1 00:00:00,240 --> 00:00:05,520 Speaker 1: First Day to follow Up powered by the Advocates Injury Attorneys. 2 00:00:04,880 --> 00:00:06,760 Speaker 2: Online at advocatesla dot com. 3 00:00:07,160 --> 00:00:08,840 Speaker 1: Lauren is on the phone today for our first Day 4 00:00:08,880 --> 00:00:11,480 Speaker 1: follow up and she's getting ghosted by a dude named Sammy. 5 00:00:11,520 --> 00:00:13,480 Speaker 1: So in a few minutes we'll call him in seefa, 6 00:00:13,600 --> 00:00:15,920 Speaker 1: tells why he's ghosting her and maybe get her another date. 7 00:00:16,200 --> 00:00:18,520 Speaker 1: But first, Lauren, how long has it been since you 8 00:00:18,560 --> 00:00:19,239 Speaker 1: heard from Sammy? 9 00:00:20,200 --> 00:00:22,920 Speaker 2: Oh it's been like a week or two. 10 00:00:23,120 --> 00:00:23,280 Speaker 1: Now. 11 00:00:23,680 --> 00:00:25,639 Speaker 3: Have you reached out to him in that time? 12 00:00:26,320 --> 00:00:29,200 Speaker 2: Oh? Yeah, I definitely have, although I don't think he 13 00:00:29,280 --> 00:00:32,120 Speaker 2: knows that I have. I'll probably have to explain that 14 00:00:32,159 --> 00:00:34,960 Speaker 2: to you a little bit. You have a weird situation, okay, 15 00:00:34,960 --> 00:00:37,000 Speaker 2: But I can't believe I'm saying it that the date 16 00:00:37,080 --> 00:00:41,080 Speaker 2: was actually like amazing, And it's so rare that I 17 00:00:41,120 --> 00:00:44,760 Speaker 2: meet anyone, whether it's you know, IRL or online where 18 00:00:44,760 --> 00:00:48,240 Speaker 2: it's like especially online to say, because you know, we'll 19 00:00:48,520 --> 00:00:51,040 Speaker 2: text and like I think that there could be a 20 00:00:51,080 --> 00:00:53,320 Speaker 2: possibility that going somewhere, and then like I don't know, 21 00:00:53,320 --> 00:00:55,160 Speaker 2: we meet up and it's just not what I expected. 22 00:00:55,200 --> 00:00:59,680 Speaker 2: But in this case, the text chemistry absolutely translated to 23 00:00:59,720 --> 00:01:02,760 Speaker 2: real life. We spent like several hours together. Wasn't just 24 00:01:02,800 --> 00:01:05,119 Speaker 2: at one spot. We were like kind of hopping all 25 00:01:05,120 --> 00:01:08,320 Speaker 2: around one venue to the next, and believe it or not, 26 00:01:08,440 --> 00:01:10,720 Speaker 2: even I got to know some of his friends and 27 00:01:11,040 --> 00:01:14,800 Speaker 2: they became awesome as well, and the night ended up 28 00:01:15,200 --> 00:01:17,440 Speaker 2: at his place, which I didn't expect. 29 00:01:17,480 --> 00:01:21,000 Speaker 1: But no, yeah, I know, you know, talking. 30 00:01:20,760 --> 00:01:23,040 Speaker 2: In the radio, so something's happened at our you know, 31 00:01:23,280 --> 00:01:27,000 Speaker 2: PG thirteen rated R. So I stayed the night there, 32 00:01:27,120 --> 00:01:30,160 Speaker 2: and then we decided to meet up for date number two, 33 00:01:30,280 --> 00:01:34,039 Speaker 2: which was just casual but so much fun, like downtown 34 00:01:34,240 --> 00:01:36,960 Speaker 2: after work, you know, not my neighborhood where I live, 35 00:01:37,080 --> 00:01:38,440 Speaker 2: but it was just a great time. 36 00:01:38,959 --> 00:01:41,480 Speaker 3: Did you go back with him after date number two? Too? 37 00:01:42,280 --> 00:01:42,560 Speaker 2: Well? 38 00:01:42,720 --> 00:01:47,640 Speaker 4: I texted him and just got no response, like I 39 00:01:47,680 --> 00:01:51,440 Speaker 4: didn't know where he was, so sitting there like what 40 00:01:51,800 --> 00:01:54,640 Speaker 4: And then after fifteen minutes I. 41 00:01:54,080 --> 00:01:55,800 Speaker 2: Did something that like I never want to do, like 42 00:01:56,160 --> 00:01:58,640 Speaker 2: the phone call like hey where are you? That sort 43 00:01:58,640 --> 00:01:59,840 Speaker 2: of thing awkward? 44 00:02:00,080 --> 00:02:02,480 Speaker 3: So wait, wait, wait, I'm sorry he disappeared in the 45 00:02:02,480 --> 00:02:03,320 Speaker 3: middle of your date. 46 00:02:04,080 --> 00:02:07,040 Speaker 2: No, I got there and he was nowhere to be found. 47 00:02:10,080 --> 00:02:10,400 Speaker 3: Got it? 48 00:02:10,680 --> 00:02:13,560 Speaker 2: Yeah, again, I really think I like this guy, So 49 00:02:13,639 --> 00:02:16,560 Speaker 2: I'm like, normally after fifteen minutes. I would just leave, like, Okay, 50 00:02:16,560 --> 00:02:18,320 Speaker 2: you're gonna going to waste my time. I don't even 51 00:02:18,360 --> 00:02:20,120 Speaker 2: know you, but I'm like, let me get a chance 52 00:02:20,160 --> 00:02:22,359 Speaker 2: that you never know, like what could have happened? Right, 53 00:02:22,480 --> 00:02:25,680 Speaker 2: So I call and I missed that. My calls are 54 00:02:25,720 --> 00:02:27,720 Speaker 2: doing like the same thing every single time. It would 55 00:02:27,720 --> 00:02:30,680 Speaker 2: like ring twice and then I'll go straight to voicemail. 56 00:02:31,320 --> 00:02:33,520 Speaker 2: I talked this up to like, okay, he's in a 57 00:02:33,560 --> 00:02:36,480 Speaker 2: bad service area, that sort of thing, but it happened, 58 00:02:36,520 --> 00:02:38,200 Speaker 2: I want to say, like four times in a row. 59 00:02:38,520 --> 00:02:41,000 Speaker 2: So at that point I just was like, Okay, I'm 60 00:02:41,000 --> 00:02:42,840 Speaker 2: going to go ahead and google, like how do I 61 00:02:42,880 --> 00:02:45,680 Speaker 2: know if someone's blocked me? Because I never could understand 62 00:02:45,720 --> 00:02:48,960 Speaker 2: the answer to this. But it's actually turns out it's 63 00:02:49,000 --> 00:02:51,960 Speaker 2: really easy to do that. Apparently, like you could just 64 00:02:51,960 --> 00:02:55,000 Speaker 2: make your number anonimous. Yeah, to block people. 65 00:02:55,520 --> 00:02:57,800 Speaker 1: You can, just to find out if you're blocked or 66 00:02:57,840 --> 00:03:00,000 Speaker 1: to be blocked, to be blocked. 67 00:03:00,200 --> 00:03:02,840 Speaker 2: Okay, Like this was a lesson for me because like 68 00:03:02,919 --> 00:03:05,880 Speaker 2: apparently like if it rings more than twice before the voicemail, 69 00:03:05,919 --> 00:03:06,800 Speaker 2: that means you're blocked? 70 00:03:07,360 --> 00:03:10,160 Speaker 3: It does or does that mean you're getting sent to voicemail. 71 00:03:10,440 --> 00:03:14,640 Speaker 2: It's blocked, so I mean, okay, either way, it's not okay. 72 00:03:14,720 --> 00:03:18,200 Speaker 2: So I was like, all right, well, I wow, this 73 00:03:18,320 --> 00:03:20,400 Speaker 2: sucks right, And I just went back to my car 74 00:03:20,480 --> 00:03:22,720 Speaker 2: and I was smoking there, like I couldn't even bring 75 00:03:22,760 --> 00:03:24,840 Speaker 2: myself to drive home. I was still bummed out. 76 00:03:25,480 --> 00:03:28,480 Speaker 5: So that's really Enoughmber, I would be frustrated about that, 77 00:03:28,720 --> 00:03:31,760 Speaker 5: especially if you think the date went so well that's yeah, 78 00:03:31,880 --> 00:03:32,040 Speaker 5: you just. 79 00:03:32,080 --> 00:03:32,679 Speaker 3: Want to know why. 80 00:03:32,760 --> 00:03:35,800 Speaker 5: Also, you're like, well, did you do something though, Like 81 00:03:35,840 --> 00:03:37,800 Speaker 5: if you think back to that first date, is there 82 00:03:37,840 --> 00:03:41,000 Speaker 5: any thing that could have happened that would cause the blocking? 83 00:03:41,680 --> 00:03:44,320 Speaker 2: No, And I've asked myself that now, like up and down, 84 00:03:44,400 --> 00:03:47,160 Speaker 2: and I'm for me and I thought it was mutual, 85 00:03:47,280 --> 00:03:51,520 Speaker 2: like we have this insane chemistry that's super rare. So 86 00:03:51,520 --> 00:03:53,640 Speaker 2: that's why I'm so disappointed. I can't come up with 87 00:03:53,720 --> 00:03:56,600 Speaker 2: any reason why, especially after like you know, seeing me 88 00:03:56,680 --> 00:03:58,240 Speaker 2: covered more than once. But he would go to me 89 00:03:58,520 --> 00:04:00,240 Speaker 2: like why wouldn't you just say something? 90 00:04:00,360 --> 00:04:01,840 Speaker 1: Okay, well, we'll try to figure out for you to 91 00:04:01,880 --> 00:04:04,480 Speaker 1: play a song, come back and then call him and 92 00:04:04,480 --> 00:04:05,920 Speaker 1: see if he'll tell us why he's ghosting you. 93 00:04:05,960 --> 00:04:07,680 Speaker 3: Okay, Okay, thank you. 94 00:04:08,160 --> 00:04:09,880 Speaker 1: Play song come back get your first Day follow up 95 00:04:09,920 --> 00:04:16,960 Speaker 1: next if you're just joining us for today's First Day 96 00:04:17,000 --> 00:04:19,279 Speaker 1: follow up. Lauren is on the phone and she's getting 97 00:04:19,279 --> 00:04:21,440 Speaker 1: ghosted by a dude named Sammy. So in a second, 98 00:04:21,640 --> 00:04:23,640 Speaker 1: we're gonna call him seevill tell us why he's ghosting 99 00:04:23,680 --> 00:04:25,280 Speaker 1: her and maybe get her another date if she still 100 00:04:25,279 --> 00:04:27,200 Speaker 1: wants one. But before we do that, Lauren, why don't 101 00:04:27,200 --> 00:04:28,400 Speaker 1: you catch us up on your situation? 102 00:04:29,279 --> 00:04:32,119 Speaker 2: Yeah? Well, basically, I had like two really nice dates 103 00:04:32,120 --> 00:04:36,760 Speaker 2: with this guy, and I went for date number three 104 00:04:36,880 --> 00:04:40,240 Speaker 2: and he was m I A. And he has not 105 00:04:40,760 --> 00:04:43,320 Speaker 2: talked to me whatsoever. And I don't understand why I'm 106 00:04:43,360 --> 00:04:43,840 Speaker 2: being ghosted. 107 00:04:44,040 --> 00:04:45,960 Speaker 1: And you think you might be blocked even. 108 00:04:46,440 --> 00:04:49,600 Speaker 2: Yeah, blocked me? Why I didn't take him for being 109 00:04:49,640 --> 00:04:50,159 Speaker 2: a coward. 110 00:04:50,200 --> 00:04:53,640 Speaker 1: So that's why I'm so com cute. All right? You 111 00:04:53,720 --> 00:04:54,840 Speaker 1: ready for us to call him? 112 00:04:55,520 --> 00:04:56,480 Speaker 2: That's all for me? 113 00:04:56,640 --> 00:05:10,160 Speaker 1: Yeah, Okay, here we go. Hello him. I as speaking 114 00:05:10,200 --> 00:05:14,200 Speaker 1: to Sammy please? Uh yeah, this is Sammy. What's up? 115 00:05:14,320 --> 00:05:15,960 Speaker 1: This is Jewbel. My name is Jeubel. I host a 116 00:05:16,040 --> 00:05:17,200 Speaker 1: radio show. It's called the Jubil Show. 117 00:05:17,200 --> 00:05:19,320 Speaker 3: How's it going, Sammy? The whole show's here. I'm Nina, 118 00:05:19,440 --> 00:05:20,360 Speaker 3: Hi and I'm Victoria. 119 00:05:21,000 --> 00:05:24,799 Speaker 1: Oh hi, Hi, all right, you ever listened to the show? 120 00:05:25,760 --> 00:05:25,880 Speaker 3: Uh? 121 00:05:25,960 --> 00:05:27,160 Speaker 6: Yeah, I mean I've ever heard you guys? 122 00:05:28,080 --> 00:05:30,119 Speaker 1: Well, have you ever heard of first a follow up before? 123 00:05:30,960 --> 00:05:34,400 Speaker 2: Uh? I have. I'm starting to get nervous here, But. 124 00:05:34,440 --> 00:05:37,080 Speaker 1: Don't be nervous because we're calling you because somebody did 125 00:05:37,080 --> 00:05:39,039 Speaker 1: send us an email about you. So maybe you'd be nervous. 126 00:05:39,080 --> 00:05:41,920 Speaker 1: I don't know. But it's a segment where if you're 127 00:05:41,920 --> 00:05:44,080 Speaker 1: ghosting somebody, they can email us to get you on 128 00:05:44,120 --> 00:05:45,560 Speaker 1: the phone and ask why you're ghosting them. And we 129 00:05:45,600 --> 00:05:47,040 Speaker 1: got an email about you from somebody. 130 00:05:47,839 --> 00:05:51,240 Speaker 6: Okay, I think I probably know who you're talking about. 131 00:05:51,480 --> 00:05:52,800 Speaker 1: You want to try to take a guess at the 132 00:05:52,880 --> 00:05:58,000 Speaker 1: Dame Lauren? Yes, Sammy, you're correct. You've won absolutely nothing. 133 00:05:58,000 --> 00:06:02,160 Speaker 1: But is Lauren? Do you mind telling us why you're 134 00:06:02,160 --> 00:06:02,800 Speaker 1: ghosting her? 135 00:06:03,440 --> 00:06:03,719 Speaker 6: Oh? 136 00:06:03,760 --> 00:06:04,000 Speaker 1: Man? 137 00:06:04,480 --> 00:06:05,000 Speaker 2: All right? 138 00:06:05,560 --> 00:06:07,520 Speaker 6: Look, we we texted for a while. 139 00:06:07,839 --> 00:06:09,960 Speaker 2: It was great. We meet for the date. 140 00:06:10,720 --> 00:06:14,839 Speaker 6: Chemistry is there, she's really cool, she's hot. Everything was good, 141 00:06:15,440 --> 00:06:18,480 Speaker 6: and then at some point the conversation turns around to like, 142 00:06:19,040 --> 00:06:21,400 Speaker 6: you know, relationship stuff. You know, we're just talking about 143 00:06:21,400 --> 00:06:24,000 Speaker 6: like relationship things, like you know, we are you ever 144 00:06:24,040 --> 00:06:25,840 Speaker 6: gonna have kids? Are you ever gonna get well, I 145 00:06:25,880 --> 00:06:28,320 Speaker 6: don't know whatever, you know, just stuff like about relationships, okay, 146 00:06:28,640 --> 00:06:32,000 Speaker 6: And at one point I asked her what her definition 147 00:06:32,080 --> 00:06:35,080 Speaker 6: of cheating is If a guy goes to a strip club, 148 00:06:35,160 --> 00:06:36,160 Speaker 6: is that cheating that sort of thing? 149 00:06:36,160 --> 00:06:36,680 Speaker 2: You know what I mean? 150 00:06:36,960 --> 00:06:42,160 Speaker 6: Yeah, And let's just say that her perspective is pretty strict. 151 00:06:42,240 --> 00:06:46,800 Speaker 6: She said even watching adult movies was cheating. That to 152 00:06:46,839 --> 00:06:48,159 Speaker 6: me is like pretty. 153 00:06:47,880 --> 00:06:50,039 Speaker 1: Extreme, and nobody's gonna take that from you. 154 00:06:50,160 --> 00:06:53,080 Speaker 6: So you're saying, it's not like I watched it all 155 00:06:53,120 --> 00:06:54,800 Speaker 6: the time, but it is a part of my life 156 00:06:54,839 --> 00:06:57,080 Speaker 6: and it is okay that I enjoy. I don't know, 157 00:06:57,120 --> 00:06:59,080 Speaker 6: it just feels like that to me. He's not cheating, 158 00:06:59,160 --> 00:07:01,200 Speaker 6: you know, that's just like entertainment. 159 00:07:01,520 --> 00:07:03,520 Speaker 5: So did you have that conversation with her and like 160 00:07:03,680 --> 00:07:07,400 Speaker 5: express your concern with her line that you do in 161 00:07:07,480 --> 00:07:08,800 Speaker 5: regards to adult film. 162 00:07:09,640 --> 00:07:11,840 Speaker 6: I mean, I just kind of got awkward and it 163 00:07:12,160 --> 00:07:13,920 Speaker 6: kind of gave me the ick, you know what I mean. 164 00:07:13,960 --> 00:07:15,240 Speaker 1: And it was weird. 165 00:07:15,600 --> 00:07:17,800 Speaker 3: I gave you an Okay, that's that's new. 166 00:07:18,440 --> 00:07:19,960 Speaker 6: Yeah, I mean, I don't want to be a cheater, 167 00:07:20,160 --> 00:07:22,560 Speaker 6: Like if we got together, like I'd be cheating on 168 00:07:22,600 --> 00:07:26,600 Speaker 6: her all the time. You know, it's like she can 169 00:07:26,800 --> 00:07:29,280 Speaker 6: feel however she wants to feel, and that's totally fine. 170 00:07:29,320 --> 00:07:31,720 Speaker 6: But I just kind of realized, like maybe this wasn't 171 00:07:31,760 --> 00:07:34,200 Speaker 6: like a long term thing, and I maybe I should 172 00:07:34,240 --> 00:07:36,800 Speaker 6: have said something I didn't. I mean, this happened in 173 00:07:36,840 --> 00:07:39,000 Speaker 6: like the first forty five minutes of the date, and 174 00:07:39,080 --> 00:07:41,960 Speaker 6: it was like four hours long, and like you know, 175 00:07:42,400 --> 00:07:44,520 Speaker 6: you know, she spent the night and it was great. 176 00:07:44,600 --> 00:07:45,440 Speaker 3: You know, that was fun. 177 00:07:45,480 --> 00:07:47,200 Speaker 6: But the whole time, I was just kind of this 178 00:07:47,280 --> 00:07:48,680 Speaker 6: is in the back of my mind, and I just 179 00:07:48,760 --> 00:07:50,240 Speaker 6: I mean, what do you say to that. Do you say, like, 180 00:07:50,280 --> 00:07:53,120 Speaker 6: wait a minute, I gotta watch a don't move. 181 00:07:54,680 --> 00:07:56,080 Speaker 5: I feel like I would want to get to the 182 00:07:56,080 --> 00:07:58,360 Speaker 5: bottom of it and kind of understand why that was 183 00:07:58,400 --> 00:08:00,520 Speaker 5: such a hard line for somebody. Yeah, because I think 184 00:08:00,560 --> 00:08:02,440 Speaker 5: we asked those questions in the beginning of a date, 185 00:08:02,600 --> 00:08:04,640 Speaker 5: whether it's about the adult film or just like do 186 00:08:04,720 --> 00:08:07,200 Speaker 5: you want to get married? But like to understand where 187 00:08:07,200 --> 00:08:09,800 Speaker 5: the person comes from, and sometimes that's sometimes that sparks 188 00:08:09,840 --> 00:08:11,920 Speaker 5: a conversation that helps the other person see where you're 189 00:08:11,960 --> 00:08:14,200 Speaker 5: coming from and you can change your mind a little bit. 190 00:08:14,680 --> 00:08:16,200 Speaker 5: She might have been into it if she was like, 191 00:08:16,240 --> 00:08:17,880 Speaker 5: it's not cheating if you watch it with me. 192 00:08:18,800 --> 00:08:18,880 Speaker 1: No. 193 00:08:19,040 --> 00:08:21,680 Speaker 2: Can I just say something right now, it is absolutely 194 00:08:22,240 --> 00:08:24,720 Speaker 2: textbook cheating, like no matter who he's watching it. 195 00:08:24,680 --> 00:08:28,040 Speaker 6: With, Sammy, Wait a minute, Lauren, Wait, Lauren's here. 196 00:08:28,240 --> 00:08:30,600 Speaker 1: Yes, that's Lauren. She's on the phone listening and wants 197 00:08:30,600 --> 00:08:31,120 Speaker 1: to talk to me. 198 00:08:31,200 --> 00:08:33,120 Speaker 2: Oh man, oh man. 199 00:08:33,800 --> 00:08:34,079 Speaker 1: Yeah. 200 00:08:34,120 --> 00:08:36,599 Speaker 2: And I came here to get answered. This was not 201 00:08:36,720 --> 00:08:38,600 Speaker 2: one I was expecting to get of all the reasons 202 00:08:38,640 --> 00:08:41,880 Speaker 2: that could be. But you know, like I have sort 203 00:08:41,880 --> 00:08:45,240 Speaker 2: of been wondering, like why he was so like animated 204 00:08:45,559 --> 00:08:48,880 Speaker 2: turns sect and I'm like, maybe he was mimicking a performance, 205 00:08:49,000 --> 00:08:52,960 Speaker 2: like he's had any experience watching these tutorials. If you will, 206 00:08:54,600 --> 00:08:58,199 Speaker 2: you see, it can be a good thing. I mean yeah, 207 00:08:58,320 --> 00:08:59,959 Speaker 2: And you know, while we're putting everything out on the 208 00:09:00,040 --> 00:09:01,880 Speaker 2: table right now, I just want to ask something like, 209 00:09:02,200 --> 00:09:04,079 Speaker 2: you know, we went on two dates, so there was 210 00:09:04,080 --> 00:09:06,360 Speaker 2: a little bit of time in between, you know, Gate 211 00:09:06,400 --> 00:09:08,520 Speaker 2: one and date two. So what were you doing during 212 00:09:08,520 --> 00:09:10,880 Speaker 2: that time? Were you spending your time like prepping, you know, 213 00:09:11,000 --> 00:09:13,360 Speaker 2: watching all these videos cheating? 214 00:09:13,600 --> 00:09:14,559 Speaker 1: You know, what were you doing? 215 00:09:15,800 --> 00:09:16,000 Speaker 5: Yeah? 216 00:09:16,000 --> 00:09:20,240 Speaker 2: I watched some videos in between. That's what people do. Okay, 217 00:09:20,320 --> 00:09:22,320 Speaker 2: So the gist of it is you were cheating on me. 218 00:09:23,640 --> 00:09:26,840 Speaker 2: We weren't experiences. We'd gone on a date. What are 219 00:09:26,880 --> 00:09:31,520 Speaker 2: you talking about? You know, this is cheating against textbooks, cheating. 220 00:09:31,920 --> 00:09:34,559 Speaker 2: It should just be between two people. It's it's to me, 221 00:09:34,600 --> 00:09:37,160 Speaker 2: it's no different than cheating, swinging, watching for it's all 222 00:09:37,200 --> 00:09:40,400 Speaker 2: the same group, it all together, and hearing like thinking 223 00:09:40,400 --> 00:09:43,280 Speaker 2: that you're amazing. But it turns out I've been blinded 224 00:09:43,320 --> 00:09:45,440 Speaker 2: by something because you could not even say faithful to 225 00:09:45,520 --> 00:09:46,959 Speaker 2: me for two dates. 226 00:09:47,280 --> 00:09:50,120 Speaker 6: Well, I mean, look, it wasn't like I was watching 227 00:09:50,160 --> 00:09:52,199 Speaker 6: videos of girls that looked like you. I was watching 228 00:09:52,280 --> 00:09:54,880 Speaker 6: videos of like other types of the matter what they 229 00:09:54,880 --> 00:09:58,960 Speaker 6: look like, Lauren, we went on two dates. We it's 230 00:09:59,000 --> 00:10:02,560 Speaker 6: not like we were in gates like. This is wild 231 00:10:02,840 --> 00:10:03,120 Speaker 6: to me. 232 00:10:04,360 --> 00:10:07,000 Speaker 2: Really, you're forgetting in those four Actually it was six 233 00:10:07,040 --> 00:10:09,080 Speaker 2: hours that we spent together, not four like you said. 234 00:10:10,120 --> 00:10:11,800 Speaker 2: I guess you're forgetting half the things you said to 235 00:10:11,840 --> 00:10:14,520 Speaker 2: me juring that day. But this is cool, it's fine. 236 00:10:15,640 --> 00:10:18,960 Speaker 6: I didn't make commitments and I'm am I in single 237 00:10:18,960 --> 00:10:20,559 Speaker 6: white female right now? What's going on? 238 00:10:21,240 --> 00:10:22,560 Speaker 3: Is that another adult video? 239 00:10:22,640 --> 00:10:24,640 Speaker 1: Kind of yeah. 240 00:10:26,880 --> 00:10:27,800 Speaker 2: About a crazy girl. 241 00:10:27,880 --> 00:10:30,120 Speaker 6: I'm scared. I don't know this is wild, man. 242 00:10:30,840 --> 00:10:33,480 Speaker 2: I really don't think you would be acting pretty nor 243 00:10:33,559 --> 00:10:35,200 Speaker 2: I think you'd be pretty crazy if you just found 244 00:10:35,200 --> 00:10:36,720 Speaker 2: out you got cheated on too, okay. 245 00:10:36,480 --> 00:10:38,960 Speaker 6: Buddy, If you came to me and said, hey, I 246 00:10:39,000 --> 00:10:43,599 Speaker 6: was watching a bunch of porn this week, I'd be like, hell, yeah, 247 00:10:43,720 --> 00:10:46,199 Speaker 6: look I didn't see it on you. We weren't together. 248 00:10:46,400 --> 00:10:48,280 Speaker 6: We went on two days. 249 00:10:48,520 --> 00:10:51,880 Speaker 2: This is not okay. You can come up with an excuse, Havers, 250 00:10:51,920 --> 00:10:54,520 Speaker 2: you try to, like, you know, flop it all over 251 00:10:54,600 --> 00:10:56,880 Speaker 2: and whatever you want to say, but like, you're a 252 00:10:56,960 --> 00:10:59,079 Speaker 2: cheater and I do not ever want to see you again. 253 00:11:00,120 --> 00:11:01,559 Speaker 1: I haven't asked yet, Sammy, would you like to go 254 00:11:01,600 --> 00:11:03,000 Speaker 1: on another day with Laura? Will pay for it? 255 00:11:03,800 --> 00:11:03,920 Speaker 4: Uh? 256 00:11:04,240 --> 00:11:06,600 Speaker 6: No, I would like to log into my internet and 257 00:11:06,600 --> 00:11:09,120 Speaker 6: watch some art films now, thank you very much. 258 00:11:09,120 --> 00:11:12,520 Speaker 2: Sure, okay, I think that's really just proved my point 259 00:11:12,559 --> 00:11:14,840 Speaker 2: that I've been talking about with my friends, like every 260 00:11:14,840 --> 00:11:16,680 Speaker 2: single guy out there is a cheater in some way, 261 00:11:16,679 --> 00:11:17,920 Speaker 2: shape or form. 262 00:11:18,360 --> 00:11:21,719 Speaker 3: I don't know if that's a good way to put it, but. 263 00:11:21,720 --> 00:11:26,040 Speaker 6: Sure, all right, Lauren, you know I just nobody asked 264 00:11:26,040 --> 00:11:26,560 Speaker 6: you to talk 265 00:11:30,040 --> 00:11:31,800 Speaker 1: You Wiles first day follow up