.
Speaker 1: DC sold out first week, no problem. Um, we will
Speaker 1: be releasing some extra tickets. We don't know when. I
Speaker 1: don't even know when this episode, Like, there's gonna be
Speaker 1: like ten tickets, and manly decided because I know some
Speaker 1: people didn't get to hear you, so we're going to
Speaker 1: release them on a certain day and time. We haven't
Speaker 1: been it out yet. Keep following our social media's um,
Speaker 1: so go ahead and follow at horrible underscored decision promoters.
Speaker 1: Because the show is gonna sell out. It it's only
Speaker 1: like ten tickets left, so talk to them we'll try
Speaker 1: to meet you all in New York. The next one
Speaker 1: in New York. I'm coming Yeah, And we also have
Speaker 1: a show guys, if you haven't yet, we're already halfway
Speaker 1: sold out, so go ahead and get your tickets for
Speaker 1: Chicago on March and be tuned in. We will be
Speaker 1: dropping dates for Toronto, al Ai, New York, and possibly Orlando,
Speaker 1: so we are looking to come to Florida. Um this
Speaker 1: has been yet though, another episode of horrible decisions by