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Speaker 1: Rooking Jewels. Second d update. The girl on the phone

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Speaker 1: for today's second date update met the dude that she

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Speaker 1: wants to call in one of the scariest places ever

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Speaker 1: a bookstore, I say, like a funeral home bookstore. Who

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Speaker 1: goes into those places these days? I do they scare me?

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Speaker 1: They creep me out. Anyway, Diana, how are you? I'm good?

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Speaker 1: Are you good? Good? So you said you met the

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Speaker 1: guy at a bookstore. I went to a book signing

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Speaker 1: for a cookbooks because I really liked this check could

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Speaker 1: be Palio and I'm really into that right now, Paleo.

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Speaker 1: Is he kind of like a Doocy Jim dude? No,

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Speaker 1: that's what was so weird. That's just what I figured.

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Speaker 1: Like all I had today was bacon Like. I woke

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Speaker 1: up and I ate like bacon. Then I washed my

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Speaker 1: mouth with bacon mouthwash, and then at a bacon sound

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Speaker 1: before I hit the door. Paleo. Remember she made me

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Speaker 1: a Doocy Jim girl. So I don't know that I

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Speaker 1: dressed your opinion. I'm not. I just I have to

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Speaker 1: be gluten free, so I'd rather just be Paleo because

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Speaker 1: it's way more interesting than gluten free. So you met

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Speaker 1: him at this book signing for this Paleo cookbook. Yes, okay,

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Speaker 1: And so we were talking inline and his name is Mike.

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Speaker 1: And when we left, he asked me for my number

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Speaker 1: and I was like, okay, sure, why not? And so

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Speaker 1: he called me like the next day and he was like, hey,

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Speaker 1: didn't go Mike calling the next day and everything. I

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Speaker 1: know that never happens, right, Yeah, So he asked me

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Speaker 1: let him pick me up at my apartment, which hardly

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Speaker 1: ever happens, right. Yeah. You don't want somebody to know

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Speaker 1: where you live if you've only met them, like for

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Speaker 1: a brief moment in times. Yeah, but if the dudes

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Speaker 1: from a bookstore, how bad can it be? And I

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Speaker 1: love My initial reaction is like that's so romantic and

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Speaker 1: Jubils is you're going to get yourself killed? Yeah? Not safe.

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Speaker 1: I agree with doable because that's how I normally am.

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Speaker 1: Usually the first time you meet somebody, you meet out somewhere,

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Speaker 1: so you're not in the same recommend we trust, no

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Speaker 1: one broke you get me? So how did it go?

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Speaker 1: How did her go? So he picked me up and

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Speaker 1: we start talking in the car on the way to dinner,

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Speaker 1: and I said something. I guess this was stupid to say.

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Speaker 1: I don't know, like I said, this is the first

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Speaker 1: time I've been with a guy in a long time.

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Speaker 1: Did he smile? Did he suddenly start smiling? Like all right?

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Speaker 1: Why did we even bother with dinner? No? I let

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Speaker 1: just say, like out with a guy, not like with

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Speaker 1: a guy. I don't know like I now, but I

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Speaker 1: hear myself saying, and I'm like, oh, yeah, that might

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Speaker 1: have been that, you know, like he might have knows

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Speaker 1: what he was thinking about that. He's like, wow, she

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Speaker 1: doesn't even know how the birds and the bees work,

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Speaker 1: so like like what is he thinking, like I was

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Speaker 1: did he address it or did it seem to just

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Speaker 1: got to the restaurant. Was dinner good or did you

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Speaker 1: make some more mistakes like oh, this is the first

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Speaker 1: of that kind of stuff happened? No? No, so good.

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Speaker 1: Dinner was great. We were laughing. We were talking, you know,

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Speaker 1: I thought so, And then at one point something just happened,

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Speaker 1: like out of nowhere, his mood just changed, change changed.

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Speaker 1: How he just wasn't laughing, He wasn't He just like

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Speaker 1: did you say something offensive? I don't think so. I

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Speaker 1: think at that point we were just talking about bacon. Actually,

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Speaker 1: so funny that you said that earlier. Yeah, just out

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Speaker 1: He wasn't smiling. He started looking at his phone a lot,

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Speaker 1: And how was everything at the end of the night.

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Speaker 1: Was he the same way or did it pick back up? Well,

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Speaker 1: He was like, yeah, that's great. And so what did

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Speaker 1: I did. Did you, I mean, did you ever ask

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Speaker 1: Judging about your story, I was going to guess that

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Speaker 1: he just kicked you out going like yeah, all right,

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Speaker 1: I'll see it. That was a fun date. And you

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Speaker 1: haven't heard anything from him since. No, sounds like he

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Speaker 1: But all right, well we'll play a song, come back,

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Speaker 1: call him and get your second date update. All right,

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Speaker 1: thank you? Ye hang on rooking Jubil in the morning.

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Speaker 1: It's always really confusing when you're talking to somebody and

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Speaker 1: mood changes. Yeah. I goes in this conversation with my

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Speaker 1: dad the other day, this deep conversation. Everything's cool, and

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Speaker 1: then I slowly reached across and tweaked his nipple. What

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Speaker 1: his whole demeanor just changed For me, perfectly normal, but

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Speaker 1: for him, apparently that was weird. And then he didn't

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Speaker 1: want to talk to me for the rest of the day. Whatever.

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Speaker 1: Most dads love nipple tweaking. The same kind of thing

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Speaker 1: happened to Diana, who's on the phone for a second

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Speaker 1: eight update right now. She went out with a guy

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Speaker 1: named Mike. They were having a great time, and then

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Speaker 1: guess we can go, and he's like, yeah, we should

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Speaker 1: gentleman leading up to it. He picked you up, he

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Speaker 1: He was very sweet. I don't get it. I just

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Speaker 1: Not my collection, though. I'm gonna dial his phone of

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Speaker 1: her right now, get him on the phone and get

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Speaker 1: your second day up date. Are you ready? Yes? Kind

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Speaker 1: of Hello? Can I speak to Mike please? Yeah? Him? Hey, Mike,

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Speaker 1: how are you? This is Jewel from Brook and Jewel

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Speaker 1: in the Morning. What from the radio show? Yeah, Mike?

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Speaker 1: Are you a listener to the show? I think I

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Speaker 1: then I turned the station roll quick. I'm sweet. Thanks Mike. Well,

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Speaker 1: we actually got an email from somebody who listens to

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Speaker 1: our show a lot more than you have. Her name

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Speaker 1: is Diana, and you recently went out on a date

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Speaker 1: with her, and she wanted me to call you to

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Speaker 1: find out why you're not calling her back. Oh all right,

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Speaker 1: that's pretty weird, Yeste. It's a segment we do on

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Speaker 1: our show all the time, called the second date Update.

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Speaker 1: If you'd listened for more than two seconds, you would

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Speaker 1: have known that, Mike. So, Diana is confused why you're

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Speaker 1: not calling her back? Because I didn't want to go

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Speaker 1: out on a second day. There, we've got that out

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Speaker 1: you just not phil vibe? It was just I don't know,

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Speaker 1: and then you tell me if it's correct. Yeah, go

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Speaker 1: That was not what her story was at all. According

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Speaker 1: that made the date uncomfortable. That wasn't what started the

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Speaker 1: bad vibes. Okay, what was it did? Yeah, well, whenever

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Speaker 1: And she said bears? And right after she said bears,

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Speaker 1: easily startled. It was easily started made her frightful. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: having flashbacks. All of a sudden, she didn't give me

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Speaker 1: completely checked out. That was pretty much it. Oh my god, Mike,

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Speaker 1: you're lying. What was that, Mike? That is Diana. Diana's

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Speaker 1: on the phone right now. Yeah, I am, And what

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Speaker 1: the hell are you been talking about? So you're denying

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Speaker 1: You checked out, and we're talking about Bacon's here. I'm

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Speaker 1: I don't I honestly don't know, but I feel like

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Speaker 1: she needs to go see a therapist about this bear situation. Now.

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Speaker 1: I don't know why she's denying this right now, but

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