WEBVTT - Ep92: No More Tits on Tumblr feat Leah Mcsweeney

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<v Speaker 1>Hey, guys, welcome to get another episode of Horrible Decisions.

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<v Speaker 1>This your girl, Mandy b a k A Peggy Bundy

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<v Speaker 1>bitch a k A the booty be a k A

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<v Speaker 1>man does Little mintle a k A that bitch? And

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<v Speaker 1>I am sitting across from I am wheezy. I don't

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<v Speaker 1>have any a k oh a k Forty eight months

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<v Speaker 1>is two years? There you go? Because I was getting on,

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<v Speaker 1>how do man for ship? I don't know how I

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<v Speaker 1>let that happen? I think because I was like thinking,

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<v Speaker 1>forty eight hours, forty eight that's that's what it is.

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<v Speaker 1>That okay, wait, that's what it was. I was just

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<v Speaker 1>thinking that when you said it, I was like, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>it's two years. I really that. Actually, now that you're

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<v Speaker 1>actually coming from you saying that, I could say, that's

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<v Speaker 1>what we're just talking, we're having and yeah, I can

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<v Speaker 1>see how you can make that mistaken. I think I

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<v Speaker 1>ain't even gonna hold you. Forty eight hours is two days.

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<v Speaker 1>That's two years, Okay, Okay, I bet you. Okay, So

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<v Speaker 1>hor have y'all, gotta y'all gotta can you tell you

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<v Speaker 1>what it's like? It's one of these ready all right,

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<v Speaker 1>spell stop as t op spell Top TLP. What do

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<v Speaker 1>you do with a red light stop? What do you

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<v Speaker 1>do with a green light stop? Oh? Ship, Yeah, I

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<v Speaker 1>wasna make sure you're as you guys can tell. We

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<v Speaker 1>have a third voice Ambi Mike, and we've been actually

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<v Speaker 1>trying to get your ass on, but she's like, can

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<v Speaker 1>you guys record at eleven am during the week. It

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<v Speaker 1>was like, pitch, honestly, yes, you have time to really

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<v Speaker 1>grow on me. Like now I like you. But at

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<v Speaker 1>first I was like, are we gonna be honest? Be honest,

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<v Speaker 1>I will be honest, bring it to bring you on

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<v Speaker 1>a while ago, and we were riding back and forth

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<v Speaker 1>and I was like, you know, she has her pod

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<v Speaker 1>and we was last when we first started talking and

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<v Speaker 1>was trying to hate Oh. She was like, she was like,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not even gonna lie. Maybe if you can bring

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<v Speaker 1>the second girl on, She's like she's has some very

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<v Speaker 1>um that action. She said, um, but wait, you know

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<v Speaker 1>what she's like, And then she tried to be like

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<v Speaker 1>have you heard her on Brilliant Idiots? Have you listened

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<v Speaker 1>to her show? It's like me time And then like

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<v Speaker 1>she used to even said, like some of your like

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<v Speaker 1>it's the stories like you you agree with you want

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<v Speaker 1>to bring her on our show, and I'm not gonna lie.

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<v Speaker 1>We have sometimes you gotta have people on that you

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<v Speaker 1>don't fully agree with. You know, you have grown to learn. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>my most convert like, my most intriguing conversations come from

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<v Speaker 1>people that I don't have the same opinion with um.

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<v Speaker 1>But it took me time. Actually, I think it was

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<v Speaker 1>Alex who changed my mind a little bit. He was like, yo,

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<v Speaker 1>I filmed an episode of their show They're dope, blah

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<v Speaker 1>blah blah. And I was like, and then I loosened

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<v Speaker 1>and I was like, Okay, yeah, so you really really

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<v Speaker 1>frant episode. You probably should have been all like like

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<v Speaker 1>eight month. It took eight months for her to really

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<v Speaker 1>like warm up to you because you And I was like,

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<v Speaker 1>why are white women so mad? Were you? Like? Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>I like you from some all sides, you know. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>it's the same thing when you listen to Brilliant, it's

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<v Speaker 1>hard to like. And I get it because the reason

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<v Speaker 1>I fell in love a Brilliant Idiots years ago was

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<v Speaker 1>because they were so different. There were certain things Andre

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<v Speaker 1>would say that would really piss me the funk off.

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<v Speaker 1>But then once you get to learn and know someone

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<v Speaker 1>and like listen through and through you just realize they're

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<v Speaker 1>trying to spark the convo. And I see that's what

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<v Speaker 1>you're doing now. And also it's like so especially like

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<v Speaker 1>right now in like the climate that like we live in,

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<v Speaker 1>like if we could all just like allow people to

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<v Speaker 1>like have their own And I'm not saying allow their

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<v Speaker 1>own opinions where it's like we want to kill all

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<v Speaker 1>the Jews or anything like that, saying like people like

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<v Speaker 1>are going to have different opinions on things because we

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<v Speaker 1>all have different life experiences and just because someone might

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<v Speaker 1>think a little differently doesn't mean that they're x y

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<v Speaker 1>Z and you should cancel them and never talk to

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<v Speaker 1>them again and forget them, you know what I mean.

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<v Speaker 1>Like even Kanye, like, so don't even say that because

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<v Speaker 1>with with our platform, like me and we are open

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<v Speaker 1>to a lot of things, um, and so even bringing

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<v Speaker 1>people on here that may think differently and I'm not

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<v Speaker 1>even gonna lie me. And we thought we were open

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<v Speaker 1>until we've had some guests and we both looked at

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<v Speaker 1>them like like we ain't doing this ship. So like

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<v Speaker 1>even to finally be able to come across people and

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<v Speaker 1>just genuinely ask them questions, you like, growth, bitch, all

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<v Speaker 1>growing here? You know what? It took my wokest friends, seriously,

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<v Speaker 1>my most socially conscious for the people friends to tell

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<v Speaker 1>me like, yes, you can be with friends with someone

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<v Speaker 1>that voted for Trump. And I've like was really struggling.

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<v Speaker 1>I was on Instagram live like trying to like have

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<v Speaker 1>a breaking friends with this one. No no, no no Dada

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<v Speaker 1>is like breaking up a friendship over it, you know.

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<v Speaker 1>And someone that I've known for a while that told

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<v Speaker 1>it to me and I don't even want to say

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<v Speaker 1>their name. I was really hurt. Asked about three friends

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<v Speaker 1>that I know are like in the streets for black people,

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<v Speaker 1>women fighting for our rights every day that we're like,

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<v Speaker 1>it is what it is. You have to get over it.

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<v Speaker 1>You're gonna have to grow up at some point. You

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<v Speaker 1>just have to. So why are you still like uncancelled Kanye?

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<v Speaker 1>Because I think Kanye is detrimental towards black people with

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<v Speaker 1>the ship that he says, and you don't think and

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<v Speaker 1>I think he'll be voting for Trump is technically detrimental

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<v Speaker 1>to black people. I think that someone voting for Trump

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<v Speaker 1>for a financial gain and that didn't realize what they

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<v Speaker 1>were doing, like as long as you voted for Strup

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<v Speaker 1>and you can realize that you made a mistake. You know,

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<v Speaker 1>people thinking, wait, hold because are you a Trump supporter? No,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm like not, like, but I'm gonna tell you I

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<v Speaker 1>didn't vote. I didn't vote. Remember you saying yeah, I

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<v Speaker 1>didn't vote. Then I said yeah, no, because guess we

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<v Speaker 1>get the freedom to not vote, like that's the thing.

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<v Speaker 1>And I've never not voted. I was like, at one point,

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<v Speaker 1>women couldn't vote. This is my women for this, And

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<v Speaker 1>then this last election, I was like, hell to the fun, No,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not voting for voting for him. Voting for E's

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<v Speaker 1>a Green Party thing? Right, like if it gus, yes,

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<v Speaker 1>I could have voted, like right exactly, but it was

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<v Speaker 1>just also my mind like I just wasn't. But no,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, I'll be honest. I need the people in

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<v Speaker 1>my life that And it's only two that I know

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<v Speaker 1>that voted for Trump to acknowledge and tell me that

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<v Speaker 1>they realized that they had done something wrong that they

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<v Speaker 1>weren't all the way like, look at it, bro, what

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<v Speaker 1>if kids are in cages, but hold on, kids have

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<v Speaker 1>been in cages. Fine, Okay, they've been in cages, but

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<v Speaker 1>they've been tear gassed. You know, we've been bombing people.

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<v Speaker 1>George Bush was not a good president. His father wasn't

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<v Speaker 1>a good president. They that wants conversion therapy for me

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<v Speaker 1>and Mandy with eight pussy before Wait, wait what for

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<v Speaker 1>caes He wants conversion So because me and you are

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<v Speaker 1>Mike parents, he wants you guys to go to conversion therapy.

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<v Speaker 1>He about it. He has like horrible decisions. I got you.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm sending you sucking bitches. You gotta stop being home

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<v Speaker 1>stopping pussy. Me and my wife are gonna get the

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<v Speaker 1>Holy ghost going through you and you. But I'm a cheerleader.

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<v Speaker 1>Wait what the movie with God the girl from American

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<v Speaker 1>Pie with a curly hair name starts with Natasha something,

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<v Speaker 1>but I'm a cheerleader. Her parents were saying that she

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<v Speaker 1>thought she was a lesbian. She's like, but I'm a cheerleader.

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<v Speaker 1>And they sent up to a gay conversion therapy and

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<v Speaker 1>all the guys they were like, no, I totally love women.

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<v Speaker 1>Now it changed me. That's amazing somebody to remember that movie.

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<v Speaker 1>But look, my look, you know I have family that's

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<v Speaker 1>that are Trump supporters, that are not racists. I think,

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<v Speaker 1>I think, I think it's it's cool that you can't

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<v Speaker 1>align the two together. It doesn't mean are they There's

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<v Speaker 1>also this really like there's a lack of understanding for

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<v Speaker 1>like the white working class, Like white working class and

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<v Speaker 1>black working class people have so much in common with

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<v Speaker 1>each other and they don't even know it. But I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know it. Have more um foodstamp and section eate

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<v Speaker 1>the black people. And of course they attached they attached it.

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<v Speaker 1>And it's not just white people, are they? Yeah? But no.

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<v Speaker 1>I think another thing that I had to realize is

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<v Speaker 1>and that friends had to put in my head. These

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<v Speaker 1>are black friends. They were like, Look, prejudice and racism

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<v Speaker 1>are two different things, right, So like when we see

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<v Speaker 1>certain things happen with women in the street called the

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<v Speaker 1>police and black men or just people doing shings like that,

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<v Speaker 1>that's a prejudice in their mind right, where racism is

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<v Speaker 1>more of a hatred, where we still have to destigmatize both.

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<v Speaker 1>But we keep aligning Trump with racism. And the main

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<v Speaker 1>thing that I have to be willing to accept is

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<v Speaker 1>that I can't vote for Trump because I do feel

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<v Speaker 1>like what he's doing is hurtful towards people that look

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<v Speaker 1>like me and that army, right, but not everybody is

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<v Speaker 1>going to put that first. The hardest thing that I

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<v Speaker 1>have to learn to get that. The hardest thing that

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<v Speaker 1>I think I had to realize was like and that

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<v Speaker 1>I even had to openly admit, was bitch. I'm still

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<v Speaker 1>a fan of American. Friend is bitch the American American? Well,

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<v Speaker 1>well it was in America because they have other apprentices

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<v Speaker 1>in other countries. So there's that and celebrity apprentice. Everything

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<v Speaker 1>that Trump was when he was on TV. I didn't

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<v Speaker 1>even gonna hold you. I like Trump on TV. A

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<v Speaker 1>lot of people didn't why he's on right in and

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<v Speaker 1>watch You're fired. That's why he's present, I mean. But

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<v Speaker 1>also hip hop community like loved because he represented like

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<v Speaker 1>so much him with Puff Daddy and everyone. I don't

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<v Speaker 1>think that he's like I don't think he's like straight up,

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<v Speaker 1>he's not. But here's what makes it bad, right, he

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<v Speaker 1>is inciting people too. He's exactly he's race baiting and

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<v Speaker 1>was a liberal in my opinion person before that phrase

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<v Speaker 1>more misogynists than yes. I think he is. Even just

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<v Speaker 1>the things that he the things he aligned himself with

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<v Speaker 1>shows he's a quote unquote more liberal person that he's

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<v Speaker 1>trying to act like today. But what kills me is

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<v Speaker 1>like you get someone like Mike Vinson's total opposite that

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<v Speaker 1>really can rile ship up for the people that you

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<v Speaker 1>know be kind of sketch about you, and now you've

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<v Speaker 1>pretty much enraged them to fucking act like these white nationalists.

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<v Speaker 1>Like I watched this documentary on Netflix where they were like,

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<v Speaker 1>he follows our rule book, like all of the principles

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<v Speaker 1>we have and stuff like that, making the country whole

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<v Speaker 1>again and getting back to its roots and ship like that.

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<v Speaker 1>Like it's just crazy. And I think the more and

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<v Speaker 1>more I educate myself about it, I get more angry

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<v Speaker 1>at the person that voted for Trump, knowing they might

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<v Speaker 1>not have the information that I do or And this

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<v Speaker 1>is the other thing, because when when we just had

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<v Speaker 1>like the mid terms and really quick, I just want

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<v Speaker 1>to remind everyone you are listening to horrible decisions. If

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<v Speaker 1>you guys didn't know what show you all were listening,

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<v Speaker 1>should we switch it to Cana I really like the

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<v Speaker 1>fucking and I'm like, yeah, none of my friends voted

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<v Speaker 1>for Trump, so can we go ahead and get off

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<v Speaker 1>this off throw listen? I'm sorry none of my friends.

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<v Speaker 1>Trump was black. That's fine, but none of my friends

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<v Speaker 1>voted for you know how hard that was. They told

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<v Speaker 1>me we were, and I was. I was shaking up set.

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, bit, you've been looking at me. We've

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<v Speaker 1>been out here, I've been talking about these people. They're scared. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>it was awful. Alright, eyes break up for you because

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<v Speaker 1>we got to get you open to talk some hole.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm still thinking how happy I am that I've grown

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<v Speaker 1>on her. It's so much better. No, it's like a

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<v Speaker 1>corn because it's like it's so much better, like when

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<v Speaker 1>someone doesn't like you and then oh it's even better.

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<v Speaker 1>It's because if someone automatically loves you, it's like there's

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<v Speaker 1>no talent, you know. But those are my favorite dams

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<v Speaker 1>from people and they're like I used toy you. I'm like,

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<v Speaker 1>thank you. So know. So Leah, I text Lea today

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<v Speaker 1>because I was like, damn, what should we talk about? Right?

0:11:50.160 --> 0:11:51.600
<v Speaker 1>We thought Laura would be able to join us. We

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<v Speaker 1>really wanted to do a horrible decision. It's in proper etiquette.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my god. Yeah right. So I'm like, well, real quick,

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<v Speaker 1>before we get into this, can you let the listen

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<v Speaker 1>because we kind of introduce you, but not really. We

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<v Speaker 1>just did the white bitch that like real quick. Lea

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<v Speaker 1>was late and here goes we weally don't text. She

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<v Speaker 1>talked into her phone, so what in the caucassity? And

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<v Speaker 1>then that you're late. Man, you are not allowed to

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<v Speaker 1>be one time woman. You're like, I was like a

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<v Speaker 1>whole woman. I hear you that you're a whole Caucasian

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<v Speaker 1>ass moment. Then let our listeners know what you do

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<v Speaker 1>and you know why the fun you're here? Um, my

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<v Speaker 1>name is Leah nick Sweeney. I'm a whole Caucasian woman.

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<v Speaker 1>Have we Yeah? I like that. I like to make

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<v Speaker 1>sure that you know that I'm calling the manager right

0:12:45.280 --> 0:12:49.960
<v Speaker 1>now right, I'm getting where is where is your manager? Um?

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<v Speaker 1>And I have a podcast called improper Etiquette. I have

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<v Speaker 1>a brand called Married to the mom etiquette about ahead

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<v Speaker 1>a weird section of We don't even like that. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't think we even pay like, I don't know who

0:13:02.800 --> 0:13:04.600
<v Speaker 1>put it there. We just like do it. We didn't

0:13:04.600 --> 0:13:06.280
<v Speaker 1>get to pick comedy. No, but where was it when

0:13:07.520 --> 0:13:10.079
<v Speaker 1>it's in music comedy? I think it's in music because

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<v Speaker 1>of Laura, I would assume. I don't know if I

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<v Speaker 1>got like shoved there or something or does it matter

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<v Speaker 1>where it is? I don't even realind it does, like

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<v Speaker 1>if people want to look because if y'all play music

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<v Speaker 1>or talk about music, no, yeah, you got to change music. Second,

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<v Speaker 1>all right, I'm gonna tell her. So what is it about?

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<v Speaker 1>Let's see, um, current events, okay, sex, relationships, parenting, which

0:13:33.840 --> 0:13:36.480
<v Speaker 1>I'll chime in a lot about. We have guests, um

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<v Speaker 1>pretty much every episode. I know y'all tried to book

0:13:39.240 --> 0:13:42.280
<v Speaker 1>me but that eleven am. But we're going to change

0:13:42.280 --> 0:13:44.559
<v Speaker 1>it so you'll be back on white women. Just think

0:13:44.559 --> 0:13:47.200
<v Speaker 1>we could be available to twinty four hours. I don't care.

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<v Speaker 1>Just believe your office. They come here like, I'm like, no, sorry,

0:13:53.360 --> 0:13:55.560
<v Speaker 1>I can't make it. Actually, you have one of my

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<v Speaker 1>favorite cover arts for a podcast. What is it like?

0:13:59.559 --> 0:14:01.520
<v Speaker 1>Its gonna that? I know? I was like, I have

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<v Speaker 1>to that was in my mind for so long. I'm like,

0:14:03.760 --> 0:14:06.079
<v Speaker 1>we need a male blow up doll, and we need

0:14:06.120 --> 0:14:08.440
<v Speaker 1>to be molesting this blow up doll. Laura. She was

0:14:08.480 --> 0:14:10.800
<v Speaker 1>like all right, Leah, like she's you know, not as

0:14:10.880 --> 0:14:14.200
<v Speaker 1>extreme the mob. I feel like I've heard that name

0:14:14.360 --> 0:14:16.400
<v Speaker 1>years ago. I've had the brand for a really long

0:14:16.480 --> 0:14:18.600
<v Speaker 1>What is it it's this female street where brand I've

0:14:18.600 --> 0:14:21.840
<v Speaker 1>had it for thought she was like mob wives or something,

0:14:21.960 --> 0:14:23.320
<v Speaker 1>and say it again. I thought she was on like

0:14:23.360 --> 0:14:27.680
<v Speaker 1>mob Wives, looked a lot of people like it, and

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<v Speaker 1>then I read like, you've done a lot of featured articles,

0:14:30.040 --> 0:14:33.120
<v Speaker 1>like a lot of people. I've written on you. When

0:14:33.120 --> 0:14:36.080
<v Speaker 1>I write, I write for Penthouse. Okay, yeah, okay, right

0:14:36.240 --> 0:14:40.160
<v Speaker 1>now we're gonna talk about you. Basically, forget all that

0:14:40.520 --> 0:14:44.440
<v Speaker 1>she has any importance of worrying. Hey, I know. The

0:14:44.520 --> 0:14:47.000
<v Speaker 1>reason I wanted her to talk about certain topics today

0:14:47.320 --> 0:14:49.080
<v Speaker 1>is because when you came on Flagrant, you seem to

0:14:49.120 --> 0:14:50.960
<v Speaker 1>be going through current events. So it's like, hey, what

0:14:51.040 --> 0:14:53.480
<v Speaker 1>do you what should we talk about with you? She's like, well,

0:14:53.520 --> 0:14:58.880
<v Speaker 1>I recently started getting anals, so there's this. Okay, well

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<v Speaker 1>I know, But the thing is is I used to

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<v Speaker 1>be like, not about anything near my asshole. I don't

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<v Speaker 1>want to playing with it, not fingers and a half. Right,

0:15:08.680 --> 0:15:10.480
<v Speaker 1>And I'm a thirty six year old moment, can you

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<v Speaker 1>believe this? So don't look so ashamed at eighteen, I did.

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<v Speaker 1>I started. That's when I even I was looking in Atlanta.

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<v Speaker 1>What do you think? Of course, they all wanted to

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<v Speaker 1>get in my ass. So, yeah, let's talk about the

0:15:23.360 --> 0:15:27.760
<v Speaker 1>new boy six thirty six and you just started. Does

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<v Speaker 1>it have anything to do with his size? I want

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<v Speaker 1>to ask that, No, he's got a good size, like

0:15:32.600 --> 0:15:35.520
<v Speaker 1>average size dick. What's average? A lot of guys one

0:15:35.600 --> 0:15:40.600
<v Speaker 1>of the American average five inches is definitely not five.

0:15:40.760 --> 0:15:45.200
<v Speaker 1>It's like seven or like, I don't know, and it's

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<v Speaker 1>definitely like thick too. I like, but I'm like a

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<v Speaker 1>size queen. I can't say no small dicks. Like I

0:15:51.160 --> 0:15:52.680
<v Speaker 1>once went out with the guy with a small dick.

0:15:52.840 --> 0:15:55.080
<v Speaker 1>My sister knew, and she was like when I broke up,

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<v Speaker 1>and she's like, Leo, it's just you can't ever You're

0:15:57.560 --> 0:15:59.120
<v Speaker 1>never going to be with a guy that's got a

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<v Speaker 1>small dick. You just can't. You never feel finished. You're

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<v Speaker 1>not little dick shaming. By the way, because they say that,

0:16:07.440 --> 0:16:10.720
<v Speaker 1>I'm sorry, I mean a lot of women, I'm shocked.

0:16:10.880 --> 0:16:14.560
<v Speaker 1>I asked so many in my anti dating game show.

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<v Speaker 1>Women raise their hand that they liked met more than

0:16:17.840 --> 0:16:20.360
<v Speaker 1>big dicks. They don't like pain, and see, I'm not

0:16:20.400 --> 0:16:26.080
<v Speaker 1>gonna like for me, I get pleasure from pain. Yeah,

0:16:26.960 --> 0:16:29.280
<v Speaker 1>I wanted to hurt like a motherfucker. I want to.

0:16:29.320 --> 0:16:31.160
<v Speaker 1>I like sometimes when it gets dry, just so I

0:16:31.240 --> 0:16:35.640
<v Speaker 1>can feel I'm crazy, but yeah, I'm like yeah, but

0:16:35.680 --> 0:16:40.000
<v Speaker 1>I also like to, like I wiped the dick off

0:16:40.040 --> 0:16:43.840
<v Speaker 1>before I cleaned myself off. Yeah, I just like a challenge,

0:16:43.920 --> 0:16:46.600
<v Speaker 1>just wipe it all off. And I'm like, okay, I'll

0:16:46.600 --> 0:16:49.760
<v Speaker 1>say we differ there, it's too one for that. Just try.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm just saying a little. I don't like friction at all,

0:16:51.960 --> 0:16:55.640
<v Speaker 1>Like that's one part like to me in my mind psychologically,

0:16:56.120 --> 0:16:59.600
<v Speaker 1>I do like I get really wet for certain guys,

0:16:59.760 --> 0:17:02.120
<v Speaker 1>like who really wouldn't turn me off. So as soon

0:17:02.200 --> 0:17:04.280
<v Speaker 1>as I start drawing up or I feel friction, I'm like,

0:17:04.320 --> 0:17:06.440
<v Speaker 1>oh yeah, bitch, I'm I ain't into you in real life.

0:17:06.520 --> 0:17:08.560
<v Speaker 1>Like I know my pussy is telling me, like girl,

0:17:08.600 --> 0:17:11.000
<v Speaker 1>they say what you want, yeah, not from you being dry.

0:17:11.040 --> 0:17:13.320
<v Speaker 1>But I'm just saying I've noticed when it gets too wet,

0:17:13.560 --> 0:17:14.920
<v Speaker 1>I don't like I feel like I got a big

0:17:14.920 --> 0:17:17.280
<v Speaker 1>gass pussy when it's all wet. I'm like, it's like

0:17:17.400 --> 0:17:20.119
<v Speaker 1>sliding in and out. Ship. I'm like, sorry, I swear

0:17:20.320 --> 0:17:24.840
<v Speaker 1>like I do kegels. You know that's valid. That's that's

0:17:24.840 --> 0:17:27.240
<v Speaker 1>a little embarrassing and it's like really, well, but I'm

0:17:27.240 --> 0:17:29.600
<v Speaker 1>not like I think. Also, I'm a side queen. So

0:17:29.720 --> 0:17:32.240
<v Speaker 1>especially when I was bigger, I had an issue where

0:17:32.720 --> 0:17:35.040
<v Speaker 1>I would be sucking a guy and I like, he's

0:17:35.040 --> 0:17:37.080
<v Speaker 1>in my pussy. But it's like blah, but I've had

0:17:37.160 --> 0:17:40.240
<v Speaker 1>guys because I do get so wet. I had guys

0:17:40.359 --> 0:17:42.399
<v Speaker 1>sucking the inside of my thigh. It's not realizing it

0:17:42.520 --> 0:17:45.200
<v Speaker 1>was just my thoughts. I just want a guy with

0:17:45.359 --> 0:17:47.560
<v Speaker 1>little dicks. That's happened, you know what. I think It's

0:17:47.560 --> 0:17:50.080
<v Speaker 1>happened to me too, and I'm like, that's not my pussy,

0:17:50.280 --> 0:17:53.720
<v Speaker 1>that's not like, this is embarrassing a little you have

0:17:53.880 --> 0:17:57.600
<v Speaker 1>like spread I not like the BBW thing. So to

0:17:57.680 --> 0:18:00.000
<v Speaker 1>know that y'all have experienced this too, like I don't

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<v Speaker 1>think a lot of guys realize how much does this

0:18:01.840 --> 0:18:04.800
<v Speaker 1>happen to Like y'all be strike in between our thoughts

0:18:04.880 --> 0:18:07.120
<v Speaker 1>with some pussy juices, not even knowing. This is why

0:18:07.160 --> 0:18:09.480
<v Speaker 1>you can make anything feel like a pussy, your hand,

0:18:09.600 --> 0:18:12.919
<v Speaker 1>your fucking mouth, anything you have you can utilize as

0:18:12.920 --> 0:18:16.280
<v Speaker 1>a fake pussy. You write it's just a crevice, just

0:18:16.520 --> 0:18:21.240
<v Speaker 1>literally just hello the dick once right and I remember

0:18:21.320 --> 0:18:22.960
<v Speaker 1>it was like buying my cheek and I just started

0:18:23.040 --> 0:18:26.520
<v Speaker 1>sliding my hand like this my mouth and he came

0:18:26.640 --> 0:18:32.320
<v Speaker 1>just like that. Okay, so how has anto been for you?

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<v Speaker 1>So we kind of slightly had anal but not really

0:18:35.320 --> 0:18:36.680
<v Speaker 1>but then she did but then she didn't, but the

0:18:36.720 --> 0:18:39.040
<v Speaker 1>head went in. But then it's like I feel like

0:18:39.080 --> 0:18:40.480
<v Speaker 1>I thought I got sucked in the ask, but I

0:18:40.480 --> 0:18:42.440
<v Speaker 1>don't think I did well. Every time I tried, I

0:18:42.440 --> 0:18:45.080
<v Speaker 1>didn't get like fully like its whole dick didn't go

0:18:45.240 --> 0:18:48.359
<v Speaker 1>inside the same. It was like half but it was stroking.

0:18:48.680 --> 0:18:51.399
<v Speaker 1>Oh if it was stroking, it was stroking. It was stroking.

0:18:51.440 --> 0:18:53.480
<v Speaker 1>It doesn't all have to go in, right. It was

0:18:53.560 --> 0:18:56.200
<v Speaker 1>stroking half in because I can't do the hole yet.

0:18:56.280 --> 0:18:59.280
<v Speaker 1>It's really like because you were like, I love it,

0:18:59.320 --> 0:19:02.080
<v Speaker 1>now I do. I mean there's sometimes I can't even

0:19:02.200 --> 0:19:07.280
<v Speaker 1>come unless he's playing with my ass. Now that's that's good,

0:19:07.760 --> 0:19:09.879
<v Speaker 1>But I have to be in a mood. It has

0:19:09.920 --> 0:19:12.920
<v Speaker 1>to be that just happens out of nowhere, Like we

0:19:13.000 --> 0:19:17.520
<v Speaker 1>didn't eat that heavy exactly exactly. I'm not into any

0:19:17.560 --> 0:19:19.359
<v Speaker 1>type of anal. If I knew I had a crazy

0:19:19.400 --> 0:19:22.000
<v Speaker 1>ship that morning because I drink coffee and certain coffees

0:19:22.280 --> 0:19:24.600
<v Speaker 1>just don't don't sit right. And if I had kind

0:19:24.640 --> 0:19:26.320
<v Speaker 1>of like a running ship that morning, I ain't have

0:19:26.400 --> 0:19:28.240
<v Speaker 1>an anal because I feel like not, you don't know

0:19:28.280 --> 0:19:30.720
<v Speaker 1>what all clean out yet. It ain't even been twenty

0:19:30.760 --> 0:19:32.960
<v Speaker 1>four hours, so do you know before you're gonna be

0:19:33.040 --> 0:19:35.320
<v Speaker 1>asked it? No, it just happens, like I just want

0:19:35.359 --> 0:19:39.040
<v Speaker 1>it hasn't been dirty. No, I've been so worried about

0:19:39.080 --> 0:19:41.120
<v Speaker 1>that though. I'm like, I know there's on your diff

0:19:41.200 --> 0:19:42.760
<v Speaker 1>right now, and I'm like, you're never gonna want to

0:19:42.840 --> 0:19:45.080
<v Speaker 1>suck me again. He's like, Babe, there's no ship, Like

0:19:45.160 --> 0:19:46.680
<v Speaker 1>what are you talking about? And if there is, it's

0:19:46.680 --> 0:19:52.960
<v Speaker 1>all good like anything, but y'all are going to be like,

0:19:53.160 --> 0:19:57.480
<v Speaker 1>what the fuck? I hope it's not related. I don't

0:19:57.480 --> 0:20:06.040
<v Speaker 1>want to just wait until it happens. What she had

0:20:06.080 --> 0:20:08.760
<v Speaker 1>a skid mark? Look at that? I can't see it

0:20:08.840 --> 0:20:15.760
<v Speaker 1>could be a birthmark, bro shuld I mean see, this

0:20:15.920 --> 0:20:18.520
<v Speaker 1>is why I'm so scary and acts in general. I mean,

0:20:18.560 --> 0:20:22.200
<v Speaker 1>it's very you gotta make sure you're totally clean. You

0:20:22.280 --> 0:20:23.920
<v Speaker 1>think that was a skid mark? So this dude, for

0:20:24.000 --> 0:20:27.040
<v Speaker 1>all of you that there's no video either today Okay.

0:20:27.200 --> 0:20:30.000
<v Speaker 1>So this dude sends me a fucking sex stape and

0:20:30.480 --> 0:20:32.200
<v Speaker 1>I said, what are you doing? And he sent me

0:20:32.280 --> 0:20:35.240
<v Speaker 1>that back and I'm like an hour later, I reply

0:20:35.320 --> 0:20:38.159
<v Speaker 1>and I'm like, Nika, did you look at what you

0:20:38.240 --> 0:20:41.040
<v Speaker 1>sent me? He's like l ol huh. Then he clicks

0:20:41.119 --> 0:20:44.240
<v Speaker 1>on it and he's like, oh wow, that's crazy, and

0:20:44.320 --> 0:20:49.240
<v Speaker 1>I'm like, so was that him? It's so funny. So

0:20:49.480 --> 0:20:51.760
<v Speaker 1>I have a story and it actually started um where

0:20:51.800 --> 0:20:54.680
<v Speaker 1>I tweeted and made it started a whole conversation on

0:20:54.720 --> 0:20:57.080
<v Speaker 1>Twitter Instagram. So this dude sent me a video. So

0:20:57.800 --> 0:21:00.320
<v Speaker 1>both of us are into our partners sending us videos

0:21:00.359 --> 0:21:03.080
<v Speaker 1>of them sucking other people, and so he like this

0:21:03.160 --> 0:21:04.720
<v Speaker 1>guy that I'm talking to six seven, the one I

0:21:04.720 --> 0:21:06.920
<v Speaker 1>went to the sex club. Boy, he sent me a

0:21:07.040 --> 0:21:10.880
<v Speaker 1>video of him sucking a girl. And when I got

0:21:10.960 --> 0:21:17.240
<v Speaker 1>the videos, they were old videos, just that and he

0:21:17.400 --> 0:21:20.040
<v Speaker 1>sent it to me and as soon as I saw it,

0:21:20.160 --> 0:21:22.280
<v Speaker 1>I was like, did you know she had a yeast infection?

0:21:22.600 --> 0:21:25.159
<v Speaker 1>Oh my god? His whole dick was so creamy, but

0:21:25.200 --> 0:21:27.280
<v Speaker 1>it was a thick cream and I thought that it

0:21:27.320 --> 0:21:31.600
<v Speaker 1>would be no bro, I'm like a chunky, thick creaming.

0:21:31.640 --> 0:21:35.040
<v Speaker 1>It was like it was like, and I'm like, I

0:21:35.160 --> 0:21:36.800
<v Speaker 1>know you might have thought maybe the pussy was just

0:21:36.920 --> 0:21:40.240
<v Speaker 1>extra wet, my guy, but I know that you know

0:21:40.359 --> 0:21:43.800
<v Speaker 1>your pussy like pussy juices. So we should talk about

0:21:43.840 --> 0:21:47.359
<v Speaker 1>what cream is, right. We can't only cream while ovulating, Okay,

0:21:47.680 --> 0:21:51.040
<v Speaker 1>so I use an ovulation calendar and if you actually

0:21:51.080 --> 0:21:52.159
<v Speaker 1>I think it was the kink of the week. I

0:21:52.200 --> 0:21:55.840
<v Speaker 1>remember the first episodode with Jesse. I met Jeeves and

0:21:55.960 --> 0:21:58.760
<v Speaker 1>he was like, yo, like the first time he had sex.

0:21:58.840 --> 0:22:00.639
<v Speaker 1>I feel like I came too early, but I want

0:22:00.680 --> 0:22:03.280
<v Speaker 1>to explain why I'm really into, you know, creamy pussy.

0:22:03.320 --> 0:22:06.440
<v Speaker 1>I even like search gruel. I'm like, what the fund

0:22:06.560 --> 0:22:08.960
<v Speaker 1>is that it's basically like a white thing. What's gruel?

0:22:08.960 --> 0:22:11.280
<v Speaker 1>I don't know you're white, you don't know. I'm just

0:22:11.520 --> 0:22:14.640
<v Speaker 1>I don't so cool. It's like another word for when

0:22:14.720 --> 0:22:16.600
<v Speaker 1>a pussy is ovulating. So if you type it in

0:22:16.680 --> 0:22:19.160
<v Speaker 1>on porn hub g r o O L, it comes

0:22:19.240 --> 0:22:21.960
<v Speaker 1>up and it's like creamy pussy. Now, what about that

0:22:22.200 --> 0:22:29.239
<v Speaker 1>slime something that's that's obulating fluid. However, there is there

0:22:29.320 --> 0:22:31.359
<v Speaker 1>is a difference. So when you're pussy is wet, when

0:22:31.400 --> 0:22:33.639
<v Speaker 1>you're turned on, when you're aroused. Our pussies get wet

0:22:33.680 --> 0:22:37.560
<v Speaker 1>all the time. Um, but particular slimy white, so that's

0:22:37.600 --> 0:22:41.760
<v Speaker 1>obviously that's the thing. When it's slimy and white, you're good.

0:22:42.280 --> 0:22:47.600
<v Speaker 1>When it cleamy like logret, that's not okay. And if

0:22:47.640 --> 0:22:54.200
<v Speaker 1>it has like chunks in it like that, if it's thick,

0:22:54.480 --> 0:22:56.280
<v Speaker 1>so even if you're ovulating, it's still going to be

0:22:56.440 --> 0:22:59.320
<v Speaker 1>kind of it's not gonna be chinking. Also, a period,

0:22:59.520 --> 0:23:01.720
<v Speaker 1>so this is is called my p tracker, right, so

0:23:01.840 --> 0:23:03.159
<v Speaker 1>this is an app I use, I mean using it

0:23:03.240 --> 0:23:05.320
<v Speaker 1>for a year and a half now, so right, this

0:23:05.600 --> 0:23:09.080
<v Speaker 1>gray shows when my period is, right, so basically tomorrow,

0:23:10.800 --> 0:23:14.400
<v Speaker 1>let's see this. Okay, this green dot and this flower,

0:23:14.520 --> 0:23:17.080
<v Speaker 1>this is when I'm ovulating. So I would screenshot at

0:23:17.160 --> 0:23:20.159
<v Speaker 1>him me like, even though you're pregnant, this is this

0:23:20.320 --> 0:23:24.840
<v Speaker 1>is when I'm ovulating, super stretchy, puzzy. I'll be like,

0:23:24.880 --> 0:23:34.640
<v Speaker 1>you can come inside me. Wait no, nook, So that's

0:23:34.720 --> 0:23:37.639
<v Speaker 1>like my that those are my ovaries talking right now,

0:23:37.720 --> 0:23:40.000
<v Speaker 1>because I do you know what, though your post is

0:23:40.040 --> 0:23:42.360
<v Speaker 1>more wet because it's ready for a baby, right, it's

0:23:42.800 --> 0:23:49.280
<v Speaker 1>when I'm ovulating. I'm better commnition. Now we have none

0:23:49.280 --> 0:23:51.680
<v Speaker 1>of them problems over here. See, I'm really scared to

0:23:51.680 --> 0:23:54.000
<v Speaker 1>get pregnant because I use the rhythm method. But I

0:23:54.080 --> 0:23:56.960
<v Speaker 1>always want to funk when I'm obulating, by the way,

0:23:57.560 --> 0:24:01.120
<v Speaker 1>Like I'm taking a sex cation. I'm time soon right

0:24:01.520 --> 0:24:04.240
<v Speaker 1>with this guy and this girl and fucking and what

0:24:04.440 --> 0:24:06.560
<v Speaker 1>is a sex kid when you don't have sex? But

0:24:06.680 --> 0:24:10.520
<v Speaker 1>I'm going on vacation. Yeah, well well well we'll confirm it.

0:24:10.720 --> 0:24:13.680
<v Speaker 1>So we'll confirm it soon. Yeah, we're both going on

0:24:13.760 --> 0:24:17.320
<v Speaker 1>this sex cation. Yeah, but they confirm it pay a

0:24:17.359 --> 0:24:19.600
<v Speaker 1>bit shit, so we can't We can't say and you're

0:24:19.640 --> 0:24:22.359
<v Speaker 1>going to Yeah, now we're not gonna fun. Hell no,

0:24:22.440 --> 0:24:26.440
<v Speaker 1>I'm bringing the motherfucker I fucked. And actually, so I

0:24:26.560 --> 0:24:28.160
<v Speaker 1>have two options. I hit both of them up depending

0:24:28.200 --> 0:24:31.080
<v Speaker 1>on who's available. So the one he allows me to

0:24:31.160 --> 0:24:32.840
<v Speaker 1>fuck him with a strap on, so I really want

0:24:32.840 --> 0:24:33.920
<v Speaker 1>to bring him. He's the one I took to the

0:24:33.960 --> 0:24:36.680
<v Speaker 1>sex club. The other one's my second option. He just

0:24:36.880 --> 0:24:41.080
<v Speaker 1>not playing right now. So in the league, yeah, he

0:24:41.119 --> 0:24:42.639
<v Speaker 1>ain't playing. He can't get picked up this year. So

0:24:42.680 --> 0:24:44.600
<v Speaker 1>I'm like, you want to go to Jamaica and we

0:24:44.920 --> 0:24:47.600
<v Speaker 1>fucked a lot. Wait Jamaica too, When are you guys

0:24:47.640 --> 0:24:52.240
<v Speaker 1>gonna go. Basically, a company reached out. They want us

0:24:52.280 --> 0:24:55.320
<v Speaker 1>to come to this sex thing in Jamaica. We'll talk

0:24:55.320 --> 0:24:58.440
<v Speaker 1>about it once they confirm it. They get flights. But yeah,

0:24:58.520 --> 0:25:00.320
<v Speaker 1>I haven't. I asked him, like, yo, and I bring

0:25:00.359 --> 0:25:03.879
<v Speaker 1>another person's I have a guy flow and Beard Bay Right.

0:25:04.200 --> 0:25:06.760
<v Speaker 1>So I was writing her because Mandy's going, we have

0:25:06.800 --> 0:25:08.679
<v Speaker 1>to go the same time. Obviously it's a horrible decision thing.

0:25:09.040 --> 0:25:11.040
<v Speaker 1>She's also going. I text both of them when is

0:25:11.080 --> 0:25:15.280
<v Speaker 1>your periods? Literally we're talking and she's like, okay, so

0:25:15.440 --> 0:25:17.320
<v Speaker 1>let's figure out the weekends we want to go when

0:25:17.359 --> 0:25:19.680
<v Speaker 1>your period beyond bitch, And I'm like, do you notice

0:25:19.720 --> 0:25:22.120
<v Speaker 1>we have our parod we get the same good thing? Yeah,

0:25:22.640 --> 0:25:24.880
<v Speaker 1>but not good because this bitch want to bring a girl.

0:25:24.960 --> 0:25:26.560
<v Speaker 1>So now we got to go base off three people.

0:25:28.040 --> 0:25:30.720
<v Speaker 1>So now we're cutting out two weekends out. My point

0:25:30.880 --> 0:25:35.159
<v Speaker 1>is we're all ovulating when we get there. So if

0:25:35.240 --> 0:25:38.680
<v Speaker 1>I haven't, you make a child. I just gotta know

0:25:38.720 --> 0:25:45.240
<v Speaker 1>they're gonna have seven brothers. Choice. That doesn't mean that

0:25:45.280 --> 0:25:48.760
<v Speaker 1>you're gonna like necessarily we might we might need to go.

0:25:50.119 --> 0:25:51.840
<v Speaker 1>I was gonna say, we still might need to ask

0:25:51.920 --> 0:25:53.560
<v Speaker 1>them for the five hunting. Take care of that. Just

0:25:53.680 --> 0:26:02.399
<v Speaker 1>in my bad. Bad these people are geting a free baca. Okay, bad,

0:26:02.560 --> 0:26:04.520
<v Speaker 1>all right. So anyways, what we like to do as well,

0:26:04.640 --> 0:26:06.720
<v Speaker 1>every week we like to have vanilla ship. We like

0:26:06.800 --> 0:26:08.919
<v Speaker 1>to talk about some vanilla hole ash ship and apparently

0:26:08.960 --> 0:26:12.359
<v Speaker 1>we found some vanilla as ship. Good to talk with you.

0:26:13.160 --> 0:26:15.680
<v Speaker 1>We've been people send us some vanilla shipped too, but

0:26:15.760 --> 0:26:17.960
<v Speaker 1>this one I thought was fucking crazy, and I actually

0:26:18.000 --> 0:26:19.399
<v Speaker 1>didn't pick it at first. I wanted to do the

0:26:19.440 --> 0:26:21.640
<v Speaker 1>one you sent me, Leah, but this I really wanted

0:26:21.640 --> 0:26:24.439
<v Speaker 1>your opinion on, since you know you'd be very problematic.

0:26:25.320 --> 0:26:27.720
<v Speaker 1>So this was on BuzzFeed. Okay, this is the headline.

0:26:27.800 --> 0:26:30.760
<v Speaker 1>She thought she was in bed with her boyfriend until

0:26:30.880 --> 0:26:34.440
<v Speaker 1>she saw his face. This happened in Indiana. Oh I

0:26:34.480 --> 0:26:39.000
<v Speaker 1>saw this. Okay, he's a rapist. Yeah, he was sleeping

0:26:39.040 --> 0:26:41.119
<v Speaker 1>her boyfriend's bed when she felt him. Officially, they've been

0:26:41.119 --> 0:26:42.600
<v Speaker 1>going out for a few weeks, one of those college

0:26:42.720 --> 0:26:45.439
<v Speaker 1>romances where someone in the friend group slowly becomes more

0:26:45.480 --> 0:26:48.760
<v Speaker 1>than a friend through private, joke stolen moments. Um. Let's

0:26:48.760 --> 0:26:50.840
<v Speaker 1>fast forward. So their dorm rooms were down the hall

0:26:50.960 --> 0:26:54.119
<v Speaker 1>from each other. She went to a party. They were

0:26:54.160 --> 0:26:57.000
<v Speaker 1>drinking at the party. She's nineteen years old, by the way.

0:26:57.040 --> 0:27:00.240
<v Speaker 1>She wasn't in the mood, so she went upstairs fell

0:27:00.320 --> 0:27:02.800
<v Speaker 1>asleep in his bed. Her boyfriend popped up the ladder

0:27:02.840 --> 0:27:04.359
<v Speaker 1>every now and then to snuggle in and check in

0:27:04.480 --> 0:27:07.159
<v Speaker 1>on her. At one point, his friend Grant made a

0:27:07.200 --> 0:27:09.400
<v Speaker 1>gross comment about hoping that she would get good sex

0:27:09.440 --> 0:27:11.280
<v Speaker 1>from her boyfriend tonight. She thought he was being drunk

0:27:11.320 --> 0:27:15.040
<v Speaker 1>and stupid. It was done, so it got late the

0:27:15.119 --> 0:27:17.880
<v Speaker 1>night peered out. She fell asleep. Her boyfriend was next

0:27:17.920 --> 0:27:22.440
<v Speaker 1>to her. Apparently her boyfriend reached up behind her, fondling

0:27:22.480 --> 0:27:24.600
<v Speaker 1>her breast over her t shirt. She let him touch her.

0:27:24.720 --> 0:27:27.200
<v Speaker 1>They were quiet, his friends were asleep. She felt his

0:27:27.280 --> 0:27:30.159
<v Speaker 1>hand slide under her pajama pants and she started touching

0:27:30.200 --> 0:27:33.080
<v Speaker 1>her clip. She went along with it, still facing away.

0:27:33.200 --> 0:27:35.080
<v Speaker 1>She grabbed his penis and put it in her vagina.

0:27:35.119 --> 0:27:37.760
<v Speaker 1>They had sex maybe for a minute. She stopped and

0:27:37.800 --> 0:27:39.359
<v Speaker 1>told She told him she had to use the bathroom.

0:27:39.680 --> 0:27:42.040
<v Speaker 1>When she was done, she got back in bed and

0:27:42.200 --> 0:27:45.480
<v Speaker 1>she saw it was the friend Grant. I remember him grinning,

0:27:45.680 --> 0:27:48.040
<v Speaker 1>grinning at me. It was a freaking image. I was

0:27:48.119 --> 0:27:50.159
<v Speaker 1>so friendic. I didn't know what was going on. She

0:27:50.520 --> 0:27:55.040
<v Speaker 1>ran downstairs, noticed her keys were missing, rushed to her

0:27:55.160 --> 0:27:57.879
<v Speaker 1>dorm and her boyfriend was there. She asked how long

0:27:57.960 --> 0:27:59.800
<v Speaker 1>he had been there. He said that he couldn't sleep

0:28:00.000 --> 0:28:02.800
<v Speaker 1>because she was taking up space in a small twin bed,

0:28:03.080 --> 0:28:07.280
<v Speaker 1>so he left three hours ago. Dad now, so she

0:28:07.600 --> 0:28:11.800
<v Speaker 1>was confused whether it was illegal, basically on state law

0:28:12.320 --> 0:28:15.680
<v Speaker 1>saying what he did was not technically illegal, even though

0:28:15.760 --> 0:28:18.720
<v Speaker 1>he admitted he knew she wasn't consenting because in Indiana,

0:28:19.119 --> 0:28:22.119
<v Speaker 1>sex is only rape when it's compelled through force or threats,

0:28:22.800 --> 0:28:26.800
<v Speaker 1>if the vintom is mentally disabled and can't consent, or

0:28:26.960 --> 0:28:29.960
<v Speaker 1>the person is unwhere that the sex is occurring like that.

0:28:30.080 --> 0:28:32.440
<v Speaker 1>But basically, she knew she was having sex, she just

0:28:32.520 --> 0:28:36.280
<v Speaker 1>didn't know it was him. And I think something someone

0:28:36.359 --> 0:28:39.640
<v Speaker 1>said to me that I thought was very interesting. They

0:28:39.760 --> 0:28:42.800
<v Speaker 1>told me someone they felt like your boyfriend was in

0:28:42.920 --> 0:28:46.120
<v Speaker 1>on this there like maybe a couple of weeks. I

0:28:46.160 --> 0:28:50.200
<v Speaker 1>wouldn't doubt that. They definitely maybe he was, Like that's

0:28:50.240 --> 0:28:51.720
<v Speaker 1>what I was gonna say. I was gonna say that

0:28:51.840 --> 0:28:55.320
<v Speaker 1>specifically because only because there are a lot of men,

0:28:55.640 --> 0:28:58.120
<v Speaker 1>or there's a lot of things where women will create

0:28:58.160 --> 0:29:01.880
<v Speaker 1>a relationship in their mind, and it's technically not my

0:29:02.120 --> 0:29:06.920
<v Speaker 1>stomach turn. I know it does. But now other women

0:29:07.000 --> 0:29:09.200
<v Speaker 1>in the comments on BuzzFeed were saying, there's no way

0:29:09.200 --> 0:29:11.600
<v Speaker 1>I wouldn't know my boyfriend's dick. Oh, shut the funk

0:29:11.680 --> 0:29:14.600
<v Speaker 1>up when you're first off, when you're half sleep, when

0:29:14.640 --> 0:29:18.640
<v Speaker 1>you've been drinking. Well she wasn't. Yeah, but depending on

0:29:19.040 --> 0:29:20.920
<v Speaker 1>maybe they have the same dick size, bitch. So there's

0:29:20.920 --> 0:29:23.200
<v Speaker 1>a lot of dicks that are comparable. I'm gonna be honest.

0:29:23.320 --> 0:29:25.720
<v Speaker 1>When I thought about it first, I was like I

0:29:25.880 --> 0:29:27.200
<v Speaker 1>used to think about when I went to sleep with

0:29:27.240 --> 0:29:29.360
<v Speaker 1>Collette and the guy that we were sucking, right, we

0:29:29.480 --> 0:29:31.000
<v Speaker 1>were dating this guy together, me and this girl I

0:29:31.080 --> 0:29:34.960
<v Speaker 1>used to date, and even though I couldn't, I could

0:29:35.280 --> 0:29:37.680
<v Speaker 1>I would know when who touched me when I was sleeping.

0:29:37.960 --> 0:29:42.280
<v Speaker 1>But I thought that too, like even just from my face,

0:29:42.440 --> 0:29:46.600
<v Speaker 1>I don't know. I felt like new it's right. I was,

0:29:46.720 --> 0:29:48.680
<v Speaker 1>but she was too. But here's the other thing. If

0:29:48.760 --> 0:29:50.880
<v Speaker 1>they were only dating a few weeks and someone was

0:29:50.920 --> 0:29:55.400
<v Speaker 1>already touching your tips and maybe you wouldn't know. Like

0:29:55.840 --> 0:29:58.000
<v Speaker 1>I agree, I'm not gonna lie. So when I had

0:29:58.120 --> 0:30:02.120
<v Speaker 1>my threesome, Um, I was on edibles and literally during

0:30:02.160 --> 0:30:04.320
<v Speaker 1>the threesome, I'm not gonna lie, I don't know which

0:30:04.360 --> 0:30:06.360
<v Speaker 1>one was sucking me, but one was like almost making

0:30:06.400 --> 0:30:11.200
<v Speaker 1>me squirt and yeah, and I literally didn't know which one.

0:30:11.280 --> 0:30:13.120
<v Speaker 1>I was like, so out of it. Have you ever

0:30:13.200 --> 0:30:16.560
<v Speaker 1>sucked either before though one of them, yes, the other

0:30:16.640 --> 0:30:18.520
<v Speaker 1>one the other one no. Well that's a that's a

0:30:18.600 --> 0:30:21.240
<v Speaker 1>great point. I think it's I think it's very easy

0:30:21.360 --> 0:30:24.840
<v Speaker 1>to not for her to not think that it's the boy.

0:30:24.840 --> 0:30:28.760
<v Speaker 1>If you're behind me too, like you started, she got up,

0:30:28.840 --> 0:30:30.960
<v Speaker 1>listen to the story. If she got up, she ran,

0:30:31.400 --> 0:30:33.400
<v Speaker 1>she looked for her boyfriend. You know, she did all

0:30:33.440 --> 0:30:37.040
<v Speaker 1>these things. And listen with this problematic things, I say,

0:30:37.400 --> 0:30:42.680
<v Speaker 1>I am so I am. I criticize this kind of

0:30:42.760 --> 0:30:46.360
<v Speaker 1>stuff because rape, because I think rape and sexual assault

0:30:46.480 --> 0:30:51.400
<v Speaker 1>is such a fucking disgusting serious gnarly asked, fucking matter

0:30:52.080 --> 0:30:55.360
<v Speaker 1>that when people call things rape that aren't rape, it

0:30:55.480 --> 0:30:58.720
<v Speaker 1>makes me fucking crazy. You because I remember the last

0:30:58.800 --> 0:31:04.640
<v Speaker 1>time that rape was regarding the rape that never triangle

0:31:05.160 --> 0:31:07.280
<v Speaker 1>with where things started the levels, and you were like,

0:31:07.440 --> 0:31:11.200
<v Speaker 1>this is bullshit. Yeah, Now, why do you feel like

0:31:11.320 --> 0:31:14.640
<v Speaker 1>some of the things towards the bottom are bullshit? Watch

0:31:14.720 --> 0:31:18.120
<v Speaker 1>things like sending people or things like that. Yeah, I know.

0:31:18.400 --> 0:31:20.000
<v Speaker 1>Do you think there's Do you believe in rape culture?

0:31:20.040 --> 0:31:22.560
<v Speaker 1>Do you think that's the thing. No, I don't believe

0:31:22.600 --> 0:31:24.680
<v Speaker 1>it that we have a rape culture here. I believe

0:31:24.720 --> 0:31:28.360
<v Speaker 1>that we have a culture that objectifies women. That is

0:31:28.640 --> 0:31:32.200
<v Speaker 1>beyond it's through the media, it's through society, it's through culture.

0:31:32.320 --> 0:31:36.840
<v Speaker 1>It's crazy. But we do not like we frown upon rape.

0:31:36.920 --> 0:31:39.600
<v Speaker 1>Rape is very weird do But I think that the

0:31:39.800 --> 0:31:43.760
<v Speaker 1>reason that I always find myself disagreeing is because I

0:31:43.840 --> 0:31:46.280
<v Speaker 1>don't think we have a culture to do bad things.

0:31:46.760 --> 0:31:51.480
<v Speaker 1>But I do think that those things can encourage rape

0:31:51.600 --> 0:31:55.280
<v Speaker 1>or rape. Things like you know, being too forward or

0:31:55.320 --> 0:31:58.320
<v Speaker 1>snarky remarks. There are things that are unwarranted or unwanted.

0:31:58.960 --> 0:32:01.320
<v Speaker 1>But I will say, just with what you're saying, I

0:32:01.440 --> 0:32:05.000
<v Speaker 1>do get so you said that rape to everyone is

0:32:05.200 --> 0:32:08.600
<v Speaker 1>by disgusting, it's violent, it's something that no one stands for.

0:32:08.720 --> 0:32:12.320
<v Speaker 1>We know what's a bad things, of course, but with

0:32:12.480 --> 0:32:15.959
<v Speaker 1>the rape culture in that pyramid, we're putting a lot

0:32:16.040 --> 0:32:21.560
<v Speaker 1>of more like um things like miscellaneous things. I would

0:32:21.600 --> 0:32:25.040
<v Speaker 1>I would say things that aren't as like we wouldn't

0:32:25.040 --> 0:32:28.480
<v Speaker 1>consider vile or dangerous or or stuff like that. And

0:32:28.520 --> 0:32:31.200
<v Speaker 1>so when you include those into the idea of rape,

0:32:31.240 --> 0:32:35.040
<v Speaker 1>it's just like then you start creating a really puritanical

0:32:35.880 --> 0:32:40.680
<v Speaker 1>kind of society. You know, you start creating a puritanical society,

0:32:41.080 --> 0:32:43.960
<v Speaker 1>you start creating a really hyper sensitive society. You start

0:32:44.000 --> 0:32:46.200
<v Speaker 1>creating an anti sex society. Don't you think that we

0:32:46.280 --> 0:32:49.280
<v Speaker 1>should be a little more Okay, I know you're more,

0:32:49.520 --> 0:32:53.840
<v Speaker 1>you're so sex positive. I'm surprised that you're not a

0:32:53.960 --> 0:32:56.720
<v Speaker 1>little more cautious or that you're not a little more

0:32:56.800 --> 0:33:00.400
<v Speaker 1>like um against all these things being in a rap

0:33:00.480 --> 0:33:04.800
<v Speaker 1>bubble or triangle. Because I've had things happened to me

0:33:04.880 --> 0:33:07.000
<v Speaker 1>that I didn't want. I think that's why. And I've

0:33:07.000 --> 0:33:11.400
<v Speaker 1>also when I read that disease story, I can't even friendly,

0:33:11.600 --> 0:33:13.480
<v Speaker 1>like we not, let's not get into because you don't

0:33:14.360 --> 0:33:17.880
<v Speaker 1>happen today. And I wished I said no, all right,

0:33:18.160 --> 0:33:20.840
<v Speaker 1>And I remember being that age and like I had

0:33:20.880 --> 0:33:23.520
<v Speaker 1>sex with a guy of nineteen ish, I had sex

0:33:23.600 --> 0:33:25.640
<v Speaker 1>with a guy that I wish I did not, And

0:33:25.720 --> 0:33:28.480
<v Speaker 1>I remember like I was giving him all of the cues,

0:33:29.200 --> 0:33:31.280
<v Speaker 1>like I was closing my legs. I couldn't do. I

0:33:31.480 --> 0:33:33.400
<v Speaker 1>don't know why I couldn't do it. I couldn't get

0:33:33.440 --> 0:33:35.800
<v Speaker 1>it out. But see, so to me so and I

0:33:35.920 --> 0:33:37.840
<v Speaker 1>kind of said this, and I said this one. We

0:33:37.880 --> 0:33:39.160
<v Speaker 1>talked about this and I don't want to get into

0:33:39.160 --> 0:33:41.080
<v Speaker 1>it because I don't want to, but I still feel

0:33:41.160 --> 0:33:44.400
<v Speaker 1>like with that. Unfortunately, we are in a society too

0:33:44.840 --> 0:33:47.840
<v Speaker 1>where we do try to the woman is the victim

0:33:47.960 --> 0:33:50.280
<v Speaker 1>and the man is always the you know, and so

0:33:50.440 --> 0:33:52.840
<v Speaker 1>I can I didn't understand. Why didn't that be wrong too?

0:33:53.040 --> 0:33:55.560
<v Speaker 1>But when that's why I think consent is important Because

0:33:55.600 --> 0:33:58.520
<v Speaker 1>I'm not that person anymore, right, I would absolutely say no,

0:33:58.600 --> 0:34:01.440
<v Speaker 1>I'm more confident, I'm older, understand and myself. But I

0:34:01.720 --> 0:34:04.600
<v Speaker 1>do remember from that. I remember for months on end

0:34:04.640 --> 0:34:07.080
<v Speaker 1>being traumatized a little bit from me. He had no

0:34:07.200 --> 0:34:10.960
<v Speaker 1>idea did you watch the vice consent thing? I want

0:34:11.000 --> 0:34:13.080
<v Speaker 1>to wrap this up quick, but so we were on

0:34:13.160 --> 0:34:18.040
<v Speaker 1>it or whatever. I need to see it. Yea, it

0:34:18.200 --> 0:34:20.400
<v Speaker 1>was dope. Um. So at the end of it, they

0:34:20.480 --> 0:34:23.040
<v Speaker 1>have this couple right where this girl wants to confront

0:34:23.080 --> 0:34:25.600
<v Speaker 1>her rapists. It's been ten years, she's went through therapy,

0:34:26.040 --> 0:34:28.600
<v Speaker 1>all kinds of ship. He sat down right next to

0:34:28.640 --> 0:34:30.640
<v Speaker 1>her and had no idea that he raped her like

0:34:30.880 --> 0:34:32.759
<v Speaker 1>was like, I didn't know that I did that. Yeah,

0:34:32.920 --> 0:34:35.120
<v Speaker 1>He's like, I thought we were drinking and sex. She

0:34:35.320 --> 0:34:37.960
<v Speaker 1>was fucking traumatizing, know what. I believed him, And I

0:34:38.040 --> 0:34:40.759
<v Speaker 1>only believe him because he showed up and he hear

0:34:40.840 --> 0:34:44.120
<v Speaker 1>him crying and feeling guilty that she felt so much hurt.

0:34:44.160 --> 0:34:45.719
<v Speaker 1>And I know that night that guy didn't think he

0:34:45.760 --> 0:34:48.280
<v Speaker 1>did that to me. So I think because of women's

0:34:48.280 --> 0:34:50.720
<v Speaker 1>that women that get that feeling, like her and myself

0:34:50.800 --> 0:34:52.960
<v Speaker 1>in that moment, we should have men more sensitive to

0:34:53.040 --> 0:34:57.200
<v Speaker 1>the idea of But again, we're making it the man's responsibility.

0:34:57.280 --> 0:34:59.160
<v Speaker 1>And it's something that I said even in that episode,

0:34:59.360 --> 0:35:01.680
<v Speaker 1>we don't whole accountable what we as women need to

0:35:01.719 --> 0:35:05.440
<v Speaker 1>do and as mothers instead of taking your teenage daughters

0:35:05.480 --> 0:35:07.440
<v Speaker 1>and saying, don't give up your pussy, don't do this.

0:35:07.880 --> 0:35:10.040
<v Speaker 1>This is your sacred you know, pouch to keep it

0:35:10.120 --> 0:35:12.239
<v Speaker 1>to yourself, it's you know, it's all of these things.

0:35:12.520 --> 0:35:16.239
<v Speaker 1>We need to teach women to voice these and we

0:35:16.320 --> 0:35:19.480
<v Speaker 1>need and even in a situation like you, But but

0:35:19.600 --> 0:35:22.160
<v Speaker 1>even in a situation like you, like where now you're

0:35:22.200 --> 0:35:24.880
<v Speaker 1>with someone may be of power or of success and

0:35:24.960 --> 0:35:26.480
<v Speaker 1>now you you want to do it, But you don't

0:35:26.520 --> 0:35:28.560
<v Speaker 1>want to do it. Those conversations were never had with

0:35:28.600 --> 0:35:30.920
<v Speaker 1>you or me, likely even my mom. I feel like

0:35:31.040 --> 0:35:34.320
<v Speaker 1>told me enough. I think. I think in that moment,

0:35:35.000 --> 0:35:38.000
<v Speaker 1>I genuinely wasn't confident enough to say no, or I didn't.

0:35:38.120 --> 0:35:39.759
<v Speaker 1>I just kind of thought he would stop when he

0:35:39.800 --> 0:35:41.960
<v Speaker 1>saw my face. It's not that I don't listen. It's

0:35:41.960 --> 0:35:43.800
<v Speaker 1>not that I don't think men should be more sensitive

0:35:43.840 --> 0:35:45.920
<v Speaker 1>to women's needs. But that's like I also think that

0:35:46.000 --> 0:35:49.040
<v Speaker 1>like World Hunger should end like facts, you know what

0:35:49.120 --> 0:35:51.920
<v Speaker 1>I mean, Like humans are humans. They're flawed. We have to.

0:35:52.200 --> 0:35:54.680
<v Speaker 1>It's just all we have is ourselves, that's it. And

0:35:54.760 --> 0:35:57.160
<v Speaker 1>we can not checking in though, and at least verbal

0:35:57.280 --> 0:35:59.959
<v Speaker 1>cues like we can't say if my legs were closed

0:36:00.000 --> 0:36:04.040
<v Speaker 1>and Leah and how does a guy? But every though,

0:36:04.080 --> 0:36:06.200
<v Speaker 1>because then at the same time, the very same episode

0:36:06.480 --> 0:36:08.719
<v Speaker 1>you said you do it as a sometimes we do

0:36:08.800 --> 0:36:12.440
<v Speaker 1>it like that, but it gets because we do. But

0:36:12.880 --> 0:36:15.200
<v Speaker 1>but I think that as well, we do like that

0:36:15.320 --> 0:36:19.360
<v Speaker 1>as the story. That's because I'm like his whole career

0:36:19.480 --> 0:36:22.920
<v Speaker 1>got And look, I'm not even a fan, did I'm

0:36:22.960 --> 0:36:25.440
<v Speaker 1>not a fan. I actually just watched Master of None

0:36:25.440 --> 0:36:27.560
<v Speaker 1>for the first time, Like two days ago. I don't care.

0:36:27.600 --> 0:36:29.600
<v Speaker 1>It's one of my favorite shows. So I'm really speaking

0:36:29.640 --> 0:36:31.960
<v Speaker 1>from a very objective standpoint because I don't have any

0:36:32.000 --> 0:36:33.759
<v Speaker 1>skin in the games. I don't care about him same

0:36:34.120 --> 0:36:37.520
<v Speaker 1>and you know whatever. But like that whole story was

0:36:37.600 --> 0:36:40.040
<v Speaker 1>like such an obvious like that was like revenge, Like

0:36:40.160 --> 0:36:42.600
<v Speaker 1>she was getting straight up revenge. She didn't like I

0:36:42.840 --> 0:36:45.120
<v Speaker 1>want to so much of the sex I've had, I

0:36:45.360 --> 0:36:49.120
<v Speaker 1>read she wanted a different attach, the way we want

0:36:49.120 --> 0:36:51.960
<v Speaker 1>to be. She she didn't want to be treated like

0:36:52.520 --> 0:36:55.160
<v Speaker 1>she was treated like a hoe, and she didn't like that.

0:36:56.400 --> 0:36:58.040
<v Speaker 1>I'll gave you I don't. I don't know about her

0:36:58.080 --> 0:37:00.760
<v Speaker 1>wanting to be more. I think that she maybe felt

0:37:01.400 --> 0:37:03.520
<v Speaker 1>and to his point, bitches have been doing this and

0:37:03.600 --> 0:37:07.920
<v Speaker 1>the only thing I'm gonna I don't know how much

0:37:07.960 --> 0:37:10.400
<v Speaker 1>of the story so I heard um Kareem Hunt, the

0:37:10.440 --> 0:37:12.800
<v Speaker 1>football player who just pretty much lost his job for

0:37:13.040 --> 0:37:15.600
<v Speaker 1>kicking the woman. The story that I heard was that

0:37:15.760 --> 0:37:18.000
<v Speaker 1>it was him and a bunch of friends, and basically

0:37:18.120 --> 0:37:20.200
<v Speaker 1>the girl got upset because he's like, yo, I want

0:37:20.239 --> 0:37:22.239
<v Speaker 1>you to suck my friends. So she went in there

0:37:22.280 --> 0:37:24.239
<v Speaker 1>and got treated like a ho and then it turned

0:37:24.280 --> 0:37:26.759
<v Speaker 1>into a crazy thing. They went to kick him out.

0:37:26.880 --> 0:37:29.880
<v Speaker 1>She and my boyfriend were fighting over this because because

0:37:29.920 --> 0:37:31.800
<v Speaker 1>I was that she didn't want to be treated like

0:37:32.040 --> 0:37:34.239
<v Speaker 1>I don't know, because he's very much like he only

0:37:34.320 --> 0:37:37.160
<v Speaker 1>pushed her. He pushed her. It sucked up. But his

0:37:37.239 --> 0:37:39.400
<v Speaker 1>friend was like, the kick was like not really like

0:37:39.440 --> 0:37:41.320
<v Speaker 1>a hard kick and could have hit everybody, could have

0:37:41.400 --> 0:37:43.640
<v Speaker 1>killed he could have knocked everyone out, and he played

0:37:45.200 --> 0:37:48.400
<v Speaker 1>and I was like, the hitting is unacceptable, but it

0:37:48.560 --> 0:37:50.600
<v Speaker 1>goes back to the point where I lose his whole

0:37:52.760 --> 0:37:55.759
<v Speaker 1>him first, So it goes into the violence of a

0:37:55.840 --> 0:37:57.600
<v Speaker 1>woman hitting a guy first. But that's what I'm saying,

0:37:57.800 --> 0:38:01.400
<v Speaker 1>women being accountable for our actions and not like just

0:38:01.600 --> 0:38:04.080
<v Speaker 1>making it like she went to slap him first, right,

0:38:04.200 --> 0:38:07.879
<v Speaker 1>slap him first. We had that conversation if you guys

0:38:07.920 --> 0:38:10.279
<v Speaker 1>want to listen. We talked about domestic violence thing though,

0:38:10.360 --> 0:38:12.279
<v Speaker 1>and women to say the men try to wrap it

0:38:12.600 --> 0:38:16.320
<v Speaker 1>just like with police, they should be able to pacify

0:38:16.480 --> 0:38:19.960
<v Speaker 1>someone more than they should reach for something harder. Men

0:38:20.040 --> 0:38:24.680
<v Speaker 1>should be able to especially at that size pass by control.

0:38:25.040 --> 0:38:28.520
<v Speaker 1>His words were trying to like if he wanted to,

0:38:28.800 --> 0:38:31.040
<v Speaker 1>you know, hrder, he really could, Yeah, of course, but

0:38:31.160 --> 0:38:33.279
<v Speaker 1>like obviously just watching a video like that is so

0:38:33.400 --> 0:38:37.359
<v Speaker 1>just I got to look at it. No, ship, let's

0:38:37.360 --> 0:38:38.560
<v Speaker 1>get into the kink of the week and then we

0:38:38.640 --> 0:38:41.200
<v Speaker 1>don't have to have a quick as motherfucking horrible well

0:38:41.200 --> 0:38:43.440
<v Speaker 1>we will, we will kick in a week. I found

0:38:43.480 --> 0:38:45.239
<v Speaker 1>because I was looking at porn and it came up,

0:38:46.320 --> 0:38:48.600
<v Speaker 1>how do you find this important? You watch white people porn?

0:38:48.640 --> 0:38:53.680
<v Speaker 1>I'm convinced. So I was watching there was an episode

0:38:53.719 --> 0:38:58.160
<v Speaker 1>like watching paint Dicks with black pussies. I love watching

0:38:58.400 --> 0:39:04.920
<v Speaker 1>inter racial stuff. It's all I can watch. And black

0:39:05.080 --> 0:39:07.080
<v Speaker 1>actually black guys with white girls too, but I'd rather

0:39:07.160 --> 0:39:09.279
<v Speaker 1>watch the white guys with black girls. And first of all,

0:39:09.400 --> 0:39:13.799
<v Speaker 1>the black women way better. Yeah, black girls who seem

0:39:13.880 --> 0:39:17.719
<v Speaker 1>like they see just like I like watching them. I

0:39:17.760 --> 0:39:20.880
<v Speaker 1>don't I have a black as podcast. I can't. I

0:39:20.920 --> 0:39:23.879
<v Speaker 1>don't really watch many black women in porn only because

0:39:23.880 --> 0:39:25.520
<v Speaker 1>I feel like they don't keep themselves up the same.

0:39:25.600 --> 0:39:28.720
<v Speaker 1>Their production via you is much less, Their weaves are trash,

0:39:28.840 --> 0:39:34.200
<v Speaker 1>their makeup they put like green eyes watching and so

0:39:34.320 --> 0:39:36.360
<v Speaker 1>on porn Hub. Unless you can find some free as,

0:39:36.480 --> 0:39:40.520
<v Speaker 1>you don't read pay with black women like no caprix styles.

0:39:40.560 --> 0:39:44.360
<v Speaker 1>I don't see you no more. Cherke only matter pinky.

0:39:44.440 --> 0:39:46.359
<v Speaker 1>It seems to like to get these girls that are

0:39:46.440 --> 0:39:49.239
<v Speaker 1>like all the girls like this, like off the like

0:39:49.360 --> 0:39:51.439
<v Speaker 1>that's the only reason I have a hard time watching

0:39:51.520 --> 0:39:54.359
<v Speaker 1>that point. There's this one like Tampa Boukocky, because y'all

0:39:54.360 --> 0:39:56.200
<v Speaker 1>know I love Boukacki and they always get these like

0:39:56.360 --> 0:40:00.799
<v Speaker 1>on the street, like I love cream Pie gang bangs. Really,

0:40:01.640 --> 0:40:07.439
<v Speaker 1>I like, dude, this is how I got here. Sex

0:40:07.520 --> 0:40:09.160
<v Speaker 1>in the City as an episode where she jerked the

0:40:09.200 --> 0:40:12.080
<v Speaker 1>guy off and like just from that tantric massage remember that.

0:40:12.200 --> 0:40:13.840
<v Speaker 1>Remember I've been trying to learn how to do it,

0:40:14.520 --> 0:40:16.520
<v Speaker 1>so in looking up tantric massage. By the way, if

0:40:16.520 --> 0:40:18.360
<v Speaker 1>you do tantric massage, please come on the show and

0:40:18.600 --> 0:40:22.279
<v Speaker 1>write us to come on. Uh, tantric sex anything. I found.

0:40:22.320 --> 0:40:26.360
<v Speaker 1>Erotic hypnosis here's what it is. Practice of reducing inhibitions

0:40:26.400 --> 0:40:29.719
<v Speaker 1>and increasing arousal is a notable goal for hypnosis. The

0:40:29.800 --> 0:40:32.279
<v Speaker 1>placement of trigger words in the subject's mind as a

0:40:32.320 --> 0:40:36.360
<v Speaker 1>post hypnotic suggestion to produce actions and experiences on demand.

0:40:36.440 --> 0:40:40.319
<v Speaker 1>As a common practice, it basically improves sexual health. Um

0:40:40.400 --> 0:40:44.920
<v Speaker 1>techniques to overcome apprehension about flatio, increased sensuality, and improve libido.

0:40:45.200 --> 0:40:48.480
<v Speaker 1>Another common form of it is hypnotic fantasy where the

0:40:48.560 --> 0:40:53.280
<v Speaker 1>subject is taking in a trance through a sexual experience. Okay,

0:40:56.920 --> 0:41:01.280
<v Speaker 1>but listen to people that I identify with a submissive

0:41:01.360 --> 0:41:04.520
<v Speaker 1>side that can't as their personal self. So basically they'll

0:41:04.600 --> 0:41:07.919
<v Speaker 1>take over your like you as someone else. Like let's say,

0:41:07.960 --> 0:41:10.040
<v Speaker 1>for you, you said you don't really like being submissive.

0:41:10.520 --> 0:41:12.799
<v Speaker 1>If you went through the hypnosis and thought you were

0:41:12.880 --> 0:41:17.200
<v Speaker 1>someone else, you can let your inhibitions go. So basically

0:41:17.440 --> 0:41:20.719
<v Speaker 1>they hypnotize you. I gotta go somewhere and get hypnotized

0:41:20.760 --> 0:41:23.520
<v Speaker 1>with my niggag hypnotize me, like you about to hypnotize

0:41:23.560 --> 0:41:27.600
<v Speaker 1>somebody I was pouring, bro. I don't know what happened

0:41:27.600 --> 0:41:30.040
<v Speaker 1>in the porn. What had to be scripted, bitch. Okay,

0:41:30.160 --> 0:41:31.880
<v Speaker 1>so I don't know the scripted or not, but I

0:41:31.960 --> 0:41:33.920
<v Speaker 1>saw some different ones. So basically, they sit there, they

0:41:34.000 --> 0:41:35.799
<v Speaker 1>do the ding of the bell like they wait, they

0:41:35.880 --> 0:41:38.640
<v Speaker 1>do the little swinging there and they're touching you slow,

0:41:39.040 --> 0:41:41.160
<v Speaker 1>and they like start talking you through it and telling

0:41:41.239 --> 0:41:45.399
<v Speaker 1>you that you're someone else. And actually I can't wait.

0:41:45.600 --> 0:41:49.200
<v Speaker 1>Hopefully they come King Noir and and Jasmine actually do

0:41:49.360 --> 0:41:51.920
<v Speaker 1>things like this with couples. Good. Yeah, so we'll have

0:41:52.000 --> 0:41:56.239
<v Speaker 1>to bring them on. Come okay, hypnotize before I went

0:41:56.320 --> 0:41:58.799
<v Speaker 1>to a show years ago in Orlando where this dude

0:41:58.880 --> 0:42:02.040
<v Speaker 1>hypnotize me, and I remember in that moment he just

0:42:02.320 --> 0:42:04.759
<v Speaker 1>really got me to like get I'm very vulnerable to

0:42:04.800 --> 0:42:08.480
<v Speaker 1>anything though, alcohol, drugs, whatever, So he got me really

0:42:08.680 --> 0:42:12.240
<v Speaker 1>just relaxed and he was like touching me certain places

0:42:12.280 --> 0:42:14.120
<v Speaker 1>I'd make a noise, so he said, I was like

0:42:14.160 --> 0:42:16.560
<v Speaker 1>a perfect candidate for hypnosis. So like, if you can

0:42:16.640 --> 0:42:18.719
<v Speaker 1>do that and just relax and like turn into another

0:42:18.760 --> 0:42:21.000
<v Speaker 1>person in role play, it's like, really, I don't tara

0:42:21.080 --> 0:42:24.400
<v Speaker 1>card reading palm reading, so I guarantee you which I

0:42:24.400 --> 0:42:28.680
<v Speaker 1>don't want the devil touching me. It don't matter. We

0:42:28.760 --> 0:42:31.880
<v Speaker 1>talked in the episode, I gotta do with some chakras

0:42:31.920 --> 0:42:33.799
<v Speaker 1>and ship and ain't nobody got time fall. Devil Dick

0:42:33.880 --> 0:42:36.080
<v Speaker 1>is the best dick. I got double dick. His name

0:42:36.160 --> 0:42:39.040
<v Speaker 1>is the devil in my phone and got a he

0:42:39.120 --> 0:42:40.520
<v Speaker 1>got a big Old Knights did one of the things

0:42:40.560 --> 0:42:44.160
<v Speaker 1>I'm trying to bring to the sex pation right now.

0:42:44.560 --> 0:42:47.320
<v Speaker 1>The Horrible Decision for the Week is NSFW. This is

0:42:47.360 --> 0:42:50.840
<v Speaker 1>inspired by a White listener. He bought tickets to Chicago.

0:42:50.880 --> 0:42:52.480
<v Speaker 1>He said, he's gonna be three out of twenty six

0:42:52.520 --> 0:42:55.360
<v Speaker 1>white listeners that go to the show. He wrote me

0:42:55.400 --> 0:42:56.640
<v Speaker 1>a d M. I think his name is Ryan, I

0:42:56.640 --> 0:42:58.600
<v Speaker 1>don't know, and he said, can definitely a white name.

0:42:59.680 --> 0:43:03.239
<v Speaker 1>How Ryan, don't really I sucked Ryan to a white guy,

0:43:03.560 --> 0:43:06.399
<v Speaker 1>have you? Ryan? Um? No, I actually call white guys

0:43:06.440 --> 0:43:11.360
<v Speaker 1>the brads and chads and I'm not interested chat, you

0:43:11.400 --> 0:43:14.000
<v Speaker 1>know what I'm not. So brads and chads are a

0:43:14.120 --> 0:43:20.880
<v Speaker 1>very specific kind of definitely uniform. If you look on Instagram,

0:43:20.920 --> 0:43:23.680
<v Speaker 1>there's instagram called Midtown Uniform and it's that best with

0:43:23.840 --> 0:43:26.600
<v Speaker 1>the khaki pants and it's like all the frat boys

0:43:26.640 --> 0:43:29.960
<v Speaker 1>and midtelling. Yeah, I've seen that and like the man,

0:43:30.080 --> 0:43:34.400
<v Speaker 1>you gotta have that. You don't know, the Midtown uniform. Bro.

0:43:34.560 --> 0:43:37.640
<v Speaker 1>The white people that were this like broy looking out, yeah,

0:43:37.680 --> 0:43:40.960
<v Speaker 1>and they were like those hats look at they look

0:43:41.000 --> 0:43:46.400
<v Speaker 1>like they're all from Boston or like New Hampshire. Basically, oh,

0:43:46.520 --> 0:43:51.960
<v Speaker 1>like the Colombia best exactly. So this, yeah, I don't

0:43:51.960 --> 0:43:54.120
<v Speaker 1>know if Ryan looks like that. But basically he was like,

0:43:54.200 --> 0:43:56.680
<v Speaker 1>can y'all talk about this tumbler band? Um, all my

0:43:56.760 --> 0:43:59.239
<v Speaker 1>gays are in fucking they dronk off this Tumbler like

0:43:59.320 --> 0:44:01.440
<v Speaker 1>this is awful, So basically becauys that know what happened.

0:44:01.480 --> 0:44:04.520
<v Speaker 1>Tumbler is removing its nsf W content. A lot of

0:44:04.640 --> 0:44:06.719
<v Speaker 1>sex workers and a lot of sex performers are like

0:44:06.800 --> 0:44:09.160
<v Speaker 1>super Piste because they love to share their pages ridiculous,

0:44:09.200 --> 0:44:11.880
<v Speaker 1>not even Tumbler, I mean ship we these thirst straps.

0:44:11.880 --> 0:44:16.200
<v Speaker 1>So now, bitch, where are you going to go to

0:44:16.280 --> 0:44:21.080
<v Speaker 1>be where you like immediately? Bit five minutes. I just

0:44:21.640 --> 0:44:24.040
<v Speaker 1>like people, just five people. I just saw that Rose

0:44:24.160 --> 0:44:29.440
<v Speaker 1>McGowan's like partner or like whatever, like I don't know

0:44:29.480 --> 0:44:31.640
<v Speaker 1>if they were, well it's a heat by the way,

0:44:31.760 --> 0:44:37.080
<v Speaker 1>her name, it's like a non binary piper pipe. The

0:44:37.120 --> 0:44:40.719
<v Speaker 1>person she's mwen. She was. She was charmed. I was

0:44:40.760 --> 0:44:48.000
<v Speaker 1>like chimed out, so rained of that's the day's name,

0:44:48.640 --> 0:44:54.200
<v Speaker 1>and they were they decided to go on Instagram and

0:44:54.320 --> 0:44:58.680
<v Speaker 1>she they have double D boobs and so they were

0:44:58.760 --> 0:45:01.520
<v Speaker 1>like not wearing a bra or shirt and was like

0:45:01.600 --> 0:45:05.880
<v Speaker 1>playing basketball their boobs flying everywhere, and they were like Instagram,

0:45:05.960 --> 0:45:08.120
<v Speaker 1>this is not sexual and I'm not a woman, so

0:45:08.400 --> 0:45:10.719
<v Speaker 1>these are not actually breast with female breasts. So if

0:45:10.760 --> 0:45:13.560
<v Speaker 1>you take this down, your transphobic. And they fucking kept

0:45:13.600 --> 0:45:15.000
<v Speaker 1>it up. I don't know for how long. I don't

0:45:15.000 --> 0:45:17.040
<v Speaker 1>know it's still up there, but that is some ship

0:45:17.200 --> 0:45:19.719
<v Speaker 1>and I'm gonna start doing that, start just putting my

0:45:19.800 --> 0:45:22.359
<v Speaker 1>tips up there, being like this isn't female nipple. Well

0:45:22.400 --> 0:45:27.640
<v Speaker 1>I do. That's part In New York, it's actually legal

0:45:27.840 --> 0:45:32.080
<v Speaker 1>for women to be talking about that's party. If that

0:45:32.120 --> 0:45:34.880
<v Speaker 1>should cost money is here's a few thoughts. I'm actually

0:45:34.960 --> 0:45:36.919
<v Speaker 1>just gonna kind of walk through this outline a little

0:45:36.920 --> 0:45:38.439
<v Speaker 1>bit and you guys jump in when you want. Here's

0:45:38.440 --> 0:45:40.319
<v Speaker 1>the things I want to talk about. So Tumbler did

0:45:40.360 --> 0:45:42.600
<v Speaker 1>this band right? I want to talk about why are

0:45:42.640 --> 0:45:45.759
<v Speaker 1>people so offended by breasts? Extreme from feminists say that

0:45:45.800 --> 0:45:47.919
<v Speaker 1>breasts are just for babies and it's disgusting when people

0:45:47.960 --> 0:45:53.640
<v Speaker 1>sexualize it. Fox says that like evangelical, like what No,

0:45:53.960 --> 0:45:56.040
<v Speaker 1>A lot of people actually they would be the opposite

0:45:56.040 --> 0:45:57.680
<v Speaker 1>because they feel like you shouldn't show your breast. But

0:45:57.719 --> 0:46:00.920
<v Speaker 1>a lot of feminists say that my breast shouldn't be offensive.

0:46:01.000 --> 0:46:03.040
<v Speaker 1>Oh they shouldn't be. I'm sorry. I thought even like yeah,

0:46:03.080 --> 0:46:05.560
<v Speaker 1>they're they're just like these are for babies, Like why

0:46:05.600 --> 0:46:08.360
<v Speaker 1>does that? Why is everyone? So I also want to

0:46:08.360 --> 0:46:11.040
<v Speaker 1>talk about places it's legal to be topless, and these

0:46:11.080 --> 0:46:19.800
<v Speaker 1>places have been tested Asheville, North Carolina, Austin, Texas, Boulder, Colorado, Columbus, Ohio, Eugene, Oregon, Honolulu, Magranolas.

0:46:20.320 --> 0:46:23.160
<v Speaker 1>This is like some mad so that means somebody walked

0:46:23.160 --> 0:46:25.160
<v Speaker 1>out there, like in front of it, some crazy like

0:46:25.400 --> 0:46:31.799
<v Speaker 1>white liberals, New York and Oregon, Santa Fe, South Beach,

0:46:31.880 --> 0:46:35.600
<v Speaker 1>and DC beaches. In qus, there are now I mean,

0:46:36.280 --> 0:46:39.360
<v Speaker 1>these states have laws against not being able to get arrested.

0:46:39.560 --> 0:46:42.399
<v Speaker 1>I got this from go topless dot org. Okay um,

0:46:43.239 --> 0:46:45.280
<v Speaker 1>and yeah, I mean I do want to talk about

0:46:45.520 --> 0:46:49.160
<v Speaker 1>the NFFW shild. Obviously tumber was out there, but about titties,

0:46:49.640 --> 0:46:51.839
<v Speaker 1>people are super offended. Like I haven't warn a braw

0:46:51.920 --> 0:46:53.880
<v Speaker 1>in a while. You know, I wear sports bras just

0:46:53.920 --> 0:46:56.319
<v Speaker 1>because it hurts when they bound, but I don't really

0:46:56.360 --> 0:47:00.640
<v Speaker 1>wear flower bras to work. But the female breasts that

0:47:01.040 --> 0:47:03.480
<v Speaker 1>makes it so weird. Do you think that nipples should

0:47:03.480 --> 0:47:05.920
<v Speaker 1>be up on Instagram? Do you feel like it is so?

0:47:06.000 --> 0:47:09.080
<v Speaker 1>I'm not gonna lie with the new fashion right now,

0:47:09.280 --> 0:47:11.560
<v Speaker 1>and Rihanna was I would say the trend setter in it.

0:47:12.120 --> 0:47:15.880
<v Speaker 1>I'm not a fan personally of the nude mesh t

0:47:16.080 --> 0:47:19.279
<v Speaker 1>shirts with just no brawl on. To me, it is

0:47:19.320 --> 0:47:22.120
<v Speaker 1>a little to me um, like if you're just out

0:47:22.280 --> 0:47:23.800
<v Speaker 1>or say I'm out at dinner and I see a

0:47:23.880 --> 0:47:26.759
<v Speaker 1>girl and her whole last titties are out, Like to me, yeah,

0:47:26.920 --> 0:47:30.959
<v Speaker 1>I'm not for it. In certain spaces, however, I would

0:47:31.120 --> 0:47:34.359
<v Speaker 1>enjoy going to a nude you know, resort. I've gone

0:47:34.400 --> 0:47:36.439
<v Speaker 1>to nude beaches, I go on. I feel like there's

0:47:36.480 --> 0:47:38.800
<v Speaker 1>a time and a place for it. I also feel like,

0:47:38.920 --> 0:47:42.720
<v Speaker 1>to me, breasts like feet, women's breast, women's bodies in general,

0:47:42.880 --> 0:47:46.200
<v Speaker 1>like the reason why we're sexualized, Like that's such a

0:47:46.640 --> 0:47:51.360
<v Speaker 1>like historical and like long fucking conversation, and like the

0:47:51.520 --> 0:47:55.480
<v Speaker 1>reasons why. I go so deep that it's like yeah,

0:47:55.520 --> 0:47:57.839
<v Speaker 1>I mean they do, you know, And it's like we're

0:47:58.040 --> 0:48:01.440
<v Speaker 1>our bodies are a commodity like men. I mean there

0:48:01.480 --> 0:48:04.080
<v Speaker 1>are men prostitutes, but not really like women. We can

0:48:04.120 --> 0:48:06.080
<v Speaker 1>sell sex, we can all. We'll always have our pussies

0:48:06.120 --> 0:48:07.759
<v Speaker 1>to sell, will always have our cities to sell, like

0:48:08.920 --> 0:48:10.759
<v Speaker 1>you always have at this point if you really want

0:48:10.760 --> 0:48:13.440
<v Speaker 1>to get into it. We'll always have our mouths, but

0:48:13.760 --> 0:48:17.440
<v Speaker 1>will always have our feet to sell. Always. Yes, we'll

0:48:17.520 --> 0:48:21.720
<v Speaker 1>always also have there's hand models where people fetish size hands,

0:48:22.360 --> 0:48:24.000
<v Speaker 1>like I don't know, we can get into elbows and

0:48:24.239 --> 0:48:26.200
<v Speaker 1>we had someone on here blood Zilla said he likes

0:48:26.320 --> 0:48:30.439
<v Speaker 1>arm bits. Like all parts of the only states banned

0:48:30.480 --> 0:48:33.759
<v Speaker 1>toplessness it's Utah, Indiana and Tennessee. And who then lives there,

0:48:34.000 --> 0:48:35.759
<v Speaker 1>Like I was thinking about this actually on the way here,

0:48:36.840 --> 0:48:40.320
<v Speaker 1>I mean live in Tennessee. You know places like Spain

0:48:40.520 --> 0:48:43.000
<v Speaker 1>and France, and you know these these places are like

0:48:43.120 --> 0:48:45.359
<v Speaker 1>just so like my years ahead of us in terms

0:48:45.400 --> 0:48:48.320
<v Speaker 1>of dealing with sexuality. That was my first experience, like

0:48:48.520 --> 0:48:50.759
<v Speaker 1>really letting go. Went to the beach in Barcelona and

0:48:50.840 --> 0:48:52.440
<v Speaker 1>I it was a nude beach and I had my

0:48:52.520 --> 0:48:56.359
<v Speaker 1>clothes on, and I felt stupid. I can't believe how

0:48:56.480 --> 0:48:59.080
<v Speaker 1>like exhilarating it felt to just take my top off

0:48:59.120 --> 0:49:01.440
<v Speaker 1>and feel good about it. I fell asleep and I

0:49:01.560 --> 0:49:03.480
<v Speaker 1>was like, oh, probably people probably took pictures of me.

0:49:03.560 --> 0:49:06.120
<v Speaker 1>But now it's really the u s. It's crazy because

0:49:06.160 --> 0:49:09.080
<v Speaker 1>we are so ahead, but we're not like also we're

0:49:09.120 --> 0:49:12.840
<v Speaker 1>not sexually about dealing with like young guys. I'd be like,

0:49:12.920 --> 0:49:15.120
<v Speaker 1>if we go out the country, he could drink because

0:49:15.160 --> 0:49:17.879
<v Speaker 1>it's like eighteen and sixteen for legal drinking ages anywhere else,

0:49:18.760 --> 0:49:20.759
<v Speaker 1>it's fine. We'll just go to another country together, like

0:49:20.880 --> 0:49:24.560
<v Speaker 1>that's fine. And it is our culture. I mean we

0:49:24.840 --> 0:49:27.320
<v Speaker 1>it's just our culture here, you know. And it's different

0:49:27.360 --> 0:49:29.640
<v Speaker 1>out there. The way they the way they that they

0:49:30.080 --> 0:49:33.720
<v Speaker 1>teach sex, the way that they like deal with sex, nudity, everything,

0:49:33.840 --> 0:49:37.719
<v Speaker 1>it's just completely different. I will say, if they do

0:49:37.960 --> 0:49:40.200
<v Speaker 1>to Twitter what they just did to Tumbler, then I

0:49:40.239 --> 0:49:41.879
<v Speaker 1>don't know where the funk else to go. But I'm

0:49:41.920 --> 0:49:43.640
<v Speaker 1>not gonna lie. I'll be on the train some mornings

0:49:43.680 --> 0:49:45.920
<v Speaker 1>going just on my timeline wanting to read the updates

0:49:46.160 --> 0:49:50.000
<v Speaker 1>and a whole dick. And I don't worry because I'm

0:49:50.000 --> 0:49:52.480
<v Speaker 1>like my kid too, So I'm like looking and then

0:49:52.520 --> 0:49:56.279
<v Speaker 1>I'm like, oh my god, there's sixteen. How do you

0:49:56.320 --> 0:50:03.200
<v Speaker 1>have she's not sixteen? She looks like a grown I

0:50:03.440 --> 0:50:07.000
<v Speaker 1>love it. Actually she's a middle school I'm sorry. She

0:50:07.239 --> 0:50:11.319
<v Speaker 1>looks past tween. Let me see, she looks the leven

0:50:11.360 --> 0:50:19.160
<v Speaker 1>You definitely fourteen, a freshman in person. She looks your

0:50:19.239 --> 0:50:22.040
<v Speaker 1>video she was so grown. Do you have the conversations

0:50:22.120 --> 0:50:24.480
<v Speaker 1>with her or do you hide? Are you able to hide?

0:50:24.520 --> 0:50:26.640
<v Speaker 1>Tumbler Twitter like now knowing that you could just see

0:50:26.640 --> 0:50:30.680
<v Speaker 1>those things that I'm like, so I no, no. I

0:50:30.880 --> 0:50:33.480
<v Speaker 1>told her, like, if you ever see like on the computer,

0:50:33.560 --> 0:50:34.839
<v Speaker 1>have you ever seen on the internet, have you ever

0:50:35.000 --> 0:50:37.759
<v Speaker 1>come across like pictures or videos of people having sex

0:50:38.000 --> 0:50:39.759
<v Speaker 1>out of it? I told her, it's like it's not real,

0:50:40.040 --> 0:50:42.320
<v Speaker 1>it's acting, you know, because I don't want her to

0:50:42.400 --> 0:50:46.279
<v Speaker 1>think that that's like real, like sax, you know. I

0:50:46.320 --> 0:50:49.560
<v Speaker 1>went to a porn panel with Eric Cindy Galla told

0:50:49.600 --> 0:50:55.040
<v Speaker 1>me that that's what I should say. She's so she's

0:50:55.120 --> 0:50:58.160
<v Speaker 1>this like she's a genius. She has a ted talk

0:50:58.280 --> 0:51:00.439
<v Speaker 1>that you should watch, but it's called make Love Porn.

0:51:00.560 --> 0:51:02.799
<v Speaker 1>But so some of her stuff look yeah, but it's

0:51:02.840 --> 0:51:06.280
<v Speaker 1>not like she's not anti porn. She's not that. She's

0:51:06.320 --> 0:51:10.840
<v Speaker 1>just like not she's about sex education and real sex

0:51:11.000 --> 0:51:13.480
<v Speaker 1>and like also showing people how to actually like how

0:51:13.640 --> 0:51:18.000
<v Speaker 1>real sex. Probably I went to a porn panel where

0:51:18.040 --> 0:51:20.680
<v Speaker 1>this woman Erkalla has shot up to her. She basically

0:51:20.840 --> 0:51:24.520
<v Speaker 1>was like, um, she's known as a feminist porn maker,

0:51:24.600 --> 0:51:27.359
<v Speaker 1>where basically the main thing with doing that is making

0:51:27.360 --> 0:51:30.600
<v Speaker 1>sure you see women come and you see the man's face, right,

0:51:30.800 --> 0:51:33.040
<v Speaker 1>so you see real sex. And she said I always

0:51:33.120 --> 0:51:37.040
<v Speaker 1>felt like in schools they should show to people and

0:51:37.120 --> 0:51:38.799
<v Speaker 1>kind of how it happens, whether they don't, they make

0:51:38.840 --> 0:51:41.920
<v Speaker 1>it a huge scene just showing how it happens instead

0:51:41.920 --> 0:51:44.480
<v Speaker 1>of showing these pictures so people can understand that it

0:51:44.520 --> 0:51:46.480
<v Speaker 1>can come from love and it's not just bang bang bang,

0:51:46.520 --> 0:51:48.160
<v Speaker 1>because when they start to search it on their own,

0:51:48.440 --> 0:51:50.879
<v Speaker 1>they find porn. And boys are very out of touch

0:51:50.960 --> 0:51:52.480
<v Speaker 1>with how they have sex with women, and that's why

0:51:52.560 --> 0:51:55.520
<v Speaker 1>girls are having these experiences because men think are supposed

0:51:55.560 --> 0:51:58.800
<v Speaker 1>to funk like this. You know, I'm so open, like

0:51:58.920 --> 0:52:02.800
<v Speaker 1>and I'm totally like comfortable like with sex and everything.

0:52:03.000 --> 0:52:06.160
<v Speaker 1>But it's still there's something about talking about it with

0:52:06.239 --> 0:52:12.719
<v Speaker 1>your kid that is is it weird? Yes, school, the

0:52:13.040 --> 0:52:15.640
<v Speaker 1>school pretty much having the conversation and not you have.

0:52:15.920 --> 0:52:17.640
<v Speaker 1>I don't know if I've had the conversation with her.

0:52:17.680 --> 0:52:20.200
<v Speaker 1>I still do, but it's not like you have. When

0:52:20.280 --> 0:52:21.800
<v Speaker 1>she was like six years old and she was like,

0:52:21.840 --> 0:52:23.320
<v Speaker 1>how did the baby get in there? And I was like,

0:52:23.400 --> 0:52:25.759
<v Speaker 1>do you really want to know? And she was like yeah.

0:52:25.800 --> 0:52:28.480
<v Speaker 1>I was like, well yeah, I told her. And then

0:52:28.520 --> 0:52:30.400
<v Speaker 1>she was like, I'm telling dad that you said that,

0:52:30.680 --> 0:52:32.960
<v Speaker 1>and I was like, go ahead. But it's how it happened.

0:52:33.040 --> 0:52:36.080
<v Speaker 1>So whatever. What was his response, like that you had

0:52:36.120 --> 0:52:38.239
<v Speaker 1>that conversation. He was just like yo, she told like

0:52:38.360 --> 0:52:40.880
<v Speaker 1>all her friends and like all the parents, are you

0:52:41.040 --> 0:52:44.279
<v Speaker 1>call it her penis and her vagina? Yes? Okay, oh yeah,

0:52:44.400 --> 0:52:46.239
<v Speaker 1>I know some of the parents, some of my friends called,

0:52:46.400 --> 0:52:50.080
<v Speaker 1>have their kids calling there's a problem with that, like

0:52:50.520 --> 0:52:52.840
<v Speaker 1>to sit here and call it like your coin purse

0:52:53.040 --> 0:52:55.560
<v Speaker 1>or any other type of names like who who and ship.

0:52:55.640 --> 0:52:57.960
<v Speaker 1>I'm like, what made me call it my private? And

0:52:58.000 --> 0:53:01.080
<v Speaker 1>I was like what? And then my mommy so private.

0:53:01.840 --> 0:53:03.439
<v Speaker 1>We would be in the car and my mom would

0:53:03.480 --> 0:53:05.680
<v Speaker 1>touch my leg and make me slap her hand if

0:53:05.760 --> 0:53:07.360
<v Speaker 1>like men did that to me, like she would like

0:53:07.400 --> 0:53:10.800
<v Speaker 1>always teach me that. Wow, that's amazing. It was I

0:53:10.960 --> 0:53:13.879
<v Speaker 1>was young, young, young. I think it's a nasty uncle.

0:53:14.880 --> 0:53:16.880
<v Speaker 1>She wanted to make sure that I really believe that,

0:53:17.320 --> 0:53:19.360
<v Speaker 1>because every time I'd be alone with him, they'd be like,

0:53:19.400 --> 0:53:25.839
<v Speaker 1>where is she? Oh my god, I'm scared, where is she? Where?

0:53:26.719 --> 0:53:31.720
<v Speaker 1>Where's a little wheezy? Like my daughter is very aware

0:53:32.120 --> 0:53:35.279
<v Speaker 1>of men looking at me on the street, and she's

0:53:35.400 --> 0:53:37.400
<v Speaker 1>very aware of all of that. And I told her

0:53:37.440 --> 0:53:39.880
<v Speaker 1>soon they're going to be looking at you, you know,

0:53:40.040 --> 0:53:42.719
<v Speaker 1>like it's going to happen soon. You're developing, you know, like,

0:53:43.560 --> 0:53:46.880
<v Speaker 1>so that sucks. I worried I'm gonna like murder somebody.

0:53:47.239 --> 0:53:49.440
<v Speaker 1>I really am. And her dad took her to the

0:53:49.520 --> 0:53:51.520
<v Speaker 1>mall not long ago when he was walking like thirty

0:53:51.800 --> 0:53:54.279
<v Speaker 1>behind her. She was with a friend, yeah, and he

0:53:54.400 --> 0:53:58.920
<v Speaker 1>saw guys looking at them. Adult one adult man was

0:53:58.960 --> 0:54:00.839
<v Speaker 1>looking at her friend, who's a or older. So she's

0:54:00.880 --> 0:54:02.719
<v Speaker 1>like extra, you know, she's more developed than my daughter.

0:54:02.840 --> 0:54:06.920
<v Speaker 1>But yeah, it's starting. It's like crazy. And the other

0:54:07.040 --> 0:54:09.560
<v Speaker 1>day she found my vibrator that was really Yeah. Talked

0:54:09.680 --> 0:54:12.480
<v Speaker 1>about was a single mom um, so I grew up

0:54:12.480 --> 0:54:15.040
<v Speaker 1>in a single parent household. And one of the things

0:54:15.120 --> 0:54:17.360
<v Speaker 1>that she talked to us a lot was how dating

0:54:17.480 --> 0:54:19.719
<v Speaker 1>was hard because as we were getting older and mine

0:54:19.840 --> 0:54:22.840
<v Speaker 1>there's there's three of us, so as we were getting older,

0:54:23.400 --> 0:54:26.759
<v Speaker 1>she literally was like, I feel like I can't date

0:54:26.840 --> 0:54:28.960
<v Speaker 1>certain men and bringing certain men into the house scare

0:54:29.000 --> 0:54:31.400
<v Speaker 1>me because you guys, now, even if you're covered, now

0:54:31.480 --> 0:54:33.480
<v Speaker 1>you have hips and thighs and ass and titties. And

0:54:33.920 --> 0:54:37.520
<v Speaker 1>I don't want my boyfriends to look at you ladies.

0:54:38.200 --> 0:54:40.319
<v Speaker 1>But y'all are women like y'all are y'all are crawing?

0:54:40.560 --> 0:54:42.719
<v Speaker 1>I do want to go ahead and and I think

0:54:42.920 --> 0:54:46.040
<v Speaker 1>our homel is quite hilarious today. So I want to

0:54:46.080 --> 0:54:47.879
<v Speaker 1>go ahead and get your feedback on this, because I'm

0:54:47.880 --> 0:54:50.440
<v Speaker 1>sure you have some in your bag too. Um. So

0:54:50.560 --> 0:54:52.759
<v Speaker 1>it says, hey, my loves. Of course, I have to

0:54:52.800 --> 0:54:54.800
<v Speaker 1>be like everyone else to say I love the podcast

0:54:55.160 --> 0:54:57.960
<v Speaker 1>and love you ladies and everything you're about. Okay, So

0:54:58.040 --> 0:55:02.640
<v Speaker 1>I'm twenty six. I've been married since June, but with

0:55:02.800 --> 0:55:04.879
<v Speaker 1>my hobby since we were seniors in high school two

0:55:04.880 --> 0:55:07.400
<v Speaker 1>thousand eleven. Jesus Christ, that's a long time. We have

0:55:07.480 --> 0:55:10.400
<v Speaker 1>a great marriage, and due to me being bisexual, we

0:55:10.520 --> 0:55:13.439
<v Speaker 1>have allowed other women to join us in the bedroom. Hey,

0:55:14.880 --> 0:55:17.640
<v Speaker 1>recently I started joking about really wanting to funk my

0:55:17.760 --> 0:55:20.000
<v Speaker 1>favorite singer who may or may not be out of

0:55:20.040 --> 0:55:22.600
<v Speaker 1>my league, girl Jack Quiz. We're gonna go ahead and

0:55:22.600 --> 0:55:25.360
<v Speaker 1>put his name out. You're gonna speaking into the universe.

0:55:25.719 --> 0:55:28.040
<v Speaker 1>Did you hear about girl? The lm A remake the

0:55:28.080 --> 0:55:30.440
<v Speaker 1>nigg who remains anything Black people will follow you and

0:55:30.560 --> 0:55:35.920
<v Speaker 1>you do the same. You need to be tipping no, no, no,

0:55:36.320 --> 0:55:44.720
<v Speaker 1>And he just still and as I sound, okay, anyways,

0:55:44.719 --> 0:55:49.120
<v Speaker 1>seeing this guy. He is all of five foot six.

0:55:50.520 --> 0:55:57.120
<v Speaker 1>This bro, that's my favorite song, jack Quis trip again anyway. Anyways,

0:55:57.280 --> 0:56:01.000
<v Speaker 1>he's blue check mark. Oh, he looks like he's from

0:56:01.520 --> 0:56:09.000
<v Speaker 1>like or something. He said. I figured he's famous, but

0:56:09.080 --> 0:56:11.040
<v Speaker 1>not too full of himself yet. Oh he has a

0:56:11.120 --> 0:56:14.960
<v Speaker 1>great smile. It doesn't make makeup for five six. Um,

0:56:17.640 --> 0:56:19.600
<v Speaker 1>sorry for hight shaving, all right, let me fin it.

0:56:19.680 --> 0:56:21.719
<v Speaker 1>Just says I figured he's famous but not too full

0:56:21.760 --> 0:56:24.160
<v Speaker 1>of himself yet. I just want to suck him and

0:56:24.200 --> 0:56:26.200
<v Speaker 1>go back to my life, not ask him to marry

0:56:26.239 --> 0:56:28.120
<v Speaker 1>me or try to have his baby or anything. My

0:56:28.280 --> 0:56:31.759
<v Speaker 1>husband said that would be the only nigga I could fuck,

0:56:31.840 --> 0:56:38.360
<v Speaker 1>because he like a lesbian. He said. My husband is

0:56:38.440 --> 0:56:40.920
<v Speaker 1>greedy and doesn't want to have an MMF threesome or

0:56:41.000 --> 0:56:43.719
<v Speaker 1>group sex where another man could touch me. Basically, he

0:56:43.800 --> 0:56:46.480
<v Speaker 1>figures it will never happen. So he said, yes, but

0:56:46.600 --> 0:56:50.080
<v Speaker 1>ship now I'm determined. So here's my question. How do

0:56:50.160 --> 0:56:52.200
<v Speaker 1>I make it known to jac Quis that I'm trying

0:56:52.239 --> 0:56:53.960
<v Speaker 1>to be a one night stand without being put on

0:56:54.080 --> 0:56:57.200
<v Speaker 1>blast or rejected. He's supposed to go on tour next year,

0:56:57.200 --> 0:56:59.040
<v Speaker 1>and if he comes back to my City St. Louis.

0:56:59.520 --> 0:57:01.480
<v Speaker 1>I'm tell of y'all. All I need is ten minutes

0:57:01.520 --> 0:57:03.840
<v Speaker 1>with him. Did you have any questions? Let me know.

0:57:04.080 --> 0:57:07.480
<v Speaker 1>Love Wheezy and Mandy and hope to see you guys

0:57:07.520 --> 0:57:10.160
<v Speaker 1>and say Louis some day signed Hella thirsty for Jacquis

0:57:10.280 --> 0:57:15.000
<v Speaker 1>bro Net girl planning in St. Louis And you actually no, ma'am.

0:57:15.600 --> 0:57:17.440
<v Speaker 1>The Rams got moved to l A. There's no more

0:57:17.560 --> 0:57:21.960
<v Speaker 1>football team. I don't believe. Yeah. I don't know why

0:57:22.000 --> 0:57:26.720
<v Speaker 1>you thought you would know sports. I don't either. I

0:57:26.960 --> 0:57:28.560
<v Speaker 1>was one. There was a high in high school and

0:57:28.680 --> 0:57:31.080
<v Speaker 1>data that went to the RAM. So that's how do yeah, say,

0:57:31.160 --> 0:57:33.720
<v Speaker 1>Louis Rams they moved there. Now the Chicago RAM or

0:57:33.840 --> 0:57:37.680
<v Speaker 1>not chic to slide into his DM. Okay a nude photo,

0:57:37.800 --> 0:57:46.240
<v Speaker 1>Yeah that's okay. Girls are had it there. Pause. I

0:57:46.400 --> 0:57:48.680
<v Speaker 1>wasn't gonna say nude. I was. When she said a photo,

0:57:48.800 --> 0:57:52.840
<v Speaker 1>I heard no, she said nude first, So send the

0:57:53.040 --> 0:57:56.200
<v Speaker 1>pussy spread over you really just she's married, right, so

0:57:56.240 --> 0:57:58.240
<v Speaker 1>you're getting what it's called a hall pass. You guys

0:57:58.320 --> 0:58:00.840
<v Speaker 1>have that one person that each can fuck and it's allowed.

0:58:01.560 --> 0:58:04.760
<v Speaker 1>I would jack queezes your one em and m would

0:58:04.760 --> 0:58:07.560
<v Speaker 1>be mine whould be your if you were in a relationship,

0:58:07.600 --> 0:58:09.560
<v Speaker 1>who would you want to haul pass for? Jason Momo?

0:58:10.200 --> 0:58:17.560
<v Speaker 1>Oh yes, Jason Momo was fine man and Carl did

0:58:17.600 --> 0:58:21.480
<v Speaker 1>I go, He's fine? Yeah, I think, And I just

0:58:21.680 --> 0:58:23.760
<v Speaker 1>I don't know, I'm really interested in and I know

0:58:23.880 --> 0:58:25.680
<v Speaker 1>he's here but he's married. But methyd Man, I just

0:58:25.760 --> 0:58:27.720
<v Speaker 1>feel like he would like, Yeah, I do have like

0:58:27.880 --> 0:58:29.720
<v Speaker 1>something about methyd Man. I feel like, oh my god,

0:58:30.560 --> 0:58:37.800
<v Speaker 1>I feel like what meThe Manic looks like my god,

0:58:37.880 --> 0:58:42.040
<v Speaker 1>his mouth, his teeth are so good, so good. I

0:58:42.160 --> 0:58:44.320
<v Speaker 1>love me some Methemic old something you know, I don't

0:58:44.320 --> 0:58:45.840
<v Speaker 1>even liked because I just feel like he could show

0:58:45.880 --> 0:58:48.800
<v Speaker 1>me something I love. Old man. Yeah, I just thought

0:58:48.840 --> 0:58:50.720
<v Speaker 1>the guy that's my age recently and I was like

0:58:51.160 --> 0:58:53.479
<v Speaker 1>it was good. But you know, he's a fucking women

0:58:53.640 --> 0:58:57.960
<v Speaker 1>old like old man, you're like elders. She won a wheelchair,

0:58:58.720 --> 0:59:07.760
<v Speaker 1>not even almost dying, so she's saying new photo. The

0:59:07.880 --> 0:59:10.440
<v Speaker 1>reason that I'm kind of like sending a risk a

0:59:10.600 --> 0:59:13.000
<v Speaker 1>photo is a good idea is because she has a

0:59:13.080 --> 0:59:16.360
<v Speaker 1>man and she just wants to fun. Whereas like, all right,

0:59:16.400 --> 0:59:19.560
<v Speaker 1>how about sexy lingerie like Guarden. I think she's just

0:59:20.040 --> 0:59:22.080
<v Speaker 1>like at least like a cute ash shot something in

0:59:22.120 --> 0:59:24.040
<v Speaker 1>the mirror. I love that y'all are going this route.

0:59:24.040 --> 0:59:26.320
<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna take it somewhere completely different when it's worked

0:59:26.360 --> 0:59:28.960
<v Speaker 1>for friends of mine, specifically maybe regular girls who don't

0:59:29.000 --> 0:59:30.960
<v Speaker 1>have a ton of followers. So since this is what

0:59:31.080 --> 0:59:33.880
<v Speaker 1>you do, you find out who's in his camp. You

0:59:34.080 --> 0:59:37.040
<v Speaker 1>somehow befriend the people in his camp, so then when

0:59:37.080 --> 0:59:39.240
<v Speaker 1>he comes to the show, you get free tickets, you

0:59:39.320 --> 0:59:41.480
<v Speaker 1>get backstage, and you're able to just see him in

0:59:41.560 --> 0:59:44.920
<v Speaker 1>his seat. Niggas is asking Alex for pictures of my feet.

0:59:45.000 --> 0:59:47.880
<v Speaker 1>That's why. No, you go to the people in the

0:59:47.960 --> 0:59:51.439
<v Speaker 1>camp and you befriends someone in the camp because this way,

0:59:51.680 --> 0:59:53.560
<v Speaker 1>when he does come to St. Louis, I'm sure there's

0:59:53.560 --> 0:59:55.080
<v Speaker 1>gonna be a lot of girls, but this way you're

0:59:55.080 --> 0:59:57.800
<v Speaker 1>able to get in his vicinity. So you're gonna get

0:59:57.800 --> 1:00:00.920
<v Speaker 1>tickets to the show, possibly backstage, and the homies might

1:00:00.960 --> 1:00:02.320
<v Speaker 1>be trying to funk with you, but you they ain't

1:00:02.320 --> 1:00:03.720
<v Speaker 1>gotta know. You got out to hear your motive bit

1:00:03.720 --> 1:00:06.640
<v Speaker 1>you're trying to go for the goal. With some stories

1:00:06.840 --> 1:00:10.160
<v Speaker 1>like when you're singing in the car and ship especially music.

1:00:10.280 --> 1:00:12.800
<v Speaker 1>Make sure your page is public mentioned him in stories.

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<v Speaker 1>That's actually how I got one dude that I'm fucked

1:00:17.960 --> 1:00:23.160
<v Speaker 1>from attack. I was like, oh, ship, wait, what tell me?

1:00:23.880 --> 1:00:27.400
<v Speaker 1>I don't want to be too obviously already doing mad

1:00:27.480 --> 1:00:31.680
<v Speaker 1>obvious ship yo. But it was months months months months ago,

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<v Speaker 1>or just like a random guy, but you just kept

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<v Speaker 1>like famous guy. It was months ago and I mentioned

1:00:35.680 --> 1:00:37.320
<v Speaker 1>him in the story and he was like, laughing my

1:00:37.400 --> 1:00:39.880
<v Speaker 1>ass off, you wild And then months later he did

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<v Speaker 1>it again and I was like, yeah, it works. You

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<v Speaker 1>just gotta make sure you're really cute. You know you

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<v Speaker 1>do so, make sure you have your first couple pictures

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<v Speaker 1>are really bomb when you do it right. I will

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<v Speaker 1>say a lot of men aren't even turned off if

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<v Speaker 1>you don't have a K behind your number anymore. They

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<v Speaker 1>like the little low key bitches. So my god, I

1:01:02.360 --> 1:01:05.680
<v Speaker 1>made a choke about a dude saying like, oh, like

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<v Speaker 1>whatever you hit me with the lines you a blue

1:01:08.040 --> 1:01:09.680
<v Speaker 1>check as he's like, I say the same thing with

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<v Speaker 1>bitches with a K a k oh. They love when

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<v Speaker 1>I said, like, so, I have a wide variety of friends,

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<v Speaker 1>and the ones with the low count niggas be really

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<v Speaker 1>interested in like oh, don't nobody know her? So like

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<v Speaker 1>so like, even if you don't have a lot of followers,

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<v Speaker 1>don't beat the turt like, but you could still get it.

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<v Speaker 1>I like men that just don't have Instagram or why

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<v Speaker 1>don't you like when he is coming to your city,

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<v Speaker 1>right be like, yo, I see you're coming to St. Louis.

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<v Speaker 1>I bought a ticket just to let you know. I

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<v Speaker 1>have a whole husband. I've been telling him about how

1:01:39.760 --> 1:01:42.840
<v Speaker 1>bad I want to fuck you, like or you could

1:01:42.840 --> 1:01:45.320
<v Speaker 1>do the other rout. Sometimes it works. It's a little cheesy.

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<v Speaker 1>But the girl from Howard who just hit up Michael B.

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<v Speaker 1>Jordan's and was like, I want to get you a

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<v Speaker 1>smoothie and he responded and they had like a SMOOTHI

1:01:52.160 --> 1:02:00.120
<v Speaker 1>dayzing bro wasn't the shocker. You know, since I've tked

1:02:00.120 --> 1:02:01.960
<v Speaker 1>about Michael be joining on this podcast, I have seen

1:02:02.080 --> 1:02:04.720
<v Speaker 1>him three fucking times. I guess you didn't look like

1:02:05.760 --> 1:02:10.560
<v Speaker 1>did you have those? It's okay, it's his club bit

1:02:10.680 --> 1:02:12.760
<v Speaker 1>he's a part owner in it. Okay, Well, I don't

1:02:12.920 --> 1:02:16.520
<v Speaker 1>like y'all last lab go check him out. But it's fine.

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<v Speaker 1>If you go, he'll probably wave at you. But her

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<v Speaker 1>were these braids because you don't like you don't like

1:02:23.320 --> 1:02:27.120
<v Speaker 1>black girls. Really, it's always one word here. She goes like,

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<v Speaker 1>i'ven showing your podcast. You can look a little cultured

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<v Speaker 1>and some picture right wait, I got arching in my eyebrows.

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<v Speaker 1>Be she bought a reka. So seriously, look, you don't

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<v Speaker 1>want to look Latina. Don't feel No, I'm not, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>I'm it's a consult. Yeah, seriously, you could be a

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<v Speaker 1>little mixed. I ain't gonna li so real quick, paulse

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<v Speaker 1>I had I had a diversity and inclusive way. I

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<v Speaker 1>had a diversity and inclusive event. So it's all the

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<v Speaker 1>black and Latina first year highers of my company and

1:03:05.280 --> 1:03:07.200
<v Speaker 1>we just had it. And I'm not gonna lie. Me

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<v Speaker 1>and the other black people were looking at some of

1:03:08.800 --> 1:03:10.760
<v Speaker 1>the latinos like so they just let white people come

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<v Speaker 1>in here. But I guess I'm all the mother tags

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<v Speaker 1>like you better say Alvarez, bitch. I better not seeing

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<v Speaker 1>a white person name and a lot of people of

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<v Speaker 1>color spaces. And let me say this, one white girl

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<v Speaker 1>wrote me, and I was so. I did this event

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<v Speaker 1>called Sage and Sex with a miliorities, so I put

1:03:33.320 --> 1:03:35.520
<v Speaker 1>black and brown girls and men ladies and men on

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<v Speaker 1>bran are people finally have an event for us. This

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<v Speaker 1>white girl wrote me and was like, hey, I want

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<v Speaker 1>to buy a ticket, but I also don't want to violate,

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<v Speaker 1>like if this is a safe space for just them

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<v Speaker 1>and I won't come. And I was like, wow, of course,

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<v Speaker 1>nice of her. I'm not gonna lie. I'm I'm a

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<v Speaker 1>part of the National Association of Black Accountants, and blacks

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<v Speaker 1>were very welcoming. I'll be mad as fun when Asians

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<v Speaker 1>and white spearing on mother fucking events like y'all better

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<v Speaker 1>go to the people. I've come, but they're not black.

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<v Speaker 1>It's National Association of Black Accountants. Bit they got the organizations,

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<v Speaker 1>but by coming and taking it, like I'll admit that,

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<v Speaker 1>I've definitely been like damn no, Like I've definitely caught

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<v Speaker 1>some like feelings like what I'm white, I get left

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<v Speaker 1>out now, Like I felt like that I'm not gonna

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<v Speaker 1>lie like I'm lying, yeah, yes, yes, I mean I

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<v Speaker 1>have experienced that, like the white tears. It's real. How

1:04:32.000 --> 1:04:33.800
<v Speaker 1>does it make you feel? You know? I'm just like,

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<v Speaker 1>can I tell you before we part? I will say

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<v Speaker 1>this was great, this was great? All right, we got

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<v Speaker 1>for a minute. I'm make this really quick. I am, well,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm glad she didn't say you're leaving me out. But

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<v Speaker 1>also I'm like, it wasn't black and brown exclusive. It

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<v Speaker 1>was just that space for them to talk about, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>sex and motions. And so I had an event. Um

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<v Speaker 1>it was also talk New York and a friend of

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<v Speaker 1>mine who's white, she's a woman. Then she wrote me

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<v Speaker 1>and she said, oh, I have an idea for your show.

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<v Speaker 1>Text me. I'm like, girl, you hang up with me

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<v Speaker 1>all the time, Like you know about my show. You

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<v Speaker 1>know it's in two hours. Why aren't you here? You

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<v Speaker 1>funk with me? Right, I've had three shows in New

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<v Speaker 1>York and you've never made an effort to come to

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<v Speaker 1>any of them. Are we friends or not? She wrote me.

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<v Speaker 1>She wrote me back and she said this, did I

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<v Speaker 1>have to lead her number? How good a friends were

1:05:30.520 --> 1:05:32.800
<v Speaker 1>you with her? Good enough to where we hang out

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<v Speaker 1>about two or three times a month ago out. You're

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<v Speaker 1>not that inviting to white people. I know you, So

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<v Speaker 1>I don't take that offense. You're not mean to stay

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<v Speaker 1>in office. But it's a little jaden and it comes

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<v Speaker 1>off with some of your followers. They can be mean.

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<v Speaker 1>It's noticed that, but I mean, I'm not your demographic.

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<v Speaker 1>I said, I don't mean the fuck you know, I

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<v Speaker 1>funk white man, and they come bitch or my friends. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>that's if you're of someone's friends. And she said, you

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<v Speaker 1>make jokes like my friends Sarah Palin, And that's fine,

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<v Speaker 1>But say we're at your show and you say that

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<v Speaker 1>to me, and people are crazy, and it puts me

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<v Speaker 1>in a poor position. I don't know, maybe I'm overthinking it.

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<v Speaker 1>First of all, she was scared to go with her.

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<v Speaker 1>Don't get me wrong, I love you, know what I'm saying,

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<v Speaker 1>But like, after a few hours, I'm ready to go, right.

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<v Speaker 1>I go to these bars with you, with these midtown

1:06:16.720 --> 1:06:19.440
<v Speaker 1>uniform dudes, and even though I dave white men like

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<v Speaker 1>I'm talking about far down the European, they got to

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<v Speaker 1>be like not do so that we go. I just

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<v Speaker 1>like these places for the drinks in the vibe. I

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<v Speaker 1>go to places that make me uncomfortable all of the

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<v Speaker 1>time with her. That is never my space. So you

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<v Speaker 1>can't for one second come to my black ass show,

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<v Speaker 1>which you know is my demo. My people, you know

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<v Speaker 1>what I'm saying, And I only have this space for

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<v Speaker 1>them because everything else is for you. And it blew

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<v Speaker 1>my mind that she wrote me that, and I haven't

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<v Speaker 1>spoken her like I've been curving her. I've really he

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<v Speaker 1>had a hard time. Yeah, no, no, no, I'm I'm

1:06:56.320 --> 1:06:58.880
<v Speaker 1>talking out like you have. But but to me, that

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<v Speaker 1>also shows that she's not really accepting of you who

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<v Speaker 1>you are. Why you're so prideful to be black? Why

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<v Speaker 1>you why you vouch for why? Why? Why? Why you

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<v Speaker 1>cater to the audience you do? Why you say this

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<v Speaker 1>ship you do? Like do? We don't have a lot

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<v Speaker 1>of things. This Dub has a friend who voter for Trump,

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<v Speaker 1>but she cut off and now she's friends with her again.

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<v Speaker 1>And I talked to Dub about it. I'm like, what

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<v Speaker 1>would you do? And she's like, I'm not gonna lie.

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<v Speaker 1>She lives doub List in Denver's one of my black friends. Right,

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<v Speaker 1>how did that one go in there next weekend? Uh?

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<v Speaker 1>She's like, bro, Like I had to talk to her.

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<v Speaker 1>I had to tell my friend why I'm upset. Not

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<v Speaker 1>every friend is going to be there with me, And

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like I can't because I have so many

1:07:40.320 --> 1:07:42.480
<v Speaker 1>white friends that get it. Why do I have to

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<v Speaker 1>teach you? But at the same time, it did bother

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<v Speaker 1>me so she meant enough to where it bothered me.

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<v Speaker 1>It's just crazy to me that someone would think like

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<v Speaker 1>I don't see like horrible decisions like alive. She's like,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't see that as just for black people. Say

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<v Speaker 1>anybody we have such think we also have I do

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<v Speaker 1>also want to say we've done We've done three live shows.

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<v Speaker 1>Now we're about to go on a tour. Not one

1:08:06.520 --> 1:08:07.920
<v Speaker 1>live show, mind you. One of them we had an

1:08:07.960 --> 1:08:09.840
<v Speaker 1>open bar. The other we did have a bar available,

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<v Speaker 1>not one live show. Have we even had security? Also?

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<v Speaker 1>Why really great, respectable, well worked like higher to upper

1:08:18.439 --> 1:08:22.520
<v Speaker 1>middle class, like all with corporate jobs, very well respected

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<v Speaker 1>black listeners black Latino. Let me let me add everyone

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<v Speaker 1>in there and we actually do as she feel. But

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<v Speaker 1>did she feel like she wasn't wanted there or did

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<v Speaker 1>she feel like unsafe because she thinks black people hate

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<v Speaker 1>her like I think she's saying those are too differ

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<v Speaker 1>Sarah Palin friend, I realized that, to be fair, why

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<v Speaker 1>did you call her that? Like Sarah, She's like in

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<v Speaker 1>a quest and like I'm going to Saratoga for the

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<v Speaker 1>weekend to ride my horse, and she could Could I

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<v Speaker 1>ask you a question? Would you have a would you

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<v Speaker 1>be offended if she called you her black friend, because essentially,

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<v Speaker 1>if you take it to that, look, I know you're

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<v Speaker 1>saying it, don't say my white friend, but Sarah Palin. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>but even even still, like if she called you, say,

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<v Speaker 1>a black celebrity because you're black. To be fair, Sarah

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<v Speaker 1>Palin loves the guns and like all that ship like

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<v Speaker 1>that's why I call her sarap. But to her, to her,

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<v Speaker 1>she could be looking at it that way. She told

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<v Speaker 1>you that she didn't like that. She could have been like, yo,

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<v Speaker 1>stop calling me that. He said, you called me her

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<v Speaker 1>you're Sarah pa never heard it before. She may not

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<v Speaker 1>like that, so saying she should have said that, she

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<v Speaker 1>never did so that honestly meant it from the gun thing,

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<v Speaker 1>you know what I'm saying. If she would have called me,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm trying to think of a beautiful black Beyonce Sara Palin. Ever,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know. I mean, okay, who's a ratchet like

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<v Speaker 1>she called you? If she goes and introduces you to

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<v Speaker 1>her friends as an Jemima bro, oh my god, you

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<v Speaker 1>have to talk out on text message about this because

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<v Speaker 1>he's like, and that's the thing. It's like, is it

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<v Speaker 1>worth it enough to talk about because now that you're

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<v Speaker 1>saying it, I didn't realize that could have been hurtful.

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<v Speaker 1>Angel Marma, I could be your new white friends and

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<v Speaker 1>you couldn't like you could guys. My friend Rosa parks like, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>that's what I'm saying. She called me Angela. See does

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<v Speaker 1>some say Sarah Palin is not a compliment? Si? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>you're not like, hey, I'm with my Like it's not

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<v Speaker 1>Mi Gwen Stefani over here. I'd be like, yeah, I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know how the backgirl, I love being outdoors with

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<v Speaker 1>guns and I would make I would bumble rope out.

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<v Speaker 1>She's like got she got no. I mean, first of all,

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<v Speaker 1>people can call me anything, and I'm not like I

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<v Speaker 1>think a lot of sensitive people. And if she's bringing

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<v Speaker 1>up the race issue with you, look some type of

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<v Speaker 1>way of how you view her as a white woman,

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<v Speaker 1>being that we always talk about our three white listeners. Also,

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<v Speaker 1>I really do friend but my white friends does because

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<v Speaker 1>I'm nobody. I mean, I guess sometimes someone being so

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<v Speaker 1>pro black and be intimidating because you're like that, does

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<v Speaker 1>does that mean that they're anti white? So it takes

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<v Speaker 1>a minute. It's like some people are anti corn, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>and then we're having these conversations about gun violence, about

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<v Speaker 1>you know, the things that are happening within our black community,

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<v Speaker 1>the appropriation and these white girls now trying to be black.

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<v Speaker 1>Like there's a lot of yeah, the black fish, and

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<v Speaker 1>so there's just a lot of conversation black fish. I

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<v Speaker 1>just saw this. What the hell see when you be

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<v Speaker 1>having him eyebrows done? No, I'm just a podcast, okay, um,

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<v Speaker 1>improper etiquette. We're on iTunes and everything else. She says

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<v Speaker 1>some problematic ships. So if y'all like problematic view, you

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<v Speaker 1>don't want the female Andrew, Yeah, listen to hip. It's true. Listen,

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<v Speaker 1>that's that's a compliment to me. I don't. Yeah, I

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<v Speaker 1>love him. I think he's great, and you don't want

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<v Speaker 1>to take him every fucking conversation and push it over

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<v Speaker 1>the edge that I'm not lied though. This was really refreshing.

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<v Speaker 1>I think I'm very in the middle about everything I'm

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<v Speaker 1>trying to I'm nervous as fun because I've been talking

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<v Speaker 1>about sympathizing and empathizing with and you are here calling

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<v Speaker 1>people Sarah Palin this ship. Why are you worried about that? Well,

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<v Speaker 1>because I mean, for the first time. Everyone I said,

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<v Speaker 1>there's growth. How I've been learning to accept people for

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<v Speaker 1>who they are. I think at one point for a while,

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<v Speaker 1>probably the last year, I was like, funk everybody that

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<v Speaker 1>vote for Trump? Yeah, well, I mean a lot of

1:12:27.200 --> 1:12:30.080
<v Speaker 1>people feel that way. Yeah, But now I'm realizing, like

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<v Speaker 1>once my black friend did it, I was punk. So

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<v Speaker 1>were And where can our listeners follow you? Um? You

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<v Speaker 1>can follow me on Instagram at Liam mob and on

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<v Speaker 1>Twitter at Liam McSweeney. Hey, well, I of course you're amazing.

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<v Speaker 1>Everyone follow her. I also want to see here and

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<v Speaker 1>say shout out to everyone in the d m V area.

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<v Speaker 1>DC sold out first week, no problem. Um, we will

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<v Speaker 1>be releasing some extra tickets. We don't know when. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't even know when this episode, Like, there's gonna be

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<v Speaker 1>like ten tickets, and manly decided because I know some

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<v Speaker 1>people didn't get to hear you, so we're going to

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<v Speaker 1>release them on a certain day and time. We haven't

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<v Speaker 1>been it out yet. Keep following our social media's um,

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<v Speaker 1>so go ahead and follow at horrible underscored decision promoters.

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<v Speaker 1>Because the show is gonna sell out. It it's only

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<v Speaker 1>like ten tickets left, so talk to them we'll try

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<v Speaker 1>to meet you all in New York. The next one

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<v Speaker 1>in New York. I'm coming Yeah, And we also have

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<v Speaker 1>a show guys, if you haven't yet, we're already halfway

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<v Speaker 1>sold out, so go ahead and get your tickets for

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<v Speaker 1>Chicago on March and be tuned in. We will be

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<v Speaker 1>dropping dates for Toronto, al Ai, New York, and possibly Orlando,

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<v Speaker 1>so we are looking to come to Florida. Um this

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<v Speaker 1>has been yet though, another episode of horrible decisions by