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Speaker 1: Scrubbing In with Becca Tilly and Tanya rad and iHeartRadio

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Speaker 1: and two time People's Choice Award winning podcast.

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Speaker 2: Hello everybody, we are scrubbing in that we are.

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Speaker 3: Happy Monday.

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Speaker 2: Happy Monday. How you doing.

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Speaker 3: I'm doing all right? How you doing? I'm okay, okay, Yeah,

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Speaker 3: just beca came back from New York or went to

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Speaker 3: New York this weekend.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I went Friday and got out before the storm

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Speaker 2: on Sunday.

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Speaker 4: What kind of temperatures were you dealing with?

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Speaker 2: Very cold ones that I have no interest in to

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Speaker 2: ever feel again?

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Speaker 4: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: Actually you know what it was. I so I was

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Speaker 2: told on Thursday officially that I was going to New York,

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Speaker 2: so I like booked the flight and everything. I looked

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Speaker 2: at the weather app and it said twelve degrees on

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Speaker 2: Saturday or seventeen and then low of eight, and I

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Speaker 2: was like.

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Speaker 3: Feels like and negative? Someone who cares what it feels like?

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Speaker 3: I saw one important.

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Speaker 2: No, eight was enough for me. So I'm like looking

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Speaker 2: at my closet I had. I was going to a

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Speaker 2: work event, and I was like, well, I'll be inside.

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Speaker 2: So I packed just kind of I wanted to take

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Speaker 2: a carry on, which I never do I'm the worst

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Speaker 2: packer in the world, but I was sensible. I was like,

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Speaker 2: I'm gonna pack, I'm gonna wear my jacket on the

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Speaker 2: plane and I'll just pack my outfits and then something

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Speaker 2: to travel home. And well, I was not prepared in

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Speaker 2: any slide like it was. It was so cold. I

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Speaker 2: don't even know how you prepare without just layering and

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Speaker 2: layering and layering. So we got through it. And then

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Speaker 2: everyone I told I was leaving on Sunday, they were like, okay,

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Speaker 2: good luck.

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Speaker 3: I thought you were gonna get stuck for sure.

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Speaker 2: So Saturday morning, our flight back got canceled like the

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Speaker 2: day the twenty four hours before it already was canceled,

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Speaker 2: and I was like, oh, no, we're here. We're definitely

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Speaker 2: here till Monday. So I'm just gonna get settled in

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Speaker 2: this hotel. And then I saw that there were still

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Speaker 2: six am flights and seven am flights available, and I

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Speaker 2: was like, they must think that those flights are going

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Speaker 2: to miss the storm coming in. So I'm frantically trying

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Speaker 2: to book it. It takes me like three tries of

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Speaker 2: it saying like denied, deny, denied, and I get through

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Speaker 2: and I send the girl who is on my management team, Michelle.

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Speaker 2: I send her and she's like, oh my gosh, we

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Speaker 2: got one all day. We go to the event and everything.

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Speaker 2: We get home and we go to check in and

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Speaker 2: we're like, I go. Mine says it doesn't. My itinerary

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Speaker 2: got canceled. She was like me too. So I'm searching

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Speaker 2: everywhere because at this point, I'm realizing I didn't bring

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Speaker 2: enough clothes. I didn't underwear. I had enough underwear because

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Speaker 2: I overpack underwear. I bring like ten pairs. Oh wow, okay, yeah,

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Speaker 2: I'm an aggressive underwear packer. But I thought, how cool

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Speaker 2: if it snows, like getting to see Central Park in

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Speaker 2: the snow. But what shoes am I going to wear?

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Speaker 2: I don't have rain boots or whatever you wear in

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Speaker 3: I feel like I was sending you a lot of

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Speaker 3: tips on how to stay warm, like wrapping your toes

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Speaker 3: and foil and stuff. Yeah I send that to you.

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Speaker 2: No, but no, I didn't.

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Speaker 3: However, heard I said that too.

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Speaker 2: Even if I put my toes in foil, the shoes

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Speaker 2: I had would have beensling. Go on what So anyways,

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Speaker 2: I'm frantically searching. I find one a flight at six

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Speaker 2: and I can't leave Michelle behind, and she goes, you

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Speaker 2: can take it, and I'm like, I'm we're a team,

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Speaker 2: not leaving you. I find one. I look up all

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Speaker 2: the airports nearby. I find one to Santa Anna, which

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Speaker 2: is like an hour away, and they had two at

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Speaker 2: six thirty five. So we get to the airport. I

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Speaker 2: and six thirty five passes and we're not moving, like

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Speaker 2: We're all on the plane and I'm like where I

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Speaker 2: taking off? What's going on? We finally take off. I

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Speaker 3: And was it taking up just a couple of minutes?

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Speaker 2: I think we left like thirty minutes.

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Speaker 3: Oh yeah, that's stressful thirty minutes.

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Speaker 2: It was a stressful thirty minutes. But I got home

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Speaker 2: and I feel really grateful because it looked very, very cold.

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Speaker 2: I was very unprepared.

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Speaker 1: Seventeen thousand flights canceled. Yeah, and that most since the pandemic.

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Speaker 2: And so so luckily someone on Instagram, her name's Kate,

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Speaker 2: she reached out. I don't know if she's a scrubb

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Speaker 2: I go back and forth all the time, and there's

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Speaker 2: always weather stuff. So she was like, I would book

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Speaker 2: a flight, a refundable flight for Monday and Tuesday, just

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Speaker 2: in case, because once they are all everyone's trying to

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Speaker 2: rebook from their canceled flight, it's going to be chaos.

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Speaker 2: So you want to have something just booked. So I

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Speaker 2: booked two extra flights that were I could just get

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Speaker 2: refunded immediately. And that was really great advice.

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Speaker 3: So always get the refundable tickets.

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Speaker 5: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, gathered in my in my yonder years.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, so that's a good time fun, you know, work trips,

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Speaker 2: et cetera.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, busy gal, busy bee. Yeah. I this is so weird,

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Speaker 3: But I I'm not somebody that like spends time in

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Speaker 3: like go in there and like read the paper or whatever.

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Speaker 3: Like I just see bathroom. Yeah, I just go in there,

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Speaker 2: You don't you don't have like a you don't read

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Speaker 3: When I need to go, I go and then I

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Speaker 3: get out. But I was in there a little bit

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Speaker 3: longer than usual the other morning, and I hear these

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Speaker 3: they it sounds like sexual noises, like very sexual noises, Okay,

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Speaker 3: but it's going on for a long time. Like I

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Speaker 5: So I like.

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Speaker 3: Recorded them because I was like, I wanted to send

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Speaker 3: it to Robbie to see like what was what this

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Speaker 3: was invasive? Well, my biggest concern is if I can

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Speaker 2: Definitely?

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Speaker 3: And then should I tell them that I could hear them? Like,

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Speaker 3: wouldn't you want to know? I would want to know.

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Speaker 2: But why then you're you have to be like quiet?

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Speaker 5: No.

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Speaker 3: But I feel like if somebody could hear me, I

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Speaker 3: So then I'm like, do I go to my neighbors

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Speaker 3: one of us bonded because both of our cars got

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Speaker 3: hit when that drunk driver came and like swiped our cars.

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Speaker 3: That's really the only interaction I've had with them, either

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Speaker 3: of them. But so it's not like we're like besties.

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Speaker 3: Were not really like bessies with either of our neighbors. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: but when our cars got hit, we had like some

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Speaker 2: Well, how would you go about that?

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Speaker 3: That's what I don't know. But then I was leaving

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Speaker 3: the house and I saw a U haul in front

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Speaker 3: of their house, like pulling, like like lifting things out

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Speaker 3: of their house. Then I'm like, were they like moving

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Speaker 3: I don't know. Then I'm like, if they're moving, do

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Speaker 3: I really need to say something?

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Speaker 1: You have a recording of it, Yeah, well you want

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Speaker 1: to play it for us and we can give you

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Speaker 1: our opinion. It seems like the scrubbers would want to

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Speaker 1: hear that I cannot.

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Speaker 3: I cannot, I cannot.

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Speaker 4: Okay, Fine, well let's give them the benefit of the doubt.

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Speaker 1: Then we'll call your neighbors Shane and Ilia and will

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Speaker 1: assume that they were just moving furniture.

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Speaker 3: So then I did nothing about it.

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Speaker 2: What are you hey, I heard I heard the grunting yesterday.

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Speaker 3: I would want to know if my neighbors could hear me,

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Speaker 3: I would want to know.

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Speaker 2: I think if their window is open, they don't.

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Speaker 3: Care, or maybe they just needed some fresh air.

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Speaker 2: I'm not opening my window knowing that I'm at a

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Speaker 2: close proximity with other homes, like people could be outside,

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Speaker 2: so I think they if they cared, they would close

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Speaker 2: their window. And if there was men moving stuff around,

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Speaker 2: it could have very well that I can't do it

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Speaker 2: without proof of sound, but I don't. I don't think

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Speaker 2: there's a world where it makes sense for you to

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Speaker 2: go over and tell them, And there's no way Robbie

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Speaker 3: I haven't gone that far with him yet. I just

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Speaker 3: wanted to confirm the noises. I was like, that's as

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Speaker 3: U haul yet.

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Speaker 4: Are they moving, because that's another reason to not bring this.

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Speaker 3: That's the thing. I don't know, but I'm assuming if

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Speaker 3: there's a U haul that and I saw men like

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Speaker 3: moving stuff out of their house, that means they're moving.

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Speaker 4: Well, goodbye. That's the end of it, right.

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Speaker 2: Okay, Like if you want to send them like a

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Speaker 2: card that says, by the way, I heard you, good

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Speaker 2: luck with everything, no sad, like good.

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Speaker 3: Stuff as just like myself, I would want if my

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Speaker 2: I would not really what am I supposed to do

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Speaker 2: with that information?

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Speaker 3: I don't know. Maybe like close your windows or close.

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Speaker 2: Your doors, like it's depending if my waybows open while

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Speaker 2: I'm doing that. I don't don't care who hears it.

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Speaker 3: See, we just keep our windows open all the time.

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Speaker 2: Then people are definitely hearing you.

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Speaker 4: Yes, that's how sound travels.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, when the windows closed, you don't hear anything, and

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Speaker 2: then when the windows open you hear things.

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Speaker 1: Because it's weird because you say you care and you

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Speaker 1: don't want them to hear you. Well, then close your windows.

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Speaker 3: I don't think about it like that. I didn't think

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Speaker 3: about that until I heard my neighbors. I swear I

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Speaker 3: didn't even think.

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Speaker 2: Well, now it's something to think about.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, if you care thinking about it, and I do.

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Speaker 2: Care, then the windows should be shut and locked. Stress

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Speaker 2: maybe with the extra layer on them, maybe consider double pain. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: but I'm glad that you don't have to have. I'm

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Speaker 2: glad that you asked, because I don't think that's a

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Speaker 2: necessary confrontation conversation.

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Speaker 3: It would not have been confrontational. I would have made

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Speaker 3: it like sounded good. I wouldn't have made it saying confrontational.

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Speaker 2: Well, there's confronting some one and telling them like, like

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Speaker 2: that conversation is that you're confronting.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, yah, I mean it's gonna be like.

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Speaker 2: Negatively conversation, no confrontational. It just as you're confronting them.

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Speaker 3: Thinking about having that conversation makes my arms, my hands sweaty.

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Speaker 3: And I just I love Nick Jonas. I love the

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Speaker 2: Did you get to say hello to Nick?

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Speaker 3: I didn't say hello to him, like I right when

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Speaker 2: The hey, yeah yeah, yeah, see yeah, I see ya.

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Speaker 3: I see yeah. Nice yeah.

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Speaker 3: It really was, and like he does it on Sundays

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Speaker 2: So creative, Sunday Best on a Sunday, it's so cute. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: Well, the album has been released for Harry Styles.

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Speaker 2: That's what I was meaning, kiss all the time disco occasionally. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: I'm gonna go with I really like coming Up Roses.

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Speaker 2: Like, are you listening yet? Because it sounds like it

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Speaker 4: Song gott to Be Powerful, got to be a.

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Speaker 1: All of these are basically song titles, like they all

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Speaker 1: But I don't think he's my favorite. I'm just kind

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Speaker 4: Well, I don't is Aperture a banger?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't think it's a party song. I think

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Speaker 4: I think it's a big hit, but I don't think

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Speaker 2: Yeah. It's kind of like a cold Play song where

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Speaker 3: It's far from a cold place.

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Speaker 2: It's not like Satellite. Oh, Satellite is truly one of

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Speaker 3: It's so good.

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Speaker 3: Allegedly it's supposed to kind of be the the a

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Speaker 3: Of like they're always like there and then he's kind

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Speaker 1: So if you haven't seen it, Harry checks into a hotel,

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Speaker 1: He calls room six oh five, rings and rings and rings,

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Speaker 4: Yeah, and then he goes back to his room and

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Speaker 2: Something to be interpreted.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, well it was lost on me the the and

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Speaker 2: You love a fan theory.

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Speaker 3: I love it.

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Speaker 2: You just like if you see something you like, you

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Speaker 2: adopt it.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, it's the lore.

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Speaker 2: Yeah. Yeah, Like I don't know personally, but this is

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Speaker 3: So, you know what somebody asked him that I thought

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Speaker 3: They asked, Harry, who in your life is like he

446
00:20:41,040 --> 00:20:44,240
Speaker 3: cares the least about like who you are, what you do?

447
00:20:44,680 --> 00:20:47,520
Speaker 2: He said his sister, Well yeah that makes sense.

448
00:20:47,760 --> 00:20:49,680
Speaker 3: Yeah, but it was just like cute and he was

449
00:20:49,720 --> 00:20:51,680
Speaker 3: just like she could care less about like the.

450
00:20:53,200 --> 00:20:54,520
Speaker 2: Is she older or younger?

451
00:20:54,880 --> 00:20:55,480
Speaker 3: I don't know.

452
00:20:55,720 --> 00:20:58,920
Speaker 2: Well, if she's the older sister, she's probably like that's

453
00:20:58,960 --> 00:21:05,080
Speaker 2: just my like little thinky little brother. No, I love

454
00:21:05,119 --> 00:21:13,080
Speaker 2: my Julius styles has been brought up multiple times here. Yeah.

455
00:21:13,119 --> 00:21:14,720
Speaker 3: So I like that question.

456
00:21:15,680 --> 00:21:19,199
Speaker 2: It's a good question, it's a it's an understandable answer.

457
00:21:20,520 --> 00:21:24,399
Speaker 3: Yeah, you know, I'm surprised more like his mom or something.

458
00:21:26,359 --> 00:21:27,720
Speaker 3: But you know he'll asked for one.

459
00:21:27,840 --> 00:21:33,400
Speaker 2: Yeah, one picked one. Yeah. So these text messages between

460
00:21:33,560 --> 00:21:36,880
Speaker 2: Blake Lively and Taylor Social released, which man, it's got

461
00:21:36,880 --> 00:21:39,960
Speaker 2: to be so hard to have these like this private

462
00:21:40,040 --> 00:21:46,320
Speaker 2: stuff release, Like it's really just tough, tough, and I'm

463
00:21:46,359 --> 00:21:48,840
Speaker 2: not really. I don't need to like harp on the

464
00:21:49,200 --> 00:21:51,960
Speaker 2: lawsuit or whatever. My conversation that I want to have

465
00:21:52,080 --> 00:21:54,840
Speaker 2: isn't about that. But I found the text exchange should

466
00:21:54,840 --> 00:21:58,480
Speaker 2: be so relatable because I feel like you and I

467
00:21:58,560 --> 00:22:00,280
Speaker 2: have had a conversation.

468
00:22:00,640 --> 00:22:03,200
Speaker 3: A hundred percent. But people are like going in on

469
00:22:03,280 --> 00:22:05,679
Speaker 3: Taylor and like saying how she's a mean girl and

470
00:22:05,720 --> 00:22:08,159
Speaker 3: she's all these things, and granted this is me. I

471
00:22:08,160 --> 00:22:10,479
Speaker 3: didn't read all of them. I read like snippets that

472
00:22:10,560 --> 00:22:12,720
Speaker 3: like Dumois posted, so I'm not sure I'm reading like

473
00:22:13,320 --> 00:22:14,480
Speaker 3: the full exchange.

474
00:22:14,600 --> 00:22:16,879
Speaker 2: Oh, I just saw the one where Blake Lively is

475
00:22:16,920 --> 00:22:19,040
Speaker 2: basically like I don't know if I'm overthinking this, but

476
00:22:19,119 --> 00:22:21,440
Speaker 2: I feel distant, and then Taylor's response to it, so

477
00:22:21,480 --> 00:22:22,639
Speaker 2: I didn't see anything beyond that.

478
00:22:22,880 --> 00:22:25,880
Speaker 3: Oh that's not even about the justin Baldon, I know, but.

479
00:22:25,880 --> 00:22:28,840
Speaker 2: I'm saying, like that's what I saw, And I was like, man,

480
00:22:28,880 --> 00:22:31,960
Speaker 2: that is such a relatable best friend conversation, one that

481
00:22:32,080 --> 00:22:35,119
Speaker 2: I have had, because like Donny will text me and

482
00:22:35,200 --> 00:22:38,480
Speaker 2: be like, are you annoyed with me? Why? Like I

483
00:22:38,480 --> 00:22:40,359
Speaker 2: feel like I did something, and then I'm just like,

484
00:22:40,520 --> 00:22:44,919
Speaker 2: I I don't, I don't know what I've done to

485
00:22:44,960 --> 00:22:47,000
Speaker 2: make you feel that way, but I'm sorry, I don't

486
00:22:47,000 --> 00:22:47,600
Speaker 2: feel nic.

487
00:22:47,680 --> 00:22:50,320
Speaker 3: I'm like, I'll ask you something and then i'll like

488
00:22:50,400 --> 00:22:53,280
Speaker 3: follow up like an hour or two later, and then

489
00:22:53,320 --> 00:22:55,720
Speaker 3: you'll post something on Instagram and like you still haven't

490
00:22:55,760 --> 00:22:57,919
Speaker 3: answered me, and I'm just like, are you ignoring me

491
00:22:57,960 --> 00:22:58,560
Speaker 3: on purpose?

492
00:22:58,920 --> 00:22:59,040
Speaker 2: Like?

493
00:22:59,119 --> 00:22:59,840
Speaker 3: What did I do?

494
00:23:00,600 --> 00:23:04,680
Speaker 2: I just well, I'm really bad about small talk over text,

495
00:23:05,040 --> 00:23:08,399
Speaker 2: like with anyone. Like it is like if it's a

496
00:23:08,480 --> 00:23:09,520
Speaker 2: question that I don't.

497
00:23:09,280 --> 00:23:11,119
Speaker 3: Feel like, it's not even small talk. It's like can

498
00:23:11,119 --> 00:23:14,159
Speaker 3: you do the podcast at eleven thirty? And it's like crickets.

499
00:23:13,720 --> 00:23:15,879
Speaker 2: Yeah, because y'all text me and it'll be like the

500
00:23:16,000 --> 00:23:18,440
Speaker 2: night before and the schedules change, and I have other

501
00:23:18,480 --> 00:23:22,040
Speaker 2: stuff going on aside from thinking about y'all schedule in

502
00:23:22,080 --> 00:23:23,280
Speaker 2: the podcast schedule?

503
00:23:23,520 --> 00:23:24,400
Speaker 3: Do you hear that tone?

504
00:23:28,840 --> 00:23:29,000
Speaker 4: One?

505
00:23:29,119 --> 00:23:31,240
Speaker 2: So I had someone over and I was trying to

506
00:23:31,240 --> 00:23:34,720
Speaker 2: be present and they're like trying to coordinate the schedule

507
00:23:34,760 --> 00:23:38,639
Speaker 2: for a tomorrow thing. I'm like, listen, I am not

508
00:23:38,680 --> 00:23:40,520
Speaker 2: going to be as responsive as I need to be

509
00:23:41,240 --> 00:23:43,560
Speaker 2: on that because I'm trying to be respectful to someone

510
00:23:43,640 --> 00:23:44,600
Speaker 2: i'm in person with.

511
00:23:45,600 --> 00:23:47,920
Speaker 3: But I all too was being respectful because I said,

512
00:23:47,960 --> 00:23:49,919
Speaker 3: if this doesn't work, we can do it on Monday,

513
00:23:50,040 --> 00:23:54,200
Speaker 3: no problem. Literally, whatever works for you. I say, whatever work.

514
00:23:54,320 --> 00:23:56,640
Speaker 2: Whenever I responded in the group chat that you are

515
00:23:56,640 --> 00:24:01,160
Speaker 2: in and I was like tomorrow's fine. What time? No responded, I.

516
00:24:01,080 --> 00:24:03,480
Speaker 3: Said eleven thirty, and then you just were like what time?

517
00:24:03,520 --> 00:24:05,159
Speaker 3: What time? I'm like, is she mad at me?

518
00:24:05,280 --> 00:24:05,399
Speaker 2: Like?

519
00:24:05,480 --> 00:24:06,320
Speaker 3: What is going on?

520
00:24:06,359 --> 00:24:07,400
Speaker 2: I'm not mad at you?

521
00:24:07,400 --> 00:24:07,800
Speaker 3: You were.

522
00:24:08,080 --> 00:24:11,560
Speaker 2: I promise not mad at all. Nothing. I will let

523
00:24:11,640 --> 00:24:13,520
Speaker 2: you know when I'm mad at you, so you can

524
00:24:13,560 --> 00:24:14,240
Speaker 2: rest easy.

525
00:24:14,320 --> 00:24:17,560
Speaker 3: If I have an issue, there's an underlying tone happening

526
00:24:17,600 --> 00:24:18,280
Speaker 3: here with.

527
00:24:18,440 --> 00:24:21,959
Speaker 2: I promise there's no underlying tone. I promise when I

528
00:24:22,000 --> 00:24:24,600
Speaker 2: am at an age where if I have issues with you,

529
00:24:24,720 --> 00:24:28,520
Speaker 2: I will communicate them directly. Oh that's what I was saying.

530
00:24:28,560 --> 00:24:30,959
Speaker 2: So you can rest easy that unless I say something,

531
00:24:31,359 --> 00:24:34,440
Speaker 2: I'm not annoyed with you, okay, And I'm not good.

532
00:24:34,560 --> 00:24:37,199
Speaker 2: I really don't do well with like small talk text,

533
00:24:37,720 --> 00:24:40,679
Speaker 2: but this is everybody like Ali will text me multiple

534
00:24:40,720 --> 00:24:44,400
Speaker 2: times and if I don't respond, she'll just be like goodbye,

535
00:24:44,920 --> 00:24:46,520
Speaker 2: and then I'm like, hey, what's up?

536
00:24:48,400 --> 00:24:50,200
Speaker 4: I'm so with you? If I got a text, so

537
00:24:50,440 --> 00:24:52,640
Speaker 4: have you bead. I'm like, oh my god.

538
00:24:53,080 --> 00:24:56,239
Speaker 3: Okay, but I like my action. I have to do

539
00:24:56,520 --> 00:24:59,840
Speaker 3: matter robot Like, I'm like, hey, like I texted you yes,

540
00:25:00,400 --> 00:25:02,000
Speaker 3: like how are you feeling? Because I know she woke

541
00:25:02,040 --> 00:25:03,760
Speaker 3: up at three am and had a long flight home.

542
00:25:05,000 --> 00:25:07,080
Speaker 2: I was sleeping, so I gave her the whole.

543
00:25:06,880 --> 00:25:09,320
Speaker 3: Day to respond nothing. So then I texted her this morning,

544
00:25:09,520 --> 00:25:12,240
Speaker 3: how are you doing? And I responded, yeah.

545
00:25:12,000 --> 00:25:17,159
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's a lot of follow up. Well, it's like

546
00:25:17,280 --> 00:25:19,280
Speaker 2: I'm gonna I get to see you tomorrow and tell

547
00:25:19,280 --> 00:25:24,520
Speaker 2: you in person how I'm feeling, which is tired but grateful.

548
00:25:24,560 --> 00:25:26,560
Speaker 2: I felt a lot of gratitude being able to get

549
00:25:26,600 --> 00:25:28,600
Speaker 2: on a plane and get home yesterday because a lot

550
00:25:28,600 --> 00:25:30,359
Speaker 2: of people did not have that. Yeah, And you know what,

551
00:25:30,440 --> 00:25:32,480
Speaker 2: I had accepted it because I was like, if we

552
00:25:32,520 --> 00:25:34,679
Speaker 2: don't get out, if I'm stuck in New York, I

553
00:25:34,680 --> 00:25:37,840
Speaker 2: have a safe place, I'm warm. I'm not needing to

554
00:25:37,880 --> 00:25:39,720
Speaker 2: get anywhere. Like I was thinking about all the people

555
00:25:39,800 --> 00:25:42,639
Speaker 2: that were traveling and got canceled, that were had somewhere

556
00:25:42,680 --> 00:25:46,280
Speaker 2: really important to be, Like, there's such serious things going

557
00:25:46,320 --> 00:25:49,240
Speaker 2: on and just in life and people needing to get

558
00:25:49,240 --> 00:25:51,080
Speaker 2: somewhere and people being stuck, and I was like, you

559
00:25:51,119 --> 00:25:53,760
Speaker 2: know what if I get stuck all as well? Yeah,

560
00:25:53,800 --> 00:25:56,120
Speaker 2: I'll have a couple of cozy days in a hotel.

561
00:25:56,640 --> 00:25:57,320
Speaker 2: Everything's fine.

562
00:25:57,400 --> 00:25:59,520
Speaker 3: Well hot chocolate, hot chocolate.

563
00:26:00,640 --> 00:26:04,840
Speaker 2: So yeah, I love you and don't annoy me. I'm

564
00:26:04,840 --> 00:26:07,680
Speaker 2: sorry that my lack of response. I'll try to be better,

565
00:26:07,720 --> 00:26:12,200
Speaker 2: but like, also, just don't take it personally, because everything personally,

566
00:26:12,280 --> 00:26:14,760
Speaker 2: I know, and that's something to work on. Nothing's not.

567
00:26:14,840 --> 00:26:20,119
Speaker 2: Everything's personal. I'm learning if therapy not. Everything's personal, but

568
00:26:20,200 --> 00:26:23,239
Speaker 2: some things are, some things are, but with me and you,

569
00:26:23,359 --> 00:26:24,120
Speaker 2: it's not personal.

570
00:26:26,160 --> 00:26:30,200
Speaker 3: Yeah. We really spiraled from the Taylor Swift conversation.

571
00:26:30,760 --> 00:26:30,920
Speaker 5: Well.

572
00:26:30,920 --> 00:26:34,400
Speaker 2: I just was like, well not really, because I was

573
00:26:35,240 --> 00:26:36,399
Speaker 2: what do you want to talk about?

574
00:26:36,480 --> 00:26:39,520
Speaker 3: Because she was like there was the Justin Baldoni text

575
00:26:39,600 --> 00:26:42,280
Speaker 3: that she was saying, and again I didn't read them all.

576
00:26:42,280 --> 00:26:45,000
Speaker 3: I read the ones of like the tiny violin or whatever.

577
00:26:45,000 --> 00:26:46,359
Speaker 2: Called him a little bit or whatever.

578
00:26:46,480 --> 00:26:48,080
Speaker 3: Yeah, and I was like, I feel like this is

579
00:26:48,200 --> 00:26:50,879
Speaker 3: just like a best friend having a best friend's back,

580
00:26:50,960 --> 00:26:52,760
Speaker 3: you know, like if you're dealing with somebody at work

581
00:26:52,800 --> 00:26:54,720
Speaker 3: that like sucks and is sucking the life out of you,

582
00:26:55,359 --> 00:26:58,520
Speaker 3: I know Becca is gonna come in and like have

583
00:26:58,680 --> 00:26:59,560
Speaker 3: my back, you know.

584
00:27:00,119 --> 00:27:03,240
Speaker 2: Yeah, And that's what I'm saying, these Texter should be private.

585
00:27:03,359 --> 00:27:07,119
Speaker 2: And also what Taylor said to me was like the

586
00:27:07,160 --> 00:27:09,639
Speaker 2: most minuscule thing that she could have said about someone

587
00:27:09,920 --> 00:27:11,960
Speaker 2: that her best friend was complaining to her about. You

588
00:27:12,000 --> 00:27:14,360
Speaker 2: know what I'm saying. Yeah, So I thought it was

589
00:27:14,720 --> 00:27:16,040
Speaker 2: personally blown out of proportion.

590
00:27:16,200 --> 00:27:18,360
Speaker 3: But she's getting so much heat for him.

591
00:27:18,400 --> 00:27:21,640
Speaker 2: She gets heat for everything. One thing about Taylor's gonna

592
00:27:21,680 --> 00:27:22,080
Speaker 2: get heat.

593
00:27:22,560 --> 00:27:25,840
Speaker 3: That's the thing about Taylor. Yeah, you know what, she

594
00:27:25,880 --> 00:27:26,720
Speaker 3: doesn't take it personal.

595
00:27:27,840 --> 00:27:29,639
Speaker 2: She I don't even think she sees it because I

596
00:27:29,640 --> 00:27:33,280
Speaker 2: don't think she's chronically online. Dang, And I hope for

597
00:27:33,320 --> 00:27:38,399
Speaker 2: her sake that is the case. But so I posted

598
00:27:38,440 --> 00:27:41,520
Speaker 2: something about on Instagram that I think about all the

599
00:27:41,600 --> 00:27:44,600
Speaker 2: time and I got such an interesting response from it.

600
00:27:44,720 --> 00:27:46,800
Speaker 2: So I want to talk about that. But we're going

601
00:27:46,840 --> 00:27:47,480
Speaker 2: to take a break.

602
00:28:03,880 --> 00:28:05,560
Speaker 3: We're back, Yes, we are.

603
00:28:07,840 --> 00:28:11,480
Speaker 2: So I was talking about something that I think about.

604
00:28:11,520 --> 00:28:14,560
Speaker 2: I was laying about with Haley, and I was like,

605
00:28:15,680 --> 00:28:19,360
Speaker 2: how often do you think about sharks? Because I think

606
00:28:19,359 --> 00:28:22,240
Speaker 2: about sharks, I would say once a day at the

607
00:28:22,320 --> 00:28:25,560
Speaker 2: very least. I think about them all the time. Whether

608
00:28:25,680 --> 00:28:28,120
Speaker 2: I see videos about them, whether there's been like an

609
00:28:28,119 --> 00:28:30,520
Speaker 2: attack in Australia or something, and I read about it.

610
00:28:30,720 --> 00:28:33,439
Speaker 2: If I'm flying over water, I think about sharks like

611
00:28:33,480 --> 00:28:37,199
Speaker 2: it is a and I think about them just around

612
00:28:37,200 --> 00:28:39,200
Speaker 2: water in general. And if I'm not thinking about sharks,

613
00:28:39,200 --> 00:28:41,479
Speaker 2: something about like bears or mountain lions. I have like

614
00:28:41,520 --> 00:28:47,360
Speaker 2: a strong respect for wildlife, and Haley goes. I literally

615
00:28:47,400 --> 00:28:50,160
Speaker 2: don't think about them unless you bring them up like this.

616
00:28:51,200 --> 00:28:52,960
Speaker 3: So I don't think that. I can't tell you the

617
00:28:53,040 --> 00:28:55,320
Speaker 3: last time I thought about a shark. Wow. Even when

618
00:28:55,320 --> 00:28:56,440
Speaker 3: I'm in water, I don't think.

619
00:28:56,360 --> 00:28:58,080
Speaker 2: About sharks in the ocean.

620
00:28:58,360 --> 00:29:01,560
Speaker 3: In the ocean, I just swim. I think about fish,

621
00:29:02,560 --> 00:29:03,240
Speaker 3: not sharks.

622
00:29:03,400 --> 00:29:04,720
Speaker 2: Wow. What about you?

623
00:29:04,800 --> 00:29:07,360
Speaker 4: And with time you completely I never ever think about sharks.

624
00:29:07,480 --> 00:29:09,560
Speaker 3: Never what about other wildlife?

625
00:29:09,680 --> 00:29:10,760
Speaker 4: Never fish?

626
00:29:10,920 --> 00:29:12,320
Speaker 2: Like when you're hiking, you don't think.

627
00:29:12,160 --> 00:29:16,720
Speaker 4: About I'll think about coyotes, no mountains, But no, I

628
00:29:16,720 --> 00:29:18,520
Speaker 4: don't worry about mountain lions. I don't think about it.

629
00:29:18,720 --> 00:29:19,960
Speaker 2: Oh my gosh, that's crazy.

630
00:29:20,000 --> 00:29:22,640
Speaker 3: Okay, so hikes, you know what, we can sidebar a

631
00:29:22,640 --> 00:29:24,920
Speaker 3: little bit. But like I'm all done with hiking. I

632
00:29:24,920 --> 00:29:29,080
Speaker 3: think what I think I've realized. I don't want to hike.

633
00:29:29,240 --> 00:29:31,480
Speaker 3: I'll go on a walk. I'll walk on nice pavement.

634
00:29:31,960 --> 00:29:34,120
Speaker 3: I don't need to be stomping around in the dirt

635
00:29:34,160 --> 00:29:38,000
Speaker 3: my dog, rolling around and getting all dirty, getting itchy

636
00:29:38,040 --> 00:29:39,080
Speaker 3: around my ankles.

637
00:29:39,600 --> 00:29:44,480
Speaker 2: Where are you going hiking around town in the brush

638
00:29:44,600 --> 00:29:45,800
Speaker 2: like in nature?

639
00:29:45,920 --> 00:29:48,520
Speaker 4: In nature day, every day of my life.

640
00:29:48,560 --> 00:29:49,520
Speaker 3: I'm done with it.

641
00:29:49,320 --> 00:29:51,440
Speaker 2: No hiking. I love hiking.

642
00:29:51,520 --> 00:29:54,040
Speaker 4: It's so much better for you than just straight pavement.

643
00:29:54,280 --> 00:29:55,840
Speaker 3: Done, good cardio done.

644
00:29:55,920 --> 00:29:59,160
Speaker 2: Yeah, I love hiking, but I'm thinking about the wildlife.

645
00:29:59,240 --> 00:29:59,560
Speaker 4: I'm not.

646
00:30:00,240 --> 00:30:03,000
Speaker 2: I think I saw a bobcat on a walk one

647
00:30:03,000 --> 00:30:06,520
Speaker 2: time a hike. Wow, yeah, saw it on the tree.

648
00:30:06,800 --> 00:30:09,720
Speaker 2: Pretty cute, dangerous.

649
00:30:09,360 --> 00:30:11,880
Speaker 1: But not a traumatic experience for you that it would

650
00:30:11,960 --> 00:30:13,240
Speaker 1: be constantly in your mind.

651
00:30:13,400 --> 00:30:15,760
Speaker 2: No, no, no, no no. But I did go home

652
00:30:15,800 --> 00:30:19,280
Speaker 2: and google mountain lions around us. But anyways, so I

653
00:30:19,360 --> 00:30:21,880
Speaker 2: asked the question how often people think about sharks on

654
00:30:21,920 --> 00:30:25,920
Speaker 2: my Instagram? Thinking that majority would be like y'all and Haley.

655
00:30:26,360 --> 00:30:30,000
Speaker 2: I would say fifty percent were Okay, people were like,

656
00:30:30,240 --> 00:30:34,120
Speaker 2: I haven't thought about it till reading this story, but

657
00:30:34,360 --> 00:30:37,840
Speaker 2: fifty percent. Another fifty percent said I think about them

658
00:30:37,880 --> 00:30:40,840
Speaker 2: all the time, Like I think about them so often.

659
00:30:41,320 --> 00:30:43,720
Speaker 2: One girl goes and if I'm not thinking about them,

660
00:30:43,800 --> 00:30:47,440
Speaker 2: I'm thinking about bears or a lot mountain cats. I

661
00:30:47,520 --> 00:30:50,400
Speaker 2: was like, wow, me too, So there's something I don't know.

662
00:30:50,440 --> 00:30:52,800
Speaker 2: If it was being exposed to jaws at a young age,

663
00:30:52,800 --> 00:30:53,840
Speaker 2: I was going to ask.

664
00:30:53,920 --> 00:30:54,760
Speaker 4: I wonder if that was it.

665
00:30:55,040 --> 00:30:57,200
Speaker 3: It might be a therapy situation.

666
00:30:57,080 --> 00:30:59,440
Speaker 2: Which I'll talk to her. I have that two days

667
00:30:59,440 --> 00:31:00,640
Speaker 2: from now, so I'll bring it up.

668
00:31:00,800 --> 00:31:04,040
Speaker 3: Because the thing is, when you think he's here's the

669
00:31:04,040 --> 00:31:07,600
Speaker 3: therapist in me. When you think about sharks, what comes up?

670
00:31:07,640 --> 00:31:13,080
Speaker 3: What feeling? Is it fear? Like you're scared of them?

671
00:31:13,200 --> 00:31:17,920
Speaker 2: Yeah, scared, but like respect for things that are bigger

672
00:31:17,960 --> 00:31:19,160
Speaker 2: and more powerful than me.

673
00:31:20,240 --> 00:31:21,240
Speaker 3: Interesting, huh.

674
00:31:21,320 --> 00:31:23,560
Speaker 4: I mean there is a reason that Shark Week is

675
00:31:23,560 --> 00:31:23,880
Speaker 4: a thing.

676
00:31:24,200 --> 00:31:25,920
Speaker 1: There's clearly a lot of people like you that think

677
00:31:25,960 --> 00:31:27,320
Speaker 1: about them are intrigued by them.

678
00:31:27,320 --> 00:31:28,360
Speaker 4: So that's why they do that.

679
00:31:29,360 --> 00:31:31,640
Speaker 2: Yeah, But my intrigue isn't like I want to go

680
00:31:31,680 --> 00:31:34,480
Speaker 2: swim with them, right, I want to be far from them.

681
00:31:34,600 --> 00:31:35,120
Speaker 2: It's fear.

682
00:31:35,440 --> 00:31:37,360
Speaker 3: I think there's fear respect.

683
00:31:38,000 --> 00:31:40,720
Speaker 2: I don't like to give fear that much power, but

684
00:31:40,800 --> 00:31:43,000
Speaker 2: I do have a respect that when I'm entering the ocean,

685
00:31:43,080 --> 00:31:46,680
Speaker 2: I am in their home and I need to stay

686
00:31:46,800 --> 00:31:52,160
Speaker 2: ankle deep, so we avoid each other. That's how I feel.

687
00:31:52,440 --> 00:31:54,920
Speaker 2: But Haley goes and just floats in the ocean like

688
00:31:55,000 --> 00:31:57,960
Speaker 2: as far as she can get, and it stresses me out.

689
00:31:58,360 --> 00:32:01,400
Speaker 2: We're going to the Bahamas for the podcast at the

690
00:32:01,600 --> 00:32:05,120
Speaker 2: end of February, and I'm already thinking about Haley swimming

691
00:32:05,200 --> 00:32:06,640
Speaker 2: in the ocean and the sharks.

692
00:32:06,920 --> 00:32:09,640
Speaker 3: I can tell you I have swamp swam in that ocean. Yeah,

693
00:32:10,000 --> 00:32:14,600
Speaker 3: swam in that ocean shark free. No, at least where

694
00:32:14,600 --> 00:32:14,959
Speaker 3: I was.

695
00:32:15,120 --> 00:32:17,720
Speaker 2: Yeah, there's no, they're never You're never shark free in

696
00:32:17,800 --> 00:32:20,680
Speaker 2: the ocean. So anyways, it's something people think about. Someone

697
00:32:20,760 --> 00:32:22,560
Speaker 2: was like, sharks are your Roman Empire, and I was like,

698
00:32:23,080 --> 00:32:24,280
Speaker 2: they are my Roman Empire.

699
00:32:24,320 --> 00:32:25,640
Speaker 4: Oh whoa.

700
00:32:26,560 --> 00:32:32,880
Speaker 3: So anyways, there's a show that I am. I'm thoroughly

701
00:32:32,880 --> 00:32:34,600
Speaker 3: obsessed with right now, Traders.

702
00:32:34,760 --> 00:32:37,360
Speaker 2: Yes, okay, you've been obsessed with it for a few

703
00:32:37,520 --> 00:32:38,080
Speaker 2: years now.

704
00:32:39,520 --> 00:32:43,240
Speaker 3: Yeah, I can't get enough of it. Uh huh. I

705
00:32:43,280 --> 00:32:45,320
Speaker 3: wish they gave us more episodes like I hate the

706
00:32:45,320 --> 00:32:45,960
Speaker 3: one by one.

707
00:32:47,040 --> 00:32:50,680
Speaker 2: Yeah. Haley is also a binger like you, and she

708
00:32:50,880 --> 00:32:53,640
Speaker 2: was saying, though it's been she was like, it's nice

709
00:32:53,680 --> 00:32:55,680
Speaker 2: watching it one end a time because it makes me

710
00:32:55,760 --> 00:32:58,959
Speaker 2: really appreciate and like zoning.

711
00:32:59,040 --> 00:33:01,880
Speaker 3: Yeah, I wish they I did two by two. That's

712
00:33:01,880 --> 00:33:03,960
Speaker 3: like my new thing, like give us two a week.

713
00:33:06,360 --> 00:33:08,120
Speaker 3: But and also there's like so much that they show,

714
00:33:08,160 --> 00:33:10,200
Speaker 3: so you know, when the people get kicked off or

715
00:33:10,200 --> 00:33:13,800
Speaker 3: when they get banished, they show them who the traders are,

716
00:33:15,120 --> 00:33:16,800
Speaker 3: Like they show them like the photos of who the

717
00:33:16,800 --> 00:33:18,719
Speaker 3: traders are, and then they have their reactions and they

718
00:33:18,720 --> 00:33:20,800
Speaker 3: post it on their Instagram. I'm like, that's something I

719
00:33:20,800 --> 00:33:23,480
Speaker 3: want to see on the show. Oh yeah, you know,

720
00:33:23,520 --> 00:33:25,200
Speaker 3: I want to see the people finding out who the

721
00:33:25,200 --> 00:33:28,640
Speaker 3: traders are. Like that's gold. Yeah, more so than the

722
00:33:29,080 --> 00:33:36,800
Speaker 3: the whatever they call them. The my gosh they go

723
00:33:36,840 --> 00:33:39,560
Speaker 3: on the missions. Thank you, oh my gosh.

724
00:33:39,920 --> 00:33:44,520
Speaker 2: Okay, what do you think about the season so far?

725
00:33:45,080 --> 00:33:48,920
Speaker 3: I'm obsessed with it, like fully upset. Okay you need

726
00:33:49,000 --> 00:33:52,560
Speaker 3: I know you didn't watch this last episode. But Rob

727
00:33:53,120 --> 00:33:56,680
Speaker 3: spoiler alert is the best trader, Like he's been playing

728
00:33:56,800 --> 00:33:59,560
Speaker 3: such a good game and this last episode he let

729
00:33:59,560 --> 00:34:02,600
Speaker 3: his heart get in the way. M hm, and I

730
00:34:02,600 --> 00:34:03,800
Speaker 3: think he made a big mistake.

731
00:34:04,320 --> 00:34:06,400
Speaker 2: Yeah I heard that, that's what Haley said.

732
00:34:06,600 --> 00:34:09,120
Speaker 3: Yeah, he voted for his own trade.

733
00:34:09,239 --> 00:34:11,360
Speaker 2: I know, and I think once you vote for a trader,

734
00:34:11,360 --> 00:34:14,160
Speaker 2: it all goes. When a trader trader is on a trader.

735
00:34:13,960 --> 00:34:16,760
Speaker 3: Yep, it goes, it goes downhill. And they were doing

736
00:34:16,840 --> 00:34:19,880
Speaker 3: so well, the three of them. I know, he screwed

737
00:34:19,880 --> 00:34:22,240
Speaker 3: it up because he was just listening to his heart.

738
00:34:22,760 --> 00:34:26,719
Speaker 2: You can't listen to your heart. You cannot listen to

739
00:34:26,840 --> 00:34:28,600
Speaker 2: get rid of your heart feelings.

740
00:34:28,760 --> 00:34:31,959
Speaker 3: Yeah, because he was feeling empathy and like sadness for Ron.

741
00:34:33,080 --> 00:34:35,200
Speaker 3: He and then he just backed himself into a corner

742
00:34:35,239 --> 00:34:37,719
Speaker 3: because he's like, Colton's my biggest ally that everybody was

743
00:34:37,719 --> 00:34:41,200
Speaker 3: basically voting for Ron, Colton or Lisa, and he out

744
00:34:41,200 --> 00:34:43,680
Speaker 3: loud was like, I don't believe Ron's a trader. And

745
00:34:43,680 --> 00:34:47,520
Speaker 3: then Colton's like his biggest ally and then obviously nobody

746
00:34:47,600 --> 00:34:50,080
Speaker 3: knows he and Lisa are traders, so you know what

747
00:34:50,120 --> 00:34:52,160
Speaker 3: I mean. So I had to vote for Lisa, and

748
00:34:52,160 --> 00:34:53,400
Speaker 3: I'm like, no, you didn't know.

749
00:34:53,719 --> 00:34:57,120
Speaker 2: Now, Lisa's like, no, trust with you.

750
00:34:57,120 --> 00:34:59,560
Speaker 3: No, you're never going to get that back. No, once

751
00:34:59,560 --> 00:35:02,319
Speaker 3: it's out of toothpaste bottle, you cannot put it back in.

752
00:35:02,800 --> 00:35:03,360
Speaker 2: It's true.

753
00:35:04,080 --> 00:35:05,919
Speaker 3: Yeah, So he's like he should have voted for Ron

754
00:35:06,080 --> 00:35:09,799
Speaker 3: it would have been nothing and he could have gone

755
00:35:09,800 --> 00:35:10,399
Speaker 3: about his day.

756
00:35:11,760 --> 00:35:13,359
Speaker 2: Yeah, so what do you think is gonna happen now?

757
00:35:13,640 --> 00:35:16,120
Speaker 3: So I've heard this next episode that comes out this

758
00:35:16,160 --> 00:35:21,040
Speaker 3: week is like is Trader's in Trader's History. Alan Cummings said,

759
00:35:21,040 --> 00:35:24,880
Speaker 3: it's like one of the best episodes that they've ever had. Wow,

760
00:35:25,040 --> 00:35:25,880
Speaker 3: it's the banquet.

761
00:35:27,320 --> 00:35:27,640
Speaker 2: What's that?

762
00:35:28,120 --> 00:35:30,120
Speaker 3: I don't know. I don't know. I think they have

763
00:35:30,160 --> 00:35:34,400
Speaker 3: to murder and plain sight at a banquet. Wow. But

764
00:35:34,400 --> 00:35:37,320
Speaker 3: they're like not talking to each other, Rob and Lisa,

765
00:35:37,480 --> 00:35:40,280
Speaker 3: So it's gonna be like total mayhem.

766
00:35:40,480 --> 00:35:43,120
Speaker 2: Well they're gonna have to talk to each other. Dun

767
00:35:43,200 --> 00:35:47,080
Speaker 2: dun dum. It's so good. Yeah, it's a good season

768
00:35:47,120 --> 00:35:52,279
Speaker 2: so far. This is a different subject. But when you

769
00:35:52,400 --> 00:35:56,080
Speaker 2: have Okay, is Robbie strict about if the kids you

770
00:35:56,160 --> 00:35:56,840
Speaker 2: swear words?

771
00:35:57,360 --> 00:35:57,560
Speaker 3: No?

772
00:35:58,520 --> 00:36:01,880
Speaker 2: So do they do. They swears here.

773
00:36:01,760 --> 00:36:03,960
Speaker 3: And there, but like they don't like use it in

774
00:36:04,000 --> 00:36:10,040
Speaker 3: their like day to day. They're not like dropping curse words.

775
00:36:10,320 --> 00:36:13,880
Speaker 3: But if matter something, if they say something like, he's

776
00:36:13,920 --> 00:36:15,839
Speaker 3: not like putting them in time out.

777
00:36:15,920 --> 00:36:18,759
Speaker 2: Okay, So when when y'all have a child, will you

778
00:36:18,800 --> 00:36:19,600
Speaker 2: be strict about that?

779
00:36:20,120 --> 00:36:23,480
Speaker 3: I don't know, because the kids are so good. You

780
00:36:23,520 --> 00:36:25,120
Speaker 3: know what I mean that I think it's better. I

781
00:36:25,120 --> 00:36:26,280
Speaker 3: think this approach is better.

782
00:36:26,560 --> 00:36:28,879
Speaker 2: Yeah, Mark, what were your rules about?

783
00:36:29,360 --> 00:36:31,880
Speaker 1: We never really had rules. It was never a punishable offense.

784
00:36:32,400 --> 00:36:35,040
Speaker 1: Eventually they would hear them, I know, elementary to middle school.

785
00:36:35,040 --> 00:36:37,879
Speaker 1: It was a big moment. They learn a lot when

786
00:36:38,120 --> 00:36:40,960
Speaker 1: transition happened, and it's fine. They pop out from time

787
00:36:41,000 --> 00:36:44,200
Speaker 1: to time now and I don't love it personally, but

788
00:36:44,280 --> 00:36:44,719
Speaker 1: it's fine.

789
00:36:44,760 --> 00:36:46,600
Speaker 4: I mean, one's an adult, Like what am I gonna do?

790
00:36:47,000 --> 00:36:47,160
Speaker 5: Well?

791
00:36:47,200 --> 00:36:49,480
Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean I just meant like growing.

792
00:36:49,239 --> 00:36:51,000
Speaker 4: Up there, No, it was never a harsh thing.

793
00:36:51,000 --> 00:36:53,680
Speaker 1: But they also never really abused it either, right, we

794
00:36:53,680 --> 00:36:54,600
Speaker 1: weren't strict about that.

795
00:36:54,680 --> 00:36:54,960
Speaker 5: Well.

796
00:36:55,520 --> 00:36:57,960
Speaker 2: I grew up where I couldn't I couldn't say fart,

797
00:36:58,200 --> 00:37:02,000
Speaker 2: I couldn't say I couldn't say yeah. So I grew

798
00:37:02,080 --> 00:37:09,400
Speaker 2: up very very strict thoughts and like rule parameters around

799
00:37:09,600 --> 00:37:13,040
Speaker 2: curse words. I thought, like literally until second grade, someone

800
00:37:13,080 --> 00:37:15,960
Speaker 2: said something about the F word and I thought they

801
00:37:15,960 --> 00:37:18,440
Speaker 2: were talking about fart because I didn't even know what

802
00:37:18,480 --> 00:37:21,279
Speaker 2: the other F word was. But my parents didn't do

803
00:37:21,360 --> 00:37:23,040
Speaker 2: a curse in front of us, so like, unless I

804
00:37:23,040 --> 00:37:26,600
Speaker 2: heard it outside of that, I didn't know, and still

805
00:37:26,680 --> 00:37:30,440
Speaker 2: I'll say stuff Now, like Haley grew up totally opposite.

806
00:37:30,440 --> 00:37:32,839
Speaker 2: There was no boundaries on like I mean, I'm sure

807
00:37:32,880 --> 00:37:35,160
Speaker 2: her parents won't let her like curse at them, but

808
00:37:36,040 --> 00:37:39,359
Speaker 2: there weren't really any rules around it. And so now

809
00:37:39,400 --> 00:37:42,239
Speaker 2: like when she's been around my parents, I'm like, you

810
00:37:42,360 --> 00:37:44,560
Speaker 2: have to we have to start like a swear drawer

811
00:37:44,560 --> 00:37:50,520
Speaker 2: a week before so that happen. But there's like all

812
00:37:50,560 --> 00:37:53,400
Speaker 2: this this stuff about parents being less uptight about their

813
00:37:53,480 --> 00:37:56,520
Speaker 2: kids using swear words now. So it's always funny because

814
00:37:56,719 --> 00:37:59,160
Speaker 2: I do see people have conversations where they grew up

815
00:37:59,160 --> 00:38:02,080
Speaker 2: like me and like words that like fart and but

816
00:38:02,280 --> 00:38:06,200
Speaker 2: and everything were curse words. But then there's other people

817
00:38:06,239 --> 00:38:08,480
Speaker 2: who had no, you know, limitations on it.

818
00:38:08,520 --> 00:38:10,080
Speaker 3: So yeah, and I feel like when I was a kid,

819
00:38:10,160 --> 00:38:12,000
Speaker 3: I didn't really have limitations on it either.

820
00:38:12,640 --> 00:38:15,120
Speaker 2: Like why do I picture you as a teenager being

821
00:38:15,160 --> 00:38:18,719
Speaker 2: like if you mom, I.

822
00:38:18,600 --> 00:38:20,960
Speaker 3: Don't think I had a big I don't think I

823
00:38:21,000 --> 00:38:24,640
Speaker 3: had a potty mouth until my adult years.

824
00:38:24,880 --> 00:38:29,520
Speaker 2: Yeah, like even if I curse, Like if I curse,

825
00:38:29,560 --> 00:38:32,520
Speaker 2: and it's like I'm really mean it. Haley's like, WHOA

826
00:38:33,080 --> 00:38:35,640
Speaker 2: Like that is? So I'm so hearing you say that,

827
00:38:35,719 --> 00:38:36,360
Speaker 2: I feel.

828
00:38:36,080 --> 00:38:38,520
Speaker 3: Like when you don't use them, when you use them,

829
00:38:38,560 --> 00:38:40,400
Speaker 3: it has more of an impact, which is kind of

830
00:38:40,400 --> 00:38:41,680
Speaker 3: what I'm going for these days.

831
00:38:41,800 --> 00:38:43,520
Speaker 2: Yeah, like if you need to say it and get

832
00:38:43,560 --> 00:38:46,680
Speaker 2: it out, Yeah, this is when yes, yeah, well my

833
00:38:46,800 --> 00:38:50,360
Speaker 2: thing is the association I have at was when I

834
00:38:50,400 --> 00:38:55,000
Speaker 2: hear people just constantly use words like that, it almost

835
00:38:55,360 --> 00:38:57,839
Speaker 2: makes what the point of what they're trying to say

836
00:38:58,000 --> 00:39:03,440
Speaker 2: less impactful to me, unless it's like passionate. And sometimes

837
00:39:03,440 --> 00:39:05,920
Speaker 2: I watch people use like really passion a lot of

838
00:39:05,920 --> 00:39:07,560
Speaker 2: passion with it, and I'm like, yeah, you have to

839
00:39:07,680 --> 00:39:10,480
Speaker 2: use that word for this. But if someone's just having

840
00:39:10,480 --> 00:39:13,520
Speaker 2: a conversation they're constantly using curse words, it like dumbs

841
00:39:13,520 --> 00:39:14,520
Speaker 2: down the conversation to.

842
00:39:14,520 --> 00:39:16,520
Speaker 3: Me, right, No, I understand what you're saying.

843
00:39:16,520 --> 00:39:17,200
Speaker 2: Okay, yeah I don't.

844
00:39:18,239 --> 00:39:20,120
Speaker 4: Anyways, gen Z is into right now.

845
00:39:20,120 --> 00:39:21,840
Speaker 1: One of the phrases they're saying a lot is charge

846
00:39:23,239 --> 00:39:27,120
Speaker 1: fah without the ending on it, because then they can't

847
00:39:27,160 --> 00:39:32,640
Speaker 1: they can't get in trouble for that at school whole work, And.

848
00:39:32,560 --> 00:39:36,960
Speaker 2: I'm like, okay, yeah, man, I feel bad for teachers.

849
00:39:37,040 --> 00:39:37,879
Speaker 2: Right yeah.

850
00:39:38,120 --> 00:39:38,680
Speaker 4: Between that and.

851
00:39:41,280 --> 00:39:44,040
Speaker 3: My new word is charge it and what is it?

852
00:39:44,080 --> 00:39:47,040
Speaker 2: What does that mean is it she has to look

853
00:39:47,040 --> 00:39:47,319
Speaker 2: it up.

854
00:39:48,040 --> 00:39:49,319
Speaker 3: If you have to look at it, doesn't feel like

855
00:39:49,320 --> 00:39:52,040
Speaker 3: it's naturally, It's gonna come naturally at some point. It

856
00:39:52,080 --> 00:39:55,160
Speaker 3: means go for it. Do it, take the risk? Charge it?

857
00:39:55,880 --> 00:39:57,839
Speaker 3: Charge it the game.

858
00:39:57,920 --> 00:40:01,480
Speaker 2: Where'd you hear about it or see about itland? Oh? Okay,

859
00:40:01,520 --> 00:40:03,839
Speaker 2: I see.

860
00:40:03,480 --> 00:40:05,880
Speaker 3: I keep saying charge it, charge it to the game.

861
00:40:06,160 --> 00:40:09,560
Speaker 3: I'm like, I love it. Charge it. So if you

862
00:40:09,600 --> 00:40:11,920
Speaker 3: hear me saying that, I don't really know what it

863
00:40:11,960 --> 00:40:14,040
Speaker 3: means yet, so I can't quite use it in my

864
00:40:15,080 --> 00:40:18,520
Speaker 3: daily vocabulary. But you better watch out once I clock it,

865
00:40:19,239 --> 00:40:19,719
Speaker 3: charge it.

866
00:40:19,920 --> 00:40:22,360
Speaker 2: Clock It sounds more natural from you clock it.

867
00:40:22,719 --> 00:40:25,239
Speaker 3: Yeah, well it's not the thing.

868
00:40:25,600 --> 00:40:28,680
Speaker 2: Yeah, charge it? Okay, but you're using a weird accent

869
00:40:28,760 --> 00:40:29,080
Speaker 2: with it.

870
00:40:29,360 --> 00:40:33,280
Speaker 3: Charge it well, because it's the love island UK. Oh,

871
00:40:33,560 --> 00:40:37,160
Speaker 3: so they have their like accent. Charge it, charge it

872
00:40:37,200 --> 00:40:37,760
Speaker 3: to the game.

873
00:40:38,000 --> 00:40:40,120
Speaker 2: What if you say it in your just how you speak?

874
00:40:40,560 --> 00:40:44,400
Speaker 3: Charge it? Oh that's good. It doesn't pack the punch.

875
00:40:44,800 --> 00:40:47,040
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, I don't see you using it for a

876
00:40:47,080 --> 00:40:47,560
Speaker 2: long time.

877
00:40:47,760 --> 00:40:51,720
Speaker 3: Charge it to the game. I wish you were watching

878
00:40:51,719 --> 00:40:52,160
Speaker 3: that too.

879
00:40:52,719 --> 00:40:56,200
Speaker 2: No, I'm only I'm only I'm limited to a certain

880
00:40:56,200 --> 00:40:58,080
Speaker 2: amount of shows I can watch it. One time I

881
00:40:58,200 --> 00:41:00,359
Speaker 2: speaking of, while I was in New York, I was

882
00:41:00,680 --> 00:41:05,759
Speaker 2: watching old episodes of Grey's Anatomy. Man, that show used

883
00:41:05,800 --> 00:41:11,440
Speaker 2: to be hit. It was incredible TV. It was the

884
00:41:11,440 --> 00:41:13,560
Speaker 2: way I was watching, the way it was shot, like

885
00:41:13,600 --> 00:41:17,480
Speaker 2: the camera angles, like the coloring. Everything just felt so

886
00:41:18,840 --> 00:41:22,719
Speaker 2: real raw. No, it's too vibrant now. The way it's

887
00:41:22,719 --> 00:41:26,480
Speaker 2: shot right now, so bright and four K and you're like, wait,

888
00:41:26,640 --> 00:41:31,560
Speaker 2: am I in the hospital with them? But man, it

889
00:41:31,640 --> 00:41:33,880
Speaker 2: is so good made me want to just start watching

890
00:41:33,960 --> 00:41:34,680
Speaker 2: it all over again.

891
00:41:34,760 --> 00:41:36,880
Speaker 3: You know what we should do that We never follow

892
00:41:36,960 --> 00:41:38,480
Speaker 3: up on coffee with Camilla.

893
00:41:39,960 --> 00:41:45,560
Speaker 2: Yeah, let's reach out and see yeah last time we saw.

894
00:41:46,200 --> 00:41:48,239
Speaker 2: Last time we saw Camilla, she said she wanted to

895
00:41:48,239 --> 00:41:50,080
Speaker 2: get dinner or coffee or.

896
00:41:50,000 --> 00:41:52,239
Speaker 3: Something, and I was like, when do you want it?

897
00:41:52,280 --> 00:41:59,200
Speaker 3: She's like after Thanksgiving? Yeah, well after the holiday. Yeah,

898
00:41:59,239 --> 00:42:02,040
Speaker 3: but I never know, Like, and I'm also guilty of

899
00:42:02,040 --> 00:42:03,960
Speaker 3: it too. I'm like, yeah, let's grab coffee, like if

900
00:42:04,000 --> 00:42:06,040
Speaker 3: you see someone or whatever. And then I'm like, oh,

901
00:42:06,080 --> 00:42:07,719
Speaker 3: and it comes down to it, I'm just like, I'm

902
00:42:07,719 --> 00:42:11,960
Speaker 3: just tired, yeah, but I mean it, like I do

903
00:42:12,040 --> 00:42:13,920
Speaker 3: want to get coffee with you, like I miss you,

904
00:42:13,960 --> 00:42:15,080
Speaker 3: and like, whenever I.

905
00:42:15,120 --> 00:42:17,600
Speaker 1: Think Camilla's tired, She's been through a lot. I mean,

906
00:42:17,680 --> 00:42:19,960
Speaker 1: she was in the hospital, she was unconscious for a

907
00:42:20,000 --> 00:42:20,560
Speaker 1: long time.

908
00:42:21,440 --> 00:42:23,160
Speaker 4: Her babies are going to be okay. But I bet

909
00:42:23,160 --> 00:42:23,840
Speaker 4: she's exhausted.

910
00:42:24,719 --> 00:42:27,600
Speaker 3: Maybe I give her a couple more yeah, I would, Yeah, yeah,

911
00:42:27,640 --> 00:42:29,600
Speaker 3: give her a few more weeks before we reach out.

912
00:42:29,840 --> 00:42:33,280
Speaker 3: I don't know, man, I'm going to reach out coffee

913
00:42:33,280 --> 00:42:36,279
Speaker 3: with Camilla. Yeah, you know what I started watching that

914
00:42:36,320 --> 00:42:37,760
Speaker 3: was really cute, actually his ponies.

915
00:42:38,360 --> 00:42:40,360
Speaker 2: Oh I heard. I heard it was cute. Yeah, but

916
00:42:40,400 --> 00:42:42,319
Speaker 2: I heard it takes a couple of episodes to get

917
00:42:42,320 --> 00:42:42,719
Speaker 2: into it.

918
00:42:43,040 --> 00:42:46,879
Speaker 3: First episode I was in h Well, yeah, I tend

919
00:42:46,920 --> 00:42:49,520
Speaker 3: to Robbie doesn't love it, so might it might be

920
00:42:49,520 --> 00:42:50,839
Speaker 3: a solo watch from now on.

921
00:42:50,960 --> 00:42:53,839
Speaker 2: Well, lots of solo endeavors for you. No, no, no,

922
00:42:54,080 --> 00:42:56,120
Speaker 2: just that. Oh I thought he was off Love Island.

923
00:42:56,200 --> 00:42:56,840
Speaker 2: He's off.

924
00:42:56,840 --> 00:42:59,200
Speaker 3: He's off, but he'll have it on, like he'll like,

925
00:42:59,239 --> 00:43:01,160
Speaker 3: he like, I can have it all here. He allows you

926
00:43:01,239 --> 00:43:04,440
Speaker 3: to watch, well he allows, but he also is watching

927
00:43:04,480 --> 00:43:06,160
Speaker 3: it and he's like, oh what happened when I miss.

928
00:43:06,120 --> 00:43:08,319
Speaker 2: Like oh yeah, yeah, it's hard to have a show

929
00:43:08,360 --> 00:43:12,680
Speaker 2: on and not care not show interest when something interesting.

930
00:43:12,320 --> 00:43:15,320
Speaker 3: Happens, I know, especially when we know all these people. Yeah,

931
00:43:16,400 --> 00:43:18,000
Speaker 3: back for around two and three and four.

932
00:43:20,080 --> 00:43:22,480
Speaker 2: Well that's it for today, you guys. We will be

933
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Speaker 2: back on Thursday with a Dear Bonya.

934
00:43:25,520 --> 00:43:27,560
Speaker 3: Oh, can I give you a tease for Thursdays share

935
00:43:27,640 --> 00:43:30,200
Speaker 3: the call with a question on ya.

936
00:43:30,520 --> 00:43:34,640
Speaker 1: It's about that Easton has put together using your vocals.

937
00:43:35,200 --> 00:43:37,680
Speaker 1: He's added music to it to make a jingle for

938
00:43:37,920 --> 00:43:41,000
Speaker 1: dear Banya. Well I can will debut it on Thursday.

939
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Speaker 2: We love we love you all. I hope you have

940
00:43:46,440 --> 00:43:50,360
Speaker 2: a wonderful week and we will be back on Thursday.

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Speaker 2: We love you, love you Bye.