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You here it is oh Bury. 10 00:00:26,800 --> 00:00:28,560 Speaker 2: Let them subject? 11 00:00:28,760 --> 00:00:30,920 Speaker 1: Why do they have matching pajamas? 12 00:00:31,000 --> 00:00:31,320 Speaker 2: Why? 13 00:00:31,880 --> 00:00:34,800 Speaker 1: Dear Stephen Shirley, I am writing to get your opinion 14 00:00:34,840 --> 00:00:37,840 Speaker 1: on a big issue I'm having with my boyfriend. We've 15 00:00:37,840 --> 00:00:40,800 Speaker 1: been together for three years and I haven't spent any 16 00:00:40,920 --> 00:00:44,880 Speaker 1: holidays with him and his family. He spends my birthdays 17 00:00:44,880 --> 00:00:47,600 Speaker 1: with me, but he's usually with his family when it's 18 00:00:47,640 --> 00:00:50,199 Speaker 1: his birthday. I know that if a man treats his 19 00:00:50,240 --> 00:00:53,160 Speaker 1: mother nicely, it's a sign of how he'll treat his woman, 20 00:00:53,440 --> 00:00:56,040 Speaker 1: but not in this case. I practically had to beg 21 00:00:56,120 --> 00:00:58,960 Speaker 1: him to meet his mom and sister. My therapist is 22 00:00:59,000 --> 00:01:01,360 Speaker 1: in fond of my boyfriend friend, and she thinks I 23 00:01:01,360 --> 00:01:03,840 Speaker 1: can do better, But I'm in love with him and 24 00:01:03,920 --> 00:01:07,920 Speaker 1: can't just toss him away. This Christmas, we exchanged gifts 25 00:01:07,959 --> 00:01:11,080 Speaker 1: early and he flew three hours away to be with 26 00:01:11,160 --> 00:01:14,280 Speaker 1: his family. We are both forty two years old, so 27 00:01:14,400 --> 00:01:17,080 Speaker 1: I hoped he'd grown up since last year and didn't 28 00:01:17,120 --> 00:01:20,120 Speaker 1: have to be up under his mother for Christmas. I 29 00:01:20,200 --> 00:01:22,800 Speaker 1: thought at the least he'd invite me to go with him, 30 00:01:22,959 --> 00:01:25,640 Speaker 1: but he didn't, and I had to go to my parents' 31 00:01:25,640 --> 00:01:28,640 Speaker 1: house along with my married brother and his family, and 32 00:01:28,760 --> 00:01:32,080 Speaker 1: my married baby sister and her husband. My man and 33 00:01:32,160 --> 00:01:34,959 Speaker 1: I barely got to spend New Year's Eve together because 34 00:01:34,959 --> 00:01:38,480 Speaker 1: his flight was delayed for three hours. We celebrated my 35 00:01:38,520 --> 00:01:42,160 Speaker 1: birthday on January third, and at dinner, he slid me 36 00:01:42,240 --> 00:01:44,959 Speaker 1: his phone so I could take a picture of us. 37 00:01:45,240 --> 00:01:48,200 Speaker 1: While I had his phone, his sister sent him a 38 00:01:48,200 --> 00:01:51,400 Speaker 1: photo that popped up on his phone. It was a 39 00:01:51,440 --> 00:01:56,320 Speaker 1: picture of him, his sister, his mama, and a pretty woman. 40 00:01:57,040 --> 00:02:01,040 Speaker 1: He said, the woman is his mom's hairstyle. That may 41 00:02:01,080 --> 00:02:04,520 Speaker 1: be true, but why didn't Why did they all have 42 00:02:04,680 --> 00:02:12,960 Speaker 1: unmatching pajamas? Is she a relative? That's what I asked him. 43 00:02:12,960 --> 00:02:15,640 Speaker 1: He laughed and said, no, they're not related. I then 44 00:02:15,760 --> 00:02:18,840 Speaker 1: decided that he must be dating her, And he said, 45 00:02:18,919 --> 00:02:22,680 Speaker 1: I'm making a big deal over matching pajamas they decided 46 00:02:22,720 --> 00:02:25,600 Speaker 1: to wear for Christmas. He keeps joking about it, but 47 00:02:25,760 --> 00:02:33,120 Speaker 1: I need answers. Am I being a fool? Well, you know, 48 00:02:33,760 --> 00:02:36,680 Speaker 1: I don't know. This is all crazy and it sounds 49 00:02:36,800 --> 00:02:40,320 Speaker 1: very strange to me. Sure it could have been a coincidence, 50 00:02:40,320 --> 00:02:42,200 Speaker 1: and she could have just happened to have some matching 51 00:02:42,240 --> 00:02:45,919 Speaker 1: pajamas in her purse when she went over their house, 52 00:02:46,160 --> 00:02:48,639 Speaker 1: but you got to know that this photo shoot was planned. 53 00:02:48,880 --> 00:02:51,480 Speaker 1: They've been in contact with this woman. He said she 54 00:02:51,639 --> 00:02:54,240 Speaker 1: wasn't a relative. So is she a good friend of 55 00:02:54,280 --> 00:02:57,880 Speaker 1: his mom's, this so called hairstylist, because she's very comfortable, 56 00:02:58,000 --> 00:03:01,040 Speaker 1: very familiar with the family and all of that. Very 57 00:03:01,120 --> 00:03:04,800 Speaker 1: comfortable to just be your mom's hairstylist. So you've really 58 00:03:04,800 --> 00:03:07,919 Speaker 1: got to look at this whole scenario. He never ever 59 00:03:08,160 --> 00:03:12,320 Speaker 1: spends holidays with you, never ever. He doesn't even invite 60 00:03:12,880 --> 00:03:15,440 Speaker 1: invite you to holidays, so you could turn him down. 61 00:03:15,960 --> 00:03:18,920 Speaker 1: But I'll say this, whether she's a hairstylist or not, 62 00:03:19,080 --> 00:03:21,400 Speaker 1: which we don't think she is, this sounds like a 63 00:03:21,400 --> 00:03:23,960 Speaker 1: classic case of a man who's living some sort of 64 00:03:24,000 --> 00:03:26,800 Speaker 1: double life here, and you're a major player in it. 65 00:03:26,919 --> 00:03:29,960 Speaker 1: You will continue to be just that until you do 66 00:03:30,080 --> 00:03:32,399 Speaker 1: something about it. You can't keep taking this from him. 67 00:03:32,680 --> 00:03:35,720 Speaker 1: It's easy to spend your birthday together because the whole 68 00:03:35,760 --> 00:03:38,120 Speaker 1: world isn't celebrating it celebrating it. 69 00:03:38,120 --> 00:03:39,080 Speaker 2: It's just you guys. 70 00:03:39,440 --> 00:03:42,720 Speaker 1: Christmas and the other big holidays are, on the other hand, 71 00:03:42,760 --> 00:03:45,840 Speaker 1: are trickier, a lot trickier, because everyone in the world 72 00:03:45,960 --> 00:03:49,600 Speaker 1: is celebrating them at the same time. Families are together. 73 00:03:50,200 --> 00:03:53,720 Speaker 1: You know you're getting side piece treatment here. They never 74 00:03:53,800 --> 00:03:56,520 Speaker 1: get to spend the actual holiday with their man. It's 75 00:03:56,560 --> 00:03:59,560 Speaker 1: always the day before, the day after, or in your case, 76 00:03:59,640 --> 00:04:04,520 Speaker 1: January third, not January first like the wives. So after 77 00:04:04,640 --> 00:04:07,440 Speaker 1: three years, I'm gonna say this to you, three years 78 00:04:07,440 --> 00:04:09,640 Speaker 1: of this neglect, you should be pretty tired of it. 79 00:04:09,880 --> 00:04:13,160 Speaker 1: And just because you're in love with him doesn't mean 80 00:04:13,240 --> 00:04:14,680 Speaker 1: he's good for you. 81 00:04:15,880 --> 00:04:23,400 Speaker 2: Okay, Steve, lady, what is wrong with you? Why did 82 00:04:23,440 --> 00:04:26,360 Speaker 2: you write us? Why are we dealing with this? 83 00:04:27,440 --> 00:04:29,359 Speaker 3: You say you're writing to get your opinion on a 84 00:04:29,360 --> 00:04:32,240 Speaker 3: big issue that you having with your boyfriend, and y'all 85 00:04:32,279 --> 00:04:36,240 Speaker 3: been together three years and you ain't spent a holiday 86 00:04:36,320 --> 00:04:42,080 Speaker 3: with him or his family. Let me tell you something. 87 00:04:42,839 --> 00:04:48,600 Speaker 3: Holidays are for special people. If a man loves you, 88 00:04:49,400 --> 00:04:54,000 Speaker 3: he's gonna be with you. All right, Cool, Now let's 89 00:04:54,080 --> 00:04:59,560 Speaker 3: move on. He spends my birthdays with me. So your 90 00:04:59,600 --> 00:05:02,520 Speaker 3: birthday it could be April twenty ninth, Well. 91 00:05:02,320 --> 00:05:06,839 Speaker 2: That ain't nothing. July sixteenth, that ain't nothing. 92 00:05:08,960 --> 00:05:12,359 Speaker 3: Now. I bet you if your birthday was December twenty fifth, 93 00:05:12,400 --> 00:05:16,920 Speaker 3: I bet he wouldn't be there. I bet if your 94 00:05:16,960 --> 00:05:21,919 Speaker 3: birthday was New Year's Eve, he wouldn't be there. See, lady, 95 00:05:22,000 --> 00:05:28,680 Speaker 3: you're ignoring and obvious. He's with his family for his birthdays. 96 00:05:28,720 --> 00:05:30,840 Speaker 3: I know, if a man treats his mother nicely, it's 97 00:05:30,839 --> 00:05:33,640 Speaker 3: a sign of how he'll treat his woman. But that's 98 00:05:33,720 --> 00:05:36,120 Speaker 3: not the case. It is the case you're just not 99 00:05:36,160 --> 00:05:38,960 Speaker 3: paying attention to. It's a sign of how he'll treat 100 00:05:39,000 --> 00:05:42,640 Speaker 3: his woman. I practically had to beg him to meet 101 00:05:42,640 --> 00:05:45,880 Speaker 3: his mom and sister. Yeah, so she let y'all meet. 102 00:05:46,880 --> 00:05:48,520 Speaker 3: Now here go to part that through it from me. 103 00:05:48,640 --> 00:05:52,040 Speaker 3: My therapist isn't fun of my boyfriend, fond of my boyfriend, 104 00:05:52,080 --> 00:05:53,200 Speaker 3: and thinks I could. 105 00:05:53,080 --> 00:05:58,720 Speaker 2: Do better well any time, and I've seen this. 106 00:05:59,200 --> 00:06:07,120 Speaker 3: Come on time. You need a therapist to date. You 107 00:06:07,279 --> 00:06:11,880 Speaker 3: don't need to get married because y'all ain't even in 108 00:06:12,040 --> 00:06:16,320 Speaker 3: therapeutical situations yet. 109 00:06:16,360 --> 00:06:17,360 Speaker 2: Y'all just date. 110 00:06:17,480 --> 00:06:21,040 Speaker 3: If you date and need a therapist to date, this 111 00:06:21,600 --> 00:06:23,839 Speaker 3: relationship is doomed. 112 00:06:26,000 --> 00:06:28,800 Speaker 2: You need a therapist to be your boy, Freddie girlfriend. 113 00:06:28,920 --> 00:06:33,240 Speaker 3: Man. Please, this is a mess right here. So when 114 00:06:33,279 --> 00:06:35,160 Speaker 3: I come back, I just tell you the rest of it. 115 00:06:35,279 --> 00:06:38,240 Speaker 2: Cause all right, Steve? All right. 116 00:06:38,360 --> 00:06:40,880 Speaker 1: We'll have part two of Steve's response coming up at 117 00:06:40,880 --> 00:06:44,120 Speaker 1: twenty three minutes after the hour. 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That's one eight hundred 127 00:07:20,920 --> 00:07:24,880 Speaker 1: two five one fifty four hundred or Globelifradio dot com 128 00:07:25,280 --> 00:07:28,080 Speaker 1: all right. Come on, Steve, let's recap today's Strawberry letter. 129 00:07:28,120 --> 00:07:31,440 Speaker 1: The subject is why do they have matching pajamas? 130 00:07:31,800 --> 00:07:33,120 Speaker 2: Well, she's dating this dude. 131 00:07:33,160 --> 00:07:36,000 Speaker 3: She forty that both of them is forty two years old, 132 00:07:36,080 --> 00:07:38,440 Speaker 3: which is boyfriend girlfriend a little bit late for that. 133 00:07:39,320 --> 00:07:40,000 Speaker 2: Uh, you've been. 134 00:07:39,880 --> 00:07:42,160 Speaker 3: Together three years and you ain't spending no holidays with 135 00:07:42,280 --> 00:07:45,679 Speaker 3: him and his family. That's cause holidays is for special people. 136 00:07:46,000 --> 00:07:50,080 Speaker 3: He spends his birthdays with me. Well, that's just your 137 00:07:50,120 --> 00:07:52,480 Speaker 3: birthday could be any day. That ain't no special day. 138 00:07:52,480 --> 00:07:55,280 Speaker 3: It's just special to you, like Sureley said. But he's 139 00:07:55,360 --> 00:07:58,640 Speaker 3: usually with his family when it's his birthday. I know, 140 00:07:58,720 --> 00:08:00,880 Speaker 3: if a man treats his mother nicely, it's a sign 141 00:08:00,880 --> 00:08:03,640 Speaker 3: of how he treats his woman. But that's not the case. Yes, 142 00:08:03,680 --> 00:08:06,840 Speaker 3: it is the case. It's finish show up in your letter. 143 00:08:07,480 --> 00:08:09,600 Speaker 3: I practically had to beg him to meet his mom 144 00:08:09,640 --> 00:08:10,760 Speaker 3: and sister where you met him. 145 00:08:10,800 --> 00:08:12,800 Speaker 2: You ain't been back over that since. Problem. 146 00:08:13,000 --> 00:08:15,720 Speaker 3: Then you say, my therapist isn't fun of my boyfriendish 147 00:08:15,760 --> 00:08:16,920 Speaker 3: she thinks I could do better. 148 00:08:17,560 --> 00:08:18,440 Speaker 2: If you need a. 149 00:08:18,320 --> 00:08:23,160 Speaker 3: Therapist to date, If you have to have therapy to date, 150 00:08:23,760 --> 00:08:27,760 Speaker 3: you're in this this don't have marriage rote on it nowhere, 151 00:08:28,000 --> 00:08:30,960 Speaker 3: because as I said earlier, you ain't even in a 152 00:08:31,120 --> 00:08:33,079 Speaker 3: therapeutical situation yet. 153 00:08:34,160 --> 00:08:37,760 Speaker 1: You ain't even married therapeutical situation. 154 00:08:38,240 --> 00:08:39,280 Speaker 2: You ain't even in that. 155 00:08:41,160 --> 00:08:46,280 Speaker 3: You ain't ready to go, but you already there. I'm 156 00:08:46,400 --> 00:08:51,800 Speaker 3: leaving fool you here? Where you going so now? But 157 00:08:51,960 --> 00:08:54,560 Speaker 3: I'm in love with him and I can't just toss 158 00:08:54,640 --> 00:08:58,400 Speaker 3: him away. Okay, Well, this Christmas we exchange gifts early, 159 00:08:58,520 --> 00:09:00,440 Speaker 3: and he flew three hours away to be with his 160 00:09:00,480 --> 00:09:06,480 Speaker 3: family once again. Holidays is for special people. We are 161 00:09:06,520 --> 00:09:09,440 Speaker 3: both forty two years old, so I had hope listened 162 00:09:09,480 --> 00:09:12,800 Speaker 3: to this line that he'd grown up since last year 163 00:09:13,080 --> 00:09:15,719 Speaker 3: and didn't have to be up under his mother for Christmas. 164 00:09:16,240 --> 00:09:22,080 Speaker 3: Wait a minute, so at forty one he wasn't full grown. 165 00:09:21,840 --> 00:09:24,600 Speaker 1: Yet, that's what she's saying. 166 00:09:24,840 --> 00:09:29,560 Speaker 3: Yes, you was hoping that at forty two he had 167 00:09:29,640 --> 00:09:32,720 Speaker 3: grown up and didn't have to be up under his 168 00:09:32,760 --> 00:09:36,760 Speaker 3: mother for Christmas. I thought, at the least he did 169 00:09:36,760 --> 00:09:39,640 Speaker 3: invite me to go with him, but he didn't, and 170 00:09:39,679 --> 00:09:41,560 Speaker 3: I had to go to my parents house along with 171 00:09:41,600 --> 00:09:43,920 Speaker 3: my married brother and his family, and my married baby 172 00:09:43,960 --> 00:09:47,800 Speaker 3: sister and her husband, my man, and that barely my 173 00:09:47,960 --> 00:09:50,400 Speaker 3: man and I barely got to be in New Year's 174 00:09:50,440 --> 00:09:54,479 Speaker 3: Eve together because his flight was delayed for three hours. 175 00:09:55,360 --> 00:09:57,079 Speaker 2: Well that's what he told you. 176 00:09:57,120 --> 00:10:01,640 Speaker 3: I told you he his flight with the lady had 177 00:10:01,679 --> 00:10:02,719 Speaker 3: to spend New Year's Eve. 178 00:10:02,800 --> 00:10:07,400 Speaker 2: Way was that we sell it my birthday on January third? 179 00:10:08,200 --> 00:10:10,960 Speaker 2: You get the third. You don't need to eat? Got 180 00:10:10,960 --> 00:10:14,640 Speaker 2: the girl? Why ain't you listening to this letter? 181 00:10:15,559 --> 00:10:18,959 Speaker 3: And at dinner he slid me his phone so I 182 00:10:19,000 --> 00:10:22,079 Speaker 3: could take a picture of us. While I had his phone, 183 00:10:22,120 --> 00:10:24,320 Speaker 3: his sister send him a photo that popped up on 184 00:10:24,360 --> 00:10:27,640 Speaker 3: his phone. It was a picture of him, his sister, 185 00:10:28,200 --> 00:10:30,120 Speaker 3: his mama, and a pretty woman. 186 00:10:31,800 --> 00:10:32,240 Speaker 2: He said. 187 00:10:32,280 --> 00:10:35,280 Speaker 3: The woman is his mom's hairstylist. Let's stop right there, 188 00:10:37,480 --> 00:10:43,320 Speaker 3: his mama's hairstyle. Now, listen to me. He forty two. 189 00:10:45,000 --> 00:10:49,160 Speaker 3: His mama is at minimum in her sixties, possibly seventies. 190 00:10:51,320 --> 00:10:59,600 Speaker 3: You know good Hell, well, her hairstylist ain't gonna be attractive. No, Mom, 191 00:10:59,640 --> 00:11:02,600 Speaker 3: she ain't the hairstylist. She work at the beauty shop. 192 00:11:05,240 --> 00:11:07,880 Speaker 3: She's been doing your mama hair. That press is set 193 00:11:08,240 --> 00:11:12,840 Speaker 3: for years now. That ain't fun. There are some very 194 00:11:12,880 --> 00:11:17,160 Speaker 3: attractive hairstylists. I must tell you this for a fact, Lord, 195 00:11:17,160 --> 00:11:19,160 Speaker 3: have mercy. Some of the finest people I've ever seen 196 00:11:19,200 --> 00:11:22,000 Speaker 3: have been hairstyled, but not your mama. 197 00:11:22,080 --> 00:11:26,839 Speaker 2: Half stylist. Your mama half stylist. 198 00:11:26,679 --> 00:11:31,760 Speaker 3: Has been styling and doing her bangs for twenty seven years. 199 00:11:33,880 --> 00:11:38,960 Speaker 2: Your mama go to the beauty shop, you. 200 00:11:39,160 --> 00:11:43,400 Speaker 3: Know her, her stylist, then kept you with her kids 201 00:11:43,440 --> 00:11:48,040 Speaker 3: before you know way, that woman in that picture ain't 202 00:11:48,120 --> 00:11:51,640 Speaker 3: no halfstylist. Oh yo, mama, he said, the woman is 203 00:11:51,640 --> 00:11:56,120 Speaker 3: in mama's hairstylist. That may be true, the hell that's true. 204 00:11:56,920 --> 00:11:59,079 Speaker 2: Why at her seventy year old mama go find this 205 00:11:59,200 --> 00:11:59,880 Speaker 2: young find. 206 00:11:59,679 --> 00:12:04,560 Speaker 3: Her that even know how to do her habits. They 207 00:12:04,600 --> 00:12:05,880 Speaker 3: don't do hair like your mama. 208 00:12:05,920 --> 00:12:07,960 Speaker 2: Wearing no more fred her. 209 00:12:08,960 --> 00:12:13,679 Speaker 3: They stopped doing that long time ago. But why did 210 00:12:13,679 --> 00:12:17,320 Speaker 3: they all have on matching pajamas? Cause you wear matching 211 00:12:17,360 --> 00:12:19,360 Speaker 3: pajamas at Christmas? 212 00:12:19,800 --> 00:12:20,840 Speaker 2: Is she a relative? 213 00:12:21,200 --> 00:12:26,120 Speaker 3: Now? He told you she wasn't a relative. He laughed 214 00:12:26,160 --> 00:12:30,160 Speaker 3: and said, no, they not related related When I'm fine, 215 00:12:30,360 --> 00:12:31,920 Speaker 3: you didn't hear that in the last. 216 00:12:34,600 --> 00:12:35,560 Speaker 2: Related This. 217 00:12:38,120 --> 00:12:40,720 Speaker 3: All up in there with Jonas, I did decide that 218 00:12:40,760 --> 00:12:43,160 Speaker 3: he must be dating her, and he said, I'm making 219 00:12:43,240 --> 00:12:45,640 Speaker 3: up a big deal over matching pajamas they decided to 220 00:12:45,640 --> 00:12:48,000 Speaker 3: wear for Christmas. He keeps joking about it, But I 221 00:12:48,040 --> 00:12:50,760 Speaker 3: need answers. Am I being a fool? You're not only 222 00:12:50,800 --> 00:12:53,280 Speaker 3: being a fool. You've been a fool and you is 223 00:12:53,320 --> 00:12:53,720 Speaker 3: a fool. 224 00:12:54,679 --> 00:12:54,880 Speaker 2: You know. 225 00:12:55,080 --> 00:12:57,400 Speaker 3: That's the answer to that question right there. If you 226 00:12:57,440 --> 00:12:59,800 Speaker 3: need a therapist to have a boyfriend, you need to 227 00:12:59,800 --> 00:13:02,199 Speaker 3: get rid of the boyfriend so you hate, so you 228 00:13:02,320 --> 00:13:05,280 Speaker 3: quit going to therapy. If he loves you, he spends 229 00:13:05,320 --> 00:13:08,960 Speaker 3: special days with you. Holidays are for special people. Those 230 00:13:09,040 --> 00:13:12,760 Speaker 3: are the rules. You're not special. You're never going to 231 00:13:12,800 --> 00:13:16,720 Speaker 3: be special. And the special chick head on the matching pajamas, 232 00:13:16,880 --> 00:13:20,760 Speaker 3: the fine chick with the matching pajamas, that's where he 233 00:13:20,840 --> 00:13:21,920 Speaker 3: go every Christmas. 234 00:13:22,360 --> 00:13:26,440 Speaker 2: That's who he wi you the side piece, Thank you 235 00:13:26,720 --> 00:13:31,480 Speaker 2: all I see. Thank the lady named Rufe that do 236 00:13:31,600 --> 00:13:32,360 Speaker 2: your mama hand. 237 00:13:35,000 --> 00:13:37,600 Speaker 1: You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show.