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Speaker 1: The Fread Show is on. It's stay or Go all right,

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Speaker 1: Zach is here, Hi, Zach, good morning? How you doing?

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Speaker 2: Hey, good morning, I'm doing good.

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Speaker 3: Zach is on stairgo So, believe it or not, we

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Speaker 3: get a bunch of emails, dms, all kinds of stuff. Hey,

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Speaker 3: what do you guys think about this? And then and

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Speaker 3: the other thing? I mean, I really don't know why.

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Speaker 3: I guess I know why. People listening in the morning

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Speaker 3: and everybody here has different perspectives, so it's like, what

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Speaker 3: do you think about this situation? So, Zach, you are

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Speaker 3: the latest victim of Stay or Go Fred Show Radio

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Speaker 3: dot com. It's your radio on Instagram. What's going on?

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Speaker 3: We're unlicensed anyway, Just for the record, we're unlicensed. I

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Speaker 3: just want you to know in really anything actually, So

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Speaker 3: go ahead.

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Speaker 2: Well, I've been dating this girl for a few months now.

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Speaker 2: I'm not I'm not going to give any detail to

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Speaker 2: like respect her privacy of whatnot. But I did recently

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Speaker 2: find out that she used to be an exotic dancer.

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Speaker 2: Oh okay, all right, and I'm I'm I'm personally just

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Speaker 2: having a really hard time with it. I mean, I mean,

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Speaker 2: she just she was a stripper, she was a stripper,

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Speaker 2: uh the which which is fine, Which is fine. I

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Speaker 2: am nothing against ripper. I love strippers. I just.

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Speaker 1: Love that.

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Speaker 2: I just I was really embarrassed though, because it wasn't

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Speaker 2: even her who told me. One of my friends found out,

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Speaker 2: and he told me, like, you know, I.

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Speaker 3: Just really was I was going to put a song

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Speaker 3: on real quick that you might that she might.

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Speaker 4: Now come into the same desert we saw them, guys,

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Speaker 4: my mom's real girlfriend this song?

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Speaker 1: Man, man, I'm sorry. Yeah, it was friend. Your friend

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Speaker 1: was Fred your friend that found out?

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Speaker 3: I would be so cool about it. If I found out,

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Speaker 3: what's my other stripper song?

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Speaker 5: Oh?

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Speaker 1: This right here?

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Speaker 3: Hold on, here's the other here's the other stripper's song?

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Speaker 3: Is like, I did not call if here to get roasted.

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Speaker 3: Oh but you did surprise play?

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Speaker 1: Yeah run.

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Speaker 3: If they have a strip club with like Michael McDonald's playing,

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Speaker 3: I'll spend all my money.

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Speaker 6: Oh my god.

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Speaker 3: Anyway, alright, sorriies, I got distracted, Zach. So she used

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Speaker 3: to be an exotic dancer. And and how did you

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Speaker 3: find this out?

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Speaker 1: She told you?

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Speaker 2: Well, no, she did not tell me. My friend told

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Speaker 2: me because he saw one of our posts together. He

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Speaker 2: recognized her, and then he told me that, you know,

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Speaker 2: he used to see her.

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Speaker 3: You know, also he was a frequenter of this gentleman's

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Speaker 3: club where she was once employed, but he is no longer.

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Speaker 2: Well correct, yes for my understanding at least, you know.

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Speaker 2: I I talked to her about it, and she didn't

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Speaker 2: deny it, So I just I just pub really blindfied

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Speaker 2: to that. I think that shed have told me herself.

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Speaker 2: And I did hear that.

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Speaker 3: Fred was your friend about So I'm sorry, I'm sorry, No,

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Speaker 3: I'm sorry. This is very very sad, very traumatic. So

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Speaker 3: so your friend tells you this, Oh my god. No,

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Speaker 3: So your friend tells you this, and your friend is

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Speaker 3: an a hole like me, and it's like, yo, I

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Speaker 3: know this girl because she used to dance this place.

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Speaker 3: So then you go and you say to des Rey

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Speaker 3: or Turquoise or whatever you say to Mercedes, Mercedes her,

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Speaker 3: is this true? You used to dance in a trip club?

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Speaker 3: You were a shipper, right, yeah?

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Speaker 2: And she she did not say no. She didn't say

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Speaker 2: yes exactly. Like it was a very roundabout way of

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Speaker 2: just like basically calling me with out actually telling me,

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Speaker 2: which maybe even more upset because you still didn't tell

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Speaker 2: me the truth. But I just I just can't hope

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Speaker 2: that I just see her a little bit differently now.

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Speaker 2: I don't know if I'm messed up for that, but.

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Speaker 3: Well that's fair, it is, Zach. You didn't know all

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Speaker 3: jokes aside, you didn't know when you met her. You

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Speaker 3: I mean, that sucks that you have that knowledge, I guess,

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Speaker 3: and that it was to delivered to you in that way.

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Speaker 3: But at the same time, who cares. I mean, everybody

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Speaker 3: has a past, and I am the guy, by the way,

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Speaker 3: just the masochist that needs to know and then and

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Speaker 3: then internally just sort of fester on it. But nonetheless,

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Speaker 3: if you're if you're in a good relationship and you're happy,

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Speaker 3: and you're having a good time and everything's fun, then

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Speaker 3: tell your friend to shut the hell.

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Speaker 1: Up and uh and keep aiding her, right, Yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 1: I get that.

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Speaker 7: I do.

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Speaker 2: I do get that.

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Speaker 1: I really do get that.

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Speaker 2: I wish I could just say yeah, I totally agree

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Speaker 2: and like not have the you know, the vision in

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Speaker 2: my head of her, you know, being a stripper and

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Speaker 2: that not like affecting me. But I don't know. I'm

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Speaker 2: as you can see, I'm really torn up about this.

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Speaker 2: But that's why i'm you know, I want the opinions

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Speaker 2: that you guys and your listeners, and I really am

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Speaker 2: at a lot of what I'm going to do.

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Speaker 1: So well, she didn't forget how to dance. You know

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Speaker 1: what I'm saying. The moves are your moves? Now, you

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Speaker 1: know what I'm saying? What are you doing? You know

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Speaker 1: what I'm saying. I think he knows what you're saying.

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Speaker 1: It's not like she was going home and sleeping with

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Speaker 1: these dudes. He was just dancing for them, and now

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Speaker 1: she's dancing for you. Do you know what he's saying.

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Speaker 2: I do know what he's saying.

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Speaker 1: Yeah I don't. I don't know.

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Speaker 3: I mean so what So you're really like, you're still

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Speaker 3: but you're really thinking about leaving her because you you

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Speaker 3: can't get you can't get this out of your mind.

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Speaker 2: Yes, And also just the way that she just didn't

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Speaker 2: It's just like, what else, what else is she going

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Speaker 2: to hide for me? You know, what else is she

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Speaker 3: And I'm sorry interrupt exactly eight five five five three

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Speaker 3: five is how you can call the Fredschhick can text

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Speaker 3: the same number the truth we told. You know, maybe

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Speaker 3: she's embarrassed about her past. You know, maybe she doesn't

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Speaker 3: by the way, just because you're stripper doesn't mean you're

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Speaker 3: a bad person. But I mean, maybe she doesn't want

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Speaker 3: that judgment from you or that projection. So it's just like,

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Speaker 3: I'm just not going to talk about that portion of

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Speaker 3: promiscuous at one point in their life. Some people, I

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Speaker 3: all aren't all equal things, but most of us have

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Speaker 3: done something in our past that we don't necessarily want

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Speaker 3: Well, let me take some phone calls on this and

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Speaker 3: a shame to see it end, right, Kiki. Yeah, I

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Speaker 3: don't think he should eve her at all. You know,

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Speaker 3: some of us were gang members, some of us were criminals.

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Speaker 3: M yes, I'm sitting next to Ruvio, that's right. And

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Speaker 3: we changed our lives and she could have change our lives.

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Speaker 3: And when you meet somebody, I don't necessarily go down

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Speaker 1: History like you.

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Speaker 3: I was gonna say, I'm not looking for I'm not

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Speaker 3: looking at your indeed profile or I don't need you

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Speaker 3: to give me a resume. I'm not calling a references,

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Speaker 3: so I think it's okay.

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Speaker 6: Man.

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Speaker 3: I think if you're if you didn't, if you were

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Speaker 2: No, I wouldn't. Right about that.

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Speaker 1: There's your answer, Caitlyn. I'm waiting for you to say,

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Speaker 1: you know, come on, man, like you know well, you

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Speaker 1: know how I feel about strippers. I mean, I love

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Speaker 1: no deal breaker for me. Yeah, no, me neither. I

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Speaker 1: mean I love a stripper, so I don't think it

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Speaker 3: I do think there is a stigma, and so it

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Speaker 3: might take some convincing, like for maybe a different generation

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Speaker 3: like SMA and I'm here to do it too. I'm

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Speaker 3: And again it's just sort of why though it's a

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Speaker 3: different aga, people come from a different era. I don't

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Speaker 3: know you, you, Fred, you would have no problem with this.

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Speaker 3: I don't love it, but I can't say that. I

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Speaker 3: would just know the man who overthinks and goes down

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Speaker 3: the rabbit hole, dude who got a laugh. Yeah, I'd

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Speaker 3: find them all and.

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Speaker 1: With them I would.

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Speaker 3: It might take a while, but and give them their

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Speaker 3: money back and tell them that it never happened. Here's

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Speaker 3: twenty dollars. You never met her, Okay, all right, I

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Speaker 3: understand what I'm saying. You know what I'm saying. Let

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Speaker 3: me take some phone calls. Man, Hey, good luck to you.

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Speaker 3: Thanks for being a good sport. Honestly, people are drossing

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Speaker 3: me in the in the text saying I'm a terrible

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Speaker 3: person for playing really good striper stats, but you seem

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Speaker 3: like you're okay.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, he's a good sport. Yeah, we got we gotta

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Speaker 1: have a sense of about this.

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Speaker 2: I appreciate all the help I do.

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Speaker 1: I'm not sure if we helped you in check, but

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Speaker 1: we did. We'll check it with you in a couple

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Speaker 1: of weeks. Man, good luck. Okay, that's a good woman. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I don't don't. I'm a hustler. She's got her own

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Speaker 1: you know, she was someone just texted.

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Speaker 3: She was just trying to put her away, put herself

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Speaker 3: through medical school, obviously, you know.

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Speaker 1: And when I'm retired, I will be a house mom

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Speaker 1: at a strip club. That will happen. That is my

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Speaker 1: retirement plan. I love it.

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Speaker 3: Keep her around, Yeah, I say, stay with her. And

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Speaker 3: even me, the guy who overthinks that absolutely everything. I say,

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Speaker 3: were none the wiser and you were happy. Everybody has fact.

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Speaker 3: Everyone has a past, and that's a fact. Hey Jordan, Yeah,

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Speaker 3: Hi Jordan, good morning to stay or go?

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Speaker 1: What do you think I say he needs to say?

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Speaker 8: I mean, she was making really good money at that time,

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Speaker 8: shouldn't be an issue. She has a totally different job,

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Speaker 8: she's doing something different. It was in the past, it's

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Speaker 1: I agree.

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Speaker 3: There are way worse things that you could have in

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Speaker 5: I don't think that's one of them, right, And you

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Speaker 8: So again, don't let.

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Speaker 2: It bother her.

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Speaker 7: There you go.

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Speaker 2: I love it.

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Speaker 1: Thank you, Jordan, have a good day.

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Speaker 8: You too happy to day guys, Hey, thank you.

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Speaker 3: Are there any strippers out there, by the way, I

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Speaker 3: but maybe previous in her previous life, like could you

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Speaker 1: And then you had to sort of reveal to someone?

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Speaker 3: And I'm curious how that went, Like were people skeptical

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Speaker 3: And I've never well, I did dance professionally briefly in

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, that was the master Blaster.

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Speaker 3: And if you go to Labert off of Harry Hines

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Speaker 1: My thong is hanging above.

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Speaker 4: Oh you know, you could see those same moves when

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Speaker 3: To be honest, I'm trying to get back in that shape.

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Speaker 3: But that was that was what was that twenty three

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Speaker 1: Hey, Jeremy, Hey Fred, what's going on?

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Speaker 6: Man?

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Speaker 3: Hey man, good morning. If you ever go to Dallas,

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Speaker 3: ask him, go to Labarr and ask about me anyway? Shemy,

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Speaker 3: what do you think, sir go?

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Speaker 6: I think he stays, Okay, why I'm gonna say, because

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Speaker 2: Did this happen?

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Speaker 7: And then because maybe she's a.

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Speaker 9: Little bit reluctant to give details because who knows, maybe

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Speaker 9: be something that's ironed out rather than just like leaving

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Speaker 2: Of their life.

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Speaker 3: Because that's the thing is because she probably doesn't want

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Speaker 3: But I mean, this guy might dumber over it, which

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Speaker 1: And you know whatever, But thank you, man, appreciate you

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Speaker 1: something you have to tell like you have. I don't know.

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Speaker 3: I guess if if if I lived in Dallas where

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Speaker 3: I was a stripper in college, right, well, I think

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Speaker 3: I feel like there was always a guy in every

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Speaker 1: Christy, Hi, Christy, good morning.

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Speaker 3: So just to recap you, this is this dude calls in,

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Speaker 1: He didn't know.

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Speaker 3: He had no reason not to like her, but he

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Speaker 7: Yeah, I think he should stay.

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Speaker 2: Why.

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Speaker 7: I think that stripping is just another job, like any

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Speaker 7: other job is. You know, it's a hard world out there.

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Speaker 7: You got to make your money somehow. I have friends

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Speaker 8: Don't think it should really change your view of anyone.

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Speaker 7: The only problem I would have. Is her dishonesty about it?

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Speaker 3: Are you dishonest if you omit? Are you dishonest? Because again,

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Speaker 3: like I don't know, Christy, if you're in a relationship

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Speaker 7: No, And we've been together for two years and we

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Speaker 1: And you have no idea that he and.

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Speaker 3: I used to dance together at Barry so you didn't

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Speaker 7: Yeah, yeah, so yeah, I think I think that he

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Speaker 5: You know.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, I think he should say, well, thank you, Christy,

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Speaker 1: Okay, hold on a say Carlos, was hey, man, how

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Speaker 2: Are you?

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Speaker 7: Man?

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Speaker 1: Carlos? This was your life, This is your life.

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Speaker 2: It is actually man, you know I started dating my

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Speaker 1: Seven years ago, you know, and as it goes, you know,

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Speaker 1: And you know, and I was saying in the beginning that.

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Speaker 10: That stuff hearing about the past is kind of interesting, right,

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Speaker 10: It's like, oh, that's kind of cool. You know, man,

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Speaker 10: I'm dating a former you know, it's got a dancer

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Speaker 1: And as it as you know, we got serious, as

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Speaker 10: Relationship, you know, it just got become like I said, hey,

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Speaker 1: Know about it, you know. So I you know, we've

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Speaker 2: That topic has ever came up.

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Speaker 10: You know, there's sometimes that you know, she's she's always

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Speaker 1: You know, regarding that, Do I believe it?

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Speaker 10: Yeah, you know, it's one of those things I feel

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Speaker 10: I mean I married her five years. She's just awesome.

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Speaker 1: Hey, my man, you know what I mean.

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Speaker 3: You know what I'm saying. I know what Carlos is saying.

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Speaker 3: Good for you, you know, and you're the guy. You're

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Speaker 3: you're the guy who gets to live the fantasy. Good

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Speaker 3: for you, man, I'm happy for you. Thanks, good luck,

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Speaker 1: All right. There you have it.

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Speaker 3: I mean, I don't I don't see any reason why

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