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Speaker 1: Scrubbing in with Beca Tilly and Tanya rad and iHeartRadio

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Speaker 1: and two times People's Choice Award winning podcast Hello everybody,

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Speaker 1: were grubbing in? Yes, we are a cir cube.

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Speaker 2: How you doing? You're looking dressed up today?

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Speaker 1: Thank you so much. New year of life knew me.

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Speaker 1: You know.

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Speaker 2: Oh you're thirty.

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Speaker 1: Catch me dressing up? Catch me lifting ways? You know?

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Speaker 3: Just yeah, oh my gosh. The new focus, the new

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Speaker 3: focus of the.

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Speaker 4: Nine has begun.

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Speaker 1: Always does this and it makes me so mad.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I go. What you're saying.

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Speaker 5: You're one in the weeks after you were born. When

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Speaker 5: you were born, you started your first year. Now you

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Speaker 5: are starting your thirty ninth year.

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Speaker 1: But I am the eight.

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Speaker 3: At a certain age, you just say you go younger,

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Speaker 3: we go to the If it's one or the other,

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Speaker 3: we go.

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Speaker 2: So thirty eight, How was your birthday?

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Speaker 1: I'm not mid thirties anymore.

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Speaker 3: I'm late thirties, I guess I am, or I guess

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Speaker 3: when does mid thirties end?

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Speaker 1: Mid thirties and thirty six I think is like the end.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, so I'll be I'll be entering my late thirties

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Speaker 3: in October.

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Speaker 2: So how does it feel? Feels? Great, she says through

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Speaker 2: her teeth.

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Speaker 1: No, I yeah, I wanna not wear sweats all the

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Speaker 1: time in my new year of life. I want to.

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Speaker 1: I think my Instagram algorithm knows either. It definitely knows

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Speaker 1: that it was my birthday, and it definitely knows my

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Speaker 1: age because now I keep sending my feet is all

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Speaker 1: like bone density and like older women and like how

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Speaker 1: important that is to your health, And I.

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Speaker 4: Was like, a new demographic.

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Speaker 1: Maybe I guess I'm like, babe, I gotta get back

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Speaker 1: to my weightlifting because mama's thirty eight.

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Speaker 2: Now that's what started it.

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Speaker 5: Okay, so now I'm at this sentiment so I can

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Speaker 5: work you. So you get that stuff. The next thing

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Speaker 5: youns start getting is the AARP stuff that comes earlier

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Speaker 5: than you expect it. And now at my age, I'm

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Speaker 5: getting cremation services.

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Speaker 2: Oh my god.

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Speaker 5: In the mail fairly regularly, I get cremation services.

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Speaker 3: I got a the other day. I got a video

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Speaker 3: of like a class where seniors learn how to fall

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Speaker 3: and like catch themselves.

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Speaker 2: And I was like, that's actually a very handy video.

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Speaker 2: But I don't think I'm there yet.

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Speaker 1: So yeah, thank you for that.

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Speaker 4: To prepare.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I did watch it long enough that I might

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Speaker 3: start getting served more of that content.

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Speaker 2: But you know, age is simply a mindset.

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Speaker 1: I totally agree, and I feel younger than ever.

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Speaker 2: That's how I feel.

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Speaker 1: Thirty eight twenty eight feel the same. Yeah, simply a

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Speaker 1: a little more tired. But other than that, everything's great.

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Speaker 1: Slightly more exhausted, slightly more exhausted, but just glowing.

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Speaker 3: So no more sweats. But you will be traveling with

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Speaker 3: your handy dandy blanket. Yes, that's right, it's a blanket

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Speaker 3: that she did.

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Speaker 2: You bring that from home.

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Speaker 1: I brought it from home. There is actually Sunny's crazy, yeah,

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Speaker 1: I yeah, yeah, So you recover her crate with this

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Speaker 1: blanket for her to go to sleep at night. And

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Speaker 1: I took it right off her crate this morning because

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Speaker 1: I was so early. She did not flinch and I

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Speaker 1: was still dark out, so she didn't need it. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: And I took it because I knew I was wearing

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Speaker 1: this like dress, because I picked my clothes out the

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Speaker 1: night before. I put him in my bathroom, so I'm

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Speaker 1: not like rummaging around the room while Robbie sleeping, So

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Speaker 1: I know I was wearing a dress, and I was like, oh,

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Speaker 1: I'm definitely gonna need a blanket or something to cover

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Speaker 1: my legs at work. So here we are.

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Speaker 2: Wow, yeah, you just make it work.

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Speaker 1: New Year knew me, you know what I mean.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, so you posted the video of you, like, uh,

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Speaker 2: a guy like pushing you on. What was that? Like

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Speaker 2: a Robbie?

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Speaker 3: I know? Okay, so at first I didn't know it

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Speaker 3: was Robby At first, I who knows Robbie.

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Speaker 2: Because you tagged someone else. Oh oh right, and I

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Speaker 3: Is kind of an intimate position for someone who was

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Speaker 3: at Robbie. And then the next video was her pushing

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Speaker 3: Robbie and I was like, oh, that's who the man.

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Speaker 2: Was in the video.

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Speaker 3: But yeah, so your new thing is weight training.

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Speaker 1: My new thing is weight training. My new thing is

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Speaker 1: uh not being in my sweats twenty four to seven, okay,

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Speaker 1: And yeah, this is like I realized, this is like

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Speaker 1: my first birthday where I haven't had like a breakdown

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Speaker 1: of like what I haven't accomplished in life. For some reason,

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Speaker 1: I always tend to do that around my birthday. I

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Speaker 1: feel like it's like a what well.

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Speaker 3: I'm just laughing because it was always kind of like

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Speaker 3: getting engaged and then getting married and I think you

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Speaker 2: What what's are you?

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Speaker 1: Like, there's always an next there's always like a new

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Speaker 1: thing that you know what I mean, Like there's always

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Speaker 1: something that you're adding to your.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, but the next thing, I think society wise and

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Speaker 3: like in terms of what you want, would be a baby,

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Speaker 3: which well happen as you're working on it.

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Speaker 1: Yes, in the process of yeah, yeah, I don't know,

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Speaker 1: but I felt really really good, and like Robbie organized

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Speaker 1: this dinner for my birthday because I was like, there's

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Speaker 1: something that goes on after you get married, like you

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Speaker 1: don't want to ask your friends to do anything else

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Speaker 1: for like the rest of the year because you're like

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Speaker 1: they've just done so much bachelorette party, wedding, like it

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Speaker 1: was just like a lot. So I was like, it's

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Speaker 1: my birthday, I don't care. I don't want my friends

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Speaker 1: to do anything. And Robbie was like, all your friends

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Speaker 1: are in town and they're gonna want to like do

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Speaker 1: something with you, so let's just like let me handle it.

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Speaker 1: I'll handle all the details. You don't have to lift

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Speaker 1: a finger, and he literally did. He took care of

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Speaker 1: every single little detail.

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Speaker 2: That was so impressive.

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Speaker 1: It was so impressive. He like literally made the menu

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Speaker 1: all my favorite foods, all my favorite drinks at the bar,

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Speaker 1: like decorated it so like I wouldn't have changed a

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Speaker 1: literal single thing.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I was taking notes. It was really well done.

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Speaker 1: Thought about it, playlist, thought it, like literally thought about everything.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it was a rager.

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Speaker 3: It was a rager, but like not as I didn't

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Speaker 3: go as crazy as your wedding.

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Speaker 2: But yes, it was nearing that and stopped.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: Wow, Yeah I think you thank you maturing. That's what happens.

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Speaker 3: You have war flashedbacks and you suddenly stopped.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, but yeah, it was really really nice he did,

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Speaker 1: like it just means a lot. He just like really,

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Speaker 1: I feel like he's just so intentional and even like

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Speaker 1: the morning I woke up on my birthday, he wrote

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Speaker 1: thirty eight reasons why he loves Me in the shape

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Speaker 1: of a heart on like my like mirror in the bathroom. Wow,

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Speaker 1: but he chatgypt how to make a heart out of

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Speaker 1: post its, so it's like perfectly spaced. It was like

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Speaker 1: a perfectly spaced heart.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, it was very impressive that he sought AI's assistance

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Speaker 5: on this, not.

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Speaker 1: The reasons he loves me but how to space them

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Speaker 1: out on my mirror. I was like, gorgeous.

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Speaker 2: Yeah it was he's an artist, Yeah, he really is.

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Speaker 1: Yeah. It was just really nice.

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Speaker 3: Yeah. I feel like he matches your thoughtfulness and intentionality

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Speaker 1: Intentionality, intentionality. Yeah, And it's like cute because he gets

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Speaker 1: like so exciting and he's like, dude, what do you

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Speaker 1: think about the like the lamps and what do you

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Speaker 1: think about the da da da? And I'm like I

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Speaker 1: love it. Yeah, he gets like really excited about it.

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Speaker 2: I messaged him after.

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Speaker 3: I was just like, thank you for hosting such a

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Speaker 3: you know, beautiful night and taking care of Tanya or whatever,

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Speaker 3: and he was like nothing more I love than celebrating her.

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Speaker 1: Oh so cute.

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Speaker 2: Yeah it was really fun.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, a summer swore. But let me tell you something,

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Speaker 1: making the seating chart for my dinner birthday dinner was

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Speaker 1: more difficult than the seating chart at our wedding.

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Speaker 3: Yeah. She got so stressed out, like feeling anxious about it,

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Speaker 3: and I was like, Tanya, everyone, it's dinner.

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Speaker 2: Everyone's fine, everyone.

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Speaker 1: Knows each other, but like some people didn't know people,

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Speaker 1: so it's like, okay, we need to put people that

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Speaker 2: She thinks a lot about it.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, what else did? What'd you do on your actual birthday?

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Speaker 1: I saw you?

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Speaker 1: That was like first an hour I worked and then

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Speaker 1: I got a lymphatic massage. I went to lunch with

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Speaker 1: Paulina and Robbie, and then Sophia ended up surprising me,

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Speaker 1: and then I went to pilates and then Becca came

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Speaker 1: went to dinner with Robbie.

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Speaker 5: Wow.

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Speaker 1: Yeah it was action packed.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, you were busy.

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Speaker 1: I was a busy Guala at my summer soire.

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Speaker 3: Oh okay, okay, this was something where I dropped the ball.

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Speaker 2: What I had a moment where I dropped the ball?

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Speaker 2: What with Haley?

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Speaker 1: Oh that's okay because we still celebrated.

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Speaker 2: You, I know.

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Speaker 3: But so basically, back like a month ago, Robbie had

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Speaker 3: called me to ask me dates for Tanya's birthday did

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Speaker 3: I'm trying to decide if we should do it on

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Speaker 3: And I was like, I'm free either or Haley could

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Speaker 3: hear me from the other room, and She's like, I'm

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Speaker 3: not available on Saturday because she was going she got

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Speaker 3: her dad concert tickets to see the Marias in Santa Barbara.

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Speaker 4: Oh fun.

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Speaker 2: So I was like, yeah, he doesn't know the date.

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Speaker 3: So once he confirms if it's Saturday, I'll let him

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Speaker 3: know that you can't go. Well, like a couple days later,

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Speaker 3: So then I find out that he had that they

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Speaker 3: I assumed since they were talking that she let him know.

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Speaker 2: So like two days.

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Speaker 3: Before the party, I go, hey, you let Robbie know

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Speaker 3: that you weren't going to the party, right, And she goes, Babe,

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Speaker 3: I told you a month ago that I wasn't gonna

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Speaker 2: And I was like hm mm hmmm.

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Speaker 2: No, it meant a lot. It was really sweet and

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Speaker 2: I'm not gonna like it, but I'm willing to try.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, Okay, coffee cake, oh, forget it.

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Speaker 1: That's my that is my and I've been eating a

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Speaker 2: Did you start any new shows over the weekend or

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Speaker 1: I'm watching Love Island UK.

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Speaker 2: Might be into starting it. It's very I can't. I

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Speaker 1: Let it roll. Do laundry, let it roll, do the dishes.

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Speaker 3: You can hear their voices, though there's something about it

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Speaker 3: No, I'm trying to think I did. I watched some

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Speaker 1: There's not money that you could pay me to watch that,

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Speaker 3: I can't watch shark movies. I can't watch dinosaur movies.

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Speaker 3: I was so scared the whole movie. I was tense

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Speaker 1: I'm so surprised that you're such a little chicken pot, so.

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Speaker 3: Surprised that you can watch those and not say that

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Speaker 1: It's not scary. It's like, it's exciting, it's jumpy, it's yeah,

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Speaker 1: It's not a scary movie.

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Speaker 3: I wanted to talk about this flashback to a dear

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Speaker 1: What I wanted to ask you, because it's been a

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Speaker 3: No, no, But I think you knew the answer to

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Speaker 2: I don't think you celebrated, but no one cares more

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Speaker 1: Every month after our wedding, I was going to every

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Speaker 3: I'm like, damn it, it's hard it's hard to keep

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Speaker 1: That's tough.

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Speaker 2: It's really cute.

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Speaker 3: Every morning heally goes fiance. Yeah, so we do have that,

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't like that. I get really sad waking.

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Speaker 4: Up to just an empty bed.

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Speaker 5: Oh I thought you were saying he's already up and

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Speaker 5: doing things when you wake up and that makes you sad.

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Speaker 1: No, he's like asleep, and I'm like, oh, I wish

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Speaker 2: Was awake, you know, you give him a kiss.

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Speaker 4: You don't want to bother him, no, no, oh, and.

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Speaker 1: He's so pissed if he was waking up with three

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Speaker 3: No, Haley comes like if she gets up orly has flight,

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Speaker 2: Like an early flight or something. I get up and

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Speaker 5: in what parts? Don't such a mouse?

447
00:20:04,200 --> 00:20:06,320
Speaker 1: Yeah, I try to be a mouse like, But now

448
00:20:06,320 --> 00:20:08,320
Speaker 1: I'm gonna tell him that he should be making me coffee.

449
00:20:09,040 --> 00:20:11,439
Speaker 2: I don't didn't say, I mak her coffee, get her

450
00:20:11,480 --> 00:20:12,040
Speaker 2: out the door.

451
00:20:13,600 --> 00:20:16,800
Speaker 3: I walk her out the door, and then I give

452
00:20:16,840 --> 00:20:18,399
Speaker 3: her I hug her and kiss her and lock the

453
00:20:18,400 --> 00:20:19,640
Speaker 3: door and I go get back in bed.

454
00:20:20,040 --> 00:20:23,440
Speaker 5: Dang, yeah, are you good at falling back asleep if

455
00:20:23,440 --> 00:20:24,320
Speaker 5: it's early like that?

456
00:20:24,560 --> 00:20:24,760
Speaker 3: Yeah?

457
00:20:24,840 --> 00:20:25,320
Speaker 4: Yeah yeah.

458
00:20:25,320 --> 00:20:26,200
Speaker 2: But if I if.

459
00:20:26,119 --> 00:20:29,680
Speaker 3: It's like around like the six region, I.

460
00:20:29,600 --> 00:20:30,560
Speaker 2: Won't go back to sleep.

461
00:20:30,720 --> 00:20:33,320
Speaker 5: You know what I had recently scared the hell out

462
00:20:33,320 --> 00:20:35,960
Speaker 5: of me, But then chet GPT talked me down. It's

463
00:20:36,000 --> 00:20:39,760
Speaker 5: called a hypnic jerk hYP and I.

464
00:20:39,720 --> 00:20:43,119
Speaker 4: See that sounds like it feels good. Jerk not so.

465
00:20:43,160 --> 00:20:45,320
Speaker 5: What it was is as I would start to fall asleep,

466
00:20:45,560 --> 00:20:47,320
Speaker 5: it would feel like my heart skipped a beat, and

467
00:20:47,359 --> 00:20:50,159
Speaker 5: then I'd be wide awake again. Every time I was

468
00:20:50,320 --> 00:20:53,840
Speaker 5: almost asleep, heart skips would beat back awake again. I'm like, okay,

469
00:20:53,920 --> 00:20:57,760
Speaker 5: I'm dying. I have a cardio problem. Everything's bad. I'm

470
00:20:57,760 --> 00:20:59,760
Speaker 5: never going to sleep again, and I'm losing my mind.

471
00:21:00,200 --> 00:21:02,280
Speaker 5: So the next morning, I go on chatch what's haw

472
00:21:02,400 --> 00:21:05,160
Speaker 5: him to make? Hey, it's a hypnic jerk. Everything's fine.

473
00:21:05,359 --> 00:21:08,440
Speaker 5: It's not a cardiac thing. It's a psychological thing. It's

474
00:21:08,440 --> 00:21:10,120
Speaker 5: not something distressed about. You want to talk to your doctor,

475
00:21:10,160 --> 00:21:13,240
Speaker 5: go ahead, but it's fine. Knowing that made me feel

476
00:21:13,240 --> 00:21:15,040
Speaker 5: so much better. So that night I started going to

477
00:21:15,040 --> 00:21:18,080
Speaker 5: sleep and I started feeling it and I'm like, okay,

478
00:21:18,280 --> 00:21:19,720
Speaker 5: I know this is psychological.

479
00:21:19,920 --> 00:21:21,840
Speaker 4: It's fine. I'm not going to forge out about it.

480
00:21:21,880 --> 00:21:22,520
Speaker 4: And I fell asleep.

481
00:21:22,520 --> 00:21:24,560
Speaker 3: I was fine, Okay, is this the same thing as

482
00:21:24,600 --> 00:21:26,479
Speaker 3: like you know when you twitch and you jerk, when

483
00:21:26,520 --> 00:21:27,000
Speaker 3: it's like that.

484
00:21:27,080 --> 00:21:28,960
Speaker 2: Yeah, Oh, I didn't know it was a heart thing.

485
00:21:29,760 --> 00:21:31,880
Speaker 4: Mine was a hard thing. There's different kinds of hypnic jerks.

486
00:21:31,920 --> 00:21:33,600
Speaker 2: I feel it in your heart though, I felt it.

487
00:21:33,520 --> 00:21:34,000
Speaker 4: In my heart.

488
00:21:35,000 --> 00:21:40,399
Speaker 2: Yes, it was very scary.

489
00:21:40,720 --> 00:21:43,040
Speaker 5: It is kind of exciting, but it's just every time,

490
00:21:43,160 --> 00:21:45,320
Speaker 5: for like hours, like I was losing it.

491
00:21:45,520 --> 00:21:49,359
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's like a twitch twitch yeah yeah, yeah, yeah.

492
00:21:49,480 --> 00:21:51,840
Speaker 1: I forgot this. I forgot to tell this story when

493
00:21:51,880 --> 00:21:53,520
Speaker 1: we were talking about my birthday dinner, but it was

494
00:21:53,880 --> 00:21:56,439
Speaker 1: so funny that I have to share it. Because my

495
00:21:56,720 --> 00:21:59,520
Speaker 1: mother in law stands up to give this like speech

496
00:22:00,400 --> 00:22:03,639
Speaker 1: and she was sitting next to Sisany and she was like,

497
00:22:03,760 --> 00:22:06,800
Speaker 1: I just have to mention what the Sisany said to me?

498
00:22:07,119 --> 00:22:09,000
Speaker 1: I asked her if she has a good relationship with

499
00:22:09,040 --> 00:22:11,760
Speaker 1: her mother in law and she said, that's why I

500
00:22:11,880 --> 00:22:14,359
Speaker 1: married him. And I was like, we got to throw

501
00:22:14,400 --> 00:22:17,160
Speaker 1: a girl under the bus on her birthday dinner.

502
00:22:19,000 --> 00:22:20,800
Speaker 2: And you said same, same thing.

503
00:22:20,920 --> 00:22:21,120
Speaker 5: Yeah.

504
00:22:21,600 --> 00:22:23,880
Speaker 1: I was on the fence about Robbie until I met

505
00:22:23,920 --> 00:22:26,960
Speaker 1: the two of you, and then I was locked in.

506
00:22:27,359 --> 00:22:31,159
Speaker 3: We played fish Bowl after we like went inside and

507
00:22:31,200 --> 00:22:33,439
Speaker 3: played fish Bowl, which, if you don't know, it's like

508
00:22:33,520 --> 00:22:34,520
Speaker 3: everyone writes down.

509
00:22:34,400 --> 00:22:36,080
Speaker 2: Ever, everyone writes memory.

510
00:22:36,080 --> 00:22:38,320
Speaker 1: I have. Playing fish bowl is so much fun.

511
00:22:38,400 --> 00:22:39,800
Speaker 4: It's a great game.

512
00:22:40,200 --> 00:22:44,159
Speaker 2: If you don't know, you everyone writes down like five anything.

513
00:22:44,240 --> 00:22:45,240
Speaker 2: You can write down. Anything.

514
00:22:45,359 --> 00:22:47,520
Speaker 1: You could write down back Atilly, you could write down.

515
00:22:47,680 --> 00:22:50,240
Speaker 2: I wrote down, hello everybody. We are scrubbing in.

516
00:22:53,480 --> 00:22:56,119
Speaker 3: And then you put them all into a bowl and

517
00:22:56,160 --> 00:22:57,080
Speaker 3: you do like three rounds.

518
00:22:57,080 --> 00:22:58,200
Speaker 2: Anyways, it's super fun.

519
00:22:58,480 --> 00:23:02,120
Speaker 3: But we did a theme that was Tanya and Robbie's

520
00:23:02,160 --> 00:23:04,360
Speaker 3: mom had never played before, so we were just right.

521
00:23:04,480 --> 00:23:07,600
Speaker 3: We were like, write things about Tanya. So we start

522
00:23:07,680 --> 00:23:11,640
Speaker 3: going through them and I noticed this, like cursive hands, do.

523
00:23:11,560 --> 00:23:14,040
Speaker 1: You all the other clues? It's I'm the I'm the

524
00:23:14,200 --> 00:23:17,120
Speaker 1: what's the what's what's the thing the subject?

525
00:23:17,160 --> 00:23:17,280
Speaker 3: Right?

526
00:23:17,359 --> 00:23:19,200
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah.

527
00:23:19,800 --> 00:23:23,960
Speaker 1: All the other clues are like Robbie's hands, humping Robbie's leg,

528
00:23:25,440 --> 00:23:27,600
Speaker 1: like there's so many inappropriate.

529
00:23:30,040 --> 00:23:32,200
Speaker 2: Sixty nine. I was like, oh my god.

530
00:23:33,920 --> 00:23:38,120
Speaker 3: Anyways, yeah, so then there's like in cursive writing, it's

531
00:23:38,160 --> 00:23:44,080
Speaker 3: like loving, sweet, gorgeous, and I'm like, who wrote these adjectives?

532
00:23:44,080 --> 00:23:46,920
Speaker 3: And we realized Tanya's mother in law just thought it

533
00:23:46,960 --> 00:23:50,280
Speaker 3: was supposed to be like quality or adjectives describing Tanya.

534
00:23:50,440 --> 00:23:53,399
Speaker 2: So it was really sweet. It was really cute.

535
00:23:53,440 --> 00:23:54,359
Speaker 1: It was really cute.

536
00:23:54,440 --> 00:23:55,280
Speaker 2: It was a good laugh.

537
00:23:55,440 --> 00:23:58,040
Speaker 1: It was honestly, if you are having any sort of

538
00:23:58,119 --> 00:24:01,040
Speaker 1: party or gathering the rest of the summer, fish bowl

539
00:24:01,040 --> 00:24:02,200
Speaker 1: to cap it off at the end of the night

540
00:24:02,359 --> 00:24:04,480
Speaker 1: is peak peak.

541
00:24:04,200 --> 00:24:07,520
Speaker 4: Peak three rounds, right, the second round is one.

542
00:24:07,840 --> 00:24:10,080
Speaker 1: The second out is acting no words.

543
00:24:10,240 --> 00:24:11,880
Speaker 4: That's the second round, and the third word.

544
00:24:12,080 --> 00:24:15,200
Speaker 1: Third round is one word. Yeah, fun, it is fun.

545
00:24:16,520 --> 00:24:20,200
Speaker 3: So there was something that Okay, so we had a

546
00:24:21,200 --> 00:24:24,359
Speaker 3: someone found I love the scrubbers because they keep us accountable,

547
00:24:24,600 --> 00:24:27,359
Speaker 3: Like we don't remember anything that we said or talked about,

548
00:24:27,400 --> 00:24:28,080
Speaker 3: but they do.

549
00:24:28,720 --> 00:24:30,400
Speaker 2: And I really appreciate that about them.

550
00:24:30,440 --> 00:24:33,920
Speaker 3: But they had a flashback to a Dear Bonnie episode

551
00:24:34,240 --> 00:24:35,480
Speaker 3: that we are going to replay.

552
00:24:35,560 --> 00:24:39,280
Speaker 5: I guess Kobe Rico in the which, by the way,

553
00:24:39,440 --> 00:24:42,040
Speaker 5: great name, great name. Yes, scrubbers have great names. Kobe

554
00:24:42,080 --> 00:24:44,719
Speaker 5: Rico found this and thought we should react to it.

555
00:24:45,200 --> 00:24:45,479
Speaker 4: All right.

556
00:24:45,520 --> 00:24:48,080
Speaker 5: This is from April of this year, April third, an

557
00:24:48,080 --> 00:24:52,760
Speaker 5: episode called Dear Banya Froyo, and we are talking about

558
00:24:52,960 --> 00:24:55,879
Speaker 5: a potential Becca engagement, which was still, of course, very

559
00:24:55,920 --> 00:24:58,639
Speaker 5: hypothetical at the time. That's what we were discussing, and

560
00:24:58,680 --> 00:25:01,520
Speaker 5: Beca saying how she's not gonna let time know in advance.

561
00:25:01,800 --> 00:25:03,920
Speaker 4: Here we go, What will you do?

562
00:25:04,080 --> 00:25:06,480
Speaker 3: What's gonna be a reaction when I just FaceTime you

563
00:25:06,520 --> 00:25:08,160
Speaker 3: one day?

564
00:25:08,240 --> 00:25:10,159
Speaker 1: It's gonna be tough because I'm gonna be excited for you,

565
00:25:10,240 --> 00:25:12,680
Speaker 1: obviously that I'm gonna be sad if you didn't tell

566
00:25:12,720 --> 00:25:13,479
Speaker 1: me that was coming.

567
00:25:13,840 --> 00:25:16,760
Speaker 2: Oh, I already warned you about that months ago.

568
00:25:17,200 --> 00:25:19,840
Speaker 1: Yeah, you were, so you're really just knock into You're

569
00:25:19,880 --> 00:25:20,560
Speaker 1: just gonna do it.

570
00:25:22,680 --> 00:25:24,840
Speaker 2: That's a secret. I'll never tell or.

571
00:25:24,800 --> 00:25:26,720
Speaker 1: Are you gonna tell some friends and just not me?

572
00:25:27,080 --> 00:25:30,440
Speaker 2: No, if I told anyone, you would obviously be someone.

573
00:25:30,160 --> 00:25:31,840
Speaker 1: That I would tell you and ask her parents.

574
00:25:32,840 --> 00:25:36,879
Speaker 2: I probably will I think they'll be like, really, you

575
00:25:36,880 --> 00:25:37,280
Speaker 2: don't have.

576
00:25:37,240 --> 00:25:39,760
Speaker 1: To ask, but I will so they'll know.

577
00:25:40,880 --> 00:25:42,320
Speaker 2: They'll know that it's coming, but I'm not going to

578
00:25:42,400 --> 00:25:43,639
Speaker 2: tell them any details.

579
00:25:43,880 --> 00:25:45,879
Speaker 4: Is there any chance she would beat you to the punch?

580
00:25:46,560 --> 00:25:49,960
Speaker 2: I don't think so. Okay, I don't think so.

581
00:25:50,240 --> 00:25:52,440
Speaker 3: If she did, that would be like the ultimate surprise,

582
00:25:52,520 --> 00:25:56,399
Speaker 3: because I don't I would. I wouldn't think so, so,

583
00:25:58,280 --> 00:26:00,720
Speaker 3: but yeah, if I were to, if I were to

584
00:26:00,760 --> 00:26:02,960
Speaker 3: tell people, you would definitely be someone I would tell.

585
00:26:03,720 --> 00:26:05,440
Speaker 2: But my goal would be to tell nobody.

586
00:26:06,960 --> 00:26:08,360
Speaker 5: Easter and I are going to pretend that we knew

587
00:26:08,359 --> 00:26:10,440
Speaker 5: in advanced just to mess with you. I'm going to

588
00:26:10,520 --> 00:26:11,200
Speaker 5: telegraph that.

589
00:26:11,240 --> 00:26:11,880
Speaker 4: Joke right now.

590
00:26:13,520 --> 00:26:16,440
Speaker 1: I never and a million years thought she would beat

591
00:26:16,480 --> 00:26:17,040
Speaker 1: you to the punch.

592
00:26:20,240 --> 00:26:20,600
Speaker 4: We're back.

593
00:26:24,040 --> 00:26:27,320
Speaker 2: Yeah, well I'm so old to my promise. I didn't know.

594
00:26:28,560 --> 00:26:31,119
Speaker 3: It's so funny because everyone's like, you had no clue,

595
00:26:31,119 --> 00:26:34,080
Speaker 3: and I'm like, you don't understand. I had no clue.

596
00:26:34,119 --> 00:26:36,760
Speaker 2: I hadn't. I never imagined it was going to happen,

597
00:26:37,280 --> 00:26:43,159
Speaker 2: that she would do it first. But your reaction, people

598
00:26:43,520 --> 00:26:44,040
Speaker 2: loved it.

599
00:26:45,560 --> 00:26:47,240
Speaker 1: You post it on my birthday. People were like, it's

600
00:26:47,320 --> 00:26:49,399
Speaker 1: so fun to see the other side of the call,

601
00:26:49,560 --> 00:26:49,919
Speaker 1: I know, and.

602
00:26:49,920 --> 00:26:52,120
Speaker 3: Everyone was like, I love that Tanya and Robbie both

603
00:26:52,200 --> 00:26:54,600
Speaker 3: knew that Ya wouldn't want to have the video of

604
00:26:54,680 --> 00:26:55,400
Speaker 3: this reaction.

605
00:26:57,760 --> 00:26:59,040
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's so funny that.

606
00:27:00,800 --> 00:27:04,679
Speaker 3: Tanya had no idea zero, But she really couldn't have

607
00:27:04,760 --> 00:27:07,159
Speaker 3: told you, and I think I could. I think I

608
00:27:07,200 --> 00:27:11,640
Speaker 3: could tell you without worrying that you wouldn't say no.

609
00:27:11,760 --> 00:27:13,480
Speaker 1: Right because I don't see Haley as much as I

610
00:27:13,520 --> 00:27:13,879
Speaker 1: see you.

611
00:27:14,200 --> 00:27:17,000
Speaker 3: But we'd have to like, don't do no double dates

612
00:27:17,119 --> 00:27:20,440
Speaker 3: or anything.

613
00:27:19,680 --> 00:27:23,119
Speaker 1: And I would keep myself away. And I actually, like

614
00:27:23,160 --> 00:27:25,560
Speaker 1: fully respect people not telling me that stuff because I

615
00:27:25,560 --> 00:27:28,240
Speaker 1: think that my I think my vibe would change around

616
00:27:28,280 --> 00:27:31,000
Speaker 1: you if I knew, and I could lie like my

617
00:27:31,040 --> 00:27:33,399
Speaker 1: words would say nothing.

618
00:27:34,800 --> 00:27:36,520
Speaker 2: Your eyes would give you away.

619
00:27:36,760 --> 00:27:36,920
Speaker 3: Yes.

620
00:27:37,640 --> 00:27:38,600
Speaker 2: And then same with Ali.

621
00:27:39,000 --> 00:27:41,439
Speaker 3: She was just like y'all, y'all You and Tanya like

622
00:27:41,600 --> 00:27:46,359
Speaker 3: you talked to Ali Antonia too much to.

623
00:27:45,400 --> 00:27:46,960
Speaker 2: Trust too much.

624
00:27:47,160 --> 00:27:52,359
Speaker 1: Yeah, there's just only had her baby. What's his name?

625
00:27:52,720 --> 00:27:54,600
Speaker 3: I don't think she hasn't announced it, so I'm not

626
00:27:54,600 --> 00:27:59,399
Speaker 3: going to announce it yet, doesn't hasn't written out the

627
00:27:59,680 --> 00:28:03,480
Speaker 3: offici per certificate yet. But he was born the day

628
00:28:03,480 --> 00:28:03,840
Speaker 3: after you.

629
00:28:04,720 --> 00:28:05,040
Speaker 4: Wow.

630
00:28:05,400 --> 00:28:06,920
Speaker 2: Wow, I said all I.

631
00:28:06,920 --> 00:28:10,000
Speaker 3: Need is for him to stay in one day past.

632
00:28:10,680 --> 00:28:11,359
Speaker 2: And he did.

633
00:28:12,000 --> 00:28:12,960
Speaker 1: Yeah, what a guy.

634
00:28:13,240 --> 00:28:15,600
Speaker 2: Yeah, so I got to go see him yesterday.

635
00:28:15,720 --> 00:28:17,400
Speaker 1: You did in the hospital.

636
00:28:17,720 --> 00:28:20,200
Speaker 2: Uh yeah, but I think today they go home. Oh

637
00:28:20,359 --> 00:28:21,639
Speaker 2: but I'm so excited.

638
00:28:21,920 --> 00:28:23,399
Speaker 1: How long did you stay in the hospital after you

639
00:28:23,440 --> 00:28:24,040
Speaker 1: have a baby.

640
00:28:24,160 --> 00:28:26,760
Speaker 3: This is interesting and I'm curious how long y'all stayed

641
00:28:26,800 --> 00:28:29,120
Speaker 3: because it feels rushed.

642
00:28:29,600 --> 00:28:31,160
Speaker 4: Oh it felt rushed for us.

643
00:28:31,359 --> 00:28:32,600
Speaker 2: But I wonder if.

644
00:28:32,520 --> 00:28:35,479
Speaker 1: It's because she had him vaginally, right, Yeah, she had

645
00:28:35,520 --> 00:28:36,600
Speaker 1: a section.

646
00:28:36,520 --> 00:28:41,440
Speaker 3: No, and she everything went well. So but still it

647
00:28:41,560 --> 00:28:45,440
Speaker 3: just feels like you're you're handed this child and then

648
00:28:45,480 --> 00:28:46,719
Speaker 3: they're like, okay, go hi.

649
00:28:47,080 --> 00:28:49,360
Speaker 5: Yes, that was scary as hell. And I'm gonna have

650
00:28:49,360 --> 00:28:53,280
Speaker 5: told this story before. But we were driving home of

651
00:28:53,400 --> 00:28:57,000
Speaker 5: Tobaga Canyon Boulevard because Ali was born at Kaiser in

652
00:28:57,000 --> 00:29:00,320
Speaker 5: Woodland Hills, and we're driving up and I remember thinking

653
00:29:00,360 --> 00:29:03,640
Speaker 5: to myself, these people would not be driving this crazy

654
00:29:03,680 --> 00:29:06,040
Speaker 5: if they knew he had an in this car. And

655
00:29:06,040 --> 00:29:08,640
Speaker 5: then I was like, Oh, that's those stupid baby on bostickers.

656
00:29:08,760 --> 00:29:11,520
Speaker 5: That's why people do that. I get it now.

657
00:29:11,960 --> 00:29:14,440
Speaker 4: I was so freaked out by every other car.

658
00:29:14,640 --> 00:29:16,640
Speaker 2: I know, they're so tiny, and we didn't know what

659
00:29:16,640 --> 00:29:17,160
Speaker 2: we were doing.

660
00:29:17,240 --> 00:29:18,959
Speaker 1: How can they just go as a child so you

661
00:29:19,000 --> 00:29:20,680
Speaker 1: give birth, Like, let's say you so she gave birth

662
00:29:20,720 --> 00:29:23,000
Speaker 1: on a Saturday, So she's there Saturday, Sunday, Monday, and

663
00:29:23,040 --> 00:29:25,440
Speaker 1: then goes home Tuesday. Yeah, but I don't know time.

664
00:29:25,680 --> 00:29:27,920
Speaker 2: I think it was last for it goes home today

665
00:29:27,920 --> 00:29:28,600
Speaker 2: which is Monday.

666
00:29:28,680 --> 00:29:30,720
Speaker 1: Oh, oh, so she's there. Yeah.

667
00:29:30,960 --> 00:29:32,960
Speaker 5: They say twenty four to forty eight hours after a

668
00:29:33,120 --> 00:29:34,840
Speaker 5: vaginal birth, sea section is longer.

669
00:29:34,880 --> 00:29:37,400
Speaker 3: It just felt like it was always longer. But maybe

670
00:29:37,560 --> 00:29:39,520
Speaker 3: I don't know why I have that idea. But then

671
00:29:39,960 --> 00:29:43,040
Speaker 3: Carson was saying his brother that they live in Amsterdam

672
00:29:43,120 --> 00:29:44,160
Speaker 3: and they went home.

673
00:29:44,000 --> 00:29:44,800
Speaker 2: The same day.

674
00:29:45,000 --> 00:29:47,320
Speaker 3: Wow. And basically they just send nurses to the home,

675
00:29:47,360 --> 00:29:48,800
Speaker 3: which I was like, well, that's kind of nice because

676
00:29:48,800 --> 00:29:50,080
Speaker 3: you're in your space.

677
00:29:50,280 --> 00:29:54,080
Speaker 5: It's comfortable and transition, like you get help for the

678
00:29:54,120 --> 00:29:56,400
Speaker 5: first couple days you're at home, which we would have loved.

679
00:29:56,800 --> 00:29:58,160
Speaker 5: And honestly, if we did by at the hospital for

680
00:29:58,240 --> 00:30:00,239
Speaker 5: a month, we still had been freaked out on our

681
00:30:00,280 --> 00:30:01,320
Speaker 5: own with this child.

682
00:30:02,000 --> 00:30:03,240
Speaker 4: We were not qualified.

683
00:30:03,520 --> 00:30:04,840
Speaker 2: Goes, we don't know what we're doing. I was like,

684
00:30:04,920 --> 00:30:06,360
Speaker 2: he won't know, he won't know.

685
00:30:07,280 --> 00:30:08,160
Speaker 4: That's the beauty of it.

686
00:30:09,040 --> 00:30:16,400
Speaker 2: You're all figuring it out together. He's so cute.

687
00:30:16,040 --> 00:30:19,560
Speaker 1: Though you held him. Yeah, did you like feel things?

688
00:30:20,920 --> 00:30:21,560
Speaker 2: I love him?

689
00:30:21,800 --> 00:30:22,120
Speaker 1: Yeah?

690
00:30:22,760 --> 00:30:27,400
Speaker 3: Oh like for myself? Yeah, no, I do have that.

691
00:30:27,520 --> 00:30:31,760
Speaker 3: I love I love babies, I love kids. But that's

692
00:30:32,000 --> 00:30:34,840
Speaker 3: I love him. Doesn't stir anything up?

693
00:30:38,080 --> 00:30:39,280
Speaker 2: Does it for you?

694
00:30:39,560 --> 00:30:40,040
Speaker 1: Yeah?

695
00:30:40,240 --> 00:30:45,680
Speaker 2: Oh really? Oh that's good. It's a good sign. Listen.

696
00:30:45,800 --> 00:30:50,360
Speaker 2: You gotta listen to that mother nature, just your gut instinct.

697
00:30:50,440 --> 00:30:54,200
Speaker 3: Yeah. I want to talk about something that everyone's talking about,

698
00:30:54,280 --> 00:30:55,000
Speaker 3: the Coldplay couple.

699
00:30:55,120 --> 00:30:57,200
Speaker 4: We don't want to be the only show to not talking.

700
00:30:56,960 --> 00:30:58,800
Speaker 2: About it feels like a little late.

701
00:30:58,880 --> 00:31:01,360
Speaker 3: You know, it's like what been a week or something,

702
00:31:01,440 --> 00:31:05,720
Speaker 3: but it feels like a conversation topic that we need

703
00:31:05,760 --> 00:31:08,920
Speaker 3: to cover as a pop culture podcast.

704
00:31:09,400 --> 00:31:11,280
Speaker 2: Pa Winner two years in a row.

705
00:31:12,760 --> 00:31:18,720
Speaker 1: Yeah, somebody told me that the man's daughter, the guy

706
00:31:18,720 --> 00:31:20,680
Speaker 1: that had the affairs daughter, is like trying to become

707
00:31:20,720 --> 00:31:21,440
Speaker 1: like an influencer.

708
00:31:21,480 --> 00:31:25,520
Speaker 3: Now, I think you want to know something sick.

709
00:31:25,960 --> 00:31:28,959
Speaker 2: Yes, he does not have a daughter. He has two sons.

710
00:31:29,040 --> 00:31:30,480
Speaker 2: And this girl just said that she was.

711
00:31:30,440 --> 00:31:34,800
Speaker 3: The daughter got like like two hundred thousand fault.

712
00:31:34,840 --> 00:31:36,280
Speaker 2: I don't even know what she's at now got like

713
00:31:36,560 --> 00:31:39,400
Speaker 2: went viral, has like crazy amount of followers.

714
00:31:39,600 --> 00:31:42,680
Speaker 1: He has two sons. Are you sure?

715
00:31:43,000 --> 00:31:43,840
Speaker 2: Yeah? Look it up.

716
00:31:44,480 --> 00:31:46,240
Speaker 1: Oh the picture I saw I think was the woman

717
00:31:46,360 --> 00:31:48,400
Speaker 1: in the affair, the woman that had the affair.

718
00:31:48,440 --> 00:31:51,680
Speaker 4: Why you look that up? What we should take a break?

719
00:31:52,040 --> 00:31:53,360
Speaker 4: Oh yeah, you have to get one more in.

720
00:31:53,480 --> 00:31:55,280
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, we are back.

721
00:31:55,320 --> 00:32:00,120
Speaker 4: Please enjoy.

722
00:32:13,920 --> 00:32:17,600
Speaker 2: All right, we are back. So the affair scene around

723
00:32:17,600 --> 00:32:19,440
Speaker 2: the World via Chris Martin.

724
00:32:19,720 --> 00:32:20,280
Speaker 4: I love it.

725
00:32:20,360 --> 00:32:24,280
Speaker 5: I love when all of the world unites around something. Yeah,

726
00:32:24,320 --> 00:32:26,160
Speaker 5: whether it's a song or a TV show or a

727
00:32:26,160 --> 00:32:27,960
Speaker 5: movie or a meme or whatever, I just love it.

728
00:32:28,000 --> 00:32:28,880
Speaker 4: So I love stuff like that.

729
00:32:29,000 --> 00:32:31,200
Speaker 1: I saw this. I wish I would have saved the

730
00:32:31,520 --> 00:32:34,320
Speaker 1: Instagram because the audio was hilarious. But it's basically this

731
00:32:34,560 --> 00:32:37,760
Speaker 1: girl talking about like all the different ways that she's

732
00:32:37,800 --> 00:32:39,600
Speaker 1: like sharing the story. And she was like talking about

733
00:32:39,640 --> 00:32:42,840
Speaker 1: in her like uh, work group chat and the like

734
00:32:43,000 --> 00:32:45,680
Speaker 1: Fran at the office was like, who's cold playing? She

735
00:32:45,760 --> 00:32:47,239
Speaker 1: was like, you know, Vita Libida and like went through

736
00:32:47,280 --> 00:32:50,120
Speaker 1: this whole process and then basically her whole thing was

737
00:32:50,160 --> 00:32:52,560
Speaker 1: like it's like this story is the great unifier, you know,

738
00:32:52,600 --> 00:32:55,360
Speaker 1: like we have a nation we need yes.

739
00:32:55,640 --> 00:32:58,400
Speaker 3: Yeah, and I've seen people be like I don't want to,

740
00:32:58,480 --> 00:32:59,960
Speaker 3: I'm just like heartbroken for the family.

741
00:33:00,280 --> 00:33:02,880
Speaker 2: It's like, yeah, of course, but these.

742
00:33:02,640 --> 00:33:05,680
Speaker 1: Two Dingalings comeback.

743
00:33:07,360 --> 00:33:11,280
Speaker 3: N literally that's coming at them. Like obviously I feel

744
00:33:11,360 --> 00:33:15,240
Speaker 3: terrible for the families. But it's like, what a the

745
00:33:15,400 --> 00:33:19,920
Speaker 3: sweetest karma there ever was that you could wish for

746
00:33:20,000 --> 00:33:20,640
Speaker 3: someone to.

747
00:33:21,760 --> 00:33:24,240
Speaker 1: Step down resigned from his job. I don't know what's

748
00:33:24,240 --> 00:33:26,200
Speaker 1: happening with the woman, but she.

749
00:33:26,320 --> 00:33:28,120
Speaker 2: Was married or is married.

750
00:33:28,120 --> 00:33:31,080
Speaker 3: I don't know their current situation to another CEO and

751
00:33:31,160 --> 00:33:33,680
Speaker 3: someone's like, how did this woman find two cee.

752
00:33:35,520 --> 00:33:37,560
Speaker 1: And I can't even get a date on a Friday night.

753
00:33:39,800 --> 00:33:44,160
Speaker 3: But yeah, the fact that the reaction was just someone

754
00:33:44,200 --> 00:33:49,720
Speaker 3: said if they hadn't reacted, if they would have just stayed,

755
00:33:49,720 --> 00:33:50,520
Speaker 3: how they were.

756
00:33:51,760 --> 00:33:55,520
Speaker 1: Also what Dingalings go to a concert if you're having

757
00:33:55,560 --> 00:33:56,480
Speaker 1: an affair.

758
00:33:56,600 --> 00:33:59,520
Speaker 5: But isn't there kind of like anonymity with that many

759
00:33:59,520 --> 00:34:01,640
Speaker 5: people around? On you're in a place with fifteen thousand people,

760
00:34:01,760 --> 00:34:02,800
Speaker 5: don't you just blend in.

761
00:34:02,920 --> 00:34:05,240
Speaker 2: And you could just be like the company got.

762
00:34:05,040 --> 00:34:08,800
Speaker 3: A box and so sure you're go, but like, don't

763
00:34:09,000 --> 00:34:12,560
Speaker 3: do that, Yeah, don't be swaying back and forth, so with.

764
00:34:12,560 --> 00:34:16,040
Speaker 1: Your arms around each other. It's just so dumb. I

765
00:34:16,320 --> 00:34:18,000
Speaker 1: have like a theory that they've been having an affair

766
00:34:18,000 --> 00:34:20,600
Speaker 1: for a really long time. This is not a new affair,

767
00:34:21,040 --> 00:34:23,720
Speaker 1: because I feel like when you're newly having an affair,

768
00:34:23,800 --> 00:34:28,439
Speaker 1: you're like super secretive. It's like in someone's somewhere where,

769
00:34:28,560 --> 00:34:31,680
Speaker 1: like secret. When you start going to public places, that's

770
00:34:31,719 --> 00:34:34,399
Speaker 1: like you've been having this affair for like a year plus.

771
00:34:34,520 --> 00:34:35,600
Speaker 2: A little too comfortable.

772
00:34:35,800 --> 00:34:39,200
Speaker 6: Yeah, that was Amy levels of affection we saw there

773
00:34:40,560 --> 00:34:41,080
Speaker 6: for sure.

774
00:34:41,560 --> 00:34:42,680
Speaker 2: It actually thought of them.

775
00:34:42,960 --> 00:34:48,839
Speaker 3: Yeah yeah, And to get called out like that. And

776
00:34:48,840 --> 00:34:51,799
Speaker 3: then I just saw another video where Chris Martin's like, Hey,

777
00:34:52,160 --> 00:34:54,320
Speaker 3: just wanted to let y'all know, we're about to show

778
00:34:54,480 --> 00:35:00,160
Speaker 3: some couples in the audience, So we're going to have

779
00:35:00,160 --> 00:35:01,399
Speaker 3: a camera on you.

780
00:35:01,440 --> 00:35:02,520
Speaker 2: So if you're.

781
00:35:02,280 --> 00:35:05,720
Speaker 1: Also one of the odds that they pan to that couple,

782
00:35:06,239 --> 00:35:08,720
Speaker 1: Like I have tried to get on the kiss camp

783
00:35:09,080 --> 00:35:12,360
Speaker 1: every King's Game at like all these concerts that the

784
00:35:12,400 --> 00:35:15,600
Speaker 1: Jonas brothers do it too, Like I have tried very

785
00:35:15,640 --> 00:35:17,080
Speaker 1: hard to get on this kiss camp.

786
00:35:17,520 --> 00:35:19,080
Speaker 4: That's what they're thinking, what are the odds?

787
00:35:19,160 --> 00:35:23,120
Speaker 3: Yeah, but someone posted from like the floor view and

788
00:35:23,280 --> 00:35:26,360
Speaker 3: you could see the crowd and this was just a

789
00:35:26,440 --> 00:35:30,680
Speaker 3: random photo and you could see them like small.

790
00:35:30,840 --> 00:35:32,359
Speaker 2: They stuck out for some reason.

791
00:35:32,360 --> 00:35:33,239
Speaker 4: It's so well lit.

792
00:35:33,880 --> 00:35:38,359
Speaker 3: Yeah, not like maybe someone said set it up.

793
00:35:39,239 --> 00:35:41,000
Speaker 6: I like thinking that they were like really going at

794
00:35:41,000 --> 00:35:43,400
Speaker 6: it hard right before, and that's why the cameraman like

795
00:35:43,400 --> 00:35:45,399
Speaker 6: clocked like, oh look there's couple's making out.

796
00:35:45,440 --> 00:35:45,960
Speaker 1: Let's get them.

797
00:35:46,120 --> 00:35:47,560
Speaker 6: And then by the time he got to them, they

798
00:35:47,680 --> 00:35:49,960
Speaker 6: were just in the embrace. Wow, that's what I like

799
00:35:50,000 --> 00:35:50,239
Speaker 6: to think.

800
00:35:50,400 --> 00:35:54,240
Speaker 5: You see where they're doing it baseball games, the coldplay

801
00:35:54,320 --> 00:35:56,239
Speaker 5: cam they call it. Now you know they have the

802
00:35:56,280 --> 00:35:58,520
Speaker 5: kiss cam to the lion king cam when you hold

803
00:35:58,520 --> 00:36:00,440
Speaker 5: your baby up like Simba.

804
00:36:00,600 --> 00:36:02,080
Speaker 4: Now that the coplay, can they show a couple in

805
00:36:02,120 --> 00:36:02,840
Speaker 4: the couple of hides.

806
00:36:02,840 --> 00:36:05,600
Speaker 1: It's so funny, it's so good, it really is.

807
00:36:05,760 --> 00:36:08,560
Speaker 3: But also if they're really having an affair, now, it's

808
00:36:08,640 --> 00:36:11,160
Speaker 3: like are they playing the bit or is it real?

809
00:36:11,719 --> 00:36:12,160
Speaker 4: That's true?

810
00:36:12,239 --> 00:36:16,760
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's kind of scary. I was going to say.

811
00:36:16,560 --> 00:36:20,960
Speaker 3: Something about how they Oh so there was okay, so

812
00:36:21,040 --> 00:36:25,520
Speaker 3: you mentioned the daughter. There's no daughter who has accumulated

813
00:36:25,520 --> 00:36:28,640
Speaker 3: a following on TikTok. And then I saw these statements

814
00:36:28,719 --> 00:36:31,400
Speaker 3: released and I think I saw a real one and

815
00:36:31,400 --> 00:36:33,440
Speaker 3: then I think, was there no real one?

816
00:36:34,160 --> 00:36:35,040
Speaker 2: So everything's fake.

817
00:36:35,080 --> 00:36:37,200
Speaker 5: If you've seen a statement from Andy Byron, I believe

818
00:36:37,200 --> 00:36:38,839
Speaker 5: it is fake. My kids came, Dad.

819
00:36:38,840 --> 00:36:39,400
Speaker 4: You got to hear this.

820
00:36:39,440 --> 00:36:41,200
Speaker 5: You release a statement, I know, and it sounded like

821
00:36:41,200 --> 00:36:43,839
Speaker 5: a legitimate statement. But according to this morning, he has

822
00:36:43,840 --> 00:36:45,120
Speaker 5: not released any kind of statement.

823
00:36:45,160 --> 00:36:46,440
Speaker 2: What about that his wife?

824
00:36:46,840 --> 00:36:49,160
Speaker 4: I don't did she say something?

825
00:36:49,520 --> 00:36:50,160
Speaker 1: Don't look at me.

826
00:36:51,719 --> 00:36:52,399
Speaker 4: Down? Didn't he?

827
00:36:52,560 --> 00:36:57,200
Speaker 1: Yeah, he resigned on Saturday or crazy over the weekend. Bye,

828
00:36:58,040 --> 00:36:59,600
Speaker 1: hope you never get hired again.

829
00:37:00,040 --> 00:37:00,960
Speaker 4: I mean a loser.

830
00:37:01,040 --> 00:37:03,839
Speaker 6: I've never heard of astronomer before today. I think this

831
00:37:03,880 --> 00:37:05,240
Speaker 6: is adding value to the company.

832
00:37:05,560 --> 00:37:09,000
Speaker 1: Yeah, but now he's gone, so that the company's skyrocketing

833
00:37:09,040 --> 00:37:09,960
Speaker 1: and he's bye bye.

834
00:37:10,880 --> 00:37:14,520
Speaker 3: I can't imagine he's okay, but yeah, I mean, the

835
00:37:14,560 --> 00:37:20,640
Speaker 3: thing is is it was just a very embarrassing dumb.

836
00:37:20,880 --> 00:37:24,880
Speaker 1: Here's what I don't understand. Why married If you know

837
00:37:25,040 --> 00:37:29,080
Speaker 1: not one person get married. Sure, but if you want

838
00:37:29,120 --> 00:37:31,239
Speaker 1: to have an affair, and you you find somebody so

839
00:37:31,280 --> 00:37:33,560
Speaker 1: attractive and so wonderful that you're like, I want to

840
00:37:33,560 --> 00:37:36,920
Speaker 1: be with this person, why not end your marriage?

841
00:37:37,680 --> 00:37:41,719
Speaker 2: Well? Because because because I think people like I think

842
00:37:43,560 --> 00:37:46,160
Speaker 2: exactly so, especially.

843
00:37:45,680 --> 00:37:48,360
Speaker 5: When you're a ceo. Your whole life has been getting

844
00:37:48,360 --> 00:37:51,080
Speaker 5: whatever you want. You know, the thing in the life

845
00:37:51,120 --> 00:37:53,560
Speaker 5: of a ceo. If people kissing your butt all day long,

846
00:37:53,719 --> 00:37:55,840
Speaker 5: you get a massive salary and it's in your contract.

847
00:37:55,840 --> 00:37:57,560
Speaker 5: And if you get fired, you can even a bigger

848
00:37:57,719 --> 00:38:00,480
Speaker 5: massive salary and say goodbye. Like everything is the whole

849
00:38:00,520 --> 00:38:03,040
Speaker 5: world is your oyster. I can have a wife and

850
00:38:03,040 --> 00:38:05,120
Speaker 5: a mistress on the side. I'm never gonna get caught.

851
00:38:05,160 --> 00:38:07,839
Speaker 5: Nothing bad happens to me. It's a mentality. It's it's

852
00:38:07,880 --> 00:38:11,360
Speaker 5: like narcissist adjacent or maybe a branch of narcissism.

853
00:38:11,400 --> 00:38:12,839
Speaker 4: I don't know what that is, but it's real.

854
00:38:13,160 --> 00:38:14,560
Speaker 1: Yeah, definitely narcissist.

855
00:38:15,040 --> 00:38:17,160
Speaker 3: And that might not be his only he could have

856
00:38:17,200 --> 00:38:19,040
Speaker 3: been at many Coldplay concerts before.

857
00:38:20,800 --> 00:38:22,959
Speaker 1: But that's my only thing is I'm like, when people

858
00:38:22,960 --> 00:38:25,680
Speaker 1: have affairs, I'm just like, why not end your marriage?

859
00:38:25,719 --> 00:38:28,040
Speaker 5: Because Benny has to pay his ex wife half of

860
00:38:28,080 --> 00:38:33,640
Speaker 5: his earnings. His kids are distraught and torn apart. You know,

861
00:38:33,760 --> 00:38:36,120
Speaker 5: they want their They don't want to destroy their family,

862
00:38:36,320 --> 00:38:37,600
Speaker 5: they just want their side piece.

863
00:38:38,160 --> 00:38:40,640
Speaker 1: Also, Okay, well, now you destroyed your family times a

864
00:38:40,719 --> 00:38:42,920
Speaker 1: hunt and made them so public, which is.

865
00:38:43,080 --> 00:38:44,719
Speaker 4: Almost always what happens, I think, and.

866
00:38:44,719 --> 00:38:47,640
Speaker 1: You're still probably going to get divorced. So it's just

867
00:38:47,719 --> 00:38:50,840
Speaker 1: like it all ends up happening.

868
00:38:51,440 --> 00:38:54,239
Speaker 2: Yeah, the truth always comes to.

869
00:38:54,239 --> 00:38:58,799
Speaker 1: Light, ain't that the truth? Back? You know what else

870
00:38:58,840 --> 00:39:01,800
Speaker 1: happened this weekend? Charlie XX got married.

871
00:39:02,200 --> 00:39:05,560
Speaker 2: Yeah, I didn't know. Oh congrats Charlie XCX.

872
00:39:05,600 --> 00:39:06,920
Speaker 1: Did you see the photos?

873
00:39:07,360 --> 00:39:07,520
Speaker 3: Yeah?

874
00:39:07,680 --> 00:39:08,960
Speaker 2: Was it? It was like a courtroom.

875
00:39:09,200 --> 00:39:10,240
Speaker 1: Did you notice anything?

876
00:39:11,280 --> 00:39:14,200
Speaker 2: I don't think I looked that long. Oh why what

877
00:39:14,560 --> 00:39:15,680
Speaker 2: was there? Butterfly or something?

878
00:39:15,800 --> 00:39:19,680
Speaker 1: No? But I that was my reception wedding dress.

879
00:39:20,040 --> 00:39:23,080
Speaker 2: Oh really wowowal Viv West.

880
00:39:23,480 --> 00:39:23,680
Speaker 3: Yeah.

881
00:39:23,719 --> 00:39:26,600
Speaker 1: I was like, damn, me and Charlie XX have more

882
00:39:26,600 --> 00:39:27,479
Speaker 1: in common than I thought.

883
00:39:27,520 --> 00:39:34,000
Speaker 4: Does she follow you? Maybe she stole it? Maybe like that?

884
00:39:34,080 --> 00:39:37,040
Speaker 1: Yeah, I do too, but I tailored mine so it's

885
00:39:37,080 --> 00:39:39,560
Speaker 1: like a little bit different like hers. Was just like

886
00:39:39,600 --> 00:39:44,120
Speaker 1: the raw dog version yep, showing a photo.

887
00:39:44,280 --> 00:39:46,040
Speaker 6: Yeah, it's my desktop background.

888
00:39:46,040 --> 00:39:50,440
Speaker 1: So everybody kept The only reason I clocked it was

889
00:39:50,440 --> 00:39:52,120
Speaker 1: because people kept sending it to me saying, is this

890
00:39:52,120 --> 00:39:53,360
Speaker 1: the dress you weren't in a reception?

891
00:39:53,440 --> 00:39:55,800
Speaker 2: I was like, yes, after your wedding.

892
00:39:56,320 --> 00:39:59,120
Speaker 3: Brittany Mahomes, who her husband is the quarterback for the

893
00:39:59,200 --> 00:40:01,720
Speaker 3: Chiefs wore the same dress that were for your wedding

894
00:40:01,760 --> 00:40:04,600
Speaker 3: to like a bachelorette party or something, and everyone kept

895
00:40:04,640 --> 00:40:06,920
Speaker 3: sitting in there like, do you think she's always like, no,

896
00:40:07,000 --> 00:40:10,719
Speaker 3: you guys, it's on Revolve popped up as an ad

897
00:40:10,760 --> 00:40:12,160
Speaker 3: and she said, sure, no.

898
00:40:12,280 --> 00:40:14,560
Speaker 1: I like the conspiracy theory that they that they followed

899
00:40:14,560 --> 00:40:17,600
Speaker 1: you and Charlie X follows me and loves it, loved

900
00:40:17,640 --> 00:40:20,040
Speaker 1: it so much that she's like, I need that dress.

901
00:40:20,320 --> 00:40:24,399
Speaker 3: Uh huh okay, yeah, well that could have happened because

902
00:40:24,440 --> 00:40:25,239
Speaker 3: you did interview her.

903
00:40:25,520 --> 00:40:29,759
Speaker 1: Yes, many many men, many minutes ago while you were

904
00:40:30,080 --> 00:40:32,800
Speaker 1: just a baby is lead curly girl.

905
00:40:33,520 --> 00:40:37,920
Speaker 3: I was curious about this sleep, sleep and couples conversation

906
00:40:38,200 --> 00:40:41,440
Speaker 3: because I always find it interesting about like how people

907
00:40:42,600 --> 00:40:46,040
Speaker 3: how couples sleep, and how that affects their relationship and

908
00:40:46,040 --> 00:40:47,760
Speaker 3: how if people do certain things.

909
00:40:48,360 --> 00:40:51,640
Speaker 1: I think being sleep compatible is like a huge thing.

910
00:40:52,640 --> 00:40:56,400
Speaker 3: But when you first started, like when you and Robbie

911
00:40:56,400 --> 00:41:00,279
Speaker 3: first started sleeping together, did you sleep well or did

912
00:41:00,440 --> 00:41:03,040
Speaker 3: was it like an adjustment from going from like only

913
00:41:03,080 --> 00:41:04,160
Speaker 3: sleeping by yourself to.

914
00:41:04,600 --> 00:41:06,560
Speaker 1: Oh, oh, I see what you're saying. I thought you

915
00:41:06,600 --> 00:41:07,040
Speaker 1: meant like.

916
00:41:07,280 --> 00:41:08,839
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, we're going to get into that. But I'm

917
00:41:08,840 --> 00:41:10,200
Speaker 2: saying it was an adjustment.

918
00:41:10,239 --> 00:41:13,839
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, because whether no matter who it is,

919
00:41:13,880 --> 00:41:16,320
Speaker 3: no matter how compatible you are, you have to adjust

920
00:41:16,360 --> 00:41:17,799
Speaker 3: having another body in the bed.

921
00:41:17,960 --> 00:41:19,520
Speaker 1: Correct, and you.

922
00:41:19,600 --> 00:41:21,040
Speaker 4: Kept for him in your bed.

923
00:41:21,760 --> 00:41:26,000
Speaker 1: Thank you, thank you for the reminder. Yes, it wasn't

924
00:41:26,000 --> 00:41:28,239
Speaker 1: a space issue. I also don't move around much. I

925
00:41:28,360 --> 00:41:30,799
Speaker 1: take up like a little slipper. It's more of the

926
00:41:31,760 --> 00:41:33,240
Speaker 1: when they're tossing and turning.

927
00:41:33,400 --> 00:41:33,520
Speaker 4: Right.

928
00:41:34,120 --> 00:41:37,880
Speaker 1: The emotion is what was disruptive. Now it doesn't bother me.

929
00:41:37,920 --> 00:41:40,360
Speaker 1: But yes, in the beginning it was like tough.

930
00:41:40,480 --> 00:41:41,680
Speaker 2: Does he have a lot of emotion?

931
00:41:41,960 --> 00:41:46,160
Speaker 1: A lot emotional? You do legs ou legs, flip flap,

932
00:41:46,200 --> 00:41:49,160
Speaker 1: flip flop, goes pee three times a day, three times

933
00:41:49,200 --> 00:41:49,480
Speaker 1: a night.

934
00:41:50,440 --> 00:41:53,080
Speaker 2: But his shoulders are cozy with his shirt on. Correct.

935
00:41:59,280 --> 00:42:03,040
Speaker 1: Anytime I any stories from inside my bed, people are

936
00:42:03,040 --> 00:42:05,000
Speaker 1: like knowing that he's whinning's clombing right now, it just

937
00:42:05,880 --> 00:42:06,640
Speaker 1: so much better.

938
00:42:08,239 --> 00:42:12,080
Speaker 3: You know, I don't go there, and now I'm unfortunately

939
00:42:12,200 --> 00:42:13,680
Speaker 3: gonna go thearing that I will.

940
00:42:13,840 --> 00:42:16,600
Speaker 1: Yeah, what about you, it's probably hard for you.

941
00:42:17,040 --> 00:42:18,680
Speaker 2: Yeah, it was, but.

942
00:42:19,400 --> 00:42:23,680
Speaker 3: More so because I felt like when I first because

943
00:42:23,760 --> 00:42:25,439
Speaker 3: Haley and I met, and then she went on tour,

944
00:42:25,560 --> 00:42:29,359
Speaker 3: so I like didn't even have to adjust right off

945
00:42:29,360 --> 00:42:34,239
Speaker 3: the bat. So then when she was like home, it

946
00:42:34,360 --> 00:42:36,000
Speaker 3: was just an adjustment to having someone in the bed.

947
00:42:36,000 --> 00:42:38,200
Speaker 3: But I also was like falling in love for the

948
00:42:38,200 --> 00:42:40,560
Speaker 3: first time, so I was like jittering and couldn't sleep anyway,

949
00:42:40,600 --> 00:42:41,279
Speaker 3: so it didn't matter.

950
00:42:42,600 --> 00:42:43,239
Speaker 2: Oh my god, you.

951
00:42:43,200 --> 00:42:44,680
Speaker 4: Guys, that's sweet.

952
00:42:44,840 --> 00:42:48,880
Speaker 1: I'm sorry, yes, so sweet thing.

953
00:42:49,280 --> 00:42:50,919
Speaker 2: There was like a lot of reasons why I wasn't

954
00:42:50,960 --> 00:42:51,480
Speaker 2: like sleeping.

955
00:42:51,520 --> 00:42:53,279
Speaker 5: Well, but is it the only time you've ever been

956
00:42:53,280 --> 00:42:57,040
Speaker 5: in love? You think, yeah, wow, wow, that is fantastic.

957
00:42:57,520 --> 00:42:58,680
Speaker 1: It's crazy, right.

958
00:42:58,840 --> 00:43:02,400
Speaker 3: I think I had so many guards up my whole life,

959
00:43:02,440 --> 00:43:05,000
Speaker 3: like walls and stuff, and I think, especially growing up

960
00:43:05,040 --> 00:43:07,640
Speaker 3: in like purity culture, it was like letting anyone in

961
00:43:07,680 --> 00:43:10,400
Speaker 3: and physically or emotionally felt like a threat. So I

962
00:43:10,440 --> 00:43:13,760
Speaker 3: think I never even gave like my relationship with Robert

963
00:43:13,880 --> 00:43:16,040
Speaker 3: or anyone like a chance to go there because I

964
00:43:16,080 --> 00:43:17,439
Speaker 3: was just like so shut down.

965
00:43:17,520 --> 00:43:21,160
Speaker 2: So I think Haley a lot of walls came down.

966
00:43:21,160 --> 00:43:21,960
Speaker 2: But also.

967
00:43:23,680 --> 00:43:28,120
Speaker 3: I let myself like emotionally go there with her with someone,

968
00:43:28,360 --> 00:43:30,279
Speaker 3: and I think I felt, you know, safe to do that,

969
00:43:30,400 --> 00:43:32,520
Speaker 3: not that like what she.

970
00:43:32,640 --> 00:43:34,120
Speaker 1: Talks with her hands a lot more. I don't know

971
00:43:34,160 --> 00:43:38,279
Speaker 1: if you guys notice this, but the ring hand is getting.

972
00:43:38,040 --> 00:43:40,600
Speaker 2: A lot I think you noticed.

973
00:43:40,680 --> 00:43:42,799
Speaker 3: I think I always talk with my hands, but you're

974
00:43:43,000 --> 00:43:45,160
Speaker 3: every time Tanya sees me, she's like, wow, I'm just

975
00:43:45,160 --> 00:43:47,919
Speaker 3: not used to you with the ring on. But anyways, Yeah,

976
00:43:47,920 --> 00:43:51,080
Speaker 3: I definitely feel like Tony's.

977
00:43:49,960 --> 00:43:50,480
Speaker 2: The first one.

978
00:43:52,000 --> 00:43:52,760
Speaker 1: I'm so honored.

979
00:43:53,320 --> 00:43:56,400
Speaker 3: The first time I let my guard down was with Tanya.

980
00:43:56,920 --> 00:43:59,279
Speaker 3: But yeah, we have a very like now, if she

981
00:43:59,360 --> 00:44:01,040
Speaker 3: goes away to work for a long time, I have

982
00:44:01,120 --> 00:44:03,360
Speaker 3: to adjust sleeping alone, and then I get used to

983
00:44:03,360 --> 00:44:05,480
Speaker 3: sleeping alone, and then she comes back and have to

984
00:44:05,520 --> 00:44:08,040
Speaker 3: readjust so I just have to adapt, you know.

985
00:44:08,120 --> 00:44:11,000
Speaker 1: Yeah, if there's anything that you are, it's adaptable.

986
00:44:11,160 --> 00:44:13,680
Speaker 2: Well thank you. That's a really nice close.

987
00:44:13,600 --> 00:44:14,640
Speaker 1: Roll with the punches.

988
00:44:14,680 --> 00:44:17,239
Speaker 2: Thank you. Yeah, I try. That's what happens when you

989
00:44:17,239 --> 00:44:21,560
Speaker 2: grow up with a lot of kids in a family. Yes, well,

990
00:44:21,560 --> 00:44:23,720
Speaker 2: I think you either learn to roll.

991
00:44:23,520 --> 00:44:25,840
Speaker 3: The punches or you grow up and you're because you

992
00:44:25,880 --> 00:44:28,320
Speaker 3: had to roll the punches, you are like I need

993
00:44:28,680 --> 00:44:29,680
Speaker 3: structure and control.

994
00:44:29,760 --> 00:44:30,640
Speaker 2: But I didn't go that way.

995
00:44:30,719 --> 00:44:31,000
Speaker 1: M hm.

996
00:44:31,280 --> 00:44:32,560
Speaker 2: I just kept on.

997
00:44:33,120 --> 00:44:33,920
Speaker 1: Kept on keeping on.

998
00:44:34,000 --> 00:44:37,759
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, we have a headline here that

999
00:44:37,840 --> 00:44:40,680
Speaker 3: says Alison Bree cutting day Frank ghost toenails. But I

1000
00:44:40,719 --> 00:44:42,600
Speaker 3: just don't know that that's something I'm trying to get

1001
00:44:42,640 --> 00:44:43,520
Speaker 3: into Monday.

1002
00:44:43,640 --> 00:44:46,640
Speaker 5: Yeah, well, I guess it was just a publicity stunt.

1003
00:44:46,680 --> 00:44:48,839
Speaker 4: Is that the deal? The movie is about a codependent

1004
00:44:48,840 --> 00:44:52,560
Speaker 4: couples so together. Yeah, so I don't think it was real.

1005
00:44:53,440 --> 00:44:57,239
Speaker 3: Oh something that says this feels like something tong you

1006
00:44:57,280 --> 00:44:58,800
Speaker 3: would have no problem doing.

1007
00:44:59,160 --> 00:45:00,839
Speaker 4: As producer Sam his opinion, I.

1008
00:45:00,800 --> 00:45:02,399
Speaker 1: Would not if he needed help.

1009
00:45:07,760 --> 00:45:10,240
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, you have a hangnail.

1010
00:45:11,440 --> 00:45:14,480
Speaker 1: I don't mind. When Robbie broke his ribs and he

1011
00:45:14,640 --> 00:45:18,759
Speaker 1: like really could barely do anything, I was like, am

1012
00:45:18,760 --> 00:45:20,719
Speaker 1: I gonna have to take you to the bathroom? And

1013
00:45:20,760 --> 00:45:22,319
Speaker 1: he was like that's just like a line that I

1014
00:45:22,360 --> 00:45:24,880
Speaker 1: will not cross, and I was like, I'm happy to

1015
00:45:24,920 --> 00:45:26,520
Speaker 1: do it. Wow, I did not.

1016
00:45:27,239 --> 00:45:30,799
Speaker 2: No, that's so nice. Yeah, I believe it.

1017
00:45:31,200 --> 00:45:32,239
Speaker 1: I would do it for you too.

1018
00:45:32,719 --> 00:45:36,280
Speaker 2: I believe it. I think. Yeah, you've offered I think

1019
00:45:37,520 --> 00:45:41,040
Speaker 2: to do some things.

1020
00:45:41,719 --> 00:45:43,680
Speaker 3: But in your past when it was like trying to

1021
00:45:43,680 --> 00:45:45,720
Speaker 3: help someone learn how to use a tampon or something

1022
00:45:47,200 --> 00:45:50,160
Speaker 3: mental cup, Oh yeah, happy to Yeah, yeah, that's what

1023
00:45:50,200 --> 00:45:50,880
Speaker 3: she was offering.

1024
00:45:51,040 --> 00:45:55,440
Speaker 2: To gotcha. Yeah, don't need a video, don't need tentorial.

1025
00:45:56,000 --> 00:45:57,279
Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, but.

1026
00:45:57,320 --> 00:45:59,960
Speaker 3: We all appreciate your willingness, and I just have to

1027
00:46:00,200 --> 00:46:03,000
Speaker 3: say your service. I read all these comments on the

1028
00:46:03,040 --> 00:46:05,600
Speaker 3: Facebook group of like, I just wish I had a

1029
00:46:05,600 --> 00:46:06,400
Speaker 3: friend like Tanya.

1030
00:46:06,480 --> 00:46:07,480
Speaker 2: She's the best friend.

1031
00:46:07,560 --> 00:46:09,600
Speaker 3: And I just want you to feel encouraged to know

1032
00:46:09,680 --> 00:46:12,560
Speaker 3: that you're such a wonderful friend and everyone loves you.

1033
00:46:12,760 --> 00:46:15,040
Speaker 1: Thank you. I thought, a little beaten down. I feel

1034
00:46:15,040 --> 00:46:16,920
Speaker 1: a little beaten down sometimes from the Facebook.

1035
00:46:17,600 --> 00:46:18,480
Speaker 2: From the Facebook group.

1036
00:46:18,600 --> 00:46:22,160
Speaker 3: Yeah, interesting because I think I see what comes to

1037
00:46:22,239 --> 00:46:24,880
Speaker 3: the top for me are like how much they love you.

1038
00:46:25,200 --> 00:46:27,680
Speaker 1: I've seen the love recently and it's very very nice. Okay,

1039
00:46:27,760 --> 00:46:29,600
Speaker 1: but there was a period there where it was just

1040
00:46:29,680 --> 00:46:37,520
Speaker 1: like slamzilla about you. Yes, what I'm annoying? I talk

1041
00:46:37,640 --> 00:46:39,799
Speaker 1: too much? Blah blah blah, no.

1042
00:46:41,040 --> 00:46:46,640
Speaker 2: Positive, Oh yeah, God, just let let me be me,

1043
00:46:47,600 --> 00:46:49,120
Speaker 2: let her be her.

1044
00:46:49,440 --> 00:46:49,840
Speaker 1: Yeah.

1045
00:46:50,200 --> 00:46:52,919
Speaker 2: If not only me, that's right, that there will ever

1046
00:46:52,960 --> 00:46:53,520
Speaker 2: be Yes.

1047
00:46:54,640 --> 00:47:03,759
Speaker 1: Isn't that the key to being happy? Happy? That's that

1048
00:47:03,880 --> 00:47:07,120
Speaker 1: is my affirmation. I am the only me? What was it?

1049
00:47:08,080 --> 00:47:10,880
Speaker 1: I am the only that will ever be Isn't that

1050
00:47:10,920 --> 00:47:16,440
Speaker 1: the key to being happy? Somebody gave me my children's book.

1051
00:47:17,920 --> 00:47:19,400
Speaker 2: That's a good next venture for you.

1052
00:47:19,800 --> 00:47:21,680
Speaker 4: Yeah, good kids book.

1053
00:47:21,800 --> 00:47:25,879
Speaker 2: Yea Robbie can do the drawings. You could draw it?

1054
00:47:26,239 --> 00:47:30,640
Speaker 2: Who could do it together? That's cute.

1055
00:47:31,080 --> 00:47:31,279
Speaker 3: You know.

1056
00:47:31,320 --> 00:47:34,799
Speaker 1: Actually a friend of mine was saying that they're she's

1057
00:47:34,840 --> 00:47:36,399
Speaker 1: actually not you know, you say, a friend of mine.

1058
00:47:36,440 --> 00:47:37,359
Speaker 1: I met this woman one.

1059
00:47:39,880 --> 00:47:40,759
Speaker 4: Yeah, we got deep.

1060
00:47:40,760 --> 00:47:43,200
Speaker 1: We got deep in this one meeting. But she met

1061
00:47:43,239 --> 00:47:45,360
Speaker 1: her step son when he was a baby, so she

1062
00:47:45,400 --> 00:47:48,080
Speaker 1: basically has been with him since he was literally born.

1063
00:47:48,280 --> 00:47:50,240
Speaker 1: So she was like, I would read him these children's

1064
00:47:50,239 --> 00:47:52,520
Speaker 1: books that you have for like kids, and it's all

1065
00:47:52,560 --> 00:47:55,480
Speaker 1: like mommy loves you, Daddy loves you. And she's like,

1066
00:47:55,520 --> 00:47:57,360
Speaker 1: and I'm the stepmom, you know what I mean. And

1067
00:47:57,360 --> 00:47:59,239
Speaker 1: so she's like, there's not a lot at the time

1068
00:47:59,360 --> 00:48:01,480
Speaker 1: this was I think he's probably thirteen now or something,

1069
00:48:01,520 --> 00:48:04,879
Speaker 1: but there weren't a lot of books that shed light

1070
00:48:04,960 --> 00:48:09,759
Speaker 1: on like modern families. So maybe something to dabble in

1071
00:48:09,800 --> 00:48:10,040
Speaker 1: for me.

1072
00:48:10,560 --> 00:48:13,200
Speaker 2: Maybe there's some a market gap in the market for.

1073
00:48:13,160 --> 00:48:15,000
Speaker 1: That, maybe, but that was a long time ago. I'm

1074
00:48:15,000 --> 00:48:17,319
Speaker 1: sure there was a ton now. But I was like,

1075
00:48:17,360 --> 00:48:18,880
Speaker 1: oh my gosh, that's like so crazy.

1076
00:48:19,680 --> 00:48:22,840
Speaker 2: Nothing like yours, though, there's nothing else that like what

1077
00:48:22,920 --> 00:48:23,520
Speaker 2: yours would be.

1078
00:48:23,560 --> 00:48:27,600
Speaker 1: Exactly because that's the only me that is not the

1079
00:48:27,680 --> 00:48:30,160
Speaker 1: key to being happy.

1080
00:48:30,600 --> 00:48:33,879
Speaker 3: We have a Dear Bonnie episode this week, so this

1081
00:48:33,960 --> 00:48:36,440
Speaker 3: is not the last you'll be hearing from us, but nobody.

1082
00:48:37,400 --> 00:48:37,719
Speaker 4: We do.

1083
00:48:37,800 --> 00:48:39,840
Speaker 2: Hope you have a wonderful week, and we love you.

1084
00:48:39,920 --> 00:48:41,239
Speaker 2: Somebody love you.

1085
00:48:41,400 --> 00:48:42,160
Speaker 1: Bye.