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Speaker 1: What's up, y'all. It's your girl lex P and Girls

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Speaker 1: in the Call and you are tuned in to another

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Speaker 1: episode of Pull Minds Where thoughts. Yes, So, y'all, I

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Speaker 1: know y'all have been waiting. We have been talking about

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Speaker 1: this for like, I feel like it's been over a year.

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Speaker 1: We've been talking about we're gonna get a new set

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Speaker 1: and we're gonna be in it. It's been a long time,

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Speaker 1: but we are finally in a new set.

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Speaker 2: I hope y'all love it.

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Speaker 3: It's so cute in here, Like, it's so much detail

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Speaker 3: is this.

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Speaker 1: It's a lot of detail, a labor of love. And

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Speaker 1: shout out to Shae from Lobow Design. She hooked everything up.

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Speaker 1: It was a super easy process, amazing, So shout out

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Speaker 1: to our girl obviously, thank you girl.

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Speaker 2: I'm giving you know this.

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Speaker 4: You know what I'm saying.

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Speaker 1: We're gonna get now with.

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Speaker 5: The kit down.

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Speaker 1: Okay, So anyways, y'all see the new set. This is

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Speaker 1: y'all's Christmas gift. Y'all know, we always come with the

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Speaker 1: good gifts, but we got another gift for them. We do.

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Speaker 1: This is something that y'all have been asking for for

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Speaker 1: a very long time. Y'all know we are full of surprises,

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Speaker 1: so mind you. We love these girls. These are our friends,

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Speaker 1: and we've had them both on the show. I'm so excited.

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Speaker 1: We've never honestly, we've never had more than one person

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Speaker 1: on the show at one time because we was shooting

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Speaker 1: in the closet.

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Speaker 2: Bitch, when when.

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Speaker 1: Tight as fuck, hot as fuck. This is the first

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Speaker 1: time I've ever walked in on a poor mindset and

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Speaker 1: I was shivering. Bitch, I said, I got room up,

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Speaker 1: be coold.

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Speaker 6: Girl.

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Speaker 2: I felt a breeze. Bitch, my nipples on. I said,

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Speaker 2: what the upgrades?

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Speaker 1: So anyways, when we upgrade our room, you know, we

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Speaker 1: upgrade the guests period. Oh, we have a special guest today.

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Speaker 1: Y'all give it up, the Kiki and Medina from Contails.

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Speaker 1: You got some gifts.

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Speaker 2: Hook tis.

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Speaker 1: Yay.

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Speaker 2: This is so, but you can.

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Speaker 1: Never have too many hookah You can see ladies happen.

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Speaker 7: I'm gonna a little fort your cookie when.

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Speaker 1: You're giving by your sip. Well, let me say this, Medine.

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Speaker 1: I'm a lady. I don't smoke cooks anymore, So I

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Speaker 1: do not smoke cooks anymore, but I appreciate the hookah tips.

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Speaker 5: I can person when I come and I forgot, I

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Speaker 5: come back up.

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Speaker 1: Say when you hang around with women, you know you

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Speaker 1: gotta bring tampons pass you know, BC powder hooka tips. Okay,

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Speaker 1: So first we gotta get y'all pulled up.

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Speaker 2: So look, we got a little boar.

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Speaker 1: Now it is a very glad to pick that in

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Speaker 1: the building.

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Speaker 2: We got some for you ladies.

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Speaker 1: We need to tip in. But he ain't looking for

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Speaker 1: money ships, Okay, okay, okay, So we have a lot

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Speaker 1: to talk about. First of all, we have a lot

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Speaker 1: of ground that we have to cover. Okay, okay, First

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Speaker 1: things first, we all just came from Houston. Y'all had

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Speaker 1: an amazing live show.

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Speaker 5: Amazing, Thank y'all.

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Speaker 1: I've been to a ball thirty five cocktails live shows.

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Speaker 1: They only had thirty bits to give y'all an idea,

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Speaker 1: And when I tell y'all, this was probably my favorite

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Speaker 1: show to date that y'all have done. That means so

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Speaker 1: much because Houston was a lot. Houston is near and

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Speaker 1: much into the production, into the content, and we never

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Speaker 1: get to see what it looks like for real. So right,

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Speaker 1: it feels great getting that feedback from y'all. Oh yeah,

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Speaker 1: the cooriogy.

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Speaker 4: Yes.

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Speaker 8: If you have never been to a cocktail show, please understand.

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Speaker 8: We put on a performance. We we really wish we

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Speaker 8: could do what Beyonce does, but we can't. So we

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Speaker 8: just throw a little counting there every nine. And I'm

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Speaker 1: A time last night. Let me say this, Yes, and

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Speaker 1: I hate to say this, maybe I'm a little biased,

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Speaker 1: but me and Drea were definitely best dressed our office ate.

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Speaker 2: We ate the girls up.

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Speaker 5: Y'all did have some good.

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Speaker 2: Characters.

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Speaker 1: She couldn't read, wouldn't let her.

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Speaker 7: Thank you Daddy for let me come up here and

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Speaker 7: answer this question.

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Speaker 1: It is because she's hit me in real life. We

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Speaker 1: was not your character bit. Okay, So speaking of arguments

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Speaker 1: and things like that, I'm want to say something because

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Speaker 1: say we were arguing, but you don't mean but they

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Speaker 2: It was like tofu. It was like it was like

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Speaker 1: It was beyond me burger.

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Speaker 3: But you know what it was.

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Speaker 1: It was just a bunch of like miscommunication And I'm like,

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Speaker 1: that's all we were talking about before you know, we

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Speaker 1: get to finally have these moments, you know what I'm saying,

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Speaker 1: because a lot of times people, especially us, being in

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Speaker 1: the same space, you know, they like to compare and

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Speaker 1: these don't happen a lot. Yes, So I'm just really

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Speaker 1: happy that we it was a rough patch in our friendship. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I only feel like it was stemming from y'all. I

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Speaker 1: don't know if y'all know this. There was once upon

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Speaker 1: a time during the pandemic, everybody was trying to make

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Speaker 1: dreams come true. We tried to do a reality show

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Speaker 1: for podcasters. That's where the Beyond me. I was on crutches.

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Speaker 1: It was a lot ever emerges on a Patreon of

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Speaker 1: some sort, which it but you guys would really y'all

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Speaker 1: would be like, damn, this was gonna be because it

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Speaker 1: was gonna be lit. Until it was it it was

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Speaker 8: It was so much and I was just like all

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Speaker 8: that night we have a name, the Green Screen night

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Speaker 8: we had the Green Train in my living room.

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Speaker 5: Things started to take a turn for the word.

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Speaker 1: It was the alcohol.

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Speaker 8: It was an alcohol because I had also been baking

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Speaker 8: a little many pound cakes.

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Speaker 5: I had cooked food.

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Speaker 1: Great. Yeah, we had confessionals in the same room with

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Speaker 2: Oh my god.

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Speaker 5: We thought it was going to be a parody. But

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Speaker 5: then I think everybody forgot about the parody part.

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Speaker 2: What did you say, wait till it's my heart.

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Speaker 1: I'm sorry, yes, said, because I will never.

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Speaker 2: Forgets the prince.

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Speaker 1: She should not get paster. But we are all snow

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Speaker 1: family members. Yeah yeah, the previous yes, yes, Esmo sisters,

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Speaker 2: You said, all right.

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Speaker 2: Yeah wild. Then that came from the whole he was

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Speaker 1: Cat holding in for two years. I got mad because

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Speaker 1: don't never see it?

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Speaker 2: What I kay?

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Speaker 7: We all have cotinated today very nicely.

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Speaker 1: Whoaso in the white the ransom the white Mariah person.

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Speaker 1: Destiny's child and Mariah is doing a feature there now.

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Speaker 1: And let me just say, I love the fact just

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Speaker 1: the growth that we all have had, because I feel

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Speaker 1: all of us have come down, Like y'all are going

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Speaker 1: on tour next year. We're going on tour next year.

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Speaker 1: Y'all are the first guests in our new sad. This

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Speaker 1: is amazing, you know what I'm saying.

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Speaker 2: I feel like everything is just coming for.

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Speaker 5: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: We had to pop it off with y'a because I

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Speaker 1: feel like everything is coming, you know, full circle. We

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Speaker 1: love this moment. Shout out to me and Medeen targetting

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Speaker 1: rid of our impossible burger.

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Speaker 5: We'll head.

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Speaker 1: So it's here.

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Speaker 2: What's tea?

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Speaker 1: What's new? Because we haven't, Oh, we filmed last week,

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Speaker 1: just talking about we believe.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, we did have a.

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Speaker 1: Consecutive day that many days. I don't know how y'all

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Speaker 1: Did he FEELIX was on his knee. It was probably

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Speaker 1: was like or shitting fall No.

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Speaker 2: No, I thought he was saying something else. That's what

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Speaker 1: He said, swartmanpoid Swartman.

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Speaker 2: They go together.

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Speaker 1: It's the oyster down there. It's a lot hard time.

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Speaker 8: Meanwhile, while y'all, Pussy is putin, she's telling me that

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Speaker 2: Way to the club.

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Speaker 5: We had have been to several baars, just lying.

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Speaker 8: So the DJ is shouting us both out because it's

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Speaker 8: us shots.

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Speaker 2: And of course I'm not gonna waste some alcohol. Shot.

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Speaker 5: We're taking me shot.

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Speaker 1: Tried what you did. Tried, dear mom. It was fun

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Speaker 1: and Houston was amazing. Shout outs of all of the

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Speaker 1: fans and listeners and really les Andre, thank you guys

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Speaker 1: so much for the supports out.

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Speaker 3: Thank you.

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Speaker 8: Know what else, My best friend Thomas came to help

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Speaker 1: Have we talked about because you know, Kiki has a

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Speaker 5: Y'all, Voodoo Dick is so fucking fine.

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Speaker 5: I actually met him through one of my Dina's ex.

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Speaker 5: But they're him.

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Speaker 1: He gave me so dirty his nigga. It was good,

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Speaker 1: but he did like a Tiger Woods cheet on me,

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Speaker 2: And I was like, well, ask him what he did.

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Speaker 1: So they both had good dick, so this they used

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Speaker 2: They're like, well, no, I'll say this if you like, well, if.

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Speaker 1: You describe them on paper like in tall muscular tattoo,

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Speaker 1: you know, yeah, yeah, it's still fun, right, yeah, you

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Speaker 1: know what's crazy. I'll tell you something about him though.

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Speaker 1: Voodoo Dick taught me a really really good lesson. One time.

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Speaker 1: I was like twenty two, you know, this is a

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Speaker 2: Come over here like this.

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Speaker 1: No, mom.

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Speaker 1: Whenever you have a man point things out like that,

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Speaker 1: a learning moment. I don't want time. Was out with

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Speaker 1: Right, And but I think for me and honestly, I'm

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Speaker 1: not gonna lie y'all. When I was younger, I didn't

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Speaker 1: But I swear to see y'all. Ever since then, I

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Speaker 1: Shout out to Voodo Dick. Mind. Yeah, ask the most

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Speaker 1: and now I'm not gonna tell y'all about me. And

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Speaker 1: Kream madean y'all know that's the old nickname we gave

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Speaker 1: I woke up.

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Speaker 1: He was in my fridge. I mean, I was like,

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Speaker 1: And I had to go to work and he was like,

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Speaker 1: When he first meets you, literally he'll tell you about

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Speaker 1: It's very much giving that. So when she met him,

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Speaker 3: Maybe you want to be mad this nigga? Wat you

447
00:20:43,480 --> 00:20:43,920
Speaker 3: some socks?

448
00:20:44,119 --> 00:20:45,280
Speaker 5: I'm not gonna write.

449
00:20:46,840 --> 00:20:50,720
Speaker 1: A good one are because the cameras you know.

450
00:20:52,280 --> 00:20:54,159
Speaker 7: You're not submitting a gift, and I'm hoping that you

451
00:20:54,280 --> 00:20:55,240
Speaker 7: know I don't even wear socks.

452
00:20:55,240 --> 00:20:57,640
Speaker 1: I don't have soughts on. Now if you don't.

453
00:20:58,000 --> 00:20:58,960
Speaker 2: I don't have one songs.

454
00:20:58,960 --> 00:21:02,600
Speaker 7: I don't like her, and so if you give me socks,

455
00:21:02,640 --> 00:21:04,159
Speaker 7: you don't know. Now we got a break up.

456
00:21:04,320 --> 00:21:08,639
Speaker 1: Okay, you know I don't like songs. How would you

457
00:21:08,800 --> 00:21:12,120
Speaker 1: feel if somebody got you like a gift basket full

458
00:21:12,160 --> 00:21:15,560
Speaker 1: of like your favorite wines, but then you spent like

459
00:21:15,800 --> 00:21:17,600
Speaker 1: you got them like a Rolex or something.

460
00:21:17,920 --> 00:21:19,680
Speaker 2: How would you feel? That's what I'm saying.

461
00:21:19,960 --> 00:21:23,320
Speaker 1: We'll see even still, if we're talking about Christmas, Yes,

462
00:21:23,400 --> 00:21:28,680
Speaker 1: we're talking about Christmas. It's Christmas, Christmas holiday, right, I

463
00:21:28,880 --> 00:21:30,560
Speaker 1: still think it would be fine because I feel like

464
00:21:30,600 --> 00:21:33,160
Speaker 1: I'm at a point now where it's like I wouldn't

465
00:21:33,280 --> 00:21:34,920
Speaker 1: be if I was still like going on days because

466
00:21:34,920 --> 00:21:36,560
Speaker 1: I was actually hungry and needed you to take me

467
00:21:36,640 --> 00:21:38,800
Speaker 1: to these places, I think I would feel some type

468
00:21:38,800 --> 00:21:40,720
Speaker 1: of way. But now it's like if I felt like

469
00:21:40,800 --> 00:21:43,040
Speaker 1: I could get you this, I'm just flexing at this point,

470
00:21:43,880 --> 00:21:46,800
Speaker 1: and you know what I mean. And if you got

471
00:21:46,880 --> 00:21:49,520
Speaker 1: me a basket of wine, I'm just like, that's sweet.

472
00:21:49,960 --> 00:21:55,240
Speaker 1: It's sweet. It's about it now, bitch with me. I

473
00:21:55,320 --> 00:21:57,600
Speaker 1: still thought that counts and there better not be a Mascott.

474
00:21:57,720 --> 00:21:59,840
Speaker 1: No Moscota was test I don't.

475
00:22:00,040 --> 00:22:00,640
Speaker 2: Thank God.

476
00:22:01,359 --> 00:22:03,600
Speaker 5: Rollers and wine is just so different. I feel you

477
00:22:03,720 --> 00:22:05,640
Speaker 5: on doing what it is because.

478
00:22:05,440 --> 00:22:07,440
Speaker 1: You're doing what you want to do. I'm not getting

479
00:22:07,480 --> 00:22:08,200
Speaker 1: a gift based.

480
00:22:08,040 --> 00:22:10,920
Speaker 8: On but my feelings are going to be hurt because

481
00:22:11,040 --> 00:22:12,360
Speaker 8: you just wanted to get me one.

482
00:22:12,520 --> 00:22:16,600
Speaker 1: Yeah, saking my gift off of what I'm not showing.

483
00:22:16,680 --> 00:22:19,240
Speaker 1: And that's for anybody. It's just not I mean, it's

484
00:22:19,280 --> 00:22:21,720
Speaker 1: different for like my family, Like my sister. I'm gonna

485
00:22:21,720 --> 00:22:23,440
Speaker 1: get her whatever she wants, but my sister gives me

486
00:22:23,520 --> 00:22:23,960
Speaker 1: good gifts.

487
00:22:24,080 --> 00:22:24,920
Speaker 4: Like my nephew.

488
00:22:24,960 --> 00:22:27,959
Speaker 1: Of course he's eight, but when he turns fee, he's

489
00:22:27,960 --> 00:22:28,840
Speaker 1: gonna have to run it up.

490
00:22:28,960 --> 00:22:29,280
Speaker 2: Anyway.

491
00:22:31,760 --> 00:22:33,919
Speaker 1: If I spend two thousand dollars on you, I want

492
00:22:33,960 --> 00:22:36,080
Speaker 1: a two thousand dollars gift. But I also think you

493
00:22:36,160 --> 00:22:38,480
Speaker 1: gotta look at who you're dealing with. I don't the

494
00:22:38,920 --> 00:22:40,800
Speaker 1: person that the man that I'm dealing with now, I

495
00:22:41,200 --> 00:22:43,679
Speaker 1: don't foresee him getting me a basket of wine, right,

496
00:22:43,920 --> 00:22:45,359
Speaker 1: I don't even have wine in the house.

497
00:22:45,680 --> 00:22:48,159
Speaker 5: But you don't expect that you would be disappointed if

498
00:22:48,160 --> 00:22:48,520
Speaker 5: he did that.

499
00:22:48,760 --> 00:22:50,359
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna say that I would be disappointed in

500
00:22:50,359 --> 00:22:51,720
Speaker 1: the fact that I would be I'm gonna throw a

501
00:22:51,760 --> 00:22:54,000
Speaker 1: fit and now disappointed.

502
00:22:54,280 --> 00:22:55,200
Speaker 7: I don't know if he would know that.

503
00:22:55,240 --> 00:22:57,119
Speaker 1: I'm disappointed though, because at the end of the day,

504
00:22:57,160 --> 00:22:59,800
Speaker 1: it is this is Christmas. Let's just enjoy each other's

505
00:22:59,800 --> 00:23:02,159
Speaker 1: song and that I will. I agree with you on that.

506
00:23:02,280 --> 00:23:07,560
Speaker 1: I do feel like ruin.

507
00:23:08,040 --> 00:23:15,560
Speaker 7: I'm right, No, that's getting me a basketball.

508
00:23:15,600 --> 00:23:18,680
Speaker 1: I feel like birthdays, Christmas is all these holidays have

509
00:23:18,800 --> 00:23:22,240
Speaker 1: strayed away from what they're really about. Because now it's

510
00:23:22,320 --> 00:23:26,840
Speaker 1: like bitch is begetting Bigley's and islands.

511
00:23:26,359 --> 00:23:28,879
Speaker 2: And it's like, okay, I'm selling.

512
00:23:30,680 --> 00:23:32,800
Speaker 1: Can I agree with that, and that is nothing wrong

513
00:23:32,800 --> 00:23:35,399
Speaker 1: with that, But that's not what exactly the holiday is

514
00:23:35,480 --> 00:23:37,480
Speaker 1: up because you are com mainly in the island, and

515
00:23:37,560 --> 00:23:39,480
Speaker 1: he's not even delivering it to you. His assistant is

516
00:23:39,520 --> 00:23:41,639
Speaker 1: that he don't even like you. For I still the

517
00:23:41,760 --> 00:23:44,600
Speaker 1: romance with you, you know, I still need and it's

518
00:23:44,640 --> 00:23:46,879
Speaker 1: like about time today on my birthday. But Christmas is

519
00:23:46,960 --> 00:23:50,159
Speaker 1: about like spending time together. Right If you get like

520
00:23:50,920 --> 00:23:53,080
Speaker 1: a basket of rolex Is delivering to my house and

521
00:23:53,200 --> 00:23:55,119
Speaker 1: I gonna be happy, yes, but I only yeah to

522
00:23:55,280 --> 00:23:57,480
Speaker 1: be there with the rone exactly.

523
00:23:57,760 --> 00:24:00,479
Speaker 5: I'm not I'm not big on gids out of period.

524
00:24:01,400 --> 00:24:03,840
Speaker 5: I'm really not big on them. I'll get myself stuff.

525
00:24:03,920 --> 00:24:06,080
Speaker 8: But it's like, if you do get me something, well,

526
00:24:06,119 --> 00:24:09,560
Speaker 8: don't make it that you could put a little bit

527
00:24:09,600 --> 00:24:11,680
Speaker 8: more thought into it, especially because I'm not presenting you

528
00:24:12,000 --> 00:24:13,800
Speaker 8: with those requirements and you do know me, and you

529
00:24:13,880 --> 00:24:16,000
Speaker 8: probably know what I've done for you and I treat

530
00:24:16,080 --> 00:24:17,840
Speaker 8: you and all that, because it is like that when

531
00:24:17,880 --> 00:24:19,399
Speaker 8: we were talking earlier and I was talking about just

532
00:24:19,520 --> 00:24:22,560
Speaker 8: like family, not even niggas, but family and the gift

533
00:24:22,640 --> 00:24:25,240
Speaker 8: giving stuff and how I am. I like getting gifts

534
00:24:25,240 --> 00:24:27,920
Speaker 8: from people, but it is frustrated when people are acting

535
00:24:28,080 --> 00:24:31,760
Speaker 8: ungrateful and like they're just supposed to get with your man.

536
00:24:31,920 --> 00:24:34,080
Speaker 1: I feel like if you feel that intense about it

537
00:24:34,400 --> 00:24:38,000
Speaker 1: and about like you're so like, it's like you better

538
00:24:38,080 --> 00:24:39,560
Speaker 1: beginning me what I want. I also feel like it's

539
00:24:39,640 --> 00:24:41,960
Speaker 1: your job to make sure he knows that don't be

540
00:24:42,800 --> 00:24:44,840
Speaker 1: surprised me if you really don't want to surprise now

541
00:24:44,920 --> 00:24:45,119
Speaker 1: you do.

542
00:24:45,320 --> 00:24:46,679
Speaker 3: But that's why I said, I feel like, you mean

543
00:24:47,560 --> 00:24:49,359
Speaker 3: you know what I want? Like, no, I'm trying to

544
00:24:49,400 --> 00:24:49,920
Speaker 3: surprise me.

545
00:24:50,040 --> 00:24:50,800
Speaker 4: This is what I want.

546
00:24:51,200 --> 00:24:54,200
Speaker 3: If you can't get exactly get something similar, at least

547
00:24:54,240 --> 00:24:55,560
Speaker 3: you know what realm to say.

548
00:24:55,760 --> 00:24:57,760
Speaker 1: So let's say he's like, I can't wait exactly that

549
00:24:57,880 --> 00:25:00,320
Speaker 1: unless that you aren't like I want to Rolex, I

550
00:25:00,359 --> 00:25:02,359
Speaker 1: can't get exactly that. So he gets you with Michael

551
00:25:02,400 --> 00:25:05,440
Speaker 1: Core's watch, Paul.

552
00:25:05,640 --> 00:25:09,200
Speaker 2: It's still a watch, but that's not in the same

553
00:25:09,640 --> 00:25:10,280
Speaker 2: like ground.

554
00:25:11,640 --> 00:25:14,720
Speaker 1: Let's say let's sing y'all on Pinterest and then he

555
00:25:15,520 --> 00:25:24,080
Speaker 1: make a Rolex making roll thought this house, and so

556
00:25:24,160 --> 00:25:26,960
Speaker 1: he put a little R in it R and a

557
00:25:27,080 --> 00:25:29,240
Speaker 1: decer introspect for Rolex and dreda.

558
00:25:30,240 --> 00:25:32,040
Speaker 3: I don't want to deal in that nigga who think

559
00:25:32,040 --> 00:25:34,080
Speaker 3: it's okay to buy me some baked g So what's

560
00:25:34,080 --> 00:25:36,679
Speaker 3: in the same realm as that? I feel like if

561
00:25:36,680 --> 00:25:39,280
Speaker 3: I seen you a Rolex and you buy me a bracelet.

562
00:25:39,240 --> 00:25:44,160
Speaker 12: Yeah, a regular bracelet, not a Cardiff cardy at bracelet,

563
00:25:44,359 --> 00:25:48,320
Speaker 12: and you got somebody nice like something in the same realm,

564
00:25:48,880 --> 00:25:49,119
Speaker 12: you know.

565
00:25:49,280 --> 00:25:51,200
Speaker 3: They don't have to be as expensive, Bud.

566
00:25:51,560 --> 00:25:54,040
Speaker 1: Now, are you getting him a gift that's as yes,

567
00:25:54,520 --> 00:25:56,920
Speaker 1: So if you ask a man for a gift that's

568
00:25:57,000 --> 00:26:00,520
Speaker 1: worth like, I don't know, three thousand dollars, are you

569
00:26:00,600 --> 00:26:03,399
Speaker 1: going to return that on Christmas? We're talking about Christmas only?

570
00:26:03,480 --> 00:26:05,480
Speaker 1: Are you returning him and giving him a three thousand

571
00:26:05,480 --> 00:26:07,760
Speaker 1: dollars gift. Yeah, I feel like you should.

572
00:26:07,920 --> 00:26:10,399
Speaker 3: If you asking for stuff like that, you should reciprocate

573
00:26:10,440 --> 00:26:11,879
Speaker 3: the inner think it.

574
00:26:11,880 --> 00:26:12,680
Speaker 5: Should be comfortable.

575
00:26:12,680 --> 00:26:14,520
Speaker 8: And I would feel bad if I did all of

576
00:26:14,640 --> 00:26:17,160
Speaker 8: this for you and then you hit me with the basket.

577
00:26:17,720 --> 00:26:20,480
Speaker 5: I know you regifted right from your grandma house.

578
00:26:20,720 --> 00:26:24,680
Speaker 1: Now, y'all got me nervous because I didn't. I didn't

579
00:26:24,720 --> 00:26:27,240
Speaker 1: submit a list like I was, just like, let's ain't

580
00:26:27,560 --> 00:26:32,520
Speaker 1: like to submit one little We don't where this goes. Yeah,

581
00:26:32,760 --> 00:26:37,160
Speaker 1: you're also all single, so please don't you got Yeah,

582
00:26:37,160 --> 00:26:39,080
Speaker 1: you got man.

583
00:26:43,240 --> 00:26:46,200
Speaker 3: Go back outside this ghetto over here.

584
00:26:49,440 --> 00:26:52,160
Speaker 1: Anything I feel like on Christmas. I'm not dropping three

585
00:26:52,280 --> 00:26:54,280
Speaker 1: racks on Christmas. It's already a lot. We're traveling to

586
00:26:54,280 --> 00:26:57,000
Speaker 1: meet each other's families, we're getting hotels, we're getting it's

587
00:26:57,040 --> 00:26:58,880
Speaker 1: a lot. So like not that I'm gonna be cheap

588
00:26:58,920 --> 00:27:01,240
Speaker 1: with his gift. I got him a bunch of different things,

589
00:27:01,560 --> 00:27:03,240
Speaker 1: and I don't know what he's getting me. He's really

590
00:27:03,280 --> 00:27:04,479
Speaker 1: excited about whatever he has.

591
00:27:05,160 --> 00:27:05,960
Speaker 5: I can't wait to see.

592
00:27:06,080 --> 00:27:08,280
Speaker 1: I still hope that it is. But you still spend

593
00:27:08,320 --> 00:27:11,000
Speaker 1: the money and spending the time everything that you want,

594
00:27:11,040 --> 00:27:13,359
Speaker 1: because I feel like that's what Christmas is about. It's spending.

595
00:27:14,520 --> 00:27:17,159
Speaker 1: Valentine's Now, that is a little different. I want what

596
00:27:17,240 --> 00:27:19,720
Speaker 1: I want. Okay, I've been busting it over and I

597
00:27:19,760 --> 00:27:24,960
Speaker 1: got good pussy. You need to notice Valentine's Hey, that's

598
00:27:24,960 --> 00:27:32,720
Speaker 1: about wrong the right topic. So the topic that we're

599
00:27:33,119 --> 00:27:35,840
Speaker 1: talking about is if you're dating something, Now, does your

600
00:27:35,920 --> 00:27:39,280
Speaker 1: man have kids? He does not have. So if you're

601
00:27:39,359 --> 00:27:42,480
Speaker 1: dating someone with kids, are you should you get your

602
00:27:42,600 --> 00:27:44,720
Speaker 1: boots kids Christmas gifts?

603
00:27:45,040 --> 00:27:45,879
Speaker 5: Are they nice to me?

604
00:27:46,800 --> 00:27:49,480
Speaker 1: I mean, it doesn't it doesn't matter. Doesn't it don't matter?

605
00:27:53,440 --> 00:27:55,879
Speaker 5: Could it be no baby because that was too close together?

606
00:27:57,200 --> 00:27:59,600
Speaker 1: Is still a baby? Yeah, it's still that.

607
00:28:01,480 --> 00:28:02,879
Speaker 2: I want a child respectable?

608
00:28:02,960 --> 00:28:04,520
Speaker 3: Or is he like you know my mama? Because what

609
00:28:04,640 --> 00:28:06,359
Speaker 3: they used to tell the kids you're getting called for

610
00:28:06,520 --> 00:28:07,879
Speaker 3: Christmas is me.

611
00:28:08,400 --> 00:28:12,240
Speaker 1: But this is also why I have made it my decision.

612
00:28:12,320 --> 00:28:13,360
Speaker 1: And people always get mad.

613
00:28:13,359 --> 00:28:13,560
Speaker 9: I'm not.

614
00:28:13,600 --> 00:28:15,639
Speaker 1: I can't date people with kids because I don't. I

615
00:28:15,720 --> 00:28:18,280
Speaker 1: don't want to. Why do people get mad because a

616
00:28:18,320 --> 00:28:19,240
Speaker 1: lot of people have kids?

617
00:28:19,640 --> 00:28:21,560
Speaker 3: Well, oh well, and they get mad because you don't

618
00:28:21,560 --> 00:28:23,240
Speaker 3: want to date people with kids because I don't want to.

619
00:28:24,040 --> 00:28:25,920
Speaker 1: Yeah, So that's fair to say. I don't have kids,

620
00:28:26,080 --> 00:28:28,480
Speaker 1: and I've dated me with kids. I didn't want anybody's

621
00:28:28,560 --> 00:28:31,520
Speaker 1: child a gift Oh no, I'm I got somebody's baby

622
00:28:31,560 --> 00:28:34,800
Speaker 1: a gift card to game Stop. Okay, that was it

623
00:28:34,960 --> 00:28:40,040
Speaker 1: was very small. It's not like I'm around your child

624
00:28:40,560 --> 00:28:42,800
Speaker 1: because obviously, if you haven't brought me around your child,

625
00:28:42,840 --> 00:28:44,520
Speaker 1: you don't take me serious. So there's no need for

626
00:28:44,600 --> 00:28:46,959
Speaker 1: me to play stepmom. So if I've been around your

627
00:28:47,080 --> 00:28:49,720
Speaker 1: child enough and like we kind of have, whether she's

628
00:28:49,840 --> 00:28:52,560
Speaker 1: mean or he's mean to me or not, I would

629
00:28:52,600 --> 00:28:55,479
Speaker 1: feel like, Okay, I'm around them enough, I'll get them

630
00:28:55,520 --> 00:28:57,040
Speaker 1: a little a little one, so you gonna get a

631
00:28:57,080 --> 00:28:57,720
Speaker 1: teddy bed bitch.

632
00:28:58,680 --> 00:29:00,000
Speaker 5: I mean you got to.

633
00:29:00,240 --> 00:29:02,320
Speaker 1: Carolus stuff like that, because it's like you've seen them

634
00:29:02,320 --> 00:29:05,320
Speaker 1: a low cash. If I'm sending your baby stuff, that

635
00:29:05,560 --> 00:29:07,800
Speaker 1: means it. In my mind, I think we're going to

636
00:29:07,880 --> 00:29:10,240
Speaker 1: the next level. I don't need to even be a

637
00:29:10,480 --> 00:29:13,640
Speaker 1: roundier child if we're not going to the next level.

638
00:29:13,680 --> 00:29:15,720
Speaker 1: And I am very shocked at how many people be like,

639
00:29:15,880 --> 00:29:16,960
Speaker 1: I want you to meet my son.

640
00:29:17,280 --> 00:29:22,320
Speaker 5: That weird guys kids, and it's like, I know it's

641
00:29:22,400 --> 00:29:23,000
Speaker 5: not serious.

642
00:29:24,400 --> 00:29:24,960
Speaker 3: Meet these.

643
00:29:27,880 --> 00:29:28,160
Speaker 2: And you know.

644
00:29:28,840 --> 00:29:31,040
Speaker 1: But that's why I think people get I'm sorry, this

645
00:29:31,160 --> 00:29:34,440
Speaker 1: is what I think people get misconstrued, especially men. They

646
00:29:34,520 --> 00:29:37,920
Speaker 1: be thinking that we feel special when we meet their

647
00:29:38,000 --> 00:29:40,480
Speaker 1: mom or their kids. I don't want if I'm not

648
00:29:40,560 --> 00:29:43,800
Speaker 1: even taking you seriously, please don't bring me around your children. Yeah,

649
00:29:44,200 --> 00:29:46,800
Speaker 1: somebody I'm seriously dating, Like, I don't mind. I want

650
00:29:46,840 --> 00:29:50,680
Speaker 1: to meet your kids, right, men, Please stop introducing women

651
00:29:50,760 --> 00:29:53,160
Speaker 1: to your kids thinking that they're going to be impressed

652
00:29:53,200 --> 00:29:56,680
Speaker 1: by that, like, oh he loved me, girl, it's not cute.

653
00:29:56,760 --> 00:29:58,680
Speaker 1: I'm more impressed by it. If you want me to

654
00:29:58,800 --> 00:30:01,800
Speaker 1: meet their mother first, Hell, I'm more impressed by that.

655
00:30:01,880 --> 00:30:05,320
Speaker 1: And that's because, like, I don't want to meet your

656
00:30:05,400 --> 00:30:07,560
Speaker 1: kids and not know if their mom is okay with this?

657
00:30:07,640 --> 00:30:11,760
Speaker 1: Does she know? Yeah? Please don't think about this, Like

658
00:30:12,120 --> 00:30:13,920
Speaker 1: I mean, I don't have kids, obviously, but I think

659
00:30:13,920 --> 00:30:17,040
Speaker 1: about my nephews and like especially my the little one,

660
00:30:17,160 --> 00:30:19,400
Speaker 1: Like Jackson Dine. He's eight. He could talk, He could

661
00:30:19,440 --> 00:30:21,520
Speaker 1: tell me, He can tell Auntie what's going on. The

662
00:30:21,600 --> 00:30:24,160
Speaker 1: little one not so much so. If something happened to

663
00:30:24,200 --> 00:30:27,240
Speaker 1: my sister and my brother in law split up and

664
00:30:27,320 --> 00:30:29,040
Speaker 1: he started dating someone else, bitch, I want to know

665
00:30:29,080 --> 00:30:31,200
Speaker 1: who my nephew is around you know what I'm saying,

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Speaker 1: Women try to mold themselves into what they think the

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Speaker 1: I've seen what's his name talking about this finesse because

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Speaker 2: Didn't see that it's glittered, Yes, glitter.

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Speaker 1: I hate it, y'all. And a picture popped up. You

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Speaker 1: It was so fucking bad. But but I say this now, women,

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Speaker 8: And if he's not okay with it, I'm just gonna

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Speaker 3: But do you feel like that's because of like how

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883
00:41:20,000 --> 00:41:22,560
Speaker 3: Like that's the only time of relationship I want to

884
00:41:22,600 --> 00:41:24,120
Speaker 3: be in. I don't want to be with a nigga

885
00:41:24,120 --> 00:41:24,920
Speaker 3: who was obsessed with me.

886
00:41:26,320 --> 00:41:29,960
Speaker 1: Obsessed with me. You aren't even seen. Nobody did not

887
00:41:30,120 --> 00:41:32,759
Speaker 1: see me in these cities. Be good. That's how it's

888
00:41:32,760 --> 00:41:33,279
Speaker 1: supposed to be.

889
00:41:34,120 --> 00:41:35,560
Speaker 3: You may not be looking at them home.

890
00:41:36,880 --> 00:41:39,560
Speaker 1: And like I said, it was innocent because I didn't know,

891
00:41:39,640 --> 00:41:41,840
Speaker 1: and I was honestly obviously joking because I don't hit

892
00:41:41,880 --> 00:41:44,400
Speaker 1: on people. But I was like, that's a good man, Sabina,

893
00:41:44,440 --> 00:41:45,359
Speaker 1: and I love him down.

894
00:41:45,400 --> 00:41:50,080
Speaker 2: I'm like, yeah, it will recommend.

895
00:41:51,760 --> 00:41:52,680
Speaker 1: Being with a nigga and.

896
00:41:52,800 --> 00:41:54,160
Speaker 7: You are and like one of your friends, like he

897
00:41:54,239 --> 00:41:56,080
Speaker 7: was trying to talk to me right and.

898
00:41:57,560 --> 00:41:59,239
Speaker 2: Like that we're taking someone's like he was.

899
00:41:59,360 --> 00:42:02,560
Speaker 1: He was looking at everybody's booty. You know, he was

900
00:42:02,600 --> 00:42:03,600
Speaker 1: trying to get numbers.

901
00:42:03,920 --> 00:42:06,279
Speaker 3: It's like I had to break the news to a

902
00:42:06,320 --> 00:42:08,799
Speaker 3: few of my friends before it's bad and that ship

903
00:42:08,920 --> 00:42:11,080
Speaker 3: be weird because it's like you all, I want to

904
00:42:11,120 --> 00:42:14,120
Speaker 3: tell them either because you don't want them, Yeah, because

905
00:42:14,160 --> 00:42:16,760
Speaker 3: people be misdirecting their anger and their energy.

906
00:42:16,800 --> 00:42:18,600
Speaker 2: You're like, girl, I'm going to tell you.

907
00:42:20,600 --> 00:42:23,279
Speaker 1: That this ass is fat, these titties is supple bitch,

908
00:42:23,800 --> 00:42:27,839
Speaker 1: which Miss Sumples, I love that word.

909
00:42:32,440 --> 00:42:32,720
Speaker 2: Weird.

910
00:42:33,000 --> 00:42:37,200
Speaker 1: Okay, so y'all know we have added the segment back

911
00:42:37,320 --> 00:42:39,360
Speaker 1: of Item of the week. These are items that we

912
00:42:39,560 --> 00:42:40,200
Speaker 1: like to use.

913
00:42:40,440 --> 00:42:42,640
Speaker 3: Well before we get into Item of the week, I

914
00:42:42,800 --> 00:42:46,399
Speaker 3: wanted to talk about, like some of our favorite black

915
00:42:46,480 --> 00:42:47,280
Speaker 3: Christmas movies.

916
00:42:47,640 --> 00:42:51,520
Speaker 2: Okay, because I have a few.

917
00:42:51,719 --> 00:42:52,880
Speaker 3: So what's one of yours?

918
00:42:52,960 --> 00:42:53,200
Speaker 8: Legs?

919
00:42:53,280 --> 00:42:54,560
Speaker 1: Okay, so which one is it?

920
00:42:55,080 --> 00:42:55,200
Speaker 13: Is it?

921
00:42:55,440 --> 00:42:56,240
Speaker 2: Fire Afternoon?

922
00:42:56,440 --> 00:42:59,120
Speaker 1: That's a Christmas million crazy because I.

923
00:42:59,160 --> 00:43:00,719
Speaker 3: Was having a debate with somebody about that.

924
00:43:00,800 --> 00:43:05,400
Speaker 1: I don't really think christ I personally didn't like it,

925
00:43:05,640 --> 00:43:07,440
Speaker 1: but you a Christmas movie? I did.

926
00:43:08,360 --> 00:43:12,719
Speaker 13: I stopped it next Friday with the likes say after

927
00:43:12,840 --> 00:43:14,759
Speaker 13: Next was so much funnier, The.

928
00:43:14,880 --> 00:43:20,839
Speaker 1: Next amazing And I'm sorry, honorable mention. Let me tell

929
00:43:20,880 --> 00:43:23,759
Speaker 1: y'all this movie. I sat in the club. They had

930
00:43:23,800 --> 00:43:25,120
Speaker 1: it playing on the screens, and I was in the

931
00:43:25,120 --> 00:43:28,480
Speaker 1: club watching the movie with my best friends. This Christmas,

932
00:43:31,480 --> 00:43:32,400
Speaker 1: I love that movie.

933
00:43:32,480 --> 00:43:33,720
Speaker 5: You've never seen this Christmas?

934
00:43:34,040 --> 00:43:34,680
Speaker 4: No for real?

935
00:43:36,160 --> 00:43:37,520
Speaker 1: Always the movie I ain't never seen.

936
00:43:37,560 --> 00:43:39,160
Speaker 5: I don't really be doing a lot of movies. I'm

937
00:43:39,200 --> 00:43:40,800
Speaker 5: doing like Chris shows.

938
00:43:41,120 --> 00:43:43,680
Speaker 1: Okay, okay, well does this count of a Christmas movie?

939
00:43:43,719 --> 00:43:44,799
Speaker 2: And to me it always will.

940
00:43:45,400 --> 00:43:48,560
Speaker 7: The Temptations never there was a car when they were.

941
00:43:48,480 --> 00:43:51,400
Speaker 1: Singing the Christmas songs and they were straggling during Christmas.

942
00:43:51,560 --> 00:43:56,520
Speaker 1: And it's a black movie, a little bit sucking you remember,

943
00:43:58,360 --> 00:43:59,160
Speaker 1: that's what we should have.

944
00:43:59,200 --> 00:44:01,640
Speaker 2: Through Christmas movie.

945
00:44:01,680 --> 00:44:03,719
Speaker 7: And I love watching it around Christmas and that is

946
00:44:03,800 --> 00:44:04,320
Speaker 7: my Christmas.

947
00:44:05,239 --> 00:44:07,560
Speaker 1: I said before the show, I said, Medeen, we're gonna

948
00:44:07,560 --> 00:44:09,359
Speaker 1: talk about our favorite black Christmas movie.

949
00:44:09,400 --> 00:44:09,800
Speaker 3: She said no.

950
00:44:10,480 --> 00:44:16,200
Speaker 1: She said, I'm gonna do Baby Boys baby Boy to

951
00:44:16,239 --> 00:44:17,120
Speaker 1: make her face a baby.

952
00:44:23,480 --> 00:44:27,160
Speaker 7: I just heard black and I said, well up the

953
00:44:27,239 --> 00:44:29,040
Speaker 7: gun you absoel.

954
00:44:28,560 --> 00:44:31,000
Speaker 3: Like Baby Boy was about nothing about giving.

955
00:44:31,160 --> 00:44:33,720
Speaker 2: It was just taking broke.

956
00:44:34,400 --> 00:44:34,600
Speaker 11: Yay.

957
00:44:35,680 --> 00:44:38,520
Speaker 1: That's why I struggled in my relationship because you kept

958
00:44:38,560 --> 00:44:40,800
Speaker 1: watching babies. I can't watching baby when I know everybody

959
00:44:41,280 --> 00:44:42,200
Speaker 1: was a everyvie.

960
00:44:42,400 --> 00:44:43,520
Speaker 5: Now that's a black class.

961
00:44:43,680 --> 00:44:45,319
Speaker 11: It's a black classic, but it's a child, but it's

962
00:44:45,320 --> 00:44:46,680
Speaker 11: not bas movie.

963
00:44:46,760 --> 00:44:47,560
Speaker 5: Is the Preacher's wife.

964
00:44:47,920 --> 00:44:50,279
Speaker 3: Oh that was a good Christmas movie too.

965
00:44:50,480 --> 00:44:53,279
Speaker 1: I never watched it in its entirety. Really, I need

966
00:44:53,360 --> 00:44:53,759
Speaker 1: to watch it.

967
00:44:53,840 --> 00:44:57,480
Speaker 3: It's on the Plane Christmas, and I think it is.

968
00:44:57,800 --> 00:45:00,839
Speaker 3: It is on the Plane on Milton. Yeah, I want

969
00:45:00,840 --> 00:45:02,960
Speaker 3: to say these Christmas. I love that movie.

970
00:45:03,600 --> 00:45:05,920
Speaker 1: Well, let me say this. I watched a new Christmas

971
00:45:06,000 --> 00:45:10,239
Speaker 1: movie on Netflix. It's called Noel's Diary. It's a Christmas movie,

972
00:45:10,360 --> 00:45:11,000
Speaker 1: a black one.

973
00:45:11,600 --> 00:45:16,080
Speaker 3: It has a black girl in it, okay, but lackily

974
00:45:16,200 --> 00:45:17,040
Speaker 3: being represented.

975
00:45:17,200 --> 00:45:19,319
Speaker 1: It was okay, but the thing that made me mad

976
00:45:19,480 --> 00:45:21,919
Speaker 1: is was she was cheating on her boyfriend the whole movie.

977
00:45:21,920 --> 00:45:24,400
Speaker 1: And it was supposed to be like or her fiance

978
00:45:24,840 --> 00:45:27,560
Speaker 1: because she's fell in love with somebody else. But he

979
00:45:27,760 --> 00:45:29,800
Speaker 1: was like an author, he had money, you know, she

980
00:45:29,960 --> 00:45:33,160
Speaker 1: was gonna go and he was white, but her fiance

981
00:45:33,400 --> 00:45:36,520
Speaker 1: was like Hispanic, but she was black. Her mom was

982
00:45:36,600 --> 00:45:39,719
Speaker 1: played by what's the girl's name? Essence from Half and.

983
00:45:39,760 --> 00:45:42,799
Speaker 5: Half Yeah, and that's her name.

984
00:45:43,280 --> 00:45:45,160
Speaker 1: So it was a good movie, but I didn't like

985
00:45:45,200 --> 00:45:48,880
Speaker 1: the fact that they made her a cheater and and

986
00:45:49,080 --> 00:45:51,719
Speaker 1: I I mean, I mean, the first time I ain't

987
00:45:51,760 --> 00:45:55,759
Speaker 1: cheating on nobody. This is the first time you've been

988
00:45:55,800 --> 00:45:57,840
Speaker 1: faced this is a very friend. I cheat on everyone.

989
00:45:58,480 --> 00:46:08,319
Speaker 1: I love that for you. Growing we be outside, we're

990
00:46:08,320 --> 00:46:10,840
Speaker 1: gonna get back to the item of the week. So

991
00:46:11,000 --> 00:46:13,400
Speaker 1: we always talk about items that we're actually using. This

992
00:46:13,600 --> 00:46:15,759
Speaker 1: is you know what I'm saying, not spot this shit,

993
00:46:16,040 --> 00:46:18,040
Speaker 1: So this is stuff we really really actually use.

994
00:46:18,120 --> 00:46:19,800
Speaker 2: So Dreda has.

995
00:46:19,680 --> 00:46:20,520
Speaker 1: The item of the week.

996
00:46:21,680 --> 00:46:23,399
Speaker 3: I have the item of the week this week, se y'all.

997
00:46:23,520 --> 00:46:25,640
Speaker 3: I'm like a makeup girl. I mean, I feel like

998
00:46:25,719 --> 00:46:27,880
Speaker 3: skincare is important too, Like your skin needs to be

999
00:46:28,360 --> 00:46:34,000
Speaker 3: on point underneath your makeup. But I love makeup, so

1000
00:46:34,400 --> 00:46:38,080
Speaker 3: I don't really like full coverage foundations these days. I

1001
00:46:38,120 --> 00:46:39,799
Speaker 3: feel like I used to, but now I like something

1002
00:46:39,840 --> 00:46:42,759
Speaker 3: that's a little more lightweight and sheer and y'all, when

1003
00:46:42,800 --> 00:46:46,160
Speaker 3: I say I love this Forever skin Glow foundation from

1004
00:46:46,200 --> 00:46:49,360
Speaker 3: the Ore, it's so yes, you have it.

1005
00:46:49,480 --> 00:46:55,200
Speaker 1: So there was a moment where I was so stuffed on.

1006
00:46:55,400 --> 00:46:57,080
Speaker 1: They used to have a different shape for the bottle.

1007
00:46:57,160 --> 00:46:58,600
Speaker 3: Oh see, I just found out about it.

1008
00:46:58,719 --> 00:47:04,200
Speaker 1: I love even the smell it. Yeah, beautiful love. That's

1009
00:47:04,239 --> 00:47:12,120
Speaker 1: a nice sick a price point. How much is it?

1010
00:47:12,440 --> 00:47:12,720
Speaker 9: Okay?

1011
00:47:12,840 --> 00:47:14,200
Speaker 3: I want to say, I mean I got it like

1012
00:47:14,239 --> 00:47:15,680
Speaker 3: a few months ago. I want to say, it's probably

1013
00:47:15,719 --> 00:47:21,160
Speaker 3: like fifty five dollars. Yeah, I love it, And they

1014
00:47:21,280 --> 00:47:23,239
Speaker 3: have it at they have it at the four. Of course,

1015
00:47:23,280 --> 00:47:25,040
Speaker 3: you can get it from the department stores, like you

1016
00:47:25,040 --> 00:47:27,360
Speaker 3: can get it from sax and stuff. But y'all, and

1017
00:47:27,520 --> 00:47:30,520
Speaker 3: it's not about the name brand, Like it's a really

1018
00:47:30,600 --> 00:47:33,640
Speaker 3: really good foundation, especially for like every day where.

1019
00:47:34,719 --> 00:47:35,440
Speaker 1: Color five in.

1020
00:47:35,800 --> 00:47:38,759
Speaker 5: Yes, and you have it on right now, okay, than.

1021
00:47:39,960 --> 00:47:41,759
Speaker 3: I have it on right now. Yes, I love it.

1022
00:47:41,880 --> 00:47:43,880
Speaker 3: I used to be an n C fifty girl with

1023
00:47:44,080 --> 00:47:47,120
Speaker 3: mac and I used to wear Nards and Macau. I think,

1024
00:47:47,640 --> 00:47:51,680
Speaker 3: but this top all it is top all egg. I'm

1025
00:47:51,680 --> 00:47:52,080
Speaker 3: gonna have to.

1026
00:47:52,120 --> 00:47:55,680
Speaker 1: Try it because I'm I don't wear a foundation. I don't.

1027
00:47:55,760 --> 00:47:58,160
Speaker 1: I do a powder, but I don't like liquid because

1028
00:47:58,160 --> 00:48:01,320
Speaker 1: I feel like it tends to get kki because I

1029
00:48:01,400 --> 00:48:03,479
Speaker 1: don't like coverage on my face. I am a skin

1030
00:48:03,680 --> 00:48:07,120
Speaker 1: care girl. I'm not like you have coverage on your face.

1031
00:48:07,360 --> 00:48:07,719
Speaker 1: I don't.

1032
00:48:07,840 --> 00:48:11,239
Speaker 3: It depends on the day, like some days I'll wear foundations,

1033
00:48:11,280 --> 00:48:13,600
Speaker 3: some days I'll just do a powder. But when I

1034
00:48:13,760 --> 00:48:16,880
Speaker 3: want something that's a little more coverage but not too

1035
00:48:17,320 --> 00:48:18,520
Speaker 3: too heavy, I love that.

1036
00:48:18,680 --> 00:48:20,839
Speaker 1: So does this go on the birthday? Makeup or all,

1037
00:48:21,760 --> 00:48:24,480
Speaker 1: what does it count his birthday makeup or no? No,

1038
00:48:27,719 --> 00:48:30,279
Speaker 1: I don't like the liquid foundations. It just don't work.

1039
00:48:30,320 --> 00:48:32,680
Speaker 1: I just do a powder now, I do the full

1040
00:48:32,760 --> 00:48:36,520
Speaker 1: coverage concealer because yeah, I'll do that, and I just

1041
00:48:36,600 --> 00:48:38,239
Speaker 1: blend it with some powder and I call it it out.

1042
00:48:38,360 --> 00:48:40,759
Speaker 1: Also have the d your spray foundation. I have that

1043
00:48:41,160 --> 00:48:41,960
Speaker 1: another great one.

1044
00:48:42,080 --> 00:48:42,520
Speaker 2: Is it good?

1045
00:48:43,080 --> 00:48:45,279
Speaker 1: It's an air brash.

1046
00:48:48,480 --> 00:48:49,080
Speaker 2: Because I just.

1047
00:48:52,239 --> 00:49:00,840
Speaker 3: Was mixed in a while. Yeah, because I use like

1048
00:49:01,120 --> 00:49:02,680
Speaker 3: tard I used to make up forever.

1049
00:49:03,400 --> 00:49:07,439
Speaker 1: Yeah, spray. I still use the setting spread. I mixed

1050
00:49:07,440 --> 00:49:11,160
Speaker 1: it with the Charlotte. I use the Charlotte tailberry ever

1051
00:49:12,920 --> 00:49:15,000
Speaker 1: the fixing spray, and then I use the steady spray.

1052
00:49:15,160 --> 00:49:18,000
Speaker 1: Y'all know, fixing spring setting sprays expensive.

1053
00:49:17,600 --> 00:49:18,040
Speaker 4: To a woman.

1054
00:49:18,120 --> 00:49:20,960
Speaker 1: That's okay, it is, And it's just got to wake

1055
00:49:21,080 --> 00:49:23,359
Speaker 1: up and get a haircut every time.

1056
00:49:24,520 --> 00:49:27,720
Speaker 3: Helping as it don't sometimes, you know, but it's sometimes

1057
00:49:27,800 --> 00:49:34,160
Speaker 3: they help a lot. That taste it is crispy, rushing down.

1058
00:49:34,200 --> 00:49:35,319
Speaker 3: I love a crisp line.

1059
00:49:36,360 --> 00:49:40,439
Speaker 1: That's I kind of like the messy hair look. I'm

1060
00:49:40,520 --> 00:49:43,759
Speaker 1: just throwing out a little bit like a bun like

1061
00:49:43,880 --> 00:49:44,160
Speaker 1: a man.

1062
00:49:46,040 --> 00:49:46,560
Speaker 9: That ain't.

1063
00:49:48,920 --> 00:49:54,280
Speaker 1: You the moment you like other guys be having a braizen.

1064
00:49:54,360 --> 00:49:57,040
Speaker 3: It may be having a little money, but that's not fazy,

1065
00:49:58,360 --> 00:49:59,000
Speaker 3: that's not messy.

1066
00:49:59,080 --> 00:50:01,879
Speaker 1: It' a messy is like what's that man name?

1067
00:50:03,440 --> 00:50:03,720
Speaker 5: Jason?

1068
00:50:03,800 --> 00:50:04,160
Speaker 2: Mama.

1069
00:50:04,360 --> 00:50:06,400
Speaker 1: Yes, it's fun.

1070
00:50:08,480 --> 00:50:09,240
Speaker 10: To the other side.

1071
00:50:09,280 --> 00:50:11,840
Speaker 1: But other than that, if you cross over to the

1072
00:50:11,920 --> 00:50:16,480
Speaker 1: other side, what doctor Umar say, thousand lashes, you may

1073
00:50:16,600 --> 00:50:17,120
Speaker 1: not bring.

1074
00:50:17,040 --> 00:50:19,560
Speaker 9: You what you may not bring?

1075
00:50:19,640 --> 00:50:21,920
Speaker 1: It's crazy.

1076
00:50:22,280 --> 00:50:27,879
Speaker 3: Okay, So now we go get into the bed. Hey

1077
00:50:28,520 --> 00:50:32,640
Speaker 3: bow bow bow bow bow bow.

1078
00:50:33,000 --> 00:50:35,840
Speaker 1: Okay, Okay, on the bed talking today, of course we

1079
00:50:35,880 --> 00:50:38,359
Speaker 1: want to keep with the Christmas theme and in our

1080
00:50:38,400 --> 00:50:42,880
Speaker 1: whole hose. I want to talk about snowballing. So it's

1081
00:50:42,960 --> 00:50:48,040
Speaker 1: snowballing too freaky? Or is it a violation? Now? If

1082
00:50:48,080 --> 00:50:52,520
Speaker 1: you don't know what's snowballing? Girl, will you you don't

1083
00:50:52,560 --> 00:50:58,560
Speaker 1: know what it is? Christmas surprise today, honey. Snowballing is

1084
00:50:58,719 --> 00:51:01,719
Speaker 1: whenever you give a man heir, he nuts in your

1085
00:51:01,800 --> 00:51:04,480
Speaker 1: mouth and you go up and you kiss him and

1086
00:51:04,560 --> 00:51:06,680
Speaker 1: put it in his mouth and put it in his mouth.

1087
00:51:08,160 --> 00:51:08,960
Speaker 5: A little snowball.

1088
00:51:09,520 --> 00:51:11,239
Speaker 8: Or if you're having a threesome, you would just do

1089
00:51:11,320 --> 00:51:14,960
Speaker 8: it with the other girl back and forth a.

1090
00:51:14,960 --> 00:51:15,880
Speaker 1: Little advance because I.

1091
00:51:18,840 --> 00:51:20,600
Speaker 3: Mean I was familiar.

1092
00:51:21,360 --> 00:51:22,440
Speaker 1: We swam the snowball.

1093
00:51:22,480 --> 00:51:25,440
Speaker 7: Okay, so first I ever pay all it has snowball

1094
00:51:25,520 --> 00:51:26,000
Speaker 7: here before?

1095
00:51:26,480 --> 00:51:31,520
Speaker 1: Okay, now is it still is it's still a snowball.

1096
00:51:31,600 --> 00:51:35,279
Speaker 1: If he nuts and it's on your stomach that he

1097
00:51:35,440 --> 00:51:38,200
Speaker 1: takes his finger and goes like this, I think might

1098
00:51:38,320 --> 00:51:44,640
Speaker 1: be a snowflake. Yes, well I've done a little snow activity, okay,

1099
00:51:44,680 --> 00:51:46,600
Speaker 1: and I think it's real a little slip.

1100
00:51:46,719 --> 00:51:48,680
Speaker 6: Do you want to taste his own babies? In your

1101
00:51:48,719 --> 00:51:52,439
Speaker 6: baby's baby? What's up if they're not junior getting eate?

1102
00:51:52,680 --> 00:51:55,879
Speaker 6: I mean, I'm not gonna lie. I have never would

1103
00:51:55,920 --> 00:51:56,839
Speaker 6: have been with a man.

1104
00:51:57,120 --> 00:52:00,359
Speaker 8: It's yours your it's not gonna make the ball because

1105
00:52:00,360 --> 00:52:01,160
Speaker 8: there's no passing.

1106
00:52:02,920 --> 00:52:08,120
Speaker 1: So that's why storm. It's a little snow storms, snow activity.

1107
00:52:08,120 --> 00:52:11,200
Speaker 7: It's a little sleep. That's what she was leaving me.

1108
00:52:11,640 --> 00:52:14,160
Speaker 1: I like, I like nasty stuff like that. So it's

1109
00:52:14,200 --> 00:52:16,480
Speaker 1: like if if he if it were to happen, I'll.

1110
00:52:16,360 --> 00:52:16,840
Speaker 4: Be okay with it.

1111
00:52:17,040 --> 00:52:19,719
Speaker 1: Yeah. So it's freaky, not a violation. It's not a

1112
00:52:19,800 --> 00:52:21,640
Speaker 1: violation is violation for you?

1113
00:52:22,120 --> 00:52:23,080
Speaker 3: It's just freaky.

1114
00:52:23,600 --> 00:52:25,040
Speaker 1: Yeah, I think it's just squaky.

1115
00:52:26,160 --> 00:52:26,920
Speaker 9: It's a violation.

1116
00:52:28,120 --> 00:52:31,920
Speaker 1: Why you got nothing in your mouth if you're not

1117
00:52:33,680 --> 00:52:35,680
Speaker 1: because you don't want some own nut, you don't want him,

1118
00:52:35,719 --> 00:52:37,080
Speaker 1: like why you don't want?

1119
00:52:38,000 --> 00:52:41,680
Speaker 3: I like that any different with them as a woman.

1120
00:52:41,760 --> 00:52:42,960
Speaker 3: You know what I mean? You know, you know what

1121
00:52:43,080 --> 00:52:46,960
Speaker 3: your tastes like. Everybody, everybody know what that you taste like.

1122
00:52:47,000 --> 00:52:49,560
Speaker 3: If you don't, you should try, you should try.

1123
00:52:50,160 --> 00:52:51,280
Speaker 2: So it's like, I don't.

1124
00:52:51,160 --> 00:52:53,759
Speaker 3: Understand how that's any different. It's just a mean you

1125
00:52:53,880 --> 00:52:54,160
Speaker 3: just said.

1126
00:52:54,200 --> 00:52:57,200
Speaker 1: For me personally, it's not. It's not gonna turn me

1127
00:52:57,320 --> 00:53:00,799
Speaker 1: on by spitting my man's nut in his mouth. I am,

1128
00:53:00,880 --> 00:53:05,160
Speaker 1: my man, my man, I'm this nigga's best eating. It's

1129
00:53:05,280 --> 00:53:09,000
Speaker 1: all for you, not bet spit in his mind. He

1130
00:53:09,280 --> 00:53:11,840
Speaker 1: just unlocks another a new level when niggas.

1131
00:53:13,000 --> 00:53:17,800
Speaker 7: Yes, it's like, okay, you around, what's part I'm.

1132
00:53:17,680 --> 00:53:20,640
Speaker 3: Not trying to be on the only ship with niggas

1133
00:53:20,640 --> 00:53:22,680
Speaker 3: that he might be afraid to tell people he did

1134
00:53:23,280 --> 00:53:23,480
Speaker 3: like that.

1135
00:53:23,640 --> 00:53:33,680
Speaker 2: I feel like that wetting on my lips.

1136
00:53:35,080 --> 00:53:36,680
Speaker 1: Now you're the second thing in the booty hall.

1137
00:53:36,760 --> 00:53:38,040
Speaker 9: He mm hmm.

1138
00:53:38,320 --> 00:53:42,680
Speaker 2: Now that's freaking she said, he did. Wait she put

1139
00:53:42,840 --> 00:53:45,560
Speaker 2: he put the thing in his hall and then she

1140
00:53:45,640 --> 00:53:46,919
Speaker 2: put her in his mouth.

1141
00:53:47,800 --> 00:53:48,839
Speaker 3: Ain't it's a little.

1142
00:53:50,239 --> 00:53:52,080
Speaker 1: And this is these long nails are new for me

1143
00:53:52,120 --> 00:53:52,800
Speaker 1: and they're not normally.

1144
00:53:52,920 --> 00:53:55,920
Speaker 3: What's the difference between that and like, you know, you

1145
00:53:56,080 --> 00:53:58,479
Speaker 3: be eating my ass now you're just eating your ass?

1146
00:53:59,200 --> 00:54:06,000
Speaker 1: No over head, I don't in my head and kisses

1147
00:54:06,080 --> 00:54:09,960
Speaker 1: you after he I mean it is, but like all

1148
00:54:10,040 --> 00:54:12,279
Speaker 1: we gotta take all the fecal matter, get them.

1149
00:54:12,480 --> 00:54:13,040
Speaker 2: Wait, I'm not.

1150
00:54:13,080 --> 00:54:14,640
Speaker 1: Taking it's a little.

1151
00:54:19,320 --> 00:54:21,640
Speaker 2: Anyways.

1152
00:54:22,000 --> 00:54:26,239
Speaker 1: It is in your body straight out the shower. There's

1153
00:54:26,320 --> 00:54:31,319
Speaker 1: nothing there digesting. If there's invisible spiders that come into

1154
00:54:31,360 --> 00:54:33,399
Speaker 1: our mouths and we're sleeping, there's definitely a little.

1155
00:54:34,600 --> 00:54:39,040
Speaker 3: And wash it with me, right though you ain't even realize,

1156
00:54:39,520 --> 00:54:42,360
Speaker 3: not half man, you can that.

1157
00:54:43,840 --> 00:54:46,840
Speaker 2: You ain't mean because if it was.

1158
00:54:48,520 --> 00:54:51,000
Speaker 4: No but the bacteria still there, it might not.

1159
00:54:51,080 --> 00:54:53,320
Speaker 5: Be like a whole like at.

1160
00:54:55,360 --> 00:54:55,640
Speaker 11: You got.

1161
00:54:57,440 --> 00:54:58,879
Speaker 1: I don't got the bitch.

1162
00:54:59,680 --> 00:55:01,759
Speaker 2: It's let's pee in a piece for poo pool.

1163
00:55:05,560 --> 00:55:06,680
Speaker 1: Let this.

1164
00:55:08,239 --> 00:55:10,600
Speaker 2: Is your girl lets please God.

1165
00:55:10,719 --> 00:55:13,080
Speaker 7: So so you're saying that pooty Tan is okay for

1166
00:55:13,200 --> 00:55:13,759
Speaker 7: what he does.

1167
00:55:14,880 --> 00:55:16,319
Speaker 2: You don't know who poy told me.

1168
00:55:20,200 --> 00:55:22,080
Speaker 1: Show that I had to stop dealing with him because

1169
00:55:22,080 --> 00:55:23,439
Speaker 1: he used to ask me to fart in his mouth.

1170
00:55:33,080 --> 00:55:35,400
Speaker 1: Dadda say she got wanting the chamber.

1171
00:55:35,480 --> 00:55:36,040
Speaker 3: She upread.

1172
00:55:37,160 --> 00:55:40,279
Speaker 1: She said, he's the fourteen of the part turn So

1173
00:55:40,440 --> 00:55:48,279
Speaker 1: it's okay. Yeah, during sexual matters, if the nastiest ship

1174
00:55:48,400 --> 00:55:50,879
Speaker 1: is okay, it's okay. This is the time, the one

1175
00:55:51,000 --> 00:55:52,600
Speaker 1: time out of the day that you get to just

1176
00:55:52,719 --> 00:55:54,440
Speaker 1: say what you want and let's do it.

1177
00:55:54,840 --> 00:55:57,759
Speaker 3: Well, I don't want nobody putting on me, okay, but

1178
00:55:58,360 --> 00:55:58,759
Speaker 3: we can do it.

1179
00:55:58,840 --> 00:56:01,440
Speaker 5: But you can tell me it's the same space. And

1180
00:56:01,520 --> 00:56:03,280
Speaker 5: maybe I'll say yes, maybe i'll say no. I probably

1181
00:56:03,280 --> 00:56:03,640
Speaker 5: say yes.

1182
00:56:04,080 --> 00:56:06,239
Speaker 2: I'm not to poot in the mount. I'm not taking

1183
00:56:06,280 --> 00:56:07,080
Speaker 2: a pool in my mouth.

1184
00:56:07,760 --> 00:56:09,360
Speaker 7: If you want me to poo yours.

1185
00:56:09,120 --> 00:56:10,840
Speaker 2: I will probably.

1186
00:56:15,280 --> 00:56:22,279
Speaker 1: Like I realized, like I said, I didn't realize how

1187
00:56:22,520 --> 00:56:25,440
Speaker 1: much of like Vanilla I am when it comes to

1188
00:56:25,520 --> 00:56:28,320
Speaker 1: sex until like I met y'all for real.

1189
00:56:28,600 --> 00:56:28,840
Speaker 2: I was.

1190
00:56:28,920 --> 00:56:30,680
Speaker 5: I still feel like I'm a little vanilla.

1191
00:56:32,840 --> 00:56:33,400
Speaker 11: It's giving me.

1192
00:56:34,320 --> 00:56:36,120
Speaker 2: Ice cream, but I'm not.

1193
00:56:39,600 --> 00:56:45,000
Speaker 1: Definitely cooking and cream. Rocky roll. Yeah, yeah, but you

1194
00:56:45,080 --> 00:56:47,359
Speaker 1: know it's crazy Medina. I used to follow this guy

1195
00:56:47,480 --> 00:56:49,840
Speaker 1: on Twitter, Randa. It's like I used to just like

1196
00:56:49,920 --> 00:56:52,080
Speaker 1: his sweet He was funny and I didn't even know

1197
00:56:52,160 --> 00:56:54,760
Speaker 1: he listened to podcasts no one random more than he tweets.

1198
00:56:54,800 --> 00:56:57,120
Speaker 1: He's like, man, I love that freaky ass bitch Medina.

1199
00:56:57,239 --> 00:56:59,239
Speaker 1: She loves aintal, I said.

1200
00:57:01,320 --> 00:57:02,400
Speaker 2: Whenever other people point it.

1201
00:57:02,400 --> 00:57:03,000
Speaker 1: Out, I'm always like.

1202
00:57:05,320 --> 00:57:07,600
Speaker 2: You, I love it, Okay.

1203
00:57:08,520 --> 00:57:12,479
Speaker 1: I think that anal is something that more women, black

1204
00:57:12,520 --> 00:57:17,000
Speaker 1: women specifically should explore because it unlocks again next level.

1205
00:57:17,920 --> 00:57:20,600
Speaker 7: It hurts, but once you get it in and squish

1206
00:57:20,640 --> 00:57:21,320
Speaker 7: it around.

1207
00:57:21,080 --> 00:57:26,040
Speaker 1: A little bitch feels so it's like it's euphoric. It

1208
00:57:26,320 --> 00:57:28,840
Speaker 1: feels amazing. It's like, once you get through that pain,

1209
00:57:28,920 --> 00:57:31,520
Speaker 1: it's like going through a struggle. I'm hungry and hungry.

1210
00:57:31,520 --> 00:57:34,280
Speaker 1: I'm hungry. Women like get the money and eat, and

1211
00:57:34,360 --> 00:57:37,040
Speaker 1: it's you get in there that ship. It's squishy and

1212
00:57:37,120 --> 00:57:38,040
Speaker 1: it's moist.

1213
00:57:37,880 --> 00:57:40,280
Speaker 7: And it's good and you cannot in it and it's

1214
00:57:40,360 --> 00:57:41,440
Speaker 7: not gonna get you pregnant.

1215
00:57:41,880 --> 00:57:43,600
Speaker 1: That's the valet point. Feel.

1216
00:57:43,920 --> 00:57:45,800
Speaker 2: I don't prepare for anal.

1217
00:57:48,120 --> 00:57:48,680
Speaker 1: Clean it out.

1218
00:57:49,400 --> 00:57:50,400
Speaker 5: She don't do nothing.

1219
00:57:52,240 --> 00:57:53,000
Speaker 1: In the first round.

1220
00:57:53,400 --> 00:57:55,200
Speaker 3: What if you just wain to a max can't write

1221
00:57:55,240 --> 00:57:56,480
Speaker 3: a restaurant e with eating cake.

1222
00:57:56,880 --> 00:57:58,920
Speaker 1: She called the story on cocktails bitch, and we're not

1223
00:57:59,040 --> 00:58:02,480
Speaker 1: repeating it. That's what ship went, she did, she did,

1224
00:58:02,800 --> 00:58:04,720
Speaker 1: so it's like, I don't prepare. I'm just I'm ready

1225
00:58:04,720 --> 00:58:08,040
Speaker 1: for anything. Okay, do you have to stretch your booty

1226
00:58:08,080 --> 00:58:08,400
Speaker 1: hole out?

1227
00:58:08,440 --> 00:58:08,600
Speaker 4: Though?

1228
00:58:10,040 --> 00:58:11,640
Speaker 1: I like the pain of it, So it's like, y'all

1229
00:58:11,680 --> 00:58:14,160
Speaker 1: want to just experience it. No, thank you, you have

1230
00:58:14,320 --> 00:58:17,520
Speaker 1: not convissed me. You are not the person baby.

1231
00:58:19,040 --> 00:58:19,800
Speaker 2: I free.

1232
00:58:22,880 --> 00:58:24,800
Speaker 5: Yeah, that was so uncomfortable.

1233
00:58:24,960 --> 00:58:25,480
Speaker 2: I liked it.

1234
00:58:28,880 --> 00:58:32,120
Speaker 1: You sait on the thing. They've spray the warm water

1235
00:58:32,360 --> 00:58:35,480
Speaker 1: into your rectum. It's washing away all of the.

1236
00:58:37,200 --> 00:58:38,760
Speaker 2: Before you do it. You can watch it.

1237
00:58:39,320 --> 00:58:41,480
Speaker 7: You watch it, and so it's like I like that,

1238
00:58:43,040 --> 00:58:43,840
Speaker 7: but then it's too far.

1239
00:58:44,120 --> 00:58:46,560
Speaker 1: Why are you watching the ship go down the tunnel?

1240
00:58:46,640 --> 00:58:46,800
Speaker 2: Yeah?

1241
00:58:46,800 --> 00:58:48,840
Speaker 3: I don't really want to watch come out?

1242
00:58:49,160 --> 00:58:49,480
Speaker 9: You don't.

1243
00:58:49,960 --> 00:58:52,160
Speaker 8: When I did, it was coming out to know if

1244
00:58:52,200 --> 00:58:54,040
Speaker 8: I had like buttons in there, So you don't tell

1245
00:58:54,040 --> 00:58:57,160
Speaker 8: you that you have long kind of stuff in your

1246
00:58:57,240 --> 00:58:59,160
Speaker 8: body from like years and years and years and you

1247
00:58:59,240 --> 00:58:59,920
Speaker 8: don't die ject.

1248
00:59:00,400 --> 00:59:01,560
Speaker 2: I wanted to see if I was a.

1249
00:59:01,600 --> 00:59:03,520
Speaker 1: Bad colics aren't that great?

1250
00:59:03,720 --> 00:59:04,240
Speaker 4: That's what I mean.

1251
00:59:05,040 --> 00:59:07,400
Speaker 1: But I see like once a year. Yeah that's that.

1252
00:59:07,440 --> 00:59:08,960
Speaker 1: Don't make it happen, that's what she told me.

1253
00:59:09,480 --> 00:59:11,840
Speaker 5: But yeah, also need to buy butt plugs.

1254
00:59:12,360 --> 00:59:15,280
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, I love you plug in there.

1255
00:59:15,320 --> 00:59:16,720
Speaker 5: That did not work in the train.

1256
00:59:17,200 --> 00:59:19,800
Speaker 2: But all she said she didn't like you.

1257
00:59:20,880 --> 00:59:21,800
Speaker 5: I couldn't get it in there?

1258
00:59:21,880 --> 00:59:23,080
Speaker 4: Right, you got to live it?

1259
00:59:27,280 --> 00:59:28,360
Speaker 2: Did you move it up.

1260
00:59:32,760 --> 00:59:33,720
Speaker 3: And under?

1261
00:59:35,440 --> 00:59:39,800
Speaker 1: No, man, I don't know who's been over and put

1262
00:59:39,840 --> 00:59:42,600
Speaker 1: it in. I would you just like laid on my side?

1263
00:59:43,280 --> 00:59:47,720
Speaker 1: You for help? You did this sometimes doing some may try.

1264
00:59:47,640 --> 00:59:51,000
Speaker 7: To get you got to stand up, stand up and

1265
00:59:51,080 --> 00:59:51,480
Speaker 7: put it in.

1266
00:59:52,080 --> 00:59:55,760
Speaker 3: Put I've been over and put my I said, you

1267
00:59:55,840 --> 00:59:57,520
Speaker 3: know how like you got it?

1268
00:59:57,920 --> 00:59:58,280
Speaker 1: That's all?

1269
00:59:58,680 --> 01:00:00,640
Speaker 3: Yes, I feel good to say, she brady ones. When

1270
01:00:00,640 --> 01:00:04,160
Speaker 3: you get in here front of beg and you can

1271
01:00:04,240 --> 01:00:05,520
Speaker 3: control like the vibration.

1272
01:00:05,880 --> 01:00:07,880
Speaker 1: I've never used the vibrating one, but I feel like

1273
01:00:08,640 --> 01:00:11,600
Speaker 1: the pressure feels good. So it's just a little, a

1274
01:00:11,640 --> 01:00:12,080
Speaker 1: little bit.

1275
01:00:15,240 --> 01:00:16,120
Speaker 5: So I gotta get drug.

1276
01:00:17,280 --> 01:00:19,760
Speaker 1: Never gonna move on. Is it true that you have

1277
01:00:19,960 --> 01:00:22,440
Speaker 1: to have sex with somebody with a small penis to

1278
01:00:22,480 --> 01:00:25,440
Speaker 1: try an on so you can do it with a

1279
01:00:25,520 --> 01:00:33,240
Speaker 1: big the big ones? Okay, okay, now you're talking our language.

1280
01:00:34,560 --> 01:00:38,240
Speaker 3: I tried, and I'm gonna report BEG y'all. Let me know.

1281
01:00:39,800 --> 01:00:42,320
Speaker 1: Maybe I will one day. That's the last look, that's

1282
01:00:42,400 --> 01:00:43,520
Speaker 1: my last little hole, like.

1283
01:00:45,480 --> 01:00:49,560
Speaker 2: Right for real, okay, So.

1284
01:00:49,720 --> 01:00:57,960
Speaker 3: Now we're gonna get into the bowl about bow boy.

1285
01:00:57,960 --> 01:00:59,560
Speaker 1: Do y'all need something? Y'all need somebody to drink?

1286
01:01:00,040 --> 01:01:03,560
Speaker 5: I mean, I oh, y'all.

1287
01:01:05,280 --> 01:01:09,280
Speaker 1: Look past me to come gonna help us here because

1288
01:01:09,320 --> 01:01:10,080
Speaker 1: you are empty?

1289
01:01:10,520 --> 01:01:10,840
Speaker 2: Thank you?

1290
01:01:11,040 --> 01:01:15,520
Speaker 5: Sad to period. Before we get started, I said, we

1291
01:01:15,560 --> 01:01:16,000
Speaker 5: got a pee.

1292
01:01:16,080 --> 01:01:18,840
Speaker 1: I can't have no more. Look, I had to empty

1293
01:01:18,920 --> 01:01:20,680
Speaker 1: out my bladder because I knew I was getting lead.

1294
01:01:20,720 --> 01:01:21,560
Speaker 5: Okay, d you good?

1295
01:01:21,600 --> 01:01:25,080
Speaker 1: You want some more? I'm okay, okay, okay, so far.

1296
01:01:25,360 --> 01:01:27,880
Speaker 1: My bop of the week this week somebody had actually

1297
01:01:27,880 --> 01:01:29,720
Speaker 1: And I hate when I forget who sends me songs

1298
01:01:29,720 --> 01:01:31,800
Speaker 1: because I feel like that's so rude. But my bop

1299
01:01:31,880 --> 01:01:34,440
Speaker 1: of the week is by Sean tell May. She has

1300
01:01:34,480 --> 01:01:38,280
Speaker 1: a song called Waiting and when I tell you baby

1301
01:01:38,320 --> 01:01:40,600
Speaker 1: girl was blowing. I feel like a lot of songs

1302
01:01:40,680 --> 01:01:43,120
Speaker 1: like people are just they show their emotions, but they're

1303
01:01:43,160 --> 01:01:47,120
Speaker 1: not really sanging like she was sanging down. And it's

1304
01:01:47,200 --> 01:01:48,880
Speaker 1: such a good song. So if you like a song

1305
01:01:48,920 --> 01:01:50,960
Speaker 1: where you want to get in your feelings, she's basically

1306
01:01:50,960 --> 01:01:53,000
Speaker 1: talking about how she's just waiting for this guy to

1307
01:01:53,160 --> 01:01:56,760
Speaker 1: love her like I need tonight. So good, She's really good.

1308
01:01:56,880 --> 01:01:59,160
Speaker 1: I don't know any information about it. Like I said,

1309
01:01:59,480 --> 01:02:01,920
Speaker 1: somebody's set this song to me and it really resonated

1310
01:02:02,000 --> 01:02:05,360
Speaker 1: with me. So Chantel may waiting shout out to you girl,

1311
01:02:05,720 --> 01:02:07,400
Speaker 1: very good song. Yeah.

1312
01:02:07,600 --> 01:02:10,000
Speaker 3: So, so Siza just came out with an album and

1313
01:02:10,080 --> 01:02:12,560
Speaker 3: I haven't really had time to listen to the album,

1314
01:02:12,640 --> 01:02:15,280
Speaker 3: but she has a single thiss out called Shirt and

1315
01:02:15,400 --> 01:02:17,320
Speaker 3: I really really loved this song. And I don't feel

1316
01:02:17,360 --> 01:02:19,000
Speaker 3: like either one of us have ever said that that

1317
01:02:19,120 --> 01:02:20,360
Speaker 3: was our bo of the week, but y'all, I really

1318
01:02:20,400 --> 01:02:20,919
Speaker 3: loved that song.

1319
01:02:21,000 --> 01:02:22,560
Speaker 1: But I'm such a Sizzlevan.

1320
01:02:23,040 --> 01:02:25,360
Speaker 3: But people ain't saying in her album the album is

1321
01:02:25,480 --> 01:02:27,000
Speaker 3: just okay. But I haven't listened to it.

1322
01:02:27,480 --> 01:02:28,360
Speaker 2: You know what's crazy.

1323
01:02:28,840 --> 01:02:31,320
Speaker 1: She's going vioral TikTok right now from a song that

1324
01:02:31,400 --> 01:02:33,840
Speaker 1: she did on SNL as a joke. Have y'all seen that,

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Speaker 1: the one.

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Speaker 3: When she was on there with Kiki Palmer.

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Speaker 2: It's big Boy.

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Speaker 1: Season or something like that. It's going violent and it's

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Speaker 1: actually a good song. I really want her to go

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Speaker 1: to studio.

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Speaker 5: Recorded because it is big Boy Season.

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Speaker 2: It is.

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Speaker 5: Number Yeah I did, we got a date. I missed

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01:02:52,920 --> 01:02:56,200
Speaker 5: the other one because but you has to come out

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01:02:56,240 --> 01:02:59,600
Speaker 5: here and we're going on days. He had titties, y'all.

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Speaker 8: I love and he was talking about feeding me, and

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01:03:03,760 --> 01:03:05,640
Speaker 8: that's all I needed to I don't have.

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Speaker 5: A problem with the big boys.

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01:03:10,120 --> 01:03:12,000
Speaker 1: I have, but I don't want to have babies with him.

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01:03:14,880 --> 01:03:16,200
Speaker 1: B's gonna come out big as fun.

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Speaker 8: She's gonna have a linebacker like people we having teampound kids.

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01:03:20,920 --> 01:03:24,680
Speaker 1: Yeah, when he was born, he was a big one. Okay,

1343
01:03:24,720 --> 01:03:25,800
Speaker 1: somebody know what you've been listening to?

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01:03:26,520 --> 01:03:27,320
Speaker 2: Does that have to be new?

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01:03:27,760 --> 01:03:27,800
Speaker 1: No?

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01:03:28,480 --> 01:03:28,760
Speaker 3: Okay?

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01:03:29,920 --> 01:03:32,360
Speaker 1: I Diana Ross dropped the song.

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Speaker 9: You know, shout.

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01:03:38,280 --> 01:03:40,880
Speaker 1: She's sick right now, a little bit asleep. But also

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Speaker 1: there is this song by Jessin Biever. It's called Honest

1351
01:03:44,160 --> 01:03:47,760
Speaker 1: and I absolutely love it. Okay, like I'm just I

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01:03:47,840 --> 01:03:50,320
Speaker 1: love it. It's old, but it's been in reapput, it

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01:03:50,360 --> 01:03:52,040
Speaker 1: in all of my playlists, so I can listen to

1354
01:03:52,080 --> 01:03:53,800
Speaker 1: it and he's just talking about how he met a bitch,

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01:03:53,840 --> 01:03:55,160
Speaker 1: fell in love with her and she's just honest.

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Speaker 5: I love it.

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01:03:57,160 --> 01:04:02,160
Speaker 1: We shout out to the believers exclusive on this talk show,

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01:04:02,280 --> 01:04:06,000
Speaker 1: believe it or not. Okay, okay, kickie, what you've been jamming?

1359
01:04:06,160 --> 01:04:09,920
Speaker 8: Honestly, y'all since July twenty eighth. Beyonce has had me

1360
01:04:09,960 --> 01:04:13,240
Speaker 8: in a choke and I still got renaissance on You

1361
01:04:13,800 --> 01:04:14,960
Speaker 8: Do Do You Do?

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01:04:15,160 --> 01:04:16,880
Speaker 2: It's a great album.

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01:04:17,000 --> 01:04:22,720
Speaker 1: Now I will say this, I am Beyonce staying. I

1364
01:04:22,840 --> 01:04:27,920
Speaker 1: love her very badly. Beyonce, Where the funk are the visuals?

1365
01:04:27,960 --> 01:04:29,440
Speaker 1: Where are we hired?

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01:04:30,000 --> 01:04:30,240
Speaker 8: We have?

1367
01:04:30,640 --> 01:04:31,760
Speaker 2: We have fought for you.

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01:04:32,200 --> 01:04:34,480
Speaker 1: I can't take up for you no more? Where are

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01:04:34,560 --> 01:04:35,280
Speaker 1: the visuals?

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01:04:36,160 --> 01:04:36,680
Speaker 11: Tour days?

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01:04:36,720 --> 01:04:38,040
Speaker 2: We gotta go to work next summer?

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01:04:38,720 --> 01:04:41,000
Speaker 7: I gotta make sure our tour is gonna collapse because.

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01:04:41,440 --> 01:04:43,000
Speaker 1: Because ain't nobody coming to the show.

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01:04:43,240 --> 01:04:45,480
Speaker 7: If we mix it Amland, I ain't even gonna be there.

1375
01:04:46,280 --> 01:04:50,080
Speaker 3: Our minds canceled day can in a.

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01:04:50,200 --> 01:04:52,720
Speaker 7: Minute, and you're not getting your money bags and nights.

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01:04:53,760 --> 01:04:54,800
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, she has Beyonce.

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01:04:55,360 --> 01:04:58,440
Speaker 1: It's an amazing album. But Sis, we need the visuals,

1379
01:04:58,560 --> 01:04:59,680
Speaker 1: no saying.

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01:04:59,600 --> 01:05:00,600
Speaker 5: Is tiff these commercials?

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01:05:00,800 --> 01:05:03,000
Speaker 8: We can't buy Tiffany because we're trying to buy tickets

1382
01:05:03,440 --> 01:05:03,880
Speaker 8: to see me.

1383
01:05:04,640 --> 01:05:06,080
Speaker 1: Now, I'm not gonna lie. Okay, let me ask you

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01:05:06,240 --> 01:05:09,120
Speaker 1: before we move on. What is the most you spend

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01:05:09,200 --> 01:05:11,880
Speaker 1: for a Beyonce ticket that I.

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01:05:11,880 --> 01:05:12,800
Speaker 3: Would spend right now?

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01:05:13,040 --> 01:05:14,440
Speaker 5: And I will spend a couple of thousand.

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01:05:14,840 --> 01:05:17,320
Speaker 1: You spend a couple of thousand, like you too out

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01:05:17,360 --> 01:05:17,520
Speaker 1: at to.

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01:05:21,040 --> 01:05:25,480
Speaker 3: Okay one, but that's a lot that needs a lot

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01:05:25,520 --> 01:05:26,440
Speaker 3: of money for a ticket.

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01:05:26,720 --> 01:05:30,040
Speaker 1: Yeah, I feel like this. I'm not gonna lie. I

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01:05:30,120 --> 01:05:35,000
Speaker 1: would spend whatever, But if I'm spending like one thousand,

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01:05:35,120 --> 01:05:38,120
Speaker 1: twenty five hundred, I want to be comfortable. I want

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01:05:38,160 --> 01:05:38,520
Speaker 1: to send it.

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01:05:38,640 --> 01:05:41,080
Speaker 3: Like I've already told you all, we need to get

1397
01:05:41,080 --> 01:05:42,640
Speaker 3: a sweet when go to Houston.

1398
01:05:43,840 --> 01:05:45,000
Speaker 5: We all need to get a swee.

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01:05:45,120 --> 01:05:47,120
Speaker 1: It's like ten bands. We can afford that with us,

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01:05:48,240 --> 01:05:55,160
Speaker 1: you know, not just ok. Sorry, Look, but I feel

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01:05:55,240 --> 01:05:56,600
Speaker 1: like I want to be in a sweet where I

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01:05:56,640 --> 01:06:00,000
Speaker 1: can really dance. Y'all want to have I want to eat.

1403
01:06:00,240 --> 01:06:02,720
Speaker 1: It's an experience. Beyonce is an experience. Have you've ever

1404
01:06:02,760 --> 01:06:04,680
Speaker 1: been to a Beyonce showing? It's an experience.

1405
01:06:04,680 --> 01:06:06,280
Speaker 5: I want to be down at the bottom where I'm

1406
01:06:06,520 --> 01:06:07,040
Speaker 5: super care.

1407
01:06:08,120 --> 01:06:08,960
Speaker 1: I don't need all that.

1408
01:06:09,280 --> 01:06:11,960
Speaker 8: So unless she can reach out and touch me right

1409
01:06:12,160 --> 01:06:12,640
Speaker 8: then I would do.

1410
01:06:12,720 --> 01:06:16,520
Speaker 1: You know what it was like the Crows moment. You know,

1411
01:06:17,640 --> 01:06:19,880
Speaker 1: she did the Macy's Day Parade and they had to

1412
01:06:20,080 --> 01:06:22,600
Speaker 1: pre record her performance. My brother lived in New York

1413
01:06:22,600 --> 01:06:24,040
Speaker 1: at the time and hit me up. It was like,

1414
01:06:24,040 --> 01:06:25,800
Speaker 1: if you can make it to New York, I can

1415
01:06:25,840 --> 01:06:29,440
Speaker 1: take you to the Liberty the Liberty thing and take

1416
01:06:29,440 --> 01:06:31,640
Speaker 1: a little boat. And Beyonce's doing a private performance for

1417
01:06:31,760 --> 01:06:34,880
Speaker 1: like twenty five people. Oh my maby and she did

1418
01:06:34,960 --> 01:06:37,000
Speaker 1: put the mic audience. I touched her hand and it

1419
01:06:37,120 --> 01:06:38,400
Speaker 1: was just crazy. I told her, I was now, what

1420
01:06:38,560 --> 01:06:42,320
Speaker 1: year was? This was years ago? Oh wow, I would

1421
01:06:42,360 --> 01:06:43,800
Speaker 1: have to google. Well, I knew it was a while

1422
01:06:43,840 --> 01:06:46,040
Speaker 1: back when you said Maxon's paradecause she don't show up

1423
01:06:46,080 --> 01:06:49,120
Speaker 1: nowhere and it was still pre recorded. They just made

1424
01:06:49,160 --> 01:06:52,480
Speaker 1: it seem like it was not not Yeah, And she

1425
01:06:52,600 --> 01:06:54,520
Speaker 1: gave me a chance, give me your hand and I

1426
01:06:54,560 --> 01:06:56,120
Speaker 1: held hand. I was like, you haven't do so much

1427
01:06:56,400 --> 01:06:57,120
Speaker 1: get up from and.

1428
01:06:58,800 --> 01:06:59,600
Speaker 2: She was like given.

1429
01:07:01,640 --> 01:07:04,440
Speaker 1: I was like, let me tell you, I don't have

1430
01:07:04,600 --> 01:07:08,479
Speaker 1: many fan moments. I don't fan out about anybody. When

1431
01:07:08,720 --> 01:07:10,960
Speaker 1: I saw Rihanna, she had came into the club when

1432
01:07:10,960 --> 01:07:13,640
Speaker 1: I was working at the club, and I literally, you

1433
01:07:13,760 --> 01:07:15,200
Speaker 1: never know what you're going to be in the moment, Beau.

1434
01:07:15,200 --> 01:07:17,520
Speaker 1: You'd be like, at this point, I have met everybody.

1435
01:07:17,720 --> 01:07:20,600
Speaker 1: I have literally you name them, I have met them.

1436
01:07:21,080 --> 01:07:22,800
Speaker 2: When Rihanna walked to the club, y'all.

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01:07:23,200 --> 01:07:27,080
Speaker 1: I froze. Literally. I was like, they were like, go

1438
01:07:27,200 --> 01:07:29,520
Speaker 1: ask her what she wants and I was like, I

1439
01:07:29,640 --> 01:07:33,120
Speaker 1: didn't you like passing out the waters And I was like,

1440
01:07:34,400 --> 01:07:36,600
Speaker 1: that's crazy. So I have can make you feel No,

1441
01:07:36,720 --> 01:07:38,200
Speaker 1: I never felt like that in my life.

1442
01:07:38,320 --> 01:07:39,920
Speaker 3: When I was in a section. When I was in

1443
01:07:39,960 --> 01:07:41,760
Speaker 3: the club and Beyon Site was in a section across

1444
01:07:41,760 --> 01:07:43,560
Speaker 3: from me, I was definitely sneaky, you schoes.

1445
01:07:44,560 --> 01:07:48,000
Speaker 2: And I still got the close in my phone like yeah,

1446
01:07:48,040 --> 01:07:48,760
Speaker 2: we all saw that.

1447
01:07:50,520 --> 01:07:52,720
Speaker 3: I hae, we did, but you know this was like

1448
01:07:52,800 --> 01:07:53,560
Speaker 3: twenty fourteen.

1449
01:07:53,680 --> 01:07:57,640
Speaker 1: But I go on now, okay, so now we're about

1450
01:07:57,640 --> 01:08:01,160
Speaker 1: to get into our favorite segments. Pour your heart out,

1451
01:08:01,320 --> 01:08:04,120
Speaker 1: So y'all know we love whenever y'all write us, we

1452
01:08:04,200 --> 01:08:07,280
Speaker 1: give y'all great advice. Sometimes it's bad. So whatever you

1453
01:08:07,360 --> 01:08:09,800
Speaker 1: want to do, just write us and we're gonna try

1454
01:08:09,800 --> 01:08:11,280
Speaker 1: to help you the best we can. If you're a

1455
01:08:11,360 --> 01:08:13,600
Speaker 1: Patreon member, make sure you put in the subject line

1456
01:08:13,840 --> 01:08:16,920
Speaker 1: that you're a Patreon member. Now we also have a

1457
01:08:17,040 --> 01:08:19,120
Speaker 1: line a number that you can call. This is not

1458
01:08:19,360 --> 01:08:22,720
Speaker 1: for advice. This is just so you can express yourself,

1459
01:08:23,280 --> 01:08:25,320
Speaker 1: you know, whatever you want to say to me. Orrea

1460
01:08:25,479 --> 01:08:27,519
Speaker 1: or the both of us and get things off your chest.

1461
01:08:27,800 --> 01:08:31,439
Speaker 1: But please keep it short and sweet. Thirty seconds, forty

1462
01:08:31,479 --> 01:08:33,840
Speaker 1: five seconds, real quick. The number is gonna be at

1463
01:08:33,880 --> 01:08:36,720
Speaker 1: the bottom. But if you need advice, make sure you

1464
01:08:36,880 --> 01:08:39,920
Speaker 1: email us at ask poor Minds at gmail dot com.

1465
01:08:40,439 --> 01:08:43,880
Speaker 2: And y'all know we get them in on the mail.

1466
01:08:44,040 --> 01:08:48,400
Speaker 1: Okay, period, so pass this down. You know what, Kiki,

1467
01:08:48,400 --> 01:08:52,040
Speaker 1: I'm gonna let you remind today you can remind. Yeah,

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01:08:52,080 --> 01:08:52,320
Speaker 1: we don't.

1469
01:08:52,680 --> 01:08:57,920
Speaker 2: We never let the guests read we're your period. Okay, okay,

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01:08:59,120 --> 01:08:59,479
Speaker 2: all right?

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01:09:00,479 --> 01:09:02,519
Speaker 5: Oh wait, this was his number two, so you go first.

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01:09:02,880 --> 01:09:06,599
Speaker 1: Okay, s pour your heart out. I'm glad I got

1473
01:09:06,640 --> 01:09:11,799
Speaker 1: my Nilsen today. Okay. So this one says, hey, Max Anddrea,

1474
01:09:12,680 --> 01:09:16,200
Speaker 1: please keep me anonymous. My boyfriend of almost two years

1475
01:09:16,320 --> 01:09:19,599
Speaker 1: blocked my phone number and unfollowed me off social media

1476
01:09:19,720 --> 01:09:23,439
Speaker 1: out of nowhere in bold capslock. For the past couple

1477
01:09:23,479 --> 01:09:26,760
Speaker 1: of months, things have been off. It was starting to

1478
01:09:26,800 --> 01:09:28,880
Speaker 1: feel like he was forcing himself to be with me.

1479
01:09:29,320 --> 01:09:31,320
Speaker 1: I would always ask him what was wrong, and he

1480
01:09:31,320 --> 01:09:37,560
Speaker 1: would always say, everything is good, everything was normal. Recently,

1481
01:09:37,880 --> 01:09:39,320
Speaker 1: he was in one of his moods again.

1482
01:09:39,400 --> 01:09:40,639
Speaker 2: So why ask what's wrong?

1483
01:09:40,880 --> 01:09:45,200
Speaker 1: Because I was genuinely, genuinely concerned. Again, he said I'm good,

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01:09:46,000 --> 01:09:48,160
Speaker 1: So I decided to back off and give him space.

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01:09:49,479 --> 01:09:52,559
Speaker 1: After a few days of space, I decided to reach

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01:09:52,640 --> 01:09:55,679
Speaker 1: out to check in to find out why he blocked

1487
01:09:55,680 --> 01:09:57,759
Speaker 1: my phone number and then follow me on social media

1488
01:09:58,520 --> 01:09:59,160
Speaker 1: without a word.

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01:09:59,439 --> 01:09:59,920
Speaker 11: In bold.

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01:10:00,960 --> 01:10:03,960
Speaker 1: Throughout the relationship, he would do so much, from paying

1491
01:10:04,080 --> 01:10:07,439
Speaker 1: for things, pretending to my education, spoiling me, cooking for me,

1492
01:10:07,600 --> 01:10:10,040
Speaker 1: giving me money, showing me off to his people, and

1493
01:10:10,240 --> 01:10:13,160
Speaker 1: always talking about our future and much more. He literally

1494
01:10:13,240 --> 01:10:15,280
Speaker 1: told me a few days ago he wanted to marry me.

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01:10:15,880 --> 01:10:19,360
Speaker 1: He's always had trouble with communication, as I would usually

1496
01:10:19,479 --> 01:10:23,320
Speaker 1: be the one willing to talk out our issues. Anytime

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01:10:23,360 --> 01:10:25,280
Speaker 1: he had a problem, I would bend and shift to

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01:10:25,320 --> 01:10:27,320
Speaker 1: make sure I was doing all I could to please

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01:10:27,400 --> 01:10:29,600
Speaker 1: him and be a good partner. I put in so

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01:10:29,760 --> 01:10:32,639
Speaker 1: much time and effort into this relationship, and I miss him,

1501
01:10:32,720 --> 01:10:35,280
Speaker 1: but don't know what to do. I tried to think

1502
01:10:35,360 --> 01:10:38,200
Speaker 1: of anything I maybe did wrong, but truthfully, I can't

1503
01:10:38,240 --> 01:10:41,439
Speaker 1: think of a thing. In bold, she says, this whole sentence,

1504
01:10:41,520 --> 01:10:43,960
Speaker 1: this whole question. Do you think he needs time to

1505
01:10:44,080 --> 01:10:46,240
Speaker 1: cool off or should I just consider this a breakup?

1506
01:10:46,320 --> 01:10:49,080
Speaker 1: And clear and clear sign that he's done with me.

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01:10:49,600 --> 01:11:01,559
Speaker 1: Thank you, ladies, love heartbroken. Well, I'll say this because

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01:11:01,760 --> 01:11:05,000
Speaker 1: I feel like a lot of times I can't speak

1509
01:11:05,000 --> 01:11:07,839
Speaker 1: for all. When I can speak for myself, we ignore

1510
01:11:08,000 --> 01:11:11,040
Speaker 1: the signs. I just speak louder than words. I don't

1511
01:11:11,080 --> 01:11:12,680
Speaker 1: care what your mouth is saying. I don't care if

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01:11:12,720 --> 01:11:14,200
Speaker 1: you say you want to marry me, to do it.

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01:11:14,520 --> 01:11:16,400
Speaker 1: I don't care. If you say you want to be

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01:11:16,479 --> 01:11:18,599
Speaker 1: in a relationship and be with me forever, then show

1515
01:11:18,680 --> 01:11:21,160
Speaker 1: me your actions are saying everything. So if you're being

1516
01:11:21,280 --> 01:11:24,280
Speaker 1: staying offish, and if you have something going on, it's

1517
01:11:24,360 --> 01:11:26,439
Speaker 1: very easy to say, hey, babe, I have this and

1518
01:11:26,560 --> 01:11:29,320
Speaker 1: such going on, so just give me a few days

1519
01:11:29,560 --> 01:11:31,360
Speaker 1: so I can figure this out. It's very easy to

1520
01:11:31,360 --> 01:11:33,479
Speaker 1: say that he's not saying that, and he blocks you

1521
01:11:34,160 --> 01:11:36,960
Speaker 1: just move on. And I also look, I always just

1522
01:11:37,040 --> 01:11:39,000
Speaker 1: want to point out because I've noticed as I get

1523
01:11:39,040 --> 01:11:42,439
Speaker 1: older and more established in like when people lead with

1524
01:11:43,320 --> 01:11:45,599
Speaker 1: he's taking care of me, and he's paying for things.

1525
01:11:45,920 --> 01:11:47,200
Speaker 1: You're trying to make any I don't.

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01:11:47,040 --> 01:11:47,599
Speaker 3: Make it okay.

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01:11:48,280 --> 01:11:51,479
Speaker 1: But that's also not in the action of like he cares.

1528
01:11:51,840 --> 01:11:53,920
Speaker 1: Some money, has money and the means to do that

1529
01:11:54,000 --> 01:11:57,360
Speaker 1: you have to remember that's not anything for life. Yeah,

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01:11:57,439 --> 01:12:00,880
Speaker 1: and I think that women get so assumed, well, he's

1531
01:12:00,880 --> 01:12:04,200
Speaker 1: spending money on me. Unfortunately, it doesn't mean anything, right,

1532
01:12:04,640 --> 01:12:06,400
Speaker 1: it's a rap. You gotta let it go.

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01:12:06,680 --> 01:12:09,120
Speaker 3: You gotta let it go. I don't want to be

1534
01:12:09,280 --> 01:12:11,960
Speaker 3: with somebody who would block me instead of having the

1535
01:12:12,040 --> 01:12:14,479
Speaker 3: common decency to have a conversation with me and tell

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01:12:14,520 --> 01:12:17,000
Speaker 3: me that they're no longer interested in pursuing a relationship

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01:12:17,040 --> 01:12:19,160
Speaker 3: with me. They're no longer interested in being with me.

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01:12:19,479 --> 01:12:21,760
Speaker 3: You just block me on social media, you block me

1539
01:12:21,840 --> 01:12:23,960
Speaker 3: from your phone, and I can't even get in contact

1540
01:12:24,040 --> 01:12:27,000
Speaker 3: with you. To me, that is a clear sign that

1541
01:12:30,080 --> 01:12:32,000
Speaker 3: not even a person if I could work it out

1542
01:12:32,040 --> 01:12:34,200
Speaker 3: with you, I don't want to work something out with

1543
01:12:34,280 --> 01:12:35,600
Speaker 3: somebody who would treat me like this.

1544
01:12:36,400 --> 01:12:38,280
Speaker 7: And I even look at it like niggas that i've

1545
01:12:38,320 --> 01:12:38,920
Speaker 7: blocked before.

1546
01:12:40,120 --> 01:12:40,400
Speaker 1: It back.

1547
01:12:43,600 --> 01:12:45,280
Speaker 8: Now I'm just gonna use you and see what else

1548
01:12:45,320 --> 01:12:46,519
Speaker 8: I can squeeze about it.

1549
01:12:46,600 --> 01:12:48,560
Speaker 5: You before, you're just crying every because.

1550
01:12:48,280 --> 01:12:52,479
Speaker 1: I'm not into But it's just like why see how

1551
01:12:52,520 --> 01:12:53,719
Speaker 1: far are you gonna go to contact?

1552
01:12:53,960 --> 01:12:54,040
Speaker 8: Now?

1553
01:12:56,479 --> 01:12:56,679
Speaker 1: Yeah?

1554
01:12:56,720 --> 01:12:57,760
Speaker 2: You want an email.

1555
01:13:00,200 --> 01:13:00,479
Speaker 1: Everything?

1556
01:13:00,520 --> 01:13:05,400
Speaker 3: And he contacted me on one sipe I said, yeah,

1557
01:13:06,520 --> 01:13:08,200
Speaker 3: block you if I take it that far, because I

1558
01:13:08,240 --> 01:13:10,840
Speaker 3: don't block people. So if I take it not people

1559
01:13:10,880 --> 01:13:12,000
Speaker 3: that I people that I know.

1560
01:13:12,720 --> 01:13:19,519
Speaker 1: I was about to say, oh, all day people on

1561
01:13:19,600 --> 01:13:20,439
Speaker 1: your phone before.

1562
01:13:21,360 --> 01:13:23,519
Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean I have in the past, but like

1563
01:13:23,560 --> 01:13:26,519
Speaker 3: I'm talking about now the past four years of my life,

1564
01:13:26,560 --> 01:13:29,639
Speaker 3: I don't block people, if anything, But you don't see

1565
01:13:29,680 --> 01:13:34,960
Speaker 3: what the bug going on. Niggas whoever, ex friends, ex boyfriends,

1566
01:13:40,080 --> 01:13:42,360
Speaker 3: people going on. I'm not going to block you like

1567
01:13:42,439 --> 01:13:44,880
Speaker 3: they just take too much energy. So I don't want

1568
01:13:44,960 --> 01:13:47,240
Speaker 3: nobody around you or be dealing with somebody that will

1569
01:13:47,280 --> 01:13:48,879
Speaker 3: block me instead of having a conversation.

1570
01:13:50,920 --> 01:13:51,280
Speaker 1: Serious.

1571
01:13:52,600 --> 01:13:54,439
Speaker 7: I had to block people on trips because you calling

1572
01:13:54,520 --> 01:13:54,880
Speaker 7: too much.

1573
01:13:55,160 --> 01:13:59,560
Speaker 8: Yeah, that is the first thing that I thought. That

1574
01:13:59,680 --> 01:14:01,679
Speaker 8: he was on a trip with somebody. You was getting

1575
01:14:01,720 --> 01:14:04,200
Speaker 8: on his nerves. He invited somebody else out. He has

1576
01:14:04,320 --> 01:14:07,000
Speaker 8: blocked you so that you're not ruining his vacation while

1577
01:14:07,040 --> 01:14:08,320
Speaker 8: he's relaxing with whoever.

1578
01:14:08,640 --> 01:14:08,920
Speaker 5: You think.

1579
01:14:09,880 --> 01:14:13,439
Speaker 8: He probably blocked you on social media, but then just

1580
01:14:13,840 --> 01:14:15,840
Speaker 8: unblocked you so that you're not phoning him.

1581
01:14:15,800 --> 01:14:18,920
Speaker 5: Hoping that you don't notice that's a bad move. He

1582
01:14:19,080 --> 01:14:20,800
Speaker 5: just wants to do what he's doing without you.

1583
01:14:20,880 --> 01:14:26,000
Speaker 1: Bothering his He wants to cheat in peace, he wants

1584
01:14:26,040 --> 01:14:26,880
Speaker 1: to move on in piece.

1585
01:14:27,000 --> 01:14:29,000
Speaker 5: You was working his nerves. You don't do anything, and

1586
01:14:29,120 --> 01:14:31,800
Speaker 5: you ain't ain't too much of a fe it was.

1587
01:14:32,400 --> 01:14:35,160
Speaker 1: I'm sorry it wasn't even that because I hate we

1588
01:14:35,280 --> 01:14:37,120
Speaker 1: can't say that she was getting on his nerves, or

1589
01:14:37,280 --> 01:14:40,639
Speaker 1: because I don't want her to blame herself. Sometimes yourself,

1590
01:14:40,720 --> 01:14:44,240
Speaker 1: because that's what we do, we'll be like I'm not

1591
01:14:44,360 --> 01:14:44,960
Speaker 1: a good woman.

1592
01:14:45,120 --> 01:14:48,000
Speaker 8: We know, but by me saying that, like sometimes, have

1593
01:14:48,160 --> 01:14:50,360
Speaker 8: y'all ever felt like this person didn't even do anything

1594
01:14:50,439 --> 01:14:53,479
Speaker 8: but now their presence annoys me? Yeah, okay, I think

1595
01:14:53,560 --> 01:14:55,400
Speaker 8: that's what it is. Not that you did anything. He

1596
01:14:55,600 --> 01:14:58,360
Speaker 8: just decided one day this isn't what I want. And

1597
01:14:58,479 --> 01:15:00,960
Speaker 8: he didn't have the word or he didn't choose to

1598
01:15:01,120 --> 01:15:03,040
Speaker 8: use the words to articulate that to you.

1599
01:15:04,920 --> 01:15:07,760
Speaker 3: What were you wanted to push you away? Yeah, when

1600
01:15:07,760 --> 01:15:10,960
Speaker 3: we're about to say, dry a nigga, blocking you is pussy.

1601
01:15:11,040 --> 01:15:15,040
Speaker 3: It's giving you a pussy, Yes, nigga, I don't like that. Well,

1602
01:15:16,520 --> 01:15:20,640
Speaker 3: that's all I had to say, because it's to me,

1603
01:15:20,840 --> 01:15:23,599
Speaker 3: it's never no reason why a grown ass man should

1604
01:15:23,600 --> 01:15:26,160
Speaker 3: block you instead of like just having a conversation with you,

1605
01:15:26,200 --> 01:15:28,120
Speaker 3: because they don't even have to be a conversation for real,

1606
01:15:28,400 --> 01:15:29,600
Speaker 3: just be like, I don't want to date you no

1607
01:15:29,680 --> 01:15:30,799
Speaker 3: more what I'm doing.

1608
01:15:32,760 --> 01:15:37,200
Speaker 1: Unless somebody is harassing you. Block is necessary, but other

1609
01:15:37,240 --> 01:15:40,720
Speaker 1: than that, like y'all be so dramatic and it's just mean.

1610
01:15:41,000 --> 01:15:43,040
Speaker 3: Like I actually had one of my friends called me

1611
01:15:43,160 --> 01:15:45,439
Speaker 3: recently and was telling me how this nigga that she

1612
01:15:45,560 --> 01:15:48,120
Speaker 3: was fucking with blocked her and he didn't say nothing

1613
01:15:48,200 --> 01:15:50,120
Speaker 3: to her. And I'm just like, well, what type of

1614
01:15:50,160 --> 01:15:53,639
Speaker 3: shit is they? And she was with the nigga someone who.

1615
01:15:53,680 --> 01:15:57,640
Speaker 1: Just relationship and I have been witnessing the women.

1616
01:15:59,680 --> 01:16:00,880
Speaker 5: Builder over there.

1617
01:16:01,040 --> 01:16:03,080
Speaker 1: There were certain girls that kept calling him right and

1618
01:16:03,160 --> 01:16:04,720
Speaker 1: he's in a new relationship. I would say, when you're

1619
01:16:04,720 --> 01:16:06,120
Speaker 1: in a new relationship, you got to give people at

1620
01:16:06,200 --> 01:16:10,400
Speaker 1: least three months. And he was like, well, I'm just

1621
01:16:10,439 --> 01:16:12,640
Speaker 1: gonna ignore it. And I was like, don't ignore her.

1622
01:16:12,840 --> 01:16:15,200
Speaker 1: I've been that girl before. You're wondering what's going on

1623
01:16:16,120 --> 01:16:19,120
Speaker 1: the phone, Tell her you're in a relationship now, and

1624
01:16:19,479 --> 01:16:22,680
Speaker 1: just see that. A lot of times want to like

1625
01:16:23,200 --> 01:16:27,920
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying, Well, I like a little

1626
01:16:28,040 --> 01:16:29,439
Speaker 1: justin case though, I like to keep it on.

1627
01:16:29,600 --> 01:16:30,640
Speaker 5: You better have a little just.

1628
01:16:35,920 --> 01:16:36,120
Speaker 4: Okay.

1629
01:16:36,240 --> 01:16:39,320
Speaker 8: Question number two Heylex Andrea. I love listening to Poor

1630
01:16:39,400 --> 01:16:41,439
Speaker 8: Minds and I can't wait for these new tour dates.

1631
01:16:41,880 --> 01:16:44,280
Speaker 8: I really need help. I've been with this guy since

1632
01:16:44,320 --> 01:16:47,559
Speaker 8: I was a senior in high school. You listen to cotails,

1633
01:16:47,560 --> 01:16:49,760
Speaker 8: you know I'm about to say, because girl, no, So

1634
01:16:50,000 --> 01:16:53,479
Speaker 8: it's been five years at this point, goddamn, you commit it.

1635
01:16:53,920 --> 01:16:56,519
Speaker 8: I'm really tired of the relationship. I've tried to break

1636
01:16:56,600 --> 01:17:00,519
Speaker 8: up with him so many times, but he refuses. We

1637
01:17:00,840 --> 01:17:03,679
Speaker 8: argue all the time. In being honest, the sex isn't

1638
01:17:03,680 --> 01:17:07,519
Speaker 8: good anymore. We live to I knew that we live together,

1639
01:17:07,680 --> 01:17:10,360
Speaker 8: so this makes it even harder being honest with y'all.

1640
01:17:10,400 --> 01:17:13,760
Speaker 8: I've cheated maybe three or four times. Sometimes I feel bad,

1641
01:17:14,000 --> 01:17:15,560
Speaker 8: but other times I don't.

1642
01:17:15,360 --> 01:17:17,080
Speaker 5: Because he literally won't let me go.

1643
01:17:17,400 --> 01:17:19,080
Speaker 8: I feel like it's time for me to live on

1644
01:17:19,160 --> 01:17:22,479
Speaker 8: my own, be free, and explore my options. At this point,

1645
01:17:22,560 --> 01:17:24,479
Speaker 8: I just want him. I just want to tell me

1646
01:17:24,560 --> 01:17:26,519
Speaker 8: I've cheated so he can leave me alone. Can y'all

1647
01:17:26,520 --> 01:17:27,559
Speaker 8: please tell me how.

1648
01:17:27,439 --> 01:17:28,560
Speaker 5: To get out of this relationship.

1649
01:17:28,800 --> 01:17:33,880
Speaker 1: Girl, You need to move Yeah, yeah, you need to

1650
01:17:34,920 --> 01:17:42,680
Speaker 1: get your bread get some head. Yeah, because you but

1651
01:17:42,840 --> 01:17:47,000
Speaker 1: I feel like too with that situation. Let me play

1652
01:17:47,040 --> 01:17:48,960
Speaker 1: devil's advocate. He probably wants you that so we can

1653
01:17:49,000 --> 01:17:49,960
Speaker 1: split them damn bills.

1654
01:17:50,200 --> 01:17:51,840
Speaker 2: Yes, a lot of people you're still young.

1655
01:17:52,880 --> 01:17:53,240
Speaker 1: Help you.

1656
01:17:53,720 --> 01:17:54,040
Speaker 2: Girls.

1657
01:17:55,040 --> 01:17:57,000
Speaker 8: You've been together since you're so y'all are twenty two

1658
01:17:57,040 --> 01:17:58,120
Speaker 8: to twenty three at this point.

1659
01:17:58,160 --> 01:18:02,439
Speaker 1: Yeah, is done it. It's okay. You have got to

1660
01:18:02,640 --> 01:18:04,880
Speaker 1: not try to stay with somebody because you feel bad

1661
01:18:04,920 --> 01:18:07,439
Speaker 1: for them, right and if you go first, because let

1662
01:18:07,479 --> 01:18:09,280
Speaker 1: me tell you something, when he get on his feet.

1663
01:18:10,560 --> 01:18:10,800
Speaker 2: And you.

1664
01:18:12,600 --> 01:18:15,760
Speaker 3: Cheated, and essentially to just because you're so young, like

1665
01:18:15,840 --> 01:18:17,840
Speaker 3: when people write us and they be like, oh, I'm

1666
01:18:17,880 --> 01:18:20,519
Speaker 3: twenty two, I'm twenty three, Like you have so much

1667
01:18:20,600 --> 01:18:23,439
Speaker 3: more life to live. If this ship don't work out,

1668
01:18:23,560 --> 01:18:25,320
Speaker 3: it is not the end all be all. You won't

1669
01:18:25,360 --> 01:18:28,840
Speaker 3: find another nigga, you won't love again, but don't make

1670
01:18:28,920 --> 01:18:31,160
Speaker 3: but don't stay somewhere where you're unhappy.

1671
01:18:30,800 --> 01:18:33,600
Speaker 8: Because you and you feel like he won't let you

1672
01:18:33,800 --> 01:18:35,719
Speaker 8: break up because a nigga you ain't.

1673
01:18:35,520 --> 01:18:37,200
Speaker 1: Gotta let me, I'm gone.

1674
01:18:39,080 --> 01:18:39,519
Speaker 2: Do something.

1675
01:18:39,600 --> 01:18:40,640
Speaker 3: And with the way that.

1676
01:18:40,720 --> 01:18:44,440
Speaker 8: He's acting like you try to break up, girl, there's

1677
01:18:44,520 --> 01:18:48,240
Speaker 8: nothing you can do but leeve there's no thing that

1678
01:18:48,360 --> 01:18:48,880
Speaker 8: you can say.

1679
01:18:48,920 --> 01:18:51,040
Speaker 5: You're telling him you cheated. He's gonna be like, well,

1680
01:18:51,080 --> 01:18:51,960
Speaker 5: maybe let's work through this.

1681
01:18:52,400 --> 01:18:53,200
Speaker 3: I think you need.

1682
01:18:55,080 --> 01:18:57,360
Speaker 1: You stay because you like it. You say I tried

1683
01:18:57,439 --> 01:19:00,960
Speaker 1: to break up. You are trying to let that you

1684
01:19:01,479 --> 01:19:03,960
Speaker 1: are in a situation where you need to split the bills,

1685
01:19:04,000 --> 01:19:05,479
Speaker 1: that you don't have anywhere to go, and also you

1686
01:19:05,520 --> 01:19:07,639
Speaker 1: got to play it in that favor too, but also

1687
01:19:07,920 --> 01:19:09,799
Speaker 1: to start planning your escape.

1688
01:19:11,360 --> 01:19:12,640
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's what it is.

1689
01:19:13,720 --> 01:19:14,880
Speaker 1: You trying to break up.

1690
01:19:15,160 --> 01:19:16,080
Speaker 9: We breaking up.

1691
01:19:18,000 --> 01:19:20,639
Speaker 1: Says trying to break up unless both parties are still

1692
01:19:20,720 --> 01:19:24,880
Speaker 1: kind of like hold up each other for the financial reasons.

1693
01:19:24,920 --> 01:19:27,360
Speaker 1: And if that's the case, I say, have an adult

1694
01:19:27,439 --> 01:19:30,760
Speaker 1: conversation and say, look, we both need this place right

1695
01:19:31,439 --> 01:19:33,960
Speaker 1: and indeed we're going to have a job, and let

1696
01:19:34,120 --> 01:19:36,120
Speaker 1: this be a lesson. Larn I tell bitches this all

1697
01:19:36,120 --> 01:19:37,760
Speaker 1: the time. Stop moving in with niggas. I don't even

1698
01:19:37,760 --> 01:19:39,719
Speaker 1: think I want to live with my husband. Stop moving

1699
01:19:39,880 --> 01:19:41,559
Speaker 1: in with these you.

1700
01:19:44,960 --> 01:19:45,920
Speaker 11: Get on my nerves.

1701
01:19:47,000 --> 01:19:48,600
Speaker 1: You need to be in a space big enough, like

1702
01:19:48,720 --> 01:19:49,559
Speaker 1: a guest house.

1703
01:19:49,760 --> 01:19:50,559
Speaker 2: The room needs to be.

1704
01:19:52,560 --> 01:19:55,160
Speaker 1: Because you need help with bills. Right, that's a recipe.

1705
01:19:55,479 --> 01:19:58,439
Speaker 3: Is I'm an advocate for only moving in with somebody

1706
01:19:58,520 --> 01:19:59,559
Speaker 3: once you really know them.

1707
01:19:59,600 --> 01:19:59,920
Speaker 9: I do it.

1708
01:20:00,000 --> 01:20:00,320
Speaker 1: Agree with.

1709
01:20:02,280 --> 01:20:04,240
Speaker 3: A relationship living with each other.

1710
01:20:04,439 --> 01:20:06,400
Speaker 1: We want to live at this's no home. We're doing

1711
01:20:06,479 --> 01:20:08,760
Speaker 1: this because it's gonna help one of us. Right, we're

1712
01:20:08,840 --> 01:20:09,439
Speaker 1: not doing that.

1713
01:20:09,720 --> 01:20:11,040
Speaker 5: I'm not doing this, no.

1714
01:20:13,120 --> 01:20:13,160
Speaker 2: B.

1715
01:20:13,760 --> 01:20:16,080
Speaker 1: So if you want your question answered, the show makes

1716
01:20:16,120 --> 01:20:19,240
Speaker 1: you email us at ask poor Minds at gmail dot com. Now,

1717
01:20:19,360 --> 01:20:21,679
Speaker 1: y'all know, like I said, we started a news segment.

1718
01:20:21,880 --> 01:20:24,120
Speaker 1: I don't know what we're gonna name it, so y'all

1719
01:20:24,120 --> 01:20:26,479
Speaker 1: gotta give us some suggestions in the comments. Yeah for

1720
01:20:26,560 --> 01:20:30,519
Speaker 1: the voicemail, nothing has crossed my eye quite yet, but

1721
01:20:31,280 --> 01:20:35,000
Speaker 1: we got our first voicemail and we're gonna play it

1722
01:20:35,080 --> 01:20:36,000
Speaker 1: for y'all today.

1723
01:20:36,600 --> 01:20:39,880
Speaker 3: Yes here so because they sending me.

1724
01:20:46,880 --> 01:20:56,160
Speaker 9: Okay, so I have hey, I want to say, Okay,

1725
01:20:57,840 --> 01:21:03,960
Speaker 9: give you don't and what to name that? That was

1726
01:21:04,000 --> 01:21:04,680
Speaker 9: a purdet So.

1727
01:21:05,040 --> 01:21:11,800
Speaker 10: Okay, if y'all go back before, he'll come back to you.

1728
01:21:12,160 --> 01:21:15,479
Speaker 10: Because I'm a person like today and I want that.

1729
01:21:16,680 --> 01:21:19,120
Speaker 10: I don't know what ord or.

1730
01:21:19,600 --> 01:21:21,479
Speaker 9: If I know, but it will be that.

1731
01:21:21,680 --> 01:21:23,960
Speaker 2: And y'all, will you think they.

1732
01:21:26,280 --> 01:21:28,200
Speaker 9: And I have another cousin that would love to go

1733
01:21:28,360 --> 01:21:29,439
Speaker 9: with me thou flee.

1734
01:21:30,400 --> 01:21:33,680
Speaker 1: They be like, I know that, but.

1735
01:21:37,360 --> 01:21:37,960
Speaker 5: What does that mean?

1736
01:21:38,560 --> 01:21:41,400
Speaker 1: Go back? Oh?

1737
01:21:41,479 --> 01:21:42,080
Speaker 3: What shout out to?

1738
01:21:42,200 --> 01:21:44,360
Speaker 2: Pair said, first of all, we d going.

1739
01:21:44,320 --> 01:21:48,160
Speaker 1: Back, Yes, for sure, we have to. Like that's home, okay,

1740
01:21:48,240 --> 01:21:49,880
Speaker 1: So let us know what y'all think about poor male.

1741
01:21:49,960 --> 01:21:51,400
Speaker 1: What's what y'all think about poor male?

1742
01:21:52,360 --> 01:21:52,960
Speaker 9: Was that for male?

1743
01:21:53,120 --> 01:21:54,040
Speaker 3: Yeah, that's what she said.

1744
01:21:54,080 --> 01:21:57,160
Speaker 1: The suggestion was to call the segment is a voicemail

1745
01:21:57,280 --> 01:21:57,760
Speaker 1: poor man.

1746
01:21:58,120 --> 01:21:58,479
Speaker 2: Poor man.

1747
01:21:58,560 --> 01:21:59,920
Speaker 3: We're trying to think of a name for the face

1748
01:22:00,080 --> 01:22:04,040
Speaker 3: because we don't know what you want to call it. Come.

1749
01:22:04,800 --> 01:22:06,479
Speaker 1: We definitely going back to and I feel like the

1750
01:22:06,560 --> 01:22:08,720
Speaker 1: next tour we're either going to close it out with

1751
01:22:08,840 --> 01:22:13,960
Speaker 1: Houston or Atlanta, like for sure, like like it was

1752
01:22:14,040 --> 01:22:18,439
Speaker 1: a good time. So let us know what y'all working on.

1753
01:22:18,560 --> 01:22:20,760
Speaker 1: What y'all got coming up where they can find y'all

1754
01:22:20,920 --> 01:22:22,000
Speaker 1: all that good stuff.

1755
01:22:22,600 --> 01:22:24,920
Speaker 5: So we are kicking off a new tour at the

1756
01:22:25,000 --> 01:22:25,799
Speaker 5: end of January.

1757
01:22:26,000 --> 01:22:28,840
Speaker 8: We are going on the Dirty Little Secrets Tour. We're

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Speaker 8: going to so many cities. If you go to our Instagram,

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Speaker 8: it's at Cocktails Podcast, you can check it out there.

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Speaker 5: We also have a card game.

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Speaker 8: It's a discussion card game and it's called I'm Curious

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Speaker 8: to Know, and you can purchase that at I'm Curious

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Speaker 8: too dot com. There's a bunch of different questions that

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Speaker 8: you can ask while you're on a date, girls' night.

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Speaker 3: Game night, whatever, it's a good time, even.

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Speaker 1: Know where it might literally on top of him and

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Speaker 1: I was like, you want to play a game? He

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Speaker 1: was like, little period? Because the period?

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Speaker 2: What are you a.

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Speaker 3: Public?

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Speaker 2: Just trying to mark our territory? Just don't today.

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Speaker 1: You didn't first because we hold is gonna come out,

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Speaker 1: come out.

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Speaker 8: You know what it is.

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Speaker 5: And then also you guys, I have a cookbook.

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Speaker 8: I would love for you to purchase it so I

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Speaker 8: can stop seeing struggle plates around the holidays and when you're.

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Speaker 1: Cooking for Bay.

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Speaker 5: It's Classy based. It's k l A S S Y

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Speaker 5: b A S t E.

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Speaker 8: And you can purchase it at classy based dot com

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Speaker 8: and also join my book club.

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Speaker 1: Because if you stand in the mac and cheese, we

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Speaker 1: didn't talk about that from the green great night, Yo,

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Speaker 1: this is what really and it wasn't good, but macaran cheese.

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Speaker 1: I know how to make collar grads, and I know

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Speaker 1: how to make dressing.

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Speaker 2: Okay, so you're gonna have to give you.

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Speaker 1: Yes, I'll do it.

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Speaker 3: You know, we don't have to do a new test story.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I'll use the classificed recipe just to make sure

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Speaker 1: I'm good. But also, if you guys want to travel,

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Speaker 1: I host a travel retreat. Go to Paradise and vibe

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Speaker 1: dot com. We are going to South Africa. By the

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Speaker 1: time this comes out, we're already leaving and it's sold out,

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Speaker 1: thank god. But next year we're going to Bali and

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Speaker 1: we're going to Tuloom. So if you want to book

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Speaker 1: a trip, your friends are broke, they can't come with you.

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Speaker 1: You're right together. And then no one bought their tickets,

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Speaker 1: no one booked hotels. You can come by yourself. Still

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Speaker 1: have a great time. Bring your babe, bring your friends.

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Speaker 1: If it's your birthday, come turn up with me and

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Speaker 1: a couple of different yoga wellness influencers. Go to Paris

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Speaker 1: and Vibe dot com. I would love to meet and

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Speaker 1: greet and have a good time.

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Speaker 11: Turn up period and shout out to cocktails.

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Speaker 2: Thank y'all so much.

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Speaker 1: The fart guess what the new said, but uh, we

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Speaker 1: talk soft or it's off a little bit of carry

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Speaker 1: out period. Don't want a love for.

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Speaker 3: There is just one thing I need.

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Speaker 1: I don't care about the presence London, the Christmas treet.

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Speaker 1: I just want you for mouth more than you could

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Speaker 1: ever know.

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Speaker 2: Make Mowish come true.

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Speaker 1: Christmas wheels. Okay, I don't want Christmas.

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Speaker 9: There is.

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Speaker 1: Me and I don't care about the presence. Tell me

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Speaker 1: the Christmas treets.

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Speaker 2: I don't me to hate my shows there by?

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Speaker 1: Okay, who made me happy with the toy on Christmas sake?

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Speaker 1: You want to phone? You can go through.

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Speaker 2: Christmas you you I lost was a follow for minute she's.

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Speaker 5: I don't think

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Speaker 1: We'll see y'all next week, all right, I mean