Speaker 1: Rooking Jewels. Second d update. The girl on the phone
Speaker 1: for today's second date update met the dude that she
Speaker 1: wants to call in one of the scariest places ever
Speaker 1: a bookstore, I say, like a funeral home bookstore. Who
Speaker 1: goes into those places these days? I do they scare me?
Speaker 1: They creep me out. Anyway, Diana, how are you? I'm good?
Speaker 1: Are you good? Good? So you said you met the
Speaker 1: guy at a bookstore. I went to a book signing
Speaker 1: for a cookbooks because I really liked this check could
Speaker 1: be Palio and I'm really into that right now, Paleo.
Speaker 1: Is he kind of like a Doocy Jim dude? No,
Speaker 1: that's what was so weird. That's just what I figured.
Speaker 1: Like all I had today was bacon Like. I woke
Speaker 1: up and I ate like bacon. Then I washed my
Speaker 1: mouth with bacon mouthwash, and then at a bacon sound
Speaker 1: before I hit the door. Paleo. Remember she made me
Speaker 1: a Doocy Jim girl. So I don't know that I
Speaker 1: dressed your opinion. I'm not. I just I have to
Speaker 1: be gluten free, so I'd rather just be Paleo because
Speaker 1: it's way more interesting than gluten free. So you met
Speaker 1: him at this book signing for this Paleo cookbook. Yes, okay,
Speaker 1: And so we were talking inline and his name is Mike.
Speaker 1: And when we left, he asked me for my number
Speaker 1: and I was like, okay, sure, why not? And so
Speaker 1: he called me like the next day and he was like, hey,
Speaker 1: can we make dinner plans? And I said sure, way
Speaker 1: didn't go Mike calling the next day and everything. I
Speaker 1: know that never happens, right, Yeah, So he asked me
Speaker 1: to pick me out to dinner, and I actually even
Speaker 1: let him pick me up at my apartment, which hardly
Speaker 1: ever happens, right. Yeah. You don't want somebody to know
Speaker 1: where you live if you've only met them, like for
Speaker 1: a brief moment in times. Yeah, but if the dudes
Speaker 1: from a bookstore, how bad can it be? And I
Speaker 1: love My initial reaction is like that's so romantic and
Speaker 1: Jubils is you're going to get yourself killed? Yeah? Not safe.
Speaker 1: I agree with doable because that's how I normally am.
Speaker 1: Usually the first time you meet somebody, you meet out somewhere,
Speaker 1: so you're not in the same recommend we trust, no
Speaker 1: one broke you get me? So how did it go?
Speaker 1: How did her go? So he picked me up and
Speaker 1: we start talking in the car on the way to dinner,
Speaker 1: and I said something. I guess this was stupid to say.
Speaker 1: I don't know, like I said, this is the first
Speaker 1: time I've been with a guy in a long time.
Speaker 1: Did he smile? Did he suddenly start smiling? Like all right?
Speaker 1: Why did we even bother with dinner? No? I let
Speaker 1: just say, like out with a guy, not like with
Speaker 1: a guy. I don't know like I now, but I
Speaker 1: hear myself saying, and I'm like, oh, yeah, that might
Speaker 1: have been that, you know, like he might have knows
Speaker 1: what he was thinking about that. He's like, wow, she
Speaker 1: doesn't even know how the birds and the bees work,
Speaker 1: so like like what is he thinking, like I was
Speaker 1: a lesbian and now I'm out with a guy. Or
Speaker 1: did he address it or did it seem to just
Speaker 1: kind of go away? No, really say anything. He was
Speaker 1: just smiling. So I was just really happy when we
Speaker 1: got to the restaurant. Was dinner good or did you
Speaker 1: make some more mistakes like oh, this is the first
Speaker 1: time I've ever been with a carrot at any more
Speaker 1: of that kind of stuff happened? No? No, so good.
Speaker 1: Dinner was great. We were laughing. We were talking, you know,
Speaker 1: everything was fine and we were having a great time.
Speaker 1: I thought so, And then at one point something just happened,
Speaker 1: like out of nowhere, his mood just changed, change changed.
Speaker 1: How he just wasn't laughing, He wasn't He just like
Speaker 1: just became like stoic looking all of a sudden. Really,
Speaker 1: did you say something offensive? I don't think so. I
Speaker 1: think at that point we were just talking about bacon. Actually,
Speaker 1: so funny that you said that earlier. Yeah, just out
Speaker 1: of the his whole demeanor changed. Yeah, he just got
Speaker 1: really quiet, wasn't making eye contact with him any anymore,
Speaker 1: He wasn't smiling. He started looking at his phone a lot,
Speaker 1: And how was everything at the end of the night.
Speaker 1: Was he the same way or did it pick back up? Well,
Speaker 1: I mean when he kept looking at his phone and
Speaker 1: I just asked him, I was like, we can go
Speaker 1: if you want to go. Yeah, what did he say?
Speaker 1: He was like, yeah, that's great. And so what did
Speaker 1: you do, Diana? I don't know. I really wish that's
Speaker 1: why I need your help, but I don't know what
Speaker 1: I did. Did you, I mean, did you ever ask
Speaker 1: him like, what's going on? Are you okay? Or I
Speaker 1: mean I did ask him. I was like, is everything okay?
Speaker 1: Are you feeling okay? He was like, yeah, I'm fine,
Speaker 1: and just it was so cold. It was completely different
Speaker 1: than like the rest of the evening. Yeah, sounds like
Speaker 1: you guys had a really not awkward drive home. I mean,
Speaker 1: but he opened the cardoard for me and like gave
Speaker 1: me a hug and said good night and walked back
Speaker 1: to his car. So you at least got a hug.
Speaker 1: Judging about your story, I was going to guess that
Speaker 1: he just kicked you out going like yeah, all right,
Speaker 1: I'll see it. That was a fun date. And you
Speaker 1: haven't heard anything from him since. No, sounds like he
Speaker 1: didn't hear anything from him, like halfway through your date.
Speaker 1: But all right, well we'll play a song, come back,
Speaker 1: call him and get your second date update. All right,
Speaker 1: thank you? Ye hang on rooking Jubil in the morning.
Speaker 1: It's always really confusing when you're talking to somebody and
Speaker 1: everything's going well and then all of a sudden the
Speaker 1: mood changes. Yeah. I goes in this conversation with my
Speaker 1: dad the other day, this deep conversation. Everything's cool, and
Speaker 1: then I slowly reached across and tweaked his nipple. What
Speaker 1: his whole demeanor just changed For me, perfectly normal, but
Speaker 1: for him, apparently that was weird. And then he didn't
Speaker 1: want to talk to me for the rest of the day. Whatever.
Speaker 1: Most dads love nipple tweaking. The same kind of thing
Speaker 1: happened to Diana, who's on the phone for a second
Speaker 1: eight update right now. She went out with a guy
Speaker 1: named Mike. They were having a great time, and then
Speaker 1: all of a sudden, in the middle of dinner, his
Speaker 1: mood just completely changed. He was on his phone, not
Speaker 1: paying attention to her. And then she said, well, I
Speaker 1: guess we can go, and he's like, yeah, we should
Speaker 1: probably just go, and then he dropped her off at
Speaker 1: her house and he hasn't been heard from since, so
Speaker 1: we're about to call him and find out what went wrong. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I really just don't know what happened. And I just
Speaker 1: really looked like, you know, figure it out and get
Speaker 1: some closure with it. I don't have any guesses for
Speaker 1: you on this one. Like he seemed like such a
Speaker 1: gentleman leading up to it. He picked you up, he
Speaker 1: opened doors, that's the thing. He was a gentleman when
Speaker 1: we were leaving too. He dropped me off. He gave out.
Speaker 1: He was very sweet. I don't get it. I just
Speaker 1: don't get it. You didn't tweak his nipple or anything.
Speaker 1: Not my collection, though. I'm gonna dial his phone of
Speaker 1: her right now, get him on the phone and get
Speaker 1: your second day up date. Are you ready? Yes? Kind
Speaker 1: of Hello? Can I speak to Mike please? Yeah? Him? Hey, Mike,
Speaker 1: how are you? This is Jewel from Brook and Jewel
Speaker 1: in the Morning. What from the radio show? Yeah, Mike?
Speaker 1: Are you a listener to the show? I think I
Speaker 1: may have heard you for like a brief second, but
Speaker 1: then I turned the station roll quick. I'm sweet. Thanks Mike. Well,
Speaker 1: we actually got an email from somebody who listens to
Speaker 1: our show a lot more than you have. Her name
Speaker 1: is Diana, and you recently went out on a date
Speaker 1: with her, and she wanted me to call you to
Speaker 1: find out why you're not calling her back. Oh all right,
Speaker 1: that's pretty weird, Yeste. It's a segment we do on
Speaker 1: our show all the time, called the second date Update.
Speaker 1: If you'd listened for more than two seconds, you would
Speaker 1: have known that, Mike. So, Diana is confused why you're
Speaker 1: not calling her back? Because I didn't want to go
Speaker 1: out on a second day. There, we've got that out
Speaker 1: of the way. But what we're wondering is is there
Speaker 1: a certain reason did she do anything wrong or did
Speaker 1: you just not phil vibe? It was just I don't know,
Speaker 1: it just it was just kind of like an uncomfortable date.
Speaker 1: I just didn't feel like we had any chemistry. And yeah,
Speaker 1: do you mind if I recap what she told us
Speaker 1: and then you tell me if it's correct. Yeah, go
Speaker 1: for it. Okay. She said that you guys met at
Speaker 1: a bookstore and then you went out for dinner, and
Speaker 1: when you were at dinner, everything was going great until
Speaker 1: like the middle of the date, and then you just
Speaker 1: kind of shut off and stopped talking to her. She
Speaker 1: said that, Yeah, I mean she was the one that
Speaker 1: stopped talking. What do you see she stopped talking to me.
Speaker 1: That was not what her story was at all. According
Speaker 1: to her, you stopped talking and the whole time she
Speaker 1: was like trying to get you to open up again,
Speaker 1: and you were on your phone and then the date ended.
Speaker 1: I was there, and she's definitely the one that stopped
Speaker 1: talking to me. Like, I don't know, maybe it was
Speaker 1: something that I said that made her feel uncomfortable. I
Speaker 1: really don't know what she said that. You guys are
Speaker 1: just talking about bacon, and then things got weird. We
Speaker 1: were talking about day in, but that wasn't the topic
Speaker 1: that made the date uncomfortable. That wasn't what started the
Speaker 1: bad vibes. Okay, what was it did? Yeah, well, whenever
Speaker 1: I go out on dates, like I always like to ask,
Speaker 1: you know, like interesting questions that you know, just kind
Speaker 1: of make you think, you know, and also initiate like
Speaker 1: good conversation. And I asked her what is your greatest fear?
Speaker 1: And she said bears? And right after she said bears,
Speaker 1: the entire vibe changed, the entire vibe. That's when things
Speaker 1: got really uncomfortable. She was very awkward after that, very
Speaker 1: easily startled. It was easily started made her frightful. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I don't know what it was, but like even for example,
Speaker 1: like the waiter brought her her food and from behind
Speaker 1: just kind of placed her food down in front of her,
Speaker 1: and she was startled. Like that startled her a lot.
Speaker 1: It was almost as if like a bear delivered the
Speaker 1: food was like previously attacked by a bear, and she's
Speaker 1: having flashbacks. All of a sudden, she didn't give me
Speaker 1: any information, but just she said bear and then she
Speaker 1: completely checked out. That was pretty much it. Oh my god, Mike,
Speaker 1: you're lying. What was that, Mike? That is Diana. Diana's
Speaker 1: on the phone right now. Yeah, I am, And what
Speaker 1: the hell are you been talking about? So you're denying
Speaker 1: that you didn't check out when I brought him up
Speaker 1: your greatest fear and you said bear, So that didn't happen. No,
Speaker 1: that didn't happen at all. I was talking the entire
Speaker 1: time and you checked out completely. Then how come whenever
Speaker 1: I brought up your biggest fear and you said bears,
Speaker 1: you were staring off into the distance. You weren't even
Speaker 1: looking at me. You weren't paying attention at all. It's
Speaker 1: like I didn't even feel like I was on a
Speaker 1: date anymore. No, we were talking about bacon, and then
Speaker 1: all of a sudden, you checked out and started looking
Speaker 1: at your phone, and you didn't have any eye contact anymore.
Speaker 1: You checked out, and we're talking about Bacon's here. I'm
Speaker 1: so confused. Is that the bears are the bacon guys?
Speaker 1: I don't I honestly don't know, but I feel like
Speaker 1: she needs to go see a therapist about this bear situation. Now.
Speaker 1: I don't know why she's denying this right now, but
Speaker 1: I am one certain that she is terrified of bears
Speaker 1: or the word bear. I really don't know at this point, Dan,
Speaker 1: are you scared of bears? Just to clarify, I don't
Speaker 1: like bears, but you know what, they don't petrify me,
Speaker 1: and I don't think about them and like a scared
Speaker 1: and stuff, you know what I mean. It's it sounded
Speaker 1: like you were screaming at every move that other people
Speaker 1: made because you thought you were about to be attacked.
Speaker 1: That is the most ridiculous thing I've ever heard. Like
Speaker 1: I I'm not scared of bears, all right? Well, I
Speaker 1: hate to ask an awkward question that might shut everything down.
Speaker 1: It sounds like that's what we have a problem with here.
Speaker 1: But Mike, would you like to go out on a
Speaker 1: second date with Diana? We will pay for it. I
Speaker 1: don't think that's a great idea. Obviously she's very unaware
Speaker 1: of her trigger words. Oh my god, what fe Because
Speaker 1: I'd rather if I go out with you again, I'm
Speaker 1: going to wear a bear costume. Maybe that might that
Speaker 1: might help you get through whatever it is. Yet you experience,
Speaker 1: well so strange. Mike. Thank you for your time, and
Speaker 1: I do agree with you. Maybe the bear costume is
Speaker 1: a good thing. Diana. I'm sorry you did not get
Speaker 1: a second date. That's okay. Thank you so much for
Speaker 1: calling and letting me know what happened. I feel so
Speaker 1: unresolved by all of this. I don't know if it
Speaker 1: was a Bacon of the bears, but it's driving me lazy. Listen, Diana,
Speaker 1: if you need a good counsel to help you with
Speaker 1: your bears, I got like four that I go to
Speaker 1: so I can help give her the number. Okay, thank
Speaker 1: you in the morning text in at seven eight five
Speaker 1: nine two that says, I've never been so confused in
Speaker 1: my life. I'm with you. It's brick and jewel in
Speaker 1: the morning. I think that makes everybody getting lots of
Speaker 1: text in at seven eight five to nine two saying
Speaker 1: what I don't understand what the problem was. We're talking
Speaker 1: about the second eight update. This girl Diana wanted to
Speaker 1: call a guy named Mike. They went out to eat.
Speaker 1: They had dinner, and she says that while they were
Speaker 1: talking about bacon, because they're Paleo, he just got cold
Speaker 1: and stopped talking. To her and ended the date. Then
Speaker 1: we got him on the phone and he says that
Speaker 1: he likes to ask people on first dates what their
Speaker 1: biggest fear is because I can tell a lot about
Speaker 1: a person. It's interesting. I've never been asking. It's a
Speaker 1: good question. He says that she said her biggest fear
Speaker 1: was bears, and then she stopped talking. It kind of
Speaker 1: looked like she was startled by everything because she's so
Speaker 1: scared of bears. He said that he thought maybe her
Speaker 1: trigger word. Yeah, and she does not agree with any
Speaker 1: of his assessment on what happened. She's like, I wasn't
Speaker 1: cold at all. I wasn't even thinking about bears after that,
Speaker 1: And he's like, yeah, you were. You weren't even talking
Speaker 1: to me. You were just looking off in the distancing
Speaker 1: about being mauled by a bear. And then when the
Speaker 1: waiter came up, you got startled because you were so
Speaker 1: scared of bears. And then she's saying, well, I was
Speaker 1: talking about bacon and you just stopped talking and then
Speaker 1: into the date. So maybe they both have triggers and
Speaker 1: they don't even know it, Like bears is her trigger
Speaker 1: word and bacon is this guy's trigger words. Someone texted
Speaker 1: in a good question. Were they even on the same date?
Speaker 1: All right, and maybe we just got two random people
Speaker 1: who happened to have gone out with the same names.
Speaker 1: Somebody else texted in and said, I think the only
Speaker 1: thing you need to do is go to the restaurant
Speaker 1: and interview the waiter. I think we do need to
Speaker 1: take it a step and they'll be like, I don't know.
Speaker 1: I asked them if they wanted a Caesar salad and
Speaker 1: they both stopped talking to me. It's very confusing. But
Speaker 1: if you want to do a second date update, all
Speaker 1: you have to do is email the show and we
Speaker 1: will call the person who didn't call you. Removing ninety
Speaker 1: two point five