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Speaker 1: You found it at the home of the Second Date Update.

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Speaker 1: It's Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning, and thanks for

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Speaker 1: being here on the weekend with us. And I know

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Speaker 1: we have a lot of new listeners from all over

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Speaker 1: the world since we've been in the you know, top

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Speaker 1: ten charts of podcasts. Yes, also, which is awesome. And

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Speaker 1: if you don't know, we actually are a full radio show.

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Speaker 1: I know rio and we are talking on it and

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Speaker 1: we do a brand new, full hour episode every day

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Speaker 1: on our main feed, Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning.

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Speaker 1: And we just thought, you know, y'all seem to like

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Speaker 1: relationship drama. We're kind of experts on it, and we

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Speaker 1: do a lot of other segments, including this one awkward

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Speaker 1: Tuesday phone call. Yes, love, Yes, seriously, it's not necessarily

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Speaker 1: always a romantic relationship with these.

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Speaker 2: It was always awkward and tricky.

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Speaker 1: So sit back and enjoy your awkward Tuesday phone call

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Speaker 1: on Sunday. Totally. It starts right now.

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Speaker 2: Is it ever okay to give someone's gift back?

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Speaker 1: Oh?

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Speaker 2: That depends, but most of.

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Speaker 3: The time no, I'm not just asking because I saw

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Speaker 3: Brook's holiday shopping list. Okay, nobody wants to quote road

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Speaker 3: kill shovel, Brooks.

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Speaker 1: You don't know how u be.

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Speaker 2: I didn't even know they made them specifically for them.

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Speaker 1: I don't kill possums all the time like you do

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Speaker 3: Thank you, though, but it would take a pretty extreme

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Speaker 3: situation where you would have to tell a friend, hey, thanks,

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Speaker 3: but no thanks, I.

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Speaker 2: Don't need your gift.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: Well that's exactly where one listener finds herself today, and

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Speaker 3: the gift that she received from a coworker is actually

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Speaker 3: jeopardizing her upcoming wedding. You're gonna hear what it is

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Speaker 3: in your brand new awkward Tuesday phone call coming up next.

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Speaker 2: It's awkward, it's Tuesday.

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Speaker 4: It's awkward Tuesday phone call.

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Speaker 3: Getting somebody a gift off their wedding registry is something

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Speaker 3: they'll remember forever. Yeah, especially when you keep bringing it

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Speaker 3: up to them years later.

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Speaker 2: Like Brook, remember when I got you for your wedding?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, you got me a green blunder and you got

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Speaker 1: me a wine decanter.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, pretty nice of me.

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Speaker 1: And I use them both all the time.

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Speaker 2: That's right.

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Speaker 3: Whenever Brook drinks wine, which is every night in most mornings,

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Speaker 2: It's my way of cursing.

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Speaker 1: Her for usually doesn't make it into the decanter. It

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Speaker 1: Every but it's pretty Yeah.

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Speaker 3: And for one of our listeners, though, her wedding registry

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Speaker 3: has actually caused drama in her relationship and now she.

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Speaker 2: Needs our help. So Shilah, welcome to the show.

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Speaker 3: Hi.

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Speaker 5: How are you guys feeling?

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Speaker 1: I can't believe that whoever you're marry and even cares

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Speaker 1: about the wedding registry. Of course, yeah, was like, yeah,

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Speaker 2: Charlotte tell us what's going on in your relationship?

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Speaker 5: Okay. So I have a wedding website, okay, and on it,

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Speaker 5: I have my registry linked, and you know, I have

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Speaker 5: like regular stuff like dishes and towels and stuff, but

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Speaker 5: our honeymoon fun. And then the one that has my

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Speaker 5: fiance upset is I had added an impromptu bachelorette trip

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Speaker 5: hundred bucks fifty bucks from there, just like spending money

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Speaker 2: Okay, gambling money.

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Speaker 1: Oh, you put your bachelorette party on the I mean

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Speaker 5: No no, no, no.

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Speaker 3: You said it was a problem for your fiance. Why

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Speaker 5: It wasn't really a problem at first. But my fiance

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Speaker 1: Oh my god, that's so nice, really nice.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, what's wrong with that?

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Speaker 5: Yeah, he donated two thousand dollars.

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Speaker 5: My coworkers take note, fom Now that's awesome.

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Speaker 1: I mean, that's really cool. Do you guys work in

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Speaker 5: Know, like he could definitely, I guess afford it. I mean,

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Speaker 5: I don't know. I don't assume anyone's finances.

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Speaker 1: But yeah, that's so sweet. I still, what's the issue.

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Speaker 5: My fiance feels like the reason that he gave that

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Speaker 1: He's not going on the trip, like what.

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Speaker 5: I'm not married. My fiance feels like because of the

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Speaker 1: He's not like that, and you can say no, you're happy,

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Speaker 1: like your fiance doesn't trust you to handle that if

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Speaker 5: If he just thinks it's really inappropriate, he's like, I

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Speaker 1: Guys are tell me he's not making you give the

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Speaker 5: Terrible, So that is actually why I'm calling, because he

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Speaker 5: wants me to give the money back, and they like, think.

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Speaker 2: You can't just take the money and use it on

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, and just lie to both of men.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't know.

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Speaker 5: I mean, I want to start off our life together, like, right,

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Speaker 5: I don't. I never want him to feel insecure.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, I'm just trying to think from his perspective, right, Like, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: if a woman gave him two thousand dollars to use

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Speaker 3: Yeah, because it'd be one thing if he gave you

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Speaker 3: the two thousand dollars to donate towards your honeymoon together

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Speaker 3: or towards building your future home. But the fact that

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Speaker 3: it's a trip specifically for you. I could see why

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Speaker 3: we ask what's your relationship like with your coworker friend guy?

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Speaker 1: Like you just say coworker Jeff.

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Speaker 3: Well, I don't know, I don't know how how like

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Speaker 5: I mean, my fiance's met him before, and like he's

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Speaker 5: we're not not good enough to get.

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Speaker 2: A two thousand dollars donation.

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Speaker 1: I mean I feel like if you're getting a two

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Speaker 2: Yeah, your friend friends.

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Speaker 3: So your fiance wants you to give that back. What

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Speaker 5: This is such an awkward phone call. I don't know

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Speaker 1: Who are we calling?

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Speaker 5: We're gonna call my coworker to give the money back.

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Speaker 1: Because you want to keep a good friendship with him.

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Speaker 1: You don't want to insult him because it is a

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Speaker 1: generous gift. Are you open to having him transfer the

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Speaker 1: money into a different area or do you think that would.

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Speaker 2: Still like to do some money laundering on the radio?

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Speaker 1: I mean, like these dishes were really nice. Like would

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Speaker 5: I mean I think so, But I think he's still

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Speaker 3: I'm accepting two thousand dollars in general is making him

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Speaker 1: Yeah, that is like a family member or a best friend.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, just like, all right, you're just trying to flex

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Speaker 3: It is weird to get that amount of money from

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Speaker 3: a total not toll stranger, but someone that's doesn't know

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Speaker 2: Like, yeah, don't let that stop you, free, We're gonna

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Speaker 3: Come up with some advice for you here though, Shilah,

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Speaker 3: We're gonna help you tell your coworker we can't accept

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Speaker 3: your generous two thousand dollars donation.

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Speaker 1: Okay, does anybody in this room have experienced denying money.

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Speaker 2: No, I can.

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Speaker 6: Two thousand dollars.

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Speaker 3: This is going to be a challenge, So we're going

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Speaker 2: It's awkward, It's Tuesday.

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Speaker 4: It's awkward Tuesday phone call.

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Speaker 3: If you're just joining us for our awkward Tuesday call.

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Speaker 3: We've got an interesting situation that happened to one of

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Speaker 3: our listeners named Shila. She's less than a month away

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Speaker 3: donated two thousand.

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Speaker 2: Dollars towards her bachelorette party.

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Speaker 1: That's a that's a wedding gift, generous.

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Speaker 3: To say the least, and that amount of money made

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Speaker 1: Remember, she did put her bachelorette party up on her

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Speaker 1: wedding registry, so it's not like he was coming out

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Speaker 2: Yeah he didn't just like Venmo.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, but nobody expected two thousand dollars towards it. So

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Speaker 3: long story short, she needs our advice I saw on

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Speaker 3: how to decline his generous gift and send the money back.

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Speaker 2: Three two thousand dollars to flirt with him. You can

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Speaker 2: do this a little bit.

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Speaker 3: But Hila, you said your fiance noticed that donation a

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Speaker 3: few days ago. Since then have you spoken with your

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Speaker 5: That's actually funny that you say that, because he actually

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Speaker 5: was sick yesterday, But he did say that he doesn't

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Speaker 5: talked to me and to give him a call.

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Speaker 2: After the donation.

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Speaker 1: Well, maybe, I mean it's a gift, right, so maybe

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Speaker 1: he just wanted to confirm that's a lot of money.

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Speaker 1: You want to confirm it went to where it was

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Speaker 3: He wants to confirm your flight numbers so you can

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Speaker 3: join and land with the girls.

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Speaker 2: Share hotel room numbers. Like, who knows what he wants

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Speaker 2: to do.

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Speaker 1: This guy sounds so innocent. It sounds like he's never

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Speaker 1: even hit on you one am I right?

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Speaker 5: Like we haven't. He's not like that.

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Speaker 3: Okay, you know before we call him, we're supposed to

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Speaker 3: give you a little bit of advice too.

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Speaker 2: So Brooke, what do you think that she needs to

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Speaker 2: keep in mind with this car?

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Speaker 1: I think this is really simple. I think that you

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Speaker 1: need to first thank him for being so generous and kind.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, and then you just.

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Speaker 1: Need to explain that it makes you uncomfortable, like it's

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Speaker 1: just too much. And also, don't bring your fiance into

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Speaker 2: That's first time I've ever heard you say that. So Jose,

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Speaker 2: what do you think? Well, I think your strat is

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Speaker 2: r n C. That is, reject then compliment.

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Speaker 1: No compliment, then reject. That's my method.

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Speaker 2: No, you have to leave him feeling good at the end.

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Speaker 3: I like that strategy too, where it's like bad news

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Speaker 3: first end on the good news. Yes, it's like, look,

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Speaker 3: I can't take the money, but you, I mean get kind.

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Speaker 5: Happy if someone told me to take a gift back.

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Speaker 2: How do you feel about that, Shila?

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Speaker 5: Yeah, I mean I think that's probably what's going to work.

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Speaker 5: The best is like be straightforward but also complimentary.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, totally said it way better than any of us did,

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Speaker 2: Maybe you should be in radio.

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Speaker 1: It sounds like a really nice guy. I can't imagine

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Speaker 3: Let's find out I'm gonna dial his number right now.

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Speaker 3: We're gonna step away and let you make this call.

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Speaker 2: Will be We're on your side. We're gonna jump in.

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Speaker 2: I don't know what I'm saying. We're gonna jump.

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Speaker 3: We are here just in case you need us, and

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Speaker 3: you're there, all right, all right, you got this?

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Speaker 2: Okay, here we go.

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Speaker 5: Hello, Hey, Joseph is Shila.

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Speaker 4: Oh hey, yo, you didn't call me back. I was

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Speaker 5: Oh yeah, I'm sorry about that, you know, just like

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Speaker 4: That's good, you know, because I want to talk to

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Speaker 4: you too. Like I got a few things I got

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Speaker 5: Okay, well, let me go first, because I just need

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Speaker 4: What's wrong to talk to me?

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Speaker 5: I just wanted to thank you so much for your

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Speaker 4: Don't worry about that.

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Speaker 5: It's just it's such a huge amount of money. I

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Speaker 5: just really can't accept it. I really appreciate it though.

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Speaker 5: It was so like kind and thoughtful, and you're always

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Speaker 5: so nice and generous, and I still I really appreciate it,

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Speaker 5: but I just I don't think I'm going to be

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Speaker 6: Okay, Well, can you just give it back to me,

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Speaker 6: like two weeks from this Thursday coming up? What, just

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Speaker 5: Okay? Why though?

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Speaker 4: All right, check it.

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Speaker 6: I'm gonna give you the all clear, and once I

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Speaker 5: Okay, all clear? What Like? I don't understand.

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Speaker 4: God, I don't know how to.

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Speaker 6: Say this, but I'm going through some things right now,

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Speaker 6: and I'm about to divorce my wife. I'm about to

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Speaker 6: pushing my money in different places so she can't find it.

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Speaker 1: Joe, It's not gonna be good news for you.

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Speaker 2: Due not auditors.

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Speaker 4: Don't worry. Speaker at a party.

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Speaker 2: No, man, you're you're on a radio show right now.

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Speaker 2: The radio we're brooking Jeffrey in the morning. We're like

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Speaker 1: Really sorry to hear about your divorce.

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Speaker 4: Man, Yeah, you definitely don't know nothing about no damn divorce.

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Speaker 4: You don't know Jack.

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Speaker 2: Okay, I'm fine with that.

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Speaker 1: I know nothing doing with that too.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I don't know what was going on there. We

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Speaker 3: were just trying to help Shilah. She's a listener of

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Speaker 3: She didn't know like why she got so much fun her.

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Speaker 1: She thought it was a kind gift for her wedding,

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Speaker 1: not a way to stole money away.

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Speaker 3: Oh my god, that's kind of is laundering different.

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Speaker 4: Laundering show? What the you do.

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Speaker 6: Shilah?

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Speaker 1: Did it?

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Speaker 3: Know?

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Speaker 4: Are you working with my wife and she's trying to

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Speaker 4: divorce me? First?

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Speaker 5: And then.

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Speaker 1: My gosh, Shila.

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Speaker 4: I.

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Speaker 5: Had no idea. I just my fiance just thought it

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Speaker 1: It turns out it was, well, it was not for

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Speaker 2: There, yes, and be like, oh I got money. We

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Speaker 1: What was your plan. I don't get your plan?

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Speaker 4: Why would I tell you?

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Speaker 1: Okay, I just don't get how you would give the money.

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Speaker 1: And then it's not our problem.

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Speaker 3: He was going to get it back now, Brooks planning

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Speaker 2: How exactly does it? How do you execute the stealing?

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Speaker 6: Let me tell you this, if you didn't give it back,

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Speaker 4: As long as my wife don't get a hands on it,

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Speaker 4: that's cool. I will accept it happily.

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Speaker 1: You have more money. You need to get rid of

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Speaker 4: Oh my god, I got something, y'all a whole lot.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I know, know nothin it's money?

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Speaker 1: Like, so can she tell her fiance what the money

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Speaker 2: Okay?

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Speaker 1: So then you need the money back. You need to

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Speaker 1: give the money back now.

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Speaker 6: But you know that's why I just got to wait

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Speaker 6: You can send it back to me. You can tell

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Speaker 4: Okay. I got some things going on.

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Speaker 1: Okay, Okay, that's happened. Does that feel good, Shila?

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Speaker 5: None of this feel good?

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Speaker 2: But you don't want.

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Speaker 1: Divorce hidden money to fund your wedding. I don't get it.

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Speaker 2: You're looking into her future.

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Speaker 4: Feel money launder and that the whole world's gonna hear.

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Speaker 1: No, no, no, just come after jose and not the

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Speaker 1: rest of us.

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Speaker 5: Okay, well, thanks guys, I guess bugs done.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, you're welcome, unless Brooke wants to ask for any

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Speaker 3: more tips from Joseph on what she should do.

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Speaker 1: I didn't want tips, Jeffrey, I just didn't understand.

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Speaker 3: Okay, sure, we're going to check your browser history after

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Speaker 3: this segment is done.

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Speaker 5: Brook and Jeffrey in the morning,