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Speaker 1: All right, thank you, nephew. Subject my boyfriend has two

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Speaker 1: children by best friends. I'll read that one again. Subject

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Speaker 1: my boyfriend has two children by best friends. Dear Stephen Shirley.

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Speaker 1: I'm dating a man that has sons that are both

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Speaker 1: four years old. He got two best friends pregnant and

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Speaker 1: they are all still friends. I've been dating him for

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Speaker 1: seven months and he just decided to tell me that

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Speaker 1: he had two children and by females that he was

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Speaker 1: messing with and they didn't know it. This is a

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Speaker 1: major red flag for me me but it gets better

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Speaker 1: because both of his son's moms have tried to talk

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Speaker 1: me into staying with this man. I feel like I

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Speaker 1: am entering into a cult. Because I like both of

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Speaker 1: the women. I really feel like we all could be

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Speaker 1: close friends. Needless to say, I see why they were

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Speaker 1: both hooked on my boyfriend because he is heavenly in

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Speaker 1: bed and it's an out of body experience every time.

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Speaker 1: He's fit and chocolate, and he's always naked at home.

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Speaker 1: He's so addictive. I've talked to my moms. I've talked

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Speaker 1: to the moms, and they take full accountability for having

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Speaker 1: babies by him. At the same time, he was dating

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Speaker 1: one friend, so the other one was a side chick.

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Speaker 1: The first baby mama said she blames herself for telling

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Speaker 1: her friend that he was so good and for allowing

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Speaker 1: her to do a threesome with them. The other baby

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Speaker 1: mama said she'd enjoyed the threesome more than she expected to,

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Speaker 1: and she knew she was wrong. She kept secretly having

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Speaker 1: said with her best friend's man, my man is not

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Speaker 1: to blame for any of it, which is shocking. It's

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Speaker 1: like one big, happy family. My man said that he

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Speaker 1: can already tell that I am his soul mate and

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Speaker 1: he wants to marry me, but we should never have

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Speaker 1: a threesome. I didn't think that was funny. I do

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Speaker 1: love his sons, and he wants more children with me.

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Speaker 1: Do I stay in this crazy cultish relationship as long

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Speaker 1: as things don't get crazy? Or should I run away

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Speaker 1: from this?

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Speaker 3: Run?

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Speaker 1: Run, run as fast and as quickly as your feet

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Speaker 1: can carry you. You said it yourself, this crazy cultish relationship. Okay,

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Speaker 1: but you sound a little bit like you're getting caught

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Speaker 1: up in this mess. These people are all in some

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Speaker 1: sort of open, everything goes type of relationship, and they

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Speaker 1: want you to become some sort of sister.

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Speaker 4: Wife with all of this.

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Speaker 1: Look at all the stuff you're going to have to

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Speaker 1: take on put up with if you get into this.

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Speaker 1: He's got two kids, they're both same age, two baby

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Speaker 1: mamas who were best friends, and you know then they

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Speaker 1: slept with then the second baby mama slept with the

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Speaker 1: first her best friend's man. Secretly, you got one man

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Speaker 1: who slept with both of them, who has babies by

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Speaker 1: both of them, And you said he's not to blame,

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Speaker 1: But you did say it was a red flag. Yes,

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Speaker 1: this is all a red flag, and yes he should

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Speaker 1: take responsibility. He wasn't forced to sleep with his girlfriend's

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Speaker 1: best friend and make a baby. He did what he

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Speaker 1: wanted to do, and he wants to have more kids

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Speaker 1: with you. Are you kidding me? Please don't introduce him

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Speaker 1: to any of your friends. That's your socide note, do

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Speaker 1: not do that while you're still dating him. And why

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Speaker 1: would you get involved with this? I got to ask you,

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Speaker 1: do you want to be the third baby mama? Because

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Speaker 1: I mean, come on, this is all just a little

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Speaker 1: too friendly, little too convenient, little too cozy, you know,

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Speaker 1: for you to get mixed a mixed up in I

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Speaker 1: just say, get out now so you can get with

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Speaker 1: someone who doesn't have all this drama that these people

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Speaker 1: come with. It's too much. Your peace of mind is

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Speaker 1: way more important.

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Speaker 3: Steve, I see exactly why this lady wrote us, because

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Speaker 3: it's something wrong with you, them and him.

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Speaker 4: It's something wrong with all y'all.

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Speaker 3: Gal this letter, it has no redeeming quality in it

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Speaker 3: at all. And y'all kill me with this. He made

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Speaker 3: love to me and it was so heavenly. I'm just okay, okay,

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Speaker 3: that's all it takes.

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Speaker 4: That's all you gonna get.

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Speaker 3: Now you're dating the man that's got sons that are

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Speaker 3: both four years old. He got two best friends pregnant

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Speaker 3: and they all still friends.

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Speaker 4: Nobody in this circle has character.

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Speaker 3: Nobody in this circle has value yourself, Nobody in this

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Speaker 3: circle has a.

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Speaker 4: Decent amount of esteem except to do.

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Speaker 3: I've been dating him for seven months and he just

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Speaker 3: decided to tell me that he had two children and

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Speaker 3: by females that he was messing with and they didn't

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Speaker 3: know it.

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Speaker 4: So now he thene.

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Speaker 3: Told you what he do and how he do it.

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Speaker 3: This letter got run all in it. This letter just

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Speaker 3: scream and run with everything in it. This is a

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Speaker 3: major red flag for me. Okay, you know I had

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Speaker 3: somebody on my talk show one time that said women

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Speaker 3: should stop collecting red flags. When you see the red flag,

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Speaker 3: leave it in the ground. What you putting it in

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Speaker 3: the backseat of the car?

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Speaker 4: Fault?

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Speaker 3: You know how many women driving around with red flags.

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Speaker 3: But it gets better because both of his son's moms

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Speaker 3: have tried to talk me into staying with this man.

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Speaker 3: That's because they know your stupid behind can help him

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Speaker 3: make these childs suppose payments. Misery loves company. You ever

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Speaker 3: heard that saying before? It's so true.

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Speaker 4: We dumb.

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Speaker 3: Let's see if you dumb too. I feel like I'm

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Speaker 3: entering into a cult because I like both of the

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Speaker 3: women and I really feel like we could all be

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Speaker 3: close friends. You stupid, You're so damn stupid. You're so

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Speaker 3: damn stupid. That's the dumbest damn thing.

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Speaker 4: What you're stupid, Steve.

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Speaker 1: We'll have part two of your response coming up at

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Speaker 1: twenty three minutes after the hour. Today's Strawberry Letter subject

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Speaker 1: my boyfriend has two children by best friends. We'll get

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Speaker 1: back into it right after this. You're listening Steve Harvey

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Speaker 1: All right, come on, Steve, let's recap today's Strawberry letter.

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Speaker 1: The subject is my boyfriend has two children by best friends.

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Speaker 4: You were this letter so ignorant. Right here?

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Speaker 3: You dating a man that's got sons and both of

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Speaker 3: them four years old, they babies, mamas was best friends

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Speaker 3: and they all still.

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Speaker 4: Cool with each other. He decided to tell you that

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Speaker 4: that he had these.

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Speaker 3: Two kids by females that he was messing with and

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Speaker 3: they didn't know it.

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Speaker 4: This is a major red flag for me. But it gets.

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Speaker 3: Better because both of his sons moms have tried to

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Speaker 3: talk me into staying with this man, like I said,

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Speaker 3: because they know you can help him make these childs

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Speaker 3: support payments. And how they get your numbers? And why

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Speaker 3: are you talking to them? I feel like I'm enter

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Speaker 3: into a cult because I like both of the women,

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Speaker 3: and I really feel like we could all be close friends.

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Speaker 3: What close friends for what? You ain't got no friends nowhere?

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Speaker 3: You'll know nobody else. And don't you understand that these

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Speaker 3: people have a very warped sense of what friendship is?

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Speaker 3: What are you getting yourself into? What are you thinking about?

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Speaker 3: Needless to say, I see why they both hooked on

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Speaker 3: my boyfriend.

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Speaker 4: Your boyfriend.

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Speaker 3: You need another definition of that too, because he is

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Speaker 3: heavenly in bed and it's an outer body experience every

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Speaker 3: time he's fit and chocolate, and he's always naked at home.

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Speaker 4: Where does he work? He got jobs? One? What do

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Speaker 4: you do for a living?

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Speaker 3: What does he do for y'all other than give y'all

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Speaker 3: this out of body heavily experienced? But he ever bought

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Speaker 3: you anything, He ever took you anywhere?

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Speaker 4: Have either one of these friends been on vacation?

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Speaker 3: Does he have any redeeming quality except he always.

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Speaker 1: Naked at the house.

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Speaker 3: What's wrong with all of y'all? I've talked to the

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Speaker 3: moms and they take full accountability. Was a little late

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Speaker 3: for that, for having babies by him at the same

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Speaker 3: time he was dating one friend, so the other one

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Speaker 3: was a side check here. How stupid is the first

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Speaker 3: baby mama said she blames herself for telling her friend

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Speaker 3: that he was so good and for allowing her to

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Speaker 3: do a threesome with them. The other baby mama said

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Speaker 3: she enjoyed the threesome more than she expected to, and

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Speaker 3: she knew she was wrong when she kept secretly having

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Speaker 3: sex with her best friend's man. You know, is anybody

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Speaker 3: here this damn My man is not to blame for

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Speaker 3: any of them. Your man, he ain't to blame for

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Speaker 3: none of us. He got everybody president? Now, how he

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Speaker 3: in the cliff? He ain't to blame. How do you

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Speaker 3: girls get pregnant? Which was shocking. It's like one big,

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Speaker 3: happy family.

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Speaker 4: It's not.

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Speaker 3: It's dysfunctional. It's confusing, it's a hell bound mess. It's

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Speaker 3: all this is. My man said that he can already

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Speaker 3: tell that I'm his soulmate and he wants to marry me.

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Speaker 4: But we should never have a three son n word.

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Speaker 4: You know. I just don't have nothing to say about

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Speaker 4: this dude except in words. What are you doing on bruh?

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Speaker 4: What I can already tell you my soul man?

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Speaker 3: You don't think he can said this before while he

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Speaker 3: all shiny and black walking around the room ass naked.

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Speaker 4: You don't think he said this before she's caught up.

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Speaker 3: I didn't think that was funny. But I do love

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Speaker 3: his sons, his sons, and he wants children with me,

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Speaker 3: with you.

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Speaker 1: Do?

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Speaker 3: I stay in this crazy culture relationship as long as

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Speaker 3: things don't.

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Speaker 4: Don't get crazy. They already crazy. See that. What's wrong

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Speaker 4: with y'all?

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Speaker 3: Y'all don't know it's already crazy.

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Speaker 4: It has nowhere to go except crazy. Uh?

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Speaker 3: If this if this appears to be not crazy to you,

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Speaker 3: meaning if this appears to be not problematic right now,

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Speaker 3: and it is a lot of problems.

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Speaker 4: In this, but you don't see them.

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Speaker 3: So if this is what you call normally, it doesn't

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Speaker 3: appear to be problematic, what you gonna do when the

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Speaker 3: problem starts happening because they coming? Or should I run

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Speaker 3: away from this? First of all, you don't have a boyfriend.

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Speaker 3: He don't belong to you. And I'm going to teach

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Speaker 3: you something else. You will never be first. I tell

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Speaker 3: this to people all the time. You meet a man,

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Speaker 3: it's got a lot of key and you come along

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Speaker 3: and let me tell you something. You can never be first.

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Speaker 3: You will always be behind them kids. If he got

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Speaker 3: six kids, the six baby mamas, you fit to be

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Speaker 3: number thirteen on the list because all them kids gonna

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Speaker 3: them baby mamas gonna have a say so because they

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Speaker 3: are the mothers. So get in line, you number thirteen,

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Speaker 3: Like right now, you number five. I said, want you

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