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Speaker 1: I've been doing the most fed up thing while playing poker.

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Speaker 1: Is this allowed? This is okay? I would be home

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Speaker 1: to the craziest true stories on Earth. I'm Sophia and John.

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Speaker 1: You played poker?

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Speaker 2: I have never Yeah, I've never played poker. I've been

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Speaker 2: to casinos at this point.

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Speaker 3: We actually stayed in a casino to do a collab

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Speaker 3: with a creator in Las Vegas, and uh we we

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Speaker 3: didn't play anything.

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Speaker 1: The closest I've come to a casino is my freshman year.

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Speaker 1: I went to homecoming at the brother school to my school,

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Speaker 1: and they did like a casino themed night, and so

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Speaker 1: there was like a bunch of games going on, which

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Speaker 1: is so fun. And I barely danced with my the

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Speaker 1: person that I went with. I just played.

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Speaker 4: Yeah it.

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Speaker 2: The casino themed party.

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Speaker 1: No, literally, my friend and I. Yeah, my friend and

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Speaker 1: I like left our part like that, and he dressed.

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Speaker 3: Up in like like I'm imagining, like like nineteen twenties

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Speaker 3: like flappers, and like.

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Speaker 1: No, it was I just went homecoming dress. Fortunately unfortunately,

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Speaker 1: wasn't that cool.

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Speaker 2: Be more themed girl.

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Speaker 1: That's okay, But but let's find now what consistent symptom

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Speaker 1: says I live in a large condominium in my city.

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Speaker 1: In December, I looked out of my window and I

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Speaker 1: could see a dude living across the street from me,

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Speaker 1: one unit down, playing on Poker Stars. That's far living

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Speaker 1: across the street from me, one unit down.

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Speaker 3: That's because that live and I would that's insane that.

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Speaker 1: He's across the street.

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Speaker 2: That's insanity that.

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Speaker 1: He's playing Poker Stars.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, some of us had twenty twenty vision.

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Speaker 1: Apparently not I and not. His monitor is set up

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Speaker 1: so anyone looking in could see his computer screen with

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Speaker 1: binoculars or my girlfriend's phone. I could see his whole

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Speaker 1: cards from my window. And I've just been playing him

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Speaker 1: in cash games for almost two months. Down He's a

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Speaker 1: thousands of dollars from this one dude. Because I'm able

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Speaker 1: to see cards from my apartment, I haven't seen him

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Speaker 1: playing in a while. But I'm wondering if what I'm

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Speaker 1: doing is legal.

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Speaker 2: No, no, it can't be.

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Speaker 1: Okay, regardless of whether it's legal, it's not moral. Yeah yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 1: you freaking teeter.

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Speaker 5: You're also like you just made the game not fun.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, you can't win without cheating.

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Speaker 5: Well, like he stopped playing because of you.

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Speaker 6: That's just that's where I well he hasn't done in

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Speaker 6: a while because he los.

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Speaker 1: Haven't seen him playing in a while.

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Speaker 2: But yeah, wow wow. Also the make it fun.

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Speaker 1: Also just in general, looking at someone's apartment through binoculars

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Speaker 1: is wild.

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Speaker 2: That's bananas wild.

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Speaker 1: But there are some comments. Let's see if they rip

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Speaker 1: them out. Actually this is from OPI. On one hand,

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Speaker 1: this is funny because well, a player should protect his

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Speaker 1: whole cards. Oh wait, I don't know who this is from.

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Speaker 1: Actually is this from op's? On one hand, this is

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Speaker 1: funny because well, a play or should protect his whole cards.

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Speaker 1: On another hand, this is a bit shady and it's

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Speaker 1: going to be awkward when Poker Star's crappy geolocation system

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Speaker 1: accidentally flags his account and your account for playing on

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Speaker 1: the same IP. You're not, but their system has done

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Speaker 1: this before. They'll freeze your account and ask you to

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Speaker 1: explain it in how you know the other user by username?

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Speaker 1: Then they'll notice suspicious play of you versus him, and

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Speaker 1: you've got a bigger problem.

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Speaker 5: See, you gotta make it fun.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, the ipgolocation errors on Poker Stars left me with

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Speaker 1: my account temp suspended twice, with them asking if and

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Speaker 1: how I know such and such user. It turns out,

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Speaker 1: living in a big city, they routinely misidentify IPS as

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Speaker 1: being the same and think your neighbor is playing in

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Speaker 1: the same room as you, or they'll see how you

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Speaker 1: always seem to make an ideal play against this person,

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Speaker 1: and their system will flag your account at suspicious play.

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Speaker 1: Oh on the IP address location issue, they would send

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Speaker 1: the same email to each user, so they ask your

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Speaker 1: neighbor as well. Oh yeah, you probably wouldn't get it

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Speaker 1: caught for your taking advantage of your neighbors window view,

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Speaker 1: but you might accidentally get caught through the above scenario,

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Speaker 1: which then accidentally reveals your perfect play every time against

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Speaker 1: the neighbor. Coincidentally, when this happens, you couldn't use the

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Speaker 1: argument the player should protect his whole cards as well

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Speaker 1: as unlike live, no opponent can or should be able

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Speaker 6: Dude, you know would be hilarious is if he got

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Speaker 6: the neighbor got the EMO, and then the next day,

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Speaker 6: whenever OP goes to play, the desk is turned directly

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Speaker 6: looking straight out the window fire.

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Speaker 2: I would love that.

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Speaker 1: And this commoner continues, and if you try to, well,

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Speaker 1: then you've proven you're cheated and admitted to possibly breaking

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Speaker 1: the law by evading someone's privacy while concurrently ripping them off.

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Speaker 1: You should probably stop the binoculars thing. Another commenter asks

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Speaker 1: a pointed question, sounds fake. Lol, How on earth could

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Speaker 1: you find out his name and use it from binoculars

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Speaker 1: or on an iPhone?

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Speaker 2: Right?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, he says, it's funny you say that. I basically

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Speaker 1: just jump tables until I saw my avatar appear on

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Speaker 1: a screen, And just to make sure it was me

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Speaker 1: that was appearing on a screen, I left the table,

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Speaker 1: came back, then left again and came back. I knew

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Speaker 1: it was him right away after that, because I could

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Speaker 1: see myself disappearing and reappearing on a screen.

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Speaker 2: Wow, oh my god, but there is an update. Oh well,

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Speaker 2: do you have any thoughts? Yeah? This guy sucks.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, you suck.

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Speaker 2: This guy sucks your sinker.

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Speaker 5: I'm just disappointed at the sportsmanship.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, cheaters never win, and when it's never.

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Speaker 6: Like cheat, but like make it fun, you know, like

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Speaker 6: give him some money, keep it entertaining.

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Speaker 5: Like you just made him quit, like and he doesn't

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Speaker 5: want to play anymore. That's just like I keep losing.

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Speaker 2: I love how Riley's like that about the lost love

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Speaker 2: of the game.

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Speaker 1: The game, Yeah, you don't really love the game.

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Speaker 2: That's Poker Stars.

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Speaker 3: Like the level I mean, you guys, tell me down

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Speaker 3: below what level of Like there was no looking in

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Speaker 3: the window. He was but ninoculars the whole time, like

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Speaker 3: the first the first time to even even see that

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Speaker 3: he was on PokerStars dot com.

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Speaker 2: Are you kidding me?

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Speaker 3: You had to be looking through I couldn't even tell that.

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Speaker 3: I could probably barely tell it someone that I was

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Speaker 3: on a computer.

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Speaker 5: And wait a second, I'm sorry.

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Speaker 6: If if you're playing, I don't know how how much

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Speaker 6: money he lost or how quickly he lost it. But

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Speaker 6: if you're consistently playing and a certain avatar is beating

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Speaker 6: you every single suspicious, I would kind of like keep

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Speaker 6: an eye on that.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I flag flag.

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Speaker 1: I'd be like, I probably specious suspicious. But let's get

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Speaker 1: into this update.

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Speaker 2: Let's do it.

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Speaker 1: Came into some money a little while ago. Oh wait

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Speaker 1: wait wait wait wait wait wait wait wait wait wait wait.

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Speaker 1: This is from a different account, this one says update

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Speaker 1: Damian mcc twenty seven. I'm down thousands from this one guy.

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Speaker 5: Oh my god.

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Speaker 1: Oh came into some money a little while ago and

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Speaker 1: put together a nice computer set up by the window

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Speaker 1: in my apartment. I love it when there's a breeze

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Speaker 1: and I can have the window open. I'm a solid

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Speaker 1: but unspectacular online guy, made five thousand dollars last year,

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Speaker 1: but there's this one mother effort I just cannot win

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Speaker 1: a hand against. In the past six months alone, I'm

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Speaker 1: down three thousand dollars against him, still making money elsewhere,

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Speaker 1: so I was fine to keep playing him. We messaged

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Speaker 1: a bit in the chat, and we live in the

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Speaker 1: same city, but we haven't actually met yet. But how

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Speaker 1: this bastard keeps beating me is beyond me, Like he

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Speaker 1: knows exactly what I'm bluffing, and I never ever get

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Speaker 1: paid when I'm strong, swear to E think God, it's

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Speaker 1: like he's seeing my guards. It makes me wonder if

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Speaker 1: this effort is watching me through the window. Anyone else

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Speaker 1: have that one guy that can't beat Do I just

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Speaker 1: need to get good or should I just stop playing him?

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Speaker 1: But then I'd lose a potential friend Commentszer said, Okay,

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Speaker 1: so this is what they meant by defending your blind

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Speaker 1: I'm new to the game.

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Speaker 6: Whoa whoa whoa whoa Losing a potential friend from you.

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Speaker 1: I wonder if this is fake and like some of them, yeah,

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Speaker 1: was like, oh, it would be funny if I wrote

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Speaker 1: from the.

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Speaker 3: Perspective written, you know what, but Poker Stars they write

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Speaker 3: this ship.

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Speaker 1: Poker Stars is advertising, dude.

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Speaker 2: They keep getting us, They keep getting us, dude.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, bleep poker Stars.

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Speaker 7: Oh my gosh, I'm curious for everyone watching and and youtwo,

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Speaker 7: what should the guy the guy who was scammed, I'm

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Speaker 7: playing him like, I'm almost like, do you like take

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Speaker 7: him to court?

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Speaker 1: But he doesn't know, he's update he doesn't How.

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Speaker 2: Can he not know?

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Speaker 6: Because like the Internet's got to tell this guy. Someone's

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Speaker 6: got to DM them. Hell, I'll DM them and be like, yo,

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Speaker 6: check out this. Call up the company, be like yo,

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Speaker 6: I'm suing this guy or whatever.

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Speaker 3: See if you can get some legal whatever to like, yeah,

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Speaker 3: get his contact or get in touch with him just

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Speaker 3: just to serve the lawsuit.

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Speaker 2: Yeah. At that point again, I'm with you.

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Speaker 3: I'm like losing a potential friend, like this is I'm

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Speaker 3: not your friend, bro, this man.

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Speaker 1: Is somebody takes money from you.

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Speaker 6: I think what I would do? Would I would DM?

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Speaker 6: Someone has had to do this on to write it. Please,

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Speaker 6: for the love of god, someone on redd it, please

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Speaker 6: do this. Find the guy, DM him, show him a story,

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Speaker 6: tell him about what's happening, be like, hey, next time,

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Speaker 6: just check just peep and see someone has binoculars. And

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Speaker 6: then after that, I would like make legal action or

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Speaker 6: something like that. Call him up, you know how I

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Speaker 6: should call him and be like, yo, I'm to do

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Speaker 6: this losing thousands of dollars.

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Speaker 8: But like, also on this the original Opie, go to

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Speaker 8: their email see if that emails also registered with poker stars,

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Speaker 8: or if they have similar emails or something like that,

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Speaker 8: like it, stop him.

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Speaker 2: This is too much. Stop him. This is entirely too much. Yep.

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Speaker 3: Wow, sorry that dude. Opie sucks. Opie is the a hole.

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Speaker 3: I mean if you disagree with me in the comments,

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Speaker 3: but my goodness, like that is insane. Cut okay? Am

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Speaker 3: I the a hole for telling an adult film star

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Speaker 3: they should find a different career.

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Speaker 2: What's it matter to you, buddy?

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Speaker 1: Why is it your business?

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Speaker 2: Yeah? Yeah? Are you?

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Speaker 3: Are you salty that you couldn't you couldn't cut it.

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Speaker 3: You couldn't cut it, you didn't make it or shot

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Speaker 3: your shot at them, and you're like, man.

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Speaker 2: Let me just throw some shade on you.

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Speaker 1: I think they asked OP a lot of questions about it,

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Speaker 3: Like, oh, you shouldn't have been on the on the huh,

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Speaker 3: You're twenty nine right now, Yeah, it is literally impossible

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Speaker 2: In the federal government that you're applying for.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, you can't be offended by the facts.

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Speaker 2: Oh yeah, man.

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Speaker 3: But speaking of speaking of numbers, I think we have

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Speaker 2: Why don't you? Why don't you pick Riley? Uh something

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Speaker 5: Terrified.

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Speaker 6: I'm terrified that my biological Oh that one's not fun.

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Speaker 6: This guy got kidnapped. That's fun, Like how like his

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Speaker 2: So break this down for me, Sophia.

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Speaker 1: While we got the graphics, we got my father, and

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Speaker 1: Just this widow has a daughter. Yes, my father marries

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Speaker 1: Oh sorry, this the widow's daughter. Yeap married my father.

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Speaker 1: And now that widow's daughter.

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Speaker 2: Is my mother because mother step mother, kay, stepmother.

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Speaker 1: Because yes, But then also the widow is my grandmother

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Speaker 2: My aunt, also my wife. Yes, all right, we're gonna go.

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Speaker 1: We're gonna go, my own grandpa.

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Speaker 3: You have two out of three understanding, and we'd all

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Speaker 2: I am my own grand aunt.

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Speaker 3: Legally because my great grandmother adopted me, which finalized in

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Speaker 2: My grandmother are you connecting.

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Speaker 1: Okay, great grandmother adopted, yes, So that's how grandmother mother

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Speaker 3: My grandmother is also her daughter, which means that she

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Speaker 3: So I am my own great aunt and it's all

447
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Speaker 3: And that's all right, I realized because Riley is connecting it.

448
00:22:25,600 --> 00:22:28,240
Speaker 3: It's all connecting because Riley. Oh, by the way, my

449
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Speaker 3: name is Nicki Davis. Yeah, feel free to call me

450
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Speaker 3: back if you've heard of anything that's a bit interesting

451
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Speaker 3: to you. Okay, bye, Nicky, we're going to give you

452
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Speaker 3: a call. I definitely recognize Nikki. We've read one of

453
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Speaker 3: her stories before on the show.

454
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Speaker 5: Yeah, I done, all right. I know you live in

455
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Speaker 5: wild bro or life is wild to her?

456
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Speaker 2: That's true. Good.

457
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Speaker 1: So her great grandmother adopted her. Think about it, like,

458
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Speaker 1: she has two daughters, Op and her daughter, So now

459
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Speaker 1: they're sisters. So now Op's sister with grandmother. And then

460
00:23:01,119 --> 00:23:05,440
Speaker 1: grandmother had a daughter. So this is great grandmother's granddaughter

461
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Speaker 1: and this granddaughter is now Op's niece.

462
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Speaker 8: Ye.

463
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Speaker 1: Yes, but the great granddaughter is actually birth mother.

464
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Speaker 3: Actually gave birth to Op, yes, but legally adopted. All right,

465
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Speaker 3: Nikki Davis, this is John. This is John, Sam and

466
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Speaker 3: Sophia from Okay, Op show?

467
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Speaker 2: How you doing great?

468
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Speaker 3: How are you doing doing awesome? I actually remember one

469
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Speaker 3: of the stories that you submitted. I believe in Balie

470
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Speaker 3: very quickly. How how are things going well?

471
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Speaker 9: Moving out of that place? Uh and moving back in

472
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Speaker 9: with my mom. I did have to end up getting

473
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Speaker 9: a restraining order from my oldest mine is the drunk

474
00:24:07,800 --> 00:24:11,399
Speaker 9: my heart is beating her with bes right now, and uh,

475
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Speaker 9: you know, I ended up having to uh take my

476
00:24:16,440 --> 00:24:20,000
Speaker 9: cat to the event and uh find out that he

477
00:24:20,119 --> 00:24:23,280
Speaker 9: has sevir hama. But other than that, other than that,

478
00:24:23,440 --> 00:24:25,879
Speaker 9: you know, like all my babies are alive. I'm alive,

479
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Speaker 9: so good.

480
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Speaker 2: That's good.

481
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Speaker 9: And I don't have to I don't have to sit

482
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Speaker 9: in the bathtub anymore.

483
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Speaker 3: So there we go. Hey, well we'll take that. Yes,

484
00:24:35,960 --> 00:24:36,520
Speaker 3: there we go.

485
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Speaker 9: I heard that part.

486
00:24:42,119 --> 00:24:45,680
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, yeah, so yeah, better place, not having to

487
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Speaker 3: crap in the baths of anymore.

488
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Speaker 2: Hooray, that is awesome.

489
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Speaker 1: I'm happy to hear.

490
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Speaker 2: Yes.

491
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Speaker 3: So, uh, Nikki, you called because Riley made you realize

492
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Speaker 3: that you are your own great aunt.

493
00:25:00,200 --> 00:25:04,960
Speaker 9: Yes, I like, I've known for the shock values that

494
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Speaker 9: my grandmother is my sister and my aunts are my

495
00:25:08,119 --> 00:25:11,440
Speaker 9: nieces for the longest time. Because of the the longest time,

496
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Speaker 9: that was the only thing I could bring to Joe

497
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Speaker 9: and tell, so, oh that's a.

498
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Speaker 3: Pretty good show, and tell I feel like you just

499
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Speaker 3: shut it down, like you got nothing.

500
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Speaker 2: Better than me.

501
00:25:21,520 --> 00:25:21,960
Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 9: I tried at one point bringing back to about the

503
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Speaker 9: solar system, but they weren't interested in that. However, saying

504
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Speaker 9: oh yeah, my grandma is my sister. That definitely pulled

505
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Speaker 9: the heads.

506
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Speaker 1: Yeah I get some guessing.

507
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Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, go, so you watched you watched an episode

508
00:25:39,600 --> 00:25:41,800
Speaker 3: Riley broke out that chart where it's like you can

509
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Speaker 3: be your own father or whatever. Has this had you

510
00:25:47,160 --> 00:25:52,560
Speaker 3: you found this revelation? Have you brought this to the family?

511
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Speaker 3: Has this like shaken the core of people realizing there's

512
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Speaker 3: their own like are there other people that.

513
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Speaker 2: Are their own amas? Now?

514
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Speaker 9: I don't know what impact I've made. I just have

515
00:26:07,600 --> 00:26:13,720
Speaker 9: like some interaction with the commentar that like furthered my revelation.

516
00:26:15,600 --> 00:26:18,080
Speaker 9: But other than that, like it is, it is very possible.

517
00:26:18,760 --> 00:26:20,960
Speaker 9: My great grandmother, you know, if she was born in

518
00:26:21,040 --> 00:26:25,000
Speaker 9: nineteen thirty eight, uh's uh, she's eighty five, so she's

519
00:26:25,000 --> 00:26:28,160
Speaker 9: like he's still kicking wow. And she calls me by

520
00:26:28,200 --> 00:26:31,080
Speaker 9: every other every one of her other like biological kids names.

521
00:26:31,200 --> 00:26:33,280
Speaker 9: She called my great grandfather and my dad when she's

522
00:26:33,320 --> 00:26:35,800
Speaker 9: recalling memories. But other than that, you know, like she

523
00:26:35,880 --> 00:26:38,560
Speaker 9: can still drive, she's still there. And I just accept

524
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Speaker 9: that my great grandfather, who I've never met, is also

525
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Speaker 9: my dad, which I mean, like she's an episode if

526
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Speaker 9: you're if you're remember the other story, but like it's

527
00:26:48,160 --> 00:26:53,879
Speaker 9: a lot better than my other dad. So so uh,

528
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Speaker 9: it's just it's very weird. I did try to pull

529
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Speaker 9: like that. Hey, I hear aunt actual ants. I tried

530
00:27:01,400 --> 00:27:04,000
Speaker 9: to pull that when I was like nine, because I

531
00:27:04,040 --> 00:27:06,960
Speaker 9: was like, look, look, you cannot tell me that I

532
00:27:07,000 --> 00:27:10,000
Speaker 9: can only have one Cotinos pizza for dinner tonight.

533
00:27:10,160 --> 00:27:12,000
Speaker 1: Right, we're at the same level.

534
00:27:12,520 --> 00:27:12,879
Speaker 9: Two.

535
00:27:14,080 --> 00:27:17,639
Speaker 2: Yes, you're your own boss. Yeah, oh I have seen

536
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Speaker 2: your tea.

537
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Speaker 9: I was like twenty when you were born, so I

538
00:27:22,600 --> 00:27:25,200
Speaker 9: have a lot more than you. Ority Like no, no, no, no, no, no,

539
00:27:25,080 --> 00:27:28,200
Speaker 9: no no no, it's on my birth certificate. I am

540
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Speaker 9: your aunt. You always said you have to respect your elders.

541
00:27:31,680 --> 00:27:35,480
Speaker 9: Lit all what they say, I am your elder dad out.

542
00:27:36,280 --> 00:27:37,400
Speaker 1: Yeah, according to the chart.

543
00:27:37,520 --> 00:27:39,480
Speaker 2: According to the chart. We're going by the book.

544
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Speaker 3: So so now that you know you're your own great aunt,

545
00:27:42,359 --> 00:27:45,480
Speaker 3: like what are what how how many toastinos are we

546
00:27:45,520 --> 00:27:47,320
Speaker 3: getting like, what what are you gonna What are you

547
00:27:47,359 --> 00:27:49,080
Speaker 3: gonna do with this new fountain privileges?

548
00:27:49,320 --> 00:27:49,480
Speaker 10: Yeah?

549
00:27:49,520 --> 00:27:52,680
Speaker 9: Yeah, Oh I'm running rampant with it. I'm like, look

550
00:27:53,480 --> 00:27:55,960
Speaker 9: like I've been wondering why I don't take direction very well,

551
00:27:56,000 --> 00:27:58,320
Speaker 9: and it's because I've been messing my own boss. For

552
00:27:58,480 --> 00:28:02,920
Speaker 9: my wife, I was admitt to, like, pay charge of

553
00:28:02,960 --> 00:28:06,000
Speaker 9: my life, take charge of my decisions. And that is

554
00:28:06,119 --> 00:28:09,800
Speaker 9: exactly why I went and I got a cookie cake

555
00:28:10,440 --> 00:28:14,880
Speaker 9: and I had them put congratulations on it. I did

556
00:28:14,960 --> 00:28:16,359
Speaker 9: not tell them that it was for me.

557
00:28:16,560 --> 00:28:17,119
Speaker 1: Gratefully.

558
00:28:17,160 --> 00:28:20,800
Speaker 9: I had two names, two different names that I go by,

559
00:28:20,920 --> 00:28:24,280
Speaker 9: and they didn't know either of my names. So as

560
00:28:24,320 --> 00:28:27,120
Speaker 9: soon as because like the Walmart worker was like hey,

561
00:28:27,520 --> 00:28:29,720
Speaker 9: because she saw me I ne the cookie cas It's like, hey,

562
00:28:29,920 --> 00:28:31,480
Speaker 9: do you want me to write something on that, I

563
00:28:31,520 --> 00:28:33,560
Speaker 9: was like, sure, great, this would be the perfect opportunity.

564
00:28:33,600 --> 00:28:36,959
Speaker 9: I don't have to do it myself. And so if

565
00:28:36,960 --> 00:28:38,560
Speaker 9: he did it, as so she did it, I was

566
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Speaker 9: just like, it's gonna be a party today. I have

567
00:28:42,480 --> 00:28:46,120
Speaker 9: all of this. He found information that I definitely had

568
00:28:46,200 --> 00:28:51,160
Speaker 9: all this power for like two decades that uh, my

569
00:28:51,240 --> 00:28:55,000
Speaker 9: grandmother probably still will not listen to me about that.

570
00:28:55,160 --> 00:28:58,520
Speaker 9: She thinks it's very weird and like, well, I don't

571
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Speaker 9: know what to tell you all.

572
00:29:01,320 --> 00:29:02,520
Speaker 2: That's right, you're my sister.

573
00:29:02,760 --> 00:29:06,360
Speaker 3: All thanks to Riley, so big big shout out to Riley,

574
00:29:06,360 --> 00:29:14,800
Speaker 3: who's also here by the way. Yeah yeah, all right, Nikky,

575
00:29:14,880 --> 00:29:17,600
Speaker 3: I have one final question for you quickly, For all

576
00:29:17,640 --> 00:29:20,560
Speaker 3: the people out there who are realizing now again we're

577
00:29:20,720 --> 00:29:23,720
Speaker 3: creating ripple effects. People realizing they're their own father, people

578
00:29:23,800 --> 00:29:27,080
Speaker 3: realizing they're they're great grandmother of all their people.

579
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Speaker 2: What advice do you do?

580
00:29:29,720 --> 00:29:29,840
Speaker 9: Uh?

581
00:29:30,440 --> 00:29:33,240
Speaker 2: For people who are now wielding this power, what should

582
00:29:33,240 --> 00:29:33,479
Speaker 2: they do?

583
00:29:34,480 --> 00:29:38,040
Speaker 9: Definitely or view it? You know, like you have to

584
00:29:38,080 --> 00:29:42,080
Speaker 9: go by like everyone of Thaniel Donner's logic ism, like

585
00:29:42,160 --> 00:29:44,120
Speaker 9: you have to do everything in your power to do

586
00:29:44,240 --> 00:29:47,000
Speaker 9: absolutely everything that your brain told you not to do

587
00:29:47,160 --> 00:29:53,640
Speaker 9: in okay, to let it run loose.

588
00:29:53,760 --> 00:29:57,080
Speaker 3: Oh my god, Well, Nick, thank you so much. Thank you,

589
00:29:57,080 --> 00:29:59,600
Speaker 3: great great hearing your update. Great to hear from you.

590
00:30:00,000 --> 00:30:03,200
Speaker 3: Please keep sending in your stories and have a great

591
00:30:03,280 --> 00:30:03,960
Speaker 3: rest of your day.

592
00:30:04,760 --> 00:30:09,600
Speaker 9: Don't do thank you.

593
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Speaker 2: Of course, Vicky, have a good one.

594
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Speaker 5: Bye bye.

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Speaker 2: Boom Ladies and gentlemen, there you have it.

596
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Speaker 3: We are making people's dreams maybe come true question mark

597
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Speaker 3: or realizing they're their own great aunts and family together.

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Speaker 3: That's right, bring your family together. But guys, if you

599
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Speaker 3: love us, make sure to subscribe.

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Speaker 1: You And.

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Speaker 2: This is an episode from Deep within the Archives.

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Speaker 3: Time for okop free lam.

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Speaker 10: My husband invited a stripper to have a threesome with

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Speaker 10: me on my wedding night.

605
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Speaker 2: Should I leave them?

606
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Speaker 3: You know, sometimes we hear about people that have terrible

607
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Speaker 3: relationships and.

608
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Speaker 2: Not want to have people who are inspirations. This is

609
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Speaker 2: inspiration for us. I mean truly, what a king.

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Speaker 10: Yeah, and it's like, you know, start your wedding like

611
00:31:00,640 --> 00:31:03,400
Speaker 10: you like you want your relationship to be right, you know,

612
00:31:03,600 --> 00:31:05,720
Speaker 10: so like your marriage. You your wedding night should be

613
00:31:06,000 --> 00:31:08,560
Speaker 10: emblematic of the marriage. And so if you want to

614
00:31:08,560 --> 00:31:09,520
Speaker 10: have threesomes every night.

615
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Speaker 4: Early, I was wondering where you were going.

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Speaker 3: By the way, welcome for the third time in a

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Speaker 3: row for us, but first time for you all. Macy

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Speaker 3: Savannah smiles, Hello is.

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Speaker 2: On the show.

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Speaker 4: I am yes, yeah, thank you for inviting me to

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Speaker 4: your studio.

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Speaker 3: Oh of course, Oh yeah, studio can And we went

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Speaker 3: to our real studio.

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Speaker 2: Which we you know, we've been keeping from you guys, yeah, exactly.

625
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Speaker 2: We're sorry, let's drop like a million dollars on a

626
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Speaker 2: studio and then never use it. Yeah, that's a good idea.

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Speaker 10: That we want to just reveal it for a very

628
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Speaker 10: guest and maze qualified.

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Speaker 4: Do you have to say for my streaming room?

630
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Speaker 10: Though?

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Speaker 4: How you guys have your lights set up in the

632
00:31:50,320 --> 00:31:53,320
Speaker 4: back was kind of like where I kind of drew inspiration.

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Speaker 2: Wow, I am actually.

634
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Speaker 4: The lights I had in the house though it was lazy,

635
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Speaker 4: but I liked the different color.

636
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Speaker 3: You know, we did we once because we like have

637
00:32:06,360 --> 00:32:13,200
Speaker 3: like sound blankets like black out the light and happiness. Yeah, yeah,

638
00:32:13,240 --> 00:32:15,400
Speaker 3: like these right, So I was like, what if we

639
00:32:15,640 --> 00:32:18,480
Speaker 3: like didn't record in a cave for once, So we

640
00:32:18,560 --> 00:32:20,920
Speaker 3: pulled the blinds back and all of our videos like

641
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Speaker 3: hangs all.

642
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Speaker 2: People really like the darkness. They like us darkness all right?

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Speaker 10: Wait, masone quick question is a three sime on the

644
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Speaker 10: wedding night.

645
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Speaker 2: A deal breaker.

646
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Speaker 4: Depends on the type of relationship I think you have

647
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Speaker 4: for me personally. That's just not something that's on the table.

648
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Speaker 4: That was something that was like you guys have discussed

649
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Speaker 4: because it was like, you know, with all these things

650
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Speaker 4: like I'm not polyamorous, at all. But I'm not going

651
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Speaker 4: to like crap on people who are polyamorous. It's just

652
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Speaker 4: not my thing. I'm very monogamous. Graham's very monogamous. But

653
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Speaker 4: if this is like what they're into, they've discussed it.

654
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Speaker 4: I think it's fine.

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Speaker 10: What if it wasn't discussed and he's like, Babe, I

656
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Speaker 10: have a present for you.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm pulling in a really special favor for you,

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Speaker 3: so you better be Yeah, i'd be.

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Speaker 4: A little pissed off. I'd be nice, but I would

660
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Speaker 4: obviously not be mad at the person that's being pulled

661
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Speaker 4: in for the three some because like they probably have no.

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Speaker 2: Clue what's going I mean, that's very I think that's

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Speaker 2: pretty fair of you. I think like just given the scenario,

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Speaker 2: I'm just imagining that it's bursting out of like a

665
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Speaker 2: wedding cake.

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Speaker 10: It's like, here we are, I'm ready.

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Speaker 4: Somebody like in the Brothers story, and like they knew

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Speaker 4: you wouldn't want a three someome and they just.

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Speaker 2: Whoa, whoa, no, no cake for three I'm in love

670
00:33:47,160 --> 00:33:49,000
Speaker 2: with my own brother, just like a.

671
00:33:48,960 --> 00:33:50,800
Speaker 4: Double backstab with like you know, like let's say it's

672
00:33:50,800 --> 00:33:52,880
Speaker 4: your best friend that knows you really wouldn't want that,

673
00:33:52,920 --> 00:33:55,080
Speaker 4: and they were like showing up with your husband be

674
00:33:55,080 --> 00:33:55,640
Speaker 4: like three someome.

675
00:33:56,000 --> 00:33:59,280
Speaker 2: I feel like that's a double is a double backstab? Yeah? Yeah,

676
00:33:59,680 --> 00:34:02,720
Speaker 2: all right, we'll le's see what actually happened. Maybe we

677
00:34:02,760 --> 00:34:05,320
Speaker 2: get it. I love that, all right.

678
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Speaker 10: Let me preface by saying nothing like this has ever

679
00:34:09,000 --> 00:34:13,360
Speaker 10: happened before, which is what left me so utterly fabagasted.

680
00:34:13,680 --> 00:34:16,239
Speaker 4: Oh you mean she hasn't been offered on her wedding

681
00:34:16,320 --> 00:34:18,040
Speaker 4: night before them threesome?

682
00:34:18,320 --> 00:34:22,280
Speaker 2: I mean, you haven't been living common. That's very common.

683
00:34:22,360 --> 00:34:27,840
Speaker 2: That is called a good time. Geez, normalize normalized.

684
00:34:27,400 --> 00:34:29,920
Speaker 10: Having three cents on your No, no, no, don't be

685
00:34:30,080 --> 00:34:32,560
Speaker 10: down to that. Yeah, no, what normalized having three cimes

686
00:34:32,560 --> 00:34:33,080
Speaker 10: on your wedding?

687
00:34:33,360 --> 00:34:37,040
Speaker 3: John Fry would like to normalize you know what. Let's

688
00:34:37,080 --> 00:34:40,560
Speaker 3: go tensome, you know, and why are we missing over.

689
00:34:40,440 --> 00:34:47,040
Speaker 4: To your girlfriend? Yeah, who definitely has a camera?

690
00:34:49,120 --> 00:34:54,319
Speaker 10: It's your answer now, Okay, but I had a lot

691
00:34:54,320 --> 00:34:57,480
Speaker 10: of trust in the relationship, but this has called some

692
00:34:57,520 --> 00:35:00,760
Speaker 10: things in the question. Okay, my husband call him Steve,

693
00:35:01,120 --> 00:35:02,440
Speaker 10: and I plan to get married in.

694
00:35:02,560 --> 00:35:05,080
Speaker 2: Vegas, of course. Oh that's where we are.

695
00:35:05,719 --> 00:35:08,800
Speaker 4: His name is Steve too. I mean, I know she's giving.

696
00:35:09,000 --> 00:35:11,399
Speaker 2: Yeah, is that like a Vegas name.

697
00:35:11,760 --> 00:35:14,080
Speaker 4: No, it just sounds like somebody that would do this.

698
00:35:14,520 --> 00:35:19,440
Speaker 2: Steve, like a fucking anyone named Steve. You hate you, like,

699
00:35:19,560 --> 00:35:21,920
Speaker 2: stop watching. I won't out.

700
00:35:22,000 --> 00:35:24,160
Speaker 10: Get out in person unless you know you're down to

701
00:35:24,160 --> 00:35:25,520
Speaker 10: have a three something, you know, come over.

702
00:35:25,560 --> 00:35:29,040
Speaker 4: Maybe you needed, like at the beginning of this to

703
00:35:29,080 --> 00:35:31,320
Speaker 4: have like, hi Steve, at the beginning of the YouTube videos,

704
00:35:31,320 --> 00:35:33,120
Speaker 4: just like there's gonna be one person named Steve that's

705
00:35:33,120 --> 00:35:34,240
Speaker 4: gonna be like, oh.

706
00:35:34,360 --> 00:35:37,799
Speaker 2: My god, Steve, we're talking to you. I need you.

707
00:35:38,360 --> 00:35:41,520
Speaker 10: And actually Kevin from T s A. I remember when

708
00:35:41,520 --> 00:35:44,640
Speaker 10: we were talking uh earlier and miss you.

709
00:35:44,760 --> 00:35:47,200
Speaker 3: There was a guy who recognized Sam and said, oh wow,

710
00:35:47,239 --> 00:35:48,880
Speaker 3: I've been watching the show for a year.

711
00:35:48,920 --> 00:35:49,480
Speaker 2: Da da da.

712
00:35:49,520 --> 00:35:51,160
Speaker 3: And then there was a guy who I went in

713
00:35:51,200 --> 00:35:53,800
Speaker 3: behind him and he said, oh you you look better

714
00:35:53,840 --> 00:35:54,320
Speaker 3: with the beard.

715
00:35:54,360 --> 00:35:56,839
Speaker 2: So hmm.

716
00:35:56,920 --> 00:35:58,960
Speaker 4: And Jake from State Farm, this is for you.

717
00:35:59,760 --> 00:36:02,200
Speaker 2: There, we love. But we're doing all the shout outs today.

718
00:36:02,280 --> 00:36:06,080
Speaker 2: Everybody gets a shout out, everyone gets a car, all right.

719
00:36:06,440 --> 00:36:08,360
Speaker 10: So we plan to get married in Vegas with an

720
00:36:08,560 --> 00:36:11,600
Speaker 10: entourage last year, but due to COVID, we got a

721
00:36:11,640 --> 00:36:14,800
Speaker 10: courthouse marriage last year and did our wedding in Vegas

722
00:36:15,000 --> 00:36:18,239
Speaker 10: this year for a one year anniversary. I think is

723
00:36:18,280 --> 00:36:18,960
Speaker 10: like a solid idea.

724
00:36:19,080 --> 00:36:20,800
Speaker 2: That's nice. I like that, that's a good idea.

725
00:36:21,160 --> 00:36:23,719
Speaker 4: Something I get married first for tax purposes and have

726
00:36:23,760 --> 00:36:25,200
Speaker 4: your actual wedding perfect.

727
00:36:26,120 --> 00:36:28,959
Speaker 2: We like to have fun. What kind of fun though?

728
00:36:29,760 --> 00:36:31,200
Speaker 2: Talking about what you're talking about.

729
00:36:31,440 --> 00:36:35,240
Speaker 10: So our Vegas plans did include hitting a strip club.

730
00:36:36,880 --> 00:36:40,600
Speaker 4: Okay, there's a lot of like, yeah, there's a lot

731
00:36:40,640 --> 00:36:42,799
Speaker 4: of people out here. You'd be surprised to go with.

732
00:36:42,880 --> 00:36:46,080
Speaker 2: Yea, friends, couples. Yeah, I've heard of it together.

733
00:36:45,960 --> 00:36:48,600
Speaker 10: Like like like I don't know anyone, but like I've

734
00:36:48,600 --> 00:36:50,000
Speaker 10: heard like people sometimes.

735
00:36:49,600 --> 00:36:52,840
Speaker 4: Like like strip clubs business, are you doing it?

736
00:36:52,960 --> 00:36:53,480
Speaker 2: Selling coke?

737
00:36:54,080 --> 00:36:59,560
Speaker 3: Like big business, booming business, the multi billion dollar industry.

738
00:36:59,760 --> 00:37:03,560
Speaker 4: Yeah, it's all the it's all the cryptocurrencies, like the coins.

739
00:37:03,719 --> 00:37:06,279
Speaker 2: Yeah.

740
00:37:06,480 --> 00:37:10,120
Speaker 3: I just launched my new booty coin. I got this

741
00:37:10,160 --> 00:37:11,719
Speaker 3: new coin called cheat.

742
00:37:11,440 --> 00:37:16,080
Speaker 10: Clap elon sperm, which is a legit coin.

743
00:37:16,400 --> 00:37:16,640
Speaker 7: Wow.

744
00:37:17,320 --> 00:37:20,560
Speaker 3: Oh wow, that's one. That's one invested. I thought com

745
00:37:20,640 --> 00:37:22,760
Speaker 3: rocket was like the.

746
00:37:22,120 --> 00:37:26,120
Speaker 4: O g one butt coin. I accidentally said coin one time.

747
00:37:26,120 --> 00:37:27,600
Speaker 4: I said a bitcoin, and so I looked it up

748
00:37:27,640 --> 00:37:29,040
Speaker 4: and I was like, oh no, that's the real thing.

749
00:37:30,320 --> 00:37:32,839
Speaker 3: S c O opportunities is massive. You think of all

750
00:37:32,840 --> 00:37:36,280
Speaker 3: the people accidentally typing you millions millions.

751
00:37:37,160 --> 00:37:38,439
Speaker 2: Hey, that's money right there.

752
00:37:39,440 --> 00:37:49,480
Speaker 4: We're a loved one, beneffect by affected by misstep, uh compensations.

753
00:37:51,160 --> 00:37:53,000
Speaker 10: The day before a wedding, we're all supposed to go

754
00:37:53,040 --> 00:37:55,000
Speaker 10: to a club together, but I drank too much and

755
00:37:55,160 --> 00:37:57,640
Speaker 10: was confined to bed. So my husband and some friends

756
00:37:57,680 --> 00:37:59,960
Speaker 10: hit the strip club and stayed at the hotel.

757
00:38:00,360 --> 00:38:00,919
Speaker 2: A big deal.

758
00:38:01,640 --> 00:38:03,480
Speaker 10: He didn't come home until seven am.

759
00:38:03,640 --> 00:38:05,399
Speaker 2: Oh my god, Oh why so early?

760
00:38:05,520 --> 00:38:07,800
Speaker 4: Oh okay, So this is a weird thing. My friend

761
00:38:07,840 --> 00:38:10,920
Speaker 4: told me. Apparently the breakfast in strip clubs out in

762
00:38:11,000 --> 00:38:14,040
Speaker 4: Vegas is supposed to be really good and they start

763
00:38:14,160 --> 00:38:15,000
Speaker 4: serving it early.

764
00:38:15,640 --> 00:38:18,040
Speaker 10: Babe, I'm not going to the strip club for the girls,

765
00:38:18,080 --> 00:38:18,439
Speaker 10: and the.

766
00:38:18,440 --> 00:38:20,040
Speaker 2: Breakfast is amazing.

767
00:38:20,719 --> 00:38:24,480
Speaker 10: The pan waffles love you as much as I love

768
00:38:24,560 --> 00:38:25,839
Speaker 10: the stripper waffles.

769
00:38:26,920 --> 00:38:30,120
Speaker 4: I was like, they have kitchens, They have food, it

770
00:38:30,320 --> 00:38:34,600
Speaker 4: like most bars and nightclubs don't. Yeah, why don't bars

771
00:38:34,640 --> 00:38:35,760
Speaker 4: and nightclubs have kitchens.

772
00:38:35,840 --> 00:38:38,279
Speaker 10: We should be hanging out at strip clubs way more

773
00:38:38,320 --> 00:38:38,719
Speaker 10: than we are.

774
00:38:38,719 --> 00:38:40,160
Speaker 2: That's what I'm learning from this conversation.

775
00:38:40,440 --> 00:38:43,600
Speaker 3: We are forget, forget making a studio. We're just gonna

776
00:38:43,600 --> 00:38:46,520
Speaker 3: make the okop strip club and just record there. Okay,

777
00:38:46,600 --> 00:38:48,239
Speaker 3: that's clearly Yeah.

778
00:38:48,280 --> 00:38:50,799
Speaker 10: A studio is really like it's just kind of like

779
00:38:51,440 --> 00:38:54,359
Speaker 10: a money suck. This is a business opportunity. Not only

780
00:38:54,400 --> 00:38:57,240
Speaker 10: are we making content, but the strippers are making his money.

781
00:38:57,440 --> 00:38:59,640
Speaker 2: And we can strip too. Strip clubs have walls.

782
00:38:59,680 --> 00:39:06,560
Speaker 10: Yeah, long haired Daddy stripped keys better than magic. It's

783
00:39:06,600 --> 00:39:09,880
Speaker 10: coming soon, coming soon, and you'll be coming soon if

784
00:39:09,920 --> 00:39:10,360
Speaker 10: you watch it.

785
00:39:10,520 --> 00:39:11,000
Speaker 9: You have.

786
00:39:12,840 --> 00:39:13,880
Speaker 4: Your girl friend.

787
00:39:18,920 --> 00:39:20,880
Speaker 3: See see we always have the door closed. Now she

788
00:39:21,000 --> 00:39:23,560
Speaker 3: knows what this is, what goes on.

789
00:39:23,920 --> 00:39:30,280
Speaker 2: Behind closed doors. Sam and John one podcast. Sam objectifies John.

790
00:39:31,760 --> 00:39:38,360
Speaker 2: John loves it, but don't tell him.

791
00:39:39,640 --> 00:39:49,359
Speaker 10: It will be little cool cool, not ideal to get

792
00:39:49,400 --> 00:39:51,480
Speaker 10: married on no sleep. But if it doesn't bother him,

793
00:39:51,840 --> 00:39:55,239
Speaker 10: doesn't bother me, doesn't bother me. He gets home and

794
00:39:55,320 --> 00:39:58,799
Speaker 10: starts talking about two strippers. He mets, I am, I

795
00:39:58,800 --> 00:40:01,840
Speaker 10: am okay, I don't even speak. I'm just still thinking

796
00:40:01,840 --> 00:40:03,560
Speaker 10: about John's top bot god.

797
00:40:06,840 --> 00:40:09,759
Speaker 4: Two strippers and their name was Charity and.

798
00:40:09,800 --> 00:40:16,600
Speaker 10: John, I do have a name. Yeah, Vanilla Thunder. Oh

799
00:40:16,640 --> 00:40:20,440
Speaker 10: that's great, Yeah, that's great. And uh, when I was

800
00:40:20,440 --> 00:40:22,440
Speaker 10: living in Australia. One of my friends was part of

801
00:40:22,440 --> 00:40:26,279
Speaker 10: Thunder down Under and he was my my roommate, and

802
00:40:26,320 --> 00:40:30,799
Speaker 10: I is considered auditioning because he had an in with

803
00:40:30,960 --> 00:40:31,879
Speaker 10: the Thunder down Under.

804
00:40:32,000 --> 00:40:33,240
Speaker 2: That's like Australian.

805
00:40:33,400 --> 00:40:35,800
Speaker 10: It's like yeah, it's like it's like a yeah, like

806
00:40:35,840 --> 00:40:36,480
Speaker 10: a stripping group.

807
00:40:36,520 --> 00:40:39,400
Speaker 4: We actually have one down here, but I wouldn't recommend

808
00:40:39,480 --> 00:40:41,960
Speaker 4: going to it. My friend really wanted to go with

809
00:40:41,960 --> 00:40:45,560
Speaker 4: her husband, and her husband and Graham were friends, so

810
00:40:45,680 --> 00:40:48,360
Speaker 4: we all ended up going one. Because I had so

811
00:40:48,360 --> 00:40:49,919
Speaker 4: many guys I asked. They kind of left us alone,

812
00:40:49,960 --> 00:40:52,120
Speaker 4: which is kind of nice, but they were so off

813
00:40:52,680 --> 00:40:54,160
Speaker 4: and so out of sync with each other.

814
00:40:54,200 --> 00:40:56,200
Speaker 3: I was like, you know, if you're going to be

815
00:40:56,239 --> 00:41:00,239
Speaker 3: a male stripper, have writ take a dance lesson, come

816
00:41:00,280 --> 00:41:02,040
Speaker 3: on some freaking rhythm.

817
00:41:03,560 --> 00:41:05,759
Speaker 2: Respect your craft.

818
00:41:07,000 --> 00:41:09,360
Speaker 10: He gets home and start's talking about two strippers. You

819
00:41:09,440 --> 00:41:12,440
Speaker 10: met one who wants to come to our one who

820
00:41:12,440 --> 00:41:13,760
Speaker 10: wants to come to our wedding?

821
00:41:14,320 --> 00:41:16,640
Speaker 4: Are you paying them? Because like I feel like outside,

822
00:41:16,680 --> 00:41:18,680
Speaker 4: like I feel like strippers. You're like, oh, yeah, you know,

823
00:41:18,880 --> 00:41:20,560
Speaker 4: they kind of talk service level, but I don't think

824
00:41:20,600 --> 00:41:22,720
Speaker 4: they generally have like an interest in you outside.

825
00:41:23,280 --> 00:41:24,919
Speaker 2: Yeah, making money, one would think.

826
00:41:26,040 --> 00:41:28,040
Speaker 10: I guess maybe you know, maybe he met the stripper

827
00:41:28,040 --> 00:41:29,680
Speaker 10: with the heart of goal they always talk about.

828
00:41:30,960 --> 00:41:32,000
Speaker 2: She really does love me.

829
00:41:32,200 --> 00:41:34,600
Speaker 10: Yeah, you can tell by the way, like when I

830
00:41:34,640 --> 00:41:37,080
Speaker 10: put like money in her pants, like she like, she

831
00:41:37,200 --> 00:41:41,040
Speaker 10: means it. She means everything she says to me. Wants

832
00:41:41,040 --> 00:41:44,200
Speaker 10: to meet my mom, which is why she's going to

833
00:41:44,200 --> 00:41:44,560
Speaker 10: the wedding.

834
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Speaker 2: My mom. So sorry, I'm so sorry.

835
00:41:50,880 --> 00:41:54,960
Speaker 10: On this PODCASTE You Get It talks about two strippers,

836
00:41:55,000 --> 00:42:04,960
Speaker 10: one who hasn't come to our wedding. We'll call her Stella.

837
00:42:01,880 --> 00:42:10,359
Speaker 2: See see see mac contents. She knows, she knows much more.

838
00:42:10,400 --> 00:42:11,839
Speaker 4: PG on my channel.

839
00:42:13,320 --> 00:42:15,960
Speaker 10: Spikes all of a this is what everyone comes for.

840
00:42:16,640 --> 00:42:18,719
Speaker 10: She told me she didn't want to be weird and

841
00:42:18,760 --> 00:42:21,279
Speaker 10: she had a boyfriend, but our wedding sounded.

842
00:42:21,000 --> 00:42:23,560
Speaker 2: Cool and she wanted to come again cool.

843
00:42:24,160 --> 00:42:26,240
Speaker 10: We had the room as it wasn't a formal wedding,

844
00:42:26,520 --> 00:42:29,200
Speaker 10: and what's a and what's a Vegas wedding without a

845
00:42:29,200 --> 00:42:31,759
Speaker 10: stripper from the night before? Which is fair, It's fair,

846
00:42:31,760 --> 00:42:34,080
Speaker 10: I guess, being very reasonable.

847
00:42:34,400 --> 00:42:36,680
Speaker 4: This literally sounds like the plot of Like a Hangover

848
00:42:37,000 --> 00:42:37,600
Speaker 4: was exactly.

849
00:42:39,120 --> 00:42:41,759
Speaker 10: Then he tells me about the other stripper, who he

850
00:42:41,920 --> 00:42:44,880
Speaker 10: thinks wanted to have a threesome with us because she

851
00:42:45,000 --> 00:42:48,960
Speaker 10: said his wife sounded hot and he invited her to

852
00:42:49,000 --> 00:42:49,440
Speaker 10: the wedding.

853
00:42:49,520 --> 00:42:51,239
Speaker 2: Also, wow, there was.

854
00:42:51,239 --> 00:42:53,680
Speaker 4: A stripper at a strip club that was flirting with him.

855
00:42:54,120 --> 00:42:57,400
Speaker 4: Oh my god, I can't imagine your wife.

856
00:42:57,160 --> 00:43:00,719
Speaker 10: Sounds so hot.

857
00:43:00,760 --> 00:43:03,640
Speaker 2: What do you even say to that? Also, what is

858
00:43:03,680 --> 00:43:05,759
Speaker 2: he playing like voicemails like.

859
00:43:05,719 --> 00:43:08,560
Speaker 10: I, yeah, look at he's like they're like doing like

860
00:43:08,600 --> 00:43:10,359
Speaker 10: a like a dance and he was like, look at

861
00:43:10,360 --> 00:43:12,000
Speaker 10: my wife and she's like cool.

862
00:43:12,560 --> 00:43:15,600
Speaker 4: Did not have a valley She's probably was like literally

863
00:43:15,760 --> 00:43:17,800
Speaker 4: look at my hot and that was it.

864
00:43:17,880 --> 00:43:22,600
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, literally, do you want to come to my wedding? Yeah? Sure, sure.

865
00:43:23,760 --> 00:43:26,600
Speaker 4: That their buddy system. They're doing the buddy system, Like,

866
00:43:26,640 --> 00:43:28,680
Speaker 4: so she's gonna go because the other role was going to.

867
00:43:28,719 --> 00:43:31,760
Speaker 2: Go, Oh, that's an interesting point.

868
00:43:31,800 --> 00:43:34,520
Speaker 4: I'm super into true crime and like that's like it's

869
00:43:34,560 --> 00:43:36,839
Speaker 4: really unfortunate, but a lot of the time, right, sex

870
00:43:36,880 --> 00:43:40,000
Speaker 4: workers are really easy targets, so that they're trying to

871
00:43:40,000 --> 00:43:44,400
Speaker 4: do the buddies. She literally like was like hot.

872
00:43:44,440 --> 00:43:48,520
Speaker 10: Right, I didn't really say much to that, is what

873
00:43:48,560 --> 00:43:50,680
Speaker 10: do you even say to that? He's mentioned wanting to

874
00:43:50,680 --> 00:43:53,279
Speaker 10: have a threesome before and it has never been off

875
00:43:53,280 --> 00:43:56,240
Speaker 10: the table. But we really have only discussed it briefly

876
00:43:56,320 --> 00:43:58,680
Speaker 10: and vaguely, like who might want to do that someday.

877
00:43:59,160 --> 00:44:01,360
Speaker 10: He also got bold their numbers to send them the

878
00:44:01,400 --> 00:44:05,880
Speaker 10: wedding info. But that is where things go downhill, Like

879
00:44:05,960 --> 00:44:07,880
Speaker 10: nothing before that.

880
00:44:07,920 --> 00:44:09,920
Speaker 3: He was out to a strip club to seven am

881
00:44:10,400 --> 00:44:12,120
Speaker 3: the night before his wedding.

882
00:44:12,760 --> 00:44:13,560
Speaker 4: He wanted breakfast.

883
00:44:14,280 --> 00:44:17,040
Speaker 3: He wanted waffle. I mean, are we going to gaslight

884
00:44:17,120 --> 00:44:18,120
Speaker 3: him for loving waffles?

885
00:44:18,719 --> 00:44:22,800
Speaker 10: You got to get those cakes somehow, person in waffles

886
00:44:22,880 --> 00:44:26,360
Speaker 10: m for a majority of the time leading up to

887
00:44:26,400 --> 00:44:28,560
Speaker 10: the wedding. We didn't spend our time separate before the

888
00:44:28,560 --> 00:44:30,759
Speaker 10: wedding since we were already married. He's talking about how

889
00:44:30,800 --> 00:44:32,200
Speaker 10: he really thinks they're going.

890
00:44:32,000 --> 00:44:32,560
Speaker 2: To show up.

891
00:44:32,640 --> 00:44:35,920
Speaker 10: He can't believe strippers are coming to our wedding. Like

892
00:44:36,000 --> 00:44:39,680
Speaker 10: he talked about almost nothing else, not the greatest vibe

893
00:44:39,719 --> 00:44:42,799
Speaker 10: for a bride on her wedding day who was expecting

894
00:44:42,840 --> 00:44:45,000
Speaker 10: to be her husband's main focus.

895
00:44:45,360 --> 00:44:46,399
Speaker 4: He failed the vibe check.

896
00:44:46,480 --> 00:44:50,280
Speaker 10: Oh my god, Yo, more excited about the strippers coming

897
00:44:50,320 --> 00:44:52,680
Speaker 10: to the wedding than is freaking wife.

898
00:44:53,080 --> 00:44:53,480
Speaker 2: Buddy.

899
00:44:55,320 --> 00:44:57,759
Speaker 4: He failed the vibe check, like failed it.

900
00:44:57,960 --> 00:45:01,600
Speaker 10: Wow, but it didn't bother me that much at the

901
00:45:01,600 --> 00:45:05,200
Speaker 10: time because I assumed he was excited and maybe a

902
00:45:05,239 --> 00:45:06,600
Speaker 10: little high on Vegas.

903
00:45:08,040 --> 00:45:13,200
Speaker 2: Okay, hold on, queen, you don't deserve this. Yeah, you know,

904
00:45:13,400 --> 00:45:16,280
Speaker 2: you don't deserve random strippers showing up to their wedding.

905
00:45:16,760 --> 00:45:19,279
Speaker 4: I mean even she's random people in general, I'd be

906
00:45:19,360 --> 00:45:20,200
Speaker 4: kind of pissed off about.

907
00:45:20,400 --> 00:45:23,680
Speaker 2: Yeah, right, there's an all this list. Sally Jelly Cheeks

908
00:45:23,719 --> 00:45:24,920
Speaker 2: just walks through the door.

909
00:45:25,120 --> 00:45:26,239
Speaker 4: Now you're paying for their dinner.

910
00:45:27,120 --> 00:45:34,560
Speaker 2: We did not even I mean, goodbye, out of my face.

911
00:45:34,840 --> 00:45:37,240
Speaker 4: Apparently strip clubs also have steak.

912
00:45:37,760 --> 00:45:39,200
Speaker 2: You know a lot about strip clubs.

913
00:45:39,320 --> 00:45:39,680
Speaker 4: I read it.

914
00:45:39,880 --> 00:45:44,520
Speaker 10: I read that on window deep research.

915
00:45:44,880 --> 00:45:46,600
Speaker 4: No, no, no, the breakfast one I know from my friend

916
00:45:46,640 --> 00:45:47,680
Speaker 4: who lives out here.

917
00:45:47,719 --> 00:45:51,520
Speaker 10: But she's a writer, my friend Swim, someone who isn't me.

918
00:45:52,960 --> 00:45:55,200
Speaker 4: Oh god, I couldn't write for shit. I wish I could,

919
00:45:55,239 --> 00:45:57,399
Speaker 4: but yeah, she's a freelance writer. She's like, I want

920
00:45:57,400 --> 00:45:59,120
Speaker 4: to do a piece going to the Las Vegas s

921
00:45:59,120 --> 00:46:02,200
Speaker 4: bruck are clothes for breakfast and like rate all of them.

922
00:46:02,200 --> 00:46:02,680
Speaker 4: And I was like.

923
00:46:04,760 --> 00:46:08,600
Speaker 2: I could see that. Take that back that up? What

924
00:46:10,600 --> 00:46:11,880
Speaker 2: And he said, let me accompany you.

925
00:46:12,000 --> 00:46:13,399
Speaker 4: I don't know, a big, a.

926
00:46:13,320 --> 00:46:16,680
Speaker 3: Big hit on trip Advisor. Yeah, like top top ten

927
00:46:17,160 --> 00:46:19,000
Speaker 3: strip club breakfast if she.

928
00:46:18,960 --> 00:46:21,279
Speaker 4: Writes for a blog out here in Vegas. So I

929
00:46:21,320 --> 00:46:26,799
Speaker 4: was like, that makes sense. But I was like, what, Like,

930
00:46:26,880 --> 00:46:28,959
Speaker 4: I guess dinner made sense to me because I thought,

931
00:46:29,080 --> 00:46:31,279
Speaker 4: you know, like you could be there at midnight and

932
00:46:31,320 --> 00:46:35,080
Speaker 4: want like they have the buffets like that was so

933
00:46:35,080 --> 00:46:37,799
Speaker 4: I'm like, that makes sense. I just figured they catered it,

934
00:46:37,840 --> 00:46:39,160
Speaker 4: like I didn't think they were making it.

935
00:46:39,280 --> 00:46:42,799
Speaker 10: Yeah, I think I think, like the title of that

936
00:46:42,960 --> 00:46:46,520
Speaker 10: article should be heard of that and breakfast, but how

937
00:46:46,520 --> 00:46:47,879
Speaker 10: about breakfast and booty.

938
00:46:48,160 --> 00:46:54,400
Speaker 2: Cakes and caw no one, no one? All right, I

939
00:46:54,440 --> 00:46:57,760
Speaker 2: am down, I'm gonna keep reading.

940
00:46:59,400 --> 00:47:03,920
Speaker 10: Wedding time rolls around and Stella actually shows. She's gorgeous

941
00:47:04,000 --> 00:47:07,480
Speaker 10: and sweet and she's wearing all white nok and.

942
00:47:07,480 --> 00:47:09,720
Speaker 2: We decide we might visit her.

943
00:47:09,600 --> 00:47:11,839
Speaker 10: At the club later that night, since I missed out

944
00:47:11,840 --> 00:47:14,440
Speaker 10: the night before and was a little bumped part ways

945
00:47:14,440 --> 00:47:16,759
Speaker 10: and head hour. We part ways and had to take

946
00:47:16,760 --> 00:47:19,480
Speaker 10: our wedding portraits, and my husband is still talking about

947
00:47:19,520 --> 00:47:23,080
Speaker 10: Stella and how beautiful she is, but now it's about

948
00:47:23,120 --> 00:47:25,680
Speaker 10: what club she will be at and when later in

949
00:47:25,719 --> 00:47:28,480
Speaker 10: the evening, we're gonna meet up. At one point, he

950
00:47:28,560 --> 00:47:32,400
Speaker 10: even referred to her as his Vegas girlfriend to our friends,

951
00:47:32,680 --> 00:47:35,239
Speaker 10: which made me uneasy, but I laughed it off as

952
00:47:35,280 --> 00:47:38,880
Speaker 10: a joke and figured he was high on Vegas.

953
00:47:38,880 --> 00:47:40,680
Speaker 2: What is this excuse? High on Vegas?

954
00:47:41,000 --> 00:47:42,279
Speaker 4: I live here, I don't know what.

955
00:47:42,719 --> 00:47:46,920
Speaker 3: Probably high on Vegas sniffing desert sand, Like I don't

956
00:47:46,920 --> 00:47:47,200
Speaker 3: know what.

957
00:47:48,120 --> 00:47:48,719
Speaker 4: I don't know.

958
00:47:48,840 --> 00:47:50,760
Speaker 10: He has so much to glitter up his nose from,

959
00:47:50,800 --> 00:47:53,840
Speaker 10: like motor boating, stripper booty, that he's not thinking straight.

960
00:47:54,120 --> 00:47:57,360
Speaker 4: Oh, I'm like high off Vegas. Does not even me?

961
00:47:57,640 --> 00:48:00,640
Speaker 4: Like people do stupid stuff on the right when they're drunk.

962
00:48:00,680 --> 00:48:02,319
Speaker 4: I'm sure footage last.

963
00:48:02,400 --> 00:48:06,080
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, but like what, Yeah, I don't know.

964
00:48:06,239 --> 00:48:10,560
Speaker 10: She's very very recentable accommodating massively, like just.

965
00:48:10,680 --> 00:48:12,960
Speaker 4: I would have already been like, hey, you coming here,

966
00:48:12,960 --> 00:48:14,880
Speaker 4: We're gonna go, We're gonna go talk.

967
00:48:14,719 --> 00:48:16,960
Speaker 2: And then the oh yeah.

968
00:48:17,000 --> 00:48:20,000
Speaker 10: We head to dinner and husband is sucked into his phone,

969
00:48:20,320 --> 00:48:23,560
Speaker 10: barely speaking to me and still managing to rush me

970
00:48:23,680 --> 00:48:26,200
Speaker 10: to meet up with our friends and go see Stella.

971
00:48:26,840 --> 00:48:28,920
Speaker 2: We meet up with our friends, barhap.

972
00:48:28,560 --> 00:48:31,120
Speaker 10: A bit, then head to Stella's club with the expectation

973
00:48:31,200 --> 00:48:33,560
Speaker 10: that will stay for an hour because it's late and

974
00:48:33,560 --> 00:48:36,720
Speaker 10: everyone's pretty beat. We get there and after about ten minutes,

975
00:48:36,760 --> 00:48:39,839
Speaker 10: Stella comes over to hang out. Steve wants to get

976
00:48:39,880 --> 00:48:42,680
Speaker 10: a couple's lap dance and tell him I don't want to,

977
00:48:42,920 --> 00:48:44,920
Speaker 10: but to go without me. I would prefer to sit

978
00:48:45,000 --> 00:48:47,319
Speaker 10: back and tip the girls dancing on the pole. And

979
00:48:47,440 --> 00:48:50,799
Speaker 10: I am also very sober, couldn't drink because partying two

980
00:48:50,840 --> 00:48:52,719
Speaker 10: hard the day before, and at this point feeling a

981
00:48:52,760 --> 00:48:56,720
Speaker 10: little bit awkward as my husband seems very into Stella.

982
00:48:57,160 --> 00:48:59,279
Speaker 4: It just keeps, like you like, when you think you

983
00:48:59,360 --> 00:49:01,200
Speaker 4: can't get worse, it's just somehow.

984
00:49:01,320 --> 00:49:03,240
Speaker 2: Does Yeah, the train wreck keeps.

985
00:49:03,480 --> 00:49:06,640
Speaker 4: It's like the train wrecked and then somehow a car

986
00:49:06,760 --> 00:49:09,839
Speaker 4: drove into it, and then a plane also just gets

987
00:49:09,880 --> 00:49:10,840
Speaker 4: all together.

988
00:49:10,960 --> 00:49:12,520
Speaker 2: Steve gets down on one knee.

989
00:49:12,880 --> 00:49:15,800
Speaker 10: I proposed this to Stella.

990
00:49:15,160 --> 00:49:17,520
Speaker 4: Wizard of at his house, drops on top of all that.

991
00:49:17,719 --> 00:49:20,360
Speaker 2: Yeah, oh my god, what babe? Can I get that

992
00:49:20,480 --> 00:49:22,920
Speaker 2: ring back real quick? I just need it for something.

993
00:49:23,040 --> 00:49:25,080
Speaker 2: Yeah a minute.

994
00:49:25,400 --> 00:49:25,440
Speaker 9: No.

995
00:49:26,440 --> 00:49:29,360
Speaker 10: After several minutes of being talked into it by Stella

996
00:49:29,480 --> 00:49:32,920
Speaker 10: and Steve, I uncomfortably agree and we head back to

997
00:49:32,920 --> 00:49:34,880
Speaker 10: get that lap dance dance.

998
00:49:34,920 --> 00:49:36,719
Speaker 2: Starts, and I'm that person.

999
00:49:36,480 --> 00:49:39,279
Speaker 10: That doesn't know what to do with my hands. And

1000
00:49:39,320 --> 00:49:41,879
Speaker 10: when I guess you're getting a lap dance, I would

1001
00:49:41,960 --> 00:49:48,239
Speaker 10: know what to do. Is it no touching? Like your

1002
00:49:48,239 --> 00:49:50,160
Speaker 10: guns doing great jobs?

1003
00:49:51,120 --> 00:49:55,960
Speaker 2: You're right, I'm just like so, I'm just waiting for

1004
00:49:56,000 --> 00:49:56,440
Speaker 2: an end.

1005
00:49:56,760 --> 00:49:59,000
Speaker 10: Stella tries her best to make me feel at ease,

1006
00:49:59,160 --> 00:50:01,440
Speaker 10: joking and calm, lamenting me, but it just makes me

1007
00:50:01,440 --> 00:50:04,839
Speaker 10: feel more awkward. Well that and Steve asking me more

1008
00:50:04,920 --> 00:50:09,920
Speaker 10: than once why I'm being awkward Steve after several minutes,

1009
00:50:09,960 --> 00:50:11,680
Speaker 10: I leave before the dance is over, but tell him

1010
00:50:11,760 --> 00:50:15,479
Speaker 10: to finish, and they do. Several minutes later, they come

1011
00:50:15,520 --> 00:50:18,160
Speaker 10: back to the group. Stella purchases on my chair and

1012
00:50:18,200 --> 00:50:21,239
Speaker 10: tells me that Steve told her we wanted to have

1013
00:50:21,280 --> 00:50:27,600
Speaker 10: a threesome. Wait, Steve told Stella is like, Yo, my

1014
00:50:27,640 --> 00:50:28,920
Speaker 10: wife wants to have a threesome with you.

1015
00:50:29,760 --> 00:50:32,200
Speaker 4: I feel like the conversation he was like, yes, she

1016
00:50:32,360 --> 00:50:35,560
Speaker 4: might be introduced threesome. She was like okay, And then

1017
00:50:35,640 --> 00:50:39,000
Speaker 4: so he's like that's the sign. That's a yes. That's

1018
00:50:39,000 --> 00:50:41,000
Speaker 4: like the type of yeah, that's the type of yes

1019
00:50:41,040 --> 00:50:42,320
Speaker 4: I would take as a kid, you know, when I

1020
00:50:43,040 --> 00:50:46,120
Speaker 4: have candy lad, She's like okay, and then like later

1021
00:50:46,160 --> 00:50:48,719
Speaker 4: would come and she'd find me in my Halloween candy.

1022
00:50:48,880 --> 00:50:50,239
Speaker 4: She'd be like, I'm like, but you.

1023
00:50:50,160 --> 00:50:53,279
Speaker 2: Said okay, he said okay, kay eaquals.

1024
00:50:53,000 --> 00:50:58,160
Speaker 4: Yes, thank god, thank god you said maybe that's obviously yes.

1025
00:50:58,239 --> 00:51:00,759
Speaker 2: Yeah, you didn't say no, So what else would you say?

1026
00:51:03,440 --> 00:51:08,280
Speaker 10: So Stella comes back and then she apologetically told me, Hey, sorry, honey,

1027
00:51:08,320 --> 00:51:13,479
Speaker 10: but I just don't do threesomes with the customers. I'm

1028
00:51:13,480 --> 00:51:17,240
Speaker 10: mortified for several reasons. One because he crossed a professional

1029
00:51:17,320 --> 00:51:20,200
Speaker 10: line and it was disrespectful, especially because he knows she

1030
00:51:20,320 --> 00:51:24,680
Speaker 10: has a boyfriend. Two, he made me people, yeah, I know,

1031
00:51:24,840 --> 00:51:27,640
Speaker 10: I love how that's one. One is like, think of

1032
00:51:27,719 --> 00:51:29,720
Speaker 10: the strip or friend?

1033
00:51:29,880 --> 00:51:30,719
Speaker 2: What about you?

1034
00:51:31,080 --> 00:51:33,960
Speaker 4: Yeah yeah, I'm like, what about like the eight disrespectful

1035
00:51:34,000 --> 00:51:35,799
Speaker 4: things he's done in like these.

1036
00:51:35,640 --> 00:51:41,160
Speaker 10: Literally, yo, yeah, you need to set some boundaries for yourself, girl.

1037
00:51:41,560 --> 00:51:43,640
Speaker 2: Two he made it sound like I was in on it.

1038
00:51:43,960 --> 00:51:47,799
Speaker 10: And three, arguably most important, the man asked someone to

1039
00:51:47,840 --> 00:51:51,680
Speaker 10: have a threesome without discussing it with me on our

1040
00:51:51,719 --> 00:51:54,200
Speaker 10: wedding night, just.

1041
00:51:53,520 --> 00:51:59,040
Speaker 2: Just just on the wedding night. It's just it's just wow. Wow.

1042
00:51:59,200 --> 00:52:01,160
Speaker 10: At this point, we've been here for about an hour,

1043
00:52:01,360 --> 00:52:03,680
Speaker 10: and our friend group decided to leave all of us

1044
00:52:04,239 --> 00:52:07,080
Speaker 10: except my husband. He opted to stay at the strip

1045
00:52:07,120 --> 00:52:10,400
Speaker 10: club alone with the girl who just shot him down

1046
00:52:10,600 --> 00:52:13,920
Speaker 10: for a threesome while all his friends and his wife

1047
00:52:14,120 --> 00:52:15,160
Speaker 10: went back to the hotel.

1048
00:52:15,760 --> 00:52:17,280
Speaker 4: Is it too late for a divorce?

1049
00:52:18,320 --> 00:52:21,239
Speaker 2: I freaking hope, So get that shit A null say that.

1050
00:52:21,280 --> 00:52:23,400
Speaker 4: Because I know there's so much more to what a

1051
00:52:23,480 --> 00:52:25,680
Speaker 4: marriage than that, But I'm like, that is so massively

1052
00:52:25,680 --> 00:52:29,040
Speaker 4: disrespectful on a big day. I think that's kind of

1053
00:52:29,080 --> 00:52:29,680
Speaker 4: on that line.

1054
00:52:29,760 --> 00:52:33,160
Speaker 2: It's what you said. He literally has done like ten yeahs.

1055
00:52:33,239 --> 00:52:34,000
Speaker 2: He's like in a.

1056
00:52:34,000 --> 00:52:39,160
Speaker 3: Row, and it's clearly not at all carry no remorse about.

1057
00:52:39,520 --> 00:52:41,719
Speaker 2: What his wife is feeling. Are like anything like that?

1058
00:52:41,960 --> 00:52:45,239
Speaker 10: No, To be fair, he did ask me if it

1059
00:52:45,320 --> 00:52:48,520
Speaker 10: was okay, and I said it was because at this

1060
00:52:48,600 --> 00:52:50,480
Speaker 10: point I don't have it in me to explain to

1061
00:52:50,520 --> 00:52:52,600
Speaker 10: this man all the ways he has disrespected me.

1062
00:52:53,120 --> 00:52:54,920
Speaker 2: He gets home an hour or two.

1063
00:52:54,760 --> 00:52:57,120
Speaker 10: Later, is at the strip club for an hour too,

1064
00:52:58,080 --> 00:53:01,080
Speaker 10: and asked me if I'm mad, and I unleash it

1065
00:53:01,160 --> 00:53:02,000
Speaker 10: on him.

1066
00:53:02,440 --> 00:53:05,160
Speaker 4: The worst part is he knew that she was mad.

1067
00:53:05,640 --> 00:53:07,560
Speaker 10: Okay. I stayed two hours at the strip club.

1068
00:53:07,600 --> 00:53:09,080
Speaker 2: It's not like, oh my god, it's not.

1069
00:53:09,040 --> 00:53:11,200
Speaker 4: Even like this guy is just like so oblivious you

1070
00:53:11,239 --> 00:53:14,520
Speaker 4: could hit him with a brick and he wouldn't notice.

1071
00:53:15,320 --> 00:53:17,560
Speaker 4: It's that he recognized that she was mad and was like.

1072
00:53:19,400 --> 00:53:21,880
Speaker 2: Are you mad? Bit like another hour or two just

1073
00:53:21,880 --> 00:53:24,879
Speaker 2: like lit her cool off. Hang with my new.

1074
00:53:25,320 --> 00:53:29,759
Speaker 4: Girlfriend, heide, that's not a hate Yeah, go outside, I'll

1075
00:53:29,800 --> 00:53:31,880
Speaker 4: meet you out there in five. And he's just apologizing

1076
00:53:31,960 --> 00:53:35,040
Speaker 4: or something like that, like how much is this man

1077
00:53:35,160 --> 00:53:35,960
Speaker 4: spending there?

1078
00:53:36,920 --> 00:53:39,320
Speaker 10: I don't know enough for the stripper to want.

1079
00:53:39,160 --> 00:53:40,840
Speaker 2: To be here?

1080
00:53:42,400 --> 00:53:46,080
Speaker 4: Really apparently had some number of the idea.

1081
00:53:46,040 --> 00:53:50,760
Speaker 10: Enough for the stripper to want to come to his way? True, yeah, true,

1082
00:53:50,920 --> 00:53:56,680
Speaker 10: So like I feel like a lot, so I unleash

1083
00:53:56,719 --> 00:53:58,920
Speaker 10: it on him, but I don't get far before he

1084
00:53:59,040 --> 00:54:02,000
Speaker 10: cuts me off. I can continually saying I'm sorry, I'm

1085
00:54:02,040 --> 00:54:05,239
Speaker 10: an asshole until I stop even trying to talk about it.

1086
00:54:05,560 --> 00:54:07,520
Speaker 10: We go to bed and in the morning he tells

1087
00:54:07,560 --> 00:54:10,000
Speaker 10: me he apologized to Stella and.

1088
00:54:09,960 --> 00:54:13,920
Speaker 2: Deleted her contact info. Bro, how about you apologize to

1089
00:54:13,920 --> 00:54:14,279
Speaker 2: your wife?

1090
00:54:14,360 --> 00:54:17,879
Speaker 4: Though, like, yeah, I'm like, at least he did one

1091
00:54:17,920 --> 00:54:21,080
Speaker 4: thing right there, which would be apologizing to her. From

1092
00:54:21,080 --> 00:54:23,319
Speaker 4: a hearing comfortable and taking her out of his phone

1093
00:54:23,320 --> 00:54:25,920
Speaker 4: because he clearly is attracted to her. So yeah, yeah,

1094
00:54:25,960 --> 00:54:28,520
Speaker 4: like at least that's one thing he kind of did

1095
00:54:28,680 --> 00:54:32,000
Speaker 4: right that, Like this is after doing like twenty things wrong.

1096
00:54:32,200 --> 00:54:36,880
Speaker 10: Yeah wow, I mean, like man is struck out, you know,

1097
00:54:37,080 --> 00:54:40,719
Speaker 10: like hire's chances. We leave for our five day honeymoon

1098
00:54:40,920 --> 00:54:44,080
Speaker 10: and don't discuss it again except for once when he

1099
00:54:44,120 --> 00:54:47,160
Speaker 10: informs me that Stella appreciated the apology but said it

1100
00:54:47,160 --> 00:54:49,560
Speaker 10: wasn't necessary and that she wants us to come see

1101
00:54:49,560 --> 00:54:51,600
Speaker 10: her next time we're in Vegas.

1102
00:54:53,360 --> 00:54:53,640
Speaker 2: Great.

1103
00:54:54,120 --> 00:54:57,040
Speaker 10: I spend her honeymoon either stoned. Not a healthy crutch,

1104
00:54:57,080 --> 00:54:58,520
Speaker 10: I know, but it was the only thing that made

1105
00:54:58,520 --> 00:55:01,919
Speaker 10: it bearable, which allowed me to occasionally forget about the incident. Also,

1106
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Speaker 10: if you're having to get stoned to get through your honeymoon,

1107
00:55:04,000 --> 00:55:06,040
Speaker 10: that's not a good start to the marriage.

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Speaker 4: If you have to, like if you have to do

1109
00:55:07,680 --> 00:55:10,040
Speaker 4: anything like this isn't just saying hard drugs, but I

1110
00:55:10,040 --> 00:55:12,160
Speaker 4: feel like you have to drink to get through being

1111
00:55:12,160 --> 00:55:16,560
Speaker 4: around your significant other, maybe like don't be with them,

1112
00:55:16,880 --> 00:55:21,000
Speaker 4: Like I feel like that's kind of common sense, but

1113
00:55:21,120 --> 00:55:22,759
Speaker 4: you know it's one fine.

1114
00:55:22,920 --> 00:55:26,400
Speaker 10: Yeah, but this this next part is heartbreaking, though the

1115
00:55:26,800 --> 00:55:29,360
Speaker 10: you know, getting stone allowed me to occasionally forget the

1116
00:55:29,400 --> 00:55:32,680
Speaker 10: incident or silently fuming. But I was wondering if I

1117
00:55:32,760 --> 00:55:35,840
Speaker 10: was overreacting. I was afraid to go off, if this

1118
00:55:35,960 --> 00:55:38,600
Speaker 10: wasn't actually a big deal as maybe I thought it was,

1119
00:55:38,960 --> 00:55:41,759
Speaker 10: because obviously you didn't think it was. He asked me

1120
00:55:41,840 --> 00:55:44,719
Speaker 10: multiple times if I was okay, every time I gave

1121
00:55:44,800 --> 00:55:49,680
Speaker 10: a half hearted mine. We return home and I told

1122
00:55:49,719 --> 00:55:51,600
Speaker 10: my best friend the story because I need to talk

1123
00:55:51,640 --> 00:55:53,520
Speaker 10: to someone about it, and I needed her to tell

1124
00:55:53,560 --> 00:55:55,759
Speaker 10: me all my concerns. In my head, I was just overreacting.

1125
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Speaker 10: You know, it's fine to confirm that my concerns were

1126
00:55:58,239 --> 00:56:00,239
Speaker 10: valid and I was not overreact.

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00:56:00,400 --> 00:56:05,600
Speaker 2: Girl, You're not overreacting that night, underreact so much as

1128
00:56:05,960 --> 00:56:06,879
Speaker 2: dude so much.

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Speaker 10: God, that night, I confinded my husband and actually got

1130
00:56:11,160 --> 00:56:11,640
Speaker 10: to speak.

1131
00:56:11,880 --> 00:56:13,319
Speaker 2: When I finished, he apologized.

1132
00:56:13,360 --> 00:56:15,920
Speaker 10: He said he thought a threesome was what I wanted

1133
00:56:16,040 --> 00:56:17,960
Speaker 10: because I was so excited when he brought it up

1134
00:56:17,960 --> 00:56:19,080
Speaker 10: earlier that day.

1135
00:56:19,080 --> 00:56:20,040
Speaker 2: Exactly what you were saying.

1136
00:56:20,080 --> 00:56:23,239
Speaker 4: I'm curious how drunk he was, because if she was

1137
00:56:23,239 --> 00:56:26,879
Speaker 4: like okay, he could have just completely misinterpreted that misinterpreted

1138
00:56:26,960 --> 00:56:29,600
Speaker 4: everything because it sounds like drunk, iye behavior.

1139
00:56:29,280 --> 00:56:32,320
Speaker 10: Yeah, and he's probably so excited that he's not analyzing

1140
00:56:32,360 --> 00:56:32,880
Speaker 10: the situation.

1141
00:56:33,280 --> 00:56:35,840
Speaker 4: Every guy, but this does sound like you have to

1142
00:56:35,840 --> 00:56:38,239
Speaker 4: be drunk, because I don't understand how you could be

1143
00:56:38,280 --> 00:56:38,800
Speaker 4: so dumb.

1144
00:56:39,120 --> 00:56:43,319
Speaker 10: Yeah, it's insane, but maybe he just like he also

1145
00:56:43,480 --> 00:56:47,120
Speaker 10: could just like not care enough about his wife's feelings

1146
00:56:47,280 --> 00:56:51,480
Speaker 10: or what she wants, because that sound like her her

1147
00:56:51,560 --> 00:56:54,799
Speaker 10: wondering if she's overreacting the situation. Makes me think it's

1148
00:56:54,800 --> 00:56:59,200
Speaker 10: like a pattern, like like she's like constantly wondering whether

1149
00:56:59,400 --> 00:57:02,719
Speaker 10: her reaction is valid when this is like so obviously

1150
00:57:02,800 --> 00:57:03,440
Speaker 10: over the line.

1151
00:57:03,640 --> 00:57:06,160
Speaker 2: She's probably been like he's talked.

1152
00:57:05,880 --> 00:57:08,960
Speaker 3: Her down from like yeah things, and and also like

1153
00:57:09,000 --> 00:57:11,200
Speaker 3: this happened over multiple occurrences of like him going the

1154
00:57:11,239 --> 00:57:13,160
Speaker 3: first time and like so it's like was he was

1155
00:57:13,200 --> 00:57:14,319
Speaker 3: he blackout drunk the whole?

1156
00:57:14,400 --> 00:57:14,840
Speaker 2: Yeah?

1157
00:57:14,880 --> 00:57:17,280
Speaker 10: I mean true, I feel like there's some manipulation going

1158
00:57:17,280 --> 00:57:19,960
Speaker 10: on here where he's like like, over the however long

1159
00:57:20,000 --> 00:57:23,720
Speaker 10: they've been dating, she's been made to feel crazy. Yeah,

1160
00:57:23,760 --> 00:57:27,680
Speaker 10: and uh, and maybe he's just like you know, Steve,

1161
00:57:28,080 --> 00:57:30,560
Speaker 10: he said he knew he fucked up, but didn't bring

1162
00:57:30,600 --> 00:57:32,960
Speaker 10: it up sooner because he thought I wanted to wait

1163
00:57:33,040 --> 00:57:36,160
Speaker 10: until after vacations discuss it, right, Like, why would I

1164
00:57:36,160 --> 00:57:38,120
Speaker 10: want this to hang over our vacation like a rain

1165
00:57:38,200 --> 00:57:39,760
Speaker 10: cloud instead of working through it.

1166
00:57:40,360 --> 00:57:43,000
Speaker 4: I don't know anyone that would want to sit through

1167
00:57:43,000 --> 00:57:47,160
Speaker 4: a vacation and just go through it. And yeah, that's worse.

1168
00:57:47,200 --> 00:57:48,320
Speaker 2: You don't want so much worse?

1169
00:57:48,600 --> 00:57:49,959
Speaker 4: Never leave someone is STU.

1170
00:57:50,280 --> 00:57:54,680
Speaker 10: Yeah, so the question, Oh, he's asking Reddit to you,

1171
00:57:54,720 --> 00:57:59,720
Speaker 10: guys us the official marriage counselors. We are the marriage

1172
00:57:59,720 --> 00:58:03,840
Speaker 10: counts that the internet needs. Yeah, what should I do?

1173
00:58:04,240 --> 00:58:06,880
Speaker 10: I thought this man was my future. We have dogs

1174
00:58:06,920 --> 00:58:09,920
Speaker 10: together and we're discussing kids. I don't want to give

1175
00:58:10,000 --> 00:58:12,120
Speaker 10: up on it so easily, but I don't know if

1176
00:58:12,120 --> 00:58:14,480
Speaker 10: I can get past this. It's not just what he

1177
00:58:14,520 --> 00:58:16,920
Speaker 10: did in Vegas, it's how he behaved afterwards.

1178
00:58:17,440 --> 00:58:20,080
Speaker 4: He also is just totally putting her own thoughts and

1179
00:58:20,120 --> 00:58:22,200
Speaker 4: feelings on her with saying I thought you didn't want

1180
00:58:22,200 --> 00:58:25,280
Speaker 4: to discuss it, Like where did you get that?

1181
00:58:25,760 --> 00:58:25,960
Speaker 9: Yeah?

1182
00:58:26,600 --> 00:58:29,960
Speaker 4: Yeah, I just I have never there's never been one

1183
00:58:30,000 --> 00:58:32,640
Speaker 4: instagrambed and like, fine, I'm fine, and he's been like

1184
00:58:32,800 --> 00:58:34,800
Speaker 4: you're obviously not fine if you want to talk, and

1185
00:58:34,840 --> 00:58:36,480
Speaker 4: I'm like absolutely.

1186
00:58:36,640 --> 00:58:40,360
Speaker 10: Yeah, I feel like the just communication style of this

1187
00:58:40,480 --> 00:58:42,000
Speaker 10: relationship is just not good.

1188
00:58:42,240 --> 00:58:42,680
Speaker 2: Yeah.

1189
00:58:42,760 --> 00:58:44,919
Speaker 10: Yeah, I mean probably I'm on both parts. Like she's

1190
00:58:44,960 --> 00:58:47,720
Speaker 10: been she's been trained either by him or maybe she

1191
00:58:47,720 --> 00:58:49,439
Speaker 10: doesn't want to speak up for himself or just doesn't

1192
00:58:49,480 --> 00:58:51,640
Speaker 10: trust her own voice yet. And like I feel like

1193
00:58:51,920 --> 00:58:55,160
Speaker 10: she needs to be vocal about what is going on

1194
00:58:55,480 --> 00:58:57,840
Speaker 10: and he needs to actually listen to her, and like

1195
00:58:57,920 --> 00:59:00,680
Speaker 10: there's like this like there's this lack of communication that

1196
00:59:00,680 --> 00:59:04,560
Speaker 10: I think is allowing him to get away with like

1197
00:59:04,960 --> 00:59:08,200
Speaker 10: kind of like fount of crap, like and he's been

1198
00:59:08,240 --> 00:59:12,400
Speaker 10: like glasshole. But also she shouldn't stand for this too, right,

1199
00:59:12,520 --> 00:59:15,240
Speaker 10: Like she's like this is not okay behavior.

1200
00:59:16,440 --> 00:59:19,320
Speaker 4: This sounds like one that they need marriage counseling for sure.

1201
00:59:19,800 --> 00:59:21,960
Speaker 4: Either you're welcome it ends or not. That way you

1202
00:59:22,040 --> 00:59:25,200
Speaker 4: kind of have everything resolved. Yeah, I say marriage counseling

1203
00:59:25,240 --> 00:59:27,360
Speaker 4: even if you're like you're probably going to get divorced,

1204
00:59:27,760 --> 00:59:29,160
Speaker 4: just that way you're kind of sorted through.

1205
00:59:29,400 --> 00:59:32,040
Speaker 10: Yeah, or I think like I think another great option

1206
00:59:32,120 --> 00:59:36,080
Speaker 10: would be to DM us and come on the show

1207
00:59:36,560 --> 00:59:38,439
Speaker 10: and we will be your marriage counselor.

1208
00:59:38,720 --> 00:59:42,960
Speaker 3: We are licensed by ourselves, Yes we are, and I

1209
00:59:43,000 --> 00:59:44,680
Speaker 3: mean marriage we do that.

1210
00:59:44,960 --> 00:59:48,160
Speaker 10: Yeah, we know that. We know about commitment. Yes, we've

1211
00:59:48,160 --> 00:59:50,080
Speaker 10: been doing this podcast for a year.

1212
00:59:50,280 --> 00:59:52,280
Speaker 2: We're committed to content that we are.

1213
00:59:52,840 --> 00:59:56,000
Speaker 4: I've been on this podcast only as of like two

1214
00:59:56,080 --> 00:59:58,000
Speaker 4: hours ago, and she hasn't left.

1215
00:59:58,440 --> 01:00:01,320
Speaker 10: No, that is a commitment to the relationship we have.

1216
01:00:02,000 --> 01:00:06,280
Speaker 10: That's threesome in the room.

1217
01:00:06,400 --> 01:00:09,320
Speaker 2: We guarantee that your relationship will last more than two hours.

1218
01:00:10,720 --> 01:00:11,200
Speaker 2: Can't beat that.

1219
01:00:11,760 --> 01:00:13,160
Speaker 4: Yeah, that's true.