1 00:00:02,120 --> 00:00:04,280 Speaker 1: Hey, everyone, welcome back to Beat your Happy Hour. I'm 2 00:00:04,360 --> 00:00:07,160 Speaker 1: Joe and I'm Serena, and we are back with Part two, 3 00:00:07,400 --> 00:00:11,320 Speaker 1: Live at the Mentele all with we have more guys 4 00:00:11,400 --> 00:00:14,000 Speaker 1: come in and you aren't gonna want to miss this. 5 00:00:14,120 --> 00:00:16,320 Speaker 1: So let's get into it, shall we? Let's do it 6 00:00:17,720 --> 00:00:18,080 Speaker 1: all right? 7 00:00:18,280 --> 00:00:18,560 Speaker 2: Honey? 8 00:00:18,600 --> 00:00:26,000 Speaker 3: If I wear glasses without it, whatever you prefer, you're good. 9 00:00:26,040 --> 00:00:27,040 Speaker 3: This is Joe right. 10 00:00:27,760 --> 00:00:29,960 Speaker 1: Yeah, so I'm not sure who you are. We got 11 00:00:29,960 --> 00:00:32,600 Speaker 1: a new guy on this show. He's got black hair. 12 00:00:32,640 --> 00:00:35,159 Speaker 1: Now I see these guys Jeff Black here? Who is 13 00:00:35,200 --> 00:00:39,280 Speaker 1: this guy? Who is this new Charles? Who's this new Charles? 14 00:00:39,720 --> 00:00:42,480 Speaker 3: It's due to the food I consumed in the last 15 00:00:42,479 --> 00:00:51,600 Speaker 3: few weeks. Yeah. Also, we are happy. You know, things 16 00:00:51,640 --> 00:00:54,600 Speaker 3: to change a little bit. So today I'm so happy. 17 00:00:55,000 --> 00:00:58,680 Speaker 3: I think I'm My hair didn't look like this yesterday, 18 00:00:58,800 --> 00:00:59,920 Speaker 3: but they changed today. 19 00:01:00,080 --> 00:01:02,480 Speaker 4: You're so happy, and you're eating so well that you're 20 00:01:02,480 --> 00:01:03,480 Speaker 4: aging backwards. 21 00:01:03,640 --> 00:01:06,880 Speaker 1: You look great. You look great. Your your suit looks great, 22 00:01:07,280 --> 00:01:08,920 Speaker 1: very nice. I love the suit. 23 00:01:09,680 --> 00:01:10,920 Speaker 3: Shall I show you something? 24 00:01:11,440 --> 00:01:11,720 Speaker 2: Please? 25 00:01:11,800 --> 00:01:14,680 Speaker 3: Yeah, but only this between and me. Don't tell other 26 00:01:14,720 --> 00:01:16,280 Speaker 3: people if you can see me. 27 00:01:19,520 --> 00:01:22,840 Speaker 5: Oh my gosh, it says Charles out. I like that 28 00:01:23,280 --> 00:01:24,080 Speaker 5: is so cool. 29 00:01:24,200 --> 00:01:27,720 Speaker 1: Custom You gotta customate to customate. 30 00:01:27,200 --> 00:01:30,680 Speaker 4: Suits gay new hair news suit new Charles. 31 00:01:30,920 --> 00:01:34,960 Speaker 1: Okay, yeah, Charles. How was it? How was it seeing 32 00:01:34,959 --> 00:01:36,000 Speaker 1: everybody tonight? 33 00:01:37,800 --> 00:01:42,399 Speaker 3: Thrilled, excited, also emotional. So if I summarize this other 34 00:01:42,480 --> 00:01:46,839 Speaker 3: three terminal three words I would use, I mean we 35 00:01:46,959 --> 00:01:50,680 Speaker 3: didn't see each other. I'm talking about a man. We 36 00:01:50,880 --> 00:01:54,440 Speaker 3: we missed each other. And when we saw them or 37 00:01:54,480 --> 00:01:57,880 Speaker 3: saw each other in the bus this morning. Boy, you 38 00:01:58,000 --> 00:02:02,800 Speaker 3: listen to the loudness, the excitement that tell you something. Yeah, 39 00:02:03,320 --> 00:02:05,400 Speaker 3: we are so happy to meet again. 40 00:02:06,080 --> 00:02:09,760 Speaker 1: How special? How special was it to have your daughter 41 00:02:09,760 --> 00:02:10,720 Speaker 1: in the audience tonight? 42 00:02:11,120 --> 00:02:14,359 Speaker 3: Oh this is the second surprise, you know. The first 43 00:02:14,480 --> 00:02:17,680 Speaker 3: night that I was in a mansion and the producer 44 00:02:17,800 --> 00:02:21,200 Speaker 3: you know, taped her. We didn't know at all, but 45 00:02:21,440 --> 00:02:25,400 Speaker 3: once she was on the air, everybody was kind of shocked. 46 00:02:26,000 --> 00:02:30,880 Speaker 3: I was, in particular, was shocked. And today I haven't 47 00:02:30,919 --> 00:02:33,400 Speaker 3: seen Sophia for quite a while as well, you know, 48 00:02:33,480 --> 00:02:38,440 Speaker 3: I was away for a long time trip. So I'm 49 00:02:38,480 --> 00:02:41,360 Speaker 3: so happy to see her, you know, and she's such 50 00:02:41,560 --> 00:02:44,400 Speaker 3: such a gorgeous, you know a girl, as you can tell, 51 00:02:44,520 --> 00:02:46,960 Speaker 3: you know. Yeah, I'm happy she is. 52 00:02:47,120 --> 00:02:50,120 Speaker 4: It was so nice to see so many of your 53 00:02:50,200 --> 00:02:52,679 Speaker 4: children and the audience, but so special for you guys 54 00:02:52,720 --> 00:02:54,040 Speaker 4: to reconnect after you've been away. 55 00:02:54,080 --> 00:02:56,200 Speaker 5: There was also another. 56 00:02:55,880 --> 00:02:59,720 Speaker 4: Woman in the audience that we spoke with that asked, 57 00:02:59,760 --> 00:03:03,200 Speaker 4: if you would please be the Golden Bachelor, but if 58 00:03:03,240 --> 00:03:05,920 Speaker 4: you're not, if you would date her mom? Are you 59 00:03:06,040 --> 00:03:07,520 Speaker 4: open to dating her mom? 60 00:03:07,639 --> 00:03:13,200 Speaker 3: Charles? This is, you know, one million dollar question to 61 00:03:13,280 --> 00:03:16,880 Speaker 3: be answered. In a sense, why, because I was away 62 00:03:16,960 --> 00:03:21,960 Speaker 3: for quite a few weeks, and tomorrow I'm flying back 63 00:03:22,120 --> 00:03:26,680 Speaker 3: to my own home, so I need to sit down, 64 00:03:26,760 --> 00:03:30,519 Speaker 3: sort it out. You know a lot of messages, particularly 65 00:03:30,520 --> 00:03:34,720 Speaker 3: in the Instagram. Then I'll see what I would do. 66 00:03:34,840 --> 00:03:39,040 Speaker 1: Yeah, she's not She's an option on the table. 67 00:03:39,120 --> 00:03:41,480 Speaker 4: But you have a lot of women that are demanding 68 00:03:41,520 --> 00:03:42,360 Speaker 4: attention from you. 69 00:03:42,480 --> 00:03:44,240 Speaker 5: I get it not necessary. 70 00:03:44,320 --> 00:03:46,560 Speaker 3: You know, some may be too nicer for me. You know, 71 00:03:46,640 --> 00:03:51,680 Speaker 3: in a sense, there's a joke circling around. You know, 72 00:03:51,720 --> 00:03:55,320 Speaker 3: there's a terminology you call sugar daddy and the sugar mommy. 73 00:03:56,080 --> 00:03:59,520 Speaker 4: Yes, yes, we're familiar with the term. 74 00:03:59,680 --> 00:04:04,960 Speaker 3: Yeah, but would see what happens. Yeah, but I'm very grateful. 75 00:04:05,040 --> 00:04:08,880 Speaker 3: You know, so many fans and audience, you know, I 76 00:04:08,920 --> 00:04:09,920 Speaker 3: appreciate their love. 77 00:04:10,040 --> 00:04:13,640 Speaker 1: Yeah, if you were to take let's say you go 78 00:04:13,720 --> 00:04:16,240 Speaker 1: on a date with one of these women, what's an 79 00:04:16,279 --> 00:04:19,480 Speaker 1: ideal date look like for you? Where would you take them? 80 00:04:19,520 --> 00:04:20,080 Speaker 2: Only two? 81 00:04:20,160 --> 00:04:25,120 Speaker 3: I think I would call number ones is intelligence? This 82 00:04:25,440 --> 00:04:28,400 Speaker 3: can be vague in a sense, However, what I really 83 00:04:28,480 --> 00:04:32,080 Speaker 3: mean is that you can communicate freely and easily with 84 00:04:32,120 --> 00:04:36,080 Speaker 3: the other person. And second is I would say kindness 85 00:04:36,120 --> 00:04:39,400 Speaker 3: and sweetness. You know, if the other person is not 86 00:04:39,560 --> 00:04:42,599 Speaker 3: kind or doesn't care about you, I think life might 87 00:04:42,640 --> 00:04:45,640 Speaker 3: be miserable in a sense. So maybe these are the 88 00:04:45,720 --> 00:04:48,159 Speaker 3: two characters I may look into. 89 00:04:48,880 --> 00:04:51,040 Speaker 1: Oh I like that. But where would you take them 90 00:04:51,040 --> 00:04:54,720 Speaker 1: on a first date? Any dates in mine? Would you 91 00:04:54,760 --> 00:04:56,800 Speaker 1: go to a restaurant? Would you cook? What would you do? 92 00:04:57,120 --> 00:04:57,960 Speaker 1: Go for a walk? 93 00:04:59,240 --> 00:05:00,600 Speaker 2: Restaurant? Be tough? 94 00:05:00,760 --> 00:05:03,560 Speaker 3: Why because a lot of people will recognize me and 95 00:05:03,680 --> 00:05:06,800 Speaker 3: people take a photos doing so. 96 00:05:06,920 --> 00:05:08,800 Speaker 1: Also, we don't know what you're gonna eat. That might 97 00:05:08,880 --> 00:05:10,680 Speaker 1: change the color of your hair. You might be blonde. 98 00:05:10,720 --> 00:05:11,799 Speaker 5: That that's so true. 99 00:05:12,360 --> 00:05:17,400 Speaker 3: Cool, that's possible. I think, as you mentioned, a walk 100 00:05:17,560 --> 00:05:18,719 Speaker 3: might be a starting point. 101 00:05:19,440 --> 00:05:20,960 Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, yeah. 102 00:05:21,440 --> 00:05:25,160 Speaker 3: Uh to cook at somehow probably is due too early? 103 00:05:25,279 --> 00:05:28,520 Speaker 4: Yeah, too early, too intimate. That's maybe like a third date. 104 00:05:30,880 --> 00:05:31,880 Speaker 3: I'm not sure yet. 105 00:05:32,000 --> 00:05:36,240 Speaker 1: Yeah, and how is it? How is it seeing Joan 106 00:05:36,320 --> 00:05:39,679 Speaker 1: tonight again? 107 00:05:39,760 --> 00:05:42,919 Speaker 3: She looks, you know, very very gorgeous and charming. You know, 108 00:05:43,800 --> 00:05:46,200 Speaker 3: we we a lot of men, and I mentioned miss 109 00:05:46,240 --> 00:05:51,440 Speaker 3: her and because you know, our journey was jumped to 110 00:05:51,440 --> 00:05:54,560 Speaker 3: to certain degrees kind of you know, if I use 111 00:05:54,600 --> 00:05:59,120 Speaker 3: the word stopped in in a way, and we we 112 00:05:59,440 --> 00:06:03,240 Speaker 3: all wish her a happy choice, and from you know, 113 00:06:05,120 --> 00:06:07,520 Speaker 3: I probably should pick the one from the twenty four 114 00:06:08,080 --> 00:06:13,320 Speaker 3: I hope, and we wish her happy life and in 115 00:06:13,360 --> 00:06:17,400 Speaker 3: the future. And if there's a wedding, you know, to happen, 116 00:06:18,040 --> 00:06:20,480 Speaker 3: I think most of us, maybe all of us will 117 00:06:20,480 --> 00:06:22,960 Speaker 3: go there and salute them, yeah, cheer. 118 00:06:23,600 --> 00:06:25,719 Speaker 1: And you think you guys think every you think everyone's 119 00:06:25,760 --> 00:06:27,960 Speaker 1: going to get invited. 120 00:06:28,360 --> 00:06:33,720 Speaker 3: I guess so I'll be only one one of them 121 00:06:33,800 --> 00:06:36,520 Speaker 3: to be invited. And so I hope, you know, everyone 122 00:06:36,560 --> 00:06:37,359 Speaker 3: will be invited. 123 00:06:38,040 --> 00:06:40,960 Speaker 1: I think you'd be invited at Charles, Are you sure? 124 00:06:41,279 --> 00:06:42,520 Speaker 4: Yeah, you're a big celebrity. 125 00:06:42,520 --> 00:06:43,600 Speaker 1: Now she has to have you. 126 00:06:44,240 --> 00:06:48,240 Speaker 3: What if I have a girlfriend, maybe maybe. 127 00:06:48,000 --> 00:06:50,280 Speaker 4: You'll get maybe you'll get a plus one, or maybe 128 00:06:50,279 --> 00:06:51,400 Speaker 4: you'll meet some at the wedding. 129 00:06:52,640 --> 00:06:54,640 Speaker 3: Wow, that's probably a good idea. 130 00:06:54,760 --> 00:06:58,359 Speaker 4: Yeah, you never know that, you never know right now, Well, Charles, 131 00:06:58,360 --> 00:07:00,920 Speaker 4: thank you so much for coming over so high for y'all. 132 00:07:01,279 --> 00:07:03,800 Speaker 3: Oh, thank you, thank you for your time, and I 133 00:07:03,839 --> 00:07:04,800 Speaker 3: really appreciate it. 134 00:07:05,400 --> 00:07:05,920 Speaker 5: Of course. 135 00:07:06,520 --> 00:07:09,240 Speaker 4: Enjoy time with your daughter and being a big celebrity. 136 00:07:09,279 --> 00:07:18,280 Speaker 3: Now, okay, thank you, goodbye, goodbye bye. 137 00:07:20,240 --> 00:07:24,400 Speaker 2: Look at these two folks, Gary, Look at my peeps 138 00:07:24,480 --> 00:07:24,960 Speaker 2: over there. 139 00:07:25,880 --> 00:07:26,640 Speaker 1: Welcome back. 140 00:07:27,080 --> 00:07:28,440 Speaker 2: Nice to see you guys. 141 00:07:29,160 --> 00:07:30,320 Speaker 1: How are feeling tonight? 142 00:07:30,800 --> 00:07:32,960 Speaker 2: Sensational? Absolutely fabulous. 143 00:07:33,520 --> 00:07:34,400 Speaker 1: You look great. 144 00:07:34,480 --> 00:07:35,080 Speaker 5: Yeah. 145 00:07:35,400 --> 00:07:38,280 Speaker 4: I like the tie and the suit and the glasses. 146 00:07:38,320 --> 00:07:39,960 Speaker 4: It all comes together very nicely. 147 00:07:40,440 --> 00:07:41,800 Speaker 2: Thank you so much. Guys. 148 00:07:42,640 --> 00:07:44,920 Speaker 1: How was it seeing everybody tonight? 149 00:07:45,960 --> 00:07:49,800 Speaker 2: It was? It was pretty special. It was like a 150 00:07:49,960 --> 00:07:55,640 Speaker 2: family reunion almost but even better because my newfound brothers 151 00:07:56,040 --> 00:07:59,720 Speaker 2: and then seeing Joan just fabulous. 152 00:07:59,760 --> 00:08:03,680 Speaker 1: It was awesome. Was there anything that you wanted to 153 00:08:03,720 --> 00:08:07,920 Speaker 1: say tonight that you did or that you maybe weren't 154 00:08:07,920 --> 00:08:09,000 Speaker 1: able to express. 155 00:08:10,280 --> 00:08:14,080 Speaker 2: No, I think everything came together just as it was 156 00:08:14,120 --> 00:08:19,040 Speaker 2: supposed to. The One most important thing to me was 157 00:08:19,080 --> 00:08:22,680 Speaker 2: seeing Joan's mom, Mary, who I had written that prayer for, 158 00:08:23,480 --> 00:08:26,920 Speaker 2: and that really put things in perspective for me, because 159 00:08:27,160 --> 00:08:30,440 Speaker 2: it was as if things just got real and it 160 00:08:30,480 --> 00:08:33,200 Speaker 2: came to life. It was very surreal, I should say, 161 00:08:33,840 --> 00:08:36,200 Speaker 2: seeing her mom there, so it was that was special. 162 00:08:36,880 --> 00:08:38,000 Speaker 1: Yeah, that was nice. 163 00:08:38,080 --> 00:08:41,000 Speaker 4: It's so like it's just fun to see all the 164 00:08:41,040 --> 00:08:43,960 Speaker 4: different generations in one room. People have their children there, 165 00:08:44,120 --> 00:08:47,240 Speaker 4: Joan has her mom there. It's just like it is 166 00:08:47,480 --> 00:08:49,520 Speaker 4: does feel like a big family reunion. 167 00:08:50,000 --> 00:08:52,240 Speaker 2: Yeah, absolutely, Yeah. 168 00:08:52,360 --> 00:08:54,560 Speaker 1: What was it like having your son in the audience? 169 00:08:54,600 --> 00:08:56,040 Speaker 1: And what did he think about the show? 170 00:08:57,120 --> 00:09:02,720 Speaker 2: He was in seventh Heaven. He loves the show and 171 00:09:03,400 --> 00:09:06,000 Speaker 2: that's my little mini me. He was up there making 172 00:09:06,080 --> 00:09:11,200 Speaker 2: connections with every one's family. They came down after. Oh 173 00:09:11,240 --> 00:09:14,200 Speaker 2: my gosh, I love your son. He's such a great 174 00:09:14,280 --> 00:09:17,920 Speaker 2: like Blake, what did you do? What did you say? 175 00:09:18,160 --> 00:09:20,080 Speaker 2: So that was kind of cool with him being there 176 00:09:20,280 --> 00:09:24,480 Speaker 2: and being my support person. You know, it was it 177 00:09:24,559 --> 00:09:26,120 Speaker 2: was really special, it really was. 178 00:09:26,600 --> 00:09:27,240 Speaker 1: Is he single? 179 00:09:28,080 --> 00:09:34,320 Speaker 2: He's single? Yes, Blake is thirty five. I think I 180 00:09:34,360 --> 00:09:36,160 Speaker 2: want to say thirty five somewhere. 181 00:09:36,280 --> 00:09:38,880 Speaker 1: He would he go on uh what'd he go on 182 00:09:38,920 --> 00:09:39,800 Speaker 1: The Bachelor. 183 00:09:39,440 --> 00:09:45,960 Speaker 2: At short answer, yes, long answer, Yeah. 184 00:09:44,200 --> 00:09:46,079 Speaker 5: Oh my gosh, you should do it. 185 00:09:46,480 --> 00:09:52,599 Speaker 2: I know, I just have to tell him and and yeah, 186 00:09:52,640 --> 00:09:55,679 Speaker 2: absolutely he would he would do in the heartbeat, I. 187 00:09:55,640 --> 00:10:01,280 Speaker 4: Think, oh interesting, that would be. So what advice would 188 00:10:01,280 --> 00:10:02,600 Speaker 4: you give him if he was going to go on? 189 00:10:03,000 --> 00:10:05,400 Speaker 2: I tell him, make sure you take a steamer with 190 00:10:05,440 --> 00:10:08,000 Speaker 2: you if they select you, so you can keep your 191 00:10:08,080 --> 00:10:09,000 Speaker 2: clothes nice. 192 00:10:08,760 --> 00:10:10,840 Speaker 3: And eye here steamer. 193 00:10:10,960 --> 00:10:11,920 Speaker 1: Yeah that's a good one. 194 00:10:12,360 --> 00:10:14,960 Speaker 2: But no, But in all seriousness, I just tell him, look, 195 00:10:15,040 --> 00:10:17,720 Speaker 2: you got to be all in and you have to 196 00:10:17,760 --> 00:10:23,600 Speaker 2: be vulnerable. Blake is the kind of guy that would 197 00:10:23,600 --> 00:10:27,200 Speaker 2: make sure that everyone is having a good time. Right. Yeah, 198 00:10:27,280 --> 00:10:30,839 Speaker 2: he puts himself last. And he's been like that all 199 00:10:30,880 --> 00:10:33,480 Speaker 2: his life. He just likes making sure that everyone else 200 00:10:34,200 --> 00:10:38,160 Speaker 2: is having a good time, and and so yeah, I 201 00:10:38,200 --> 00:10:40,360 Speaker 2: think he'd I think he'd be a great addition to 202 00:10:40,160 --> 00:10:41,120 Speaker 2: the to the program. 203 00:10:42,440 --> 00:10:46,400 Speaker 1: After watching everything back and experiencing this, do you have 204 00:10:46,800 --> 00:10:48,880 Speaker 1: any would you have done anything there? I don't want 205 00:10:48,880 --> 00:10:50,720 Speaker 1: to say regrets, but is there anything that you would 206 00:10:50,760 --> 00:10:51,680 Speaker 1: have maybe done different? 207 00:10:53,480 --> 00:10:57,280 Speaker 2: I can't say that I would because everything happened just 208 00:10:57,320 --> 00:11:02,480 Speaker 2: as it was supposed to. I wish I could have 209 00:11:02,520 --> 00:11:05,240 Speaker 2: stayed longer because I was really looking forward to traveling 210 00:11:05,840 --> 00:11:11,880 Speaker 2: and going someplace exotic with Joan. But no, everything happened 211 00:11:12,040 --> 00:11:15,400 Speaker 2: just like it was supposed to. For all the right reasons, 212 00:11:15,440 --> 00:11:19,640 Speaker 2: and I'm humbled by by everything that did happen, So 213 00:11:19,840 --> 00:11:20,920 Speaker 2: I wouldn't change a thing. 214 00:11:22,240 --> 00:11:25,280 Speaker 1: Let's say you did. Let's say you worry able to 215 00:11:25,280 --> 00:11:28,160 Speaker 1: stay longer and you got a hometown. What would you 216 00:11:28,280 --> 00:11:30,320 Speaker 1: where would you have taken Joan in your hometown? What 217 00:11:30,320 --> 00:11:31,000 Speaker 1: would you have done? 218 00:11:32,640 --> 00:11:35,800 Speaker 2: You know, it's funny you mentioned that, because the producers 219 00:11:35,840 --> 00:11:38,800 Speaker 2: came up to me. They're like, Gary, Okay, we got 220 00:11:38,840 --> 00:11:41,640 Speaker 2: to start planning just in case you get the hometown. 221 00:11:41,640 --> 00:11:46,600 Speaker 2: And I'm thinking, I'm thinking, oh, that's right. Oh my gosh, 222 00:11:46,720 --> 00:11:51,480 Speaker 2: what am I going to do? You know, I haven't 223 00:11:51,480 --> 00:11:55,319 Speaker 2: even thought about that, but things got real and I'd 224 00:11:55,360 --> 00:11:57,960 Speaker 2: like her to meet like, of course my grandson and 225 00:11:58,000 --> 00:12:03,680 Speaker 2: my my children. Maybe take her to the one of 226 00:12:03,679 --> 00:12:06,280 Speaker 2: the country clubs where I go and play golf, and 227 00:12:06,920 --> 00:12:09,800 Speaker 2: uh to church. Obviously, I'd love her to meet some 228 00:12:09,840 --> 00:12:12,640 Speaker 2: of my folks from my men's ministry and my my 229 00:12:12,760 --> 00:12:16,720 Speaker 2: pastor and my church. So yeah, I think that would 230 00:12:16,800 --> 00:12:20,840 Speaker 2: would have been a good outing. The whole congregation would 231 00:12:20,840 --> 00:12:27,920 Speaker 2: have been like, Wow, that's scary and Joan, thousands of people. 232 00:12:27,920 --> 00:12:30,079 Speaker 2: It's a it's a pretty big church, pretty. 233 00:12:29,800 --> 00:12:33,160 Speaker 1: Big if they end up doing if they ever do 234 00:12:34,440 --> 00:12:40,480 Speaker 1: a golden Golden Bachelor in Paradise, you in you doing it? 235 00:12:43,120 --> 00:12:46,920 Speaker 2: I love putting my feet in the sand globally, but 236 00:12:47,000 --> 00:12:49,160 Speaker 2: I'd have to drop about thirty pounds. 237 00:12:53,320 --> 00:12:55,200 Speaker 1: What if they do if they do it at like 238 00:12:55,240 --> 00:12:57,240 Speaker 1: what if they do it at like a country club? 239 00:13:00,160 --> 00:13:04,160 Speaker 2: Be cool? But guess what you saw that Chippendale. That's what. 240 00:13:05,480 --> 00:13:09,479 Speaker 4: I don't know what you're talking about. You were amazing 241 00:13:09,640 --> 00:13:11,079 Speaker 4: on that date my. 242 00:13:11,160 --> 00:13:14,920 Speaker 2: Big stomach and I thought, what was I think? 243 00:13:15,840 --> 00:13:16,840 Speaker 1: It was here crazy? 244 00:13:17,120 --> 00:13:20,920 Speaker 2: But I'm no longer twenty five. Man, Oh my gosh, 245 00:13:20,960 --> 00:13:24,000 Speaker 2: that was one of the funniest things. And to this 246 00:13:24,120 --> 00:13:27,640 Speaker 2: day my kids they're still talking about it. Dad, What 247 00:13:27,679 --> 00:13:31,880 Speaker 2: were you thinking? What were you thinking? How did you do? 248 00:13:31,880 --> 00:13:33,959 Speaker 1: You know? What they should do? They should they they 249 00:13:33,960 --> 00:13:37,280 Speaker 1: should need to go back, replay it, pause it where 250 00:13:37,320 --> 00:13:40,480 Speaker 1: your shirt's take a photo of it and send them 251 00:13:40,480 --> 00:13:42,600 Speaker 1: out as a Christmas card to all your friends and. 252 00:13:42,600 --> 00:13:46,199 Speaker 5: Family Harry Christmas. 253 00:13:46,480 --> 00:13:51,600 Speaker 2: Oh God, don't give them that idea, because it's out 254 00:13:51,640 --> 00:13:52,120 Speaker 2: there now. 255 00:13:53,000 --> 00:13:54,160 Speaker 5: They're listening. 256 00:13:55,800 --> 00:14:00,800 Speaker 4: And could ring one guy from this season then to 257 00:14:01,640 --> 00:14:03,920 Speaker 4: Golden Bachelor in Paradise with you? Who would you bring? 258 00:14:04,840 --> 00:14:08,640 Speaker 2: I would bring guy without hesitation. That's my bus, that's 259 00:14:08,720 --> 00:14:12,600 Speaker 2: my that's my he was my roommate. He was one 260 00:14:12,600 --> 00:14:15,079 Speaker 2: of the good guys that that I really bought it 261 00:14:15,160 --> 00:14:16,199 Speaker 2: with without question. 262 00:14:17,120 --> 00:14:20,000 Speaker 1: Nice. Well, Gary, it was so nice having you back 263 00:14:20,000 --> 00:14:22,320 Speaker 1: on the podcast and seeing you back on our screens. 264 00:14:22,800 --> 00:14:24,280 Speaker 1: Thank you so much for taking the time. 265 00:14:24,880 --> 00:14:26,400 Speaker 2: Thank you, thanks for having me guys. 266 00:14:26,560 --> 00:14:30,160 Speaker 4: Of course, good night, okay, thank you. 267 00:14:37,040 --> 00:14:37,800 Speaker 1: Hello. 268 00:14:38,640 --> 00:14:39,800 Speaker 5: How are you going? 269 00:14:40,640 --> 00:14:40,840 Speaker 2: Good? 270 00:14:40,960 --> 00:14:42,240 Speaker 1: God, how you doing tonight? 271 00:14:42,480 --> 00:14:46,520 Speaker 5: I'm good? Oh boy, long night. How are you feeling 272 00:14:47,160 --> 00:14:48,000 Speaker 5: I'm feeling good. 273 00:14:48,040 --> 00:14:51,040 Speaker 6: I feel like like the tell Alls are like a 274 00:14:51,240 --> 00:14:55,440 Speaker 6: big night in your season, and it's nice that that 275 00:14:55,520 --> 00:14:56,000 Speaker 6: we did it. 276 00:14:56,000 --> 00:14:58,160 Speaker 5: It's over, and like it feels good. 277 00:14:59,160 --> 00:15:03,240 Speaker 1: Who were you nervous to see? 278 00:15:03,880 --> 00:15:05,880 Speaker 5: I wasn't really nervous to see anybody. 279 00:15:05,960 --> 00:15:09,440 Speaker 6: I mean I felt like like Pascal was going to 280 00:15:09,480 --> 00:15:12,200 Speaker 6: be in the hot seat obviously, but other than that, 281 00:15:12,400 --> 00:15:15,520 Speaker 6: I I wasn't nervous at all. In fact, I was 282 00:15:15,560 --> 00:15:18,200 Speaker 6: really excited, you know. I mean, you guys have been there, 283 00:15:19,240 --> 00:15:22,800 Speaker 6: like you formed these like nice friendships and even if 284 00:15:22,840 --> 00:15:25,360 Speaker 6: you and you know, some of them were more love 285 00:15:25,600 --> 00:15:27,920 Speaker 6: kind of connected. But even if there wasn't a love connection, 286 00:15:27,960 --> 00:15:29,640 Speaker 6: you have friendships with the people and. 287 00:15:30,040 --> 00:15:31,000 Speaker 5: I like, I missed him. 288 00:15:31,000 --> 00:15:33,400 Speaker 6: I haven't seen him in months, so I was so 289 00:15:33,480 --> 00:15:36,320 Speaker 6: excited to walk out and finally see them again. 290 00:15:37,080 --> 00:15:37,280 Speaker 1: I know. 291 00:15:37,320 --> 00:15:39,640 Speaker 4: I love that they called you an honorary mansion men 292 00:15:39,680 --> 00:15:43,240 Speaker 4: because you form all these bonds and then the relationships 293 00:15:43,320 --> 00:15:45,800 Speaker 4: end and it probably just feels like that's it. 294 00:15:46,080 --> 00:15:47,480 Speaker 2: But you have all of. 295 00:15:47,440 --> 00:15:50,000 Speaker 4: These new friends, even though you didn't end up falling 296 00:15:50,000 --> 00:15:50,920 Speaker 4: in love with all of them. 297 00:15:51,120 --> 00:15:53,160 Speaker 6: Yeah, so in my mind, like I was going to 298 00:15:53,240 --> 00:15:55,160 Speaker 6: be their friend forever and they weren't getting rid of me. 299 00:15:55,200 --> 00:15:56,920 Speaker 6: But I just didn't know they felt the same way. 300 00:15:57,000 --> 00:15:59,440 Speaker 6: So I feel really validated. Like I'm gonna start like 301 00:15:59,480 --> 00:16:00,680 Speaker 6: texting them all tomorrow morning. 302 00:16:01,720 --> 00:16:03,880 Speaker 1: Yeah, because it is it's such a like it's such 303 00:16:03,920 --> 00:16:08,360 Speaker 1: a big experience in your life and these guys are 304 00:16:08,400 --> 00:16:11,320 Speaker 1: all part of it. And it's like, even though it's 305 00:16:11,360 --> 00:16:13,720 Speaker 1: only you know, a few months, it does feel like 306 00:16:13,760 --> 00:16:17,200 Speaker 1: when you're when you're in it, it feels like forever. 307 00:16:18,440 --> 00:16:25,040 Speaker 1: So it's like, yeah, it's cool. Anyways, watching watching the 308 00:16:25,040 --> 00:16:28,280 Speaker 1: the Pascal break up back, how did that? How did 309 00:16:28,320 --> 00:16:28,760 Speaker 1: that feel? 310 00:16:29,600 --> 00:16:29,840 Speaker 3: Yeah? 311 00:16:29,840 --> 00:16:33,400 Speaker 6: That was not easy, I have to tell you. At 312 00:16:33,440 --> 00:16:35,800 Speaker 6: the time, it was kind of a surprise to me. 313 00:16:35,920 --> 00:16:40,520 Speaker 6: Although we went on that like the Tahitian bonding ceremony 314 00:16:40,560 --> 00:16:42,560 Speaker 6: thing that we did on our date, and I could 315 00:16:42,640 --> 00:16:46,160 Speaker 6: see that he was very uncomfortable at it, and I 316 00:16:46,280 --> 00:16:50,800 Speaker 6: was honestly pretty uncomfortable myself. It It felt very wetting 317 00:16:50,920 --> 00:16:53,840 Speaker 6: me and it like cold on you to like talk 318 00:16:53,880 --> 00:16:56,359 Speaker 6: about your emotions a lot for a lot of hours, 319 00:16:56,440 --> 00:16:59,440 Speaker 6: and it was uncomfortable. So I felt like, you know, 320 00:16:59,520 --> 00:17:02,040 Speaker 6: we went into that in a kind of a good place, 321 00:17:02,040 --> 00:17:03,760 Speaker 6: and I kind of felt his walls going back up, 322 00:17:03,880 --> 00:17:07,280 Speaker 6: and I felt that he was like, oh, get me 323 00:17:07,320 --> 00:17:08,720 Speaker 6: out of here, and. 324 00:17:10,440 --> 00:17:12,719 Speaker 5: You know, I thought that things were going in a 325 00:17:12,840 --> 00:17:13,520 Speaker 5: bad direction. 326 00:17:13,760 --> 00:17:17,960 Speaker 6: So when I got there, you know, to you know, 327 00:17:18,040 --> 00:17:22,760 Speaker 6: have dinner that night, I was nervous already, and I 328 00:17:23,359 --> 00:17:25,680 Speaker 6: thought that we would end up in fantasy suites and 329 00:17:25,720 --> 00:17:29,800 Speaker 6: we'd have a chance to talk off camera and but 330 00:17:30,040 --> 00:17:32,439 Speaker 6: and I thought that that was going to be revealing 331 00:17:32,480 --> 00:17:34,480 Speaker 6: and that we would make a decision about us then. 332 00:17:34,960 --> 00:17:37,240 Speaker 6: But he kind of came already with a decision made, 333 00:17:37,800 --> 00:17:41,800 Speaker 6: so you know, it hurt my feelings. I had hope 334 00:17:42,000 --> 00:17:44,680 Speaker 6: that you know, he could possibly be the person I 335 00:17:44,800 --> 00:17:46,960 Speaker 6: pictured him. You know, he wouldn't have been there if 336 00:17:47,000 --> 00:17:50,320 Speaker 6: I hadn't, so my feelings were hurt, but you know, 337 00:17:50,359 --> 00:17:52,400 Speaker 6: I respect him. He did what he needed to do, 338 00:17:52,720 --> 00:17:55,720 Speaker 6: and in the long run, it allowed me to continue 339 00:17:55,720 --> 00:17:58,960 Speaker 6: the journey for someone that possibly would you know, end 340 00:17:59,040 --> 00:18:00,600 Speaker 6: up at the same place that I I was going 341 00:18:00,640 --> 00:18:02,200 Speaker 6: to be and he was not going to make it there. 342 00:18:03,560 --> 00:18:08,160 Speaker 1: Watching watching the season back, was there anything anyone did 343 00:18:08,160 --> 00:18:11,719 Speaker 1: that surprised you, or just like maybe I don't know, 344 00:18:11,760 --> 00:18:14,800 Speaker 1: maybe you thought like Keith was a different person than 345 00:18:14,840 --> 00:18:16,919 Speaker 1: he comes across when you're watching him back. You know, 346 00:18:17,080 --> 00:18:19,120 Speaker 1: I don't want to just throw Keith out there. 347 00:18:19,160 --> 00:18:21,040 Speaker 4: No, not in a bad way. It could just be, 348 00:18:21,119 --> 00:18:23,680 Speaker 4: you know, anything that surprised you. 349 00:18:26,359 --> 00:18:27,440 Speaker 5: Nobody in particular. 350 00:18:27,560 --> 00:18:32,000 Speaker 6: The group surprised me as a whole that they were 351 00:18:32,480 --> 00:18:37,439 Speaker 6: so I expected, honestly, I expected these guys to be 352 00:18:37,520 --> 00:18:40,320 Speaker 6: at the mansion talking about sports and about how their 353 00:18:40,320 --> 00:18:42,960 Speaker 6: golf game was, and I never in a million years 354 00:18:43,000 --> 00:18:45,520 Speaker 6: thought that they were going to, like on a daily basis, 355 00:18:45,600 --> 00:18:51,160 Speaker 6: have these like emotional, you know, life changing conversations that 356 00:18:51,200 --> 00:18:53,600 Speaker 6: they did. And they every single one of them said 357 00:18:53,600 --> 00:18:57,200 Speaker 6: that they left this journey better people. And then when 358 00:18:57,240 --> 00:18:59,800 Speaker 6: they came and more emotionally ready to move on with 359 00:18:59,840 --> 00:19:02,760 Speaker 6: their lives and that was that w thing is a 360 00:19:02,840 --> 00:19:04,639 Speaker 6: huge surprise to me. I thought we were going to 361 00:19:04,680 --> 00:19:07,639 Speaker 6: be like dragging stuff out of them, trying to, you know, 362 00:19:08,160 --> 00:19:10,800 Speaker 6: you get to know them, and that was so the opposite. 363 00:19:11,480 --> 00:19:13,560 Speaker 1: Yeah, I agree, that's what I That's what I thought 364 00:19:13,840 --> 00:19:15,719 Speaker 1: the whole season was going to be in. Yeah, I 365 00:19:15,800 --> 00:19:21,359 Speaker 1: was actually shocked. If you you're playing matchmaker right now, 366 00:19:22,680 --> 00:19:26,840 Speaker 1: one woman from your season of the Golden Bachelor and 367 00:19:26,960 --> 00:19:31,080 Speaker 1: one guy from your season as the Golden Bachelor. 368 00:19:30,800 --> 00:19:34,320 Speaker 6: At I've already set them up. 369 00:19:36,920 --> 00:19:37,760 Speaker 1: You tell us? 370 00:19:38,359 --> 00:19:41,200 Speaker 5: Can I tell you? I don't think I can. 371 00:19:41,240 --> 00:19:45,400 Speaker 6: They're not far enough along in they're they're they're conversing, 372 00:19:46,720 --> 00:19:49,200 Speaker 6: but they are not far enough long in the relationship 373 00:19:49,240 --> 00:19:51,479 Speaker 6: to like really reveal anything. And I'm not sure if 374 00:19:51,480 --> 00:19:54,280 Speaker 6: it'll get there. But so far, so good, so far. 375 00:19:54,320 --> 00:19:55,920 Speaker 6: I'm one for one and I have a couple. I 376 00:19:55,960 --> 00:19:58,480 Speaker 6: have two more work I'm going to do now. Yeah, 377 00:19:58,560 --> 00:19:59,040 Speaker 6: I love that. 378 00:19:59,400 --> 00:20:01,199 Speaker 1: Damn it, Joe, you can't come out here with that, 379 00:20:01,359 --> 00:20:02,760 Speaker 1: not give us names. 380 00:20:03,320 --> 00:20:06,560 Speaker 4: Golden matchlor Paradise When Joan is just going to match make, 381 00:20:06,840 --> 00:20:07,960 Speaker 4: everybody's going to. 382 00:20:08,000 --> 00:20:10,119 Speaker 6: Do it, or I feel like I should go to 383 00:20:10,119 --> 00:20:12,040 Speaker 6: Paradise with them all and then do the match making. 384 00:20:12,080 --> 00:20:13,359 Speaker 6: I think I should be the bartender. 385 00:20:14,080 --> 00:20:16,080 Speaker 4: Yes, it's always good to have a little guidance. 386 00:20:16,359 --> 00:20:20,679 Speaker 1: Yeah, I love that you've had a long night. So 387 00:20:21,080 --> 00:20:26,159 Speaker 1: last question, looking back on your whole journey, is there 388 00:20:26,200 --> 00:20:27,560 Speaker 1: anything that you would have done different? 389 00:20:28,760 --> 00:20:31,720 Speaker 5: Hmm, I don't think so. 390 00:20:31,720 --> 00:20:36,199 Speaker 6: So, like you have to make a lot of in 391 00:20:36,240 --> 00:20:41,600 Speaker 6: the moment decisions, and rose ceremonies particularly are really really 392 00:20:41,640 --> 00:20:43,600 Speaker 6: really hard. You know, you think about them a lot, 393 00:20:44,040 --> 00:20:47,520 Speaker 6: like the couple of days leading up to them, and 394 00:20:47,640 --> 00:20:51,320 Speaker 6: they were really distressful, and I second guessed myself every 395 00:20:51,440 --> 00:20:53,600 Speaker 6: single week when I had to do that. But in 396 00:20:53,640 --> 00:20:56,400 Speaker 6: the long run, when I got down to my final four, 397 00:20:57,160 --> 00:20:59,399 Speaker 6: I was I felt very confident that I had the 398 00:20:59,480 --> 00:21:02,360 Speaker 6: right four there. So I think that was the only 399 00:21:02,359 --> 00:21:05,960 Speaker 6: second guessing I did was rose ceremonies. But after that, 400 00:21:06,320 --> 00:21:08,800 Speaker 6: you know, I did. I did pick people for dates 401 00:21:09,119 --> 00:21:11,080 Speaker 6: that I thought that they would be really good at. 402 00:21:11,119 --> 00:21:14,080 Speaker 6: Like I picked Jonathan for the horseback riding date because 403 00:21:14,080 --> 00:21:16,520 Speaker 6: he's from Iowa and I thought, certainly he rides horses 404 00:21:16,560 --> 00:21:18,159 Speaker 6: and he's like, yeah, I haven't been one since I 405 00:21:18,200 --> 00:21:18,520 Speaker 6: was six. 406 00:21:18,960 --> 00:21:20,480 Speaker 5: And then I. 407 00:21:19,920 --> 00:21:22,360 Speaker 6: Picked Jordan for the ice skating date because he lives 408 00:21:22,400 --> 00:21:24,360 Speaker 6: in Chicago, and I thought, yeah, he must ice skate 409 00:21:24,400 --> 00:21:26,720 Speaker 6: it's pretty and cold there, and he's like, yeah, I 410 00:21:26,720 --> 00:21:27,520 Speaker 6: don't ice skate at all. 411 00:21:27,560 --> 00:21:28,280 Speaker 5: I have never done that. 412 00:21:28,480 --> 00:21:33,040 Speaker 4: So it's really bad at like picking a day activity swap. 413 00:21:33,680 --> 00:21:36,080 Speaker 6: I needed to, like, I needed some counseling on that, 414 00:21:36,440 --> 00:21:38,919 Speaker 6: but I picked those wrong. They ended up being great dates, 415 00:21:38,960 --> 00:21:40,960 Speaker 6: but it was I didn't pick the right people for 416 00:21:41,000 --> 00:21:43,360 Speaker 6: the right dates, like as far as athletic, but sometimes 417 00:21:43,359 --> 00:21:44,600 Speaker 6: that's more fun. 418 00:21:45,560 --> 00:21:49,240 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, people want to see Jordan fall, not skate around. 419 00:21:51,520 --> 00:21:53,560 Speaker 5: It was the funniest fall ever. 420 00:21:53,800 --> 00:21:59,960 Speaker 4: It was like, very we have your season finale coming up. 421 00:22:00,160 --> 00:22:02,280 Speaker 4: Everything is coming to an end, and obviously you know 422 00:22:02,320 --> 00:22:04,199 Speaker 4: you can't give anything away. I mean, I have a 423 00:22:04,200 --> 00:22:06,359 Speaker 4: feeling we're gonna be talking to you again very soon, 424 00:22:06,960 --> 00:22:11,200 Speaker 4: but can you tease anything for the finale for us? 425 00:22:12,280 --> 00:22:18,359 Speaker 5: So finale, like in true Bachelor form, is a different 426 00:22:18,440 --> 00:22:21,800 Speaker 5: ending that's ever happened before. A lot of emotion. 427 00:22:23,520 --> 00:22:25,879 Speaker 6: The journey continued all the way right up to the 428 00:22:26,000 --> 00:22:30,040 Speaker 6: end for all of us, and a lot of tears, 429 00:22:30,160 --> 00:22:31,240 Speaker 6: a lot of emotions. 430 00:22:31,720 --> 00:22:35,160 Speaker 4: Okay, we are very excited to tune in and thanks 431 00:22:35,160 --> 00:22:36,719 Speaker 4: for coming and chatting with us. You know you've had 432 00:22:36,720 --> 00:22:38,800 Speaker 4: a very long night, so concrats on being done. 433 00:22:39,040 --> 00:22:41,160 Speaker 5: Thanks you and I'll talk to you soon. 434 00:22:41,480 --> 00:22:42,800 Speaker 1: Yes, we will talk to you soon. 435 00:22:43,200 --> 00:22:45,200 Speaker 5: Bye. 436 00:22:45,520 --> 00:22:48,480 Speaker 1: And to all our listeners, thank you guys so much 437 00:22:48,560 --> 00:22:52,840 Speaker 1: for tuning in the Bachelor Happy Hour. We really appreciate. 438 00:22:52,320 --> 00:22:55,760 Speaker 4: It, and be sure to tune into Jones finale of 439 00:22:55,840 --> 00:22:59,600 Speaker 4: the Golden Bachelorette and then tune into Bachelor Happy Hour 440 00:22:59,680 --> 00:23:03,560 Speaker 4: for our recap and interviews coming your way. Thanks listening, 441 00:23:03,640 --> 00:23:05,040 Speaker 4: Bye bye 442 00:23:08,200 --> 00:23:08,560 Speaker 1: M HM.