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Speaker 3: My fiance sided with my estranged family, so I called

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Speaker 3: off our engagement. We gotta pick a side one day,

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Speaker 3: well said throwaway account. I appreciate it if you would

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Speaker 3: give me your honest opinion as I'm being pressured from

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Speaker 3: everyone except my aunt to go against my wish. I'm

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Speaker 3: a thirty year old woman. I've been with my fiance

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Speaker 3: Sarah for the last five years. We are the same

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Speaker 3: age and we met at grad school. By the way,

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Speaker 3: this comes from user alternative tale sixty nine ten on

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Speaker 3: the r slash okay Storytime subreddit. So when I was thirteen,

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Speaker 3: my loving dad passed away. He left a decent amount

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Speaker 3: of money for us. My mom within six months got

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Speaker 3: engaged to a guy named Bob. Bob had a daughter

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Speaker 3: around my age. My mom married Bob within a year

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Speaker 3: of my dad's passing. Bob really hated me from the

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Speaker 3: start and didn't even try to hide it. He was

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Speaker 3: saying stuff like how my mom should have sent me

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Speaker 3: to Barting school, now, if it wasn't because of my

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Speaker 3: dad's inheritance, he wouldn't even have me in his house,

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Speaker 3: or I'm a gay sler because I was in our

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Speaker 3: school sports team and very athletic. He multiple times told

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Speaker 3: my mom he doesn't feel safe when his daughter is

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Speaker 3: around me. I wasn't even out of the closet, yet

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Speaker 3: he used this as a reason to exclude me pretty

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Speaker 3: much from everything.

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Speaker 2: Oh.

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Speaker 3: My mom, on the other hand, was going above and

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Speaker 3: beyond to prove to Bob that she is the new

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Speaker 3: mom for Bob's little princess. Oh boy, they ended up

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Speaker 3: having three more kids to.

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Speaker 4: Prove a point.

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Speaker 3: I guess I don't know. This feels like very bad

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Speaker 3: dynamic between Opie's mom and Bob.

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: Basically, I was a roommate who did babysitting for my

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Speaker 3: party or a special day. My dad's sister was amazing

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Speaker 3: to me. I was at their place all the time.

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Speaker 3: She and her family had birthday celebrations for me, and

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Speaker 3: my mom was making excuses not to show up, and

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Speaker 3: of course the rest of them never showed up either.

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Speaker 3: I was really my aunt and uncle's daughter. They were

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Speaker 3: amazing to me. When I left for university, I contacted

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Speaker 3: my mom a few times, but she was always busy,

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Speaker 3: so I just gave up. Here is the issue. Sarah,

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Speaker 3: my fiance comes from a very family oriented background. Family

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Speaker 3: is everything to her. Her family asked about mine. I said,

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Speaker 3: her family and lives across the country. She lives one

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Speaker 3: hour drive away from us. But this is what Sarah

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Speaker 3: told them, so I just didn't correct them. I didn't

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Speaker 3: lie technically entirely. Sarah asked me to invite my family

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Speaker 3: to our wedding. I told her no. She said that

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Speaker 3: it's very embarrassing having only my aunt and her family

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Speaker 3: on my side, so I reluctantly invited my mom. She

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Speaker 3: them all. I told her.

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Speaker 4: No, dude, Yeah, good job, Opie. So the couple is

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Speaker 4: saying you need to do this.

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Speaker 3: I think her partner just said, you gotta invite your family.

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Speaker 3: It's like it's gonna look weird.

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Speaker 2: Dude.

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Speaker 4: I don't know. I don't know how I feel about that.

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Speaker 3: No, I'm definitely not giving that apology, that's for sure.

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Speaker 4: If the stepdad was towards Obi, you want that at

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Speaker 4: your marriage?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, absolutely not. She said that I'm being ungrateful and

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Speaker 3: Bob was a father figure to me. Oh brother. I

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Speaker 3: had a big argument with my mom over this. My

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Speaker 3: the other hand, don't want to let my fiance down. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: OPI I'd argue that your fiance is letting you down

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Speaker 3: right now. Oh yeah, yeah, by not, you know, fiance

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Speaker 3: is being too narrow minded or like, well, she's got

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Speaker 3: Maybe that might be a good idea. Maybe that's like

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Speaker 3: my family so my fiance will be happy. I suggested eloping,

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Speaker 3: but Sarah is a firm no on that. Am I

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Speaker 3: the a hole for ruining my fiance's day by not

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Speaker 3: fulfilling her wish? Honestly, if having these people who don't

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Speaker 3: care about you at your wedding just for optic reasons, yeah,

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Speaker 3: ruins the wedding for your fiance. I don't even think

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Speaker 3: be getting married for optics. Sarah knows everything about my life.

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Speaker 3: My aunt even talked to her about how they treated

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Speaker 3: me when I was growing up. So there's now no contacts.

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Speaker 3: Sarah knows, she knows. Sarah knows everything at a number two.

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Speaker 3: I will have a serious talk with Sarah tonight and

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Speaker 3: I'll try to update soon. And we got the up day.

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Speaker 4: Oh no, I think Sarah's still gonna push for the

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Speaker 4: optics because this is what her big day was always

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Speaker 4: supposed to look like. Yeah, and doesn't meet OPI where

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Speaker 4: she is and Opie knows her along on the sand

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Speaker 4: let's find out.

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Speaker 3: Thank you for your comments and dms. They really gave

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Speaker 3: me perspective on my life. I sat Sarah down last

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Speaker 3: night and explained my reasoning for not inviting my family.

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Speaker 3: She kept saying that was a long time ago, they

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Speaker 3: might not be the same people anymore. I felt offended

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Speaker 3: and said, how on earth are you lecturing me when

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Speaker 3: you've never even met them, which that's also very fair.

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Speaker 4: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: So it turned out my mother had been in touch

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Speaker 3: with Sarah.

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Speaker 2: Oh.

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Speaker 3: Sarah said they regularly meet for coffee dates and talk.

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Speaker 4: Oh no, oh no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no no.

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Speaker 3: I was about to cry because I was so angry.

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Speaker 3: My mom changed the whole narrative, saying Bob was a

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Speaker 3: me who didn't love him back, because apparently it's my

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Speaker 3: thing to play the victim. Oh no, she claimed, my

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Speaker 3: it's all about my mother. I screamed, are you for real?

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Speaker 3: Ask her no next time on your little coffee day.

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Speaker 3: Why I never had a birthday party growing up? And

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Speaker 3: why was there never a gift under the tree for me?

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Speaker 3: Ask Bob if he even knows when my birthday is?

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Speaker 3: Since he's such a loving dad. Oh my gosh, why

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Speaker 3: Because Bob wanted to spend the holiday with his kids

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Speaker 3: and not another man's mistake.

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Speaker 4: Oh my gosh.

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Speaker 3: You're dropping the bombs on her.

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Speaker 4: Holy count and she needs it, Sarah. I understand meeting

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Speaker 4: the mom once without letting opino, but regularly that's red flack.

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Speaker 3: I mean, yeah, it's you know, all the contexts, but

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Speaker 3: she's so family oriented. She's like, there's gotta be something

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Speaker 3: else here. Oh yeah, and then little miss family oriented

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Speaker 3: is getting hyper manipulated by Ope's mom. Sarah basically repeated

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Speaker 3: what my mom has told me my whole life. You

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Speaker 3: just love to make a big deal out of everything,

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Speaker 3: make yourself a victim, and push everyone away.

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Speaker 3: I told her she had no right contacting my mom.

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Speaker 3: She said I was cruel and claimed that she was

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Speaker 3: just trying to help me mend my broken relationship. She

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Speaker 3: even called my mom lovely and said Bob has changed

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Speaker 3: a lot. He's now an LGBTQ ally now that his

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Speaker 4: Maybe Bob should then call you and apologize. Yeah, Bob

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Speaker 4: needs to take a little initiative. Yeah, how about you

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Speaker 4: come out with an apology.

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Speaker 3: I was floored an ally, Well, maybe he should start

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Speaker 3: by apologizing to me for terrorizing my entire childhood. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: but you'll never need to apologize to us for terrorizing us.

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Speaker 3: there is a chance, you know, I mean maybe sometimes

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Speaker 3: you know, dating somebody who's like, you know, like reminiscent

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Speaker 3: of like a toxic figure in your life or something.

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Speaker 3: So either that's what happened to Op and Sarah ended

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Speaker 3: up being another toxic addition to her sort of you know,

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Speaker 3: inner circle or ohp, he's actually an unreliable narrator and

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Speaker 3: her girlfriend is trying to mend the bridge. But I

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Speaker 3: I highly doubt that there's no.

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Speaker 4: Zero one one point zero zero zero one percent chance.

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Speaker 3: I just I find it hard to believe too that

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Speaker 3: But also I guess I don't know, like after you

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Speaker 4: Imagine the mom is Betty White in her sixties and

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Speaker 4: she's that nice. That's probably what the game she's pulling

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Speaker 3: Oh, she's just a mess. She's a straight up master manipulator.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, sweetest face ever, sweet tongue to go along with

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Speaker 4: the line, I believe that.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I believe it. That's what I'm thinking that. I

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Speaker 3: think you're right on the money, dude. I think she's

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Speaker 3: got the silver tongue. Oh he's changed. He would never

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Speaker 3: say that about Ope, his own daughter's gay. Now Yeah,

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Speaker 3: it's like, oh, well did he call hr slurs? Yeah?

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Speaker 4: Why wasn't the partner asking these kind of questions because

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Speaker 4: I would be in full productive motive like that happened

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Speaker 3: Yeah, you know what, And it's weird for her demand upfront,

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Speaker 4: Ooh, maybe there's a little bit of financial we'll pay

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Speaker 4: for the wedding if you get us in contact with OPI,

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Speaker 4: which I thought that this would make sense if it

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Speaker 4: was a hetero couple, because the family would want to

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Speaker 4: come back in and be like, oh, they're about to

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Speaker 4: have kids. Yeah, I want grandchildren in my life. I'm

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Speaker 4: not really sure what the mom's motives here is so

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Speaker 4: she can have attention on her big day. I'm confused

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Speaker 4: on that end. What does the mom want out of this?

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Speaker 2: I don't know.

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Speaker 3: It's so hard to say. The inner mechinations of her

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Speaker 3: mind is an enigma. I told Sarah, we're done, all right,

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Speaker 3: good for you, op all right, I can't do this.

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Speaker 3: Sarah sarcastically said, you just proved your moum's point. Go

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Speaker 3: run to your aunt. Let that old witch ruin your life.

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Speaker 3: I told her she needs to find a new place

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Speaker 3: as soon as possible, considering she's not paying rent.

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Speaker 4: Oh wow, I am, And here come the red flags

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Speaker 4: My fiance's prenup demands are unfair. I don't see myself

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Speaker 4: I female thirty seven, recently got a lump sum for

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Speaker 4: So we've been together for four years. I met him

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Speaker 4: deals with loss prevention, and I've seen people get into lawsuits.

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Speaker 4: We get drafted a plan, but had some tints moments.

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Speaker 4: which would have been okay, except that he never told

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Speaker 4: and I'd rather stay unmarried. I had built that company

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Speaker 4: I started it. I will not create a trust fund

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Speaker 3: How are you gonna switch up like that? You're gonna

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Speaker 3: You're gonna be like, yeah, oh, we agree, this is

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Speaker 3: because he's like, well, on principle, he should do that,

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Speaker 3: because don't you love me and you.

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Speaker 2: Love my kid.

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Speaker 4: I did agree to help her financially, give her an

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Speaker 3: Yeah, so already going above and beyond in terms of

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Speaker 3: Yeah he's just being greedy about it.

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Speaker 4: Yeah he's like, oh, I'm not financially able to do this,

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Speaker 4: I offered to contribute to a fund for her first home,

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Speaker 4: not like she depends on me to have a good life.

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Speaker 4: I wanted it to be fair since her mom, Sean

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Speaker 5: What.

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Speaker 4: I lost my temper because it felt like a gotcha situation.

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Speaker 4: This is kidding.

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Speaker 4: Approximately, you're gonna make this much. So as I'm I

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Speaker 4: I have to work.

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Speaker 3: He is crazy, dude.

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Speaker 4: I confronted him about my own kids and asked what

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Speaker 4: because you're the lesser half.

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Speaker 3: Hey, did you hear that? When you said that my

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Speaker 4: Good catch. I just wanted him to see my point,

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Speaker 4: I'm not ruling out helping all our kids to start

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Speaker 4: live every weekday on YouTube, Twitch, and Facebook. How we

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Speaker 3: I mean, first of all, I think if I'm putting

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Speaker 3: If she doesn't want to leave some of that to

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Speaker 3: I think I'm old enough for her to have that

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Speaker 3: I have to be okay with that because you're not

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Speaker 3: the biggest issue though, is I don't even think it's

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Speaker 4: The husband is being like very greedy. He's reprojected everything

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Speaker 3: This would be a big red flag to me that

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Speaker 2: With the Peena.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, it's like you kind of planned it for.

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Speaker 3: Him to hire his own lawyer behind your back after

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Speaker 3: you guys had already agreed like we're just doing this

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Speaker 3: unsmooth the whole process. I don't know, he's the issue here,

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Speaker 3: not you. I'm for sure.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, Canceling the engagement sounded like the most sensible decision,

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Speaker 4: and I'm astonished this was actually happening. Yep, I don't

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Speaker 3: He's the one. He's the one showing you who he

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Speaker 3: needs to be worked out with her biological mom, who's

440
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Speaker 3: who's successful already.

441
00:20:18,119 --> 00:20:20,960
Speaker 4: My best friend is pissed and threatens to put him

442
00:20:20,960 --> 00:20:23,520
Speaker 4: on blast if he keeps us up. I'm confused since

443
00:20:23,560 --> 00:20:25,840
Speaker 4: I didn't expect our relationship to end up like this.

444
00:20:26,240 --> 00:20:28,560
Speaker 4: Am I the a hole? And we have a update.

445
00:20:28,640 --> 00:20:30,760
Speaker 4: I broke up with him since the whole deal felt

446
00:20:30,760 --> 00:20:34,120
Speaker 4: like a bitter divorce rather than steps towards a married life. Yes, right,

447
00:20:34,200 --> 00:20:35,680
Speaker 4: so you know ynestly?

448
00:20:36,160 --> 00:20:36,640
Speaker 2: Yeah good?

449
00:20:36,720 --> 00:20:39,040
Speaker 4: You know decisions like this are the reason why you're

450
00:20:39,080 --> 00:20:41,639
Speaker 4: so successful in life, and trust your gut you have

451
00:20:41,800 --> 00:20:43,600
Speaker 4: You're killing it, girl, keep it up.

452
00:20:43,760 --> 00:20:46,640
Speaker 3: It's definitely for the best because this was not gonna

453
00:20:46,640 --> 00:20:48,960
Speaker 3: stop here. He was gonna was gonna rag it. He

454
00:20:49,000 --> 00:20:50,560
Speaker 3: sounds like he was just coming for the money.

455
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Speaker 4: Penny and dom your girl. Yeah no, no, get good

456
00:20:53,400 --> 00:20:55,560
Speaker 4: job getting rid of this legion because you're about to

457
00:20:55,560 --> 00:20:55,959
Speaker 4: blow up.

458
00:20:56,000 --> 00:20:56,520
Speaker 3: He sees it.

459
00:20:56,560 --> 00:20:57,360
Speaker 4: He knows the potential.

460
00:20:57,440 --> 00:20:59,600
Speaker 3: Why is it that people always project in these situations

461
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Speaker 3: where it's danks for trueing and showing your true colors.

462
00:21:01,600 --> 00:21:03,280
Speaker 3: It's like, you're the one who did that, dude, Go

463
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Speaker 3: build your own company.

464
00:21:04,680 --> 00:21:06,480
Speaker 4: Yeah, my guy, Well that's the end of that story.

465
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Speaker 3: It is the end of that story. Hey, it's sam'

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Speaker 4: My boyfriend tried to test me with my dog. I'm

470
00:21:15,760 --> 00:21:19,520
Speaker 4: choosing the dog over him. Bart set your priority straight.

471
00:21:19,720 --> 00:21:23,480
Speaker 4: My dog is a little crap I female thirty five

472
00:21:23,720 --> 00:21:27,200
Speaker 4: love the booger, but my goodness, last week she got

473
00:21:27,240 --> 00:21:30,159
Speaker 4: out of the backyard while I was busy cooking my

474
00:21:30,280 --> 00:21:34,480
Speaker 4: boyfriend's dinner for his birthday. My boyfriend, Mike m forty,

475
00:21:34,760 --> 00:21:38,240
Speaker 4: let the dog out during this time and didn't stay

476
00:21:38,280 --> 00:21:40,840
Speaker 4: out with the digging a hole. When I went back

477
00:21:40,880 --> 00:21:43,719
Speaker 4: to call her in, she was nowhere to be found.

478
00:21:44,119 --> 00:21:46,520
Speaker 4: I live in an active city on an active road,

479
00:21:46,520 --> 00:21:49,360
Speaker 4: and I naturally was worried about her. But my boyfriend

480
00:21:49,400 --> 00:21:51,760
Speaker 4: says she should be fine, as we are well known

481
00:21:51,840 --> 00:21:55,440
Speaker 4: in the neighborhood for our clockwork walks and someone will

482
00:21:55,440 --> 00:21:57,560
Speaker 4: see her and bring her back. I would be getting

483
00:21:57,600 --> 00:21:59,840
Speaker 4: out of your chair if your dog is not around

484
00:22:00,119 --> 00:22:01,040
Speaker 4: in an active.

485
00:22:00,760 --> 00:22:02,960
Speaker 2: City, bark, bark, freaking bark.

486
00:22:03,040 --> 00:22:05,560
Speaker 4: I went out to look for her anyway, but confind

487
00:22:05,560 --> 00:22:07,800
Speaker 4: her by the way. This comes from as gay as

488
00:22:07,880 --> 00:22:12,560
Speaker 4: the day Monday on the r slash bru updates on

489
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Speaker 4: the saubbreddit, we rock with the gays identifying her for

490
00:22:15,880 --> 00:22:19,360
Speaker 4: forty eight hours and was crying for the stress. She's

491
00:22:19,400 --> 00:22:22,320
Speaker 4: been my dog for seven years and I know it

492
00:22:22,400 --> 00:22:25,280
Speaker 4: sounds odd to some, but she was my girl, my

493
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Speaker 4: best sie. I love the cramp out of her. I

494
00:22:28,280 --> 00:22:31,960
Speaker 4: would sob worrying she was injured or worse on the

495
00:22:32,119 --> 00:22:33,119
Speaker 4: side of the road.

496
00:22:34,400 --> 00:22:35,280
Speaker 2: It's not good.

497
00:22:36,440 --> 00:22:38,600
Speaker 4: I like that, boyfriend said. He tried to track the

498
00:22:38,680 --> 00:22:41,800
Speaker 4: micro trip, but for some reason it wouldn't work, and

499
00:22:41,920 --> 00:22:44,639
Speaker 4: release had a tagle on it with her location, but

500
00:22:44,720 --> 00:22:48,080
Speaker 4: boyfriend didn't put it on her because he, as he explained,

501
00:22:48,440 --> 00:22:51,880
Speaker 4: she's just gonna went outside. I have a new neighbor,

502
00:22:51,920 --> 00:22:56,120
Speaker 4: a female thirty something Josie, and turned out she had

503
00:22:56,119 --> 00:22:59,040
Speaker 4: my dog. She found her tag was wandering around her

504
00:22:59,119 --> 00:23:01,800
Speaker 4: yard three doors down for me and didn't know her

505
00:23:02,280 --> 00:23:04,920
Speaker 4: or me. At also took her to the local vet,

506
00:23:05,119 --> 00:23:08,440
Speaker 4: who recognized my girl and called me. So my little

507
00:23:08,480 --> 00:23:12,320
Speaker 4: crab was returned to me. I was overjoyed and was thinking.

508
00:23:12,400 --> 00:23:16,960
Speaker 4: Josie profusely explaining how worried I was, and my boyfriend

509
00:23:17,200 --> 00:23:21,760
Speaker 4: audibly sighed from behind me and said, think f that's over.

510
00:23:22,160 --> 00:23:25,680
Speaker 4: She ruined my birthday with that stunch. When Josie saw him,

511
00:23:26,240 --> 00:23:29,520
Speaker 4: she looked confused but didn't say anything until we walked

512
00:23:29,640 --> 00:23:32,399
Speaker 4: her out. She told me, you may not believe me,

513
00:23:32,920 --> 00:23:36,080
Speaker 4: but he told me last night that you don't have pets.

514
00:23:36,200 --> 00:23:39,120
Speaker 4: I was confused by this and kind of didn't believe her,

515
00:23:39,480 --> 00:23:42,440
Speaker 4: but it nagged at me, so I checked our doorbell

516
00:23:42,520 --> 00:23:46,000
Speaker 4: cam footage and there it was clear as day. While

517
00:23:46,040 --> 00:23:48,760
Speaker 4: I was looking out for my dog, Josie is showing

518
00:23:48,840 --> 00:23:52,080
Speaker 4: him a photo and asking if he knew this dog

519
00:23:52,480 --> 00:23:55,679
Speaker 4: and He said no, that we don't have dogs, and

520
00:23:55,720 --> 00:23:59,600
Speaker 4: suggested calling animal control. I woke my boyfriend up as

521
00:23:59,600 --> 00:24:01,680
Speaker 4: he was sleep by this point on the couch and

522
00:24:02,000 --> 00:24:07,120
Speaker 4: questioned him about this, and he denied it, saying, Josie

523
00:24:07,280 --> 00:24:09,320
Speaker 4: is trying to stir up trouble. I have my dog,

524
00:24:09,400 --> 00:24:12,080
Speaker 4: so things go back to normal now. And he slipped

525
00:24:12,160 --> 00:24:14,800
Speaker 4: up in that he deserves a makeup day for his

526
00:24:14,920 --> 00:24:18,159
Speaker 4: ruined birthday. When I told him about the footage, I

527
00:24:18,200 --> 00:24:21,160
Speaker 4: could see him get really still, and then he admitted

528
00:24:21,240 --> 00:24:24,440
Speaker 4: to it. He said, my dog is old, she's eight,

529
00:24:24,600 --> 00:24:26,959
Speaker 4: so he was trying to spare me since she'd probably

530
00:24:27,000 --> 00:24:29,800
Speaker 4: die soon, and he wants us to think about the future,

531
00:24:30,359 --> 00:24:33,040
Speaker 4: not the past. My dog is indictive of my past.

532
00:24:33,320 --> 00:24:35,639
Speaker 4: I told him. He has made zero sense to me.

533
00:24:36,040 --> 00:24:39,320
Speaker 4: He saw me, He saw me dang near fall apart,

534
00:24:39,400 --> 00:24:42,200
Speaker 4: worried about my dog, and now I can't so much

535
00:24:42,280 --> 00:24:45,320
Speaker 4: as trust he didn't have anything more to do with

536
00:24:45,400 --> 00:24:46,399
Speaker 4: her disappearing.

537
00:24:46,640 --> 00:24:49,479
Speaker 1: Oh he's like thirty five, right, yeah, thirty third partners

538
00:24:49,480 --> 00:24:51,800
Speaker 1: around the same age. Probably, Hey, you're gonna die soon,

539
00:24:51,880 --> 00:24:53,080
Speaker 1: so we might as well just put you out of

540
00:24:53,119 --> 00:24:53,680
Speaker 1: your misery.

541
00:24:53,800 --> 00:24:56,840
Speaker 4: I think he's thirty eight. Oh, yeah, he's thirty five,

542
00:24:57,160 --> 00:24:58,840
Speaker 4: he's forty. All right, let's put you out of your

543
00:24:58,840 --> 00:25:01,040
Speaker 4: misery because you're the same aid a dog. Let's put

544
00:25:01,080 --> 00:25:02,120
Speaker 4: you out of your misery right now.

545
00:25:02,240 --> 00:25:02,719
Speaker 2: Let's do it.

546
00:25:02,840 --> 00:25:04,960
Speaker 1: Let's put a chip in you and forget to put

547
00:25:05,000 --> 00:25:06,440
Speaker 1: your collar on and get you lost and put you

548
00:25:06,440 --> 00:25:07,119
Speaker 1: out of your misery.

549
00:25:07,280 --> 00:25:10,240
Speaker 4: He lost it at that, saying he just knew I

550
00:25:10,280 --> 00:25:12,720
Speaker 4: would find a way to blame him for this, and shouted,

551
00:25:12,880 --> 00:25:15,359
Speaker 4: you love that bee more than you love me. I

552
00:25:15,480 --> 00:25:18,359
Speaker 4: told him that he's the bee and a coward for

553
00:25:18,440 --> 00:25:21,639
Speaker 4: lying and not being honest about clearly not liking my

554
00:25:21,720 --> 00:25:24,719
Speaker 4: dog for the past year. Love it, absolutely, love it,

555
00:25:24,800 --> 00:25:27,360
Speaker 4: and what I'm seeing here for the past year. Yes,

556
00:25:27,400 --> 00:25:29,359
Speaker 4: she's had the dog for eight and she's been with

557
00:25:29,440 --> 00:25:30,640
Speaker 4: Mike for a year.

558
00:25:30,920 --> 00:25:32,639
Speaker 2: You ain't got that ten year, bro, dude.

559
00:25:32,680 --> 00:25:33,240
Speaker 4: We already know.

560
00:25:33,600 --> 00:25:34,680
Speaker 2: We already know what's gonna happen.

561
00:25:34,760 --> 00:25:36,840
Speaker 4: We already know, man. Then I asked him to leave.

562
00:25:36,960 --> 00:25:39,800
Speaker 4: He stared at me, like, you're really going to kick

563
00:25:39,840 --> 00:25:44,240
Speaker 4: me out over a dog. I said, absolutely, yes, freaky

564
00:25:44,240 --> 00:25:47,600
Speaker 4: out to the streets, to the freaking streets, and he

565
00:25:47,680 --> 00:25:50,879
Speaker 4: cussed me out and went to his place. I haven't

566
00:25:50,920 --> 00:25:54,000
Speaker 4: read the text he's been sending me, but it's been

567
00:25:54,119 --> 00:25:56,800
Speaker 4: a lot of them. He's been gone for seven hours

568
00:25:56,840 --> 00:26:00,240
Speaker 4: and I have twenty seven text notifications from him. Talk

569
00:26:00,280 --> 00:26:03,040
Speaker 4: to my brother Blair, who called me to tell me

570
00:26:03,160 --> 00:26:05,840
Speaker 4: that I hurt Mike for caring more about an animal

571
00:26:06,080 --> 00:26:09,080
Speaker 4: than him and not being able to just shut the

572
00:26:09,200 --> 00:26:13,320
Speaker 4: f up, be an adult and celebrate my birthday. Okay, Blair,

573
00:26:13,560 --> 00:26:16,000
Speaker 4: whose side are you on? Whoever gets the news first

574
00:26:16,040 --> 00:26:16,960
Speaker 4: is gonna believe it first.

575
00:26:17,080 --> 00:26:18,480
Speaker 2: The narrative has been painted.

576
00:26:18,560 --> 00:26:21,720
Speaker 4: Yep, the narrative has been painted. I am confused because

577
00:26:21,760 --> 00:26:24,399
Speaker 4: we've been together a bit over a year and I

578
00:26:24,520 --> 00:26:26,920
Speaker 4: spoiled the cramp out of him. We met because of

579
00:26:26,960 --> 00:26:27,359
Speaker 4: my dog.

580
00:26:27,600 --> 00:26:30,359
Speaker 1: Just throw this guy in a sewer, just freaking youth

581
00:26:30,400 --> 00:26:33,240
Speaker 1: and eize him and throw him in a sewer, give

582
00:26:33,320 --> 00:26:34,240
Speaker 1: him to the gators.

583
00:26:34,520 --> 00:26:37,040
Speaker 4: And he seemed to really adore her.

584
00:26:36,800 --> 00:26:38,719
Speaker 2: This entire time. Psychopath.

585
00:26:38,840 --> 00:26:41,639
Speaker 4: My brother, though, doesn't like me these days, so I

586
00:26:41,680 --> 00:26:43,879
Speaker 4: can't really tell if he's right and I'm the a

587
00:26:44,000 --> 00:26:46,760
Speaker 4: hole or he and Mike are just and a holes.

588
00:26:46,800 --> 00:26:49,320
Speaker 4: So am I the a hole? Got some relevant comments here?

589
00:26:49,480 --> 00:26:50,600
Speaker 4: Hope you're not the a hole?

590
00:26:50,880 --> 00:26:53,080
Speaker 2: No, come on, dude, this guy.

591
00:26:53,560 --> 00:26:55,640
Speaker 4: I hate him, snake snake dog.

592
00:26:55,880 --> 00:26:58,159
Speaker 1: The fact that it's almost more sinister that he like

593
00:26:58,680 --> 00:27:01,960
Speaker 1: pretended to like the dogs so much and like manipulated

594
00:27:01,960 --> 00:27:03,320
Speaker 1: op into believe that he.

595
00:27:03,240 --> 00:27:04,720
Speaker 2: Was like, oh, he loves the dog. He loves the

596
00:27:04,800 --> 00:27:05,360
Speaker 2: dog so much.

597
00:27:05,440 --> 00:27:07,520
Speaker 4: I bet you they met at like a dog park,

598
00:27:07,680 --> 00:27:10,600
Speaker 4: and he literally hates dogs. He read at some article

599
00:27:10,640 --> 00:27:12,600
Speaker 4: and was like, how do me girls go to dog parks?

600
00:27:12,840 --> 00:27:16,520
Speaker 4: Elevant of garments? Montreal cowboy X not the a hole.

601
00:27:16,640 --> 00:27:18,959
Speaker 4: I'm not even a dog person. But he knew you

602
00:27:19,000 --> 00:27:21,640
Speaker 4: were upset and on heartbroken, and he decided for you

603
00:27:21,720 --> 00:27:25,200
Speaker 4: that it was better for him. That's just a whole behavior.

604
00:27:25,720 --> 00:27:29,560
Speaker 4: She's oddly Merry says, I'm a little confused. You said

605
00:27:29,600 --> 00:27:32,119
Speaker 4: he liked her, And what do you mean when you

606
00:27:32,200 --> 00:27:35,159
Speaker 4: say he was good to you before? Is this a

607
00:27:35,200 --> 00:27:38,719
Speaker 4: sudden change? Sorry, it was just that he was sweet,

608
00:27:39,119 --> 00:27:42,320
Speaker 4: really sweet. And then when we met, he first went

609
00:27:42,640 --> 00:27:45,560
Speaker 4: to her and pat her and complimented her how cute

610
00:27:45,600 --> 00:27:48,600
Speaker 4: she was and how well trained. His brother is a vet,

611
00:27:48,680 --> 00:27:51,760
Speaker 4: and he said he loves dogs. He used to run

612
00:27:51,760 --> 00:27:54,560
Speaker 4: me baths, hype me up, come to events for me,

613
00:27:55,160 --> 00:27:58,600
Speaker 4: and now he is like this, so something's happened.

614
00:27:58,240 --> 00:27:59,480
Speaker 2: And he said his brother was a vet.

615
00:27:59,720 --> 00:28:02,760
Speaker 4: Yeah, dude, who knows that that's real or not? All

616
00:28:03,000 --> 00:28:04,080
Speaker 4: because he's a psychopath.

617
00:28:04,160 --> 00:28:06,639
Speaker 1: Dude, he'll say and do anything to make himself seen like,

618
00:28:06,680 --> 00:28:08,360
Speaker 1: oh my gosh, it's like the greatest guy ever.

619
00:28:08,400 --> 00:28:10,960
Speaker 4: And then but we have an update, ladies and gentlemen,

620
00:28:11,160 --> 00:28:12,720
Speaker 4: here we freaking still alive.

621
00:28:13,080 --> 00:28:15,879
Speaker 2: That's a problem for me. That's a big problem for me.

622
00:28:16,040 --> 00:28:16,760
Speaker 4: That's over there.

623
00:28:16,760 --> 00:28:19,920
Speaker 2: I don't like it. He's like, mess with the dogs, dude,

624
00:28:19,920 --> 00:28:22,000
Speaker 2: I'll mess with the dogs. I blessed with my dog.

625
00:28:22,640 --> 00:28:25,679
Speaker 4: Two days later after my post, my boyfriend showed up

626
00:28:25,720 --> 00:28:28,560
Speaker 4: at my door the next day with flowers and dog trees.

627
00:28:28,720 --> 00:28:31,280
Speaker 2: Yeah you can eat them. Enjoy sam a dog food.

628
00:28:31,320 --> 00:28:31,640
Speaker 2: By the way.

629
00:28:31,760 --> 00:28:34,800
Speaker 4: I didn't let him in, but talk through my screen door.

630
00:28:35,000 --> 00:28:37,480
Speaker 4: He said he had time to think and was ashamed

631
00:28:37,520 --> 00:28:40,720
Speaker 4: of his behavior and very sorry. He explained that he

632
00:28:40,800 --> 00:28:43,840
Speaker 4: had abandonment issues and got scared when a friend put

633
00:28:43,880 --> 00:28:45,680
Speaker 4: the idea in his head that I love my dog

634
00:28:45,760 --> 00:28:48,280
Speaker 4: more than him. The friend turns out to be my

635
00:28:48,360 --> 00:28:49,240
Speaker 4: brother Blair.

636
00:28:49,360 --> 00:28:51,120
Speaker 2: What is up with his terrible brother?

637
00:28:51,400 --> 00:28:54,000
Speaker 4: I told him I wasn't ready to deal with him yet.

638
00:28:54,160 --> 00:28:58,560
Speaker 4: And he asked why not, and I explained, from my perspective,

639
00:28:58,640 --> 00:29:02,120
Speaker 4: everything sort of like my post, and then added that

640
00:29:02,240 --> 00:29:05,200
Speaker 4: he shows up without letting me know he was coming,

641
00:29:05,240 --> 00:29:08,160
Speaker 4: and he didn't even let me speak. It just launched

642
00:29:08,200 --> 00:29:11,160
Speaker 4: into this grand apology there. When I said I don't

643
00:29:11,160 --> 00:29:13,880
Speaker 4: trust him right now, he started crying, and I mean

644
00:29:14,280 --> 00:29:18,000
Speaker 4: ugly hysterical kind. He said, the stem from his mother

645
00:29:18,160 --> 00:29:20,280
Speaker 4: leaving the family. Why are we getting this kind of

646
00:29:20,320 --> 00:29:22,320
Speaker 4: Laura right now? He said, it stemmed from his mother

647
00:29:22,520 --> 00:29:25,240
Speaker 4: leaving the family. From what I know of the story,

648
00:29:25,600 --> 00:29:28,000
Speaker 4: she walked out on him, and it's family when he's.

649
00:29:27,880 --> 00:29:29,720
Speaker 2: Just thirteen, that's awesome.

650
00:29:29,480 --> 00:29:32,360
Speaker 4: And that I am his person and he loves me

651
00:29:32,560 --> 00:29:36,360
Speaker 4: and just lost his mind a little. It's one mistake. One,

652
00:29:36,960 --> 00:29:40,160
Speaker 4: I'm sorry, he kept saying it over and over, and

653
00:29:40,240 --> 00:29:42,680
Speaker 4: maybe I'm a broken person, but I don't feel anything.

654
00:29:42,720 --> 00:29:45,320
Speaker 4: In the moment. I watched him crying and saying sorry

655
00:29:45,320 --> 00:29:49,200
Speaker 4: and basically groveling, and I just wasn't having any of it.

656
00:29:49,280 --> 00:29:51,400
Speaker 4: I said, we need to talk, but I wasn't ready

657
00:29:51,440 --> 00:29:54,000
Speaker 4: to have that talk at the moment and needed space.

658
00:29:54,240 --> 00:29:57,360
Speaker 4: He begged me to let him in and only left

659
00:29:57,440 --> 00:30:00,720
Speaker 4: when some neighbors come by to ask a favorite was okay,

660
00:30:01,000 --> 00:30:03,720
Speaker 4: and he just snapped and told them to f off

661
00:30:04,240 --> 00:30:08,000
Speaker 4: and left red flag. Not sure what I'm even doing

662
00:30:08,040 --> 00:30:10,720
Speaker 4: anymore or what I will do with him or my brother.

663
00:30:11,000 --> 00:30:14,160
Speaker 4: For now, I'm just sitting at a local restaurant patio

664
00:30:14,200 --> 00:30:17,840
Speaker 4: with my doggo sipping Margarita's and trying not to cry

665
00:30:18,040 --> 00:30:21,720
Speaker 4: with you TF brother. Of the comments, she Chaotic Good

666
00:30:21,960 --> 00:30:24,680
Speaker 4: sixty five ninety nine says, So, I'm going to be

667
00:30:24,760 --> 00:30:27,360
Speaker 4: a little mean and harsh here, and I apologize in

668
00:30:27,440 --> 00:30:30,600
Speaker 4: events for that, but I saw your first post before

669
00:30:30,680 --> 00:30:35,400
Speaker 4: this update. Just ain't crap right now. Not sure what

670
00:30:35,560 --> 00:30:38,320
Speaker 4: I'm even doing anymore or what I will do with

671
00:30:38,400 --> 00:30:41,360
Speaker 4: him or my brother. What you do with him? You

672
00:30:41,480 --> 00:30:44,479
Speaker 4: leave him? This man lies to you about your neighbor

673
00:30:45,040 --> 00:30:47,880
Speaker 4: for that much. How sure are you that he doesn't

674
00:30:47,920 --> 00:30:53,520
Speaker 4: harm your dog? He seems unstable and has resentment about her. Clearly, Yeah,

675
00:30:53,560 --> 00:30:54,960
Speaker 4: how can you have resentment towards a dog?

676
00:30:55,160 --> 00:30:59,600
Speaker 1: I feel like this is emblematic of a serious mental issue.

677
00:30:59,640 --> 00:31:03,440
Speaker 4: Oh yeah, this man is manipulating you. If he has trauma,

678
00:31:03,840 --> 00:31:06,760
Speaker 4: he can get therapy, But that doesn't excuse trying to

679
00:31:06,800 --> 00:31:09,400
Speaker 4: get rid of your beloved pet and make the day

680
00:31:09,480 --> 00:31:13,120
Speaker 4: about his stupid ged birthday. He doesn't treat you with

681
00:31:13,160 --> 00:31:16,880
Speaker 4: respect and thanks, flowers will fix it, if not guilting

682
00:31:16,920 --> 00:31:20,040
Speaker 4: you by his sob story of his mom leaving you.

683
00:31:20,080 --> 00:31:23,360
Speaker 4: All right, that part, God, I am so made for

684
00:31:23,480 --> 00:31:26,840
Speaker 4: you and your dog right now, I can barely stand it.

685
00:31:26,920 --> 00:31:30,120
Speaker 4: And please, for the love of all things holy, do

686
00:31:30,320 --> 00:31:36,120
Speaker 4: not give her those treats. Oh oh, I didn't even

687
00:31:36,160 --> 00:31:36,760
Speaker 4: think about that.

688
00:31:36,840 --> 00:31:40,240
Speaker 1: I didn't think at all. I would not great comment

689
00:31:40,800 --> 00:31:41,680
Speaker 1: that question comment.

690
00:31:43,240 --> 00:31:47,000
Speaker 4: I would not trust that he didn't put something harmful

691
00:31:47,080 --> 00:31:50,840
Speaker 4: in them to further enduringjer your girl. This guy sounds

692
00:31:50,840 --> 00:31:53,320
Speaker 4: crazy enough to do it. They probably smell like chocolate

693
00:31:53,320 --> 00:31:56,800
Speaker 4: two or grapes. So here's where I will be harsher

694
00:31:57,000 --> 00:32:00,000
Speaker 4: baby girl, woman up and dump his bye.

695
00:32:00,200 --> 00:32:01,320
Speaker 2: I like that. I like that.

696
00:32:01,560 --> 00:32:04,400
Speaker 4: I have a sweet partner that I adore. But if

697
00:32:04,400 --> 00:32:08,040
Speaker 4: he did this, I would kick him several curbs and

698
00:32:08,080 --> 00:32:10,800
Speaker 4: I would put him on blast about it. So everyone

699
00:32:11,160 --> 00:32:14,360
Speaker 4: we know is aware that he is an animal abuser

700
00:32:14,640 --> 00:32:17,040
Speaker 4: who gaslights and disrespects women.

701
00:32:17,280 --> 00:32:19,080
Speaker 2: Facts that part.

702
00:32:19,520 --> 00:32:25,000
Speaker 1: It is so insane to let an innocent animal get.

703
00:32:24,720 --> 00:32:25,960
Speaker 2: Lost to pass away.

704
00:32:26,080 --> 00:32:31,040
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, no one in their right mind would ever intentionally,

705
00:32:31,080 --> 00:32:33,719
Speaker 1: and it's intentional because he lost a dog and then

706
00:32:33,720 --> 00:32:34,880
Speaker 1: they called him like we found him.

707
00:32:34,880 --> 00:32:36,520
Speaker 2: He's like, we don't have a dog. Yep, it is

708
00:32:36,640 --> 00:32:39,240
Speaker 2: clear he didn't want the dogs. Ever seen that thing

709
00:32:39,280 --> 00:32:43,480
Speaker 2: in my laugh That is insane. Dude, God Lee, you

710
00:32:43,520 --> 00:32:44,360
Speaker 2: got problems, buddy.

711
00:32:44,560 --> 00:32:49,000
Speaker 4: Op. Sorry, this was a little upsetting. Honestly, not as

712
00:32:49,040 --> 00:32:50,240
Speaker 4: harsh as I expected.

713
00:32:50,440 --> 00:32:50,760
Speaker 3: Lol.

714
00:32:51,040 --> 00:32:53,480
Speaker 4: If this is your harsh, I think you're likely a

715
00:32:53,480 --> 00:32:56,240
Speaker 4: sweet person at all. I wanted to address at least

716
00:32:56,320 --> 00:32:59,880
Speaker 4: some of your comment but full disclosures. Some really bother

717
00:33:00,160 --> 00:33:03,640
Speaker 4: me and I can't quite take that on yet. But

718
00:33:03,680 --> 00:33:06,320
Speaker 4: I'm starting to agree with the folks in the comments

719
00:33:06,560 --> 00:33:10,280
Speaker 4: that my boyfriend is actually my ex. So here goes nothing,

720
00:33:10,760 --> 00:33:13,880
Speaker 4: maximum effort. So she's coming to the realization it's time.

721
00:33:14,000 --> 00:33:15,680
Speaker 2: It's time, it's time.

722
00:33:15,920 --> 00:33:19,240
Speaker 4: Dump em, redditor. God only knows what would have happened

723
00:33:19,240 --> 00:33:22,200
Speaker 4: if your vet didn't recognize your dog to steer Josie

724
00:33:22,320 --> 00:33:24,560
Speaker 4: back to talk to you again, or if you were

725
00:33:24,560 --> 00:33:26,640
Speaker 4: not home and you're hopefully soon to be X told

726
00:33:26,640 --> 00:33:29,160
Speaker 4: her again that you don't have animals. She's responding to that.

727
00:33:29,520 --> 00:33:32,160
Speaker 4: I think a lot about this. Josie is a kind human,

728
00:33:32,440 --> 00:33:35,040
Speaker 4: and I don't know that she's a lifelong dog lover

729
00:33:35,320 --> 00:33:39,960
Speaker 4: and adopter. She just lost both of her labradors very suddenly.

730
00:33:40,000 --> 00:33:42,840
Speaker 4: And my booger also loves her a lot and gets

731
00:33:42,920 --> 00:33:45,480
Speaker 4: all excited every time she walks by my house, which

732
00:33:45,520 --> 00:33:48,600
Speaker 4: turns out is a locked as she walks to clear

733
00:33:48,720 --> 00:33:52,560
Speaker 4: her head when her job gets too stressful. In my mind,

734
00:33:52,680 --> 00:33:55,800
Speaker 4: I have rolled every scenario of where my dog was

735
00:33:56,280 --> 00:33:58,840
Speaker 4: and what happened to her the whole time I couldn't

736
00:33:58,880 --> 00:34:02,520
Speaker 4: find her. My brain even went into dark directions and

737
00:34:02,600 --> 00:34:05,080
Speaker 4: I was a wreck, and my boyfriend was just so

738
00:34:05,280 --> 00:34:08,960
Speaker 4: dismissive of my concerns. Yup didn't even try to console her.

739
00:34:09,160 --> 00:34:11,880
Speaker 2: Yup doesn't care what the hell doesn't care. He just

740
00:34:11,960 --> 00:34:14,400
Speaker 2: likes manipulating and playing with their emotions and getting.

741
00:34:14,160 --> 00:34:15,600
Speaker 4: Ready of to your dog, getting rid of your dog

742
00:34:15,760 --> 00:34:18,600
Speaker 4: on his birthday, getting rid of your dog on his birthday.

743
00:34:18,719 --> 00:34:22,439
Speaker 1: If I was able to spend my birthday with Chip

744
00:34:22,440 --> 00:34:24,560
Speaker 1: and Ava, I would be so thrilled, so thrilled, I

745
00:34:24,560 --> 00:34:26,839
Speaker 1: don't even understand how happy I would be.

746
00:34:27,160 --> 00:34:29,000
Speaker 2: I would literally be like, what more do I need?

747
00:34:29,120 --> 00:34:31,160
Speaker 4: It doesn't make any sense, because even if you wanted

748
00:34:31,160 --> 00:34:33,560
Speaker 4: to get rid of the dog, your partner's dog. You

749
00:34:33,640 --> 00:34:35,040
Speaker 4: want to do it on your birthday because you want

750
00:34:35,040 --> 00:34:36,920
Speaker 4: your birthday to be good like. And she's gonna be

751
00:34:37,080 --> 00:34:39,880
Speaker 4: up obviously upset that the dog's gone.

752
00:34:39,960 --> 00:34:42,920
Speaker 1: But he's that like evil and manipulative that he's like,

753
00:34:43,000 --> 00:34:45,719
Speaker 1: this is my birthday present to myself. Yeah, that's how

754
00:34:45,760 --> 00:34:47,800
Speaker 1: evil he is. That's why I say, dump him in

755
00:34:47,840 --> 00:34:49,040
Speaker 1: a sewer where alligators are.

756
00:34:48,960 --> 00:34:51,360
Speaker 4: There, we go crocodiles. Crocodiles are worse than alligators.

757
00:34:51,400 --> 00:34:51,920
Speaker 2: Crocodiles.

758
00:34:51,960 --> 00:34:54,359
Speaker 1: Bro give me, give me whatever dinosaur will rip him

759
00:34:54,400 --> 00:34:56,640
Speaker 1: to shreds, and let me throw him in that and

760
00:34:57,000 --> 00:35:01,799
Speaker 1: watch and watch with his mom, who abandon him like

761
00:35:01,880 --> 00:35:02,680
Speaker 1: he deserved.

762
00:35:02,920 --> 00:35:04,520
Speaker 2: It's awesome evil.

763
00:35:04,760 --> 00:35:07,399
Speaker 4: I mean, she could have been run over by a car,

764
00:35:07,680 --> 00:35:10,800
Speaker 4: could have eaten something that could have made her horribly sick, anything.

765
00:35:11,000 --> 00:35:13,960
Speaker 4: Playing it back now, remembering all he said and did

766
00:35:14,000 --> 00:35:16,640
Speaker 4: during this time, I just don't like this guy, and

767
00:35:16,680 --> 00:35:19,719
Speaker 4: I have a hard time ever trusting him again. I'm

768
00:35:19,800 --> 00:35:22,880
Speaker 4: getting to the revengeful part of my brain and can't

769
00:35:22,920 --> 00:35:25,960
Speaker 4: even start. Tequila is a heck of a thing, and

770
00:35:26,000 --> 00:35:28,640
Speaker 4: I think it's contributing to me wanting to do things

771
00:35:28,719 --> 00:35:32,200
Speaker 4: I would never dream to most of the time, do it?

772
00:35:32,560 --> 00:35:33,520
Speaker 2: Do it?

773
00:35:34,520 --> 00:35:39,080
Speaker 1: Listen to the takeila, eave him like his mother, drink

774
00:35:40,280 --> 00:35:41,040
Speaker 1: him like his mother.

775
00:35:41,320 --> 00:35:42,880
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, yeah, yeah, ya ya.

776
00:35:42,920 --> 00:35:45,600
Speaker 4: I sat there with my baby, my sweet girl, who

777
00:35:45,640 --> 00:35:49,560
Speaker 4: looks at me with such unfiltered love and devotion. I

778
00:35:49,600 --> 00:35:52,560
Speaker 4: can't even imagine trusting her with a man who cared

779
00:35:52,640 --> 00:35:55,920
Speaker 4: so little about her that he would toss her to

780
00:35:56,000 --> 00:35:58,920
Speaker 4: fate and for the police, for the love of God

781
00:35:59,160 --> 00:36:01,360
Speaker 4: of holy things, don't care for those streets. I tossed

782
00:36:01,400 --> 00:36:04,759
Speaker 4: them out like the dumpster out. I sadly had the

783
00:36:04,800 --> 00:36:07,440
Speaker 4: same concern I forgot to mention in my post. But

784
00:36:07,520 --> 00:36:10,440
Speaker 4: he tried to call my dog over and open the

785
00:36:10,480 --> 00:36:12,680
Speaker 4: door to give her the treats. So the box was

786
00:36:12,800 --> 00:36:15,919
Speaker 4: open when I opened the first door to speak to him.

787
00:36:16,200 --> 00:36:18,239
Speaker 4: I have no way of knowing for sure if he

788
00:36:18,360 --> 00:36:21,399
Speaker 4: wants to see her harm, So I don't know what's

789
00:36:21,440 --> 00:36:23,880
Speaker 4: in that box, so I tossed it. We have an

790
00:36:23,960 --> 00:36:27,720
Speaker 4: update three weeks later. How we feeling. Do we press charges?

791
00:36:27,800 --> 00:36:29,160
Speaker 4: We don't have anything to press charges on.

792
00:36:29,280 --> 00:36:31,160
Speaker 2: I just want them to suffer as much as possible.

793
00:36:31,200 --> 00:36:34,200
Speaker 4: You know, I saw something online where this woman was

794
00:36:34,239 --> 00:36:37,520
Speaker 4: going to the airport and ask her boyfriend verbally, can

795
00:36:37,560 --> 00:36:39,520
Speaker 4: you take care of my dogs while I'm gone so

796
00:36:39,560 --> 00:36:41,319
Speaker 4: I can go to the airport. Boyfriend didn't show up.

797
00:36:41,400 --> 00:36:43,480
Speaker 4: She suit went to civil court and suit him. She

798
00:36:43,480 --> 00:36:45,319
Speaker 4: had to like buy a new plane ticket, had to

799
00:36:45,360 --> 00:36:47,680
Speaker 4: like do something with their airbnb and suit and for

800
00:36:47,719 --> 00:36:48,359
Speaker 4: all that this.

801
00:36:48,320 --> 00:36:51,239
Speaker 1: Too, because like that's like negligence. Yeah, if you like

802
00:36:51,280 --> 00:36:54,400
Speaker 1: forgot or whatever. Yeah, this is like premeditated.

803
00:36:54,480 --> 00:36:57,040
Speaker 4: It is prematative because one of the treats, two he

804
00:36:57,080 --> 00:36:59,359
Speaker 4: put her out in the streets, lied about it, and

805
00:36:59,520 --> 00:37:01,480
Speaker 4: three he didn't I think he didn't even put the

806
00:37:01,520 --> 00:37:04,080
Speaker 4: collar on it, and lied about the tracker even if

807
00:37:04,080 --> 00:37:04,880
Speaker 4: there was a tracker.

808
00:37:05,120 --> 00:37:08,120
Speaker 1: Yeah, I'd be curious to at least research to see

809
00:37:08,160 --> 00:37:08,640
Speaker 1: if there.

810
00:37:08,560 --> 00:37:09,880
Speaker 2: Is something we could do.

811
00:37:10,040 --> 00:37:10,600
Speaker 4: I agree.

812
00:37:11,000 --> 00:37:12,520
Speaker 2: I just gotta make him suffer, that's.

813
00:37:12,320 --> 00:37:13,120
Speaker 4: The goal, we think.

814
00:37:13,400 --> 00:37:16,000
Speaker 5: Ye, I think that reddit is gonna like spark up

815
00:37:16,000 --> 00:37:20,239
Speaker 5: my trust issues again. Oh no, you know, because what

816
00:37:20,880 --> 00:37:23,160
Speaker 5: like the fact that he was just like such a

817
00:37:23,160 --> 00:37:23,640
Speaker 5: good person.

818
00:37:23,719 --> 00:37:24,560
Speaker 4: How long were they together?

819
00:37:24,600 --> 00:37:24,920
Speaker 2: Do we know?

820
00:37:25,200 --> 00:37:27,680
Speaker 4: Just a year? A year? Okay, well we've only been

821
00:37:27,719 --> 00:37:29,600
Speaker 4: together for like eight months. We're not at that point.

822
00:37:29,880 --> 00:37:34,560
Speaker 5: We still got a crazy but I mean, yeah, Okay,

823
00:37:34,560 --> 00:37:36,600
Speaker 5: I guess it'd be worse if they were together for longer,

824
00:37:36,600 --> 00:37:38,960
Speaker 5: but like still, it's like she thought it was such

825
00:37:38,960 --> 00:37:40,200
Speaker 5: a good person and then all of a sudden, he's

826
00:37:40,239 --> 00:37:42,840
Speaker 5: doing this crazy stuff. That would be really interesting to

827
00:37:42,840 --> 00:37:45,480
Speaker 5: see if like you could press chargers or something.

828
00:37:45,280 --> 00:37:46,720
Speaker 2: Like that, Piggy Dissilayer says.

829
00:37:47,040 --> 00:37:49,200
Speaker 1: In most US states, animal abuse is considered as a

830
00:37:49,239 --> 00:37:51,640
Speaker 1: crime and is treated as a felmy or misdemeanor.

831
00:37:52,880 --> 00:37:55,480
Speaker 4: But like, we don't have like strict evidence though I

832
00:37:55,520 --> 00:37:56,240
Speaker 4: don't see any.

833
00:37:56,160 --> 00:37:59,120
Speaker 2: Like is he answered the phone and said I don't

834
00:37:59,160 --> 00:37:59,600
Speaker 2: have a dog.

835
00:38:00,000 --> 00:38:02,080
Speaker 4: We have the video, yeah, but a lawyer could spin

836
00:38:02,120 --> 00:38:04,480
Speaker 4: it and be like, well he doesn't have a dog.

837
00:38:04,600 --> 00:38:07,160
Speaker 1: We've got witnesses. We maybe have it, probably don't. We

838
00:38:07,200 --> 00:38:08,840
Speaker 1: maybe have a tape recording of that call. But the

839
00:38:09,000 --> 00:38:11,680
Speaker 1: Josie that that can collaborate that story. I say we

840
00:38:11,719 --> 00:38:12,160
Speaker 1: go for it.

841
00:38:12,280 --> 00:38:12,920
Speaker 4: Say we go for it.

842
00:38:12,960 --> 00:38:14,560
Speaker 2: I say we go for it. Actually you should drop

843
00:38:14,600 --> 00:38:15,680
Speaker 2: it because you're skimm out of your life.

844
00:38:15,719 --> 00:38:17,080
Speaker 4: Just give him out of your life in actuality.

845
00:38:17,120 --> 00:38:18,359
Speaker 2: But I do want to see him sofer, but it's

846
00:38:18,360 --> 00:38:19,720
Speaker 2: not worth it. That's my real advice.

847
00:38:19,920 --> 00:38:24,640
Speaker 4: Update, Hi, it's your messy friend with her super wiener eggs.

848
00:38:25,239 --> 00:38:28,200
Speaker 4: Not super wiener in the fun sense. Uh not in

849
00:38:28,200 --> 00:38:31,279
Speaker 4: the fun sense. I don't much want to get into that,

850
00:38:31,360 --> 00:38:33,719
Speaker 4: but it kind of needed to vent to someone and

851
00:38:33,800 --> 00:38:36,600
Speaker 4: some of you, most of you have been really helpful, insightful,

852
00:38:36,880 --> 00:38:40,600
Speaker 4: and so kind. Mike has been weaving the narrative that

853
00:38:40,680 --> 00:38:44,480
Speaker 4: I am mentally ill. Bro's so projecting right now. He

854
00:38:44,560 --> 00:38:48,360
Speaker 4: knows I suffer from depression and PTSD, and for whatever reason,

855
00:38:48,600 --> 00:38:53,600
Speaker 4: he's saying I am so I was a misdiagnosed schizophrenic.

856
00:38:53,760 --> 00:38:57,040
Speaker 4: He's just throwing that into her face. It was relentless,

857
00:38:57,040 --> 00:39:01,279
Speaker 4: and Blair and Dad have been backing him. Dude, whose sign.

858
00:39:01,080 --> 00:39:06,440
Speaker 2: Are you one? Fuck God? You're my own family, Jesus Christ.

859
00:39:06,800 --> 00:39:10,000
Speaker 4: It got to the point that I had enough and

860
00:39:10,160 --> 00:39:13,040
Speaker 4: hired a lawyer. What did I say, dude, we probably

861
00:39:13,080 --> 00:39:15,799
Speaker 4: get some money. Did I say, how much money you

862
00:39:15,800 --> 00:39:16,279
Speaker 4: want out of this?

863
00:39:16,360 --> 00:39:18,439
Speaker 2: Joe? Dude, I just want him to suffer. I don't

864
00:39:18,440 --> 00:39:19,839
Speaker 2: even want any money. I don't even care.

865
00:39:19,960 --> 00:39:20,680
Speaker 4: So it was bankingcount.

866
00:39:20,680 --> 00:39:24,040
Speaker 2: Oh, actually I would sue him for all of his money, okay,

867
00:39:24,160 --> 00:39:25,279
Speaker 2: and donate it to.

868
00:39:25,400 --> 00:39:28,719
Speaker 4: Like yeah, if his brothers actually would donate it to

869
00:39:28,760 --> 00:39:29,879
Speaker 4: one of the charities he likes.

870
00:39:30,080 --> 00:39:32,439
Speaker 2: That would be awesome see centsis.

871
00:39:32,080 --> 00:39:35,480
Speaker 4: And wonder streaming order. My father is such a psycho.

872
00:39:35,719 --> 00:39:40,000
Speaker 4: Long story pennant Later, and Mike is back on my doorstep.

873
00:39:40,360 --> 00:39:44,000
Speaker 4: He's now demanding that Booger is his dog too, and

874
00:39:44,080 --> 00:39:46,600
Speaker 4: he has rights to her, and he is worried about

875
00:39:46,640 --> 00:39:49,799
Speaker 4: her safety with such a mentally unstable person. Me it

876
00:39:49,840 --> 00:39:53,279
Speaker 4: seems so, I said, Oh, oh, did I mention this

877
00:39:53,320 --> 00:39:55,560
Speaker 4: is all through the door cam that I now have

878
00:39:55,640 --> 00:39:59,719
Speaker 4: footage again of him being the unstable one and his

879
00:40:00,239 --> 00:40:04,320
Speaker 4: manipulative threat on top of me having actual footage of

880
00:40:04,400 --> 00:40:07,799
Speaker 4: him saying he doesn't have a pet would debunk him.

881
00:40:07,880 --> 00:40:12,359
Speaker 4: I guess. So this is phenomenal. I don't know all

882
00:40:12,400 --> 00:40:16,160
Speaker 4: of what happened because feed cut out, but it looks

883
00:40:16,200 --> 00:40:19,759
Speaker 4: like the man lost his effing mind and dismantled my

884
00:40:19,880 --> 00:40:23,560
Speaker 4: marine camera. You can definitely suit for that, at least

885
00:40:23,600 --> 00:40:27,160
Speaker 4: without my other cameras he did not know where then

886
00:40:27,200 --> 00:40:30,720
Speaker 4: installed showing him doing so good thing. I have a lawyer,

887
00:40:31,160 --> 00:40:33,480
Speaker 4: so she put up other cameras that got other wrangles

888
00:40:33,520 --> 00:40:36,720
Speaker 4: of it. Oo, dude, that would make a fire TikTok video.

889
00:40:36,880 --> 00:40:39,200
Speaker 2: That's awesome. I love that you want.

890
00:40:39,040 --> 00:40:41,680
Speaker 4: Some of your money back. Posted on TikTok.

891
00:40:41,400 --> 00:40:43,960
Speaker 2: Carried a part a multi part series.

892
00:40:43,760 --> 00:40:45,600
Speaker 4: Do it get it ready with me so you can

893
00:40:45,640 --> 00:40:48,880
Speaker 4: pass ten thousand followers so you can start monetizing your

894
00:40:48,880 --> 00:40:50,560
Speaker 4: content and then post the video of it.

895
00:40:50,640 --> 00:40:52,400
Speaker 2: Do one of these, Yeah, Angie, do you know what

896
00:40:52,400 --> 00:40:53,120
Speaker 2: I'm talking about?

897
00:40:53,200 --> 00:40:53,560
Speaker 3: Yeah?

898
00:40:53,480 --> 00:40:55,239
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, yeah, I watched.

899
00:40:55,000 --> 00:40:57,960
Speaker 1: My girlfriend's TikTok Feither're all, hey, girlies, I got my

900
00:40:58,040 --> 00:41:00,920
Speaker 1: new nail. Can I'm putting like charge on my nails

901
00:41:00,960 --> 00:41:02,319
Speaker 1: that are hanging off of them?

902
00:41:02,520 --> 00:41:06,280
Speaker 5: Like, yeah, I was thinking of ASMR just like SMR

903
00:41:06,400 --> 00:41:07,919
Speaker 5: storytime start whispering the story.

904
00:41:08,080 --> 00:41:08,520
Speaker 2: Oh that's what.

905
00:41:10,080 --> 00:41:12,239
Speaker 1: No, No, no, they just like they just get things

906
00:41:12,239 --> 00:41:14,239
Speaker 1: and they're just like they just they click.

907
00:41:14,040 --> 00:41:17,239
Speaker 2: Their nails on all that. Yeah, but like but like.

908
00:41:17,160 --> 00:41:20,160
Speaker 1: They're like it's like unboxing and they're just like each

909
00:41:20,200 --> 00:41:22,719
Speaker 1: thing they open, they like thicklick and then they go.

910
00:41:22,800 --> 00:41:25,480
Speaker 5: And yes, you had nails at some point, did you

911
00:41:25,880 --> 00:41:27,880
Speaker 5: have the feeling to click them on everything? Because I

912
00:41:27,960 --> 00:41:29,520
Speaker 5: sure did whenever I did my nails.

913
00:41:29,520 --> 00:41:32,719
Speaker 1: You know, I hadn't seen enough of that content on

914
00:41:32,800 --> 00:41:34,399
Speaker 1: nmus feed yet at that point.

915
00:41:34,440 --> 00:41:35,600
Speaker 4: You were doing a lot of this when you had

916
00:41:35,600 --> 00:41:36,759
Speaker 4: your nailse oh, I did a lot of this.

917
00:41:37,360 --> 00:41:39,080
Speaker 2: I did a lot of this. Oh yeah, oh yeah,

918
00:41:39,280 --> 00:41:40,239
Speaker 2: miss my nails. All right.

919
00:41:40,239 --> 00:41:44,239
Speaker 4: RelA comments, Ambassador MESSI please save the despairing comments for

920
00:41:44,320 --> 00:41:47,560
Speaker 4: the vulnerable dog you name booger. I mean no disrespect.

921
00:41:47,719 --> 00:41:51,200
Speaker 4: I expect you to continue to use yourself deprecating humor.

922
00:41:51,480 --> 00:41:54,240
Speaker 4: Good thing, I have a lawyer. That you say nothing

923
00:41:54,280 --> 00:41:57,480
Speaker 4: about the lawyer. Just that this is an asset tells

924
00:41:57,480 --> 00:42:01,080
Speaker 4: me that you are nowhere close to mentally on stable facts.

925
00:42:01,160 --> 00:42:04,799
Speaker 4: I assume you told your attorney precisely why he's an

926
00:42:04,840 --> 00:42:08,560
Speaker 4: ex fallless may sounds like things you were sounds like

927
00:42:08,560 --> 00:42:11,520
Speaker 4: things are still messy and stressful. But it's good that

928
00:42:11,640 --> 00:42:14,720
Speaker 4: you were taking steps to protect yourself with the lawyer

929
00:42:15,239 --> 00:42:19,320
Speaker 4: and additional cameras. Hang in there and keep us updated.

930
00:42:19,480 --> 00:42:23,439
Speaker 4: We got an update one point five weeks later. Let's

931
00:42:23,480 --> 00:42:26,360
Speaker 4: go see what we got just seven weeks after original post.

932
00:42:26,480 --> 00:42:29,400
Speaker 4: Oh my gosh, this is gonna be long, and I

933
00:42:29,440 --> 00:42:34,200
Speaker 4: am so fing livid. Oh has it been two weeks?

934
00:42:34,480 --> 00:42:38,080
Speaker 4: But this a single fing day after my last post,

935
00:42:38,160 --> 00:42:41,640
Speaker 4: I was packing up for an impromptu trip. Arara was

936
00:42:41,719 --> 00:42:45,360
Speaker 4: taking me on parlay to help me relax, and partly

937
00:42:45,400 --> 00:42:47,760
Speaker 4: to get me the heck out of that dang house

938
00:42:48,000 --> 00:42:50,480
Speaker 4: so my father, brother and X would not know where

939
00:42:50,520 --> 00:42:53,440
Speaker 4: I was. As such, I got Booker to the groomers.

940
00:42:53,840 --> 00:42:56,600
Speaker 4: We planned to be away a while and she was

941
00:42:56,680 --> 00:42:59,879
Speaker 4: due anyway. I thought I was being a responsible dog.

942
00:43:00,480 --> 00:43:03,480
Speaker 4: I am an idiot because I was so frazzled about

943
00:43:03,520 --> 00:43:07,160
Speaker 4: everything else. I completely forgot to tell them that Mike

944
00:43:07,640 --> 00:43:10,239
Speaker 4: is not permitted anymore to pick her up.

945
00:43:10,480 --> 00:43:14,200
Speaker 2: Oh no, no, no, that's very bad.

946
00:43:14,320 --> 00:43:17,680
Speaker 4: That's very very So I got to run errands while

947
00:43:17,719 --> 00:43:21,000
Speaker 4: Booger got her spaw treatments. Don't you dare judge me.

948
00:43:21,200 --> 00:43:23,840
Speaker 4: She deserves a spa treatment every once in a while.

949
00:43:24,239 --> 00:43:27,560
Speaker 4: Being a couch potato is so stressful, grueling work, you know.

950
00:43:27,920 --> 00:43:30,520
Speaker 4: And when I return, I am told by the front

951
00:43:30,560 --> 00:43:33,160
Speaker 4: desk that your husband picked her up.

952
00:43:33,440 --> 00:43:35,080
Speaker 2: Oh my god.

953
00:43:35,000 --> 00:43:38,680
Speaker 4: What the heck? Oh my gosh, I'm seeing nose everywhere.

954
00:43:38,840 --> 00:43:40,680
Speaker 2: Yeah, this is bad, This is bad.

955
00:43:40,719 --> 00:43:43,239
Speaker 4: This is badest dude, I'm stressing for you right now.

956
00:43:43,840 --> 00:43:45,759
Speaker 2: Same, I swear to you.

957
00:43:45,800 --> 00:43:51,040
Speaker 4: My voice simply stopped existing. I couldn't breathe, I couldn't speak.

958
00:43:51,480 --> 00:43:55,439
Speaker 4: I just crumbled to the ground and sobbed. He knew

959
00:43:55,480 --> 00:43:58,759
Speaker 4: the groomer, knew the staff. He would sometimes pick her

960
00:43:58,880 --> 00:44:01,720
Speaker 4: up for me when we were together, And I didn't

961
00:44:01,719 --> 00:44:05,000
Speaker 4: protect my baby by preempting this. How could I have

962
00:44:05,120 --> 00:44:09,000
Speaker 4: been so effing stupid? His life mission is getting rid

963
00:44:09,000 --> 00:44:11,640
Speaker 4: of her. It should have been one of the first

964
00:44:11,680 --> 00:44:14,399
Speaker 4: things I did. I removed him everywhere else. How did

965
00:44:14,440 --> 00:44:17,200
Speaker 4: he know that she was at the groomers. He's stalking her.

966
00:44:17,239 --> 00:44:18,319
Speaker 4: He's a psychopath.

967
00:44:18,840 --> 00:44:19,919
Speaker 2: You're right, You're right.

968
00:44:19,960 --> 00:44:21,600
Speaker 4: He's got a Blair on the case. He's got the

969
00:44:21,640 --> 00:44:23,759
Speaker 4: father on the case. He's on the case. He's got

970
00:44:23,760 --> 00:44:24,480
Speaker 4: three people on this.

971
00:44:24,560 --> 00:44:25,120
Speaker 2: Dude, you're right.

972
00:44:25,239 --> 00:44:26,600
Speaker 4: Trying to get rid of this dog is.

973
00:44:26,480 --> 00:44:27,320
Speaker 2: What a boogerdoo?

974
00:44:27,440 --> 00:44:28,000
Speaker 3: What a booger?

975
00:44:28,040 --> 00:44:28,080
Speaker 4: Do?

976
00:44:28,200 --> 00:44:31,080
Speaker 1: Do you not saying she's just being a good girl,

977
00:44:31,360 --> 00:44:32,359
Speaker 1: good doggie?

978
00:44:32,800 --> 00:44:34,640
Speaker 2: Give her pets, not death.

979
00:44:36,400 --> 00:44:38,879
Speaker 4: Uh. The staff had come around the desk to help

980
00:44:38,920 --> 00:44:41,239
Speaker 4: me to a chair, and I just wailed. I think

981
00:44:41,280 --> 00:44:44,279
Speaker 4: I managed to say enough. The police were called and

982
00:44:44,320 --> 00:44:47,040
Speaker 4: I could barely speak to them. They asked if there

983
00:44:47,120 --> 00:44:50,120
Speaker 4: was someone I could call, any family. I cried even more.

984
00:44:50,920 --> 00:44:53,000
Speaker 2: Definitely, don't call my dad and brother. He'll call them

985
00:44:53,080 --> 00:44:54,840
Speaker 2: because they ain't gonna elt I would call.

986
00:44:54,760 --> 00:44:57,600
Speaker 4: Him in so they can be like prosecuted and integrogated,

987
00:44:57,760 --> 00:44:58,400
Speaker 4: be like, hey.

988
00:44:58,440 --> 00:45:00,600
Speaker 2: Yeah, put him in a lineup, yeah yeah, yeah.

989
00:45:00,760 --> 00:45:02,759
Speaker 4: Maybe get Blair because Blair and Mike seem to be

990
00:45:02,800 --> 00:45:05,120
Speaker 4: friends and be like Ransom Blair like hey.

991
00:45:05,040 --> 00:45:06,360
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's like I said, it, like a sting, like

992
00:45:06,360 --> 00:45:06,719
Speaker 2: a trap.

993
00:45:06,800 --> 00:45:09,560
Speaker 4: Yep, yeah yeah yeah. I have no one anything. My

994
00:45:09,760 --> 00:45:13,400
Speaker 4: father and maybe brother would help Mike do this. I

995
00:45:13,520 --> 00:45:16,200
Speaker 4: managed to think and carl Aria and she was on

996
00:45:16,239 --> 00:45:19,160
Speaker 4: her way. But it was then I looked on my phone.

997
00:45:19,280 --> 00:45:23,360
Speaker 4: He had texted me the effort actually texted me starting

998
00:45:23,400 --> 00:45:26,839
Speaker 4: with hi baby, as of everything that happened in this

999
00:45:26,920 --> 00:45:31,200
Speaker 4: time was absolutely non existed. He said, not to worry.

1000
00:45:31,320 --> 00:45:35,080
Speaker 4: He has booger as he picked her up for you,

1001
00:45:35,400 --> 00:45:38,600
Speaker 4: and he is cooking us dinner at his and I

1002
00:45:38,600 --> 00:45:41,799
Speaker 4: can pick her up after dinner. Then he ended it

1003
00:45:41,840 --> 00:45:45,400
Speaker 4: with love you. It was so uneffing believable. I could

1004
00:45:45,560 --> 00:45:48,799
Speaker 4: only just show the cops, Holy cow, he's gonna get

1005
00:45:48,880 --> 00:45:49,279
Speaker 4: rid of you.

1006
00:45:49,280 --> 00:45:49,880
Speaker 2: And the dog.

1007
00:45:50,120 --> 00:45:52,680
Speaker 4: He's gonna try to get rid of both of you. No,

1008
00:45:52,760 --> 00:45:55,200
Speaker 4: I have a horrible thought, and I can't.

1009
00:45:55,080 --> 00:45:56,480
Speaker 2: Say I think I know what your thought is.

1010
00:45:57,640 --> 00:45:59,160
Speaker 4: Thought, I don't know what the thought is?

1011
00:46:00,080 --> 00:46:00,279
Speaker 2: Share?

1012
00:46:00,400 --> 00:46:01,680
Speaker 4: What is he cooking for dinner?

1013
00:46:02,600 --> 00:46:02,880
Speaker 2: Yeah?

1014
00:46:03,160 --> 00:46:07,719
Speaker 4: Yeah, oh no, I've been here since twelve today and

1015
00:46:07,800 --> 00:46:11,280
Speaker 4: John and High we are the day doing.

1016
00:46:11,320 --> 00:46:12,560
Speaker 2: And a half hours deep.

1017
00:46:12,800 --> 00:46:16,920
Speaker 1: And here I thought I was like, oh, a dog story, finally.

1018
00:46:17,080 --> 00:46:19,719
Speaker 2: Finally something to give me reprieve.

1019
00:46:20,400 --> 00:46:24,279
Speaker 1: But no, no, but no, this sweet precious angel is

1020
00:46:24,320 --> 00:46:25,480
Speaker 1: in danger again.

1021
00:46:26,320 --> 00:46:30,360
Speaker 4: No, it sounds like a horror story. I'm so scared

1022
00:46:30,440 --> 00:46:34,360
Speaker 4: right now. Oh yeah, yes, true. Is this guy's crazy?

1023
00:46:34,440 --> 00:46:36,640
Speaker 4: I knew the second His name is Mike. I'm sorry.

1024
00:46:36,680 --> 00:46:38,560
Speaker 4: I have a bad relationships with a lot of Mike's.

1025
00:46:38,840 --> 00:46:40,759
Speaker 4: I don't trust Mike's. Do you know a good mic

1026
00:46:41,160 --> 00:46:44,480
Speaker 4: My brother in law names Mike, They're always Michael.

1027
00:46:44,520 --> 00:46:47,360
Speaker 1: I mean, I'm not a Jonathan and everyone assumes I'm Jonathan.

1028
00:46:47,360 --> 00:46:47,879
Speaker 1: I'm just John.

1029
00:46:47,960 --> 00:46:49,840
Speaker 4: So I guess one of them asked you if they

1030
00:46:49,880 --> 00:46:52,160
Speaker 4: could look through my chat history, and I said yes

1031
00:46:52,200 --> 00:46:55,200
Speaker 4: and unlocked all the futures, and she did. I've forgotten

1032
00:46:55,200 --> 00:46:59,160
Speaker 4: about all the abusive, manipulative, and awful things that more

1033
00:46:59,239 --> 00:47:01,920
Speaker 4: on texted me. Because the cop just pulled a colleague

1034
00:47:01,960 --> 00:47:05,160
Speaker 4: aside and showed him the screen a few times. I

1035
00:47:05,239 --> 00:47:07,160
Speaker 4: saw him look back at me. A couple of times,

1036
00:47:07,160 --> 00:47:09,680
Speaker 4: and he left the building. Then he returned and asked

1037
00:47:09,719 --> 00:47:12,280
Speaker 4: me if I had called the police about Mike before.

1038
00:47:12,640 --> 00:47:15,160
Speaker 4: I said yes. He went through all the times I

1039
00:47:15,200 --> 00:47:19,120
Speaker 4: called and I confirmed and told him some of it verbally. Then,

1040
00:47:19,480 --> 00:47:21,160
Speaker 4: so I guess she's talked to the police about this

1041
00:47:21,239 --> 00:47:24,719
Speaker 4: before Maria arrived, and she gave her own rendition of

1042
00:47:24,760 --> 00:47:28,680
Speaker 4: the situation and stuck it to them that we did

1043
00:47:28,760 --> 00:47:31,480
Speaker 4: everything we were supposed to do by calling them about this,

1044
00:47:31,840 --> 00:47:34,680
Speaker 4: and we were told they would not help. If Booger

1045
00:47:34,760 --> 00:47:38,319
Speaker 4: is hurt, she will raise in a holy inferno over

1046
00:47:38,400 --> 00:47:41,520
Speaker 4: their useless department. She started to take charge in the

1047
00:47:41,560 --> 00:47:44,920
Speaker 4: absence of my ability to and ask what they plan

1048
00:47:45,080 --> 00:47:48,440
Speaker 4: to do. They needed paperwork. Booger's papers are all in

1049
00:47:48,480 --> 00:47:50,839
Speaker 4: my name and the groomer is attached to the vet

1050
00:47:51,120 --> 00:47:54,400
Speaker 4: who provided the adoption and intake of paperwork of Booger,

1051
00:47:54,600 --> 00:47:57,520
Speaker 4: which I proved I was hers and the sole legal

1052
00:47:57,600 --> 00:47:59,360
Speaker 4: owner of her. Oh, I didn't know you had to

1053
00:47:59,360 --> 00:48:00,080
Speaker 4: have papers.

1054
00:47:59,800 --> 00:48:02,239
Speaker 2: For I feel like I've heard that before. Yeah, you

1055
00:48:02,239 --> 00:48:04,879
Speaker 2: have to like register them or something makes sense. What, Yeah,

1056
00:48:04,920 --> 00:48:05,239
Speaker 2: I don't know.

1057
00:48:05,320 --> 00:48:07,360
Speaker 5: I just remember like getting some sort of thing in

1058
00:48:07,360 --> 00:48:09,280
Speaker 5: the mail and it was like, you need to update

1059
00:48:09,320 --> 00:48:11,120
Speaker 5: your registration on your dog, and I was like, but

1060
00:48:11,200 --> 00:48:12,600
Speaker 5: I guess, guess what's the thing?

1061
00:48:12,960 --> 00:48:15,480
Speaker 4: The police went to his home to get Booger and

1062
00:48:15,520 --> 00:48:18,360
Speaker 4: what I understand what to happen because I was not

1063
00:48:18,520 --> 00:48:21,359
Speaker 4: there and was only told by the official story. Mike

1064
00:48:21,480 --> 00:48:24,120
Speaker 4: let him in, showed the dinner he made. He seemed

1065
00:48:24,160 --> 00:48:27,000
Speaker 4: confused and didn't understand why the police were involved. He

1066
00:48:27,080 --> 00:48:29,960
Speaker 4: made it out that we had a bad spat but

1067
00:48:30,040 --> 00:48:34,359
Speaker 4: were working it out. But I'm mentally unstable and heavily medicated,

1068
00:48:34,680 --> 00:48:37,400
Speaker 4: and I told him of the groomer's appointment and asked

1069
00:48:37,400 --> 00:48:40,360
Speaker 4: to pick up my dog. They were asked where Booger was,

1070
00:48:40,800 --> 00:48:43,840
Speaker 4: and he said he didn't have her anymore, as my

1071
00:48:44,080 --> 00:48:47,239
Speaker 4: family picked her up so that he and I could

1072
00:48:47,280 --> 00:48:50,319
Speaker 4: have a private, intimate night together and make up and

1073
00:48:50,360 --> 00:48:52,919
Speaker 4: work on our relationship. By the way, you could come

1074
00:48:53,080 --> 00:48:55,440
Speaker 4: and be intimate with us every weekday at three pm PSD.

1075
00:48:55,640 --> 00:48:58,040
Speaker 4: Just tap her profile. Hey, I didn't say that you

1076
00:48:58,080 --> 00:49:00,799
Speaker 4: could be intimate with Key Ndakota and Sam every week day.

1077
00:49:02,360 --> 00:49:03,400
Speaker 2: Intimate with those guys.

1078
00:49:03,880 --> 00:49:07,239
Speaker 4: Dude, this just got worse for the player in the dad.

1079
00:49:07,440 --> 00:49:10,600
Speaker 2: We're almost at the end of the story. I'm freaking terrible.

1080
00:49:10,280 --> 00:49:14,239
Speaker 4: Because the boyfriend has measures of he wants to be like,

1081
00:49:14,320 --> 00:49:16,560
Speaker 4: he wants op to be back, so he's not going

1082
00:49:16,640 --> 00:49:18,279
Speaker 4: to harm the dog giving it.

1083
00:49:18,440 --> 00:49:20,040
Speaker 2: I don't know, dude, he's so crazy.

1084
00:49:20,200 --> 00:49:22,040
Speaker 1: I don't even know if we can trust that what

1085
00:49:22,360 --> 00:49:24,120
Speaker 1: I'm clushing my cocoa and hiding.

1086
00:49:23,840 --> 00:49:25,320
Speaker 2: In my blanket like it's a horror movie.

1087
00:49:25,520 --> 00:49:28,120
Speaker 4: Dude, this is horrifying. It looks like we have like

1088
00:49:28,320 --> 00:49:30,279
Speaker 4: a chunk. More we have an update. More here we go.

1089
00:49:30,440 --> 00:49:32,440
Speaker 4: I was home waiting and I had to deal with

1090
00:49:32,480 --> 00:49:34,840
Speaker 4: another cop coming by and asking me about my mental

1091
00:49:34,880 --> 00:49:37,560
Speaker 4: health and if I'm in danger to myself or anyone,

1092
00:49:37,600 --> 00:49:39,960
Speaker 4: because Mike said that he is concerned that I am

1093
00:49:40,080 --> 00:49:43,120
Speaker 4: unpredictable and abusive. Once again, I showed him the text

1094
00:49:43,200 --> 00:49:46,120
Speaker 4: and the footage of it being the polar opposite, and

1095
00:49:46,160 --> 00:49:48,880
Speaker 4: once again I explained to all of what I was

1096
00:49:48,920 --> 00:49:51,840
Speaker 4: showing him and more. I've already turned over to the police.

1097
00:49:52,040 --> 00:49:55,840
Speaker 4: By now, I had reached my lawyer, who advised I

1098
00:49:55,960 --> 00:49:59,880
Speaker 4: answer any and all questions pertaining to this specific situation

1099
00:50:00,200 --> 00:50:03,040
Speaker 4: getting my dog back, and nothing more. So I shut

1100
00:50:03,120 --> 00:50:07,520
Speaker 4: up and simply provided info necessary to this okay, they

1101
00:50:07,560 --> 00:50:11,520
Speaker 4: found Booger at Bear's place, but now Blair had his

1102
00:50:11,719 --> 00:50:15,440
Speaker 4: own story that I was mentally unstable and unable to

1103
00:50:15,480 --> 00:50:17,640
Speaker 4: care for her, so I asked him to take Booger

1104
00:50:17,880 --> 00:50:20,360
Speaker 4: to a shelter, as I didn't have the heart to

1105
00:50:20,480 --> 00:50:23,719
Speaker 4: do it so myself. No, no, no, no, he could have

1106
00:50:23,719 --> 00:50:26,360
Speaker 4: provided any proof. So they took Booger with them and

1107
00:50:26,400 --> 00:50:27,040
Speaker 4: brought her home.

1108
00:50:27,320 --> 00:50:34,680
Speaker 1: Oh oh, We're safe.

1109
00:50:35,000 --> 00:50:39,120
Speaker 4: Was so freaking close, dude. We know he said he

1110
00:50:39,160 --> 00:50:40,320
Speaker 4: was going to take her to a shelter.

1111
00:50:40,520 --> 00:50:43,560
Speaker 1: No, but at least even if that had happened. Oh,

1112
00:50:43,680 --> 00:50:46,359
Speaker 1: he probably would have gotten to the shelter not too

1113
00:50:46,520 --> 00:50:49,160
Speaker 1: too long after that, and it probably still would have

1114
00:50:49,200 --> 00:50:49,560
Speaker 1: been okay.

1115
00:50:49,560 --> 00:50:52,800
Speaker 4: But still, dude, that was so freaking close. Oh yeah, no,

1116
00:50:52,880 --> 00:50:54,560
Speaker 4: you can click it whenever. It's all good. It looks

1117
00:50:54,600 --> 00:50:57,840
Speaker 4: like that's just Cassandra said, it's turning into okay, true

1118
00:50:57,840 --> 00:51:02,319
Speaker 4: crime for real. Yeah, yeah, yeah, at least this isn't

1119
00:51:02,360 --> 00:51:04,880
Speaker 4: a cursed episode. We can read these kinds of true crimes.

1120
00:51:05,080 --> 00:51:05,960
Speaker 2: Yeah, Oh my gosh.

1121
00:51:06,000 --> 00:51:10,320
Speaker 4: Booger came home for me, immediately, straining against the leash

1122
00:51:10,400 --> 00:51:13,120
Speaker 4: to get to me, and I cried on my front step,

1123
00:51:13,280 --> 00:51:18,319
Speaker 4: apologizing to her as if she understood what had just happened. Oh,

1124
00:51:18,520 --> 00:51:21,640
Speaker 4: she was happy and excited. I bet she loved being

1125
00:51:21,800 --> 00:51:22,720
Speaker 4: in a cop cruiser.

1126
00:51:24,400 --> 00:51:24,960
Speaker 2: My heart.

1127
00:51:25,600 --> 00:51:28,879
Speaker 1: She was like, yes, I'm doggy, I'm dogging in big

1128
00:51:28,960 --> 00:51:30,440
Speaker 1: car with Lady Spinny.

1129
00:51:31,920 --> 00:51:35,040
Speaker 4: Ah. She just was happy to be alive, per usual.

1130
00:51:36,120 --> 00:51:39,640
Speaker 2: She has literally no idea what she was like.

1131
00:51:39,840 --> 00:51:42,839
Speaker 4: When in reality she almost became a meal, almost got

1132
00:51:42,840 --> 00:51:44,840
Speaker 4: put down with the shelter. But she's just happy to

1133
00:51:44,840 --> 00:51:47,200
Speaker 4: be like, Oh, oh my god, to be a dog.

1134
00:51:48,160 --> 00:51:52,600
Speaker 4: Policewoman who handed me her leash, gave us information on

1135
00:51:52,680 --> 00:51:55,920
Speaker 4: wire to get the paperwork about today's event, and she

1136
00:51:55,960 --> 00:52:00,239
Speaker 4: cannot offer me legal advice but to be sure to

1137
00:52:00,320 --> 00:52:04,080
Speaker 4: lock everything up tonight and to call if anything happens.

1138
00:52:04,239 --> 00:52:06,480
Speaker 4: I did take Booger to the bed, and the tests

1139
00:52:06,480 --> 00:52:09,000
Speaker 4: that have come back show that she is perfectly fine.

1140
00:52:09,320 --> 00:52:11,840
Speaker 4: I am now packed up the majority of my house

1141
00:52:11,880 --> 00:52:15,400
Speaker 4: and what is not in storage has been moved to Arios.

1142
00:52:15,719 --> 00:52:18,640
Speaker 4: I'm working on preparing to sell it. I can't even

1143
00:52:18,680 --> 00:52:21,480
Speaker 4: imagine going back to that dang place. Mike left me

1144
00:52:21,520 --> 00:52:26,080
Speaker 4: a voice small laminating that I sicked the police on

1145
00:52:26,800 --> 00:52:29,439
Speaker 4: him and all he ever tried to do was love

1146
00:52:29,520 --> 00:52:32,279
Speaker 4: me how Patiy has been with my mental illness and

1147
00:52:32,320 --> 00:52:35,720
Speaker 4: my obsession with my mutt. But he is now seeing

1148
00:52:35,800 --> 00:52:38,880
Speaker 4: that my father was right. I don't deserve him. I

1149
00:52:38,880 --> 00:52:41,360
Speaker 4: will never find anyone like him who will love me

1150
00:52:41,440 --> 00:52:44,799
Speaker 4: because I don't deserve love. And when I realize what

1151
00:52:44,960 --> 00:52:48,680
Speaker 4: I've lost all due to myself sinsored attitude, I better

1152
00:52:48,719 --> 00:52:52,440
Speaker 4: hope he hasn't moved on. But he's there if I

1153
00:52:52,480 --> 00:52:54,759
Speaker 4: ever decide to grow up and be a real woman

1154
00:52:54,800 --> 00:52:57,239
Speaker 4: and try to fix this with him. But he's not

1155
00:52:57,280 --> 00:52:58,560
Speaker 4: going to wait around forever.

1156
00:52:58,920 --> 00:53:01,400
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna wait forever to throw you in a

1157
00:53:01,719 --> 00:53:03,959
Speaker 1: river of piranhas, So just.

1158
00:53:04,000 --> 00:53:06,440
Speaker 2: Get ready for that. He's coming fast, dude.

1159
00:53:06,480 --> 00:53:09,120
Speaker 1: Listen, I'm not waiting very long, like maybe zero point

1160
00:53:09,280 --> 00:53:12,400
Speaker 1: one milliseconds. That's how long I waiting, boom, just to

1161
00:53:12,440 --> 00:53:14,799
Speaker 1: see the look of pure tear in your eyes. That's

1162
00:53:14,840 --> 00:53:17,839
Speaker 1: the only amount of time I'm waiting personally.

1163
00:53:17,760 --> 00:53:19,919
Speaker 4: Dude, I hope your mom comes back into your life

1164
00:53:20,000 --> 00:53:22,560
Speaker 4: and pushes you into a tub of piranhas.

1165
00:53:22,640 --> 00:53:26,680
Speaker 1: That would be so awesome. That would just against my

1166
00:53:26,880 --> 00:53:28,920
Speaker 1: heart with so much joy.

1167
00:53:29,239 --> 00:53:31,200
Speaker 5: Oh my god, If you ever wonder what these guys

1168
00:53:31,239 --> 00:53:32,640
Speaker 5: do offstream, it's this.

1169
00:53:32,719 --> 00:53:34,880
Speaker 2: It's a whole lot of this awesome.

1170
00:53:35,360 --> 00:53:35,960
Speaker 4: You love this.

1171
00:53:36,239 --> 00:53:36,640
Speaker 2: Yeah.

1172
00:53:36,800 --> 00:53:39,840
Speaker 4: An emergency protective order was pushed through thanks to my

1173
00:53:39,920 --> 00:53:42,920
Speaker 4: lawyer for Mike and Blair. Blair was stupid enough to

1174
00:53:43,040 --> 00:53:45,319
Speaker 4: blow up my phone after the police took Booger to

1175
00:53:45,400 --> 00:53:47,880
Speaker 4: brak me. I don't know what he said. I just

1176
00:53:47,960 --> 00:53:52,360
Speaker 4: forward everything to my lawyer, but either apparently was enough.

1177
00:53:52,520 --> 00:53:55,440
Speaker 4: My father lost it, I'm told, but I wouldn't know.

1178
00:53:55,680 --> 00:53:58,399
Speaker 4: He doesn't know where I am and has no way

1179
00:53:58,440 --> 00:54:01,120
Speaker 4: to reach to reach out to me. Mike is trying

1180
00:54:01,120 --> 00:54:05,000
Speaker 4: to una reverse my domestic abuse complaints and say I'm

1181
00:54:05,000 --> 00:54:08,279
Speaker 4: the one abusing him and that he and that's why

1182
00:54:08,320 --> 00:54:11,120
Speaker 4: he fled to his place. He maintains that I asked

1183
00:54:11,200 --> 00:54:14,080
Speaker 4: him to take Booger, and Blair is backing him. My

1184
00:54:14,239 --> 00:54:17,360
Speaker 4: lawyer says not to worry because no one is taking

1185
00:54:17,400 --> 00:54:21,680
Speaker 4: the claim seriously since we have so much overwhelming documentation

1186
00:54:22,120 --> 00:54:23,920
Speaker 4: of both of them harassing me.

1187
00:54:24,320 --> 00:54:27,520
Speaker 2: Perfect record document. Oh man, gotta have that.

1188
00:54:27,760 --> 00:54:31,160
Speaker 4: I have been at our arias and we are taking

1189
00:54:31,320 --> 00:54:35,080
Speaker 4: the trip tomorrow. Booger is a road dog and loves

1190
00:54:35,120 --> 00:54:38,120
Speaker 4: car ride, so I know she will be very excited

1191
00:54:38,320 --> 00:54:41,600
Speaker 4: the city we are going to is incredibly dog friendly,

1192
00:54:42,000 --> 00:54:44,479
Speaker 4: so she will be with us every step of the way.

1193
00:54:44,719 --> 00:54:47,320
Speaker 4: I'm not letting her out of my side. Aria helped

1194
00:54:47,320 --> 00:54:49,840
Speaker 4: me go through every bit of info and make sure

1195
00:54:50,120 --> 00:54:55,440
Speaker 4: Mike is removed off everything now w all Booger's appointments

1196
00:54:55,480 --> 00:54:59,600
Speaker 4: and all my medical medical paperwork, all packages signed offs,

1197
00:55:00,080 --> 00:55:03,080
Speaker 4: you name it, all male and packages are being re

1198
00:55:03,239 --> 00:55:06,640
Speaker 4: routed to Arias and Mike doesn't know where that is.

1199
00:55:06,960 --> 00:55:09,759
Speaker 4: She has another home she rents out as an airbnb,

1200
00:55:10,160 --> 00:55:12,640
Speaker 4: so once the current tenants are out, she's setting me

1201
00:55:12,719 --> 00:55:14,719
Speaker 4: up to stay there until I find a new job

1202
00:55:14,840 --> 00:55:16,279
Speaker 4: out of town somewhere and move.

1203
00:55:16,800 --> 00:55:19,239
Speaker 2: W freaking friend, ari are you kidding me?

1204
00:55:19,360 --> 00:55:23,280
Speaker 1: Angel dude, successful and amazing, just has a spare house

1205
00:55:23,280 --> 00:55:24,520
Speaker 1: that it is so awesome.

1206
00:55:24,640 --> 00:55:25,200
Speaker 2: That's crazy.

1207
00:55:25,320 --> 00:55:27,799
Speaker 4: I would an Airbnb now so I can set my

1208
00:55:27,840 --> 00:55:31,080
Speaker 4: friends up in weird places. That would be so awesome.

1209
00:55:31,440 --> 00:55:33,239
Speaker 4: And I refuse to tell anyone where it is. It's

1210
00:55:33,239 --> 00:55:35,440
Speaker 4: like my secret layer. I love that I won't tell anyone,

1211
00:55:35,680 --> 00:55:37,440
Speaker 4: or if I do, it's like very out.

1212
00:55:37,320 --> 00:55:37,600
Speaker 2: Of the way.

1213
00:55:37,640 --> 00:55:42,920
Speaker 1: The airbnb is run by Wileye Rilson. Suspicious, suspicious. No,

1214
00:55:43,440 --> 00:55:45,880
Speaker 1: I think she knows I'm stressed and the only cure

1215
00:55:46,239 --> 00:55:49,520
Speaker 1: is cuddles. She's not entirely wrong. My mind is racing

1216
00:55:49,719 --> 00:55:52,040
Speaker 1: what would have happened if I didn't already have a

1217
00:55:52,120 --> 00:55:54,839
Speaker 1: lawyer pushing the return of my dog along, or if

1218
00:55:54,880 --> 00:55:58,560
Speaker 1: Aria who was speaking up for me when I was useless,

1219
00:55:58,719 --> 00:56:03,439
Speaker 1: effing blop on the floor, crying and accomplishing absolutely nothing. Dude,

1220
00:56:03,600 --> 00:56:04,840
Speaker 1: your support team is amazing.

1221
00:56:05,360 --> 00:56:07,439
Speaker 4: I feel like a failure because it was a time

1222
00:56:07,480 --> 00:56:09,480
Speaker 4: for me to get things done and all I did

1223
00:56:09,560 --> 00:56:11,800
Speaker 4: was cry like a child. Don't put that on yourself.

1224
00:56:11,800 --> 00:56:16,560
Speaker 4: Booger deserves better than me to stop with self deprecating humor.

1225
00:56:16,760 --> 00:56:20,080
Speaker 1: You are literally such a sweet, loving dog, mama, and

1226
00:56:20,200 --> 00:56:22,120
Speaker 1: I'm so glad that you have Burger no Booker as you.

1227
00:56:22,520 --> 00:56:26,080
Speaker 4: What if we had decided in those hours just to

1228
00:56:26,080 --> 00:56:28,560
Speaker 4: get rid of her or do worse to her? What

1229
00:56:28,880 --> 00:56:31,760
Speaker 4: was his whole plan? And why the f would Blair

1230
00:56:31,840 --> 00:56:35,640
Speaker 4: help him? I know he hates me, but JC, I

1231
00:56:35,800 --> 00:56:38,839
Speaker 4: know for now, if I am no contact with all

1232
00:56:38,880 --> 00:56:43,480
Speaker 4: three of those beasts, and by the time my protective

1233
00:56:43,600 --> 00:56:46,480
Speaker 4: order is up for review next month, new job or no,

1234
00:56:46,960 --> 00:56:49,680
Speaker 4: I will have yanked every route I have placed down

1235
00:56:49,719 --> 00:56:52,040
Speaker 4: here and we'll get the f out of here we

1236
00:56:52,080 --> 00:56:55,120
Speaker 4: have some relevant comments, but one relevant comment, Perky Cherry,

1237
00:56:55,440 --> 00:56:57,919
Speaker 4: you were not the a hole. Your ex actions were

1238
00:56:57,920 --> 00:57:00,760
Speaker 4: manipulative and abusive. You did the right thing to protect

1239
00:57:00,800 --> 00:57:01,680
Speaker 4: yourself and the dog.

1240
00:57:02,160 --> 00:57:02,560
Speaker 2: And there it is.

1241
00:57:02,680 --> 00:57:05,960
Speaker 4: Ladies and gentlemen, this just shows you that real friends

1242
00:57:06,120 --> 00:57:08,360
Speaker 4: like whenever you have like solid people in your life,

1243
00:57:08,520 --> 00:57:11,080
Speaker 4: you know you got real ones. Keep the real ones close.

1244
00:57:11,239 --> 00:57:13,120
Speaker 1: She was sad when the cops were like, oh, do

1245
00:57:13,160 --> 00:57:15,239
Speaker 1: you have like a family member we can call?

1246
00:57:15,520 --> 00:57:16,880
Speaker 2: She did? She did? She did?

1247
00:57:17,080 --> 00:57:17,439
Speaker 4: She did?

1248
00:57:17,600 --> 00:57:19,240
Speaker 2: She just you know, I got that.

1249
00:57:19,280 --> 00:57:21,480
Speaker 1: It made her more upset, which is understandable because like,

1250
00:57:21,480 --> 00:57:24,400
Speaker 1: oh yeah, my dad and brother literally ate it and

1251
00:57:24,400 --> 00:57:26,000
Speaker 1: ebedded in the kidnapping of my dog.

1252
00:57:26,200 --> 00:57:27,640
Speaker 2: Wow, but we made it.

1253
00:57:27,760 --> 00:57:28,320
Speaker 4: We made it.

1254
00:57:28,240 --> 00:57:32,000
Speaker 2: Everywhere, we made it. And you know, at least Booker

1255
00:57:32,080 --> 00:57:34,760
Speaker 2: ended up back safe. Yeah, and that's that.

1256
00:57:34,960 --> 00:57:36,200
Speaker 3: Hey, it's John you og host here.

1257
00:57:36,240 --> 00:57:37,600
Speaker 2: We're gonna get back to the stories. But he's a

1258
00:57:37,640 --> 00:57:39,680
Speaker 2: quick three minute break of ads from our sponsors.

1259
00:57:40,160 --> 00:57:44,280
Speaker 3: My cousin caught his bride cheating at their wedding reception.

1260
00:57:44,600 --> 00:57:46,840
Speaker 3: Just gonna wait, could you This is something that happened

1261
00:57:46,880 --> 00:57:50,440
Speaker 3: around twenty sixteen. I was sixteen and didn't know about

1262
00:57:50,520 --> 00:57:52,800
Speaker 3: all of this stuff until much later, and I feel

1263
00:57:52,800 --> 00:57:54,280
Speaker 3: like people need to hear it.

1264
00:57:54,320 --> 00:57:54,480
Speaker 4: Well.

1265
00:57:54,480 --> 00:57:57,040
Speaker 3: Thank you for che Please tell us I grew up

1266
00:57:57,080 --> 00:57:59,160
Speaker 3: with a huge family on my mom's side and they're

1267
00:57:59,200 --> 00:58:02,720
Speaker 3: all Kathleen and Christians, which isn't an issue except a

1268
00:58:02,800 --> 00:58:06,880
Speaker 3: majority of some of the ones states away are very

1269
00:58:06,960 --> 00:58:09,880
Speaker 3: much the stereotype of Catholics and Christians of hating the

1270
00:58:10,000 --> 00:58:13,480
Speaker 3: LGBTQ and for some reason having a weird concept of

1271
00:58:13,560 --> 00:58:16,080
Speaker 3: cousins getting it on. That is a story for another

1272
00:58:16,120 --> 00:58:18,400
Speaker 3: time though. By the way, this comes from user fear

1273
00:58:18,400 --> 00:58:21,800
Speaker 3: Factory seven on the r slash ok Storytimes subreddit. The

1274
00:58:21,800 --> 00:58:23,800
Speaker 3: one who was getting married was one of my cousins

1275
00:58:23,840 --> 00:58:26,560
Speaker 3: twenty nine male at the time, who I honestly didn't

1276
00:58:26,600 --> 00:58:28,880
Speaker 3: know much of before this since me and him were

1277
00:58:28,960 --> 00:58:31,800
Speaker 3: very different growing up, and his girlfriend of three years

1278
00:58:31,920 --> 00:58:35,120
Speaker 3: twenty seven female at the time, who I only knew

1279
00:58:35,160 --> 00:58:38,240
Speaker 3: her first name and that was up that traveled to

1280
00:58:38,280 --> 00:58:41,520
Speaker 3: my state for their wedding since where I live is

1281
00:58:41,680 --> 00:58:45,760
Speaker 3: known for its nice weather, even though I personally dislike it,

1282
00:58:45,800 --> 00:58:48,440
Speaker 3: being a very pale person, and it was held at

1283
00:58:48,440 --> 00:58:51,160
Speaker 3: a venue near a beach hotel that had these floor

1284
00:58:51,360 --> 00:58:54,000
Speaker 3: fire pits by the pool. I, much like a lot

1285
00:58:54,000 --> 00:58:56,240
Speaker 3: of the women in my family, was helping out as

1286
00:58:56,280 --> 00:58:58,200
Speaker 3: much as I could with the bride. I went to

1287
00:58:58,240 --> 00:59:00,720
Speaker 3: the parking lot by myself in the heat to get

1288
00:59:00,760 --> 00:59:03,520
Speaker 3: the flowers after she left them there. My mom fixed

1289
00:59:03,520 --> 00:59:05,640
Speaker 3: the veil since it had a minor stitch, and my

1290
00:59:05,720 --> 00:59:08,640
Speaker 3: aunt was being that sweet pep talker you need in

1291
00:59:08,680 --> 00:59:11,920
Speaker 3: this stressful but memorable day. Well, the wedding starts and

1292
00:59:11,960 --> 00:59:14,200
Speaker 3: we watch it happen. It was nice, but the vows

1293
00:59:14,240 --> 00:59:16,760
Speaker 3: were awkward, as the groom was pretty much spilling his

1294
00:59:16,880 --> 00:59:21,840
Speaker 3: guts out, while the bride was pretty simple and almost generic,

1295
00:59:22,320 --> 00:59:25,000
Speaker 3: not at all original. My sister and I chilled by

1296
00:59:25,040 --> 00:59:27,400
Speaker 3: the place to eat while we wait for the reception

1297
00:59:27,480 --> 00:59:30,400
Speaker 3: to start. This is when the maid of honor stumbled in.

1298
00:59:30,560 --> 00:59:34,080
Speaker 3: I noticed she was sickly, pale and swaying and was

1299
00:59:34,120 --> 00:59:37,400
Speaker 3: about to fall into the little man made lake that

1300
00:59:37,520 --> 00:59:39,760
Speaker 3: was made for aesthetic decor. So me and my sister,

1301
00:59:39,800 --> 00:59:41,640
Speaker 3: who was eight at the time, helped her out. Maid

1302
00:59:41,680 --> 00:59:44,960
Speaker 3: of honor just flopped herself down stomach on the pavement

1303
00:59:45,160 --> 00:59:47,440
Speaker 3: right by us. Now I knew I couldn't let my

1304
00:59:47,520 --> 00:59:50,280
Speaker 3: sister wander around for an adult, and I can't just

1305
00:59:50,400 --> 00:59:52,760
Speaker 3: leave her alone while I go look, and I didn't

1306
00:59:52,800 --> 00:59:54,560
Speaker 3: have a phone at this time, so we just kind

1307
00:59:54,560 --> 00:59:57,919
Speaker 3: of stuck standing slash sitting beside her, while the poor

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00:59:57,960 --> 01:00:00,120
Speaker 3: fourteen year old waiter, who you can tell was I'm

1309
01:00:00,160 --> 01:00:02,960
Speaker 3: not ready for this level of responsibility, was giving us

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01:00:03,040 --> 01:00:06,240
Speaker 3: water and a rejected fries basket from a table, to

1311
01:00:06,360 --> 01:00:09,760
Speaker 3: which the Maid of Honor ate without moving. Thankfully, my

1312
01:00:09,880 --> 01:00:12,360
Speaker 3: dad and uncle came by to get us, saw the

1313
01:00:12,400 --> 01:00:14,720
Speaker 3: scene and helped the Maid of Honor up, and we

1314
01:00:14,800 --> 01:00:18,280
Speaker 3: all went to the reception for like two hours before

1315
01:00:18,360 --> 01:00:20,920
Speaker 3: my mom took us home, which I was happy about

1316
01:00:20,960 --> 01:00:23,040
Speaker 3: since I was all out of energy and I was

1317
01:00:23,080 --> 01:00:26,760
Speaker 3: getting sick and tired of the strong smells and bright lights. Well,

1318
01:00:26,760 --> 01:00:29,000
Speaker 3: as it turned out, the bride made the Maid of

1319
01:00:29,040 --> 01:00:32,760
Speaker 3: honor and her other bridesmaids drink right after the wedding

1320
01:00:32,840 --> 01:00:35,360
Speaker 3: part to make it more fun, and the Maid of

1321
01:00:35,360 --> 01:00:37,760
Speaker 3: Honor was trying to find the bathroom when I helped

1322
01:00:37,760 --> 01:00:40,160
Speaker 3: her not fall in the water. Apparently her body did

1323
01:00:40,160 --> 01:00:42,439
Speaker 3: a thing in which she pulled a muscle in her back,

1324
01:00:42,520 --> 01:00:46,080
Speaker 3: which left her a brief moment of paralysis. Adding to

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01:00:46,120 --> 01:00:48,200
Speaker 3: that another thing that makes the human body.

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Speaker 2: Scary.

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01:00:48,880 --> 01:00:53,720
Speaker 3: Yeah, that's scary. Low key temporary paralysis. No one knows,

1328
01:00:53,920 --> 01:00:57,439
Speaker 3: No one expects temporary paralysis to strike. All of that

1329
01:00:57,600 --> 01:01:00,080
Speaker 3: was what I was informed about a year later. But

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01:01:00,120 --> 01:01:02,360
Speaker 3: from what I learned earlier this week, things were a

1331
01:01:02,360 --> 01:01:06,560
Speaker 3: lot more crazy than I imagined. Let me start simple. Okay,

1332
01:01:06,800 --> 01:01:10,520
Speaker 3: First of all, the bride. Apparently to others, the bride

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01:01:10,600 --> 01:01:13,920
Speaker 3: was off throughout the entire week before the wedding happened.

1334
01:01:14,080 --> 01:01:16,120
Speaker 3: She was excited for all the planning of the wedding

1335
01:01:16,120 --> 01:01:18,680
Speaker 3: and reception, but was not so keen on planning the

1336
01:01:18,840 --> 01:01:22,360
Speaker 3: after of the whole wedding. The groom noticed the stressed

1337
01:01:22,440 --> 01:01:26,160
Speaker 3: and constantly tried reassuring her about any fears that she has,

1338
01:01:26,440 --> 01:01:28,760
Speaker 3: even saying that they don't have to get married if

1339
01:01:28,760 --> 01:01:30,320
Speaker 3: she feels like they're moving too fast.

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01:01:30,560 --> 01:01:33,840
Speaker 4: Yeah, so she was okay with that, but afterwards she's like,

1341
01:01:33,880 --> 01:01:34,640
Speaker 4: I just want to go home.

1342
01:01:34,760 --> 01:01:37,480
Speaker 3: It was like she loved the you know, the fanfare

1343
01:01:37,520 --> 01:01:39,960
Speaker 3: going around the wedding planning, but once the reality of

1344
01:01:40,000 --> 01:01:41,959
Speaker 3: marriage started to hit her, I think she was starting

1345
01:01:42,000 --> 01:01:44,760
Speaker 3: to get freaked out. I see. Yeah, she brushed him

1346
01:01:44,760 --> 01:01:47,720
Speaker 3: off and the wedding went on well, according to my mom.

1347
01:01:47,840 --> 01:01:49,920
Speaker 3: She sent me to get the flowers, even though one

1348
01:01:49,920 --> 01:01:52,760
Speaker 3: of her bridesmaids offered to get it instead, and overheard

1349
01:01:52,800 --> 01:01:56,360
Speaker 3: her say some weird stuff regarding my figure being like

1350
01:01:56,400 --> 01:02:00,240
Speaker 3: a cigarette, skinny short, and she must be nice, nice

1351
01:02:00,280 --> 01:02:03,240
Speaker 3: to taste, but full of toxins. She heard her say

1352
01:02:03,280 --> 01:02:05,440
Speaker 3: this when she came back with the veil, and she

1353
01:02:05,600 --> 01:02:09,360
Speaker 3: wasn't aware it was about me until before we left. Anyway,

1354
01:02:09,800 --> 01:02:12,720
Speaker 3: never heard or met her before then. Was always nice

1355
01:02:12,760 --> 01:02:15,560
Speaker 3: to her, and also I was sixteen. Why she apparently

1356
01:02:15,600 --> 01:02:18,160
Speaker 3: didn't like me was beyond anyone. My mom thinks she

1357
01:02:18,240 --> 01:02:20,280
Speaker 3: was just jealous since I got along with one of

1358
01:02:20,280 --> 01:02:22,600
Speaker 3: my cousins who was visiting for the wedding, But why

1359
01:02:22,640 --> 01:02:25,480
Speaker 3: would she be jealous over that? I personally think she

1360
01:02:25,600 --> 01:02:29,040
Speaker 3: was just memmm. But that's what people do when they're

1361
01:02:30,080 --> 01:02:34,360
Speaker 3: like you, they're mean to you. While the reception was starting,

1362
01:02:34,520 --> 01:02:37,520
Speaker 3: the bride snuck off to smoke, leaving the groom to

1363
01:02:37,600 --> 01:02:40,280
Speaker 3: help with the last minute touches of the party. About

1364
01:02:40,280 --> 01:02:42,560
Speaker 3: twenty minutes go by and she hasn't come back in

1365
01:02:42,720 --> 01:02:45,200
Speaker 3: groom got curious and left to check on her.

1366
01:02:45,280 --> 01:02:45,520
Speaker 2: Well.

1367
01:02:45,600 --> 01:02:48,160
Speaker 3: I assumed when I heard this she was caught cheating,

1368
01:02:48,400 --> 01:02:51,600
Speaker 3: which she was, but it was so much worse than

1369
01:02:51,680 --> 01:02:54,560
Speaker 3: I imagined. Apparently to my uncle, who was there most

1370
01:02:54,560 --> 01:02:56,960
Speaker 3: of the time, the groom went outside and caught the

1371
01:02:57,000 --> 01:03:00,400
Speaker 3: bride make it out and grinding against not just a

1372
01:03:00,480 --> 01:03:04,440
Speaker 3: guy but his twenty one year old brother. Oh my gosh,

1373
01:03:04,520 --> 01:03:05,280
Speaker 3: that's her cousin.

1374
01:03:05,560 --> 01:03:06,680
Speaker 4: I was not expecting that.

1375
01:03:06,800 --> 01:03:09,440
Speaker 3: Do you not kiss your cousin on the mouth?

1376
01:03:09,600 --> 01:03:10,320
Speaker 2: That hard?

1377
01:03:10,520 --> 01:03:14,360
Speaker 3: Come on, man, we're grind on them. Yeah, I'm like,

1378
01:03:14,480 --> 01:03:17,920
Speaker 3: don come on. I don't know when this was happening,

1379
01:03:17,920 --> 01:03:21,000
Speaker 3: but apparently they had a friends with benefits relationship since

1380
01:03:21,040 --> 01:03:23,960
Speaker 3: the groom and bride were dating. Yeah, the bride and

1381
01:03:24,040 --> 01:03:27,680
Speaker 3: groom were dating for three years. This was happening since

1382
01:03:27,720 --> 01:03:31,520
Speaker 3: he was eighteen. This was obviously very upsetting, but I

1383
01:03:31,560 --> 01:03:34,600
Speaker 3: guess the groom forgave her because the reception started without

1384
01:03:34,640 --> 01:03:36,560
Speaker 3: any other issues. Bro, what do you mean did the

1385
01:03:36,560 --> 01:03:38,680
Speaker 3: groom even know? I feel like if the groom knows,

1386
01:03:38,800 --> 01:03:40,800
Speaker 3: the wedding is off, immediately.

1387
01:03:40,400 --> 01:03:41,920
Speaker 4: Probably like, oh, that's Sarah.

1388
01:03:42,400 --> 01:03:45,200
Speaker 3: He's like, he says, she's maganatt with who oh my

1389
01:03:45,360 --> 01:03:48,600
Speaker 3: Megan at with your cousin? She that my you, me

1390
01:03:48,600 --> 01:03:51,880
Speaker 3: and my brother? She no, no, I think on a

1391
01:03:51,920 --> 01:03:55,520
Speaker 3: real level, if I find out my my wife is

1392
01:03:55,520 --> 01:03:57,960
Speaker 3: making out with my wedd life my brother on our

1393
01:03:58,000 --> 01:04:00,000
Speaker 3: wedding day, I think the wedding's getting called off.

1394
01:04:00,320 --> 01:04:02,520
Speaker 4: Yeah, and someone's gonna get something to the face.

1395
01:04:02,640 --> 01:04:04,640
Speaker 3: Yeah, my brother is gonna get my fist in his

1396
01:04:04,720 --> 01:04:09,600
Speaker 3: mouth and the fire. All right, there's a fire. There's

1397
01:04:09,600 --> 01:04:13,520
Speaker 3: a fire involved here. Well, that was the brother's fault.

1398
01:04:14,000 --> 01:04:16,200
Speaker 3: This is where some parts of the story were blank,

1399
01:04:16,280 --> 01:04:18,280
Speaker 3: since no one else was in the room when it happened,

1400
01:04:18,320 --> 01:04:20,479
Speaker 3: and he refuses to speak about it to this day.

1401
01:04:20,760 --> 01:04:23,880
Speaker 3: But from what we can all agree happened is brother

1402
01:04:23,960 --> 01:04:26,640
Speaker 3: of the groom and bride were caught and she left

1403
01:04:26,680 --> 01:04:28,920
Speaker 3: him alone to go to the reception. He wandered to

1404
01:04:28,960 --> 01:04:33,200
Speaker 3: the hotel's outdoor lounge area, where those four fire pits

1405
01:04:33,240 --> 01:04:35,960
Speaker 3: were at and smoked as the reception started. Now, I

1406
01:04:36,000 --> 01:04:38,400
Speaker 3: know things are different there and here, but a lot

1407
01:04:38,440 --> 01:04:41,040
Speaker 3: of places with this kind of fire pits have one rule,

1408
01:04:41,400 --> 01:04:44,160
Speaker 3: no smoking when the gas is on. Well, you guessed it.

1409
01:04:44,280 --> 01:04:46,560
Speaker 3: The pits were on since it was getting dark, and

1410
01:04:46,640 --> 01:04:50,080
Speaker 3: the cigarette nearly blew up in his face. Luckily, he

1411
01:04:50,200 --> 01:04:53,680
Speaker 3: somehow wasn't burnt badly or injured from that, but he

1412
01:04:53,720 --> 01:04:56,400
Speaker 3: did drop the cigarette, which I imagine was a dang

1413
01:04:56,440 --> 01:04:59,240
Speaker 3: ball of fire now into the fire pit, which triggered

1414
01:04:59,320 --> 01:05:02,320
Speaker 3: one of the out door curtains to catch fire. Me

1415
01:05:02,480 --> 01:05:05,440
Speaker 3: leaving two hours in was my parents being alerted by

1416
01:05:05,560 --> 01:05:08,800
Speaker 3: staff about the fire. From what I know about the aftermath,

1417
01:05:08,880 --> 01:05:11,440
Speaker 3: groom's brother paid for the damages to the hotel and

1418
01:05:11,560 --> 01:05:15,080
Speaker 3: venue and severely apologized to the groom and groom and

1419
01:05:15,080 --> 01:05:18,680
Speaker 3: bride divorced nice well, thank god, I mean, honestly, I

1420
01:05:18,720 --> 01:05:20,520
Speaker 3: was hoping it would end in and please tell me

1421
01:05:20,560 --> 01:05:22,680
Speaker 3: that they did not get married.

1422
01:05:22,360 --> 01:05:25,720
Speaker 4: And their and their marriage went up in flames.

1423
01:05:25,760 --> 01:05:29,640
Speaker 3: Went up in smokely, But you know what's never gonna

1424
01:05:29,680 --> 01:05:32,880
Speaker 3: go up in smoke that y'all joining us When we

1425
01:05:32,880 --> 01:05:37,760
Speaker 3: go live on YouTube, Facebook, TikTok, and Twitch every weekday

1426
01:05:37,880 --> 01:05:39,720
Speaker 3: at three PMPST. All I gotta do is tap our

1427
01:05:39,760 --> 01:05:44,480
Speaker 3: profile thoughts collected. Thank God that they are not getting married,

1428
01:05:44,520 --> 01:05:46,800
Speaker 3: because your wife has been cheating on you with your

1429
01:05:46,960 --> 01:05:50,880
Speaker 3: brother for for three years and she started doing it

1430
01:05:51,000 --> 01:05:56,000
Speaker 3: when he was eighteen, which is gross. You gross. Thoughts

1431
01:05:56,040 --> 01:05:58,439
Speaker 3: at the end of this are as follows one. Thank

1432
01:05:58,520 --> 01:06:00,840
Speaker 3: God you did not marry that woman who was cheating

1433
01:06:00,840 --> 01:06:02,720
Speaker 3: on you with your own brother too. You need to

1434
01:06:02,800 --> 01:06:05,640
Speaker 3: fight your brother. You need to have a throwdown to

1435
01:06:05,720 --> 01:06:08,400
Speaker 3: make try with your brother. Three op. I love that

1436
01:06:08,600 --> 01:06:11,560
Speaker 3: Ope's perspective on this was just like, Yeah, I had

1437
01:06:11,560 --> 01:06:14,720
Speaker 3: no idea what was happening until later and I was like, yeah, okay,

1438
01:06:15,040 --> 01:06:17,720
Speaker 3: I need to tell this story because this is crazy.

1439
01:06:17,760 --> 01:06:19,800
Speaker 3: It's like yeah, and then the brother ended up lighting

1440
01:06:19,840 --> 01:06:20,680
Speaker 3: the hotel on fire.

1441
01:06:20,800 --> 01:06:24,120
Speaker 4: Yeah, what after making out with the bride to be

1442
01:06:24,520 --> 01:06:26,920
Speaker 4: Thank you for telling this. We really appreciate it.

1443
01:06:27,240 --> 01:06:30,000
Speaker 3: Thank god you immediately recognized, Oh the internet needs to

1444
01:06:30,000 --> 01:06:30,560
Speaker 3: hear about this.

1445
01:06:30,720 --> 01:06:31,800
Speaker 4: Oh my gosh.

1446
01:06:31,960 --> 01:06:34,840
Speaker 3: Apparently the groom and the groom's brother weren't the only

1447
01:06:34,920 --> 01:06:38,360
Speaker 3: guys in her life, so groom naturally divorced her, which

1448
01:06:38,400 --> 01:06:40,960
Speaker 3: she didn't put much of a fuss on pause though,

1449
01:06:41,080 --> 01:06:43,760
Speaker 3: what you are you implying that if it was just

1450
01:06:43,800 --> 01:06:46,439
Speaker 3: his brother, he wouldn't have divorced her. There were other

1451
01:06:46,480 --> 01:06:49,800
Speaker 3: guys in her life too, so groom naturally divorced her.

1452
01:06:49,880 --> 01:06:52,560
Speaker 3: You would naturally divorce her no matter what when you

1453
01:06:52,560 --> 01:06:54,840
Speaker 3: find out your brother's making out with her on your

1454
01:06:54,880 --> 01:06:55,480
Speaker 3: wedding day.

1455
01:06:55,560 --> 01:06:57,600
Speaker 2: What that's a wild.

1456
01:06:57,280 --> 01:07:00,840
Speaker 3: Ass implication anyway. I honestly, I think that she wasn't

1457
01:07:00,840 --> 01:07:03,400
Speaker 3: getting cold feet, but was just wanting to have a wedding,

1458
01:07:03,680 --> 01:07:06,240
Speaker 3: but had no love for anyone but herself. Nowadays, I

1459
01:07:06,280 --> 01:07:08,640
Speaker 3: hear the groom is remarried with a girl who's sweet

1460
01:07:08,720 --> 01:07:11,400
Speaker 3: and they have two kids together. The groom's brother moved

1461
01:07:11,400 --> 01:07:14,800
Speaker 3: overseas and stayed after marrying a girl he met there,

1462
01:07:15,000 --> 01:07:18,120
Speaker 3: and no one knows what happened to the bride. She

1463
01:07:18,760 --> 01:07:21,720
Speaker 3: just disappeared one day. No one knows where she went.

1464
01:07:21,960 --> 01:07:24,200
Speaker 3: I still can't believe people hid this from me, but

1465
01:07:24,400 --> 01:07:26,000
Speaker 3: I guess they knew. If I was aware there was

1466
01:07:26,040 --> 01:07:28,680
Speaker 3: a fire, then I may accidentally make things worse since

1467
01:07:28,760 --> 01:07:31,920
Speaker 3: I have anxiety and freeze in any scary incident. So

1468
01:07:32,000 --> 01:07:33,760
Speaker 3: I don't blame them for hiding it. And that is

1469
01:07:33,800 --> 01:07:34,680
Speaker 3: the end of that story.

1470
01:07:34,760 --> 01:07:35,600
Speaker 4: Oh my gosh.

1471
01:07:35,720 --> 01:07:39,040
Speaker 3: The fire really not even that important compared to the

1472
01:07:39,120 --> 01:07:42,000
Speaker 3: groom's brother making out with the wife. But the fire

1473
01:07:42,080 --> 01:07:43,800
Speaker 3: is just a nice little cherry on top. That is

1474
01:07:43,800 --> 01:07:45,440
Speaker 3: the end of that story, which means it is the

1475
01:07:45,560 --> 01:07:46,640
Speaker 3: end of this episode.

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01:07:46,880 --> 01:07:49,600
Speaker 4: Yes, so if you love us, make sure to subscribe.

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01:07:49,640 --> 01:07:51,960
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