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Speaker 1: Kiki, is it's here that you I need You have

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Speaker 1: to sort of explain this to me. But you wrote

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Speaker 1: the wedding venue two er start this weekend, so I

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Speaker 1: know what that means. But I'm putting my bridal team

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Speaker 1: on a point system. Lol. It's strict around here, Yes

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Speaker 1: it is. What does that mean? What does that mean?

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Speaker 1: It's a point system?

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Speaker 2: Okay? So all right, my friends that are going to

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Speaker 2: be helping me with my wedding, and my sister and

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Speaker 2: she's a part of this team as well. I figured

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Speaker 2: the best way to handle this situation that we're about

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Speaker 2: to walk into is just come out from the gate

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Speaker 2: with a point system. So everybody will start with five points.

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Speaker 2: Every meeting you miss, every venue tour that you can't

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Speaker 2: come to, everything that you drop the ball on, youk

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Speaker 2: it a point. Once you lose your five points, you

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Speaker 2: are on a performance improvement plan. Okay, and then and

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Speaker 2: then if you don't do the steps of that, you

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Speaker 2: are out of the Bridal team.

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Speaker 1: You do realize these people don't work for you, Hold on,

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Speaker 1: they don't.

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Speaker 3: No no no, no, no no no no. These are

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Speaker 3: these are your friends. Yes, these are your friends.

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Speaker 1: That you're inviting into the circle, your bridal team, yes,

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Speaker 1: hire hire a wedding planner.

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Speaker 2: Then no, no, no, no, no, we don't have the

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Speaker 2: budget for that. We have a dedicated bridal team.

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Speaker 1: So you have you've bestowed the honor of them doing

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Speaker 1: all the work for you.

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Speaker 2: Well, no, they're gonna help me. They're gonna be there

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Speaker 2: to support me.

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Speaker 1: But then you're gonna tell them where they're not doing enough,

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Speaker 1: and you're gonna dock points.

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Speaker 3: You're gonna give them to merits.

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Speaker 2: Yes, yes, that is how you You know, everybody gets

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Speaker 2: a fair equal points, you know, five points to start

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Speaker 2: and then at the end if you would hope that

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Speaker 2: you have all five of your points.

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Speaker 1: So who is on this team? Your sister, yes, so far?

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Speaker 1: And then who else?

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Speaker 2: Jason, Kaylin, Colleen, there for it?

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Speaker 3: Ryan? Ryan.

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Speaker 2: Ryan is the chief of staff. Oh yeah, I'm sure

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Speaker 2: you all will get your get your assignments from Ryan.

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Speaker 3: We all need a Ryan. I don't have a Ryan.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, Ryan, I'm fine with this.

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Speaker 4: Okay, even though you did not ask, I am completely

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Speaker 4: fine with this. However, is there an incentive like if

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Speaker 4: I do really well, is do I get something like

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Speaker 4: a little treat or something? Right?

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Speaker 3: You get points back.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, like, if you lose the point, then can you go,

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Speaker 1: you know, do a little extra and then get yourself

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Speaker 1: right back in.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, that comes with the performance improvement plan, so I

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Speaker 2: don't have to I don't want to have to put

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Speaker 2: you on a PIP, but if you end up on

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Speaker 2: a PIP, you can work your way out of.

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Speaker 1: So how many people are attending the tour this weekend

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Speaker 1: to the venue?

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Speaker 2: So the sty this weekend is just required for Helena

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Speaker 2: and Ryan she was half and then no, no, no,

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Speaker 2: I haven't even announced my bridal party. Now I don't

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Speaker 2: have a date, so people don't know if they're in

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Speaker 2: it or out yet. But yeah, listen, I've worked on

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Speaker 2: many for free.

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Speaker 4: So honestly, if she does have incentives to do well,

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Speaker 4: then maybe I wouldn't.

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Speaker 3: Mind this because I've done it for free.

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Speaker 1: See it's almost like it's not like this obviously on

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Speaker 1: the on the male side of the wedding planning, because

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Speaker 1: most men are doing much of anything.

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Speaker 3: So I will say this much it's because it.

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Speaker 1: Really doesn't I'm not gonna say it doesn't matter what

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Speaker 1: the guy thinks. But like my friends who my friends

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Speaker 1: who have gotten married, it's sort of like, I'm fine

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Speaker 1: with whatever you want. Like it's not that they don't

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Speaker 1: want to be involved, it's just that they're gonna get

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Speaker 1: you know, they'll go to the cake tasting thing and

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Speaker 1: it's like I like this one up, but we're doing

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Speaker 1: this one and you know, it's just like okay, well

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Speaker 1: then why am I here?

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Speaker 3: Right?

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Speaker 1: You know, so it's like we're doing this your way,

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Speaker 1: and I'm fine with that. But then don't be mad

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Speaker 1: when I'm not jumping up and down to do whatever.

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Speaker 1: But I'm we don't have any duties, like I haven't

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Speaker 1: had to do any work.

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Speaker 2: Oh lucky you see wow.

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Speaker 1: But I think if I had to do work, i'd

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Speaker 1: probably be like I'm good, Like I'm actually just gonna

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Speaker 1: show up, like I don't need I don't need to

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Speaker 1: do that. I don't need to be subjected to this,

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Speaker 1: Like I'll just I'll just come to the wedding like.

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Speaker 2: I want to support your friend, help your friend, come on, man.

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Speaker 1: But it sounds like it sounds like I work for

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Speaker 1: you for the next two years and I don't really

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Speaker 1: feel like it.

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Speaker 2: Yes, that's part of being a bridal team. People love

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Speaker 2: to want to be in a wedding, but until you

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Speaker 2: have actually done it. You don't know the amount of

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Speaker 2: work that comes comes with it. You don't know how

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Speaker 2: much money you are required to spend to be a

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Speaker 2: bridesmaid or a groomsman. It is expensive and it is

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Speaker 2: a commitment. So I am in the beginning going to

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Speaker 2: give everybody an option.

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Speaker 3: You know, now, I've never.

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Speaker 1: Really heard of bridal party having to go on venue tours.

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Speaker 1: I've never heard that.

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Speaker 2: No, you don't have to, but you should.

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Speaker 3: You get a point off if you don't, right, extra point.

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Speaker 1: Someone texted the bridal party should only be a part

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Speaker 1: of dress shopping, hair makeup and the bachelorette.

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Speaker 3: That's it.

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Speaker 1: Venues should only be kiki in big tim Oh please.

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Speaker 2: No, I agree with that. That's why I'm only taking

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Speaker 2: my chief of staff and my sister. Yeah. Yeah, you

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Speaker 2: don't want like too many opinions too, right, that's going

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Speaker 2: to get tricky too, because like you know, so we're

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Speaker 2: going to be silenced.

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Speaker 1: Here this Texas and make a whole lot of sense

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Speaker 1: is something I want. I think it's like once got

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Speaker 1: I think it's what this is meant to say. Kicked

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Speaker 1: out of my best friend's wedding because two years in advance.

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Speaker 1: She started a monthly meeting with all of her bride

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Speaker 1: I ended up missing the first one because I had

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Speaker 1: the flu, and I missed the second because he landed

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Speaker 1: on my husband's birthday and I chose to go to

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Speaker 1: dinner with him instead of meeting for her wedding. So

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Speaker 1: she told me that she should be more important than

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Speaker 1: my husband and kicked me out of her wedding.

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Speaker 2: She did you a favor. I love bred so much.

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Speaker 4: My best friend and I who I will not name,

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Speaker 4: but you guys all know, got kicked out of a

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Speaker 4: maid of honor duties multiple times for one wedding. And

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Speaker 4: one of the times is because she wore two short

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Speaker 4: of shorts around the groom whoasketball.

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Speaker 2: Shorts and they were down to her knees. But like,

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Speaker 2: you'll get kicks out of the wedding for some while. Yeah, Brian,

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Speaker 2: get really crazy. Yeah I knew, get really your emotion

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Speaker 2: is a hi. You know you get nuts.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, someone's calling you a bride zilla already. Everyone can

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Speaker 1: make us every appointment. Only my husband came to venues

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Speaker 1: with me. Don't need other opinions on where we got married.

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Speaker 2: That's true.

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Speaker 1: Now, are you expecting these people to contribute financially as well.

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Speaker 2: To their portion of what they need to cover. Excuse me,

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Speaker 2: you have a portion?

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Speaker 1: What is what is my portion of what I need

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Speaker 1: to cover for your wedding?

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Speaker 2: You are part of the entertainment committee, Okay, yeah, so

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Speaker 2: when we get that all finalized, you will get your

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Speaker 2: your invoice suities. Yeah, in your assignment. Yes, h Flina

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Speaker 2: is part of marketing. Girl, I don't know you want

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Speaker 2: to rethink that one. No, I mean, look at her

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Speaker 2: go party bus.

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Speaker 1: She's on a TV tour right now. So, yeah, on

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Speaker 1: a press tour. So we have to get you a

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Speaker 1: press tour for your wedding.

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Speaker 2: I got you, girl. You told me at the end

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Speaker 2: of this it's just gonna be me and Big Tim

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Speaker 2: at my wedding.

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Speaker 1: Yes, that's what I'm saying. That's what I mean. You

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Speaker 1: know what I don't. I don't want to be on

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Speaker 1: the committee. I just want to show up and have

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Speaker 1: a little chocolate fund and get the hell out of there.

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Speaker 1: I'll be there, yeah, yeah, come in there and get

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Speaker 1: my little my little chicken breast and