WEBVTT - Second Date Update PODCAST: unBEARably Awkward

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<v Speaker 1>Rooking Jewels. Second d update. The girl on the phone

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<v Speaker 1>for today's second date update met the dude that she

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<v Speaker 1>wants to call in one of the scariest places ever

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<v Speaker 1>a bookstore, I say, like a funeral home bookstore. Who

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<v Speaker 1>goes into those places these days? I do they scare me?

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<v Speaker 1>They creep me out. Anyway, Diana, how are you? I'm good?

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<v Speaker 1>Are you good? Good? So you said you met the

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<v Speaker 1>guy at a bookstore. I went to a book signing

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<v Speaker 1>for a cookbooks because I really liked this check could

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<v Speaker 1>be Palio and I'm really into that right now, Paleo.

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<v Speaker 1>Is he kind of like a Doocy Jim dude? No,

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<v Speaker 1>that's what was so weird. That's just what I figured.

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<v Speaker 1>Like all I had today was bacon Like. I woke

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<v Speaker 1>up and I ate like bacon. Then I washed my

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<v Speaker 1>mouth with bacon mouthwash, and then at a bacon sound

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<v Speaker 1>before I hit the door. Paleo. Remember she made me

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<v Speaker 1>a Doocy Jim girl. So I don't know that I

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<v Speaker 1>dressed your opinion. I'm not. I just I have to

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<v Speaker 1>be gluten free, so I'd rather just be Paleo because

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<v Speaker 1>it's way more interesting than gluten free. So you met

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<v Speaker 1>him at this book signing for this Paleo cookbook. Yes, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>And so we were talking inline and his name is Mike.

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<v Speaker 1>And when we left, he asked me for my number

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<v Speaker 1>and I was like, okay, sure, why not? And so

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<v Speaker 1>he called me like the next day and he was like, hey,

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<v Speaker 1>can we make dinner plans? And I said sure, way

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<v Speaker 1>didn't go Mike calling the next day and everything. I

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<v Speaker 1>know that never happens, right, Yeah, So he asked me

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<v Speaker 1>to pick me out to dinner, and I actually even

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<v Speaker 1>let him pick me up at my apartment, which hardly

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<v Speaker 1>ever happens, right. Yeah. You don't want somebody to know

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<v Speaker 1>where you live if you've only met them, like for

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<v Speaker 1>a brief moment in times. Yeah, but if the dudes

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<v Speaker 1>from a bookstore, how bad can it be? And I

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<v Speaker 1>love My initial reaction is like that's so romantic and

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<v Speaker 1>Jubils is you're going to get yourself killed? Yeah? Not safe.

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<v Speaker 1>I agree with doable because that's how I normally am.

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<v Speaker 1>Usually the first time you meet somebody, you meet out somewhere,

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<v Speaker 1>so you're not in the same recommend we trust, no

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<v Speaker 1>one broke you get me? So how did it go?

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<v Speaker 1>How did her go? So he picked me up and

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<v Speaker 1>we start talking in the car on the way to dinner,

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<v Speaker 1>and I said something. I guess this was stupid to say.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know, like I said, this is the first

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<v Speaker 1>time I've been with a guy in a long time.

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<v Speaker 1>Did he smile? Did he suddenly start smiling? Like all right?

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<v Speaker 1>Why did we even bother with dinner? No? I let

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<v Speaker 1>just say, like out with a guy, not like with

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<v Speaker 1>a guy. I don't know like I now, but I

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<v Speaker 1>hear myself saying, and I'm like, oh, yeah, that might

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<v Speaker 1>have been that, you know, like he might have knows

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<v Speaker 1>what he was thinking about that. He's like, wow, she

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<v Speaker 1>doesn't even know how the birds and the bees work,

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<v Speaker 1>so like like what is he thinking, like I was

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<v Speaker 1>a lesbian and now I'm out with a guy. Or

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<v Speaker 1>did he address it or did it seem to just

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<v Speaker 1>kind of go away? No, really say anything. He was

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<v Speaker 1>just smiling. So I was just really happy when we

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<v Speaker 1>got to the restaurant. Was dinner good or did you

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<v Speaker 1>make some more mistakes like oh, this is the first

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<v Speaker 1>time I've ever been with a carrot at any more

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<v Speaker 1>of that kind of stuff happened? No? No, so good.

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<v Speaker 1>Dinner was great. We were laughing. We were talking, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>everything was fine and we were having a great time.

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<v Speaker 1>I thought so, And then at one point something just happened,

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<v Speaker 1>like out of nowhere, his mood just changed, change changed.

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<v Speaker 1>How he just wasn't laughing, He wasn't He just like

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<v Speaker 1>just became like stoic looking all of a sudden. Really,

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<v Speaker 1>did you say something offensive? I don't think so. I

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<v Speaker 1>think at that point we were just talking about bacon. Actually,

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<v Speaker 1>so funny that you said that earlier. Yeah, just out

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<v Speaker 1>of the his whole demeanor changed. Yeah, he just got

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<v Speaker 1>really quiet, wasn't making eye contact with him any anymore,

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<v Speaker 1>He wasn't smiling. He started looking at his phone a lot,

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<v Speaker 1>And how was everything at the end of the night.

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<v Speaker 1>Was he the same way or did it pick back up? Well,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean when he kept looking at his phone and

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<v Speaker 1>I just asked him, I was like, we can go

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<v Speaker 1>if you want to go. Yeah, what did he say?

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<v Speaker 1>He was like, yeah, that's great. And so what did

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<v Speaker 1>you do, Diana? I don't know. I really wish that's

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<v Speaker 1>why I need your help, but I don't know what

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<v Speaker 1>I did. Did you, I mean, did you ever ask

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<v Speaker 1>him like, what's going on? Are you okay? Or I

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<v Speaker 1>mean I did ask him. I was like, is everything okay?

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<v Speaker 1>Are you feeling okay? He was like, yeah, I'm fine,

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<v Speaker 1>and just it was so cold. It was completely different

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<v Speaker 1>than like the rest of the evening. Yeah, sounds like

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<v Speaker 1>you guys had a really not awkward drive home. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>but he opened the cardoard for me and like gave

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<v Speaker 1>me a hug and said good night and walked back

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<v Speaker 1>to his car. So you at least got a hug.

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<v Speaker 1>Judging about your story, I was going to guess that

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<v Speaker 1>he just kicked you out going like yeah, all right,

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<v Speaker 1>I'll see it. That was a fun date. And you

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<v Speaker 1>haven't heard anything from him since. No, sounds like he

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<v Speaker 1>didn't hear anything from him, like halfway through your date.

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<v Speaker 1>But all right, well we'll play a song, come back,

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<v Speaker 1>call him and get your second date update. All right,

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<v Speaker 1>thank you? Ye hang on rooking Jubil in the morning.

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<v Speaker 1>It's always really confusing when you're talking to somebody and

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<v Speaker 1>everything's going well and then all of a sudden the

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<v Speaker 1>mood changes. Yeah. I goes in this conversation with my

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<v Speaker 1>dad the other day, this deep conversation. Everything's cool, and

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<v Speaker 1>then I slowly reached across and tweaked his nipple. What

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<v Speaker 1>his whole demeanor just changed For me, perfectly normal, but

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<v Speaker 1>for him, apparently that was weird. And then he didn't

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<v Speaker 1>want to talk to me for the rest of the day. Whatever.

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<v Speaker 1>Most dads love nipple tweaking. The same kind of thing

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<v Speaker 1>happened to Diana, who's on the phone for a second

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<v Speaker 1>eight update right now. She went out with a guy

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<v Speaker 1>named Mike. They were having a great time, and then

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<v Speaker 1>all of a sudden, in the middle of dinner, his

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<v Speaker 1>mood just completely changed. He was on his phone, not

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<v Speaker 1>paying attention to her. And then she said, well, I

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<v Speaker 1>guess we can go, and he's like, yeah, we should

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<v Speaker 1>probably just go, and then he dropped her off at

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<v Speaker 1>her house and he hasn't been heard from since, so

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<v Speaker 1>we're about to call him and find out what went wrong. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I really just don't know what happened. And I just

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<v Speaker 1>really looked like, you know, figure it out and get

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<v Speaker 1>some closure with it. I don't have any guesses for

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<v Speaker 1>you on this one. Like he seemed like such a

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<v Speaker 1>gentleman leading up to it. He picked you up, he

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<v Speaker 1>opened doors, that's the thing. He was a gentleman when

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<v Speaker 1>we were leaving too. He dropped me off. He gave out.

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<v Speaker 1>He was very sweet. I don't get it. I just

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<v Speaker 1>don't get it. You didn't tweak his nipple or anything.

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<v Speaker 1>Not my collection, though. I'm gonna dial his phone of

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<v Speaker 1>her right now, get him on the phone and get

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<v Speaker 1>your second day up date. Are you ready? Yes? Kind

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<v Speaker 1>of Hello? Can I speak to Mike please? Yeah? Him? Hey, Mike,

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<v Speaker 1>how are you? This is Jewel from Brook and Jewel

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<v Speaker 1>in the Morning. What from the radio show? Yeah, Mike?

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<v Speaker 1>Are you a listener to the show? I think I

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<v Speaker 1>may have heard you for like a brief second, but

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<v Speaker 1>then I turned the station roll quick. I'm sweet. Thanks Mike. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>we actually got an email from somebody who listens to

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<v Speaker 1>our show a lot more than you have. Her name

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<v Speaker 1>is Diana, and you recently went out on a date

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<v Speaker 1>with her, and she wanted me to call you to

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<v Speaker 1>find out why you're not calling her back. Oh all right,

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<v Speaker 1>that's pretty weird, Yeste. It's a segment we do on

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<v Speaker 1>our show all the time, called the second date Update.

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<v Speaker 1>If you'd listened for more than two seconds, you would

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<v Speaker 1>have known that, Mike. So, Diana is confused why you're

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<v Speaker 1>not calling her back? Because I didn't want to go

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<v Speaker 1>out on a second day. There, we've got that out

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<v Speaker 1>of the way. But what we're wondering is is there

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<v Speaker 1>a certain reason did she do anything wrong or did

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<v Speaker 1>you just not phil vibe? It was just I don't know,

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<v Speaker 1>it just it was just kind of like an uncomfortable date.

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<v Speaker 1>I just didn't feel like we had any chemistry. And yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>do you mind if I recap what she told us

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<v Speaker 1>and then you tell me if it's correct. Yeah, go

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<v Speaker 1>for it. Okay. She said that you guys met at

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<v Speaker 1>a bookstore and then you went out for dinner, and

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<v Speaker 1>when you were at dinner, everything was going great until

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<v Speaker 1>like the middle of the date, and then you just

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<v Speaker 1>kind of shut off and stopped talking to her. She

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<v Speaker 1>said that, Yeah, I mean she was the one that

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<v Speaker 1>stopped talking. What do you see she stopped talking to me.

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<v Speaker 1>That was not what her story was at all. According

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<v Speaker 1>to her, you stopped talking and the whole time she

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<v Speaker 1>was like trying to get you to open up again,

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<v Speaker 1>and you were on your phone and then the date ended.

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<v Speaker 1>I was there, and she's definitely the one that stopped

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<v Speaker 1>talking to me. Like, I don't know, maybe it was

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<v Speaker 1>something that I said that made her feel uncomfortable. I

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<v Speaker 1>really don't know what she said that. You guys are

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<v Speaker 1>just talking about bacon, and then things got weird. We

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<v Speaker 1>were talking about day in, but that wasn't the topic

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<v Speaker 1>that made the date uncomfortable. That wasn't what started the

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<v Speaker 1>bad vibes. Okay, what was it did? Yeah, well, whenever

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<v Speaker 1>I go out on dates, like I always like to ask,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, like interesting questions that you know, just kind

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<v Speaker 1>of make you think, you know, and also initiate like

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<v Speaker 1>good conversation. And I asked her what is your greatest fear?

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<v Speaker 1>And she said bears? And right after she said bears,

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<v Speaker 1>the entire vibe changed, the entire vibe. That's when things

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<v Speaker 1>got really uncomfortable. She was very awkward after that, very

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<v Speaker 1>easily startled. It was easily started made her frightful. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know what it was, but like even for example,

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<v Speaker 1>like the waiter brought her her food and from behind

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<v Speaker 1>just kind of placed her food down in front of her,

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<v Speaker 1>and she was startled. Like that startled her a lot.

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<v Speaker 1>It was almost as if like a bear delivered the

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<v Speaker 1>food was like previously attacked by a bear, and she's

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<v Speaker 1>having flashbacks. All of a sudden, she didn't give me

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<v Speaker 1>any information, but just she said bear and then she

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<v Speaker 1>completely checked out. That was pretty much it. Oh my god, Mike,

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<v Speaker 1>you're lying. What was that, Mike? That is Diana. Diana's

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<v Speaker 1>on the phone right now. Yeah, I am, And what

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<v Speaker 1>the hell are you been talking about? So you're denying

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<v Speaker 1>that you didn't check out when I brought him up

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<v Speaker 1>your greatest fear and you said bear, So that didn't happen. No,

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<v Speaker 1>that didn't happen at all. I was talking the entire

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<v Speaker 1>time and you checked out completely. Then how come whenever

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<v Speaker 1>I brought up your biggest fear and you said bears,

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<v Speaker 1>you were staring off into the distance. You weren't even

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<v Speaker 1>looking at me. You weren't paying attention at all. It's

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<v Speaker 1>like I didn't even feel like I was on a

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<v Speaker 1>date anymore. No, we were talking about bacon, and then

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<v Speaker 1>all of a sudden, you checked out and started looking

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<v Speaker 1>at your phone, and you didn't have any eye contact anymore.

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<v Speaker 1>You checked out, and we're talking about Bacon's here. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>so confused. Is that the bears are the bacon guys?

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<v Speaker 1>I don't I honestly don't know, but I feel like

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<v Speaker 1>she needs to go see a therapist about this bear situation. Now.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know why she's denying this right now, but

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<v Speaker 1>I am one certain that she is terrified of bears

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<v Speaker 1>or the word bear. I really don't know at this point, Dan,

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<v Speaker 1>are you scared of bears? Just to clarify, I don't

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<v Speaker 1>like bears, but you know what, they don't petrify me,

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<v Speaker 1>and I don't think about them and like a scared

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<v Speaker 1>and stuff, you know what I mean. It's it sounded

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<v Speaker 1>like you were screaming at every move that other people

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<v Speaker 1>made because you thought you were about to be attacked.

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<v Speaker 1>That is the most ridiculous thing I've ever heard. Like

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<v Speaker 1>I I'm not scared of bears, all right? Well, I

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<v Speaker 1>hate to ask an awkward question that might shut everything down.

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<v Speaker 1>It sounds like that's what we have a problem with here.

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<v Speaker 1>But Mike, would you like to go out on a

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<v Speaker 1>second date with Diana? We will pay for it. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't think that's a great idea. Obviously she's very unaware

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<v Speaker 1>of her trigger words. Oh my god, what fe Because

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<v Speaker 1>I'd rather if I go out with you again, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>going to wear a bear costume. Maybe that might that

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<v Speaker 1>might help you get through whatever it is. Yet you experience,

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<v Speaker 1>well so strange. Mike. Thank you for your time, and

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<v Speaker 1>I do agree with you. Maybe the bear costume is

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<v Speaker 1>a good thing. Diana. I'm sorry you did not get

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<v Speaker 1>a second date. That's okay. Thank you so much for

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<v Speaker 1>calling and letting me know what happened. I feel so

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<v Speaker 1>unresolved by all of this. I don't know if it

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<v Speaker 1>was a Bacon of the bears, but it's driving me lazy. Listen, Diana,

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<v Speaker 1>if you need a good counsel to help you with

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<v Speaker 1>your bears, I got like four that I go to

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<v Speaker 1>so I can help give her the number. Okay, thank

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<v Speaker 1>you in the morning text in at seven eight five

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<v Speaker 1>nine two that says, I've never been so confused in

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<v Speaker 1>my life. I'm with you. It's brick and jewel in

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<v Speaker 1>the morning. I think that makes everybody getting lots of

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<v Speaker 1>text in at seven eight five to nine two saying

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<v Speaker 1>what I don't understand what the problem was. We're talking

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<v Speaker 1>about the second eight update. This girl Diana wanted to

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<v Speaker 1>call a guy named Mike. They went out to eat.

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<v Speaker 1>They had dinner, and she says that while they were

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<v Speaker 1>talking about bacon, because they're Paleo, he just got cold

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<v Speaker 1>and stopped talking. To her and ended the date. Then

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<v Speaker 1>we got him on the phone and he says that

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<v Speaker 1>he likes to ask people on first dates what their

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<v Speaker 1>biggest fear is because I can tell a lot about

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<v Speaker 1>a person. It's interesting. I've never been asking. It's a

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<v Speaker 1>good question. He says that she said her biggest fear

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<v Speaker 1>was bears, and then she stopped talking. It kind of

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<v Speaker 1>looked like she was startled by everything because she's so

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<v Speaker 1>scared of bears. He said that he thought maybe her

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<v Speaker 1>trigger word. Yeah, and she does not agree with any

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<v Speaker 1>of his assessment on what happened. She's like, I wasn't

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<v Speaker 1>cold at all. I wasn't even thinking about bears after that,

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<v Speaker 1>And he's like, yeah, you were. You weren't even talking

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<v Speaker 1>to me. You were just looking off in the distancing

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<v Speaker 1>about being mauled by a bear. And then when the

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<v Speaker 1>waiter came up, you got startled because you were so

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<v Speaker 1>scared of bears. And then she's saying, well, I was

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<v Speaker 1>talking about bacon and you just stopped talking and then

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<v Speaker 1>into the date. So maybe they both have triggers and

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<v Speaker 1>they don't even know it, Like bears is her trigger

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<v Speaker 1>word and bacon is this guy's trigger words. Someone texted

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<v Speaker 1>in a good question. Were they even on the same date?

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<v Speaker 1>All right, and maybe we just got two random people

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<v Speaker 1>who happened to have gone out with the same names.

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<v Speaker 1>Somebody else texted in and said, I think the only

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<v Speaker 1>thing you need to do is go to the restaurant

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<v Speaker 1>and interview the waiter. I think we do need to

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<v Speaker 1>take it a step and they'll be like, I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>I asked them if they wanted a Caesar salad and

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<v Speaker 1>they both stopped talking to me. It's very confusing. But

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<v Speaker 1>if you want to do a second date update, all

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<v Speaker 1>you have to do is email the show and we

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<v Speaker 1>will call the person who didn't call you. Removing ninety

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<v Speaker 1>two point five