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Speaker 2: It's your girl, lex Peak and it's Sugar al Dre

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Speaker 2: and the Cold.

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Speaker 1: You are tuned in to another episode of Poor Mind.

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Speaker 2: Were a drunk mind speaks sober thoughts.

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Speaker 1: I gotta make sure I remember my bar hunt.

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Speaker 2: How you always just.

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Speaker 1: Took a week off. I haven't been even thinking about recording.

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Speaker 2: And then a week you ain't like it been a monk.

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Speaker 1: It's been a stressful time. It's been a stressful time.

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Speaker 2: I'll be having a blast.

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Speaker 1: What having a blast doing? What?

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Speaker 2: Be off?

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Speaker 1: I'm dead? We work one day week?

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Speaker 2: You said it don't matter. Work is work. I don't

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Speaker 2: want to work no day.

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Speaker 1: Okay, so obviously we're gonna talk about the show a

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Speaker 1: little bit. But besides that, that's.

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Speaker 2: All I was about to say. Speak for yourself. Last

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Speaker 2: week I was working more than one day working, Queen.

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Speaker 2: I worked a few days.

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Speaker 1: So besides that, what you've been up to? Bruh?

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Speaker 2: I went to Houston this past weekend. I wanted to

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Speaker 2: go to the rodeo, to the carnival, but I didn't

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Speaker 2: get to go because all of my friends suck.

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Speaker 1: So I'm weak.

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Speaker 2: Why Why did they suck? Because they didn't want to go,

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Speaker 2: so they suck. So yeah, most of them had already went,

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Speaker 2: so they didn't want to go again with me. So

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Speaker 2: what type of friends are they? We're not going to

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Speaker 2: get into that.

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Speaker 1: The best thing about the Rodeo is like they deep

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Speaker 1: fry everything.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, like your friend had tweeted by some fried deep

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Speaker 2: fried boot and balls, I mean brisket balls, and I

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Speaker 2: was like, some my all sound good. And that's really

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Speaker 2: what made me want to go.

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Speaker 1: Because one thing.

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Speaker 2: About the Houston Rodeo Carnival, they be having some good

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Speaker 2: ass food. But no, for real, all my friends had

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Speaker 2: when I already except for my best friend jazz Men,

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Speaker 2: but then it was her boyfriend birthday, so it was

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Speaker 2: just a lot going on there weekend, so I didn't

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Speaker 2: get to go. Plus I had like a tattoo appointment,

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Speaker 2: so I had to do that on Sunday.

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Speaker 1: I feel like when you go to the Rodeo, like

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Speaker 1: you should be able to request what type of food

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Speaker 1: that you want deep.

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Speaker 2: Fried like your paper food.

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Speaker 1: Like I love beans, I would love a deep fried

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Speaker 1: that's disgusting.

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Speaker 2: A deep fried bean yeah, no thing.

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Speaker 1: I love me a good bean hunt.

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Speaker 2: They have refried beans.

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Speaker 1: No, I want the I want a little crust, a

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Speaker 2: Why would you want a bean pie?

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Speaker 1: You know what. Let me tell you something. I love

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Speaker 1: beans in any way, shape or form. I want refried beans,

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Speaker 1: pinto beans, black.

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Speaker 2: That's why you always farty, all of them, goddamn beans.

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Speaker 1: I love a good bean.

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Speaker 2: Fiber is good for you, pool it is. I mean

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Speaker 2: I like a bean occasionally, but not all the time.

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Speaker 2: And I damn sure I don't want it deep fried.

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Speaker 1: I tell you something. The English was onto something eating

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Speaker 1: beans for breakfast geniuses.

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Speaker 2: That's gross. Broy on.

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Speaker 1: A bean for breakfast is my type of party. The

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Speaker 1: English brickfast is the worst bricks fist I've ever seen.

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Speaker 1: I'm not gonna lie. I'm gonna who is eating?

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Speaker 2: Who is eating porking beans for brickfast? I was like

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Speaker 2: a party of the memm.

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Speaker 1: You know.

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Speaker 2: I ain't no beans, no, no thank you. I just

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Speaker 2: not for breakfast. I feel like it's a time and

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Speaker 1: And breakfast is not the time nor the place I've

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Speaker 1: always it's always a good time for beans in my book. Well,

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Speaker 1: your tattoo looks great, thanks girl.

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Speaker 2: I thought I was done, but I still have to

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Speaker 2: I wanted to be like I told him, I wanted

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Speaker 1: Though it's given bier girl, I don't think I'm gonna

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Speaker 1: edgy now an edgy. It's the new emo girl period.

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Speaker 2: Don't play with now.

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Speaker 1: I will say this. I wish on this you would

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Speaker 2: Okay, yeah, that's never gonna hapen.

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Speaker 1: Wow, that would have been so cute. That would have

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Speaker 2: We already Bundy and we was already been supposed to

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Speaker 2: get mentioned tattoos. And you're supposed to be finding the

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Speaker 2: tattoo and you haven't. Well, I said, I wanted this

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Speaker 1: I did. I said, we can get the little poor

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Speaker 2: Oh yeah, because I do you know I have it

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Speaker 1: Yeah, So you didn't want to do a heart because

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Speaker 1: I wanted to do the Poor Mine's Heart. I think

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Speaker 2: I mean, the poor Mine's Heart would be cute, but

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Speaker 2: I'm trying to think where would I get it? And

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Speaker 2: it just sucks becuse I already have this one.

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Speaker 1: I'mna put it on my booty.

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Speaker 2: Nobody gonna be able to see that defeat the purpose. Really,

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Speaker 2: everybody's gonna see because we love a throng.

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Speaker 1: Summer time coming. Everybody gonna see.

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Speaker 2: That we love a throng bikini.

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Speaker 1: Okay, okay, So what you did this week? Honestly, I

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Speaker 1: really kind of just relaxed. Of course, we went to Charlotte,

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Speaker 1: But other than that, I really didn't do too much.

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Speaker 1: After we got back, I came home and I celebrated

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Speaker 1: with all my friends. My man is back, my man,

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Speaker 1: my man? Which one I'm not gonna say, because I

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Speaker 1: decided I'm just I.

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Speaker 2: Mean, I already know because I seen your close friends

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Speaker 1: Yeah, so I decided I'm just protecting my piece this time,

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Speaker 1: no unit, and he terrorizes my life. You but you

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Speaker 2: Oh it's okay, girl. We both outside this summer with

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Speaker 1: I thrive off of negative.

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Speaker 2: I can't wait.

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Speaker 1: Yes, I thrive off of negativity. So me too, terrible, terrible,

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Speaker 1: terrible things terrible. I can't wait. You know, I'm a

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Speaker 1: remixed ten song. Terrible things are happening. That's gonna be

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Speaker 2: No, it's gonna be terrible in a good way.

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Speaker 1: I can't wait. So anyways, live show, Live show is Charlotte, y'all.

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Speaker 1: It was absolutely amazing. It actually exceeded my expectations because

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Speaker 1: every time we do a live show, we'd be like,

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Speaker 2: Yeah, Charlotte was crazy, even better than Nashville. Me and

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Speaker 2: Because we ain't big time yet they won't give us

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Speaker 2: Now I'm playing for real.

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Speaker 2: It's because the ship expencive.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, so Charlotte showed up and showed out. Now we

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Speaker 2: It was the embarrassing moment.

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Speaker 1: I just knew because one thing about it when we

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Speaker 2: But one thing about Houston people, we love our Houston

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Speaker 1: Right, Well, I feel like, yeah, Houston has a culture though,

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Speaker 1: There's a lot of cities in America that I haven't

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I just didn't know what to expect.

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Speaker 1: But I feel like Houston has a very distinct culture,

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Speaker 2: So we are very proud.

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Speaker 1: Yes, we are very very very very very proud. Well,

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Speaker 1: Lexp is not Houston.

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Speaker 1: He ain't even from now.

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Speaker 2: No, but you adopted, we adopted you.

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Speaker 1: Relationships take work, especially the one that.

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Speaker 1: So today we're gonna talk about not dealing with men

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Speaker 1: I said, well, first of all, that man is clearly married.

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Speaker 2: What's that appeal?

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Speaker 1: I think they do it on the pinky?

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Speaker 2: Are you right?

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Speaker 1: We both have messed with men in relationships before, I

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Speaker 2: It was only one time. But I don't know, I

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Speaker 1: So if you were in a relationship with a guy

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Speaker 1: Right now, I see what you're saying from that point

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Speaker 2: Well, it ain't even about the niggas. To me, it's

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Speaker 2: What think about me?

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Speaker 1: If I'm talking to a niggah you used to be

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Speaker 2: Because I agree with you, I agree with you. Sorry,

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Speaker 2: I don't trying to fix my shirt. I agree with

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Speaker 2: I was like, she, I mean, it doesn't make problem.

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Speaker 2: I have no expectations of this person except for I mean,

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00:19:23,880 --> 00:19:25,320
Speaker 2: you gotta pay the play, because you gotta be.

442
00:19:25,640 --> 00:19:30,760
Speaker 1: You got just right.

443
00:19:31,320 --> 00:19:33,480
Speaker 2: You gotta pay the play. That's the only expectation that

444
00:19:33,560 --> 00:19:35,439
Speaker 2: I really have, because you ain't about to fuck with me,

445
00:19:35,600 --> 00:19:37,040
Speaker 2: and you gotta be each and you think you ain't

446
00:19:37,040 --> 00:19:40,359
Speaker 2: about to be doing what you need to do. But

447
00:19:40,640 --> 00:19:43,320
Speaker 2: I don't have no expectations of the relationship. I don't

448
00:19:43,320 --> 00:19:45,679
Speaker 2: have no expectations of us being together. I don't have

449
00:19:45,680 --> 00:19:48,119
Speaker 2: no expectations of you leaving your beach for me. So

450
00:19:48,160 --> 00:19:49,920
Speaker 2: I'm not even about to fall for you or fall

451
00:19:49,960 --> 00:19:52,600
Speaker 2: in love with you, because at the end of the day,

452
00:19:52,640 --> 00:19:54,280
Speaker 2: why wouldn't you do me the same way you need

453
00:19:54,320 --> 00:19:56,560
Speaker 2: this bitch? If you feel like something better come along

454
00:19:56,640 --> 00:19:57,080
Speaker 2: after me.

455
00:19:57,400 --> 00:20:00,480
Speaker 1: Well, let me say this too. I actually you had

456
00:20:00,560 --> 00:20:03,639
Speaker 1: a friend that she used to actually like dating men

457
00:20:03,680 --> 00:20:08,119
Speaker 1: in relationships because she liked the freedom and like the

458
00:20:08,240 --> 00:20:10,879
Speaker 1: not answering to each other, Like it was very casual,

459
00:20:11,320 --> 00:20:13,680
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. But like I said, it's

460
00:20:13,720 --> 00:20:16,560
Speaker 1: not all the time about your Once, I feel like

461
00:20:16,600 --> 00:20:18,840
Speaker 1: the energy that you put in the world is gonna

462
00:20:18,880 --> 00:20:21,600
Speaker 1: come back to you. So I just feel like getting

463
00:20:21,640 --> 00:20:25,320
Speaker 1: back to the point I think as women, we just

464
00:20:25,359 --> 00:20:27,439
Speaker 1: have to do better. We have to look out for

465
00:20:27,480 --> 00:20:30,640
Speaker 1: each other, especially black women. Like I hate the fact

466
00:20:30,720 --> 00:20:34,520
Speaker 1: that a girl will mess with a guy and he's

467
00:20:34,520 --> 00:20:37,520
Speaker 1: obviously in a relationship with another girl. This man is

468
00:20:37,560 --> 00:20:40,440
Speaker 1: pillow talking to you about his girl and you you laughing,

469
00:20:40,600 --> 00:20:42,960
Speaker 1: key can no, why don't you because you think you

470
00:20:43,000 --> 00:20:45,120
Speaker 1: got one up on somebody. But we're in a corny But.

471
00:20:45,119 --> 00:20:47,879
Speaker 2: That's corny beaches. Real beaches don't do that. I'm not

472
00:20:47,880 --> 00:20:49,680
Speaker 2: about to like you and say you're not about to

473
00:20:49,720 --> 00:20:52,000
Speaker 2: talk to me about show beach. Ever, the only conversation

474
00:20:52,040 --> 00:20:53,560
Speaker 2: we gonna have about hood is that you told me

475
00:20:53,600 --> 00:20:55,440
Speaker 2: you have one, and they see.

476
00:20:56,960 --> 00:20:59,439
Speaker 1: But now we need to get to the point of

477
00:20:59,440 --> 00:21:01,240
Speaker 1: where when a man tells you he got his bitch,

478
00:21:01,520 --> 00:21:04,000
Speaker 1: he got a bitch. That needs to be y'all's last time.

479
00:21:04,119 --> 00:21:05,800
Speaker 2: Well, I'm not trying to be funny. It is though,

480
00:21:05,880 --> 00:21:08,720
Speaker 2: cause it's like I already had always been that type

481
00:21:08,720 --> 00:21:11,119
Speaker 2: of person, Like I just feel like I require too

482
00:21:11,160 --> 00:21:13,760
Speaker 2: much attention, right, I don't like talking to niggas they

483
00:21:13,800 --> 00:21:16,080
Speaker 2: got a girl because I need all of your attention.

484
00:21:16,440 --> 00:21:18,280
Speaker 2: I'm not trying to have to divide that shit with

485
00:21:18,320 --> 00:21:21,800
Speaker 2: another beach, you know what I mean. So I already

486
00:21:21,880 --> 00:21:24,439
Speaker 2: was all like I was already that type of person,

487
00:21:24,480 --> 00:21:27,640
Speaker 2: but when I met this specific nigga, I fucked with him,

488
00:21:27,720 --> 00:21:29,119
Speaker 2: you know what I mean. He was cool, so I

489
00:21:29,160 --> 00:21:31,119
Speaker 2: was just kind of like, okay, whatever, and then he

490
00:21:31,240 --> 00:21:35,080
Speaker 2: was honest. Love a lot of niggas. A lot of niggas.

491
00:21:35,800 --> 00:21:37,680
Speaker 2: A lot of niggas don't be honest, Like it'd be

492
00:21:37,760 --> 00:21:40,320
Speaker 2: women who will find out through the grapevine or find

493
00:21:40,359 --> 00:21:42,440
Speaker 2: out from a friend and no a friend, oh girl,

494
00:21:42,480 --> 00:21:44,199
Speaker 2: you know he got a girl, you know what I mean,

495
00:21:44,240 --> 00:21:45,679
Speaker 2: a lot of niggas do not be telling you that

496
00:21:45,800 --> 00:21:48,000
Speaker 2: from the jump off the gate. I feel like with

497
00:21:48,080 --> 00:21:51,200
Speaker 2: this situation, he had told me and we was already vibing,

498
00:21:51,240 --> 00:21:53,639
Speaker 2: so I was just kind of like, okay whatever. But

499
00:21:53,960 --> 00:21:57,359
Speaker 2: even after being in that situation, it just showed me like, bitch,

500
00:21:57,440 --> 00:22:00,600
Speaker 2: this is why you don't do this right. I'm already

501
00:22:00,640 --> 00:22:03,520
Speaker 2: big on me because it just didn't work. It doesn't

502
00:22:03,520 --> 00:22:07,560
Speaker 2: work for me. I'm too demanding, I need too much

503
00:22:07,560 --> 00:22:08,080
Speaker 2: of your time.

504
00:22:08,840 --> 00:22:11,399
Speaker 1: And like I said, I feel like whatever reason that

505
00:22:11,480 --> 00:22:13,320
Speaker 1: you don't want to mess with a man in a relationship,

506
00:22:13,359 --> 00:22:15,280
Speaker 1: I feel like we all just need to get on

507
00:22:15,280 --> 00:22:18,440
Speaker 1: this train because I feel like the stuff that I'm

508
00:22:19,600 --> 00:22:22,760
Speaker 1: I'm necessarily preaching the past wasn't good and like I

509
00:22:22,760 --> 00:22:24,639
Speaker 1: didn't care, and I'm like, oh, that's not my problem.

510
00:22:25,880 --> 00:22:28,560
Speaker 1: But I had a situation, So why would you deal

511
00:22:28,640 --> 00:22:31,480
Speaker 1: with guys who you knew? It was honestly just because

512
00:22:31,560 --> 00:22:33,840
Speaker 1: I was, like you, I didn't care. I was getting

513
00:22:33,840 --> 00:22:36,280
Speaker 1: what I needed from the situation, whether it be like dates,

514
00:22:36,359 --> 00:22:40,120
Speaker 1: quality time, money, like I'm not gonna lie like one

515
00:22:40,160 --> 00:22:44,960
Speaker 1: of my favorite niggas, and but it was just it

516
00:22:45,080 --> 00:22:48,440
Speaker 1: was so beneficial. It was so beneficial, you know what

517
00:22:48,480 --> 00:22:51,480
Speaker 1: I'm saying. So but now I've come to the realization,

518
00:22:51,800 --> 00:22:56,879
Speaker 1: like it's not worth it because it's like, at the

519
00:22:56,960 --> 00:22:58,520
Speaker 1: end of the day, like I can make my own money,

520
00:22:58,560 --> 00:23:01,719
Speaker 1: I can do what I can on my own. How

521
00:23:01,800 --> 00:23:05,480
Speaker 1: much we talking, I'm just saying though, well, well, look

522
00:23:05,520 --> 00:23:09,080
Speaker 1: at it like this, kinda look at it like this,

523
00:23:09,200 --> 00:23:10,800
Speaker 1: Like I feel like if a man, if you're only

524
00:23:10,800 --> 00:23:15,320
Speaker 1: bringing like materialistic things to the table, that really doesn't

525
00:23:15,359 --> 00:23:18,760
Speaker 1: need to be enough for a person like cause, honestly,

526
00:23:18,760 --> 00:23:20,560
Speaker 1: looking back on it, it was like, damn, like this

527
00:23:20,640 --> 00:23:23,240
Speaker 1: nigga was really buying you. And I'm keeping it one honey.

528
00:23:23,400 --> 00:23:25,359
Speaker 1: A lot of girl's not gonna say that and admit that,

529
00:23:25,400 --> 00:23:27,320
Speaker 1: but I'll admit that, you know, Like it was kind

530
00:23:27,320 --> 00:23:29,679
Speaker 1: of like he was buying me. And I feel like

531
00:23:29,720 --> 00:23:32,320
Speaker 1: you just have to value yourself more than that. And

532
00:23:32,359 --> 00:23:34,880
Speaker 1: when I look back on myself, I'm like, damn. But

533
00:23:34,920 --> 00:23:37,440
Speaker 1: you know, you live and you learn, and once I

534
00:23:37,520 --> 00:23:39,679
Speaker 1: now that I know better, I'm doing better. You learned,

535
00:23:39,880 --> 00:23:42,639
Speaker 1: I learned, I learned me something. So I just feel

536
00:23:42,680 --> 00:23:45,119
Speaker 1: like I say this all the time. Next Pek went

537
00:23:45,119 --> 00:23:46,439
Speaker 1: through that, so you don't have to go through that.

538
00:23:46,840 --> 00:23:49,639
Speaker 1: And that's the worst thing, a man just doing you

539
00:23:49,840 --> 00:23:52,880
Speaker 1: so wrong and disrespecting you and doing what he want

540
00:23:52,960 --> 00:23:55,119
Speaker 1: to do and then sending you some money. So everything's

541
00:23:55,119 --> 00:23:57,880
Speaker 1: supposed to be okay. So I just feel like we

542
00:23:57,960 --> 00:24:00,640
Speaker 1: have to look out for ourselves most important. But like

543
00:24:00,840 --> 00:24:02,880
Speaker 1: we gotta look out for each other, like there needs

544
00:24:02,920 --> 00:24:06,040
Speaker 1: to be more of like a sisterhood with women, like

545
00:24:06,080 --> 00:24:06,800
Speaker 1: we have to do it.

546
00:24:06,880 --> 00:24:08,720
Speaker 2: I mean, but I feel like that starts with women,

547
00:24:08,800 --> 00:24:11,000
Speaker 2: though yeah it does, because why do these it starts

548
00:24:11,040 --> 00:24:12,680
Speaker 2: with all women, you know what I mean.

549
00:24:13,160 --> 00:24:15,359
Speaker 1: There's no reason for that nigga that you was fucking

550
00:24:15,359 --> 00:24:18,280
Speaker 1: with to be having a bitch and fucking you too.

551
00:24:18,640 --> 00:24:23,080
Speaker 1: There's no no, like, no, there's no reason for one

552
00:24:23,160 --> 00:24:26,720
Speaker 1: nigga to get to have you and another girl. Fuck

553
00:24:26,800 --> 00:24:30,280
Speaker 1: that even for me too. Look at the materials.

554
00:24:30,400 --> 00:24:32,800
Speaker 2: I agree, I agree with you, But it was a

555
00:24:32,840 --> 00:24:33,399
Speaker 2: fun time.

556
00:24:33,520 --> 00:24:35,439
Speaker 1: I mean, yes, it was a fun time. But like

557
00:24:35,600 --> 00:24:38,640
Speaker 1: sometimes I think that men don't deserve all of that.

558
00:24:39,440 --> 00:24:39,800
Speaker 1: They don't.

559
00:24:39,880 --> 00:24:42,679
Speaker 2: Fags, they don't, they don't. But I just try not

560
00:24:42,760 --> 00:24:45,360
Speaker 2: to be hard on myself about life. You only get

561
00:24:45,400 --> 00:24:47,240
Speaker 2: one life, and none of us are gonna make it

562
00:24:47,240 --> 00:24:49,920
Speaker 2: out of life, so you might just well just I mean,

563
00:24:50,359 --> 00:24:52,439
Speaker 2: not be hard on yourself. I'm not saying it's okay

564
00:24:52,480 --> 00:24:56,679
Speaker 2: to do certain things, but we all make mistakes sometimes, all.

565
00:24:56,560 --> 00:24:59,760
Speaker 1: Of us are less than perfect. So I just look

566
00:24:59,800 --> 00:25:01,920
Speaker 1: at the that situation, like I made a mistake.

567
00:25:02,480 --> 00:25:03,320
Speaker 2: I wouldn't do it.

568
00:25:03,240 --> 00:25:08,480
Speaker 1: Again, but it happens and again and again, and I

569
00:25:08,600 --> 00:25:11,040
Speaker 1: do it again, and I mean yeah, and it's like

570
00:25:11,119 --> 00:25:13,320
Speaker 1: and I and I really do feel like I wouldn't

571
00:25:13,359 --> 00:25:15,879
Speaker 1: do it again, but it's like it's something that happened,

572
00:25:16,040 --> 00:25:18,240
Speaker 1: and I can't beat myself up about it because I'm

573
00:25:18,240 --> 00:25:21,040
Speaker 1: only human. Like sometimes you meet people and you just

574
00:25:21,359 --> 00:25:23,239
Speaker 1: viob with them and you have a connection with them.

575
00:25:23,280 --> 00:25:26,359
Speaker 2: So sometimes you let them slip through the crags and

576
00:25:26,480 --> 00:25:28,760
Speaker 2: you let them get past some of your rules.

577
00:25:28,920 --> 00:25:31,480
Speaker 1: But remember when I said in the old episode, he

578
00:25:31,520 --> 00:25:36,320
Speaker 1: was fucking with you, he was. He was. So sometimes

579
00:25:36,320 --> 00:25:39,040
Speaker 1: when niggas fuck with your moin and the void be

580
00:25:39,200 --> 00:25:42,520
Speaker 1: right and a dick was fires who And on top

581
00:25:42,560 --> 00:25:44,119
Speaker 1: of that, he used to be giving me money and

582
00:25:44,119 --> 00:25:50,840
Speaker 1: stuff like in buying me shit. So so I.

583
00:25:48,000 --> 00:25:50,320
Speaker 2: I I'm not saying I had to do it. I

584
00:25:50,320 --> 00:25:51,879
Speaker 2: had to do but I feel like, definitely when a

585
00:25:51,960 --> 00:25:53,760
Speaker 2: nigga make it worth y'all, while they make it harder

586
00:25:53,760 --> 00:25:55,800
Speaker 2: to walk away. And I say, and even though this

587
00:25:55,920 --> 00:25:57,840
Speaker 2: was the only situation I was in with somebody who

588
00:25:57,880 --> 00:26:01,040
Speaker 2: had a girlfriend, I've been in other situation though, where

589
00:26:01,119 --> 00:26:03,560
Speaker 2: niggas was like doing shit for me and it made

590
00:26:03,600 --> 00:26:05,680
Speaker 2: it hard for me to walk away, even though I

591
00:26:05,760 --> 00:26:08,199
Speaker 2: knew it wasn't the best situation for me to be in, right,

592
00:26:09,800 --> 00:26:12,359
Speaker 2: But yeah, I mean so, I don't know, life is

593
00:26:12,400 --> 00:26:14,159
Speaker 2: crazy like that. Like I said, I just feel like

594
00:26:14,280 --> 00:26:16,240
Speaker 2: us as women out we have to start beating ourselves up.

595
00:26:16,280 --> 00:26:18,640
Speaker 2: But we do need to have more of a camaraderie,

596
00:26:19,000 --> 00:26:24,480
Speaker 2: more of a co word of the week camaraderie. Let's

597
00:26:24,480 --> 00:26:26,359
Speaker 2: look up the definition, because y'all asked me to start

598
00:26:26,400 --> 00:26:28,560
Speaker 2: doing you have to start doing a word a word

599
00:26:28,600 --> 00:26:29,040
Speaker 2: of the week.

600
00:26:29,040 --> 00:26:33,480
Speaker 1: I just learn learned something camaraderie. I don't even know

601
00:26:33,480 --> 00:26:36,720
Speaker 1: how to spell that bitch aquilaand to b ain't got

602
00:26:36,760 --> 00:26:39,160
Speaker 1: shit on you sing it.

603
00:26:39,160 --> 00:26:43,320
Speaker 2: Girl, girl? Hold on, wait a minute, I'm trying to

604
00:26:43,359 --> 00:26:46,919
Speaker 2: look it up. It's a feeling of friendliness, goodwill, and

605
00:26:46,960 --> 00:26:53,160
Speaker 2: familiarity among the people in a group. MM so yes, anyways,

606
00:26:53,160 --> 00:26:55,280
Speaker 2: we need to have more camaraderie. We need to have

607
00:26:55,600 --> 00:26:59,200
Speaker 2: more of a sisterhood because I do feel like black

608
00:26:59,200 --> 00:27:01,919
Speaker 2: women we are like one of the only groups of

609
00:27:01,920 --> 00:27:04,600
Speaker 2: women that just do not stick with each other and

610
00:27:05,080 --> 00:27:06,639
Speaker 2: do not ride for each other. We be feeling like

611
00:27:06,680 --> 00:27:09,399
Speaker 2: Alwa's hanging on with beach sex problems sound like a

612
00:27:09,480 --> 00:27:12,120
Speaker 2: U problem, not a man problem. And I'm not saying that.

613
00:27:12,400 --> 00:27:15,680
Speaker 2: I too, am not guilty of that because I definitely

614
00:27:16,320 --> 00:27:18,160
Speaker 2: I am that type of person too. Yeah, we're all

615
00:27:18,200 --> 00:27:20,760
Speaker 2: works in progress, but we need to stop being like

616
00:27:20,800 --> 00:27:22,840
Speaker 2: that because it's just not okay. And I do agree

617
00:27:22,880 --> 00:27:25,919
Speaker 2: with Lex that if we men only can cheat and

618
00:27:25,960 --> 00:27:27,960
Speaker 2: do the shit that they be doing because other women

619
00:27:28,000 --> 00:27:30,680
Speaker 2: be allowing them to do it, if we stop letting

620
00:27:30,720 --> 00:27:33,199
Speaker 2: them niggas do that shit, then it wouldn't be no cheating.

621
00:27:33,880 --> 00:27:36,920
Speaker 2: But the problem is, and I think the reason why

622
00:27:37,000 --> 00:27:39,080
Speaker 2: so many women let niggas get away with that shit

623
00:27:39,200 --> 00:27:41,440
Speaker 2: is because, yeah, I mean, I'm not gonna lie each

624
00:27:41,480 --> 00:27:45,879
Speaker 2: life is hard, like who you telling? Life is hard,

625
00:27:46,240 --> 00:27:48,199
Speaker 2: So I come in people who can like make it

626
00:27:48,640 --> 00:27:50,960
Speaker 2: in life and really, you know, be doing what they

627
00:27:51,000 --> 00:27:53,800
Speaker 2: need to do out here, getting money out here, hustling

628
00:27:53,840 --> 00:27:55,840
Speaker 2: out here, grinding because life is hard. So sometimes I

629
00:27:55,840 --> 00:27:57,960
Speaker 2: think a lot of women cheat and let niggas get

630
00:27:57,960 --> 00:28:00,720
Speaker 2: away with shit too, because these niggas be making straight

631
00:28:00,960 --> 00:28:03,840
Speaker 2: right and be looking out for them. And I'm going

632
00:28:04,119 --> 00:28:06,639
Speaker 2: on some real sheet if.

633
00:28:06,520 --> 00:28:08,560
Speaker 1: You ain't got it, and a nigga looking out for you,

634
00:28:09,000 --> 00:28:11,000
Speaker 1: and he got a girl, you gonna turn the blind

635
00:28:11,000 --> 00:28:12,679
Speaker 1: out of this shit. The hell even with us, we

636
00:28:12,760 --> 00:28:18,120
Speaker 1: got it and we still hey hey, I mean cause

637
00:28:18,119 --> 00:28:20,160
Speaker 1: I are moving on because I'm not gonna lie.

638
00:28:20,160 --> 00:28:22,439
Speaker 2: In that specific situation that I just talked about. It

639
00:28:22,480 --> 00:28:24,679
Speaker 2: was after me and leg started, like you know, getting

640
00:28:24,720 --> 00:28:26,439
Speaker 2: money and making more money and stuff like that.

641
00:28:26,520 --> 00:28:30,440
Speaker 1: But it was just kind of like she watched mers. Fact.

642
00:28:30,480 --> 00:28:32,200
Speaker 1: But I do agree on that because, like I said,

643
00:28:32,200 --> 00:28:37,720
Speaker 1: when my situation has started, I was down extremely bad. Man,

644
00:28:37,800 --> 00:28:38,640
Speaker 1: I had talked about it.

645
00:28:38,680 --> 00:28:40,520
Speaker 2: At least she was down bad. I was just homely.

646
00:28:42,680 --> 00:28:45,160
Speaker 1: I was down extremely bad. But also not only that,

647
00:28:45,240 --> 00:28:47,600
Speaker 1: but I actually fuck with him. I like him. I

648
00:28:47,760 --> 00:28:50,920
Speaker 1: liked him, and it was a cool little situation. But

649
00:28:51,040 --> 00:28:52,400
Speaker 1: like I said, I think we just have to have

650
00:28:52,440 --> 00:28:55,240
Speaker 1: more respect for ourselves and more respect for each other.

651
00:28:55,680 --> 00:28:58,120
Speaker 1: Like I said, I'm not judging anybody. I'm not judging,

652
00:28:58,160 --> 00:29:00,960
Speaker 1: but I'm saying, we are growing and learning. So every

653
00:29:00,960 --> 00:29:02,680
Speaker 1: time we grow and we learned something new, we just

654
00:29:02,680 --> 00:29:05,280
Speaker 1: want to share this information with y'all. So, ladies, if

655
00:29:05,320 --> 00:29:08,560
Speaker 1: you have met a man in a relationship, you really

656
00:29:08,640 --> 00:29:11,240
Speaker 1: just reevalue the situation. That's all I'm gonna say.

657
00:29:12,040 --> 00:29:14,280
Speaker 2: All Right, so you're not doing it no more.

658
00:29:14,320 --> 00:29:15,600
Speaker 1: I'm not, I swear to God, I'm not.

659
00:29:15,760 --> 00:29:17,800
Speaker 2: I just you done, like you stopped or you need

660
00:29:17,840 --> 00:29:18,600
Speaker 2: a little more time.

661
00:29:19,200 --> 00:29:22,040
Speaker 1: Uh, I'm done. I'm done.

662
00:29:22,840 --> 00:29:24,000
Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't like how you did.

663
00:29:24,080 --> 00:29:26,600
Speaker 1: You did? I am done? No, Because honestly, I was

664
00:29:26,600 --> 00:29:28,640
Speaker 1: thinking about it and it was like it was something

665
00:29:28,720 --> 00:29:31,520
Speaker 1: major that I was like trying to squeeze out of him.

666
00:29:31,960 --> 00:29:37,160
Speaker 1: But but honestly, I'm just like, for what, because I'm

667
00:29:37,240 --> 00:29:41,080
Speaker 1: ready to start a relationship, you know, and be with somebody,

668
00:29:41,320 --> 00:29:43,080
Speaker 1: and cause honestly, I'm not gonna lie to you. Let

669
00:29:43,080 --> 00:29:45,240
Speaker 1: me say this before we move on. When we got

670
00:29:45,240 --> 00:29:48,640
Speaker 1: back from Charlotte, I walked into my my empty home,

671
00:29:49,480 --> 00:29:51,200
Speaker 1: and I was like, damn, it would really be nice

672
00:29:51,200 --> 00:29:53,200
Speaker 1: to have somebody to like come home to and just

673
00:29:53,240 --> 00:29:56,040
Speaker 1: like share what I just did and what I just

674
00:29:56,080 --> 00:29:58,200
Speaker 1: went through, Like you know what I'm saying. So yeah,

675
00:29:58,240 --> 00:30:00,600
Speaker 1: it's like those moments I want to have somebody, but

676
00:30:00,680 --> 00:30:03,200
Speaker 1: that's for me, Like I don't want to just share

677
00:30:03,240 --> 00:30:05,640
Speaker 1: it with you whenever you can sneak away and talk

678
00:30:05,680 --> 00:30:07,760
Speaker 1: to me real quick. So it's like I'm going through

679
00:30:07,800 --> 00:30:10,120
Speaker 1: a very important stage in my life.

680
00:30:10,160 --> 00:30:12,120
Speaker 2: And see, I think that's my problem because that wouldn't

681
00:30:12,120 --> 00:30:15,080
Speaker 2: even would bother me because I don't even care, because

682
00:30:15,080 --> 00:30:17,160
Speaker 2: I don't be wanting to see no nigga every day. No,

683
00:30:17,320 --> 00:30:18,080
Speaker 2: I was a life.

684
00:30:18,200 --> 00:30:20,800
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's not that I want to see him every day,

685
00:30:20,840 --> 00:30:23,760
Speaker 1: but it's like, sometimes I would like to just you know, sit,

686
00:30:23,840 --> 00:30:25,240
Speaker 1: You'll have a glass of wine and be like, oh,

687
00:30:25,360 --> 00:30:26,480
Speaker 1: let me tell you how Charlotte went.

688
00:30:26,600 --> 00:30:28,880
Speaker 2: I'm just for me. It's just the thought of knowing

689
00:30:28,960 --> 00:30:33,160
Speaker 2: that you got another beach that is technically higher than

690
00:30:33,200 --> 00:30:35,560
Speaker 2: me on a totem bone, you had to.

691
00:30:35,480 --> 00:30:38,960
Speaker 1: Say technically, all right, all right, we're gonna move on.

692
00:30:38,960 --> 00:30:39,480
Speaker 2: I don't like that.

693
00:30:39,600 --> 00:30:42,080
Speaker 1: We're gonna move on. Okay, so bring in the next topic.

694
00:30:43,120 --> 00:30:45,000
Speaker 2: Okay. So for the next topic, we wanted to talk

695
00:30:45,040 --> 00:30:48,840
Speaker 2: about fetish versus preference because I think that a lot

696
00:30:48,880 --> 00:30:51,520
Speaker 2: of people love to say, oh, that's just my preference, like,

697
00:30:51,800 --> 00:30:55,360
Speaker 2: for example, a man who likes light skinned women over

698
00:30:55,680 --> 00:30:57,720
Speaker 2: darker skinned women. You know, a lot of people like

699
00:30:57,760 --> 00:31:00,200
Speaker 2: to say, oh, that's my preference. But then I feel like,

700
00:31:00,240 --> 00:31:03,400
Speaker 2: if it's something that you do all the time and

701
00:31:03,440 --> 00:31:06,120
Speaker 2: you consciously seek it out, maybe it's more of a

702
00:31:06,120 --> 00:31:08,440
Speaker 2: fetish than a preference.

703
00:31:08,600 --> 00:31:15,760
Speaker 1: Okay, so let's look up the definition of fetish because.

704
00:31:16,840 --> 00:31:19,120
Speaker 2: I feel to me a preference, Like you can have

705
00:31:19,160 --> 00:31:22,120
Speaker 2: a preference, but you still would date other people.

706
00:31:21,840 --> 00:31:25,120
Speaker 1: Right, Okay, I agree with that. Okay, Yeah, the definition

707
00:31:25,160 --> 00:31:28,560
Speaker 1: of fetish, it says a form of sexual desire in

708
00:31:28,560 --> 00:31:32,640
Speaker 1: which gratification is linked to a to an abnormal degree

709
00:31:32,960 --> 00:31:36,960
Speaker 1: to a particular object, item of clothing, or part of

710
00:31:37,000 --> 00:31:42,280
Speaker 1: the body, et cetera. So we start getting into the

711
00:31:42,320 --> 00:31:45,880
Speaker 1: fetish of things. Is like, okay, if you're a black

712
00:31:45,920 --> 00:31:48,720
Speaker 1: woman and you're dating a white man and he says, oh,

713
00:31:48,800 --> 00:31:51,400
Speaker 1: I just prefer today black women. Why do you prefer

714
00:31:51,400 --> 00:31:55,640
Speaker 1: today black women? Though? To me, if he immediately goes to, oh,

715
00:31:55,680 --> 00:31:58,680
Speaker 1: I just love the melon in her skin, it's given

716
00:31:58,960 --> 00:32:03,240
Speaker 1: challenge he starts referring to as brownie, a brownie goddess.

717
00:32:03,520 --> 00:32:07,000
Speaker 1: If he starts calling you food names and he just

718
00:32:07,040 --> 00:32:10,760
Speaker 1: talks about how your skin makes him horny, that's somebody

719
00:32:10,800 --> 00:32:11,520
Speaker 1: who looks at.

720
00:32:11,440 --> 00:32:14,800
Speaker 2: You like a fetish, like when you are.

721
00:32:14,760 --> 00:32:16,240
Speaker 1: Talking about straight.

722
00:32:17,800 --> 00:32:22,840
Speaker 2: That big brown brown booty.

723
00:32:23,120 --> 00:32:26,760
Speaker 1: Hold on, God damn it, because why are you objectify

724
00:32:26,920 --> 00:32:30,560
Speaker 1: me to the reasons why you like me? Because I

725
00:32:30,800 --> 00:32:33,000
Speaker 1: like to think that the men that I deal with.

726
00:32:33,120 --> 00:32:35,760
Speaker 1: Of course they're physically attracted to me, like, but when

727
00:32:35,800 --> 00:32:38,200
Speaker 1: they describe how I look, it's, oh, she has a

728
00:32:38,200 --> 00:32:41,520
Speaker 1: beautiful face, she has a nice body. But on that

729
00:32:41,840 --> 00:32:45,959
Speaker 1: she has an amazing personality. She's educated, she is ambitious,

730
00:32:45,960 --> 00:32:49,120
Speaker 1: she's driven, you know what I'm saying. Like even somebody says,

731
00:32:49,120 --> 00:32:50,920
Speaker 1: you know what, I like her attitude. She has a

732
00:32:50,920 --> 00:32:54,400
Speaker 1: no nonsense attitude. She don't take shit from nobody type anything.

733
00:32:54,840 --> 00:32:58,160
Speaker 1: But once they just start melting it down to just

734
00:32:58,400 --> 00:33:02,440
Speaker 1: your physical what you have to bring physically, that's a fetish. Boo,

735
00:33:03,200 --> 00:33:05,800
Speaker 1: that's a fetish, And let's get to it. I'm gonna

736
00:33:05,800 --> 00:33:09,760
Speaker 1: say it. I might ruffle some feathers, but I feel

737
00:33:09,800 --> 00:33:11,560
Speaker 1: that be a lot of the case. A lot of

738
00:33:11,600 --> 00:33:14,040
Speaker 1: times with white women that.

739
00:33:14,000 --> 00:33:16,360
Speaker 2: Deal with black men, you think it's a fetish.

740
00:33:17,000 --> 00:33:20,240
Speaker 1: Sometimes it be a fetish, and sometimes it be just

741
00:33:20,280 --> 00:33:21,240
Speaker 1: because they have money.

742
00:33:24,000 --> 00:33:26,480
Speaker 2: But I mean a lot of white men have money though,

743
00:33:26,520 --> 00:33:28,520
Speaker 2: So I feel I agree with you with it being

744
00:33:28,520 --> 00:33:30,480
Speaker 2: a fetish because if all you date is black men

745
00:33:30,520 --> 00:33:32,440
Speaker 2: and you white, then maybe you do have a fetish

746
00:33:32,960 --> 00:33:35,040
Speaker 2: because it's a lot of white men they got money too.

747
00:33:35,560 --> 00:33:39,240
Speaker 1: What you mean, Oh yeah, yeah, yeah, oh, I like

748
00:33:39,320 --> 00:33:42,840
Speaker 1: the way you think unsung. Yeah, but yeah, that's what

749
00:33:42,920 --> 00:33:43,400
Speaker 1: I'm saying.

750
00:33:43,440 --> 00:33:44,720
Speaker 2: So I don't know.

751
00:33:44,800 --> 00:33:47,280
Speaker 1: I just think it's a very touchy subject, and I

752
00:33:47,280 --> 00:33:48,240
Speaker 1: think it gets weird.

753
00:33:48,400 --> 00:33:51,080
Speaker 2: Why is it touchy though, because I don't I agree

754
00:33:51,120 --> 00:33:54,040
Speaker 2: with you, Like, it's weird to me when people only

755
00:33:54,120 --> 00:33:59,600
Speaker 2: date one specific type of looking people, right, Like, it.

756
00:33:59,560 --> 00:34:03,480
Speaker 1: Gets very very fucking weird. Like I'm not gonna lie.

757
00:34:04,320 --> 00:34:07,400
Speaker 2: Like I prefer tall men. I prefer men that are

758
00:34:07,560 --> 00:34:11,080
Speaker 2: taller than me. Well, every dude I have every dated

759
00:34:11,120 --> 00:34:13,600
Speaker 2: be taller than me. I mean, but your three. But

760
00:34:13,640 --> 00:34:16,120
Speaker 2: that's exactly. But that's the point that I'm making, Like

761
00:34:16,360 --> 00:34:19,280
Speaker 2: I prefer men that are like six foot and taller.

762
00:34:19,760 --> 00:34:23,040
Speaker 2: But I but it's not a fetish because you've seen

763
00:34:23,200 --> 00:34:25,759
Speaker 2: updated guys that are like maybe like three inches taller

764
00:34:25,800 --> 00:34:27,840
Speaker 2: to me, five four or five inches taller to me.

765
00:34:27,880 --> 00:34:30,520
Speaker 1: They don't everybody is taller than me. So let's just

766
00:34:31,040 --> 00:34:34,240
Speaker 1: but I'm saying, I prefer todate men that are way

767
00:34:34,360 --> 00:34:36,240
Speaker 1: taller than me. I don't want to date no nigga

768
00:34:36,239 --> 00:34:38,200
Speaker 1: who is like three inches taller than me, but I have.

769
00:34:38,960 --> 00:34:41,520
Speaker 1: But that's the thing, this is a side topic. You

770
00:34:41,680 --> 00:34:47,279
Speaker 1: short bitches the six foot niggas. No, y'all ain't shit.

771
00:34:47,440 --> 00:34:50,520
Speaker 2: Why would I do that? Mmm? They be f to us.

772
00:34:50,760 --> 00:34:52,000
Speaker 2: They like the little women.

773
00:34:52,000 --> 00:34:53,480
Speaker 1: They really you know what's crazy.

774
00:34:53,600 --> 00:34:56,480
Speaker 2: I think they like the contrast, some of them do.

775
00:34:56,680 --> 00:34:59,680
Speaker 1: But you know what I've noticed, like of recent like

776
00:35:00,120 --> 00:35:03,360
Speaker 1: niggas really like big like tall women. And I noticed

777
00:35:03,400 --> 00:35:06,279
Speaker 1: that at the live show, like the you guys that

778
00:35:06,320 --> 00:35:08,839
Speaker 1: we had were there, they were just like amazed. They

779
00:35:08,840 --> 00:35:10,480
Speaker 1: love a little Amazon.

780
00:35:10,719 --> 00:35:11,760
Speaker 2: You know, no Amazon.

781
00:35:11,880 --> 00:35:14,239
Speaker 1: Now, Like I hate when you say this, the way

782
00:35:14,320 --> 00:35:16,239
Speaker 1: legs talk, you would think she like six feet.

783
00:35:16,320 --> 00:35:17,600
Speaker 2: This bitch is five to seven.

784
00:35:17,840 --> 00:35:22,200
Speaker 1: Hey, hey, hey, that's tall on that's not tall, bro.

785
00:35:22,360 --> 00:35:24,759
Speaker 1: When I put on my heels, okay, when you put

786
00:35:24,800 --> 00:35:27,080
Speaker 1: your heels on, yeh, I'm towering.

787
00:35:26,680 --> 00:35:30,000
Speaker 2: Over these but all these bitches. But when I think

788
00:35:30,000 --> 00:35:32,040
Speaker 2: of an Amazon, I think of a woman who is

789
00:35:32,200 --> 00:35:34,760
Speaker 2: like five ten without heels.

790
00:35:35,520 --> 00:35:36,520
Speaker 1: Okay, let me say this.

791
00:35:37,520 --> 00:35:38,920
Speaker 2: I'm like supermodel.

792
00:35:40,120 --> 00:35:42,120
Speaker 1: I'm modelesque.

793
00:35:42,920 --> 00:35:46,120
Speaker 2: You couldn't be no super model though you're not tall enough.

794
00:35:47,200 --> 00:35:48,319
Speaker 2: You're not tall enough.

795
00:35:48,960 --> 00:35:52,600
Speaker 1: Look that neck, it's given giraffe.

796
00:35:52,800 --> 00:35:54,400
Speaker 2: I mean you could be a model, but I don't know.

797
00:35:54,640 --> 00:35:56,240
Speaker 2: I'm talking about like supermodels.

798
00:35:56,239 --> 00:35:58,359
Speaker 1: Okay, let me say this, so.

799
00:35:58,680 --> 00:35:59,359
Speaker 2: Neither one of us.

800
00:35:59,440 --> 00:36:02,279
Speaker 1: I'm tall, but it's because I'm like thick, like I'm

801
00:36:02,320 --> 00:36:03,040
Speaker 1: a big woman.

802
00:36:03,840 --> 00:36:06,200
Speaker 2: Are you a bb Yes I am.

803
00:36:06,600 --> 00:36:09,520
Speaker 1: I wait too hot right now, I don't gained some weight.

804
00:36:09,640 --> 00:36:10,480
Speaker 2: That's a lot of women.

805
00:36:10,960 --> 00:36:12,200
Speaker 1: It's a whole lot of one.

806
00:36:12,200 --> 00:36:13,279
Speaker 2: I'm think too right now.

807
00:36:14,520 --> 00:36:19,520
Speaker 1: But you're still little. This is a stallion. We not

808
00:36:19,560 --> 00:36:21,960
Speaker 1: gonna do this again because we did this before, and

809
00:36:22,080 --> 00:36:24,640
Speaker 1: I am a stallion. You're not. You're a giving pony.

810
00:36:24,680 --> 00:36:29,680
Speaker 1: A pony is still thick, but you're not giving stallion.

811
00:36:30,800 --> 00:36:33,120
Speaker 2: This is a stallion, not my little pony.

812
00:36:33,360 --> 00:36:36,279
Speaker 1: Yes, my little pony. Anyways, were getting off topic. We

813
00:36:36,320 --> 00:36:38,760
Speaker 1: getting off topic. So yes, I feel like you prefer

814
00:36:38,920 --> 00:36:40,920
Speaker 1: men that are taller than you because that's what you like.

815
00:36:41,000 --> 00:36:43,960
Speaker 1: But it's not like you get so turned on and

816
00:36:44,000 --> 00:36:46,200
Speaker 1: it's just like a height thing and you run now

817
00:36:46,719 --> 00:36:47,560
Speaker 1: and doing all some.

818
00:36:47,560 --> 00:36:49,240
Speaker 2: Weird hipp brobbing his knees.

819
00:36:49,360 --> 00:36:52,960
Speaker 1: Yeah, to stimulate the growth, make him grow a little more,

820
00:36:54,200 --> 00:36:55,040
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying.

821
00:36:55,760 --> 00:36:56,360
Speaker 2: Done growing?

822
00:36:56,640 --> 00:36:58,400
Speaker 1: You never know, you never know.

823
00:36:58,680 --> 00:37:01,680
Speaker 2: Not he a growth but not sure.

824
00:37:02,920 --> 00:37:05,440
Speaker 1: But I just do feel like it's a touchy subject

825
00:37:05,440 --> 00:37:08,319
Speaker 1: because people don't want to admit that sometimes like you

826
00:37:08,600 --> 00:37:11,960
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Speaker 2: Do you feel like a fetishes?

846
00:38:15,480 --> 00:38:18,480
Speaker 1: No? I really don't. I'm not weird. Like as much

847
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Speaker 1: as we talk about sex, we've always admitted that we're

848
00:38:21,160 --> 00:38:24,080
Speaker 1: really vanilla when it comes to sex, because yeah, we

849
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Speaker 1: use a little toys, you know what I'm saying, a

850
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851
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Speaker 1: the extreme end of sex. Like now at this point,

852
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Speaker 1: I'm turned on more by an emotional connection, a spiritual connection,

853
00:38:39,120 --> 00:38:43,080
Speaker 1: versus a physical So I've dated men that are brown skin,

854
00:38:43,480 --> 00:38:46,320
Speaker 1: light skin, I've dated white men. I've dated all types

855
00:38:46,360 --> 00:38:47,839
Speaker 1: of men, you know what I'm saying.

856
00:38:48,640 --> 00:38:50,680
Speaker 2: Now, I do, like I said, it's a nice little

857
00:38:50,680 --> 00:38:51,879
Speaker 2: worth I do like.

858
00:38:51,840 --> 00:38:54,359
Speaker 1: But I prefer black men because I feel like they

859
00:38:54,440 --> 00:38:58,239
Speaker 1: understand me. It's just a connection that if I have

860
00:38:58,320 --> 00:39:02,120
Speaker 1: a son, and that my son is going to be black,

861
00:39:02,160 --> 00:39:05,960
Speaker 1: no matter what, I don't feel like. I don't want

862
00:39:05,960 --> 00:39:09,120
Speaker 1: to fend anybody, but I this is just my personal preference.

863
00:39:09,280 --> 00:39:11,360
Speaker 1: I don't feel like a white man could raise my

864
00:39:11,480 --> 00:39:15,760
Speaker 1: son correctly. That's just my opinion, just because there's certain

865
00:39:15,840 --> 00:39:18,239
Speaker 1: things and experiences in life that you go through, and

866
00:39:18,280 --> 00:39:21,360
Speaker 1: this is I'm speaking on this being somebody who grew

867
00:39:21,440 --> 00:39:23,640
Speaker 1: up like in an all white school, in an all

868
00:39:23,680 --> 00:39:26,719
Speaker 1: white town, and just no matter what, you just feel.

869
00:39:26,480 --> 00:39:28,919
Speaker 2: So you basically feel like a white man cannot raise

870
00:39:28,960 --> 00:39:32,200
Speaker 2: your black sons, cause your son gonna be black. Yeah, yeah,

871
00:39:32,320 --> 00:39:33,920
Speaker 2: And I will say I agree.

872
00:39:33,760 --> 00:39:35,920
Speaker 1: That to a certain extent. The things that I went

873
00:39:35,960 --> 00:39:39,000
Speaker 1: through growing up, I can't even describe to people because

874
00:39:39,440 --> 00:39:41,640
Speaker 1: you will never know how it feels for people to

875
00:39:41,760 --> 00:39:45,239
Speaker 1: love you and accept you. Like all my friends growing up,

876
00:39:45,440 --> 00:39:48,000
Speaker 1: their families were nice to me. It was such warming,

877
00:39:48,080 --> 00:39:51,160
Speaker 1: but all that love, but you still don't feel like

878
00:39:51,200 --> 00:39:53,480
Speaker 1: you fit in and you still don't feel like an equal.

879
00:39:53,600 --> 00:39:56,160
Speaker 2: I mean, so you don't do them right.

880
00:39:56,360 --> 00:39:59,920
Speaker 1: So it's like I would never want my child to

881
00:40:00,160 --> 00:40:01,759
Speaker 1: to go through that. And this is not a dis

882
00:40:01,880 --> 00:40:05,600
Speaker 1: song anybody, Like I have a cousin who's mixed, Like

883
00:40:05,920 --> 00:40:09,080
Speaker 1: it ain't mixed cousin. If you believe in all you,

884
00:40:09,600 --> 00:40:12,960
Speaker 1: that's just this is just my preference. It's just my preference.

885
00:40:13,040 --> 00:40:16,080
Speaker 1: Like I would rather not have to deal with that,

886
00:40:16,080 --> 00:40:18,960
Speaker 1: that type of thing, those type of things. But like

887
00:40:19,000 --> 00:40:22,359
Speaker 1: I said, I've dated white men where I know like

888
00:40:22,560 --> 00:40:24,880
Speaker 1: it wasn't a fetish, it was their preference. And then

889
00:40:24,920 --> 00:40:27,160
Speaker 1: I've met some white men where I felt like this

890
00:40:27,200 --> 00:40:29,479
Speaker 1: is a fetish, like you're weird, Like you're a weird though,

891
00:40:30,360 --> 00:40:32,160
Speaker 1: like it was more so like he was like, oh

892
00:40:32,200 --> 00:40:32,880
Speaker 1: my chocolate.

893
00:40:32,920 --> 00:40:36,120
Speaker 2: God, that's like the white man I dated, did tom.

894
00:40:35,600 --> 00:40:38,000
Speaker 1: Yes, I felt like his was a fetish no, for sure,

895
00:40:38,040 --> 00:40:40,360
Speaker 1: because that's all he dated like. He would purposely like

896
00:40:40,440 --> 00:40:42,600
Speaker 1: seek out black girls and then you had a black

897
00:40:42,640 --> 00:40:43,719
Speaker 1: girls meet dot com.

898
00:40:43,760 --> 00:40:45,040
Speaker 2: And he had to be a You had to be

899
00:40:45,080 --> 00:40:47,520
Speaker 2: a certain age, you had to look a certain way,

900
00:40:48,400 --> 00:40:51,759
Speaker 2: like all these bitches looked similar like every bitch I seen,

901
00:40:51,800 --> 00:40:54,680
Speaker 2: and he dated all kind of looks, had a similar esthetic.

902
00:40:54,400 --> 00:40:56,719
Speaker 1: And you was next on his list. Yeah, but he

903
00:40:56,760 --> 00:40:59,560
Speaker 1: wasn't inexpissy. But thanks for him shoes though. Period, I

904
00:40:59,560 --> 00:41:00,360
Speaker 1: remember that.

905
00:41:01,719 --> 00:41:04,400
Speaker 2: It was not a good time I got left. We

906
00:41:04,560 --> 00:41:07,000
Speaker 2: talk about that, and that's why I won't date a

907
00:41:07,040 --> 00:41:09,719
Speaker 2: white man. Now, you know, I.

908
00:41:09,680 --> 00:41:12,759
Speaker 1: Will say this, I won't necessarily because I don't know

909
00:41:12,800 --> 00:41:15,880
Speaker 1: if I even want kids. So I can't say that

910
00:41:15,920 --> 00:41:17,880
Speaker 1: I will never date like a white man or somebody

911
00:41:17,880 --> 00:41:19,200
Speaker 1: of a different race ever.

912
00:41:19,239 --> 00:41:22,759
Speaker 2: Again, No, I'm not saying that I won't. I'm just saying, right,

913
00:41:22,880 --> 00:41:25,239
Speaker 2: for the past few years after that experience, I have

914
00:41:25,360 --> 00:41:29,040
Speaker 2: been good. I've been good on the white men, on

915
00:41:29,080 --> 00:41:33,879
Speaker 2: the Caucasian men, white man, I've been good on them.

916
00:41:33,920 --> 00:41:36,279
Speaker 2: But I'm not saying in the future I wouldn't be

917
00:41:36,400 --> 00:41:40,600
Speaker 2: open to like dating one again, just not that kind

918
00:41:40,880 --> 00:41:43,440
Speaker 2: I need me like. But also I will send Italian

919
00:41:43,480 --> 00:41:46,200
Speaker 2: in front of my fields some one of my fiew

920
00:41:46,239 --> 00:41:46,800
Speaker 2: Why would.

921
00:41:46,640 --> 00:41:48,319
Speaker 1: You say that they are more than that?

922
00:41:49,960 --> 00:41:51,360
Speaker 2: No, they are more than that. I just said this

923
00:41:51,400 --> 00:41:55,200
Speaker 2: is the one I won't That's the one.

924
00:41:55,239 --> 00:41:58,879
Speaker 1: I like that. I'm so obsessed, y'all. I'm so fun

925
00:41:58,920 --> 00:41:59,520
Speaker 1: fact about me.

926
00:41:59,600 --> 00:42:04,120
Speaker 2: I'm so says for like my movies Mafia Ship because

927
00:42:04,160 --> 00:42:10,920
Speaker 2: I love the way they moved as cleon. How that

928
00:42:10,960 --> 00:42:11,520
Speaker 2: sounds dre.

929
00:42:12,480 --> 00:42:22,440
Speaker 1: It sounds stupid. I'm sorry. I'm sorry, Fred, I'm sorry.

930
00:42:21,560 --> 00:42:26,480
Speaker 1: I thought I had a nice ship. I thought you

931
00:42:27,600 --> 00:42:35,720
Speaker 1: no fucking everything you got? You ate that. I thought

932
00:42:35,719 --> 00:42:38,800
Speaker 1: it had a nice ring to it. If y'all name Bennie,

933
00:42:39,640 --> 00:42:46,240
Speaker 1: get in me period. Okay, so we're gonna uh move on. Okay,

934
00:42:46,920 --> 00:42:48,080
Speaker 1: So now.

935
00:42:48,040 --> 00:42:56,439
Speaker 2: We're gonna get into the bow about about about a song?

936
00:42:56,600 --> 00:42:56,799
Speaker 1: Huh?

937
00:42:57,440 --> 00:43:00,719
Speaker 2: Quick question? What what kind of last name? Like the

938
00:43:00,840 --> 00:43:03,760
Speaker 2: dudes that you used today have like Kopowski.

939
00:43:05,680 --> 00:43:07,359
Speaker 1: Hey, white people, they last name?

940
00:43:10,760 --> 00:43:13,759
Speaker 2: Did you date somebody with her last name like that?

941
00:43:14,640 --> 00:43:14,719
Speaker 1: No?

942
00:43:14,880 --> 00:43:17,840
Speaker 2: But I knew one for what was it? What was he?

943
00:43:18,040 --> 00:43:20,360
Speaker 1: I really can't remember but it was a lot of

944
00:43:20,360 --> 00:43:22,480
Speaker 1: it had to I really want to say. It was

945
00:43:22,560 --> 00:43:26,120
Speaker 1: I'm not trying to be funny of Zabowski or something. No.

946
00:43:26,280 --> 00:43:29,399
Speaker 1: See if she say that, she's like Tierra, I don't

947
00:43:29,560 --> 00:43:35,080
Speaker 1: like that. But it's okay because literally you were my

948
00:43:35,320 --> 00:43:40,400
Speaker 1: best friend. That's how I love that. Your show is

949
00:43:40,520 --> 00:43:41,560
Speaker 1: just so funny.

950
00:43:41,719 --> 00:43:42,480
Speaker 2: It's so funny.

951
00:43:42,560 --> 00:43:44,839
Speaker 1: I love my friends, I really do. I really love

952
00:43:44,920 --> 00:43:47,319
Speaker 1: them down Okay, so now we're gonna get into the bed.

953
00:43:47,440 --> 00:43:52,200
Speaker 1: So today we wanted to talk about strange sex facts.

954
00:43:52,400 --> 00:43:54,120
Speaker 1: One thing I love about this show is we gonna

955
00:43:54,160 --> 00:43:57,600
Speaker 1: learnt y'all something. Y'all gonna learn something. No matter what,

956
00:43:57,640 --> 00:44:00,839
Speaker 1: you're gonna take away one fact that you just never

957
00:44:00,920 --> 00:44:05,799
Speaker 1: knew because I just love knowing random facts that I have. No,

958
00:44:05,960 --> 00:44:08,160
Speaker 1: it's not gonna help me in life. It's not gonna

959
00:44:08,160 --> 00:44:10,960
Speaker 1: get me anywhere. But I just know this, but it's

960
00:44:10,960 --> 00:44:13,480
Speaker 1: a fact. It's just a fucking fact. I know.

961
00:44:13,600 --> 00:44:15,600
Speaker 2: I feel like I know a lot of random facts too.

962
00:44:15,840 --> 00:44:17,799
Speaker 1: Like random facts are like the best thing to just

963
00:44:17,840 --> 00:44:21,400
Speaker 1: like randomly say, like whenever you're with somebody. So these

964
00:44:21,520 --> 00:44:24,919
Speaker 1: are some random strange sex facts. You want to start

965
00:44:25,400 --> 00:44:29,360
Speaker 1: read one girl, you want me to start or go ahead, No.

966
00:44:29,440 --> 00:44:32,080
Speaker 2: I can start, Okay. The record for the most female

967
00:44:32,200 --> 00:44:37,360
Speaker 2: orgasms is one hundred and thirty four in one hour. Bitch,

968
00:44:37,400 --> 00:44:39,040
Speaker 2: take me to the king. I don't want to have

969
00:44:39,080 --> 00:44:40,640
Speaker 2: no hundred in cause you.

970
00:44:40,920 --> 00:44:42,719
Speaker 1: I don't want to have one hundred and thirty four

971
00:44:42,880 --> 00:44:44,319
Speaker 1: orgasms in an hour, Bitch.

972
00:44:44,400 --> 00:44:47,080
Speaker 2: That sounds like misery be saying.

973
00:44:47,200 --> 00:44:54,799
Speaker 1: You're like, oh, that's what it's given in that hour hour. Man,

974
00:44:54,920 --> 00:44:57,000
Speaker 1: y'all feel like if I had that many orgasms, I

975
00:44:57,040 --> 00:44:59,480
Speaker 1: couldn't even fucking let out shit. I just be there

976
00:44:59,560 --> 00:45:05,319
Speaker 1: like see, it's not saying nothing, just shaking. That's on

977
00:45:05,320 --> 00:45:09,640
Speaker 1: one three. That's a lot, Okay. I want to read

978
00:45:09,680 --> 00:45:12,680
Speaker 1: this one because this one is near to my heart,

979
00:45:13,200 --> 00:45:17,600
Speaker 1: oh brother, because I think you need to understand what

980
00:45:17,800 --> 00:45:24,880
Speaker 1: I come from. Top ten most sexually satisfied countries. The

981
00:45:24,920 --> 00:45:33,160
Speaker 1: first one is Nigeria at sixty seven percent period. Like

982
00:45:33,560 --> 00:45:35,480
Speaker 1: that's a fact that you need to know now, minds you?

983
00:45:35,800 --> 00:45:36,800
Speaker 2: Why do I need to know that?

984
00:45:37,360 --> 00:45:39,680
Speaker 1: Because y'all want to talk about me. Why I got

985
00:45:39,680 --> 00:45:43,000
Speaker 1: that flag in my name? Now you know? Now you

986
00:45:43,120 --> 00:45:46,560
Speaker 1: know I love my Nigerian kings. Shout out to Nigeria.

987
00:45:46,960 --> 00:45:49,400
Speaker 2: Where's the US Act. And these make a lot of

988
00:45:49,440 --> 00:45:52,759
Speaker 2: fucking scenes because he's fucking second to last, right.

989
00:45:52,719 --> 00:45:55,280
Speaker 1: You would say second last, But guess what Japan is? Okay,

990
00:45:55,320 --> 00:45:57,719
Speaker 1: So let's go through the list. I'm sorry. So Nigeria

991
00:45:57,800 --> 00:46:01,560
Speaker 1: is first with sixty seven percent. Mexico is second.

992
00:46:01,239 --> 00:46:04,239
Speaker 2: With to give me a Mexican, holler at me.

993
00:46:04,600 --> 00:46:09,040
Speaker 1: Carlo is. Now you better clarify that. We're like, oh,

994
00:46:09,080 --> 00:46:14,319
Speaker 1: she said, Carlos's name, Well, clearly collins name Mexican, no Dominican,

995
00:46:14,360 --> 00:46:16,520
Speaker 1: and him don't do him, don't.

996
00:46:16,239 --> 00:46:19,160
Speaker 2: Do him, okay, we said, metsucky.

997
00:46:19,280 --> 00:46:21,239
Speaker 1: Oh, my bad, my bad. Okay. So the third is

998
00:46:21,320 --> 00:46:25,720
Speaker 1: India with sixty one percent. Fourth is Poland with fifty

999
00:46:25,760 --> 00:46:28,720
Speaker 1: four percent. Now, who knew that Poland was slanging that meat?

1000
00:46:28,920 --> 00:46:30,759
Speaker 2: I ain't know nothing about that, but they do, ain't

1001
00:46:30,800 --> 00:46:31,920
Speaker 2: They popular for saucage?

1002
00:46:32,080 --> 00:46:37,600
Speaker 1: Poland sausage? Hey? Okay? Okay? So after that it's Greece

1003
00:46:37,680 --> 00:46:41,520
Speaker 1: with fifty one percent, Holland with fifty percent.

1004
00:46:41,320 --> 00:46:44,080
Speaker 2: Holland, holler at me, Holler at your ball.

1005
00:46:45,400 --> 00:46:49,320
Speaker 1: South Africa with fifty percent, Spain with forty nine percent,

1006
00:46:49,800 --> 00:46:53,320
Speaker 1: Canada with forty eight percent, USA with forty eight percent,

1007
00:46:53,560 --> 00:46:57,719
Speaker 1: and the last one says sadly, Japan ranked last, with.

1008
00:46:57,640 --> 00:47:05,200
Speaker 2: Only why they have to put it sadly first percent. Well, alright,

1009
00:47:05,239 --> 00:47:09,320
Speaker 2: move on, okay, so what else you got? A single

1010
00:47:09,440 --> 00:47:12,600
Speaker 2: human male produces enough sperm in two weeks to impregnate

1011
00:47:12,680 --> 00:47:14,320
Speaker 2: every fertile woman on the planet.

1012
00:47:14,760 --> 00:47:18,960
Speaker 1: That's that's why these niggas is horny and may be

1013
00:47:19,080 --> 00:47:26,879
Speaker 1: having like fourteen baby mama. They do all the fucking sperm. Okay,

1014
00:47:27,800 --> 00:47:31,200
Speaker 1: Fat men last longer, that's our debate.

1015
00:47:31,280 --> 00:47:35,919
Speaker 2: Eg oh no, let me read, let.

1016
00:47:35,920 --> 00:47:40,640
Speaker 1: Me read the guy. Fat. Fat guys last on average

1017
00:47:40,719 --> 00:47:43,799
Speaker 1: over three times as long in the bedroom. A twenty

1018
00:47:43,840 --> 00:47:47,680
Speaker 1: ten Turkish study looked into the average performance times of

1019
00:47:47,800 --> 00:47:50,600
Speaker 1: men over the course of a year. The researchers found

1020
00:47:50,640 --> 00:47:56,640
Speaker 1: that fat man could keep going fat man, fat man.

1021
00:47:56,760 --> 00:48:01,839
Speaker 2: Thats up, man, I said, fat man, the.

1022
00:48:01,880 --> 00:48:07,280
Speaker 1: Fat man could go for an average of seven minutes

1023
00:48:07,320 --> 00:48:10,879
Speaker 1: and eighteen seconds, while skinny guys had to put up

1024
00:48:11,080 --> 00:48:13,080
Speaker 1: with a near one hundred and eight.

1025
00:48:13,239 --> 00:48:16,640
Speaker 2: That's a lie. That's a lie. Fat niggas do not

1026
00:48:16,680 --> 00:48:19,640
Speaker 2: be lasting. And I'm gonna just leave it at a.

1027
00:48:21,800 --> 00:48:23,839
Speaker 1: Not never mind mind.

1028
00:48:27,920 --> 00:48:29,719
Speaker 2: Yeah, I just gonna have to take my word for

1029
00:48:30,360 --> 00:48:32,799
Speaker 2: but I know because I am a I.

1030
00:48:32,719 --> 00:48:39,480
Speaker 1: Am a chubby chaser, if you will. No, not a

1031
00:48:39,480 --> 00:48:42,759
Speaker 1: fetish niggers. You look like your sucking nigga. They can

1032
00:48:42,800 --> 00:48:43,879
Speaker 1: put his stomach on your head.

1033
00:48:45,520 --> 00:48:47,439
Speaker 2: No, I ain't never fucked with nobody that fat.

1034
00:48:48,280 --> 00:48:48,360
Speaker 1: Like.

1035
00:48:48,440 --> 00:48:50,719
Speaker 2: That's where I crossed the line. I ain't never had

1036
00:48:50,719 --> 00:48:52,880
Speaker 2: to lift No, I ain't never had to lift no stomach.

1037
00:48:53,320 --> 00:48:55,879
Speaker 1: Goofy ship like that. You'll be like, look at my hat,

1038
00:48:57,320 --> 00:48:59,239
Speaker 1: Look at the my hat. That would ruin the mold

1039
00:48:59,239 --> 00:49:01,040
Speaker 1: when I'm having to say, when I be fucking, I'm

1040
00:49:01,160 --> 00:49:04,359
Speaker 1: very sexy. Hold on, wait, let's hold on.

1041
00:49:04,400 --> 00:49:06,120
Speaker 2: I'm not about to be goofy. You're the one who

1042
00:49:06,320 --> 00:49:07,919
Speaker 2: probably cracking jokes during sex.

1043
00:49:08,200 --> 00:49:13,040
Speaker 1: I'd be like, that's uncle Bobby, y'all.

1044
00:49:14,360 --> 00:49:16,279
Speaker 2: See now, I'll be doing none of this shit.

1045
00:49:16,400 --> 00:49:18,920
Speaker 1: Wait, why did I read side note? Why did I

1046
00:49:19,040 --> 00:49:22,759
Speaker 1: read an article yesterday that said Tyler Perry talks like

1047
00:49:22,840 --> 00:49:25,360
Speaker 1: Medea during sex, like to crack jokes.

1048
00:49:25,400 --> 00:49:27,440
Speaker 2: I mean you said you were fuck media.

1049
00:49:29,000 --> 00:49:32,080
Speaker 1: Media. Now he said that he actually talks like media

1050
00:49:32,160 --> 00:49:32,480
Speaker 1: during s.

1051
00:49:32,640 --> 00:49:34,800
Speaker 2: He said he said that, yes, in an interview.

1052
00:49:34,800 --> 00:49:37,080
Speaker 1: I don't well, let me not really, because you know,

1053
00:49:37,200 --> 00:49:39,160
Speaker 1: sometimes people do fake interviews. But I think that would

1054
00:49:39,200 --> 00:49:41,320
Speaker 1: be amazing and funny.

1055
00:49:42,080 --> 00:49:44,120
Speaker 2: But no, yeah, I'm not a chubby. I ain't a

1056
00:49:44,200 --> 00:49:46,239
Speaker 2: chubby chaser for real, chub me. Niggas just like me.

1057
00:49:46,600 --> 00:49:49,360
Speaker 2: I like niggas who got a little billy money, billy

1058
00:49:49,800 --> 00:49:54,440
Speaker 2: all right, fetish. I don't want you if you like

1059
00:49:54,480 --> 00:49:55,120
Speaker 2: all cut up.

1060
00:49:55,520 --> 00:49:56,840
Speaker 1: I like a little cut up nigga.

1061
00:49:57,320 --> 00:49:58,160
Speaker 2: You too swollen?

1062
00:49:58,440 --> 00:50:03,200
Speaker 1: I like my nigga swollen. I don't like beef beans niggas.

1063
00:50:02,960 --> 00:50:05,239
Speaker 2: Girl niggas like they don't even have no nick. They

1064
00:50:05,680 --> 00:50:09,359
Speaker 2: me little as fuck, popping out shit, and I thank you.

1065
00:50:10,680 --> 00:50:14,720
Speaker 2: Mm hmmm. Almost a third of all women over eighty

1066
00:50:14,800 --> 00:50:17,600
Speaker 2: years of age still have sex with their partners.

1067
00:50:18,040 --> 00:50:20,520
Speaker 1: Mmmm. That makes sense because I feel like we always

1068
00:50:20,560 --> 00:50:23,880
Speaker 1: say that, like our sex drive becomes higher as we

1069
00:50:23,920 --> 00:50:26,040
Speaker 1: get older, you know what I'm saying.

1070
00:50:26,080 --> 00:50:30,000
Speaker 2: So I don't give a fuck at eighty you still

1071
00:50:30,000 --> 00:50:31,880
Speaker 2: busting that thing on. I don't think. So that's all

1072
00:50:31,880 --> 00:50:33,239
Speaker 2: about the say. I think I'm gonna have to hang

1073
00:50:33,280 --> 00:50:34,360
Speaker 2: it up. I'm not me.

1074
00:50:34,440 --> 00:50:37,040
Speaker 1: I'm gonna still be on Instagram showing this pussy trying

1075
00:50:37,040 --> 00:50:37,720
Speaker 1: to get me one.

1076
00:50:38,520 --> 00:50:41,160
Speaker 2: If you ain't got one by eighty, I don't know

1077
00:50:41,200 --> 00:50:43,799
Speaker 2: what to still you. I don't think you should still

1078
00:50:43,840 --> 00:50:45,920
Speaker 2: be you never supposed to give up.

1079
00:50:46,880 --> 00:50:51,280
Speaker 1: Okay, so we're gonna do two more, okay, the piece,

1080
00:50:51,600 --> 00:50:53,680
Speaker 1: yeah no, no, no one. Then this is gonna be my

1081
00:50:53,800 --> 00:50:59,120
Speaker 1: last one. Okay, hold on, okay, because it's it's a

1082
00:50:59,160 --> 00:51:01,800
Speaker 1: lot of good ones on this. A man can reduce

1083
00:51:01,880 --> 00:51:05,319
Speaker 1: his chances of getting prostate cancer by having at least

1084
00:51:05,440 --> 00:51:08,960
Speaker 1: four orgasms a week. Take care of your man. I

1085
00:51:09,040 --> 00:51:11,640
Speaker 1: know what niggroes is now what we was having a

1086
00:51:11,640 --> 00:51:14,359
Speaker 1: good fucking time. Take care of your man. He makes

1087
00:51:14,360 --> 00:51:15,759
Speaker 1: sure he added that shit enough.

1088
00:51:17,160 --> 00:51:18,240
Speaker 2: Well, I mean.

1089
00:51:19,560 --> 00:51:22,400
Speaker 1: You bust the nut is healthy. Busting non nut is

1090
00:51:22,440 --> 00:51:23,200
Speaker 1: healthy for men.

1091
00:51:23,280 --> 00:51:25,120
Speaker 2: And I mean niggas don't do that anyway. So that's

1092
00:51:25,120 --> 00:51:28,759
Speaker 2: how they are off. They ain't get no.

1093
00:51:29,239 --> 00:51:32,000
Speaker 1: I will say men are gonna be jacking off until

1094
00:51:32,000 --> 00:51:34,680
Speaker 1: they're old oldest.

1095
00:51:34,680 --> 00:51:35,680
Speaker 2: Fuck I agree.

1096
00:51:35,880 --> 00:51:38,640
Speaker 1: One thing a man gonna do is beat his meat.

1097
00:51:39,280 --> 00:51:41,800
Speaker 2: The meat beat us, not the meat beatless.

1098
00:51:41,840 --> 00:51:45,719
Speaker 1: They are they really are, like I just felt. I

1099
00:51:45,800 --> 00:51:47,799
Speaker 1: used to think, like you know, I wonder if like

1100
00:51:47,880 --> 00:51:49,719
Speaker 1: men get a certain age they just stop, you know,

1101
00:51:49,800 --> 00:51:52,320
Speaker 1: beating their meat. But no, every man I've talked to

1102
00:51:52,520 --> 00:51:55,440
Speaker 1: married men, older men, they all still beat their meat.

1103
00:51:55,719 --> 00:51:57,960
Speaker 2: How do you know how old are we talking?

1104
00:51:58,960 --> 00:52:01,400
Speaker 1: I think the oldest guy every dated was like in

1105
00:52:01,400 --> 00:52:05,160
Speaker 1: his fifties, and he was definitely still beating his meat

1106
00:52:05,440 --> 00:52:06,040
Speaker 1: a meat beater.

1107
00:52:07,280 --> 00:52:09,799
Speaker 2: I don't like that, Okay, I think you should read

1108
00:52:09,800 --> 00:52:12,280
Speaker 2: the last one. Yeah, that's the one I was thinking

1109
00:52:12,280 --> 00:52:15,000
Speaker 2: about reading. I mean, but no, I wasn't really thinking

1110
00:52:15,000 --> 00:52:15,719
Speaker 2: about reading that one.

1111
00:52:15,760 --> 00:52:18,600
Speaker 1: I'm mean, go ahead, go ahead.

1112
00:52:20,000 --> 00:52:23,720
Speaker 2: My mom would keep calling me, sorry, y'all, I'm dead. Okay,

1113
00:52:23,960 --> 00:52:25,200
Speaker 2: I might as well read the last one.

1114
00:52:25,360 --> 00:52:25,560
Speaker 1: Great.

1115
00:52:25,960 --> 00:52:28,560
Speaker 2: The vagina and the eye are self cleaning organs, so

1116
00:52:28,600 --> 00:52:30,200
Speaker 2: you don't have to put so you don't have to

1117
00:52:30,200 --> 00:52:32,759
Speaker 2: put anything up the passage to cleaning. But I don't

1118
00:52:32,760 --> 00:52:34,560
Speaker 2: feel like that's a fun fact. I feel like every

1119
00:52:34,560 --> 00:52:37,720
Speaker 2: girl know, eg, you don't nothing up y'all vagina to cleaning.

1120
00:52:38,120 --> 00:52:42,600
Speaker 1: But people still are very much douching. So that's why

1121
00:52:43,040 --> 00:52:45,600
Speaker 1: douches are still on the market and they still be selling.

1122
00:52:45,719 --> 00:52:49,520
Speaker 2: I feel like they.

1123
00:52:48,000 --> 00:52:51,080
Speaker 1: So yeah, girls are still putting things up there vagina,

1124
00:52:51,200 --> 00:52:53,920
Speaker 1: and like I feel like the only reason like you

1125
00:52:53,920 --> 00:52:56,600
Speaker 1: should douche is like if it's just straight water and

1126
00:52:56,640 --> 00:52:58,960
Speaker 1: it's like the last day of your cycle, you know,

1127
00:52:59,080 --> 00:53:01,200
Speaker 1: just the kind of flush thing you know, but.

1128
00:53:01,280 --> 00:53:03,000
Speaker 2: I don't feel like you even need to do that.

1129
00:53:03,080 --> 00:53:05,520
Speaker 2: It's very much a self cleaning.

1130
00:53:05,520 --> 00:53:07,640
Speaker 1: It is, but I'm not necessarily trying to clean, like bitch,

1131
00:53:07,640 --> 00:53:10,520
Speaker 1: I'm trying to go fuck like, get get on speed on,

1132
00:53:10,600 --> 00:53:11,560
Speaker 1: I got things to do.

1133
00:53:11,880 --> 00:53:14,040
Speaker 2: Yeah, I just feel like, yeah, if it's like the

1134
00:53:14,160 --> 00:53:15,719
Speaker 2: last day of your period or whatever, you use a

1135
00:53:15,760 --> 00:53:19,120
Speaker 2: suppository 's au boric Asti suppository and go about your business.

1136
00:53:19,200 --> 00:53:22,160
Speaker 2: But you definitely don't need to put anything up there.

1137
00:53:22,520 --> 00:53:26,200
Speaker 2: I think the wildest thing is that like girls be

1138
00:53:26,640 --> 00:53:28,640
Speaker 2: using soap and stuff.

1139
00:53:28,920 --> 00:53:35,600
Speaker 1: And like in there, yes, like literally lathering. Yeah, that's crazy.

1140
00:53:35,880 --> 00:53:38,640
Speaker 1: Like I'm sorry, Like if you smell, if you have

1141
00:53:38,680 --> 00:53:40,520
Speaker 1: a smell down there. I don't understand why people just

1142
00:53:40,600 --> 00:53:43,440
Speaker 1: don't go to the doctor. Like, if you see anything

1143
00:53:44,200 --> 00:53:46,520
Speaker 1: going out of order with your vagina, just go to

1144
00:53:46,600 --> 00:53:49,479
Speaker 1: the doctor, because it's only gonna get worse. It ain't

1145
00:53:49,480 --> 00:53:51,759
Speaker 1: gonna get better. You shoving some all of old layup.

1146
00:53:52,920 --> 00:53:54,520
Speaker 2: I know that cool, she's funky.

1147
00:53:56,480 --> 00:53:56,799
Speaker 1: She ain't.

1148
00:53:59,080 --> 00:54:04,160
Speaker 2: He's getting too. I don't like this, all right, what's up, y'all?

1149
00:54:04,200 --> 00:54:07,120
Speaker 2: It's your girl expe and it's sugarl draining the cold

1150
00:54:07,239 --> 00:54:09,360
Speaker 2: and y'all know, we love to get our drink on.

1151
00:54:09,640 --> 00:54:11,320
Speaker 2: Not only do we love to get our drink on,

1152
00:54:11,480 --> 00:54:15,880
Speaker 2: but specifically we love Mimosa. It's getting warm outside. I

1153
00:54:15,960 --> 00:54:17,839
Speaker 2: love me a little oj in champagne.

1154
00:54:17,920 --> 00:54:20,879
Speaker 1: Yeah. So, Visy Mimosa has heart Seltzer and it's made

1155
00:54:20,920 --> 00:54:23,360
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1156
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Speaker 1: four flavors. So they got strawberry orange, pineapple, orange, peach orange,

1157
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Speaker 1: and pomegranate orange.

1158
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1159
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1160
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1161
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1162
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1163
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Speaker 2: And it passed the vibe cheek period. We love.

1164
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1171
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1172
00:55:09,680 --> 00:55:14,120
Speaker 2: You're trying to keep dizzy. Gives you some vsy So

1173
00:55:14,160 --> 00:55:17,160
Speaker 2: what we got news? So now it's time to get

1174
00:55:17,200 --> 00:55:23,960
Speaker 2: into the vibe. A dubbye ay dubby bow bow bow

1175
00:55:24,120 --> 00:55:24,640
Speaker 2: bow bow.

1176
00:55:25,239 --> 00:55:27,239
Speaker 1: Okay, So my bop of the week is a song

1177
00:55:27,400 --> 00:55:32,360
Speaker 1: by Joyce Rice. It's called Iced Tea. It's featuring uh Catandra.

1178
00:55:32,560 --> 00:55:33,920
Speaker 1: I think that's how you say his name. Did I

1179
00:55:33,960 --> 00:55:37,839
Speaker 1: say that right, y'all? So yeah, it's called Iced Tea.

1180
00:55:38,080 --> 00:55:40,400
Speaker 1: And it's just like a really good vibe. Like, like

1181
00:55:40,520 --> 00:55:44,080
Speaker 1: I said, if you don't feel like R and B

1182
00:55:44,239 --> 00:55:46,440
Speaker 1: music is here and the vibes are here, that's just

1183
00:55:46,480 --> 00:55:48,239
Speaker 1: because you're not doing your research. Like this is a

1184
00:55:48,400 --> 00:55:50,759
Speaker 1: very good song. This is actually the first song I've

1185
00:55:50,800 --> 00:55:51,359
Speaker 1: heard by her.

1186
00:55:51,480 --> 00:55:52,200
Speaker 2: I really like it.

1187
00:55:52,280 --> 00:55:55,120
Speaker 1: I'm gonna do some more research about her, but yeah,

1188
00:55:55,280 --> 00:55:59,120
Speaker 1: so it's just it's just real viby. She can she's

1189
00:55:59,160 --> 00:56:01,920
Speaker 1: talking about how she's in her bag doing her thing,

1190
00:56:02,680 --> 00:56:05,040
Speaker 1: how like she's dealing with somebody, like keep it on

1191
00:56:05,120 --> 00:56:08,799
Speaker 1: the low because I'm good by myself, Like I don't know. Yeah,

1192
00:56:08,880 --> 00:56:11,279
Speaker 1: So I like her vibe. We're gonna see. We're gonna see.

1193
00:56:11,440 --> 00:56:14,279
Speaker 1: But yeah, Joyce Rice iced Tea, that's my Bob of

1194
00:56:14,320 --> 00:56:14,600
Speaker 1: the week.

1195
00:56:15,239 --> 00:56:17,960
Speaker 2: Mm hmm, what you got now, y'all know my Bay

1196
00:56:18,000 --> 00:56:22,400
Speaker 2: of the week was gonna be Blick week by Kyle

1197
00:56:22,600 --> 00:56:27,000
Speaker 2: Ray and Nicki Mi and I. Nicki been snapping. Not

1198
00:56:27,160 --> 00:56:29,279
Speaker 2: to say that she don't always snap, but you know,

1199
00:56:29,400 --> 00:56:35,160
Speaker 2: she took a little hiatus and she wasn't right. She

1200
00:56:35,360 --> 00:56:38,080
Speaker 2: wasn't making music for a miny. She wasn't dropping nothing

1201
00:56:38,120 --> 00:56:41,440
Speaker 2: for the girls. But lately she's been coming out with

1202
00:56:41,520 --> 00:56:44,480
Speaker 2: the Bengals, So yeah, that's my mom.

1203
00:56:45,680 --> 00:56:47,160
Speaker 1: I feel like it's a great I mean, you know,

1204
00:56:47,440 --> 00:56:51,120
Speaker 1: it's almost summertime. The girl's about to be outside, and

1205
00:56:51,200 --> 00:56:53,319
Speaker 1: I'm excited because, like I said, NICKI been coming out

1206
00:56:53,360 --> 00:56:55,000
Speaker 1: with music lately, so I feel like we're about to

1207
00:56:55,040 --> 00:56:56,960
Speaker 1: have some hits for the summer. And not only that,

1208
00:56:57,200 --> 00:56:59,200
Speaker 1: like propst to call it right, because she really been

1209
00:56:59,280 --> 00:57:01,960
Speaker 1: dropping fire she has and I feel like a lot

1210
00:57:01,960 --> 00:57:03,759
Speaker 1: of people were doubting her because of who her father

1211
00:57:04,000 --> 00:57:06,480
Speaker 1: was and they didn't take her seriously. But I love

1212
00:57:06,560 --> 00:57:08,480
Speaker 1: the fact that she just embraces who she is and

1213
00:57:08,600 --> 00:57:11,120
Speaker 1: just keeps dropping this fire on y'allass because a lot

1214
00:57:11,160 --> 00:57:13,239
Speaker 1: of people be like trying to make fun of her

1215
00:57:13,360 --> 00:57:16,120
Speaker 1: and down fire just because you know how people are,

1216
00:57:16,800 --> 00:57:20,240
Speaker 1: So either way it goes. She's been consistent with dropping

1217
00:57:20,400 --> 00:57:23,800
Speaker 1: like songs that get the club going, and that's the lane.

1218
00:57:24,280 --> 00:57:27,000
Speaker 1: That's why if you can get the club going, you good.

1219
00:57:28,000 --> 00:57:28,880
Speaker 2: Alright, I'm sad.

1220
00:57:29,120 --> 00:57:31,880
Speaker 1: So now we're gonna do a quick movie breakdown. We're

1221
00:57:31,880 --> 00:57:34,680
Speaker 1: gonna do a quick movie breakdown. I had to talk

1222
00:57:34,680 --> 00:57:37,840
Speaker 1: about this movie. This movie actually came out in twenty eighteen.

1223
00:57:38,520 --> 00:57:43,600
Speaker 1: It's called American Animals. And the reason I wanted to

1224
00:57:43,600 --> 00:57:45,640
Speaker 1: talk about this movie because first of all, I love

1225
00:57:45,680 --> 00:57:47,760
Speaker 1: the way the movie was shot. So yeah, the movie

1226
00:57:47,920 --> 00:57:53,320
Speaker 1: is about four college students, four white guys that they

1227
00:57:53,360 --> 00:57:55,479
Speaker 1: were just kind of bored with life, really had nothing

1228
00:57:55,560 --> 00:57:55,880
Speaker 1: going on.

1229
00:57:56,360 --> 00:57:57,320
Speaker 2: They was from Kentucky.

1230
00:57:57,480 --> 00:58:00,160
Speaker 1: They was from Kentucky living in a small town, and

1231
00:58:00,280 --> 00:58:04,960
Speaker 1: they decided to break into their college library and still

1232
00:58:05,040 --> 00:58:07,880
Speaker 1: one of the most expensive books it was in the world.

1233
00:58:08,080 --> 00:58:10,080
Speaker 2: Yeah, it was like worth twelve million dollars.

1234
00:58:10,000 --> 00:58:12,320
Speaker 1: Very expensive book. It was like basically a book of

1235
00:58:12,400 --> 00:58:14,840
Speaker 1: like paintings. I can't remember who it was by the paintings,

1236
00:58:14,920 --> 00:58:18,600
Speaker 1: but either way, it goes. I wanted to talk about

1237
00:58:18,600 --> 00:58:21,040
Speaker 1: two points in this movie. I wanted to talk about

1238
00:58:21,080 --> 00:58:21,880
Speaker 1: how it was shot.

1239
00:58:22,800 --> 00:58:25,680
Speaker 2: Yeah, because they had like the real people in the

1240
00:58:25,760 --> 00:58:29,040
Speaker 2: movie commentating money, so the real guys that were actually

1241
00:58:29,080 --> 00:58:31,320
Speaker 2: commentating throughout the movie. And then of course they had

1242
00:58:31,400 --> 00:58:34,280
Speaker 2: like the acting. So it's kind of weird because they

1243
00:58:34,320 --> 00:58:37,240
Speaker 2: were like doing the commentating and then the guys were

1244
00:58:37,320 --> 00:58:40,040
Speaker 2: acting at the same time, well in certain parts, but

1245
00:58:40,200 --> 00:58:42,400
Speaker 2: also this I feel like when you do movies that

1246
00:58:42,480 --> 00:58:44,959
Speaker 2: are based on true stories, a lot of the people

1247
00:58:45,040 --> 00:58:47,280
Speaker 2: aren't gonna remember the story the same. So what they

1248
00:58:47,360 --> 00:58:48,960
Speaker 2: did in the movie is like when one guy was

1249
00:58:49,040 --> 00:58:51,400
Speaker 2: talking and telling his point of view, they would show

1250
00:58:51,440 --> 00:58:53,680
Speaker 2: that and then they would show the other person's point

1251
00:58:53,680 --> 00:58:55,920
Speaker 2: of view, so like here's what he said happened, and

1252
00:58:56,000 --> 00:58:58,200
Speaker 2: here's what he said happened, and then they're doing an

1253
00:58:58,280 --> 00:58:59,680
Speaker 2: interview while the movie is going.

1254
00:59:00,200 --> 00:59:02,560
Speaker 1: So how it was shot was so creative. I've never

1255
00:59:02,640 --> 00:59:05,160
Speaker 1: seen a movie be shot like that, like a movie,

1256
00:59:05,280 --> 00:59:09,240
Speaker 1: like a what do you call it a biopic? Biopic? Yeah,

1257
00:59:10,320 --> 00:59:12,680
Speaker 1: so the way it was shot, it was just very

1258
00:59:12,840 --> 00:59:16,640
Speaker 1: genius and brilliant. So I loved that about the movie. Now,

1259
00:59:16,760 --> 00:59:19,320
Speaker 1: what I didn't like the movie was good.

1260
00:59:20,280 --> 00:59:22,120
Speaker 2: It was good. It starts off a little slow, though, Yeah,

1261
00:59:22,120 --> 00:59:22,760
Speaker 2: I was kind of bored.

1262
00:59:23,120 --> 00:59:24,960
Speaker 1: It starts off a little slow, but once it gets

1263
00:59:24,960 --> 00:59:29,080
Speaker 1: to like the actual heist and the things that transpired

1264
00:59:29,200 --> 00:59:33,880
Speaker 1: after that, when the movie ended and how they ended

1265
00:59:33,920 --> 00:59:36,200
Speaker 1: it and they were talking about their lives now and

1266
00:59:36,480 --> 00:59:39,160
Speaker 1: what they're doing, I was like, this is literally America.

1267
00:59:39,640 --> 00:59:45,360
Speaker 1: Only in America can you can white men rob someone.

1268
00:59:45,640 --> 00:59:50,000
Speaker 1: Literally They put the library on the ground, tied her up,

1269
00:59:50,280 --> 00:59:54,160
Speaker 1: traumatize this woman. They go to jail for what like

1270
00:59:54,280 --> 00:59:56,680
Speaker 1: seven years years and they get out and they get

1271
00:59:56,720 --> 00:59:57,240
Speaker 1: a movie deal.

1272
00:59:58,560 --> 01:00:01,240
Speaker 2: Yeah, niggas rob ain't your stars every day, y'all.

1273
01:00:01,240 --> 01:00:02,280
Speaker 1: Ain't give them no movie.

1274
01:00:02,800 --> 01:00:04,680
Speaker 2: I mean, it's a convenience story. Ain't a twelve million

1275
01:00:04,920 --> 01:00:06,040
Speaker 2: either way it goes.

1276
01:00:06,120 --> 01:00:08,680
Speaker 1: It's just like it's crazy. Like that's what I took

1277
01:00:08,720 --> 01:00:11,400
Speaker 1: from it because a lot of times when you watch movies,

1278
01:00:11,560 --> 01:00:14,040
Speaker 1: they really can turn the characters into making you believe

1279
01:00:14,080 --> 01:00:16,200
Speaker 1: that they're a good person. So like at the end

1280
01:00:16,200 --> 01:00:18,240
Speaker 1: of the movie, you're literally rooting for them, like you

1281
01:00:18,400 --> 01:00:21,040
Speaker 1: want them to get the book, You want them to succeed,

1282
01:00:21,200 --> 01:00:23,480
Speaker 1: like you want them to not go to jail. But

1283
01:00:23,600 --> 01:00:25,200
Speaker 1: it's like why they're criminals.

1284
01:00:25,720 --> 01:00:27,080
Speaker 2: I mean, yeah, I feel like it was the way

1285
01:00:27,080 --> 01:00:29,240
Speaker 2: it was shik sure, yeah, of course.

1286
01:00:29,000 --> 01:00:30,200
Speaker 1: Like it was the way it was shot. But after

1287
01:00:30,320 --> 01:00:32,880
Speaker 1: they're like, and this is the movie was great because

1288
01:00:32,920 --> 01:00:37,080
Speaker 1: actually one of the guys who was, you know, one

1289
01:00:37,120 --> 01:00:41,240
Speaker 1: of the thieves, he was the director of the movie. Yeah,

1290
01:00:41,280 --> 01:00:43,960
Speaker 1: so he's like a film director now, so that was like,

1291
01:00:44,160 --> 01:00:46,800
Speaker 1: you know, the movie that he did, So he's a

1292
01:00:46,920 --> 01:00:49,640
Speaker 1: creative genius. Like he did an amazing job. But it's

1293
01:00:49,680 --> 01:00:54,040
Speaker 1: just like it's so crazy the opportunities that like come

1294
01:00:54,160 --> 01:00:56,560
Speaker 1: upon them, Like just like when we had Trap on

1295
01:00:56,640 --> 01:00:59,240
Speaker 1: the episode a few weeks ago, and it was like

1296
01:00:59,360 --> 01:01:02,960
Speaker 1: you saw everything that was piled up against him, that

1297
01:01:03,080 --> 01:01:04,480
Speaker 1: nigga need a movie made after him?

1298
01:01:04,760 --> 01:01:07,000
Speaker 2: Yeah, anything, you know what I'm saying, Like right, So

1299
01:01:07,400 --> 01:01:09,280
Speaker 2: that's what I took from it because at the end

1300
01:01:09,800 --> 01:01:13,440
Speaker 2: they were just like, oh, you're literally like clapping for them, like, oh,

1301
01:01:13,520 --> 01:01:15,400
Speaker 2: I'm so glad they turned their lives around, which I

1302
01:01:15,480 --> 01:01:18,160
Speaker 2: do believe that everybody deserves a second. But then the

1303
01:01:18,240 --> 01:01:20,520
Speaker 2: crazy thing is it wasn't even nothing to turn around

1304
01:01:20,560 --> 01:01:23,480
Speaker 2: because the movie even started off like there were like people,

1305
01:01:23,560 --> 01:01:26,360
Speaker 2: so many people who knew them their parents, people that

1306
01:01:26,480 --> 01:01:28,960
Speaker 2: worked at the school. All of these different people were like,

1307
01:01:29,040 --> 01:01:30,880
Speaker 2: it was nothing that would ever make you feel like

1308
01:01:30,960 --> 01:01:32,960
Speaker 2: they would have did something like that because they didn't

1309
01:01:33,040 --> 01:01:36,480
Speaker 2: have no odds against They was just bored.

1310
01:01:36,920 --> 01:01:39,160
Speaker 1: People get bored and go let's go still a twells.

1311
01:01:39,360 --> 01:01:41,240
Speaker 2: And to me, that's wild, this fun because why would

1312
01:01:41,240 --> 01:01:43,479
Speaker 2: you ever want to go do anything just because you bored.

1313
01:01:43,520 --> 01:01:44,680
Speaker 2: There's gonna land you in jail.

1314
01:01:45,320 --> 01:01:49,160
Speaker 1: One of the guys was actually making six figures a year.

1315
01:01:49,240 --> 01:01:52,640
Speaker 1: I think I'm not six figures, yeah, six figures a

1316
01:01:52,720 --> 01:01:54,560
Speaker 1: year because he was like sixteen, but he had already

1317
01:01:54,600 --> 01:01:57,760
Speaker 1: had like rental property, like he already had money, like

1318
01:01:57,840 --> 01:02:02,840
Speaker 1: he was already Yeah, that shit is crazy. It And

1319
01:02:02,960 --> 01:02:06,160
Speaker 1: at the end, they actually interviewed the librarian that they

1320
01:02:06,240 --> 01:02:08,120
Speaker 1: had like tied up and put her on the ground,

1321
01:02:08,440 --> 01:02:10,960
Speaker 1: and she was just like, my life changed forever, Like

1322
01:02:11,520 --> 01:02:14,960
Speaker 1: she was just saying the trauma that she has from

1323
01:02:15,000 --> 01:02:18,280
Speaker 1: that experience. But how after all these years, because I

1324
01:02:18,360 --> 01:02:20,520
Speaker 1: want to say it happened in like what two thousand

1325
01:02:20,560 --> 01:02:23,840
Speaker 1: and eighty or something two thousand and nine, I can't remember,

1326
01:02:23,960 --> 01:02:25,360
Speaker 1: because I feel like the guys were kind of like

1327
01:02:25,480 --> 01:02:28,040
Speaker 1: my age, So they had graduated high school around the

1328
01:02:28,160 --> 01:02:31,840
Speaker 1: time I did, But either way it goes. All I

1329
01:02:31,920 --> 01:02:36,600
Speaker 1: took from it was like, damn, everybody gets different experiences

1330
01:02:36,640 --> 01:02:40,960
Speaker 1: here and it's just crazy. So yeah, y'all have got

1331
01:02:41,000 --> 01:02:41,840
Speaker 1: to check out American.

1332
01:02:42,000 --> 01:02:45,200
Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean it's a very living is definitely a

1333
01:02:45,360 --> 01:02:47,920
Speaker 2: very different experience when you black versus when you white.

1334
01:02:48,320 --> 01:02:50,400
Speaker 1: Yes, and that's what I took from it. But it's

1335
01:02:50,440 --> 01:02:51,320
Speaker 1: an amazing movie.

1336
01:02:51,480 --> 01:02:52,400
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's a good movie.

1337
01:02:52,720 --> 01:02:55,160
Speaker 1: So yeah, it's on Hulu. I believe, so American a

1338
01:02:57,200 --> 01:03:01,480
Speaker 1: fire movie. So now we're gonna get into my favorite segment,

1339
01:03:01,880 --> 01:03:04,440
Speaker 1: pour your heart out. The girls was pouring their heart

1340
01:03:04,480 --> 01:03:05,280
Speaker 1: out at the live show.

1341
01:03:05,440 --> 01:03:05,960
Speaker 2: They was.

1342
01:03:08,720 --> 01:03:11,560
Speaker 1: The four month year old. Do you remember the four

1343
01:03:11,600 --> 01:03:12,160
Speaker 1: month year old?

1344
01:03:12,640 --> 01:03:14,040
Speaker 2: Not really, I was kind of drunk.

1345
01:03:15,640 --> 01:03:17,840
Speaker 1: This girl got on stage. She was like, yes, my

1346
01:03:17,960 --> 01:03:19,880
Speaker 1: man got a four month year old, and I was

1347
01:03:19,920 --> 01:03:22,840
Speaker 1: just like a four month year old. I was confusing

1348
01:03:22,920 --> 01:03:26,520
Speaker 1: the motherfucker. Why was because a four month year old?

1349
01:03:26,960 --> 01:03:31,560
Speaker 1: What is that? What is that? So I'm yeah, so

1350
01:03:31,720 --> 01:03:32,320
Speaker 1: I'm looking at it.

1351
01:03:32,440 --> 01:03:33,160
Speaker 2: You know what she mean?

1352
01:03:33,280 --> 01:03:34,680
Speaker 1: I knew what she meant, but you know me, I'm

1353
01:03:34,680 --> 01:03:37,240
Speaker 1: a cracker, a little jokes. I'm at the audience I'm laughing.

1354
01:03:37,600 --> 01:03:40,320
Speaker 1: Everybody behind me laughing because I'm looking at them, and

1355
01:03:40,400 --> 01:03:42,560
Speaker 1: I'm like, y'all, hold on, let us start over. She

1356
01:03:42,720 --> 01:03:45,240
Speaker 1: kept starting the story over and kept saying, four month

1357
01:03:45,320 --> 01:03:45,760
Speaker 1: year old.

1358
01:03:48,080 --> 01:03:56,720
Speaker 2: I love y'all. Remember I was question number one? Hate girls,

1359
01:03:56,960 --> 01:03:59,520
Speaker 2: Love y'all down and keep doing y'all thing. Me and

1360
01:03:59,640 --> 01:04:01,840
Speaker 2: my man have been together for seven years. I have

1361
01:04:01,960 --> 01:04:03,880
Speaker 2: dipped in the lady pund a few times and I

1362
01:04:04,040 --> 01:04:06,720
Speaker 2: enjoyed every bit of it. Lately, I have been getting

1363
01:04:06,760 --> 01:04:09,080
Speaker 2: the urge again, so I X my man. Would he mind?

1364
01:04:09,560 --> 01:04:11,919
Speaker 2: He basically said, ain't no fun if the homie can't

1365
01:04:11,960 --> 01:04:15,240
Speaker 2: get none. I'm like, nah, you minds and you off limits.

1366
01:04:15,680 --> 01:04:19,440
Speaker 2: I done threesomes I but always was the one who

1367
01:04:19,560 --> 01:04:23,000
Speaker 2: brought who was brought into the situation. Do y'all got

1368
01:04:23,040 --> 01:04:26,680
Speaker 2: any advice on including him without me getting jellius or

1369
01:04:26,920 --> 01:04:29,520
Speaker 2: to make me comfortable with See, I'm a leo in

1370
01:04:29,720 --> 01:04:33,320
Speaker 2: very territorial over. What's mind? Should I just go ahead

1371
01:04:33,400 --> 01:04:35,840
Speaker 2: and give me a sneaky link or ask his ass

1372
01:04:35,920 --> 01:04:38,320
Speaker 2: again in a couple months, hoping he changed his mind?

1373
01:04:38,800 --> 01:04:41,920
Speaker 2: Or just leave it alone. Oh and when the motherfucking

1374
01:04:41,960 --> 01:04:44,160
Speaker 2: tour Day's dropping, I'm ready to come outside.

1375
01:04:45,280 --> 01:04:47,240
Speaker 1: Well, it sounds like you don't want to have a threesome,

1376
01:04:47,320 --> 01:04:49,600
Speaker 1: So stop trying to force yourself to have a threesome

1377
01:04:49,640 --> 01:04:52,200
Speaker 1: if you don't want to do it. Yeah, Like, I

1378
01:04:52,360 --> 01:04:54,320
Speaker 1: feel like a lot of times girls just be trying

1379
01:04:54,320 --> 01:04:57,600
Speaker 1: to go along with whatever their man says. So I

1380
01:04:57,640 --> 01:05:00,920
Speaker 1: wouldn't do it, and I wouldn't necessarily go for you snickling,

1381
01:05:01,120 --> 01:05:03,840
Speaker 1: but I think you need to avoide your concerns, like

1382
01:05:03,960 --> 01:05:05,960
Speaker 1: let him know, like I don't want to share you.

1383
01:05:06,480 --> 01:05:09,920
Speaker 1: I'm territorial. I'm not okay with us having a threesome.

1384
01:05:10,080 --> 01:05:12,560
Speaker 1: Like I want us to stop being afraid to speak

1385
01:05:12,560 --> 01:05:13,120
Speaker 1: our minds.

1386
01:05:13,640 --> 01:05:16,320
Speaker 2: So telling that girl, yeah, I just feel like if

1387
01:05:16,360 --> 01:05:18,120
Speaker 2: that's not what you want to do, then I wouldn't

1388
01:05:18,160 --> 01:05:21,840
Speaker 2: do it because I'm just past the point in my

1389
01:05:21,920 --> 01:05:24,680
Speaker 2: life of doing things to just please a man and

1390
01:05:24,800 --> 01:05:27,200
Speaker 2: it's not what I want. Now, if that's what you want,

1391
01:05:27,520 --> 01:05:31,240
Speaker 2: being cool, do it, but it's given that you very hesitant,

1392
01:05:31,960 --> 01:05:33,280
Speaker 2: So I wouldn't do it because I feel like you

1393
01:05:33,320 --> 01:05:37,960
Speaker 2: gonna end up resenting him for the situation, because I mean,

1394
01:05:38,120 --> 01:05:39,000
Speaker 2: he gonna be tearing that.

1395
01:05:39,120 --> 01:05:42,840
Speaker 1: Up and you're gonna be mad. He gonna tear it up.

1396
01:05:43,560 --> 01:05:47,560
Speaker 1: I'm up all right. Question two, Hey, y'all, I've been

1397
01:05:47,600 --> 01:05:49,880
Speaker 1: watching the show for over a year and I love

1398
01:05:49,920 --> 01:05:52,160
Speaker 1: you guys. I recently met this guy on a dating

1399
01:05:52,200 --> 01:05:54,600
Speaker 1: app and he lives out of town, so we FaceTime

1400
01:05:54,680 --> 01:05:56,800
Speaker 1: each other a couple of times and we text almost

1401
01:05:56,920 --> 01:06:00,120
Speaker 1: every day. Recently, he asks about something sexual and he

1402
01:06:00,200 --> 01:06:03,080
Speaker 1: wanted me to show him my ass on FaceTime. How

1403
01:06:03,200 --> 01:06:06,000
Speaker 1: soon do you talk about sex with someone you just met?

1404
01:06:06,040 --> 01:06:07,640
Speaker 1: And do you think it's too soon to be doing

1405
01:06:07,720 --> 01:06:10,800
Speaker 1: all that on face time? Honestly, the whole situation turned

1406
01:06:10,840 --> 01:06:13,080
Speaker 1: me off, and I think it turned him off because

1407
01:06:13,120 --> 01:06:16,200
Speaker 1: I told him no. Also, every time we FaceTime, no

1408
01:06:16,280 --> 01:06:18,800
Speaker 1: matter the time of day, Nigga is always in his car.

1409
01:06:18,880 --> 01:06:20,960
Speaker 1: It's giving homeless or he's staying with the bitch and

1410
01:06:21,080 --> 01:06:25,200
Speaker 1: sneaking out. What do y'all think? First of all, I

1411
01:06:25,360 --> 01:06:28,280
Speaker 1: hate I always say this, I hate overly horny people.

1412
01:06:28,840 --> 01:06:30,640
Speaker 1: Read the room, Nigga. If I'm asking you what you

1413
01:06:30,760 --> 01:06:32,320
Speaker 1: have for lunch and you talking about I don't know

1414
01:06:32,400 --> 01:06:35,080
Speaker 1: what I want to eat, that hoody, it's giving your

1415
01:06:35,120 --> 01:06:40,120
Speaker 1: two horny. Yeah. So people that just overdo it with

1416
01:06:40,320 --> 01:06:43,360
Speaker 1: a horniness comments and just being too horny. I hate that.

1417
01:06:43,840 --> 01:06:46,000
Speaker 1: And you never want to be with somebody who makes

1418
01:06:46,040 --> 01:06:48,720
Speaker 1: you feel uncomfortable. If he's making you feel uncomfortable, and

1419
01:06:48,800 --> 01:06:51,880
Speaker 1: y'all just started talking, that's a red flag. Cut it off.

1420
01:06:52,640 --> 01:06:53,160
Speaker 1: Cut it off.

1421
01:06:53,440 --> 01:06:56,200
Speaker 2: Yeah, and he probably is home least or he probably

1422
01:06:56,360 --> 01:06:58,440
Speaker 2: or he probably do gotta beach because why y'all always

1423
01:06:58,560 --> 01:07:01,200
Speaker 2: only talking in the card. That type of stuff is

1424
01:07:01,240 --> 01:07:03,000
Speaker 2: weird to me too. I feel like you Hi in

1425
01:07:03,080 --> 01:07:08,880
Speaker 2: some sheep acts. So yeah, I agree with Lecks. He

1426
01:07:09,040 --> 01:07:11,840
Speaker 2: too horny. I don't like a see me a pick

1427
01:07:11,880 --> 01:07:13,880
Speaker 2: ass nigga. I done said this before on the show.

1428
01:07:14,200 --> 01:07:16,560
Speaker 2: I don't like men who ask me to do certain

1429
01:07:16,600 --> 01:07:19,080
Speaker 2: stuff too early in the situation because if I want

1430
01:07:19,120 --> 01:07:21,480
Speaker 2: to do it, I'm gonna do it anyways, so you

1431
01:07:21,560 --> 01:07:23,560
Speaker 2: don't really have to ask me. So the fact that

1432
01:07:23,640 --> 01:07:25,480
Speaker 2: you have to ask me all the time, it is

1433
01:07:25,560 --> 01:07:28,200
Speaker 2: kind of given. I ain't really that into you, right,

1434
01:07:28,360 --> 01:07:29,520
Speaker 2: and you ain't peeping.

1435
01:07:29,280 --> 01:07:31,400
Speaker 1: It right, because if you really fucking want a nigga,

1436
01:07:31,440 --> 01:07:33,120
Speaker 1: you send them pigs right.

1437
01:07:33,920 --> 01:07:40,360
Speaker 2: Question number three, Hi, I'm doctor w Truth great podcast.

1438
01:07:40,840 --> 01:07:44,400
Speaker 2: I help none Custodial parents stay in their child's lives

1439
01:07:44,520 --> 01:07:48,040
Speaker 2: after the relationship ends. Why do women have multiple kids

1440
01:07:48,120 --> 01:07:50,560
Speaker 2: with men who showed they couldn't or refuse to take

1441
01:07:50,600 --> 01:07:53,160
Speaker 2: care of the first one. Maybe I'll be on your

1442
01:07:53,240 --> 01:07:56,200
Speaker 2: podcast one day. Thank you for always speaking freely.

1443
01:07:58,560 --> 01:08:03,000
Speaker 1: I feel like, no, honestly, I'm not gonna lie. I'm

1444
01:08:03,080 --> 01:08:06,280
Speaker 1: not a judging person. I'm really not. I was actually

1445
01:08:06,360 --> 01:08:09,960
Speaker 1: watching the show on Netflix, Young Famous and African, and

1446
01:08:10,040 --> 01:08:13,520
Speaker 1: there's a character on their name Annie and her and

1447
01:08:13,600 --> 01:08:16,479
Speaker 1: her man have been together for ten years. When they

1448
01:08:16,560 --> 01:08:19,439
Speaker 1: first met, he didn't have no kids. By the time

1449
01:08:19,479 --> 01:08:21,519
Speaker 1: they got married, she had her first child for him,

1450
01:08:21,600 --> 01:08:23,960
Speaker 1: and it was his fifth child. If you see where

1451
01:08:23,960 --> 01:08:26,960
Speaker 1: I'm going with this. So when I started at Hell,

1452
01:08:27,000 --> 01:08:29,519
Speaker 1: I started getting on my googles and I realized, like,

1453
01:08:29,760 --> 01:08:32,280
Speaker 1: one of his baby mama's has had I think three

1454
01:08:32,400 --> 01:08:35,160
Speaker 1: or four of his children three maybe I don't know,

1455
01:08:35,600 --> 01:08:38,360
Speaker 1: it was a lot, but he had multiple children with

1456
01:08:38,439 --> 01:08:40,880
Speaker 1: this one lady that wasn't his wife or wasn't the

1457
01:08:40,920 --> 01:08:45,160
Speaker 1: main girl he was with. And I'm not talking about

1458
01:08:45,200 --> 01:08:47,760
Speaker 1: this lady specifically because I don't know her, but I'm

1459
01:08:47,800 --> 01:08:50,439
Speaker 1: just using this for example. I feel like sometimes it's

1460
01:08:50,600 --> 01:08:53,600
Speaker 1: like a power thing, like you feel like, yeah, I

1461
01:08:53,680 --> 01:08:56,759
Speaker 1: got his first child though, and he keep having babies

1462
01:08:56,800 --> 01:09:00,200
Speaker 1: with me. Like sometimes people's egos will fuck them up up,

1463
01:09:00,680 --> 01:09:03,040
Speaker 1: Like ego is a motherfucker. Like if you don't get

1464
01:09:03,080 --> 01:09:06,559
Speaker 1: control of your ego, you gonna be looking stupid every time.

1465
01:09:07,160 --> 01:09:09,360
Speaker 1: Because think about how we used to be with niggas, like, oh,

1466
01:09:09,439 --> 01:09:10,920
Speaker 1: I'm that bitch. He not gonna do me like he

1467
01:09:11,040 --> 01:09:12,800
Speaker 1: do her. You know what I'm saying.

1468
01:09:13,080 --> 01:09:14,600
Speaker 2: Yeah, So to me, I.

1469
01:09:14,680 --> 01:09:17,720
Speaker 1: Think when women have multiple kids by men that show

1470
01:09:17,800 --> 01:09:19,960
Speaker 1: them that they ain't shit, it's just because like they

1471
01:09:20,040 --> 01:09:23,320
Speaker 1: be trying to prove a point. Everybody knows your niggain't shit.

1472
01:09:23,360 --> 01:09:26,200
Speaker 1: You not proving no points except that you're laughing at you,

1473
01:09:26,520 --> 01:09:28,479
Speaker 1: except that you're dumb. You feel like, oh, he keep

1474
01:09:28,600 --> 01:09:31,080
Speaker 1: choosing me, He keeps choosing me because you dumb.

1475
01:09:31,760 --> 01:09:34,280
Speaker 2: You know what that's gonna stay, you know, only dummy.

1476
01:09:34,479 --> 01:09:36,920
Speaker 1: Sad for women. I want us to stop doing that, Like,

1477
01:09:36,960 --> 01:09:38,640
Speaker 1: stop feeling like you got to prove a point to

1478
01:09:38,720 --> 01:09:40,680
Speaker 1: the world or you do because you're not doing what

1479
01:09:40,800 --> 01:09:43,920
Speaker 1: you think. You thought you ate that. Let me slip

1480
01:09:44,040 --> 01:09:46,559
Speaker 1: my wine because you thought you ate that by having

1481
01:09:46,560 --> 01:09:47,599
Speaker 1: a baby by this man.

1482
01:09:48,800 --> 01:09:50,479
Speaker 2: So child.

1483
01:09:52,120 --> 01:09:54,920
Speaker 1: I just feel like I do agree with LyX, Like

1484
01:09:55,000 --> 01:09:57,400
Speaker 1: people it definitely be people egos like they really be

1485
01:09:57,479 --> 01:09:59,840
Speaker 1: thinking that they doing something. And one thing about these niggas,

1486
01:09:59,880 --> 01:10:02,799
Speaker 1: you gotta stop putting shit past them. Women will always

1487
01:10:02,840 --> 01:10:05,800
Speaker 1: put stuff past the nigga and feel like, oh, well,

1488
01:10:06,240 --> 01:10:06,960
Speaker 1: he did that to.

1489
01:10:07,000 --> 01:10:09,000
Speaker 2: Her, but he's not gonna do that to me. Bitch.

1490
01:10:09,360 --> 01:10:11,439
Speaker 2: Guess what one thing these nigga's gonna do is do

1491
01:10:11,560 --> 01:10:14,719
Speaker 2: it to you too every time, Like you're not no different.

1492
01:10:14,760 --> 01:10:16,799
Speaker 2: If a man has showed you that he has a pattern,

1493
01:10:18,000 --> 01:10:20,840
Speaker 2: believe the pattern. Don't think that you know different than

1494
01:10:20,920 --> 01:10:26,200
Speaker 2: that you're special because you not. I didn't want to

1495
01:10:26,240 --> 01:10:28,040
Speaker 2: say it like that, because I mean, at the end

1496
01:10:28,080 --> 01:10:32,400
Speaker 2: of the day, we all are special to somebody, just

1497
01:10:33,400 --> 01:10:35,240
Speaker 2: right because I feel like you know, for example, with

1498
01:10:35,360 --> 01:10:37,080
Speaker 2: me and you like I feel like we care about

1499
01:10:37,120 --> 01:10:37,439
Speaker 2: each other.

1500
01:10:37,560 --> 01:10:39,880
Speaker 1: We're thinking, we think we're special to each other. But

1501
01:10:40,040 --> 01:10:42,000
Speaker 1: sometimes when he comes to these niggas, you're just not

1502
01:10:42,120 --> 01:10:45,280
Speaker 1: that special to them. So stop thinking that a nigga

1503
01:10:45,360 --> 01:10:47,519
Speaker 1: not gonna do you like that. He did these other

1504
01:10:47,600 --> 01:10:49,479
Speaker 1: three bitches like that, but he wouldn't do you like that,

1505
01:10:49,720 --> 01:10:52,240
Speaker 1: Yes the fuck he will. Y'all gotta stop with that

1506
01:10:52,360 --> 01:10:55,360
Speaker 1: pick me as she because that's what it is, it's

1507
01:10:55,400 --> 01:10:59,839
Speaker 1: picking me. You feel like he only picking you because

1508
01:11:00,080 --> 01:11:03,519
Speaker 1: if you saying everybody else leaving, ain't nobody else got

1509
01:11:03,560 --> 01:11:03,920
Speaker 1: time for this?

1510
01:11:04,040 --> 01:11:05,840
Speaker 2: Sheep question them before.

1511
01:11:07,000 --> 01:11:10,240
Speaker 1: Hey, Lexandrea, I'm in a sticky situation. My boyfriend is

1512
01:11:10,320 --> 01:11:13,000
Speaker 1: locked up. He basically took a bid for me. Don't

1513
01:11:13,080 --> 01:11:15,320
Speaker 1: judge me. It was kind of his fault too, but

1514
01:11:15,439 --> 01:11:17,679
Speaker 1: he took a bid for me, and he's doing ten years.

1515
01:11:18,120 --> 01:11:20,479
Speaker 1: I don't really want to be with him because before

1516
01:11:20,560 --> 01:11:23,000
Speaker 1: he was arrested, he embarrassed me on social media by

1517
01:11:23,080 --> 01:11:26,559
Speaker 1: posting news of me. He disrespected me. He was messing

1518
01:11:26,640 --> 01:11:29,479
Speaker 1: with all these dirty looking girls. He would start acting

1519
01:11:29,560 --> 01:11:32,000
Speaker 1: funny towards me. That's how I knew he was cheating.

1520
01:11:32,400 --> 01:11:36,240
Speaker 1: He's very controlling and demanding. It's so bad. If I'm

1521
01:11:36,280 --> 01:11:37,840
Speaker 1: on the phone with him and I'm at the store

1522
01:11:37,880 --> 01:11:40,160
Speaker 1: and the cashier is a mal and says hi, he

1523
01:11:40,280 --> 01:11:42,760
Speaker 1: gets mad if I say Hi back, even if it's

1524
01:11:42,800 --> 01:11:46,400
Speaker 1: an elderly man. It's even worse now that he's locked up.

1525
01:11:46,720 --> 01:11:48,720
Speaker 1: He don't even want me hanging with my friends or

1526
01:11:48,800 --> 01:11:51,679
Speaker 1: want me to go out places like clubs, vacations, etc.

1527
01:11:52,439 --> 01:11:54,200
Speaker 1: I just feel trapped and I just want to live

1528
01:11:54,280 --> 01:11:56,400
Speaker 1: my life. Would I be wrong if I leave him?

1529
01:11:56,520 --> 01:11:58,200
Speaker 1: I don't know what to do, but I feel bad

1530
01:11:58,240 --> 01:12:01,120
Speaker 1: because he's doing a decade for me. Ps. We were

1531
01:12:01,200 --> 01:12:04,120
Speaker 1: not in relationship when he was arrested. Girl, that man

1532
01:12:05,439 --> 01:12:09,320
Speaker 1: I'm free. Honestly, let me say something. He took a

1533
01:12:09,360 --> 01:12:11,040
Speaker 1: bit for you. That was his decision.

1534
01:12:11,479 --> 01:12:13,760
Speaker 2: Let's talk about to say, because I would let you go.

1535
01:12:19,400 --> 01:12:22,160
Speaker 1: And honestly, if you're that unhappy, you get one life.

1536
01:12:22,960 --> 01:12:25,360
Speaker 1: Your life may be over in a month. You gotta

1537
01:12:25,400 --> 01:12:27,760
Speaker 1: live for yourself. This man is locked up and he's

1538
01:12:27,800 --> 01:12:28,680
Speaker 1: trying to control and.

1539
01:12:28,760 --> 01:12:31,840
Speaker 2: You're talking about he prison. Yeah, it's like MITCHI Kane,

1540
01:12:31,880 --> 01:12:33,519
Speaker 2: what he gonna do? What are you gonna do?

1541
01:12:34,640 --> 01:12:34,880
Speaker 1: Girl?

1542
01:12:35,160 --> 01:12:36,000
Speaker 2: He can't even do she.

1543
01:12:37,520 --> 01:12:40,200
Speaker 1: Posting your news, that man has zero respect for you,

1544
01:12:41,040 --> 01:12:43,080
Speaker 1: zero respect, because that's the lowest of the lower to

1545
01:12:43,120 --> 01:12:45,719
Speaker 1: post somebody news like this is something that I'm sharing

1546
01:12:45,800 --> 01:12:49,040
Speaker 1: with you, that's an intimate moment between us two, Like

1547
01:12:49,160 --> 01:12:49,880
Speaker 1: why would you do that?

1548
01:12:50,120 --> 01:12:53,640
Speaker 2: And then to add to we, y'all wasn't in a

1549
01:12:53,720 --> 01:12:57,760
Speaker 2: relationship when he got arrested. Girl, Bye bye bye.

1550
01:12:58,200 --> 01:12:59,920
Speaker 1: I mean when the ten years is up, maybe we'll

1551
01:13:00,080 --> 01:13:00,479
Speaker 1: work it out.

1552
01:13:00,520 --> 01:13:03,360
Speaker 2: And then you said don't judge me. It was kind

1553
01:13:03,400 --> 01:13:05,360
Speaker 2: of his fault too. So whatever the reason is that

1554
01:13:05,439 --> 01:13:07,200
Speaker 2: he got locked up, he has something to do with

1555
01:13:07,200 --> 01:13:09,800
Speaker 2: about the y'all. Right, he decided to take the time,

1556
01:13:10,120 --> 01:13:12,840
Speaker 2: unless you begged him to do that or whatever I mean.

1557
01:13:12,880 --> 01:13:15,519
Speaker 2: But even still, even if you did beg him to

1558
01:13:15,560 --> 01:13:16,960
Speaker 2: do it, he still chose.

1559
01:13:16,760 --> 01:13:17,000
Speaker 1: To do it.

1560
01:13:17,080 --> 01:13:18,960
Speaker 2: It was his own free will, right, And.

1561
01:13:19,000 --> 01:13:21,160
Speaker 1: I feel like we can talk like six months to

1562
01:13:21,240 --> 01:13:22,960
Speaker 1: your release day and will try to work it out.

1563
01:13:23,000 --> 01:13:25,240
Speaker 2: But now, but by the end she probably be married.

1564
01:13:25,560 --> 01:13:30,640
Speaker 2: I'm sid period, you ain't. She ain't because niggas is

1565
01:13:30,720 --> 01:13:33,120
Speaker 2: not holding us down in jail. They not a nigga

1566
01:13:33,160 --> 01:13:35,760
Speaker 2: not holding you down for twenty ten years. The only

1567
01:13:35,840 --> 01:13:39,160
Speaker 2: nigga in history that ever did that was Pepoo's a.

1568
01:13:39,320 --> 01:13:41,000
Speaker 1: King a king.

1569
01:13:41,439 --> 01:13:43,559
Speaker 2: All right, what's up, y'all?

1570
01:13:43,600 --> 01:13:45,840
Speaker 1: Is your girl XP and it's your girls dray and

1571
01:13:45,880 --> 01:13:48,320
Speaker 1: the call and we are here to tell y'all about

1572
01:13:48,640 --> 01:13:52,200
Speaker 1: Babbel dot com period because this summer we outside.

1573
01:13:52,240 --> 01:13:53,920
Speaker 2: We want to all the countries so you know what

1574
01:13:54,000 --> 01:13:55,799
Speaker 2: we need to know all the languages.

1575
01:13:55,960 --> 01:13:59,880
Speaker 1: Yes, other languages learning apps used AI for their lesson plans,

1576
01:14:00,200 --> 01:14:03,439
Speaker 1: but Babel lessons were created by one over one hundred

1577
01:14:03,840 --> 01:14:09,160
Speaker 1: language experts. They got French, Italian, German, all the languages

1578
01:14:09,200 --> 01:14:11,120
Speaker 1: that you need to go on an excursion around the

1579
01:14:11,160 --> 01:14:14,280
Speaker 1: world with your BDB right, and they give you all

1580
01:14:14,320 --> 01:14:16,280
Speaker 1: type of language skills that you can use in the

1581
01:14:16,400 --> 01:14:20,040
Speaker 1: real world, from greetings, menus and directions to just gaining

1582
01:14:20,080 --> 01:14:25,559
Speaker 1: a deeper understanding of the culture. Right, you can access podcast, games, videos, stories,

1583
01:14:25,600 --> 01:14:30,280
Speaker 1: and even live classes. So you're gonna go to babbel

1584
01:14:30,600 --> 01:14:34,519
Speaker 1: dot com and purchase a three month Babbel subscription and

1585
01:14:34,600 --> 01:14:37,439
Speaker 1: you'll get an additional three months for free, so that

1586
01:14:37,720 --> 01:14:40,720
Speaker 1: six months for the price of three months. So you're

1587
01:14:40,720 --> 01:14:43,600
Speaker 1: gonna go to babbel dot com that's b A B

1588
01:14:43,800 --> 01:14:47,360
Speaker 1: B E L dot com and use code poor minds.

1589
01:14:47,720 --> 01:14:51,040
Speaker 1: So yes, babbel dot com, use code poor minds and

1590
01:14:51,080 --> 01:14:52,360
Speaker 1: get your language.

1591
01:14:52,000 --> 01:14:53,960
Speaker 2: On language for life period.

1592
01:14:56,080 --> 01:14:58,639
Speaker 1: So we're gonna get into this, y'all know we'd love

1593
01:14:58,720 --> 01:15:02,639
Speaker 1: to sing down now. The reason we decided to sing

1594
01:15:02,800 --> 01:15:07,880
Speaker 1: this song is because this album turned eighteen years old today,

1595
01:15:09,000 --> 01:15:09,960
Speaker 1: a fire album.

1596
01:15:10,240 --> 01:15:12,320
Speaker 2: They're not making them like this is the greatest album,

1597
01:15:12,360 --> 01:15:15,920
Speaker 2: one of the greatest albums ever. And it was a

1598
01:15:16,000 --> 01:15:18,479
Speaker 2: lot of other songs on this album that were boxed.

1599
01:15:18,520 --> 01:15:19,160
Speaker 1: I mean we could go.

1600
01:15:19,560 --> 01:15:21,680
Speaker 2: It was literally almost a whole track list if we

1601
01:15:21,800 --> 01:15:23,120
Speaker 2: be can go all.

1602
01:15:23,040 --> 01:15:25,720
Speaker 1: Night singing the songs on this motherbucker album.

1603
01:15:25,439 --> 01:15:28,760
Speaker 2: We could this was this was the one, and shout

1604
01:15:28,800 --> 01:15:29,479
Speaker 2: out to this man.

1605
01:15:29,680 --> 01:15:31,479
Speaker 1: Shout out to this man. We would love to have

1606
01:15:31,600 --> 01:15:32,920
Speaker 1: you on the show because we know you in the

1607
01:15:32,960 --> 01:15:37,480
Speaker 1: A And honestly, the last project he dropped, people really slept.

1608
01:15:37,200 --> 01:15:41,120
Speaker 2: On project that was Yoshi Saya.

1609
01:15:41,280 --> 01:15:42,679
Speaker 1: I ran that hole in the ground.

1610
01:15:43,640 --> 01:15:46,280
Speaker 2: I remember you want me to start. Yeah, of course.

1611
01:15:48,080 --> 01:15:50,120
Speaker 1: I'm gonna do my snaps. You like when I snap?

1612
01:15:50,520 --> 01:15:52,360
Speaker 2: Now I don't because it's the same beat every time.

1613
01:15:53,160 --> 01:15:56,240
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's gonna burn for me to say this because

1614
01:15:56,240 --> 01:15:59,320
Speaker 1: it's coming from the hull. It's been a long time coming.

1615
01:15:59,680 --> 01:16:02,479
Speaker 1: But we being fella poll I really want to work

1616
01:16:02,600 --> 01:16:05,680
Speaker 1: the South. You don't think, don't change. I'll do it,

1617
01:16:05,720 --> 01:16:10,640
Speaker 1: but you throw best. We go our separate way. I

1618
01:16:10,680 --> 01:16:16,920
Speaker 1: should say this relationship when berk baby, happy baby, But

1619
01:16:17,120 --> 01:16:24,880
Speaker 1: there's so many you show. Let it burn, win a

1620
01:16:25,040 --> 01:16:28,200
Speaker 1: feeling nameth the same in your body. Don't want to,

1621
01:16:28,520 --> 01:16:30,439
Speaker 1: but you know you gotta let it go because the

1622
01:16:30,840 --> 01:16:35,360
Speaker 1: party ain't jump. Being like us too, even though this fibas.

1623
01:16:34,960 --> 01:16:39,200
Speaker 2: Let it burn, let it burn, gotta let it burn

1624
01:16:39,640 --> 01:16:40,320
Speaker 2: you now you.

1625
01:16:40,439 --> 01:16:43,800
Speaker 1: Know it's best for yourself, but you hate the thought

1626
01:16:43,960 --> 01:16:47,479
Speaker 1: of it being someone know, so you know that is sola.

1627
01:16:48,680 --> 01:16:52,000
Speaker 2: He knew that is all right, Let it burn, let

1628
01:16:52,120 --> 01:16:55,400
Speaker 2: it burn. I gotta let it burn, sending pages.

1629
01:16:55,439 --> 01:16:58,080
Speaker 1: I ain't supposed to, got somebody here, but I want

1630
01:16:58,160 --> 01:17:00,680
Speaker 1: you because the feeling ain't the same self calling her

1631
01:17:00,920 --> 01:17:03,920
Speaker 1: your name, lady said me. Do you understand now my feelings?

1632
01:17:03,960 --> 01:17:06,559
Speaker 1: Do you feel my pain? It's the lay I feel.

1633
01:17:06,680 --> 01:17:08,400
Speaker 1: I know I made a mistake and I was so late,

1634
01:17:08,560 --> 01:17:10,400
Speaker 1: and now she ain't coming back. What I gotta do

1635
01:17:10,600 --> 01:17:15,439
Speaker 1: now to give my shorty back? And I don't know

1636
01:17:15,520 --> 01:17:16,120
Speaker 1: what I'm gonna do.

1637
01:17:16,520 --> 01:17:21,400
Speaker 2: All my boo been gone for too long, fifteen eleven days,

1638
01:17:21,479 --> 01:17:23,600
Speaker 2: fenteen hours. I'm gonna be burning.

1639
01:17:23,360 --> 01:17:28,400
Speaker 1: Til you retire, descending your body. Don't want to, but

1640
01:17:28,520 --> 01:17:31,679
Speaker 1: you know, gotta let it go because the party jump

1641
01:17:31,680 --> 01:17:32,920
Speaker 1: man like used too.

1642
01:17:33,240 --> 01:17:38,679
Speaker 2: Even though it's my bird, gotta burn bird?

1643
01:17:41,760 --> 01:17:57,120
Speaker 1: Did you get a period? I s ain't that because.

1644
01:17:56,920 --> 01:17:57,760
Speaker 2: Sometimes you really do.

1645
01:17:57,880 --> 01:17:59,280
Speaker 1: Gotta let that motherfucker burn.

1646
01:17:59,439 --> 01:18:02,600
Speaker 2: Text you gotta let it go. It ain't for you,

1647
01:18:02,760 --> 01:18:04,600
Speaker 2: No more. Let this ship. God, that's what we were

1648
01:18:04,680 --> 01:18:06,840
Speaker 2: just telling. And it's ironic that we will be singing

1649
01:18:06,880 --> 01:18:10,000
Speaker 2: this song because we just told yoe asses. Let the

1650
01:18:10,080 --> 01:18:16,320
Speaker 2: nigga stayed into his bid exactly goodbye. You ate that up, said,

1651
01:18:16,320 --> 01:18:24,080
Speaker 2: I don't know what I'm gonna do that he ate that.

1652
01:18:25,120 --> 01:18:27,639
Speaker 2: Thank y'all so much, left no crumb.

1653
01:18:27,960 --> 01:18:30,160
Speaker 1: And y'all see the new shirts that we got. These

1654
01:18:30,200 --> 01:18:33,720
Speaker 1: are gonna be available at by poor minds dot com

1655
01:18:34,240 --> 01:18:36,400
Speaker 1: and y'all we got some fire merch that's about to drop.

1656
01:18:37,640 --> 01:18:38,960
Speaker 1: Y'all gonna lose y'all minds all.

1657
01:18:38,960 --> 01:18:41,200
Speaker 2: This now we do the new ship about to be crazy?

1658
01:18:41,439 --> 01:18:43,200
Speaker 2: How want of the people be wearing our shirts and

1659
01:18:43,280 --> 01:18:44,320
Speaker 2: rubbing the coochie pork?

1660
01:18:46,000 --> 01:18:57,240
Speaker 1: Is it? Scratch and sniff? Is thank y'all, y'all next week, bye.

1661
01:18:57,080 --> 01:19:03,360
Speaker 2: Y'all given that. Mm hmmm, I want to do people do.

1662
01:19:03,400 --> 01:19:06,559
Speaker 1: This for REALI because, but why did you bust it open? So? Why?

1663
01:19:07,120 --> 01:19:09,640
Speaker 2: Because that's what I be doing, you.

1664
01:19:09,800 --> 01:19:12,720
Speaker 1: Busting open your legs. So that's what I do. That's

1665
01:19:12,760 --> 01:19:15,720
Speaker 1: why I went chatow. He was like, oh God. He

1666
01:19:15,960 --> 01:19:16,640
Speaker 1: was discussed