Speaker 1: Second, Dat day, ladies, what's the one quality and a
Speaker 1: guy that would make you say he's perfect? Oh gosh,
Speaker 1: just one? Is it a good sense of humor? Yeah?
Speaker 1: For sure? Is it his bulging calves? Is it his
Speaker 1: bulging bank account? Oh? Hello, I thought we were going
Speaker 1: somewhere else and I was going to be more excited.
Speaker 1: Could be there too. We might learn the answer here
Speaker 1: in just a second. So guys, make sure you're paying
Speaker 1: attention because one of our listeners, Amelia, says she went
Speaker 1: out with the perfect guy for her and she needs
Speaker 1: our help today. Amelia, Welcome to the show. Hi, guy,
Speaker 1: oh man, you're setting yourself up for a lot of
Speaker 1: pressure calling him the perfect guy for you. He's not
Speaker 1: calling you back. Yeah, well he really is the perfect
Speaker 1: guy for me. You're not backing down. I'm curious. What's
Speaker 1: mister Perfect's name is? Rob? Rob? Yeah? Rob rob r
Speaker 1: awb r like he robbed her heart? He did? So
Speaker 1: we match on Tinder. Actually, okay, So first off, he's
Speaker 1: the typical tall, dark, handsome businessman. But he has the
Speaker 1: look of a sexy firefighter. Oh okay, braun and brains. Yeah,
Speaker 1: that's what I'm saying. He even has a tattoo of
Speaker 1: a house cat. And let me tell you, I'm a
Speaker 1: cat lady. I love cats. You're okay? I ever thought
Speaker 1: you saying I love tats, but no, you love cat cats? Yeah,
Speaker 1: but tats of cats. I actually have that calendar. So
Speaker 1: what did you guys end up doing for a date?
Speaker 1: So he asked me if I wanted to, you know, Loki,
Speaker 1: go out and just get some drinks and meet each other,
Speaker 1: and okay, I said absolutely. At this point, were you
Speaker 1: like nervous or were you thinking this guy's too good
Speaker 1: to be true and he's probably gonna be like some
Speaker 1: sort of catfish. Well, I've got nothing to lose, so
Speaker 1: I um. I was hoping to the day couldn't get
Speaker 1: any worse than my dating ye as well. I was
Speaker 1: happy to have plans made. So what did he end
Speaker 1: up being like? Was he everything that you would hope
Speaker 1: he would be? He really was. He was really good
Speaker 1: at holding conversation. He was a good listener. He listened.
Speaker 1: He asked me questions about me, like what, why? Why?
Speaker 1: I'm just kidding, I'm kidding. I know it's a rare thing.
Speaker 1: The last guy I was on a date with I
Speaker 1: didn't get to talk for like over a half hour,
Speaker 1: but all he did was talking about himself. He wouldn't
Speaker 1: shut up. And the people who usually talk that much
Speaker 1: about themselves are actually really boring. Yeah, it's never interesting
Speaker 1: people that talk that much. No, you're absolutely right about that.
Speaker 1: But you know, for me having a good looking a
Speaker 1: good listener, it's hard to find. Yeah, they're just not
Speaker 1: out there. Yeah. And a lot of times when guys
Speaker 1: are good looking and they are rich and they do
Speaker 1: have everything, they are super into themselves and they don't
Speaker 1: care about you. They're just like, hey, by the way,
Speaker 1: I am rich. Were you getting Were you getting more
Speaker 1: and more nervous as the date went on and you're
Speaker 1: realizing this guy is like checking every single box. No,
Speaker 1: I was getting more and more excited. I was like,
Speaker 1: I felt like I was listening to the lottery numbers
Speaker 1: and each one that came up I has. It's great.
Speaker 1: They had such a good vibe with him. But was
Speaker 1: there anything that was awkward or weird about the date,
Speaker 1: like at all? Yes. Oh That's why I'm calling you, guys,
Speaker 1: is because towards the end of the night, we decided
Speaker 1: to have one more drink, but we weren't even done
Speaker 1: when their drink and he looks at me and he says, hey,
Speaker 1: I'm sorry, I have to wrap it up here. I
Speaker 1: have another commitment. Okay, business like all right, I mean
Speaker 1: that's okay, but it's like one drink, like you can't
Speaker 1: wait ten more minutes to just finish. Like that's what
Speaker 1: I was thinking. It was like it seemed to be
Speaker 1: going so well, and it was like almost like I
Speaker 1: scared him. So we went to leave our table, and
Speaker 1: I assumed he was going to come with me, like
Speaker 1: walk each of your car, yeah, or just walk away
Speaker 1: from the table with me suntil we were done eating, right,
Speaker 1: because it's over. He got up, he gave me a hug,
Speaker 1: he told me it was great to meet me, and
Speaker 1: then he sat back down at the table and pulled
Speaker 1: out his phone. Why wait for somebody else? So you left?
Speaker 1: And he stayed. Yeah, And like I'm wondering, like if
Speaker 1: he's some kind of player that had a bunch of
Speaker 1: dates lined up and he was just going to take
Speaker 1: us all to the same restaurant at the same table, Well,
Speaker 1: is I would be easier to do just like I'll
Speaker 1: line them up. Having to do with rich has to
Speaker 1: do with efficiency, Yeah, but that makes you feel bad,
Speaker 1: right because you're thinking, wait, was he interested in me?
Speaker 1: Or is he just thinking about whoever he's going out
Speaker 1: with right off? Why would you know, like fake leave right? Yeah,
Speaker 1: I don't even go to the bathroom. Yeah, like, oh
Speaker 1: you go out. I got to run to the restroom.
Speaker 1: Maybe it was something that isn't sketchy, so he didn't
Speaker 1: feel the need to like act weird about it, waiting
Speaker 1: for his mom or something. I'm a sister. There could
Speaker 1: be a reasonable explanation. But maybe mister perfect isn't so
Speaker 1: perfect after all. Yeah, well that's what I'm worried about,
Speaker 1: someone not being what they seem. No, let's call mister
Speaker 1: perfect and find out for ourselves. Let's play a song.
Speaker 1: We'll come back when we'll try and get your second
Speaker 1: day update right after this. All right, thank you guys,
Speaker 1: second day successful businessman. Oh great listener. Perfect. But wow,
Speaker 1: that's how one of our listeners described the guy. At least,
Speaker 1: I mean that's what I heard once she was telling
Speaker 1: us about going out or drinks the other nights. Yeah,
Speaker 1: he was the whole package that's going to be she said,
Speaker 1: hunky fireman. It fits the description. But basically everything was
Speaker 1: good until the very end of the night, when he
Speaker 1: told her that he had another commitment and had to
Speaker 1: get going, hugged her goodbye, then sat back down at
Speaker 1: the table that they were at and just started looking
Speaker 1: at his phone. That just feels awkward to like imagine
Speaker 1: he as a human that couldn't sit through that awkwardness.
Speaker 1: Someone with a perfect butt can sit through anything. Book,
Speaker 1: But we're trying to figure out the reason why he's
Speaker 1: not calling Amelia back. Amelia, you feel ready? Yeah? Okay?
Speaker 1: And did you text or call or how did you
Speaker 1: try to get a hold of him? He actually texted
Speaker 1: me after the date and he asked me when I'm available? Yeah,
Speaker 1: then why are you needing our help to get in
Speaker 1: touch with him? Well, because I told him that I
Speaker 1: was free on Saturday and maybe we could do dancing
Speaker 1: or show or you know, something along those lines. And
Speaker 1: he never replied to that. Oh weird, Oh are you
Speaker 1: ghosted me after seeing me on a second date? That's weird?
Speaker 1: Ye out, Well, I know you're worried that he might
Speaker 1: be a player, So let's call him and see what
Speaker 1: the deal is. I'm in Dalla's number right now. Thank you, guys.
Speaker 1: I need your help. Okay, we're gonna try our best.
Speaker 1: Here here we go. Hello. Hey, is this Rob? Yeah?
Speaker 1: This is Rob. Hey. My name's Jeff from the radio
Speaker 1: show Brooke and Jeffrey in the Morning. How are you
Speaker 1: doing to damn? Yeah, I'm good. What is this about? Well,
Speaker 1: this is about a segment that we do on our show.
Speaker 1: From time to time, we do this thing where if
Speaker 1: two people hang out and if they vibe, but afterwards
Speaker 1: their communication breaks down, we can call one of them
Speaker 1: to help figure out what's really going on. Okay, I see. Okay,
Speaker 1: So the other night you kicked it with a woman
Speaker 1: named Amelia. Do you remember her? I do, yes, tell her,
Speaker 1: I'm very interested. Okay, wait, wait, why can't you tell
Speaker 1: her that? Yeah? She said she texted you about Saturday
Speaker 1: night and you never replied to her. Oh, I'm sorry.
Speaker 1: I've been super busy with work lately. You have to understand,
Speaker 1: you know, we're we're kind of on a hiring spree
Speaker 1: right now, and it's just really hard to keep people.
Speaker 1: So I got a lot of people, you know, people
Speaker 1: coming in and out of my life, and phone numbers
Speaker 1: and things. It's it's been difficult to keep tracking. Well,
Speaker 1: I can see how that would be confusing. But I
Speaker 1: mean Amelia did want to see you again. She was
Speaker 1: actually expecting to hear from you, and now she's feeling
Speaker 1: like you're not interested. But that's not true. Well, yes,
Speaker 1: of course, I mean I'm interested. I mean we absolutely so.
Speaker 1: I feel like she's getting a lot of mixed vibes
Speaker 1: from you, Rob, and I don't know if you're doing
Speaker 1: it on purpose or not. But she also told us
Speaker 1: about like her leaving the restaurant and you staying at
Speaker 1: the table after you said that you had something else
Speaker 1: going on, right, right, Okay, that's right. That's kind of
Speaker 1: having a hard time reading you. Like you you like Amelia? Then,
Speaker 1: uh yeah, I think she'd be fine. She'd be fine.
Speaker 1: So I'm kind of confused right now about what you're implying.
Speaker 1: I don't understand what you're asking me here. We want
Speaker 1: to know normal dating stuff. Was she pretty? Did you guys? Vibe?
Speaker 1: Was the food? Was the conversation I left? Yeah? Like nuts?
Speaker 1: It's such a weird Wait a second, this sounds confusing.
Speaker 1: So I owned the restaurant that we met in. I
Speaker 1: met with Amelia to see if she wanted to work
Speaker 1: in my restaurant. That wasn't a date? What way she
Speaker 1: didn't go to apply? No, she she said that you
Speaker 1: guys met on Tinder. Yeah, yeah, yeah, of course. Yes.
Speaker 1: I mean I have on my Tinder bio that I'm
Speaker 1: looking that I own restaurants and I'm looking to hire
Speaker 1: weights down. Oh okay, first off, creative. Second, nobody reads anyone,
Speaker 1: just wide rider. Within a second, you thought you were
Speaker 1: interviewing Amelia for a restaurant job. Absolutely, I told her,
Speaker 1: come on in and what's up. It makes so much sense, Okay,
Speaker 1: because she was I think he was such a good listener.
Speaker 1: He was asking me all these introspective questions and then
Speaker 1: never ask one day you don't go, oh my god, Rob,
Speaker 1: she is going to be so embarrassed. I mean, she
Speaker 1: thought the world of you. She was like, this guy
Speaker 1: is such a unicorn. He's so amazing, he's listening. I'm
Speaker 1: very flattered. But here's the thing. It's very difficult to
Speaker 1: find good restaurant workers these days, and I'm specifically targeting.
Speaker 1: I want good looking, gregarious people, you know, people who
Speaker 1: can just be open and fun okay and like really
Speaker 1: grab customers. And I just really like that's great, Rob.
Speaker 1: But are you single? Like, is there even a chance? Well,
Speaker 1: I mean, I am single, but I'm currently seeing a
Speaker 1: couple of people. Are they also interviewing the decision? But
Speaker 1: I honestly did not bring Amelia into my restaurant for
Speaker 1: a dating situation. Oh, you know, who's going to be
Speaker 1: really disappointed to hear that, Rob. I mean, I can't
Speaker 1: see her face, but I am assuming that it is
Speaker 1: that color because I need to tell you. She's actually
Speaker 1: on the other line listening. She wants to talk to you. Well,
Speaker 1: what she did, Amelia, I'm so embarrassed right now. It's okay,
Speaker 1: I can understand the confusion. I get it, you know,
Speaker 1: but it says right there on my profile why I'm
Speaker 1: on tender. You know, it's another way to try to
Speaker 1: meet people who might be interested in working at the restaurants.
Speaker 1: I mean, Amelily, did you look at the profile? Did
Speaker 1: you see that sentence? If I'm being honest, I was
Speaker 1: pretty focused on that cat tattoos. Yeah, either that or
Speaker 1: his perfect behind. Yeah, so much good stuff to look
Speaker 1: at you. It's just totally your fault, Amelia, Like, who's
Speaker 1: having drinks with potential employees on our owner? Yeah? That
Speaker 1: you meet on Tinder. Like Tinder, it's a hookup site.
Speaker 1: Come on, yeah, it can be a hook up site.
Speaker 1: It can also be used for businesses, and they have
Speaker 1: a whole business side of the app. He's right, seriously,
Speaker 1: eighty percent of my workers come from Tinder right now.
Speaker 1: It's actually been a really good resource. I have my
Speaker 1: manager on it. I'm on it. The thing is too
Speaker 1: on Tinder, you can say the age range you want female, male,
Speaker 1: like literally, it's really cool. Anyone else worried about employment
Speaker 1: law over here? Or is it just yeah, you want
Speaker 1: to talk about legalities here? I want to get back
Speaker 1: into the date. Yeah, it wasn't a date, you mean
Speaker 1: the job interview. Well, I don't know. Things happen for
Speaker 1: a reason, like this meeting happened. Amelia called us. I
Speaker 1: don't know. Maybe there's a chance, Rob, we want to
Speaker 1: send you in Amelia out on another date. I'm sorry,
Speaker 1: on a first date. I guess. I listen, but but
Speaker 1: maybe I should ask Amelia first. I mean, Amelia, yeah,
Speaker 1: that's true. Now that you know everything, are you interested
Speaker 1: still in Rob? I mean yeah? Now are you interested
Speaker 1: in dating or the job or both? Your boss? No,
Speaker 1: I don't need a job. I am a job. I
Speaker 1: need a man. Are you sure, Amelia, because you have
Speaker 1: a great personality. I just wanted a hosted You would
Speaker 1: be amazing to put you in the pride of the restaurant.
Speaker 1: What do you think that's some high praise, Amelia? Um?
Speaker 1: Maybe if we explore the dating side of creen. I mean,
Speaker 1: I'm really gonna pick up a second job for it.
Speaker 1: But that's not too bad. You get paid though. At
Speaker 1: the same time, if you just make out, that just
Speaker 1: shows what a go getter she is. You got to
Speaker 1: give her a chance. Sorry, but I do have a policy.
Speaker 1: I don't date any of my employees. Yeah, okay, the
Speaker 1: boss that's on Tinder. Suddenly Amelia is not interested in
Speaker 1: the job anymore. Now she just wants to go out
Speaker 1: with you when we'll pay for it. If if you
Speaker 1: agree to go out on a date, Rob, what do
Speaker 1: you say as long as she understands I'm not really
Speaker 1: looking for a relationship. I was like, she doesn't want
Speaker 1: a second interview. Hey, she you're hot. She knows what
Speaker 1: she's getting with a bar owner. Okay, yeah, a lot
Speaker 1: of free drinks. Yeah, So Rob, like we want to
Speaker 1: defenditivency here, what do you say? Yes? Or no. Uh sure,
Speaker 1: I'd be open to that, but you know, can I
Speaker 1: pick the restaurant, Yes, one of yours if you broking
Speaker 1: Jeffrey in the morning