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Speaker 1: My mother book the next door cruise room for our

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Speaker 2: Oh, she's gonna be here and all kinds of stuff.

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Speaker 1: She shouldn't be putting her ear to that door. So

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Speaker 1: my fiance twenty seven and I twenty two, or future husband.

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Speaker 1: My future husband twenty seven and I twenty two are

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Speaker 1: in international waters. I've literally never been more excited in

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Speaker 1: my life. Not only will I be marrying the man

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Speaker 1: comes from Leather Job fifty four. What are you gonna

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Speaker 1: get into my cruise? Take us the whips.

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Speaker 4: It's the leather cruise, leather crew, momb guess me, this

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Speaker 4: is not your cruise.

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Speaker 1: Get the gimpsuit out, mama. On our slash Okay, story time,

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Speaker 1: it's so for future For context, we have booked a

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Speaker 1: consecutive cruise right after our wedding cruise for our honeymoon.

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Speaker 1: Two cruises. Bickity backady, nickity wackady.

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Speaker 2: That's that's a new that's commitment to.

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Speaker 1: A lot of cruising. This cruise life to city. It's

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Speaker 1: like those seventy year olds that instead of going to

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Speaker 2: These people live on a cruise, live on a cruise.

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Speaker 1: So we wanted to have our own time because we

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Speaker 1: both find socializing quite exhausting. So we know that the

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Speaker 1: All right, Both of our families can be quite overwhelming

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Speaker 1: very prepared for the challenge. What I was not prepared

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Speaker 1: for was my mother telling me she booked her ticket

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Speaker 4: No less, I would call the cruise company and be like,

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Speaker 3: I somehow lose her ticket.

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Speaker 1: Gross important points. My mom has history of doing things

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Speaker 1: like this to me, Like what, I am not a physicist,

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Speaker 2: This guy's bones from the Star Trek movie.

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Speaker 3: I'm a doctor, not a physicist.

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Speaker 1: But I've done a lot of research into mental health

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Speaker 4: Yeah, anything where you're a doctor, you can to be

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Speaker 1: I think he wants us to know and he doesn't

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Speaker 4: Were, he's both unfamiliar with neutrons and mental health.

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Speaker 1: I think my mother presents as a textbook covert narcissist.

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Speaker 1: As you can imagine, this has made my relationship with

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Speaker 1: I unfortunately lived with her. She abused me my whole life,

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Speaker 1: The final straw was when she tried to force me

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Speaker 4: I'm gonna need explanations as to why that happened.

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Speaker 1: Those are for guests, you know. You gotta have your

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Speaker 4: Which never forget Uncle Joe. He was running a scam

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Speaker 1: This was all because my dad took me to see

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Speaker 1: We've had many attempts at amending the relationship, but every

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Speaker 4: Yeah, we weaponizing self help to know exactly where they're

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Speaker 1: It's like you know you're She's being confronted with the truth,

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Speaker 1: and she's like gaslighting, gaslighting, gaslighting. She's becoming too powerful, dude.

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Speaker 1: She has all the buzzwords. She always plays the victim

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Speaker 4: You guys are two like gaslight wizards, learning spells.

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Speaker 1: Like imagining, like the Yuki oh thing where it's like

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Speaker 3: Really they've got they've got one of those. I summon

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Speaker 3: my Caribo sky Dragon.

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Speaker 1: What's the guy that you had to have a bu too?

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Speaker 1: Cards to a Yeah. She always seems to enjoy crossing

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Speaker 1: The waist up. Ohee, where is this going? Whoa? Whoa? Okay,

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Speaker 3: So I'm confused.

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Speaker 4: You don't understand how to make it so people can't

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Speaker 2: Close the door, Yeah, go into a room, go somewhere.

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Speaker 3: Why does mom want to see you?

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Speaker 1: Also just alas want to see how things have changed

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Speaker 4: I just want to see if you have any suspicious

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Speaker 1: I also want to see like you know, are you

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Speaker 2: And I also want to see you know what it do?

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Speaker 3: Do oh pee? Get changed in a bathroom? For God's sake?

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Speaker 3: So what do we talk?

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Speaker 1: Weird? Your mom's weird secret? Water says that is really gross.

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Speaker 1: That is the one secret that is not present. This

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Speaker 1: This is an open secret. This freak both my future

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Speaker 1: Some of my reasons are related to the fear that

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Speaker 1: I exclude her. Her family is very supportive of her.

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Speaker 1: Her mother is exactly the same, if not worse, and

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Speaker 4: Right, so weird, so weird, and you need to have

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Speaker 1: I think Op is a woman, Yes, OPI as a woman.

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Speaker 1: And it's her mom. So my future husband and I

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Speaker 1: Yeah? Yeah, I feel like I really, I really feel

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Speaker 4: Well, I guess once their last names line up, they

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Speaker 4: I guess, but I.

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Speaker 1: Honestly never thought that anyone would do something like this.

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Speaker 1: It's honestly so creepy and disturbing that she would even

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Speaker 1: I expressed my discomfort and she told me I was

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Speaker 3: A. This is weird behavior, This is very weird.

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Speaker 4: She's like, Honey, your father and I booked the same cruise,

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Speaker 1: But what do you think is the solution for when

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Speaker 5: I think get as loud as possible. I'm sorry I

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Speaker 1: That's what she wants you.

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Speaker 1: Make it make it weird. I think it's already wed.

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Speaker 3: I don't know you need to like either.

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Speaker 2: Else or give us a free cruise at a different time.

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Speaker 4: And if that doesn't work, then you have to go

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Speaker 4: like Ocean's thirteen style, like on your I don't know

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Speaker 5: And I think, well, didn't they just say they that

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Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, exactly, you just move her down like one, yeah.

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Speaker 4: Too, Like but and this is oh p's mom's mom.

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Speaker 4: Yes, yes, so so it's really I think OP needs

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Speaker 1: I mean, that's super weird. I feel like I have

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Speaker 4: Not permanent no contact, but definitely like I am not

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Speaker 4: we're taking to you.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, we're taking that way. Yes, that's the better way.

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Speaker 1: Darlene has a pole suggestion loud spicy sleep or not

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Speaker 1: keon Do you.

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Speaker 3: Really want that po?

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Speaker 1: I want that pole? I want to hit that pole,

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Speaker 1: like you want that pole. I want to hit that pole.

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Speaker 3: Pole like something something wet the.

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Speaker 1: Pan for college. There we go, something like that.

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Speaker 3: He there you go. Water water horse, water horse.

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Speaker 4: Just throwing that out there, throw that, just throwing a

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Speaker 1: But we got a little bit more of this update.

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Speaker 3: I'm putting loud spicy.

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Speaker 1: Loud spicy or uh, silence anyway. I also think talking

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Speaker 1: And yeah, if she's attending the wedding, she gets to

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, you know. I didn't. I didn't. I didn't.

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Speaker 1: We didn't have like the full on talk, you know,

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Speaker 2: Trying to make sure your marriage is as healthy as

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Speaker 1: This is this is out of love. This is out

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Speaker 1: agree that Opie is not crazy. Did you see? But

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Speaker 1: and as Gutierre says, be loud and prows with forty

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Speaker 5: It's your honeymoon, Get as loud as possible. This is

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Speaker 1: I don't forget about your momless thing or you know what,

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Speaker 1: maybe that helps you know.

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Speaker 4: Different strokes for different folks, strokes for different folks, I

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Speaker 4: enjoy each other's like there, I think the move is

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Speaker 2: Sounds like somebody in the chat was like make.

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Speaker 4: The husband needs to just like scream mommy as loud

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Speaker 4: you guys need to or they.

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Speaker 5: Won't get anything. Yeah, they won't get any sleeping, like

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Speaker 1: But we have so much evidence that this mom is

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Speaker 3: I really don't know if that's what that was.

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Speaker 4: I think it was more of the narcissistic like she

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Speaker 2: I'm in charge of you.

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Speaker 3: And it's like mother. I think that's what it is.

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Speaker 3: It's like I'm your mother. I can do what I

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Speaker 1: Hellow green Eyes says, jump on the bed and make

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Speaker 2: Yes, exactly great. Yeah, you fake it.

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Speaker 4: You fake a very loud, cartoonishly insane and then don't

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Speaker 1: Then don't fake it.

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Speaker 3: It's your honeymoon.

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Speaker 1: That's honeymoon here nor there.

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Speaker 2: But uh, that's the next cruise is the honeymoon.

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Speaker 1: That's true. The day of the moon on the first cruise.

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Speaker 1: After they get married, it's like married and then they

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Speaker 1: But we got some donos to read. Welcome to stream,

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Speaker 1: all you beautiful people on Twitch, Facebook, yotube, pick doc and.

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Speaker 3: We got some new members. We've got lots of new members.

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Speaker 3: Shout out. If you got a gifted membership.

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Speaker 1: He put your hand up, put your hands in the air.

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Speaker 3: Where the lurkers at, where the new baby's at.

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Speaker 1: We're gonna read some of those Donos Ali Ray new

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Speaker 1: member of the Sticks. Welcome to the Nights, Frank the

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Speaker 1: Pug gifted five okay storytime membership and the community grow

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Speaker 1: a little bit more espe Vanilla Burkquest with the twenty

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Speaker 1: seven Swedish Kroner, Daddy Sam, Sweetish Dakota and Daddy keyan Yay,

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Speaker 1: Yeah tidy member for eight months. Sam looks very spicy

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Speaker 1: sleep in glasses.

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Speaker 3: Nothing sleeping that. It's just a spicy.

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Speaker 1: Spicy I look spicy. I like it.

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Speaker 3: Where does sleep come from?

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Speaker 1: Well, because it just that's what we say.

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Speaker 2: It looks very spicy sleepable.

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Speaker 1: Yeah bubbles. Marie, thanks for becoming a night member, Klo

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Speaker 1: Walter's Night member, a hurt Night member, and Samantha and

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Speaker 1: welcome to the Nights. You know what you get when

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Speaker 1: you become a night You got Monday, Wednesday, Friday. Remember

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Speaker 1: only streams, right, which is beautiful little little, little, smaller

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Speaker 1: little community that you can all bond over. Laurie, thanks

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Speaker 1: for the twenty bucks, Love you all. Happy Thursday, everyone.

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Speaker 1: Thursday is a good day.

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Speaker 4: Happy Thursday to you and to everyone.

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Speaker 2: As you said, yep, Thursdays or for the stream.

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna truly set up. I'm gonna set up a promise.

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Speaker 4: Tuesdays and Thursdays are for the stream yep, and we

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Speaker 4: got some donos on the dono link where YouTube doesn't

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Speaker 4: take thirty percent, So thank.

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Speaker 1: You for uh making sure all your donos go to

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Speaker 1: the show. Maggie, thanks to the five bucks. Love listening

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Speaker 1: to you guys while I'm driving around looking for Christmas lights.

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Speaker 1: Fun nice bestive.

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Speaker 3: I love looking at Christmas lights.

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Speaker 1: Anonymous has a private message for us. Oh, thanks for

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Speaker 1: the five bucks, they said.

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Speaker 3: Anonymous says Sam. No, No, it's anonymous for reason. It's anonymous.

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Speaker 3: It's a love letter to Sam.

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Speaker 1: I'm going to cut that one silent. I know what

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Speaker 1: to weird next time on this show. Honestly, I do

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Speaker 1: think like I think I think I look hot in

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Speaker 1: that cow onesie. Honestly I feel I feel hot. Someone

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Speaker 1: codas if you and I want to get coffee this morning,

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Speaker 1: and a lady like kind of.

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Speaker 2: Mood, a crossing guard, which is like the best kind

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Speaker 2: of random lady at me.

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Speaker 1: I was like moo, or like I said, Lou, and

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Speaker 1: I said.

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Speaker 2: You gotta do the Mongolian throat singing.

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Speaker 1: Hannah, thanks for the twenty five bucker. That was yesterday.

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Speaker 1: Still always say more to the Hannah every time, every time,

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Speaker 1: every time, but that was yesterday.

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Speaker 4: I feel like I have to mention one thing really

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Speaker 4: quick before before before I mentioned Nola, thanks for the

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Speaker 4: twenty five bucks.

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Speaker 1: My first no no he yo, love you guys, Thank

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Speaker 1: you uh to for the company as I suffer insomnia

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Speaker 1: and here it's almost one am love from it to

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Speaker 1: be much.

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Speaker 3: Loved child Ben. I really do this. Oh people do

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Speaker 3: this all the time, don't they. I heard this is

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Speaker 3: just like he's like a part of conversation buppy.

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Speaker 1: Also, Hannah donated ten bucks.

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Speaker 3: Yeah you said her name.

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Speaker 1: There we go set her name and there she is

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Speaker 1: being silent. Hannah. You know how you do Samy, thanks

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Speaker 1: for the five bucks. Say congratulations to Champions in Motion

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Speaker 1: Wilson for winning gold on the chair competition level one

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Speaker 1: also level two through six. They won gold and the

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Speaker 1: grand Championships. Let's win state championships next month.

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Speaker 3: Stay championships, Wilson.

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Speaker 1: Let's go Yealloel Wilson. We appreciate you, guys.

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Speaker 3: Champions Champions.

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Speaker 1: We got on the don link. Danielle Johnson, Welcome to

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Speaker 1: the night Swing Goles. Remember for seven months, seven months only, Dang,

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Speaker 1: I feel like I've been fantasizing about the pigeon lord forever.

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Speaker 1: Recently it's more of a caked up pigeon oh.

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Speaker 4: Dangee uh pigeon mixed cakes.

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Speaker 1: Thanks for the five okay storytime member Chips Josey Mandola request.

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Speaker 1: Thanks for the twenty seven Swedish croner what's y'all stream schedule?

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Speaker 1: Gonna look like you mean for a break. We're going

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Speaker 1: to be taking a break. We're gonna be We're gonna

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Speaker 1: be out next week. But don't you worry your pretty

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Speaker 1: little heads. There will still be daily uploads on the channel,

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Speaker 1: so check those out. Although we won't be here and live,

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Speaker 1: we will be here in spirit.

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Speaker 3: We will ind will be there for your eye.

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Speaker 1: Bel just know, uh we love you and we'll see

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Speaker 1: you soon. And we got a little bit more do

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Speaker 1: we got? We got more than you read.

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Speaker 3: I think that might be all on the on the

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Speaker 3: on the.

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Speaker 6: YouTube YouTube YouTube weird right, all right, you had a

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Speaker 6: very uh interesting thing to say.

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Speaker 4: There was just a thing I noticed in the chat

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Speaker 4: ming ming did bring up that if the other neighbor

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Speaker 4: on the cruise would be probably very annoyed. Oh yeah,

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Speaker 4: by all the noises. But I feel like you just

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Speaker 4: do it to the one wall. If you stay far

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Speaker 4: enough away from the other wall, it's probably not being affected.

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Speaker 3: You're screaming through one wall.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, because honestly, the cruise ships, like I haven't been

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Speaker 4: on a lot, but the ones I've been on, it's

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Speaker 4: like you can't hear anything.

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Speaker 3: There's a lot of noise. There's a lot of ambient

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Speaker 3: noise on the cruise ship. So I think we'll just

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Speaker 3: put it out there.

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Speaker 4: We wouldn't be menaces to the strangers, only to the

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Speaker 4: weird mother and mother in law.

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Speaker 1: And also shout out Carl Weiss for the two bucks

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Speaker 1: of my hubby's account consistently lurking not thirsty.

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Speaker 2: Well, we appreciate your presence on your husband's account.

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Speaker 3: Galaxy Dream, Galaxy Dream.

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Speaker 1: Welcome to the Night's growing, the family coming a pot

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Speaker 1: of the Royal Army. We get Monday, Wednesday, Friday live

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Speaker 1: streams from the members only, of which.

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Speaker 2: Galaxies do dust thy dream about.

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Speaker 1: Oh that was a that was a cute little blow. Okay,

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Speaker 1: all right, we gotta do. We gotta yes, And everyone

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Speaker 1: liked the stream. Yeah, if you haven't liked the streams.

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Speaker 3: Do you want to spin the wheel?

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Speaker 2: Oh yeah yeah, Okum, you pulled up the story.

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Speaker 3: Yes you have idored, yes I do, yes, he does.

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Speaker 4: Yes.

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Speaker 3: Technically it was Sam who knew