1 00:00:00,240 --> 00:00:02,639 Speaker 1: Buckle up, hold on time. We got it four years 2 00:00:02,640 --> 00:00:08,160 Speaker 1: straw by LETTA subject his ex wife is a real problem. 3 00:00:08,240 --> 00:00:11,040 Speaker 1: Dear Stephen Shirley, my husband and I got married two 4 00:00:11,119 --> 00:00:18,479 Speaker 1: years ago, and what what? His ex wife is a 5 00:00:18,520 --> 00:00:26,239 Speaker 1: real problem? Why we will not we will not be 6 00:00:26,280 --> 00:00:30,680 Speaker 1: discussing that came out of your mouth any longer. Uh, 7 00:00:30,800 --> 00:00:33,199 Speaker 1: just Stephen Shirley, my husband and I got married two 8 00:00:33,280 --> 00:00:35,519 Speaker 1: years ago. No, it wasn't, Marjorie, because you guys are 9 00:00:35,560 --> 00:00:40,920 Speaker 1: ten years strong? Eleven or it's eleven? Oh yeah, next 10 00:00:40,960 --> 00:00:44,559 Speaker 1: month is eleven. Huh congratulations, Well, anyway, they got This 11 00:00:44,640 --> 00:00:47,560 Speaker 1: couple got married two years ago and they couldn't be happier. 12 00:00:48,000 --> 00:00:50,879 Speaker 1: She says. This is my first marriage, his second. We 13 00:00:50,920 --> 00:00:54,000 Speaker 1: have a total of five kids and one on the way. 14 00:00:54,240 --> 00:00:57,520 Speaker 1: I love our blended family, but my husband's ex wife 15 00:00:57,520 --> 00:01:01,440 Speaker 1: has been a problem since day one. I rarely get 16 00:01:01,440 --> 00:01:04,440 Speaker 1: in my husband's dealing with his ex wife. Would you 17 00:01:04,480 --> 00:01:07,640 Speaker 1: be quiet with all that moaning? But now I may 18 00:01:07,720 --> 00:01:10,880 Speaker 1: have to. When he divorced her, she got the house 19 00:01:11,160 --> 00:01:14,559 Speaker 1: six hundred and seventy five dollars monthly and alimony, Yes, 20 00:01:15,400 --> 00:01:20,559 Speaker 1: six seventy monthly and alimony and joint custody of the kids. 21 00:01:20,640 --> 00:01:24,360 Speaker 1: You wish right, all right. In February, though, she lost 22 00:01:24,400 --> 00:01:26,640 Speaker 1: the house, so she and the kids had to move 23 00:01:26,680 --> 00:01:30,000 Speaker 1: in with her mom. Just recently, my husband went to 24 00:01:30,000 --> 00:01:32,679 Speaker 1: pick up the kids and the ex wife X asked 25 00:01:32,760 --> 00:01:35,679 Speaker 1: him to help her get an apartment. My husband is 26 00:01:35,720 --> 00:01:38,160 Speaker 1: a kind hearted man and he has helped her out 27 00:01:38,200 --> 00:01:41,280 Speaker 1: a lot uh financially over the years. So when he 28 00:01:41,319 --> 00:01:43,400 Speaker 1: came home and told me that she asked him for 29 00:01:43,440 --> 00:01:47,080 Speaker 1: more help, I told him we could discuss it because 30 00:01:47,160 --> 00:01:50,040 Speaker 1: we he didn't give her an answer right away, she 31 00:01:50,120 --> 00:01:52,880 Speaker 1: got mad. I told him that his kids could come 32 00:01:52,920 --> 00:01:56,600 Speaker 1: and live with us, but she is not our problem. 33 00:01:56,720 --> 00:01:59,760 Speaker 1: We have plenty of room for the kids. He said 34 00:01:59,760 --> 00:02:01,880 Speaker 1: that he and his ex wife wants the kids to 35 00:02:01,920 --> 00:02:04,800 Speaker 1: stay in their same school districts, so they can't live 36 00:02:04,840 --> 00:02:07,520 Speaker 1: with us full time. I reminded my husband that his 37 00:02:07,640 --> 00:02:11,200 Speaker 1: obligation is to his kids, not to her. I told 38 00:02:11,280 --> 00:02:14,360 Speaker 1: him that I would support him in whatever decision he makes. Though, 39 00:02:14,639 --> 00:02:16,320 Speaker 1: So do you think I put my husband in a 40 00:02:16,360 --> 00:02:20,720 Speaker 1: bad spot and my wrong Please help? No, you are 41 00:02:20,760 --> 00:02:23,600 Speaker 1: not wrong. I think you are a very strong and 42 00:02:23,680 --> 00:02:26,960 Speaker 1: supportive wife. You sound very pleasant and reasonable to me, 43 00:02:27,400 --> 00:02:29,480 Speaker 1: and you sound like a great mom. You sound like 44 00:02:29,480 --> 00:02:32,720 Speaker 1: a caring person. I mean you you want to take 45 00:02:32,760 --> 00:02:34,919 Speaker 1: in his kids in your home. I mean you're happy 46 00:02:34,960 --> 00:02:37,320 Speaker 1: to do it. So no, I don't think you're wrong. 47 00:02:38,400 --> 00:02:40,920 Speaker 1: I think she is out of line. Though. This woman 48 00:02:41,040 --> 00:02:44,880 Speaker 1: is trifling and she's trying to control everything. She doesn't 49 00:02:44,919 --> 00:02:46,720 Speaker 1: like the fact that her husband has moved on and 50 00:02:46,760 --> 00:02:49,239 Speaker 1: gotten a new wife, and you're pregnant and all that. Well, 51 00:02:49,240 --> 00:02:52,359 Speaker 1: guess what she can't control at all. The kids can 52 00:02:52,440 --> 00:02:55,000 Speaker 1: come and live with you. You're okay with that? Uh, 53 00:02:55,000 --> 00:02:57,880 Speaker 1: and your husband and the new baby. You know, the 54 00:02:57,960 --> 00:03:00,240 Speaker 1: kids can be in the mix. They'll have to get 55 00:03:00,240 --> 00:03:02,440 Speaker 1: into a new school. They can do that. They have 56 00:03:02,480 --> 00:03:05,200 Speaker 1: schools everywhere. They have good schools everywhere. They can get 57 00:03:05,240 --> 00:03:08,320 Speaker 1: into a new and a good school. Ex wife will 58 00:03:08,320 --> 00:03:10,399 Speaker 1: have to get a job. She's gonna have to save 59 00:03:10,440 --> 00:03:12,440 Speaker 1: her money while she's living with her mom so she 60 00:03:12,480 --> 00:03:15,120 Speaker 1: can get her own place. You say your husband this 61 00:03:15,200 --> 00:03:17,680 Speaker 1: is a part though. You say your husband is kind hearted, 62 00:03:17,919 --> 00:03:20,160 Speaker 1: which means he might give in to some of his 63 00:03:20,280 --> 00:03:23,040 Speaker 1: excess demands. So I just want you to stay there, 64 00:03:23,400 --> 00:03:27,919 Speaker 1: be supportive, speak up, and you know, so nothing else 65 00:03:27,919 --> 00:03:30,160 Speaker 1: will go down. As far as the wife. Ex wife's 66 00:03:30,160 --> 00:03:33,280 Speaker 1: demands are okay, just stay there, listen to discuss it, 67 00:03:33,440 --> 00:03:36,360 Speaker 1: and do what you're doing. You're doing fine, You're not wrong, Steve. 68 00:03:37,440 --> 00:03:43,920 Speaker 1: Well you know surely I hate this letter on so 69 00:03:44,160 --> 00:03:48,320 Speaker 1: many I know you do, Sir, Sorry about that. Lord 70 00:03:48,440 --> 00:03:57,520 Speaker 1: knows Jesus, this letter don't even skim the surface. Hell 71 00:03:59,760 --> 00:04:05,920 Speaker 1: good debauchery. Then my life has been in because of 72 00:04:06,040 --> 00:04:10,600 Speaker 1: this hill. First of all, excuse me for not feeling 73 00:04:10,640 --> 00:04:15,120 Speaker 1: sorry for your husband because he lost She got the 74 00:04:15,280 --> 00:04:20,719 Speaker 1: house in six hundred seving five dollar month. I've lost 75 00:04:20,800 --> 00:04:30,760 Speaker 1: houses m and way way more than six houses. Yes, 76 00:04:31,400 --> 00:04:35,920 Speaker 1: three to be exactly, gone more dog, I worked for 77 00:04:35,960 --> 00:04:39,680 Speaker 1: them house. But everything's relative, you know that? What is 78 00:04:39,720 --> 00:04:43,040 Speaker 1: you talking about? You? Everything's relative to them. It may 79 00:04:43,120 --> 00:04:47,120 Speaker 1: feel like three. Hell yeah, that's what I'm saying. Oh yeah, 80 00:04:47,160 --> 00:04:49,440 Speaker 1: I agree with that and this sex and if I 81 00:04:49,600 --> 00:04:52,760 Speaker 1: could be choking him, but I bet you it ain't 82 00:04:52,839 --> 00:04:56,280 Speaker 1: choking him like mine. I don't give it. Then I 83 00:04:56,279 --> 00:05:01,839 Speaker 1: ain't no more relative now probably shouldn't see. Yes, it 84 00:05:02,000 --> 00:05:06,080 Speaker 1: is the whole damn subject. Wife is a real problem. 85 00:05:06,120 --> 00:05:12,440 Speaker 1: How that ain't about me? Because anyway, over joy Just 86 00:05:12,600 --> 00:05:14,719 Speaker 1: recently my husband went to pick up the kids and 87 00:05:14,760 --> 00:05:18,400 Speaker 1: his ex wife asked him to help her get an apartment. Well, 88 00:05:18,520 --> 00:05:22,520 Speaker 1: she lost the house, you know, or I don't know. 89 00:05:22,800 --> 00:05:26,920 Speaker 1: I don't know if she lost, Say she lost Okay, 90 00:05:26,920 --> 00:05:29,240 Speaker 1: she lost the house. She got it, but she can't 91 00:05:29,320 --> 00:05:31,320 Speaker 1: keep up with what they take to run that house. 92 00:05:32,080 --> 00:05:37,800 Speaker 1: So anyway, he paying alimony, but he's also paying child support. 93 00:05:38,400 --> 00:05:41,960 Speaker 1: Alimony is different from child support. All that is is 94 00:05:42,000 --> 00:05:46,120 Speaker 1: alimony six seventy five a month. The child support is different. 95 00:05:47,000 --> 00:05:49,480 Speaker 1: So y'all please understand this man is cutting way more 96 00:05:49,480 --> 00:05:53,360 Speaker 1: money than that, all right now, So she asked him. 97 00:05:54,880 --> 00:05:57,640 Speaker 1: Her husband went to pick up the kids and the 98 00:05:57,640 --> 00:05:59,560 Speaker 1: ex wife asked him to help her get an apartment. 99 00:06:00,120 --> 00:06:02,480 Speaker 1: As a kind hearted man, and he's helped out a 100 00:06:02,480 --> 00:06:06,159 Speaker 1: lot financially over the years. And the reason he's helped 101 00:06:06,160 --> 00:06:09,839 Speaker 1: out financially over the years is because she has two kids. 102 00:06:09,960 --> 00:06:14,040 Speaker 1: They got joint custody, but she the kids live with her. Now. 103 00:06:14,680 --> 00:06:19,160 Speaker 1: Is she using the kids in this situation as a pun? Yes, 104 00:06:20,440 --> 00:06:25,200 Speaker 1: but know this, how the mother lives is how the 105 00:06:25,360 --> 00:06:29,800 Speaker 1: kids live. So he has a dilemma here. He's a 106 00:06:29,880 --> 00:06:33,000 Speaker 1: kind hearted man. He loved his kids. Now he threw 107 00:06:33,000 --> 00:06:35,680 Speaker 1: with the wife, but guess what, she got two kids, 108 00:06:36,160 --> 00:06:38,160 Speaker 1: So he got a problem. And I'm gonna tell you 109 00:06:38,240 --> 00:06:40,920 Speaker 1: what he ought to do when we come back, because 110 00:06:40,960 --> 00:06:49,760 Speaker 1: I had it. I know, I know, I'm Madre and 111 00:06:49,200 --> 00:06:57,680 Speaker 1: you see if she just changed from figures. All right, 112 00:06:57,839 --> 00:07:01,000 Speaker 1: I'm getting my life alright. Come on, let's have part 113 00:07:01,040 --> 00:07:03,760 Speaker 1: two of your response to today's Strawberry letters. His ex 114 00:07:03,800 --> 00:07:06,400 Speaker 1: wife is a real problem because they've been divorced and 115 00:07:06,480 --> 00:07:08,920 Speaker 1: she wants some help getting a damn apartment and he 116 00:07:09,040 --> 00:07:12,200 Speaker 1: paying six hundred seventy five dollar alimonia and some childs 117 00:07:12,200 --> 00:07:17,320 Speaker 1: are born. He lost a house. Well, boo hoo hoo hey, 118 00:07:18,960 --> 00:07:25,880 Speaker 1: sympathy man, Hell, it is not about you, though, it 119 00:07:25,960 --> 00:07:30,160 Speaker 1: is not, and help this man, help this woman. But 120 00:07:30,280 --> 00:07:32,720 Speaker 1: let me help you understand. So this has really thrown 121 00:07:32,760 --> 00:07:35,840 Speaker 1: you off. Yeah, this this letter right here is disgusting 122 00:07:35,880 --> 00:07:39,240 Speaker 1: to me. Now, he went over to pick the kids 123 00:07:39,280 --> 00:07:42,800 Speaker 1: up one time and his ex wife asked him to 124 00:07:42,840 --> 00:07:45,680 Speaker 1: help her get an apartment. Now, my husband is a 125 00:07:45,760 --> 00:07:48,560 Speaker 1: kind hearted man. He has helped out a lot financially 126 00:07:48,560 --> 00:07:50,680 Speaker 1: over the years. So when he came home and told 127 00:07:50,680 --> 00:07:53,200 Speaker 1: me that she'd asked him for more help, I told 128 00:07:53,280 --> 00:07:55,640 Speaker 1: him we could discuss it because he didn't give her 129 00:07:55,680 --> 00:07:59,480 Speaker 1: an answer right away, she got mad. I told him 130 00:07:59,480 --> 00:08:02,120 Speaker 1: that his keykids could come and live with us, But 131 00:08:02,280 --> 00:08:04,720 Speaker 1: she is not our problem. We have a baby on 132 00:08:04,720 --> 00:08:07,280 Speaker 1: the way and we cannot keep helping her. But we 133 00:08:07,360 --> 00:08:10,400 Speaker 1: have plenty of room for the kids. He said that 134 00:08:10,480 --> 00:08:12,120 Speaker 1: he and his ex wife want the kids to stay 135 00:08:12,120 --> 00:08:14,640 Speaker 1: in the same school district. Now here we go. Here's 136 00:08:14,640 --> 00:08:18,160 Speaker 1: a problem. The school district that the kids is in. 137 00:08:18,280 --> 00:08:22,040 Speaker 1: The kids have friends. So anytime you involved in X, 138 00:08:22,160 --> 00:08:25,840 Speaker 1: you gotta consider these kids kids like the school. The 139 00:08:26,000 --> 00:08:30,800 Speaker 1: kids got friends at the school everything. If he don't 140 00:08:30,840 --> 00:08:34,240 Speaker 1: help the woman get an apartment, what's gonna happen with 141 00:08:34,280 --> 00:08:38,640 Speaker 1: the kids. See, that's the dilemma that the brother's end. 142 00:08:39,040 --> 00:08:41,360 Speaker 1: And at least he bought it home to you to 143 00:08:41,559 --> 00:08:45,560 Speaker 1: discuss it with you. But now you suggest that their 144 00:08:45,640 --> 00:08:50,079 Speaker 1: kids come live with y'all. Well, that's not how it works. 145 00:08:50,640 --> 00:08:55,840 Speaker 1: They have joint custody, but in real life, she got custody. 146 00:08:56,400 --> 00:08:59,360 Speaker 1: He goes by theret a visit and then I tell 147 00:08:59,360 --> 00:09:01,880 Speaker 1: you another thing. You can't just take the kids from 148 00:09:01,920 --> 00:09:06,000 Speaker 1: the mama. Let's just be real about that. It's really 149 00:09:06,080 --> 00:09:10,360 Speaker 1: unfair because the woman is having financial difficulties to come 150 00:09:10,400 --> 00:09:13,440 Speaker 1: in and take the kids from their mama, because the 151 00:09:13,520 --> 00:09:16,199 Speaker 1: kids love their mama mer regardless as to what's happening. 152 00:09:16,240 --> 00:09:18,199 Speaker 1: And you take a child from a mama, man, you're 153 00:09:18,200 --> 00:09:21,240 Speaker 1: messing with the kid's head. You really are. So the 154 00:09:21,320 --> 00:09:24,600 Speaker 1: man knows that, yeah, yeah, yeah, And I and you 155 00:09:24,760 --> 00:09:26,720 Speaker 1: and you're a good woman because you've told the kids 156 00:09:26,760 --> 00:09:28,839 Speaker 1: they can come over here and you're cool with it, 157 00:09:28,880 --> 00:09:32,320 Speaker 1: and that and that and all that's good, but that 158 00:09:32,440 --> 00:09:37,160 Speaker 1: the But the real deal is, Look, he's gonna have 159 00:09:37,200 --> 00:09:39,920 Speaker 1: to help her get this apartment. At the end of 160 00:09:39,960 --> 00:09:43,520 Speaker 1: the day, he's got to help her get their apartment 161 00:09:45,040 --> 00:09:49,120 Speaker 1: because it keeps the kids in the school district. And 162 00:09:49,240 --> 00:09:52,240 Speaker 1: you can make her pay by not helping her, but 163 00:09:52,400 --> 00:09:57,520 Speaker 1: you also hurt the kids. And that's the dilemma he's in. 164 00:09:58,640 --> 00:10:01,520 Speaker 1: And I appreciate the sister writing a letter and saying 165 00:10:01,559 --> 00:10:03,959 Speaker 1: I told him I could support him in whatever decision 166 00:10:04,040 --> 00:10:09,000 Speaker 1: he makes, though, so you don't think so. So do 167 00:10:09,080 --> 00:10:11,199 Speaker 1: you think I put my husband a bad Spoty Am 168 00:10:11,200 --> 00:10:14,280 Speaker 1: I wrong? Well, you're not wrong fulfeeling what you're feeling 169 00:10:15,080 --> 00:10:17,120 Speaker 1: because you're a woman and you want her to stand 170 00:10:17,200 --> 00:10:19,839 Speaker 1: up on her own and quit using your husband, because 171 00:10:19,880 --> 00:10:23,720 Speaker 1: you know that's what she's doing. But it affects the kids, 172 00:10:24,280 --> 00:10:28,200 Speaker 1: and she know that. See, and that kind hearted man 173 00:10:28,720 --> 00:10:34,000 Speaker 1: that keeps treating her family, he your husband. Now you 174 00:10:34,000 --> 00:10:37,440 Speaker 1: you have a family with this kind hearted man, so 175 00:10:37,520 --> 00:10:40,160 Speaker 1: you get an example of how he is. Even when 176 00:10:40,160 --> 00:10:43,360 Speaker 1: they're trying to hurt him. He still got a kind heart. 177 00:10:43,880 --> 00:10:46,480 Speaker 1: Even when she dogs him out and try to abuse 178 00:10:46,559 --> 00:10:49,319 Speaker 1: him and use him, he still got a kind hunt. 179 00:10:49,400 --> 00:10:52,360 Speaker 1: Well that's your husband, now, you see what I'm saying. 180 00:10:53,240 --> 00:10:56,520 Speaker 1: So now you're not wrong ful feeling that way, but 181 00:10:56,840 --> 00:10:59,880 Speaker 1: you should also support him in that because it will 182 00:11:00,000 --> 00:11:03,960 Speaker 1: make it easier for him because he's torn. He got 183 00:11:04,000 --> 00:11:06,959 Speaker 1: you in his family and everything, and you loving his 184 00:11:07,080 --> 00:11:09,400 Speaker 1: kids the way you're doing, he loving yours, and y'all 185 00:11:09,440 --> 00:11:12,720 Speaker 1: got one on the way. But you can't keep giving 186 00:11:12,760 --> 00:11:15,280 Speaker 1: money like that. But if you don't help her, then 187 00:11:15,400 --> 00:11:19,679 Speaker 1: what's she gonna do? And then and then not helping her, 188 00:11:19,720 --> 00:11:22,160 Speaker 1: you don't help the kids. You don't want that on 189 00:11:22,240 --> 00:11:25,840 Speaker 1: your No, man, no, you don't want that. But you 190 00:11:25,920 --> 00:11:28,960 Speaker 1: think it's wrong for if the kids come and live 191 00:11:29,000 --> 00:11:32,720 Speaker 1: with the dad. You think it's because I know several 192 00:11:32,800 --> 00:11:35,040 Speaker 1: people who have done that. I mean Yeah, that's cool 193 00:11:35,200 --> 00:11:38,679 Speaker 1: if she wants to allow that to happen. But she 194 00:11:38,720 --> 00:11:40,840 Speaker 1: says they have plenty of space for the kids. I 195 00:11:40,880 --> 00:11:44,800 Speaker 1: got all that, But let me help you understand something too, ma'am. 196 00:11:44,800 --> 00:11:47,160 Speaker 1: Giving her the money for the apartment gonna be cheaper 197 00:11:47,200 --> 00:11:49,840 Speaker 1: than bringing them kids into the house if it's a 198 00:11:49,920 --> 00:11:54,120 Speaker 1: financial concern you got. But you're real concern is you tried. 199 00:11:54,200 --> 00:11:59,199 Speaker 1: You tried to helping his health out though. Yeah, so 200 00:11:59,360 --> 00:12:01,360 Speaker 1: your poll all all your money into kids when you 201 00:12:01,800 --> 00:12:04,880 Speaker 1: put you tied upon it into her. And I understand that. 202 00:12:04,960 --> 00:12:09,520 Speaker 1: And she didn't say how she lost the house. She said, core, 203 00:12:09,600 --> 00:12:12,760 Speaker 1: you know how she lost it because she can't pay Well, 204 00:12:12,880 --> 00:12:16,080 Speaker 1: she ain't trifling, it's just that to own a house 205 00:12:16,200 --> 00:12:19,800 Speaker 1: is more than making a note. Yeah, you know, the 206 00:12:19,840 --> 00:12:23,719 Speaker 1: maintenance of her house. Man, it's expensive being a homeowner. 207 00:12:24,400 --> 00:12:28,439 Speaker 1: Or so she and overhead. But but you gotta understand 208 00:12:28,480 --> 00:12:32,240 Speaker 1: the dilemma that the guy has that has the baby 209 00:12:32,520 --> 00:12:36,920 Speaker 1: with the other woman. You gotta understand that dilemma. And 210 00:12:36,960 --> 00:12:39,320 Speaker 1: I know a lot of sisters in that position, because look, 211 00:12:40,080 --> 00:12:42,200 Speaker 1: hey there's a lot of blended families out here now. 212 00:12:42,280 --> 00:12:45,280 Speaker 1: But man, you just gotta understand the dude between the 213 00:12:45,360 --> 00:12:48,520 Speaker 1: rock and hard pick and the last thing he needed 214 00:12:48,559 --> 00:12:51,440 Speaker 1: from his You too, But this ain't how she talking 215 00:12:51,480 --> 00:12:57,280 Speaker 1: at the house. See all, you're getting this a letter 216 00:12:57,320 --> 00:13:04,160 Speaker 1: for she's so mad that she wrote the letter. So 217 00:13:04,200 --> 00:13:07,960 Speaker 1: how are we gonna keep helping this halfar? Yeah, that's it, 218 00:13:08,160 --> 00:13:11,560 Speaker 1: that's who she thinks she is. Why does she get 219 00:13:11,559 --> 00:13:13,559 Speaker 1: off her tail? We ain't got no money for her. 220 00:13:13,720 --> 00:13:17,920 Speaker 1: Bring me kids over here, out of school? We got 221 00:13:17,920 --> 00:13:20,640 Speaker 1: schools overhire. But why didn't she get with him before 222 00:13:20,679 --> 00:13:23,880 Speaker 1: she lost the house? Why didn't she talk to to 223 00:13:23,960 --> 00:13:27,319 Speaker 1: the ex husband before she lost the house? She did, 224 00:13:27,360 --> 00:13:29,360 Speaker 1: the lady said in the letter. She helped him out 225 00:13:29,440 --> 00:13:34,800 Speaker 1: financially before. Still, and you're gonna have to keep helping her? Yeah, 226 00:13:35,080 --> 00:13:38,520 Speaker 1: she know you help. So she's playing on your heart. 227 00:13:38,600 --> 00:13:40,800 Speaker 1: All right, we gotta get out of here. Email us 228 00:13:40,880 --> 00:13:43,800 Speaker 1: or instagram us your thoughts on today's strawberry letter at 229 00:13:43,800 --> 00:13:46,800 Speaker 1: my girls, surely, and thank you. 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