1 00:00:04,440 --> 00:00:07,160 Speaker 1: What's up you guys are listening to the Velvet Edge podcast. 2 00:00:07,680 --> 00:00:10,480 Speaker 1: I am here with the breakout star of Mary Cavalary himself, 3 00:00:10,680 --> 00:00:14,240 Speaker 1: Jay Cutler. Do you want to say how do the people? Hi? People? 4 00:00:14,360 --> 00:00:17,880 Speaker 1: I thought you would for sure say hey, y'all too 5 00:00:18,000 --> 00:00:21,599 Speaker 1: too predictable. Yeah. So I'm assuming most people already know this, 6 00:00:21,720 --> 00:00:26,840 Speaker 1: but you were a quarterback in the NFL for twelve years, correct, 7 00:00:26,880 --> 00:00:30,080 Speaker 1: and you've recently retired, So I kind of want to 8 00:00:30,120 --> 00:00:33,040 Speaker 1: know more about what does a day in the life 9 00:00:33,040 --> 00:00:39,840 Speaker 1: of Jay Cutler look like? Now? God, you're selling Kristen. Um. Well, 10 00:00:39,920 --> 00:00:43,360 Speaker 1: it's been we've it's been almost it's been a year 11 00:00:43,400 --> 00:00:48,360 Speaker 1: now officially, I mean, yeah, what meant this January? It's 12 00:00:48,360 --> 00:00:51,919 Speaker 1: been a year in a month. Um, so many things 13 00:00:52,000 --> 00:00:54,200 Speaker 1: have I guess things have kind of morphed a little bit. 14 00:00:54,400 --> 00:00:56,800 Speaker 1: You know. When I first got done, it was just 15 00:00:58,240 --> 00:01:00,760 Speaker 1: there's a lot of hanging out. It's a lot of 16 00:01:00,800 --> 00:01:03,520 Speaker 1: hanging out, kind of figuring out what I wanted to do. 17 00:01:04,959 --> 00:01:08,200 Speaker 1: And now there's still a lot of hanging out. So 18 00:01:08,319 --> 00:01:10,880 Speaker 1: it's just a day full of hanging out. Yeah, hanging 19 00:01:10,920 --> 00:01:12,920 Speaker 1: out with the kids, taking these kids to school. Um, 20 00:01:13,440 --> 00:01:15,000 Speaker 1: I think I probably been working out a little bit 21 00:01:15,040 --> 00:01:20,199 Speaker 1: more now, Okay, I like this, playing basketball a couple 22 00:01:20,200 --> 00:01:22,080 Speaker 1: of times, three times a week. Okay, where do you 23 00:01:22,120 --> 00:01:25,440 Speaker 1: do this? C p A in the morning, six in 24 00:01:25,480 --> 00:01:28,440 Speaker 1: the morning with a good group of guys, aggressive six 25 00:01:28,480 --> 00:01:32,520 Speaker 1: in the morning. Yeah. Um, been doing a lot more hunting. 26 00:01:33,600 --> 00:01:36,640 Speaker 1: Just got back from duck hunting in Arkansas with somebody's Okay, 27 00:01:37,319 --> 00:01:39,480 Speaker 1: I have this on as a question later, I mean hunting. 28 00:01:40,480 --> 00:01:43,800 Speaker 1: I'm sorry, I guess this is really like killing your 29 00:01:45,120 --> 00:01:49,520 Speaker 1: This is myke It's really bad for my podcast. It's 30 00:01:49,520 --> 00:01:53,080 Speaker 1: the jacket. Otherwise, it's fine. Can we just use the mic? 31 00:01:55,240 --> 00:01:58,640 Speaker 1: Can we just use the mic? Audio? So go back 32 00:01:58,680 --> 00:02:03,880 Speaker 1: to your sorry. I wish I remembered I thought Stephen. 33 00:02:03,920 --> 00:02:07,320 Speaker 1: I thought Stephen wasn't going to do this. Actually, yes, 34 00:02:07,520 --> 00:02:09,040 Speaker 1: I mean, you know what, I might keep this in 35 00:02:09,200 --> 00:02:11,400 Speaker 1: and I might tell the people that were actually filming 36 00:02:11,440 --> 00:02:13,560 Speaker 1: for Very Cavalry at this moment. I don't know why 37 00:02:13,600 --> 00:02:16,560 Speaker 1: you wouldn't. I think that's a great point. So that 38 00:02:16,639 --> 00:02:19,320 Speaker 1: was one of the producers interjecting that Jay's beard, it 39 00:02:19,440 --> 00:02:21,360 Speaker 1: was a it was a there was a mike issue. 40 00:02:21,440 --> 00:02:22,520 Speaker 1: I don't know. I think he just wants to get 41 00:02:22,520 --> 00:02:26,840 Speaker 1: on camera. Ant we were talking about hunting, and honestly, 42 00:02:26,960 --> 00:02:29,800 Speaker 1: like I wish that I cared more about that topic. 43 00:02:29,880 --> 00:02:32,720 Speaker 1: It's not really my area of expertise, but I would 44 00:02:32,760 --> 00:02:34,639 Speaker 1: like to know, like what is your favorite kind of hunting? 45 00:02:34,639 --> 00:02:37,200 Speaker 1: Because I feel like you're really into this. Yeah, well 46 00:02:38,400 --> 00:02:41,320 Speaker 1: I went elk hunting in September, Like that was the 47 00:02:41,360 --> 00:02:42,880 Speaker 1: first one I was able to go in September. Is 48 00:02:42,919 --> 00:02:45,880 Speaker 1: this what you do in Montana? Okay? This is like 49 00:02:45,960 --> 00:02:49,600 Speaker 1: your thing? Um? And that was that was amazing because 50 00:02:49,639 --> 00:02:52,280 Speaker 1: you got there during the right and like they're all 51 00:02:53,560 --> 00:02:56,040 Speaker 1: doing their thing. But this duck hunting thing, it was 52 00:02:56,080 --> 00:02:58,079 Speaker 1: new to me. I've never really done that, and that 53 00:02:58,639 --> 00:03:03,000 Speaker 1: is it's real. It rivals out kind of anything from me. 54 00:03:03,720 --> 00:03:07,120 Speaker 1: Why tell me more? Um, I can't believe I asked 55 00:03:07,120 --> 00:03:08,760 Speaker 1: you that, But tell me tell you more. So you 56 00:03:08,880 --> 00:03:11,919 Speaker 1: basically like you're sitting these big blinds on the water 57 00:03:12,120 --> 00:03:16,639 Speaker 1: and they're glorified houses. Like there's benches, like they had 58 00:03:16,680 --> 00:03:19,000 Speaker 1: a heater in there, they had like a griddle. They're 59 00:03:19,000 --> 00:03:23,560 Speaker 1: making breakfast. Who's making breakfast? The guys that had one? 60 00:03:24,480 --> 00:03:26,480 Speaker 1: So like there's like eight of you in there, and 61 00:03:26,560 --> 00:03:29,600 Speaker 1: there's these holes in top of the blind. This is 62 00:03:29,639 --> 00:03:33,040 Speaker 1: like a girl's version of a slumber party. Yeah, kind of. 63 00:03:33,400 --> 00:03:35,720 Speaker 1: Do you guys pill a fight? No, we don't, okay, 64 00:03:35,880 --> 00:03:37,960 Speaker 1: And so like you can talk, you can hang out 65 00:03:38,320 --> 00:03:41,120 Speaker 1: breakfast and then like whenever they start seeing ducks fly 66 00:03:41,280 --> 00:03:43,440 Speaker 1: by or something like, you know, you just pop back 67 00:03:43,520 --> 00:03:46,440 Speaker 1: up there and you just fire off and start shooting ducks. 68 00:03:46,480 --> 00:03:48,320 Speaker 1: So it's different than like deer hunting. Aren't you like 69 00:03:48,400 --> 00:03:50,400 Speaker 1: sitting in one of these I'm just sitting in a 70 00:03:50,560 --> 00:03:54,640 Speaker 1: tree stand just for two days, just being really quiet. 71 00:03:54,760 --> 00:03:59,200 Speaker 1: So a duck you're like going more like a social event. Okay, 72 00:03:59,480 --> 00:04:02,119 Speaker 1: are you thinking like is this like a fun time? 73 00:04:02,240 --> 00:04:04,280 Speaker 1: I'm sure you could drink, but we didn't have any 74 00:04:04,280 --> 00:04:07,720 Speaker 1: alcohol at the point at that day. Well it was 75 00:04:07,800 --> 00:04:10,680 Speaker 1: like six in the morning. That would be a little aggressive, 76 00:04:11,280 --> 00:04:13,240 Speaker 1: but I'm sure guys hunt in the afternoon might have 77 00:04:13,320 --> 00:04:15,480 Speaker 1: a few if you see us, but you are you 78 00:04:15,600 --> 00:04:17,920 Speaker 1: do have firearms too, so it's kind of you want 79 00:04:17,920 --> 00:04:23,120 Speaker 1: to be safe. Well, so you keep yourself occupied. It 80 00:04:23,200 --> 00:04:25,840 Speaker 1: sounds like with some hunting those or hobbies, like has 81 00:04:25,880 --> 00:04:27,719 Speaker 1: that been a hard adjustment, because I feel like football 82 00:04:27,800 --> 00:04:31,719 Speaker 1: is a pretty intense schedule, right, Yeah, I mean there's 83 00:04:31,760 --> 00:04:34,680 Speaker 1: just there's a lot of downtime now and you can 84 00:04:34,760 --> 00:04:37,680 Speaker 1: only hunt so much, you can only work out so much, 85 00:04:37,800 --> 00:04:39,760 Speaker 1: you can only watch deer cams, Semich, you can only 86 00:04:39,839 --> 00:04:43,840 Speaker 1: hang out so much. Um, and you have three kids, 87 00:04:44,000 --> 00:04:46,520 Speaker 1: so that keeps you busy, but like yeah, but they 88 00:04:46,520 --> 00:04:50,120 Speaker 1: also drive you insane, right, so you need something else. Yeah. Interesting, 89 00:04:50,200 --> 00:04:52,760 Speaker 1: So that's kind of where things stand now, finding like 90 00:04:53,000 --> 00:04:58,560 Speaker 1: what can I do that's not that taxing, right, not 91 00:05:00,000 --> 00:05:03,400 Speaker 1: of where I'm like as busy, busy as Kristen, okay, 92 00:05:04,080 --> 00:05:08,320 Speaker 1: but something that can fill a little time. Yeah, because 93 00:05:08,360 --> 00:05:09,600 Speaker 1: like no matter what I do, I'm not going to 94 00:05:09,680 --> 00:05:13,200 Speaker 1: replace like football, Like that's what you can't I mean 95 00:05:13,400 --> 00:05:17,520 Speaker 1: I did that for some six or seven so that's gone. 96 00:05:17,600 --> 00:05:20,839 Speaker 1: Like I'm not going to find another passion that's the same. Yeah, 97 00:05:21,400 --> 00:05:26,440 Speaker 1: it's not the stage. It is like the transition period. Yeah, 98 00:05:26,640 --> 00:05:29,000 Speaker 1: And like it's so interesting because like the football life, 99 00:05:29,120 --> 00:05:31,200 Speaker 1: like I was thinking about, like I met you obviously 100 00:05:31,520 --> 00:05:35,240 Speaker 1: from your time at Vanderbilt and that like just in 101 00:05:35,320 --> 00:05:37,919 Speaker 1: college in general, it's like a full time job having 102 00:05:38,560 --> 00:05:41,240 Speaker 1: to play football, right, Like you've had this pressure on 103 00:05:41,400 --> 00:05:44,920 Speaker 1: you since that time of your life, which is very 104 00:05:45,279 --> 00:05:49,240 Speaker 1: different than the rest of us, Like when I was 105 00:05:49,279 --> 00:05:51,440 Speaker 1: in college, I was just worried about like partying and 106 00:05:51,920 --> 00:05:55,400 Speaker 1: like going to class sometimes like things like that, what 107 00:05:55,480 --> 00:06:00,400 Speaker 1: does that feel like? Um, well, I mean so all 108 00:06:00,400 --> 00:06:02,720 Speaker 1: I've really known? Yeah, you know, so like I didn't 109 00:06:02,760 --> 00:06:06,120 Speaker 1: really know anything differently, I played football, basketball, and baseball 110 00:06:06,839 --> 00:06:09,800 Speaker 1: since I don't know, five, six, seven years old. So 111 00:06:09,960 --> 00:06:12,960 Speaker 1: like it's just like this is more of a different 112 00:06:14,120 --> 00:06:18,400 Speaker 1: I guess realm in my life than than than the latter. Yeah, 113 00:06:18,720 --> 00:06:21,400 Speaker 1: because you just don't you never did anything different, Like 114 00:06:21,520 --> 00:06:25,760 Speaker 1: did you feel that pressure though in college at times? Um, 115 00:06:26,120 --> 00:06:28,640 Speaker 1: but I don't think it ever was like overwhelming or 116 00:06:29,040 --> 00:06:32,640 Speaker 1: yeah what I couldn't deal with? Okay, But like then, 117 00:06:32,760 --> 00:06:36,200 Speaker 1: like you, so you go pro and you're young and 118 00:06:36,279 --> 00:06:37,760 Speaker 1: you make a lot of money at a young age, 119 00:06:37,800 --> 00:06:40,200 Speaker 1: which is also really weird for the rest of us, 120 00:06:40,839 --> 00:06:46,040 Speaker 1: Like at that point, do you feel like stresses? What 121 00:06:46,160 --> 00:06:51,600 Speaker 1: are you doing? You? She wants to be in on this, 122 00:06:51,760 --> 00:06:57,440 Speaker 1: so it's not she's she's poking her head and like, 123 00:06:57,520 --> 00:06:59,640 Speaker 1: let me talk. She tested the mic levels with me. 124 00:06:59,680 --> 00:07:04,160 Speaker 1: I think just wanted to hold the night. But we'll 125 00:07:04,160 --> 00:07:06,600 Speaker 1: go back to the question, like, um, when you were 126 00:07:07,000 --> 00:07:09,200 Speaker 1: I mean, so you had all these pressures and stuff. 127 00:07:09,279 --> 00:07:12,200 Speaker 1: Then you go to Chicago and it's like that was 128 00:07:12,320 --> 00:07:13,800 Speaker 1: like a big I feel like you've got a lot 129 00:07:13,880 --> 00:07:16,400 Speaker 1: of negative like like I don't know how to you 130 00:07:16,680 --> 00:07:19,000 Speaker 1: handle that. Yeah, Chicago is a different it's kind of 131 00:07:19,000 --> 00:07:21,520 Speaker 1: a different animal. You know, there's New York has two teams. 132 00:07:21,640 --> 00:07:24,720 Speaker 1: Chicago is a big, huge market as team you know, 133 00:07:24,800 --> 00:07:26,400 Speaker 1: and there, and there weren't any teams in l A 134 00:07:26,560 --> 00:07:30,360 Speaker 1: at that point, so I felt like Chicago was a 135 00:07:30,520 --> 00:07:32,640 Speaker 1: huge market like kind of the whole time I was there. 136 00:07:32,800 --> 00:07:36,280 Speaker 1: And uh, you know the fans and the fans are great. 137 00:07:36,360 --> 00:07:37,840 Speaker 1: I mean you if you go out in the streets 138 00:07:37,880 --> 00:07:40,840 Speaker 1: and talk to the fans like like they get it, 139 00:07:40,920 --> 00:07:45,280 Speaker 1: like they understand what's happening. Um, very smart. But I 140 00:07:45,320 --> 00:07:47,800 Speaker 1: mean the papers, and I think I hit a time 141 00:07:47,920 --> 00:07:50,120 Speaker 1: like whenever kind of news papers are dying a little bit. 142 00:07:50,920 --> 00:07:55,640 Speaker 1: Um Internet was kind of taking over, Um, ESPN, Fox 143 00:07:55,680 --> 00:07:58,000 Speaker 1: and hews like all those stations were kind of doing 144 00:07:58,080 --> 00:08:01,000 Speaker 1: their thing and and people were just aking on. You know, 145 00:08:01,080 --> 00:08:03,240 Speaker 1: no one was getting the paper. So I think you 146 00:08:03,360 --> 00:08:06,240 Speaker 1: kind of hit that that sweet spot where you know 147 00:08:06,440 --> 00:08:09,600 Speaker 1: they have they have to write, you know, whatever they 148 00:08:09,640 --> 00:08:11,520 Speaker 1: can write to get things out there and get people 149 00:08:11,520 --> 00:08:14,200 Speaker 1: to read it, people's attention. Yeah, I mean some of 150 00:08:14,280 --> 00:08:17,160 Speaker 1: it was deserved. Someone wasn't deserved, But that's kind of 151 00:08:17,200 --> 00:08:19,800 Speaker 1: how it is. So the fans themselves were actually not 152 00:08:19,960 --> 00:08:22,880 Speaker 1: bad to you. It was mostly the press, Yeah, it was. Yeah, 153 00:08:22,960 --> 00:08:27,360 Speaker 1: And I think that probably goes for most NFL cities. 154 00:08:27,400 --> 00:08:29,800 Speaker 1: I mean, the fans like they're in it, they understand 155 00:08:30,520 --> 00:08:34,840 Speaker 1: um and and I think a lot of them are 156 00:08:34,920 --> 00:08:37,160 Speaker 1: probably they've watched football a little bit longer than some 157 00:08:37,200 --> 00:08:39,960 Speaker 1: of these in general anyway, so they have better feel 158 00:08:39,960 --> 00:08:43,400 Speaker 1: for the game. So like when people would say stuff 159 00:08:43,400 --> 00:08:46,079 Speaker 1: like I remember reading people being like he's emotionless, like 160 00:08:46,200 --> 00:08:49,000 Speaker 1: he doesn't care. Did you care? I mean if I 161 00:08:49,000 --> 00:08:51,599 Speaker 1: didn't care, I wouldn't have I would quit, Like I 162 00:08:51,640 --> 00:08:53,240 Speaker 1: wouldn't have put in the time and the effort to 163 00:08:53,920 --> 00:08:57,280 Speaker 1: what it takes to to do it. Um, what do 164 00:08:57,320 --> 00:09:01,160 Speaker 1: you think people were interpreting like just facially oppressions are Yeah, 165 00:09:01,200 --> 00:09:04,120 Speaker 1: I mean I know that after like two hasn't ten? 166 00:09:04,280 --> 00:09:06,680 Speaker 1: Doesn't let it twelve? Like if we had a Fox game, 167 00:09:06,760 --> 00:09:08,960 Speaker 1: like there was basically a camera like dedicated to our 168 00:09:09,000 --> 00:09:11,079 Speaker 1: sidelines that were kind of following me and some of 169 00:09:11,120 --> 00:09:13,120 Speaker 1: the other guys around like just to see how we 170 00:09:13,360 --> 00:09:15,360 Speaker 1: would interact and stuff. So it got to be a 171 00:09:15,440 --> 00:09:18,000 Speaker 1: little bit of a thing. But you know, all I 172 00:09:18,080 --> 00:09:20,720 Speaker 1: really cared about was playing football and trying to win 173 00:09:20,760 --> 00:09:23,559 Speaker 1: football games. So after you left Chicago, like, did you 174 00:09:23,600 --> 00:09:25,559 Speaker 1: feel a little beat up just from the press and 175 00:09:25,640 --> 00:09:27,400 Speaker 1: stuff or like were you kind of happy to be 176 00:09:27,480 --> 00:09:29,960 Speaker 1: retired at that point? No? I don't think it never 177 00:09:30,040 --> 00:09:32,000 Speaker 1: really got to that point. Like I was always able 178 00:09:32,040 --> 00:09:35,079 Speaker 1: to to separate, you know, the difference in work and 179 00:09:35,240 --> 00:09:38,240 Speaker 1: when I left the building, like it was, I didn't 180 00:09:38,240 --> 00:09:41,160 Speaker 1: think about it. You know, we had guess we had 181 00:09:41,160 --> 00:09:43,679 Speaker 1: all three kids by the time we were done, and um, 182 00:09:44,080 --> 00:09:46,280 Speaker 1: you know you walk in the door and that's they 183 00:09:46,360 --> 00:09:49,839 Speaker 1: don't care, That's the last thing that on their minds. 184 00:09:49,920 --> 00:09:52,040 Speaker 1: So UM, I always felt like I was able to 185 00:09:52,200 --> 00:09:56,520 Speaker 1: kind of compartmentalize a lot of it and just keep it, 186 00:09:57,280 --> 00:09:59,360 Speaker 1: keep it away. What made you want to go back? 187 00:09:59,440 --> 00:10:02,319 Speaker 1: Like when my Amy called, um, I still felt like 188 00:10:02,400 --> 00:10:06,839 Speaker 1: he play. Um. I just wanted, you know, I wanted 189 00:10:06,880 --> 00:10:08,400 Speaker 1: to be in a different situation. We had a few 190 00:10:08,440 --> 00:10:10,880 Speaker 1: teams called like right as soon in March, as soon 191 00:10:10,960 --> 00:10:14,640 Speaker 1: as I was let go by Chicago, but they just 192 00:10:14,840 --> 00:10:17,440 Speaker 1: jumping into just jumping from one ship to the next ship, 193 00:10:17,440 --> 00:10:19,240 Speaker 1: like you didn't didn't really interest me. I kind of 194 00:10:19,280 --> 00:10:22,679 Speaker 1: wanted to process some of it, think about it and 195 00:10:22,800 --> 00:10:25,360 Speaker 1: decide whether I still wanted to play or not. And 196 00:10:26,000 --> 00:10:28,400 Speaker 1: that summer give me a lot of time. And then 197 00:10:28,440 --> 00:10:31,000 Speaker 1: when Adam called, you know, I knew him and I 198 00:10:31,120 --> 00:10:34,240 Speaker 1: knew a lot of those guys from being in Chicago. Yeah, 199 00:10:34,520 --> 00:10:37,240 Speaker 1: so I knew that. You know, at the end of 200 00:10:37,280 --> 00:10:38,920 Speaker 1: the day, if we won game in the lost games, 201 00:10:38,920 --> 00:10:40,520 Speaker 1: that would it would be a good experience being done 202 00:10:40,600 --> 00:10:43,560 Speaker 1: with him. Yeah, okay, so you got okay, you were 203 00:10:43,559 --> 00:10:45,160 Speaker 1: going to go to Fox and you like have this 204 00:10:45,240 --> 00:10:47,360 Speaker 1: family at home. Did you feel better about that career, 205 00:10:47,559 --> 00:10:50,520 Speaker 1: like being able to balance that with like your family 206 00:10:50,600 --> 00:10:56,480 Speaker 1: and Kristen and everybody working for Fox. Um, I was, 207 00:10:56,600 --> 00:10:58,319 Speaker 1: I mean I took it well. I was kind of 208 00:10:58,400 --> 00:11:01,040 Speaker 1: torn on it because it's still it's still sixteen weeks 209 00:11:01,080 --> 00:11:04,040 Speaker 1: to travel, is it really? I mean every game is away. 210 00:11:04,040 --> 00:11:06,959 Speaker 1: Game didn't realize. So you leave Thursday night or Friday 211 00:11:07,040 --> 00:11:10,320 Speaker 1: morning and you're gone until Sunday night or Monday morning, 212 00:11:11,480 --> 00:11:13,600 Speaker 1: So you know, it's a four day commitment for sixteen 213 00:11:13,640 --> 00:11:18,439 Speaker 1: straight weeks, which didn't really fire me up, um, because 214 00:11:18,440 --> 00:11:22,840 Speaker 1: it was more travel than I did playing obviously Monday 215 00:11:22,880 --> 00:11:25,800 Speaker 1: through Thursday year off. But I mean it's still it's 216 00:11:25,800 --> 00:11:28,160 Speaker 1: still quite a bit. Yeah, And that's why I had 217 00:11:28,160 --> 00:11:32,880 Speaker 1: a lot of hesitations after Miami of getting into that because, um, 218 00:11:33,920 --> 00:11:35,719 Speaker 1: you know, and during the fall, like I wanted to 219 00:11:35,880 --> 00:11:37,640 Speaker 1: l Cohn, I wanted the Deer Hunt, I wanted to 220 00:11:38,040 --> 00:11:39,839 Speaker 1: go to Montana. There's a lot of things I wanted 221 00:11:39,840 --> 00:11:43,240 Speaker 1: to candom. Was gonna start playing soccer in the fall. Um, 222 00:11:44,440 --> 00:11:46,040 Speaker 1: you know, there's just things that I was like, you know, 223 00:11:46,280 --> 00:11:49,640 Speaker 1: let's let's just take a year and then see what happens. Yeah, Chris, 224 00:11:49,720 --> 00:11:51,400 Speaker 1: and and I'll talk about that sometimes. Like you never 225 00:11:51,520 --> 00:11:55,760 Speaker 1: had in August just off training camp, and this is 226 00:11:55,800 --> 00:11:57,920 Speaker 1: my first. This is my first August I've ever had. 227 00:11:58,000 --> 00:12:00,959 Speaker 1: Just hang out and see what August is. Like. I 228 00:12:01,040 --> 00:12:04,120 Speaker 1: kind of liked it, like August, Like I mean honestly 229 00:12:04,160 --> 00:12:05,800 Speaker 1: with football, like you kind of missed some of the 230 00:12:05,880 --> 00:12:11,960 Speaker 1: best months, like October. It, yeah, I'll get some Tumber October. Um. 231 00:12:13,320 --> 00:12:14,839 Speaker 1: So it was it was cool to be here and 232 00:12:14,960 --> 00:12:17,839 Speaker 1: like kind of kind of enjoy that Halloween. You know, 233 00:12:17,920 --> 00:12:22,520 Speaker 1: you go to the kids on Halloween that Um, Thanksgiving, 234 00:12:22,679 --> 00:12:25,960 Speaker 1: Like I've played on Thanksgiving before, you know, traveling on Thanksgiving. 235 00:12:26,080 --> 00:12:30,360 Speaker 1: So Christmas, we've played anything on Christmas or traveled on Christmas. 236 00:12:30,440 --> 00:12:34,920 Speaker 1: So just being around for those times was was different 237 00:12:34,960 --> 00:12:38,199 Speaker 1: but fun fun. Okay, let's talk about relationships stuff, like 238 00:12:38,320 --> 00:12:41,599 Speaker 1: how how was it first of all, balancing a relationship, 239 00:12:41,880 --> 00:12:48,439 Speaker 1: three kids and I really high pressure job. Um, I 240 00:12:48,480 --> 00:12:50,800 Speaker 1: mean I think that's probably for christ and like Kristen 241 00:12:50,920 --> 00:12:54,439 Speaker 1: balanced it. I just I just showed up what a 242 00:12:54,600 --> 00:12:59,560 Speaker 1: nice life. So like if she wasn't probably is tough 243 00:12:59,640 --> 00:13:03,160 Speaker 1: and and and caring as she isn't. I mean I 244 00:13:03,240 --> 00:13:05,719 Speaker 1: didn't do anything. Yeah, I would literally because I mean 245 00:13:06,760 --> 00:13:08,640 Speaker 1: there's I think there's so much going on in football 246 00:13:08,640 --> 00:13:10,160 Speaker 1: and like you're so wound up in the week that 247 00:13:11,280 --> 00:13:13,280 Speaker 1: you know, and the kids were young, kids were super 248 00:13:13,360 --> 00:13:16,040 Speaker 1: young still, so like she had to take care of them. 249 00:13:16,240 --> 00:13:19,760 Speaker 1: She was doing her job. Um. So I mean she's 250 00:13:19,800 --> 00:13:22,559 Speaker 1: the one that kept that ship afloat. How is it 251 00:13:22,679 --> 00:13:28,319 Speaker 1: different now? Oh it's changed a little bit. Um. You know, 252 00:13:28,360 --> 00:13:30,400 Speaker 1: I think I do probably more than like day to 253 00:13:30,520 --> 00:13:33,400 Speaker 1: day stuff because she's so busy with her job. Yeah, 254 00:13:33,440 --> 00:13:35,200 Speaker 1: you refer to yourself as the nanny and the house 255 00:13:35,240 --> 00:13:38,160 Speaker 1: manager now correct? That is that is correct, and I 256 00:13:38,480 --> 00:13:42,760 Speaker 1: am both of those things. Tell me about those jobs, 257 00:13:42,840 --> 00:13:46,559 Speaker 1: those roles. That's why I need to find another job. Okay, 258 00:13:46,760 --> 00:13:50,760 Speaker 1: we're tired of this. Do you feel like being retired 259 00:13:50,800 --> 00:13:53,559 Speaker 1: as affected your marriage at all? Like, how has that 260 00:13:53,640 --> 00:13:57,800 Speaker 1: affected it? Um? Yeah, I mean just finding a different roles. 261 00:13:57,840 --> 00:13:59,920 Speaker 1: I think it's you have made your changes like that, 262 00:14:00,160 --> 00:14:02,040 Speaker 1: and I think Kristen has probably had just as much 263 00:14:02,120 --> 00:14:06,199 Speaker 1: change as I have totally her job. You meet. So 264 00:14:06,320 --> 00:14:09,520 Speaker 1: I think when you combine those two storms, if you will, 265 00:14:09,720 --> 00:14:13,640 Speaker 1: at the same time, it's there's definitely um things you 266 00:14:13,760 --> 00:14:15,839 Speaker 1: kind of have to wade through and figure out. And 267 00:14:16,120 --> 00:14:19,040 Speaker 1: you know, because because it's not easy, man, it's probably 268 00:14:19,040 --> 00:14:20,760 Speaker 1: a little bit easier for her because I mean she's 269 00:14:22,080 --> 00:14:24,200 Speaker 1: doing exactly what she wants to do. She's excited about 270 00:14:24,240 --> 00:14:27,520 Speaker 1: it and and doing and doing and doing very well. Um, 271 00:14:27,760 --> 00:14:29,400 Speaker 1: you know, I'm the one that's kind of has to 272 00:14:29,440 --> 00:14:31,840 Speaker 1: figure out, you know, what I want to do and 273 00:14:31,920 --> 00:14:34,000 Speaker 1: where I want to go next. Do you have any 274 00:14:34,320 --> 00:14:38,320 Speaker 1: ideas you want to share right now? Um? I don't know, 275 00:14:39,600 --> 00:14:42,760 Speaker 1: like getting back doing the broadcasting thing. I more of 276 00:14:42,800 --> 00:14:47,440 Speaker 1: like a half schedule or something. It would be interesting. Um, 277 00:14:47,640 --> 00:14:52,440 Speaker 1: getting into maybe I don't know, I don't want to 278 00:14:52,440 --> 00:14:55,240 Speaker 1: say coaching or consulting, but like go into some camps, 279 00:14:55,320 --> 00:14:57,360 Speaker 1: some training camps or some mini camps and kind of 280 00:14:57,400 --> 00:14:59,960 Speaker 1: helping out some of the guys that I know around 281 00:15:00,000 --> 00:15:04,280 Speaker 1: in the league. Um, would be fun. We've been kicking around, 282 00:15:04,360 --> 00:15:06,280 Speaker 1: doing kicking around an idea of doing like a butcher 283 00:15:06,360 --> 00:15:08,680 Speaker 1: shop somewhere in Franklinton. You've been talking about that for 284 00:15:08,880 --> 00:15:10,480 Speaker 1: years because you were still talking about that when you 285 00:15:10,480 --> 00:15:15,360 Speaker 1: needed a football. Yeah, what would that be? Something really small, 286 00:15:15,960 --> 00:15:21,320 Speaker 1: I mean feet or something. Um, and then sourcing like 287 00:15:21,480 --> 00:15:24,240 Speaker 1: grass fed beef from somewhere. I mean I would want 288 00:15:24,280 --> 00:15:26,600 Speaker 1: to keep it somewhere in Tennessee. If we could a 289 00:15:26,680 --> 00:15:31,240 Speaker 1: couple of pigs, some chickens, and like you know, getting 290 00:15:31,400 --> 00:15:34,800 Speaker 1: getting hold of animals and whatever we get that week. 291 00:15:34,880 --> 00:15:36,720 Speaker 1: You know, when we sell out, we sell out. Its 292 00:15:37,840 --> 00:15:40,160 Speaker 1: depending Yeah, like turn of like what we could get. Obviously, 293 00:15:40,240 --> 00:15:42,320 Speaker 1: if someone wants to order something, we'll try to we'll 294 00:15:42,320 --> 00:15:45,760 Speaker 1: try to source it. But something really small. UM, getting 295 00:15:45,800 --> 00:15:49,040 Speaker 1: Mike involved, kind of letting him, you know, if he 296 00:15:49,080 --> 00:15:52,280 Speaker 1: wants to smoke some meats or hang some meats. Um, 297 00:15:52,640 --> 00:15:55,000 Speaker 1: Mike is who works with Kristen on all her cook 298 00:15:55,960 --> 00:15:59,960 Speaker 1: He's amazing. And then eventually maybe Thursday, Friday, Satday something 299 00:16:00,080 --> 00:16:03,440 Speaker 1: having like lunch and having him make sandwiches and just 300 00:16:03,520 --> 00:16:07,560 Speaker 1: seeing where we can go with it. But um, something small, 301 00:16:07,680 --> 00:16:11,280 Speaker 1: just see what happens. Have you thought about being a 302 00:16:11,400 --> 00:16:16,000 Speaker 1: matchmaker as a profession, Um, I feel like you might 303 00:16:16,040 --> 00:16:19,040 Speaker 1: be really good at that. I think, what are we 304 00:16:19,080 --> 00:16:22,600 Speaker 1: good at it? Okay? I like the confidence, there's a 305 00:16:22,720 --> 00:16:26,600 Speaker 1: there is a but though, Um, I think some people's 306 00:16:26,640 --> 00:16:29,440 Speaker 1: expectations are a little bit skewed. People doing me me. 307 00:16:31,080 --> 00:16:34,040 Speaker 1: We haven't went down that road yet, but I think 308 00:16:34,200 --> 00:16:40,400 Speaker 1: most people's expectations are a little bit lofty. And I 309 00:16:40,440 --> 00:16:41,640 Speaker 1: don't know if I want to be the bearer of 310 00:16:41,720 --> 00:16:43,760 Speaker 1: bad news, like every time you're like, hey, listen, like 311 00:16:44,760 --> 00:16:46,840 Speaker 1: I don't know if that's in the cards. Maybe we 312 00:16:46,880 --> 00:16:52,720 Speaker 1: should just say, like we all can't find somebody with 313 00:16:53,400 --> 00:16:57,360 Speaker 1: abbs six ft four has a million dollar job, and 314 00:16:58,000 --> 00:17:00,720 Speaker 1: like that those those people that are out there, I mean, 315 00:17:00,920 --> 00:17:07,080 Speaker 1: obviously hopefully you can find one, but um, most people 316 00:17:07,119 --> 00:17:08,920 Speaker 1: I think are just pretty normal. Also, would like to 317 00:17:08,960 --> 00:17:11,520 Speaker 1: clarify that is not the description of what I'm looking for. 318 00:17:11,840 --> 00:17:13,640 Speaker 1: What is the description of what you're looking for put 319 00:17:13,680 --> 00:17:16,200 Speaker 1: me on the spot. I don't chill. I mean I 320 00:17:16,320 --> 00:17:18,119 Speaker 1: always say to you, I just want someone who's like 321 00:17:18,200 --> 00:17:21,119 Speaker 1: my partner, right, that kind of meets me have way, 322 00:17:21,960 --> 00:17:24,920 Speaker 1: who has their own stuff going on, who is not 323 00:17:25,040 --> 00:17:27,560 Speaker 1: threatened by what I have going on. But if he's 324 00:17:27,560 --> 00:17:30,959 Speaker 1: like a struggling artist, well, okay, you always throw out 325 00:17:31,040 --> 00:17:33,679 Speaker 1: these descriptions that are like amazing, I'm like, where are 326 00:17:33,840 --> 00:17:37,320 Speaker 1: these guys like Arlon Artison has no money? Like you 327 00:17:37,400 --> 00:17:41,720 Speaker 1: have to you have to, I mean, okay, Like, I 328 00:17:41,840 --> 00:17:44,520 Speaker 1: don't think I would not be upset if I made 329 00:17:44,560 --> 00:17:48,040 Speaker 1: more money than my partner, So I'm not out for that. 330 00:17:48,359 --> 00:17:52,159 Speaker 1: But I also don't want like a freeloader. What if 331 00:17:52,200 --> 00:17:58,200 Speaker 1: he's amazing on every other not getting he was like, hey, listen, 332 00:17:58,280 --> 00:18:00,920 Speaker 1: like this is my my past action. I love it. 333 00:18:01,080 --> 00:18:03,399 Speaker 1: Like if if I have to give this up and 334 00:18:03,440 --> 00:18:06,879 Speaker 1: get a breather job, like I'm gonna lose who I am. Okay, 335 00:18:07,200 --> 00:18:09,960 Speaker 1: but if he's so amazing, why isn't he selling some 336 00:18:10,119 --> 00:18:13,280 Speaker 1: of these pieces of art? Well, he thinks he's amazing, Like, 337 00:18:13,320 --> 00:18:15,360 Speaker 1: it doesn't mean the rest of the do I think 338 00:18:15,400 --> 00:18:19,199 Speaker 1: he's amazing. It's the question, you support his passion. Let 339 00:18:19,280 --> 00:18:24,120 Speaker 1: see if I can be supportive of someone's passion if 340 00:18:24,160 --> 00:18:27,760 Speaker 1: it's selling, well, it's like you've got to I do 341 00:18:27,920 --> 00:18:31,240 Speaker 1: want like a driven person. Well, he's very driven, like 342 00:18:31,320 --> 00:18:34,240 Speaker 1: he's cranking out art work. But if it's the way 343 00:18:34,240 --> 00:18:37,520 Speaker 1: you described him, it's terrible, doesn't mean he doesn't love it. 344 00:18:39,160 --> 00:18:42,960 Speaker 1: I'm conflicted. Oh my god. On that note, I think 345 00:18:42,960 --> 00:18:46,240 Speaker 1: I'm gonna move on to the fan questions. I do. 346 00:18:46,440 --> 00:18:47,880 Speaker 1: I do think you should think about the match. Any 347 00:18:47,920 --> 00:18:49,399 Speaker 1: thing people don't know about you, that you're very like 348 00:18:49,520 --> 00:18:51,879 Speaker 1: perceptive and and who it is. It's a very good 349 00:18:51,920 --> 00:18:55,320 Speaker 1: skill set. Um okay. So I asked a bunch of 350 00:18:55,400 --> 00:18:58,240 Speaker 1: my followers on Velvet's Edge what they wanted to know 351 00:18:58,280 --> 00:19:01,119 Speaker 1: about you, and I got some mixed questions. Question for you, 352 00:19:01,320 --> 00:19:04,399 Speaker 1: are what percent of these followers are women? Like a 353 00:19:04,680 --> 00:19:09,000 Speaker 1: very high person. I mean for sure probably, I would 354 00:19:09,000 --> 00:19:11,920 Speaker 1: maybe even go as far as to day and the 355 00:19:12,000 --> 00:19:15,440 Speaker 1: rest are gay? Oh okay, So let's say ninety women 356 00:19:15,720 --> 00:19:19,600 Speaker 1: five the other five includes the gays. So we've got 357 00:19:19,680 --> 00:19:23,800 Speaker 1: five percent mail Um okay. Well, Chris and will probably 358 00:19:23,840 --> 00:19:26,360 Speaker 1: want to hear this, but they said, who runs your instagram? 359 00:19:26,440 --> 00:19:34,359 Speaker 1: If Jay has an Instagram. It's hilarious. The question from 360 00:19:34,400 --> 00:19:38,200 Speaker 1: the fans is who runs Jay's Instagram? Like it's a mystery? 361 00:19:40,160 --> 00:19:41,760 Speaker 1: Was either? But people ask me this. I guess I 362 00:19:41,760 --> 00:19:44,040 Speaker 1: don't really talk about it. My hobby. Would you like 363 00:19:44,200 --> 00:19:47,199 Speaker 1: us to make the big reveal? Runs it? Why are 364 00:19:47,200 --> 00:19:49,320 Speaker 1: you looking at me like that runs it? No one 365 00:19:49,359 --> 00:19:53,920 Speaker 1: can hear me a microphone, Christen does. It's so I'm 366 00:19:53,920 --> 00:19:57,280 Speaker 1: not happy about it. I'm not happy to get me. 367 00:19:58,040 --> 00:20:00,399 Speaker 1: Is this a joint effort by any means that? Like? What? 368 00:20:00,720 --> 00:20:03,440 Speaker 1: Sometimes I'll ask him for a caption, like what would 369 00:20:03,520 --> 00:20:09,160 Speaker 1: you say in this situation? So your participal collaborative effort? Collaborative? 370 00:20:09,280 --> 00:20:11,399 Speaker 1: I like that. Jay. Do you even know how to 371 00:20:11,440 --> 00:20:14,040 Speaker 1: log into your Instagram? I don't know the password? Okay, 372 00:20:15,960 --> 00:20:19,040 Speaker 1: so we'll get We'll give Casey the credit here. I 373 00:20:19,040 --> 00:20:21,560 Speaker 1: couldn't log in if I had to. Yeah, you logged 374 00:20:21,560 --> 00:20:24,680 Speaker 1: in one time on my Yeah one vein ran away. 375 00:20:25,920 --> 00:20:30,440 Speaker 1: You gave me the phone away, and you wanted to 376 00:20:30,520 --> 00:20:32,760 Speaker 1: make a post about it. So she didn't even log 377 00:20:32,880 --> 00:20:34,600 Speaker 1: into his own and so she logged and gave me 378 00:20:34,680 --> 00:20:37,000 Speaker 1: the phone and I did you post? You knew how 379 00:20:37,080 --> 00:20:41,639 Speaker 1: to post? Christian? I mean it please for someone to 380 00:20:41,640 --> 00:20:44,760 Speaker 1: help me find Vain and you found him. Thank god 381 00:20:44,840 --> 00:20:47,840 Speaker 1: for the social media. Um, this is kind of a 382 00:20:47,920 --> 00:20:50,639 Speaker 1: little bit going back to the matchmaking thing. One girl asked, 383 00:20:50,720 --> 00:20:53,320 Speaker 1: what are your tips for boss women dating out there? 384 00:20:53,680 --> 00:20:55,639 Speaker 1: What do you think about the whole men are intimidate 385 00:20:55,720 --> 00:20:58,320 Speaker 1: about strong women? Think? I did not submit this question, 386 00:20:58,880 --> 00:21:05,399 Speaker 1: although it sounds from Kelly Love Kelly, Kelly, what do 387 00:21:05,480 --> 00:21:07,560 Speaker 1: you think about that? I think you talked to me 388 00:21:07,640 --> 00:21:11,600 Speaker 1: about this a lot. Um repeat the question. There's two 389 00:21:11,680 --> 00:21:13,920 Speaker 1: parts to this question, what are the tips for boss 390 00:21:14,000 --> 00:21:16,200 Speaker 1: women dating out there? And then what do you think 391 00:21:16,240 --> 00:21:18,760 Speaker 1: about the whole men are intimidated by strong women thing? 392 00:21:18,840 --> 00:21:21,640 Speaker 1: Do you find truth in that? I'm sure I'm sure 393 00:21:21,800 --> 00:21:27,479 Speaker 1: some I'm sure some men are. Why do you want 394 00:21:27,520 --> 00:21:33,600 Speaker 1: to say something? I'm sure some men are, right. I mean, 395 00:21:33,720 --> 00:21:35,640 Speaker 1: I like, I'm just righting the wave, like let's thinking 396 00:21:35,680 --> 00:21:37,280 Speaker 1: of it called the money. I'll just kind of hang 397 00:21:37,320 --> 00:21:39,399 Speaker 1: out and do what I want to do. Yeah, I 398 00:21:39,440 --> 00:21:42,200 Speaker 1: just want to. I mean that's not too much to ask. Um, 399 00:21:43,160 --> 00:21:45,080 Speaker 1: but listen, like, if if you're with if you're the 400 00:21:45,119 --> 00:21:46,879 Speaker 1: guy that's intimated at what you do, like find a 401 00:21:46,920 --> 00:21:50,440 Speaker 1: different guy. Yeah, I agree with that wholeheartedly. That's not 402 00:21:50,480 --> 00:21:52,639 Speaker 1: the right question for you know, especially like early on 403 00:21:52,880 --> 00:21:54,800 Speaker 1: if they're like if they want if they're trying to 404 00:21:54,800 --> 00:21:57,880 Speaker 1: pressure you and do something that you know you don't 405 00:21:57,880 --> 00:21:59,840 Speaker 1: want to do professionally and you really like what you do, 406 00:22:00,119 --> 00:22:03,359 Speaker 1: and then that's not the right guy. What about just 407 00:22:03,440 --> 00:22:06,520 Speaker 1: actually dating there, Like, do you think that men, like 408 00:22:06,640 --> 00:22:09,640 Speaker 1: if you are men were attracted to women who kind 409 00:22:09,680 --> 00:22:13,359 Speaker 1: of need them and like you know, would be supported 410 00:22:13,400 --> 00:22:16,560 Speaker 1: by them versus someone who seemingly can take care of herself. 411 00:22:16,840 --> 00:22:19,400 Speaker 1: Because I think there's both. Okay, I think there's both, 412 00:22:19,400 --> 00:22:23,159 Speaker 1: and that's that's and that's why it's dating, Like that's 413 00:22:23,240 --> 00:22:26,760 Speaker 1: the the guys that want someone that's needy and someone 414 00:22:26,880 --> 00:22:29,920 Speaker 1: that's you know, needs them, like that's what they're probably 415 00:22:29,920 --> 00:22:33,320 Speaker 1: gonna find, and vice versa the other way. And if 416 00:22:33,520 --> 00:22:35,680 Speaker 1: I mean the women out there, like you just find 417 00:22:35,720 --> 00:22:39,800 Speaker 1: somebody that appreciates that you work and appreciates that you know, 418 00:22:39,960 --> 00:22:42,720 Speaker 1: you're doing what you want to do and you're passionate. 419 00:22:42,840 --> 00:22:45,840 Speaker 1: Whatever it is, was that attractive in Kristen to you, 420 00:22:46,080 --> 00:22:50,480 Speaker 1: Like she kind of already had her own stuff going on. Yeah, 421 00:22:51,359 --> 00:22:55,920 Speaker 1: Kristina was between like she was just thinking She's probably not. 422 00:22:56,119 --> 00:22:58,520 Speaker 1: She'll probably deny this, but like at that point, like 423 00:22:58,640 --> 00:23:00,159 Speaker 1: she was tired about it, like she was like I 424 00:23:00,200 --> 00:23:02,720 Speaker 1: want she was like I want to get out. You know, 425 00:23:02,920 --> 00:23:05,040 Speaker 1: she kind of wanted the thing about moving to Chicago, 426 00:23:05,160 --> 00:23:06,679 Speaker 1: like I was trying to get her to come to Chicago. 427 00:23:07,200 --> 00:23:09,159 Speaker 1: Family there too, Yeah, she has family there. I mean 428 00:23:09,240 --> 00:23:12,840 Speaker 1: she was always doing work and doing stuff. But um, 429 00:23:14,600 --> 00:23:17,240 Speaker 1: she wasn't the uncommon James version of Kristen that we know, 430 00:23:17,560 --> 00:23:20,920 Speaker 1: not at all, not at all. And you know she 431 00:23:21,040 --> 00:23:28,920 Speaker 1: got pregnant when she was young. But Kristen and take 432 00:23:28,960 --> 00:23:30,600 Speaker 1: everything back, I guess at this point, but like she 433 00:23:30,760 --> 00:23:34,240 Speaker 1: was always always extremely driven and like there was no 434 00:23:34,960 --> 00:23:36,800 Speaker 1: there was no way like she was going to just 435 00:23:38,400 --> 00:23:41,480 Speaker 1: hang at home and take care of the kids and 436 00:23:42,160 --> 00:23:44,879 Speaker 1: not explore, you know, things that she wanted to do. 437 00:23:45,359 --> 00:23:48,680 Speaker 1: She obviously were attracted to that. Then Yeah, yes, I 438 00:23:48,760 --> 00:23:52,200 Speaker 1: mean it was um yeah, I mean she brought a 439 00:23:52,200 --> 00:23:55,320 Speaker 1: lot to the table. This one sounds like it was 440 00:23:55,359 --> 00:23:58,000 Speaker 1: submitted by Christian Kristen, what do you love most about 441 00:23:58,000 --> 00:24:01,480 Speaker 1: your wife? Where to God? It was people want to 442 00:24:01,560 --> 00:24:08,480 Speaker 1: know that, people want to know. Um, I think it's 443 00:24:09,119 --> 00:24:12,840 Speaker 1: probably is like she can balance both of those worlds 444 00:24:13,600 --> 00:24:18,879 Speaker 1: really seamlessly being able to raise three kids, Like I 445 00:24:19,000 --> 00:24:22,399 Speaker 1: went to Miami for five months and she still was 446 00:24:22,480 --> 00:24:25,560 Speaker 1: able to raise three kids, you know, put together she 447 00:24:25,680 --> 00:24:27,639 Speaker 1: had a shoe line then like things were coming with 448 00:24:27,760 --> 00:24:32,200 Speaker 1: the jewelry line. Um, I think I got back from 449 00:24:32,880 --> 00:24:35,399 Speaker 1: and she was putting together the show. So like she 450 00:24:35,560 --> 00:24:38,439 Speaker 1: was able to do all that while you were in Miami. 451 00:24:38,760 --> 00:24:41,159 Speaker 1: Just saying just living a life on the beach, you 452 00:24:41,320 --> 00:24:43,840 Speaker 1: really did when you were in Miami, Like because during 453 00:24:43,880 --> 00:24:46,280 Speaker 1: the week, what did you do? I went to work 454 00:24:46,440 --> 00:24:49,639 Speaker 1: and then how many hours a day though Monday Tuesday's 455 00:24:49,680 --> 00:24:52,840 Speaker 1: like Monday's Tuesday and off day Monday. There for a 456 00:24:52,880 --> 00:24:57,080 Speaker 1: couple of hours Thursday out of five Friday at it 457 00:24:57,200 --> 00:25:01,720 Speaker 1: like twelve one o'clock. I got living her best life. Yeah, 458 00:25:01,760 --> 00:25:05,960 Speaker 1: but they, I mean they came out a lot. Okay, okay, okay, okay, 459 00:25:06,640 --> 00:25:09,159 Speaker 1: this is our fans get a little. They're really into you. 460 00:25:09,760 --> 00:25:14,480 Speaker 1: What's your biggest turn on in? It's so weird asking 461 00:25:14,560 --> 00:25:17,320 Speaker 1: this kind of stuff. I mean, I think when I 462 00:25:17,400 --> 00:25:20,960 Speaker 1: met Kristen like like like just her probably just like 463 00:25:21,560 --> 00:25:24,280 Speaker 1: I think anybody like their lying basically if they say 464 00:25:24,320 --> 00:25:27,879 Speaker 1: like attraction, like you know, how they look. You're right, 465 00:25:28,240 --> 00:25:30,479 Speaker 1: that's it has to be there. Of course, it has 466 00:25:30,480 --> 00:25:33,360 Speaker 1: to be there. Can I remember whenever I first met 467 00:25:33,480 --> 00:25:36,159 Speaker 1: Kristen it was in uh, we were in it was 468 00:25:36,200 --> 00:25:39,399 Speaker 1: after a preseason game. She actually had dark hair at 469 00:25:39,440 --> 00:25:42,680 Speaker 1: the time, what like brunette, like my color. Not not quiet, 470 00:25:42,720 --> 00:25:46,560 Speaker 1: but it was it wasn't the blonde that you all like. 471 00:25:46,720 --> 00:25:50,680 Speaker 1: She had it maybe low lights, but a lot, but 472 00:25:50,800 --> 00:25:54,520 Speaker 1: a lot of it was almost it was almost brown. 473 00:25:54,800 --> 00:25:57,840 Speaker 1: I'm shocked. I never knew her in those days. Yeah, 474 00:25:57,960 --> 00:25:59,480 Speaker 1: and she was thinking about getting out of the l 475 00:25:59,520 --> 00:26:01,440 Speaker 1: a like a whole different, whole, different side that you 476 00:26:01,480 --> 00:26:04,399 Speaker 1: don't know. But she were obviously physically attracted to her 477 00:26:04,680 --> 00:26:09,280 Speaker 1: for sure. She had on either a white shirt and 478 00:26:09,520 --> 00:26:16,520 Speaker 1: like blue blue shorts or vice versa. Okay, but yeah, 479 00:26:16,560 --> 00:26:19,480 Speaker 1: I mean she was just naturally beautiful, So like that 480 00:26:19,640 --> 00:26:23,960 Speaker 1: was the first first attraction. And I think if that's 481 00:26:24,000 --> 00:26:26,960 Speaker 1: not there, then yeah, we're probably not going to move forward, 482 00:26:27,119 --> 00:26:28,680 Speaker 1: don't you think? With Christens and she has like a 483 00:26:28,760 --> 00:26:31,080 Speaker 1: natural confidence, like I think a lot of guys say 484 00:26:31,160 --> 00:26:37,240 Speaker 1: that that's really really attractive to Um. Yeah, I think 485 00:26:37,280 --> 00:26:40,840 Speaker 1: that's true. Um, here's another question, what did you learn 486 00:26:40,880 --> 00:26:47,560 Speaker 1: in that g Q article, tell us, Um, I think 487 00:26:47,640 --> 00:26:50,560 Speaker 1: Christmas is already told all. I don't think she gives 488 00:26:50,600 --> 00:26:52,800 Speaker 1: specifics of people were asking. I mean, if you feel 489 00:26:52,840 --> 00:26:54,520 Speaker 1: like you need to keep that between you two, then 490 00:26:54,640 --> 00:26:56,520 Speaker 1: I mean there's some things you got to keep secretive. 491 00:26:57,160 --> 00:26:59,240 Speaker 1: So does that go for this next question, which is 492 00:26:59,480 --> 00:27:01,160 Speaker 1: I mean, I don't even know if I want anyth 493 00:27:01,160 --> 00:27:04,600 Speaker 1: answer to this, but what's your favorite sexual position? Um? 494 00:27:06,760 --> 00:27:09,639 Speaker 1: I think we experiment with many different ones. Okay, so 495 00:27:09,640 --> 00:27:12,320 Speaker 1: a variety. Yeah? Is that what your're saying? Keep it 496 00:27:12,600 --> 00:27:14,040 Speaker 1: keep it? Yeah, I mean that's for so long, like 497 00:27:14,119 --> 00:27:15,520 Speaker 1: you have to you have to mix it up a 498 00:27:15,560 --> 00:27:23,639 Speaker 1: little bit, don't my ears? Like you're the one that 499 00:27:23,720 --> 00:27:25,480 Speaker 1: put all this stuff out there in the first place. 500 00:27:27,400 --> 00:27:28,760 Speaker 1: Do you want to come tell us about the g 501 00:27:28,920 --> 00:27:35,479 Speaker 1: Q article already staid it on national television. I'm why 502 00:27:35,520 --> 00:27:38,879 Speaker 1: are you going at me? So you're very sweet? What 503 00:27:39,160 --> 00:27:42,959 Speaker 1: was it? Very innocent? Sweet? Way? What is your favorite position? 504 00:27:43,520 --> 00:27:49,359 Speaker 1: I'm not all of a sudden like she's Saint Theresa 505 00:27:49,440 --> 00:27:55,040 Speaker 1: now like hodest a company. Now, you guys have been 506 00:27:55,080 --> 00:27:58,240 Speaker 1: married for how many years? Though? Going on not no, sorry, 507 00:27:58,280 --> 00:28:00,040 Speaker 1: going on six? You do have to keep it a 508 00:28:00,119 --> 00:28:03,439 Speaker 1: spicy like shake things up a bit. Yeah, we've I mean, 509 00:28:03,560 --> 00:28:06,439 Speaker 1: no one since hasn't ten. Wow. Yeah, it's a variety 510 00:28:06,520 --> 00:28:09,560 Speaker 1: that makes a lot of sense to me. Actually. Um okay, 511 00:28:09,720 --> 00:28:13,920 Speaker 1: so you have type one diabetes and someone asked, what 512 00:28:14,080 --> 00:28:16,320 Speaker 1: is it like living with that as an athlete? Did 513 00:28:16,400 --> 00:28:18,600 Speaker 1: it change a lot of stuff for you? Yeah? Definitely, 514 00:28:19,080 --> 00:28:23,280 Speaker 1: And I think me and Kristen change even more for me. Um, 515 00:28:23,760 --> 00:28:28,600 Speaker 1: because I mean as I got it in gosh doesn't nine. Yeah, 516 00:28:29,200 --> 00:28:33,960 Speaker 1: So I was how onld am I now I was 517 00:28:33,960 --> 00:28:37,760 Speaker 1: almost twenty six, I think, um, and like I was 518 00:28:37,840 --> 00:28:40,440 Speaker 1: just eating, like basically like a young college kid to 519 00:28:40,520 --> 00:28:42,479 Speaker 1: be like just eat whatever you want to drink all 520 00:28:42,520 --> 00:28:45,680 Speaker 1: the time. Yeah, like just no conscience at all, Like 521 00:28:45,920 --> 00:28:47,520 Speaker 1: what you put in your body is gonna affect you. 522 00:28:49,000 --> 00:28:53,600 Speaker 1: So once that happened and just carbs and sugar, like 523 00:28:53,720 --> 00:28:56,120 Speaker 1: you just start you start thinking more and more about that. 524 00:28:56,480 --> 00:29:00,680 Speaker 1: And then when I met Christen in um it doesn't ten. Uh, 525 00:29:01,040 --> 00:29:04,000 Speaker 1: you know we really started you know, well at first, 526 00:29:04,080 --> 00:29:06,120 Speaker 1: like she was just kind of eating whatever kind of 527 00:29:06,160 --> 00:29:09,760 Speaker 1: with me. Kristen, how much weight did you gain? She's 528 00:29:10,040 --> 00:29:14,040 Speaker 1: oddly absent, right, what how much weight did you gain? 529 00:29:14,080 --> 00:29:16,840 Speaker 1: When we when we first started hanging out, you guys, 530 00:29:17,720 --> 00:29:20,880 Speaker 1: eight pounds okay, but on my little frame, that's a lot. 531 00:29:23,960 --> 00:29:25,680 Speaker 1: I just ate like ships. I was like, I'm not 532 00:29:25,720 --> 00:29:27,680 Speaker 1: gonna be that girl that's like I don't eat this stuff. 533 00:29:27,840 --> 00:29:31,120 Speaker 1: And then yeah, he likes me fat though, let's be honest, 534 00:29:31,360 --> 00:29:35,600 Speaker 1: he likes me pleasantly pump junk in the trunk. So 535 00:29:35,800 --> 00:29:38,080 Speaker 1: it came came to a head where she's like, okay, 536 00:29:38,200 --> 00:29:41,320 Speaker 1: like this is not kind of how I eat um. 537 00:29:42,760 --> 00:29:46,480 Speaker 1: So then you know, she's started introducing me to you know, 538 00:29:46,720 --> 00:29:51,600 Speaker 1: less carm whole foods, like yeah, risk different stuff like that. 539 00:29:51,840 --> 00:29:54,920 Speaker 1: And then before we had Camden, we did a lot 540 00:29:55,040 --> 00:29:58,560 Speaker 1: more research on you know, food and health and everything 541 00:29:58,640 --> 00:30:02,120 Speaker 1: else and gut um, your immune system and like just 542 00:30:02,280 --> 00:30:06,360 Speaker 1: how everything kind of comes together. And that's whenever I 543 00:30:06,440 --> 00:30:09,000 Speaker 1: think things kind of took off and we went down 544 00:30:09,000 --> 00:30:11,720 Speaker 1: the rabbit hole and turned around for you with like 545 00:30:11,880 --> 00:30:14,280 Speaker 1: hell yeah, and you know, and now my insolent levels 546 00:30:14,320 --> 00:30:16,760 Speaker 1: are you know, I don't take as much insulin insulin, 547 00:30:17,160 --> 00:30:20,080 Speaker 1: I feel better, I sleep better. My numbers are been 548 00:30:20,520 --> 00:30:22,960 Speaker 1: really good. So is that's how it works with diabetes? 549 00:30:23,040 --> 00:30:25,760 Speaker 1: Like you whatever, if your insulin levels are high, that's 550 00:30:25,840 --> 00:30:28,520 Speaker 1: you have that pen you carry around like everything. If 551 00:30:28,560 --> 00:30:31,480 Speaker 1: you as soon as you eat food, um, you know, 552 00:30:31,560 --> 00:30:35,480 Speaker 1: your body starts breaking down carbs and sugar, and insulin 553 00:30:35,760 --> 00:30:38,360 Speaker 1: delivers that to your muscles and your brain and stuff 554 00:30:38,360 --> 00:30:41,360 Speaker 1: like that. But without insulin in your body, you know 555 00:30:41,440 --> 00:30:45,120 Speaker 1: you're just gonna pee all that stuff out. Your body's 556 00:30:45,120 --> 00:30:47,280 Speaker 1: gonna start shutting down. So every time I eat, I 557 00:30:47,360 --> 00:30:51,040 Speaker 1: pump insulin in and that delivers everything all over my body. 558 00:30:51,760 --> 00:30:56,800 Speaker 1: But as soon as you start eating a lot of 559 00:30:56,880 --> 00:31:00,320 Speaker 1: carbs for years and years and years, um, you know, 560 00:31:00,400 --> 00:31:01,920 Speaker 1: your your body is going to start to come a 561 00:31:01,960 --> 00:31:03,560 Speaker 1: little bit immune to the insul and you're putting in. 562 00:31:04,400 --> 00:31:05,960 Speaker 1: So you're going to put it in if you like 563 00:31:06,640 --> 00:31:09,560 Speaker 1: five years ago, if you put in three units, you 564 00:31:09,640 --> 00:31:11,760 Speaker 1: know ten years down the road, like you might have 565 00:31:11,800 --> 00:31:13,880 Speaker 1: to put in twelve units to cover up the same 566 00:31:13,920 --> 00:31:17,000 Speaker 1: piece of bread. So your body starts to figure it 567 00:31:17,000 --> 00:31:20,040 Speaker 1: out like, hey, like this isn't natural. So you want 568 00:31:20,080 --> 00:31:22,520 Speaker 1: to kind of keep your insulin levels down, your insolent 569 00:31:22,680 --> 00:31:25,200 Speaker 1: usage down as much as possible, and the only way 570 00:31:25,240 --> 00:31:27,520 Speaker 1: to do that is to eat less carves and less sugar. 571 00:31:27,760 --> 00:31:29,640 Speaker 1: So now that you've changed your diet, you're using way 572 00:31:29,760 --> 00:31:33,760 Speaker 1: less insulin. But the problem is, like you know, the 573 00:31:33,840 --> 00:31:38,440 Speaker 1: medical field and pharmaceuticals, like they're just they just say, hey, 574 00:31:38,480 --> 00:31:40,080 Speaker 1: just put in some in your body and then you'll 575 00:31:40,120 --> 00:31:44,160 Speaker 1: be fine. More insulin, more insulin, more insulin. Where that's 576 00:31:44,280 --> 00:31:47,520 Speaker 1: that's fine for a short period of time, but eventually 577 00:31:47,520 --> 00:31:50,920 Speaker 1: it's gonna catch up to you. Um Okay, what's your 578 00:31:51,000 --> 00:31:58,120 Speaker 1: Netflix go to? Mm hmmm mm hmmmm umcision. I know, well, 579 00:31:58,160 --> 00:32:01,120 Speaker 1: I mean it changes like I of binge watch what 580 00:32:01,200 --> 00:32:04,880 Speaker 1: are you currently binging? Um? God? What it is? Like friends? 581 00:32:04,920 --> 00:32:06,800 Speaker 1: And I think it's called like friends from college and 582 00:32:06,880 --> 00:32:10,040 Speaker 1: I have nothing about this king. I think it's like 583 00:32:10,240 --> 00:32:13,160 Speaker 1: these guys from these group of guys and girls from college, 584 00:32:13,840 --> 00:32:16,080 Speaker 1: but now they're out of college and like one of 585 00:32:16,160 --> 00:32:19,000 Speaker 1: them is cheating on it's just kind of their lives 586 00:32:19,280 --> 00:32:22,320 Speaker 1: in New York maybe or something like that. It's funny, 587 00:32:22,520 --> 00:32:26,080 Speaker 1: it's good. Watched Its Creek. I watched like three or 588 00:32:26,120 --> 00:32:28,280 Speaker 1: four episodes of it. You couldn't get into it. I 589 00:32:28,360 --> 00:32:30,680 Speaker 1: don't know, like I see I watched some of these 590 00:32:30,720 --> 00:32:33,240 Speaker 1: shows and then some I get caught up in doing 591 00:32:33,320 --> 00:32:36,200 Speaker 1: something else and I forget about it. But I saw 592 00:32:36,320 --> 00:32:39,680 Speaker 1: it on my like recently played things and I was like, oh, yeah, 593 00:32:40,040 --> 00:32:42,680 Speaker 1: I clicked on it, and yeah, I do need to 594 00:32:42,680 --> 00:32:44,640 Speaker 1: get back because I think it was funny. I laugh 595 00:32:44,720 --> 00:32:46,560 Speaker 1: out loud, And I feel like you appreciate the same 596 00:32:46,640 --> 00:32:49,640 Speaker 1: kind of game, So I think you would like it. Um, 597 00:32:50,920 --> 00:32:52,480 Speaker 1: And I feel like at my phone. But there was 598 00:32:52,480 --> 00:32:55,360 Speaker 1: a bunch of them recently that I've watched so friends 599 00:32:55,440 --> 00:32:59,880 Speaker 1: from college. I think that's what it's called interesting watching 600 00:32:59,920 --> 00:33:02,200 Speaker 1: the Ted Bundy thing to now. Oh I heard that's 601 00:33:02,240 --> 00:33:06,840 Speaker 1: like very dark, very dark. Um. I didn't know much 602 00:33:06,880 --> 00:33:08,760 Speaker 1: about it going into it, but I mean this guy 603 00:33:08,920 --> 00:33:11,959 Speaker 1: was the piece of work. Well yeah, I guess all 604 00:33:12,040 --> 00:33:14,880 Speaker 1: serial killers are, but yeah, but he was like charismatic 605 00:33:15,040 --> 00:33:18,680 Speaker 1: and like charming. Wasn't he kind of attractive? Yeah, he's 606 00:33:18,680 --> 00:33:21,040 Speaker 1: a good looking dude. Oh my god. That's scary as 607 00:33:21,080 --> 00:33:24,360 Speaker 1: ship a girl out there dating. See, maybe you should 608 00:33:24,400 --> 00:33:28,960 Speaker 1: start like a match making p I service. You're gonna 609 00:33:28,960 --> 00:33:32,560 Speaker 1: be background checks. But I don't think serial killers like 610 00:33:33,240 --> 00:33:34,880 Speaker 1: go one day and so they just kind of snatch 611 00:33:35,000 --> 00:33:36,720 Speaker 1: you up on the way to your car. I feel 612 00:33:36,720 --> 00:33:38,640 Speaker 1: like you would know, though, like when you meet people, 613 00:33:38,720 --> 00:33:43,640 Speaker 1: you have a good radar. Um. Yeah, I mean I 614 00:33:43,720 --> 00:33:45,320 Speaker 1: think if you went on a date with Ted Buddy, 615 00:33:45,400 --> 00:33:47,640 Speaker 1: I'd be like, hey, I don't think you might want 616 00:33:47,640 --> 00:33:52,440 Speaker 1: to see Just don't go anywhere with him. I'm gonna 617 00:33:52,520 --> 00:33:55,400 Speaker 1: keep you around. Then. Um, okay, what career would you 618 00:33:55,400 --> 00:33:57,400 Speaker 1: have done? A football wouldn't have been an option. This 619 00:33:57,520 --> 00:33:59,680 Speaker 1: is kind of what you're having to go through now, right, Yeah, 620 00:33:59,760 --> 00:34:03,959 Speaker 1: Like I've I've told some guys like this, like there 621 00:34:04,040 --> 00:34:07,200 Speaker 1: was there was never a plan B. Yeah, Like I 622 00:34:07,320 --> 00:34:09,920 Speaker 1: never had a plan B. And I told something and 623 00:34:10,000 --> 00:34:13,879 Speaker 1: I some of the guys like in college NFL, I like, listen, 624 00:34:14,360 --> 00:34:16,120 Speaker 1: if there's a plan B, like plan it is probably 625 00:34:16,160 --> 00:34:17,800 Speaker 1: not gonna work out. Do you think that's why you 626 00:34:17,840 --> 00:34:20,239 Speaker 1: were successful? Then maybe? I think it's Yeah. I mean 627 00:34:20,520 --> 00:34:22,240 Speaker 1: I think there's a lot of things that that lined 628 00:34:22,360 --> 00:34:23,840 Speaker 1: up for it, but I think that was part of 629 00:34:23,880 --> 00:34:25,920 Speaker 1: the reason. Yeah, I think there was never there was 630 00:34:26,000 --> 00:34:28,360 Speaker 1: not another option, had to make it work. It was 631 00:34:28,400 --> 00:34:32,440 Speaker 1: gonna work. Yeah, or I didn't think college very seriously, 632 00:34:32,640 --> 00:34:36,040 Speaker 1: so like I was all there a football thing. Thank god, 633 00:34:36,080 --> 00:34:38,799 Speaker 1: you have a good orm. Um. Okay, do you ever 634 00:34:38,880 --> 00:34:44,240 Speaker 1: regret retirement? Then regret it? No? Do I miss it sometimes? 635 00:34:44,239 --> 00:34:46,919 Speaker 1: For sure? Like how is football season? Did you watch 636 00:34:46,960 --> 00:34:51,200 Speaker 1: a lot of games. I mean Kimmin's obsessed. Yeah, that's right. 637 00:34:51,440 --> 00:34:54,200 Speaker 1: So like Saturday and Sunday, like Jackson hates it, Sailor's 638 00:34:54,560 --> 00:34:57,800 Speaker 1: in different Kristen watches more than she claims she watches, 639 00:34:57,880 --> 00:35:00,960 Speaker 1: probably yeah, but she knows. I mean, I guess after 640 00:35:01,320 --> 00:35:03,759 Speaker 1: eight years, like you're gonna have to, You're gonna figure 641 00:35:03,760 --> 00:35:06,480 Speaker 1: some stuff out. So she'll watch some stuff with this. 642 00:35:06,600 --> 00:35:09,560 Speaker 1: But I mean Cannon's like Saturday and Sunday, he's locked 643 00:35:09,640 --> 00:35:12,319 Speaker 1: right here. Yeah, so you're in it for that. Yeah. 644 00:35:12,360 --> 00:35:14,799 Speaker 1: So we watched and he he throws the pool back 645 00:35:14,800 --> 00:35:18,040 Speaker 1: and forth all day. Yeah. So I mean it was 646 00:35:18,760 --> 00:35:21,040 Speaker 1: I mean it wasn't. I enjoyed it. It was fun. Yeah, 647 00:35:21,239 --> 00:35:24,040 Speaker 1: it's the right time. Um. So I guess that answer 648 00:35:24,160 --> 00:35:26,400 Speaker 1: is like, will you ever come out of retirement? No, 649 00:35:26,560 --> 00:35:29,440 Speaker 1: it was you didn't have anything you wanted to tell 650 00:35:29,520 --> 00:35:34,160 Speaker 1: us today on the velvet. Okay, Well that's all the 651 00:35:34,280 --> 00:35:36,440 Speaker 1: questions I have for you. So I guess people can 652 00:35:36,520 --> 00:35:39,920 Speaker 1: tune into if Jay had an Instagram if they want 653 00:35:39,920 --> 00:35:42,680 Speaker 1: to keep up with you. Yeah. Oh, also season too 654 00:35:42,719 --> 00:35:46,959 Speaker 1: a very cavalaryameless plug March three is that when it starts? Yeah, 655 00:35:48,360 --> 00:35:53,279 Speaker 1: are you excited? I mean nervous. I'm not nervous yet. 656 00:35:53,680 --> 00:35:55,680 Speaker 1: I think like right before it comes out, I always 657 00:35:55,680 --> 00:35:57,640 Speaker 1: starts to over analyze, like, oh, ship, what did I 658 00:35:57,680 --> 00:36:00,840 Speaker 1: say to the damage is done? Just done? I know. 659 00:36:01,480 --> 00:36:03,319 Speaker 1: Thank god we have an EP in here with us 660 00:36:03,600 --> 00:36:07,600 Speaker 1: right now. Hi, are you guys done? Well, we're trying 661 00:36:07,680 --> 00:36:10,560 Speaker 1: to wrap up. Did you have anything you wanted to 662 00:36:10,680 --> 00:36:13,680 Speaker 1: add to this special podcast? Since you poked your head 663 00:36:13,719 --> 00:36:15,600 Speaker 1: in a couple of sounds, I'm good. It's like I 664 00:36:15,640 --> 00:36:17,920 Speaker 1: added everything, I mean for Kelly's benefit, Like how did 665 00:36:17,960 --> 00:36:20,640 Speaker 1: you know that you were attracted to me? These are 666 00:36:21,360 --> 00:36:24,480 Speaker 1: questions come on in there working on my cookbooks, like 667 00:36:25,280 --> 00:36:27,840 Speaker 1: podcast real fast. I'm sure that people want to know 668 00:36:27,960 --> 00:36:30,680 Speaker 1: this too. How did you know with Jay? I mean, 669 00:36:30,760 --> 00:36:32,520 Speaker 1: Kelly's out there in the dating world just trying to 670 00:36:32,600 --> 00:36:34,360 Speaker 1: grind it out. Well, it's like that's the whole thing 671 00:36:34,400 --> 00:36:36,759 Speaker 1: called chemistrate that you really can't put your finger on, 672 00:36:36,920 --> 00:36:39,040 Speaker 1: like you just know. But at the time, I was 673 00:36:39,120 --> 00:36:42,080 Speaker 1: really looking for somebody to like sit in the driver's seat, 674 00:36:42,120 --> 00:36:44,279 Speaker 1: Like I was sick of being the man in my life, 675 00:36:44,320 --> 00:36:46,399 Speaker 1: and so I really wanted like a man who could 676 00:36:46,400 --> 00:36:50,520 Speaker 1: take charge. And like you said, overheard you, I was 677 00:36:50,680 --> 00:36:52,800 Speaker 1: really wanting out of l A. I was just finishing 678 00:36:52,880 --> 00:36:56,839 Speaker 1: up the hills and my life felt very suffocating there. Um, 679 00:36:56,960 --> 00:36:58,440 Speaker 1: and so yeah, I really wanted to get out of 680 00:36:58,520 --> 00:37:00,720 Speaker 1: l A. Never once said I wanted to stopped working 681 00:37:01,080 --> 00:37:04,759 Speaker 1: or anything like that. Definitely said I didn't want to 682 00:37:04,800 --> 00:37:07,640 Speaker 1: live in l A. But never like how a shoe line. 683 00:37:07,680 --> 00:37:09,399 Speaker 1: And I was like, I was still hosting and doing 684 00:37:09,440 --> 00:37:12,200 Speaker 1: a lot of stuff. Yeah, um, just not at the 685 00:37:12,280 --> 00:37:14,960 Speaker 1: level you are now, right, or that I was prior 686 00:37:15,040 --> 00:37:18,160 Speaker 1: to meeting J right, Ye, did you know the second 687 00:37:18,280 --> 00:37:20,879 Speaker 1: you saw him? Are you like, Oh, I knew something 688 00:37:21,040 --> 00:37:29,560 Speaker 1: was up. Well, I thought your cousin was like, so 689 00:37:29,719 --> 00:37:34,520 Speaker 1: my cousin was obsessed with Jay specifically right bears And Um. 690 00:37:35,360 --> 00:37:36,759 Speaker 1: I had told my mom at one point that j 691 00:37:36,880 --> 00:37:38,600 Speaker 1: asked me out, and so we were going to a 692 00:37:38,760 --> 00:37:41,520 Speaker 1: game and my mom brought it up and my cousin Danny, 693 00:37:41,640 --> 00:37:44,200 Speaker 1: was like, he's the man, Like, you're such an idiot. 694 00:37:44,640 --> 00:37:46,640 Speaker 1: So we got family passes to meet him after the game, 695 00:37:46,680 --> 00:37:48,120 Speaker 1: and I thought like, I was just gonna be cousin 696 00:37:48,200 --> 00:37:49,640 Speaker 1: of the year and make my cousin's wife and I 697 00:37:49,680 --> 00:37:53,000 Speaker 1: would never speak to Jay ever again. And he walked in. 698 00:37:53,120 --> 00:37:55,680 Speaker 1: He was really sweet and he won my mom over, 699 00:37:55,840 --> 00:37:59,359 Speaker 1: which I feel like it's drove us to our car 700 00:37:59,600 --> 00:38:02,680 Speaker 1: and and Um texted me right after he dropped us off, 701 00:38:02,719 --> 00:38:06,279 Speaker 1: and Danny was like, he loves you, and then we 702 00:38:06,360 --> 00:38:09,880 Speaker 1: hung out a couple of nights later. Interesting. So when 703 00:38:09,920 --> 00:38:13,640 Speaker 1: you know you know it's true what they say, when 704 00:38:13,680 --> 00:38:18,000 Speaker 1: you know you know she didn't have dark hair, though 705 00:38:18,239 --> 00:38:21,200 Speaker 1: I know I didn't do that a good look for me? Wow, 706 00:38:21,600 --> 00:38:23,360 Speaker 1: I mean it wasn't like it wasn't like your color 707 00:38:23,600 --> 00:38:26,719 Speaker 1: that I was like trying something new and nobody wasn't 708 00:38:26,719 --> 00:38:30,840 Speaker 1: your best look. Okay, I'm glad you're back, blad. I 709 00:38:30,880 --> 00:38:33,920 Speaker 1: feel like you switched pretty quickly. Then, Yeah, I think 710 00:38:33,920 --> 00:38:37,600 Speaker 1: I happened in a salon pretty fast. Yeah, like try 711 00:38:37,680 --> 00:38:41,719 Speaker 1: the whole bolliage thing or whatever, justin molliage. That's the 712 00:38:41,760 --> 00:38:44,080 Speaker 1: word you were looking for. I've never heard that word. 713 00:38:44,480 --> 00:38:48,000 Speaker 1: You learned something new here today? What does that mean? Like? 714 00:38:48,080 --> 00:38:50,600 Speaker 1: I think it was darker and then it got lighter 715 00:38:50,640 --> 00:38:55,680 Speaker 1: at the ends. It was actually it was dark and 716 00:38:55,719 --> 00:38:58,239 Speaker 1: then it got a little bit lighter. But I have 717 00:38:58,320 --> 00:39:01,720 Speaker 1: to tell people that Jay is like but like touching 718 00:39:01,800 --> 00:39:05,560 Speaker 1: Christmas hairs, showing me exactly how it was very so 719 00:39:05,840 --> 00:39:15,120 Speaker 1: maybe beauties to think about Joe, they're probably not girls. Oh, Barbarshopbara. 720 00:39:15,719 --> 00:39:18,680 Speaker 1: I actually actually really could see that. I could too. Actually, yeah, 721 00:39:19,400 --> 00:39:23,440 Speaker 1: Jay's Barbaranda his hair so can the people hear me? 722 00:39:23,600 --> 00:39:26,799 Speaker 1: I'm worried that I don't know about back and forth? Yeah, 723 00:39:26,880 --> 00:39:31,919 Speaker 1: I'm so sorry. People. Please Jay has good hair though 724 00:39:32,200 --> 00:39:34,759 Speaker 1: j good. Harry pressed with his hair, so that would 725 00:39:34,840 --> 00:39:37,840 Speaker 1: kind of make sense. It's hed crunched. You just recently 726 00:39:37,880 --> 00:39:42,680 Speaker 1: had three haircuts, like we should. Truth comes out, Just 727 00:39:42,800 --> 00:39:47,000 Speaker 1: be honest. I love when the wife comes in at 728 00:39:47,120 --> 00:39:49,239 Speaker 1: the side of my control. It really is right now 729 00:39:50,600 --> 00:39:56,279 Speaker 1: the haircut situation. Oh, I see, well we should just 730 00:39:56,440 --> 00:39:58,960 Speaker 1: end it there because we don't want to hurt feelings. Okay, 731 00:39:59,520 --> 00:40:01,759 Speaker 1: was it for the a show where you filming? No, 732 00:40:02,719 --> 00:40:05,279 Speaker 1: let's just end it. She just wants to be done. 733 00:40:05,880 --> 00:40:07,719 Speaker 1: Do you like being a reality star? I didn't ask 734 00:40:07,760 --> 00:40:11,239 Speaker 1: you that good question. No, you guys know I don't 735 00:40:11,280 --> 00:40:14,840 Speaker 1: like being a People don't know though that people don't know. 736 00:40:15,280 --> 00:40:17,279 Speaker 1: I mean you this the schedule of filming is not 737 00:40:17,360 --> 00:40:21,279 Speaker 1: really your thing, right, that's five star of the show. 738 00:40:22,120 --> 00:40:26,839 Speaker 1: Isn't that hard? Then? What what is it? Why would 739 00:40:26,880 --> 00:40:28,440 Speaker 1: you want all these people at your house. That's a 740 00:40:28,640 --> 00:40:30,719 Speaker 1: you can be honest. Is the trust tree? I'm not 741 00:40:30,840 --> 00:40:33,440 Speaker 1: I'm not Actually, I'm not in the trust tree. I'm 742 00:40:33,440 --> 00:40:37,880 Speaker 1: not in the trust tree. I'm told nothing. And I 743 00:40:38,000 --> 00:40:42,000 Speaker 1: just learned today that we're doing this so true. Yes, 744 00:40:42,080 --> 00:40:46,520 Speaker 1: maybe yes, maybe he's so dramatic. I'm not dramatically. This 745 00:40:46,640 --> 00:40:51,080 Speaker 1: is the truth. I'm told nothing. I'm not in the 746 00:40:51,120 --> 00:40:53,520 Speaker 1: trust tree. Well, I think you're a natural. It was 747 00:40:53,680 --> 00:40:59,640 Speaker 1: a big surprise to the world. You're shocked. Yeah, I 748 00:40:59,680 --> 00:41:01,200 Speaker 1: was a nerve us to put you on cameras like 749 00:41:01,320 --> 00:41:04,919 Speaker 1: this is really let to Chicago. Is like I saw 750 00:41:04,960 --> 00:41:06,839 Speaker 1: you in pres press conferences. I mean I was kind 751 00:41:06,840 --> 00:41:09,120 Speaker 1: of nervous about that today, like you shut ship down, 752 00:41:10,200 --> 00:41:12,880 Speaker 1: you watched press conferences. I just sat a lot of 753 00:41:12,960 --> 00:41:17,080 Speaker 1: time watching every week everythingday some stuff like there's no 754 00:41:17,160 --> 00:41:19,080 Speaker 1: point in answering it, like let's just get on with it. 755 00:41:19,840 --> 00:41:30,080 Speaker 1: What I thought back to my office. No, I must 756 00:41:30,120 --> 00:41:33,120 Speaker 1: have asked really good questions because you're very receptive today. Yeah, 757 00:41:33,160 --> 00:41:37,239 Speaker 1: I mean it's just so it's a different forum. Yeah, 758 00:41:37,520 --> 00:41:40,600 Speaker 1: you're really shot on a podcast, Jay. I think radio 759 00:41:40,760 --> 00:41:44,360 Speaker 1: is easy, like radio rights, like reality TV and radio. 760 00:41:44,440 --> 00:41:47,080 Speaker 1: I think I think I clarify I did not, Like, 761 00:41:49,000 --> 00:41:51,480 Speaker 1: I'm really more forced in this role than anything. Right, 762 00:41:52,560 --> 00:41:54,359 Speaker 1: Like the camera just shows up and they're like, hey, 763 00:41:55,880 --> 00:42:00,640 Speaker 1: give us some funny stuff and then they leave. Right, Well, 764 00:42:00,719 --> 00:42:04,040 Speaker 1: you're good. So there's a lot of pressure, you do 765 00:42:04,080 --> 00:42:08,120 Speaker 1: you feel it? You feel it? Okay? Nothing, No, I 766 00:42:08,200 --> 00:42:11,800 Speaker 1: really don't. Um, yeah, I'm just kind of like a 767 00:42:11,840 --> 00:42:18,759 Speaker 1: sidekick really just Casey's sidekick. Remember that. Huh? Remember that 768 00:42:21,080 --> 00:42:28,920 Speaker 1: she's trying to take the man role. Now ever, so 769 00:42:29,080 --> 00:42:31,120 Speaker 1: you feel you said everything you want to be about 770 00:42:31,160 --> 00:42:34,759 Speaker 1: Very Cavalry. Yeah, I'm pretty clear on that. Okay, Well, 771 00:42:34,800 --> 00:42:37,080 Speaker 1: with that said, I think we can we can just 772 00:42:37,200 --> 00:42:39,279 Speaker 1: tell the people to tune in on March three for 773 00:42:39,360 --> 00:42:42,000 Speaker 1: the new season of Very Cavalry. Also followed Jay on 774 00:42:42,320 --> 00:42:46,439 Speaker 1: if had Instagram, how's my how's my instit? You're doing 775 00:42:46,520 --> 00:42:48,480 Speaker 1: really well? About to pass me? And how many people 776 00:42:48,520 --> 00:42:51,719 Speaker 1: are you? Definitely have over a hundred? Yeah you have, 777 00:42:52,560 --> 00:42:55,399 Speaker 1: Like once this was a sensitive Supdart All right, well 778 00:42:56,239 --> 00:42:58,399 Speaker 1: she does not want you to pass her. I don't 779 00:42:58,480 --> 00:43:01,719 Speaker 1: want you to pass so hundred percent point game one. 780 00:43:02,680 --> 00:43:05,200 Speaker 1: I will say. The best post was on Cambo on 781 00:43:05,320 --> 00:43:12,040 Speaker 1: that pink Flamingo Floaty jade Jay both. Floaty was epic 782 00:43:12,320 --> 00:43:14,120 Speaker 1: if you would put more stuff up and not be 783 00:43:14,239 --> 00:43:17,279 Speaker 1: so selfish about your give me content, like I could 784 00:43:17,280 --> 00:43:19,480 Speaker 1: only do so much here. This is a team effort. 785 00:43:19,600 --> 00:43:23,480 Speaker 1: What IF's I need pictures of you? Though, Like every 786 00:43:23,480 --> 00:43:26,840 Speaker 1: time I try to get ature, you're like an influence. 787 00:43:27,760 --> 00:43:30,840 Speaker 1: It you want followers or not. I'm content to be 788 00:43:30,880 --> 00:43:33,320 Speaker 1: a willing participants to take the pictures halftime, I'm not 789 00:43:33,360 --> 00:43:38,719 Speaker 1: even looking. We're all set shots. I just want everyone 790 00:43:38,800 --> 00:43:43,200 Speaker 1: s that's not true. He's basically a blogger. I don't 791 00:43:43,200 --> 00:43:46,879 Speaker 1: even have the password no. But you're like no, but yeah, 792 00:43:46,960 --> 00:43:52,040 Speaker 1: we did the flamingo. That was definitely like that wasn't 793 00:43:52,080 --> 00:43:54,560 Speaker 1: you just posing? Like, let's be honest, I mean that 794 00:43:54,640 --> 00:43:56,520 Speaker 1: was your posing, But that wasn't just like a candid 795 00:43:56,920 --> 00:44:01,080 Speaker 1: Like yeah, for your say, you should said you're an 796 00:44:01,080 --> 00:44:06,799 Speaker 1: admit that it was a staged photo. So I think 797 00:44:06,840 --> 00:44:08,759 Speaker 1: you should make a goal of like how many posts 798 00:44:08,760 --> 00:44:10,480 Speaker 1: you want to get up a week and then know 799 00:44:10,719 --> 00:44:12,600 Speaker 1: that like you're gonna have to do some photo shoots. 800 00:44:12,760 --> 00:44:14,800 Speaker 1: First of all, I haven't even posted in five or 801 00:44:14,880 --> 00:44:17,400 Speaker 1: six days, so it's hard enough out here for me. 802 00:44:18,760 --> 00:44:21,920 Speaker 1: If you want your password. Just say the word. We 803 00:44:22,360 --> 00:44:24,560 Speaker 1: don't complain. So we're gonna work on some j if 804 00:44:24,600 --> 00:44:27,880 Speaker 1: J had an Instagram content. Actually we'll start today and um, 805 00:44:27,960 --> 00:44:32,000 Speaker 1: you guys be able to look for podcast. Um Jay, 806 00:44:32,040 --> 00:44:37,560 Speaker 1: thanks for doing this. I really appreciate it. Okay, thank 807 00:44:37,600 --> 00:44:39,680 Speaker 1: you guys for looking. Okay, by y'all,