WEBVTT - Awkward Tuesday: 2K All Day

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<v Speaker 1>You found it at the home of the Second Date Update.

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<v Speaker 1>It's Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning, and thanks for

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<v Speaker 1>being here on the weekend with us. And I know

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<v Speaker 1>we have a lot of new listeners from all over

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<v Speaker 1>the world since we've been in the you know, top

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<v Speaker 1>ten charts of podcasts. Yes, also, which is awesome. And

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<v Speaker 1>if you don't know, we actually are a full radio show.

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<v Speaker 1>I know rio and we are talking on it and

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<v Speaker 1>we do a brand new, full hour episode every day

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<v Speaker 1>on our main feed, Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning.

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<v Speaker 1>And we just thought, you know, y'all seem to like

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<v Speaker 1>relationship drama. We're kind of experts on it, and we

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<v Speaker 1>do a lot of other segments, including this one awkward

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<v Speaker 1>Tuesday phone call. Yes, love, Yes, seriously, it's not necessarily

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<v Speaker 1>always a romantic relationship with these.

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<v Speaker 2>It was always awkward and tricky.

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<v Speaker 1>So sit back and enjoy your awkward Tuesday phone call

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<v Speaker 1>on Sunday. Totally. It starts right now.

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<v Speaker 2>Is it ever okay to give someone's gift back?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh?

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<v Speaker 2>That depends, but most of.

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<v Speaker 3>The time no, I'm not just asking because I saw

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<v Speaker 3>Brook's holiday shopping list. Okay, nobody wants to quote road

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<v Speaker 3>kill shovel, Brooks.

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<v Speaker 1>You don't know how u be.

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<v Speaker 2>I didn't even know they made them specifically for them.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't kill possums all the time like you do

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<v Speaker 1>a ger No.

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<v Speaker 3>Thank you, though, but it would take a pretty extreme

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<v Speaker 3>situation where you would have to tell a friend, hey, thanks,

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<v Speaker 3>but no thanks, I.

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<v Speaker 2>Don't need your gift.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>Well that's exactly where one listener finds herself today, and

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<v Speaker 3>the gift that she received from a coworker is actually

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<v Speaker 3>jeopardizing her upcoming wedding. You're gonna hear what it is

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<v Speaker 3>in your brand new awkward Tuesday phone call coming up next.

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<v Speaker 2>It's awkward, it's Tuesday.

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<v Speaker 4>It's awkward Tuesday phone call.

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<v Speaker 3>Getting somebody a gift off their wedding registry is something

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<v Speaker 3>they'll remember forever. Yeah, especially when you keep bringing it

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<v Speaker 3>up to them years later.

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<v Speaker 2>Like Brook, remember when I got you for your wedding?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, you got me a green blunder and you got

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<v Speaker 1>me a wine decanter.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, pretty nice of me.

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<v Speaker 1>And I use them both all the time.

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<v Speaker 2>That's right.

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<v Speaker 3>Whenever Brook drinks wine, which is every night in most mornings,

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<v Speaker 3>she has to think of me.

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<v Speaker 2>It's my way of cursing.

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<v Speaker 1>Her for usually doesn't make it into the decanter. It

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<v Speaker 1>usually makes it straight into.

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<v Speaker 3>My mouth.

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<v Speaker 1>Every but it's pretty Yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>And for one of our listeners, though, her wedding registry

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<v Speaker 3>has actually caused drama in her relationship and now she.

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<v Speaker 2>Needs our help. So Shilah, welcome to the show.

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<v Speaker 3>Hi.

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<v Speaker 5>How are you guys feeling?

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<v Speaker 1>I can't believe that whoever you're marry and even cares

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<v Speaker 1>about the wedding registry. Of course, yeah, was like, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>whatever you needn't.

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<v Speaker 2>Charlotte tell us what's going on in your relationship?

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<v Speaker 5>Okay. So I have a wedding website, okay, and on it,

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<v Speaker 5>I have my registry linked, and you know, I have

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<v Speaker 5>like regular stuff like dishes and towels and stuff, but

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<v Speaker 5>we also have like thing you can donate to, like

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<v Speaker 5>our honeymoon fun. And then the one that has my

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<v Speaker 5>fiance upset is I had added an impromptu bachelorette trip

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<v Speaker 5>to Vegas, thinking people would probably just donate like one

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<v Speaker 5>hundred bucks fifty bucks from there, just like spending money

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<v Speaker 5>kind of the thing.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, gambling money.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh, you put your bachelorette party on the I mean

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<v Speaker 1>that's nice because the bridesmaids don't have to pick up

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<v Speaker 1>the town.

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<v Speaker 5>No no, no, no.

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<v Speaker 3>You said it was a problem for your fiance. Why

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<v Speaker 3>is that an issue?

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<v Speaker 5>It wasn't really a problem at first. But my fiance

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<v Speaker 5>was on there the other day to see if anyone

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<v Speaker 5>bought anything, and he noticed that my coworker, my male coworker,

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<v Speaker 5>had donated to the bachelorette trip.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my god, that's so nice, really nice.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, what's wrong with that?

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, he donated two thousand dollars.

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<v Speaker 1>Whoa, whoa, Oh.

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<v Speaker 5>My coworkers take note, fom Now that's awesome.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, that's really cool. Do you guys work in

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<v Speaker 1>like a really well paid job, you.

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<v Speaker 5>Know, like he could definitely, I guess afford it. I mean,

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<v Speaker 5>I don't know. I don't assume anyone's finances.

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<v Speaker 1>But yeah, that's so sweet. I still, what's the issue.

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<v Speaker 5>My fiance feels like the reason that he gave that

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<v Speaker 5>much is because he's hoping that something will happen between

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<v Speaker 5>the two of us, like that, he's got an all

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<v Speaker 5>perior motive.

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<v Speaker 1>He's not going on the trip, like what.

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<v Speaker 5>I'm not married. My fiance feels like because of the

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<v Speaker 5>amount that he gave, but he he'll find some reason

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<v Speaker 5>to be down there and will want to meet up

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<v Speaker 5>or try to hook up or whatever.

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<v Speaker 1>He's not like that, and you can say no, you're happy,

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<v Speaker 1>like your fiance doesn't trust you to handle that if

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<v Speaker 1>that actually happened, which seems like a stretch.

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<v Speaker 5>If he just thinks it's really inappropriate, he's like, I

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<v Speaker 5>know how.

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<v Speaker 1>Guys are tell me he's not making you give the

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<v Speaker 1>money back.

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<v Speaker 5>Terrible, So that is actually why I'm calling, because he

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<v Speaker 5>wants me to give the money back, and they like, think.

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<v Speaker 2>You can't just take the money and use it on

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<v Speaker 2>something else.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh yeah, and just lie to both of men.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I don't know.

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<v Speaker 5>I mean, I want to start off our life together, like, right,

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<v Speaker 5>I don't. I never want him to feel insecure.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, yeah, I'm just trying to think from his perspective, right, Like, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>if a woman gave him two thousand dollars to use

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<v Speaker 1>on a personal trip, it would feel a little.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, because it'd be one thing if he gave you

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<v Speaker 3>the two thousand dollars to donate towards your honeymoon together

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<v Speaker 3>or towards building your future home. But the fact that

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<v Speaker 3>it's a trip specifically for you. I could see why

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<v Speaker 3>he would think he's trying to set himself up in

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<v Speaker 3>a way to make himself look good. Yeah, okay, can

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<v Speaker 3>we ask what's your relationship like with your coworker friend guy?

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<v Speaker 1>Like you just say coworker Jeff.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, I don't know, I don't know how how like

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<v Speaker 3>do you know him really well?

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<v Speaker 2>Does your fiance know him?

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<v Speaker 5>I mean, my fiance's met him before, and like he's

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<v Speaker 5>my group of friends at work. But not you know,

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<v Speaker 5>we're not not good enough to get.

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<v Speaker 2>A two thousand dollars donation.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean I feel like if you're getting a two

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<v Speaker 1>thousand dollars donation, it'd be like from your work husband,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, like the person who works that you go

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<v Speaker 1>to lunch with, that you hang out with all the

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<v Speaker 1>time with.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, your friend friends.

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<v Speaker 3>So your fiance wants you to give that back. What

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<v Speaker 3>are you looking for from us today?

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<v Speaker 5>This is such an awkward phone call. I don't know

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<v Speaker 5>how to approach this. I don't know how to say it.

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<v Speaker 1>Who are we calling?

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<v Speaker 5>We're gonna call my coworker to give the money back.

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<v Speaker 1>Because you want to keep a good friendship with him.

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<v Speaker 1>You don't want to insult him because it is a

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<v Speaker 1>generous gift. Are you open to having him transfer the

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<v Speaker 1>money into a different area or do you think that would.

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<v Speaker 2>Still like to do some money laundering on the radio?

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, like these dishes were really nice. Like would

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<v Speaker 1>your fiance be more comfortable if the money got shifted

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<v Speaker 1>to the honeymoon fund?

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<v Speaker 5>I mean I think so, But I think he's still

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<v Speaker 5>got like a bad taste of about the whole thing.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm accepting two thousand dollars in general is making him

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<v Speaker 3>uncomfortable no matter what the situation.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, that is like a family member or a best friend.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, just like, all right, you're just trying to flex

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<v Speaker 2>on my future wife.

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<v Speaker 3>It is weird to get that amount of money from

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<v Speaker 3>a total not toll stranger, but someone that's doesn't know

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<v Speaker 3>you that well. But if anybody wants to donate two

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<v Speaker 3>thousand dollars to us.

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<v Speaker 2>Like, yeah, don't let that stop you, free, We're gonna

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<v Speaker 2>we're gonna try and.

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<v Speaker 3>Come up with some advice for you here though, Shilah,

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<v Speaker 3>We're gonna help you tell your coworker we can't accept

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<v Speaker 3>your generous two thousand dollars donation.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, does anybody in this room have experienced denying money.

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<v Speaker 2>No, I can.

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<v Speaker 6>Two thousand dollars.

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<v Speaker 3>This is going to be a challenge, So we're going

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<v Speaker 3>to do our best with your awkward Tuesday phone call

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<v Speaker 3>right after this.

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<v Speaker 2>It's awkward, It's Tuesday.

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<v Speaker 4>It's awkward Tuesday phone call.

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<v Speaker 3>If you're just joining us for our awkward Tuesday call.

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<v Speaker 3>We've got an interesting situation that happened to one of

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<v Speaker 3>our listeners named Shila. She's less than a month away

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<v Speaker 3>from getting married, and a male coworker of hers just

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<v Speaker 3>donated two thousand.

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<v Speaker 2>Dollars towards her bachelorette party.

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<v Speaker 1>That's a that's a wedding gift, generous.

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<v Speaker 3>To say the least, and that amount of money made

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<v Speaker 3>her fiance suspicious, Like there's got to be strange motives

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<v Speaker 3>behind this gift.

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<v Speaker 1>Remember, she did put her bachelorette party up on her

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<v Speaker 1>wedding registry, so it's not like he was coming out

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<v Speaker 1>of nowhere.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah he didn't just like Venmo.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, but nobody expected two thousand dollars towards it. So

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<v Speaker 3>long story short, she needs our advice I saw on

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<v Speaker 3>how to decline his generous gift and send the money back.

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<v Speaker 2>Three two thousand dollars to flirt with him. You can

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<v Speaker 2>do this a little bit.

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<v Speaker 3>But Hila, you said your fiance noticed that donation a

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<v Speaker 3>few days ago. Since then have you spoken with your

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<v Speaker 3>coworker or seen him around, Like, has he mentioned anything?

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<v Speaker 5>That's actually funny that you say that, because he actually

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<v Speaker 5>was sick yesterday, But he did say that he doesn't

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<v Speaker 5>talked to me and to give him a call.

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<v Speaker 2>After the donation.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, maybe, I mean it's a gift, right, so maybe

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<v Speaker 1>he just wanted to confirm that's a lot of money.

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<v Speaker 1>You want to confirm it went to where it was

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<v Speaker 1>supposed to be.

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<v Speaker 3>He wants to confirm your flight numbers so you can

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<v Speaker 3>join and land with the girls.

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<v Speaker 2>Share hotel room numbers. Like, who knows what he wants

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<v Speaker 2>to do.

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<v Speaker 1>This guy sounds so innocent. It sounds like he's never

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<v Speaker 1>even hit on you one am I right?

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<v Speaker 5>Like we haven't. He's not like that.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, you know before we call him, we're supposed to

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<v Speaker 3>give you a little bit of advice too.

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<v Speaker 2>So Brooke, what do you think that she needs to

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<v Speaker 2>keep in mind with this car?

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<v Speaker 1>I think this is really simple. I think that you

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<v Speaker 1>need to first thank him for being so generous and kind.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, and then you just.

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<v Speaker 1>Need to explain that it makes you uncomfortable, like it's

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<v Speaker 1>just too much. And also, don't bring your fiance into

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<v Speaker 1>it at all. Yeah, I don't know, like if they

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<v Speaker 1>ever wanted to be friends or something like, it just

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<v Speaker 1>wouldn't happen. Let's not blame other people. I don't know.

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<v Speaker 2>That's first time I've ever heard you say that. So Jose,

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<v Speaker 2>what do you think? Well, I think your strat is

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<v Speaker 2>r n C. That is, reject then compliment.

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<v Speaker 1>No compliment, then reject. That's my method.

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<v Speaker 2>No, you have to leave him feeling good at the end.

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<v Speaker 3>I like that strategy too, where it's like bad news

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<v Speaker 3>first end on the good news. Yes, it's like, look,

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<v Speaker 3>I can't take the money, but you, I mean get kind.

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<v Speaker 5>Happy if someone told me to take a gift back.

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<v Speaker 2>How do you feel about that, Shila?

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, I mean I think that's probably what's going to work.

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<v Speaker 5>The best is like be straightforward but also complimentary.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, totally said it way better than any of us did,

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<v Speaker 3>so quicker.

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<v Speaker 2>Maybe you should be in radio.

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<v Speaker 1>It sounds like a really nice guy. I can't imagine

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<v Speaker 1>he's got to like blow up on the phone or something.

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<v Speaker 3>Let's find out I'm gonna dial his number right now.

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<v Speaker 3>We're gonna step away and let you make this call.

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<v Speaker 2>Will be We're on your side. We're gonna jump in.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know what I'm saying. We're gonna jump.

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<v Speaker 3>We are here just in case you need us, and

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<v Speaker 3>you're there, all right, all right, you got this?

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, here we go.

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<v Speaker 5>Hello, Hey, Joseph is Shila.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh hey, yo, you didn't call me back. I was

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<v Speaker 4>trying to reach you yesterday with stuff.

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<v Speaker 5>Oh yeah, I'm sorry about that, you know, just like

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<v Speaker 5>wedding stuff. I got caught up. But yeah, I wanted

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<v Speaker 5>to give you a call now.

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<v Speaker 4>That's good, you know, because I want to talk to

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<v Speaker 4>you too. Like I got a few things I got

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<v Speaker 4>to say to you.

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<v Speaker 5>Okay, well, let me go first, because I just need

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<v Speaker 5>to say this.

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<v Speaker 4>What's wrong to talk to me?

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<v Speaker 5>I just wanted to thank you so much for your

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<v Speaker 5>generous donation. It was seriously, like so nice. I never

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<v Speaker 5>would have expected that. I was so kind of you.

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<v Speaker 4>Don't worry about that.

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<v Speaker 5>It's just it's such a huge amount of money. I

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<v Speaker 5>just really can't accept it. I really appreciate it though.

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<v Speaker 5>It was so like kind and thoughtful, and you're always

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<v Speaker 5>so nice and generous, and I still I really appreciate it,

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<v Speaker 5>but I just I don't think I'm going to be

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<v Speaker 5>able to accept that large amount of money.

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<v Speaker 6>Okay, Well, can you just give it back to me,

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<v Speaker 6>like two weeks from this Thursday coming up? What, just

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<v Speaker 6>hold on to it until then, I'll get it from

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<v Speaker 6>you then.

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<v Speaker 5>Okay? Why though?

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<v Speaker 4>All right, check it.

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<v Speaker 6>I'm gonna give you the all clear, and once I

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<v Speaker 6>do that, then you can send it back.

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<v Speaker 5>Okay, all clear? What Like? I don't understand.

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<v Speaker 4>God, I don't know how to.

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<v Speaker 6>Say this, but I'm going through some things right now,

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<v Speaker 6>and I'm about to divorce my wife. I'm about to

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<v Speaker 6>file for divorce, so I figured that I could start

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<v Speaker 6>pushing my money in different places so she can't find it.

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<v Speaker 1>Joe, It's not gonna be good news for you.

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<v Speaker 2>Due not auditors.

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<v Speaker 4>Don't worry. Speaker at a party.

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<v Speaker 2>No, man, you're you're on a radio show right now.

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<v Speaker 2>The radio we're brooking Jeffrey in the morning. We're like

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<v Speaker 2>a morning party.

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<v Speaker 1>Really sorry to hear about your divorce.

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<v Speaker 4>Man, Yeah, you definitely don't know nothing about no damn divorce.

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<v Speaker 4>You don't know Jack.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, I'm fine with that.

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<v Speaker 1>I know nothing doing with that too.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I don't know what was going on there. We

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<v Speaker 3>were just trying to help Shilah. She's a listener of

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<v Speaker 3>our show, and she told us she's been in this

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<v Speaker 3>kind of awkward situation with you giving her the money.

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<v Speaker 3>She didn't know like why she got so much fun her.

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<v Speaker 1>She thought it was a kind gift for her wedding,

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<v Speaker 1>not a way to stole money away.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh my god, that's kind of is laundering different.

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<v Speaker 4>Laundering show? What the you do.

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<v Speaker 6>Shilah?

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<v Speaker 1>Did it?

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<v Speaker 3>Know?

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<v Speaker 4>Are you working with my wife and she's trying to

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<v Speaker 4>divorce me? First?

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<v Speaker 5>And then.

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<v Speaker 1>My gosh, Shila.

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<v Speaker 4>I.

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<v Speaker 5>Had no idea. I just my fiance just thought it

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<v Speaker 5>was weird that you did that, And.

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<v Speaker 1>It turns out it was, well, it was not for

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<v Speaker 1>the reasons that he thought. Her fiance thought that you

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<v Speaker 1>were hitting on her, like like I don't know out.

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<v Speaker 2>There, yes, and be like, oh I got money. We

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<v Speaker 2>didn't know that you were happily married at the time, So.

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<v Speaker 1>What was your plan. I don't get your plan?

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<v Speaker 4>Why would I tell you?

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, I just don't get how you would give the money.

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<v Speaker 1>And then it's not our problem.

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<v Speaker 3>He was going to get it back now, Brooks planning

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<v Speaker 3>ahead for her impending relationship problems.

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<v Speaker 2>How exactly does it? How do you execute the stealing?

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<v Speaker 6>Let me tell you this, if you didn't give it back,

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<v Speaker 6>it wouldn't have been a big deal.

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<v Speaker 4>As long as my wife don't get a hands on it,

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<v Speaker 4>that's cool. I will accept it happily.

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<v Speaker 1>You have more money. You need to get rid of

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<v Speaker 1>some of it.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh my god, I got something, y'all a whole lot.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I know, know nothin it's money?

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<v Speaker 1>Like, so can she tell her fiance what the money

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<v Speaker 1>is really for? Can she keep it?

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<v Speaker 2>Okay?

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<v Speaker 1>So then you need the money back. You need to

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<v Speaker 1>give the money back now.

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<v Speaker 6>But you know that's why I just got to wait

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<v Speaker 6>a couple of weeks to take care of some business.

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<v Speaker 6>You can send it back to me. You can tell

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<v Speaker 6>your fiance that you're giving it back to me. I'm

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<v Speaker 6>accepting it.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay. I got some things going on.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, Okay, that's happened. Does that feel good, Shila?

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<v Speaker 5>None of this feel good?

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<v Speaker 2>But you don't want.

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<v Speaker 1>Divorce hidden money to fund your wedding. I don't get it.

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<v Speaker 2>You're looking into her future.

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<v Speaker 4>Feel money launder and that the whole world's gonna hear.

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<v Speaker 1>No, no, no, just come after jose and not the

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<v Speaker 1>rest of us.

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<v Speaker 5>Okay, well, thanks guys, I guess bugs done.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, you're welcome, unless Brooke wants to ask for any

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<v Speaker 3>more tips from Joseph on what she should do.

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't want tips, Jeffrey, I just didn't understand.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, sure, we're going to check your browser history after

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<v Speaker 3>this segment is done.

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<v Speaker 5>Brook and Jeffrey in the morning,