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Speaker 1: Hey, guys, welcome to get another episode of Horrible Decisions.

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Speaker 1: This your girl, Mandy b a k A Peggy Bundy

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Speaker 1: bitch a k A the booty be a k A

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Speaker 1: man does Little mintle a k A that bitch? And

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Speaker 1: I am sitting across from I am wheezy. I don't

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Speaker 1: have any a k oh a k Forty eight months

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Speaker 1: is two years? There you go? Because I was getting on,

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Speaker 1: how do man for ship? I don't know how I

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Speaker 1: let that happen? I think because I was like thinking,

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Speaker 1: forty eight hours, forty eight that's that's what it is.

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Speaker 1: That okay, wait, that's what it was. I was just

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Speaker 1: thinking that when you said it, I was like, yeah,

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Speaker 1: it's two years. I really that. Actually, now that you're

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Speaker 1: actually coming from you saying that, I could say, that's

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Speaker 1: what we're just talking, we're having and yeah, I can

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Speaker 1: see how you can make that mistaken. I think I

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Speaker 1: ain't even gonna hold you. Forty eight hours is two days.

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Speaker 1: That's two years, Okay, Okay, I bet you. Okay, So

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Speaker 1: hor have y'all, gotta y'all gotta can you tell you

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Speaker 1: what it's like? It's one of these ready all right,

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Speaker 1: spell stop as t op spell Top TLP. What do

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Speaker 1: you do with a red light stop? What do you

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Speaker 1: do with a green light stop? Oh? Ship, Yeah, I

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Speaker 1: wasna make sure you're as you guys can tell. We

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Speaker 1: have a third voice Ambi Mike, and we've been actually

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Speaker 1: trying to get your ass on, but she's like, can

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Speaker 1: you guys record at eleven am during the week. It

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Speaker 1: was like, pitch, honestly, yes, you have time to really

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Speaker 1: grow on me. Like now I like you. But at

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Speaker 1: first I was like, are we gonna be honest? Be honest,

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Speaker 1: I will be honest, bring it to bring you on

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Speaker 1: a while ago, and we were riding back and forth

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Speaker 1: and I was like, you know, she has her pod

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Speaker 1: and we was last when we first started talking and

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Speaker 1: was trying to hate Oh. She was like, she was like,

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Speaker 1: I'm not even gonna lie. Maybe if you can bring

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Speaker 1: the second girl on, She's like she's has some very

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Speaker 1: um that action. She said, um, but wait, you know

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Speaker 1: what she's like, And then she tried to be like

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Speaker 1: have you heard her on Brilliant Idiots? Have you listened

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Speaker 1: to her show? It's like me time And then like

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Speaker 1: she used to even said, like some of your like

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Speaker 1: it's the stories like you you agree with you want

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Speaker 1: to bring her on our show, and I'm not gonna lie.

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Speaker 1: We have sometimes you gotta have people on that you

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Speaker 1: don't fully agree with. You know, you have grown to learn. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: my most convert like, my most intriguing conversations come from

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Speaker 1: people that I don't have the same opinion with um.

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Speaker 1: But it took me time. Actually, I think it was

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Speaker 1: Alex who changed my mind a little bit. He was like, yo,

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Speaker 1: I filmed an episode of their show They're dope, blah

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Speaker 1: blah blah. And I was like, and then I loosened

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Speaker 1: and I was like, Okay, yeah, so you really really

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Speaker 1: frant episode. You probably should have been all like like

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Speaker 1: eight month. It took eight months for her to really

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Speaker 1: like warm up to you because you And I was like,

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Speaker 1: why are white women so mad? Were you? Like? Yes,

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Speaker 1: I like you from some all sides, you know. I mean,

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Speaker 1: it's the same thing when you listen to Brilliant, it's

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Speaker 1: hard to like. And I get it because the reason

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Speaker 1: I fell in love a Brilliant Idiots years ago was

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Speaker 1: because they were so different. There were certain things Andre

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Speaker 1: would say that would really piss me the funk off.

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Speaker 1: But then once you get to learn and know someone

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Speaker 1: and like listen through and through you just realize they're

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Speaker 1: trying to spark the convo. And I see that's what

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Speaker 1: you're doing now. And also it's like so especially like

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Speaker 1: right now in like the climate that like we live in,

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Speaker 1: like if we could all just like allow people to

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Speaker 1: like have their own And I'm not saying allow their

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Speaker 1: own opinions where it's like we want to kill all

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Speaker 1: the Jews or anything like that, saying like people like

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Speaker 1: are going to have different opinions on things because we

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Speaker 1: all have different life experiences and just because someone might

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Speaker 1: think a little differently doesn't mean that they're x y

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Speaker 1: Z and you should cancel them and never talk to

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Speaker 1: them again and forget them, you know what I mean.

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Speaker 1: Like even Kanye, like, so don't even say that because

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Speaker 1: with with our platform, like me and we are open

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Speaker 1: to a lot of things, um, and so even bringing

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Speaker 1: people on here that may think differently and I'm not

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Speaker 1: even gonna lie me. And we thought we were open

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Speaker 1: until we've had some guests and we both looked at

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Speaker 1: them like like we ain't doing this ship. So like

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Speaker 1: even to finally be able to come across people and

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Speaker 1: just genuinely ask them questions, you like, growth, bitch, all

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Speaker 1: growing here? You know what? It took my wokest friends, seriously,

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Speaker 1: my most socially conscious for the people friends to tell

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Speaker 1: me like, yes, you can be with friends with someone

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Speaker 1: that voted for Trump. And I've like was really struggling.

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Speaker 1: I was on Instagram live like trying to like have

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Speaker 1: a breaking friends with this one. No no, no no Dada

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Speaker 1: is like breaking up a friendship over it, you know.

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Speaker 1: And someone that I've known for a while that told

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Speaker 1: their name. I was really hurt. Asked about three friends

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Speaker 1: that I know are like in the streets for black people,

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Speaker 1: women fighting for our rights every day that we're like,

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Speaker 1: it is what it is. You have to get over it.

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Speaker 1: You're gonna have to grow up at some point. You

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Speaker 1: just have to. So why are you still like uncancelled Kanye?

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Speaker 1: Because I think Kanye is detrimental towards black people with

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Speaker 1: the ship that he says, and you don't think and

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Speaker 1: I think he'll be voting for Trump is technically detrimental

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Speaker 1: to black people. I think that someone voting for Trump

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Speaker 1: for a financial gain and that didn't realize what they

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Speaker 1: were doing, like as long as you voted for Strup

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Speaker 1: and you can realize that you made a mistake. You know,

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Speaker 1: people thinking, wait, hold because are you a Trump supporter? No,

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Speaker 1: I'm like not, like, but I'm gonna tell you I

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Speaker 1: didn't vote. I didn't vote. Remember you saying yeah, I

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Speaker 1: didn't vote. Then I said yeah, no, because guess we

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Speaker 1: get the freedom to not vote, like that's the thing.

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Speaker 1: And I've never not voted. I was like, at one point,

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Speaker 1: women couldn't vote. This is my women for this, And

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Speaker 1: then this last election, I was like, hell to the fun, No,

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Speaker 1: I'm not voting for voting for him. Voting for E's

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Speaker 1: a Green Party thing? Right, like if it gus, yes,

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Speaker 1: I could have voted, like right exactly, but it was

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Speaker 1: just also my mind like I just wasn't. But no,

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Speaker 1: I mean, I'll be honest. I need the people in

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Speaker 1: my life that And it's only two that I know

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Speaker 1: they realized that they had done something wrong that they

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Speaker 1: weren't all the way like, look at it, bro, what

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Speaker 1: if kids are in cages, but hold on, kids have

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Speaker 1: been in cages. Fine, Okay, they've been in cages, but

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Speaker 1: they've been tear gassed. You know, we've been bombing people.

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Speaker 1: George Bush was not a good president. His father wasn't

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Speaker 1: a good president. They that wants conversion therapy for me

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Speaker 1: and Mandy with eight pussy before Wait, wait what for

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Speaker 1: caes He wants conversion So because me and you are

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Speaker 1: Mike parents, he wants you guys to go to conversion therapy.

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Speaker 1: He about it. He has like horrible decisions. I got you.

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Speaker 1: I'm sending you sucking bitches. You gotta stop being home

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Speaker 1: stopping pussy. Me and my wife are gonna get the

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Speaker 1: Holy ghost going through you and you. But I'm a cheerleader.

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Speaker 1: Wait what the movie with God the girl from American

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Speaker 1: Pie with a curly hair name starts with Natasha something,

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Speaker 1: but I'm a cheerleader. Her parents were saying that she

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Speaker 1: thought she was a lesbian. She's like, but I'm a cheerleader.

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Speaker 1: And they sent up to a gay conversion therapy and

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Speaker 1: all the guys they were like, no, I totally love women.

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Speaker 1: Now it changed me. That's amazing somebody to remember that movie.

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Speaker 1: But look, my look, you know I have family that's

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Speaker 1: that are Trump supporters, that are not racists. I think,

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Speaker 1: I think, I think it's it's cool that you can't

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Speaker 1: align the two together. It doesn't mean are they There's

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Speaker 1: also this really like there's a lack of understanding for

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Speaker 1: black working class people have so much in common with

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Speaker 1: don't know it. Have more um foodstamp and section eate

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Speaker 1: the black people. And of course they attached they attached it.

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Speaker 1: And it's not just white people, are they? Yeah? But no.

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Speaker 1: I think another thing that I had to realize is

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Speaker 1: are black friends. They were like, Look, prejudice and racism

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Speaker 1: are two different things, right, So like when we see

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Speaker 1: that's a prejudice in their mind right, where racism is

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Speaker 1: more of a hatred, where we still have to destigmatize both.

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Speaker 1: But we keep aligning Trump with racism. And the main

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Speaker 1: thing that I have to be willing to accept is

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Speaker 1: that I can't vote for Trump because I do feel

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Speaker 1: like what he's doing is hurtful towards people that look

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Speaker 1: like me and that army, right, but not everybody is

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Speaker 1: going to put that first. The hardest thing that I

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Speaker 1: I think I had to realize was like and that

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Speaker 1: I even had to openly admit, was bitch. I'm still

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Speaker 1: a fan of American. Friend is bitch the American American? Well,

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Speaker 1: well it was in America because they have other apprentices

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Speaker 1: in other countries. So there's that and celebrity apprentice. Everything

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Speaker 1: that Trump was when he was on TV. I didn't

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Speaker 1: he's not. But here's what makes it bad, right, he

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Speaker 1: is inciting people too. He's exactly he's race baiting and

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Speaker 1: more misogynists than yes. I think he is. Even just

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Speaker 1: like you get someone like Mike Vinson's total opposite that

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Speaker 1: really can rile ship up for the people that you

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Speaker 1: pretty much enraged them to fucking act like these white nationalists.

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Speaker 1: Like I watched this documentary on Netflix where they were like,

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Speaker 1: he follows our rule book, like all of the principles

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Speaker 1: we have and stuff like that, making the country whole

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Speaker 1: again and getting back to its roots and ship like that.

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Speaker 1: Like it's just crazy. And I think the more and

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Speaker 1: more I educate myself about it, I get more angry

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Speaker 1: at the person that voted for Trump, knowing they might

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Speaker 1: not have the information that I do or And this

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Speaker 1: is the other thing, because when when we just had

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Speaker 1: like the mid terms and really quick, I just want

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Speaker 1: to remind everyone you are listening to horrible decisions. If

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Speaker 1: you guys didn't know what show you all were listening,

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Speaker 1: should we switch it to Cana I really like the

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Speaker 1: fucking and I'm like, yeah, none of my friends voted

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Speaker 1: for Trump, so can we go ahead and get off

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Speaker 1: this off throw listen? I'm sorry none of my friends.

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Speaker 1: Trump was black. That's fine, but none of my friends

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Speaker 1: voted for you know how hard that was. They told

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Speaker 1: remember the first episodode with Jesse. I met Jeeves and

423
00:21:55,960 --> 00:21:58,760
Speaker 1: he was like, yo, like the first time he had sex.

424
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Speaker 1: I feel like I came too early, but I want

425
00:22:00,680 --> 00:22:03,280
Speaker 1: to explain why I'm really into, you know, creamy pussy.

426
00:22:03,320 --> 00:22:06,440
Speaker 1: I even like search gruel. I'm like, what the fund

427
00:22:06,560 --> 00:22:08,960
Speaker 1: is that it's basically like a white thing. What's gruel?

428
00:22:08,960 --> 00:22:11,280
Speaker 1: I don't know you're white, you don't know. I'm just

429
00:22:11,520 --> 00:22:14,640
Speaker 1: I don't so cool. It's like another word for when

430
00:22:14,720 --> 00:22:16,600
Speaker 1: a pussy is ovulating. So if you type it in

431
00:22:16,680 --> 00:22:19,160
Speaker 1: on porn hub g r o O L, it comes

432
00:22:19,240 --> 00:22:21,960
Speaker 1: up and it's like creamy pussy. Now, what about that

433
00:22:22,200 --> 00:22:29,239
Speaker 1: slime something that's that's obulating fluid. However, there is there

434
00:22:29,320 --> 00:22:31,359
Speaker 1: is a difference. So when you're pussy is wet, when

435
00:22:31,400 --> 00:22:33,639
Speaker 1: you're turned on, when you're aroused. Our pussies get wet

436
00:22:33,680 --> 00:22:37,560
Speaker 1: all the time. Um, but particular slimy white, so that's

437
00:22:37,600 --> 00:22:41,760
Speaker 1: obviously that's the thing. When it's slimy and white, you're good.

438
00:22:42,280 --> 00:22:47,600
Speaker 1: When it cleamy like logret, that's not okay. And if

439
00:22:47,640 --> 00:22:54,200
Speaker 1: it has like chunks in it like that, if it's thick,

440
00:22:54,480 --> 00:22:56,280
Speaker 1: so even if you're ovulating, it's still going to be

441
00:22:56,440 --> 00:22:59,320
Speaker 1: kind of it's not gonna be chinking. Also, a period,

442
00:22:59,520 --> 00:23:01,720
Speaker 1: so this is is called my p tracker, right, so

443
00:23:01,840 --> 00:23:03,159
Speaker 1: this is an app I use, I mean using it

444
00:23:03,240 --> 00:23:05,320
Speaker 1: for a year and a half now, so right, this

445
00:23:05,600 --> 00:23:09,080
Speaker 1: gray shows when my period is, right, so basically tomorrow,

446
00:23:10,800 --> 00:23:14,400
Speaker 1: let's see this. Okay, this green dot and this flower,

447
00:23:14,520 --> 00:23:17,080
Speaker 1: this is when I'm ovulating. So I would screenshot at

448
00:23:17,160 --> 00:23:20,159
Speaker 1: him me like, even though you're pregnant, this is this

449
00:23:20,320 --> 00:23:24,840
Speaker 1: is when I'm ovulating, super stretchy, puzzy. I'll be like,

450
00:23:24,880 --> 00:23:34,640
Speaker 1: you can come inside me. Wait no, nook, So that's

451
00:23:34,720 --> 00:23:37,639
Speaker 1: like my that those are my ovaries talking right now,

452
00:23:37,720 --> 00:23:40,000
Speaker 1: because I do you know what, though your post is

453
00:23:40,040 --> 00:23:42,360
Speaker 1: more wet because it's ready for a baby, right, it's

454
00:23:42,800 --> 00:23:49,280
Speaker 1: when I'm ovulating. I'm better commnition. Now we have none

455
00:23:49,280 --> 00:23:51,680
Speaker 1: of them problems over here. See, I'm really scared to

456
00:23:51,680 --> 00:23:54,000
Speaker 1: get pregnant because I use the rhythm method. But I

457
00:23:54,080 --> 00:23:56,960
Speaker 1: always want to funk when I'm obulating, by the way,

458
00:23:57,560 --> 00:24:01,120
Speaker 1: Like I'm taking a sex cation. I'm time soon right

459
00:24:01,520 --> 00:24:04,240
Speaker 1: with this guy and this girl and fucking and what

460
00:24:04,440 --> 00:24:06,560
Speaker 1: is a sex kid when you don't have sex? But

461
00:24:06,680 --> 00:24:10,520
Speaker 1: I'm going on vacation. Yeah, well well well we'll confirm it.

462
00:24:10,720 --> 00:24:13,680
Speaker 1: So we'll confirm it soon. Yeah, we're both going on

463
00:24:13,760 --> 00:24:17,320
Speaker 1: this sex cation. Yeah, but they confirm it pay a

464
00:24:17,359 --> 00:24:19,600
Speaker 1: bit shit, so we can't We can't say and you're

465
00:24:19,640 --> 00:24:22,359
Speaker 1: going to Yeah, now we're not gonna fun. Hell no,

466
00:24:22,440 --> 00:24:26,440
Speaker 1: I'm bringing the motherfucker I fucked. And actually, so I

467
00:24:26,560 --> 00:24:28,160
Speaker 1: have two options. I hit both of them up depending

468
00:24:28,200 --> 00:24:31,080
Speaker 1: on who's available. So the one he allows me to

469
00:24:31,160 --> 00:24:32,840
Speaker 1: fuck him with a strap on, so I really want

470
00:24:32,840 --> 00:24:33,920
Speaker 1: to bring him. He's the one I took to the

471
00:24:33,960 --> 00:24:36,680
Speaker 1: sex club. The other one's my second option. He just

472
00:24:36,880 --> 00:24:41,080
Speaker 1: not playing right now. So in the league, yeah, he

473
00:24:41,119 --> 00:24:42,639
Speaker 1: ain't playing. He can't get picked up this year. So

474
00:24:42,680 --> 00:24:44,600
Speaker 1: I'm like, you want to go to Jamaica and we

475
00:24:44,920 --> 00:24:47,600
Speaker 1: fucked a lot. Wait Jamaica too, When are you guys

476
00:24:47,640 --> 00:24:52,240
Speaker 1: gonna go. Basically, a company reached out. They want us

477
00:24:52,280 --> 00:24:55,320
Speaker 1: to come to this sex thing in Jamaica. We'll talk

478
00:24:55,320 --> 00:24:58,440
Speaker 1: about it once they confirm it. They get flights. But yeah,

479
00:24:58,520 --> 00:25:00,320
Speaker 1: I haven't. I asked him, like, yo, and I bring

480
00:25:00,359 --> 00:25:03,879
Speaker 1: another person's I have a guy flow and Beard Bay Right.

481
00:25:04,200 --> 00:25:06,760
Speaker 1: So I was writing her because Mandy's going, we have

482
00:25:06,800 --> 00:25:08,679
Speaker 1: to go the same time. Obviously it's a horrible decision thing.

483
00:25:09,040 --> 00:25:11,040
Speaker 1: She's also going. I text both of them when is

484
00:25:11,080 --> 00:25:15,280
Speaker 1: your periods? Literally we're talking and she's like, okay, so

485
00:25:15,440 --> 00:25:17,320
Speaker 1: let's figure out the weekends we want to go when

486
00:25:17,359 --> 00:25:19,680
Speaker 1: your period beyond bitch, And I'm like, do you notice

487
00:25:19,720 --> 00:25:22,120
Speaker 1: we have our parod we get the same good thing? Yeah,

488
00:25:22,640 --> 00:25:24,880
Speaker 1: but not good because this bitch want to bring a girl.

489
00:25:24,960 --> 00:25:26,560
Speaker 1: So now we got to go base off three people.

490
00:25:28,040 --> 00:25:30,720
Speaker 1: So now we're cutting out two weekends out. My point

491
00:25:30,880 --> 00:25:35,159
Speaker 1: is we're all ovulating when we get there. So if

492
00:25:35,240 --> 00:25:38,680
Speaker 1: I haven't, you make a child. I just gotta know

493
00:25:38,720 --> 00:25:45,240
Speaker 1: they're gonna have seven brothers. Choice. That doesn't mean that

494
00:25:45,280 --> 00:25:48,760
Speaker 1: you're gonna like necessarily we might we might need to go.

495
00:25:50,119 --> 00:25:51,840
Speaker 1: I was gonna say, we still might need to ask

496
00:25:51,920 --> 00:25:53,560
Speaker 1: them for the five hunting. Take care of that. Just

497
00:25:53,680 --> 00:26:02,399
Speaker 1: in my bad. Bad these people are geting a free baca. Okay, bad,

498
00:26:02,560 --> 00:26:04,520
Speaker 1: all right. So anyways, what we like to do as well,

499
00:26:04,640 --> 00:26:06,720
Speaker 1: every week we like to have vanilla ship. We like

500
00:26:06,800 --> 00:26:08,919
Speaker 1: to talk about some vanilla hole ash ship and apparently

501
00:26:08,960 --> 00:26:12,359
Speaker 1: we found some vanilla as ship. Good to talk with you.

502
00:26:13,160 --> 00:26:15,680
Speaker 1: We've been people send us some vanilla shipped too, but

503
00:26:15,760 --> 00:26:17,960
Speaker 1: this one I thought was fucking crazy, and I actually

504
00:26:18,000 --> 00:26:19,399
Speaker 1: didn't pick it at first. I wanted to do the

505
00:26:19,440 --> 00:26:21,640
Speaker 1: one you sent me, Leah, but this I really wanted

506
00:26:21,640 --> 00:26:24,439
Speaker 1: your opinion on, since you know you'd be very problematic.

507
00:26:25,320 --> 00:26:27,720
Speaker 1: So this was on BuzzFeed. Okay, this is the headline.

508
00:26:27,800 --> 00:26:30,760
Speaker 1: She thought she was in bed with her boyfriend until

509
00:26:30,880 --> 00:26:34,440
Speaker 1: she saw his face. This happened in Indiana. Oh I

510
00:26:34,480 --> 00:26:39,000
Speaker 1: saw this. Okay, he's a rapist. Yeah, he was sleeping

511
00:26:39,040 --> 00:26:41,119
Speaker 1: her boyfriend's bed when she felt him. Officially, they've been

512
00:26:41,119 --> 00:26:42,600
Speaker 1: going out for a few weeks, one of those college

513
00:26:42,720 --> 00:26:45,439
Speaker 1: romances where someone in the friend group slowly becomes more

514
00:26:45,480 --> 00:26:48,760
Speaker 1: than a friend through private, joke stolen moments. Um. Let's

515
00:26:48,760 --> 00:26:50,840
Speaker 1: fast forward. So their dorm rooms were down the hall

516
00:26:50,960 --> 00:26:54,119
Speaker 1: from each other. She went to a party. They were

517
00:26:54,160 --> 00:26:57,000
Speaker 1: drinking at the party. She's nineteen years old, by the way.

518
00:26:57,040 --> 00:27:00,240
Speaker 1: She wasn't in the mood, so she went upstairs fell

519
00:27:00,320 --> 00:27:02,800
Speaker 1: asleep in his bed. Her boyfriend popped up the ladder

520
00:27:02,840 --> 00:27:04,359
Speaker 1: every now and then to snuggle in and check in

521
00:27:04,480 --> 00:27:07,159
Speaker 1: on her. At one point, his friend Grant made a

522
00:27:07,200 --> 00:27:09,400
Speaker 1: gross comment about hoping that she would get good sex

523
00:27:09,440 --> 00:27:11,280
Speaker 1: from her boyfriend tonight. She thought he was being drunk

524
00:27:11,320 --> 00:27:15,040
Speaker 1: and stupid. It was done, so it got late the

525
00:27:15,119 --> 00:27:17,880
Speaker 1: night peered out. She fell asleep. Her boyfriend was next

526
00:27:17,920 --> 00:27:22,440
Speaker 1: to her. Apparently her boyfriend reached up behind her, fondling

527
00:27:22,480 --> 00:27:24,600
Speaker 1: her breast over her t shirt. She let him touch her.

528
00:27:24,720 --> 00:27:27,200
Speaker 1: They were quiet, his friends were asleep. She felt his

529
00:27:27,280 --> 00:27:30,159
Speaker 1: hand slide under her pajama pants and she started touching

530
00:27:30,200 --> 00:27:33,080
Speaker 1: her clip. She went along with it, still facing away.

531
00:27:33,200 --> 00:27:35,080
Speaker 1: She grabbed his penis and put it in her vagina.

532
00:27:35,119 --> 00:27:37,760
Speaker 1: They had sex maybe for a minute. She stopped and

533
00:27:37,800 --> 00:27:39,359
Speaker 1: told She told him she had to use the bathroom.

534
00:27:39,680 --> 00:27:42,040
Speaker 1: When she was done, she got back in bed and

535
00:27:42,200 --> 00:27:45,480
Speaker 1: she saw it was the friend Grant. I remember him grinning,

536
00:27:45,680 --> 00:27:48,040
Speaker 1: grinning at me. It was a freaking image. I was

537
00:27:48,119 --> 00:27:50,159
Speaker 1: so friendic. I didn't know what was going on. She

538
00:27:50,520 --> 00:27:55,040
Speaker 1: ran downstairs, noticed her keys were missing, rushed to her

539
00:27:55,160 --> 00:27:57,879
Speaker 1: dorm and her boyfriend was there. She asked how long

540
00:27:57,960 --> 00:27:59,800
Speaker 1: he had been there. He said that he couldn't sleep

541
00:28:00,000 --> 00:28:02,800
Speaker 1: because she was taking up space in a small twin bed,

542
00:28:03,080 --> 00:28:07,280
Speaker 1: so he left three hours ago. Dad now, so she

543
00:28:07,600 --> 00:28:11,800
Speaker 1: was confused whether it was illegal, basically on state law

544
00:28:12,320 --> 00:28:15,680
Speaker 1: saying what he did was not technically illegal, even though

545
00:28:15,760 --> 00:28:18,720
Speaker 1: he admitted he knew she wasn't consenting because in Indiana,

546
00:28:19,119 --> 00:28:22,119
Speaker 1: sex is only rape when it's compelled through force or threats,

547
00:28:22,800 --> 00:28:26,800
Speaker 1: if the vintom is mentally disabled and can't consent, or

548
00:28:26,960 --> 00:28:29,960
Speaker 1: the person is unwhere that the sex is occurring like that.

549
00:28:30,080 --> 00:28:32,440
Speaker 1: But basically, she knew she was having sex, she just

550
00:28:32,520 --> 00:28:36,280
Speaker 1: didn't know it was him. And I think something someone

551
00:28:36,359 --> 00:28:39,640
Speaker 1: said to me that I thought was very interesting. They

552
00:28:39,760 --> 00:28:42,800
Speaker 1: told me someone they felt like your boyfriend was in

553
00:28:42,920 --> 00:28:46,120
Speaker 1: on this there like maybe a couple of weeks. I

554
00:28:46,160 --> 00:28:50,200
Speaker 1: wouldn't doubt that. They definitely maybe he was, Like that's

555
00:28:50,240 --> 00:28:51,720
Speaker 1: what I was gonna say. I was gonna say that

556
00:28:51,840 --> 00:28:55,320
Speaker 1: specifically because only because there are a lot of men,

557
00:28:55,640 --> 00:28:58,120
Speaker 1: or there's a lot of things where women will create

558
00:28:58,160 --> 00:29:01,880
Speaker 1: a relationship in their mind, and it's technically not my

559
00:29:02,120 --> 00:29:06,920
Speaker 1: stomach turn. I know it does. But now other women

560
00:29:07,000 --> 00:29:09,200
Speaker 1: in the comments on BuzzFeed were saying, there's no way

561
00:29:09,200 --> 00:29:11,600
Speaker 1: I wouldn't know my boyfriend's dick. Oh, shut the funk

562
00:29:11,680 --> 00:29:14,600
Speaker 1: up when you're first off, when you're half sleep, when

563
00:29:14,640 --> 00:29:18,640
Speaker 1: you've been drinking. Well she wasn't. Yeah, but depending on

564
00:29:19,040 --> 00:29:20,920
Speaker 1: maybe they have the same dick size, bitch. So there's

565
00:29:20,920 --> 00:29:23,200
Speaker 1: a lot of dicks that are comparable. I'm gonna be honest.

566
00:29:23,320 --> 00:29:25,720
Speaker 1: When I thought about it first, I was like I

567
00:29:25,880 --> 00:29:27,200
Speaker 1: used to think about when I went to sleep with

568
00:29:27,240 --> 00:29:29,360
Speaker 1: Collette and the guy that we were sucking, right, we

569
00:29:29,480 --> 00:29:31,000
Speaker 1: were dating this guy together, me and this girl I

570
00:29:31,080 --> 00:29:34,960
Speaker 1: used to date, and even though I couldn't, I could

571
00:29:35,280 --> 00:29:37,680
Speaker 1: I would know when who touched me when I was sleeping.

572
00:29:37,960 --> 00:29:42,280
Speaker 1: But I thought that too, like even just from my face,

573
00:29:42,440 --> 00:29:46,600
Speaker 1: I don't know. I felt like new it's right. I was,

574
00:29:46,720 --> 00:29:48,680
Speaker 1: but she was too. But here's the other thing. If

575
00:29:48,760 --> 00:29:50,880
Speaker 1: they were only dating a few weeks and someone was

576
00:29:50,920 --> 00:29:55,400
Speaker 1: already touching your tips and maybe you wouldn't know. Like

577
00:29:55,840 --> 00:29:58,000
Speaker 1: I agree, I'm not gonna lie. So when I had

578
00:29:58,120 --> 00:30:02,120
Speaker 1: my threesome, Um, I was on edibles and literally during

579
00:30:02,160 --> 00:30:04,320
Speaker 1: the threesome, I'm not gonna lie, I don't know which

580
00:30:04,360 --> 00:30:06,360
Speaker 1: one was sucking me, but one was like almost making

581
00:30:06,400 --> 00:30:11,200
Speaker 1: me squirt and yeah, and I literally didn't know which one.

582
00:30:11,280 --> 00:30:13,120
Speaker 1: I was like, so out of it. Have you ever

583
00:30:13,200 --> 00:30:16,560
Speaker 1: sucked either before though one of them, yes, the other

584
00:30:16,640 --> 00:30:18,520
Speaker 1: one the other one no. Well that's a that's a

585
00:30:18,600 --> 00:30:21,240
Speaker 1: great point. I think it's I think it's very easy

586
00:30:21,360 --> 00:30:24,840
Speaker 1: to not for her to not think that it's the boy.

587
00:30:24,840 --> 00:30:28,760
Speaker 1: If you're behind me too, like you started, she got up,

588
00:30:28,840 --> 00:30:30,960
Speaker 1: listen to the story. If she got up, she ran,

589
00:30:31,400 --> 00:30:33,400
Speaker 1: she looked for her boyfriend. You know, she did all

590
00:30:33,440 --> 00:30:37,040
Speaker 1: these things. And listen with this problematic things, I say,

591
00:30:37,400 --> 00:30:42,680
Speaker 1: I am so I am. I criticize this kind of

592
00:30:42,760 --> 00:30:46,360
Speaker 1: stuff because rape, because I think rape and sexual assault

593
00:30:46,480 --> 00:30:51,400
Speaker 1: is such a fucking disgusting serious gnarly asked, fucking matter

594
00:30:52,080 --> 00:30:55,360
Speaker 1: that when people call things rape that aren't rape, it

595
00:30:55,480 --> 00:30:58,720
Speaker 1: makes me fucking crazy. You because I remember the last

596
00:30:58,800 --> 00:31:04,640
Speaker 1: time that rape was regarding the rape that never triangle

597
00:31:05,160 --> 00:31:07,280
Speaker 1: with where things started the levels, and you were like,

598
00:31:07,440 --> 00:31:11,200
Speaker 1: this is bullshit. Yeah, Now, why do you feel like

599
00:31:11,320 --> 00:31:14,640
Speaker 1: some of the things towards the bottom are bullshit? Watch

600
00:31:14,720 --> 00:31:18,120
Speaker 1: things like sending people or things like that. Yeah, I know.

601
00:31:18,400 --> 00:31:20,000
Speaker 1: Do you think there's Do you believe in rape culture?

602
00:31:20,040 --> 00:31:22,560
Speaker 1: Do you think that's the thing. No, I don't believe

603
00:31:22,600 --> 00:31:24,680
Speaker 1: it that we have a rape culture here. I believe

604
00:31:24,720 --> 00:31:28,360
Speaker 1: that we have a culture that objectifies women. That is

605
00:31:28,640 --> 00:31:32,200
Speaker 1: beyond it's through the media, it's through society, it's through culture.

606
00:31:32,320 --> 00:31:36,840
Speaker 1: It's crazy. But we do not like we frown upon rape.

607
00:31:36,920 --> 00:31:39,600
Speaker 1: Rape is very weird do But I think that the

608
00:31:39,800 --> 00:31:43,760
Speaker 1: reason that I always find myself disagreeing is because I

609
00:31:43,840 --> 00:31:46,280
Speaker 1: don't think we have a culture to do bad things.

610
00:31:46,760 --> 00:31:51,480
Speaker 1: But I do think that those things can encourage rape

611
00:31:51,600 --> 00:31:55,280
Speaker 1: or rape. Things like you know, being too forward or

612
00:31:55,320 --> 00:31:58,320
Speaker 1: snarky remarks. There are things that are unwarranted or unwanted.

613
00:31:58,960 --> 00:32:01,320
Speaker 1: But I will say, just with what you're saying, I

614
00:32:01,440 --> 00:32:05,000
Speaker 1: do get so you said that rape to everyone is

615
00:32:05,200 --> 00:32:08,600
Speaker 1: by disgusting, it's violent, it's something that no one stands for.

616
00:32:08,720 --> 00:32:12,320
Speaker 1: We know what's a bad things, of course, but with

617
00:32:12,480 --> 00:32:15,959
Speaker 1: the rape culture in that pyramid, we're putting a lot

618
00:32:16,040 --> 00:32:21,560
Speaker 1: of more like um things like miscellaneous things. I would

619
00:32:21,600 --> 00:32:25,040
Speaker 1: I would say things that aren't as like we wouldn't

620
00:32:25,040 --> 00:32:28,480
Speaker 1: consider vile or dangerous or or stuff like that. And

621
00:32:28,520 --> 00:32:31,200
Speaker 1: so when you include those into the idea of rape,

622
00:32:31,240 --> 00:32:35,040
Speaker 1: it's just like then you start creating a really puritanical

623
00:32:35,880 --> 00:32:40,680
Speaker 1: kind of society. You know, you start creating a puritanical society,

624
00:32:41,080 --> 00:32:43,960
Speaker 1: you start creating a really hyper sensitive society. You start

625
00:32:44,000 --> 00:32:46,200
Speaker 1: creating an anti sex society. Don't you think that we

626
00:32:46,280 --> 00:32:49,280
Speaker 1: should be a little more Okay, I know you're more,

627
00:32:49,520 --> 00:32:53,840
Speaker 1: you're so sex positive. I'm surprised that you're not a

628
00:32:53,960 --> 00:32:56,720
Speaker 1: little more cautious or that you're not a little more

629
00:32:56,800 --> 00:33:00,400
Speaker 1: like um against all these things being in a rap

630
00:33:00,480 --> 00:33:04,800
Speaker 1: bubble or triangle. Because I've had things happened to me

631
00:33:04,880 --> 00:33:07,000
Speaker 1: that I didn't want. I think that's why. And I've

632
00:33:07,000 --> 00:33:11,400
Speaker 1: also when I read that disease story, I can't even friendly,

633
00:33:11,600 --> 00:33:13,480
Speaker 1: like we not, let's not get into because you don't

634
00:33:14,360 --> 00:33:17,880
Speaker 1: happen today. And I wished I said no, all right,

635
00:33:18,160 --> 00:33:20,840
Speaker 1: And I remember being that age and like I had

636
00:33:20,880 --> 00:33:23,520
Speaker 1: sex with a guy of nineteen ish, I had sex

637
00:33:23,600 --> 00:33:25,640
Speaker 1: with a guy that I wish I did not, And

638
00:33:25,720 --> 00:33:28,480
Speaker 1: I remember like I was giving him all of the cues,

639
00:33:29,200 --> 00:33:31,280
Speaker 1: like I was closing my legs. I couldn't do. I

640
00:33:31,480 --> 00:33:33,400
Speaker 1: don't know why I couldn't do it. I couldn't get

641
00:33:33,440 --> 00:33:35,800
Speaker 1: it out. But see, so to me so and I

642
00:33:35,920 --> 00:33:37,840
Speaker 1: kind of said this, and I said this one. We

643
00:33:37,880 --> 00:33:39,160
Speaker 1: talked about this and I don't want to get into

644
00:33:39,160 --> 00:33:41,080
Speaker 1: it because I don't want to, but I still feel

645
00:33:41,160 --> 00:33:44,400
Speaker 1: like with that. Unfortunately, we are in a society too

646
00:33:44,840 --> 00:33:47,840
Speaker 1: where we do try to the woman is the victim

647
00:33:47,960 --> 00:33:50,280
Speaker 1: and the man is always the you know, and so

648
00:33:50,440 --> 00:33:52,840
Speaker 1: I can I didn't understand. Why didn't that be wrong too?

649
00:33:53,040 --> 00:33:55,560
Speaker 1: But when that's why I think consent is important Because

650
00:33:55,600 --> 00:33:58,520
Speaker 1: I'm not that person anymore, right, I would absolutely say no,

651
00:33:58,600 --> 00:34:01,440
Speaker 1: I'm more confident, I'm older, understand and myself. But I

652
00:34:01,720 --> 00:34:04,600
Speaker 1: do remember from that. I remember for months on end

653
00:34:04,640 --> 00:34:07,080
Speaker 1: being traumatized a little bit from me. He had no

654
00:34:07,200 --> 00:34:10,960
Speaker 1: idea did you watch the vice consent thing? I want

655
00:34:11,000 --> 00:34:13,080
Speaker 1: to wrap this up quick, but so we were on

656
00:34:13,160 --> 00:34:18,040
Speaker 1: it or whatever. I need to see it. Yea, it

657
00:34:18,200 --> 00:34:20,400
Speaker 1: was dope. Um. So at the end of it, they

658
00:34:20,480 --> 00:34:23,040
Speaker 1: have this couple right where this girl wants to confront

659
00:34:23,080 --> 00:34:25,600
Speaker 1: her rapists. It's been ten years, she's went through therapy,

660
00:34:26,040 --> 00:34:28,600
Speaker 1: all kinds of ship. He sat down right next to

661
00:34:28,640 --> 00:34:30,640
Speaker 1: her and had no idea that he raped her like

662
00:34:30,880 --> 00:34:32,759
Speaker 1: was like, I didn't know that I did that. Yeah,

663
00:34:32,920 --> 00:34:35,120
Speaker 1: He's like, I thought we were drinking and sex. She

664
00:34:35,320 --> 00:34:37,960
Speaker 1: was fucking traumatizing, know what. I believed him, And I

665
00:34:38,040 --> 00:34:40,759
Speaker 1: only believe him because he showed up and he hear

666
00:34:40,840 --> 00:34:44,120
Speaker 1: him crying and feeling guilty that she felt so much hurt.

667
00:34:44,160 --> 00:34:45,719
Speaker 1: And I know that night that guy didn't think he

668
00:34:45,760 --> 00:34:48,280
Speaker 1: did that to me. So I think because of women's

669
00:34:48,280 --> 00:34:50,720
Speaker 1: that women that get that feeling, like her and myself

670
00:34:50,800 --> 00:34:52,960
Speaker 1: in that moment, we should have men more sensitive to

671
00:34:53,040 --> 00:34:57,200
Speaker 1: the idea of But again, we're making it the man's responsibility.

672
00:34:57,280 --> 00:34:59,160
Speaker 1: And it's something that I said even in that episode,

673
00:34:59,360 --> 00:35:01,680
Speaker 1: we don't whole accountable what we as women need to

674
00:35:01,719 --> 00:35:05,440
Speaker 1: do and as mothers instead of taking your teenage daughters

675
00:35:05,480 --> 00:35:07,440
Speaker 1: and saying, don't give up your pussy, don't do this.

676
00:35:07,880 --> 00:35:10,040
Speaker 1: This is your sacred you know, pouch to keep it

677
00:35:10,120 --> 00:35:12,239
Speaker 1: to yourself, it's you know, it's all of these things.

678
00:35:12,520 --> 00:35:16,239
Speaker 1: We need to teach women to voice these and we

679
00:35:16,320 --> 00:35:19,480
Speaker 1: need and even in a situation like you, But but

680
00:35:19,600 --> 00:35:22,160
Speaker 1: even in a situation like you, like where now you're

681
00:35:22,200 --> 00:35:24,880
Speaker 1: with someone may be of power or of success and

682
00:35:24,960 --> 00:35:26,480
Speaker 1: now you you want to do it, But you don't

683
00:35:26,520 --> 00:35:28,560
Speaker 1: want to do it. Those conversations were never had with

684
00:35:28,600 --> 00:35:30,920
Speaker 1: you or me, likely even my mom. I feel like

685
00:35:31,040 --> 00:35:34,320
Speaker 1: told me enough. I think. I think in that moment,

686
00:35:35,000 --> 00:35:38,000
Speaker 1: I genuinely wasn't confident enough to say no, or I didn't.

687
00:35:38,120 --> 00:35:39,759
Speaker 1: I just kind of thought he would stop when he

688
00:35:39,800 --> 00:35:41,960
Speaker 1: saw my face. It's not that I don't listen. It's

689
00:35:41,960 --> 00:35:43,800
Speaker 1: not that I don't think men should be more sensitive

690
00:35:43,840 --> 00:35:45,920
Speaker 1: to women's needs. But that's like I also think that

691
00:35:46,000 --> 00:35:49,040
Speaker 1: like World Hunger should end like facts, you know what

692
00:35:49,120 --> 00:35:51,920
Speaker 1: I mean, Like humans are humans. They're flawed. We have to.

693
00:35:52,200 --> 00:35:54,680
Speaker 1: It's just all we have is ourselves, that's it. And

694
00:35:54,760 --> 00:35:57,160
Speaker 1: we can not checking in though, and at least verbal

695
00:35:57,280 --> 00:35:59,959
Speaker 1: cues like we can't say if my legs were closed

696
00:36:00,000 --> 00:36:04,040
Speaker 1: and Leah and how does a guy? But every though,

697
00:36:04,080 --> 00:36:06,200
Speaker 1: because then at the same time, the very same episode

698
00:36:06,480 --> 00:36:08,719
Speaker 1: you said you do it as a sometimes we do

699
00:36:08,800 --> 00:36:12,440
Speaker 1: it like that, but it gets because we do. But

700
00:36:12,880 --> 00:36:15,200
Speaker 1: but I think that as well, we do like that

701
00:36:15,320 --> 00:36:19,360
Speaker 1: as the story. That's because I'm like his whole career

702
00:36:19,480 --> 00:36:22,920
Speaker 1: got And look, I'm not even a fan, did I'm

703
00:36:22,960 --> 00:36:25,440
Speaker 1: not a fan. I actually just watched Master of None

704
00:36:25,440 --> 00:36:27,560
Speaker 1: for the first time, Like two days ago. I don't care.

705
00:36:27,600 --> 00:36:29,600
Speaker 1: It's one of my favorite shows. So I'm really speaking

706
00:36:29,640 --> 00:36:31,960
Speaker 1: from a very objective standpoint because I don't have any

707
00:36:32,000 --> 00:36:33,759
Speaker 1: skin in the games. I don't care about him same

708
00:36:34,120 --> 00:36:37,520
Speaker 1: and you know whatever. But like that whole story was

709
00:36:37,600 --> 00:36:40,040
Speaker 1: like such an obvious like that was like revenge, Like

710
00:36:40,160 --> 00:36:42,600
Speaker 1: she was getting straight up revenge. She didn't like I

711
00:36:42,840 --> 00:36:45,120
Speaker 1: want to so much of the sex I've had, I

712
00:36:45,360 --> 00:36:49,120
Speaker 1: read she wanted a different attach, the way we want

713
00:36:49,120 --> 00:36:51,960
Speaker 1: to be. She she didn't want to be treated like

714
00:36:52,520 --> 00:36:55,160
Speaker 1: she was treated like a hoe, and she didn't like that.

715
00:36:56,400 --> 00:36:58,040
Speaker 1: I'll gave you I don't. I don't know about her

716
00:36:58,080 --> 00:37:00,760
Speaker 1: wanting to be more. I think that she maybe felt

717
00:37:01,400 --> 00:37:03,520
Speaker 1: and to his point, bitches have been doing this and

718
00:37:03,600 --> 00:37:07,920
Speaker 1: the only thing I'm gonna I don't know how much

719
00:37:07,960 --> 00:37:10,400
Speaker 1: of the story so I heard um Kareem Hunt, the

720
00:37:10,440 --> 00:37:12,800
Speaker 1: football player who just pretty much lost his job for

721
00:37:13,040 --> 00:37:15,600
Speaker 1: kicking the woman. The story that I heard was that

722
00:37:15,760 --> 00:37:18,000
Speaker 1: it was him and a bunch of friends, and basically

723
00:37:18,120 --> 00:37:20,200
Speaker 1: the girl got upset because he's like, yo, I want

724
00:37:20,239 --> 00:37:22,239
Speaker 1: you to suck my friends. So she went in there

725
00:37:22,280 --> 00:37:24,239
Speaker 1: and got treated like a ho and then it turned

726
00:37:24,280 --> 00:37:26,759
Speaker 1: into a crazy thing. They went to kick him out.

727
00:37:26,880 --> 00:37:29,880
Speaker 1: She and my boyfriend were fighting over this because because

728
00:37:29,920 --> 00:37:31,800
Speaker 1: I was that she didn't want to be treated like

729
00:37:32,040 --> 00:37:34,239
Speaker 1: I don't know, because he's very much like he only

730
00:37:34,320 --> 00:37:37,160
Speaker 1: pushed her. He pushed her. It sucked up. But his

731
00:37:37,239 --> 00:37:39,400
Speaker 1: friend was like, the kick was like not really like

732
00:37:39,440 --> 00:37:41,320
Speaker 1: a hard kick and could have hit everybody, could have

733
00:37:41,400 --> 00:37:43,640
Speaker 1: killed he could have knocked everyone out, and he played

734
00:37:45,200 --> 00:37:48,400
Speaker 1: and I was like, the hitting is unacceptable, but it

735
00:37:48,560 --> 00:37:50,600
Speaker 1: goes back to the point where I lose his whole

736
00:37:52,760 --> 00:37:55,759
Speaker 1: him first, So it goes into the violence of a

737
00:37:55,840 --> 00:37:57,600
Speaker 1: woman hitting a guy first. But that's what I'm saying,

738
00:37:57,800 --> 00:38:01,400
Speaker 1: women being accountable for our actions and not like just

739
00:38:01,600 --> 00:38:04,080
Speaker 1: making it like she went to slap him first, right,

740
00:38:04,200 --> 00:38:07,879
Speaker 1: slap him first. We had that conversation if you guys

741
00:38:07,920 --> 00:38:10,279
Speaker 1: want to listen. We talked about domestic violence thing though,

742
00:38:10,360 --> 00:38:12,279
Speaker 1: and women to say the men try to wrap it

743
00:38:12,600 --> 00:38:16,320
Speaker 1: just like with police, they should be able to pacify

744
00:38:16,480 --> 00:38:19,960
Speaker 1: someone more than they should reach for something harder. Men

745
00:38:20,040 --> 00:38:24,680
Speaker 1: should be able to especially at that size pass by control.

746
00:38:25,040 --> 00:38:28,520
Speaker 1: His words were trying to like if he wanted to,

747
00:38:28,800 --> 00:38:31,040
Speaker 1: you know, hrder, he really could, Yeah, of course, but

748
00:38:31,160 --> 00:38:33,279
Speaker 1: like obviously just watching a video like that is so

749
00:38:33,400 --> 00:38:37,359
Speaker 1: just I got to look at it. No, ship, let's

750
00:38:37,360 --> 00:38:38,560
Speaker 1: get into the kink of the week and then we

751
00:38:38,640 --> 00:38:41,200
Speaker 1: don't have to have a quick as motherfucking horrible well

752
00:38:41,200 --> 00:38:43,440
Speaker 1: we will, we will kick in a week. I found

753
00:38:43,480 --> 00:38:45,239
Speaker 1: because I was looking at porn and it came up,

754
00:38:46,320 --> 00:38:48,600
Speaker 1: how do you find this important? You watch white people porn?

755
00:38:48,640 --> 00:38:53,680
Speaker 1: I'm convinced. So I was watching there was an episode

756
00:38:53,719 --> 00:38:58,160
Speaker 1: like watching paint Dicks with black pussies. I love watching

757
00:38:58,400 --> 00:39:04,920
Speaker 1: inter racial stuff. It's all I can watch. And black

758
00:39:05,080 --> 00:39:07,080
Speaker 1: actually black guys with white girls too, but I'd rather

759
00:39:07,160 --> 00:39:09,279
Speaker 1: watch the white guys with black girls. And first of all,

760
00:39:09,400 --> 00:39:13,799
Speaker 1: the black women way better. Yeah, black girls who seem

761
00:39:13,880 --> 00:39:17,719
Speaker 1: like they see just like I like watching them. I

762
00:39:17,760 --> 00:39:20,880
Speaker 1: don't I have a black as podcast. I can't. I

763
00:39:20,920 --> 00:39:23,879
Speaker 1: don't really watch many black women in porn only because

764
00:39:23,880 --> 00:39:25,520
Speaker 1: I feel like they don't keep themselves up the same.

765
00:39:25,600 --> 00:39:28,720
Speaker 1: Their production via you is much less, Their weaves are trash,

766
00:39:28,840 --> 00:39:34,200
Speaker 1: their makeup they put like green eyes watching and so

767
00:39:34,320 --> 00:39:36,360
Speaker 1: on porn Hub. Unless you can find some free as,

768
00:39:36,480 --> 00:39:40,520
Speaker 1: you don't read pay with black women like no caprix styles.

769
00:39:40,560 --> 00:39:44,360
Speaker 1: I don't see you no more. Cherke only matter pinky.

770
00:39:44,440 --> 00:39:46,359
Speaker 1: It seems to like to get these girls that are

771
00:39:46,440 --> 00:39:49,239
Speaker 1: like all the girls like this, like off the like

772
00:39:49,360 --> 00:39:51,439
Speaker 1: that's the only reason I have a hard time watching

773
00:39:51,520 --> 00:39:54,359
Speaker 1: that point. There's this one like Tampa Boukocky, because y'all

774
00:39:54,360 --> 00:39:56,200
Speaker 1: know I love Boukacki and they always get these like

775
00:39:56,360 --> 00:40:00,799
Speaker 1: on the street, like I love cream Pie gang bangs. Really,

776
00:40:01,640 --> 00:40:07,439
Speaker 1: I like, dude, this is how I got here. Sex

777
00:40:07,520 --> 00:40:09,160
Speaker 1: in the City as an episode where she jerked the

778
00:40:09,200 --> 00:40:12,080
Speaker 1: guy off and like just from that tantric massage remember that.

779
00:40:12,200 --> 00:40:13,840
Speaker 1: Remember I've been trying to learn how to do it,

780
00:40:14,520 --> 00:40:16,520
Speaker 1: so in looking up tantric massage. By the way, if

781
00:40:16,520 --> 00:40:18,360
Speaker 1: you do tantric massage, please come on the show and

782
00:40:18,600 --> 00:40:22,279
Speaker 1: write us to come on. Uh, tantric sex anything. I found.

783
00:40:22,320 --> 00:40:26,360
Speaker 1: Erotic hypnosis here's what it is. Practice of reducing inhibitions

784
00:40:26,400 --> 00:40:29,719
Speaker 1: and increasing arousal is a notable goal for hypnosis. The

785
00:40:29,800 --> 00:40:32,279
Speaker 1: placement of trigger words in the subject's mind as a

786
00:40:32,320 --> 00:40:36,360
Speaker 1: post hypnotic suggestion to produce actions and experiences on demand.

787
00:40:36,440 --> 00:40:40,319
Speaker 1: As a common practice, it basically improves sexual health. Um

788
00:40:40,400 --> 00:40:44,920
Speaker 1: techniques to overcome apprehension about flatio, increased sensuality, and improve libido.

789
00:40:45,200 --> 00:40:48,480
Speaker 1: Another common form of it is hypnotic fantasy where the

790
00:40:48,560 --> 00:40:53,280
Speaker 1: subject is taking in a trance through a sexual experience. Okay,

791
00:40:56,920 --> 00:41:01,280
Speaker 1: but listen to people that I identify with a submissive

792
00:41:01,360 --> 00:41:04,520
Speaker 1: side that can't as their personal self. So basically they'll

793
00:41:04,600 --> 00:41:07,919
Speaker 1: take over your like you as someone else. Like let's say,

794
00:41:07,960 --> 00:41:10,040
Speaker 1: for you, you said you don't really like being submissive.

795
00:41:10,520 --> 00:41:12,799
Speaker 1: If you went through the hypnosis and thought you were

796
00:41:12,880 --> 00:41:17,200
Speaker 1: someone else, you can let your inhibitions go. So basically

797
00:41:17,440 --> 00:41:20,719
Speaker 1: they hypnotize you. I gotta go somewhere and get hypnotized

798
00:41:20,760 --> 00:41:23,520
Speaker 1: with my niggag hypnotize me, like you about to hypnotize

799
00:41:23,560 --> 00:41:27,600
Speaker 1: somebody I was pouring, bro. I don't know what happened

800
00:41:27,600 --> 00:41:30,040
Speaker 1: in the porn. What had to be scripted, bitch. Okay,

801
00:41:30,160 --> 00:41:31,880
Speaker 1: so I don't know the scripted or not, but I

802
00:41:31,960 --> 00:41:33,920
Speaker 1: saw some different ones. So basically, they sit there, they

803
00:41:34,000 --> 00:41:35,799
Speaker 1: do the ding of the bell like they wait, they

804
00:41:35,880 --> 00:41:38,640
Speaker 1: do the little swinging there and they're touching you slow,

805
00:41:39,040 --> 00:41:41,160
Speaker 1: and they like start talking you through it and telling

806
00:41:41,239 --> 00:41:45,399
Speaker 1: you that you're someone else. And actually I can't wait.

807
00:41:45,600 --> 00:41:49,200
Speaker 1: Hopefully they come King Noir and and Jasmine actually do

808
00:41:49,360 --> 00:41:51,920
Speaker 1: things like this with couples. Good. Yeah, so we'll have

809
00:41:52,000 --> 00:41:56,239
Speaker 1: to bring them on. Come okay, hypnotize before I went

810
00:41:56,320 --> 00:41:58,799
Speaker 1: to a show years ago in Orlando where this dude

811
00:41:58,880 --> 00:42:02,040
Speaker 1: hypnotize me, and I remember in that moment he just

812
00:42:02,320 --> 00:42:04,759
Speaker 1: really got me to like get I'm very vulnerable to

813
00:42:04,800 --> 00:42:08,480
Speaker 1: anything though, alcohol, drugs, whatever, So he got me really

814
00:42:08,680 --> 00:42:12,240
Speaker 1: just relaxed and he was like touching me certain places

815
00:42:12,280 --> 00:42:14,120
Speaker 1: I'd make a noise, so he said, I was like

816
00:42:14,160 --> 00:42:16,560
Speaker 1: a perfect candidate for hypnosis. So like, if you can

817
00:42:16,640 --> 00:42:18,719
Speaker 1: do that and just relax and like turn into another

818
00:42:18,760 --> 00:42:21,000
Speaker 1: person in role play, it's like, really, I don't tara

819
00:42:21,080 --> 00:42:24,400
Speaker 1: card reading palm reading, so I guarantee you which I

820
00:42:24,400 --> 00:42:28,680
Speaker 1: don't want the devil touching me. It don't matter. We

821
00:42:28,760 --> 00:42:31,880
Speaker 1: talked in the episode, I gotta do with some chakras

822
00:42:31,920 --> 00:42:33,799
Speaker 1: and ship and ain't nobody got time fall. Devil Dick

823
00:42:33,880 --> 00:42:36,080
Speaker 1: is the best dick. I got double dick. His name

824
00:42:36,160 --> 00:42:39,040
Speaker 1: is the devil in my phone and got a he

825
00:42:39,120 --> 00:42:40,520
Speaker 1: got a big Old Knights did one of the things

826
00:42:40,560 --> 00:42:44,160
Speaker 1: I'm trying to bring to the sex pation right now.

827
00:42:44,560 --> 00:42:47,320
Speaker 1: The Horrible Decision for the Week is NSFW. This is

828
00:42:47,360 --> 00:42:50,840
Speaker 1: inspired by a White listener. He bought tickets to Chicago.

829
00:42:50,880 --> 00:42:52,480
Speaker 1: He said, he's gonna be three out of twenty six

830
00:42:52,520 --> 00:42:55,360
Speaker 1: white listeners that go to the show. He wrote me

831
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Speaker 1: a d M. I think his name is Ryan, I

832
00:42:56,640 --> 00:42:58,600
Speaker 1: don't know, and he said, can definitely a white name.

833
00:42:59,680 --> 00:43:03,239
Speaker 1: How Ryan, don't really I sucked Ryan to a white guy,

834
00:43:03,560 --> 00:43:06,399
Speaker 1: have you? Ryan? Um? No, I actually call white guys

835
00:43:06,440 --> 00:43:11,360
Speaker 1: the brads and chads and I'm not interested chat, you

836
00:43:11,400 --> 00:43:14,000
Speaker 1: know what I'm not. So brads and chads are a

837
00:43:14,120 --> 00:43:20,880
Speaker 1: very specific kind of definitely uniform. If you look on Instagram,

838
00:43:20,920 --> 00:43:23,680
Speaker 1: there's instagram called Midtown Uniform and it's that best with

839
00:43:23,840 --> 00:43:26,600
Speaker 1: the khaki pants and it's like all the frat boys

840
00:43:26,640 --> 00:43:29,960
Speaker 1: and midtelling. Yeah, I've seen that and like the man,

841
00:43:30,080 --> 00:43:34,400
Speaker 1: you gotta have that. You don't know, the Midtown uniform. Bro.

842
00:43:34,560 --> 00:43:37,640
Speaker 1: The white people that were this like broy looking out, yeah,

843
00:43:37,680 --> 00:43:40,960
Speaker 1: and they were like those hats look at they look

844
00:43:41,000 --> 00:43:46,400
Speaker 1: like they're all from Boston or like New Hampshire. Basically, oh,

845
00:43:46,520 --> 00:43:51,960
Speaker 1: like the Colombia best exactly. So this, yeah, I don't

846
00:43:51,960 --> 00:43:54,120
Speaker 1: know if Ryan looks like that. But basically he was like,

847
00:43:54,200 --> 00:43:56,680
Speaker 1: can y'all talk about this tumbler band? Um, all my

848
00:43:56,760 --> 00:43:59,239
Speaker 1: gays are in fucking they dronk off this Tumbler like

849
00:43:59,320 --> 00:44:01,440
Speaker 1: this is awful, So basically becauys that know what happened.

850
00:44:01,480 --> 00:44:04,520
Speaker 1: Tumbler is removing its nsf W content. A lot of

851
00:44:04,640 --> 00:44:06,719
Speaker 1: sex workers and a lot of sex performers are like

852
00:44:06,800 --> 00:44:09,160
Speaker 1: super Piste because they love to share their pages ridiculous,

853
00:44:09,200 --> 00:44:11,880
Speaker 1: not even Tumbler, I mean ship we these thirst straps.

854
00:44:11,880 --> 00:44:16,200
Speaker 1: So now, bitch, where are you going to go to

855
00:44:16,280 --> 00:44:21,080
Speaker 1: be where you like immediately? Bit five minutes. I just

856
00:44:21,640 --> 00:44:24,040
Speaker 1: like people, just five people. I just saw that Rose

857
00:44:24,160 --> 00:44:29,440
Speaker 1: McGowan's like partner or like whatever, like I don't know

858
00:44:29,480 --> 00:44:31,640
Speaker 1: if they were, well it's a heat by the way,

859
00:44:31,760 --> 00:44:37,080
Speaker 1: her name, it's like a non binary piper pipe. The

860
00:44:37,120 --> 00:44:40,719
Speaker 1: person she's mwen. She was. She was charmed. I was

861
00:44:40,760 --> 00:44:48,000
Speaker 1: like chimed out, so rained of that's the day's name,

862
00:44:48,640 --> 00:44:54,200
Speaker 1: and they were they decided to go on Instagram and

863
00:44:54,320 --> 00:44:58,680
Speaker 1: she they have double D boobs and so they were

864
00:44:58,760 --> 00:45:01,520
Speaker 1: like not wearing a bra or shirt and was like

865
00:45:01,600 --> 00:45:05,880
Speaker 1: playing basketball their boobs flying everywhere, and they were like Instagram,

866
00:45:05,960 --> 00:45:08,120
Speaker 1: this is not sexual and I'm not a woman, so

867
00:45:08,400 --> 00:45:10,719
Speaker 1: these are not actually breast with female breasts. So if

868
00:45:10,760 --> 00:45:13,560
Speaker 1: you take this down, your transphobic. And they fucking kept

869
00:45:13,600 --> 00:45:15,000
Speaker 1: it up. I don't know for how long. I don't

870
00:45:15,000 --> 00:45:17,040
Speaker 1: know it's still up there, but that is some ship

871
00:45:17,200 --> 00:45:19,719
Speaker 1: and I'm gonna start doing that, start just putting my

872
00:45:19,800 --> 00:45:22,359
Speaker 1: tips up there, being like this isn't female nipple. Well

873
00:45:22,400 --> 00:45:27,640
Speaker 1: I do. That's part In New York, it's actually legal

874
00:45:27,840 --> 00:45:32,080
Speaker 1: for women to be talking about that's party. If that

875
00:45:32,120 --> 00:45:34,880
Speaker 1: should cost money is here's a few thoughts. I'm actually

876
00:45:34,960 --> 00:45:36,919
Speaker 1: just gonna kind of walk through this outline a little

877
00:45:36,920 --> 00:45:38,439
Speaker 1: bit and you guys jump in when you want. Here's

878
00:45:38,440 --> 00:45:40,319
Speaker 1: the things I want to talk about. So Tumbler did

879
00:45:40,360 --> 00:45:42,600
Speaker 1: this band right? I want to talk about why are

880
00:45:42,640 --> 00:45:45,759
Speaker 1: people so offended by breasts? Extreme from feminists say that

881
00:45:45,800 --> 00:45:47,919
Speaker 1: breasts are just for babies and it's disgusting when people

882
00:45:47,960 --> 00:45:53,640
Speaker 1: sexualize it. Fox says that like evangelical, like what No,

883
00:45:53,960 --> 00:45:56,040
Speaker 1: A lot of people actually they would be the opposite

884
00:45:56,040 --> 00:45:57,680
Speaker 1: because they feel like you shouldn't show your breast. But

885
00:45:57,719 --> 00:46:00,920
Speaker 1: a lot of feminists say that my breast shouldn't be offensive.

886
00:46:01,000 --> 00:46:03,040
Speaker 1: Oh they shouldn't be. I'm sorry. I thought even like yeah,

887
00:46:03,080 --> 00:46:05,560
Speaker 1: they're they're just like these are for babies, Like why

888
00:46:05,600 --> 00:46:08,360
Speaker 1: does that? Why is everyone? So I also want to

889
00:46:08,360 --> 00:46:11,040
Speaker 1: talk about places it's legal to be topless, and these

890
00:46:11,080 --> 00:46:19,800
Speaker 1: places have been tested Asheville, North Carolina, Austin, Texas, Boulder, Colorado, Columbus, Ohio, Eugene, Oregon, Honolulu, Magranolas.

891
00:46:20,320 --> 00:46:23,160
Speaker 1: This is like some mad so that means somebody walked

892
00:46:23,160 --> 00:46:25,160
Speaker 1: out there, like in front of it, some crazy like

893
00:46:25,400 --> 00:46:31,799
Speaker 1: white liberals, New York and Oregon, Santa Fe, South Beach,

894
00:46:31,880 --> 00:46:35,600
Speaker 1: and DC beaches. In qus, there are now I mean,

895
00:46:36,280 --> 00:46:39,360
Speaker 1: these states have laws against not being able to get arrested.

896
00:46:39,560 --> 00:46:42,399
Speaker 1: I got this from go topless dot org. Okay um,

897
00:46:43,239 --> 00:46:45,280
Speaker 1: and yeah, I mean I do want to talk about

898
00:46:45,520 --> 00:46:49,160
Speaker 1: the NFFW shild. Obviously tumber was out there, but about titties,

899
00:46:49,640 --> 00:46:51,839
Speaker 1: people are super offended. Like I haven't warn a braw

900
00:46:51,920 --> 00:46:53,880
Speaker 1: in a while. You know, I wear sports bras just

901
00:46:53,920 --> 00:46:56,319
Speaker 1: because it hurts when they bound, but I don't really

902
00:46:56,360 --> 00:47:00,640
Speaker 1: wear flower bras to work. But the female breasts that

903
00:47:01,040 --> 00:47:03,480
Speaker 1: makes it so weird. Do you think that nipples should

904
00:47:03,480 --> 00:47:05,920
Speaker 1: be up on Instagram? Do you feel like it is so?

905
00:47:06,000 --> 00:47:09,080
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna lie with the new fashion right now,

906
00:47:09,280 --> 00:47:11,560
Speaker 1: and Rihanna was I would say the trend setter in it.

907
00:47:12,120 --> 00:47:15,880
Speaker 1: I'm not a fan personally of the nude mesh t

908
00:47:16,080 --> 00:47:19,279
Speaker 1: shirts with just no brawl on. To me, it is

909
00:47:19,320 --> 00:47:22,120
Speaker 1: a little to me um, like if you're just out

910
00:47:22,280 --> 00:47:23,800
Speaker 1: or say I'm out at dinner and I see a

911
00:47:23,880 --> 00:47:26,759
Speaker 1: girl and her whole last titties are out, Like to me, yeah,

912
00:47:26,920 --> 00:47:30,959
Speaker 1: I'm not for it. In certain spaces, however, I would

913
00:47:31,120 --> 00:47:34,359
Speaker 1: enjoy going to a nude you know, resort. I've gone

914
00:47:34,400 --> 00:47:36,439
Speaker 1: to nude beaches, I go on. I feel like there's

915
00:47:36,480 --> 00:47:38,800
Speaker 1: a time and a place for it. I also feel like,

916
00:47:38,920 --> 00:47:42,720
Speaker 1: to me, breasts like feet, women's breast, women's bodies in general,

917
00:47:42,880 --> 00:47:46,200
Speaker 1: like the reason why we're sexualized, Like that's such a

918
00:47:46,640 --> 00:47:51,360
Speaker 1: like historical and like long fucking conversation, and like the

919
00:47:51,520 --> 00:47:55,480
Speaker 1: reasons why. I go so deep that it's like yeah,

920
00:47:55,520 --> 00:47:57,839
Speaker 1: I mean they do, you know, And it's like we're

921
00:47:58,040 --> 00:48:01,440
Speaker 1: our bodies are a commodity like men. I mean there

922
00:48:01,480 --> 00:48:04,080
Speaker 1: are men prostitutes, but not really like women. We can

923
00:48:04,120 --> 00:48:06,080
Speaker 1: sell sex, we can all. We'll always have our pussies

924
00:48:06,120 --> 00:48:07,759
Speaker 1: to sell, will always have our cities to sell, like

925
00:48:08,920 --> 00:48:10,759
Speaker 1: you always have at this point if you really want

926
00:48:10,760 --> 00:48:13,440
Speaker 1: to get into it. We'll always have our mouths, but

927
00:48:13,760 --> 00:48:17,440
Speaker 1: will always have our feet to sell. Always. Yes, we'll

928
00:48:17,520 --> 00:48:21,720
Speaker 1: always also have there's hand models where people fetish size hands,

929
00:48:22,360 --> 00:48:24,000
Speaker 1: like I don't know, we can get into elbows and

930
00:48:24,239 --> 00:48:26,200
Speaker 1: we had someone on here blood Zilla said he likes

931
00:48:26,320 --> 00:48:30,439
Speaker 1: arm bits. Like all parts of the only states banned

932
00:48:30,480 --> 00:48:33,759
Speaker 1: toplessness it's Utah, Indiana and Tennessee. And who then lives there,

933
00:48:34,000 --> 00:48:35,759
Speaker 1: Like I was thinking about this actually on the way here,

934
00:48:36,840 --> 00:48:40,320
Speaker 1: I mean live in Tennessee. You know places like Spain

935
00:48:40,520 --> 00:48:43,000
Speaker 1: and France, and you know these these places are like

936
00:48:43,120 --> 00:48:45,359
Speaker 1: just so like my years ahead of us in terms

937
00:48:45,400 --> 00:48:48,320
Speaker 1: of dealing with sexuality. That was my first experience, like

938
00:48:48,520 --> 00:48:50,759
Speaker 1: really letting go. Went to the beach in Barcelona and

939
00:48:50,840 --> 00:48:52,440
Speaker 1: I it was a nude beach and I had my

940
00:48:52,520 --> 00:48:56,359
Speaker 1: clothes on, and I felt stupid. I can't believe how

941
00:48:56,480 --> 00:48:59,080
Speaker 1: like exhilarating it felt to just take my top off

942
00:48:59,120 --> 00:49:01,440
Speaker 1: and feel good about it. I fell asleep and I

943
00:49:01,560 --> 00:49:03,480
Speaker 1: was like, oh, probably people probably took pictures of me.

944
00:49:03,560 --> 00:49:06,120
Speaker 1: But now it's really the u s. It's crazy because

945
00:49:06,160 --> 00:49:09,080
Speaker 1: we are so ahead, but we're not like also we're

946
00:49:09,120 --> 00:49:12,840
Speaker 1: not sexually about dealing with like young guys. I'd be like,

947
00:49:12,920 --> 00:49:15,120
Speaker 1: if we go out the country, he could drink because

948
00:49:15,160 --> 00:49:17,879
Speaker 1: it's like eighteen and sixteen for legal drinking ages anywhere else,

949
00:49:18,760 --> 00:49:20,759
Speaker 1: it's fine. We'll just go to another country together, like

950
00:49:20,880 --> 00:49:24,560
Speaker 1: that's fine. And it is our culture. I mean we

951
00:49:24,840 --> 00:49:27,320
Speaker 1: it's just our culture here, you know. And it's different

952
00:49:27,360 --> 00:49:29,640
Speaker 1: out there. The way they the way they that they

953
00:49:30,080 --> 00:49:33,720
Speaker 1: teach sex, the way that they like deal with sex, nudity, everything,

954
00:49:33,840 --> 00:49:37,719
Speaker 1: it's just completely different. I will say, if they do

955
00:49:37,960 --> 00:49:40,200
Speaker 1: to Twitter what they just did to Tumbler, then I

956
00:49:40,239 --> 00:49:41,879
Speaker 1: don't know where the funk else to go. But I'm

957
00:49:41,920 --> 00:49:43,640
Speaker 1: not gonna lie. I'll be on the train some mornings

958
00:49:43,680 --> 00:49:45,920
Speaker 1: going just on my timeline wanting to read the updates

959
00:49:46,160 --> 00:49:50,000
Speaker 1: and a whole dick. And I don't worry because I'm

960
00:49:50,000 --> 00:49:52,480
Speaker 1: like my kid too, So I'm like looking and then

961
00:49:52,520 --> 00:49:56,279
Speaker 1: I'm like, oh my god, there's sixteen. How do you

962
00:49:56,320 --> 00:50:03,200
Speaker 1: have she's not sixteen? She looks like a grown I

963
00:50:03,440 --> 00:50:07,000
Speaker 1: love it. Actually she's a middle school I'm sorry. She

964
00:50:07,239 --> 00:50:11,319
Speaker 1: looks past tween. Let me see, she looks the leven

965
00:50:11,360 --> 00:50:19,160
Speaker 1: You definitely fourteen, a freshman in person. She looks your

966
00:50:19,239 --> 00:50:22,040
Speaker 1: video she was so grown. Do you have the conversations

967
00:50:22,120 --> 00:50:24,480
Speaker 1: with her or do you hide? Are you able to hide?

968
00:50:24,520 --> 00:50:26,640
Speaker 1: Tumbler Twitter like now knowing that you could just see

969
00:50:26,640 --> 00:50:30,680
Speaker 1: those things that I'm like, so I no, no. I

970
00:50:30,880 --> 00:50:33,480
Speaker 1: told her, like, if you ever see like on the computer,

971
00:50:33,560 --> 00:50:34,839
Speaker 1: have you ever seen on the internet, have you ever

972
00:50:35,000 --> 00:50:37,759
Speaker 1: come across like pictures or videos of people having sex

973
00:50:38,000 --> 00:50:39,759
Speaker 1: out of it? I told her, it's like it's not real,

974
00:50:40,040 --> 00:50:42,320
Speaker 1: it's acting, you know, because I don't want her to

975
00:50:42,400 --> 00:50:46,279
Speaker 1: think that that's like real, like sax, you know. I

976
00:50:46,320 --> 00:50:49,560
Speaker 1: went to a porn panel with Eric Cindy Galla told

977
00:50:49,600 --> 00:50:55,040
Speaker 1: me that that's what I should say. She's so she's

978
00:50:55,120 --> 00:50:58,160
Speaker 1: this like she's a genius. She has a ted talk

979
00:50:58,280 --> 00:51:00,439
Speaker 1: that you should watch, but it's called make Love Porn.

980
00:51:00,560 --> 00:51:02,799
Speaker 1: But so some of her stuff look yeah, but it's

981
00:51:02,840 --> 00:51:06,280
Speaker 1: not like she's not anti porn. She's not that. She's

982
00:51:06,320 --> 00:51:10,840
Speaker 1: just like not she's about sex education and real sex

983
00:51:11,000 --> 00:51:13,480
Speaker 1: and like also showing people how to actually like how

984
00:51:13,640 --> 00:51:18,000
Speaker 1: real sex. Probably I went to a porn panel where

985
00:51:18,040 --> 00:51:20,680
Speaker 1: this woman Erkalla has shot up to her. She basically

986
00:51:20,840 --> 00:51:24,520
Speaker 1: was like, um, she's known as a feminist porn maker,

987
00:51:24,600 --> 00:51:27,359
Speaker 1: where basically the main thing with doing that is making

988
00:51:27,360 --> 00:51:30,600
Speaker 1: sure you see women come and you see the man's face, right,

989
00:51:30,800 --> 00:51:33,040
Speaker 1: so you see real sex. And she said I always

990
00:51:33,120 --> 00:51:37,040
Speaker 1: felt like in schools they should show to people and

991
00:51:37,120 --> 00:51:38,799
Speaker 1: kind of how it happens, whether they don't, they make

992
00:51:38,840 --> 00:51:41,920
Speaker 1: it a huge scene just showing how it happens instead

993
00:51:41,920 --> 00:51:44,480
Speaker 1: of showing these pictures so people can understand that it

994
00:51:44,520 --> 00:51:46,480
Speaker 1: can come from love and it's not just bang bang bang,

995
00:51:46,520 --> 00:51:48,160
Speaker 1: because when they start to search it on their own,

996
00:51:48,440 --> 00:51:50,879
Speaker 1: they find porn. And boys are very out of touch

997
00:51:50,960 --> 00:51:52,480
Speaker 1: with how they have sex with women, and that's why

998
00:51:52,560 --> 00:51:55,520
Speaker 1: girls are having these experiences because men think are supposed

999
00:51:55,560 --> 00:51:58,800
Speaker 1: to funk like this. You know, I'm so open, like

1000
00:51:58,920 --> 00:52:02,800
Speaker 1: and I'm totally like comfortable like with sex and everything.

1001
00:52:03,000 --> 00:52:06,160
Speaker 1: But it's still there's something about talking about it with

1002
00:52:06,239 --> 00:52:12,719
Speaker 1: your kid that is is it weird? Yes, school, the

1003
00:52:13,040 --> 00:52:15,640
Speaker 1: school pretty much having the conversation and not you have.

1004
00:52:15,920 --> 00:52:17,640
Speaker 1: I don't know if I've had the conversation with her.

1005
00:52:17,680 --> 00:52:20,200
Speaker 1: I still do, but it's not like you have. When

1006
00:52:20,280 --> 00:52:21,800
Speaker 1: she was like six years old and she was like,

1007
00:52:21,840 --> 00:52:23,320
Speaker 1: how did the baby get in there? And I was like,

1008
00:52:23,400 --> 00:52:25,759
Speaker 1: do you really want to know? And she was like yeah.

1009
00:52:25,800 --> 00:52:28,480
Speaker 1: I was like, well yeah, I told her. And then

1010
00:52:28,520 --> 00:52:30,400
Speaker 1: she was like, I'm telling dad that you said that,

1011
00:52:30,680 --> 00:52:32,960
Speaker 1: and I was like, go ahead. But it's how it happened.

1012
00:52:33,040 --> 00:52:36,080
Speaker 1: So whatever. What was his response, like that you had

1013
00:52:36,120 --> 00:52:38,239
Speaker 1: that conversation. He was just like yo, she told like

1014
00:52:38,360 --> 00:52:40,880
Speaker 1: all her friends and like all the parents, are you

1015
00:52:41,040 --> 00:52:44,279
Speaker 1: call it her penis and her vagina? Yes? Okay, oh yeah,

1016
00:52:44,400 --> 00:52:46,239
Speaker 1: I know some of the parents, some of my friends called,

1017
00:52:46,400 --> 00:52:50,080
Speaker 1: have their kids calling there's a problem with that, like

1018
00:52:50,520 --> 00:52:52,840
Speaker 1: to sit here and call it like your coin purse

1019
00:52:53,040 --> 00:52:55,560
Speaker 1: or any other type of names like who who and ship.

1020
00:52:55,640 --> 00:52:57,960
Speaker 1: I'm like, what made me call it my private? And

1021
00:52:58,000 --> 00:53:01,080
Speaker 1: I was like what? And then my mommy so private.

1022
00:53:01,840 --> 00:53:03,439
Speaker 1: We would be in the car and my mom would

1023
00:53:03,480 --> 00:53:05,680
Speaker 1: touch my leg and make me slap her hand if

1024
00:53:05,760 --> 00:53:07,360
Speaker 1: like men did that to me, like she would like

1025
00:53:07,400 --> 00:53:10,800
Speaker 1: always teach me that. Wow, that's amazing. It was I

1026
00:53:10,960 --> 00:53:13,879
Speaker 1: was young, young, young. I think it's a nasty uncle.

1027
00:53:14,880 --> 00:53:16,880
Speaker 1: She wanted to make sure that I really believe that,

1028
00:53:17,320 --> 00:53:19,360
Speaker 1: because every time I'd be alone with him, they'd be like,

1029
00:53:19,400 --> 00:53:25,839
Speaker 1: where is she? Oh my god, I'm scared, where is she? Where?

1030
00:53:26,719 --> 00:53:31,720
Speaker 1: Where's a little wheezy? Like my daughter is very aware

1031
00:53:32,120 --> 00:53:35,279
Speaker 1: of men looking at me on the street, and she's

1032
00:53:35,400 --> 00:53:37,400
Speaker 1: very aware of all of that. And I told her

1033
00:53:37,440 --> 00:53:39,880
Speaker 1: soon they're going to be looking at you, you know,

1034
00:53:40,040 --> 00:53:42,719
Speaker 1: like it's going to happen soon. You're developing, you know, like,

1035
00:53:43,560 --> 00:53:46,880
Speaker 1: so that sucks. I worried I'm gonna like murder somebody.

1036
00:53:47,239 --> 00:53:49,440
Speaker 1: I really am. And her dad took her to the

1037
00:53:49,520 --> 00:53:51,520
Speaker 1: mall not long ago when he was walking like thirty

1038
00:53:51,800 --> 00:53:54,279
Speaker 1: behind her. She was with a friend, yeah, and he

1039
00:53:54,400 --> 00:53:58,920
Speaker 1: saw guys looking at them. Adult one adult man was

1040
00:53:58,960 --> 00:54:00,839
Speaker 1: looking at her friend, who's a or older. So she's

1041
00:54:00,880 --> 00:54:02,719
Speaker 1: like extra, you know, she's more developed than my daughter.

1042
00:54:02,840 --> 00:54:06,920
Speaker 1: But yeah, it's starting. It's like crazy. And the other

1043
00:54:07,040 --> 00:54:09,560
Speaker 1: day she found my vibrator that was really Yeah. Talked

1044
00:54:09,680 --> 00:54:12,480
Speaker 1: about was a single mom um, so I grew up

1045
00:54:12,480 --> 00:54:15,040
Speaker 1: in a single parent household. And one of the things

1046
00:54:15,120 --> 00:54:17,360
Speaker 1: that she talked to us a lot was how dating

1047
00:54:17,480 --> 00:54:19,719
Speaker 1: was hard because as we were getting older and mine

1048
00:54:19,840 --> 00:54:22,840
Speaker 1: there's there's three of us, so as we were getting older,

1049
00:54:23,400 --> 00:54:26,759
Speaker 1: she literally was like, I feel like I can't date

1050
00:54:26,840 --> 00:54:28,960
Speaker 1: certain men and bringing certain men into the house scare

1051
00:54:29,000 --> 00:54:31,400
Speaker 1: me because you guys, now, even if you're covered, now

1052
00:54:31,480 --> 00:54:33,480
Speaker 1: you have hips and thighs and ass and titties. And

1053
00:54:33,920 --> 00:54:37,520
Speaker 1: I don't want my boyfriends to look at you ladies.

1054
00:54:38,200 --> 00:54:40,319
Speaker 1: But y'all are women like y'all are y'all are crawing?

1055
00:54:40,560 --> 00:54:42,719
Speaker 1: I do want to go ahead and and I think

1056
00:54:42,920 --> 00:54:46,040
Speaker 1: our homel is quite hilarious today. So I want to

1057
00:54:46,080 --> 00:54:47,879
Speaker 1: go ahead and get your feedback on this, because I'm

1058
00:54:47,880 --> 00:54:50,440
Speaker 1: sure you have some in your bag too. Um. So

1059
00:54:50,560 --> 00:54:52,759
Speaker 1: it says, hey, my loves. Of course, I have to

1060
00:54:52,800 --> 00:54:54,800
Speaker 1: be like everyone else to say I love the podcast

1061
00:54:55,160 --> 00:54:57,960
Speaker 1: and love you ladies and everything you're about. Okay, So

1062
00:54:58,040 --> 00:55:02,640
Speaker 1: I'm twenty six. I've been married since June, but with

1063
00:55:02,800 --> 00:55:04,879
Speaker 1: my hobby since we were seniors in high school two

1064
00:55:04,880 --> 00:55:07,400
Speaker 1: thousand eleven. Jesus Christ, that's a long time. We have

1065
00:55:07,480 --> 00:55:10,400
Speaker 1: a great marriage, and due to me being bisexual, we

1066
00:55:10,520 --> 00:55:13,439
Speaker 1: have allowed other women to join us in the bedroom. Hey,

1067
00:55:14,880 --> 00:55:17,640
Speaker 1: recently I started joking about really wanting to funk my

1068
00:55:17,760 --> 00:55:20,000
Speaker 1: favorite singer who may or may not be out of

1069
00:55:20,040 --> 00:55:22,600
Speaker 1: my league, girl Jack Quiz. We're gonna go ahead and

1070
00:55:22,600 --> 00:55:25,360
Speaker 1: put his name out. You're gonna speaking into the universe.

1071
00:55:25,719 --> 00:55:28,040
Speaker 1: Did you hear about girl? The lm A remake the

1072
00:55:28,080 --> 00:55:30,440
Speaker 1: nigg who remains anything Black people will follow you and

1073
00:55:30,560 --> 00:55:35,920
Speaker 1: you do the same. You need to be tipping no, no, no,

1074
00:55:36,320 --> 00:55:44,720
Speaker 1: And he just still and as I sound, okay, anyways,

1075
00:55:44,719 --> 00:55:49,120
Speaker 1: seeing this guy. He is all of five foot six.

1076
00:55:50,520 --> 00:55:57,120
Speaker 1: This bro, that's my favorite song, jack Quis trip again anyway. Anyways,

1077
00:55:57,280 --> 00:56:01,000
Speaker 1: he's blue check mark. Oh, he looks like he's from

1078
00:56:01,520 --> 00:56:09,000
Speaker 1: like or something. He said. I figured he's famous, but

1079
00:56:09,080 --> 00:56:11,040
Speaker 1: not too full of himself yet. Oh he has a

1080
00:56:11,120 --> 00:56:14,960
Speaker 1: great smile. It doesn't make makeup for five six. Um,

1081
00:56:17,640 --> 00:56:19,600
Speaker 1: sorry for hight shaving, all right, let me fin it.

1082
00:56:19,680 --> 00:56:21,719
Speaker 1: Just says I figured he's famous but not too full

1083
00:56:21,760 --> 00:56:24,160
Speaker 1: of himself yet. I just want to suck him and

1084
00:56:24,200 --> 00:56:26,200
Speaker 1: go back to my life, not ask him to marry

1085
00:56:26,239 --> 00:56:28,120
Speaker 1: me or try to have his baby or anything. My

1086
00:56:28,280 --> 00:56:31,759
Speaker 1: husband said that would be the only nigga I could fuck,

1087
00:56:31,840 --> 00:56:38,360
Speaker 1: because he like a lesbian. He said. My husband is

1088
00:56:38,440 --> 00:56:40,920
Speaker 1: greedy and doesn't want to have an MMF threesome or

1089
00:56:41,000 --> 00:56:43,719
Speaker 1: group sex where another man could touch me. Basically, he

1090
00:56:43,800 --> 00:56:46,480
Speaker 1: figures it will never happen. So he said, yes, but

1091
00:56:46,600 --> 00:56:50,080
Speaker 1: ship now I'm determined. So here's my question. How do

1092
00:56:50,160 --> 00:56:52,200
Speaker 1: I make it known to jac Quis that I'm trying

1093
00:56:52,239 --> 00:56:53,960
Speaker 1: to be a one night stand without being put on

1094
00:56:54,080 --> 00:56:57,200
Speaker 1: blast or rejected. He's supposed to go on tour next year,

1095
00:56:57,200 --> 00:56:59,040
Speaker 1: and if he comes back to my City St. Louis.

1096
00:56:59,520 --> 00:57:01,480
Speaker 1: I'm tell of y'all. All I need is ten minutes

1097
00:57:01,520 --> 00:57:03,840
Speaker 1: with him. Did you have any questions? Let me know.

1098
00:57:04,080 --> 00:57:07,480
Speaker 1: Love Wheezy and Mandy and hope to see you guys

1099
00:57:07,520 --> 00:57:10,160
Speaker 1: and say Louis some day signed Hella thirsty for Jacquis

1100
00:57:10,280 --> 00:57:15,000
Speaker 1: bro Net girl planning in St. Louis And you actually no, ma'am.

1101
00:57:15,600 --> 00:57:17,440
Speaker 1: The Rams got moved to l A. There's no more

1102
00:57:17,560 --> 00:57:21,960
Speaker 1: football team. I don't believe. Yeah. I don't know why

1103
00:57:22,000 --> 00:57:26,720
Speaker 1: you thought you would know sports. I don't either. I

1104
00:57:26,960 --> 00:57:28,560
Speaker 1: was one. There was a high in high school and

1105
00:57:28,680 --> 00:57:31,080
Speaker 1: data that went to the RAM. So that's how do yeah, say,

1106
00:57:31,160 --> 00:57:33,720
Speaker 1: Louis Rams they moved there. Now the Chicago RAM or

1107
00:57:33,840 --> 00:57:37,680
Speaker 1: not chic to slide into his DM. Okay a nude photo,

1108
00:57:37,800 --> 00:57:46,240
Speaker 1: Yeah that's okay. Girls are had it there. Pause. I

1109
00:57:46,400 --> 00:57:48,680
Speaker 1: wasn't gonna say nude. I was. When she said a photo,

1110
00:57:48,800 --> 00:57:52,840
Speaker 1: I heard no, she said nude first, So send the

1111
00:57:53,040 --> 00:57:56,200
Speaker 1: pussy spread over you really just she's married, right, so

1112
00:57:56,240 --> 00:57:58,240
Speaker 1: you're getting what it's called a hall pass. You guys

1113
00:57:58,320 --> 00:58:00,840
Speaker 1: have that one person that each can fuck and it's allowed.

1114
00:58:01,560 --> 00:58:04,760
Speaker 1: I would jack queezes your one em and m would

1115
00:58:04,760 --> 00:58:07,560
Speaker 1: be mine whould be your if you were in a relationship,

1116
00:58:07,600 --> 00:58:09,560
Speaker 1: who would you want to haul pass for? Jason Momo?

1117
00:58:10,200 --> 00:58:17,560
Speaker 1: Oh yes, Jason Momo was fine man and Carl did

1118
00:58:17,600 --> 00:58:21,480
Speaker 1: I go, He's fine? Yeah, I think, And I just

1119
00:58:21,680 --> 00:58:23,760
Speaker 1: I don't know, I'm really interested in and I know

1120
00:58:23,880 --> 00:58:25,680
Speaker 1: he's here but he's married. But methyd Man, I just

1121
00:58:25,760 --> 00:58:27,720
Speaker 1: feel like he would like, Yeah, I do have like

1122
00:58:27,880 --> 00:58:29,720
Speaker 1: something about methyd Man. I feel like, oh my god,

1123
00:58:30,560 --> 00:58:37,800
Speaker 1: I feel like what meThe Manic looks like my god,

1124
00:58:37,880 --> 00:58:42,040
Speaker 1: his mouth, his teeth are so good, so good. I

1125
00:58:42,160 --> 00:58:44,320
Speaker 1: love me some Methemic old something you know, I don't

1126
00:58:44,320 --> 00:58:45,840
Speaker 1: even liked because I just feel like he could show

1127
00:58:45,880 --> 00:58:48,800
Speaker 1: me something I love. Old man. Yeah, I just thought

1128
00:58:48,840 --> 00:58:50,720
Speaker 1: the guy that's my age recently and I was like

1129
00:58:51,160 --> 00:58:53,479
Speaker 1: it was good. But you know, he's a fucking women

1130
00:58:53,640 --> 00:58:57,960
Speaker 1: old like old man, you're like elders. She won a wheelchair,

1131
00:58:58,720 --> 00:59:07,760
Speaker 1: not even almost dying, so she's saying new photo. The

1132
00:59:07,880 --> 00:59:10,440
Speaker 1: reason that I'm kind of like sending a risk a

1133
00:59:10,600 --> 00:59:13,000
Speaker 1: photo is a good idea is because she has a

1134
00:59:13,080 --> 00:59:16,360
Speaker 1: man and she just wants to fun. Whereas like, all right,

1135
00:59:16,400 --> 00:59:19,560
Speaker 1: how about sexy lingerie like Guarden. I think she's just

1136
00:59:20,040 --> 00:59:22,080
Speaker 1: like at least like a cute ash shot something in

1137
00:59:22,120 --> 00:59:24,040
Speaker 1: the mirror. I love that y'all are going this route.

1138
00:59:24,040 --> 00:59:26,320
Speaker 1: I'm gonna take it somewhere completely different when it's worked

1139
00:59:26,360 --> 00:59:28,960
Speaker 1: for friends of mine, specifically maybe regular girls who don't

1140
00:59:29,000 --> 00:59:30,960
Speaker 1: have a ton of followers. So since this is what

1141
00:59:31,080 --> 00:59:33,880
Speaker 1: you do, you find out who's in his camp. You

1142
00:59:34,080 --> 00:59:37,040
Speaker 1: somehow befriend the people in his camp, so then when

1143
00:59:37,080 --> 00:59:39,240
Speaker 1: he comes to the show, you get free tickets, you

1144
00:59:39,320 --> 00:59:41,480
Speaker 1: get backstage, and you're able to just see him in

1145
00:59:41,560 --> 00:59:44,920
Speaker 1: his seat. Niggas is asking Alex for pictures of my feet.

1146
00:59:45,000 --> 00:59:47,880
Speaker 1: That's why. No, you go to the people in the

1147
00:59:47,960 --> 00:59:51,439
Speaker 1: camp and you befriends someone in the camp because this way,

1148
00:59:51,680 --> 00:59:53,560
Speaker 1: when he does come to St. Louis, I'm sure there's

1149
00:59:53,560 --> 00:59:55,080
Speaker 1: gonna be a lot of girls, but this way you're

1150
00:59:55,080 --> 00:59:57,800
Speaker 1: able to get in his vicinity. So you're gonna get

1151
00:59:57,800 --> 01:00:00,920
Speaker 1: tickets to the show, possibly backstage, and the homies might

1152
01:00:00,960 --> 01:00:02,320
Speaker 1: be trying to funk with you, but you they ain't

1153
01:00:02,320 --> 01:00:03,720
Speaker 1: gotta know. You got out to hear your motive bit

1154
01:00:03,720 --> 01:00:06,640
Speaker 1: you're trying to go for the goal. With some stories

1155
01:00:06,840 --> 01:00:10,160
Speaker 1: like when you're singing in the car and ship especially music.

1156
01:00:10,280 --> 01:00:12,800
Speaker 1: Make sure your page is public mentioned him in stories.

1157
01:00:13,480 --> 01:00:17,440
Speaker 1: That's actually how I got one dude that I'm fucked

1158
01:00:17,960 --> 01:00:23,160
Speaker 1: from attack. I was like, oh, ship, wait, what tell me?

1159
01:00:23,880 --> 01:00:27,400
Speaker 1: I don't want to be too obviously already doing mad

1160
01:00:27,480 --> 01:00:31,680
Speaker 1: obvious ship yo. But it was months months months months ago,

1161
01:00:31,840 --> 01:00:33,240
Speaker 1: or just like a random guy, but you just kept

1162
01:00:33,280 --> 01:00:35,600
Speaker 1: like famous guy. It was months ago and I mentioned

1163
01:00:35,680 --> 01:00:37,320
Speaker 1: him in the story and he was like, laughing my

1164
01:00:37,400 --> 01:00:39,880
Speaker 1: ass off, you wild And then months later he did

1165
01:00:39,960 --> 01:00:44,200
Speaker 1: it again and I was like, yeah, it works. You

1166
01:00:44,280 --> 01:00:46,240
Speaker 1: just gotta make sure you're really cute. You know you

1167
01:00:46,320 --> 01:00:48,760
Speaker 1: do so, make sure you have your first couple pictures

1168
01:00:48,760 --> 01:00:55,240
Speaker 1: are really bomb when you do it right. I will

1169
01:00:55,280 --> 01:00:57,240
Speaker 1: say a lot of men aren't even turned off if

1170
01:00:57,280 --> 01:00:59,120
Speaker 1: you don't have a K behind your number anymore. They

1171
01:00:59,200 --> 01:01:02,240
Speaker 1: like the little low key bitches. So my god, I

1172
01:01:02,360 --> 01:01:05,680
Speaker 1: made a choke about a dude saying like, oh, like

1173
01:01:06,080 --> 01:01:08,000
Speaker 1: whatever you hit me with the lines you a blue

1174
01:01:08,040 --> 01:01:09,680
Speaker 1: check as he's like, I say the same thing with

1175
01:01:09,720 --> 01:01:12,160
Speaker 1: bitches with a K a k oh. They love when

1176
01:01:12,200 --> 01:01:15,280
Speaker 1: I said, like, so, I have a wide variety of friends,

1177
01:01:15,640 --> 01:01:17,480
Speaker 1: and the ones with the low count niggas be really

1178
01:01:17,520 --> 01:01:20,920
Speaker 1: interested in like oh, don't nobody know her? So like

1179
01:01:21,400 --> 01:01:23,360
Speaker 1: so like, even if you don't have a lot of followers,

1180
01:01:23,440 --> 01:01:25,520
Speaker 1: don't beat the turt like, but you could still get it.

1181
01:01:25,800 --> 01:01:28,600
Speaker 1: I like men that just don't have Instagram or why

1182
01:01:28,640 --> 01:01:32,520
Speaker 1: don't you like when he is coming to your city,

1183
01:01:32,640 --> 01:01:34,720
Speaker 1: right be like, yo, I see you're coming to St. Louis.

1184
01:01:34,840 --> 01:01:37,120
Speaker 1: I bought a ticket just to let you know. I

1185
01:01:37,240 --> 01:01:39,680
Speaker 1: have a whole husband. I've been telling him about how

1186
01:01:39,760 --> 01:01:42,840
Speaker 1: bad I want to fuck you, like or you could

1187
01:01:42,840 --> 01:01:45,320
Speaker 1: do the other rout. Sometimes it works. It's a little cheesy.

1188
01:01:45,360 --> 01:01:47,800
Speaker 1: But the girl from Howard who just hit up Michael B.

1189
01:01:47,880 --> 01:01:49,160
Speaker 1: Jordan's and was like, I want to get you a

1190
01:01:49,200 --> 01:01:52,120
Speaker 1: smoothie and he responded and they had like a SMOOTHI

1191
01:01:52,160 --> 01:02:00,120
Speaker 1: dayzing bro wasn't the shocker. You know, since I've tked

1192
01:02:00,120 --> 01:02:01,960
Speaker 1: about Michael be joining on this podcast, I have seen

1193
01:02:02,080 --> 01:02:04,720
Speaker 1: him three fucking times. I guess you didn't look like

1194
01:02:05,760 --> 01:02:10,560
Speaker 1: did you have those? It's okay, it's his club bit

1195
01:02:10,680 --> 01:02:12,760
Speaker 1: he's a part owner in it. Okay, Well, I don't

1196
01:02:12,920 --> 01:02:16,520
Speaker 1: like y'all last lab go check him out. But it's fine.

1197
01:02:16,720 --> 01:02:18,880
Speaker 1: If you go, he'll probably wave at you. But her

1198
01:02:18,920 --> 01:02:23,200
Speaker 1: were these braids because you don't like you don't like

1199
01:02:23,320 --> 01:02:27,120
Speaker 1: black girls. Really, it's always one word here. She goes like,

1200
01:02:30,800 --> 01:02:36,840
Speaker 1: i'ven showing your podcast. You can look a little cultured

1201
01:02:36,840 --> 01:02:40,760
Speaker 1: and some picture right wait, I got arching in my eyebrows.

1202
01:02:40,840 --> 01:02:48,000
Speaker 1: Be she bought a reka. So seriously, look, you don't

1203
01:02:48,000 --> 01:02:50,800
Speaker 1: want to look Latina. Don't feel No, I'm not, I'm

1204
01:02:51,080 --> 01:02:54,320
Speaker 1: I'm it's a consult. Yeah, seriously, you could be a

1205
01:02:54,400 --> 01:02:57,080
Speaker 1: little mixed. I ain't gonna li so real quick, paulse

1206
01:02:57,480 --> 01:03:00,040
Speaker 1: I had I had a diversity and inclusive way. I

1207
01:03:00,080 --> 01:03:02,400
Speaker 1: had a diversity and inclusive event. So it's all the

1208
01:03:02,480 --> 01:03:05,200
Speaker 1: black and Latina first year highers of my company and

1209
01:03:05,280 --> 01:03:07,200
Speaker 1: we just had it. And I'm not gonna lie. Me

1210
01:03:07,280 --> 01:03:08,760
Speaker 1: and the other black people were looking at some of

1211
01:03:08,800 --> 01:03:10,760
Speaker 1: the latinos like so they just let white people come

1212
01:03:10,760 --> 01:03:15,760
Speaker 1: in here. But I guess I'm all the mother tags

1213
01:03:15,800 --> 01:03:20,160
Speaker 1: like you better say Alvarez, bitch. I better not seeing

1214
01:03:20,160 --> 01:03:24,600
Speaker 1: a white person name and a lot of people of

1215
01:03:24,640 --> 01:03:27,480
Speaker 1: color spaces. And let me say this, one white girl

1216
01:03:27,520 --> 01:03:29,720
Speaker 1: wrote me, and I was so. I did this event

1217
01:03:29,800 --> 01:03:33,040
Speaker 1: called Sage and Sex with a miliorities, so I put

1218
01:03:33,320 --> 01:03:35,520
Speaker 1: black and brown girls and men ladies and men on

1219
01:03:35,600 --> 01:03:37,520
Speaker 1: bran are people finally have an event for us. This

1220
01:03:37,640 --> 01:03:40,520
Speaker 1: white girl wrote me and was like, hey, I want

1221
01:03:40,560 --> 01:03:42,600
Speaker 1: to buy a ticket, but I also don't want to violate,

1222
01:03:42,680 --> 01:03:44,440
Speaker 1: like if this is a safe space for just them

1223
01:03:44,480 --> 01:03:46,720
Speaker 1: and I won't come. And I was like, wow, of course,

1224
01:03:47,360 --> 01:03:48,960
Speaker 1: nice of her. I'm not gonna lie. I'm I'm a

1225
01:03:49,040 --> 01:03:51,600
Speaker 1: part of the National Association of Black Accountants, and blacks

1226
01:03:51,640 --> 01:03:54,120
Speaker 1: were very welcoming. I'll be mad as fun when Asians

1227
01:03:54,160 --> 01:03:57,000
Speaker 1: and white spearing on mother fucking events like y'all better

1228
01:03:57,040 --> 01:04:00,440
Speaker 1: go to the people. I've come, but they're not black.

1229
01:04:01,400 --> 01:04:07,600
Speaker 1: It's National Association of Black Accountants. Bit they got the organizations,

1230
01:04:07,640 --> 01:04:12,920
Speaker 1: but by coming and taking it, like I'll admit that,

1231
01:04:12,960 --> 01:04:16,320
Speaker 1: I've definitely been like damn no, Like I've definitely caught

1232
01:04:16,400 --> 01:04:18,800
Speaker 1: some like feelings like what I'm white, I get left

1233
01:04:18,840 --> 01:04:21,919
Speaker 1: out now, Like I felt like that I'm not gonna

1234
01:04:22,040 --> 01:04:28,600
Speaker 1: lie like I'm lying, yeah, yes, yes, I mean I

1235
01:04:28,800 --> 01:04:31,960
Speaker 1: have experienced that, like the white tears. It's real. How

1236
01:04:32,000 --> 01:04:33,800
Speaker 1: does it make you feel? You know? I'm just like,

1237
01:04:34,200 --> 01:04:37,720
Speaker 1: can I tell you before we part? I will say

1238
01:04:37,760 --> 01:04:39,440
Speaker 1: this was great, this was great? All right, we got

1239
01:04:39,480 --> 01:04:42,280
Speaker 1: for a minute. I'm make this really quick. I am, well,

1240
01:04:42,320 --> 01:04:46,840
Speaker 1: I'm glad she didn't say you're leaving me out. But

1241
01:04:47,120 --> 01:04:50,560
Speaker 1: also I'm like, it wasn't black and brown exclusive. It

1242
01:04:50,640 --> 01:04:52,080
Speaker 1: was just that space for them to talk about, you know,

1243
01:04:52,200 --> 01:04:55,200
Speaker 1: sex and motions. And so I had an event. Um

1244
01:04:55,480 --> 01:04:57,440
Speaker 1: it was also talk New York and a friend of

1245
01:04:57,520 --> 01:05:00,680
Speaker 1: mine who's white, she's a woman. Then she wrote me

1246
01:05:00,760 --> 01:05:03,320
Speaker 1: and she said, oh, I have an idea for your show.

1247
01:05:03,480 --> 01:05:06,200
Speaker 1: Text me. I'm like, girl, you hang up with me

1248
01:05:06,280 --> 01:05:08,680
Speaker 1: all the time, Like you know about my show. You

1249
01:05:08,760 --> 01:05:11,600
Speaker 1: know it's in two hours. Why aren't you here? You

1250
01:05:11,840 --> 01:05:14,360
Speaker 1: funk with me? Right, I've had three shows in New

1251
01:05:14,440 --> 01:05:16,160
Speaker 1: York and you've never made an effort to come to

1252
01:05:16,200 --> 01:05:18,640
Speaker 1: any of them. Are we friends or not? She wrote me.

1253
01:05:21,000 --> 01:05:26,880
Speaker 1: She wrote me back and she said this, did I

1254
01:05:26,920 --> 01:05:30,400
Speaker 1: have to lead her number? How good a friends were

1255
01:05:30,520 --> 01:05:32,800
Speaker 1: you with her? Good enough to where we hang out

1256
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Speaker 1: about two or three times a month ago out. You're

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01:05:34,880 --> 01:05:37,080
Speaker 1: not that inviting to white people. I know you, So

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Speaker 1: I don't take that offense. You're not mean to stay

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Speaker 1: in office. But it's a little jaden and it comes

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Speaker 1: off with some of your followers. They can be mean.

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Speaker 1: It's noticed that, but I mean, I'm not your demographic.

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Speaker 1: I said, I don't mean the fuck you know, I

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Speaker 1: funk white man, and they come bitch or my friends. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: that's if you're of someone's friends. And she said, you

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01:05:54,280 --> 01:05:57,440
Speaker 1: make jokes like my friends Sarah Palin, And that's fine,

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01:05:57,840 --> 01:05:59,600
Speaker 1: But say we're at your show and you say that

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01:05:59,720 --> 01:06:01,360
Speaker 1: to me, and people are crazy, and it puts me

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01:06:01,360 --> 01:06:03,440
Speaker 1: in a poor position. I don't know, maybe I'm overthinking it.

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Speaker 1: First of all, she was scared to go with her.

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01:06:07,840 --> 01:06:10,600
Speaker 1: Don't get me wrong, I love you, know what I'm saying,

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01:06:10,640 --> 01:06:12,920
Speaker 1: But like, after a few hours, I'm ready to go, right.

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Speaker 1: I go to these bars with you, with these midtown

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01:06:16,720 --> 01:06:19,440
Speaker 1: uniform dudes, and even though I dave white men like

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01:06:19,720 --> 01:06:22,280
Speaker 1: I'm talking about far down the European, they got to

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01:06:22,320 --> 01:06:24,080
Speaker 1: be like not do so that we go. I just

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01:06:24,160 --> 01:06:26,440
Speaker 1: like these places for the drinks in the vibe. I

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01:06:26,560 --> 01:06:28,440
Speaker 1: go to places that make me uncomfortable all of the

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Speaker 1: time with her. That is never my space. So you

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Speaker 1: can't for one second come to my black ass show,

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Speaker 1: which you know is my demo. My people, you know

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Speaker 1: what I'm saying, And I only have this space for

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01:06:40,000 --> 01:06:43,760
Speaker 1: them because everything else is for you. And it blew

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01:06:44,040 --> 01:06:47,280
Speaker 1: my mind that she wrote me that, and I haven't

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01:06:47,320 --> 01:06:50,360
Speaker 1: spoken her like I've been curving her. I've really he

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01:06:50,720 --> 01:06:56,240
Speaker 1: had a hard time. Yeah, no, no, no, I'm I'm

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01:06:56,320 --> 01:06:58,880
Speaker 1: talking out like you have. But but to me, that

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01:06:59,040 --> 01:07:02,040
Speaker 1: also shows that she's not really accepting of you who

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Speaker 1: you are. Why you're so prideful to be black? Why

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Speaker 1: you why you vouch for why? Why? Why? Why you

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01:07:08,840 --> 01:07:11,480
Speaker 1: cater to the audience you do? Why you say this

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01:07:11,520 --> 01:07:14,080
Speaker 1: ship you do? Like do? We don't have a lot

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01:07:14,120 --> 01:07:17,200
Speaker 1: of things. This Dub has a friend who voter for Trump,

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01:07:17,280 --> 01:07:18,960
Speaker 1: but she cut off and now she's friends with her again.

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01:07:19,320 --> 01:07:20,840
Speaker 1: And I talked to Dub about it. I'm like, what

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01:07:20,920 --> 01:07:23,200
Speaker 1: would you do? And she's like, I'm not gonna lie.

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Speaker 1: She lives doub List in Denver's one of my black friends. Right,

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01:07:26,200 --> 01:07:28,080
Speaker 1: how did that one go in there next weekend? Uh?

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01:07:28,520 --> 01:07:31,120
Speaker 1: She's like, bro, Like I had to talk to her.

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01:07:31,400 --> 01:07:34,400
Speaker 1: I had to tell my friend why I'm upset. Not

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01:07:34,560 --> 01:07:36,440
Speaker 1: every friend is going to be there with me, And

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Speaker 1: I feel like I can't because I have so many

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01:07:40,320 --> 01:07:42,480
Speaker 1: white friends that get it. Why do I have to

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01:07:42,520 --> 01:07:45,680
Speaker 1: teach you? But at the same time, it did bother

1304
01:07:45,800 --> 01:07:47,600
Speaker 1: me so she meant enough to where it bothered me.

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01:07:47,720 --> 01:07:49,480
Speaker 1: It's just crazy to me that someone would think like

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01:07:49,600 --> 01:07:52,560
Speaker 1: I don't see like horrible decisions like alive. She's like,

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01:07:52,640 --> 01:07:54,760
Speaker 1: I don't see that as just for black people. Say

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01:07:54,920 --> 01:08:00,600
Speaker 1: anybody we have such think we also have I do

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01:08:00,760 --> 01:08:03,959
Speaker 1: also want to say we've done We've done three live shows.

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Speaker 1: Now we're about to go on a tour. Not one

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01:08:06,520 --> 01:08:07,920
Speaker 1: live show, mind you. One of them we had an

1312
01:08:07,960 --> 01:08:09,840
Speaker 1: open bar. The other we did have a bar available,

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01:08:10,080 --> 01:08:12,520
Speaker 1: not one live show. Have we even had security? Also?

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01:08:12,680 --> 01:08:18,200
Speaker 1: Why really great, respectable, well worked like higher to upper

1315
01:08:18,439 --> 01:08:22,520
Speaker 1: middle class, like all with corporate jobs, very well respected

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01:08:22,640 --> 01:08:25,719
Speaker 1: black listeners black Latino. Let me let me add everyone

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01:08:25,760 --> 01:08:29,479
Speaker 1: in there and we actually do as she feel. But

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01:08:29,600 --> 01:08:32,040
Speaker 1: did she feel like she wasn't wanted there or did

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01:08:32,080 --> 01:08:36,200
Speaker 1: she feel like unsafe because she thinks black people hate

1320
01:08:36,280 --> 01:08:38,920
Speaker 1: her like I think she's saying those are too differ

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Speaker 1: Sarah Palin friend, I realized that, to be fair, why

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01:08:46,160 --> 01:08:49,200
Speaker 1: did you call her that? Like Sarah, She's like in

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01:08:49,280 --> 01:08:51,600
Speaker 1: a quest and like I'm going to Saratoga for the

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01:08:51,640 --> 01:08:53,760
Speaker 1: weekend to ride my horse, and she could Could I

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01:08:53,760 --> 01:08:55,800
Speaker 1: ask you a question? Would you have a would you

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Speaker 1: be offended if she called you her black friend, because essentially,

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01:09:01,680 --> 01:09:04,800
Speaker 1: if you take it to that, look, I know you're

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01:09:04,800 --> 01:09:07,760
Speaker 1: saying it, don't say my white friend, but Sarah Palin. Yeah,

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01:09:07,840 --> 01:09:09,920
Speaker 1: but even even still, like if she called you, say,

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Speaker 1: a black celebrity because you're black. To be fair, Sarah

1331
01:09:13,479 --> 01:09:16,240
Speaker 1: Palin loves the guns and like all that ship like

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01:09:16,320 --> 01:09:18,360
Speaker 1: that's why I call her sarap. But to her, to her,

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01:09:18,479 --> 01:09:21,160
Speaker 1: she could be looking at it that way. She told

1334
01:09:21,200 --> 01:09:23,000
Speaker 1: you that she didn't like that. She could have been like, yo,

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01:09:23,080 --> 01:09:25,080
Speaker 1: stop calling me that. He said, you called me her

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01:09:25,240 --> 01:09:27,920
Speaker 1: you're Sarah pa never heard it before. She may not

1337
01:09:28,080 --> 01:09:29,960
Speaker 1: like that, so saying she should have said that, she

1338
01:09:30,479 --> 01:09:33,479
Speaker 1: never did so that honestly meant it from the gun thing,

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01:09:33,720 --> 01:09:36,439
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. If she would have called me,

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Speaker 1: I'm trying to think of a beautiful black Beyonce Sara Palin. Ever,

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01:09:46,880 --> 01:09:49,080
Speaker 1: I don't know. I mean, okay, who's a ratchet like

1342
01:09:49,800 --> 01:09:52,640
Speaker 1: she called you? If she goes and introduces you to

1343
01:09:52,720 --> 01:09:58,760
Speaker 1: her friends as an Jemima bro, oh my god, you

1344
01:09:59,400 --> 01:10:02,280
Speaker 1: have to talk out on text message about this because

1345
01:10:02,520 --> 01:10:04,760
Speaker 1: he's like, and that's the thing. It's like, is it

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01:10:04,840 --> 01:10:06,720
Speaker 1: worth it enough to talk about because now that you're

1347
01:10:06,720 --> 01:10:08,360
Speaker 1: saying it, I didn't realize that could have been hurtful.

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01:10:08,560 --> 01:10:11,080
Speaker 1: Angel Marma, I could be your new white friends and

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01:10:11,240 --> 01:10:18,559
Speaker 1: you couldn't like you could guys. My friend Rosa parks like, oh,

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01:10:18,800 --> 01:10:23,080
Speaker 1: that's what I'm saying. She called me Angela. See does

1351
01:10:23,120 --> 01:10:25,880
Speaker 1: some say Sarah Palin is not a compliment? Si? Yeah,

1352
01:10:25,920 --> 01:10:27,680
Speaker 1: you're not like, hey, I'm with my Like it's not

1353
01:10:27,800 --> 01:10:31,280
Speaker 1: Mi Gwen Stefani over here. I'd be like, yeah, I

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01:10:31,320 --> 01:10:35,680
Speaker 1: don't know how the backgirl, I love being outdoors with

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01:10:35,800 --> 01:10:37,960
Speaker 1: guns and I would make I would bumble rope out.

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01:10:38,120 --> 01:10:40,360
Speaker 1: She's like got she got no. I mean, first of all,

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01:10:40,439 --> 01:10:42,439
Speaker 1: people can call me anything, and I'm not like I

1358
01:10:42,520 --> 01:10:46,240
Speaker 1: think a lot of sensitive people. And if she's bringing

1359
01:10:46,360 --> 01:10:50,280
Speaker 1: up the race issue with you, look some type of

1360
01:10:50,320 --> 01:10:52,360
Speaker 1: way of how you view her as a white woman,

1361
01:10:52,560 --> 01:10:55,400
Speaker 1: being that we always talk about our three white listeners. Also,

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01:10:55,640 --> 01:11:01,519
Speaker 1: I really do friend but my white friends does because

1363
01:11:01,560 --> 01:11:05,000
Speaker 1: I'm nobody. I mean, I guess sometimes someone being so

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01:11:05,160 --> 01:11:07,040
Speaker 1: pro black and be intimidating because you're like that, does

1365
01:11:07,200 --> 01:11:09,720
Speaker 1: does that mean that they're anti white? So it takes

1366
01:11:09,760 --> 01:11:13,120
Speaker 1: a minute. It's like some people are anti corn, you know,

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01:11:13,479 --> 01:11:16,920
Speaker 1: and then we're having these conversations about gun violence, about

1368
01:11:17,160 --> 01:11:19,479
Speaker 1: you know, the things that are happening within our black community,

1369
01:11:19,680 --> 01:11:22,639
Speaker 1: the appropriation and these white girls now trying to be black.

1370
01:11:22,720 --> 01:11:25,160
Speaker 1: Like there's a lot of yeah, the black fish, and

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01:11:25,200 --> 01:11:27,479
Speaker 1: so there's just a lot of conversation black fish. I

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01:11:27,640 --> 01:11:31,000
Speaker 1: just saw this. What the hell see when you be

1373
01:11:31,080 --> 01:11:39,080
Speaker 1: having him eyebrows done? No, I'm just a podcast, okay, um,

1374
01:11:39,439 --> 01:11:43,000
Speaker 1: improper etiquette. We're on iTunes and everything else. She says

1375
01:11:43,040 --> 01:11:45,880
Speaker 1: some problematic ships. So if y'all like problematic view, you

1376
01:11:45,920 --> 01:11:52,559
Speaker 1: don't want the female Andrew, Yeah, listen to hip. It's true. Listen,

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01:11:52,880 --> 01:11:54,760
Speaker 1: that's that's a compliment to me. I don't. Yeah, I

1378
01:11:54,840 --> 01:11:56,599
Speaker 1: love him. I think he's great, and you don't want

1379
01:11:56,680 --> 01:11:59,400
Speaker 1: to take him every fucking conversation and push it over

1380
01:11:59,479 --> 01:12:03,280
Speaker 1: the edge that I'm not lied though. This was really refreshing.

1381
01:12:03,560 --> 01:12:06,320
Speaker 1: I think I'm very in the middle about everything I'm

1382
01:12:06,360 --> 01:12:08,960
Speaker 1: trying to I'm nervous as fun because I've been talking

1383
01:12:09,000 --> 01:12:12,160
Speaker 1: about sympathizing and empathizing with and you are here calling

1384
01:12:12,160 --> 01:12:16,000
Speaker 1: people Sarah Palin this ship. Why are you worried about that? Well,

1385
01:12:16,160 --> 01:12:18,120
Speaker 1: because I mean, for the first time. Everyone I said,

1386
01:12:18,160 --> 01:12:20,920
Speaker 1: there's growth. How I've been learning to accept people for

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01:12:20,960 --> 01:12:22,840
Speaker 1: who they are. I think at one point for a while,

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01:12:22,960 --> 01:12:25,160
Speaker 1: probably the last year, I was like, funk everybody that

1389
01:12:25,280 --> 01:12:27,160
Speaker 1: vote for Trump? Yeah, well, I mean a lot of

1390
01:12:27,200 --> 01:12:30,080
Speaker 1: people feel that way. Yeah, But now I'm realizing, like

1391
01:12:30,560 --> 01:12:32,960
Speaker 1: once my black friend did it, I was punk. So

1392
01:12:33,120 --> 01:12:36,240
Speaker 1: were And where can our listeners follow you? Um? You

1393
01:12:36,320 --> 01:12:38,600
Speaker 1: can follow me on Instagram at Liam mob and on

1394
01:12:38,680 --> 01:12:43,599
Speaker 1: Twitter at Liam McSweeney. Hey, well, I of course you're amazing.

1395
01:12:43,640 --> 01:12:45,160
Speaker 1: Everyone follow her. I also want to see here and

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01:12:45,160 --> 01:12:46,840
Speaker 1: say shout out to everyone in the d m V area.

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01:12:47,160 --> 01:12:50,040
Speaker 1: DC sold out first week, no problem. Um, we will

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01:12:50,160 --> 01:12:52,040
Speaker 1: be releasing some extra tickets. We don't know when. I

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01:12:52,080 --> 01:12:54,160
Speaker 1: don't even know when this episode, Like, there's gonna be

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01:12:54,200 --> 01:12:56,640
Speaker 1: like ten tickets, and manly decided because I know some

1401
01:12:56,720 --> 01:12:58,160
Speaker 1: people didn't get to hear you, so we're going to

1402
01:12:58,280 --> 01:12:59,800
Speaker 1: release them on a certain day and time. We haven't

1403
01:12:59,840 --> 01:13:02,519
Speaker 1: been it out yet. Keep following our social media's um,

1404
01:13:02,640 --> 01:13:05,679
Speaker 1: so go ahead and follow at horrible underscored decision promoters.

1405
01:13:05,720 --> 01:13:07,639
Speaker 1: Because the show is gonna sell out. It it's only

1406
01:13:07,680 --> 01:13:09,599
Speaker 1: like ten tickets left, so talk to them we'll try

1407
01:13:09,640 --> 01:13:12,320
Speaker 1: to meet you all in New York. The next one

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01:13:12,360 --> 01:13:14,240
Speaker 1: in New York. I'm coming Yeah, And we also have

1409
01:13:14,320 --> 01:13:16,679
Speaker 1: a show guys, if you haven't yet, we're already halfway

1410
01:13:16,760 --> 01:13:18,280
Speaker 1: sold out, so go ahead and get your tickets for

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01:13:18,400 --> 01:13:21,320
Speaker 1: Chicago on March and be tuned in. We will be

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01:13:21,439 --> 01:13:26,080
Speaker 1: dropping dates for Toronto, al Ai, New York, and possibly Orlando,

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01:13:26,200 --> 01:13:28,400
Speaker 1: so we are looking to come to Florida. Um this

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Speaker 1: has been yet though, another episode of horrible decisions by