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Speaker 1: We've got a really big podcast, Ashley ready for our guest. Okay,

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Speaker 1: So we have Rebecca and Garrett here back again, and

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Speaker 1: So to start this season out with Almost Famous Podcast,

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Speaker 1: building tonight as well from Polton season of The Bachelor.

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Speaker 1: there really going to be a final Rose? That's my question.

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Speaker 1: just had to do it to impress Colton or the

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00:21:07,600 --> 00:21:10,640
Speaker 1: show or you had any option? I honestly, I would

427
00:21:10,720 --> 00:21:12,159
Speaker 1: never the one thing that got me. I would have

428
00:21:12,200 --> 00:21:16,159
Speaker 1: never bungee jumped. Okay, yeah, skydiving over bungee jumping for

429
00:21:16,200 --> 00:21:19,320
Speaker 1: some reason, I agree, and I did both of them,

430
00:21:19,400 --> 00:21:21,920
Speaker 1: and I would do sky diving any day. Bungee dumping.

431
00:21:21,960 --> 00:21:26,080
Speaker 1: I'm glad I did it, done and done, never happening again. Um.

432
00:21:26,240 --> 00:21:28,560
Speaker 1: That being said, yeah, I kind of feel like I

433
00:21:28,560 --> 00:21:31,159
Speaker 1: had to do it, But at the same time, I

434
00:21:31,200 --> 00:21:34,880
Speaker 1: came into this entire experience wanting to do the absolute

435
00:21:34,880 --> 00:21:37,280
Speaker 1: most and have no regrets. So I don't know what

436
00:21:37,320 --> 00:21:38,960
Speaker 1: came up with me. Honestly, I blacked out and I

437
00:21:39,040 --> 00:21:41,480
Speaker 1: just jumped. As you can tell, I jumped the wrong way.

438
00:21:42,920 --> 00:21:44,679
Speaker 1: I was gonna ask you that my first quote, I mean,

439
00:21:44,720 --> 00:21:48,360
Speaker 1: the question was it's being criticized on social media and

440
00:21:48,440 --> 00:21:50,080
Speaker 1: on a show I did last week that your form

441
00:21:50,160 --> 00:21:53,320
Speaker 1: on the bungee jumping was not okay, like it was

442
00:21:53,400 --> 00:21:56,800
Speaker 1: very dangerous. Why you jumped out? Um? I jumped like

443
00:21:56,920 --> 00:22:02,800
Speaker 1: feet first, pencil, and then I with you're supposed to,

444
00:22:02,840 --> 00:22:04,840
Speaker 1: you know, like to dive into a cool You're supposed

445
00:22:04,880 --> 00:22:07,320
Speaker 1: to dive like that, she penciled of like feet first.

446
00:22:07,400 --> 00:22:09,879
Speaker 1: I legitimately blacked out, Like when I tell you blacked out.

447
00:22:09,880 --> 00:22:12,000
Speaker 1: I don't even remember getting whipped. I don't remember anything.

448
00:22:12,000 --> 00:22:13,959
Speaker 1: I remember bouncing back up at the bottom and be like,

449
00:22:14,000 --> 00:22:18,439
Speaker 1: oh my god, so cool. Great when you jump like that.

450
00:22:18,480 --> 00:22:24,320
Speaker 1: I just said, oh no, oh yeah that and he's like,

451
00:22:24,359 --> 00:22:27,800
Speaker 1: oh no. I was like, oh gosh, up for a girl.

452
00:22:28,280 --> 00:22:30,960
Speaker 1: It was not good. It was not good. But your

453
00:22:31,000 --> 00:22:36,120
Speaker 1: your dates continued, Your your chemistry with Colton Um kind

454
00:22:36,160 --> 00:22:38,800
Speaker 1: of catalyzed to the point of the fantasy suits, and

455
00:22:38,800 --> 00:22:40,320
Speaker 1: I think that's where we want to start is the

456
00:22:40,359 --> 00:22:43,120
Speaker 1: fantasy Yeah yeah, yeah, me too. Oh god, Ashually, we've

457
00:22:43,119 --> 00:22:46,800
Speaker 1: talked about it last week. I gotta start this by saying,

458
00:22:47,440 --> 00:22:49,240
Speaker 1: Um and Beck and Garrett please chime in here and

459
00:22:49,280 --> 00:22:51,800
Speaker 1: ask any questions you want. We had some women from

460
00:22:51,840 --> 00:22:54,199
Speaker 1: the show on last week and they love you, So

461
00:22:54,240 --> 00:22:56,119
Speaker 1: I just want to say that is coming into this,

462
00:22:56,160 --> 00:22:58,600
Speaker 1: we're big fancy because these women sat down and we're

463
00:22:58,600 --> 00:23:01,320
Speaker 1: so supportive of you as a purse in and that's

464
00:23:01,320 --> 00:23:03,480
Speaker 1: why we have some questions because we're protective of you.

465
00:23:03,560 --> 00:23:06,359
Speaker 1: Right now, Okay, that means a lot. Okay, So you're

466
00:23:06,400 --> 00:23:09,080
Speaker 1: like so into Colton going into the fantasy suite. You

467
00:23:09,080 --> 00:23:12,680
Speaker 1: were talking a lot of induendo. Is that I'm saying

468
00:23:12,720 --> 00:23:16,680
Speaker 1: it right, Okay? And then the doors open, you'll let

469
00:23:16,680 --> 00:23:18,679
Speaker 1: the cameras in the next morning, and I feel like

470
00:23:18,720 --> 00:23:24,479
Speaker 1: your vibe was so off. Why, Um, come on, she

471
00:23:24,520 --> 00:23:27,960
Speaker 1: knows something. Something happens, whether you tell us or not. No,

472
00:23:28,160 --> 00:23:32,159
Speaker 1: it's just I feel I felt that there are other

473
00:23:32,200 --> 00:23:35,159
Speaker 1: relationships I probably weren't more progress than mine. Okay. Is

474
00:23:35,200 --> 00:23:43,880
Speaker 1: that because he wasn't like making sexual moves? I mean no, uh,

475
00:23:43,920 --> 00:23:47,040
Speaker 1: I feel really right now. I know I'm so sorry. Okay,

476
00:23:47,119 --> 00:23:50,320
Speaker 1: let's give it a good laugh. I'm not saying with

477
00:23:50,440 --> 00:23:55,000
Speaker 1: Fantasy Sweet Week, like the editing like the for me

478
00:23:55,119 --> 00:23:57,800
Speaker 1: they did it too, were like I think my pajamas

479
00:23:57,800 --> 00:24:02,920
Speaker 1: are like a towel or something before. So yeah, it's

480
00:24:02,920 --> 00:24:05,639
Speaker 1: just not no one needs to see that. I think,

481
00:24:05,800 --> 00:24:09,040
Speaker 1: like I'm just leave about that. That just yeah. If

482
00:24:09,080 --> 00:24:12,800
Speaker 1: I have a question in the beginning of the date,

483
00:24:13,359 --> 00:24:15,920
Speaker 1: like when the day started, could you tell something was

484
00:24:15,960 --> 00:24:22,679
Speaker 1: already off? Um, I couldn't tell until actually we got

485
00:24:22,720 --> 00:24:26,119
Speaker 1: into the Fantasy suite. So was it his mood, Like

486
00:24:26,240 --> 00:24:28,240
Speaker 1: was it a communication thing? I think it was just

487
00:24:28,280 --> 00:24:30,480
Speaker 1: like his energy and his vibe and you could just

488
00:24:30,520 --> 00:24:32,080
Speaker 1: tell when something's on. Do you think he was just

489
00:24:32,160 --> 00:24:37,960
Speaker 1: extra nervous. Who's very nervous? Um? And I think he

490
00:24:38,040 --> 00:24:39,399
Speaker 1: just didn't want to do anything he was going to

491
00:24:39,480 --> 00:24:42,560
Speaker 1: regret in a way, just because he did also care

492
00:24:42,600 --> 00:24:44,800
Speaker 1: about to other people. And I don't know, it was

493
00:24:44,840 --> 00:24:47,400
Speaker 1: just like my womanly instinct. I just kind of took

494
00:24:47,400 --> 00:24:49,399
Speaker 1: it for what it was and I wasn't gonna pressure

495
00:24:49,600 --> 00:24:51,359
Speaker 1: in any which I kind of get like if I

496
00:24:51,400 --> 00:24:54,560
Speaker 1: was in his position, you know, there are three women

497
00:24:54,680 --> 00:24:59,560
Speaker 1: I wouldn't want to cross the line with anyone knowing

498
00:24:59,600 --> 00:25:01,480
Speaker 1: that too other people's hearts were on the line. So

499
00:25:01,520 --> 00:25:03,480
Speaker 1: I get it from that stand point of being nervous,

500
00:25:03,520 --> 00:25:06,320
Speaker 1: being like, this is new territory. What do I do

501
00:25:06,480 --> 00:25:10,560
Speaker 1: when I still have two other dates? Um, but still

502
00:25:10,600 --> 00:25:12,560
Speaker 1: to like there's no rule book. It's not like, Okay,

503
00:25:12,680 --> 00:25:14,480
Speaker 1: you have to lose your virginity or you have to

504
00:25:14,480 --> 00:25:17,359
Speaker 1: sleep with somebody, or you have to stay up all

505
00:25:17,440 --> 00:25:20,800
Speaker 1: night talking like there's nothing so so much as you

506
00:25:20,840 --> 00:25:23,359
Speaker 1: talk quite a bit, like a couple of hours as

507
00:25:23,400 --> 00:25:27,919
Speaker 1: you sleep, Um, honestly, maybe like half hour. It happens

508
00:25:27,920 --> 00:25:31,120
Speaker 1: every time. I'm honestly, I've never been in or fantasy

509
00:25:31,119 --> 00:25:40,200
Speaker 1: suits now, Um, but no, I mean every one of them.

510
00:25:40,400 --> 00:25:42,879
Speaker 1: You don't sleep because there's so much build up, and

511
00:25:42,920 --> 00:25:45,919
Speaker 1: I'm gonna I need to. I feel like I need

512
00:25:45,960 --> 00:25:49,520
Speaker 1: to protect Colton a little bit here because for me,

513
00:25:50,440 --> 00:25:52,320
Speaker 1: you know, I went into my fantasy seat with Kayla,

514
00:25:52,640 --> 00:25:54,960
Speaker 1: who was third on my season, and I did it,

515
00:25:55,119 --> 00:25:57,440
Speaker 1: and I knew she wasn't the one, And I was

516
00:25:57,480 --> 00:25:59,280
Speaker 1: going to ask you, are you upset that Colton still

517
00:25:59,280 --> 00:26:01,639
Speaker 1: invited you into this fancy sweet but my my, in

518
00:26:01,760 --> 00:26:04,560
Speaker 1: my head, I desired to spend an evening with her

519
00:26:04,640 --> 00:26:08,520
Speaker 1: so bad, not sexually, not physically, because we had such

520
00:26:08,760 --> 00:26:11,200
Speaker 1: a great relationship that I felt that if I sent

521
00:26:11,280 --> 00:26:14,560
Speaker 1: her home before we spent that evening together, we would

522
00:26:14,560 --> 00:26:16,400
Speaker 1: be falling short of what we already had. You feel

523
00:26:16,440 --> 00:26:18,840
Speaker 1: like these are your girlfriends and boyfriends at the time,

524
00:26:19,359 --> 00:26:20,760
Speaker 1: even though you know at the end it's not gonna

525
00:26:20,760 --> 00:26:23,040
Speaker 1: be with them, And you're like, I can't imagine saying

526
00:26:23,080 --> 00:26:26,320
Speaker 1: goodbye to you on a date with two people around

527
00:26:26,400 --> 00:26:29,560
Speaker 1: watching with cameras if I'm gonna say goodbye to in

528
00:26:29,640 --> 00:26:31,760
Speaker 1: my head, this was my rationale, and it was I

529
00:26:31,760 --> 00:26:33,239
Speaker 1: don't know if it's wrong or right. I would love

530
00:26:33,240 --> 00:26:35,520
Speaker 1: to hear what you think, Tasia, but my rationale was

531
00:26:36,080 --> 00:26:37,840
Speaker 1: I need a night with you just so I can

532
00:26:37,840 --> 00:26:39,639
Speaker 1: look back on this relationship that means so much to

533
00:26:39,680 --> 00:26:41,720
Speaker 1: me and know that we had this time together, Like

534
00:26:41,760 --> 00:26:44,520
Speaker 1: I felt like that was the closure maybe we both needed.

535
00:26:44,600 --> 00:26:46,320
Speaker 1: Do you do you wish you would invite you into

536
00:26:46,520 --> 00:26:49,080
Speaker 1: Does that rationale make sense? Or you upset that even

537
00:26:49,119 --> 00:26:53,159
Speaker 1: happen To be honest with you, Um, I mean Colton

538
00:26:53,240 --> 00:26:55,439
Speaker 1: kind of said he already knew he wanted to be

539
00:26:55,440 --> 00:26:59,040
Speaker 1: with Cassie, and at this point I didn't know that, um,

540
00:26:59,080 --> 00:27:03,479
Speaker 1: if anything, because he didn't actually verbalize anything to me,

541
00:27:03,560 --> 00:27:05,600
Speaker 1: It's just I just could read his body language. It

542
00:27:05,640 --> 00:27:09,560
Speaker 1: made me more confused, and it made me kind of

543
00:27:09,560 --> 00:27:11,320
Speaker 1: wonder what was going on. But then I was like,

544
00:27:11,320 --> 00:27:13,880
Speaker 1: but we just came back from the fantasy suites. Obviously,

545
00:27:13,960 --> 00:27:18,159
Speaker 1: we just came off of hometowns which were amazing. Um,

546
00:27:18,200 --> 00:27:19,840
Speaker 1: maybe I was reading two into it. So I was

547
00:27:19,840 --> 00:27:21,520
Speaker 1: just like, I'm just gonna try to take it for

548
00:27:21,600 --> 00:27:25,480
Speaker 1: what it is, and I'll see him at the Rost ceremony. UM.

549
00:27:25,520 --> 00:27:27,480
Speaker 1: And I could see how you're trying to defend him

550
00:27:27,480 --> 00:27:30,440
Speaker 1: as well, that it is nicer to have a little

551
00:27:30,440 --> 00:27:33,119
Speaker 1: bit more time rather than just saying by at a

552
00:27:33,200 --> 00:27:35,800
Speaker 1: row ceremony when you do have a strong connection with somebody.

553
00:27:35,800 --> 00:27:38,119
Speaker 1: So I understand that. But at the same time, it

554
00:27:38,200 --> 00:27:41,520
Speaker 1: only hurt me more. I think, which and if I

555
00:27:41,560 --> 00:27:45,879
Speaker 1: can tryme And I sent Jason home before our overnight

556
00:27:46,000 --> 00:27:49,840
Speaker 1: because I at that point knew that my other two

557
00:27:49,840 --> 00:27:54,679
Speaker 1: relationships were stronger, and I wanted the alone time just

558
00:27:54,720 --> 00:27:56,800
Speaker 1: because it would have been the first time away from

559
00:27:56,880 --> 00:27:58,760
Speaker 1: cameras throughout the entire season, like it would have been

560
00:27:58,760 --> 00:28:01,280
Speaker 1: our first conversational loan, like our first time alone, and

561
00:28:01,320 --> 00:28:04,040
Speaker 1: I knew that, like Jason is so funny and he's

562
00:28:04,040 --> 00:28:06,040
Speaker 1: such a great guy, and it would have been a

563
00:28:06,080 --> 00:28:08,199
Speaker 1: fine night. But I was like, if I know at

564
00:28:08,240 --> 00:28:10,199
Speaker 1: the end of this you're not the one, I can't

565
00:28:10,760 --> 00:28:13,560
Speaker 1: drag you through an entire night and just have feeling

566
00:28:13,600 --> 00:28:17,359
Speaker 1: to grow potentially more if we're not on the same page.

567
00:28:17,359 --> 00:28:18,960
Speaker 1: And so for me, I made that decision to send

568
00:28:19,000 --> 00:28:22,360
Speaker 1: him home because I would have wanted that same respect

569
00:28:22,440 --> 00:28:24,560
Speaker 1: I think given to me, Like had anyone else know

570
00:28:24,640 --> 00:28:28,000
Speaker 1: they didn't want to progress relationship and other relationships or stronger,

571
00:28:28,000 --> 00:28:30,160
Speaker 1: I wouldn't have. I wouldn't have wanted to go through

572
00:28:30,160 --> 00:28:33,200
Speaker 1: that entire night knowing my heart was invested more than

573
00:28:33,440 --> 00:28:36,600
Speaker 1: somebody else's, right. Do you know what I think is

574
00:28:36,640 --> 00:28:40,480
Speaker 1: really interesting? You know how he told Hannah Gee that

575
00:28:40,520 --> 00:28:41,880
Speaker 1: he kind of thought it was going to be her.

576
00:28:42,640 --> 00:28:44,440
Speaker 1: He said, I think it was I thought it was

577
00:28:44,480 --> 00:28:47,240
Speaker 1: going to be you, And then he said that his

578
00:28:47,400 --> 00:28:51,480
Speaker 1: date in Portugal with Cassie changed all of that. So

579
00:28:51,600 --> 00:28:53,760
Speaker 1: what if the dates really were a reverse What if

580
00:28:53,800 --> 00:28:56,120
Speaker 1: Hannah g did go first and did have an overnight

581
00:28:56,480 --> 00:28:59,840
Speaker 1: do we think it could have changed anything? Could her

582
00:29:00,240 --> 00:29:02,440
Speaker 1: dad have gone that well that he may have at

583
00:29:02,520 --> 00:29:06,560
Speaker 1: least been tossed up between Cassie and Hannah gy I

584
00:29:06,600 --> 00:29:09,560
Speaker 1: do you think? So, what do you think Tay show?

585
00:29:11,040 --> 00:29:17,200
Speaker 1: I mean very much So. I mean I think Hannah

586
00:29:17,240 --> 00:29:20,880
Speaker 1: Gye needed hair time with Colton, and that being said,

587
00:29:20,960 --> 00:29:22,960
Speaker 1: it could have changed everything. I think they did have

588
00:29:23,000 --> 00:29:26,200
Speaker 1: a strong connection just as being a girl, you know,

589
00:29:26,600 --> 00:29:29,960
Speaker 1: amongst everyone else. You could see that during our dates

590
00:29:29,960 --> 00:29:33,000
Speaker 1: and whatnot. Um, so yeah, I think it would have

591
00:29:33,080 --> 00:29:36,120
Speaker 1: changed a lot. We we are humans, right, So there's

592
00:29:36,120 --> 00:29:39,000
Speaker 1: this there's a formula here that we have to recognize.

593
00:29:39,000 --> 00:29:40,640
Speaker 1: And if you you're a fan of a fan of

594
00:29:40,680 --> 00:29:42,200
Speaker 1: the show, you've seen it year every year, every year

595
00:29:42,640 --> 00:29:45,880
Speaker 1: that the first date, the first overnight is gonna be

596
00:29:46,240 --> 00:29:49,480
Speaker 1: just based on us being humans with short memories forgettable

597
00:29:50,080 --> 00:29:51,920
Speaker 1: by the last date, no matter if it was the

598
00:29:51,960 --> 00:29:55,480
Speaker 1: best day or not, your first date with somebody is

599
00:29:55,480 --> 00:29:57,760
Speaker 1: going to be trump on this show because you're gonna

600
00:29:57,760 --> 00:30:00,840
Speaker 1: spend another night with somebody else, and that's gonna be

601
00:30:01,080 --> 00:30:02,720
Speaker 1: that's gonna get in your head and you're gonna start

602
00:30:02,760 --> 00:30:05,080
Speaker 1: processing that and then the third time that's gonna be

603
00:30:05,080 --> 00:30:08,880
Speaker 1: the thing that sticks with you, which ultimately in real

604
00:30:08,960 --> 00:30:12,320
Speaker 1: life or on the show, is gonna be the best

605
00:30:12,400 --> 00:30:15,320
Speaker 1: or most important date in your mind? And so for you, Tassia,

606
00:30:15,360 --> 00:30:18,480
Speaker 1: you were the first date. And I look back on

607
00:30:18,560 --> 00:30:20,960
Speaker 1: this and I think of all of your time with Colton.

608
00:30:21,080 --> 00:30:23,080
Speaker 1: I think of then that night that you spent with Colton,

609
00:30:24,160 --> 00:30:25,560
Speaker 1: and that the fact that you're saying, you know, yeah,

610
00:30:25,600 --> 00:30:27,800
Speaker 1: it was weird that he had already mentioned Cassie. I

611
00:30:27,800 --> 00:30:30,640
Speaker 1: think that's the part here that I'm not processing that

612
00:30:31,320 --> 00:30:34,360
Speaker 1: before your day even he already had felt like Cassie

613
00:30:34,680 --> 00:30:38,320
Speaker 1: was the one, And so knowing Colton now and spending

614
00:30:38,320 --> 00:30:41,680
Speaker 1: time with him, like, is he confused at this point?

615
00:30:42,440 --> 00:30:46,200
Speaker 1: Is he keeping his head together? Is he emotional? Um?

616
00:30:46,400 --> 00:30:48,320
Speaker 1: Is he has? He changed moods? Like? Are you seeing

617
00:30:48,320 --> 00:30:51,880
Speaker 1: a mood shift in him as as more stresses bringing on?

618
00:30:51,960 --> 00:30:54,760
Speaker 1: Like what kind of shift are you seeing in Colton

619
00:30:54,800 --> 00:30:59,240
Speaker 1: towards the end here fantasy suits? Yeah? Or just from

620
00:30:59,240 --> 00:31:01,640
Speaker 1: your fantasy towards you know, the end of this week?

621
00:31:01,680 --> 00:31:07,760
Speaker 1: I guess on the show? Oh? Um, yeah, like I said,

622
00:31:07,960 --> 00:31:10,479
Speaker 1: I saw a shift as soon as the door closed

623
00:31:10,480 --> 00:31:12,600
Speaker 1: to be in the fantasy suites. Um, he just kind

624
00:31:12,640 --> 00:31:14,680
Speaker 1: of started. Do you think he was like putting on

625
00:31:14,720 --> 00:31:17,200
Speaker 1: an act? The entire time with you just know, but

626
00:31:17,240 --> 00:31:19,160
Speaker 1: that you just think it was because he was like,

627
00:31:19,200 --> 00:31:22,120
Speaker 1: oh man, I'm alone with this girl now and I

628
00:31:22,200 --> 00:31:27,120
Speaker 1: don't and I'm thinking of Cassie. Yeah, maybe so fortunate.

629
00:31:27,200 --> 00:31:30,760
Speaker 1: I know, it's so sad. I mean, it's I didn't

630
00:31:30,800 --> 00:31:34,080
Speaker 1: realize it. Then again, okay, you know, it didn't make

631
00:31:34,160 --> 00:31:38,360
Speaker 1: sense until I saw last episode and obviously today, but

632
00:31:38,480 --> 00:31:42,120
Speaker 1: um yeah, looking back, I think he just kind of

633
00:31:42,120 --> 00:31:46,000
Speaker 1: already knew. So it would have been nice just to

634
00:31:46,120 --> 00:31:48,400
Speaker 1: not have asked me to get to the Nasy suite. Yeah,

635
00:31:48,440 --> 00:31:50,400
Speaker 1: he would have preferred it. You know. Let's move to

636
00:31:50,440 --> 00:31:52,760
Speaker 1: the breakup. I do have some criticism mccleton about the breakup,

637
00:31:53,440 --> 00:31:56,040
Speaker 1: and we've been supportive him all season, and I think

638
00:31:56,120 --> 00:31:58,760
Speaker 1: he showed his heart. I think he's a gunny Batcher Batchett.

639
00:31:58,800 --> 00:32:00,800
Speaker 1: He's fallen short at times. I thought to break Up

640
00:32:00,800 --> 00:32:03,440
Speaker 1: with You was really hard to watch because what we're

641
00:32:03,480 --> 00:32:06,920
Speaker 1: hearing is you consoling him, and that to me did

642
00:32:06,920 --> 00:32:10,480
Speaker 1: not feel right. And I'm interested for everybody sitting around

643
00:32:10,520 --> 00:32:12,920
Speaker 1: the table, including Utahsia she watched that back or you

644
00:32:12,880 --> 00:32:16,480
Speaker 1: remember that moment? Am I watching that incorrectly? Or was

645
00:32:16,520 --> 00:32:19,840
Speaker 1: that your I mean he's crying and you're going it's okay, No,

646
00:32:20,000 --> 00:32:23,440
Speaker 1: it's not okay, it's not. Yeah. I don't know. I

647
00:32:23,480 --> 00:32:28,480
Speaker 1: think that's just I know it was so tough for him. Yeah,

648
00:32:28,520 --> 00:32:30,200
Speaker 1: I think he was feeling a lot of guilt, Like

649
00:32:30,240 --> 00:32:32,680
Speaker 1: he felt so bad. He was he was breaking up

650
00:32:32,680 --> 00:32:34,800
Speaker 1: with a girl who loved him, and he was shaking

651
00:32:34,880 --> 00:32:37,400
Speaker 1: so bad. The last thing I was I felt to

652
00:32:37,440 --> 00:32:39,080
Speaker 1: do was just like yell at him or just like

653
00:32:39,320 --> 00:32:42,040
Speaker 1: try to criticize him or even beg him that I'm

654
00:32:42,080 --> 00:32:43,600
Speaker 1: supposed to be the one that he's supposed to be

655
00:32:43,600 --> 00:32:48,200
Speaker 1: fighting for um. And honestly, I've been in a position

656
00:32:49,200 --> 00:32:52,840
Speaker 1: before my last relationship where I understand how hard it

657
00:32:52,960 --> 00:32:57,560
Speaker 1: is to be admitting truth and knowing you're wrong, and

658
00:32:58,840 --> 00:33:02,719
Speaker 1: I don't know, just having complete heartbreak. So my natural

659
00:33:02,720 --> 00:33:04,680
Speaker 1: instinct was just to console him and just to be

660
00:33:04,680 --> 00:33:07,120
Speaker 1: there as much as they could. I don't know, I

661
00:33:07,200 --> 00:33:11,760
Speaker 1: just felt bad. He's a good guy. Are you looking

662
00:33:11,760 --> 00:33:15,120
Speaker 1: at me like that? I mean, I'm looking at you

663
00:33:15,200 --> 00:33:17,360
Speaker 1: like that because it is. I mean, you're you're obviously

664
00:33:17,440 --> 00:33:20,680
Speaker 1: very sweet and he is a good guy, right, Colton

665
00:33:20,720 --> 00:33:22,400
Speaker 1: is harmless. Like there's one thing that we can all

666
00:33:22,440 --> 00:33:29,560
Speaker 1: agree upon Colton Underwood is absolutely harmless, right, Yeah, like

667
00:33:29,720 --> 00:33:34,840
Speaker 1: there's there's criticism, but but but being harmless doesn't mean

668
00:33:34,840 --> 00:33:36,640
Speaker 1: that you're always going to do this correctly. And I

669
00:33:36,640 --> 00:33:38,400
Speaker 1: still think it feels weird that he goes to you

670
00:33:38,400 --> 00:33:40,840
Speaker 1: and breaks up with you, that he knows there's somebody

671
00:33:40,840 --> 00:33:42,400
Speaker 1: else out there that you, guys, spent the evening in

672
00:33:42,440 --> 00:33:44,360
Speaker 1: the fantasy sweet and it's big of you than to

673
00:33:44,400 --> 00:33:46,360
Speaker 1: look at him and go, you know, you've brought this

674
00:33:46,400 --> 00:33:48,400
Speaker 1: pain on yourself in a sense, like this could have

675
00:33:48,400 --> 00:33:50,080
Speaker 1: been a lot easier if we didn't spend the night together,

676
00:33:50,120 --> 00:33:52,360
Speaker 1: like this could have been a lot easier, if if

677
00:33:52,520 --> 00:33:54,720
Speaker 1: we didn't share in these memories for so long together,

678
00:33:54,720 --> 00:33:56,960
Speaker 1: if you knew it was Cassie two weeks ago, this

679
00:33:57,040 --> 00:33:59,480
Speaker 1: gets a lot easier for you if you don't bring

680
00:33:59,520 --> 00:34:03,000
Speaker 1: me along the way and instead because of who you are.

681
00:34:03,040 --> 00:34:07,840
Speaker 1: I think he's bawling, shaking, and you're going, no, it's okay, No,

682
00:34:08,000 --> 00:34:11,160
Speaker 1: you're right. I did have all those questions, and in

683
00:34:11,200 --> 00:34:14,440
Speaker 1: a way I did for quite some time. But I

684
00:34:14,480 --> 00:34:20,560
Speaker 1: think I've moved on and he I hope he's happy,

685
00:34:20,560 --> 00:34:22,000
Speaker 1: and I hope he's with the person he wants to

686
00:34:22,000 --> 00:34:24,040
Speaker 1: be with, and I hope everything works out for him.

687
00:34:24,080 --> 00:34:27,120
Speaker 1: So yeah, I did have a question as to why

688
00:34:27,160 --> 00:34:28,959
Speaker 1: he brought me the fantasy suits when he knew all along.

689
00:34:29,000 --> 00:34:33,080
Speaker 1: I I was wondering, you know, how Hannah Gy was

690
00:34:33,120 --> 00:34:34,840
Speaker 1: even going to feel about all that. It was just

691
00:34:34,880 --> 00:34:37,680
Speaker 1: a lot. It was a lot that whole day. I

692
00:34:37,680 --> 00:34:39,520
Speaker 1: don't really like to belive it, to be honest. So

693
00:34:39,640 --> 00:34:43,640
Speaker 1: when he went to your room and he said it's Cassie,

694
00:34:44,080 --> 00:34:46,399
Speaker 1: did you know that Cassie had broken up with him?

695
00:34:47,120 --> 00:34:49,560
Speaker 1: No idea, Okay, So you were like, oh, he just

696
00:34:49,560 --> 00:34:52,600
Speaker 1: decided and he's letting me go nicely right now. I

697
00:34:52,600 --> 00:34:55,640
Speaker 1: honestly thought that they had gone to the fantasy suite.

698
00:34:56,920 --> 00:35:00,200
Speaker 1: Maybe they had been intimate, and he knew the she

699
00:35:00,280 --> 00:35:02,359
Speaker 1: was the one and that was it, and he made

700
00:35:02,400 --> 00:35:03,879
Speaker 1: up his mind already. I didn't know what to think.

701
00:35:04,239 --> 00:35:07,640
Speaker 1: So when did you find out that Cassie had broke

702
00:35:07,719 --> 00:35:13,279
Speaker 1: up with him? Um? It was I don't know what

703
00:35:13,440 --> 00:35:15,560
Speaker 1: I was getting sent home, Okay. So it was while

704
00:35:15,600 --> 00:35:18,280
Speaker 1: you were still on set. And so when they're all

705
00:35:18,320 --> 00:35:20,840
Speaker 1: searching for Colton in the middle of the night, in

706
00:35:20,880 --> 00:35:24,360
Speaker 1: the dark after the fence jump, like a lost dog,

707
00:35:24,600 --> 00:35:27,200
Speaker 1: you have no idea this is happening, Like, are you

708
00:35:27,239 --> 00:35:29,880
Speaker 1: just asleep? I had no idea. You know, it's so

709
00:35:29,920 --> 00:35:33,480
Speaker 1: crazy is that night? And maybe this is a little weird,

710
00:35:33,560 --> 00:35:36,600
Speaker 1: But I could not sleep, and I just remember opening

711
00:35:36,640 --> 00:35:38,799
Speaker 1: my prayer journal and I wrote a prayer for Colton

712
00:35:38,800 --> 00:35:42,160
Speaker 1: because I I felt like something was off. Isn't that weird?

713
00:35:42,760 --> 00:35:48,120
Speaker 1: I don't know. I just you're very connected to him,

714
00:35:46,200 --> 00:35:49,840
Speaker 1: didn't be. I'm emnarested to hear your thoughts through this

715
00:35:49,880 --> 00:35:52,040
Speaker 1: whole thing. You've now got to no taste a little bit,

716
00:35:52,560 --> 00:35:54,000
Speaker 1: you know, Colton, Well, you're the only one in the

717
00:35:54,080 --> 00:35:56,400
Speaker 1: room that knows them both. You know, you probably know

718
00:35:56,480 --> 00:36:00,400
Speaker 1: them both the most at this point, right too, So

719
00:36:01,600 --> 00:36:05,399
Speaker 1: I mean, what do you think of this whole thing?

720
00:36:05,440 --> 00:36:09,120
Speaker 1: Because it is a little heart wrenching. I okay, this

721
00:36:09,200 --> 00:36:14,840
Speaker 1: is something I always think about. And you know, Colton

722
00:36:15,160 --> 00:36:18,600
Speaker 1: had the choice to wait to break up with you

723
00:36:18,680 --> 00:36:21,239
Speaker 1: and Hannah ge at the next Row ceremony, or he

724
00:36:21,280 --> 00:36:23,880
Speaker 1: had the choice to end thing sooner, just like I

725
00:36:23,920 --> 00:36:26,000
Speaker 1: had the choice throughout the season if I wanted to

726
00:36:26,000 --> 00:36:29,640
Speaker 1: send somebody home early or keep them through the Row ceremony.

727
00:36:29,640 --> 00:36:33,160
Speaker 1: By all means, Row ceremonies would be the easiest way

728
00:36:33,160 --> 00:36:35,480
Speaker 1: to break up with somebody because you go into it

729
00:36:35,640 --> 00:36:38,800
Speaker 1: and everyone standing there as as strong of a connection

730
00:36:38,840 --> 00:36:40,719
Speaker 1: as you can have with somebody, Like you go into

731
00:36:40,719 --> 00:36:44,640
Speaker 1: it's still being like there are multiple people here, I

732
00:36:44,680 --> 00:36:49,000
Speaker 1: could potentially go home. So in that setting, to me,

733
00:36:49,160 --> 00:36:53,320
Speaker 1: it's so much easier, um because you know you're breaking

734
00:36:53,360 --> 00:36:56,080
Speaker 1: up with somebody, but it's kind of in a formulated way,

735
00:36:56,120 --> 00:37:00,880
Speaker 1: per se um. So to end things early you have

736
00:37:00,960 --> 00:37:03,719
Speaker 1: to really think about it. And I think that, you know,

737
00:37:03,840 --> 00:37:06,279
Speaker 1: Colton may or may not have done it in the

738
00:37:06,320 --> 00:37:08,360
Speaker 1: best way, but he did it in the way that

739
00:37:08,400 --> 00:37:11,399
Speaker 1: he felt was right for him. And I can't fault

740
00:37:11,440 --> 00:37:14,200
Speaker 1: him on that because I guarantee going to your door

741
00:37:14,200 --> 00:37:19,000
Speaker 1: early and going to handed G's door early was much harder,

742
00:37:19,120 --> 00:37:22,080
Speaker 1: much more heart wrenching, and a lot more difficult for

743
00:37:22,160 --> 00:37:25,960
Speaker 1: him to probably do just being in his shoes, knowing that, like,

744
00:37:26,760 --> 00:37:28,799
Speaker 1: you know, I could show up a few days later

745
00:37:28,880 --> 00:37:31,319
Speaker 1: and have all of these beautiful people standing in front

746
00:37:31,360 --> 00:37:34,239
Speaker 1: of me, give out two roses, say my goodbyes, knowing

747
00:37:34,239 --> 00:37:38,680
Speaker 1: that I'm going to say goodbye to one or two people. Um.

748
00:37:38,800 --> 00:37:41,319
Speaker 1: So it's it's tough, and I do feel because like

749
00:37:41,640 --> 00:37:45,279
Speaker 1: watching his breakup was not only Cassie last week, but

750
00:37:45,440 --> 00:37:49,000
Speaker 1: with you and Hannah too. It obviously brings up memories

751
00:37:49,040 --> 00:37:51,640
Speaker 1: of my breakup and just knowing, like, you know, you

752
00:37:51,680 --> 00:37:55,080
Speaker 1: really have to feel what's right and to hopefully be

753
00:37:55,160 --> 00:37:57,400
Speaker 1: in tune enough with yourself to make that choice and

754
00:37:57,480 --> 00:38:00,279
Speaker 1: to cut things off early. Um, So it's not easy.

755
00:38:00,320 --> 00:38:02,360
Speaker 1: And I know that he probably didn't do it in

756
00:38:02,400 --> 00:38:05,319
Speaker 1: a way that most people appreciated watching or like, I

757
00:38:05,320 --> 00:38:07,319
Speaker 1: think that it left a lot of people wanting more

758
00:38:07,480 --> 00:38:10,719
Speaker 1: or like knowing more or having more answers. But he

759
00:38:10,760 --> 00:38:13,480
Speaker 1: did hopefully what it was right for him, and I

760
00:38:13,560 --> 00:38:16,640
Speaker 1: know that had not that could not have been easy

761
00:38:16,680 --> 00:38:19,719
Speaker 1: on him. No, I agree, And you're right. At the

762
00:38:19,760 --> 00:38:21,640
Speaker 1: Rose ceremony, I feel like you kind of mentally prepare

763
00:38:22,000 --> 00:38:23,960
Speaker 1: that you could be going home, Okay, you have that,

764
00:38:24,440 --> 00:38:26,399
Speaker 1: like you have a little doubt in your mind, whether

765
00:38:26,520 --> 00:38:29,160
Speaker 1: you're like I'm confident in this relationship, you still know, like, hey,

766
00:38:29,200 --> 00:38:32,080
Speaker 1: I'm gonna be standing up next to two or three

767
00:38:32,160 --> 00:38:34,759
Speaker 1: or more women knowing that a certain amount of us

768
00:38:34,760 --> 00:38:36,759
Speaker 1: are going to be going home, So you just like

769
00:38:37,160 --> 00:38:39,920
Speaker 1: it's just you know that, so you kind of have

770
00:38:40,200 --> 00:38:43,520
Speaker 1: a little bit of hesitation or doubt at some point

771
00:38:43,520 --> 00:38:46,279
Speaker 1: being like this is the setting word somebody's going to

772
00:38:46,320 --> 00:38:50,200
Speaker 1: say goodbye. Yeah, I think I was just really shocked

773
00:38:50,200 --> 00:38:51,960
Speaker 1: and blindsided. But to harp on what kind of like

774
00:38:52,000 --> 00:38:55,640
Speaker 1: Garrett was saying earlier, I'm glad he kind of told

775
00:38:55,640 --> 00:38:59,640
Speaker 1: me when he knew he didn't want to pursue me anymore,

776
00:39:00,040 --> 00:39:02,480
Speaker 1: as opposed to having me continue to pursue him and

777
00:39:02,600 --> 00:39:04,920
Speaker 1: him not or him know that he didn't want to

778
00:39:04,960 --> 00:39:06,400
Speaker 1: be with me. Yeah, I was going to say, is

779
00:39:06,400 --> 00:39:09,920
Speaker 1: it did you have like some sort of relief, Like

780
00:39:10,360 --> 00:39:12,920
Speaker 1: I know, initially the shock of it and you're blindsided

781
00:39:12,960 --> 00:39:15,680
Speaker 1: and stuff like that, and it sucks really bad, but

782
00:39:15,960 --> 00:39:18,120
Speaker 1: just to have the relief of knowing, like because you're

783
00:39:18,120 --> 00:39:20,880
Speaker 1: putting all your effort and energy into the relationships, and

784
00:39:22,080 --> 00:39:24,440
Speaker 1: but to just know, like it's hard on him to

785
00:39:24,480 --> 00:39:27,239
Speaker 1: break up with you. It sucks that you're going through it.

786
00:39:27,360 --> 00:39:29,600
Speaker 1: But at some point did you feel like relief like

787
00:39:30,200 --> 00:39:33,080
Speaker 1: I can move on. I did everything that I could

788
00:39:33,440 --> 00:39:37,160
Speaker 1: possibly do. I have no regrets, and yeah, I laid

789
00:39:37,200 --> 00:39:39,200
Speaker 1: it all out there. I jumped out of a plane

790
00:39:39,239 --> 00:39:43,400
Speaker 1: for that guy. I mean, more than to do first

791
00:39:43,440 --> 00:39:46,799
Speaker 1: on that bunch of that I could have died, but

792
00:39:46,920 --> 00:39:49,799
Speaker 1: you know, um yeah, I laid it all out there

793
00:39:49,840 --> 00:39:53,920
Speaker 1: and I was happy with what I did. So I

794
00:39:54,000 --> 00:39:56,960
Speaker 1: have a question. Yeah, so when he knocked on your

795
00:39:56,960 --> 00:40:00,560
Speaker 1: door that day to end things for of all, what

796
00:40:00,600 --> 00:40:02,879
Speaker 1: were you thinking? Were you like, oh, this is room

797
00:40:02,920 --> 00:40:06,239
Speaker 1: service or who? Like did you think it would be him?

798
00:40:06,520 --> 00:40:08,399
Speaker 1: I just want to know what was going through your mind. Yeah,

799
00:40:08,440 --> 00:40:09,759
Speaker 1: I want to know this too. Are you a fan

800
00:40:09,840 --> 00:40:12,160
Speaker 1: of the show, because I think that when you see

801
00:40:12,200 --> 00:40:15,120
Speaker 1: the Bachelor at your door during the top three weeks,

802
00:40:15,280 --> 00:40:17,680
Speaker 1: it can only mean bad news. It's bad. The knocks

803
00:40:17,719 --> 00:40:20,560
Speaker 1: on the doors are always best. They always, especially even

804
00:40:20,560 --> 00:40:23,839
Speaker 1: the date cards, when you hear those hard, pounding knocks,

805
00:40:23,840 --> 00:40:26,960
Speaker 1: so it kind of drops a little bit and you're like, oh, yeah, happening,

806
00:40:27,680 --> 00:40:31,520
Speaker 1: like immediate anxiety. Um, but no, I was actually looking

807
00:40:31,560 --> 00:40:36,239
Speaker 1: at photos and shooting, you know, some be roll and

808
00:40:36,320 --> 00:40:40,799
Speaker 1: then the door. Someone knocked at the door, and I

809
00:40:40,880 --> 00:40:42,960
Speaker 1: was like making a joke of it, was like, wouldn't

810
00:40:42,960 --> 00:40:45,360
Speaker 1: that be so funny that it was Calton? And then

811
00:40:46,400 --> 00:40:49,479
Speaker 1: like nobody was moving, and so it's like, oh my god,

812
00:40:49,840 --> 00:40:51,600
Speaker 1: I gotta got to open the door, and I guarantee

813
00:40:51,600 --> 00:40:52,879
Speaker 1: you it's him, and it's not going to be good.

814
00:40:53,120 --> 00:40:54,759
Speaker 1: Then I did, and I just saw his face and

815
00:40:54,800 --> 00:40:57,919
Speaker 1: I was just like, all right, Yeah, we could see

816
00:40:57,920 --> 00:41:01,040
Speaker 1: it in your It is what it is. We gotta

817
00:41:01,080 --> 00:41:04,160
Speaker 1: pause for a second, um, because we have some special

818
00:41:04,239 --> 00:41:06,640
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829
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830
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831
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Speaker 1: so cold out, so last night when I was home,

851
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Speaker 1: I made the spring pee and mushroom ramen soup I'm

852
00:42:59,280 --> 00:43:02,239
Speaker 1: telling you it was delicious. That sounds real good. Yeah,

853
00:43:02,280 --> 00:43:08,240
Speaker 1: Garrett was so flavorful to start making delicious, brag worthy

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Speaker 1: small amount of money. No, I'm gonna definitely check it out. Yeah,

859
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Speaker 1: it's it's a it's a large amount of money. The

860
00:43:27,719 --> 00:43:30,319
Speaker 1: things you could do with sixty dollars, Garrett would bring

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Speaker 1: Apron dot com slash almost famous. Blue Apron a better

865
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Speaker 1: way to cook. As mentioned before the ad Wednesday night

866
00:43:45,960 --> 00:43:48,680
Speaker 1: on Single Parents on ABC, it's a Bachelor theme episode

867
00:43:48,760 --> 00:43:52,040
Speaker 1: with guest appearance by Chris Harrison. Tonight on the Almost

868
00:43:52,040 --> 00:43:55,680
Speaker 1: Famous Podcast, we have J. J. Philbin and Layton meast Or,

869
00:43:55,760 --> 00:43:59,279
Speaker 1: two stars of the show, calling in now. Layton, I

870
00:43:59,360 --> 00:44:02,680
Speaker 1: kind of feel starstruck through the microphone with you right now,

871
00:44:02,719 --> 00:44:05,239
Speaker 1: because I've just watched so many years of Gossip Girl.

872
00:44:05,360 --> 00:44:09,080
Speaker 1: I am so excited that you're on an ABC show. Now,

873
00:44:09,640 --> 00:44:13,280
Speaker 1: are you a Bachelor fan? I am, and I'm especially

874
00:44:13,360 --> 00:44:15,920
Speaker 1: Bachelor fan now because I have been to the mansion.

875
00:44:16,560 --> 00:44:19,920
Speaker 1: I've been, you know, in scenes with Chris, which is

876
00:44:19,960 --> 00:44:22,960
Speaker 1: like huge, and I feel like now I'm like part

877
00:44:22,960 --> 00:44:24,880
Speaker 1: of the family, Like I know all the secrets, and

878
00:44:25,000 --> 00:44:28,160
Speaker 1: I know all the stuff and behind the scenes, and

879
00:44:28,160 --> 00:44:30,240
Speaker 1: and I feel like I don't know. And I also

880
00:44:30,520 --> 00:44:33,279
Speaker 1: very much not disappointed that it's very true. You know,

881
00:44:33,719 --> 00:44:37,680
Speaker 1: I feel like I get it. I'm part of this

882
00:44:38,200 --> 00:44:44,080
Speaker 1: part of this. Now you're part of Master Relations. It's official. Well, yes,

883
00:44:44,760 --> 00:44:48,000
Speaker 1: that's very cool. Um, did you get to you went

884
00:44:48,040 --> 00:44:50,520
Speaker 1: to the Bachelor mansion this episode, right, and you saw

885
00:44:51,520 --> 00:44:55,920
Speaker 1: a wet driveway, a wet driveway just like it is

886
00:44:55,960 --> 00:44:59,640
Speaker 1: on TV. We went in the hot tub. Um, we

887
00:45:00,200 --> 00:45:03,040
Speaker 1: sat on the steps in front of the front in

888
00:45:03,120 --> 00:45:05,520
Speaker 1: front of the front door, and Chris opens the door

889
00:45:05,600 --> 00:45:07,120
Speaker 1: and it's like, would you guys like to come in

890
00:45:07,200 --> 00:45:10,239
Speaker 1: and like talk about your love lives? And the best

891
00:45:10,239 --> 00:45:12,120
Speaker 1: thing is like the wishful filment of our show is

892
00:45:12,239 --> 00:45:14,960
Speaker 1: like we all have like families and past lives and

893
00:45:15,000 --> 00:45:16,799
Speaker 1: all kinds of stuff that's been going on that kind

894
00:45:16,800 --> 00:45:20,840
Speaker 1: of causes just sort of drama that whether or not

895
00:45:20,880 --> 00:45:23,479
Speaker 1: we want it, it's there. But we're also single, which

896
00:45:23,520 --> 00:45:25,640
Speaker 1: is like a really fun element of our show because

897
00:45:25,680 --> 00:45:29,040
Speaker 1: there's like chances for love connections, but of course we

898
00:45:29,080 --> 00:45:31,320
Speaker 1: all are totally like screwed up in our own ways,

899
00:45:31,360 --> 00:45:33,200
Speaker 1: so we can't really see love when it's staring at

900
00:45:33,239 --> 00:45:35,600
Speaker 1: us in the face, or like when a relationship is

901
00:45:35,640 --> 00:45:37,359
Speaker 1: good or bad, Like we can't really figure it out.

902
00:45:37,360 --> 00:45:40,520
Speaker 1: So my character has like in desperate need of some guidance,

903
00:45:40,560 --> 00:45:43,760
Speaker 1: and he's like the perfect person to be uh giving

904
00:45:44,040 --> 00:45:46,000
Speaker 1: breaking it down for me and happens to be doing

905
00:45:46,040 --> 00:45:48,080
Speaker 1: it in the hot tub and kind of knows like

906
00:45:48,680 --> 00:45:50,400
Speaker 1: just what to say to kind of get to me

907
00:45:50,480 --> 00:45:54,640
Speaker 1: and like make me understand um, sort of my my

908
00:45:54,760 --> 00:45:57,080
Speaker 1: shortcomings as far as love and what I can do

909
00:45:57,560 --> 00:46:00,640
Speaker 1: to fix it. We got j J. Filman and Layton

910
00:46:00,719 --> 00:46:03,839
Speaker 1: Measter on the line. Layton and j J will also

911
00:46:03,880 --> 00:46:09,200
Speaker 1: be at the Live Bachelor finale tomorrow Tuesday on ABC.

912
00:46:09,760 --> 00:46:14,280
Speaker 1: J J. You're actually the creator of Single Parents, Uh

913
00:46:14,360 --> 00:46:17,960
Speaker 1: that stars you know yourself and Laton Mester. Is that correct, yes,

914
00:46:18,160 --> 00:46:24,120
Speaker 1: called creator with Liz Meriweather amazing And because of your

915
00:46:24,640 --> 00:46:28,520
Speaker 1: desire and love for the Bachelor franchise, why did you

916
00:46:28,600 --> 00:46:33,040
Speaker 1: choose then to create an episode so Bachelor focused on

917
00:46:33,080 --> 00:46:35,279
Speaker 1: a show that you helped create and love so much

918
00:46:36,239 --> 00:46:38,520
Speaker 1: because of the with The Bachelor and our show is

919
00:46:38,560 --> 00:46:42,520
Speaker 1: about single people trying to find love and you know,

920
00:46:42,719 --> 00:46:45,360
Speaker 1: trying to believe in a fairy tale, trying to believe

921
00:46:45,400 --> 00:46:49,319
Speaker 1: that it does exist. And it just felt like a

922
00:46:49,400 --> 00:46:53,000
Speaker 1: perfect way to like mild my two loves, which is

923
00:46:53,360 --> 00:46:57,400
Speaker 1: single parents and also The Bachelor, I mean, getting Layton

924
00:46:57,719 --> 00:47:01,280
Speaker 1: and Camery, like their characters to talk to Chris Harrison

925
00:47:01,360 --> 00:47:04,000
Speaker 1: and to be like, you know, to express all of

926
00:47:04,000 --> 00:47:06,560
Speaker 1: their doubts and frustrations. And we do think of him

927
00:47:07,160 --> 00:47:09,600
Speaker 1: as in our writer's room, as a real guru, as

928
00:47:09,600 --> 00:47:12,200
Speaker 1: the person who you know, you go to for for

929
00:47:12,320 --> 00:47:16,040
Speaker 1: council um and and for faith and right and so

930
00:47:16,200 --> 00:47:19,839
Speaker 1: it really was like it actually made sense for us

931
00:47:19,920 --> 00:47:22,879
Speaker 1: story wise, and it also really made us laugh. I mean,

932
00:47:22,960 --> 00:47:25,840
Speaker 1: we're huge fans of the show, and selflessly, I just

933
00:47:26,040 --> 00:47:27,799
Speaker 1: I really wanted to go to the Mansion and I

934
00:47:27,840 --> 00:47:31,960
Speaker 1: really wanted to meet Chris Harrison. So we're yeah, did

935
00:47:32,000 --> 00:47:34,360
Speaker 1: you make Marcel the owner of the Bachelor Mansion? No?

936
00:47:34,680 --> 00:47:37,480
Speaker 1: I didn't. I mean I definitely was in like negotiations

937
00:47:37,520 --> 00:47:40,240
Speaker 1: with him and was like very aware like the time

938
00:47:40,280 --> 00:47:42,960
Speaker 1: crunch and like things that were going on that like

939
00:47:43,080 --> 00:47:45,759
Speaker 1: around our shoot dates, and was like on the edge

940
00:47:45,800 --> 00:47:48,160
Speaker 1: of my feet, like so nervous, but like it wasn't

941
00:47:48,200 --> 00:47:51,000
Speaker 1: going to work out. But when I found out that

942
00:47:51,080 --> 00:47:53,799
Speaker 1: we were going to be at the Bachelor Mansion with

943
00:47:54,080 --> 00:47:57,879
Speaker 1: Chris on Valentine's Day, I was like, well, I can

944
00:47:57,920 --> 00:48:01,480
Speaker 1: die now. But feels like the fires that you shot

945
00:48:01,520 --> 00:48:04,439
Speaker 1: the episode. Yeah, it was only like a month ago

946
00:48:04,560 --> 00:48:08,400
Speaker 1: that we thought the episode. The fires had happened in uh,

947
00:48:08,440 --> 00:48:11,279
Speaker 1: you know, the fall, and I was aware that the

948
00:48:11,320 --> 00:48:14,560
Speaker 1: fires were like encroaching upon the mansion, but in something

949
00:48:14,560 --> 00:48:17,960
Speaker 1: like divine intervention, the mansion had been spared, which felt

950
00:48:18,000 --> 00:48:21,680
Speaker 1: really right to me. I was like, yes, that makes sense, um.

951
00:48:21,800 --> 00:48:24,280
Speaker 1: And then when I got there, you know, it felt

952
00:48:24,280 --> 00:48:26,520
Speaker 1: even more right because it did feel kind of like

953
00:48:26,560 --> 00:48:30,960
Speaker 1: this hallowed ground. Um. It had been pouring that whole day.

954
00:48:31,080 --> 00:48:33,000
Speaker 1: It continued to pour it with an all night shoot,

955
00:48:33,000 --> 00:48:36,439
Speaker 1: as Layton was saying, and uh, you know, so it's

956
00:48:36,480 --> 00:48:39,440
Speaker 1: the driveway was super wet. The place had like there

957
00:48:39,480 --> 00:48:41,440
Speaker 1: was a mist that was coming up out of the

958
00:48:41,480 --> 00:48:45,279
Speaker 1: hot tub. It felt very fairy talist, which is what

959
00:48:45,320 --> 00:48:47,719
Speaker 1: we were sort of going for in the episode. It's

960
00:48:47,760 --> 00:48:50,400
Speaker 1: it's funny. I think we just passed over something that's exciting.

961
00:48:50,400 --> 00:48:55,040
Speaker 1: You literally rented Chris Harrison on Valentine's Day. I don't

962
00:48:55,040 --> 00:49:00,040
Speaker 1: know how it was my date on Valentine's Day. It

963
00:49:00,320 --> 00:49:04,040
Speaker 1: was a dream. I mean, my husband like stepped aside

964
00:49:04,120 --> 00:49:07,759
Speaker 1: because like I completely understand, like I would do the

965
00:49:07,800 --> 00:49:11,160
Speaker 1: same thing. And then I mean, so Chris opens up

966
00:49:11,200 --> 00:49:14,920
Speaker 1: the door of the bachelor mansion and he's obviously an

967
00:49:14,920 --> 00:49:17,840
Speaker 1: actor at this point, like he's acting to play himself,

968
00:49:17,840 --> 00:49:21,160
Speaker 1: which is unique. How was he as an actor of

969
00:49:21,320 --> 00:49:26,080
Speaker 1: himself of himself? Did he nail it? Nail it? He

970
00:49:26,160 --> 00:49:30,400
Speaker 1: nailed it. He really a He had like huge monologues

971
00:49:30,600 --> 00:49:34,000
Speaker 1: and was great. He was really good. Like sounds like

972
00:49:34,040 --> 00:49:36,080
Speaker 1: they were throwing all at him or he had to

973
00:49:36,080 --> 00:49:39,120
Speaker 1: like you know, kind of improvise and stay different like jokes,

974
00:49:39,200 --> 00:49:40,760
Speaker 1: just kind of come up with stuff on the spot

975
00:49:40,800 --> 00:49:43,440
Speaker 1: and stay different I don't know, variations of lines and

976
00:49:43,640 --> 00:49:45,680
Speaker 1: was just killing it and like really making me laugh

977
00:49:45,719 --> 00:49:48,120
Speaker 1: and actually like he can kind of the emotional moments.

978
00:49:48,160 --> 00:49:50,600
Speaker 1: I was really like, Okay, so this is why you host.

979
00:49:50,680 --> 00:49:52,600
Speaker 1: That's why I think why you do this, because like

980
00:49:52,960 --> 00:49:57,120
Speaker 1: you're really you're killing it. I sorry, Chris, Like Chris

981
00:49:57,120 --> 00:49:59,399
Speaker 1: had said, like it was the same way that when

982
00:49:59,520 --> 00:50:01,640
Speaker 1: he kind of like walks into a scene in the

983
00:50:01,680 --> 00:50:04,880
Speaker 1: Bachelor and I just immediately feel better. I'm like, whoever

984
00:50:04,960 --> 00:50:06,680
Speaker 1: is stressed out right now is going to be less

985
00:50:06,680 --> 00:50:09,759
Speaker 1: stressed out because Chris is here, Like I felt that

986
00:50:09,840 --> 00:50:14,359
Speaker 1: way in our episode, Like he just had like he's

987
00:50:14,400 --> 00:50:17,279
Speaker 1: so calm, he had such a command over what he

988
00:50:17,360 --> 00:50:18,919
Speaker 1: was doing, and I was like, he's in his home.

989
00:50:21,239 --> 00:50:24,680
Speaker 1: Jump the fence. They said, where's Chris, where's Chrisma Chris.

990
00:50:25,200 --> 00:50:27,520
Speaker 1: You know when I saw like Colton jump the fence,

991
00:50:27,560 --> 00:50:29,560
Speaker 1: I was like, somebody get him, Somebody wake him up,

992
00:50:29,640 --> 00:50:33,479
Speaker 1: find him, Find Chris. Like you guys all obviously haven't

993
00:50:33,480 --> 00:50:36,040
Speaker 1: been on the show, because when you do see Chris

994
00:50:36,080 --> 00:50:38,520
Speaker 1: Harrison come into a room, you normally think something that's

995
00:50:38,520 --> 00:50:43,120
Speaker 1: going to happen. I feel better. I always feel like

996
00:50:43,160 --> 00:50:46,759
Speaker 1: he's gonna like make it all okay. Well, Chris told

997
00:50:46,800 --> 00:50:49,360
Speaker 1: me that he thinks that he thinks a latent sense

998
00:50:49,600 --> 00:50:52,080
Speaker 1: that he was like freaking out, So she said, let's

999
00:50:52,120 --> 00:50:56,879
Speaker 1: have ten minutes. Yeah. So we so we had done

1000
00:50:56,960 --> 00:50:59,719
Speaker 1: like a little thing here and there, like throughout the day,

1001
00:50:59,760 --> 00:51:02,560
Speaker 1: like had done like an interview, and we'd done a

1002
00:51:02,600 --> 00:51:04,759
Speaker 1: rehearsal and maybe we shot like a little snippet up

1003
00:51:04,760 --> 00:51:06,560
Speaker 1: the scene. But then we had this massive scene that

1004
00:51:06,600 --> 00:51:08,920
Speaker 1: was starting like of course in the middle of the night,

1005
00:51:08,960 --> 00:51:11,000
Speaker 1: like two am, and we were shooting in the decuzzy

1006
00:51:11,080 --> 00:51:14,080
Speaker 1: and it was creezing and raining outside, but somehow there

1007
00:51:14,120 --> 00:51:17,920
Speaker 1: was like a break in the clouds um, and I

1008
00:51:18,000 --> 00:51:19,719
Speaker 1: was like, we should we should go through the lines

1009
00:51:19,719 --> 00:51:21,920
Speaker 1: because I didn't know, you know, I didn't know that

1010
00:51:21,920 --> 00:51:24,880
Speaker 1: he was a freaking professional actor. I was like, damn,

1011
00:51:25,360 --> 00:51:28,040
Speaker 1: he like he knew all his lines. And I think

1012
00:51:28,200 --> 00:51:30,560
Speaker 1: it really more for me. I was like, can we

1013
00:51:30,640 --> 00:51:32,480
Speaker 1: just run this because it's like three or four pages

1014
00:51:32,520 --> 00:51:35,480
Speaker 1: of dialogue and he totally didn't like like a lot

1015
00:51:35,600 --> 00:51:38,399
Speaker 1: of monologues and stuff, and he was just really good

1016
00:51:38,600 --> 00:51:42,080
Speaker 1: and super connected and super funny and um, so he

1017
00:51:42,120 --> 00:51:44,080
Speaker 1: really didn't need the rehearsal. I did more than he did.

1018
00:51:44,760 --> 00:51:47,279
Speaker 1: The uh lean and JJ, I gotta mention here, you're

1019
00:51:47,320 --> 00:51:50,440
Speaker 1: We're in studio right now in Los Angeles after the

1020
00:51:50,760 --> 00:51:55,120
Speaker 1: part one of the after the final rows, we have Tasha, Becca,

1021
00:51:55,239 --> 00:51:58,640
Speaker 1: and Garrett in studio with us. Uh, fans of the show. Uh,

1022
00:51:58,680 --> 00:52:01,319
Speaker 1: And I wonder are you ends of them? Because you're

1023
00:52:01,360 --> 00:52:05,759
Speaker 1: fans of The Bachelor. I'm I'm total fans of all

1024
00:52:05,840 --> 00:52:08,600
Speaker 1: you guys. I'm a little bit starstrectnoy that you're like

1025
00:52:08,680 --> 00:52:14,360
Speaker 1: on the other side of the line right now, really

1026
00:52:14,400 --> 00:52:17,000
Speaker 1: stealing lots of things, Like it's it's a lot to

1027
00:52:17,560 --> 00:52:20,520
Speaker 1: have all five of you like on the line at once,

1028
00:52:20,560 --> 00:52:24,840
Speaker 1: Like this is kind of big. I'm trying to cool

1029
00:52:25,000 --> 00:52:28,560
Speaker 1: but and before we let me let you go. Uh.

1030
00:52:28,719 --> 00:52:31,200
Speaker 1: There's a funny part in the episode where a kid goes,

1031
00:52:31,400 --> 00:52:34,759
Speaker 1: what's a virgin? Well, would your answer v to that

1032
00:52:34,880 --> 00:52:39,960
Speaker 1: to a kid either one of you? Oh the virgin? Uh?

1033
00:52:41,080 --> 00:52:46,239
Speaker 1: I would say someone who hasn't found love yet, not cut.

1034
00:52:46,480 --> 00:52:49,960
Speaker 1: That's a really nice answer. Hey out there listening Single

1035
00:52:50,000 --> 00:52:54,640
Speaker 1: Parents on ABC Wednesday night. It's a Bachelor themed episode

1036
00:52:54,719 --> 00:52:59,720
Speaker 1: with a guest appearance by the beloved Chris Harrison. Also

1037
00:53:00,000 --> 00:53:03,080
Speaker 1: and JJ will be at the Live Bachelor finale tomorrow

1038
00:53:03,160 --> 00:53:04,560
Speaker 1: in the audience. Are you guys excited to be in

1039
00:53:04,560 --> 00:53:08,319
Speaker 1: the audience. Yeah, I can't wait, super excited my first

1040
00:53:08,400 --> 00:53:13,879
Speaker 1: road ceremony. Will make sure you come say hi. I'll

1041
00:53:13,920 --> 00:53:17,760
Speaker 1: be uh, I'll be sitting somewhere around there. Um all evening.

1042
00:53:18,560 --> 00:53:25,240
Speaker 1: Also Single Parents airs on ABC Wednesday nights. Everybody listening

1043
00:53:25,320 --> 00:53:27,080
Speaker 1: tune in late and j J. Thank you so much

1044
00:53:27,080 --> 00:53:29,280
Speaker 1: for joining Almost Famous podcast. You got a great show

1045
00:53:29,520 --> 00:53:31,759
Speaker 1: and I look forward to meeting you tomorrow night. Thank

1046
00:53:31,760 --> 00:53:35,040
Speaker 1: you so much. Thank you guys, Bye, Thank you, Thanks

1047
00:53:35,040 --> 00:53:38,239
Speaker 1: for having Thank you. All. Right, we've gotta get back.

1048
00:53:38,280 --> 00:53:40,640
Speaker 1: Let's get back to you. We're gonna get back to

1049
00:53:40,680 --> 00:53:42,640
Speaker 1: the grilling fest, right, but not really. I think we're

1050
00:53:42,640 --> 00:53:44,799
Speaker 1: gonna light it up now. I think I have some

1051
00:53:44,800 --> 00:53:47,360
Speaker 1: fun questions that we kind of like to wrap every

1052
00:53:47,560 --> 00:53:50,719
Speaker 1: show with. Were you a fan of The Bachelor beforehand?

1053
00:53:51,239 --> 00:53:55,560
Speaker 1: You know what? I actually started watching Ben season and

1054
00:53:55,680 --> 00:53:59,640
Speaker 1: so yeah, and he still chows to go on now wait,

1055
00:54:00,120 --> 00:54:03,000
Speaker 1: get there were some speculation in late August or early

1056
00:54:03,040 --> 00:54:06,080
Speaker 1: September that Ben could have been the Bachelor. You know

1057
00:54:06,880 --> 00:54:08,719
Speaker 1: did how do you feel about that? Do you want

1058
00:54:08,760 --> 00:54:15,640
Speaker 1: it to be Ben? I mean that space, I'm not

1059
00:54:15,680 --> 00:54:18,960
Speaker 1: looking at him. It's always a fun part of the

1060
00:54:18,960 --> 00:54:23,399
Speaker 1: podcast because it was fun when I was single too.

1061
00:54:23,440 --> 00:54:25,200
Speaker 1: For actually was actually kind of funny to put people

1062
00:54:25,200 --> 00:54:26,960
Speaker 1: in weir positions because for a while I did think

1063
00:54:27,000 --> 00:54:29,839
Speaker 1: about it and uh, and it went I mean this

1064
00:54:29,920 --> 00:54:32,960
Speaker 1: year for the first time. I don't know if if

1065
00:54:33,000 --> 00:54:34,759
Speaker 1: it would have been for sure me or not, but

1066
00:54:34,800 --> 00:54:37,200
Speaker 1: it's the first time I even considered it again. And

1067
00:54:37,239 --> 00:54:39,520
Speaker 1: there was a thousand reasons why I would have done it,

1068
00:54:39,520 --> 00:54:42,200
Speaker 1: in a thousand reasons why I didn't. But Tachi, I

1069
00:54:42,280 --> 00:54:46,880
Speaker 1: will say that watching you back this season, seeing how

1070
00:54:46,880 --> 00:54:49,240
Speaker 1: you handled yourself and so you're seeing how you handled

1071
00:54:49,239 --> 00:54:51,799
Speaker 1: the break up and jumping out of bungees, which I

1072
00:54:51,800 --> 00:54:54,160
Speaker 1: think was one of the like I still am upset

1073
00:54:54,200 --> 00:54:55,480
Speaker 1: with you for that. It was one of the most

1074
00:54:55,840 --> 00:54:59,279
Speaker 1: stressful segments of this season. Watching you would have done

1075
00:54:59,280 --> 00:55:02,640
Speaker 1: to you before are the job I would have never

1076
00:55:02,680 --> 00:55:04,759
Speaker 1: done it. I would have finished this season then and

1077
00:55:04,800 --> 00:55:07,719
Speaker 1: there you want to see me run for like, just

1078
00:55:07,719 --> 00:55:10,560
Speaker 1: try to make me bungee jump not not not even

1079
00:55:10,560 --> 00:55:13,160
Speaker 1: a good idea, But you handed yourself with so much

1080
00:55:13,160 --> 00:55:16,560
Speaker 1: grace and so much poise, even up to the very end.

1081
00:55:16,680 --> 00:55:18,879
Speaker 1: And I think that's why you know, the women last

1082
00:55:18,880 --> 00:55:22,919
Speaker 1: week were so encouraging and supportive of you as a person.

1083
00:55:23,000 --> 00:55:27,760
Speaker 1: So great job, You've made it. You're done. Oh my god. Okay,

1084
00:55:27,840 --> 00:55:30,680
Speaker 1: well now that Ben wasn't the Bachelor, and Ben isn't

1085
00:55:30,680 --> 00:55:33,319
Speaker 1: going to be on Paradise because he's a taken man.

1086
00:55:33,440 --> 00:55:37,200
Speaker 1: Right now, who do you want to see in Paradise

1087
00:55:37,280 --> 00:55:40,120
Speaker 1: from a past season that you think has a possibility

1088
00:55:40,200 --> 00:55:43,040
Speaker 1: of popping up? You? Guys, not gonna lie. I haven't

1089
00:55:43,080 --> 00:55:45,200
Speaker 1: even given this any thought. Really, like, you don't have

1090
00:55:45,239 --> 00:55:48,600
Speaker 1: a Bachelor crush. I'm mean, let's think you've been watching

1091
00:55:48,640 --> 00:55:51,160
Speaker 1: for since Ben's let's talk. Let's talk to this with you.

1092
00:55:51,239 --> 00:55:54,000
Speaker 1: Let's take a second. All right, let's give me some names.

1093
00:55:54,400 --> 00:55:58,200
Speaker 1: I think Peter Krause has been talking about you on

1094
00:55:58,239 --> 00:56:02,239
Speaker 1: either Twitter or Instagram that he no, of course he's not,

1095
00:56:02,360 --> 00:56:05,560
Speaker 1: but he just thought that you were super hot. But hey,

1096
00:56:06,080 --> 00:56:08,719
Speaker 1: Peter is my neighbor in Minnesota and Wisconsin, so I

1097
00:56:08,760 --> 00:56:11,000
Speaker 1: ever want to meet him? Okay, let us know he's

1098
00:56:11,040 --> 00:56:15,880
Speaker 1: coming over. He's a great friend. What about what about

1099
00:56:16,880 --> 00:56:23,279
Speaker 1: I mean, is not going don't cross him out? Yeah,

1100
00:56:24,280 --> 00:56:29,239
Speaker 1: don't cross Dan out. He's definitely a possibility. Days ago.

1101
00:56:29,360 --> 00:56:33,759
Speaker 1: He likes a bungee jump, not bungee jump sky he's

1102
00:56:33,800 --> 00:56:37,120
Speaker 1: adrenaline junkie. Okay, just because I did on the show

1103
00:56:37,120 --> 00:56:41,560
Speaker 1: doesn't mean a junkie. I mean he's cute, all right,

1104
00:56:42,480 --> 00:56:45,120
Speaker 1: He's cute. I'm not getting enough anywhere. She's not. He

1105
00:56:45,120 --> 00:56:49,439
Speaker 1: didn't hit the spot, Okay, Blake, Hortsman, Blake. Oh, she's

1106
00:56:49,440 --> 00:56:54,240
Speaker 1: into it. Okay, Yeah, he's cute him tonight, I did.

1107
00:56:55,320 --> 00:56:57,040
Speaker 1: I mean, and then there's a whole new crop. I mean,

1108
00:56:57,120 --> 00:56:59,440
Speaker 1: I feel like, if we're gonna let's let's wait a

1109
00:56:59,440 --> 00:57:02,680
Speaker 1: couple of weeks here, let's maybe bring um some contestants

1110
00:57:02,840 --> 00:57:06,680
Speaker 1: potentially going on Paradise back. Let's rank what potential guys

1111
00:57:06,719 --> 00:57:08,640
Speaker 1: are already that already exists in the Bachelor world that

1112
00:57:08,680 --> 00:57:10,200
Speaker 1: could be a paradise. I mean, I'm gonna put Dean

1113
00:57:10,680 --> 00:57:13,719
Speaker 1: and Blake up there, very very call Dean right now.

1114
00:57:14,040 --> 00:57:17,000
Speaker 1: Let's call Dean right now and see if he'll he'll

1115
00:57:17,040 --> 00:57:19,360
Speaker 1: get on the Bachelor in Paradise, and if so, will

1116
00:57:19,360 --> 00:57:21,439
Speaker 1: he take Tashia on a date. It sounds like Dean

1117
00:57:21,520 --> 00:57:26,040
Speaker 1: is already on the line. Hey Dean, heyy so Tasha

1118
00:57:26,240 --> 00:57:30,440
Speaker 1: has you know, bungee jump? She's skydived at your skydiving place,

1119
00:57:30,520 --> 00:57:35,160
Speaker 1: the place, the Paris skydiving, that that she's familiar, she'll

1120
00:57:35,200 --> 00:57:39,840
Speaker 1: meet you down there possibly if you guys mutually seemed

1121
00:57:39,840 --> 00:57:42,560
Speaker 1: to be into each other. Are you are you trying

1122
00:57:42,560 --> 00:57:47,080
Speaker 1: to right now? She's on the line, Oh hey, oh

1123
00:57:47,120 --> 00:57:54,000
Speaker 1: my god, I don't they incredibly awkward A little bit.

1124
00:57:54,440 --> 00:57:56,960
Speaker 1: We have zero confirmation first off, of Tasia will even

1125
00:57:57,000 --> 00:57:59,920
Speaker 1: be in Paradise, but we're just saying there is the potential, right,

1126
00:58:00,160 --> 00:58:02,800
Speaker 1: I mean, her time on Colton season is now done.

1127
00:58:03,000 --> 00:58:05,880
Speaker 1: She's done it well. She pursued love to the best

1128
00:58:06,000 --> 00:58:09,720
Speaker 1: of everybody's ability. She found somebody that she was hopeful for.

1129
00:58:09,960 --> 00:58:12,840
Speaker 1: And now obviously, just like we're doing this franchise, we

1130
00:58:12,920 --> 00:58:16,480
Speaker 1: start looking ahead right away, moving on and sing Tassia,

1131
00:58:16,520 --> 00:58:20,200
Speaker 1: if you end up in Paradise, Dean, is there a

1132
00:58:20,280 --> 00:58:23,200
Speaker 1: chance you would be there? I mean, it's funny because

1133
00:58:23,200 --> 00:58:26,920
Speaker 1: I'm literally watching she just got dumb. Uh, I'm watching that,

1134
00:58:27,560 --> 00:58:29,840
Speaker 1: and at the at the reunion show, I was like,

1135
00:58:29,840 --> 00:58:33,840
Speaker 1: holy cow, she looks amazing. Yeah, okay, Dean, you didn't

1136
00:58:33,840 --> 00:58:37,760
Speaker 1: ask my question. You think she looks amazing? So the

1137
00:58:37,760 --> 00:58:40,400
Speaker 1: attraction is there? Is there a chance of being Paradise?

1138
00:58:41,560 --> 00:58:43,000
Speaker 1: I don't know, man, I think I have to sit

1139
00:58:43,000 --> 00:58:44,680
Speaker 1: down and have a conversation to s about that before

1140
00:58:44,720 --> 00:58:47,959
Speaker 1: I can really find wise. I need a vision father

1141
00:58:48,040 --> 00:58:50,040
Speaker 1: of the franchise. Well, I need to sit down and

1142
00:58:50,080 --> 00:58:53,080
Speaker 1: talk to Ben a little bit. I'm really nervous about Dean.

1143
00:58:53,640 --> 00:58:56,400
Speaker 1: I love Dean so much, like I love this dude

1144
00:58:56,440 --> 00:58:59,040
Speaker 1: like my brother. And I'm really nervous for Dean for

1145
00:58:59,080 --> 00:59:01,640
Speaker 1: one reason, Tasha, you don't and like I would set

1146
00:59:01,640 --> 00:59:03,240
Speaker 1: you up with with him in a second. I would

1147
00:59:03,280 --> 00:59:05,680
Speaker 1: be so excited about that idea. But last week we

1148
00:59:05,760 --> 00:59:08,280
Speaker 1: had some another a really great group of women in

1149
00:59:08,440 --> 00:59:10,160
Speaker 1: on the podcast as well, and they said in live

1150
00:59:10,600 --> 00:59:12,920
Speaker 1: and all of them like Dean, we know how what

1151
00:59:13,000 --> 00:59:17,200
Speaker 1: happens with Dean. Like I'm nervous that this boy, this man,

1152
00:59:18,000 --> 00:59:22,800
Speaker 1: you have so many women going after him that we

1153
00:59:22,840 --> 00:59:25,400
Speaker 1: won't be able to protect him. Like he's such a

1154
00:59:25,440 --> 00:59:28,040
Speaker 1: bighearted man, he has so much love to give. And

1155
00:59:28,080 --> 00:59:31,200
Speaker 1: I can't watch another black box of Dean. Yeah, and honestly,

1156
00:59:31,240 --> 00:59:33,480
Speaker 1: those are all my girlfriends, and I don't know how

1157
00:59:33,480 --> 00:59:36,080
Speaker 1: I feel about going after another guy with all my girlfriends. Again,

1158
00:59:36,720 --> 00:59:40,760
Speaker 1: you're on the Bachelor. Oh my gosh, you guys. I'm sorry.

1159
00:59:40,760 --> 00:59:42,640
Speaker 1: I got the stress. But Dean, I do want to

1160
00:59:42,760 --> 00:59:47,400
Speaker 1: ask you if if Peter has made any comments about Tasha.

1161
00:59:48,640 --> 00:59:52,000
Speaker 1: Has Peter commented on not that I know of, Because

1162
00:59:52,000 --> 00:59:54,160
Speaker 1: I saw a Twitter and Instagram, I thought you maybe

1163
00:59:54,200 --> 00:59:57,080
Speaker 1: knew more. I don't think he watches the show, so

1164
00:59:57,120 --> 01:00:00,680
Speaker 1: I would be surprised. I don't know. I think also

1165
01:00:00,840 --> 01:00:04,720
Speaker 1: I forget his name now. Uh, Dean, we love you, dearly. Uh,

1166
01:00:04,840 --> 01:00:06,800
Speaker 1: let's talk soon. It sounds like we've got a lot

1167
01:00:06,840 --> 01:00:10,600
Speaker 1: to talk about, Dean. I will say what you texted

1168
01:00:10,640 --> 01:00:12,120
Speaker 1: me last week. You said you wanted to catch up

1169
01:00:12,120 --> 01:00:13,440
Speaker 1: this week and I haven't heard from you since. Man,

1170
01:00:13,480 --> 01:00:15,840
Speaker 1: you ghosted me. I got in today, Dean, give it

1171
01:00:15,880 --> 01:00:18,360
Speaker 1: a break. Man, Hey, I love you dearly. Dude. We'll

1172
01:00:18,360 --> 01:00:21,880
Speaker 1: talk to you very soon. And uh, anyways, if you're interested,

1173
01:00:22,240 --> 01:00:23,760
Speaker 1: there's a lot of women out there just saying, you

1174
01:00:23,760 --> 01:00:26,560
Speaker 1: know what, that Dan guy. He seems pretty cute. But

1175
01:00:26,880 --> 01:00:28,800
Speaker 1: I think they could all probably do themselves a favorite

1176
01:00:28,840 --> 01:00:30,640
Speaker 1: stay as far away as possible. But I appreciate it.

1177
01:00:30,680 --> 01:00:32,959
Speaker 1: I love you guys so much. I love you so much.

1178
01:00:33,040 --> 01:00:35,680
Speaker 1: We love you so much. And um, we are going

1179
01:00:35,720 --> 01:00:39,320
Speaker 1: to move on with this interview with Tassia right now. Tasha,

1180
01:00:39,480 --> 01:00:43,760
Speaker 1: what was your favorite memory that didn't make air? Oh?

1181
01:00:43,800 --> 01:00:50,920
Speaker 1: That didn't make air? Um? We actually okay, so a

1182
01:00:50,920 --> 01:00:53,320
Speaker 1: little bit got shown is when we were getting chased

1183
01:00:53,320 --> 01:00:56,040
Speaker 1: by the bat in the mansion. Did see that? I

1184
01:00:56,120 --> 01:00:59,760
Speaker 1: remember the great because they have the doors open all

1185
01:00:59,800 --> 01:01:02,960
Speaker 1: the time. Yeah, but there is like a bad problem.

1186
01:01:03,000 --> 01:01:06,200
Speaker 1: There is like multiple did you guys see the rat?

1187
01:01:06,880 --> 01:01:11,280
Speaker 1: What is there a rat? Yeah? It was well fed too.

1188
01:01:12,880 --> 01:01:14,800
Speaker 1: I would have screamed, but no, there was bats and

1189
01:01:14,840 --> 01:01:20,000
Speaker 1: there was a ton of bees, and um, yeah it

1190
01:01:20,160 --> 01:01:23,760
Speaker 1: was I hate bats, like I hate hate that so much.

1191
01:01:24,080 --> 01:01:26,360
Speaker 1: Then I look at them on Instagram and I'm like, wait,

1192
01:01:26,360 --> 01:01:29,360
Speaker 1: they're actually kind of cute. They look like little mice. Yeah,

1193
01:01:29,400 --> 01:01:32,919
Speaker 1: they're or like when they're curled up, they're like they're

1194
01:01:32,960 --> 01:01:36,320
Speaker 1: like squirrels with wings. They're really not that bad. But

1195
01:01:36,360 --> 01:01:41,400
Speaker 1: then there's something about them flying so like they can't

1196
01:01:41,400 --> 01:01:44,800
Speaker 1: do there's like this just there lack of coordination that

1197
01:01:44,840 --> 01:01:48,000
Speaker 1: freaks me out. I think wells have oftentimes have rabies,

1198
01:01:48,040 --> 01:01:52,440
Speaker 1: so we've got to stay away from that. Yes, I

1199
01:01:52,480 --> 01:01:56,000
Speaker 1: have two final questions for you, and uh and I'm

1200
01:01:56,000 --> 01:01:58,040
Speaker 1: gonna ask one senator but Ashley, and then I'm gonna

1201
01:01:58,040 --> 01:01:59,680
Speaker 1: close you out here. The last one is one for

1202
01:01:59,720 --> 01:02:02,120
Speaker 1: you just riff off of this one is and I

1203
01:02:02,160 --> 01:02:04,760
Speaker 1: do wanna. I don't want to just assume things. And

1204
01:02:04,760 --> 01:02:06,840
Speaker 1: so once you have to answer it, is there a

1205
01:02:06,880 --> 01:02:11,439
Speaker 1: change that you go to paradise? Um? Never say never,

1206
01:02:11,600 --> 01:02:16,120
Speaker 1: but wouldn't you? Honestly, I've actually have never seen Bachelor Paradise,

1207
01:02:16,520 --> 01:02:19,400
Speaker 1: so I don't really know what takespect. But it's all fresh.

1208
01:02:19,440 --> 01:02:21,160
Speaker 1: I mean tonight is like, yeah, it's just a lot

1209
01:02:21,200 --> 01:02:23,040
Speaker 1: to think about. I get it. I just you know,

1210
01:02:23,240 --> 01:02:24,960
Speaker 1: we'll throw it out there because it's obviously we're a

1211
01:02:24,960 --> 01:02:26,920
Speaker 1: podcast and we're talking about the Bachelor, so we have

1212
01:02:26,920 --> 01:02:29,240
Speaker 1: to do you guys think I should go? Yes? Okay,

1213
01:02:29,240 --> 01:02:31,640
Speaker 1: I don't think it is beautiful there. I think it's

1214
01:02:32,120 --> 01:02:33,520
Speaker 1: do you guys? Yeah, Beck and Garrett do you think

1215
01:02:33,560 --> 01:02:37,440
Speaker 1: that she should go? I mean I would say, if

1216
01:02:37,440 --> 01:02:41,520
Speaker 1: you're ready to find love or other friends, then yes,

1217
01:02:42,240 --> 01:02:44,760
Speaker 1: it's like a month long vacation. Yeah. I mean he

1218
01:02:44,800 --> 01:02:47,439
Speaker 1: doesn't want that. I say, think about it, but then

1219
01:02:48,160 --> 01:02:51,240
Speaker 1: go have a hell of a time. Okay. I'm a

1220
01:02:51,280 --> 01:02:53,800
Speaker 1: big fan, and because I sit next to Ashley every

1221
01:02:53,840 --> 01:02:55,400
Speaker 1: week for two years now or a year and a half,

1222
01:02:55,400 --> 01:02:58,320
Speaker 1: I don't know how long. So it feels like I'm

1223
01:02:58,320 --> 01:03:00,520
Speaker 1: a big fan of Paradise and Ashley speak to this

1224
01:03:00,560 --> 01:03:03,320
Speaker 1: from experience, But I've seen friends from my season of

1225
01:03:03,360 --> 01:03:06,520
Speaker 1: the show find their wives and now have kids. And

1226
01:03:06,560 --> 01:03:09,600
Speaker 1: I've seen Ashley, my co host, find her future husband,

1227
01:03:09,760 --> 01:03:11,720
Speaker 1: and a friend of mine from the show, I've seen

1228
01:03:12,120 --> 01:03:15,800
Speaker 1: real love come out of Paradise, And so for me,

1229
01:03:15,880 --> 01:03:18,040
Speaker 1: I'm like, why would you not give it a shot? Honestly, Like,

1230
01:03:18,440 --> 01:03:21,320
Speaker 1: it's such a fun vacation for a month that also

1231
01:03:21,400 --> 01:03:24,360
Speaker 1: has led to so many incredible stories of actual love,

1232
01:03:24,400 --> 01:03:27,800
Speaker 1: which if we're all really being authentic and honest here,

1233
01:03:28,040 --> 01:03:30,400
Speaker 1: isn't that where we do the show, it's very true.

1234
01:03:30,640 --> 01:03:31,880
Speaker 1: I mean, I guess if my heart's in the right

1235
01:03:31,880 --> 01:03:33,720
Speaker 1: place at the time right now, I just kind of

1236
01:03:33,760 --> 01:03:35,920
Speaker 1: a little overwhelmed. Youve got a few months. Yeah, I'm

1237
01:03:35,960 --> 01:03:38,800
Speaker 1: actually kind of excited to just be single and be

1238
01:03:38,960 --> 01:03:42,320
Speaker 1: me for a little bit. So yeah, do you girl?

1239
01:03:42,400 --> 01:03:44,960
Speaker 1: Live it up? Thank you? I little y show. What

1240
01:03:45,000 --> 01:03:51,360
Speaker 1: does your dad say, Slash think about Colton today? Good question.

1241
01:03:52,040 --> 01:03:55,720
Speaker 1: He just goes this guy, That's what my dad says,

1242
01:03:55,960 --> 01:04:00,080
Speaker 1: and he just he thinks he's awesome. But um, and

1243
01:04:00,160 --> 01:04:02,520
Speaker 1: he still friendly believes that you don't mike relationships, and

1244
01:04:02,520 --> 01:04:05,040
Speaker 1: he says, I told you so so. I mean that's

1245
01:04:05,080 --> 01:04:09,440
Speaker 1: that loved that expression. So good. My dad said his

1246
01:04:09,440 --> 01:04:12,439
Speaker 1: favorite hometown was yours. Really yeah, he thought he really

1247
01:04:12,480 --> 01:04:14,960
Speaker 1: thought your parents were sweet and genuine. They're pretty cool,

1248
01:04:15,000 --> 01:04:17,640
Speaker 1: aren't they. They seem to be cool. I mean they are.

1249
01:04:17,760 --> 01:04:20,800
Speaker 1: And I get my spunk from my dad, and I'm

1250
01:04:20,840 --> 01:04:24,680
Speaker 1: as modest as my mom. So very nice. Hey, uh,

1251
01:04:25,280 --> 01:04:27,720
Speaker 1: I have one last final question. I need you to

1252
01:04:27,800 --> 01:04:32,080
Speaker 1: just riff on. But before we do that, Ashley, can

1253
01:04:32,080 --> 01:04:35,200
Speaker 1: you tell all our listeners out there about Article? Did

1254
01:04:35,240 --> 01:04:39,000
Speaker 1: you get your article furniture? Would you order? I ordered

1255
01:04:39,000 --> 01:04:43,080
Speaker 1: a lamp? Um? Here's the thing. My lamps are very

1256
01:04:43,120 --> 01:04:44,640
Speaker 1: old in my house. I don't spend a lot of

1257
01:04:44,640 --> 01:04:46,640
Speaker 1: money on my decorations. Did you go to like a

1258
01:04:46,640 --> 01:04:50,280
Speaker 1: thrift store to get it? Um? And so I had

1259
01:04:50,320 --> 01:04:53,919
Speaker 1: to replace it just so it looks a little nicer inside. Okay, nice? Well.

1260
01:04:54,040 --> 01:04:56,959
Speaker 1: Article dot Com has a whole bunch of beautiful, well

1261
01:04:57,000 --> 01:05:01,480
Speaker 1: made furniture. It's based on scandinavi in simplicity. It's beautifully

1262
01:05:01,480 --> 01:05:06,000
Speaker 1: designed modern furniture. Article is an online only furniture company

1263
01:05:06,040 --> 01:05:09,520
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Speaker 1: pillows from that room. We have a dog trainer coming

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Speaker 1: be the cutest place to unwind and relax, especially our

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Speaker 1: a bit like this morning. I didn't realize that I

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Speaker 1: I had a lot to cram in, but um, getting

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Speaker 1: one less hour of sleep it wasn't fun. But getting

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Speaker 1: to spend it in some really soft comforters and sheets

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Speaker 1: and blankets from Cranton Barrel that was that was pretty fun. Um. Well,

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Speaker 1: today Jared left me because we're thirty six hours apart

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Speaker 1: right now. It's very sad. He's at a viewing party

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Speaker 1: like in Palm Springs. I know we have very bad

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Speaker 1: I'm sleeping on a cloud. Jared too, and our our

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Speaker 1: dog that likes to pee on the bed um. And

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Speaker 1: I'm very excited right now that when we wrap up

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Speaker 1: Thank you so much for coming on podcast. Thank you.

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Speaker 1: Um before you go looking back in your time now.

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Speaker 1: Uh it is over and just for NYM out there listening,

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Speaker 1: it's fresh. We just watch it tonight, but it's been

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Speaker 1: a few months. Um. You just saw Colton this evening.

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Speaker 1: This wasn't easy on you, but you held yourself, like

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Speaker 1: I said earlier, with grace and poise. How do you

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Speaker 1: explain your experience on the show. Was it worth it?

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Speaker 1: And do you regret anything? Um, I don't regret anything.

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Speaker 1: I think I, like I said earlier, late, it all

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Speaker 1: out there and because of that, I think I agree

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Speaker 1: tremendously and I am now what I used to call

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Speaker 1: with some of my friends on the show is tage

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Speaker 1: a two point No. UM, I'm just doing everything in

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Speaker 1: life bigger and better and I'm in a really good headspace.

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Speaker 1: I I'm really striving to do the most with my

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Speaker 1: life that I've been given. Um. I feel like I've

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Speaker 1: gotten a second chance and I'm just I'm excited for everything. UM.

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Speaker 1: As far as my journey, it was hard. There was

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Speaker 1: a lot of emotions. UM, it was a roller coaster.

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Speaker 1: But I'm so happy I went on the show without

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Speaker 1: a doubt. You've mentioned a prayer journal. Yes, UM, I'm

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Speaker 1: going to assume that you were one of faith. We've

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Speaker 1: talked about tonight, uh in the dressing room before we

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Speaker 1: were out on the live show. Is one of the

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Speaker 1: common themes that we hear from people that go on

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Speaker 1: the show and that come off the show is that

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Speaker 1: they feel like they've lacked identity or purpose because you

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Speaker 1: have this massive explosion of attention and love and support

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Speaker 1: is unwarranted and also unexpected, and it last a while.

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Speaker 1: You know, we're doing this podcast for two years now

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Speaker 1: and we love every second of it. But but actually

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Speaker 1: we've been humbled over the years at how new groups

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Speaker 1: come through, new bachelor's come through, new groups of women

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Speaker 1: and men come through, and slowly but surely you get

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Speaker 1: pushed behind. So for you, as a woman of faith

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Speaker 1: to be? What do you want to display moving forward

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Speaker 1: with the platform that you've been given. Um, honestly that

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Speaker 1: God is everything. I would not have been able to

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Speaker 1: overcome half the things I did if I didn't have

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Speaker 1: my faith. While as on the show, UM, I didn't

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Speaker 1: have my parents. I only had me, myself and God.

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Speaker 1: So I prayed a lot and I think that that's

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Speaker 1: So I hope that I have that platform to show

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Speaker 1: basically ta, Yes, you're beautiful. Thank you, thanks for coming

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Speaker 1: on the podcast. I appreciate you guys. Thank you for

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Speaker 1: good job. Don't we have to do sermons with Ben

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Speaker 1: remind me of my uncle Gary, who is a pastor,

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Speaker 1: imagine if that was actually your career? Is I'm making

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Speaker 1: a show by sitting in the SuDS in a bathtub,

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Speaker 1: in a warm bath, drinking wine, eating and just sunking life.

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Speaker 1: Sign me up. I have made would not complain um Tassia.

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Speaker 1: Thank you. Garrett and Becca, you're one of our favorites.

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Speaker 1: Were on the dry here and I said it to

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Speaker 1: him and Ashley and I've talked about after we left

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Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, it's been awes. I've been looking forward

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Speaker 1: I think, and it always affects me differently. Maybe it's

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Speaker 1: I'm so sorry we interrupted this sign off because Eastan

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