1
00:00:00,840 --> 00:00:06,080
Speaker 1: Now from Unbreakable, a mental health podcast. This is your

2
00:00:06,120 --> 00:00:11,480
Speaker 1: mental health check in. Here's Jay Glazer. Really cool shit

3
00:00:11,560 --> 00:00:14,000
Speaker 1: will happen. And I'll go like, like when you're we're

4
00:00:14,080 --> 00:00:17,599
Speaker 1: hosting the Emmy's pre show, and like, you gotta be

5
00:00:17,680 --> 00:00:20,960
Speaker 1: fucking kid me. We are hosting I'm gonna desk. We're

6
00:00:21,239 --> 00:00:24,400
Speaker 1: finishing off a game Cowboys Eagles. We are the last

7
00:00:24,400 --> 00:00:27,600
Speaker 1: desk on the at the Emmy's red carpet. We finish

8
00:00:27,680 --> 00:00:30,160
Speaker 1: up the pre show and then we throw it inside

9
00:00:30,600 --> 00:00:33,239
Speaker 1: to the host of the Emmys to kick off the

10
00:00:33,240 --> 00:00:35,640
Speaker 1: Emmy's and we're like at the time and I'm sitting

11
00:00:35,680 --> 00:00:38,000
Speaker 1: there and Harry Long has amen. I know we're supposed

12
00:00:38,000 --> 00:00:40,239
Speaker 1: to act like we've been there before, but funk that

13
00:00:40,440 --> 00:00:47,280
Speaker 1: I haven't. This ship is cool. You know, I need

14
00:00:47,320 --> 00:00:49,960
Speaker 1: you with my kindred spirit. Here's why I go the

15
00:00:50,040 --> 00:00:52,199
Speaker 1: MTV Awards. I'm like, everyone's like when you go in

16
00:00:52,280 --> 00:00:55,280
Speaker 1: the rict, you know they're trying to a public. I go,

17
00:00:55,680 --> 00:00:57,280
Speaker 1: I don't listen. If you ever talk to me, I

18
00:00:57,280 --> 00:00:59,400
Speaker 1: don't know a sound bite. I just I just kind

19
00:00:59,400 --> 00:01:02,560
Speaker 1: of talk and and if it works right, if it doesn't,

20
00:01:02,600 --> 00:01:06,040
Speaker 1: then that friendship roles. You know, we become acquaintances instead

21
00:01:06,080 --> 00:01:08,400
Speaker 1: of friends, right, And I go there like, well, you

22
00:01:08,480 --> 00:01:10,160
Speaker 1: gotta act like you've been here before. And I go,

23
00:01:10,480 --> 00:01:14,720
Speaker 1: I never been here before. And I don't want to

24
00:01:14,720 --> 00:01:16,560
Speaker 1: act like I've been there before. Yeah, I don't want

25
00:01:16,560 --> 00:01:19,720
Speaker 1: to act too cool for school. I want to always

26
00:01:18,560 --> 00:01:22,520
Speaker 1: be it. I said, I never gonna put the nero.

27
00:01:23,040 --> 00:01:24,840
Speaker 1: I will never put the nero out of work. My

28
00:01:24,920 --> 00:01:28,760
Speaker 1: acting sucks, I said, reality, I can do this, you know.

29
00:01:29,080 --> 00:01:31,600
Speaker 1: So I just went in there and said I was

30
00:01:31,840 --> 00:01:34,640
Speaker 1: walking over talking to people, hugging him on the carpet.

31
00:01:34,720 --> 00:01:36,920
Speaker 1: I'm like, how are you doing? And it It ended

32
00:01:37,000 --> 00:01:40,160
Speaker 1: up making some great friendships. But I couldn't help but smile.

33
00:01:40,360 --> 00:01:43,240
Speaker 1: But that's the authenticity, man, which makes you so relatable

34
00:01:43,280 --> 00:01:46,440
Speaker 1: as you always continue to build on yourself and building yourself.

35
00:01:46,560 --> 00:01:49,720
Speaker 1: If you're authentic, especially a day where everything in social

36
00:01:49,720 --> 00:01:52,160
Speaker 1: media now is so filtered and so fake, they're more

37
00:01:52,200 --> 00:01:56,160
Speaker 1: authentic you are. People just gravitate towards you. Here's the thing.

38
00:01:56,200 --> 00:02:00,400
Speaker 1: First of all, thank you, you're right, And I don't

39
00:02:00,520 --> 00:02:03,320
Speaker 1: mean myself. I will tell people this. I say this

40
00:02:03,400 --> 00:02:06,080
Speaker 1: to my kids, I say this to my family. I

41
00:02:06,160 --> 00:02:09,760
Speaker 1: never have to look over my shoulder. If I'm authentic,

42
00:02:09,840 --> 00:02:13,040
Speaker 1: if I'm since dear and passionate, I never have to

43
00:02:13,080 --> 00:02:16,720
Speaker 1: look over my shoulder. And it's a great feeling because

44
00:02:16,800 --> 00:02:19,519
Speaker 1: I feel like I'm living. I'm enjoying the here and now.

45
00:02:19,960 --> 00:02:24,160
Speaker 1: But always mentally, I'm gonna speak for you. We're always

46
00:02:24,200 --> 00:02:27,400
Speaker 1: pushing forward. We want to move the gate forward, you know,

47
00:02:27,639 --> 00:02:31,400
Speaker 1: faster and more stuff, whether it's out of fear or

48
00:02:31,600 --> 00:02:34,880
Speaker 1: taking that fear and turning it into success. And I'll

49
00:02:34,960 --> 00:02:37,880
Speaker 1: leave you with one note for any listener who's feeling

50
00:02:38,240 --> 00:02:41,079
Speaker 1: down right, I just want to say this having a moment,

51
00:02:41,160 --> 00:02:43,960
Speaker 1: let's call it. The most important thing is to remember

52
00:02:44,000 --> 00:02:49,000
Speaker 1: if you try, there is no such thing as absolute failure.

53
00:02:49,080 --> 00:02:52,600
Speaker 1: There's just lesser successes. If I played you the amount

54
00:02:52,600 --> 00:02:55,680
Speaker 1: of songs I have on my phone that became, I

55
00:02:55,720 --> 00:02:57,480
Speaker 1: thought they were the greatest things in the world. They

56
00:02:57,480 --> 00:03:00,640
Speaker 1: were just lesser success as one of them. We have

57
00:03:00,720 --> 00:03:03,200
Speaker 1: the new song there with me. Back in the day,

58
00:03:03,240 --> 00:03:05,520
Speaker 1: I barely put it out as like a flash release.

59
00:03:05,560 --> 00:03:07,600
Speaker 1: I just I said, just throw it out. I spending

60
00:03:07,680 --> 00:03:10,200
Speaker 1: months building up I'm a rock or it's either going

61
00:03:10,240 --> 00:03:13,320
Speaker 1: to hit or it isn't, and it blew up because

62
00:03:13,360 --> 00:03:16,080
Speaker 1: people relate are relating to it. But then I have

63
00:03:16,160 --> 00:03:18,679
Speaker 1: some I think are the greatest songs ever and they

64
00:03:18,760 --> 00:03:21,760
Speaker 1: just missed. But instead of getting bummed, I felt that

65
00:03:21,880 --> 00:03:24,000
Speaker 1: I laid it on the line and I did the

66
00:03:24,040 --> 00:03:25,080
Speaker 1: best I could